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  • @rohmprakaash1577
    @rohmprakaash1577 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    It's a good thing to break up and "Improve Ourself" Instead of going back to girls
    🔥🔥🔥👍

  • @pavitrajayakumar9553
    @pavitrajayakumar9553 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I knew the fact “if we can’t be happy with ourself, we can never be happy with anyone”.
    But sometimes we need this kind of reminder to motivate or get ourself out. Much needed, thank you so much🙌🏽

  • @RuleYourLife
    @RuleYourLife ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Great Message Rahul! Please post more Relationship Related Videos.

  • @shajahank3794
    @shajahank3794 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I can completely relate all the steps in to my life ❤️. Thanks for sharing this.

  • @sallybrown3363
    @sallybrown3363 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I truly appreciate the content of this video. It clearly shows the depth of your past experience n it helped me to bring more light into my personal life. Thank you so much Rahul ❤️

  • @gokuls5130
    @gokuls5130 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    She left me 1year ago. That time I am clge final yr student. I just move on.
    I started to concentrate on my career. Now I am strong in my professional life.
    But such a beautiful girl ra..

    • @foodforlifee3581
      @foodforlifee3581 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Cha beautiful ah.. feel pannadha thala💫🤍

    • @bepositive9331
      @bepositive9331 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro ipo ena work panringa

    • @gokuls5130
      @gokuls5130 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bepositive9331 Design engineer in Ford

    • @bepositive9331
      @bepositive9331 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gokuls5130 campus placement a bro salary ?

    • @gokuls5130
      @gokuls5130 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bepositive9331 direct interview bro with help of Naukri. Join panni 3months aguthu
      Before that vera company la work panna

  • @Gopinath-tw7xb
    @Gopinath-tw7xb ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Perfect video in a perfect timing thankyou bro seriously this video made my day and move on from toxic person.

  • @Abinashk-it4jl
    @Abinashk-it4jl ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I am 23,still now I am thinking about my career and family only and still single and therinjo theriyamaiyo na commitment kula pogala thanks God but ini en future la enaku etha life partner varuvanga nu hope iruku and thanks rahul for this video

  • @mrcool6845
    @mrcool6845 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Press like if u are waiting for raw talk🔥🔥🔥

    • @mrcool6845
      @mrcool6845 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Rahulm821 nakku🥵

  • @rajeswaria1325
    @rajeswaria1325 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Whatever you explained you in this video is the exact characteristics of my ex. He is so emotionally dependent on me. Like I have to be there for him every time and I mean the whole relationship was toxic that didn't allow me to grow personally. Though I've chosen him, I was the one who left him. Because I can't handle it any more at that time. Like, he was still a boy not a man yet which I came to know only later. Even if I try to explain what is happening between us, everything went vain. But atlast, he just wanted me to be in that stupid relationship. If I wasn't aware of the toxicity, it'd have been very difficult for both of us. Just listen guys. Don't ever dream to date if you are not yet figured out about your future plans on career. It can be a burden for you later once you get inside a relationship. Take time. There is one already born. Try not to chase. Equip knowledge and skills. Make money enough. Right woman will come on the right time.

    • @SanthoshGanesan-mj6vl
      @SanthoshGanesan-mj6vl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Un moonjala orthan love panaan nu sandosha padu ma 😂

  • @vijayakrishna7342
    @vijayakrishna7342 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Some times we might face toxic relationship too, that would be clingy, not helping us to reach our goal. @Rahul M bro You just light it up 💡💡☮Keep Helping bruh.❤🤝

  • @yuvankarthicksathya4728
    @yuvankarthicksathya4728 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Best genuinely experienced.
    I can understand.
    Very true.
    Very valued points which would help everyone.

  • @soundhar97
    @soundhar97 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Crtt ah nerathula idha poduringa bro !! Thanks for the video

  • @vishmadhu213
    @vishmadhu213 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Rahul..... ❤️
    Have you completed your 2022 goals? 🎯
    Don't forget to post a video 👀💥

  • @duraipandi264
    @duraipandi264 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Just my thoughts to have such clear thoughts like you in choosing relationship first and foremost thing is "Financial Freedom". most of us do not achieve this in India as we are more bound to family bonding and society responsibility.

  • @aravindshiva803
    @aravindshiva803 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    5:24 such an eye opener

  • @crazyloveever2462
    @crazyloveever2462 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Hey Rahul ur growing day by day and ur content tooo....A year back .I too decided to quit from relationship to make me socially independent .Thanks Rahul for ur worthful content

  • @nithyag1321
    @nithyag1321 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That's perfect🥰.Our Happiness is not depend on someone else.

  • @harinarayanan6780
    @harinarayanan6780 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    vera level bro thanks for advice i have gone through lot and broked up and fed up long time i literally lose carrer friends and everything you told real time facts which i was currently doing right now thanks for sharing your experience..

  • @sudarshanjagannathan4864
    @sudarshanjagannathan4864 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yo rahul...this is some gold shit bro...I'm clg 3rd year and I needed this the most! Thankyou so much thala💪

  • @yinyang8254
    @yinyang8254 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Need of the hour🥺thanks you so much...bro.iam realising my mistakes now😍self-love wins finally🙌🙌

  • @Mhmd_SHA
    @Mhmd_SHA ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you soo much brother..
    You're my elder version of myself 🫂😁

  • @jsmusic8972
    @jsmusic8972 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Probably the best brother from another mother I got is, You Rahul🤝❤️

  • @nobi1711
    @nobi1711 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I saw many of videos in TH-cam but this would be the most important thing , my confusion are all solved now

  • @vinothinianbalagan
    @vinothinianbalagan ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It's your perspective based on your experience bro. Myself and my husband were same class and started our friendship in 2nd yr and love from 3rd year. After 4 years we got married and now it's been 8 yrs of marriage. But initial days of mrge we had some misunderstanding which made our bonding stronger than ever. Apart from timepass love, all other love come mrge will be a blessing to live with. It just depends on two persons in love to be successful, supportive and understanding.

  • @GuruR97
    @GuruR97 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey man, wanted to say this is great advice. I live in America so hearing Westernized advice on dating was absolutely miserable. Great to hear it from a fellow Tamil brother.

  • @skjanu6470
    @skjanu6470 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Rahul is back.... Va machan va machan that yogi babu dialogue... 😍

  • @abirami_2609
    @abirami_2609 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    5:49 💥🙌💯
    Anna well said

  • @anbarasibaskaran5312
    @anbarasibaskaran5312 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am 46 years old... happened to watch this video...very matured talk...God bless u man ....u r doing fabulous job

  • @skrskr6968
    @skrskr6968 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    experiencing bro...thanks for ur video en manadila ethu dhan oditu iruku....nampa pain oda depth opposite la purinchuku matinguranga avangaluku athu matter ah kuda irukathu but namapa athu periya visyama irukum..

  • @arunm7017
    @arunm7017 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love ur presentation man🖤🔥... One of the bests of yours....👏

  • @prakasharivazhagan7325
    @prakasharivazhagan7325 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is one of your best videos I've ever seen. Literally I was in the same confusion. I tried to approach a girl, she didn't respond well, I got confused about what to do. Then, as per my friend's advice I stopped approaching her. I think I took a good decision.
    Continue to give such videos Rahul na.👍❤️

  • @Dusky0307
    @Dusky0307 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hey Rahul, you just nailed it. I am happy to see that there is always room for realization. True that we should never take decision till we sort out our life , our happiness is in our hands. Friend is just a friend and not an answer to every problem till marriage. We have to explore people and life, once we explore enough then comes the right perspective. As u said most of them stick to a relationship even thgh it’s toxic and impeding their personal growth. In fact Once they come out they can have a better life which they shld trust😊 I really love all your contents.. keep rocking🎉

  • @naveenk.s9432
    @naveenk.s9432 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Very great advice 👍🏻👏

  • @santhoshhkumar3519
    @santhoshhkumar3519 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love Panna mudiama kastapadum singles sarbaga video vetri pera valthukal

  • @ManimohanTalks
    @ManimohanTalks ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This video reached me at crt time! Thanks bro💙

  • @theradicals2406
    @theradicals2406 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This videos was 7 mins of gold. Thx bro

  • @vv2262
    @vv2262 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Friends are friends .Love is love 😊True

  • @ACUITSyedSameer
    @ACUITSyedSameer ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Thalaaaaaa🔥🔥

    • @thriller4882
      @thriller4882 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thalapathy🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @kran1568
    @kran1568 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey Rahul🥺..Thank you For Such Wonderful Video💖 Best ever video for me❤️ Thanks a lot

  • @mohammedmazar3981
    @mohammedmazar3981 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Please share your thoughts whether having higher expectations for a partner is wrong. Right age for marriage and so on topics

  • @divinegifting9035
    @divinegifting9035 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    When boy become men and girl become women
    Real love ,responsibility,role of each other.....growth.
    What ever I was thinking of future and Had past experiences.
    U said as good content.
    It's really Valuable to both who ever loving..guys.

  • @captainamerica7320
    @captainamerica7320 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Rahul break up because toxic relationship
    -OG subscriber

  • @annabellehorrific4002
    @annabellehorrific4002 ปีที่แล้ว

    The fact is many many of us here have zero knowledge on Self Love Love , Affection , Trauma , Healing Personalities and Red Flags !!!!! The obsession and blind trust will literally kills us all... It's not how it's depicted in films for sure 🤗

  • @aljtech
    @aljtech ปีที่แล้ว +2

    extremely helpful video! Thanks so much

  • @arunvijay18
    @arunvijay18 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so Rahul most of Youngster never know this thing But I will realise in love doesn't connect with reality particles life so my college final year so I choose in break up with my girlfriend after completing my college and build my career love crush come and go But your character your career last for every 👍

  • @sam.d4515
    @sam.d4515 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1:43 friendship eppdi create pandarthu ennaku theriyathu bro,,,athuku separate ta vedio poduinga bro ❤️

  • @jayanthiannadurai640
    @jayanthiannadurai640 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Simply explain in few minutes 👍

  • @Dhanu-de1kk
    @Dhanu-de1kk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Anna video super thank you for tips ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @divyahappy2050
    @divyahappy2050 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Was randomly scrolling the videos, and now am feeling satisfied after watching the whole content..especially the ending❤

  • @everything_u_need1072
    @everything_u_need1072 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Intha video neenga upload pana time la pathen ipo again vanthu pakren

  • @Dhanushsaji
    @Dhanushsaji ปีที่แล้ว

    You gave me so much insights. Thank you very much.

  • @godwinvinesh4248
    @godwinvinesh4248 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brother, it's definitely usefull for most of them, thank a lot🙏

  • @raghavgaming6895
    @raghavgaming6895 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Breakub Pannathaum Happy Sollara Ore Person Nenga Than bro👍...

  • @mr.aakash805
    @mr.aakash805 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bro neenga toxic relationship pathi pesumpodhu sirichute pesuninga athunala neenga break 💔 up pannathuku karanam toxic relationship 😁😉

  • @vaseegaranvasi5205
    @vaseegaranvasi5205 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow. Really Useful Topic Brother..

  • @mohamedharishshazran328
    @mohamedharishshazran328 ปีที่แล้ว

    Top G Spitting Out Straight Facts🔥💯 Really Appreciate it man🫡❤️Keep Going🍾

  • @priyadarsinim9906
    @priyadarsinim9906 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Rahul, I have an doubt, usually girls who are true in their love will always focus on getting married with her lover as soon as possible. So if a girl friend is asking her lover to get married soon then will it become an toxic relationship?

    • @enoughwithandles
      @enoughwithandles ปีที่แล้ว +9

      If some random stranger can answer this question , the answer would be yes it is acceptable until its not compelled . You don't compel people to stay in your life . They just come in to your life and stay , no matter what , they understand and go through what you try to explain . The person who loves you will be there for you no matter what . Have a beautiful time ahead . Ciao.

    • @prashanchandrapalan5488
      @prashanchandrapalan5488 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes that will

    • @akalya3
      @akalya3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It doesn't mean their partner is a toxic person . Everyone has different perspectives in marriage. Taking a decision for oneself doesn't make you toxic. It's better to talk out to their partner about their marriage and what plans they have got.

    • @BHAGAVADGITAN
      @BHAGAVADGITAN 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Athula thappu Ila but rendu paerukum okvaa irukanumla . Yeannaa marriagengurathu peariye commitment

  • @khabylame1765
    @khabylame1765 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I already downloaded this video because very useful thank you nanba❤️❤️

  • @mjsudeep8265
    @mjsudeep8265 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the video 🤗👍🏼

  • @carenthusiast8733
    @carenthusiast8733 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video was so much informative..💯

  • @sanjaykumar-cd1ji
    @sanjaykumar-cd1ji ปีที่แล้ว +1

    At early twenties, our little brother influences us more than anything in the world

  • @Kuttypattas1507
    @Kuttypattas1507 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really amazing bro.... your videos created some magic in my life I am really upset some person reason, unfortunately I saw your videos really very much impressed to me and again I am comeback to my normal position...u know before that I am not subscribed any channels but 1st time i am subscribed your channel and saw your videos and put on bell icon ...from the heart, I told you God bless you bro...I don't know ,you have to time for read this msg... anyway I am very happy bro...when I am feel like down or upset,immediately I see your videos....Thanks bro...i am not like to meet any celebrity but now I would like to meet you one day....that day i should grow up... please continue your service to all....and sorry I know my English not good but soon i will try to correct it bro..😊

  • @needtobechanged
    @needtobechanged ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Exact reflecting of my mind Rahul

  • @shanmugakeerthyramasamy6016
    @shanmugakeerthyramasamy6016 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Though you are logically and responsibly correct, we all have to cross the first love to learn or realize these.

    • @rajeswaria1325
      @rajeswaria1325 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True.. for many of the people, first love holds everything that one needs to learn and master in life.

  • @saro_9519
    @saro_9519 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have no idea,how much helpful is this Rahul! ❤

  • @godblissfulfun
    @godblissfulfun ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing wisdom... ellarum anubavathulendhu kathupom🤣💯💯

  • @saranyasubramanian1658
    @saranyasubramanian1658 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Worth watching.. thanks bro....

  • @hariscarfan4154
    @hariscarfan4154 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Self-respect is more important in relationship .otherwise it won't workout

  • @ArunPrasadVK
    @ArunPrasadVK 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nowadays u guys are very brilliant and sharp. Know how to come from black side.

  • @Iam_mithunnitheeshrogan
    @Iam_mithunnitheeshrogan ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Relationshipp....is a Bigg Term... in Reality...🖤

  • @dhanush404
    @dhanush404 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am willing to adopt you as my Brother 🥰💯

  • @shajir5876
    @shajir5876 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well put Rahul❤️‍🔥.. Atlast find someone with my same mentality 🤞

  • @mohanapriya6725
    @mohanapriya6725 ปีที่แล้ว

    Serndhu irundhadan valkai bro.. Namba thaniya irundha epd happya irukka mudium.. Never possible.. Happiness s communicate others anna.. It depends other

  • @arthivijayakumar04
    @arthivijayakumar04 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That friendship point is 💯 true

  • @rowhustel7225
    @rowhustel7225 ปีที่แล้ว

    Semma contant and semma taland ithu rendum irukkurathalatha nenga ipdi irukinga

  • @jamesnewton8550
    @jamesnewton8550 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Rahul M back to his original channel 🤣#Content

  • @moorthikin777
    @moorthikin777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro nee Vera ragam 😂🔥

  • @BMRPraveennath
    @BMRPraveennath ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lesson 4 personal growth, correct aa bro

  • @matheshmurugan8124
    @matheshmurugan8124 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thak you so much for sharing rahul.. 🙌

  • @the_rajgokul9720
    @the_rajgokul9720 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes rahulm actually breakup is a good thing every one need to face once in a life aft bup for some days we behave like mentally challenged person😁 but after that ly we came to know the clear cut of life career, happiness and one thing I have experienced in my life happiness can give by ourselves only not by other and your all points are valid superb rahulmmmmmmmmm🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @r.ragavendratm3800
    @r.ragavendratm3800 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you bro

  • @vijays3170
    @vijays3170 ปีที่แล้ว

    You speak realy nice bro first ninga pesuradu enaku pudikuvay pudikadhu bro ….but now i feel great ur speak good❤

  • @codinground5781
    @codinground5781 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thalaiva thanks 😍😘

  • @manmathan4475
    @manmathan4475 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The best video you ever make ❤️

  • @mkgojogamer7673
    @mkgojogamer7673 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Rahul I think you also try to change your friendship to relationship 😅 that's why You do break up right 🤣 but thanks Rahul bro ❤️ I have so confusion to change friendship into relationship now I'm clear 😸 friendship is friendship

  • @Naveen_sitharth
    @Naveen_sitharth ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rahul your the best 💯✨

  • @the_name_is_usman
    @the_name_is_usman ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro... Entrepreneurship pathi video podu ya plzzz....

  • @mukkesh9751
    @mukkesh9751 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks bro ana 2 weeks before indha video potukalam

  • @Sivapu43
    @Sivapu43 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dont make love if your doesn't able to deserve them please dont play with someone feelings 😊🙏 nowdays peoples says i love you just like saying hello

  • @Monish_Prasad_V
    @Monish_Prasad_V ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I guess you broke up because you wanted to focus on yourself...
    Or probably you tried to convert friendship into love and ended up with a breakup

  • @prasathnarayanan8980
    @prasathnarayanan8980 ปีที่แล้ว

    well said my man!

  • @MaheshKumar-gh9jl
    @MaheshKumar-gh9jl ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you brother ❤

  • @karthigab3201
    @karthigab3201 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Reality….is The only word Hitting me through out this video

  • @fearlesswarrior0769
    @fearlesswarrior0769 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thala brake up panitala intha naal intha nimisham iruthu unga life ungalukaga vaala arambika start panuga enna porthavaraikum single roadla pogapodhu china feel irukum cha namakum ipadi commit life amainja happya irukum but single la irukarathu than best god is there dude he will provide life partner when u need wait for sometimes 🕉hare krishna

  • @rollno2146
    @rollno2146 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Superb bruh ❤️

  • @anantharajv7768
    @anantharajv7768 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Correct bro 🥳🥳🥳 but financial locke agavainga depression povaingathan bro

  • @cheezypotato9594
    @cheezypotato9594 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man spittin fax fr 😎

  • @varunapriyanagaraj6742
    @varunapriyanagaraj6742 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video and reality points... 😀😀😀

  • @siva735
    @siva735 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rahul just be friends apdi oru category ae illa nenaikiren