I'm from Argentina and this is very true. Psychoanalysis is very rooted in our society and is very hard to maintain a partner for a long time, the relationship decays really fast. This is because, in my humble opinion, do not accept what love really is and instead we idealize love. God bless you all
Creo que los Argentinos son extremadamente irrealistas, y me refiero a todo. Creo desde mi opinion y experiencia que las cosas las hacen más por instinto que por una razón. En ese caso son los más pasionales y gastan todo en la primera vuelta, no entendiendo que la vida es una carrera de 100 vueltas. ❤
@@bleepbloop9123 The only real non western countries are a bit of latin america, most of africa and a bit of asia. Everything else is western. This is why people should talk about humanity instead of making these ignorant divisions for countries, especially in such globalized world.
Except that it seems so many bright people today are uncomfortable with the unconditional character of love, and prefer friendship as life's model relationship.
Idk our society is largely sexless and loveless. Idk who is right or wrong, but some *thing* changed in our society and we are more mentally ill and hopeless than ever.
@@morezombies9685Yes it's a real mystery. Let's all put our fingers on the chin, scratch it wondering what happened that triggered this change. Let's all keep pretending like we don't know this is the result of feminism left unchecked. Hypergamy has been unleashed. Don't worry, it's not everyone who is sexless, some are having abundance of it, and even more are having none of it. That's what happens when hypergamy is left unchecked and hedonism is applauded.
No body has a definition of love, and everybody thought they lived once. I hope you love your family as a family you may make for yourself in the next generation to come.
In Christianity, agape is "the highest form of love, charity" and "the love of God for man and of man for God". This is in contrast to philia, brotherly love, or philautia, self-love, as it embraces a profound sacrificial love that transcends and … See moredfasdfbbrainlessclownw34234
Everyone has some sort of a definition of love good or bad, i hate the approach that these are all unknowable mystrious things that we should accept as is. Imho thats just conservative nonsense trying to force the cultural status quo upon people.
Love simply means you'd die for someone. Love is having genuine care for others. Doing for others without having the slightest thought of receiving something back.
So many of the middle aged, committed bachelors and bachelorettes I know find this love ideal as unrealistic or even "toxic." Friendship is their model relationship.
@@hd-xc2lz but Agape is the deepest form of friendship. It is loving your friend as much as yourself and perhaps even more than your own life. It does not have to be romantic love, but it is a love that is wholely committed to the good of the other. Typically in the belief that such commitment also increases the richness and meaning of our own lives, even if it shortens our lives. If you only live for yourself, your world and your reach is very small.
No. Nietzche criticizes this idea of morality in his book the genealogy of morals. This idea, that modern peoplenhave that giving without receiving is good or moral. Think about the culture and society of people who would deem that act morally good. Giving without receiving is absurd. This is way too deep to go into if you've never read books on moral philosophy and it's history so my comment probably won't make sense. I guess I'm just saying, think about why certain things have been deemed morally good or bad, and who or what type of people would make those distinctions. I wouldn't say love is Giving without receiving at all. Ayn rand talks about this as well. The idea of selfishness, as in i do for you because i love you, but also bcause i get things in return. If we all did things for each other with no return, that wouldn't really end well for you in the long run.
absolutely. This breakdown of binding social awareness, focused upon social cultural stability - upon raising healthy children, is intentionally and progressively being torn, limb from limb. And we can see our culture falling apart, spinning into violence and confusion. ❤️🕊️❤️🩹 Healing is possible.
He has got a good point. Nowadays, turn on the dating app, 95% of profiles are super conditional, you have very limited preferences in a partner? Fine, I would like to ask you, what would you be accepting of in a partner? What lenghts would you go for loving someone? We ask for someone who doesnt exist, and even if that perfect person would appear, would your @exact matched preferance” have anthing to do with love really?
The history of psychology and psychoanalysis in Argentina is really complex. In part, we lived almost half of Twentieth century under dictatorships that made us naturalize violence and censorship in a very particular way (different from a war for example). And also, after the last dictatorship, which applied state terrorism on the civilian population (destroying families and stealing babies) psychology courses were reopened in public universities, allowing many of the people affected by state terrorism to access that education.
Argentina has the highest amount of psycologists and bookstores per capita in the world, this not only makes access to clinical therapy very cheap but it also is one of the few countries where lacanian psycoanalisis is the norm.
That was my first thought, too! Where the heck did he get that information? Surely, that prize must go to the USA? Having been to Argentina 🇦🇷 and having been married to an Argentinian for 17yrs years, I sincerely doubt his statement. From what I know, Argentinians are some of the least reflective and least self-analytical cultures.
Psychoanalysis is the most influential school of psychology in Argentina. He states that because, in a great number of cases, if you go to a psychologist, it will be a psychoanalist.
We just forgot that Newton & others math mapped the human dashboard hierarchy knowledge of Good and evil equations. We leaned into this biases and the old horizontal deterministic linear axis minds couldn't handle it sparking over reactionary responses to temporary thoughts based on limited discovery of how to anylically work complexity.. We just spent the most money in human history, with access to the best tools ever just to confirm what classical American & most of the west already knew. We piggyback our mechanics & technicians uncountable generations of trial and error improvements as if anything else matters. Even in archeology and textual critique 1940-1990s set us back from what we already knew lol
People are just smart animals. When you understand nature, you understand humans. We have built different societies around the World with different standards. Now we are figuring out what is actually normal.
Institutionalized amatonormativity vs pan paniscus society based on playful prosociality/sociosexuality for promotion of group stability regardless of age and gender as a byproduct of domestication syndrome (Richard Wrangham). Not sure about Trobrianders, Kaluli, Sambia people, Marind Anim, Piraha, Big Namba, Mosuo and all the extinct undocumented hunter-gatherer societies with different effects on epigenetic expression. Obedience to abstract laws and authorities in general population due to self-domestication syndrome according to the Goodness Paradox (Richard Wrangham) alongside the inter-male competition resulting in clandestine behaviour (cooperation maintenance hypothesis: not peer reviewed) might be another factor in humans.
Limiting human beings to animal instincts is wrong and only helps to make humans more evil. If you think you are only an advanced animal you will start to behave like an animal. Slavoj Zizek is probably a very sad person that needs help!
Love is not love which bends with the remover to remove. Oh no. It is an every fixed mark that looks on tmepests and is never shhaken..it is the star to every wandering barks whos worth is unknown although his height be taken, loves not times fool though rosey lips and cheeks within hsi ebndling sicles compass come, loves not times fool, it changes not with his breif hours and weeks, but bears out untill the edge of doom, if thus be error and upon mee proved i never writ nor no man ever loved. Wow...i thought i only remmebered the one line.e thats cool. Cant rmember what i did last week but thats bet in to my brain.
Why would tramping around be thought of as running away, that doesn't make a whole lotta sense. As far as Love is concerned you know its love when both parties feel the same. And unfortunately when you lose someone or your pet then you feel love as a physical thing not just of the heart. Only you know when its love, and you express it in sometimes the stupidest ways from the outside but to you its love. Love lasts forever its not a passing emotion, if you dont love someone anymore then you never really did. Loves a funny thing. And you know just look at your pet, thats love. Have a great day. And give a pet for me.
Love is NEVER unconditional ! An impulse coming from the environment is a precondition for this state of sickness. Zizek himself described it that way, that even non-attractive traces then would be accepted. Hence, there can be a "fly in the ointment" (that sooner or later will appear in the love-bubble anyway), which itself also undoubtedly is a condition. Only if we reformulate this entire field without conditonal or unconditional we can get a grasp of what we're talking about. Fundamentally I claim, as soon as we talk about it, it isn't love anymore. What we do for another person is love. And here we meet a vast spectrum of expressing this ever changing state. Why is it that love changes it's form and expression throughout the years living with another person? It clearly isn't a state but moreso a dynamic affair. An old fashioned religiously indoctrinated set of mind we see here in Zizek, nothing else I claim. Sorry I talk too much 😊
Love is a chemical reaction in the body that allows men and women to stand each over long enough to have kids and raise kids together. Or direct that same energy to some other -easier- common life project. If that doesn’t work out, who can blame people for trying again with someone else? Not everything is pathological.
It's normalising by majority the white spot will light up, that's the situation nowadays parents failed to raise morality in their kids and we have this now
@@razagriffiths3444He/She/It thinks that love is work on the self. If you do some good and some introspection, the love is there. If you don't, the love is still there but inaccessible.
Surely in that case, God is the ultimate dinner, desiring only self aggrandisement through submission of others to his will and punishment of those who don't preen his ego?
I'm sorry but the "if you stay with one partner you are told 'oh my god, this is a patgalogical fixation' " is complete horseshirt. He does not have to be as comfortable with the idea of non-monogamy/polyamory necessarily but he is just being hyperbolic with that claim.
He, in neither one of those two examples, claimed that it's his position. Just that argentinian psychoanalysts in contrast to the classical/old western psychoanalysts, would call monogamy pathological. Yes he stated in the beginning that polyamory/polygamy isn't love, but the claims of these presumed argentinian Analysts, are not his Argumentations - neither are the western claims.
@@noa7399 He claimed, in this same video that you are commenting on, that this is what someone would be told if they were preferring to be in a relationship with one person. (you can try watching the video). Again, it's horseshirt. He is dreaming up a scenario.
@@Tao_Tology He's not. That is what is currently in vogue in psychoanalysis in the country. Buenos Aires has been called the "world capital of psychoanalysis," with a high density of psychoanalysts and psychotherapists, and the current vogue there is to pathologize "hegemonic" sexualities, ie old-fashioned monogamy.
Tell Slavoj this: Sex and love are 2 different things, a man wants many sex partners but only 1 love partner. We love our children, we do not want to have sex with our children. Love is to protect our family beyond our will to survive, to ensure a greater survival chance for the offspring. Wanting to have many sexual partners as a man is to spread the semen. I am shocked he is so uneducated about this area, but sadly most people are
@@xenphoton5833 because love is a pretty clear evolutionairy trait: family aka offspring over yourself to increase survival odds. It's almost like colors, they kind of objectively exist too even though they are a subjective experience
@@JuliusUniqueThe survival of your offsprings depends on the quality/type of love between a couple. If the love is conditional, it is weakened and may end up in a divorce or worse,: in creating trauma in the upbringing of the children. If the love is sincere and not conditional on keeping the family together for the sake of the children, the offsprings will have the best chance to survive and become good parents themselves. It is primarily the quality of the love between a couple which helps the survival of offsprings.
A good philosopher makes you inquire, a great philosopher makes you depressed
An excellent philosopher makes you in a state of enchantment, wonder and contemplation.
@@Consciousness_of_Reality An exceptional philisopher makes you think about your current situation
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@pro-business-plans Says who?
@@TheDezmona your mom
This is the most normal/calm I've seen Zizek ever.
Lots of little cuts, I think they just cut out his normal viscous assault upon his own nose.
@@Squiddy00gold
I just felt when he said "why are you running?"
Running causes accidents
WHY ARE YOU RONNIN
Yes.. but when you mentioned it I read it in a Nigerian accent. IYKYK
I'm from Argentina and this is very true. Psychoanalysis is very rooted in our society and is very hard to maintain a partner for a long time, the relationship decays really fast. This is because, in my humble opinion, do not accept what love really is and instead we idealize love. God bless you all
Creo que los Argentinos son extremadamente irrealistas, y me refiero a todo. Creo desde mi opinion y experiencia que las cosas las hacen más por instinto que por una razón. En ese caso son los más pasionales y gastan todo en la primera vuelta, no entendiendo que la vida es una carrera de 100 vueltas. ❤
That’s so interesting I never think about certain colonized countries being western in the sense that they adopted psychoanalysis & stuff
@@armoniapush8281 somos muy idealistas, eso puede traer buenas y malas consecuencias.
@@bleepbloop9123 The only real non western countries are a bit of latin america, most of africa and a bit of asia. Everything else is western.
This is why people should talk about humanity instead of making these ignorant divisions for countries, especially in such globalized world.
@@armoniapush8281, y claro amigo, murió Toriyama y los japoneses mostraban en el noticiero que nosotros lo despedíamos más populosamente(?
Slavoj Žižek is a brilliant philosopher, he is quoted by some of the greatest philosopher's of the modern era.
says more about psychoanalysis than about love
I think the same
How do we know?
Except that it seems so many bright people today are uncomfortable with the unconditional character of love, and prefer friendship as life's model relationship.
Idk our society is largely sexless and loveless. Idk who is right or wrong, but some *thing* changed in our society and we are more mentally ill and hopeless than ever.
@@morezombies9685Yes it's a real mystery. Let's all put our fingers on the chin, scratch it wondering what happened that triggered this change.
Let's all keep pretending like we don't know this is the result of feminism left unchecked. Hypergamy has been unleashed. Don't worry, it's not everyone who is sexless, some are having abundance of it, and even more are having none of it. That's what happens when hypergamy is left unchecked and hedonism is applauded.
We are forgetting faster than we are discovering.
Love is transcendent.
Fidelity= pathological fixation. 😅😅
Suffering succotash he's right
I remember in my young days, I used to ask strangers "what is love"
I didn't get any answer yet.
"baby dont hurt me"
@@andy897221 exactly what an American sang as a reply to the question.
Don’t hurt me
No more
in moments like this I love the internet
Huh, so thats why he's been married four times
Focus on the message and not the messenger
Marriage is a hell of lot different than dating
@@TruthDissidentExcept we don't live in a do as I say not as I do species we do monkey see monkey do.
@TruthDissident nah the messenger is important, I've never seen an ass produce a flower
Love isn’t a transaction or a momentary fixation
Tell us about love Slavoj
Hahahahaha
Could you imagine being in a relationship with this dude
@@adsffdaaf4170 I think I would then be a pug
@@adsffdaaf4170the question is not who would. But would he? Because its difficult to get slavoj
Real love is unconditional? Christ, it's revolutionary.
Nailed it!
Love is always unconditional for men, and never unconditional for women
I swear to god these jokes always come back.
Really dont know where he got that info from... But thats not social convention in here in Argentina...
I'm from Argentina and confirm.
We jump from partner to partner as well as we jump from leftist to conservatives. So accurate, Slavoj
Full video?
If there is non-love, then it must be conditional
I love the way Zizek tries to act like some kind of godfather guiding the left to purity
Ha! Love this guy.
No body has a definition of love, and everybody thought they lived once. I hope you love your family as a family you may make for yourself in the next generation to come.
In Christianity, agape is "the highest form of love, charity" and "the love of God for man and of man for God". This is in contrast to philia, brotherly love, or philautia, self-love, as it embraces a profound sacrificial love that transcends and … See moredfasdfbbrainlessclownw34234
Everyone has some sort of a definition of love good or bad, i hate the approach that these are all unknowable mystrious things that we should accept as is. Imho thats just conservative nonsense trying to force the cultural status quo upon people.
Literally every comment on TH-cam is beyond stupid lol
Shorter relationships ought to be encouraged, well done to Argentina.
I don't even fully understand for what he said, but i love him😅
Love in the fairytale sense is a very naive concept.
Love simply means you'd die for someone. Love is having genuine care for others. Doing for others without having the slightest thought of receiving something back.
The kind of love the Greeks called Agape.
So many of the middle aged, committed bachelors and bachelorettes I know find this love ideal as unrealistic or even "toxic." Friendship is their model relationship.
@@hd-xc2lz I would agree tbh. At the end of the day, it's all chemical reactions in our brains and love, just like every emotion is temporary.
@@hd-xc2lz but Agape is the deepest form of friendship. It is loving your friend as much as yourself and perhaps even more than your own life. It does not have to be romantic love, but it is a love that is wholely committed to the good of the other. Typically in the belief that such commitment also increases the richness and meaning of our own lives, even if it shortens our lives. If you only live for yourself, your world and your reach is very small.
No. Nietzche criticizes this idea of morality in his book the genealogy of morals. This idea, that modern peoplenhave that giving without receiving is good or moral. Think about the culture and society of people who would deem that act morally good. Giving without receiving is absurd. This is way too deep to go into if you've never read books on moral philosophy and it's history so my comment probably won't make sense. I guess I'm just saying, think about why certain things have been deemed morally good or bad, and who or what type of people would make those distinctions.
I wouldn't say love is Giving without receiving at all. Ayn rand talks about this as well. The idea of selfishness, as in i do for you because i love you, but also bcause i get things in return. If we all did things for each other with no return, that wouldn't really end well for you in the long run.
The inner ugliness transforms the exterior, overtime & eventually.
❤
absolutely. This breakdown of binding social awareness, focused upon social cultural stability - upon raising healthy children,
is intentionally and progressively being torn, limb from limb. And we can see our culture falling apart, spinning into violence and confusion.
❤️🕊️❤️🩹
Healing is possible.
His hospital band is still attached.
Soy de argentina y es asi
And so on...
He has got a good point.
Nowadays, turn on the dating app, 95% of profiles are super conditional, you have very limited preferences in a partner? Fine, I would like to ask you, what would you be accepting of in a partner? What lenghts would you go for loving someone?
We ask for someone who doesnt exist, and even if that perfect person would appear, would your @exact matched preferance” have anthing to do with love really?
Can anyone fill me in why Argentina is the most psychoanalyzed country?
The history of psychology and psychoanalysis in Argentina is really complex. In part, we lived almost half of Twentieth century under dictatorships that made us naturalize violence and censorship in a very particular way (different from a war for example). And also, after the last dictatorship, which applied state terrorism on the civilian population (destroying families and stealing babies) psychology courses were reopened in public universities, allowing many of the people affected by state terrorism to access that education.
Argentina has the highest amount of psycologists and bookstores per capita in the world, this not only makes access to clinical therapy very cheap but it also is one of the few countries where lacanian psycoanalisis is the norm.
One way ticket to Argentina please
It reminds me of that Abbott Elementary scene wherein Janine confesses to only have ever dated her ex since 8th grade 😆
I don't think I've ever understood a single thing this guy says
Meanwhile he’s been married four times
Wasn't this the same guy saying that love is evil ?
You're taking too seriously the words of a madman rambling.
@@overlord1995 i need to remiand me this when i think of mi thougths😅
I should move to Argentina..
Right
Peace is not to over analyze and just to say "its' life" gone are the days :)
That is global darkness
Wow
Uncommon Žižek W
Why/how is Argentina the most psychoanalysed country in the world?
I highly doubt that he'll be providing references to back up his claims.
Because they are chronically broke and have to continually deal with the existential crisis of permanent debt!
@@matthewsheeran If you think about it, a "chronically broke" society isn't going to have money for therapists/analysis.
That was my first thought, too! Where the heck did he get that information? Surely, that prize must go to the USA?
Having been to Argentina 🇦🇷 and having been married to an Argentinian for 17yrs years, I sincerely doubt his statement. From what I know, Argentinians are some of the least reflective and least self-analytical cultures.
Psychoanalysis is the most influential school of psychology in Argentina. He states that because, in a great number of cases, if you go to a psychologist, it will be a psychoanalist.
We just forgot that Newton & others math mapped the human dashboard hierarchy knowledge of Good and evil equations.
We leaned into this biases and the old horizontal deterministic linear axis minds couldn't handle it sparking over reactionary responses to temporary thoughts based on limited discovery of how to anylically work complexity..
We just spent the most money in human history, with access to the best tools ever just to confirm what classical American & most of the west already knew.
We piggyback our mechanics & technicians uncountable generations of trial and error improvements as if anything else matters.
Even in archeology and textual critique 1940-1990s set us back from what we already knew lol
People are just smart animals. When you understand nature, you understand humans. We have built different societies around the World with different standards. Now we are figuring out what is actually normal.
And be Cornudo is Greate😊
I'm moving to Argentina right away.
Women move from one partner to another too: be careful not to fall in love with a firefly! 😉
Yes, ma'am! I will try.
Revolting
Well, but try to avoid Rosario right now
and then , when you have a kid... all that adventurism becomes bogus
Slavoj got that rizz for the interviewer
Every argentinian girl ive been with had a boyfriend... just sayin
Institutionalized amatonormativity vs pan paniscus society based on playful prosociality/sociosexuality for promotion of group stability regardless of age and gender as a byproduct of domestication syndrome (Richard Wrangham). Not sure about Trobrianders, Kaluli, Sambia people, Marind Anim, Piraha, Big Namba, Mosuo and all the extinct undocumented hunter-gatherer societies with different effects on epigenetic expression. Obedience to abstract laws and authorities in general population due to self-domestication syndrome according to the Goodness Paradox (Richard Wrangham) alongside the inter-male competition resulting in clandestine behaviour (cooperation maintenance hypothesis: not peer reviewed) might be another factor in humans.
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Limiting human beings to animal instincts is wrong and only helps to make humans more evil. If you think you are only an advanced animal you will start to behave like an animal. Slavoj Zizek is probably a very sad person that needs help!
Gen Z in the comment going crazy for what zizek said. Lol no wonder why GenZ sucks.
I'm from gen Z. He is right.
Sylvester the cat certainly did something with his life
😂
upside down mindset
Love is not love which bends with the remover to remove. Oh no. It is an every fixed mark that looks on tmepests and is never shhaken..it is the star to every wandering barks whos worth is unknown although his height be taken, loves not times fool though rosey lips and cheeks within hsi ebndling sicles compass come, loves not times fool, it changes not with his breif hours and weeks, but bears out untill the edge of doom, if thus be error and upon mee proved i never writ nor no man ever loved. Wow...i thought i only remmebered the one line.e thats cool. Cant rmember what i did last week but thats bet in to my brain.
Thesis and…
A dialect will be …
?!
Why does love mean you can’t get your needs met?
Which of your needs aren't met?
He's the Jordan Peterson of the Left. Just ramblings of an egotistical narcissist
Se ele vivesse um dia no Bostil ele não iria tankar kkkkkk
faithfulness to one partner is pathological fixation. Funny.
ARGENTINA PAPAAAAAAAA MEJOR PAÍS DEL MUNDOOOOOOOO
Argentina sucks 😂
En qué sentido? 😂😂
Brazil 🇧🇷🇧🇷
ARRANCA MESSI POR LA DERECHA, GENIO DEL FUTBOL MUNDIAL
@@respondegiles8182 Neymar
so psychopathology is a social construction
Is this what hungarian people sound like?
Donald 🦆🦆🦆🦆🦆 duck Im sorry I can't 😂
I normally disagree with him. He's accurate about this
He talks like the deep sea fish from spongebob
He sounds like he's ripping farts through his mouth.
???? we look at a monogamous relationship and say what?
Why would tramping around be thought of as running away, that doesn't make a whole lotta sense. As far as Love is concerned you know its love when both parties feel the same. And unfortunately when you lose someone or your pet then you feel love as a physical thing not just of the heart. Only you know when its love, and you express it in sometimes the stupidest ways from the outside but to you its love. Love lasts forever its not a passing emotion, if you dont love someone anymore then you never really did. Loves a funny thing. And you know just look at your pet, thats love. Have a great day. And give a pet for me.
I mean it's Argentina not the world. So whatever
Love is NEVER unconditional ! An impulse coming from the environment is a precondition for this state of sickness.
Zizek himself described it that way, that even non-attractive traces then would be accepted. Hence, there can be a "fly in the ointment" (that sooner or later will appear in the love-bubble anyway), which itself also undoubtedly is a condition. Only if we reformulate this entire field without conditonal or unconditional we can get a grasp of what we're talking about. Fundamentally I claim, as soon as we talk about it, it isn't love anymore. What we do for another person is love. And here we meet a vast spectrum of expressing this ever changing state. Why is it that love changes it's form and expression throughout the years living with another person? It clearly isn't a state but moreso a dynamic affair.
An old fashioned religiously indoctrinated set of mind we see here in Zizek, nothing else I claim. Sorry I talk too much 😊
making a gesture to scientify the love but not proving
This is meaningless blabber if I ever saw some.
@@theunisholthuis4212fr
Old fashioned Religious indoctrained mind ? wow...This one word describes about yourself.
Everything is conditional. But conditional doesn't equal lack of compassion and sincerity. You can't unconditionally (randomly) love somebody
Today’s young generations utterly stupid to understand the real meaning of Love.
Love is a chemical reaction in the body that allows men and women to stand each over long enough to have kids and raise kids together.
Or direct that same energy to some other -easier- common life project.
If that doesn’t work out, who can blame people for trying again with someone else?
Not everything is pathological.
The world has become insane
Lol. Silly man talking about things of which he is unfamiliar.
Yo, from Argentina here. Idk what he's on about
"normal" changes, fool.
Lizzppp
Eso no es cierto
It's normalising by majority the white spot will light up, that's the situation nowadays parents failed to raise morality in their kids and we have this now
Only dogs and God give unconditional love 😬
Submission isn't love, I claim !
how can hell exist if god gives unconditional love ?
@@razagriffiths3444He/She/It thinks that love is work on the self. If you do some good and some introspection, the love is there. If you don't, the love is still there but inaccessible.
@@razagriffiths3444 they refused to accept it.
My dog bit me.
Ask gay men. They're always considered multiple partners the norm.
Also they see relationships differently, marriage serves no real purpose
And I honestly find that kind of promiscuity absolutely off putting. Makes me physically sick
What they have is lust, not love.
On every video speak bs
Another symptom of a God less society
He is sooo basic.... Nothing to learn from him...
Surely in that case, God is the ultimate dinner, desiring only self aggrandisement through submission of others to his will and punishment of those who don't preen his ego?
can we please stop legitimizing every dumb hot take slavoj has
why. this is accurate. hookup culture is pathologic but normalized.
What does hookup culture have to do with it? It doesn’t even pretend to be about love.
@@bezawitgetahun427he's not talking about it
@@herrrmikeZizek is indulging in the same kind of "kids these days!" moral-panic-stoking that produced the term "hook up culture"
@@herrrmikeso why do protesters say love is love?
Lmao Slavoj please…
I'm sorry but the "if you stay with one partner you are told 'oh my god, this is a patgalogical fixation' " is complete horseshirt.
He does not have to be as comfortable with the idea of non-monogamy/polyamory necessarily but he is just being hyperbolic with that claim.
He, in neither one of those two examples, claimed that it's his position. Just that argentinian psychoanalysts in contrast to the classical/old western psychoanalysts, would call monogamy pathological.
Yes he stated in the beginning that polyamory/polygamy isn't love, but the claims of these presumed argentinian Analysts, are not his Argumentations - neither are the western claims.
@@noa7399 He claimed, in this same video that you are commenting on, that this is what someone would be told if they were preferring to be in a relationship with one person. (you can try watching the video).
Again, it's horseshirt. He is dreaming up a scenario.
@@Tao_Tology He's not. That is what is currently in vogue in psychoanalysis in the country. Buenos Aires has been called the "world capital of psychoanalysis," with a high density of psychoanalysts and psychotherapists, and the current vogue there is to pathologize "hegemonic" sexualities, ie old-fashioned monogamy.
@@StephenDeagleLol, yes and where a monogamous couple will, as standard, be told not to be.
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Is it just me or his hard on the ears 🙇🏾🤔
Who left the asylum door open ?
Tell Slavoj this: Sex and love are 2 different things, a man wants many sex partners but only 1 love partner. We love our children, we do not want to have sex with our children. Love is to protect our family beyond our will to survive, to ensure a greater survival chance for the offspring. Wanting to have many sexual partners as a man is to spread the semen. I am shocked he is so uneducated about this area, but sadly most people are
It seems you like to generalize as much as he
@@xenphoton5833 because love is a pretty clear evolutionairy trait: family aka offspring over yourself to increase survival odds. It's almost like colors, they kind of objectively exist too even though they are a subjective experience
@@JuliusUniqueThe survival of your offsprings depends on the quality/type of love between a couple. If the love is conditional, it is weakened and may end up in a divorce or worse,: in creating trauma in the upbringing of the children. If the love is sincere and not conditional on keeping the family together for the sake of the children, the offsprings will have the best chance to survive and become good parents themselves.
It is primarily the quality of the love between a couple which helps the survival of offsprings.
@@catherinemoore9534 exactly
@@xenphoton5833 Generalizations based on facts and common sense are worth stating.
This guy always says bullshit
Get me to Argentina 🤩😂!