How our Anxieties Harm our Children
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 มิ.ย. 2024
- Children are like sponges soaking up our emotions and behaviors. They often pick up and mirror our anxieties without us even realizing. In this episode, Dr. Shefali helps two mothers discover how their own patterns are getting in the way of connecting to their kids.
Dr. Shefali is a NYT bestselling author of The Conscious Parent, and The Awakened Family. She is also a clinical psychologist, an international speaker and a wisdom teacher, integrating Eastern philosophy with Western psychology.
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Both of my parents have died. I myself am seventy six years old. My father was born in 1913 in Baltimore Maryland. My mother in 1917 in Louisville Kentucky. They met in 1943 while my father was in tank school after completing officer candidate school. They were only able to see each other on weekends. A very short courtship. They got married and he departed for the war. Like most returning veterans, they started their families right after the war and had babies in succession, on after another. The result was four boys. Things fell apart when I, the second son, was nine years old. Not because of me. Daddy had what was then called a nervous breakdown. Today we might call it PTSD. Treatment for veterans in those days involved electroshock therapy. My parents did what most parents did in those days. Beat their children. My teachers did what most teachers did in those days. Beat their students. My brothers and I became what children in those days became. There was no self reflection in those days. I lost more than a few of my friends to suicide. Hard times.
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I didn’t go into daycare until 4, and school at 6. But my dad died when I was 7. This would have impacted on me in some way,
Gm I look forward to these weekly podcasts because I love to learn and grow. Deep gratitude for your guests today. Each guest gave me food for thought with more understanding of my children and grandchildren. Tysm!!! ❤
Wonderful!
Thank you so much Dr. Shefali! I too had a strong willed child who sent me off into this mind blowing journey on presence and growth. I was having this strong feeling that this was the way to parent but I was insecure and unsure specifically under the pressure of people in my environment and my partner. Now I stand firm and proud because I feel validated in that the path that I am on is the right one thanks to you! And my children are responding with compassion and love already. I feel so happy and thankful that I fell in on this path while my children are relatively young and I hopefully can strengthen their essence and give them the childhood they deserve.
Thank you for sharing your journey! I'm glad the podcast has validated your path and helped you find confidence in your parenting. Please follow and share the podcast! 🌟
This episode made me see Dr Shefali as a professional therapist even more
Thank you! I'm glad you found it insightful. Please follow and share the podcast! 🌟
So helpful! This is gold. Thank you so much to you and those that shared.
Thank you for this episode Dr Shefali ❤.
The last case was great, I would feel so greatful and proud to have a mother that apologies for whatever they did or didn’t, that is so brave and loving to me ❤
Thank you for your kind words! Apologizing and showing vulnerability can indeed be very powerful. Please follow and share the podcast! ❤🌟
Eid Mubarak
Thank you! Every time I hear you, there is always a nugget of wisdom I take away. ♥
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so powerful Dr Shefali
❤ love your words, voice, wisdom
thank you!
Absolutely love every bit of this podcast 💜💜 thank you Dr. Shefali
Thanks for listening
Dr. Shefali, thank you so much for uploading these videos. They have been hugely helpful and encouraging in my parenting journey. Thank you ❤
Wonderful!
Thank you so much for this phenomenal interview! It is a very helpful information.
Glad it was helpful!
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