Aww hon.. I’m so sorry you’re going through it. Take in everything that does your soul good and comforts you. It will all be ok, just make sure to be there for yourself as well ♥️🫂
i remember this one night i was scrolling aimlessly, feeling like i had hit rock bottom. it felt like nothing i wanted was ever going to happen for me. i don’t know why, but i clicked on this link about the book Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane, and something about it drew me in. the more i read, the more i felt like it was written just for me. it’s wild how much a single book can change your perspective.
Jayyyy ❤️❤️ your content is gold!!! 💎 i’been talking with u in your last video you’re so lovely ❤️. I always had a crap self-esteem but i knew that i succed with men. But with my SP (in my youth) i saw him like too gorgeus, & now i think i’m more prettier than then but always saw him like too moralist & now our situation it’s difficult. From the beginning i always thought that SC wasn’t necessary to manifest & focused only in my SP. I have done all the techniques, I concentrate but then I look at the time that has passed (2 years since i started manifesting him) and I think what I am doing wrong 🤯😢 P.S: Sorry for my tremendous message, I feel so so exhausted
@@mjencina6423 stop with all the techniques love, that’s why you’re exhausted. You’re burned out. All your energy is on the techniques and sp, nothing is left for you. And how can you expect to pour from an empty cup? How can you expect a car to drive without fuel? You need you, my love. You need your attention, energy and devotion. I would suggest to take a little breather from this all and soley focus on yourself, physically and mentally. Recollect and then proceed how you feel is best for you ♥️🫂
Long long time ago, there was some manifestation coach who is all about self worthiness, self love, even better neediness. All of that person work will be centered on keeping a distance between you and your desire like if you want it , that is bad and neediness and literally all of their meditations ends by leaving your desire away and waiting further Devine timing. Glad I do not follow anyone like that. But hey, it might be just a way to program followers to make money 🤷🏽♀️ I also do not believe in AH or anyone that has super power than others. Thanks for reading my history take 😂😊 love you Jay ❤ we live and learn.
@@absloutelyRasha wow my brain can’t even process this… wtf 😂 please please PLEASE, always take only what resonates, leave what doesn’t. People make up rules based on their own limiting beliefs. Don’t fall for them ♥️
@@jaytalksmanifestationlong time ago lesson learned. I do not think the person is terrible but it is each of us have our own journey. It us always great to have your notifications love ❤
I wanted to add that person was even rejecting the idea of being chosen by your person! The idea of self love in their books was to be independent by yourself and not even be with your person that is the unconditional love. Sad but they really had it wrong knowing they had tons of training by the secret and AH tried to teach Neuville and law of assumption books but they never manifested their sp for instance being close in loving committed relationship their person was in a different contentent 😢 not everyone who has content about manifestation do actually manifest their desires just saying 😢😢
Wow yes! Thank you Jay! ❤ I saw so many videos from coaches telling people “You don’t have your SP because you don’t feel worthy/enough/loved/etc”. I indeed started questioning myself and dived so deep into it that I started to think I was not fixable anymore. 😂 I now have been affirming “I have the self concept I desire.”. And when I feel unloved or unwanted or something else in the moment I flip the thoughts. ✨ Some coaches make everything about self-concept and almost make you feel guilty for wanting something or someone…
And it doesn’t make any sense, does it? 😭 I’m sorry you fell flr that crap! I mean of course our concept of self matters and is always something we should be bettering, but nobody is broken, nobody is undeserving and nobody is unworthy. What matters is to think for yourself and not lock yourself in a cage of another person’s limiting beliefs ♥️
OK I came to a realization and I had to share. So I've noticed in the SP success stories (oh and I've watched alot) that sometimes when they get their full manifestation, people are completely spiralling and not in a state of calm at all. And sometimes they are super calm and know their manifestation is coming for a fact. So it really doesn't seem to matter what the emotional state is. The thing that is in common is the work they did. They spent time focusing on being in that end state whether through visualization, affirmations, sats we. It doesn't matter. Also some did everything and some did little. All that mattered is that at some point in their journey they kept going back to the wish fullfilled. Even if they came out and spiralled it didn't matter bc they kept going back. Oh also I noticed a pattern that the more often they spiralled in comparison to how much they visited the end, the longer it took. So all this to say, I don't think it matters how much you spiral and think against as long as you keep going back. But bear in mind it seems like it takes longer if the ratio is larger
It’s totally true , from law of attraction I had to go through a lot. I wasn’t even aware of what being worthy or deserving till now it confuses me I have manifested a lot without feeling I’m worth it or deserve it
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@jaytalksmanifestation yes I'm holding up well now. Thankyou so much for asking 🥰 btw it's just me now. Both my parents passed away. Mom in 2020 and dad in 2024. But I'm gonna stay strong and get all my desires like i promised! I'm working hard on my self concept 😁
@ ….it is people like you that are an example of strength and courage… thank you ♥️ literally thank you for showing us all what it means to keep promises to our loved ones and ourselves. You are amazing!
i remember this one time i felt completely stuck, like no matter what i did, life just wasn’t moving forward. i tried everything-manifestation journals, vision boards, all that stuff-but it felt like i was missing something. then i stumbled across this book, Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane, and it hit different. it wasn’t just about manifesting; it was about understanding the energy i was putting out into the world. honestly, it changed everything. if you’re feeling stuck too, you might want to check out this book.
a while back, i hit a point where i felt like everything was out of my control. i kept wondering why other people seemed to get what they wanted while i was stuck in the same place. then i came across this book called Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane. i wasn’t expecting much, but the way it explains the connection between your energy and the life you create? it blew my mind. it’s not just a book, it’s like a blueprint for turning your life around.
so there was this period in my life when i kept attracting the wrong people, wrong opportunities, everything just felt…off. i couldn’t figure out why it kept happening. then one day, a friend mentioned a book called Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane, saying it helped them see the patterns they didn’t even realize they had. i decided to give it a read, and wow, it opened my eyes to how much my own energy was shaping my life. seriously, this book is something else.
Can anyone help me with this... what if all the moments that I shared with my sp were good and the best moments of my life, never disrespected me, was loving and very much obsessed with me but the reason of no contact was my own negative beliefs...so basically the version of him that I have is already loving and caring
I am exactly that: I know for a fact that I'm perfect and a catch in every way in fact both my sp and ex have told me this multiple times in the past as have numerous others. But what happened with my SP is that I slowly had doubts creep up and they snowballed bc I didn't know how to catch them and didn't learn about LOA till several months later. Then this turned into a specific story about how my SP treats me. Then that became the new (undesirable) version of my SP. So what my new LOA infomed self was wrestling with is this new version of my SP. And for a long time I was stuck in this idea that this new shitty version of SP needed to see my value and worth. But what I find helpful is affirming for that change directly: "My SP changed into the perfect version of himself that loves and adores me", "I am already in the relationship with the absolute best version of my SP"
@@fulminisrecovery1264 BRAVO!! And that is all you need! Then, when you guys are together, that’s when I suggest additional sc work in order to maintain the new narrative/version of sp and you ♥️
Remember your are the love N you are the source of your happiness.. No one complete you..happiness is choice not option.. We took happiness as option means when my sp come back to me then I will fill happy that happiness is temporary...
Love this Jay, you're so brilliant!! I think my problem was always watching the 3d, accidentally, instead of just trusting. But people made me feel like it was my SC. It wasn't... it was just trusting in myself that I am the creator. Thank you for sharing this video! Also, so true about the key, the story! 👌 I also haaaate seeing myself on video. And never ever fear... you're amazing on video, gf!! 🫶👊
@@tessgroenewegen1343 thank you love ♥️ and don’t feel bad for watching the 3D, we live in there after all, just remind yourself of what it is and who you are 🫂
Basically not wanting is being in the state of enlightenment that's what those posts mean. It's in the state of knowing our desires are already with us. That is how we actually get them.
I get what you are saying but I have depression and i genuinely felt in the past I didn’t deserve love or care or friends or even life. I felt so broken and damaged and like I was such a terrible person that I didn’t deserve for people to treat me well. And I deserved the pain and the treatment from others. So please don’t say “no one thinks this way alone, it’s only when someone asks”
I completely relate. I’m also extremely suspicious when people are nice or kind to me … I feel so unworthy that I don’t trust that people can possibly love me. It’s brutal. I’m sorry you also feel this way.
@@squigglemonster2634 I’m so sorry you felt that way, love. You are right, there ARE people who feel that way because of depression and their state of mind. I should have specified more that I only meant the people I worked with as in clients and in my personal life… that doesn’t mean that there isn’t someone struggling with thoughts like that though. I hope you are finding a way to feel better about yourself and your worthiness of love and joy.. I’m sending you lots of love and strength ♥️
@@jaytalksmanifestation I am, thank you. And I figured you might just mean who you’ve worked with but generalizing statements can cause a lot of harm when you don’t know your audience. Especially if I had heard that when I was struggling I would’ve definitely fallen deeper into “there is something wrong with me to even think this way”. I appreciate you responding and the kind words. It’s definitely a process with good and bad days but meds and a good support system definitely helps. I’m in a lot better place than I was then but it does make things like manifesting not necessarily harder but I doubt myself a lot easier. Like I can tell myself I deserve my desire or that I have my desire and it feels like I’m lying to myself. I’m definitely the type of person who has to “lazy manifest” by just knowing it all works out no matter what since when I try to control or do a lot of techniques all that does is make me question and doubt and have anxiety.
@@jaytalksmanifestation i am fine.sleep is necessary and I also prioritize sleep .I am still persisting and I believe that my manifestation is getting closer than I can see .I promise to keep persisting till I get what I want.
@@jaytalksmanifestationthanks love.jay my sp called me today,but with an excuse of asking for a mutual friend's contact,i was polite and gave him the contact.i didn't act too excited.i vow to continue to persist untill my sp fully conforms to my heart desires.thanks Jay for all you do, don't stop being good to us.
i used to think manifesting was all about repeating affirmations and hoping for the best. i tried it for months and…nothing. i was so frustrated. then i heard about this book, Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane, and how it breaks down the science and energy behind manifestation. it’s like it flipped a switch in my brain. once i started applying what i learned, things started falling into place like never before. worth checking out if you’re serious about manifesting.
You aee right i never thought that but I do have thoughts like "oh he is too attractive for me" or he is too perfect or just i dont deserve him or i am less than him Now do i have to work on it? Nope, i just have to be aware of them and know they are not the truth of who I am
I really want to hear your take on something. Earlier, I saw a guy that looked like Mel Gibson. Later in the day, I saw a video of Mel Gibson appear on TH-cam. The only reason I can think of why I manifested that was because there was zero desire and attachment. Do you agree with that? And how do we apply that level of not caring to something we actually desire?
@@ryanlara83 yeah I agree, that’s my experience as well. How to not care when actually desire somthing? Pff, let me know when you find out 😂 it’s ok to care love, and feelings of worry and fear that sometimes come along with caring are also normal. But that’s when I suggest nervous system regulation and saturation with the desired outcome so that the mind and body experience it. The more we experience it = less resistance
Hey Jay! Wanted to know if I should manifest my SP with the name he usually goes by, or his real name (which he doesn’t really like to use). Would not using the birth name have any negative or neutral effect? Or maybe anyone knows the answer please?
Imam jedno pitanje, dakle moj bivsi momak kojeg zelim manifestirati (nisam jos) dugo vremena nije igrao nogomet, jos kao mladji je odusta. Poceo je opet na ljeto rekreativno, nista ozbiljno nije htjeo zbog mene. I ukazala mu se sad prilika da ode u Sloveniju, ako to prode potpisuje ugovor i istaje gore. Zanima me mogu li ja ikako utjecati na to manifestirato da sad ovih 10 dana dok ima te probe ne prode dalje. Nego se vrati. Kada sam spoemnula to prijateljico rekla mi je da ja ne mogu utjecati na niciju buducnost da se to nece ostvariti i napravin li to (znajuci da on to TRENUTNO zeli, sto ne znaci da ce ga dugo drzati) da ce se meni vratiti lose i da je to sebicno s moje strane. Pa me zanima mogu li to? I mogu li uopce ga manifestirat nazad da opet zeli biti sa mnom u vezi bez obzira sta je rekao da ja i on vise nikada necemo biti skupa da se razocarao i ne osjeca prema meni vise to nesto sto bi ga pogrnulo da budemo skupa? Hvala unaprijed🥰🥰
@user-ii3fe8bb8n moze izmanifestirat bukvalno svaki ishod koji bi zeljela imati i s njim i s bilo kim. Nije to nista sebicno, niti ce ti se ista lose vratiti, ti jednostavno sada svjesno biras verziju njega koji odlucuje bit s tobom. Tako da samo se drzi zeljenog ishoda bez obzira na sta se desava ili ne desava pred tobom i samo naprijed ♥️
That's what God has commanded to ask him. It's a order. And order shouldn't be taken lightly. He loves when his slave asks whilst people discourage and make us question our desires itself. Of course because they can't give. How great is God.
Hey. I have a question towards your coaching. As I remember your SP is German and you live in Germany.. Would it be possible to get your coaching in German too? It is my native language so I guess it would make it easier, but if not it would be totally fine. ☺️ I just finally want to get my SP back. I know he wants it as I got movement and lots of signs. Actually I still get them. But I am in that journey now for more than a year and now want to reach the end of the journey with some support.
@@sirenja-sj-4537 oh no no, my man and I are both Croatian 🥰 but we currently live in Germany, yes. We can do a call in German yes, even though I mix it with English as its easier to express myself that way. If you feel like you could benefit from a call or email, I’m here ♥️
I was literally thinking not to long ago ‘wonder if Jay will post again?’ 😂 also, stepped out of my comfort zone affirmation wise. For the first time I said something bold like ‘SP had no choice to be mine. He has no free will in my reality’ and omg that felt good 😍 I love you and Sammy Ingram’s content 😍 they help so much. I feel like I’m getting closer to my desires 🥹 manifest SP and a job at the same time so here we go! I do have a question however: Someone said it’s better to affirm out loud yourself because you’re using both speaking and listening, but with recorded affirmations, you’re only using your hearing. What’s your take on this? It made me feel anxious as sometimes I don’t have a notebook to read my affirmations (4 day to day and over 4 with meditation with more length) and I might find it helpful to hear a recording and be able to repeat the affirmation and remember it better. I know you say take what resonates, leave what doesn’t 💖 definitely going to work on being more care free with manifesting and I’m getting there 🥰💖 this video was also a ‘ah ha!’ for me 😂 Thank you again Jay, and thank you for being open. I’m manifesting all the love and success for you 🥰😍
You are an angel ♥️ and you can do and achieve anything you put your mind into, hon 🫂 As far as affirming goes, as you guessed it, take what resonates leave what doesn’t. There are no rules to it, affirm however you prefer in the moment 🥰
I have some confusions. What will happen if multiple people are manifesting marriage with the same specific person like me? Who will get married to that specific person in 3D reality? Because the person is one. I don't want to let them win. What should I do in such a case?
@@summermirai2939 accept or acknowldge your current circumstances? Cause the way I see it, in order to change them, we acknowledge them but don’t accept then. We only accept our desired outcome. Is that what you meat?
@ what I mean is is that what if use my techniques less and accept my current circumstances but still persist? I am at a period of my life where I don’t really go out of my way to visualize, affirm, or use sats and if I do I use it for about 5 seconds
Jay🧡 you go straight into our hearts every time. I say yes to all the SWEET (!) comments below.💝 I often doubted this " relationship as a reward "-thing. This "being a good selfconcept girl" or boy (or what ever you feel like.) to get to heaven. 🙄 Look around you at all the people you know, having partners, are married ... most of them are so not aware, are so not happy within themselfs, are full of doubts and dont like what they are and see about themselfs. Aha, ok... but now WE have to be first super humans to get what we want? 😅 weired, right? If you dont know where to start your self love babysteps: you could try to massage a mint smelling lotion on your feet before bedtime and tell your toes how much you love them.🦶🏼✨🫠
Your my comfort during this upsetting process. Your videos feel so personal and genuine. It means alot
Aww hon.. I’m so sorry you’re going through it. Take in everything that does your soul good and comforts you. It will all be ok, just make sure to be there for yourself as well ♥️🫂
i remember this one night i was scrolling aimlessly, feeling like i had hit rock bottom. it felt like nothing i wanted was ever going to happen for me. i don’t know why, but i clicked on this link about the book Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane, and something about it drew me in. the more i read, the more i felt like it was written just for me. it’s wild how much a single book can change your perspective.
You have your own powerful new prospectives in manifesting ❤️
And I hope to bring ease and comfort with it to anyone who could use it ♥️
Just want to say you make wonderful content. And i thank you for being a voice in this community
Thank YOU for being here ♥️♥️
Jayyyy ❤️❤️ your content is gold!!! 💎 i’been talking with u in your last video you’re so lovely ❤️. I always had a crap self-esteem but i knew that i succed with men. But with my SP (in my youth) i saw him like too gorgeus, & now i think i’m more prettier than then but always saw him like too moralist & now our situation it’s difficult. From the beginning i always thought that SC wasn’t necessary to manifest & focused only in my SP. I have done all the techniques, I concentrate but then I look at the time that has passed (2 years since i started manifesting him) and I think what I am doing wrong 🤯😢
P.S: Sorry for my tremendous message, I feel so so exhausted
i feel u im in the same position a 5 n a half relationship down the drain from nonsense smh manifesting thm back as we speak....
@@mjencina6423 stop with all the techniques love, that’s why you’re exhausted. You’re burned out. All your energy is on the techniques and sp, nothing is left for you. And how can you expect to pour from an empty cup? How can you expect a car to drive without fuel? You need you, my love. You need your attention, energy and devotion. I would suggest to take a little breather from this all and soley focus on yourself, physically and mentally. Recollect and then proceed how you feel is best for you ♥️🫂
@@jaytalksmanifestation thank u, Jay 😘 love u so much ❤️🫂
Long long time ago, there was some manifestation coach who is all about self worthiness, self love, even better neediness. All of that person work will be centered on keeping a distance between you and your desire like if you want it , that is bad and neediness and literally all of their meditations ends by leaving your desire away and waiting further Devine timing. Glad I do not follow anyone like that. But hey, it might be just a way to program followers to make money 🤷🏽♀️ I also do not believe in AH or anyone that has super power than others. Thanks for reading my history take 😂😊 love you Jay ❤ we live and learn.
@@absloutelyRasha wow my brain can’t even process this… wtf 😂 please please PLEASE, always take only what resonates, leave what doesn’t. People make up rules based on their own limiting beliefs. Don’t fall for them ♥️
@@jaytalksmanifestationlong time ago lesson learned. I do not think the person is terrible but it is each of us have our own journey. It us always great to have your notifications love ❤
I wanted to add that person was even rejecting the idea of being chosen by your person! The idea of self love in their books was to be independent by yourself and not even be with your person that is the unconditional love. Sad but they really had it wrong knowing they had tons of training by the secret and AH tried to teach Neuville and law of assumption books but they never manifested their sp for instance being close in loving committed relationship their person was in a different contentent 😢 not everyone who has content about manifestation do actually manifest their desires just saying 😢😢
Good to see you. In the last one week i have some Progress in myself by doing things to shift my mind. Yet to get my results in manifestation.
Wow yes! Thank you Jay! ❤ I saw so many videos from coaches telling people “You don’t have your SP because you don’t feel worthy/enough/loved/etc”. I indeed started questioning myself and dived so deep into it that I started to think I was not fixable anymore. 😂 I now have been affirming “I have the self concept I desire.”. And when I feel unloved or unwanted or something else in the moment I flip the thoughts. ✨
Some coaches make everything about self-concept and almost make you feel guilty for wanting something or someone…
And it doesn’t make any sense, does it? 😭 I’m sorry you fell flr that crap! I mean of course our concept of self matters and is always something we should be bettering, but nobody is broken, nobody is undeserving and nobody is unworthy. What matters is to think for yourself and not lock yourself in a cage of another person’s limiting beliefs ♥️
OK I came to a realization and I had to share. So I've noticed in the SP success stories (oh and I've watched alot) that sometimes when they get their full manifestation, people are completely spiralling and not in a state of calm at all. And sometimes they are super calm and know their manifestation is coming for a fact. So it really doesn't seem to matter what the emotional state is. The thing that is in common is the work they did. They spent time focusing on being in that end state whether through visualization, affirmations, sats we. It doesn't matter. Also some did everything and some did little. All that mattered is that at some point in their journey they kept going back to the wish fullfilled. Even if they came out and spiralled it didn't matter bc they kept going back. Oh also I noticed a pattern that the more often they spiralled in comparison to how much they visited the end, the longer it took. So all this to say, I don't think it matters how much you spiral and think against as long as you keep going back. But bear in mind it seems like it takes longer if the ratio is larger
@@fulminisrecovery1264 couldn’t have said it better 👏👏
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You & Sammy Ingram are the older sisters I neeeeddd. Thank you for voicing this.
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had some progress, only with inspired action tho, i'm still happy and hope i get to my final goal
@@anny_222x you will! ♥️
It’s totally true , from law of attraction I had to go through a lot. I wasn’t even aware of what being worthy or deserving till now it confuses me I have manifested a lot without feeling I’m worth it or deserve it
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Thank you so much for this ❤
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How are you jay? And how is everyone else over here? Hope everyone is doing amazing ❤
@@Lilithishere_ hey angel! How are YOU? Are you and your family holding up?
@jaytalksmanifestation yes I'm holding up well now. Thankyou so much for asking 🥰 btw it's just me now. Both my parents passed away. Mom in 2020 and dad in 2024. But I'm gonna stay strong and get all my desires like i promised! I'm working hard on my self concept 😁
@@jaytalksmanifestation it's so cute that you remember me 🥺💗
@ ….it is people like you that are an example of strength and courage… thank you ♥️ literally thank you for showing us all what it means to keep promises to our loved ones and ourselves. You are amazing!
@@jaytalksmanifestation aww you're literally so kind 💗 May God bless you and your family with everything you need & want 💖
i remember this one time i felt completely stuck, like no matter what i did, life just wasn’t moving forward. i tried everything-manifestation journals, vision boards, all that stuff-but it felt like i was missing something. then i stumbled across this book, Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane, and it hit different. it wasn’t just about manifesting; it was about understanding the energy i was putting out into the world. honestly, it changed everything. if you’re feeling stuck too, you might want to check out this book.
a while back, i hit a point where i felt like everything was out of my control. i kept wondering why other people seemed to get what they wanted while i was stuck in the same place. then i came across this book called Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane. i wasn’t expecting much, but the way it explains the connection between your energy and the life you create? it blew my mind. it’s not just a book, it’s like a blueprint for turning your life around.
so there was this period in my life when i kept attracting the wrong people, wrong opportunities, everything just felt…off. i couldn’t figure out why it kept happening. then one day, a friend mentioned a book called Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane, saying it helped them see the patterns they didn’t even realize they had. i decided to give it a read, and wow, it opened my eyes to how much my own energy was shaping my life. seriously, this book is something else.
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Can anyone help me with this... what if all the moments that I shared with my sp were good and the best moments of my life, never disrespected me, was loving and very much obsessed with me but the reason of no contact was my own negative beliefs...so basically the version of him that I have is already loving and caring
I am exactly that: I know for a fact that I'm perfect and a catch in every way in fact both my sp and ex have told me this multiple times in the past as have numerous others. But what happened with my SP is that I slowly had doubts creep up and they snowballed bc I didn't know how to catch them and didn't learn about LOA till several months later. Then this turned into a specific story about how my SP treats me. Then that became the new (undesirable) version of my SP. So what my new LOA infomed self was wrestling with is this new version of my SP. And for a long time I was stuck in this idea that this new shitty version of SP needed to see my value and worth. But what I find helpful is affirming for that change directly: "My SP changed into the perfect version of himself that loves and adores me", "I am already in the relationship with the absolute best version of my SP"
@@fulminisrecovery1264 BRAVO!! And that is all you need! Then, when you guys are together, that’s when I suggest additional sc work in order to maintain the new narrative/version of sp and you ♥️
Remember your are the love N you are the source of your happiness.. No one complete you..happiness is choice not option.. We took happiness as option means when my sp come back to me then I will fill happy that happiness is temporary...
Love this Jay, you're so brilliant!!
I think my problem was always watching the 3d, accidentally, instead of just trusting. But people made me feel like it was my SC. It wasn't... it was just trusting in myself that I am the creator.
Thank you for sharing this video! Also, so true about the key, the story! 👌
I also haaaate seeing myself on video. And never ever fear... you're amazing on video, gf!! 🫶👊
@@tessgroenewegen1343 thank you love ♥️ and don’t feel bad for watching the 3D, we live in there after all, just remind yourself of what it is and who you are 🫂
Self-concept is said to be the second most important thing, not first.
Basically not wanting is being in the state of enlightenment that's what those posts mean. It's in the state of knowing our desires are already with us. That is how we actually get them.
I get what you are saying but I have depression and i genuinely felt in the past I didn’t deserve love or care or friends or even life. I felt so broken and damaged and like I was such a terrible person that I didn’t deserve for people to treat me well. And I deserved the pain and the treatment from others. So please don’t say “no one thinks this way alone, it’s only when someone asks”
I completely relate. I’m also extremely suspicious when people are nice or kind to me … I feel so unworthy that I don’t trust that people can possibly love me. It’s brutal. I’m sorry you also feel this way.
This is MOSTLY my mind. So I know your thoughts and feelings are valid as fuck.
@@squigglemonster2634 I’m so sorry you felt that way, love. You are right, there ARE people who feel that way because of depression and their state of mind. I should have specified more that I only meant the people I worked with as in clients and in my personal life… that doesn’t mean that there isn’t someone struggling with thoughts like that though. I hope you are finding a way to feel better about yourself and your worthiness of love and joy.. I’m sending you lots of love and strength ♥️
@@jaytalksmanifestation I am, thank you. And I figured you might just mean who you’ve worked with but generalizing statements can cause a lot of harm when you don’t know your audience. Especially if I had heard that when I was struggling I would’ve definitely fallen deeper into “there is something wrong with me to even think this way”. I appreciate you responding and the kind words. It’s definitely a process with good and bad days but meds and a good support system definitely helps. I’m in a lot better place than I was then but it does make things like manifesting not necessarily harder but I doubt myself a lot easier. Like I can tell myself I deserve my desire or that I have my desire and it feels like I’m lying to myself. I’m definitely the type of person who has to “lazy manifest” by just knowing it all works out no matter what since when I try to control or do a lot of techniques all that does is make me question and doubt and have anxiety.
How are you jay,so happy to see you ❤
I’m great love, thank you. Although a bit tired, have to prioritize sleep a bit more (self-care, right? 🥰)
How are you love?
@@jaytalksmanifestation i am fine.sleep is necessary and I also prioritize sleep .I am still persisting and I believe that my manifestation is getting closer than I can see .I promise to keep persisting till I get what I want.
@ I’m cheering for you love ♥️
@@jaytalksmanifestationthanks love.jay my sp called me today,but with an excuse of asking for a mutual friend's contact,i was polite and gave him the contact.i didn't act too excited.i vow to continue to persist untill my sp fully conforms to my heart desires.thanks Jay for all you do, don't stop being good to us.
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i used to think manifesting was all about repeating affirmations and hoping for the best. i tried it for months and…nothing. i was so frustrated. then i heard about this book, Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane, and how it breaks down the science and energy behind manifestation. it’s like it flipped a switch in my brain. once i started applying what i learned, things started falling into place like never before. worth checking out if you’re serious about manifesting.
You aee right i never thought that but I do have thoughts like "oh he is too attractive for me" or he is too perfect or just i dont deserve him or i am less than him
Now do i have to work on it? Nope, i just have to be aware of them and know they are not the truth of who I am
I really want to hear your take on something. Earlier, I saw a guy that looked like Mel Gibson. Later in the day, I saw a video of Mel Gibson appear on TH-cam. The only reason I can think of why I manifested that was because there was zero desire and attachment. Do you agree with that? And how do we apply that level of not caring to something we actually desire?
@@ryanlara83 yeah I agree, that’s my experience as well. How to not care when actually desire somthing? Pff, let me know when you find out 😂 it’s ok to care love, and feelings of worry and fear that sometimes come along with caring are also normal. But that’s when I suggest nervous system regulation and saturation with the desired outcome so that the mind and body experience it. The more we experience it = less resistance
Hey Jay!
Wanted to know if I should manifest my SP with the name he usually goes by, or his real name (which he doesn’t really like to use). Would not using the birth name have any negative or neutral effect? Or maybe anyone knows the answer please?
Imam jedno pitanje, dakle moj bivsi momak kojeg zelim manifestirati (nisam jos) dugo vremena nije igrao nogomet, jos kao mladji je odusta. Poceo je opet na ljeto rekreativno, nista ozbiljno nije htjeo zbog mene. I ukazala mu se sad prilika da ode u Sloveniju, ako to prode potpisuje ugovor i istaje gore. Zanima me mogu li ja ikako utjecati na to manifestirato da sad ovih 10 dana dok ima te probe ne prode dalje. Nego se vrati. Kada sam spoemnula to prijateljico rekla mi je da ja ne mogu utjecati na niciju buducnost da se to nece ostvariti i napravin li to (znajuci da on to TRENUTNO zeli, sto ne znaci da ce ga dugo drzati) da ce se meni vratiti lose i da je to sebicno s moje strane. Pa me zanima mogu li to? I mogu li uopce ga manifestirat nazad da opet zeli biti sa mnom u vezi bez obzira sta je rekao da ja i on vise nikada necemo biti skupa da se razocarao i ne osjeca prema meni vise to nesto sto bi ga pogrnulo da budemo skupa? Hvala unaprijed🥰🥰
@user-ii3fe8bb8n moze izmanifestirat bukvalno svaki ishod koji bi zeljela imati i s njim i s bilo kim. Nije to nista sebicno, niti ce ti se ista lose vratiti, ti jednostavno sada svjesno biras verziju njega koji odlucuje bit s tobom. Tako da samo se drzi zeljenog ishoda bez obzira na sta se desava ili ne desava pred tobom i samo naprijed ♥️
That's what God has commanded to ask him. It's a order. And order shouldn't be taken lightly. He loves when his slave asks whilst people discourage and make us question our desires itself. Of course because they can't give. How great is God.
Tone matter in robotic affirmation? My tone should be like I already got it or I will just affirm repeatedly?
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Yayy I'm first ❤❤
Hey. I have a question towards your coaching. As I remember your SP is German and you live in Germany.. Would it be possible to get your coaching in German too? It is my native language so I guess it would make it easier, but if not it would be totally fine. ☺️
I just finally want to get my SP back. I know he wants it as I got movement and lots of signs. Actually I still get them. But I am in that journey now for more than a year and now want to reach the end of the journey with some support.
@@sirenja-sj-4537 oh no no, my man and I are both Croatian 🥰 but we currently live in Germany, yes. We can do a call in German yes, even though I mix it with English as its easier to express myself that way. If you feel like you could benefit from a call or email, I’m here ♥️
@@jaytalksmanifestation Thanks for your answer ☺️
Yes. I am thinking of buying your 3 e-mail package
Is this to help 😕 get ur ex back 🤔 😔 😢😮
Well for anything really 😊
I was literally thinking not to long ago ‘wonder if Jay will post again?’ 😂 also, stepped out of my comfort zone affirmation wise. For the first time I said something bold like ‘SP had no choice to be mine. He has no free will in my reality’ and omg that felt good 😍
I love you and Sammy Ingram’s content 😍 they help so much. I feel like I’m getting closer to my desires 🥹 manifest SP and a job at the same time so here we go!
I do have a question however: Someone said it’s better to affirm out loud yourself because you’re using both speaking and listening, but with recorded affirmations, you’re only using your hearing. What’s your take on this? It made me feel anxious as sometimes I don’t have a notebook to read my affirmations (4 day to day and over 4 with meditation with more length) and I might find it helpful to hear a recording and be able to repeat the affirmation and remember it better. I know you say take what resonates, leave what doesn’t 💖 definitely going to work on being more care free with manifesting and I’m getting there 🥰💖 this video was also a ‘ah ha!’ for me 😂
Thank you again Jay, and thank you for being open. I’m manifesting all the love and success for you 🥰😍
You are an angel ♥️ and you can do and achieve anything you put your mind into, hon 🫂
As far as affirming goes, as you guessed it, take what resonates leave what doesn’t. There are no rules to it, affirm however you prefer in the moment 🥰
@@jaytalksmanifestationthank you Jay! This is also reassuring to hear. Have a lovely day! 🥰
I have some confusions. What will happen if multiple people are manifesting marriage with the same specific person like me? Who will get married to that specific person in 3D reality? Because the person is one. I don't want to let them win. What should I do in such a case?
There is no winning. That should not even be an outcome in your mind. Your reality should be set that you already have who you want. End of story 😅🤍
What if I think of my narrative fin a series of brief 5 second clips but then accept my circumstances as it is right now?
@@summermirai2939 accept or acknowldge your current circumstances? Cause the way I see it, in order to change them, we acknowledge them but don’t accept then. We only accept our desired outcome. Is that what you meat?
@ what I mean is is that what if use my techniques less and accept my current circumstances but still persist? I am at a period of my life where I don’t really go out of my way to visualize, affirm, or use sats and if I do I use it for about 5 seconds
Jay , do we need to feel anything or just keep saying it and it will manifest ?
@@Resting45-g1x repeating it robotically is absolutely enough ♥️
@ thank you jay !
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Jay🧡 you go straight into our hearts every time. I say yes to all the SWEET (!) comments below.💝
I often doubted this " relationship as a reward "-thing. This "being a good selfconcept girl" or boy (or what ever you feel like.) to get to heaven. 🙄 Look around you at all the people you know, having partners, are married ... most of them are so not aware, are so not happy within themselfs, are full of doubts and dont like what they are and see about themselfs. Aha, ok... but now WE have to be first super humans to get what we want? 😅 weired, right?
If you dont know where to start your self love babysteps: you could try to massage a mint smelling lotion on your feet before bedtime and tell your toes how much you love them.🦶🏼✨🫠
@@Dori-b5p hahah exactlyyy! Perfectly said 😂♥️
Please keep pretending because you're wonderful ❤