HUNTING A ROMANCE SCAMMER OUT OF AFRICA (CONFRONTED AT HIS HOUSE)

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  • @TrilogyMedia
    @TrilogyMedia  ปีที่แล้ว +5641

    We've cut off contact with Jodi. Oh well, we tried.
    Watch the 4-hour extended cut of this craziness at trilogyplus.com - it's our very own streaming platform where we can upload without boundaries, limits or "community guidelines".
    Also use our link guard.io/trilogy to keep you and your family SAFE online!

    • @brunoconfaloneesq.9300
      @brunoconfaloneesq.9300 ปีที่แล้ว +981

      You guys really went above and beyond for her and as sad as it is that Jodi can’t see for herself what is going on, you’ve done all you can.
      I hope Jodi gets the professional help she needs to deal with this addiction and move on.
      Thank you Trilogy ❤

    • @waynegray2284
      @waynegray2284 ปีที่แล้ว +321

      You just can help some people time to get police to try and help her that scam as been on a BBC TV show with the same photo of that guy I will try and find a link for you guys if you what because they did a interview with the guy in the photo

    • @jesse86jesse
      @jesse86jesse ปีที่แล้ว +726

      Can't help those who aren't willing to help themselves

    • @jjc6776
      @jjc6776 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She doesn't want help and needs this to keep herself going. Please also note Jodie is special and has mental handicap. She doesn't understand and you aren't equipped to explain better. I commend you for helping but you needed to go right to cops and fbi.

    • @chuckhackett4493
      @chuckhackett4493 ปีที่แล้ว +445

      Sadly I think you may have wasted your time with trying to convince Jodi of the truth.

  • @lioralivnl
    @lioralivnl ปีที่แล้ว +12740

    This woman doesn’t need a full scale investigation into the guy that scams her, she needs somebody to call Adult Protective Services for her.

    • @jasnalozic2065
      @jasnalozic2065 ปีที่แล้ว +192

      True

    • @veror5516
      @veror5516 ปีที่แล้ว +641

      Exactly. And if not for her, for her mother. If she is giving the scammer everything she has I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s also sending her mom’s money. Is her mom being properly cared for?

    • @Plumeria1
      @Plumeria1 ปีที่แล้ว +268

      @@veror5516 Yes, or the mother (or father) paying all the bills because all Jody's money went to the scammer.

    • @mauveletteburchell606
      @mauveletteburchell606 ปีที่แล้ว +366

      That's what I think should happen. Maybe SSA needs to hold her checks until she gets her senses back. This way she have nothing to give to the scammer.

    • @hartleyb8356
      @hartleyb8356 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Agreed!

  • @tundrawomansays694
    @tundrawomansays694 ปีที่แล้ว +11001

    *At this point Jodi is not a victim, she’s a volunteer.*

    • @RMA8159
      @RMA8159 ปีที่แล้ว +484

      The sad part is she's volunteering what she doesn't even have.

    • @preppinwithkathy6670
      @preppinwithkathy6670 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Absolutely!

    • @ChristcentredNaturalgee
      @ChristcentredNaturalgee ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@RMA8159 true.

    • @lusimyer
      @lusimyer ปีที่แล้ว +17

      😁

    • @gracieg7601
      @gracieg7601 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      It’s so sad that she’s vulnerable and let’s him pull money from her. I just don’t understand how anyone can be so desperate they’ll let people take advantage of them so bad? I’m glad I’m not that way. My momma didn’t raise a fool. But in my life I’ve had to always work so hard for my money that I didn’t let anyone get money from me. With the exception of my child of course. Lol but you know that’s my child.
      But as for a stranger on the internet, not happening! Lol I don’t even talk to a stranger on the internet. I sure wouldn’t send a person any money.

  • @Wummybeem
    @Wummybeem ปีที่แล้ว +3914

    I'm Nigerian and I can confidently say that that accent is from West Africa. The scammer is either a Nigerian or from any of the neighbouring countries. Jodi is just shrouded in a world of her own. The most annoying thing is that she has a deep-seated hatred for black people yet a group of dubious black men have been taking her for a ride for 7 years. She is just delusional.
    Edit:
    Thank you all for the likes and comments. I've never had this many likes or replies to a comment. Each notification makes me revisit this epic case of delusion 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @thebreakoutroom293
      @thebreakoutroom293 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      @Wummybeem You are definitely not Nigerian because if you were, you would have known that the scammer's accent is Ghanian. There's no such thing as a West African accent.

    • @kathymiles7877
      @kathymiles7877 ปีที่แล้ว +312

      After hearing her comments about the African that attends her church, and when she was cut off from saying she dislikes the whole race! African Americans, I don’t feel sorry for her. She deserves a breaking! No better for her!

    • @jungersrules
      @jungersrules ปีที่แล้ว +13

      💯

    • @jacquiefurechi8248
      @jacquiefurechi8248 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great team, great work 👌👍🤗...I wish you could get hold of all scammers in West Africa. They have talents in scamming women all over the world in the name of love. They have fake accounts in all dating websites.

    • @jacquiefurechi8248
      @jacquiefurechi8248 ปีที่แล้ว

      I HATE HER COS OF HER RACISM... IDIOT..

  • @victorpeace8187
    @victorpeace8187 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +201

    My mom was scammed. She sent $50000 cash. Fortunately she called you right after dropping the package off at UPS and you was able to retrieve it after it left the bill. These people are the lowest of the low, what you and your team is doing is a real blessing. THANK YOU *STRONG WIDGET* !
    P.S. my mom's had several scam calls since, but now she enjoys playing with them....hoping she'll get more calls. Maybe she'll join you someday in the People's Center...

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Dumbass scammer alert^^^^^ strongwidget is a scam

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Trilogy has no association with strong widget. You are a scammer.

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Dumbass loser pos scammer.

  • @redlacson8365
    @redlacson8365 ปีที่แล้ว +5816

    You guys are unbelievably patient with Jodi . Her stupidity is beyond apalling.

    • @colleenpeck6347
      @colleenpeck6347 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She sounds like a victim of inbreeding with cousins!😁

    • @Notmiddleg
      @Notmiddleg ปีที่แล้ว +361

      She also seems racist

    • @slaphappysmokey1
      @slaphappysmokey1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It isn't that she is stupid. She is lonely, she doesn't seem to have a bone in her body that has doubt, and she may have a past where she has been abused, been told she is worthless, or any other type of abuse. Plus, after years of being scammed like this, do you really want to admit that you were gullible enough to give someone all your money to the point where you suffer financially? It will take her a long time to admit to this when it happens. She does need help, a couple times a week with a therapist to dig down deep and find the root of it all. She is acting like an abusive partner; she is always making excuses for him, trying to find some logical route that will work for her to stick something like this out. She HAS to have a past that allowed this to happen.
      Any one can fall victim to a scam. Even we did (for a job opportunity), but we caught it before any money could be sent. Who would pay for a job unless it is for a license to work for some establishment. Was a fun few phone calls with a Nigerian asshole. It is actually more fun to argue with someone in a scam center in India than it is from a dude from Nigeria. At least from India, their insults are funny because they do not make any logical sense. Nigerian dickweed? They just scream about white privilege p****.

    • @yulilili8139
      @yulilili8139 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      That stupidity is called not self steem, is so sad

    • @PeachShortcake_
      @PeachShortcake_ ปีที่แล้ว +227

      ​@@Notmiddleglmao SEEMS??? She straight up said she is

  • @Queen_Mkay
    @Queen_Mkay 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +366

    Her voice alone is exhausting…..you know that whenever she opens her mouth, it’s to make an excuse or to justify everything. She doesn’t actually want help. She wants to be flown out to meet the “love of her life” or have him flown to her. That’s all she wanted when she reached out. She didn’t want anyone to prove it all as fake

    • @annegray800
      @annegray800 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      It's an all around sad/infuriating/ pathetic and just how can anyone change her mind! She's known no difference for 7yrs and I wonder what she's doing now! From Australia

    • @SabrinaMeShell
      @SabrinaMeShell 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@annegray800 probably still talking to him, and sending him money. She would rather have him this way than not at all. Very sad.

    • @spunk41
      @spunk41 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That's exactly what her goal was

    • @AUDREY-rn1lk
      @AUDREY-rn1lk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Facts!

    • @sophiepires792
      @sophiepires792 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your comment is a little bit stupid and very apathetic. This is a form of addicition, not to mention there are clearly some mental health issues going on, and she is obviously not highly educated or of average intelligence. Without some form of therapy and mental health intervention, nothing is going to change. This woman appears to be very socially isolated, physically ill and poor. She has many factors that make her the perfect victim or mark for these scammers. You can have compassion and understand that she has underlying issues that make it impossible for her to stop. These guys are just hackers, they don't have the ability to help her with any underlying psychological issues, and they don't have the tact or training to deal with love addiction, etc. As long as she remains socially isolated (not to mention that she is not tech savvy at all), she has no outside source of purpose in her life. The people who are most commonly scammed are isolated and lonely. Whether you find her annoying or not is irrelevant. She could be your mother, your grandmother or your aunt. Understand now? Utter lack of empathy and critical thinking on your part.

  • @katrinajames779
    @katrinajames779 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +638

    The irony of her saying that she doesn’t believe in interracial relationships and getting played and getting her money taken by a black person is extremely entertaining

    • @bacnblk
      @bacnblk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      I love it. lol

    • @tracieriley7512
      @tracieriley7512 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@katrinajames779 love it!!! 😂

    • @jacquelinekavita7289
      @jacquelinekavita7289 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Exactly the same thing i wanted to say this thing called love is such a fool.

    • @Dimz7890
      @Dimz7890 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is racist and hates Africans with a passion, yet continues to give his African boyfriend all she has. "There's an African in my church and I can't stand to see him, or talk him or hear him because he is Africa", she says.

    • @unbroken1010
      @unbroken1010 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      It just proves she is right 😂

  • @luriirodyk4596
    @luriirodyk4596 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +173

    As an Italian, I honestly feel so ashamed on behalf of these jobless scammers, cheating people for their hard earned money. And when they're targeted, look how easily they gaslight the victim and start abusing. I hope all your page reach as many people as it can and teach them not to pick up calls from unknown scam phone numbers in the first place, so that they're safe and don't get scammed.
    You do a great service to everyone here in the Italy taking out these lowlifes. Keep up the amazing work *Strong widget* on the internet, .you are one of a kind

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Scam^^^^

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Trilogy has no association with strong widget. You are a scammer.

  • @RayNkateW
    @RayNkateW ปีที่แล้ว +6288

    Her racism for black men, and her Nigerian scammer boyfriend is such poetic justice. 😂 I mean, come on jody.

    • @HighHilarity420
      @HighHilarity420 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Came here to say this karma is a bitch 😂 honestly I hope she keeps sending the guy money he earned it

    • @keno22ful
      @keno22ful ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Yea Kate. Just crazy

    • @daniellasugarhill5332
      @daniellasugarhill5332 ปีที่แล้ว

      EXACTLY racist pos.that money 💵 could have been used to fix her missing teeth and a decent BRA

    • @daniellasugarhill5332
      @daniellasugarhill5332 ปีที่แล้ว +220

      Karma gotta love her!

    • @crystalm4324
      @crystalm4324 ปีที่แล้ว +295

      Yeah, she doesn’t want to let go of the fantasy. She has a man that phones her and tells her she’s beautiful and that he loves her. She doesn’t want to FaceTime either, worried he won’t like what he sees.
      Seriously though, the whole African angle is pretty ironic 😂.

  • @collidingforces9589
    @collidingforces9589 ปีที่แล้ว +4204

    What Jodi needs is a therapist that enjoys a challenge.

    • @GM-cq6ez
      @GM-cq6ez ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Challene ... LOL.

    • @gaudylady7
      @gaudylady7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      😂

    • @Sylvia111513
      @Sylvia111513 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      There's not enough time in this millennium to get her straightened out.

    • @lucifermorningstar7045
      @lucifermorningstar7045 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Sylvia111513Can't help stupid racists. They dig their graves, might as well let them lie in it. Dedicate the time to someone that's a decent person.

    • @therapy-lookintoit7710
      @therapy-lookintoit7710 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Don’t bring us into this…

  • @tmiller8343
    @tmiller8343 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    Art, PLEASE don't ever change your personality! I love that you are aggressive to the scammers. That's what they need! They need someone who won't take an shit from them and who will put them in their place. Keep up the amazing work! Love the videos!

  • @Luke-u1v5q
    @Luke-u1v5q 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    My father taught me this, "You can argue with a Wiseman, but you can't reason with a FOOL!"

  • @LaRossaSelvaggia
    @LaRossaSelvaggia ปีที่แล้ว +2990

    Jodi is loving this. It’s sad. This is the most excitement, adventure, concern, and courtesy she has ever experienced. For the only time in her life, she’s traveling, flying on planes, seeing new places, meeting new people from all over the world. She is the center of attention. She wants it to last as long as possible, whatever the cost. She is the perfect romance scam mark.

    • @andreatimmers1720
      @andreatimmers1720 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      All that is over now for sure

    • @deanhyman8622
      @deanhyman8622 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Boooom!

    • @waynemcfc9291
      @waynemcfc9291 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Absolutely spot on!

    • @SuzD0n
      @SuzD0n ปีที่แล้ว +182

      Honestly I think it's a dopamine addiction, when you haven't felt loved for a long time, romantic attention becomes a fix. Most of us will have felt something similar at one time or another.

    • @troods8110
      @troods8110 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      My thoughts exactly!!

  • @skyrliecaceres6548
    @skyrliecaceres6548 ปีที่แล้ว +1451

    She knows she’s being scammed but needs to feel loved. She’s basically paying to be loved.

    • @giovannisantostasi9615
      @giovannisantostasi9615 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right, it is a fantasy that she is paying for. It is not very dissimilar to only fans but at least only fans get to look at some expensive soft porn.

    • @TheReeShow
      @TheReeShow ปีที่แล้ว +42

      That's exactly it

    • @Jean-dq2ve
      @Jean-dq2ve ปีที่แล้ว +36

      A true desperation for love and attention. Better for her to just give her bank card. Cheaper than paying fedex

    • @mircat28
      @mircat28 ปีที่แล้ว

      She’s paying so she can pretend to be loved. She isn’t loved. She’s being scammed, lied to, it goes on all the time same story same game. Older overweight woman not very bright. She wants to be a wife and she pretending it’s going to happen and she doesn’t want to hear the truth. This whole thing is a waste of time. Weve seen Dr Phil try to tell a woman it was all a lie. Didn’t work with her either. She’s playing with her Ken doll and that is her pretend life.

    • @rayanbe84
      @rayanbe84 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      "Pretend to be love"!!!

  • @ID-xm1te
    @ID-xm1te ปีที่แล้ว +758

    She's an addict. The way she reacts to his phone calls. She's totally hooked. Nobody will ever be able to talk sense into her as long as she can't see this. Sad but true.

    • @sarw5705
      @sarw5705 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I was thinking the same way

    • @colleenpeck6347
      @colleenpeck6347 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Her parents were first cousins!🤣

    • @Notmiddleg
      @Notmiddleg ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She'll never see it for what it is

    • @elitecoaching4927
      @elitecoaching4927 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      It’s really clear that this is an addiction. It’s the same delusional instincts as substance abuse.

    • @michellemooresings
      @michellemooresings ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Oh yeah, you're right. I thought it was so weird. As if it was like a long time loss best friend.

  • @flonder1907
    @flonder1907 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    The contrast between art’s personality and body language kills me lmaooo hes so “aggressive” but he sits like a princess

  • @tammywebb1289
    @tammywebb1289 ปีที่แล้ว +1053

    I have NEVER seen a person SO emotionally needy and lonely as Jodi. She's not only clingy, she's beyond helpless!!!

    • @maggiegraven1314
      @maggiegraven1314 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      She is NUTS

    • @dakotahays2836
      @dakotahays2836 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I have a sister that did this TWICE 😳 These woman make me embarrassed to be a woman.

    • @BrtaTigrCatQween63
      @BrtaTigrCatQween63 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      For Real

    • @BrtaTigrCatQween63
      @BrtaTigrCatQween63 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg. 10.00 enough for diddly squat!

    • @taxusbaccata9200
      @taxusbaccata9200 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      "Are you taking a shower?". Sounds like she's the one who's getting hosed.

  • @brandonsmith3542
    @brandonsmith3542 ปีที่แล้ว +2385

    You can clearly tell that Jodi is not all there. Someone in her family has to seriously take care of her asap!!!!!!

    • @donnahilton471
      @donnahilton471 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Just the fact that she went on a pick up site tells you she's not all there!

    • @shirleydierolf7112
      @shirleydierolf7112 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      They have probably all given up..if there is anybody

    • @annettelacey7913
      @annettelacey7913 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      Adults services need to be called,

    • @kazmorich
      @kazmorich ปีที่แล้ว +92

      That's very right. I literally got exhausted following the whole story especially the parts where she kept saying that the guy is real and that he will show up in 2 weeks, wow!!

    • @eph2vv89only1way
      @eph2vv89only1way ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah. She struck me as mildly mentally challenged as well

  • @Katie2986
    @Katie2986 ปีที่แล้ว +1552

    As a retired social worker I’m absolutely shocked that she hasn’t been required to have a payee, especially considering that she’s banned from every money transfer platform. She clearly doesn’t have the intellectual capacity to make sense of this, combine that with loneliness 🤷🏻‍♀️ That said, her racism is horrifying.

    • @LunaticStruggler
      @LunaticStruggler ปีที่แล้ว +15

      shameful profile picture

    • @CarrieJess
      @CarrieJess ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I’m an LMSW as well, I work as a mental health therapist.

    • @Katie2986
      @Katie2986 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @@LunaticStruggler No, what’s shameful is your comment and attitude,

    • @Katie2986
      @Katie2986 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@CarrieJess She would be a frustrating client

    • @Chasecka
      @Chasecka ปีที่แล้ว +11

      God social workers are the worst! 😂 Your pfp makes perfect sense.

  • @rajibchowdhury1618
    @rajibchowdhury1618 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +149

    My office is in Salt Lake, Sec V, Kolkata..we've got several companies in the same building, last week we've received a message from the facility manager asking us to report any illegal activities related to online scam and this one was from local cyber crime cell. Thanks *Strong widget on the internet.* This thing is happening for real. Keep up with your good work.

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Dumbass scammer

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Trilogy has no association with strong widget. You are a scammer.

  • @rivmeace5728
    @rivmeace5728 ปีที่แล้ว +7019

    Shes not a victim, shes a volunteer 🥴

    • @Delordem
      @Delordem ปีที่แล้ว +137

      Well said

    • @Sabienwings
      @Sabienwings ปีที่แล้ว +260

      I agree. You can’t help someone who doesn’t want it… if karma is real, she has some really sad karma for this lifetime being duped.

    • @Batya-Grace
      @Batya-Grace ปีที่แล้ว

      She is a victim because she is brain-washed. Until you understand that, you won’t get it.

    • @ebonyqueen52
      @ebonyqueen52 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      Best comment. Sad

    • @Straingelove
      @Straingelove ปีที่แล้ว +101

      That’s how the government the WEF and pharmaceutical companies think too

  • @LeniDell
    @LeniDell ปีที่แล้ว +369

    She’s definitely not mentally stable. She is one person that should NOT be in charge of her money.
    You guys are angels for trying to help her! And for helping so many others! Thank you for what you’re doing to help those in need! 👏🌹

    • @abdiadan4837
      @abdiadan4837 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sorry for these lady, you guys are doing great in exposing these heartless conmen scammers who robing women, disgusting experience to many women across the world,

    • @xjssts7127
      @xjssts7127 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true.

    • @zulubeatsprince
      @zulubeatsprince ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They ain't angels they wasting their resources and time chasing the scammer when theres real victims who actually need help. This lady begs for it.

    • @LeniDell
      @LeniDell ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@zulubeatsprince They help a lot of people. Can’t fault them for trying. Besides these scammers are t just scamming HER. They can do something about them they ARE helping many.

    • @wolfmanNSW
      @wolfmanNSW ปีที่แล้ว

      tbh if I was left unchecked and in the dark, I'd probably be in the same boat with some Filo IG scammers pretending to be escorts (I was heartbroken from my first real, over and beyond relationship) so I get how she'd be in denial. I wouldn't trust me with money either if I was talking to someone who I kept sending to

  • @theonlyegg
    @theonlyegg ปีที่แล้ว +589

    Amazing how little effort the scammer has to put into these phone calls. “Yeah. Ok. I’m good. Send more money.”

    • @felixhansson8169
      @felixhansson8169 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Just shows that she believes she is absolutely worthless

    • @velmcajeras3740
      @velmcajeras3740 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hahaha 💰 🤑💰🤑 I taught only filinino scammer but every were 😭

    • @irened.2779
      @irened.2779 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I know right!!!!???? He just found the right person 😵‍💫

    • @Flirri
      @Flirri ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I thought they were going to be charming or something, but that's how bad it is.

    • @lindaroberts2297
      @lindaroberts2297 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      he got lucky

  • @DonaldRichard-if7ej
    @DonaldRichard-if7ej 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +145

    Great work *Strongwidget* - so glad vou are out there fighting these lowlifes. We need to do all we can to spare the elderly and the general public from these despicable scammers! Kudos to YOU!!
    You deserve the Nobel prize for keeping us safe big up brother.

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Dumbass

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Trilogy has no association with strong widget. You are a scammer.

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Scammer 🚨🚨

  • @donnabonn1892
    @donnabonn1892 ปีที่แล้ว +1081

    She said she hates the whole African continent...
    That hate runs deep...and yet As a black woman...I feel sorry for her...
    To live your whole life with hate just because of the color of someone skin.
    Those guys are so gracious and kind.

    • @aliengreeneyes0727
      @aliengreeneyes0727 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      1000% agree. Sadly, I think karma is biting her in the ass in a big way, and unfortunately, she deserves it for her disgusting opinions on Africans and black people as a whole. People like this make my blood boil.

    • @Hexighost
      @Hexighost ปีที่แล้ว

      im sure the members of the black community, males especially, are glad she isn't hitting on them, she's a fugly, nasty, self absorbed ignorant cretin

    • @shannoncoyne6397
      @shannoncoyne6397 ปีที่แล้ว

      We should say we hate everyone with boobs that hang below their belly button, LOL. She is so offensive and I am a white woman. It is sad.

    • @amilyon553
      @amilyon553 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      God works in mysterious ways

    • @1tarawho
      @1tarawho ปีที่แล้ว

      She's totally ignorant so please don't feel bad about her stupid remarks about Africa! Ignorance is bliss..

  • @redsunflowers7322
    @redsunflowers7322 ปีที่แล้ว +508

    The way she screamed when he called her and gushed over him on the phone was embarrassing. No surprise whatsoever that she fell for this scammer.

    • @laureldevine
      @laureldevine ปีที่แล้ว +79

      She has the mental capacity and emotional maturity of a 12 year old middle school girl. It's so sad. She should be in a group home for the mentally disabled - not taking care of herself!

    • @Cindymc211
      @Cindymc211 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      She thought that the call was going to prove she was right about him being real.

    • @chreez1684
      @chreez1684 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      It's not ordinary. It's black magic. Trust me I know. The victim is powerless. She'll defend him forever. What she need is deliverance. She's been charmed. These guys do blood sacrifices, human sacrifices.

    • @MackLeeGreen
      @MackLeeGreen 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Yeah that was really cringe

    • @supergoobergirlable
      @supergoobergirlable 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trauma perhaps @@laureldevine

  • @oscarwatkins4696
    @oscarwatkins4696 ปีที่แล้ว +605

    What I find most ironic about this victim is that she is incredibly racist and says she "doesn't agree with interracial marriage" but has been unknowingly in a relationship with an African scammer for 8 years. What is irony if not that?

    • @jencaceres55
      @jencaceres55 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      It's actually kinda beautiful

    • @laverne2149
      @laverne2149 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      😂😂😂

    • @jamesjohno1180
      @jamesjohno1180 ปีที่แล้ว

      So it makes you racist if you have a preference? You have to date black people to prove or say you’re not racist? You’re free to feel the way you feel and not want to date others
      She doesn’t agree with interracial relationships that’s fine maybe she always dreamed of having a kid with blonde hair…that’s not racist😂people are so quick to call people racist these days it’s sad that word means NOTHING anymore and people know that😂that’s why people try weaponise that word to give it meaning

    • @crystahuggins
      @crystahuggins ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Point t

    • @jasmindisney8787
      @jasmindisney8787 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      And it was immediately obvious that his 'accent' was from Africa....not sure how she thought that was UK, but like people say, after all this, she knows what she into

  • @KevinSmithJacob-1617haja
    @KevinSmithJacob-1617haja 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +146

    Hey bud, I just wanted you to know that everything you do is necessary and thank you so much for what you do. It's more than just a recovery service, you're helping people. You're actually the push for me to get my degree in Information Technology so that I can protect people from heartless people like this.
    Thank you for all you do *Strong widget on the internet,* you're a genius with a big heart and principles. Support and Respect from Britain 👍🏻🇬🇧 🇺🇸.

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Scammer

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Trilogy has no association with strong widget. You are a scammer.

  • @Vegankathy
    @Vegankathy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +758

    I’m sure Jodi believes a fake boyfriend is better than no boyfriend. And all the attention she is getting is worth it all for her.

    • @carmanjun4859
      @carmanjun4859 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Well, essentially she can keep this "bf", as long as it's within her $$ budget. It's basically her paying for attention + companionship. Very similar to those rich old man with arm candies; paid romance.

    • @Cindymc211
      @Cindymc211 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Jodi is absolutely addicted to the imaginary boyfriend. He is so sweet 😢. She also has many requests. Buy him a cellphone, fly her to see him, wanted to fly with them to NY, and get the general on a call with her. She has been romanced by him for 8 years and will never give up on her dreams. I believe that these nice people spent all this time and money because she’s so in need due to her financial situation and possibly mental health

    • @JesusIsKingForever77
      @JesusIsKingForever77 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Exactly right. My mom did all this, & she admitted all this stuff. She was willing to give up our family, her grandkids, her $, everything, for this fake guy cuz he fed her ego. It’s sad & sickening. They drained her dry, & she can no longer live alone, & I still allowed her to come live w/ me & my family, but she’s blocked from all social media, & has no access to money, & I had to get a power of attorney to save her from herself. We take good care of her, & she lives better now than she did when these guys were in her life. This lady needs help, from herself!

    • @elipotter369
      @elipotter369 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ​@@Cindymc211I guess that's why she criticises these people trying to help her - because she only talked to them so they could help her get her boyfriend home!

    • @Cindymc211
      @Cindymc211 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@JesusIsKingForever77 I’m so happy to hear that she is being taken care of. I feared that she would be homeless with the addition to his loving attention. Thank you for sharing 🥰

  • @isaacgame7304
    @isaacgame7304 ปีที่แล้ว +1811

    I've never hated a scam "victim" more than I hated Jodi. Over 7 years of this, people intervening for her and she STILL getting scammed? Nah, she deserves this.

    • @dianarendon5845
      @dianarendon5845 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Exactly, after all the evidence shown she’s still willfully on it, and still doesn’t mind sending away her money to the scammer, so at this point she’s no longer a victim but a happy accomplice to the crime being committed against herself.

    • @Michelle-so2hz
      @Michelle-so2hz ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Right. She deserves it.

    • @jamesjohno1180
      @jamesjohno1180 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      She knows it was fake it was all a lie but she didn’t want to admit it…if it’s real in her head and it’s feeding her the attention she wanted she was happy, she just basically paid someone to tell her she was loved she wasn’t alone and made her feel that way
      It’s sad but lonely people will do stupid stuff exactly like this if they have a friend they can now say they have a boyfriend too and talk about him even though they’ve never met and basically doesn’t exist, the feeling does though and shed pay a lot more to keep that feeling around

    • @iheartdevonandconnor
      @iheartdevonandconnor ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Also the blatant racism while getting help from multiple POCs was WILD

    • @crystahuggins
      @crystahuggins ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@jamesjohno1180point

  • @Suffragium.
    @Suffragium. ปีที่แล้ว +363

    I have ABSOLUTELY nothing nice to say about Jodi - Your CREW and COLLABORATORS were AWESOME - thank you for your covering this story

    • @kerry1979
      @kerry1979 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think She has Very, Very Low I.Q, I Look At me I was in Special Ed. & Have disabilities my self. But I still wouldn't believe any scams I know how accents sound like & such. .I know better & well Enough to send stuff to strangers.

    • @G_Robb
      @G_Robb ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yep. If she's going to keep her blinders on she gets what she deserves. No sympathy here.

    • @NDJunction
      @NDJunction ปีที่แล้ว +8

      im so sad for the deluded. stay strong, everyone. you are not a fool if you fall for something. only after the truth is revealed and you CONTINUE as if you are "saving face". no. teach everyone they look dumb if they don't face truth :)

    • @silvana8246
      @silvana8246 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      why doesn't anyone see that this lady is mentally disabled!!

    • @lorrainemerry8661
      @lorrainemerry8661 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I totally agree with you

  • @Crazydoglady66
    @Crazydoglady66 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Drew especially continuing to help her knowing how she feels about black people is a kind of compassion and empathy I will never ever know. Jodi has mental health issues that none of them are equipped to deal with.

  • @MichaelFowble-wx1hh
    @MichaelFowble-wx1hh ปีที่แล้ว +1009

    Jodi lives in government housing and is paying $200 dollars monthly for rent . She receives free food and medical assistance.
    This allows her to send the rest of her social security money to her scammer. This enables the scammer to secure American taxpayers cash . The scammer has probably viewed this video and laughed for hours

    • @michelebartlett3921
      @michelebartlett3921 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I bet you are right

    • @carlastewart6125
      @carlastewart6125 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      And he's black

    • @gladitsnotme
      @gladitsnotme ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@carlastewart6125tf does that have to do with anything

    • @NadineStephenson-v8c
      @NadineStephenson-v8c ปีที่แล้ว +51

      She is very stubborn I can't believe she wants them to say sorry to her

    • @Dr.TeachPrayze
      @Dr.TeachPrayze ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Yes she is an undercover black man lover

  • @flowersforreal2026
    @flowersforreal2026 ปีที่แล้ว +324

    Art didn't mince any words and I really appreciate it. The delusion, the racism, the denial...I don't even have words. They really tried with her.

    • @Notmiddleg
      @Notmiddleg ปีที่แล้ว +13

      At this point, she's beyond help

    • @DevonDumpling123
      @DevonDumpling123 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agrée but they were rude to her she’s an old lady a stupid old lady but even so

  • @happyandstuff
    @happyandstuff ปีที่แล้ว +620

    Jodi is totally okay with being with the actual scammer. She doesn't care if he's black or white, scammer or not. She still wants to be with him. There's no cure for insanity.

    • @Lilyelot
      @Lilyelot ปีที่แล้ว

      She very racist

    • @leewightman8619
      @leewightman8619 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's a desperate freak

    • @paulahunt3508
      @paulahunt3508 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @happyandstuff No really she’s not ok with being with the actual scammer. Remember she said she didn’t want anything to do with a Black Man. She’s still so ment@lly twisted that she thinks this white man is going to appear as Colin. I don’t mean to be rude.

    • @philly58
      @philly58 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Or stupidity! Just saying.

    • @TerriePehrson
      @TerriePehrson ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Right?? 🤔SOME WOMEN DONT MIND BEING SCAMMED??? 🤔

  • @walterHARtwellWHItee
    @walterHARtwellWHItee หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    how kind of jodie to be a huge contribution to less fortunate african communities, a true humanitarian

    • @smelliened9968
      @smelliened9968 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      reak, the less fortunate must be so happy that people like jodie exist 💀💀

    • @TheHothead40
      @TheHothead40 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂 right

  • @BehindCriminalMinds
    @BehindCriminalMinds ปีที่แล้ว +363

    This woman’s racism is VILE, I almost cannot believe they are even trying to help her. She is truly reprehensible and the irony of this situation is hard to overlook.

    • @crystahuggins
      @crystahuggins ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Agreed

    • @JimSewell
      @JimSewell ปีที่แล้ว

      Ashton kinda hinted that her racism came out later in the investigation.

    • @Notmiddleg
      @Notmiddleg ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I believe they cut contact with her. She's too far gone in the web of lies

    • @Luvothrsmor22
      @Luvothrsmor22 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      And why do you think God is allowing her to be deceived it’s called karma how ironic but her evilness inside and how she sees people because of her skin is exactly why she’s being deceived by the very people she has an issue thinking is not good enough to date. This is universal justice

    • @Jsarmy87124
      @Jsarmy87124 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The karma 😂😂😂😂

  • @taly6541
    @taly6541 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +413

    She didn’t like the name Bill so she decides his name is now Collin. And the scammer just goes along with it, too. 😂😂😭

    • @uggoo9143
      @uggoo9143 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Woman: Your name is Bill? Am gonna call you Collin.
      Scammer: How didn't i think about that name? It's ok baby, i can always go by any name you call me

    • @vasarelly37
      @vasarelly37 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Yeah, and she doesn't know that the real name of Collin is Kunta-Kinte.

    • @gracehaven5459
      @gracehaven5459 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ​@vasarelly37 you leave Kunta Kinte out of this 😂

    • @tipztoezAndNailbling
      @tipztoezAndNailbling 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      She doesn't like races and names, but loves being scammed, unreal

    • @thissweetlife7250
      @thissweetlife7250 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      His name was Bill?

  • @SRTBARBZ
    @SRTBARBZ ปีที่แล้ว +720

    Her being in so much denial literally gave me anxiety. The amount of excuses that were coming out of her mouth is insane.

    • @patsysmothermon7861
      @patsysmothermon7861 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That's It, She Is Crazy !! 🤪

    • @KhaiFirst
      @KhaiFirst ปีที่แล้ว +16

      let just hope when we are old.. we do not act or be like her.

    • @michaelschabow2911
      @michaelschabow2911 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Sad, huh? I have a relative like this. She's so in love, never met her guy, never spoke to him, but wanted to show me her wedding dress. Won't tell me how much she has sent him.

    • @Kiki-yj7bc
      @Kiki-yj7bc ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@patsysmothermon7861😂😂😂

    • @knowledgeisjesus
      @knowledgeisjesus ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea...No biblical reality gives in to sin, that's why!

  • @calistabenson5138
    @calistabenson5138 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +150

    This *Strong widget* on the internet is stuck in my brain and it is very beautiful. I listen to their advice every day. It is one of my favorite recovery agent and I loved it very much. Thank you to those who performed it. Long live, especially from Iraq. 🗿💖

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Dumbass scammer

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Trilogy has no association with strong widget. You are a scammer.

  • @dreao276
    @dreao276 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    The fact that she sends all her money to him and is left with 10 dollars to her name is absolutely bonkers

    • @mabel2687
      @mabel2687 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I'm gonna ask her for money.

    • @stephaniemurria5534
      @stephaniemurria5534 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@mabel2687😂😅😊

    • @NatalieJillPins
      @NatalieJillPins 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      One has to be aware when he asked what bank I was with and spamming said that he needs to go to the bank for he's number to be verified I thought it's was all lies best regards

    • @ED80s
      @ED80s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      She is left with $10 and if it wasn't for the team would not have eaten but he's texting her that he's eating cod and potatoes.

    • @FilipinoMo21nk
      @FilipinoMo21nk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She is a lost cause.

  • @_Boomstick357_
    @_Boomstick357_ ปีที่แล้ว +733

    After watching the entire episode, and seeing Jodi’s refusal to see the truth, that guy ain’t scamming, he’s providing a service. I have no sympathy for Jodi, and she doesn’t deserve a team like that , fighting for her.

    • @jobi-j
      @jobi-j ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I am watching this thinking the same thing. she is happy and content in the delusion. Honestly, I would have left her when she was excusing him and couldn't see reason even though there is pure evidence he is scamming her. She loves the lies at this point. The guy with the Eastern European accent is me. when his voice raised I knew he was pissed hearing all the BS about Saleem's mum being sick in the hospital. This is really pathetic

    • @riabeevlogs3360
      @riabeevlogs3360 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Totally right she is paying for a service

    • @edmundverwey617
      @edmundverwey617 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She also just want to fly everywhere....."I wish you guys would have taken me along" or something to that effect when they were in NYC. WTF??? Expenses paid for?

    • @cocodme8
      @cocodme8 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is the epitome of a lonely elderly woman. She was a bit suspicious but loved his kid words.Leave the ladies private life alone.

    • @SimonCU
      @SimonCU ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah Collin should be paid for his time to talk to her and to prepare all the fake photos and documents. He is giving her the attention she needs. She is lonely and need someone to chat to. So Collin is providing a service.

  • @JimBrowning
    @JimBrowning ปีที่แล้ว +4935

    So sad. The whole way through I thought that she would continue this even after all of the exposure. So very sad.

    • @KHASI_Motivation
      @KHASI_Motivation ปีที่แล้ว +135

      Hi Jim I think you can collab with them or do something to take that African M**f*** out and give that scammer some lesson

    • @PUR3vil
      @PUR3vil ปีที่แล้ว +71

      The legend himself!

    • @sarahzulk
      @sarahzulk ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Big fan of you Jim Browning!

    • @TrilogyMedia
      @TrilogyMedia  ปีที่แล้ว +362

      The whole situation is very sad ..
      Happy New Year to you and your Family Brother!🎆🎊

    • @TrilogyMedia
      @TrilogyMedia  ปีที่แล้ว +209

      The whole situation is very sad ..
      Happy New Year to you and your Family Brother!🎆🎊

  • @aminuhamza8699
    @aminuhamza8699 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +141

    Honestly *Strongwidget* having you is sincerely comforting and the consistency of you being here to come back to over the years means so much to me and l'm sure a lot of others as well. I think a lot of us are just happy to see that you are happy, I mean seeing us living our dream is super inspiring and warms my heart in a way not a lot of other things can💕

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Scam^^^
      Trilogy does not work with strongwidget

  • @hartleyb8356
    @hartleyb8356 ปีที่แล้ว +653

    What’s truly sad is that Jodi is so lonely that she’d rather have this sort of negative attention rather than no attention at all.

    • @SirPraiseSun
      @SirPraiseSun ปีที่แล้ว +10

      lmfao u nailed it i guess she is just way too rich and doesnt know what to do with her stupid money

    • @Jesse-qj1lr
      @Jesse-qj1lr ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bingo!!

    • @thunderbussie4life
      @thunderbussie4life ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@SirPraiseSun that's the thing though, art said it toward the end of the video. She doesn't even have that much money. People who get disability are low income and they do not get much so no, she's not rich. She's just ignorant to this whole thing and sending everything she has to that scammer and unwilling to listen and get help.

    • @thunderbussie4life
      @thunderbussie4life ปีที่แล้ว +27

      What's extra sad is that they offered to help her get real friends to go out and do things with her. That wasn't good enough.

    • @Roadent1241
      @Roadent1241 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@thunderbussie4life I'd happily take that for free, I know humans can't be paid for like a video game.
      If they are paid for it's just fake affection and friendship anyway, what's t'point?

  • @crimetimeline
    @crimetimeline 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +306

    There was an update recently 3 months ago on social catfish and she said you guys did a poor job and did not give her enough clarity. She has nasty energy. I love the tall guy and how he shocks his cohost speechless sometimes. You guys did a good job, just let her buy her fantasy. She is a willing participant.

    • @Lovellace86
      @Lovellace86 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Like I said earlier they wasted their time on this racist idiotic fool

    • @LatinHetaliaPeru
      @LatinHetaliaPeru 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Russian blood from Art gives some vibes

    • @lily-rose7982
      @lily-rose7982 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      She's deluded.

    • @renemartell49
      @renemartell49 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      These guys did an amazing job and Jodi has an emotional addiction problem . She is choosing to continue and if she ends up homeless then so be it! At 85 how would she possibly think a 50/60 year old man was interested in her??

    • @kimberlyfogleman5105
      @kimberlyfogleman5105 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Exactly! I feel it the same way! You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped so let her buy her fantasy. Lol. Love how you worded that.

  • @alexwarren5949
    @alexwarren5949 ปีที่แล้ว +980

    We should focus on the fact that the scammer told her his name is Bill, and she was like “I don’t like that name, I’ll just call you Collin”

    • @jessicabaker546
      @jessicabaker546 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      I was waiting for someone to say that 🤔……..😂 she’s ridiculous

    • @jdog7979
      @jdog7979 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      😂😂😂😂😂 right??? Let's just stop right there at that guys.

    • @ashak2311
      @ashak2311 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Right; she says his name is Bill Collins. She doesn’t like ‘Bill’ so calls him ‘Colin’. Then she says that when he says her name- he calls her Jodi Connor…
      Hmm 🤔

    • @JaxonSmithers
      @JaxonSmithers ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thanks Adam!

    • @jarocats
      @jarocats ปีที่แล้ว

      Just what I came here to say. What a control freak.

  • @Vishaltyler
    @Vishaltyler 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +150

    Hearing these people's voices over the phone so thrilled to be evil, almost giddy sounding, is utterly disgusting. Thank you *STRONGWIDGET* all you and your team does to shut them scammers down.

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Scammer^^^^

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Trilogy has no association with strong widget. You are a scammer.

    • @cheolacarnitas2682
      @cheolacarnitas2682 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      we live in a time when american politicians and capitalists are praised and the countries they've sought to control are depicted as criminals and scammers.
      Hell even racists are humanized in the face of global scamming. 😅
      Teach your JimCrow grandparents to have more discernment cuz I watch these videos and giggle.

  • @jlynn77
    @jlynn77 ปีที่แล้ว +561

    This lady loves the drama and attention she gets from the scammer. She gets the kind of life she is choosing for herself. Thank you for trying so hard to help her!

    • @robinparker2245
      @robinparker2245 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I totally agree 👍

    • @jennifermurphy899
      @jennifermurphy899 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree we have the same name I would never give a strange man or woman money like that.this is crazy.she needs to be reported to the social security office .that is not what her money is supposed to go to.

    • @teresitastookey2254
      @teresitastookey2254 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But she doesn't believe what they tell her soon she is going to lost her house she is crazy

    • @jerrymann20
      @jerrymann20 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Jenny, you nailed it ❤️

    • @dollypartonhurry8862
      @dollypartonhurry8862 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really value these guys

  • @davidanderson1451
    @davidanderson1451 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    This woman is the reason for the saying "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink". You guys are great and keep up the exceptional work.

    • @randomhumanoidblob4506
      @randomhumanoidblob4506 ปีที่แล้ว

      This woman is the definition of "some people need shoving in the trough."
      Sorry, but the blatant racism did for me. I"m usually sympathetic because I understand the psychological factors ,- it is like an addiction, she's addicted to the dopamine hit from the attention - but when "I can't bear to look at a black man"....yeah. That's squarely in fuck off territory. And I bet he has teeth.

    • @appalachianwoman561
      @appalachianwoman561 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Or the more blunt version of that saying: You can't fix stupid

    • @mildredpierce4506
      @mildredpierce4506 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This is my version: you can lead a person to knowledge but you can’t make them think

    • @TrickyDickyP
      @TrickyDickyP ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I made that statement 'you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink', to an Arab in Kuwait a few years ago, and his response was "you can, if you beat the crap out of it..!" 😊

    • @cindytartt4048
      @cindytartt4048 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TrickyDickyP LOL. But a horse’s a horse. This woman is a defensive, infantile person who smirks & jiggles her body, looks behind herself just like the 6 year olds I used to teach. At 22:00 to 24:00 is when I actually want to start beating the crap out of her.
      Some people you can’t do anything about except lock ‘em up! I had a friend who wanted to lose weight. She was much bigger than Jodi -about 110 Kg and 5’2”. She always used a girlie voice, talked about being a ‘little big’ and honestly, locking her up & whacking her would be the only way to get her to lose ANY THING except her mind: that was already lost.

  • @montel111
    @montel111 ปีที่แล้ว +966

    Jody is a PRIME EXAMPLE of why I get tired of "helping" people. Just like Jody, one spends most of their HARD EARNED TIME, arguing with the person they are trying to help!! Nuff said.

    • @HannahYaawusuahAdjepongL-AS
      @HannahYaawusuahAdjepongL-AS ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Jodi is a beautiful woman who feeds on sweet talk.
      I laughed out loud when she said she couldn't bear to look at an African in her church. It would be good for her to meet "Colin" in person. That may cure her dislike for black people.

    • @gsc1407
      @gsc1407 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      @@HannahYaawusuahAdjepongL-AS when she made that racist comment, I lost every ounce of sympathy

    • @d.o.5094
      @d.o.5094 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Jody needs mental help.

    • @bekkiwampler9016
      @bekkiwampler9016 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ummm her money was NOT hard earned at ALL. She is on DISABILITY...and I can assure u that it's based on MENTAL DEFICIENCY!!!

    • @bekkiwampler9016
      @bekkiwampler9016 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      ​@@HannahYaawusuahAdjepongL-AS yeah I would say that she would be shocked at just which end of the spectrum her hunny lands on. He is AFRICAN sweetheart.

  • @namsojack1917
    @namsojack1917 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +152

    Thank you for putting in this effort for helping folks out there. I've helped people within my own family undo some of the damage that these scammers have done.
    Having *Strong widget* as a person must be fantastic! I love how he is always doing good for the people, the world needs more like him!.

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Scam^^^

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Trilogy has no association with strong widget. You are a scammer.

  • @rdp4654
    @rdp4654 ปีที่แล้ว +577

    This evidence needs to be shown to her family so they can get a judge to grant them a financial Conservatorship over her to end the scam permanently.

    • @francknez8702
      @francknez8702 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      What family? Children? She is unimaginably lonely. She got involved in an imaginary world where she feels loved.
      7 years and she hasn't had one visual contact with the love of her life. where she feels loved. Crazy and sad. And the gold certificate ughf

    • @debbipriz
      @debbipriz ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@francknez8702 But the certificate proves her OWNERESHIP

    • @carolina._.00
      @carolina._.00 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@debbipriz right? 🤦‍♀️

    • @Nobody-lo5yg
      @Nobody-lo5yg ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was thinking the same. Or a guardianship.

    • @Yosetime
      @Yosetime ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That would be the best solution. If she has any family around. Ultimately, she is an adult, She may be easy to manipulate, but she is not stupid. She wants to continue this charade. I just wonder what will happen when she finally sees his face and sees that he is black and she is sooooo racist. I think that would be beautiful karma. If this is how she wants to live, nobody can stop her. That is her right. Other than a legal intervention, it will continue. There is no way of convincing someone of something they dont want to know.

  • @SOGSouljah
    @SOGSouljah ปีที่แล้ว +697

    Denial, mental health, and loneliness is the true issue here. She doesn't care about the money or even whose she's talking to, she just wants someone to care for her to the point that she'll do whatever it takes to get it.

    • @SOGSouljah
      @SOGSouljah ปีที่แล้ว +30

      And honestly, maybe this is the safest scenario for her at this point . People like her can easily gravitate to abusive relationships and get beat shitless daily, if not eventually killed. This is a truly a case of too far gone, so she might as well just keep doing it to have some happiness.

    • @theplayzpaidoff
      @theplayzpaidoff ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@SOGSouljah Fair but you lost me at avocation for this lifestyle due to an alternative worse maybe.
      Improvement should always be the focus.

    • @imane_Karouach
      @imane_Karouach ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly

    • @bxmundo
      @bxmundo ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Let's not forget prejudice

    • @chromolitho
      @chromolitho ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's obvious when the slightest nothing from him sends her into a tizzy. I see she reads into his comments everything she wants to hear. It's totally tone deaf on her part and delusional. I only feel sorry for her but I'd like to club the perpetrators.

  • @ESK8_BRO_TX
    @ESK8_BRO_TX ปีที่แล้ว +170

    She didnt ask help to expose a scammer. She wanted them to validate that he was real. When they didnt, she denied it hard. I hate dealing with these kinds of ppl.

    • @YurKillingMeSmalls
      @YurKillingMeSmalls ปีที่แล้ว +15

      She also mentioned hoping they could help him " come home".

    • @happym3008
      @happym3008 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s a addiction
      She wil need to hit rock bottom to understand where she was rong

    • @DivaClariceWilliams
      @DivaClariceWilliams ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, I get the feeling no one in her circle will listen to her any longer over this. She's probably heard many times that her overseas bf is not real. Clearly she has mental health problems.

    • @pricej4
      @pricej4 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And that’s exactly it.

    • @bojonsson2363
      @bojonsson2363 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      She will never understand.

  • @JenandTonic95
    @JenandTonic95 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    My Ghanaian husband overheard me watching this and as soon as he heard Colin's accent he called from the other room: "that guy is as Nigerian as the day is long" 😂

    • @NonsoJerome-qu6cx
      @NonsoJerome-qu6cx 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Stop spoiling our name😭😭😂. He's a Ghanaian

  • @lisamckay2431
    @lisamckay2431 ปีที่แล้ว +1343

    After all of the videos I have seen exposing scammers, I admit this is the first and only time I have ever not felt sorry for the victim.

    • @oakathe23
      @oakathe23 ปีที่แล้ว

      You might consider how susceptible she is to lies. It might not be ok to hold her over the fire for something that appears to be a significant mental illness.

    • @onechemabubakar
      @onechemabubakar ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Same unfortunately…

    • @michaelshort2388
      @michaelshort2388 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      same, she has to know she's being scammed...

    • @acalkckja
      @acalkckja ปีที่แล้ว +104

      Same! When she reverts to the "little girl" excitement, the cringe I feel is huge. She is chasing after ANYONE who will "find out the truth" for her, she will never stop giving "Colin" money as long as there is a audience ...

    • @vallifunk2695
      @vallifunk2695 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      She seems a bit delayed for sure. I agree with you though.

  • @DuffyWayne
    @DuffyWayne ปีที่แล้ว +780

    I honestly think Jodi knows it's a scam and doesn't care. She's not a victim, she's a customer. She's just buying friendship. I don't feel sorry for her and neither should anyone else.

    • @Lawson8489
      @Lawson8489 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      The bad thing here That Salim or what ever scammer ruine these ladies lives. Trilogy guys hate scammers.

    • @emahosa1383
      @emahosa1383 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah and she is racist so don't feel sorry for her

    • @jaldgnx
      @jaldgnx ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed, willful ignorance. Give your money to any asshole you like.

    • @megadiva5662
      @megadiva5662 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      You got that right I don't feel sorry for her she know what's going on I know a lot of men and women like that in real life it makes no difference on the internet so there is no need to feel sorry

    • @marystafford4940
      @marystafford4940 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      just watching this and its making me sick that jody does not know the difference between right and wrong of what she is doing and these guys are wasting there time in explaining this to her who ever is sending her cheque social welfare should stop payment as she seems to gullible and not concatrating on paying her rent and living a normal life a waste of these people trying to help

  • @sokhason770
    @sokhason770 ปีที่แล้ว +796

    I couldn’t feel sorry for this woman even if I tried. So many tried helping her but it seems she’s her own problem.

    • @anime_cyko
      @anime_cyko ปีที่แล้ว +64

      And the racism. Thinks everyone else is being mean to Colin but yet she’s disgusted with the color of people’s skin

    • @criptin4075
      @criptin4075 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anime_cyko Gotta love the irony of a racist giving all her wealth to a guy that is as black as black can be.

    • @lesleycallaghan8407
      @lesleycallaghan8407 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ç​@@anime_cyko ççý

    • @anime_cyko
      @anime_cyko ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lesleycallaghan8407 yeah?

    • @anime_cyko
      @anime_cyko ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@criptin4075 people keep saying that. And no, I don’t love it. I don’t see why people do. I hate it. It pisses me off.

  • @drakeboy2541
    @drakeboy2541 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +139

    *STRONGWIDGET* you are the inspiration that keeps us vigilant and keeps me teaching other's about these disgusting scammers. Thank you and the team for all the hard work you do. I'm so proud to know that there's people like you who care enough to do what our government won't do. Keep up the great work!!

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Scammer

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Trilogy has no association with strong widget. You are a scammer.

  • @tanyelee
    @tanyelee ปีที่แล้ว +238

    You guys have the patience of saints! Jodi needs an adult guardian to take control of her finances. It’s clear she doesn’t have the mental capacity to understand that she is being taken advantage of. So lonely & desperate she’s paying someone to abuse her.
    Your patience and kindness is commendable under such circumstances. Well done to the whole team.

    • @SeaSea11
      @SeaSea11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Very good comment! Was looking for one. She has mental problems. I have a cousin that is exactly like this and is on disability for it.

    • @leestevens3702
      @leestevens3702 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree, the way she does not listen. She continually expresses thoughts that are in her head, not even relating to what they are talking about.

    • @amysnews6808
      @amysnews6808 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Made a similar comment myself...just a couple minutes listening to this woman and it's clear her stairs don't go all the way up to the second floor...I'm guessing when she was in school her bus was a bit shorter than the rest.

    • @CopingwithGrattitude
      @CopingwithGrattitude 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think she is and has been on disability.

  • @kymiranee
    @kymiranee ปีที่แล้ว +902

    Jodie is the definition Of desperation and what wanting to be needed looks like.

    • @jacktack77
      @jacktack77 ปีที่แล้ว

      DON'T YOU LIKE THE FACT THAT BLACK GUYS ARE KNOWN FOR HAVING BIG D'S 🤦🏿‍♂️😂

    • @veronicafior2714
      @veronicafior2714 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That’s fine but at least get used through affection … this is just insanity

    • @jaydensanchez336
      @jaydensanchez336 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Jodie has major issues😂😂😂 even BoB the Builder said I can't fix that

    • @FreshtexBlackman
      @FreshtexBlackman ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @1:59:12 Dude actually told her she's young and beautiful, Lol.

    • @Shayzie
      @Shayzie ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@jaydensanchez336 duck tape fixes everything

  • @grrimmm
    @grrimmm 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +117

    art finally losing his cool on the phone with jodi was so satisfying. told her point-blank, no filter, no sugarcoat, what was going on. the frustration and desperation in his voice was so potent and so valid. for every step they make in the right direction, she’s making them take a thousand steps back

  • @victoryrichards8064
    @victoryrichards8064 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +145

    Honestly, he's an amazing person. He uses his time, moves and basically his life into helping people who are less fortunate. using an excellent money recovery model as well in making profits, he really is still doing it out of his own heart. you really are a saint *Strong Widget* and a Wonderful Wonderful Person. Love from England..

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Scammer

    • @drooliab
      @drooliab 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Trilogy has no association with strong widget. You are a scammer.

  • @Danielle-wo6vn
    @Danielle-wo6vn ปีที่แล้ว +755

    I generally feel bad for people that get scammed, but not for Jodie. She’s asking for it!

    • @Cindyann-is3ek
      @Cindyann-is3ek 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      She need wake-up

    • @carmanjun4859
      @carmanjun4859 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      She's literally in the category of "Perfect Victim" in the eyes of scammers.

    • @sharonlinville261
      @sharonlinville261 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      She. Needs. Prayer

    • @FunkyButtnut
      @FunkyButtnut 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My thoughts exactly, plus she's straight up racist.

    • @Nollugs5111
      @Nollugs5111 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The adjectives I would give to these old u desperate women not is not good for youtube 🙄🙄🙄

  • @nightingalemeyou
    @nightingalemeyou ปีที่แล้ว +291

    Wow when she said “ and there is an African guy in my church I can’t stand to see or listen to him because he’s African.” And there are people in that room of different ethnicities and background sitting helping her, dude make her leave what embarrassment. No sympathy for this ignorant woman.

    • @samryan02
      @samryan02 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yeah the guy in the corner looking at her like😮 you deserve it

    • @diegosauda9596
      @diegosauda9596 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The church guy must have seen the video,and reported to the priest

    • @Bonniebeebs
      @Bonniebeebs ปีที่แล้ว +3

      and then goes back to sending money to the same african person

    • @gracedenton3737
      @gracedenton3737 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sad but hey you can’t help some people

    • @gracesupiya5014
      @gracesupiya5014 ปีที่แล้ว

      Reparations

  • @Nightmare-hw3sf
    @Nightmare-hw3sf ปีที่แล้ว +958

    Jodi is getting what she wants. She's so lonely that even a fake relationship with a stranger that is scamming her is better than being alone.

    • @kimberlywilson7929
      @kimberlywilson7929 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      It gives her a reason to wake up in the morning.

    • @ELI4347
      @ELI4347 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Very true

    • @nicholasdiaz9424
      @nicholasdiaz9424 ปีที่แล้ว

      Seems like the wall has already come for her, and she will die alone. No wonder her ex boyfriend/husband left her. Her old demented butt is fried.

    • @Lucyloo1891
      @Lucyloo1891 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ding ding ding. That’s exactly it. She’s desperate to have someone, anyone in her life. She’d probably be happier though paying for a male prostitute. At least she would be getting something out of it.

    • @jaydeepaquette1022
      @jaydeepaquette1022 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Especially when you consider a both financial and emotional sunk-cost fallacy. People (especially elderly) have been known to kill themselves after losing what seems like a menial sim compared to the more than hundred thousand dollars she’s already lost, and she’s already spent nearly 8 years buying into this fantasy that for her to come to grips with the reality of the situation could likely LITERALLY reduce her willingness to live to zero. If she comes to term with all she’s lost and why, that might be it for her. It explains why her denial is so strong; her brain/mind literally couldn’t afford to handle the enormity of the stress it would have to in such an event.

  • @JulioCesar-qt3vk
    @JulioCesar-qt3vk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    "You are a beautiful woman" please don't keep lying to her 😂😂😅

  • @ky-bubbles
    @ky-bubbles ปีที่แล้ว +443

    You guys have more patience than I do. She is such an ungrateful person. I would have just told her “ok suit yourself, don’t call us when you’re so far in debt you’re homeless.”

    • @JustAnotherBuckyLover
      @JustAnotherBuckyLover ปีที่แล้ว +41

      The trouble is, she's meant to be caring for her disabled mother, but is no doubt sending HER disability cheque to the scammer too - why do you think she won't admit how much she sends and where she gets it from? If she was just ruining her own life at this point, I'd say sure, throw in the towel because you just can't fix some people, and irony of her thinking she's in love with a guy that she would despise if she saw him is delicious. But she's not. And someone needs to call adult protective services.

    • @meshackjohnson7646
      @meshackjohnson7646 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Agreed. Whatever happens after this is no one else' fault except herself

    • @beam3819
      @beam3819 ปีที่แล้ว

      Being a racist while sending 100 000 dollars to a Nigerian scammer 😂 I dont know who are worst of the scammer or the scammed here 😂😅 Both are disqusting. If she handle another persons income( her mother!?!?) , than she is a scammer herself and need to investigated

    • @irenesoong6488
      @irenesoong6488 ปีที่แล้ว

      5:30

    • @bruhmoment2578
      @bruhmoment2578 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

  • @QU33N_CASS
    @QU33N_CASS ปีที่แล้ว +1069

    This is like my third time watching this and I still can’t get over how horrible she was. 😅 No one deserves to be scammed like this- but I’ll make an exception for her.

    • @QU33N_CASS
      @QU33N_CASS ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Also to add: everyone trying to help her has so much more patience than I’d be capable of. Kudos to all of you!

    • @MZDUUVAL6986
      @MZDUUVAL6986 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Wowwwwww
      I got scammed $1,000 rent scam and job scam delivering Stolen Auto Parts😮😮😮😮😮
      Scams are Real

    • @briannabanks1659
      @briannabanks1659 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Except she’s on social security, so it’s taxpayers who are footing the bill

    • @sueanneburroughs3484
      @sueanneburroughs3484 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I pray Jodi learns to how fortunate she is to have all of you and her court.

    • @cicidreadful3664
      @cicidreadful3664 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sueanneburroughs3484 she’s not. Did you missed the part where they cut off contact with her because she’s too stupid to listen to them?

  • @Nightchime3236
    @Nightchime3236 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    My mom got scammed TWICE!! We thought by educating and showing her the map of the scam process it would click in. The scammers let some time pass, changed up the number and hit her again. They got her to "not tell her family" and that is so unlike her it was absolutely shocking. She is 86 years old and is it so sad. I am so thankful for people like you all. What you do is commendable and you are literally saving lives every day. Your angel wings are hidden under your black t-shirts. My deepest gratitude.

    • @itsPhD
      @itsPhD ปีที่แล้ว +20

      you need to unfortunately take away her phone # or perhaps try and find a phone that only can receive calls from certain numbers, usually that's only the case with phones owned by drug cartels but there must be other options.

    • @kennygreen4393
      @kennygreen4393 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jeez!! Twice?!!! This is very terrible.... Could she having some memory, something mental challenges or something? Sorry for asking

    • @Mewcaloid
      @Mewcaloid ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe if pagers are still a thing that could help

    • @kennygreen4393
      @kennygreen4393 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Mewcaloid what do u mean?

    • @justmissjamey
      @justmissjamey ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@itsPhD agreed. Some people should just not have access to online

  • @Steadhorn
    @Steadhorn หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Art's reaction to speaking to Jodi on the phone is all of us.
    Her laughing and making jokes while being spoken to candidly is a classic deflection tactic as well. She can't face the reality that you're making sense, has no more excuses so she's trying to lighten to situation. It's something children do.

  • @susynan
    @susynan 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +573

    She hated a guy at CHURCH, she hated his skin color, she hated a whole country, hate is a strong word. But she is in love with a Nigerian man. Oh how God works. LOVE CURES ALL

    • @amymuchko7106
      @amymuchko7106 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      God has a sense of humor.

    • @Wendy88NL
      @Wendy88NL 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God or love has nothing to do with this problem.. nothing was solved because she is stubborn as fuck

    • @mystrickerie
      @mystrickerie 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      This is like spitting up in the air and it coming back to land on your face. 😂

    • @Godschoosen1
      @Godschoosen1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@mystrickeriethat part!

    • @catherine7287
      @catherine7287 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just unbelievable! You can't fix stupid, can you? 😂😂😂. The con man really needs to do that long awaited video call so she can see for herself that he's black. I think that's the only way she will stop. 😂😂😂😂

  • @BNewtonUK
    @BNewtonUK 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +962

    Soon as she said “there’s an African at my church and I can’t stand to see or talk to him because he’s African” I knew she deserved all of this and that God is kind. 😂

    • @Ninasee19
      @Ninasee19 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most racist people I have ever witnessed specially the Russian dude, he is the worst extremely disgusting human being, UNSUBSCRIBED for sure!!!!!!!!! As for Jodi she was some disgusting thing about African and Karma got her. This Russian dude has an anger problem, he gets angry- he must be chicken inside- freakin wako

    • @uteakajiugo6370
      @uteakajiugo6370 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is a Karen. If I may ask, why is it that is the poor uneducated white peoples that are racist and filled with so much hate? How did they put Nigeria in there? She said he’s in Ghana.
      Has the African even seen her picture? They can do better. She deserves it because she’s slow and brain washed.
      Scamming people of their hard earned money is wickedness and a crime and should be punished if caught but some of these old white women that are always the victims should learn their lessons.
      God bless Africa.

    • @sicatsz
      @sicatsz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Time stamp please

    • @BNewtonUK
      @BNewtonUK 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sicatszsomewhere just after the 1:54:44 mark

    • @BNewtonUK
      @BNewtonUK 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      1:55:15 to be exact

  • @RS7Wes
    @RS7Wes ปีที่แล้ว +615

    Huge respect for Shawn and Drew for keeping it together in that room.

    • @Kristinapedia
      @Kristinapedia ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Shawn was really close to losing it I think. I could see it all over his face.

    • @harmonyfox
      @harmonyfox ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yes huge respect to them. I can’t believe there are still people like her in the world. How disturbing. It’s hard to feel sympathy for her because of that.

    • @taylortolbert858
      @taylortolbert858 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I closed out the video after that comment. Ridiculous

    • @lucid_dreams420
      @lucid_dreams420 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      To the cameraman too. 🤣

    • @Farfetch_
      @Farfetch_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Timestamp???

  • @DelaisforGod
    @DelaisforGod 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Imagine you are full of hate sitting in church and making people think you are holy🤦🏽‍♂️ May God have mercy on our lukewarm life. It breaks my heart for that poor innocent black guy in the church

  • @tsuriohno
    @tsuriohno ปีที่แล้ว +394

    I honestly do not have a single drop of sympathy for this lady. You can’t help those who do not wish to be helped.

    • @preciousgem6506
      @preciousgem6506 ปีที่แล้ว

      She’s stupid a complete morron. I do not feel sorry for her. She needs Jesus! Social security needs to cut off her monthly check. She’s delusional and enjoys getting this much attention from a man

    • @Alisha8596
      @Alisha8596 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I do have a little sympathy for her, a family member of mine was lonely for a very long time and that can cause a lot of mental issues and emotional problems that can really change someone. She really needs some serious therapy and probably adult protection services to get involved. At least she somewhat listened to them, even a little, although I'm sure she unblocked that person as soon as she left that room.

    • @appalachianwoman561
      @appalachianwoman561 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I never can bring myself to have any pity or sympathy for those that fall for these romance scams or the ones that fall for the financial scams that are something like "invest X and get ten times the return" get rich quick scams. I just see it as fools with more money than brains and they deserve what they get.
      I do thing adult protection services and family need to step in with Jodi and make it where she never has another $1 of her own money in her hands to send to a scammer, and that it instead goes to family or a lawyer who makes sure her needs are met. Clearly she needs a conservatorship as she's not all there to still be falling for this.
      As the old saying goes you cannot fix stupid, and Jodi is just stupid and needs someone to step up before she's mader herself more of society's problem by being broke and homeless. SHe'd be homeless by her own stupidity and choice so if it were between after all this putting a roof over her head or helping some homeless Vet or young person, I'd say help them over Jodi. Her family and adult protection services need to step up.

    • @ralphmaver1489
      @ralphmaver1489 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Her ex clearly loved her. He was trying to look after her.

    • @velatavasa3128
      @velatavasa3128 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly 👍

  • @handyjayes1
    @handyjayes1 ปีที่แล้ว +461

    How she has reached this age without having every last possession conned out of her is beyond me

    • @noluthandongcola1969
      @noluthandongcola1969 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      🤣

    • @tepilahruach802
      @tepilahruach802 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      She had a husband. They divorced. She called him stupid for cutting the scammers contact with her.

    • @michelestellar7725
      @michelestellar7725 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Did you not catch the fact her source of funds is SOCIAL SECURITY? Bottomless source...your tax dollars.

    • @rachelcurtis749
      @rachelcurtis749 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@michelestellar7725 no...her tax dollars that she paid In from working her whole life. That's how social security works.

    • @BS-dq1kz
      @BS-dq1kz ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@michelestellar7725 Really? Lol. Do you not have any clue how social security works? Her social security money is money SHE paid in by working herself. It isn’t taken from you or me.

  • @NathalieLSmith
    @NathalieLSmith 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +283

    Jodie needs to be put under guardianship.
    She is in total denial

    • @xxxxxxxxx1652
      @xxxxxxxxx1652 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      in the first episode they revealed she actually used her mother's money (probably disability checks) to send to this scammer... she's truly despicable.

    • @kdouces4564
      @kdouces4564 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@xxxxxxxxx1652 thats very sad. I don't know if I missed that part., but if that's the truth its sick!! Soneone from the state needs to investigate her caring for her mom.

    • @barbarachambers7974
      @barbarachambers7974 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Conservetiship. Is what she needs.

    • @somerking7040
      @somerking7040 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's like she lives in a jar of peanut butter and can't find her way out 😑

    • @sharonraymond787
      @sharonraymond787 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think it's hilarious 😅that she refrained from answering just how much money she has sent this man?🤔 😳..😯..🤔she's got more money than sense🤨

  • @Connie_From_AZ
    @Connie_From_AZ ปีที่แล้ว +181

    This woman needs to be reported to the SOCIAL SECURITY OFFICE so they can FIND HER a PAYEE.
    She can't keep giving him her checks. She wants this love to be real SO F******BAD....
    It's DISGUSTING !!!
    She IS NOT BEING RESPONSIBLE for her MONEY
    *Edit*
    JUST REPORTED HER TO THE MAIN SSI OFFICE IN HER STATE and sent them these videos

    • @michmex220
      @michmex220 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Thank you for this Connie ! You have done more to help this woman with what you just did then these guys who have tried to make her see !

    • @Braceface48
      @Braceface48 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      And watch how fast Collin disappears if she gets assigned a payee

    • @Connie_From_AZ
      @Connie_From_AZ ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Braceface48 let's hope they take me seriously and take a look at Trilogy clips. Without them I wouldn't have known.
      She definitely cannot keep doing this.
      Back in 2010 a "Cute British Guy" took a liking to me and within 3 days he started talking about how he was stranded etc.. a few days later he asked me to help him leave the place he was stranded at, which was in NIGERIA doing some construction work. He says would reimburse the $3,000 plane ticket with interest. I have trust issues and I have a low tolerance for bull crap PLUS I had Nigerian friends here in Arizona so I put all of it into my thoughts and decided to ask for a video chat. He declined of course saying he was robbed of his laptop and iphone etc.
      I went ahead and told him this "You know that saying The Truth Will Set You Free? I really like you and I KNOW you're not the man in the photo that you sent me so please be honest, if you are in trouble and need my help JUST ASK AND BE HONEST"
      he didn't speak for a whole 3 minutes after I stopped talking.
      At the end I simply asked him kindly to be honest with me and he did.. he even sent me his facebook and IG usernames.
      He found me in Yahoo chat. These guys are called Yahoo Boys-419rs.
      It didn't take me that many days to figure out where he was from and i already knew what TF he looked like before sending me his social media information.. see, remember I chatted with him through the email chat. I googled his email and I had already known the face of the guy before I replied to the first chat message he sent.
      Whoever wants to visit the internet needs to know about these people. My boss at the time I was new to the internet (2009) he was more familiar with scams since he was a business man etc.
      I appreciate and took everything he told me seriously. I think we all should know these things by now it's 2023. And don't leave our lonely elders to walk in deep shit like this woman Jody..
      She's a hard case because she's older and incompetent. Her feeling for a fake lover stealing her money is proof she needs an appointed payee.
      *Edit*
      *PS* that 419-Yahoo Boy got blasted all over FB thinking I would bring him to the US and pay for his Visa and college etc haha hahaha. Boy please, I'm just an apartment manager.
      I'm not desperate enough to accept a lying POS into my life.

    • @Connie_From_AZ
      @Connie_From_AZ ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@michmex220 Y'all should make a report as well so they can get one on this woman more than once. She'll be fine..won't cut her off. They'll get one of the payee companies they use if she doesn't provide a person that qualifies to be her payee. That's if she has someone who doesn't have any criminal background like a felony

    • @A_Heathen
      @A_Heathen ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@Connie_From_AZyou need a man hmu 😁 I'm glad you didn't fall for his shit more people need to just think in these situations

  • @Bethlam
    @Bethlam ปีที่แล้ว +414

    I love Art’s face when Jodi tried to justify everything. She is so delusional. Also, when they called her out that African Americans are helping her yet she blatantly said she can’t stand the black guy at her church. I would have gotten up and walked out the minute she said she couldn’t stand African Americans. Like Art said, there are good and bad in every nationality.

    • @colleenpeck6347
      @colleenpeck6347 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tupper Lake New York on her t-shirt is a small mountain town in the Adirondack Mountains. There are no Black people for hours and most of these racists prefer it that way. Jodi is deplorable and enjoys all the attention!

    • @Notmiddleg
      @Notmiddleg ปีที่แล้ว +16

      If she doesn't like seeing that guy at her church, then she should probably not go to that church anymore

    • @B0BBYJ4CK
      @B0BBYJ4CK ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@Notmiddleg yeah and go to a mental institution.

    • @chen9979
      @chen9979 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She's a terrible person herself, though the guy that's scamming her doesn't only scam her, doing anything possible to take away his income and logistics is still the right thing to do

    • @RealionairesClub
      @RealionairesClub ปีที่แล้ว

      Art is also a racist disgusting putin lover. Perpetuating negative stereotypes.

  • @GingerNinja1
    @GingerNinja1 ปีที่แล้ว +377

    She's a prime example of a "vulnerable," adult. You'll likely never convince her. She'll move on to the next scammer bc it fulfills her loneliness. Sad, but true. You guys did an amazing job. Keep up the hard work.

    • @KiffenderBewaehrungsversager
      @KiffenderBewaehrungsversager ปีที่แล้ว

      I wonder if she would get it when she hits rock bottom and gets homeless or if she's really a hopeless case. But somehow she deserves everything. She's racist, rude and unthankful (the things she's demanding from them like "I wish you would take me to New York with you" , "I never got an answer from you about sending him a high end smartphone so we can videochat, "I want to videochat with the retired general" etc. even if they done so fucking much for her and spending so much money on her is absolutly disgusting.)

    • @taradickey1
      @taradickey1 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The next scammer will be the same damn guy too! 🤦‍♀️

    • @natalial.5577
      @natalial.5577 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly. Very true

    • @pennypokey
      @pennypokey ปีที่แล้ว

      With a different pic, yes. Smh. Maybe she'll wake up & realize.

    • @dp7047
      @dp7047 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Something is wrong with this lady. She DOES NOT have it all

  • @shiningbright9094
    @shiningbright9094 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    IGNORANT is the best word that describes Jodi. Point blank!!!

  • @ellentermaat7815
    @ellentermaat7815 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    She's an addict
    She relapsed
    It happens all the time
    And it's a sad story about profound loneliness
    It's Jodi's drug of choice
    Truth is you can't make someone do anything
    Well done guys

    • @pheresy1367
      @pheresy1367 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So very concise!

    • @ballswillbebusted
      @ballswillbebusted ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nailed it! She is in much need of some serious help. But I’m afraid it won’t happen, she’s too far gone. Incredibly sad that there are folks out there who end up being swallowed up into their fairy tales.

    • @elainesotomayor9508
      @elainesotomayor9508 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      May be she dont have prayers in her life thats why qthing is abt romance..she reaps coz she forgot its much better to communicate with God your burdens..whatever it is will be taken..wether its loneliness like jodis case

    • @carlettecannon8716
      @carlettecannon8716 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes you are right 😢

    • @TheKenab
      @TheKenab ปีที่แล้ว

      Jodi loves being a victim and any attention she can get.

  • @valesposito1989
    @valesposito1989 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    The military PAYS to fly you home. Also if he’s in the military ALL his and his dependents’ medical care is paid for. These are things she could have googled. She’s delusional.

    • @jomariraeskincare4673
      @jomariraeskincare4673 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Even after he retires... You don't become a general without doing serious military time. That means he can fly space available for life as well as medical care aka TRICARE.
      You know....just in case he tries to counter that statement with another excuse. 😆

    • @JimSewell
      @JimSewell ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did you see the ribbons on that guy's chest? He would have NO trouble getting medical care or flights!

    • @ninh05
      @ninh05 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I dont think she knows what google is

    • @nihilistcipher
      @nihilistcipher ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ninh05 exactly!

    • @maisiekayglassco315
      @maisiekayglassco315 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I work for a major airline. When military families move, their belongings are shipped free of charge to them. They can move their entire family, furniture, pets and all, for free.

  • @tinyriss
    @tinyriss ปีที่แล้ว +926

    jodi’s denial is infuriating, you can’t help someone that doesn’t wanna be helped.

    • @thetruepatriot7733
      @thetruepatriot7733 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Oh yes you can! People can be forced to get help. It's up to her family now... they can take Jodi to court, have her declared mentally incompetent, get power of attorney over her finances, and have her involuntarily committed.

    • @jenniehughes6927
      @jenniehughes6927 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      They may have gotten rid of this one but don't worry , she'll find another one to fall for again.
      She's pathetic but I don't feel sorry for her. She's a narcissist who actually thought some guy fell in love with her , sight unseen.

    • @tsdobbi
      @tsdobbi ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Pretending the fantasy is real is worth more to her than the truth. I wish I knew how easy it was to get women to send me money while I was in the Army, lol.

    • @fluffiedoom
      @fluffiedoom ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@thetruepatriot7733 It's just that easy. (*sarcasm*)

    • @Gooner333333333
      @Gooner333333333 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      the sad part is, this is kind of common for people getting catfished

  • @meredithp.9121
    @meredithp.9121 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    8 years and never seeing someone you're in a relationship with, sending money to literally blows my mind. I've always wondered how scammers are successful, this lady is why.

    • @meredithp.9121
      @meredithp.9121 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wait a minute, did he just say " He is big D, BBC" ??? Omgggg 😂😂😂😂

  • @Mytheon151
    @Mytheon151 ปีที่แล้ว +618

    This victim has to be my favourite. She has managed to piss us all off multiple times from just 1 video. Not gonna lie, if TLC wants to make a show about her continuously being scammed, I'd watch the hell out of it.

    • @michiganprotection
      @michiganprotection ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Same tlc please make a show of her. Maybe then id watch your woke bs network.

    • @JNante
      @JNante ปีที่แล้ว +15

      If I had to watch on TLC I may have a nervous breakdown from frustration. Jodie still ain't getting it, her head is the proverbial 🧱 wall.

    • @lokelaufeyson9931
      @lokelaufeyson9931 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      i felt sorry for her in the beginning but she was very strong with her opinions and that changed my mind somewhat..

    • @melitesla8656
      @melitesla8656 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ahahahahahah

    • @nitafy6252
      @nitafy6252 ปีที่แล้ว

      The woman is been brain wash and confused.Nothing you tell her right now she is not going to believe you.

  • @ultimately-sabrina
    @ultimately-sabrina ปีที่แล้ว +443

    She’s happy to pay for someone to call her honey. She knows it and doesn’t care. I love how you called out her prejudice and the irony of dumping money into a man from Africa. She’s not the sharpest but i commend your willingness to try to help her even if she’s too clueless to see or appreciate it. So incredibly maddening.

    • @marciabaker3403
      @marciabaker3403 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Honestly there are lots of vulnerable females around like her,i had a friend who fell in this predicament even she was warned ⚠️

    • @matsysmellsbetterthanyou
      @matsysmellsbetterthanyou ปีที่แล้ว +10

      EXACTLY. SO glad you said this. There's a part of her that has known the whole time. But this is her escapism from a life that is likely pretty devoid of love and kindness.
      It's so insane how utterly divided people can make their consciousness. Some tiny part of her wants the truth to come out but the part of her that wants to be romantically loved is just so much stronger.

    • @lisahinton9682
      @lisahinton9682 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Sabrina
      I wish you had included a time-stamp. I've watched a lot of this and I just don't want to watch the rest of this train-wreck, but I'd love to have been able to click a time-stamp to see that section of the video.

    • @paulablack1863
      @paulablack1863 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Perfectly said

    • @PurposeDriven4U
      @PurposeDriven4U ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly ❗️PS: Poem dedicated to her❗️
      This is what unbiblical and godless love does to a woman or man
      It destroys oneself by willingly submitting to odd stuff like a scam
      If this is not a lustful desire what would you call it oh dear ma'am
      There is no excuse to be a victim when you were warned for many month

  • @DeltaDful
    @DeltaDful ปีที่แล้ว +268

    You went above and beyond. You cannot help someone who doesn’t want to be helped. It’s very sad, but she has made a choice.

  • @louismzobe3073
    @louismzobe3073 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This Colin has two bars of gold but he doesnt have money to pay for his son's hospital bill, flight ticket nor luggage fee

    • @tgg2025
      @tgg2025 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No he has 150 kilos of gold. That equates to over 12 million.
      This lady is cerifiable

    • @louismzobe3073
      @louismzobe3073 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tgg2025 Nigerians!! But still🤷How dumb can this woman be

  • @81kWorm
    @81kWorm ปีที่แล้ว +371

    The fact she stays so certain that he’s not scamming her is actually wild but so depressing cause you know she’s not the only one who thinks like her

    • @accountdua9375
      @accountdua9375 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I thinik it's because 7 years she's being lied, she's pretty much in denial, soo sad.

    • @thehalloweenheavymetalwarrior
      @thehalloweenheavymetalwarrior ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Let alone she is a racist. That level of very low poor intellegence is what to expect of people of racist mindset.

    • @saramelito3086
      @saramelito3086 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It’s painful to see how she can’t see what is right in front of her. Ughhh. Ughhhhh
      Seriously though the people taking advantage of her when all she wants is to have romantic love will pay for this in the karmic cycle but it’ll be times 7. Seriously POS

    • @cindytartt4048
      @cindytartt4048 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I just wish Art & Ash could do this differently. WATCHING your targets, approaching him one on one for a different reason, to ensure you get cooperation, would be more successful. Finding their work place FIRST would help, then being aware of what they’re like on the phone. They will stall by saying “huh? My number, what?” & then recycling the questions because _they’re_ in control, they’re practised at this.
      Cutting in with fast questions won’t deliver the response you need. Others on your videos have suggested you consult with a PI to sharpen your skills.
      It would be very helpful. Bullying the woman doesn’t help no matter how stupid or racist she is: hackles get raised & then the woman’ll stand her ground defending her actions. Which is like all of YT! You can’t change minds very often. Not this woman. Not ever. 😞🙁

    • @HatRatt
      @HatRatt ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@cindytartt4048 They need to gently con the woman out of being conned, right?

  • @zarismom1926
    @zarismom1926 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +202

    Lmao the tall guy stole my heart😂♥️... He tried gentle parenting with her and then eventually LOST it. 🤣😭

    • @ArtKulik
      @ArtKulik 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Accurate!☝️😂

    • @carlbernard4197
      @carlbernard4197 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@ArtKulik How you didn't just ring that lady's neck is beyond me. I have horrible patience with people that violate laws. One phrase" goes in the size of your pinky out like a dinner plate 🍽 😋 " that is what needs to happen to scammers!😮😂

    • @jamtorres6822
      @jamtorres6822 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Thats Art 😂
      He's very charismatic and funny as heck

    • @Lovellace86
      @Lovellace86 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Haha

    • @Lovellace86
      @Lovellace86 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      These comments are gold😂

  • @MsJay01234567
    @MsJay01234567 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    You guys are way too patient. I would have left her to keep getting scammed because she clearly loves it.

    • @marywinslow5808
      @marywinslow5808 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She went back to him so it's still happening.

    • @recuerdos2457
      @recuerdos2457 ปีที่แล้ว

      The fact is that no one can wake up someone who is pretending to sleep…

  • @verme666.
    @verme666. 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    11:41 art's side eye was the LOUDEST side eye I've ever seen

  • @DoNotBeSheep4217
    @DoNotBeSheep4217 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +157

    Her family, children or ex-husband, should use this video to have a court ordered power of attorney put in place.

    • @CondosNkarens
      @CondosNkarens 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yes! Exactly what I was sitting here saying to my son about this ridiculous ish .

    • @dsivy1707
      @dsivy1707 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      And a representative payee for her social security check. Jody is in denial.

    • @billbombshiggy9254
      @billbombshiggy9254 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It's not that easy. Idk why you all think it is. I have a very disabled adult son, and we are playing hell getting a POA to prove he cannot make his own decisions.

    • @CondosNkarens
      @CondosNkarens 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@billbombshiggy9254 it depends. It’s a case by case thing and some people are luckier than others. You’re just getting the shit end of the stick and I’m sorry to hear that. Similarly to cps and how they’ll ignore one child being neglected by dope head parents but then you know good parents that had their children taken. It’s a case by case thing

  • @itsme_nikkibee
    @itsme_nikkibee ปีที่แล้ว +325

    The saddest thing about this story is how blind Jodi is, to her own bias and to how badly she is being scammed. Worse still is how many resources were used to try and help her, when she doesn't even seem to really appreciate it. All this time, an amazing team of people could have been helping someone who appreciated it more. Well done, Trilogy Media et al! Please know that there are so many of us that love & appreciate you, your team, & your tireless efforts! 💜

    • @Cinditaylor234
      @Cinditaylor234 ปีที่แล้ว

      SO true. She has some mental incapacities I think. I just don't think she has all her mental faculties because anyone with ANY sense wold see this for what it is, and would be grateful for the time, effort, and funding that went into this investigation.

    • @JustTwisten
      @JustTwisten ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You’re right. Some people can’t be helped. She’s addicted to he ‘romance’ with that man the same way a person is addicted to gambling or drugs etc. the financial waste means nothing to her. I feel for the people who have tried to help her. They need to stop now.

    • @daniellasugarhill5332
      @daniellasugarhill5332 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      And her comments on her episode omg

    • @dominiquebaumberger3938
      @dominiquebaumberger3938 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤ yes!

    • @emahosa1383
      @emahosa1383 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      she does not even deserve the effort, she is a racist and gullible at same time, it serves her right

  • @Inked_Latina13
    @Inked_Latina13 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    The more they interact with this women the more I’m rooting for the scammers 🤦🏻‍♀️ how insufferable

    • @anthonyervin7634
      @anthonyervin7634 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      right, this is just a paid service at this point!

    • @breeberry5840
      @breeberry5840 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Shiieeeeet I'm trying to figure out how to get in on this monthly payment to me too from jodi at this point somebody find her and tell she got a lost sister who needs to come home 😂😂😂

    • @andreajohns5253
      @andreajohns5253 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😅

    • @obesekaren
      @obesekaren ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ik esp when she threw a fit about wanting to be there when they call him on the phone🤦🏽‍♀️ actually like a literal baby. i cringed

    • @NYCHAbred
      @NYCHAbred ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@breeberry5840 LMAO on momma that's the timing I'm on. She is PRIME for another donation. We need all that.

  • @Sentrme
    @Sentrme 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Jodi is being truthful by the end. She is emotionally comparing her years of loneliness vs. believing her life has value to someone.
    Jodi needs years of face to face therapy. She wont be able to connect the dots. She needs human connection.