6 Tips for Filipina's when meeting your ldr foreign boyfriend for the first time + my story time.

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  • @GerbenWulff
    @GerbenWulff ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a foreigner, my opinion on some of these things.
    Body hair in various places: there are many foreign cultures with different habits. Not every foreigner expects or likes a clean shave. If you are LDR, you might discuss these intimate things beforehand, so you know what to do and he knows what to expect. It's just another topic that helps you get to know each other more intimately.
    About sex: another thing to discuss, so expectations are clear. Make up your mind and dare to communicate clearly. No is no, but if you don't say so clearly beforehand, he might think that it means maybe.
    More things to discuss: if you don't want to have sex right away and you're going to travel and want your own bedroom, make sure he knows about it. If you want to bring a friend or relative along also discuss this beforehand and don't surprise him with it. If you want him to meet your family, discuss it. If you have been keeping secrets and you know he's probably going to find out, discuss it as soon as possible.
    If you are working on a relationship that hopefully ends up in marriage, you are going to have to share your intimate thoughts and feelings, so you get to know each other intimately and build trust. As long as you are too afraid to share these things, you are not ready to move the relationship to the next level.

    • @angelglendtv
      @angelglendtv 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True, Everything should discussed before the you meet him/ in person.

  • @StoicEver
    @StoicEver ปีที่แล้ว

    You seem like a sweetheart. Thats awesome!

  • @WarrenRCG
    @WarrenRCG ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great info!👋😎👍
    If aking mahal ng buhay ko happens to read this, mahal na mahal na mahal na mahal na mahal na mahal na mahal na mahal na mahal na mahal na mahal kita aking mahal aking buhay!!!😘💗😘💗😘💗

  • @ramonnava7312
    @ramonnava7312 ปีที่แล้ว

    Were you married in the Philippines or somewhere else. My fiancé is a.OFW in Hong Kong. I plan to visit her there next year but she does not get very much Holiday. Thank you for your video. It was very informative.

    • @rutholaescraver
      @rutholaescraver  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We got married here in the Philippines and it's a lot of paperworks . You need a lot of patience too . 😃 if your fiance is in Hong Kong I heard it's quick and easy to get married there. Even if you have a short holiday. You may try and check it. Anyway Congratulations 👏 hoping everything goes smoothly.

  • @lyn415
    @lyn415 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi ruth ask kulang kong alin ang mas madali kumuha ng legal capacity to contract marriage in us citizens

  • @pubwvj
    @pubwvj ปีที่แล้ว

    Good video. For our first meeting I planned out a series of activities including PADI scuba diving course and we spent two weeks diving together which was a great way to get to know each other and to build memories. But first I went to her family home, met them and asked permission to date my then fancy, now fiancé and soon to be wife. Just before I left we had a Pamamanhikan party where I asked permission of her family and then proposed to her, asking her to marry me. Fun times all around and great memory building as we bring our lives together.

    • @rutholaescraver
      @rutholaescraver  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you had fun here in the Philippines with your fiance. Congratulations for your pamanhikan and hope you and your Filipina fiance are doing well 🙂 God bless👍

  • @pubwvj
    @pubwvj ปีที่แล้ว

    Flight delays can be an uncontrollable issue. On my way home this last time from visiting my fiancé there was runway maintenance problems in Manila which cascaded make me get home two days late. I am glad it was on the way home rather than the way to her.

    • @rutholaescraver
      @rutholaescraver  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah that's too bad but glad your flight is safe🙂

  • @andrewandretti7379
    @andrewandretti7379 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lucky is The Man who finds you and marries you.

  • @pubwvj
    @pubwvj ปีที่แล้ว +1

    None of the women I know from Thailand or the Philippines have any hair on their arms or legs. They are naturally hairless there. Four of the six do shave but otherwhere.

    • @rutholaescraver
      @rutholaescraver  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah there's really some women here that are naturally hairless but some of us are not that lucky 😆

  • @StevoChum
    @StevoChum ปีที่แล้ว

    Sis I have a question his arrival will be on October 5 in their country but to my copy is October 6 ? Dahil bato sa time differences sis?

    • @StevoChum
      @StevoChum ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean to his copy he will arrive october 5 in the philippines but to my copy it says October 6?

    • @rutholaescraver
      @rutholaescraver  ปีที่แล้ว

      Uo kasi mas nauna tayo ng 12 hours. Pero anong date alis nya doon sa kanila? Add ka mga 24 hours yun dapat dating nya dito if diretso yung flight.

    • @StevoChum
      @StevoChum ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rutholaescraver October 5 ang alis niya sis

    • @StevoChum
      @StevoChum ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rutholaescraver October 5 ang alis niya sis

    • @rutholaescraver
      @rutholaescraver  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@StevoChum if October 5 sa kanila wait ka 24 hours yun Yung dating nya dito. Example October 5 morning alis nya doon sa kanila (October 5 evening dito sa Pinas), then yung dating nya dapat dito is October 6 evening basta walang mahabang stop over at almost 24 hrs lng yung flight nya

  • @StevoChum
    @StevoChum ปีที่แล้ว

    Sis Ruth are you familiar with remitly transfer?

    • @rutholaescraver
      @rutholaescraver  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hindi sis, sorry di Naman kasi ako nagamit nyan.

  • @lyn415
    @lyn415 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi ruth ask kulang kong alin ang mas madali kumuha ng legal capacity to contract marriage in us citizens

    • @rutholaescraver
      @rutholaescraver  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes madali lng po. Book lng si fiance mo Ng appointment online sa US embassy website para sa schedule like 1-2 months before your preferred date at Pumunnta lng sa us embassy manila or cebu consulate. Check my recent video sis. Dyan ang instructions. Good luck