UPDATED: Brother Kicked me Out of The House That's Owned by Our Parents Bcuz His GF Challenged Him
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- UPDATED: Brother Kicked me Out of The House That's Owned by Our Parents Bcuz His GF 'Challenged' Him to...I Told Parents About it & Oh Boy... I Didn't Expect Them to be THIS Cruel to Him...
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I (M20) live with my parents and my brother Mike (23M). We live in a fairly decent home in a good neighbourhood. Growing up, my father had an old-school approach to raising children. As kids, both I and my brother were subjected to reprimands and if the situation necessitated, beatings. He considered himself the best father and role model for his kids. But my mother is a lovely woman with a smile that never fades from her face. Talking to her after a stressful day always cheers me up. Though we were subjected to the same form of punishment as kids, he grew closer to our father while I found it difficult to maintain emotional intimacy with him. But mind you, I loved my father with all my heart. It was just that I found it difficult to express it.
One day OP will see that his mother is not kind supporting woman, but accomplice in abuse that family did to him
Exactly 💯
exactly.
She was more concerned about the dad being "depressed" over realizing what he had done than she was her son who had to endure it. Dad wasn't a great dad and should feel bad about how he treated OP. And then do better if OP gives him the chance. Mom thinks dad deserves an apology for OP rightfully standing up for himself that one time, but doesn't seem to care about all the years OP was upset about the way he was unfairly treated. OP needs the apology, not the dad. It kind of seems like too little, too late at this point though. Mom is also pestering him about the brother, but brother and dad messed up their own relationship. That's on them to fix. This would have been a great opportunity to NOT play his sons against each other for his acceptance, but instead he requires OP to forgive the brother before he will.
Yeah she cares more about "kEePiNg tHe PeAcE" than her own children. I don't feel bad the brother finally got what was coming to him, but growing up in this kind of dynamic has to have messed him up just as much as OP. OP is going to have his own issues and has to go down the path of healing and growth alone, but this dude is going to go on to have a family and unless he gets help too (unlikely) he's just going to repeat his father's mistakes.
Brother was the golden child, you were the scapegoat.
Mother pretended to be your ally, but she never protected you.
NC for life.
They will never change.
I bet Mike was planning to sleep with OP's GF when he asked for all her socials. Good thing for OP that she moved away tbh.
To be honest when his brother started talking about his girlfriend, that’s who I thought it was, and I was relieved when it turned out to be somebody else 😂
Same here. BUT Cathy is a piece of work. OP actually did his brother a favor by breaking them up. Who the heck, goes out of their way to try to get their BFs brother kick out of the family home the first time she meets the BFs family?! This is a red flag.
The whole family is just terrible and op should definitely go NC. Mom included.
Idc if op "ruined" his brother's relationship. She thought it would be funny to potentially make op homeless and she's never met op, so not like it would even be revenge for something she thought op did. And ops brother thought it was a good idea and she was worth it.
Op's mother isn't any less of a monster she was an accomplice to the ab*use he faced even after everything she's taking his dad's side also why dafaq isn't he calling out his brother's ex
I’m glad the father actually listened to a OP and how he realize he messed up that is a big step. He still has a way to go, but I think he’s on his way.
He actually saved his brother from that insufferable Cathy
I hope they get back together. They both suck and deserve each other. I hope they never get with anyone nice because that person wouldn't deserve that.
He would have deserved her- and her/him.
Cathy it’s a nightmare the first time you meet his family you start insulting them besides, your boyfriend and his father.
Didn't sound like a keeper. However, might be perfect for the brother.
Not the AH! They just got a taste of their own medicine. You are better off without them.
Glad op’s ex wasn’t the brother’s new gf
The mom saw the abuse and did nothing, which is equivalent to being a part of it. It kinda sounds like instead of encouraging op to find something in common with his dad and brother, she encouraged the gap between them. Which is probably why she tried to guilt trip op into apologizing to his dad for standing up for himself.
So I grew up with old school upbringing but what op is describing is making your children compete for your affection. He rewarded the son most like himself and abused the other one. Also, that Christmas situation is a whole different level of crazy.
No one should beat a kid his approach. His father used to raise them was wrong. Making your kids compete against each other is so wrong. That is not what Christmas is about either.
Had the abuse... didn't help me at all. Yeah beating kids screws up their life. Took me decades to get past it, not sure if I am really past it.
I never believed any of these stories are true but they're fun to listen to while you're driving to kill the time. I appreciate your delivery. You don't add ridiculous inflections to the voice. You just tell the story. A lot of men who have channels like this make these ridiculous voices every time they change character. I appreciate how you do it
Wow, no where in the story does anyone blame the girlfriend. To find out she would want his brother to find a way to get him out of the house is horrible. To my way of thinking she is a manipulator and his brother dodged a bullet.
She's horrible don't get me wrong, she thought it would be funny to potentially make someone she's never met before homeless for absolutely no reason. But ops brother was worse. Like how hard did she have to try and convince him to do that? This was his own brother he was trying to make homeless because someone he's barely knows asked him to.
His brother deserves every abuse for his lifelong evil.
@@tonyblake7569 they are equally awful people. The world is a better place without them being a couple and making mean little kids.
@@tonyblake7569 Talk about 2 people who deserve each other. If I was the OP I would admit to making up the flirting with my ex thing in an attempt to get them back together because getting them back together would actually be BETTER revenge against my brother.
@@Zurround They really do go well with each other, naturally as poops in a cesspool.
Op in storyb1 got what he deserved. He allowed them to lie on him and get screamed at for nothing. His mom is no better. She just sat there and watched
I would never talk to the brother or his girlfriend again. Op gave him a taste of his own medicine, now let him marinate in it.
Story 1- When bro lied about OP was stealing money for weed, OP should have said, "Nice try. Hey dad, I propose a family drug test. The tests are $15 at Walgreens,I'm buying. Bros new GF is participating! If not, why?"
That's what I thought, too. If I am innocent of it, that will be my first thought, "Test me then!"
His not denying made me wonder if the story is fiction (for the first time). Of course, it might just be a fact he didn't think to tell us because he actually did, especially the rant where his father shut up and listened.
Right, OP sounds guilty by not defending himself immediately.
That Cathy is a pc of work. She said she'd only agree to marry him if he got his own brother kicked out of the house.? Thats absolutely disgusting. If his brother does get back with that vile human - then again they are both vile and deserve each other - I hope the parents never let her back in that house again.
The brother agreed to that foolishness, which means he talked crap about his family to her, she was so comfortable to disrespect people she just met, you right, they deserve each other.
S1.
1. Farther has to say out loud, sorry to OP, has to admit all the wrong things he did to OP. Let the brother manipulate him.
2. Brother has to narrate all the s**ts he did to OP. And manipulate the father. And take the punishment.
3. Mother has to admit for all those years, she didn't stand up for OP.
4. The GF can go f**k herself. The way she challenged the brother, clearly she understood the situation. But she wants to have this "prank".
And clearly, she is as manipulated as the brother.
21:30 OP should politely and with genuine interest visible on his face ask BIL, "forgot to take your meds today?"
Turnabout is fair play. The @$$H0L3 brother ruined his relationship with his FATHER (and by extension mother) and basically forced him to leave the home by LYING ABOUT DRUG USE which is VERY SERIOUS in some states its actually a CRIME so tricking his girlfriend into thinking he is flirting with other women is fair game in my book. Talk about 2 people who deserve each other since neither one of them respects boundaries.
S1. It is always the weak that is being killed and eaten first by a predator. OP need to work harder to strengthen himself physicality, mentally and emotionally to protect himself from being a victim.
I don't know what in the hell he thought would happen when his brother accused you of stealing money to buy weed and he just giggles and looks at his phone instead of explaining himself to his father.
S2 NTA your goals are not his concern and he has no business think he can control your finances.
Thank goodness he ruined that relationship what an evil toxic woman
Brother's gf Cathy is as mean and awful as brother is. She thought it was funny to get OP kicked out? OP shouldn't think twice about his brother or the rotten girlfriend. He shouldn't have lied, but I wouldn't lose any sleep over them being apart. Mom should be quiet about OP needing to apologize to his dad when dad was all set to believe whatever brother told him. He WAS a bad dad. He should feel bad about that and then do better. Mom seems more concerned about her husbands depression that her own son's. Sad.
Holy hell, this whole family is insane.
Good day to all.
Honestly nta because op helped his brother to avoid a terrible partner!
A) she had the audacity to basically suggest blowing up their family as a “prank” and
B)had no issue with the lifetime of abuse against him that op detailed his brother doing literally all she cared about was whether or not op’s brother cheated on her emotionally, she had no issue with him abusing his own brother emotionally/psychologically for that long or that badly. He really dodged a bullet there.
Also yeah op your mother is no better than your dad or brother. Silence is violence and she was completely complicit in everything that they ever put you through because she knew about the truth of all of it but never said a damn word about it and now that let’s them take all of the blame and takes no responsibility for herself.
You are NOT responsible for your abusers’ mental health!
It is unforgivable to have a favourite child àll kids need to be treated equally
My mom sat silent and allowed my step dad to beat the crap out of us. My sister used to lie and blame me for stuff to keep from getting beaten. They bought it every time. For a long while I resented my sister but then I realized the real problem was that my parents sucked. She was acting to protect herself. By the time we were 16 and 19 we had joined forces to deceive and fool them. We kept up the appearance that we didn’t get along to make it more credible. We are both far far smarter than those two abusive idiots and fooling them was a piece of cake. We got very good at lying and acting. So sad that people who should never have children are allowed to abuse them.
Being funded by someone else’s money to start a business doesn’t make a person self-made by definition alone.
Well he wouldn't be so insercure if he actually made his own business himself, thats just regret and it only belongs to him
#2: NTA. "If you want to do real estate speculation, go ahead. I'm not interested."
... And so the wheel turns: Forgive everyone & move back into that toxic family & It'll all start again soon enough.
I still remember when me and my brother were still younger mom saying she never wanted us whenever she was mad at as I lost my brother last year and let my mum back in to my life coz my brothers son lives with her but u never forget the hurtful stuff like that
Parents make mistakes too...and that chick was evil
BIL was bullying OP. So, OP put him in his place. The only way to stop a bully is to stand up for yourself.
Happy Monday Everyone from Tacoma Washington!( Stay Safe and warm )
Last story: don’t dish it out if you can’t take it! Lol
FATHER & BROTHER HAVE ALWAYS BEEN JEALOUS AS HELL OF O.P. ALWAYS WILL HATE HIM
The @$$H0L3 brother in law in the final story NEEDED to be put in his place and the OP should not have even NEEDED to do that. The PARENTS should have been the ones to tell him off. They owe him an apology for making him do their job for them.
2nd story, BIL isn't a self-made businessman.
If you’re a good landlord it’s one thing. If you’re a bad landlord it’s another thing. The world needs more good landlords
1st story. NTA OP You did not ruin anyone's relationship. Your brother spent his life lying to and manipulating your father to make you look bad, to make you feel outcast and the lesser son, and your father let him. Clearly not realizing it until you made him face how unfair the treatment had been. Mike finally got a taste of what it felt like to have someone lie about him to make him look bad and have someone he cared about believe that lie.
Was what you did a bit extreme?, perhaps but was it justified? 1000% YES. Your brother is not a kid anymore he is an adult man and these kind of games, are not jokes or pranks, jokes are done in good humor, they do not hurt people, they are not out of maliciousness, and everything he has done has been malicious cruel, and do not even get me started on Cathy. Is everyone over looking how screwed up this woman is??
How sadistic can a person be to find something like this not only acceptable but entertaining. It's her first time EVER meeting your family, and this retched woman's expectation, was to challenge your brother to turn your parents against you and get you, a person she has never known or met thrown out of your home!! WTF?? This is not a freaking prank, there is NOTHING funny or even remotely normal about this, and also again it shows the level of your brothers maliciousness and immaturity that he went along. This is something that can literally rip a family apart, and has done so. I would not be doing anything for this woman. If I was your parents and found out what her intent had been with her little challenge, that retch would NEVER be allowed to set foot in my home again, and certainly would not want her as a member of the family if this is the kind of games she plays with people. The woman is beyond toxic and I would want NOTHING to do with her.
The first story sounds like a worse version of "Modern Family"
Way worse. The brother has a very long way to go before forgiveness can be given.
That Katy deserves a broken relationship
This is what happens when you have an a****** older sibling and you're too weak to do anything about it. Not to mention that the father chose poorly and the mother never stepped in
Story 1
Your father doesn't sound very lovable he sounds abusive as does your brother,he should not treat one child better than the other, you should not have been treated in such a appalling manner your brother has a particularly nasty streak and you end up as a nasty selfish individual and let me guess your brother is going to cause you harm and your brother is going to play games she been attracted to a selfish girlfriend, you don't smoke on weed your father is going to destroy your reputation with his abusive father
I don't know why you tolerate your father and his abuse your brother destroyed your family relationships,he only has one son your father deserved to suffer you should keep contact only with your mother your brothers girlfriend though it would be funny to see you thrown out on to the street, you don't have to save your brother and your father destroyed your child hood your father should apologise for his abusive behaviour, you where punished for years for things you didn't do you brother was not a good brother but a spiteful malicious abuser and your brother should thank you that girlfriend was toxic and your mother did not stop the abuse
Story 1. Seems to me your brother's girlfriend would be a nightmare sister n law. She seems to have narcissistic tendencies.
I was so proud of op for finally standing up for himself but it sounds like he's gone back to being a weak coward it's sad that some guy's choose to be weak
It's a horrible thing for a kid to be the one to a peacekeeper in the family. It's a heavy burden and there's often a time that the weight is too much and they have to shrug it off.
I had a half-sister that was 7 yrs older than me and in my childhood she and our mom would fight a lot, by time I was a teen i was used to be peacekeeper. It was when i was 18 and my sister was pregnant with her 2nd child, we all lived in one house : Sis, her hubby, & 1st child, mom and me. They got into yet another argument and went into their old game of "Go tell her..." when I finally stood up and said no. Of course both of them went into "You're taking her side!" and I rebutted with I'm taking no one's side, I'm tired of being the messenger between them and being peacekeeper. They were adults and it's time for them to end their own arguments instead of pulling the youngest (well I was before my sister had her kids) into it.
Thankfully they did stop and didn't realize that what they were doing to me.
rGirl Relationships: Is there anyway you could post the link or actual title to story one? I would love to comment on it in reddit.
On the landlord story I bet the brother-in-law wanted him to invest and his idea and that's why he got pissed when he didn't want to
Nope couldn't do it I just couldn't do it
weed is great it's saved me from a very long term in jail and 20-30 people from ass kickings. it's the adult form of the chill pill.
Pot isn’t the problem. It’s that his brother said he was both using it and stealing money from him to pay for it. All with the goal of getting him kicked out.
As someone who became a landlord not by choice -- it was a small rental property my late father owned which passed to my brother and me when he died -- it's not easy, and it's not for everyone. OP is fine in noping out. I'm hoping one of the tenants will buy the property from us because we never wanted it in the first place, but then Covid happened, and we didn't want to place undo hardship on our tenants.
“Self made” sure.
Ist story; If your Father was a violent disciplinarian to you and your siblings most of your time at home, and you developed a disdain for choosing between RIGHT (His Choice in every situation), from WRONG, (Any and every choice YOU make is of course, WRONG in his opinion so why even care, you know you will be blamed and beaten for everything), it might cause you to refrain from beating your own children or might turn you into a monster, as you saw him as one. Second story; YANTA; keep your distance and never give a confession to his GF or give a apology to ANYONE, in your family. Time may heal wounds but after you have moved far away and lived your best life without those fools is the best for your own mind and well-ness..
#1. Nta why will hou try to keep the peace, is bil trying to keep the peace?? How by insulting op? Nah
I was raised like this. My brother was a senior, I was a freshman. I was placed in every class he had don't know why i did not pick or request it. we did not get along he was a golden boy. I was given a PIP auto mechanic and Car show class. what? I don't even drive.
My transportation is peddles on 2 wheels. PIP automotive is 5 classes on one subject the math is all the talk and needs to deal with automotive and engineering. basically complex math. same with English mix with business English, clerk work. then you have auto mechanics then body work and interior. we had to stay after school 2 hours more to complete our tasks some times 4 hours. this left me 2 classes to pick that I needed for my college needs. I wanted to be a phycologist my credits of auto lab is equal to science credits. but teaches me nothing about science and biology so on for my requirement for college. Turns out why I am in these classes. My parents put me in them to help my brother. He is a F'up from birth the golden child that cant so no wrong, I had to do all the work even write for him for he was that lazy i had to write E like a 3 un cross my 7's to look like his and few other things he errors on. Made my life hell school gets out at 1:15pm I stay until 4:30pm got to be at college by 5pm -7:30pm to finish the PIP courses then home. I had to cook for the family and clean up do everyone's laundry. I have to stay u for the drying of the close and doing 2-3 washes i was up to 3am daily. no mater for I have to do my home work for PIP and my 2 elective real science classes. what sucks is when he did graduate ed of the year I was stuck in a 4 year contract for PIP next 3 years I had to do automotive.
he graduated with a A and honors I got a C how the F that happen. Even asked what the |F going on i was told you wanted him to pass by doing his work, you wanted it to get best grade right so we gave hm it. wow. I said fail him for all i care, I want my grade, they tried to black mail me, I said you all 5 teachers plus 2 after school allowed it all year. what do that say. Give me that F and he will fail to. and the money my parents deposit in the classes of 6 teacher's of large sums will show up and who will be not in school. we got our A but I was stuck in their class, I believe they made a BS rule and made me suffer the next 3 years. I kept all them statements. plus recordings of them admitting to it all. My brother took all the glory to this day he is a crap mechanic anything he touches breaks down and runs like crap, tuning up every car because he has a license and all breaks after. |good intentions but he is lousy at it. Family praise him so much he is delusional.
What I cant forgive is I have 9 brothers before me 7 moved on with there life's married, military and far away. then our golden child who did nothing at home but get drunk and go out, then i had 2 baby sisters lazy as hell. tbh youngest was to young she was surprise lol baby (at 18 she got married and we never saw her again). We own a large restaurant that caters and dine in. after my classes. I had to mix the bread dough to proof, mean while do... fallowing then divide and rest in the cooking pans. for when grandpa comes in at 3am to start baking for the day, and start the simmering of the meats and broasting. I had to prep the food all the food. I cut all the veggies and bag it ready for the days work. it is by the machines did 7 different 5 gallon buckets plus 6-8 each and different cuts another 6-8 each. then clean up spot less. only then do next thing. marinates 3-5 gallon buckets. 5 types of marinade and sauces 12 types. clean up. add to the precut meat grandpa did I have to combine them. in more buckets ladle in sauces lol put on pallets push in to fridge. then i have to build the rotisserie chicken on the spickets the giant Costco type. then I had to catch the pus to and from the restaurant. Grandpa was Apreciated we both seem to do all the work. grandma is a host she do all the sushi and setting up the cooking line up needs. sits all, clears up as each go and runs the till. we have 74 tables. my 2 sisters do the serving and ordering. yep my 8 year old sister was a waitress. We had a paper menu and had pick of hot and cold spice levels & adjustment like onions, then drinks. the customers colors in the square box next to it and circles adjustments so on. then we verify it and we write the total on the page and let the customer know price. then we put the order in.
now we just have to give yummy food.
On the way home on the busses I did the rest of my home work. we had 4 washers and 2 dryers. so when I got back I had to wait for the dryer to complete did the heavier stuff first. light stuff last took them out in the morning. I had to do the mopping and pick up, prep breakfast make sure meat is defrosted sausage and bacon, we had hot food daily and morning soup. Jok, chicken, corn, tomato or egg soup. It goes in to a cooker bring to boil then slow cook until wake up. I put the sausages, bacon, cut chicken or pork all stabbed with fork in air fryer ready pop on by a timer, grandma wakes up and do the eggs, table is set by sisters and served. They wash the rice and cook it to. Funny they got praised for all
there work yah right. I did grumble now and then never blew up, my parents worked hard to. just piss off how they let the kids do nothing but eat.
I am tired as hell, I have no social life, no time to. I got deathly sick few times over exhaustion I did get pampered but work has to be done,.
I left soon as I turn 19 and got married to a military man. I return 8 years later with a 2 year old. Nothing change they put me to work, brothers did nothing, they return and don't work the wives left them. My sisters hate me for they was left with the work. That's when I blew up. I did all the work there is 2 of you plus 3 aunties now what the hell you grumbling on. I helped grandparent out of respect. I will not be no work horse and I will be paid a wage for my worth. Of course I had to do it all again. Neglected my child for a year before I realized it and put down ground rules. then they spoke to me how dare I. Then I put down on paper what we all do and the hours. the why the hell the boys get this xx and they do is come in carry a few things around for you eat and leave. Pay them only for work done not the day to start with. if they each carry their weight work load will be halved or kick them off and hire some one to pull their weight. I said i cant keep up, not good for my baby and I rather work for some open else then see my grandparent used. that week the sat me down said sorry they did know how much i did, and they did not show appreciation well. they thought if they paper them more they will help more. I was the reliable one and they appreciate it. That week they sighed all over to me out of the blue. I fired all my brothers. they only show up when they want cash. I tell them put in the work first come gets paid and there is 7 others that come to the door to ask... clan the parking lot, wash windows and hose down wall and side walk. floor and pallets and buckets, mop interiors floors... they blew up of course. My sister under me quit went to wally would for less money and less work.
My baby sister came back while I was gone her husband left her with 3 kids. we open a family day care lol in the Restaurant hired 3 brothers care for the kids lol they did well and patient. Life is still hectic. They hate me still one for i got everything ( they was training me to take over is why I did near everything) but I left before they could give me the responsibility of the place, they know brothers will never mount of to something, my sister is a thief and my youngest was to young.
what i got out of it im a damn good mechanic, I can do awesome paint and body work lol good at the airbrush to lol. did speakers to for the boys in school was into it then at the car shows have to learn to match there work. Im the cool aunty with the cool car collection.
With regard to the question of are you self-made if parents front the money, I would say that depends on how the money was provided - if it's a gift, then not self-made, but if it's a loan with a proper contract and repayment schedule, then I'd say self-made. After all, we don't say someone isn't self-made because they got a loan from a bank, and I don't think it's fair to dismiss someone just because a loan is from the Bank of Mum & Dad.
The minute op brother said he was stealing from him for weed I'd have said how can I when u spend it on coke
"growing up my father had an old school approach to raising children..." right, yeah... "as kids, both I and my brother were subjected to reprimands..." makes sense... "and if the situation necessitated, beatings." Hwhat?
A simple piss test shows weed.
last story, bil aka bully in law, but can not take any criticism about his way of life and how easy he has it !
The first story brother's gf is one sociopath. Who does this kind of stuff? Don't get me started on the 'smiling' mother with no spine.
story 2 my ex used to pick fights with me ON PURPOSE so he could go out & cheat when I Caught on to this I would simply answer everything with ok which only INFURIATED him even more it was quite comical to watch
My brother used to do something similar, to the brother, so my mom would whip me. We aren’t close.
Nope. No apology OP. Let them figure it out themselves. Your dad treated you like crap. Too bad for your dad and brother. Move on You did your part. You talked to brother and mother. Your dad can contact you first. Edit. What kind of girlfriend puts her boyfriend to such a test. Get rid of your brother and I’ll marry you. Bro was lucky to lose her.
16:16 his relationship was toxic inside and out. Good riddance
Nta, dad was a crap dad, brother was crap, and so was mom. Sounds like the only issue is you didn't get enough revenge, but never going home meaning your brother never does would be good.
Story 2
You have done things of your own without support from your family,do not take advice or trust you BIL because he doesn't have a moral compass and you should not listen to him because you don't rely on the bank of mum and dad and you merely told him the truth, your BIL is not self made he would have demanded you to invest in property along with him his not entitled to give you advice,he is insulting
Dude in my, never to be humble opinion, you were not petty enough. They deserve so my more.
When dad was accusing you of pot smoking because of bro and exGF, all that needed to be done was tell dad that you would do a drug test. (Can buy cannabis test kits at a dollar store now a days!) .And when proven that you didn't smoke pot, that dad owed you an apology; and brother needed to be dealt with for stating serious lies! Then do further talking with dad about why he believed bro over you? You solved it eventually, but why sweat bullets, when you hadn't done it?
weed is freaking awesome
What is wrong with being a landlord, if you are a good one? I invested in rental properties over the years and made far more at that than I did with the inherited money that I left in the market. I rented to single mothers with children because they don't want to uproot the kids, and after a year I reduced the rent for good tenants. My houses were all tax deductible and my tenants never caused problems. I broke even on them until I sold them, when I tripled and quadrupled my money! Some of those tenants are still friends today.
How is that less ethical than investing in funds that rely on child labour and worker exploitation in third and foiurth world countries? The money remains in country to provide homes. Is that bad? The thing about being a landlord is what kind of landlord you are. OP has his head up his rectum if he thinks his money is better invested in speculation.
Real estate is safer and more ethical than exploiting children in Bangladesh.
MOVE FAR AWAY.....GO NO CONTACT
i dont like the term beta male and dont like it but if it was there then this guy is epitome of this.
I'm genx. I just can't get through all that whining. 😢my initial response, not hearing it all is..shut up. I listen to this stuff whilst cleaning my house. I mean, damn. Your readings are lovely, I just can't with all all of the melodramatic drama. Gens millennial, z, we are not the same.
#1 OP is a whining doormat!!!
Your response -- laugh it off and look at your phone -- made you look guilty. You should have said "what the hell are you talking about?"
Maybe, but it shows you are not as expert in reading things as you think since this is also a reaction that comes about while ignoring constant abuse.
the mom calling OP to tell him to apologize to his father is deplorable.
there is a difference between being an introvert and being a coward, op is the later
Op brother brought all this trouble onto himself for letting someone diss respect his mother and diss respect his brother and if I was op I would go no contact with the family story 1
Disrespect
BIL IS EXTREMELY JEALOUS OF YOUR DRIVE !!!! BIL ONLY GOAL IS 2 RUIN ANY CHANCES OF O.P. WINNING 🏆 !!!! BIL WANTS YOU GUYS 2 STRUGGLE !!!! O.P. IS SMART , DRIVEN , HAS A BEAUTIFUL WIFE !!! THAT LOVES HIM 4 HIM !!!! NOT 4 HIS SILVER SPOON 🥄 HAND OUT