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I like scott, but hes just revealing the rot of our society. How our NATIVE young males are simply falling out. None of this will change because it IS done on purpose.
When I was in high school there were some German foreign exchange students and they told us that by their senior year, from exam results, schools determine if you go to a university or trade school. In Germany you are just as respected if you build or maintain jet engines than design them.
@@jakeslist569 My Dad was a machinist. He had a relatvely decent salary, not fair but ok. His company did not enforce health protections soon enough so died of lung cancer. Good worker protections are essential for tradespeople.
This is roughly true, and two related benefits are a) when you hire someone to repair the plumbing in your home or replace your roof, the work generally gets done really well, to high standards, and lasts a long time without issue, not some cheap hack job that looks terrible and falls apart in no time, and b) as others have mentioned, people in the trades get more respect, take more pride in their work, presumably earn a better and more livable wage, and can be maintained as and feel they are important members of and contributors to society. Our "fast and cheap" culture in the U.S. has priorities all wrong.
I worked in Vienna - Austria as an engineer and I was more respected and better paid than my boss - manager unlike in my stupid country where managers are kings and workers are worthless.
very 1st day on campus was lectured on being a Man is terrible, lectured on safe spaces, and not to "reinforce the patriarchy" this is 1st night on campus. I drove back home and got my money back and I started studying for IT certs from Comptia and Cisco. 4 years later of actually working in IT, im now a Network Engineer and chillin debt free.
white males, in particular, are the target of their racist, misandrist hate & hostility. It is the arrogant, self-righteous hypocrisy of these bigoted fascists that is most frustrating. And that ppl just let them get away with it, even when it is SO damn obvious. They have normalized the demonization, denigration, & emasculation of (straight) white males through a systematic socially promoted campaign of hate & hostility with (straight) white males as the object of their intense animosity. And this is while everyone else - white females & minorities - get the complete OPPOSITE treatment, in every way in every sphere of society, at this point. And leftist white females are leading this ugly, divisive, hateful crusade. What is truly aggravating, tho, is the way white females paint themselves as some type of purely blameless & virtuous victims of their fantasy patriarchy - while in reality it is white females (especially white females of the millennial generation) & asians who are doing the best on almost every if not every metric, not to mention all the advantages, benefits, support, & adoration they get for being female (particularly white female). I’m not even attracted to white females anymore, so many of them are such narcissistic, manipulative, arrogant hypocrites, even if one appears to be decent you risk not finding out till you’ve lost so much. I’m in grad school right now, so I’m drowning in this venom.
YOU LITERALLY JUST OUTLINED THE PATH I DECIDED TO GO ON FOR THE PAST 2 YEARS. I'm working on my Cisco CCNA and my test is scheduled for this summer, fingers crossed, I love how IT has become a saving grace for thousands of men, and it will only get better with the Cloud & other developments xD
@@___Truth___ @Ronsou, How difficult is it to break into IT/Cyber Security in our current employment market? I'm thinking of getting the CompTIA NET+ and SEC+ certification and I'm a university graduate from a 10 top public university lol.
@@AOMVideoProductions And the salaries are being slashed to the point it is better to do helpdesk or remote service for some companies and deal with less stress.
I signed up to do my masters in teaching. First class, the professor talked about feminist theory and entitlement. I walked out of that class, went to the admin office, dropped out and asked for my money back. Then applied for trade school. The thing about university is that you can go at any age.
@@alisdairmclean8605 white males, in particular, are the target of their racist, misandrist hate & hostility. It is the arrogant, self-righteous hypocrisy of these bigoted fascists that is most frustrating. And that ppl just let them get away with it, even when it is SO damn obvious. They have normalized the demonization, denigration, & emasculation of (straight) white males through a systematic socially promoted campaign of hate & hostility with (straight) white males as the object of their intense animosity. And this is while everyone else - white females & minorities - get the complete OPPOSITE treatment, in every way in every sphere of society, at this point. And leftist white females are leading this ugly, divisive, hateful crusade. What is truly aggravating, tho, is the way white females paint themselves as some type of purely blameless & virtuous victims of their fantasy patriarchy - while in reality it is white females (especially white females of the millennial generation) & asians who are doing the best on almost every if not every metric, not to mention all the advantages, benefits, support, & adoration they get for being female (particularly white female). I’m not even attracted to white females anymore, so many of them are such narcissistic, manipulative, arrogant hypocrites, even if one appears to be decent you risk not finding out till you’ve lost so much. I’m in grad school right now, so I’m drowning in this venom.
Women are so oppressed three women graduate college for every two men, and it's getting worse. Soon two women are going to graduate for every man. Nobody ever oppressed me, like that.
in the usa it was federal government guaranteeing student loans... (thank you LBJ) basically with the government as backer universities did not need to fear unpaid tuition delinquent payments.
@@cosmeticscameo8277 lmao no the problem is federal government cut school budget and let states fund the schools and states cut the budget of the schools. The loan guarantee was meant to make up the difference of what the states didn't cover which is not much anymore. Go check on your state. I bet they cut education budget recently. Ever heard of starving the beast? And the guarantee loan is for the banks not universities. You think universities give a shot about kids being able to afford education? Lmao last time I checked education was for the wealthy until government started offering public education. Schools can just bring rich kids from other countries to make money.
The problem is educated women won't date working class men. That's it. I man can get into the trade but if he doesn't hit big with his own business in the trades then he just becomes the working class men that society forgot decades ago.
Maybe in the US? I think some comments mentioned before that in many European countries, trades have a pretty high standing in society traditionally - and also come with a clear path of education, maybe that's why - you're still "educated"/worked for something when you get a trade certificate
Most women want a faithful partner that won't abuse them, either physically or emotionally, and treats them as an equal human being. They don't care if they are "working class".
@@chihirostargazer6573 African American here. If that's the case, why are the drug dealers and bad boys getting most of the sex? Sexual dimorphism, hypergamy and polygyny is not going away. I've been a good guy and a player and I can tell you many women love cheaters. It's exciting
@@colbalt95 Why do you have this idea that drug dealers and bad boys are having "all the sex"? They might be having sex with a certain type of women, but most emotionally stable women with healthy self esteem are not getting with these guys. Plenty of working class dudes, construction workers etc, are having sex too, and are probably more likely to be in a stable relationship...not just running around f**king damaged girls with emotional problems.
Scott Galloway has consistently been the man that is smart enough to know but not wise enough to understand. Young men do not have a problem, our systems have a problem and young men are just refusing to play the game.
I think he knows. He's talking to the left; and trying to get them to back off. He's gently telling them that society is collapsing. He's not trying to get them to totally change. He's trying to move the Overton window.
I don't know if young men are refusing to play the game so much as their being shut out of the game. He's espousing this blue pill mentality stuff though. This idea you have to be financially successful so you can have a wife and kids and be happy is as wrong-headed as these pua guys espousing the idea that you need to be successful with women to be considered "a real man"
@@happyjourneygateway so if you're not financially set for yourself, how will life be with kids? Seriously? Scraping by sucks. People in general need to do better...both men and women. Also, I'm one to say if you can't afford to have kids, DON'T. Get a vasectomy because birth control and condoms don't always work. No, you don't need to be financially successful to have a wife and kids, but the poorhouse doesn't make an easy life for family. I've been there. There's nothing wrong with making sure you've got it right first. Both of my brothers bought homes and had good jobs previous to adding a wife and children. Neither of them went to college. One is a Contractor and works for the State and the other is a Union guy working docks in Alaska. That's smart!!!
@@eurasianthunder I was saying that being financially successful and having a wife and children is not a ticket or guarantee to happiness for you as a man your wife as a woman or your child as a person. I'm happy for you and your brothers and I hope you all feel valued in your positions.
The reality is as a young man - create your own idea of success - avoid the need to please your parents - outgrow the need to have a romantic partner = - competing for a bigger box If you don't assess what you believe to be successful another man will.
Yes. Outgrow the need to have a romantic partner if you don’t want to be a husband and a father. But if you do you must learn to be emotionally intelligent. Go to therapy and heal. Then you’ll attract a good partner. Or be alone for the rest of your life.
@@magnolia2 I agree with this. Outgrow the need to have a romantic partner if you don't want to be a wife and mother. But if you do you need to learn to be emotionally intelligent. Grow and learn to take care of yourself, judge people on their character and merits, and that your specious and pseudo-evolutionary "intuition" and "instinct" to be hypergamous and focus on the 3 sixes and quick-to-dismiss 'ick' and malignant-narcissistic Instagram obsession will, to be fair, not likely end up with you necessarily being alone for the rest of your life, but much more likely to leave you stuck without a meaningful relationship and a stable home life for the years of your life that really count.
I became an electrician. Single man with no kids. In shape hit the gym everyday. I own my own business. I own a small home several vehicles boat and a motorcycle. Take several vacations a year including scuba diving all over the world as I'm a certified scuba diver. Have gone heli skiing in backcountry of Colorado with my best friend. Working on pilots license.Have traveled the world seen and done some amazing things and oh ya zero debt! Everything including my home is mine with deed and titles in my hand. Fellas I know your hurting lost and lonely but relize you don't need a degree to be successful, no woman on earth can make you happy and relize that everyone has problems, struggles and fears. Get off social media. Most people are lying sacks of shit there not actually that interesting and truthfully are miserable and depressed.
yup, after graduating from high school i had to get the ball rolling. Tough however, i grew up fatherless which explains why many of us young men seem weak and unwilling to take accountability My sister given me an opportunity to have a job, so i had my two weeks of summer vacay and right in the swing of it started working. Through a year i was saving a lot, hanging out with friends, progressing my experience in the job, took my drivers test and passed after my second try, ups and downs i experienced. My ultimate goal was to get a dirt bike until recently what i wanted and i saved enough. I use to post on instagram a lot of the memes and my life experiences back in late middle school all through high school. I very rarely post now, as i got through the whole media currency of likes which is very damaging to our egos. i have became very lazy on posting, but in life keeping occupied and really only use social media for looking at memes, watching some videos on yt, and chatting and keeping in touch with friends. im proud of the progression i did over a year ago great lessons and moments to be enjoyed.
College is crazy expensive for a job that is not guarenteed... there's a reason all these kids that come out of college live with their parents. They don't get the job and are drowning in debt. It's not worth the risk. Next add in that all it takes is an accusation to ruin your entire life even if you're found innocent... it's too late, you are labeled. Same bs with marriage. It is too dangerous to gamble with someones emotions. One bad day and you lose everything you worked for just because the court system favors women. It's all rigged against men, and what do men do when they find a problem, they fix it. If that problem can't be fixed, it's broken, and we throw it out. After that we start to think that product is crap and we don't play that game anymore, we get something better or find something else that will meet our needs. That gd simple.
You Hit The Nail On The Head. It's not race or parenting issue it's the reality that the conformist rat - race was what our fathers acquiesce to doesn't mean we want to. What are parents perceived as success was simply materialism, social status & being seen as successful - " Why aren't men no longer chasing the status quo is the real title? "
The concept of "happy wife = happy life" is proof that men are not motivated by oppressing women but by pleasing them. We live in an era where men are demonized and hope is being destroyed by a bleak outlook being pushed on the internet and in the media by bitter people. As a parent, I feel like I have to spend a lot of time combating the negative BS of the world, but it's tough because kids think their parents are out of touch and the cynics are the ones who have it right.
Keep your kids away from social media and tv as much as possible. Sports and martial arts for boys to encourage competitiveness and confidence. Plan for the future our ruling class has planned for them-they can expect to be effectively shut out of many jobs and universities.
Keep being a parent. Kids will be kids and are predisposed to disagree with everything a parent says. There will be a day when your kid will grow up and say “thanks pops I grew up to be a decent person and not an asshole due to how you raised me” your kid may be 25, 35, 45 etc.. Until that day comes but it will come.
This is not a crisis for men. It is a 'crisis' for society that depends wholly on men pulling the wagon whilst society sits in and puts the whip to the back of the men pulling the wagon. As a sovereign man, I need no relationship that will only diminish my financial health and pull time away from my more pleasant pursuits. I choose me, not a family.
@@WilliamsPinch That depends, if he met a perfect woman for him yeah it could really increase his quality of life, sure. Statistics say that's far from realistic.
Everyone has the right to pursue happiness but just remember when all your friends get married have a family and don't have time for you . And when you get old and they put you in a nursing home it won't be pretty for you.
I have worked in the medical field as a supervisor in the past and I only went to trade school for less than a year. There are many ways to stay ahead of the game. College is not the only path to success.
Planning on getting into the CAD/CAM trade myself this summer. Just turned 30 last October. Spent the last decade healing from a broken home brought on by a narcissistic mother. For the first time in my life, I can confidentially say I'm hopeful for the future.
@@vincemack2042 1/3rd of the male population will start un-aliving other people all around the globe, burning down infrastructure and destroying everything.
I personally think a big part of this is that we as men believe we have to do everything alone; we have to be loners and do everything ourselves and see asking for help or being part of a group/team as weakness. That is such sigma male horseshit. Find people who share your values and interests and treat them with respect and amazing, amazing things will start to happen for you, and you don't have to give up your individual identity either.
💯💯 exactly. This is the direction society needs to go. We don't need to fight the idea of being part of a community. One thing that seems to get missed in these conversations is that the "rugged individuality" that's been shoved down everyone's throats has been unhealthy to everyone.
Not that I disagree with Mr. Galloway, I think he makes many good points. That said, the fact that he can go into solutions and not put "fatherhood" at the top of the list as a solution is just mind boggling. It's so hard to understand why so many people don't want to acknowledge the fundamental importance of good fathers in the lives of young men. Resources need to be allocated towards this as much as anything else. All it would take is one generation to begin to see a real turnaround. Definitely let's approach this in a multi-faceted manner, but let's at least make fatherhood one of the critical components of what young men need in their lives. We are so afraid of shaming people today that we are leading entire generations of young men off the cliff.
I wholeheartedly agree with you. Having lived in the US and East Africa for long periods, and having compared both cultures, I dare say that family and community are very important, too. My parents required me to treat my older brother with deference and respect and I hated it, but I did it. I remember the changes in my male relatives after they were initiated into manhood; it imbued them with incredible self esteem and confidence and no woman ever dared start a sentence with the noxious words, “a real man would…” as if a woman can every tell a man what a ‘real man’ entails. My mother had verbal salvos for me every time I repeated what I’d heard from feminists - that men are beasts - by telling me firstly that I was half a beast and secondly she’d wonder why I took such trouble to beautify myself in order to be attractive if men were so horrible. When my dad came home, I was required to greet him joyfully and give him time to settle before asking for anything. She said he wasn’t a walking wallet and she didn’t want me to make him feel like one. The most enduring lesson though was to approach men in good faith - to smile and to be sensible and to avoid unnecessary arguments. While these lessons make it difficult for me to have many girlfriends - I cannot handle the snippy rude comments they direct at men they deem beneath them, nor can I handle the magnitude of their lies [this is your baby], nor do I want to spend my time with them looking at social media - they helped me attract a wonderful man who calls me multiple times a day just to chat because I make sure I am pleasant to talk to. Though I have no evidence, I think that no amount of accolades can make up for what women’s larger role in society is - to complement men, not to compete with them. They way I see some western women treat men makes me despair: their husbands daren’t speak their minds lest they’re labeled toxic; their sons are hobbled with insecurities because mamas interfered when their husbands tried to rough house with their sons as part of their development through free play and their daughters are insufferably rude because they were told they were perfect and are now impervious to any negative feedback. Their is an African proverb that says that a child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth. Accolades and achievements cannot provide that warmth; only the community can.
I have taught junior high for 20 years. Without having any details about a student’s family I can tell on day one which of my male students don’t have fathers in their lives. They simply carry themselves differently then the other young men who have great fathers present. It is heartbreaking to see them having to carry the burden of an absentee father.
@@jerryjessup9192 No marriage brought together by a pregnancy ever works. The real problem that is a result of all of this is the single mothers needing food stamps & Medicaid for the increased number of low pay single mothers is out of necessity going to increase taxes. Not saying you should marry someone you don't like & will grow to hate. I am saying think of the real consequences & wear a condom or get a vasectomy.
Looking from abroad, I think College in the USA has become just another product, where the brand matters more than what's in the box. A very expensive product indeed. And while in the past it helped to improved your social and economic status, now has become a walled garden for the rich. It even burdens you with a huge debt. Nothing of this exists in Europe (yet another thing), where college is free or affordable, and grades are the entry requisites. Private College exists, but they don't have more reputation than public, even lower. People sees them as a pay to pass College for dumb rich kids.
When it comes to males in general, nobody talks about this foundational reason they gave up on work: the fact that the vast majority of man get NO attention or affection from females. They have no hope of getting married because women don't want them, and family seems an abstract notion to young males 15-35. They have no idea how to be male or full grown man. Their words, actions, and thoughts are held against them everywhere. And they are ridiculed endlessly in every form of media. They see friends and their fathers chewed up and spit out. So in their minds, why work? They have a point...but NOBODY will ever listen to them.
I'm 78 and worked in Manhattan at 20 years old in 1966 (a few years before Women's Lib sprang on the scene around 1970.) So I know the before and after. In 1966 conditions for working women were dreadful -- change had to happen. BUT in the past 20 years I had hoped there would be some balance of respect for both men and women -- and that hasn't happened. I've seen magazine ads for 12-year female gymnasts and other references to "girls" in school as if boys didn't exist -- and that's disgraceful as it doesn't show something a boy could aspire to. I've known some wonderful men in my long life but we never hear about men like them -- intelligent (with a unique outlook), man of their word, dependable, and thoughtful -- no female's friendship could replace the fine men I've known. Before I leave the planet I hope I'll see a movement that honors men and that shows young men growing up what real men are like (not fake machismo men who are rapists and adulterers and who in truth despise women.)
This "problem" with men has been happening & building for decades now. It started as a snowflake at the top of the mountain in the 80's and now that the avalanche is here, why are so many people are suprised. And nobody mentioned the skyrocketing rate of suicide at all.
I am 56 and I have been working in my field for over 30 years. When I was in undergrad college I wanted to see what I was good at so I just picked an area I was interested in that could lead to a job. I was interested in health care so I majored in biology. What I found out was I was not spectacular in any one area but I was above average in almost everything. I took that with me and went to medical school and became a general practitioner. My job requires me to be good in everything but not spectacular in any one area because the field of medicine is so broad I can’t know it all. So being good in all areas made me excellent in primary care medicine. Young men just need to find a nich they like that also had good job prospects and dive in and focus on that area and you will succeed. You will have to make sacrifices but it’s worth it be a valuable member of society in your area of focus.
Look at the fall of Rome. If the population is satiated in large numbers, there will be no progress and innovation. We are becoming stagnant. Degrees have become a symbol of debt that is crushing for most people.
One of the problems is there are fewer high paying jobs for college graduates as a result of all the consolidations that have taken place in all the major industries over the past 20-30 years. And the handful of remaining corporations choose to outsource jobs, both in the USA (H1B visa) and in countries like China to avoid paying American men higher salaries and benefits.
H1-B work visas should be eliminated. They have ZERO to do with "workforce diversity", and everything to do with suppressing salaries for skilled workers.
@@mathisnotforthefaintofheart There is a limit to how much one can pick their field. If you're not a people person, you won't make it in sales, if you don't like kids, teaching won't be for you. Not everyone can be an engineer. If it was just a question of work ethic, *everyone* could make $100k/yr in the oilfields, or be a millionaire tech founder.
@@ldl1477 The suggestion that MD was making is that college doesn't pay off. And that is not true. What is equally true is that college isn't for everyone. But those two statements are not synonymous
Was constantly made fun of by my old high school friends for doing political science in college but when you’re really good at something and just as passionate you have to take the risk.
I wish a video like this existed when I graduated high school. In 2008 even with the economy collapsing college was still viewed as the end all be all. Trade school was rarely mentioned and in the few instances where it was talked about it was an unsexy topic.
Trade school is not that good either. I graduated in 2008 as a mechanic. Do you know how many jobless mechanics were out there and many hated their jobs. Our part store guy used to be a mechanic and he was glad he wasn't anymore. Trade jobs are crap too. The worst is being a mechanic imo. Electrician or HVAC probably the best if you have your own business. I worked as a temporary mechanic in a landscape company and the guy said what he's doing has nothing to do with the trade he studied. The studen loan and cost of education is the problem here. Life doesn't go as planned and yet they want kids to pay for education and pay that off even if they found a different way to pay the bills. In Australia you only pay fraction of your income for student loan IF you found a decent job and make above a certain amount. Here doesn't matter how much you make. Your ass better get ready to pay off the loan with high interest rate.
But what is causing MGTOW? There has always been bachelor men throughout history although it was always a small amount. What should worry and delight us all is that MGTOW has grown to be MASSIVE, and will only grow further as a response from men who have nothing left to lose. As a MGTOW myself, I personally see it as a response to feminism and wokeness that has been undermining men (especially white men). Men are fighting for their own self preservation. I have no doubt that if conditions were better, maybe like the 1950s, most MGTOW men would return to the plantation, but really back then the plantation was more worth being on because conditions were better for the average man so average men held more weight and power in those times both economically and culturally.
I followed my passion. I'm a musicians for a living, along with performing one man shows, stand up comedy, acting, and writing (3 books published). I didn't start out very good at what I was passionate about. But I was so passionate I pushed myself to become good.
My parents gaslit me into thinking college was the only way to have a good life. My actual interests were pushed away, and I believed if I just made it to college everything would go my way. But it didn’t, and as soon as I got there I had a mental breakdown because I realized I was only living my life for my parent’s desires and hated what I was doing. It wasn’t entirely their fault, they grew up in a world were a summer job could pay for a year of college, now it’s a family investment that if you fail you’re out tens of thousands of dollars. Living under that stress for something I didn’t choose broke me, and I haven’t recovered since.
I wouldn't be too hard on your folks. Here's a little humanizing perspective that might be a bit enlightening. Back in the day until maybe the 90s, maybe even the 00s until the great recession, literally everybody believed that college was the greatest pathway to success. To some extent way back when, a legitimate argument could be made for that because universities weren't basically handing them out like candy. They had high academic standards, you got a well-rounded liberal arts education, and you were actually taught how to do stuff. A lot of people who did go to college did actually become very successful, so it's not like the idea was baseless that college equals success, however, it wasn't as simple as that. Now that every other person goes to college, now that emtry standards have dropped and ceased to be meritocracy in a lot of ways, now that they bloated the administrations and amenities and jacked up prices because of the free momey machine to the universities that is the federal student loans system, that's become less and less so. Your parents almost certainly weren't trying to gaslight you. Gaslighting requires intention. They shouldn't have tried to assert such a stranglehold on your life and force you to go down a particular predetermined path they chose for you (that's a whole other issue), but it almost certainly game from a place of good intentions. They just drew their assumptions due to incomplete information and likely assuming things are more or less still the way they were when they went to college because they're normies who don't actively pay attention to cultural shifts and trends. You don't have to forget, but you should at least try to understand and forgive. The interesting thing about being a young adult is that you start to understand your parents as actual human beings, good side and bad alike. Assuming your parents weren't willfully terrible ti you (in spite of varying degrees of negligence dusplayed by a lot of parents, they do generally care for the wellbeing of their kids, want what's best for them, and don't actively try to harm them), hopefully that leads you to greater empathy and grace for their honest mistakes.
@@Tyler_W Most of what you said is true, heck, it's true that for the "Upper Middle Class" esp if you are a member of a protected class or sex , then yes, College still can do something for you. In fact, so many states and Government positions are closed off to those without (usually) a 4 year college degree. This is partly because of greed: keeping certain professions closed to all but those who can afford a 4 year degree helps keep salaries up and supply sufficiently low. But it's also based on something most people don't know. You see, back in the 1950's and through at least part of the 60's (I'm not sure of the exact date, just the timeframe in general cuz its been years since I read about this) IQ tests were often used as part of the hiring process. Well, IQ test were outlawed by, I believe one of the Civil Rights acts (or maybe it was a court case somewhere, like I said its been years), and so a college degree started to be used as a proxy. Remember this was the timeframe of the mass expansion of college attendence due to the GI bill and the great size of the "Boomer" generation. Suddenly, college graduates became far more common.And yes, this was well before they started handing out degrees like candy via easier courses and grade inflation, so a college education meant something.
It worked for them and they felt it will work for you. The future generations of China and India will also feel the same. As of now the college degree still works. I guess this is the cycle a developed and wealthy nation goes through. The germans and few europeans knew this as they come from old money societies.
To be fair, this is not just American problem. I'm from Eastern Europe and was pushed to go to University by my parents and grandparents, because they saw it as the only way to success. Now I don't even work at job that is related to my degree in any way.
I agree with the "not chasing your passion" sentiment for sure, but for a different reason: No one really knows what they want. We think we do, but 'wants' are nebulous and change over time. So, if you try to plan your life based on your _wants_ rather than what you can realistically assess to be your strengths, the likelihood of sputtering are much higher. And I don't think that's necessarily anyone's "fault," it is just a side-effect of a free and open society.
I disagree with the getting onto education and training. It is more than fine to wait until you are 30 if you think your 20s are just not the time for it. What you don't want to do is leave high school, pick a subject that you have no idea where it will lead and then pull out after the first year. You are better off waiting until you are more mature and have a decent idea of what you will get out of your education and what to expect from you future employment. But if you are a good study, sure go to university straight out of school, it's a great headstart if it works. But the average 20-24 year old male isn't exactly made for sitting around studying.
Honestly I disagree. It’s much harder to find time to fit college in your life later in age. Especially if your already working and paying a mortgage and other bills. On top of it the price of college is not worth the value it actually gives you anymore. If I could get a full degree for the same price I got my commercial drivers license($5000) I would 100% sign up tomorrow. But I’m gunna make way more as a truck driver right now than your typical college graduate paying 5 figures for their credentials in liberal arts.
@@weignerleigner3037 - I am not buying the college value proposition argument. It is still true that a college education will earn you a median $900K more over a lifetime. Many professions require at least a bachelors degree. Certainly it isn't black and white and some degrees have more value than others. There is nothing wrong with not going to college. It isn't the right choice for everybody for a number of reasons. There is a wide selection of high earning professions that do require a skillset but don't require a college degree. At a societal level, god knows we need people of all skillsets, our country depends on it. However, to broadly assert that the value of a college education isn't worth the expense is simply inaccurate and I find is often used as an excuse. I should add that while college is expensive, the costs can be mitigated. My oldest daughter is in college right now, working on two degrees. She is at a state university where the annual cost is estimated to be $22K to $25K per year. Her actual cost is far less because more than half of that is housing related and she doesn't live on campus. Her tuition/books/fees is about $10K per year. She has been paying off as much as she can along the way. Her total expense will be roughly $40K, less than today's average price of a new car, and she'll have about half of it paid off by the time she graduates. Over the last 10 years my wife has earned a second degree and a masters degree, her employer paid for roughly half of it. My youngest daughter is considering going to community college for her first two years to minimize expenses and get her basics out of the way before transferring to complete her degree. If you want a post-secondary education, you can make it work.
@@johnmininger7472 your absolutely right. I shouldn’t have have been so general in my comment. Some degrees are certainly highly valuable. If you become a doctor or lawyer or almost anything in stem fields you will greatly increase your chances of making a lot of money. But it’s important to understand the markets and industries in which you are going to be working in. There are unfortunately so many cases of people spending incredible amounts of money for degrees that will only earn them $40-$60,000 a year. Or will get a degree but not even work or get a job in what they went to school for. Like you said it isn’t black and white. If the cost came down which I think it will in the coming years I would probably try and get a degree. But for a lot of people out here including myself we are priced out of educational opportunities.
I love how long the schooling system has been tunneling people into the direction of believing college is the only route after high school to success. Somehow men are failing? Ever considered that the trades are making a comeback? I've done both and I can attest to which one has more advantages
Back in the old days, you can apply to any job even when you don't have college degree Nowadays college degree is mainly prioritized so they can get any job they want
@@veiserexab1428 Exactly, all it proves is that you spent your prime years in a class room spending ridiculous amounts of money you don't have on a piece of paper that proves you did so
In my day we got BOTH. When I was in junior high at my school we had half a year where we learned shop, woodworking, metalworking, electricity, then in the second half we learned how to sew, how to cook, how to paint and do art. In Canada university used to be free to virtually everybody. Most of my peers who are blue collar all have degrees in something or other. Education is like travel, its its own reward and impossible to put into words. In the US htey don't WANT you educated, in Canada its now the same. PS, trades are no longer the path to economic success, welders are a dime a dozen here and most work low pay processing jobs because there is nothing else. The fact is NOTHING guarantees much about financial success, its become a crapshoot. In IT there are jobs that we never even dreamt of. This is NOT unique to men, this is the whole population. I also had both and can attest that both are EQUALLY advantageious. Learning to do shit is certainly valuable, learning to think about shit is equally so. And certainly no trade school goes that far.
I worked in adult education in a California prison for 25 years. What Scott says about parenting, I would say is equally true about all forms of appropriate authority, in general. Young men need strong role models, discipline, rewards and punishment. What is happening is what George Carlin described as "the pussification of the American male." If we don't change this trend, we are doomed.
@@pete5691 - I can't generalize to all boys or all girls, but my son was not served well by the school he attended. His hands-on style clashed with book-based rote theorizing. Also, the Covid shutdowns/remote learning was horrible for him. My daughter is a much better student, more capable of sitting and focusing on the lesson at hand.
Having a decent degree won't even help young males. Women are becoming the majority in many different fields especially those requiring a degree from a university or college. Men are better off apprenticing in a trade. The trade professions are better suited for a male's learning capabilities anyway. I learned more where there is 60 + percent hands on training to book learning. I excel at hands on instruction over classroom instruction.
Young men *are* in trouble today. One reason not discussed is how most of them are biologically wired. Most male instincts, what they typically focus on, what triggers them, what they really want... doesn't mesh well with modern society. And by "what they really want", I mean for example why are so many of them playing golf together (4-some almost always all men), or standing in a creek fishing for 6 hours by themselves, hunting game (most don't bring the wife along), gaming too much, poker playing, gambling, sports on TV... those sorts of things. They are wired for "get away" activities, and my point is that the biological forces behind that is something that our modern society is not interested or unable to harness.
Tips to success 1. be your own cheerleader 2. don't get distracted, focus on the important things 3. you define what success is for you 4. you can't be good at everything so follow your passions 5. people will try to make you feel a certain type of way
The problem in america is high schools are mostly day care centers that are slowly being dumbed down. Everyone should be able to leave highschool reading/writing at grade 12 level. Most schools in the US cant even achieve that. This leaves college with the job of educating kids that wasted their early years. Asians do well because their parents are invested in ensuring their kids truly learn. Without inherited wealth they know this is the only way into the middle class and beyond.
Dont forget the Real Dumming down with the progressives pushing for schools to change there Grading system to make sure minorities pass high school because it was seen as raciest previously. Instead of the Real reasons.
I do agree about it being the kids. In some countries, if you are a smart kid, you are grouped together with other smart kids to keep you motivated. But in America, they put everyone together, in the name of diversity and inclusion. The result is, the smart kids get dumbed down along with the lazy kids who misbehave.
There is coming a time when "the real success" means learning the skills of the land. Learning how to build a shelter, how to make a fire, and how to purify water for drinking. Call me crazy but, a person who knows how to live off of "nature" has real durability!
When the system shows itself to be faulty or inadequate two types of people will emerge - those who fight to maintain & preserve the status quo - those who are the walking dichotomy of the ideal
Trades are so underrated. When my bf was looking at careers back in the 1990s he looked in the newspaper( how you did it back then) and focused on jobs that were plentiful and noticed machinists had a lot of listings so he got a certificate and has been doing it ever since. Fast forward to now and he’s pulling six figures, owns his home outright, no mortgage, has multiple trucks and toys, no loans. Everything paid, retirement set! So much smarter than floundering in college, getting a useless degree for $$$ just to say you did. I’m aware not all degrees are useless. They are necessary for some but not EVERYONE. There is this mentality that if you don’t have at least a 4 yr degree you’re defective but that’s not true and I want this mentality to stop. I have witnessed women dismissing guys with no college degree and that is so stupid.
I spent 39 years in my trade. I retired at 55. I never went to college. Each year the company would bring 4 or 5 college men into the plant. Before they would actually be hired they were required to spend 4 weeks in each department. I was the last step in that process. At the end the president would always come and ask me 1 question. It was always the same. Is he going to make it here? 7 out of 10 my answer would be no. Those men where never hired. Hiring someone and then having to fire that person costs alot of money. I was close with the head of HR. One time she told me that 65% of all applicants failed there drug test. Our company had random drug testing for all employees. I didn't matter what position you held. I was shocked at that number.
I quit school at 16. Went into a trade. Was at the top of my field at 55 when I retired. Part of the reason I retired early was because of the number of young people wanting a job but simply didn't want to work. I can't tell you how many I fired. Between cell phones and not showing up for work was the biggest reasons. Work never seemed to be a priority. Asking them to work overtime was out of the question. I was done babysitting.
college education in high schools has been pushed for decades while the trades, predominantly male, have been mostly eliminated. The vocational trades are where men prosper.
I was raised to be a "shop rat", which is someone with a good paying union job in an automobile factory. Those opportunities disappeared by the time I graduated high school in 1978. I floundered with no plan or direction for years. I was lucky enough to get a decent paying job, bought a house and got married, but still was not focused on developing myself, or planning for life. I wound up unemployed due to the business where I worked being sold, but got another job that was more work for less pay, but felt that at least I was working. I finally went back to school and got some education that more than doubled my income. Life's been OK since, however, when I look at my classmates who had direction and drive, I realize how much better off I could be now if I had been focused on career and actually planned for the future like they did. I do feel for young men today who don't have some of the opportunities that folks my age had.
First time I watch the news with this gentleman on CNN makes so much sense honest we need more gentleman like this on the news to speak I applaud him thank you Scott Galloway
I loved what Scott said near the end. “Pursue something you’re good at” and his comment about exploring apprenticeships/trades. It breaks my heart seeing people “following their dreams” and preferring a BA instead of going to college. (As society says that’s where people aren’t smart enough go.) I talk to hundreds of business owners all the time and there is such a vacuum in trades where basically anybody interested and willing can start their career with a great wage… Not so for a Medieval History degree. (Although that is a fascinating field as well, just not as practical.)
Well that's the advice we were all given. Aspire to something more be better then the trades. All those adults said that to me. Teachers, parents, aunts and uncles community.
"Men are depressed and retreating from society" Psychologists: We're gonna call it Failure to Launch - because nothing gets men out of their comfort zone like a euphemism for erectile dysfunction
I remember when they were calling gen x garbage as the jobs left the country and we couldn't get a job with a living wage. Now I am just watching it burn.
@@invisibletosociety8338 good you don't need much in life anyway. The amenities and so on. You can lead a frugal life with those few amenities that you need practically for little to no money.
@@veiserexab1428 miss out on what? getting cucked again? a job I hate? an overpriced house? being a parent to a shitty kid? there's nothing being missed. NOTHING
We both went to "Land Grant" colleges back in the 1960's when both of us making a dollar an hour was enough to get by and have a little car and a small aparatment as well. Today; college and/or university education is something that is and would be out of our financial reach. Like Professor Galloway says; we've lost the script on advanced education. Furthermore; the overall worth of a degree from an expensive name school is significantly attenuated subsequent to five years in the career marketplace --- nobody cares that you graduated from Harvard when you're thirty-six years old and your Ivy league experience is more than a decade away and your experience looks like a worn-out school tie. Our suggestion to the grandkids: get a job where they will pay for your advanced education -- it just is NOT WORTH spending your parents' money.
My sense is that the necessary thing that has been missing for men is initiation. True spiritual initiation. Going through those rites of passage and the dark nights of the soul to truly know who you are and what you're here to do. Doing what I was good at was not enough for me. I needed more.
Forget patriarchy, we live in a female oriented society, and have been for a few decades now. It starts from the early school experience. The vast majority of teachers are women. The curriculum is based on rote learning and verbal exposition, where everyone goes at the same rate. Girls naturally do better with this stuff.( Boys do better by experiencing things, visual learning, going at thier own rate. questioning things). So boys, who don't take to this learning naturally, are put on a disciplinary path, drugged up on Ritalin etc. Then there is the fact that boys also take longer to mature than the girls they are competing against directly. AND they are distracted by these same girls. Its a perfect storm of an anti male environment. Then when they leave high school, girls have more financial solutions. More likely to be supported by parents. Much more likely to get office work which doesn't leave them physically tired, or jobs like modeling which have little effort to huge reward ratio. Much more likely to get a financially supportive partner (coff coff sugar daddy). Then there's the somewhat combined world between modeling and relationships: the skin trade(stripping, camming, escorting. MILLIONS of young women participate in that world). Meanwhile men have the army and sports ( huge risk little reward, huge risk and lottery odds of huge reward) and manual labour. These same men are forced to pay for dates, have bachelor pads, cars etc just have a little female companionship. Men do much better in advanced degree programs, because that's when their brains have finally matured. And they do it at their own pace. And by experiencing. Then they do progressively better, much better, than women over the ensuing years of their careers. Whereas a very large fraction of women simply quit when they realize they have no true interest or native capability in their field...this after taking up those seats that could have gone to men. They tend to do this especially after snagging a higher earning man, ironically while preventing other men from becoming high earning. This is due to biology, as much as women like to claim otherwise. But good luck to men reaching that level due to lower GPAs from high school and college, and having to hustle for school fees, all the time facing condemnation for being male, while girls get to free coding camp, gender specific scholarships, women's studies and get validation all day everyday. How did things get this way, which will get to Japanese and Chinese crisis proportions and beyond( because we ain't as docile as them)? Its because the squeaky wheel gets the oil. Women are squeaky creatures as opposed to more stoic men. Men are inclined to make women more comfortable. Throughout history and prehistory men were ALLOWED to take the reigns, because the benefits of doing so were immediate and obvious. Men tamed nature, got the meat and protected women from rape by foreign invaders. Since industrialization there has been an obfuscation of these benefits, as they have become so indirect, even tho they are no less true. So women have been clamoring to take the reigns since. But the reigns to where? You mention bullying in high school. Male bullying is based on physical domination, with the aim of female attention. Female bullying is based on social hierarchies and social domination, for thier own comfortability and enjoyment. High school is a training ground for them in govt and political issues, with the aim of bending all of society to their every whim and fancy.
@@RoddyPipersCorneas in pure intelligence yes same age boys and girls are similar, boys having a wider bell curve spread but on average slightly smarter. But all the research I've seen shows most of the other factors are well behind for a few years: attention span, impulse control, future planning, all of which together outbalance pure intelligence
Before prejudging people with your categorizations (for your personal benefit) give them jobs or money. With the whole world economy rendered insufficient for most in the last business cycle, these old schema are acquireable much faster than an organization will admit. The middle game IS the market. Some emerge beyond through extreme effort, usually.
America has plenty of jobs for blue-collar positions with apprentice level of education. America currently has a truck driver labor shortage. Young men don't want these jobs, yet they expect above-minimum wage. The economy can't provide the magic jobs American youth want.
I have a college degree, and I am a truck driver. I am currently earning far more than if I had persued a career in my field of study. College degrees have become a symbol of how conformity has been monetized. The old meme about the waitress with a PHD is becoming a reality.
Does he realize there are people out here struggling to learn about life the same way he had to learn everything he understands for him to talk like he is a expert on how to live a great life?
Find something you’re good at yes, but almost every industry is highly competitive rn. I can’t think of a corporate field or a stem field that’s not competitive right now. I’d also say to respond quickly to new trends and create as much as you can (TH-cam,etc.)
I'm a High school teacher and I began to notice and pay attention to this trend about 5 or 6 years ago. I realized the valedictorians were usually always girls, the top kids in the class were/are usually girls, the club leaders and presidents were girls. It is definitely noticeable in schools. My school has tried to implement some programs to help freshmen boys, but the quality of these classes depends on the quality of the teacher. This should be tackled nation-wide and early on. High school is a bit late, but better than nothing.
The schools are a big reason for the today's problems. They solely pushed feminism ideas, focused on females for decades, then on lgbt and foreigners and recently on gender bs at a young age. All this time neglecting the male who sits back and sees women get child custody, dad's become money slaves to the ex, companies hiring skews to females, universities skew to female and top it off female hypergamy so 50% of the males are screwed and with wage equality, they cannot make more than so no wife and no kids in their future, easier to live on some gov aid and go fishing and play games 1/2 the day. Majority of teachers are female and I am willing to bet their bias is being pushed even if subconsciously. FBI data shows single mom are the worst for raising children but glad at least you realize something is up and trying to do something though I wonder if the teachers understand the root causes.
It started when society started medicating boys instead of letting them have ruff and tumble play. This built confidence and team work. Also, when you are told and society reinforces you are the cause of all the ills of the world depression and self hatred happen.
I agree trying to find something you are reasonably good at is good advice. You don't want to waste too much time chasing impossible dreams that don't pay. Obviously if you have a lot of talent at something it may be worth giving it a go. University intake in American universities might be 60% female, but what are they studying? Is it useful? If you get a degree in, say, philosophy how exactly does it help? Often getting a degree only allows you to get recruited by a company that has a graduate program and only then do you start learning something useful. I get the impression women want to do office work or brain work. Manual jobs that women do are usually poorly paid. A female school leaver may imagine herself as a lawyer. She probably does not imagine herself as a roofer.
There are so many reasons dumbing down on education, mandatory passing classes for all even if they fail to qualify and disrespecting teachers in classes.
Public education rewards short term memory, conformity, and compliance. All of these are useful but none are the end-all, be-all. Success in school does not always correlate to real-world achievement. Being a well paid cog in the machine is not "success" in the long term.
Good point about the foreign students being the "cash cow" for universities. Yes, it brings diversity but it also has unintended consequences, like importing competition for admission as well as allowing universities to raise tuitions much faster than inflation.
Also, are we training students here in America or some other countries students, so that they can attain a greater competitive advantage over us like China and India?
@@RoddyPipersCorneas As a white man, I find that amusing. That assumes a finite sum of places. Universities have been expanding as fast as they can, as it's part of the capitalist move to maximize income. American universities are notorious for having lax entry standards and letting underqualified students flounder and borrow money for however long it takes for them to realize they weren't cut out for university. Other countries I have lived in have all weeded out the wheat from the schaff beforehand, but America's "give everyone a chance" model means big profits. They will take tuition from anyone of any color.
@@masterchinese28 “As a white man, I find that amusing. That assumes a finite sum of places.” Well, as another White man I find it amusing that you claim to be a White man with the name “masterchinese”. It’s also amusing that you think there are an infinite “sum of places”. Factually speaking, there are a FINITE number of spots each University has and a FINITE number of Universities. Amazing you have to be told that. Factually speaking, White males are illegally and immorally discriminated against through race & sex quotas and other affirmative action policies, “diversity”, etc. etc. policies. These illegal actions go well beyond admissions or the university. And White females and people who are not White receive the complete opposite treatment, while perpetually claiming the reverse of course.
Just wanted to add that being at the top of an in-demand field doesn't need to take you away from the things you love, or are passionate about (fashion, the arts, etc.). It can bring you closer to these things, all the while skipping the competitive, toxic and unrewarding social scenes.
I see alot of people talking about the trades. I just want to throw out that I'm currently 27, I went to a trade school and got an associates in automotive repair. I was super passionate about cars, and was looking forward to a career as a technician, but after 3 years I discovered I didn't really want to do it anymore. Sacrificing my body to fix peoples cars seems like a waste, the pay isn't great, especially compared to other trades like plumbers electricians and welders, and I felt like I could genuinely provide more service than that. The trades are okay for alot of people, but I'm getting a bit irritated at how many people are pushing the trades these days (Especially from motherfuckers who haven't worked in the trades..) I understand why, I really do, but the bottom line is the trades aren't really satisfying work for everyone, it destroys your body, and is often considerably more dangerous than other jobs. Its noble to fix things, and its needed, but at the same time I think it's completely understandable when people don't want to do it. Why on Earth would I take on that much risk for 54k a year when I could get another type of job? I think alot of the salaries that get boasted around the trades are often people who have multiple decades in the field, and are often unionized. Additionally, I really need something creative. I genuinely believe if I just stuck it out with automotive, or just stayed at another blue collar job, I would end up killing myself, and I really do not mean that lightly. The Japanese, as usual, got it right: Ikigai is the intersection of what you love, what you're good at, what the world needs, and what you can be paid for. I think checking those 4 boxes is the key to not only a satisfactory career, but a life worth living. I think just choosing something you're good at, is falling way short of your potential happiness. Like, what if I'm really good at being a cashier at Walmart? What if I'm really good at something that makes me depressed? I don't think you will just magically find satisfaction in something you're good at. However, there is a said satisfaction that comes with being good at something, and it can be almost anything really. Learning a practical skill is really important. For what its worth im going to school for multimedia design, alot of demand for it with the web, and this youtube channel is also something I want to grow. either way, I'm going to school for free thanks to financial aid and scholarships. My hopes are to break into entrepreneurship and honestly, follow the things I really want to do. I might go broke or die trying, but I kind of don't care. I've had 7 or so different jobs, and I can't say any of them brought me a whole lot except experience. The experience is really important and I'm very prideful about all I've done. I've been a dishwasher, cook, fork lift operator, valet, and a mechanic at a dealership and two independents. I've picked up a ton of skills, both hard and soft. Frankly just being good at something isn't super meaningful without a few other elements in my opinion. I do agree men are in a crisis for the most part. As a 27 year old, I think I can say I have looked at myself as an evil white man many times. I come from a decently privileged family as an only child, but I haven't fucking oppressed anybody.. Either way, Im 27, still live in mommys basement, and hate that. All I do is try to make money and learn. I'm very frustrated to say the least. I feel a very weird mix of being trapped, but also setting myself up for success by going to college and killing it. I'm just very weary of the job market (I pretty much assume I won't be getting a job at all, and sometimes I feel like freelancing or entrepreneurship would have a higher likelihood of making a living. anyways, there's alot more I can spill. Generally, I don't think I disagree with anything this guy says. I think its much easier to dole out the advice of "just do something you're good at" than living it. Maybe I'm also a bit narcissistic to insist I can do better than just getting a job Im good at and being "happy"
Look, until people are going to stop bitching about it and actually start taking steps to help us out in ways that actually matter, I don't want to hear about it.
Young men are even worse off now than they were when this come out nearly a year ago. Mr. Galloway mentions some viable reasons, but oddly avoids the MAIN ones. 1. LACK OF A FATHER IN THE HOME - Girls are born with inherent value and purpose. Boys are not. They have to find their own. A father teaches a young man to discipline his impulses and find his purpose. A father teaches a son what RESPECT is. A father shields his children from fear. A child growing up with fear will inevitably learn to hate. Mr. Galloway decries child poverty but apparently doesn't notice that the vast majority of children living in poverty live in one parent homes. Giving these homes more money simply enables their mother's lifestyle further. 2. FEMMINISM - Men are more than the enemy. Worse than that. They are just unnecessary. A traditional purpose for a man is to create a family and then build a temple for that family to live in. Now young girls are taught that they don't need men. Men have gotten the message. This helps leave men directionless and adrift, which can lead to hopelessness and despair. 3. LOSS OF GOD - Men need something to believe in. They need meaning. With no father, no wife, and no God to turn to, you still wonder why young men are in trouble?
So people are religious because they're weak and can't handle the reality that life is a rigged game and inherently unfair for everyone? Sounds like a you problem to me.
Women who go for men with fancy qualifications must remember some careers will be redundant by 2030. Getting along with your partner is more important.
"Well, that's the macro..." Not to bash the host, but therein lies the problem. From self-help books and lectures on "personal responsibility", we always look to the individual to solve what are really societal problems. And these are societal issues that Professor Galloway aptly brings up and addresses.
To often we are afraid to take responsibility for our choices, and blame external circumstances outside of our control. That is a losing strategy. Be responsible for everything in your life. The real poverty in our country is a poverty of both vision, and purpose.
We aren't responsible for our upcoming, and that is very impressionable on how we navigate life. Especially when you go from a crappy upbringing to being shoved out into the world with little to no understanding on how to navigate it. You end up constantly struggling. You could say it's up to the individual to act accordingly, but it isn't that simple
@@chrism8180 a crappy upbringing can be overcome. It has been overcome coutless times. Laying blame at the feet of our parents will never lead to success, only bitterness and resentment. Im not saying circumstances dont effect where we start in life, certainly they do. But if we dont believe and act as if we have the power to better ourselves and our future, we never will. Best
@@nocigar7730 systemic poison kills from the inside. We are destined to repeat the problems of the past because the platform is still the same. The school system is the same the pop culture is the same, nothing has changed. I don't want to be "successful" within the parameters that society calls success. I have evaluated this life to be disgusting and sickening, and I am done with it
@@chrism8180We cant control what happens to us, but we 100% choose how we respond. Seems like your focused on all the things you cant control. Its a waste of time. Focus on what you can change and improve with in yourself and life wont seem so disgusting. If you dont believe in your ability to change your life for the better, your a dead man walkin. Sounds like youve been through some shit and lost hope. I hope that changes bro, you are loved.
It’s cool that women still expect men to pay to be worthy of their love but then are the same ones that take their opportunities in the workforce. The majority of men are being forced out of their own county
feminist are all about 50/50. If you refuse to pay full..... you are deluded just like a feminist. As a man you need to provide FULL and shouldn't go against that. Online digital marketing is a great way for you to become successful just off some online courses with the right mentors that do it themselves. Easy 20k a month if you spend 2-3 years putting your life to it.
Mykilahsen Williams Dorsey for 1 måned siden Life is hard for young white men. Here's the thing, white men are now facing what minorities have had to deal with FOREVER. Listening to highly educated white men take about this problem especially from a conservative point of view is just hard to hear in some ways because they just didn't speak up when it was folks that didn't look like them . Edit: Just find a long ugly women. Ugly old women want love too.
Young men are not in trouble if they realize that they don't have to listen to what folly things society dictates them to do. In other words, expectations are just expectations. Nothing more and nothing less. The worst that can happen is that the other gender may not be interested in men anymore. That's a good thing. Trade schools and certain (!) college careers are great for men. I see a bright future for young men.
...good presentation with lots of good points. The professor is far too critical of social media and forgets that celebrity culture and its influence on young people is far worse...
Even with a degree young men and women are done. Starting salaries are at a all time low 50k avg but the degree costs 125k and a average home is 300k. With all this inflation is not just women but men the whole U.S. systems is at peril here. This could collapse the economy and colleges. Thinking about going into academia think again.
Young men are not in problem. Society is, at this stage, venerable and in problem. Go ahead and say it - we had no idea what consequences we'll get when we made a choice to provide for the weak, without asking anything in return. FeminiSSm and 'wokeness' to any and all forms of deviant and abnormal behaviours got us to where we are now. Society is reaping what it sew. And young men are adapting to survive.
So while I appreciate this being put out there Scott Galloway is essentially saying you people are screwed and I am doing just fine although when I was younger we were in the same position. Thanks Scott. I am from Kenilworth, IL. I’m doing just fine
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I like scott, but hes just revealing the rot of our society. How our NATIVE young males are simply falling out. None of this will change because it IS done on purpose.
When I was in high school there were some German foreign exchange students and they told us that by their senior year, from exam results, schools determine if you go to a university or trade school. In Germany you are just as respected if you build or maintain jet engines than design them.
Glad to hear that. Us mechanic types are downright disrespected by everyone else outside the trades or the professional class.
@@jakeslist569 My Dad was a machinist. He had a relatvely decent salary, not fair but ok. His company did not enforce health protections soon enough so died of lung cancer. Good worker protections are essential for tradespeople.
This is roughly true, and two related benefits are a) when you hire someone to repair the plumbing in your home or replace your roof, the work generally gets done really well, to high standards, and lasts a long time without issue, not some cheap hack job that looks terrible and falls apart in no time, and b) as others have mentioned, people in the trades get more respect, take more pride in their work, presumably earn a better and more livable wage, and can be maintained as and feel they are important members of and contributors to society. Our "fast and cheap" culture in the U.S. has priorities all wrong.
Germany prescribes trade school most of the time, in the US college is pushed on high school kids.
I worked in Vienna - Austria as an engineer and I was more respected and better paid than my boss - manager unlike in my stupid country where managers are kings and workers are worthless.
very 1st day on campus was lectured on being a Man is terrible, lectured on safe spaces, and not to "reinforce the patriarchy" this is 1st night on campus.
I drove back home and got my money back and I started studying for IT certs
from Comptia and Cisco. 4 years later of actually working in IT, im now a Network Engineer and chillin debt free.
white males, in particular, are the target of their racist, misandrist hate & hostility. It is the arrogant, self-righteous hypocrisy of these bigoted fascists that is most frustrating. And that ppl just let them get away with it, even when it is SO damn obvious. They have normalized the demonization, denigration, & emasculation of (straight) white males through a systematic socially promoted campaign of hate & hostility with (straight) white males as the object of their intense animosity. And this is while everyone else - white females & minorities - get the complete OPPOSITE treatment, in every way in every sphere of society, at this point. And leftist white females are leading this ugly, divisive, hateful crusade. What is truly aggravating, tho, is the way white females paint themselves as some type of purely blameless & virtuous victims of their fantasy patriarchy - while in reality it is white females (especially white females of the millennial generation) & asians who are doing the best on almost every if not every metric, not to mention all the advantages, benefits, support, & adoration they get for being female (particularly white female). I’m not even attracted to white females anymore, so many of them are such narcissistic, manipulative, arrogant hypocrites, even if one appears to be decent you risk not finding out till you’ve lost so much. I’m in grad school right now, so I’m drowning in this venom.
YOU LITERALLY JUST OUTLINED THE PATH I DECIDED TO GO ON FOR THE PAST 2 YEARS.
I'm working on my Cisco CCNA and my test is scheduled for this summer, fingers crossed, I love how IT has become a saving grace for thousands of men, and it will only get better with the Cloud & other developments xD
@@___Truth___ @Ronsou, How difficult is it to break into IT/Cyber Security in our current employment market? I'm thinking of getting the CompTIA NET+ and SEC+ certification and I'm a university graduate from a 10 top public university lol.
@@AOMVideoProductions And the salaries are being slashed to the point it is better to do helpdesk or remote service for some companies and deal with less stress.
So, you're mad because you're told not to reinforce the patriarchy? Are you OK?
Young males have been lied to. There's been an attack on the male figure for a reason.
What reason? And the attack is on White males, in particular, from what I’ve learned/researched.
This is why I fell in ultimate anger and hate
@@Jaapst lots of men are there.
Or the fact the some men are fatherless
Wah wah
I signed up to do my masters in teaching. First class, the professor talked about feminist theory and entitlement. I walked out of that class, went to the admin office, dropped out and asked for my money back. Then applied for trade school. The thing about university is that you can go at any age.
Bruh.
You should have pulled the fire alarm on the way out.
If they're teaching that misandry to trainee teachers, what chance do boys have? No wonder society is going down the tubes.
@@alisdairmclean8605 white males, in particular, are the target of their racist, misandrist hate & hostility. It is the arrogant, self-righteous hypocrisy of these bigoted fascists that is most frustrating. And that ppl just let them get away with it, even when it is SO damn obvious. They have normalized the demonization, denigration, & emasculation of (straight) white males through a systematic socially promoted campaign of hate & hostility with (straight) white males as the object of their intense animosity. And this is while everyone else - white females & minorities - get the complete OPPOSITE treatment, in every way in every sphere of society, at this point. And leftist white females are leading this ugly, divisive, hateful crusade. What is truly aggravating, tho, is the way white females paint themselves as some type of purely blameless & virtuous victims of their fantasy patriarchy - while in reality it is white females (especially white females of the millennial generation) & asians who are doing the best on almost every if not every metric, not to mention all the advantages, benefits, support, & adoration they get for being female (particularly white female). I’m not even attracted to white females anymore, so many of them are such narcissistic, manipulative, arrogant hypocrites, even if one appears to be decent you risk not finding out till you’ve lost so much. I’m in grad school right now, so I’m drowning in this venom.
Women are so oppressed three women graduate college for every two men, and it's getting worse. Soon two women are going to graduate for every man. Nobody ever oppressed me, like that.
He just admitted that they pretty much prey on rich students which is why they keep raising their tuition costs & basically get greedier with time.
in the usa it was federal government guaranteeing student loans... (thank you LBJ) basically with the government as backer universities did not need to fear unpaid tuition delinquent payments.
I don't remember going to school that requires big cash for tuition fees
The truth is government used to subsidies higher education but republicans cut that out to pay for tax breaks for the rich.
@@cosmeticscameo8277 lmao no the problem is federal government cut school budget and let states fund the schools and states cut the budget of the schools. The loan guarantee was meant to make up the difference of what the states didn't cover which is not much anymore. Go check on your state. I bet they cut education budget recently. Ever heard of starving the beast?
And the guarantee loan is for the banks not universities. You think universities give a shot about kids being able to afford education? Lmao last time I checked education was for the wealthy until government started offering public education. Schools can just bring rich kids from other countries to make money.
@@mehrshadvr4 wouldn't it be better just to go back to universities being for rich kids. i mean what's the point of beating around the bush anymore.
The problem is educated women won't date working class men. That's it. I man can get into the trade but if he doesn't hit big with his own business in the trades then he just becomes the working class men that society forgot decades ago.
'Educated' had a completely different meaning 30, 50 or 100 years ago. Modern education is a cult.
Maybe in the US? I think some comments mentioned before that in many European countries, trades have a pretty high standing in society traditionally - and also come with a clear path of education, maybe that's why - you're still "educated"/worked for something when you get a trade certificate
Most women want a faithful partner that won't abuse them, either physically or emotionally, and treats them as an equal human being. They don't care if they are "working class".
@@chihirostargazer6573 African American here. If that's the case, why are the drug dealers and bad boys getting most of the sex?
Sexual dimorphism, hypergamy and polygyny is not going away. I've been a good guy and a player and I can tell you many women love cheaters. It's exciting
@@colbalt95 Why do you have this idea that drug dealers and bad boys are having "all the sex"? They might be having sex with a certain type of women, but most emotionally stable women with healthy self esteem are not getting with these guys. Plenty of working class dudes, construction workers etc, are having sex too, and are probably more likely to be in a stable relationship...not just running around f**king damaged girls with emotional problems.
Scott Galloway has consistently been the man that is smart enough to know but not wise enough to understand. Young men do not have a problem, our systems have a problem and young men are just refusing to play the game.
seems like it.
I think he knows. He's talking to the left; and trying to get them to back off. He's gently telling them that society is collapsing. He's not trying to get them to totally change. He's trying to move the Overton window.
I don't know if young men are refusing to play the game so much as their being shut out of the game. He's espousing this blue pill mentality stuff though. This idea you have to be financially successful so you can have a wife and kids and be happy is as wrong-headed as these pua guys espousing the idea that you need to be successful with women to be considered "a real man"
@@happyjourneygateway so if you're not financially set for yourself, how will life be with kids? Seriously? Scraping by sucks. People in general need to do better...both men and women. Also, I'm one to say if you can't afford to have kids, DON'T. Get a vasectomy because birth control and condoms don't always work. No, you don't need to be financially successful to have a wife and kids, but the poorhouse doesn't make an easy life for family. I've been there. There's nothing wrong with making sure you've got it right first. Both of my brothers bought homes and had good jobs previous to adding a wife and children. Neither of them went to college. One is a Contractor and works for the State and the other is a Union guy working docks in Alaska. That's smart!!!
@@eurasianthunder I was saying that being financially successful and having a wife and children is not a ticket or guarantee to happiness for you as a man your wife as a woman or your child as a person. I'm happy for you and your brothers and I hope you all feel valued in your positions.
The reality is as a young man
- create your own idea of success
- avoid the need to please your parents
- outgrow the need to have a romantic partner =
- competing for a bigger box
If you don't assess what you believe to be successful another man will.
Amen
preach
Yes. Outgrow the need to have a romantic partner if you don’t want to be a husband and a father. But if you do you must learn to be emotionally intelligent. Go to therapy and heal. Then you’ll attract a good partner. Or be alone for the rest of your life.
I'm worried about financial issues than finding a family tbh
@@magnolia2 I agree with this.
Outgrow the need to have a romantic partner if you don't want to be a wife and mother. But if you do you need to learn to be emotionally intelligent. Grow and learn to take care of yourself, judge people on their character and merits, and that your specious and pseudo-evolutionary "intuition" and "instinct" to be hypergamous and focus on the 3 sixes and quick-to-dismiss 'ick' and malignant-narcissistic Instagram obsession will, to be fair, not likely end up with you necessarily being alone for the rest of your life, but much more likely to leave you stuck without a meaningful relationship and a stable home life for the years of your life that really count.
Convincing young disillusioned men to return to society is like trying to convince abuse victims to return to their abuser
Mate that is so true. We out
I'm never going back
i'm definitely leaving ASAP and watching the whole damned thing burn right down.
@@shreksburgers same duck the west
Exactly. They constantly I’m worthless in every way and they don’t need me well I don’t need this shit either. Why would I want to go back?
I became an electrician. Single man with no kids. In shape hit the gym everyday. I own my own business. I own a small home several vehicles boat and a motorcycle. Take several vacations a year including scuba diving all over the world as I'm a certified scuba diver. Have gone heli skiing in backcountry of Colorado with my best friend. Working on pilots license.Have traveled the world seen and done some amazing things and oh ya zero debt! Everything including my home is mine with deed and titles in my hand. Fellas I know your hurting lost and lonely but relize you don't need a degree to be successful, no woman on earth can make you happy and relize that everyone has problems, struggles and fears. Get off social media. Most people are lying sacks of shit there not actually that interesting and truthfully are miserable and depressed.
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 thanks for comment.
THANK YOU +1
yup, after graduating from high school i had to get the ball rolling. Tough however, i grew up fatherless which explains why many of us young men seem weak and unwilling to take accountability
My sister given me an opportunity to have a job, so i had my two weeks of summer vacay and right in the swing of it started working. Through a year i was saving a lot, hanging out with friends, progressing my experience in the job, took my drivers test and passed after my second try, ups and downs i experienced. My ultimate goal was to get a dirt bike until recently what i wanted and i saved enough. I use to post on instagram a lot of the memes and my life experiences back in late middle school all through high school. I very rarely post now, as i got through the whole media currency of likes which is very damaging to our egos.
i have became very lazy on posting, but in life keeping occupied and really only use social media for looking at memes, watching some videos on yt, and chatting and keeping in touch with friends. im proud of the progression i did over a year ago great lessons and moments to be enjoyed.
@SkyKing kudos to you young man for staying focused.
@@eric6rock I wish I was young. I'm 35 and feel ancient sometimes..🤣
I don't think young men are in trouble... they're adapting and realizing that the status quo isn't that great.
We are not looking for status anymore
Status is a game where the only winner are women
Men dont want to play a rigged game anymore
College is crazy expensive for a job that is not guarenteed... there's a reason all these kids that come out of college live with their parents. They don't get the job and are drowning in debt. It's not worth the risk. Next add in that all it takes is an accusation to ruin your entire life even if you're found innocent... it's too late, you are labeled. Same bs with marriage. It is too dangerous to gamble with someones emotions. One bad day and you lose everything you worked for just because the court system favors women.
It's all rigged against men, and what do men do when they find a problem, they fix it. If that problem can't be fixed, it's broken, and we throw it out. After that we start to think that product is crap and we don't play that game anymore, we get something better or find something else that will meet our needs. That gd simple.
I just want to be allowed to see the doctor
You Hit The Nail On The Head. It's not race or parenting issue
it's the reality that the conformist rat - race was what our fathers acquiesce to doesn't mean we want to.
What are parents perceived as success was simply materialism, social status & being seen as successful
- " Why aren't men no longer chasing the status quo is the real title? "
@@gerardo9052 good comment 👍🏻😀
The concept of "happy wife = happy life" is proof that men are not motivated by oppressing women but by pleasing them. We live in an era where men are demonized and hope is being destroyed by a bleak outlook being pushed on the internet and in the media by bitter people. As a parent, I feel like I have to spend a lot of time combating the negative BS of the world, but it's tough because kids think their parents are out of touch and the cynics are the ones who have it right.
Keep your kids away from social media and tv as much as possible. Sports and martial arts for boys to encourage competitiveness and confidence. Plan for the future our ruling class has planned for them-they can expect to be effectively shut out of many jobs and universities.
Keep being a parent. Kids will be kids and are predisposed to disagree with everything a parent says. There will be a day when your kid will grow up and say “thanks pops I grew up to be a decent person and not an asshole due to how you raised me” your kid may be 25, 35, 45 etc.. Until that day comes but it will come.
That fact that the motto has to be taught shows that men don't prioritise women's happiness unless it benefits them
No bro
I don't have to worry about that because I chose not to have kids. 😜
This is not a crisis for men. It is a 'crisis' for society that depends wholly on men pulling the wagon whilst society sits in and puts the whip to the back of the men pulling the wagon. As a sovereign man, I need no relationship that will only diminish my financial health and pull time away from my more pleasant pursuits. I choose me, not a family.
👆This 💯🎯
Same here!! Cheers!!
You won’t be better for it.
@@WilliamsPinch That depends, if he met a perfect woman for him yeah it could really increase his quality of life, sure. Statistics say that's far from realistic.
Everyone has the right to pursue happiness but just remember when all your friends get married have a family and don't have time for you . And when you get old and they put you in a nursing home it won't be pretty for you.
I have worked in the medical field as a supervisor in the past and I only went to trade school for less than a year. There are many ways to stay ahead of the game. College is not the only path to success.
What training did you get and where? That’s awesome dude!
what did u go to trade school for (area of study)?
@@1MinuteFlipDoc I went in for network+ and web development certification. But you can learn both at home to be honest.
Planning on getting into the CAD/CAM trade myself this summer. Just turned 30 last October. Spent the last decade healing from a broken home brought on by a narcissistic mother. For the first time in my life, I can confidentially say I'm hopeful for the future.
Give me a reason to invest myself in a society that hates me.
I'll wait.
@bad token All we need to do in life is eat, shit and sleep. If anyone stops you from doing any of that you kill him. The rest is optional.
Because you have to
@@aitothechamp7263 All we need to do in life is eat, shit and sleep. If anyone stops you from doing any of that you kill him. The rest is optional.
@bad token Except they are surviving, your analogy makes no fucking sense and completely misses the point lol
@bad token or suicide. Suicide is perfectly acceptable.
"If a young man is not initiated to the tribe, he'd rather burn it down just to feel it's warmth" -Afrikan proverb
I like the proverb but I don't think Afrikaners had tribes... 🤣
who is burning it down tho?
@@vincemack2042 its gonna be 1/3rd of the male population in approximately 20 years time.
@@naikjoy Are you talking about a reduction in only the male population? How does that even make sense?
@@vincemack2042 1/3rd of the male population will start un-aliving other people all around the globe, burning down infrastructure and destroying everything.
I personally think a big part of this is that we as men believe we have to do everything alone; we have to be loners and do everything ourselves and see asking for help or being part of a group/team as weakness. That is such sigma male horseshit. Find people who share your values and interests and treat them with respect and amazing, amazing things will start to happen for you, and you don't have to give up your individual identity either.
This is such bullshit lmao, other people will just sabotage the operation or at the very least siphon profits from you
💯💯 exactly. This is the direction society needs to go. We don't need to fight the idea of being part of a community. One thing that seems to get missed in these conversations is that the "rugged individuality" that's been shoved down everyone's throats has been unhealthy to everyone.
The issue is that an appartment is $600,000 and companies pay $80,000 with a bachekors in a STEM field
Its pointless
Not that I disagree with Mr. Galloway, I think he makes many good points. That said, the fact that he can go into solutions and not put "fatherhood" at the top of the list as a solution is just mind boggling. It's so hard to understand why so many people don't want to acknowledge the fundamental importance of good fathers in the lives of young men. Resources need to be allocated towards this as much as anything else. All it would take is one generation to begin to see a real turnaround. Definitely let's approach this in a multi-faceted manner, but let's at least make fatherhood one of the critical components of what young men need in their lives. We are so afraid of shaming people today that we are leading entire generations of young men off the cliff.
I wholeheartedly agree with you. Having lived in the US and East Africa for long periods, and having compared both cultures, I dare say that family and community are very important, too. My parents required me to treat my older brother with deference and respect and I hated it, but I did it. I remember the changes in my male relatives after they were initiated into manhood; it imbued them with incredible self esteem and confidence and no woman ever dared start a sentence with the noxious words, “a real man would…” as if a woman can every tell a man what a ‘real man’ entails. My mother had verbal salvos for me every time I repeated what I’d heard from feminists - that men are beasts - by telling me firstly that I was half a beast and secondly she’d wonder why I took such trouble to beautify myself in order to be attractive if men were so horrible. When my dad came home, I was required to greet him joyfully and give him time to settle before asking for anything. She said he wasn’t a walking wallet and she didn’t want me to make him feel like one. The most enduring lesson though was to approach men in good faith - to smile and to be sensible and to avoid unnecessary arguments. While these lessons make it difficult for me to have many girlfriends - I cannot handle the snippy rude comments they direct at men they deem beneath them, nor can I handle the magnitude of their lies [this is your baby], nor do I want to spend my time with them looking at social media - they helped me attract a wonderful man who calls me multiple times a day just to chat because I make sure I am pleasant to talk to. Though I have no evidence, I think that no amount of accolades can make up for what women’s larger role in society is - to complement men, not to compete with them. They way I see some western women treat men makes me despair: their husbands daren’t speak their minds lest they’re labeled toxic; their sons are hobbled with insecurities because mamas interfered when their husbands tried to rough house with their sons as part of their development through free play and their daughters are insufferably rude because they were told they were perfect and are now impervious to any negative feedback. Their is an African proverb that says that a child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth. Accolades and achievements cannot provide that warmth; only the community can.
I have taught junior high for 20 years. Without having any details about a student’s family I can tell on day one which of my male students don’t have fathers in their lives. They simply carry themselves differently then the other young men who have great fathers present. It is heartbreaking to see them having to carry the burden of an absentee father.
he's a lefty
Some PEOPLE don't want kids both male & female. I believe males who are sure they don't want kids should have access to free vasectomies.
@@jerryjessup9192 No marriage brought together by a pregnancy ever works. The real problem that is a result of all of this is the single mothers needing food stamps & Medicaid for the increased number of low pay single mothers is out of necessity going to increase taxes. Not saying you should marry someone you don't like & will grow to hate. I am saying think of the real consequences & wear a condom or get a vasectomy.
Looking from abroad, I think College in the USA has become just another product, where the brand matters more than what's in the box. A very expensive product indeed. And while in the past it helped to improved your social and economic status, now has become a walled garden for the rich. It even burdens you with a huge debt.
Nothing of this exists in Europe (yet another thing), where college is free or affordable, and grades are the entry requisites. Private College exists, but they don't have more reputation than public, even lower. People sees them as a pay to pass College for dumb rich kids.
When it comes to males in general, nobody talks about this foundational reason they gave up on work: the fact that the vast majority of man get NO attention or affection from females. They have no hope of getting married because women don't want them, and family seems an abstract notion to young males 15-35. They have no idea how to be male or full grown man. Their words, actions, and thoughts are held against them everywhere. And they are ridiculed endlessly in every form of media. They see friends and their fathers chewed up and spit out. So in their minds, why work? They have a point...but NOBODY will ever listen to them.
I'm 78 and worked in Manhattan at 20 years old in 1966 (a few years before Women's Lib sprang on the scene around 1970.) So I know the before and after. In 1966 conditions for working women were dreadful -- change had to happen.
BUT in the past 20 years I had hoped there would be some balance of respect for both men and women -- and that hasn't happened.
I've seen magazine ads for 12-year female gymnasts and other references to "girls" in school as if boys didn't exist -- and that's disgraceful as it doesn't show something a boy could aspire to.
I've known some wonderful men in my long life but we never hear about men like them -- intelligent (with a unique outlook), man of their word, dependable, and thoughtful -- no female's friendship could replace the fine men I've known.
Before I leave the planet I hope I'll see a movement that honors men and that shows young men growing up what real men are like (not fake machismo men who are rapists and adulterers and who in truth despise women.)
This "problem" with men has been happening & building for decades now. It started as a snowflake at the top of the mountain in the 80's and now that the avalanche is here, why are so many people are suprised. And nobody mentioned the skyrocketing rate of suicide at all.
I am 56 and I have been working in my field for over 30 years. When I was in undergrad college I wanted to see what I was good at so I just picked an area I was interested in that could lead to a job. I was interested in health care so I majored in biology. What I found out was I was not spectacular in any one area but I was above average in almost everything. I took that with me and went to medical school and became a general practitioner. My job requires me to be good in everything but not spectacular in any one area because the field of medicine is so broad I can’t know it all. So being good in all areas made me excellent in primary care medicine. Young men just need to find a nich they like that also had good job prospects and dive in and focus on that area and you will succeed. You will have to make sacrifices but it’s worth it be a valuable member of society in your area of focus.
Thank you, John.
Look at the fall of Rome. If the population is satiated in large numbers, there will be no progress and innovation. We are becoming stagnant. Degrees have become a symbol of debt that is crushing for most people.
Well said.
One of the problems is there are fewer high paying jobs for college graduates as a result of all the consolidations that have taken place in all the major industries over the past 20-30 years. And the handful of remaining corporations choose to outsource jobs, both in the USA (H1B visa) and in countries like China to avoid paying American men higher salaries and benefits.
Finally someone who gets it.
H1-B work visas should be eliminated. They have ZERO to do with "workforce diversity", and everything to do with suppressing salaries for skilled workers.
Pay a bunch for school,get out 4 years later make 15$ an hour.
If you even get hired into a position that relates to your degree. College is becoming more risky and less worth it all the time.
Pick the right field. My engineering students don't come home with $15 an hour when they graduate.
@@mathisnotforthefaintofheart There is a limit to how much one can pick their field. If you're not a people person, you won't make it in sales, if you don't like kids, teaching won't be for you. Not everyone can be an engineer. If it was just a question of work ethic, *everyone* could make $100k/yr in the oilfields, or be a millionaire tech founder.
@@ldl1477 The suggestion that MD was making is that college doesn't pay off. And that is not true. What is equally true is that college isn't for everyone. But those two statements are not synonymous
20 years of schooling and they put you on the day shift
Was constantly made fun of by my old high school friends for doing political science in college but when you’re really good at something and just as passionate you have to take the risk.
Politics is not science, it is manipulation and snake oil marketing.
how'd it turn out?
I wish a video like this existed when I graduated high school. In 2008 even with the economy collapsing college was still viewed as the end all be all. Trade school was rarely mentioned and in the few instances where it was talked about it was an unsexy topic.
Trade school is not that good either. I graduated in 2008 as a mechanic. Do you know how many jobless mechanics were out there and many hated their jobs. Our part store guy used to be a mechanic and he was glad he wasn't anymore. Trade jobs are crap too. The worst is being a mechanic imo. Electrician or HVAC probably the best if you have your own business. I worked as a temporary mechanic in a landscape company and the guy said what he's doing has nothing to do with the trade he studied. The studen loan and cost of education is the problem here. Life doesn't go as planned and yet they want kids to pay for education and pay that off even if they found a different way to pay the bills.
In Australia you only pay fraction of your income for student loan IF you found a decent job and make above a certain amount. Here doesn't matter how much you make. Your ass better get ready to pay off the loan with high interest rate.
well how do you make being a plumber sexy?
@@jones2277 I’m sure Johnny Sins has starred as plumber in one of his movies in the past if you know what I mean lol
They're not in trouble they are freer than ever they've gone mgtow their lives are their own no wife no kid just freedom
But what is causing MGTOW? There has always been bachelor men throughout history although it was always a small amount. What should worry and delight us all is that MGTOW has grown to be MASSIVE, and will only grow further as a response from men who have nothing left to lose. As a MGTOW myself, I personally see it as a response to feminism and wokeness that has been undermining men (especially white men). Men are fighting for their own self preservation. I have no doubt that if conditions were better, maybe like the 1950s, most MGTOW men would return to the plantation, but really back then the plantation was more worth being on because conditions were better for the average man so average men held more weight and power in those times both economically and culturally.
I followed my passion. I'm a musicians for a living, along with performing one man shows, stand up comedy, acting, and writing (3 books published). I didn't start out very good at what I was passionate about. But I was so passionate I pushed myself to become good.
Id love to see your work. What is the name of your books?
My parents gaslit me into thinking college was the only way to have a good life. My actual interests were pushed away, and I believed if I just made it to college everything would go my way. But it didn’t, and as soon as I got there I had a mental breakdown because I realized I was only living my life for my parent’s desires and hated what I was doing. It wasn’t entirely their fault, they grew up in a world were a summer job could pay for a year of college, now it’s a family investment that if you fail you’re out tens of thousands of dollars. Living under that stress for something I didn’t choose broke me, and I haven’t recovered since.
I wouldn't be too hard on your folks. Here's a little humanizing perspective that might be a bit enlightening. Back in the day until maybe the 90s, maybe even the 00s until the great recession, literally everybody believed that college was the greatest pathway to success. To some extent way back when, a legitimate argument could be made for that because universities weren't basically handing them out like candy. They had high academic standards, you got a well-rounded liberal arts education, and you were actually taught how to do stuff. A lot of people who did go to college did actually become very successful, so it's not like the idea was baseless that college equals success, however, it wasn't as simple as that. Now that every other person goes to college, now that emtry standards have dropped and ceased to be meritocracy in a lot of ways, now that they bloated the administrations and amenities and jacked up prices because of the free momey machine to the universities that is the federal student loans system, that's become less and less so. Your parents almost certainly weren't trying to gaslight you. Gaslighting requires intention. They shouldn't have tried to assert such a stranglehold on your life and force you to go down a particular predetermined path they chose for you (that's a whole other issue), but it almost certainly game from a place of good intentions. They just drew their assumptions due to incomplete information and likely assuming things are more or less still the way they were when they went to college because they're normies who don't actively pay attention to cultural shifts and trends. You don't have to forget, but you should at least try to understand and forgive. The interesting thing about being a young adult is that you start to understand your parents as actual human beings, good side and bad alike. Assuming your parents weren't willfully terrible ti you (in spite of varying degrees of negligence dusplayed by a lot of parents, they do generally care for the wellbeing of their kids, want what's best for them, and don't actively try to harm them), hopefully that leads you to greater empathy and grace for their honest mistakes.
@@Tyler_W Most of what you said is true, heck, it's true that for the "Upper Middle Class" esp if you are a member of a protected class or sex , then yes, College still can do something for you. In fact, so many states and Government positions are closed off to those without (usually) a 4 year college degree. This is partly because of greed: keeping certain professions closed to all but those who can afford a 4 year degree helps keep salaries up and supply sufficiently low. But it's also based on something most people don't know. You see, back in the 1950's and through at least part of the 60's (I'm not sure of the exact date, just the timeframe in general cuz its been years since I read about this) IQ tests were often used as part of the hiring process. Well, IQ test were outlawed by, I believe one of the Civil Rights acts (or maybe it was a court case somewhere, like I said its been years), and so a college degree started to be used as a proxy. Remember this was the timeframe of the mass expansion of college attendence due to the GI bill and the great size of the "Boomer" generation. Suddenly, college graduates became far more common.And yes, this was well before they started handing out degrees like candy via easier courses and grade inflation, so a college education meant something.
It worked for them and they felt it will work for you. The future generations of China and India will also feel the same. As of now the college degree still works.
I guess this is the cycle a developed and wealthy nation goes through. The germans and few europeans knew this as they come from old money societies.
To be fair, this is not just American problem. I'm from Eastern Europe and was pushed to go to University by my parents and grandparents, because they saw it as the only way to success. Now I don't even work at job that is related to my degree in any way.
Bring the fathers back in the home.
You can't as long as women vote. They've chosen the state over men.
How about men Stay in the home instead of jumping from woman to woman
@@learningearning8385 How about women prioritise their children and stop monkey-branching from one man to the next.
Not gonna happen. Enjoy the decline
@@learningearning8385 80% of women initiate divorce.
I agree with the "not chasing your passion" sentiment for sure, but for a different reason: No one really knows what they want. We think we do, but 'wants' are nebulous and change over time. So, if you try to plan your life based on your _wants_ rather than what you can realistically assess to be your strengths, the likelihood of sputtering are much higher. And I don't think that's necessarily anyone's "fault," it is just a side-effect of a free and open society.
I disagree with the getting onto education and training. It is more than fine to wait until you are 30 if you think your 20s are just not the time for it. What you don't want to do is leave high school, pick a subject that you have no idea where it will lead and then pull out after the first year. You are better off waiting until you are more mature and have a decent idea of what you will get out of your education and what to expect from you future employment. But if you are a good study, sure go to university straight out of school, it's a great headstart if it works. But the average 20-24 year old male isn't exactly made for sitting around studying.
I agree with this statement - to wait until your 30s or 40s. In your 20s save up for the college too.
Honestly I disagree. It’s much harder to find time to fit college in your life later in age. Especially if your already working and paying a mortgage and other bills. On top of it the price of college is not worth the value it actually gives you anymore. If I could get a full degree for the same price I got my commercial drivers license($5000) I would 100% sign up tomorrow. But I’m gunna make way more as a truck driver right now than your typical college graduate paying 5 figures for their credentials in liberal arts.
@@weignerleigner3037 - I am not buying the college value proposition argument. It is still true that a college education will earn you a median $900K more over a lifetime. Many professions require at least a bachelors degree. Certainly it isn't black and white and some degrees have more value than others. There is nothing wrong with not going to college. It isn't the right choice for everybody for a number of reasons. There is a wide selection of high earning professions that do require a skillset but don't require a college degree. At a societal level, god knows we need people of all skillsets, our country depends on it. However, to broadly assert that the value of a college education isn't worth the expense is simply inaccurate and I find is often used as an excuse.
I should add that while college is expensive, the costs can be mitigated. My oldest daughter is in college right now, working on two degrees. She is at a state university where the annual cost is estimated to be $22K to $25K per year. Her actual cost is far less because more than half of that is housing related and she doesn't live on campus. Her tuition/books/fees is about $10K per year. She has been paying off as much as she can along the way. Her total expense will be roughly $40K, less than today's average price of a new car, and she'll have about half of it paid off by the time she graduates. Over the last 10 years my wife has earned a second degree and a masters degree, her employer paid for roughly half of it. My youngest daughter is considering going to community college for her first two years to minimize expenses and get her basics out of the way before transferring to complete her degree. If you want a post-secondary education, you can make it work.
@@johnmininger7472 your absolutely right. I shouldn’t have have been so general in my comment. Some degrees are certainly highly valuable. If you become a doctor or lawyer or almost anything in stem fields you will greatly increase your chances of making a lot of money. But it’s important to understand the markets and industries in which you are going to be working in. There are unfortunately so many cases of people spending incredible amounts of money for degrees that will only earn them $40-$60,000 a year. Or will get a degree but not even work or get a job in what they went to school for. Like you said it isn’t black and white. If the cost came down which I think it will in the coming years I would probably try and get a degree. But for a lot of people out here including myself we are priced out of educational opportunities.
That's interesting because my father said it's easier to sit down and be a student while you're still young
I love how long the schooling system has been tunneling people into the direction of believing college is the only route after high school to success. Somehow men are failing? Ever considered that the trades are making a comeback? I've done both and I can attest to which one has more advantages
The media
Back in the old days, you can apply to any job even when you don't have college degree
Nowadays college degree is mainly prioritized so they can get any job they want
@@veiserexab1428 Exactly, all it proves is that you spent your prime years in a class room spending ridiculous amounts of money you don't have on a piece of paper that proves you did so
@@sethbingman1 yeah, wish they can just bring back the habit when anyone can get a decent job even if they are highschool grad
In my day we got BOTH. When I was in junior high at my school we had half a year where we learned shop, woodworking, metalworking, electricity, then in the second half we learned how to sew, how to cook, how to paint and do art. In Canada university used to be free to virtually everybody. Most of my peers who are blue collar all have degrees in something or other. Education is like travel, its its own reward and impossible to put into words. In the US htey don't WANT you educated, in Canada its now the same. PS, trades are no longer the path to economic success, welders are a dime a dozen here and most work low pay processing jobs because there is nothing else.
The fact is NOTHING guarantees much about financial success, its become a crapshoot. In IT there are jobs that we never even dreamt of. This is NOT unique to men, this is the whole population. I also had both and can attest that both are EQUALLY advantageious. Learning to do shit is certainly valuable, learning to think about shit is equally so. And certainly no trade school goes that far.
"Find something you're good at"
...this is so important.
I’ve been trying find something I’m good at for decades… I’m 45 now.
right working for someone is not something im good at or passionate about.
I worked in adult education in a California prison for 25 years. What Scott says about parenting, I would say is equally true about all forms of appropriate authority, in general. Young men need strong role models, discipline, rewards and punishment. What is happening is what George Carlin described as "the pussification of the American male." If we don't change this trend, we are doomed.
I'm so glad someone is talking about these issues. In raising both a female child and a male child, I see these issues first hand.
What do you see as the biggest challenges with each? How do you feel about the fact that more girls go to school now than boys?
@@pete5691 - I can't generalize to all boys or all girls, but my son was not served well by the school he attended. His hands-on style clashed with book-based rote theorizing. Also, the Covid shutdowns/remote learning was horrible for him. My daughter is a much better student, more capable of sitting and focusing on the lesson at hand.
@@tshandy1 his body wants to move like a boy so he can grow into a boy. Not moving is not good for growth
@@tshandy1 girls just understand responsibility at an younger age. Also girls are more emotionally resilient
@@amarjotsingh8455 boys are more hyperactive, need to move more and have stakes in what they are doing to be engaged
Having a decent degree won't even help young males. Women are becoming the majority in many different fields especially those requiring a degree from a university or college. Men are better off apprenticing in a trade. The trade professions are better suited for a male's learning capabilities anyway. I learned more where there is 60 + percent hands on training to book learning. I excel at hands on instruction over classroom instruction.
Yes that's true . I think it's a global issue and not only just America. It's social issue which really needs to be addressed.
Correct. You tubers claim this is a worldwide issue.
@@marksherrill9337 Its not worldwide. Places exist that don't give women a vote.
Feminism has liberated men, but only those prepared/able to recognise it and act upon it.
But now I can't treat women like sh*t anymore! It's so unfair!
Young men *are* in trouble today. One reason not discussed is how most of them are biologically wired. Most male instincts, what they typically focus on, what triggers them, what they really want... doesn't mesh well with modern society. And by "what they really want", I mean for example why are so many of them playing golf together (4-some almost always all men), or standing in a creek fishing for 6 hours by themselves, hunting game (most don't bring the wife along), gaming too much, poker playing, gambling, sports on TV... those sorts of things. They are wired for "get away" activities, and my point is that the biological forces behind that is something that our modern society is not interested or unable to harness.
Wrong. Your getting minority treatment, and when its your turn you dont like it.
@@girlsurfingtheinternet8195 how about an equal society where nobody gets minority treatment? Wasn't that MLK Jr's dream?
@@girlsurfingtheinternet8195Wrong - that's just your wet dream.
Tips to success
1. be your own cheerleader
2. don't get distracted, focus on the important things
3. you define what success is for you
4. you can't be good at everything so follow your passions
5. people will try to make you feel a certain type of way
and the true #1, have a 'mentor' or someone that is pulling you up.
Really good advice right there. #5 is so true.. whether its good or bad
Great point about finding something that you're good at. For some people... it can even take until you're in your 30s to find out what that really is.
The problem in america is high schools are mostly day care centers that are slowly being dumbed down. Everyone should be able to leave highschool reading/writing at grade 12 level. Most schools in the US cant even achieve that. This leaves college with the job of educating kids that wasted their early years. Asians do well because their parents are invested in ensuring their kids truly learn. Without inherited wealth they know this is the only way into the middle class and beyond.
Its not the schools its the kids.
Dont forget the Real Dumming down with the progressives pushing for schools to change there Grading system to make sure minorities pass high school because it was seen as raciest previously. Instead of the Real reasons.
I do agree about it being the kids. In some countries, if you are a smart kid, you are grouped together with other smart kids to keep you motivated. But in America, they put everyone together, in the name of diversity and inclusion. The result is, the smart kids get dumbed down along with the lazy kids who misbehave.
There is coming a time when "the real success" means learning the skills of the land. Learning how to build a shelter, how to make a fire, and how to purify water for drinking. Call me crazy but, a person who knows how to live off of "nature" has real durability!
when the power fails and the food stops rolling in ... all these "educated" academics and the such are gonna get real fucked
No, you're not crazy. A guy who can build a log cabin will be doing great when the economy crashes.
When the system shows itself to be faulty or inadequate two types of people will emerge
- those who fight to maintain & preserve the status quo
- those who are the walking dichotomy of the ideal
Trades are so underrated. When my bf was looking at careers back in the 1990s he looked in the newspaper( how you did it back then) and focused on jobs that were plentiful and noticed machinists had a lot of listings so he got a certificate and has been doing it ever since. Fast forward to now and he’s pulling six figures, owns his home outright, no mortgage, has multiple trucks and toys, no loans. Everything paid, retirement set! So much smarter than floundering in college, getting a useless degree for $$$ just to say you did. I’m aware not all degrees are useless. They are necessary for some but not EVERYONE. There is this mentality that if you don’t have at least a 4 yr degree you’re defective but that’s not true and I want this mentality to stop. I have witnessed women dismissing guys with no college degree and that is so stupid.
I spent 39 years in my trade. I retired at 55. I never went to college. Each year the company would bring 4 or 5 college men into the plant. Before they would actually be hired they were required to spend 4 weeks in each department. I was the last step in that process. At the end the president would always come and ask me 1 question. It was always the same. Is he going to make it here? 7 out of 10 my answer would be no. Those men where never hired. Hiring someone and then having to fire that person costs alot of money. I was close with the head of HR. One time she told me that 65% of all applicants failed there drug test. Our company had random drug testing for all employees. I didn't matter what position you held. I was shocked at that number.
I quit school at 16. Went into a trade. Was at the top of my field at 55 when I retired. Part of the reason I retired early was because of the number of young people wanting a job but simply didn't want to work. I can't tell you how many I fired. Between cell phones and not showing up for work was the biggest reasons. Work never seemed to be a priority. Asking them to work overtime was out of the question. I was done babysitting.
college education in high schools has been pushed for decades while the trades, predominantly male, have been mostly eliminated. The vocational trades are where men prosper.
I was raised to be a "shop rat", which is someone with a good paying union job in an automobile factory. Those opportunities disappeared by the time I graduated high school in 1978. I floundered with no plan or direction for years. I was lucky enough to get a decent paying job, bought a house and got married, but still was not focused on developing myself, or planning for life. I wound up unemployed due to the business where I worked being sold, but got another job that was more work for less pay, but felt that at least I was working. I finally went back to school and got some education that more than doubled my income. Life's been OK since, however, when I look at my classmates who had direction and drive, I realize how much better off I could be now if I had been focused on career and actually planned for the future like they did. I do feel for young men today who don't have some of the opportunities that folks my age had.
You pushed this agenda Scott, now reap the rewards.
First time I watch the news with this gentleman on CNN makes so much sense honest we need more gentleman like this on the news to speak I applaud him thank you Scott Galloway
I loved what Scott said near the end. “Pursue something you’re good at” and his comment about exploring apprenticeships/trades. It breaks my heart seeing people “following their dreams” and preferring a BA instead of going to college. (As society says that’s where people aren’t smart enough go.) I talk to hundreds of business owners all the time and there is such a vacuum in trades where basically anybody interested and willing can start their career with a great wage… Not so for a Medieval History degree. (Although that is a fascinating field as well, just not as practical.)
Well that's the advice we were all given. Aspire to something more be better then the trades. All those adults said that to me. Teachers, parents, aunts and uncles community.
@bad token ur coment makes more sense than the video
"Men are depressed and retreating from society"
Psychologists: We're gonna call it Failure to Launch - because nothing gets men out of their comfort zone like a euphemism for erectile dysfunction
I remember when they were calling gen x garbage as the jobs left the country and we couldn't get a job with a living wage. Now I am just watching it burn.
@@invisibletosociety8338 good you don't need much in life anyway. The amenities and so on. You can lead a frugal life with those few amenities that you need practically for little to no money.
It's true that sometimes you needed to get out from your comfort zone or you'll missed out something
@Oldie But Goodie exactly.
@@veiserexab1428 miss out on what? getting cucked again? a job I hate? an overpriced house? being a parent to a shitty kid? there's nothing being missed. NOTHING
We both went to "Land Grant" colleges back in the 1960's when both of us making a dollar an hour was enough to get by and have a little car and a small aparatment as well. Today; college and/or university education is something that is and would be out of our financial reach. Like Professor Galloway says; we've lost the script on advanced education. Furthermore; the overall worth of a degree from an expensive name school is significantly attenuated subsequent to five years in the career marketplace --- nobody cares that you graduated from Harvard when you're thirty-six years old and your Ivy league experience is more than a decade away and your experience looks like a worn-out school tie. Our suggestion to the grandkids: get a job where they will pay for your advanced education -- it just is NOT WORTH spending your parents' money.
thanks for watching
My sense is that the necessary thing that has been missing for men is initiation. True spiritual initiation. Going through those rites of passage and the dark nights of the soul to truly know who you are and what you're here to do. Doing what I was good at was not enough for me. I needed more.
Forget patriarchy, we live in a female oriented society, and have been for a few decades now. It starts from the early school experience. The vast majority of teachers are women. The curriculum is based on rote learning and verbal exposition, where everyone goes at the same rate. Girls naturally do better with this stuff.( Boys do better by experiencing things, visual learning, going at thier own rate. questioning things). So boys, who don't take to this learning naturally, are put on a disciplinary path, drugged up on Ritalin etc. Then there is the fact that boys also take longer to mature than the girls they are competing against directly. AND they are distracted by these same girls. Its a perfect storm of an anti male environment. Then when they leave high school, girls have more financial solutions. More likely to be supported by parents. Much more likely to get office work which doesn't leave them physically tired, or jobs like modeling which have little effort to huge reward ratio. Much more likely to get a financially supportive partner (coff coff sugar daddy). Then there's the somewhat combined world between modeling and relationships: the skin trade(stripping, camming, escorting. MILLIONS of young women participate in that world). Meanwhile men have the army and sports ( huge risk little reward, huge risk and lottery odds of huge reward) and manual labour. These same men are forced to pay for dates, have bachelor pads, cars etc just have a little female companionship. Men do much better in advanced degree programs, because that's when their brains have finally matured. And they do it at their own pace. And by experiencing. Then they do progressively better, much better, than women over the ensuing years of their careers. Whereas a very large fraction of women simply quit when they realize they have no true interest or native capability in their field...this after taking up those seats that could have gone to men. They tend to do this especially after snagging a higher earning man, ironically while preventing other men from becoming high earning. This is due to biology, as much as women like to claim otherwise. But good luck to men reaching that level due to lower GPAs from high school and college, and having to hustle for school fees, all the time facing condemnation for being male, while girls get to free coding camp, gender specific scholarships, women's studies and get validation all day everyday.
How did things get this way, which will get to Japanese and Chinese crisis proportions and beyond( because we ain't as docile as them)? Its because the squeaky wheel gets the oil. Women are squeaky creatures as opposed to more stoic men. Men are inclined to make women more comfortable. Throughout history and prehistory men were ALLOWED to take the reigns, because the benefits of doing so were immediate and obvious. Men tamed nature, got the meat and protected women from rape by foreign invaders. Since industrialization there has been an obfuscation of these benefits, as they have become so indirect, even tho they are no less true. So women have been clamoring to take the reigns since. But the reigns to where? You mention bullying in high school. Male bullying is based on physical domination, with the aim of female attention. Female bullying is based on social hierarchies and social domination, for thier own comfortability and enjoyment. High school is a training ground for them in govt and political issues, with the aim of bending all of society to their every whim and fancy.
Well said
@@RoddyPipersCorneas in pure intelligence yes same age boys and girls are similar, boys having a wider bell curve spread but on average slightly smarter. But all the research I've seen shows most of the other factors are well behind for a few years: attention span, impulse control, future planning, all of which together outbalance pure intelligence
Before prejudging people with your categorizations (for your personal benefit) give them jobs or money. With the whole world economy rendered insufficient for most in the last business cycle, these old schema are acquireable much faster than an organization will admit. The middle game IS the market. Some emerge beyond through extreme effort, usually.
America has plenty of jobs for blue-collar positions with apprentice level of education. America currently has a truck driver labor shortage. Young men don't want these jobs, yet they expect above-minimum wage.
The economy can't provide the magic jobs American youth want.
I have a college degree, and I am a truck driver. I am currently earning far more than if I had persued a career in my field of study. College degrees have become a symbol of how conformity has been monetized. The old meme about the waitress with a PHD is becoming a reality.
@@Nerdraker not the jobs perhaps, directly, the interaction with an organization . If it were easier to establish trust.
The number one problem for BOTH young men and women is expensive housing. Also healthcare and education.
The problem is that the game is rigged, dont you see the matrix?
Does he realize there are people out here struggling to learn about life the same way he had to learn everything he understands for him to talk like he is a expert on how to live a great life?
Find something you’re good at yes, but almost every industry is highly competitive rn. I can’t think of a corporate field or a stem field that’s not competitive right now. I’d also say to respond quickly to new trends and create as much as you can (TH-cam,etc.)
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When our institutions of higher learning spend most time and effort on athletics, we can't act surprised when academics suffer.
I'm 55 I remember when women loves men and vice versa
I think That stopped around 1980s when it became all about greed money money 💴
Good times...
This comment section has more intelligence than I've seen in awhile
I'm a High school teacher and I began to notice and pay attention to this trend about 5 or 6 years ago. I realized the valedictorians were usually always girls, the top kids in the class were/are usually girls, the club leaders and presidents were girls. It is definitely noticeable in schools. My school has tried to implement some programs to help freshmen boys, but the quality of these classes depends on the quality of the teacher. This should be tackled nation-wide and early on. High school is a bit late, but better than nothing.
The schools are a big reason for the today's problems. They solely pushed feminism ideas, focused on females for decades, then on lgbt and foreigners and recently on gender bs at a young age. All this time neglecting the male who sits back and sees women get child custody, dad's become money slaves to the ex, companies hiring skews to females, universities skew to female and top it off female hypergamy so 50% of the males are screwed and with wage equality, they cannot make more than so no wife and no kids in their future, easier to live on some gov aid and go fishing and play games 1/2 the day. Majority of teachers are female and I am willing to bet their bias is being pushed even if subconsciously. FBI data shows single mom are the worst for raising children but glad at least you realize something is up and trying to do something though I wonder if the teachers understand the root causes.
It started when society started medicating boys instead of letting them have ruff and tumble play. This built confidence and team work. Also, when you are told and society reinforces you are the cause of all the ills of the world depression and self hatred happen.
I went to grade school in the 90s. They put me on Ritalin and I got really fat.
Do what u love and good at... knowledge plus action.equal success
notice how "depressed young girls" can still finish college. it's not social media's problem- that can be switched off, it's discipline.
They get the help that men sing get it’s rigged.
Back in the day young men chased tail. Now young men play video games in the basement.
I agree trying to find something you are reasonably good at is good advice. You don't want to waste too much time chasing impossible dreams that don't pay. Obviously if you have a lot of talent at something it may be worth giving it a go. University intake in American universities might be 60% female, but what are they studying? Is it useful? If you get a degree in, say, philosophy how exactly does it help? Often getting a degree only allows you to get recruited by a company that has a graduate program and only then do you start learning something useful. I get the impression women want to do office work or brain work. Manual jobs that women do are usually poorly paid. A female school leaver may imagine herself as a lawyer. She probably does not imagine herself as a roofer.
When that guy said "There isnt just any room for average guys anymore," that reason sums it up all in one.
As a dyspraxic dyslexic who never went to college, I feel successful.
Okay!
Pushing college as the only good outcome has a lot to do with it. I know guys who didn't go to college who got training who make a lot of money.
Men are realising their worth!
"you're hungry, it's just hard to study" No shit.
This is a great dose of rationality.
"find what you're good at", I suck at everything lol
There are so many reasons dumbing down on education, mandatory passing classes for all even if they fail to qualify and disrespecting teachers in classes.
I'm going to the oilfield, most degrees are worthless.
Public education rewards short term memory, conformity, and compliance. All of these are useful but none are the end-all, be-all. Success in school does not always correlate to real-world achievement. Being a well paid cog in the machine is not "success" in the long term.
Good point about the foreign students being the "cash cow" for universities. Yes, it brings diversity but it also has unintended consequences, like importing competition for admission as well as allowing universities to raise tuitions much faster than inflation.
Also, are we training students here in America or some other countries students, so that they can attain a greater competitive advantage over us like China and India?
Schools have had to raise tuitions because the government have cut back on subsidies to colleges. Republicans are the one who did this.
@@RoddyPipersCorneas As a white man, I find that amusing. That assumes a finite sum of places. Universities have been expanding as fast as they can, as it's part of the capitalist move to maximize income. American universities are notorious for having lax entry standards and letting underqualified students flounder and borrow money for however long it takes for them to realize they weren't cut out for university. Other countries I have lived in have all weeded out the wheat from the schaff beforehand, but America's "give everyone a chance" model means big profits. They will take tuition from anyone of any color.
@@masterchinese28 “As a white man, I find that amusing. That assumes a finite sum of places.” Well, as another White man I find it amusing that you claim to be a White man with the name “masterchinese”. It’s also amusing that you think there are an infinite “sum of places”. Factually speaking, there are a FINITE number of spots each University has and a FINITE number of Universities. Amazing you have to be told that. Factually speaking, White males are illegally and immorally discriminated against through race & sex quotas and other affirmative action policies, “diversity”, etc. etc. policies. These illegal actions go well beyond admissions or the university. And White females and people who are not White receive the complete opposite treatment, while perpetually claiming the reverse of course.
Just wanted to add that being at the top of an in-demand field doesn't need to take you away from the things you love, or are passionate about (fashion, the arts, etc.). It can bring you closer to these things, all the while skipping the competitive, toxic and unrewarding social scenes.
I see alot of people talking about the trades. I just want to throw out that I'm currently 27, I went to a trade school and got an associates in automotive repair. I was super passionate about cars, and was looking forward to a career as a technician, but after 3 years I discovered I didn't really want to do it anymore. Sacrificing my body to fix peoples cars seems like a waste, the pay isn't great, especially compared to other trades like plumbers electricians and welders, and I felt like I could genuinely provide more service than that.
The trades are okay for alot of people, but I'm getting a bit irritated at how many people are pushing the trades these days (Especially from motherfuckers who haven't worked in the trades..) I understand why, I really do, but the bottom line is the trades aren't really satisfying work for everyone, it destroys your body, and is often considerably more dangerous than other jobs. Its noble to fix things, and its needed, but at the same time I think it's completely understandable when people don't want to do it. Why on Earth would I take on that much risk for 54k a year when I could get another type of job? I think alot of the salaries that get boasted around the trades are often people who have multiple decades in the field, and are often unionized. Additionally, I really need something creative. I genuinely believe if I just stuck it out with automotive, or just stayed at another blue collar job, I would end up killing myself, and I really do not mean that lightly.
The Japanese, as usual, got it right:
Ikigai is the intersection of what you love, what you're good at, what the world needs, and what you can be paid for.
I think checking those 4 boxes is the key to not only a satisfactory career, but a life worth living. I think just choosing something you're good at, is falling way short of your potential happiness.
Like, what if I'm really good at being a cashier at Walmart? What if I'm really good at something that makes me depressed? I don't think you will just magically find satisfaction in something you're good at. However, there is a said satisfaction that comes with being good at something, and it can be almost anything really.
Learning a practical skill is really important.
For what its worth im going to school for multimedia design, alot of demand for it with the web, and this youtube channel is also something I want to grow. either way, I'm going to school for free thanks to financial aid and scholarships. My hopes are to break into entrepreneurship and honestly, follow the things I really want to do. I might go broke or die trying, but I kind of don't care. I've had 7 or so different jobs, and I can't say any of them brought me a whole lot except experience. The experience is really important and I'm very prideful about all I've done. I've been a dishwasher, cook, fork lift operator, valet, and a mechanic at a dealership and two independents. I've picked up a ton of skills, both hard and soft. Frankly just being good at something isn't super meaningful without a few other elements in my opinion.
I do agree men are in a crisis for the most part. As a 27 year old, I think I can say I have looked at myself as an evil white man many times. I come from a decently privileged family as an only child, but I haven't fucking oppressed anybody..
Either way, Im 27, still live in mommys basement, and hate that. All I do is try to make money and learn. I'm very frustrated to say the least. I feel a very weird mix of being trapped, but also setting myself up for success by going to college and killing it. I'm just very weary of the job market (I pretty much assume I won't be getting a job at all, and sometimes I feel like freelancing or entrepreneurship would have a higher likelihood of making a living.
anyways, there's alot more I can spill. Generally, I don't think I disagree with anything this guy says. I think its much easier to dole out the advice of "just do something you're good at" than living it. Maybe I'm also a bit narcissistic to insist I can do better than just getting a job Im good at and being "happy"
Are you from Canada by chance? You're sharing VERY similar sentiments to my own. I'm from Alberta btw
Look, until people are going to stop bitching about it and actually start taking steps to help us out in ways that actually matter, I don't want to hear about it.
Young men are even worse off now than they were when this come out nearly a year ago. Mr. Galloway mentions some viable reasons, but oddly avoids the MAIN ones.
1. LACK OF A FATHER IN THE HOME - Girls are born with inherent value and purpose. Boys are not. They have to find their own. A father teaches a young man to discipline his impulses and find his purpose. A father teaches a son what RESPECT is. A father shields his children from fear. A child growing up with fear will inevitably learn to hate. Mr. Galloway decries child poverty but apparently doesn't notice that the vast majority of children living in poverty live in one parent homes. Giving these homes more money simply enables their mother's lifestyle further.
2. FEMMINISM - Men are more than the enemy. Worse than that. They are just unnecessary. A traditional purpose for a man is to create a family and then build a temple for that family to live in. Now young girls are taught that they don't need men. Men have gotten the message. This helps leave men directionless and adrift, which can lead to hopelessness and despair.
3. LOSS OF GOD - Men need something to believe in. They need meaning. With no father, no wife, and no God to turn to, you still wonder why young men are in trouble?
So people are religious because they're weak and can't handle the reality that life is a rigged game and inherently unfair for everyone? Sounds like a you problem to me.
Women who go for men with fancy qualifications must remember some careers will be redundant by 2030. Getting along with your partner is more important.
Let women deal with the problems of society.
"Well, that's the macro..."
Not to bash the host, but therein lies the problem. From self-help books and lectures on "personal responsibility", we always look to the individual to solve what are really societal problems. And these are societal issues that Professor Galloway aptly brings up and addresses.
To often we are afraid to take responsibility for our choices, and blame external circumstances outside of our control. That is a losing strategy. Be responsible for everything in your life.
The real poverty in our country is a poverty of both vision, and purpose.
We aren't responsible for our upcoming, and that is very impressionable on how we navigate life. Especially when you go from a crappy upbringing to being shoved out into the world with little to no understanding on how to navigate it. You end up constantly struggling. You could say it's up to the individual to act accordingly, but it isn't that simple
@@chrism8180 a crappy upbringing can be overcome. It has been overcome coutless times. Laying blame at the feet of our parents will never lead to success, only bitterness and resentment.
Im not saying circumstances dont effect where we start in life, certainly they do. But if we dont believe and act as if we have the power to better ourselves and our future, we never will. Best
@@nocigar7730 systemic poison kills from the inside. We are destined to repeat the problems of the past because the platform is still the same. The school system is the same the pop culture is the same, nothing has changed. I don't want to be "successful" within the parameters that society calls success. I have evaluated this life to be disgusting and sickening, and I am done with it
@@chrism8180We cant control what happens to us, but we 100% choose how we respond. Seems like your focused on all the things you cant control. Its a waste of time. Focus on what you can change and improve with in yourself and life wont seem so disgusting. If you dont believe in your ability to change your life for the better, your a dead man walkin.
Sounds like youve been through some shit and lost hope. I hope that changes bro, you are loved.
@@nocigar7730 please don't give your empty words. I've examined enough of this life, it's a slave farm
Learn a trade or something profitable, market your skill. Get out and work......Just work!
It’s cool that women still expect men to pay to be worthy of their love but then are the same ones that take their opportunities in the workforce. The majority of men are being forced out of their own county
feminist are all about 50/50. If you refuse to pay full..... you are deluded just like a feminist. As a man you need to provide FULL and shouldn't go against that. Online digital marketing is a great way for you to become successful just off some online courses with the right mentors that do it themselves. Easy 20k a month if you spend 2-3 years putting your life to it.
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Life is hard for young white men. Here's the thing, white men are now facing what minorities have had to deal with FOREVER. Listening to highly educated white men take about this problem especially from a conservative point of view is just hard to hear in some ways because they just didn't speak up when it was folks that didn't look like them .
Edit: Just find a long ugly women. Ugly old women want love too.
Young men are not in trouble if they realize that they don't have to listen to what folly things society dictates them to do. In other words, expectations are just expectations. Nothing more and nothing less. The worst that can happen is that the other gender may not be interested in men anymore. That's a good thing. Trade schools and certain (!) college careers are great for men. I see a bright future for young men.
...good presentation with lots of good points. The professor is far too critical of social media and forgets that celebrity culture and its influence on young people is far worse...
Even with a degree young men and women are done. Starting salaries are at a all time low 50k avg but the degree costs 125k and a average home is 300k. With all this inflation is not just women but men the whole U.S. systems is at peril here. This could collapse the economy and colleges. Thinking about going into academia think again.
100% true.
He didn't even mention this aspect of the problem once.
Young men are not in problem. Society is, at this stage, venerable and in problem.
Go ahead and say it - we had no idea what consequences we'll get when we made a choice to provide for the weak, without asking anything in return. FeminiSSm and 'wokeness' to any and all forms of deviant and abnormal behaviours got us to where we are now. Society is reaping what it sew.
And young men are adapting to survive.
Luke, the misogyny and homophobia is strong in this one!
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@@Svemirsky Why don't you stand by your misogyny and homophobia? Are you scared?
The sodomites are running the show now.
Man this guy really nailed it and said some things I hadn’t thought about.
Dont follow your passion, find something your good at!!!
Then the passion can come ...
So while I appreciate this being put out there Scott Galloway is essentially saying you people are screwed and I am doing just fine although when I was younger we were in the same position. Thanks Scott. I am from Kenilworth, IL. I’m doing just fine
And most people are unaware your town contains the wealthiest people in Illinois. Of course your fine.
Advice to young men: "do more", "be better"
when we're failing it's our fault
when women are failing it is also somehow our fault
very fair, no double standards here
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