Before you leave a comment, please watch the video. This video did not bash the creator, I only addressed what the creator said herself while also giving tips on how to avoid these situations to others. I will never kick a woman while she’s down and said that several times in the video. I pray for her and her children. 🙏🏽💕
It’s not about provider or hyoergamy. Poor men abuse woman all the time. It’s about choosing MEN who have strong character and not ignoring obvious red flags and abusive treatment. People need to stay off social media and use common sense. Don’t believe any of these “lifestyles” you see on social media. You don’t know the real behind the scenes. Take everything and everyone with a grain of salt and a little skepticism.
I agree 100% so many people are judging her for wanting a man that provides when all you see on social media is “don’t date a brokey!” This could have gone either way and sadly it turned out this way but she reacted instantly which shows that she puts her kids over being provided for! As Christians we are the first to throw stones, only reading about empathy and love in the Bible but never practicing it in real life and it’s actually so sad. Let’s pray for this mom and her kids not condemn her.
My comment said I agree with you 100% , I wasn’t bashing you, my anger was more towards people in general condemning her. Everything you said was absolutely right!
This was such a good video and you spoke with tact! Thank you for bringing awareness to this and reminding us to always use discernment. This video was needed & will reach the hearts of the right people. ❤
I watched the entire video and I appreciate how tactful you handled this topic. I’m not sure why people were giving you push back. The advice you gave was wisdom. It’s so sad that we are in a time where great advice is frowned upon. I have always said that the “sprinkle sprinkle” advice is the just as toxic as Kevin Samuels and it breaks my heart to see so many women eat it up. I’m praying for this generation of men and women because we are so lost and I definitely believe it is spiritual warfare.
I agree, I appreciate that she made this video. I definitely used to be obsessed with Sprinkle Sprinkle culture and put myself in dangerous situations because of it, and I thank God every day that he opened my eyes to how dark that lifestyle can get
Provider men tend to be the biggest cheaters. The most controlling and the sneakiest men alive. They'll pull the wool over your eyes in a heartbeat. It would never sit right with me giving a man complete control over me. I'm pretty sure that a lot of predators are drawn to these single mothers. At the end of the day it's like a catch 22. Women don't want to go 50/50 but then there's the controlling provider men! Ladies pick the partner that fits you the best and stop listening to social media.
“Rat poison is 10% food and 10% toxins”, I chuckled. Thanks for always conveying truth and transparency. I don’t follow or know a lot about this storyline, but I know you’re credible and value marriage so as a wife that also values marriage I wanted to take a listen. Thanks for sharing Brittany and keep doing kingdom work. 🙏🏽❤️
First time seeing your content. I watched her video and my heart goes out to her. I made a video recently about how the soft life, hypergamy, and sprinkle sprinkle lifestyle is not something we should idolize. The only way to truly have security is in Jesus! God bless you sis ❤
This was awesome Brittany, people need the truth no matter how hard it is. I thought of the rich man parable in Matthew when you were explaining this lifestyle (I've never heard of sprinkle sprinkle) because he didn't even want to give up his temporary things for eternal life. It's really not worth it when you think about how all this will fade one day, can't take it with you, then what? Focus on the things above ... I truly pray for the lady and her kiddos, I cannot imagine. You can tell that she is sorrowful and it seems she has taken accountability so she has definitely learned from the situation. Another note: we shouldn't take anybody who calls themselves a Christian for their word UNLESS the fruit is there. But unfortunately, this world is so used to the lukewarm Christianity that they think they are getting the real thing and can't test what they see against the Bible because they don't know Jesus as they should. I'm speaking in general as well, as I did something similar on a smaller scale some years ago. Sorry, I could talk all day on this, thanks for the video!
I appreciate your videos so much!! I am in my singleness season and I am taking this time to draw closer to guy and seek him. I tried dating my way and its caused so much unwanted stress and drama that I didn't need and honestly could've been avoided. The topic of sexual violence is never easy to discuss. I can't believe the children were not safe around their own father. I would like to know your opinion on prenups, especially from a Christian point of view.
Thank you for speaking on this situation. I have commented about this very topic on The New Trophy Wife page. It's very dangerous!!! I pray that our women turn from her page and follow someone that love Christ not Anti-Christ.
They can have caution ⚠️ by what Sprinkle Sprinkle say. You can't live straight by what Sprinkle Sprinkle say if not have "old landmark" wisdom. Sprinkle Sprinkle is a ♓, so commonly it can be a clash to where Brittany is in hers. Will continue to watch and scale between both them. To take straight memo from Sprinkle Sprinkle, is for hysterectomy type woman to follow for transactional relationships. Most guys be about fertile or have reproductive organs in tact woman, whether want children or not.
IMO: Shera is not to blame for what happened to this woman. We are all responsible for our own choices. As ADULTS, we can’t be blind followers of ANYBODY. As responsible ADULTS, you should vet the information, people, and things that come into your life especially people on the internet and content creators. A lot of these creators/consultants/coaches/entertainers/mentors are looking for a dollar. So you have to take what any of them say with a grain of salt. Know God for YOURSELF. Your life is YOUR RESPONSIBILITY.
I agree with most of what you said BUT creators and influencers are heald accountable for the things they say, including myself. I’ve repented and asked my followers for forgiveness when I’ve been wrong. Just because ppl are adults don’t absolve creators from their responsibilities. So I understand your pov but i disagree a bit.
The issue isn’t that she wanted to be with a man who is a provider or she supports the sprinkle sprinkle mindset. The issue is that she didn’t know the man before she got married. People need to get to know the person before trusting them with your life or your kids’ lives. Also, the man who the Trophy wife married was a “religious man”. So this could have happened to anybody, whether they support hypergamy, believe in a 50/50 relationship or women who are the breadwinners. It can happen to the women who marries a man she met in church. So we have to stop being so critical of the wrong things, like her wanting a man to provide. So let’s not bring Shera into this because she literally has nothing to do with this issue.
I addressed everything that this comment said in the video ( please watch FIRST) but if you watched the video, the reason she was mentioned is because the creator herself said she got her lifestyle ideas from.
@ I watched your video and the Trophy Wife’s video. You mentioned the hypergamous lifestyle and how it isn’t good to date men on that principle. But the fact that she didn’t know the man is the real problem. No women should be married within a year or two of meeting a man. You don’t know that man. People can put on an act just to get your trapped and then they will show their true colors. That can happen with a broke man or a rich one.
@@Not_A_Hopeless_Romantic I married my husband in under a year or two so I don't fully agree. I do think you do need to know someone before marrying them but yes her sole focus on hypergamy is how she got here. I said that and stand on it. Most women in our community will not meet a hypergous man due to the statistics of our community. It's unrealistic. Focus on Character - not to be rescued. On average BW make $40K and BM make $50K but married they make 94K. Women tend to pass up really great men when they focus on hypergamy. Not that it's bad, its just unrealistic - everyone won't get it or qualify. BUT if you focus on character, you're more likely to get with someone who has a beautiful heart and mindset and you can be wealthy together.
Hi Ms. Gold, love your channel! I don’t know if you were aware but Ashera aka Shera7 is a self proclaimed witch, she used to sell spells and other witchcraft related items, I haven’t watched her in years so I don’t know if she still does. But if the Trophy wife is a Christian why is she looking to a witch for guidance? What fellowship does light have with darkness. Unfortunately I don’t think she is the person she pretends to so I will not demonize her husband or judge him, that is for the most high to do, but I will lift the family and those precious children up with prayer and pray that GOD has his will and his way and that are healed in JESUS NAME! 🙌🏽🙏🏽💗
Wasn't it Kevin Samuels who said do not believe children who state that they are SA. The woman called into his show Stated her child was being SA he dated why would you believe a child. God took him out the next day Mother's day. She-Ra never started any such thing. In actuality she says use witchcraft on such men. Wink wink be powerful goddesses.
Before you leave a comment, please watch the video. This video did not bash the creator, I only addressed what the creator said herself while also giving tips on how to avoid these situations to others. I will never kick a woman while she’s down and said that several times in the video. I pray for her and her children. 🙏🏽💕
It’s not about provider or hyoergamy. Poor men abuse woman all the time. It’s about choosing MEN who have strong character and not ignoring obvious red flags and abusive treatment. People need to stay off social media and use common sense. Don’t believe any of these “lifestyles” you see on social media. You don’t know the real behind the scenes. Take everything and everyone with a grain of salt and a little skepticism.
Rich men abuse often but can hire legal teams to beat cases.
I agree 100% so many people are judging her for wanting a man that provides when all you see on social media is “don’t date a brokey!” This could have gone either way and sadly it turned out this way but she reacted instantly which shows that she puts her kids over being provided for! As Christians we are the first to throw stones, only reading about empathy and love in the Bible but never practicing it in real life and it’s actually so sad. Let’s pray for this mom and her kids not condemn her.
I said everything you said in this comment… did you watch the video first?
My comment said I agree with you 100% , I wasn’t bashing you, my anger was more towards people in general condemning her. Everything you said was absolutely right!
She’s agreeing with you.
This was such a good video and you spoke with tact! Thank you for bringing awareness to this and reminding us to always use discernment. This video was needed & will reach the hearts of the right people. ❤
I’m so glad you liked it! I’m trying to help women be more discerning in their choices. 💕
I watched the entire video and I appreciate how tactful you handled this topic. I’m not sure why people were giving you push back. The advice you gave was wisdom. It’s so sad that we are in a time where great advice is frowned upon. I have always said that the “sprinkle sprinkle” advice is the just as toxic as Kevin Samuels and it breaks my heart to see so many women eat it up. I’m praying for this generation of men and women because we are so lost and I definitely believe it is spiritual warfare.
I agree, I appreciate that she made this video. I definitely used to be obsessed with Sprinkle Sprinkle culture and put myself in dangerous situations because of it, and I thank God every day that he opened my eyes to how dark that lifestyle can get
I'm glad you saw the wisdom in it! Thank you for your kind words.
Provider men tend to be the biggest cheaters. The most controlling and the sneakiest men alive. They'll pull the wool over your eyes in a heartbeat. It would never sit right with me giving a man complete control over me. I'm pretty sure that a lot of predators are drawn to these single mothers. At the end of the day it's like a catch 22. Women don't want to go 50/50 but then there's the controlling provider men! Ladies pick the partner that fits you the best and stop listening to social media.
This is not true…. Poor men cheat ALL THE TIME!
“Rat poison is 10% food and 10% toxins”, I chuckled. Thanks for always conveying truth and transparency. I don’t follow or know a lot about this storyline, but I know you’re credible and value marriage so as a wife that also values marriage I wanted to take a listen. Thanks for sharing Brittany and keep doing kingdom work. 🙏🏽❤️
First time seeing your content. I watched her video and my heart goes out to her. I made a video recently about how the soft life, hypergamy, and sprinkle sprinkle lifestyle is not something we should idolize. The only way to truly have security is in Jesus! God bless you sis ❤
I really appreciate you talking about this with so much grace and compassion and kindness!!! I learned so much! Missed your IG lives love !!!
Hey Boo! I go live on TikTok all the time. You can catch me on there @healwithbrittany !
This was awesome Brittany, people need the truth no matter how hard it is. I thought of the rich man parable in Matthew when you were explaining this lifestyle (I've never heard of sprinkle sprinkle) because he didn't even want to give up his temporary things for eternal life. It's really not worth it when you think about how all this will fade one day, can't take it with you, then what? Focus on the things above ...
I truly pray for the lady and her kiddos, I cannot imagine. You can tell that she is sorrowful and it seems she has taken accountability so she has definitely learned from the situation.
Another note: we shouldn't take anybody who calls themselves a Christian for their word UNLESS the fruit is there. But unfortunately, this world is so used to the lukewarm Christianity that they think they are getting the real thing and can't test what they see against the Bible because they don't know Jesus as they should. I'm speaking in general as well, as I did something similar on a smaller scale some years ago. Sorry, I could talk all day on this, thanks for the video!
Loved all your points you expanded on.
I appreciate your videos so much!! I am in my singleness season and I am taking this time to draw closer to guy and seek him. I tried dating my way and its caused so much unwanted stress and drama that I didn't need and honestly could've been avoided. The topic of sexual violence is never easy to discuss. I can't believe the children were not safe around their own father. I would like to know your opinion on prenups, especially from a Christian point of view.
Beautifully said and well articulated. Everything was gracious, and said with love❤
Thank you.
Thank you for speaking on this situation. I have commented about this very topic on The New Trophy Wife page. It's very dangerous!!! I pray that our women turn from her page and follow someone that love Christ not Anti-Christ.
They can have caution ⚠️ by what Sprinkle Sprinkle say. You can't live straight by what Sprinkle Sprinkle say if not have "old landmark" wisdom. Sprinkle Sprinkle is a ♓, so commonly it can be a clash to where Brittany is in hers. Will continue to watch and scale between both them. To take straight memo from Sprinkle Sprinkle, is for hysterectomy type woman to follow for transactional relationships. Most guys be about fertile or have reproductive organs in tact woman, whether want children or not.
Great message, this is my first time seeing your channel & agree that it’s dangerous to blindly listen to anyone’s advice without God. ❤
Girl the whole time watching this I here talk to the phone agreeing with you lol but I feel like we can just pray for her and not past judgement
In my head, you're my mentor...❤❤🥰🥰😂😂
I got you girl 🙏🏽💕
IMO: Shera is not to blame for what happened to this woman. We are all responsible for our own choices. As ADULTS, we can’t be blind followers of ANYBODY. As responsible ADULTS, you should vet the information, people, and things that come into your life especially people on the internet and content creators. A lot of these creators/consultants/coaches/entertainers/mentors are looking for a dollar. So you have to take what any of them say with a grain of salt. Know God for YOURSELF. Your life is YOUR RESPONSIBILITY.
I agree with most of what you said BUT creators and influencers are heald accountable for the things they say, including myself. I’ve repented and asked my followers for forgiveness when I’ve been wrong. Just because ppl are adults don’t absolve creators from their responsibilities. So I understand your pov but i disagree a bit.
The issue isn’t that she wanted to be with a man who is a provider or she supports the sprinkle sprinkle mindset. The issue is that she didn’t know the man before she got married. People need to get to know the person before trusting them with your life or your kids’ lives. Also, the man who the Trophy wife married was a “religious man”. So this could have happened to anybody, whether they support hypergamy, believe in a 50/50 relationship or women who are the breadwinners. It can happen to the women who marries a man she met in church. So we have to stop being so critical of the wrong things, like her wanting a man to provide. So let’s not bring Shera into this because she literally has nothing to do with this issue.
I addressed everything that this comment said in the video ( please watch FIRST) but if you watched the video, the reason she was mentioned is because the creator herself said she got her lifestyle ideas from.
@ I watched your video and the Trophy Wife’s video. You mentioned the hypergamous lifestyle and how it isn’t good to date men on that principle. But the fact that she didn’t know the man is the real problem. No women should be married within a year or two of meeting a man. You don’t know that man. People can put on an act just to get your trapped and then they will show their true colors. That can happen with a broke man or a rich one.
@@Not_A_Hopeless_Romantic I married my husband in under a year or two so I don't fully agree. I do think you do need to know someone before marrying them but yes her sole focus on hypergamy is how she got here. I said that and stand on it. Most women in our community will not meet a hypergous man due to the statistics of our community. It's unrealistic. Focus on Character - not to be rescued. On average BW make $40K and BM make $50K but married they make 94K. Women tend to pass up really great men when they focus on hypergamy. Not that it's bad, its just unrealistic - everyone won't get it or qualify. BUT if you focus on character, you're more likely to get with someone who has a beautiful heart and mindset and you can be wealthy together.
@ I can respect your opinion. I think we just have to agree to disagree on this topic.
Hi Ms. Gold, love your channel! I don’t know if you were aware but Ashera aka Shera7 is a self proclaimed witch, she used to sell spells and other witchcraft related items, I haven’t watched her in years so I don’t know if she still does. But if the Trophy wife is a Christian why is she looking to a witch for guidance? What fellowship does light have with darkness. Unfortunately I don’t think she is the person she pretends to so I will not demonize her husband or judge him, that is for the most high to do, but I will lift the family and those precious children up with prayer and pray that GOD has his will and his way and that are healed in JESUS NAME! 🙌🏽🙏🏽💗
Wasn't it Kevin Samuels who said do not believe children who state that they are SA. The woman called into his show Stated her child was being SA he dated why would you believe a child. God took him out the next day Mother's day. She-Ra never started any such thing. In actuality she says use witchcraft on such men. Wink wink be powerful goddesses.
Yep