You Won't Believe What Scientology Caught Me Doing
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.พ. 2025
- Relatable Reese is a former scientologist who began spying on the organisation…until she was outed by a very close friend of ours! #scientology #tomcruise #scientologist
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Thanks for this interview, Andrew!! I remember the New Years live when A.A.Ron accidentally (and for only a split second)doxed someone, but I only just now found out who. I’m her newest sub 🙋♀️ Us outsiders Do Care!! Disconnection happens out here too, just not so systematically. Sorry for her losses, but happy for her new found freedom!!! I look forward to being your newest internet friend 🫶 You Go Reese!!
Yes! - I'm happy anytime anyone gets away from bad negative programming, and ridiculous ultra control, and intense guilt and shame that blames the victim. I'm happy when anyone re-evaluates their life, belief systems, expectations and social groups and decides to go in a new direction. You did the right thing.
I know that you are a pioneer in the exodus from that group Reese, and I feel about four to six of your former friends will jump the sinking ship and reconnect with you in the next 10 years. I think you'll be able to help others by recounting what each step has been like for you, and that your experience will apply to anyone who's been ostracized for any reason. So hang in there!
I had friends from childhood I had to drop, and it hurt for about two years. Then I got over it and I know I'm happier without them. The pain of separation won't last forever. I've made new friends who are there for me more consistently than my own relatives!
We get what we settle for. Shifting gears can be awkward and painful, but it's the best thing now and for our futures. It's only getting better from here - and I know you already said that. Take care!
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Yeah I remember the New Years show. Aaron was freaked. Reese is such a wonderfully fun person. I'm so thrilled that she is amongst us sp's!
I hope everyone gets out and leaves baby capt davey sitting there by his awful self ❤️
I can really relate with Reese (no pun intended). After 43 yrs. in the cult, known as Scientology, I spent 2.1/2 yrs. researching and debugging myselft from its beliefs. Approx. 6 weeks ago I decided that I am no longer a Scino. Phew! :)
So glad you're out✌️
Thanks :)@@Kreepyb5
That is great!!!
Wow congratulations and take good care of you! ❤🎉
What is the pun? Am I not getting something?
It is NOT Reese's fault that her son does not have a relationship with his grandfather. It is the grandfather's fault!
God will find your son...and the rest , rests on him. ✝️
No, we need to take the responsibility for ourselves and our children. Gods already done His part, the rest is up to each human being. We need to stop expecting GOD to do more, He's already given His SON, the rest is up to us. Live a life that reflects CHRIST, PRAY for your loved ones, teach them of the Beloved, it's our responsibility to bring them to Christ. @@Juanita-u5n
Andrew, I'm glad you mentioned to Reese what a tough time you gave to your mom at 14ish. That genuinely seemed to help her understand, at least PART of what her son is going through. Girls can be just as bad. Rebellion/Anger is normal at that age.
When my daughter turned 12 she seemingly lost any respect for my partner and I. She didn’t regain that until age 15. Her hips grew about 10 inches in 7 months (age13) so I could see what was kicking her in the head and she was in constant pain. At least she ended up with boobs. Lol. I wasn’t so lucky. We have some happy pictures from that time so it was maybe better in parts than what I was experiencing with her day to day.
As a former middle school teacher (15 years) I can say without reservation that a lot, but not all, 13-15 year olds are absolutely terrible humans. They come back around at 16 or so.
Feeling great compassion for Reese is very easy. I am so glad she received that comment about being 'caught' by her TH-cam tribe. I hope she continues to feel this and establishes a new family.
I am also very impressed with this ability to accept that others may think radically differently, and rather than judge, or try to bring them to one's own thinking, simply think, 'That's interesting; tell me why you think like that.' I think a person needs to be very mature of mind and heart, and full of genuine respect for others, to genuinely be at such a place.
Andrew, you are a superb interviewer. You are wholly present, respectful and you listen. Bravo!
No matter your lifestyle tweens and teens have an uphill hormone battle within themselves.
Here is the title of a recent video from my former cult. The former cult member's name is Titus - he was a normal kid. He tells his story of how our cult handled his boyish actions. I hope it resonates with someone, "Bad Boy Boot Camp | Oops! I'm In A Cult | Ep004 | Interview with Titus Walker"
Cults don't help teens get through normal life where 'every parent ruins' their child's life for a time.
Girls can be so cruel and horrible to each other. Girls need to support each other like boys and men support each other. Men are more successful because they support each other.
This is why AAron, Marc, Mike and Leah and whoever I’m missing do what they do. This must make them very happy. Reese is quite a lady.
How horribly sad that a church organization is allowed to cut family members from each other for life. Should this be legal????
Reese, I can just see the deep pain in your eyes and it makes my heart hurt...all in the name of a RELIGION/CULT. I think Aaron is good for you in that he can make you laugh, he understands Scientology language/practices and takes the pressure off. Andrew, on the other hand, has a way of uncovering the pain and allowing you a space to feel it. I hope you find a new set of friends in Kansas City (we lived there for 16 years), who will love you for being YOU and fully appreciate that wicked funny sense of humor! Andrew, You are truly an outstanding journalist/interviewer, I think perhaps because you allow yourself to feel empathetic towards your subject. Keep it coming!
Yes! Great comment. Really well stated!
That is perfectly said. Thankyou. Her pain is so raw and new.
@kreepyb5 hello and best wishes to you!!
@@Ellie-Mae hello!!! You too💕
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Reese as a family therapist I can assure you that your best approach with your son is to tell him the truth about Scientology NOW! Just tell him the TRUTH and nothing but the TRUTH! You must explain the dangers of cults NOW. The honest and explain exactly how they hurt people and destroy families. Your family is a perfect example but by including him with social activities involving the children of other SP's, (Like the annual cruise) he will see the truth. [Aaron has 3 pretty daughters and that certainly wouldn't hurt...lmao!] The Headley boys would also be perfect. They have all gone through EXACTLY the same pain as your son. They can communicate with your son on a level he'll understand.
Andrew, thanks for having Reece on your show. She’s such a treasure and you are now part of her therapy and recovery.
Reese is still very much in a transition process, a time of huge unlearning as well as of learning new ways of being - a way of being that this time she chooses for herself. Keep going, Reese, you are on *your* track now, not scientology's track.
I’m so glad you had Reece on your channel. She’s such an awesome person ❤️
She really is a genuine gem of a lady. I love her so much.
My opinion is that Scientology is not a religion, but a cult. I feel the government should define the difference between a religion and a cult. No tax breaks for a cult.
That is for sure, they realy should do somethink about this.
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This is why cults are so dangerous.
Reese recommend you get a good book on "normal teenagers". They are emotional, often rage over minor stuff, and rage that they hate their parents to the point psychologists won't diagnose bipolar or antisocial until the hormones settle. I'm not minimizing his distress, but it's not an "abnormal" response by a teen to a similar situation caused by divorce, family drama, etc.
This one hit me hard. I am 44 now, but when I was 15, my mom and siblings left the cult we were in (JW’s) and lost our entire family and all of our friends. I was very close to my grandparents (and cousins, uncles and aunts) and they disconnected from us immediately. It was absolutely heartbreaking.
These cults that separate families are the worst of the worst.
Reece, you are so brave and VERY SMART. I see the lack of confidence you have, but also see the real you bursting through from under the layers of bullshit you’ve been conditioned to believe about yourself.
Your son has a broken heart and isn’t able to understand what’s been happening. My deepest hope is that he understands one day that you freed him from hell.
I’m joining your channel now. You have my full support. Keep going!
It keeps getting better on the other side.
My husband and I left jws after 10 years. Thank God none of our immediate family were in, except for my oldest brother and his family. They also left after a few years. Now they visit and speak regularly.
Hopefully Reese will read this comment, I was raised a JW and got disfellowshipped at 17/18, I lost all my social circle. What would have helped me is a stable home base with unconditional love and encouragement in the things that interested me so that my life was full and I wasn’t always dwelling on what I had lost. I feel like, when you talked about what you’re doing with your son, you’re doing the right things. I have since raised three children myself and distinctly recall 14 being such a trying age for the boy (so sorry, there’s a bit more) but also despite teenage brains being immature, they have a great nose for the truth. Just keep being honest about why you left when asked, and don’t be afraid to say you wanted to save him from the traumas you went through. You can acknowledge your own sadness and loss, but always be firm that this is the best decision for his (and your) safety. Hopefully this basis of unconditional love will keep your relationship intact even though it may not feel like it at times. My son is 28 and still in touch every day and that is what I wish for you xx
I love Reese ❤️ she is so much stronger than she knows.
Reese is a badass, Reese, you don't give yourself enough credit. Your phone calls are hilarious and informative. The strength it took to do those recordings and do them so well is incredible. I love your channel ❤️ 💕
It sounds to me that Reese is going through the stages of grief. 😢 even if it is the best thing she could 😢done for herself and her child.
I really hope Reese sees my comment. It's because of people like you and Huxley that I give to The Aftermath Foundation. I want to give you a huge hug. I have subscribed to Relatable Reese. I love you and hope to create more SP's like you.
Reese, you telling your story IS “real reporting”, and it definitely deserves to be heard! ❤
That old saying 'friends that mind don't matter friends that matter never mind'. You find those true friends they are out there
So wonderful for Reese to experience positivity in her life for a change. Thank you Andrew for providing a safety net for her.
They riddle you with guilt. You can't even catch a cold without feeling as if you brought it on yourself.
Reece, you are such a beautiful person inside and out. I think Huxley probably lashes out through confusion, and just because. None of this is a fault. It just is. Be patient. This new life is meant to be. ❤
🫂 ❤thank you
What an amazing brave lady! I wish you and your son all the very best for the future.
I freakin love Reese. She seems like she’s someone you could sit down and talk for hours with. That’s why her channel is growing so fast! She’s relatable. Thanks for having her on!
Reese, I am so sorry you lost your family 😢. I feel ANY so called religion that separates families are horrible!! Thank you for sharing your story and for fighting against the COS! 💛💛💕💕
Family is Not family when they throw away family.
Double agent plays both sides, lying to them both for their own personal benefit
What a women. Taking control on her feeling, her life. No excuses. It is what is it. McIntyre g forward the best way she can. No pointing fingers, blaming everyone else, I don’t see much weakness within this lady. Sure she would have her weak spots, we all do. However she is someone we can look up too. A good, strong, healthy women. Well done Andrew for having her on for us to learn about and from.
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What happened the first 36 years?
So sorry you and your son are going through this, but very proud of you for waking up and making a change! Thanks Andrew for keeping people informed, and hopefully out of COS!!! ❤
A beautiful and human discussion.
Andrew, thank you 4 speaking against the cult’s programming of devaluing Reese’s intelligence and self-esteem. She’s amazing! Ty for having her😊
I was shunned in a small town. The church was very controlling. I wrote a letter to everyone I had an address for. Out of close to 50 letters, 2 reached out and thanked me for telling my side. One reached out to condemn me further.
They had all been told I was on drugs, hanging out in bars, living with my motorcycle gang boyfriend. He and I had a good laugh about the last part.
I guess you can only pity those people who accused you of those things....
@@lisa408t my revenge, if there is such a thing, is living a good life. The church has failed and closed.
@@NanasRanch for sure!! Very happy for you.....
Double agent works both sides or only pretends to work to work for the other side. She is still only a secret agent. She did not sell out Aaron.
Reese, I know your son is only 13 but his story is very important. I feel like there couldn't possibly be anyone in his circle of school that could possibly understand where he is coming from. I feel like your son could benifit from a children of scientology support group. The Aftermath could start one. We could even do a fundraiser for it. It could start online. The sad thing is that you went through it too with your Dad. :( That wasn't any more your fault then his. This hurts my heart. I hate scientology.
Reese you looked beautiful ❤
Andrew thank you for being sweet to our Reese
It's like religion gone mafis, only mafia is nicer and doesn't cancel their family.
That was an excellent interview! Thankyou Drew and Reese ❤
I love that Reese says we’re her friends! That’s how we see you!
Andrew “ Hitting it out of the park” in baseball means hitting a home run!
Reese sounds like she is still deprogramming from this utterly abusive, dysfunctional institution. It’s very generous of her to share it so openly, because there is a lot of unknowns. It’s lovely to see where she is growing, and then feel for her so much where she still suffers so much loss and disillusionment. That moment in the last third where she and Andrew talk about taking in difference and asking questions, rather than a complete othering or judgement- wow, says a lot about our current society that you feel oh yes, what a freedom!! I’m assured Reese will keep on her path and she will set a strong example to her son, which is the best she can do. She is not taking him for granted, or repeating the controlling patterns in reverse- if she is clear with him that there are ethical ‘rules’ aka guidelines to live by outside of the structure of Scientology, it might help him avoid an pull to ‘rebel’ against our regular society’s variety and also its hypocrisies.
Big fan of you both. Great to see you connect!
Beautiful
You're very sweet, Andrew. Nice interview.
Disconnection is hideous. Shame on the enforcers. Truly evil.
I adore Reese! Thanks for having her on.
Omg I love this human former ice cube!
Awww I love Reese so much 💗 thank you for having her on Andrew I knew you two would get along wonderfully 💙🩷. Maybe next time she'll get you to say cooter 😂😂.
I loved this interview and have been a fan of Reese from day one on Aaron’s channel. Reese you truly are “Relatable” and very quick witted and funny. I knew you we’re having difficulties with your son, but really felt your anguish in this video. This is still all so new for you and him so every emotion possible will be had or thought of by both you and him. It’s an adjustment that I hope you both navigate positively. The difference between you and your son, my opinion, is you were still in COS during your disconnection. He’s in school, plays sports, keeps busy… I think he’ll be just fine. Time heals🙌🏼♥️☺️
Love Reese. You wonder if they didn’t have the disconnection policy how many more people would leave? That policy alone is SO damaging!! Also, the Cadet org is INSANITY!! Kids shouldn’t be allowed to practice, they should be in school.
A double agent would be giving intel to both sides, so undercover agent or imbedded spy would be better terms.
Andrew, Reese is doing amazing after only 8 months. I love her. She’s compassionate, loving, funny, smart, courageous and does an amazing job teasing A Aron and makes him blush! Haha
I really respect this woman and her courage. I was brought up in a fundamentalist baptist cult but got out at 17. ❤
Thanks Andrew for having Reese on. It’s beautiful that you’re making genuine, loving friends, Reese. You deserve happiness and everything that comes down your new path. Your empathy shines through, truly. XO Lesley from San Francisco ❤❤
Reese, I'm so glad you've connected with Andrew. I've seen you on Aaron's channel since he accidentally outed you. Please know, YOU did nothing wrong. You didn't "pull this in." No one has the right to control another person...which Scientology apparently never seems to understand. You were questioning because your perfect soul knew this was not the natural state of life.
You and Huxley will be fine. As Andrew said, 13 year old boys all go through this stage with their moms. It's totally normal and part of the first steps into adulthood. It's unfortunate the disconnect happened at this time, because it's a major loss for Huxley. Let him grieve. Continue to love him, let him know you are always there for him and you will listen when he's ready to talk. You guys will get through it. You're a strong person, it's obvious. ❤❤❤
I was struck most by the story of your son's phone call with Doug. Andrew used the word cruel, and that it 100% accurate. 13 is pretty rough on parents. That is normal, but you stay consistent. If it wasn't about the disconnect, it would be about something else. You are a great mom! You've done the hardest thing for him. He will see it when his frontal lobe is fully developed (21).Your worries are valid and I wish you all the best, Reese!
Reese, we ARE your friends ❤ we all love Relatable Reese ❤ keep doin you, GF
Reese, you are amazing! Your story is really inspiring! I'm so glad you watched that episode of aftermath! It took a lot of strength and courage to do what you did. You and your son are in my prayers!
Awesome video as always Andrew!
This is such a difficult cult to move out from. You have to admire anyone who's actually made the escape, for that's what it seems to be.
Reese, I can’t imagine losing your family overnight. I feel you would have lost them eventually. ❤❤❤ You’re amazing.
I loved this interview! So well done ❤
REESE IS MY SPIRIT ANIMAL 🥹
I absolutely adore Reese. She's truly fun to listen to whether it's about Scientology or her day or her random thoughts. What a happy accident Aaron's faux pas turned out to be. 💜
Double agent would mean you're providing information to both sides about each other. Right? A spy is one sided.
I just don't understand how people can be so controlled.
I really feel for Reece, she’s a lovely sweet lady being tortured by her love for her relatives and friends. I watch when she’s on Aaron’s channel, how any normal self respecting organisation can banish anyone and everyone in someone’s life is the kind of action that will attract new members to their bizarre cult. It’s not a church, a church is a place no matter what denomination, that people with struggles can go to and seek solace and friendship and peace for their troubles.
How can Tom Cruise and other celebrities go about their everyday life but very precious people are literally in a prison with a stranglehold around their hearts and minds.
Reece if you see this comment, just know that you are a wonderful person, even when you know what they had to do when they learned your disconnection you still show them love in your words. You don’t show any hate for them, you completely understand the pressures they will have been under, all you wanted/needed was a sentiment to let you know they’re sorry they can’t take any part in your life going forward but they love you all the same and will miss you. You love them still and you think of them and even when you talk about them it’s not with any malice.
Yes indeed Aaron help you find the way out but the entire SPTV audience did indeed catch you, take care of yourself, have a wonderful free life and make many friends who you really want to be friends with, they’ll be your friends because they love your personality and your heart❣️
Thank you so much for having this platform. It promotes healing and helps to bring down cults. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm very glad Reese is feeling the love. I, too, was disconnected, although from a different group of people many years ago. Her intelligence and empathy will get her through. There is a good life on the other side. Love is the way.
Thankyou for bringing Reese in to interview. I haven't heard her full story yet
Well done Reese, you were amazing as always ❤ Thank you Andrew you were so kind and I really enjoyed your questions and comments on Reese's story ❤
Andrew you should also have Mike Brown on too, he has very recently also started speaking out about COS and the abuse they perpetrated on his elderly mum.
A double agent is someone who pretends to spy on one group whilst really spying on the other. Reese would be just a spy, not a double agent, unless it turns out OSA sent her 😅 lol
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Just found Reese and her story through Aaron and I'm so glad you two are together making this video now!
That was a really heartwarming chat❤️ Reese, you have been so brave and it really only struck me today that you have not only lost family but you lost a lifetime of friends as well. You’re doing so well. Huxley will get through this- being a teen is challenging no matter what. I also want to say what an amazing, thoughtful job you did Andrew. I think you gave Reese lots of sound and kind advice. Nice work, both of you 😘
Love Reese and all she has done to show the truth about this cult. Stay strong!!
She was an agent, not a double agent
She is so funny on her channel and with Aaron too!
I remember when AA DID THAT. He was so worried he outed you ❤
Bless you for surviving all that betrayal of your friends & family. Your son will eventually see that you are loyal & your love is unconditional. Have you thought of writing him a letter detailing that you did this to protect him so he wouldn't suffer the life you had? It would be a concrete promise that could be read over & over like a contract or history book. Much love & strength sent your way ❤️
Love this!
I wish someone would reach out to Alexis Connelly. If ANYONE deserves to put the final nail in the Scientology coffin, it's her. She knows more than all of us put together and truly deserves the retribution.
I Live A A Ron but I see a bit of superiority at times. He's a dear and a lovely person but Scientology leaves traces of superiority in a personality as well as lots of positive work ethics and confidence.
Uh oh, Melissa is getting pulled into an "ethics interview" (interrogation) now. I wonder what lower conditions she is going to get for not disconnecting from Reese.
Andrew, your questions are so good and things I wonder too. ❤✌️👍🏽
Almost 25 years past being excommunicated and I’ll say that it really is one of the hardest life experiences I can imagine. It’s contradictory because the reason for my excommunication gave me my life back so it’s a joyous thing. But the loss of a community is devastating and leaves scars.
Wonderful job Reese. So glad to see you here.
At 13, I would expect some of the dynamics of a cult could be explained, so he understands he is basically a bystander, did nothing wrong, this betrayal came from the rules of the cult.
Reese!!! We all love you!! Andrew thank you for sharing her story! Great interview!❤
ABSOLUTELY.z 13 year old boys growing up?? I have 5 boys whom were 13 and it's hard. We all get through it. Reese? You're where you belong ❤❤❤❤
Wow, 5 boys! So definitely can relate to the challenges of raising boys in their teens. I hope Reece reads all these comments so she begins to understand their relationship is going to be ok. 🤍
@@lindabedwell807 me too
Hello from London .Ur glowing Reece u look fabulous ❤
Wow it’s hard to believe these things happen within religions. So sad .you are a strong lady .xx
It seems like these things primarily happen in religions, doesn't it... so sad....
Nothing religious about it. Not sure why they call it that other than for tax reasons.
Scientology is not a religion. What on earth would make you think that?
They call it a religion
FOR TAX EXEMPTION PURPOSES
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Wow such an amazing collaboration and it’s so beautiful to hear intelligent kind people who care about others interacting and supporting each other ❤
Love Reese ❤❤ incredibly strong and courageous
Wow. She's got it -- it was all conditional love. 😢 That's a hard truth. Maybe she could forgive them at some point, but it seems okay not to do that now.
Reese you don’t have to blame yourself for anything. Congratulations for having stepped out of the bridge to nowhere.
I think you are right Andrew.
My son was the same. We went to counseling and it helped Heaps! He still goes once in a while & he’s almost 30. Life isn’t easy.😊
Anger is normal, and mums are the ones that have to soak it up, we are the ones that our kids can show it to, when they are sad, or confused. My daughter's dad left and every time they saw him they would come home distressed and it would come out as anger. But we are the safe place where they can express it. So glad to hear that you are having therapy. Just be there for your son, like you said, when he brings it up.
Fabulous interview, love you both.
Scientology is so despirate to keep their members that you have to ESCAPE to get out. Think about that OSA.
Here just for Reese!!
Reese - how were you able to marry a man who wasn’t a Scientologist? You are brave and inspiring! Thank you both for exposing this dangerous cult in such a wonderful way!
I don't want to speak for her. But here I go. I believe it was because at that point she was a public scientologest and not staff or Sea org. I think it is permitted for public scientologist to marry non scientologist. They would have likely pressured her to get him in.
Reese; Huxley will be okay! Keep talking to him, keep reminding him that you are always there for him! You’re doing great! We ‘disconnected’ from my husbands family. Not CofS but for complicated reasons. That said, Andrew is right, middle school is ROUGH for most kids! Be you, be vulnerable & real with Huxley!!
Reese is amazing!!!!!!!