Thank you for addressing you silence about James and Ally. I first I want to say that I think you talked about it beautifully, in a way that supported Ally and what she expressed she needs right now, in a way that acknowledges James struggle without demonizing him and with hope that he will find a way through this to a place that he is nolonger violent. And in a way that expresses you support for all DV victims and the steps you hope they find the courage to take so they find safety and happiness for their future. You covered more than I was expecting you to and I really appreciate the way you spoke about it. I'm not sure how you should have handled it immediately after the DV charges were in the news, usually hind sight is 20/20 but I can't really see a way to respect Ally's request for privacy without seeming like you were protecting James because you didn't make any comment about it. I will stand behind my messages to you and the rest of the cast... and I say this gently and with compassion for you wanting to support Ally's request... in that moment everyone's silence was deafening and everyone's silence felt like you were being complicit. I guess thats the burden of being in the public eye and compound that with having a podcast that you've been vocal about your opinions in the past. You were in a tricky spot that caused you to look like a villian when you tried to do right by your friend. I don't have any suggestions about how to do this differently in the future if you are ever faced with something similar other than to say as a member of the public I think it was extremely important for you to come out in support of victims, and I don't really know if you should have done it immediately or if taking the time you did is best. What I do know is your words today are powerful, compassionate, understanding, hopeful and acknowledge the actions of all involved. PS... sharing your person story doesn't make you someone who is trying to make this about yourself, sharing your story demonstrates that you have an understanding of what James and Ally are experiencing and it also adds extra hope and meaning to your words of encouragement for those also experiencing DV. Telling anyone who is experiencing DV that you hope today is the day they form and exit plan is powerful, letting them know there is help and resources out there available to them as they start a terrifying journey to freedom is incredibly important, letting them know that they are worthy of a relationship that doesn't include DV is a message of hope... you don't know how many people you may have inspired to leave toxic and violent relationships today... you never know if today is the day that the message broke through all their fear, pain and denial and is the catalyst for them taking steps to a new future. It add a whole level of meaning, hope and feeling that they aren't alone in this world when they hear that other women have also experienced toxic or violent relationships. I know this is long winded, I hope most of the time I've made sense. Thank you again for sharing why you chose to be silent in the beginning and all your words of support, encouragement and hope for anyone in DV relationships.
Happy New Year Scheana! Many blessings to you and your family. ❤🎉 You did a good, eloquent job hitting every topic in this episode. Lots of love! - Julie in the redwoods❤
This is a great video Scheana, I’ve always wished the best for you, Brock & Summer Moon. Thank you for bringing awareness to OCD, my daughter has severe OCD and it is so impactful to her life, people don’t really understand what it actually is. Have a wonderful New Year, Much Love 💛🌻
Absolutely so proud of u for sticking up for wat is right n the fact u stood for something n women n calling out LVP for her remarks towards Doute n u were not having it n we're not ok with wat she said about Kristen n her pregnancy journey n that LVP knows who the father is n knew she was in fact pregnant I was proud of u. Also the fact Doute n her journey becoming a mother n how hard it was n the miscarriage she had before this LVP was so classless in the remarks n it was not ok! TY for using ur voice scheana n saying something. Doute is a person at the end of the day n LVP has always been nasty to her n I loved LVP but Doute I love her for who she is n the heart she has n has had mistakes she's owned n doesn't deserve to be bullied anymore by someone who clearly nvr liked her.
The only reason Scheana is "calling out" LVP is because she is pissed she wasn't asked back to VPR..Do you really think Scheana, and the other woman on the show should be claiming some moral high ground??. All the VPR woman are bullies, abusive to each other and other woman and just horrible people. Then they have the audacity to criticise LVP?? Maybe Scheana should start looking in the mirror and take accountability for all the damage she has done to people on the show..
Out of respect for Ally, someone should have had some words to James. Its so crazy. Scheana was ridiculously upset when tom cheated on Ariana. She could not stop crying. Yet James physically assaults another one of Scheanas friends again and not a peep from Scheana.
Are you forgetting that she also befriended Tom very shortly after he did that to her friend and made her friend feel bad for still being upset about it 3 months after her boyfriend of 10 years was caught cheating on her with a close friend? She’s not a girls girl she’s always going to defend the guys no matter what they do
@@tracim3080 so since ally asked her specifically NOT to talk about it, now if she did talk about it, she would be a POS. This girl can’t win with you people, I swear. Find a hobby.
When you were in the hospital before giving birth, how high did your blood preasure go? And where you having high bp at your dr. Check ups prior to going into labor?
Absolutely beautiful what you said about being so Blessed to be SummerMoons mommy!! She is lucky 🍀 and very very Blessed to have you as her mommy too❤😂😂
Except for it’s kinda like she worked harder not smarter, it’s not really the bridge you think it is that she worked so hard. She did it in the worst ways, and often bites herself in the buttocks. She needs to stop trying so hard and take a second to actually think things through. She needs to think about the things she’s done and where it has got her.
Happy belated Christmas 🎄 to you scheana so excited for this solo blog video one of my favorites to watch I feel for ally in the James situation I really thought he changed through the years but I guess I was wrong same old James so sad because he’s so talented at what he does he needs help and I hope he gets it because his behavior is getting old really quick tired of him always getting away with everything because he’s so young but it doesn’t matter how old you are grow take responsibility for yourself
Unfortunately when Alley started dating/was on the show with James the first thing in my mind was how long before James verbally abuses Ally. ***I read on a personal message board that James most certainly abused Kristin etc. per an ex Bravo staff who was so over how Bravo protected some and others had to fight to be protected..so it really stuck in my mind*** During a date they were on James wanted to share?/bite or have her bite a burger? Alley kinda gave him an irritated look but eventually kinda played along. I thought oh good Alley looks young but she showed she wasn't a push over...hopefully their relationship will be different.
“He’s so young”?! He’s 32! Just because he acts like a child doesn’t mean he’s young. I sympathise with addiction struggles but as soon as you take it out on someone else, my sympathy goes straight out the door.
She can’t adopt or get foster care. Her husband has a history of domestic violence. Her husband wasn’t even allowed access to his own children. I highly doubt they’re gonna give them access to someone else’s.
I regret having a sibling for my son. I use to think the same thing how could I ever love another baby as much as I love my son. But all these years later when my son had a son I was so in love with this perfect little human and i didn’t give birth to him. Now he is growing up with no sibling either. Please give Summer Moon a sibling. You will definitely love a second baby just as much.
Happy new year everyone 🎉🎉🎉 one of my favourite pods ❤
Loved this thanks❤❤happy new year everyone ❤😂😂
Thank you for addressing you silence about James and Ally. I first I want to say that I think you talked about it beautifully, in a way that supported Ally and what she expressed she needs right now, in a way that acknowledges James struggle without demonizing him and with hope that he will find a way through this to a place that he is nolonger violent. And in a way that expresses you support for all DV victims and the steps you hope they find the courage to take so they find safety and happiness for their future. You covered more than I was expecting you to and I really appreciate the way you spoke about it.
I'm not sure how you should have handled it immediately after the DV charges were in the news, usually hind sight is 20/20 but I can't really see a way to respect Ally's request for privacy without seeming like you were protecting James because you didn't make any comment about it. I will stand behind my messages to you and the rest of the cast... and I say this gently and with compassion for you wanting to support Ally's request... in that moment everyone's silence was deafening and everyone's silence felt like you were being complicit. I guess thats the burden of being in the public eye and compound that with having a podcast that you've been vocal about your opinions in the past. You were in a tricky spot that caused you to look like a villian when you tried to do right by your friend. I don't have any suggestions about how to do this differently in the future if you are ever faced with something similar other than to say as a member of the public I think it was extremely important for you to come out in support of victims, and I don't really know if you should have done it immediately or if taking the time you did is best.
What I do know is your words today are powerful, compassionate, understanding, hopeful and acknowledge the actions of all involved.
PS... sharing your person story doesn't make you someone who is trying to make this about yourself, sharing your story demonstrates that you have an understanding of what James and Ally are experiencing and it also adds extra hope and meaning to your words of encouragement for those also experiencing DV.
Telling anyone who is experiencing DV that you hope today is the day they form and exit plan is powerful, letting them know there is help and resources out there available to them as they start a terrifying journey to freedom is incredibly important, letting them know that they are worthy of a relationship that doesn't include DV is a message of hope... you don't know how many people you may have inspired to leave toxic and violent relationships today... you never know if today is the day that the message broke through all their fear, pain and denial and is the catalyst for them taking steps to a new future.
It add a whole level of meaning, hope and feeling that they aren't alone in this world when they hear that other women have also experienced toxic or violent relationships.
I know this is long winded, I hope most of the time I've made sense. Thank you again for sharing why you chose to be silent in the beginning and all your words of support, encouragement and hope for anyone in DV relationships.
Really enjoy your pod cast. Your the best❤
Happy New Year Scheana! Many blessings to you and your family. ❤🎉 You did a good, eloquent job hitting every topic in this episode. Lots of love! - Julie in the redwoods❤
This is a great video Scheana, I’ve always wished the best for you, Brock & Summer Moon. Thank you for bringing awareness to OCD, my daughter has severe OCD and it is so impactful to her life, people don’t really understand what it actually is. Have a wonderful New Year, Much Love 💛🌻
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Great post !!
Absolutely so proud of u for sticking up for wat is right n the fact u stood for something n women n calling out LVP for her remarks towards Doute n u were not having it n we're not ok with wat she said about Kristen n her pregnancy journey n that LVP knows who the father is n knew she was in fact pregnant I was proud of u. Also the fact Doute n her journey becoming a mother n how hard it was n the miscarriage she had before this LVP was so classless in the remarks n it was not ok! TY for using ur voice scheana n saying something. Doute is a person at the end of the day n LVP has always been nasty to her n I loved LVP but Doute I love her for who she is n the heart she has n has had mistakes she's owned n doesn't deserve to be bullied anymore by someone who clearly nvr liked her.
The only reason Scheana is "calling out" LVP is because she is pissed she wasn't asked back to VPR..Do you really think Scheana, and the other woman on the show should be claiming some moral high ground??. All the VPR woman are bullies, abusive to each other and other woman and just horrible people. Then they have the audacity to criticise LVP?? Maybe Scheana should start looking in the mirror and take accountability for all the damage she has done to people on the show..
After all the nasty stuff Sceemer has done to people she’s got a cheek.
My 16 year old and I surprise each other with elf on the shelf. So it doesn't have to end because they "grow" out of it.
Out of respect for Ally, someone should have had some words to James. Its so crazy. Scheana was ridiculously upset when tom cheated on Ariana. She could not stop crying. Yet James physically assaults another one of Scheanas friends again and not a peep from Scheana.
@@Saundra-jq7rm look at you minding other people’s business and getting mad at someone for not being like you 🥴 hey, same 😂
Are you forgetting that she also befriended Tom very shortly after he did that to her friend and made her friend feel bad for still being upset about it 3 months after her boyfriend of 10 years was caught cheating on her with a close friend?
She’s not a girls girl she’s always going to defend the guys no matter what they do
Well, it wasn’t on camera was it? So Sceemer didn’t have to put on a performance!
@@tracim3080 so since ally asked her specifically NOT to talk about it, now if she did talk about it, she would be a POS. This girl can’t win with you people, I swear. Find a hobby.
@@Roz-y2d wow you think she’s a great actress. How kind of you 👏
Brock and you are wonderful. I couldn't listen to my child and my hubby did it but the one time I let him cry he vomited.
we do the Aulani resort and the chair ‘reservations’ are NO joke.
some people are out there at 6 am to put shoes on chairs to reserve. 😂
Merry Christmas 🎄🎁 your family is doing precious, sending blessings 🎄🎁🎄🎅
I love you scheana shay imma see you very soon thank you Jesus for everything protecting us amen amen amen 🙏
It IS still all happening! 🫶🏻✨
Love the show. I hate hearing about kids but I guess that's unfortunately the world we live in 😢
the spread in years is unique. My son and daughter are5 years apart and so incredibly close.
Merry Christmas to you and your beautiful family
When you were in the hospital before giving birth, how high did your blood preasure go? And where you having high bp at your dr. Check ups prior to going into labor?
Absolutely beautiful what you said about being so Blessed to be SummerMoons mommy!! She is lucky 🍀 and very very Blessed to have you as her mommy too❤😂😂
I like the OG Ice as well! I buy it often
I’m also a no onions no sauce girl 😂🏴 🇬🇧
I hope there is a Something About Her spinoff 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Lol she said she dont care what she looks like, 😂 i cant
Lol she has to pretend that's true
🤣😂😅
Everyone loves to hate on Scheana yet she is undeniably the hardest worker of the VPR group. Much respect for Scheana and her work ethic!
Except for it’s kinda like she worked harder not smarter, it’s not really the bridge you think it is that she worked so hard. She did it in the worst ways, and often bites herself in the buttocks.
She needs to stop trying so hard and take a second to actually think things through. She needs to think about the things she’s done and where it has got her.
Is this live?
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Ms. Scheana Shay y’all
Happy belated Christmas 🎄 to you scheana so excited for this solo blog video one of my favorites to watch I feel for ally in the James situation I really thought he changed through the years but I guess I was wrong same old James so sad because he’s so talented at what he does he needs help and I hope he gets it because his behavior is getting old really quick tired of him always getting away with everything because he’s so young but it doesn’t matter how old you are grow take responsibility for yourself
Unfortunately when Alley started dating/was on the show with James the first thing in my mind was how long before James verbally abuses Ally.
***I read on a personal message board that James most certainly abused Kristin etc. per an ex Bravo staff who was so over how Bravo protected some and others had to fight to be protected..so it really stuck in my mind***
During a date they were on James wanted to share?/bite or have her bite a burger? Alley kinda gave him an irritated look but eventually kinda played along.
I thought oh good Alley looks young but she showed she wasn't a push over...hopefully their relationship will be different.
@ I hope so because I just want the best for him but he needs to want help for himself like take it seriously but if not they hey that’s on him
“He’s so young”?! He’s 32! Just because he acts like a child doesn’t mean he’s young.
I sympathise with addiction struggles but as soon as you take it out on someone else, my sympathy goes straight out the door.
Ever thought about foster care?? You have so much love ❤️ to give a needed child to teach them they too are wonderful! You have so much great live❤❤😂
She can’t adopt or get foster care. Her husband has a history of domestic violence.
Her husband wasn’t even allowed access to his own children. I highly doubt they’re gonna give them access to someone else’s.
Wow did they cancel the show ?
Yes, they did the fans so dirty. They’re just gonna bring in a whole new cast now under the same name.
You don't need glam you're gorgeous !!!!
That’s so true. She just needs a bucket of botox and fillers once a week.🤣
I regret having a sibling for my son. I use to think the same thing how could I ever love another baby as much as I love my son. But all these years later when my son had a son I was so in love with this perfect little human and i didn’t give birth to him. Now he is growing up with no sibling either. Please give Summer Moon a sibling. You will definitely love a second baby just as much.
You regretted *not* having one, you mean?
@ yes I regretted never having another child.,that was a typo 😵thank you for pointing that out.. that sounded terrible rereading what I wrote..
In 11 seasons this girl NEVER once taken responsibility for her part, CRAZY
Who are you talking about?
None of these people ever take accountability. It's always someone else.
All that Ozempic makes you winded
Double standards, Raquel was treated like trash, and excuses are always made for James period.
Get her in gymnastics
Keep putting off having a child you’re not getting any younger so many years between the siblings they won’t be as close
Keep minding someone else’s business and pressuring them into something when they don’t feel ready. Great idea, dumbass.
Are you going to raise her kids? Then don’t tell her when to make them. Cringe behaviour. 🥴
what a weird thing to feel entitled to say 😂😂
My sister is 10 years younger than me and we are very close
@@carmsherrell737same! Some people need to lose access to the internet. Getting way too comfortable on here.