Mental health and emotional well-being are so important. Having jealous, envious people in our lives-friends, family, and so on-can lead to so much unnecessary pain, stagnation, health issues, and more toxicity in our lives. It is time to live toxic-free! Today, I will be sharing with you 24 SIGNS of jealous, envious friends and family, to help you recognize toxicity, including narcissistic abuse, in your life. Personal mini story times are included. It is time for you to be happy and free! 😀❤️🦋 P.S. Sorry for any ruffling sounds, it was a tight space and awkward setup. 🙂 ______________ CHAPTERS (for your convenience, or enjoy in full): 00:00 Intro 00:46 Jealousy VS Envy; The Importance of Recognizing Jealousy and Envy 02:20 SIGN 1: When They Copy You, or When They are Fascinated by You 04:46 SIGN 2: Fake Excitement for You 06:49 SIGN 3: They Do Not Like for Other People to Compliment You 08:44 SIGN 4: They Sadly Compliment You 12:42 SIGN 5: Joy-Snatching 14:24 SIGN 6: They Will Support Other People, but They Will Not Support You 18:19 SIGN 7: They Make Fun of Things (and People) You Enjoy 21:09 SIGN 8: They Will Express Inferiority or Anger Regarding Something They Admire About You 25:15 SIGN 9: They Try to One-Up You 27:23 SIGN 10: They Talk Down About Your Business or School Ventures 30:42 SIGN 11: Jealousy and Envy About Your Other Friendships 34:39 SIGN 12: They Purposely Try to Create Codependency 37:55 SIGN 13: They Get Satisfaction Out of Your Pain or Your Inconveniences 39:49 SIGN 14: They Let You Embarrass Yourself 41:42 SIGN 15: They Always Look for Your “Flaws” 45:04 SIGN 16: They Are Always Comparing Themselves to You 48:15 SIGN 17: They Always Ask Other People for Their Opinion About You 49:50 SIGN 18: Sabotage 54:50 SIGN 19: They Purposely Do Not Help You 58:13 SIGN 20: Attention Stealing 59:16 SIGN 21: Staring: Evil Stare, Examining You, Staring Creepily, or Lost Dazed or Gazing at You 1:04:03 SIGN 22: When Something Good or Perceivably “Good” About You Bothers Them 1:06:21 SIGN 23: They Easily Rage at You or Get Angry at You 1:07:50 SIGN 24: They Physically Attack You or Physically Assault You Somehow 1:13:22 SOME Things Are Workable 1:16:49 Important Encouragement, and Conclusion
I use to wonder why everyone had these girl “best friends” and girl friendship groups but me but your right a beautiful woman is too much for another to handle and they assume pretty women are so popular but their often loners because they intimidate ppl I doubt Beyoncé has many friends
When I bought my first house, I know the gossip ran fast in my family. My brother said to me that ‘oh you know sometimes we’re up and other times down, in a few years you’ll be down and I’ll be up…’ he said it in front of my mom who said nothing! I realised it there and then he was jealous but it’s hard to cut ties with family so I’ve given it to God and pray for protection!
Firstly, wow, I am sooo sorry you have experienced this! I personally know how it feels to deal with toxic relatives. Honestly, it can be hard to cut ties with family. However, especially if you are dealing with narcissistic abuse, you have to do what is BEST for your mental, emotional, and physical health. If going "low contact" or "no contact" is what is BEST, then do what is best. Pray about what is best for your life. I will pray for you. 🙏🏼 I have had to distance myself from certain relatives, even close ones, due to years of unfair treatment, their evil acts, and narcissistic abuse (similar to your experience), and it has been one of the healthiest and best things I have ever done. Just because someone is "family", that does not mean we have to keep them near. Always forgive, but we can love some people from a distance. You will succeed! You will continue to succeed! You will be happy! God will get the glory! In Jesus's mighty name, amen! May God CONTINUE to bless you! 🙏🏼🤍
@@Gracefully_Charrese thank you so much for sharing your experience and advise and for your wishes. May God bless you too and His favour be upon you 🙏💖🥰
@@sweettoothmarie7304 thank you 🙏 💖🥰 sometimes it’s great to have reassurance that I’m not over sensitive or crazy! This was just an example but when it happens in front of those who are meant to have your best intentions at heart as you have theirs and no one says anything or if you say something they disregard it as being overly sensitive, at some point you question yourself. Thank you, May God bless you and favour you in all your endeavours 🙏
its so dark how far people will go. people have tried to make me lose my job, go to jail , and in some cases did things knowing I could die from their actions. its so dark and breaks my heart because Im really kind to people.
I am so sorry, sis'! I really am. 😔 I can relate with you on a few things you said. My heart truly goes out to you. I hope you are feeling much better now. I will pray for you. Please stay encouraged. Your purpose is great. Your gifts will make room for you. God has awesome plans for your life. Nothing is in vain. Keep going! I am rooting for your happiness! May God bless you! 🙏🏼❤
This describes my entire immediate family and it’s exhausting. Then I make friends who turn out the same way 🥲 I’m a first generation grad and I’ll be finishing my masters this year. I’m walking across stage without my mom or sisters, I’m sad but relieved about not having them there.. I did this FOR them, but I can’t make them be happy for me.. I just gotta let go.
Lots of people can be evil. I’ve gone through a lot of the same things and people keep coming after me. I’m down to one friend. She’s about to be on her way out also because of the constant backhand comments she likes to make.
The flashbacks you just gave me! This is why I don’t trust to have friends. I have definitely gone through some of the things you mentioned and it’s sad.
It is okay to have friends. You just have to pray for the RIGHT ones; and we should ALSO pray that we also can be good friends to others as well (none of us are perfect). Our experiences with toxic friends are NOT meant to have us friendless: God just filters our lives to prepare us for our futures. That is part of why God led me to make this video: to help others to recognize toxicity in their lives, making life more toxic-free, and to make room for good people and experiences-NOT to invoke fear of friendships. I thank God for His filtering process and for opening my eyes to all that He has opened my eyes to, and I trust all that God does and is doing. I am open to friendships-they just have to be part of God's will for my life, loving and non-toxic people. In God's perfect timing, all will come together . . . and it already is. Trust God to do the same for you, He will always do what is best for you. 🙌🏼🤍 May God bless you! 🙏🏼
@Sliimm Goodii I give all glory to God. 🙌🏼🙂 Yes, it is the same prayer I pray as well because we all fall short sometimes. Pray patiently, and in God's perfect timing, He will provide, according to His perfect will. 🙏🏼 I humbly thank you so much, I give God the glory. ❤️🙂
@israel lewis I am glad God directed you here, brother. Sadly, some men are taught that expressing emotion and talking about such things mean that you are showing weakness. However, that is not true: men are humans too, and men have feelings too; you all have the right to express emotion and to heal just like any other human being. Keep being human, no matter what anyone says. I know men who express these topics, and I have never seen them as weak. Some men who can confidently talk about these things and be open about how they feel, especially in order to help others, they are LEADERS. 🏆 Find men who have positive outlooks, they are certainly out there, brother! 🙂 May God bless you, brother. 🙏🏼
I've had a particular friend for years and I know she is jealous of me and my sister. She will always jump on our ideas and make it look like she came up with it first.
Wow, I am sorry! I have been there. We have to be careful who we share things with because not everyone is rooting for us or happy for us. Jealous/envious people certainly steal ideas and even parts of your personality. There are some awesome, kindhearted, truly supportive, loving people out there, though! 😊 We learn from our experiences and become wiser, and that is a blessing. 🙌🏼 I am so glad you recognized the toxicity in that friendship. Cherish your peace. 😊 May God bless you and your sister! 🙏🏼❤️
Jealousy can be very dangerous!! You have to watch that person that is Jealous of you maybe its your job, husband or your life style..because they would try to take that from you by any means necessary..you have to try to avoid these people.
My older sister, is like this, always been jealous , I am the baby, but for some reason all these years, I think its been a deep seeded hate or jealousy towards me. I finally, I decided to block her, I just will not be subject this anymore, it does hurt, she is my older sibling.
This is a certain family member of mine, I will not say who. It is almost a daily competition/ battle. Getting a compliment from this person is like finding a needle in a haystack. When I do receive compliments from others, this particular person gives me the side eye. I keep my business to myself.
Hi, Ms. Rivera! 😊 You keep being your wonderful, beautiful self! ❤️ This person feels threatened by you. It certainly is jealousy/envy. It is best to love people like that from a distance. Of course, always forgive and be kind, but this does not mean that you have to accept their toxicity of any kind in your life or personal space. God wants more for you. Not everyone can come with you to your future, and that is okay. Enjoy your blessings and next levels in life. ❤️ May God bless you, sister! 🙏🏼❤️
Smh this reminds me of shanquella robinson & kenneka jenkins. They definitely had jealous people around them. You seem very nice, educated, & look a little like meagan good lol. Thank you 😇🤗
Everything you said is so true.and that's the reason why I don't have no female's friends. Because they use to talk behind my back and everything thing else. When I was the one that showed so much love ❤ to them.and family members as well .but I love all of me.this is the way God make me.and ima enjoy my life without them 🙌 amen
I am so sorry you experienced those things, Suzanne. 😞 I can totally relate. Our experiences can make us wiser and stronger, and they can give us testimonies to share with others. 😊 I am glad you recognized the toxicity and are now free from it. Please enjoy your peace. Allow God to fill your life in His perfect timing and according to His perfect will. There are still some nice women out there. We are wiser now and can recognize red flags in people who are not for us and our lives. That is a blessing! 😊 Also, I agree! Moving onward without the toxicity is what is BEST. Some people CANNOT come with you to where God is taking you, including some family members (trust me, I know). You carry on in peace and happiness! 😀 May God bless you abundantly, Suzanne! 🙏🏼❤️
All points covered are 100% accurate. The only response to this kind of conduct, if you are on the receiving end, is to detach yourself immediately from the company of the individual(s) acting that way. It’s extremely toxic behavior & quite honestly, never gets better. Save yourself from the heartache & pain sooner rather than later. It’s not worth your peace of mind or physical health-or both! Love yourself enough to do so without guilt. Of course, it won’t be easy because they’re a so-called friend or family member as there’s a connection and an investment on your part. Remember, keep in mind, It’s their issue and until they acknowledge such, they will continue behaving that way they’ll be no changing them & you’ll be the object of their continual abuse. All you can do is keep them in prayer & keep it moving. Sorry for what you’ve experienced in the past, Sister. You did an excellent job detailing the content of this subject. You’ve transformed your pain & hurt as a platform to help others. And in that, is victory! God bless
Glory to God. 😊 Thank you so very much for absolutely all of your kind words! ❤️ As for your wonderful response to their behavior: Beautiful said! ❤️ I share the same sentiments regarding those kinds of people, especially narcissists. Thank you so much for sharing, as I know many people will be blessed by these words! Awesome comment! May God bless you abundantly, Sandra! 🙏🏼❤️
I guess Everyone’s jealous (or envious) of me (except) my daughter who adores me 🥰 Seems to have been that way all my life 😕🤷🏾♀️ That’s why God isolated from nearly everyone who ever knew me. I’m starting to get it now… 🤔 Strangers seem to treat me better tho 😉
Sometimes, God will isolate you to protect you, to grow you, and to prepare you. He did this for me. While it got lonely at times, I would not change a thing, as I am so very happy and appreciative for His process. I needed it and am now prepared for what He has in store for my life. He also used that time to reveal toxic people and my enemies to me. While those truths hurt, His truths truly set me free. I am very thankful for it all. God has wonderful plans for you, Kari. Let Him refine you. It is all for a reason. If you are surrounded by enemies in your own family and do not understand why, you could be the Joseph of your family. It is totally up to you, no pressure, but I delivered a message about this on the ministry channel if you would like to listen. I will share the link here if you would like to watch. May this message be a blessing to you, glory to God: th-cam.com/video/3PksQ0RFvok/w-d-xo.html Please stay encouraged. Remember, God truly does have wonderful plans for you! May God bless you in every way, beautiful! 🙏🏼❤️
@@Gracefully_Charrese Wow this is beautiful!! This absolutely confirms what I’ve been sensing in the spirit, that I have the Joseph anointing! I’ll definitely be watching the video. Thanks so much for sharing & for the encouraging message! 🥰🙌🏾🔥🙏🏾🎯👍🏾💯
@Kari Glory to our precious Heavenly Father! 😊 May you be blessed through God's message, and may you continue to smile beautifully! May God bless you beyond what you could even imagine! 🙏🏼❤️
Listen! You’ve spoken nothing but truth. I’ve had to cut off my biological half sisters because of their lack of support, constant tearing me down, and always wanting to rain on my parade. My husband and I bought my mother a home and my biological siblings didn’t applaud me or her at all, but on social media we got over 20k likes and friends. You don’t choose who your related to but you definitely choose your friends and who you call family.
Wow! This was on point! My own mother has done some of the things she spoke of here. My birthday every b-day my mom won’t say happy birthday and if some else reminds her she said a birthday is another Day. However when it’s her b-day everyone must acknowledge her day. I can go on and on about different situations in my life with her. I was scrolling one day a from out about narcissistic people , my mom check every box. Also have experience with friends as well.
My mother was that person! Jealous and self righteous! Never say sorry when she’s done wrong till her dying day! Complaining about things I should have given her! When I bought / gifted her jewelry from fine jewelry departments and she complained it wasn’t $$$$ much compared to my own jewelry I bought for myself etc. Gucci purses, new luggage or dresses! Free trips for her to vacation to Hawaii, San Francisco!!! I can never do enough or good enough to her as a daughter no matter what I do! It hurts a lot thinking about her and how I was treated … even today!
First let me say this to you so sorry that your mom could treat you foul! I've been through that all of my life just appreciate who you are and pray for your mother! You only get one mother! Even though she's not a great caring mom! I pray that you'll have positive people around to show you that your mom has issues that she should deal with that was never about you
I will pray for you, Veronica. This is amongst the most hurtful, and you are certainly not alone. 🫂 Please stay encouraged, as NO ONE can stop God's plans and blessings for your life! Keep going. You have got your new beginnings to enjoy! May God bless you, beautiful. 🙏🏼❤
I've been given the evil stare from several people and I didn't understand stand. Or the will give a grunt when someone compliments me. Or they would say I want to be like you with a smirk.... very jealous people
Hi, Patricia! I hope all is well! 🙂 Anyone who gives you the evil stare, please try to stay away from them; no matter who they are, keep your distance and do not be personal with them. People who give you evil looks have evil in their hearts toward you, and evil actions could follow. Of course, do not live in fear. Just be wise about people like them-to protect yourself, your personal space and life, and your peace. ❤️ I am glad you are aware of jealous/envious actions and words. This way, you know who to be careful about. Enjoy your peace, sister! A toxic-free life is always best, including for your health! 😀 May God bless you! 🙏🏼❤️
I finally understood what that glare means… it’s like a grin mean mug I got that from a co worker n her mom confirmed it her mom is my supervisor I thought we was cool however she seen me and gave me this look didn’t seem eager to see me yet her mom was like Ma xyz looks good then her mom mentions she in the gym and then a few yrs back I seen her at a party her n anotr girl was being messy with a compliment it took me a while to get it together howeber I’m learning people can be very cruel ll
You really know yourself and it shows❤ so glad I’m not a jealous person I’ve always been happy for people because l prefer beauty and feeling happy feelings and see it ❤
I needed this 3 years ago.🥺 I've figured this out on my own the hard way & it HURTS to understand that people want to harm you just because you exist in your space. I've healed through understanding their motives on how I was treated and why elders try to set me up / try to corrupt me to make my life more difficult than it need to be. I have STRONG boundaries, Im not afraid to say no or be the "enemy", so they didn't get their way. 🤣 Thank you for this All In One video. It's always good to hear someone validate the "It's not a big deal" situations.
Firstly, I am so sorry for all you have experienced. I can relate. The truth does hurt sometimes, but it absolutely sets us free! I am happy for you that you have understanding and healing, I truly am. Stay encouraged. Narcissistic abuse is very real, but so are healing, new found happiness, and new beginnings! Look forward and keep going! God has plans for your life. You have powerful testimonies! People need YOUR story, it gives hope. Thank you for sharing, Mina. May God bless you! 🙏🏽❤️
I humbly thank you, glory to God. 🙏🏼 Yes, it is sad. It is awesome, though, that situations like those can be flipped into learning experiences, strength, and testimonies; they don't have to be in vain. 🙌🏼🙂 We can come out wiser! 😀 Thank you so much for watching, Prof Mj! May God bless you! 🙏🏼
@@Gracefully_Charrese Perfectly said...I am learning that being, kind, polite and pretty are great qualities. I let too many people get close to me who were envious or jealous. Thankful to God for strengthen my relationship with Him - now I use discernment and pray more. Be blessed!
@Prof Mj That is awesome! Absolutely! We must use spiritual discernment and allow the Holy Spirit to lead us in all things-including regarding our relationships, of all kinds. 🙌🏼🙂 Let us remain humbly confident, aware of our company, and close to our Heavenly Father. 🙏🏼 Thank you so much, may God bless you! 🙏🏼😊
This is why I only have like 3 genuine friends 😭 I’ve been through so much. I’m sorry you had to experience this and thank you for taking the time to make this video ❤️
Hi, sis'! I totally understand. I always say: "I would rather have no friends, or one or a couple good friends, than to have any toxic friends." I currently do not have much of a social life. However, I have more peace. I am taking my time getting to know a couple of women to see if we can genuinely become good friends. I believe God will fill my life in His perfect time, and He will do the same for you. 🙂 As long as you are happy and have healthy friendships, that is awesome! I am truly happy for you! 😊❤️ I thank you so very much for your kind words, beautiful! I am sorry you have been through a lot as well. Here is some beauty: our experiences grow us and prepare us for our blessings! 🕊🙌🏼😊 May God bless you with all the best, sister! 🙏🏼❤️
@@Gracefully_Charrese thank you so much for the insight love, I truly needed this and agree with everything you said. Continue being the beautiful person you are ❤️ I hope you have a blessed day as well, thank you 🥰
@Nami You are so very welcome, sweet soul! Glory to God! 😊 I truly thank you for your kindness! I will pray for you, sister! 😊 You continue to be the beautiful person YOU are, beautiful! May God bless you abundantly! 🙏🏼❤️
So true, I had a friend that was jealous of me, she was copying my talents, stealing my boyfriends, slept with ex's. Weird behaviour. Have to feel sorry for them lol. Cut all ties feel so much better. Good video x😀
You hit the nail on the head with this conversation. I was recently considering reconnecting with a friend who I stopped talking to because I felt she was a jealous friend but in a way was second guessing my intuition and many of the signs you mentioned brought her and several others I have disconnected from to mind. This video pop up on my for you from God I know! I will heed and keep moving forward with my life ♥️
Wow! Thank you so much for sharing! I just love how God works! He is always right on time! 🙌🏼🕊🤍😀 He works in wonderful ways, and His Holy Spirit is guiding you to protect you. Please enjoy your peace and a toxic-free life. ❤️ May God bless you, Dezzy! 🙏🏼❤️
It's so sad, unfair and very unfortunate that you had to go through all those things because you are a very Gorgeous woman with great gifts and talents. People who harm others out of jealousy need to learn to love themselves and use that energy for something positive. I had some experiences to with jealous people.....So glad I found your channel...just subscribed on April 5, 2023.
Hi! 😀 Firstly, I humbly thank you so very much for your kind and empathetic words. 💛 I agree; it is very much so an insecurity thing that they are taking out on others. Loving one's self and self-confidence are so very important and makes for a more peaceful and happy life. 😊 Thank you so much again! Including for your support! 😊 May God bless you! 🙏🏼💛
I appreciate you being so caring.. honest and out spoken on this topic as it is real. If you ignore these toxic people they can really sabotage.. and hurt you. And don't forget the jealous ex boyfriend's or ex husband's. My ex boyfriend helped me with a major lawsuit against my former employer. Then we split in the mist of the lawsuit. He became jealous that I got involved with a new person and I was doing better and was happy..so he contacted the agency I'd filed the lawsuit with..lied! and sabotaged my lawsuit which resulted in agency rescinded their decision and dropping my lawsuit. It cost me big!! time dollars that I deserved. So beware of envious toxic so called friend's or family it can really cost you pain and misery. 🧐 You are very kind..God Bless You 🥰
I have experienced all these problems in my life, toxic family and friends but God protected me from their troubles. God turned my worries to worship 🙌. Thanks for the educative messages. God bless you 🙏
Hallelujah! 😀 God is so awesome! I love how our Heavenly Father works! 🤍 You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good. He brought me to this position so I could save the lives of many people. -Genesis 50:20 Thank YOU for your kindness and for sharing your awesome testimony! It is my pleasure to share, to God be the glory. 😊 Thank you again, and may God bless you as well, sister! 🙏🏽❤️
Awwww 🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️, Martha!!! Thank you sooo much for your beautiful comment! That touched my heart. ❤️ Again, thank you, humbly. May God bless you in every area of your life, beautiful! 🙏🏼❤️
I’ve had this all my life and it started with my mother!! It’s very sad and hurts my heart. I’m the most humble and caring person. I cheer for everyone. I can’t trust anyone anymore and prefer to be alone. As nearly all of my friendships have ended due to their jealous. It really hurts
You are so beautiful and talented! You will make it so far with your gifts , I wish you well . Thank you for this video it’s an eye opener that we should all pay attention to !
Awww, glory to God! I am happy to share, and I humbly thank you sooo very much for such kind, beautiful words, beautiful! 😊🥺❤️ May God bless you greatly! 🙏🏼🤍❤️
Thank you for sharing this. I've been dealing with these signs since I was little, and I didn't know these were signs of jealousy and envy. This is so helpful❤
It is my pleasure, glory to God. ❤️😊 I have as well, Alexis. I can relate. Please remember that their actions and thoughts about you have NOTHING to do with you. Continue to be your awesome, beautiful self. Leave them in God's hands and carry on in a happy, healthy, toxic-free life! May God bless you abundantly, beautiful! 🙏🏼❤️
@Gracefully_Charrese Thank you so much. I really appreciate you and the wisdom you're sharing here. I'm so sorry that you have had this experience too, but you have turned it into something beautiful. Thank you for sharing this with us all, and I pray that God richly blesses you, that he adds to your beauty and grace, and that you overcome in every area of your life. Blessings sister❤️❤️
It’s a lonely world for us! I’m glad I have God because I’ve been going through this my whole life. I don’t have friends due to this and it’s the best decision I ever made. I believe in being good to everyone no attachments.
Experience this first hand from "friends" and immediate family members. I am a go getter and just blessed that I have accomplished many things in my career and doing well financially. They try to tear you down, ask for money/use you, once you tell them no, you're a bad person lol It's not a good feeling but you grow up and get wiser. To anyone who's currently experiencing this, it's not lonely on the top, it's peaceful 🙏🏼❤️
I’m actually planning a video on this exact topic and it’s so crazy how we all have experienced the same red flags!!!! It’s good to warm others because keeping a friend like this is DANGEROUS!
I was truly blessed by your wise words of encouragement. It's almost scary how you spoke about how to recognize jealousy. Thank God for opening my eyes to those who don't have my best interest at heart. I don't dislike them, I have distanced myself from them. Those who are family, I pray for them. Be blessed.
I humbly thank you so much for your kind words, to God be the glory. ❤ I am happy for you, I truly am. Keep persevering forward! God has got awesome plans for you! The truth sets us free! 😊 May God bless you in wonderful ways! 🙏🏼❤
Most of what you have described, I have experienced. As soon as I identify toxic behavior I keep far from those persons and be very careful if I share the same space with them
Since child hood I’ve said ‘I don’t like people’ They seem mean they lie bare faced lies, they are two faced, demanding, manipulating and aw so fake. I just can’t be asked anymore.
There are still some truly kindhearted people in this world. Please do not give up. ❤️ There is always someone out there who will appreciate you. May God bless you. 🙏🏽❤️
Watching this made me sad & afraid, but this is the reality we're living. Mam charrese justified my feelings & experiences,you made me remember so many people while I'm watching you, felt like I have someone on my side. I noticed mam charrese's eyes are rimmed with tears & is about to cry in some parts while sharing her past experiences for additional life advice. I feel her, I can tell she's badly hurt & I'm already in tears 😢
Unbelievable! You just described sooooo many things I experience often. I could not understand why so many people treat me like crap! I love people. I don’t possess jealousy. Im happy for others if they get ahead in life! I don’t have mean feelings towards anyone. The nicer you are , the more respectful you are , the more intelligent you are the worse people treat you! When you speak truth or don’t tell others what they want to hear they will openly mistreat you. Ive spend so much of my life lonely and sad because people always hating on me. I’m a gifted singer. I’ve been singing my entire life. Some folks don’t want you to be happy or get ahead. They treat you bad for NO REASON! It’s not your fault it’s there’s. Pray without ceasing. Prayer works! God is in control. He will give you courage strength and uplift you. Shine bright like a diamond...what you allow shall continue!
I enjoyed your video. I have experienced most of not all of these for many years. I was a doormat and was treated horribly, but God helped me to change. I admire your ability to explain all of these situations so well. You are also pretty, so, it’s fine if they’re jealous!
I humbly thank you for your kind words and for watching! 😊 Thank you for sharing your testimony and for being open. I am sorry for all that you have gone through, beautiful. I am happy that God helped you and also how you are allowing Him to use you to be a blessing to others by sharing your experiences. 🙌🏼❤️ That is awesome! I hope all is well with you and your life! I humbly thank you so much again! 😊 May God bless you abundantly! 🙏🏼❤️
🥺 I humbly thank you so very much for every single word. I appreciate it all! ❤ God makes us victorious! What the devil meant for evil, God will make for our good! 🙌🏽 May God bless you and bless you and bless you! 🙏🏼❤️
A Lot of people like to take you down! Don't let them! Avoid them for your own good! Pray for them! Even the church will try to take you down because of jealousy and envy! I experienced that for 30 years as a pastor's wife! I had to truly realize this sin of jealousy and envy and rise above it! To walk in love you have to take no account of the evil done to you! Like Jesus did in his life on earth! He is the truth and the way! Blessings everyone!🙏💐🌹 Happy Thanksgiving! 🦃
I’ve experienced various types of jealousy and envy all through my life from my childhood to the present. I’m talking it all started with my own father of whom has been deceased for over 2 decades now. Then it was my oldest sister. (His other daughter) and that was all over inheritance that was stolen from my late Grandmother and late Grandfather. I have experienced the basic friend girl jealousy/envy and then even step-mom, ex boyfriends along with their parents etc…….I LITERALLY HATE IT and I should be used to it by now but unfortunately it STILL HURTS……😢😢😢😢 and some of the issues I had NO CLUE about until here recently. I mean they hid it WELL!!! The reason why I know that I’ve experienced jealousy through ex boyfriend mothers etc is because I’m ALWAYS being discussed but within a negative manner no matter as to what decisions I make!!! My hair is discussed, the way I dress, carry myself even certain skills and talents that I have but I feel that overall it’s my “strength” that ALL of them are the MOST envious of. SMDH and it’s so disgusting, sad and ridiculous!!! I’m so sick of it but I continue to hold my head high regardless and that’s my advice to everyone on here……..no matter what, even though it hurts, keep pushing and striving for your goals and let your SUCCESS KILL THEM EVEN MORE!!! 💯🌟🌟💯
Oh my lord you are an amazing woman ❤ I’m so happy you are here this video helped me so much and was so informative regarding emotional abuse thank you 🙏 you will help many women
I truly appreciate all your kindness, I really do. 🥺❤️ That touched my heart. I am so glad you found something in this video helpful. To God be the glory! 🙏🏼😊 Keep going, beautiful! You have a kind heart and share such lovely words. We need more of that in this world. May God bless you in every way! 🙏🏼❤️
I have been going through this most of my adult life. ALL OF IT!! 😞😔 I’m just so tired of it. Someone once asked me how it feels to be beautiful. My thing is, doesn’t beauty come from the inside. In fact I don’t even think I’m pretty at all, and I’m fine with it. I compliment women all the time. I dress down so I won’t draw too much attention to myself. I’m 57 and it’s still the same. I actually stopped wearing nail polish and my favorite blue mascara. Every year, I visit Hollywood, CA for my birthday and wedding anniversary. When one of my coworkers asked me where I had gone for my birthday and when I told her it was Hollywood, she asked me how much the hotel room was and when I told her she says well that sounds expensive. Fast forward 4 months later she made a trip to Hollywood and was LOUDLY bragging about it. I can’t do this anymore. I’m done with people.. Thank you for listening and blessings to you ❤️❤️❤️
Please don’t stop wearing nail polish and dressing the way you enjoy dressing. Also please don’t t tell people where you’ve been or going. People are pocket watching. It doesn’t matter how humble you are. The jealousy doesn’t wane. If people if someone ask me how I used my PTO. I say “ We took a family road trip” If they ask “where?” I ask them why does it matter where? We had a relaxing time! I keep all activities to myself. I’m 55. I think I’m average looking but obviously people see something different. This evil behavior and jealousy is a sign of the end times! 🙏🏽
@@hplifestylelessonsandfun9131 Woww, you are a Bombshell as you don’t look a day past 40, but I definitely learned my lesson. I do things on the low-low. I’m like dang, some people just don’t haVE a liFe. Thanks and blessings 🙏🏽 for all you do
@@pecantan9146 Aww! Thank you so much! You’re pretty as well. How do I know this? You wouldn’t be listening to this if you weren’t! 😍This is a unique group we’ve been placed in. Be safe out there! God be with us! 🙏🏽
I'm so sorry tou have had to experience envious friends and family. Thank you for making this video. You described the jealous and envious tactics to a Tee!! So glad that you prayed and that God revealed those who had hatred in their hears!
Thank you so much for your caring heart and kind words. ❤️ It is a pleasure to share, to God be the glory. I am so thankful for our Heavenly Father, He surely does reveal to us what we do not or cannot see. The truth sets us free! 😊 I hope all is well with you! ❤ May God bless you! 🙏🏼❤️
I settled a lawsuit against my narc psychiatrist. They are in the perfect position to harm. I am glad you mentioned healthcare persons. Great video. Thank you.
She is a beautiful woman, with a beautiful voice, figure, persona, spirit and disposition😍And yes i am a woman as well😁 Very enlightening message! 🙏🏾 Thank you!♥️♥️
U r so beautiful and ur Ora is wonderful…I had and have gone through … all of it …. Ppl like us r not common it was hard to except they were reallly cruel and petty to each other but mostly me … I would love for u to do a show or event with me here in Daytona Beach…. U have said so many things ppl don’t understand unless they experienced it ur awesome
Thank you for keeping it real!❤ they will try to ruin your life, steal from you, roll their eyes at you, talking about you! Set you up! They turn on you!
Hi, Princess Adella! I hope all is well! 😊 I humbly thank you very much! I am so glad to share, glory to God! 🙂 Thank you for watching, and for your constant kindness! May God bless you greatly, sister! 😀🙏🏽❤️
And you are fantastic, and look gorgeous. Please make a video someday about your skin care routine and how you stay trim and fit. I am a black woman who totally loves being slim and fit. Keep shining, dear. You are smart and beautiful.
I humbly thank you so much for your kind words! I am looking forward to making videos like the ones you mentioned. 😊 Things have been so up and down! 🥴 Lol! Thank you again for your kind words! Posting more soon! May God bless you! 🙏🏼❤😀
Awww, I humbly thank you sooo very much for such beautiful words! 😊 I give all glory to God! Your words are a blessing to me. Love you, sis'! ❤️😊 May God bless you in such wonderful ways! 🙏🏼❤️
You are definitely not paranoid, sister. You have so many people out here who can relate with you and who support you. 😊 I hope for all the best for you! I hope all is well with you. *Sisterly hugs!* May God bless you, beautiful! 🙏🏽❤️
I remember the first time my partner brought up someone(s) being either envious or jealous of me, I sorta brush it off, not obvious, but I smiled, and listened to him, and then thought nothing of it When he first brought up, about two family members being envious and jealous of me, I blew up at him (hindsight is 20/20) I was so so mad, and told him that there have never, EVER been anything about me, that would make another envious or jealous, and I would admit, the concept of envy and jealousy were a farce in my head (somehow still is) I mean, I am the same as you, you may be beautiful, successful, rich, but at the end of the day, you remain as human as me, with flaws and all, so why be jealous, why envy you or your life or your lifestyle.... It took, to someone nearly killing me, for me to understand that yes, envy and jealousy ARE real things, and others feel them... (fun fact.. I was 31 at the time) so naive does not even begin to explain this/that, which is me, I'm 4o now, and it takes a toll on me, when I meet new people, because, after I have been my usual friendly self, I go internally.... wondering, if that was the right thing to do, how should I proceed, would that person think I am being too much, would that person envy me, or something..... It's a mess truthfully I am still weary of saying people are envious or jealous... what I see, most of the time, is that (most of the time) people does not like you if you feel that being or doing good is okay.. they would prefer someone doing bad, because I think it makes them feel either comfortable, or relatable or maybe, they feel secure that they are not as bad as this person I am not a good person, don't get me wrong, but it is not hard to NOT do something bad, NOT say something bad, not act in a bad way, those are choices, things you can control, and things that should come naturally
I thank God for protecting me from fake friends. Discernment is strong in me and I do not allow anyone with envy/ jealousy in their heart in my inner circle. They are objectively in the peripheral and never really know what's happening with me it for me until I'm ready to share with the world.
You look like and remind me of Gia Casey. You both have that quiet confidence and self esteem with a lot of true humility. And the way you speak and articulate your words is similar too! You guys could be sisters 😅☺️
I'm sorry that you had to go through that. You are a beautiful woman inside and out. And I also see that you are a strong woman as well Thank you for sharing God bless 😊🙏🙏
Awww, I humbly thank you sooo much! That is so kind of you! It is my pleasure to share, to God be the glory! 😊 Thank you so much again, and may God bless you greatly! 🙏🏼❤
Thank you Charrese, for encouraging me and everyone that watched this wonderful video. I've learned so much in less than an hour from you. Came across your YT channel and loved your guidance in jealousy and toxic people. Also thank you for sharing your personal experience with everyone. I hope you continue filming more of these videos and other topics. I've had all my life toxic people surround me that have hurt me emotionally to point of developing cancer and other illnesses. Now l'm 60 yrs old and l've decided to cut off some friends & family members that thoughout my life have been controlling & manipulative. Certainly l must say that throughout my life l've haven't been that lucky with anyone in general, except my husband and my dogs that have been loving and loyal to me. Anyway, even though l have a lot to say about me, l'm just going to end by saying to please continue with these wonderful topics on your TH-cam channel because you certainly have a beautiful soul and you are a beautiful and positive lady. Yes, you and every human being has a purpose in life, so please 🙏 continue encouraging the public because now days with so much hatred and pain in this world our lives need you and more people like you that are humble and sincere to lift our spirit. May God guide you and bless you always in this path of your life. Believe me, is people like you that leave behind a tremendous legacy to continue living a positive life no matter what happens. Thank you very much.
I had a coworker who wanted me to come to her whenever I had a Halloween project. Anyway we had a party at work & pictures were taken by a company. I did up a photo book, and I will say I did a good job. ( First time doing anything like that) She saw the book, & did not say a word. I felt that negative energy hardcore. I didn't tell her what I was going to do because I knew she was going to try and take over and try take credit for it. She has done it before. We're not cool anymore. But I am happy I don't deal with her.
Often times ,,, it's what they don't say that speaks volumes. There's a very wise and true statement from God in Bible when he says, " DO NOT CAST YOUR PEARLS BEFORE SWINE"!!. In other words,,,, never tell your plans or Blessings to your Enemies, even the one's you think are your friends. They will attempt to sabotage anything good in your life.
I am happy to share! You are so very welcome, glory to God! 🙂 I truly thank you for your very kind words! May God continue to keep you and protect you as well! 🙏🏼❤️
Bless and thank you. Alot resistant with me. See this in my daily life but try to protect myself by seeking TMH and keeping much to myself. Its a lonely journey when you realise the journey is real. Your a lovely person keep up the good work sis.
Amen, we should always seek Jesus and be led by His Holy Spirit. 😊 This helps me as well, sister. ❤️ This is so very important in life. It can get lonely, but in God's filtering season(s) is where we can grow and prepare for the next levels God is taking us to. Please be encouraged, as God has wonderful plans for you, and He will fill your life at the perfect time, and according to His perfect will for your life. 😊❤️ I humbly thank you so much for such kind words. You are lovely as well, sis'! 😊 I appreciate your kindness. May God bless every area of your life, in such awesome, amazing ways! 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you so much for your caring heart. 😊 Humbly, God has certainly got my back. God is so good, an awesome and loving Father! 😊🤍 I appreciate your kindness! May God bless you tremendously, beautiful! 🙏🏽❤️
Those Eyes will tell the Story. This is what I get when i Show up around Inlaws. Its a couple of them that get really Disturb when I show Up. Thanks for your Video. It confirmed what Ive been Dealing with
I am so sorry for all the abuse you have had to endure in your life, sister. I can relate so well to this. I have had friends and family members do all these things to me, including assault and physically attack me, as well as sabotage me. I’ve also seen relatives and ‘friends’ of friends do this to friends of mine also. Remember the story of Joseph and what his jealous, hateful brothers did to him. They may try to hurt you, but God will make sure He uses it for good. I can sense you are a kind soul and honestly, you really do have great hair and an amazing figure. Keep doing you, and thanks for taking the time to make this video. It’s a good reminder to me to stay away from certain people and also reminds me to be extra supportive to my friends who are genuine. It really does come from a place of insecurity, and, I really do believe, the Devil. I’ve seen the black eyes, the seething anger/rage/jealousy. I’ve seen the creepy looks, that are even captured in photos! It’s really unsettling and, of course, hurtful, when it’s people in your own family you have done nothing but support and love. They’ll even try to turn everyone against you. Just keep being the light at the top of the hill, you can forgive and stay away from them and just follow the plans God has for you, because they are great. He knows all and vengeance is for the Lord. He will exalt you before your enemies.
Mental health and emotional well-being are so important. Having jealous, envious people in our lives-friends, family, and so on-can lead to so much unnecessary pain, stagnation, health issues, and more toxicity in our lives. It is time to live toxic-free! Today, I will be sharing with you 24 SIGNS of jealous, envious friends and family, to help you recognize toxicity, including narcissistic abuse, in your life. Personal mini story times are included. It is time for you to be happy and free! 😀❤️🦋
P.S. Sorry for any ruffling sounds, it was a tight space and awkward setup. 🙂
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CHAPTERS (for your convenience, or enjoy in full):
00:00 Intro
00:46 Jealousy VS Envy; The Importance of Recognizing Jealousy and Envy
02:20 SIGN 1: When They Copy You, or When They are Fascinated by You
04:46 SIGN 2: Fake Excitement for You
06:49 SIGN 3: They Do Not Like for Other People to Compliment You
08:44 SIGN 4: They Sadly Compliment You
12:42 SIGN 5: Joy-Snatching
14:24 SIGN 6: They Will Support Other People, but They Will Not Support You
18:19 SIGN 7: They Make Fun of Things (and People) You Enjoy
21:09 SIGN 8: They Will Express Inferiority or Anger Regarding Something They Admire About You
25:15 SIGN 9: They Try to One-Up You
27:23 SIGN 10: They Talk Down About Your Business or School Ventures
30:42 SIGN 11: Jealousy and Envy About Your Other Friendships
34:39 SIGN 12: They Purposely Try to Create Codependency
37:55 SIGN 13: They Get Satisfaction Out of Your Pain or Your Inconveniences
39:49 SIGN 14: They Let You Embarrass Yourself
41:42 SIGN 15: They Always Look for Your “Flaws”
45:04 SIGN 16: They Are Always Comparing Themselves to You
48:15 SIGN 17: They Always Ask Other People for Their Opinion About You
49:50 SIGN 18: Sabotage
54:50 SIGN 19: They Purposely Do Not Help You
58:13 SIGN 20: Attention Stealing
59:16 SIGN 21: Staring: Evil Stare, Examining You, Staring Creepily, or Lost Dazed or Gazing at You
1:04:03 SIGN 22: When Something Good or Perceivably “Good” About You Bothers Them
1:06:21 SIGN 23: They Easily Rage at You or Get Angry at You
1:07:50 SIGN 24: They Physically Attack You or Physically Assault You Somehow
1:13:22 SOME Things Are Workable
1:16:49 Important Encouragement, and Conclusion
Hang in there, it is the pretty girl's lonely journey. Women will hate you for absolutely no reason other than you came into the world "pretty".
Story of my life!!!
@@YD1702the story of every woman s life,sadly(south africa)
I use to wonder why everyone had these girl “best friends” and girl friendship groups but me but your right a beautiful woman is too much for another to handle and they assume pretty women are so popular but their often loners because they intimidate ppl I doubt Beyoncé has many friends
Exactly Right
Unfortunately this is very true
“ God will prepare a table before you in the presence of your enemies!”
🥹 He certainly will. May God bless you abundantly! 🙏🏽❤️
@@Gracefully_Charrese Amen and May God continue to richly bless you!
When I bought my first house, I know the gossip ran fast in my family. My brother said to me that ‘oh you know sometimes we’re up and other times down, in a few years you’ll be down and I’ll be up…’ he said it in front of my mom who said nothing! I realised it there and then he was jealous but it’s hard to cut ties with family so I’ve given it to God and pray for protection!
Firstly, wow, I am sooo sorry you have experienced this! I personally know how it feels to deal with toxic relatives. Honestly, it can be hard to cut ties with family. However, especially if you are dealing with narcissistic abuse, you have to do what is BEST for your mental, emotional, and physical health. If going "low contact" or "no contact" is what is BEST, then do what is best. Pray about what is best for your life. I will pray for you. 🙏🏼
I have had to distance myself from certain relatives, even close ones, due to years of unfair treatment, their evil acts, and narcissistic abuse (similar to your experience), and it has been one of the healthiest and best things I have ever done. Just because someone is "family", that does not mean we have to keep them near. Always forgive, but we can love some people from a distance.
You will succeed! You will continue to succeed! You will be happy! God will get the glory! In Jesus's mighty name, amen!
May God CONTINUE to bless you! 🙏🏼🤍
Oh my God! What a comment!
Surely pray for God's protection. May you continue to prosper 🙏
@@Gracefully_Charrese thank you so much for sharing your experience and advise and for your wishes. May God bless you too and His favour be upon you 🙏💖🥰
@@sweettoothmarie7304 thank you 🙏 💖🥰 sometimes it’s great to have reassurance that I’m not over sensitive or crazy! This was just an example but when it happens in front of those who are meant to have your best intentions at heart as you have theirs and no one says anything or if you say something they disregard it as being overly sensitive, at some point you question yourself. Thank you, May God bless you and favour you in all your endeavours 🙏
WATCH HIM!!! Dear , he will hurt you one way or another!!!!!!!
Stay strong the devilish people can’t curse what the lord has blessedly
🎉 They sure cannot curse what our Almighty Heavenly Father has blessed! May God bless you! 🙏🏼❤
the evil stare is probably one of the most sinister things i have ever experienced. it is so terrifying
its so dark how far people will go. people have tried to make me lose my job, go to jail , and in some cases did things knowing I could die from their actions. its so dark and breaks my heart because Im really kind to people.
I am so sorry, sis'! I really am. 😔 I can relate with you on a few things you said. My heart truly goes out to you. I hope you are feeling much better now. I will pray for you. Please stay encouraged. Your purpose is great. Your gifts will make room for you. God has awesome plans for your life. Nothing is in vain. Keep going! I am rooting for your happiness! May God bless you! 🙏🏼❤
Same. They made me lose my job and tried to make me lose my house. The stalking was insane.
This describes my entire immediate family and it’s exhausting. Then I make friends who turn out the same way 🥲 I’m a first generation grad and I’ll be finishing my masters this year. I’m walking across stage without my mom or sisters, I’m sad but relieved about not having them there.. I did this FOR them, but I can’t make them be happy for me.. I just gotta let go.
Lots of people can be evil. I’ve gone through a lot of the same things and people keep coming after me. I’m down to one friend. She’s about to be on her way out also because of the constant backhand comments she likes to make.
People be drinking haterade all day. Smh 🤦♀️
The flashbacks you just gave me! This is why I don’t trust to have friends. I have definitely gone through some of the things you mentioned and it’s sad.
It is okay to have friends. You just have to pray for the RIGHT ones; and we should ALSO pray that we also can be good friends to others as well (none of us are perfect). Our experiences with toxic friends are NOT meant to have us friendless: God just filters our lives to prepare us for our futures. That is part of why God led me to make this video: to help others to recognize toxicity in their lives, making life more toxic-free, and to make room for good people and experiences-NOT to invoke fear of friendships. I thank God for His filtering process and for opening my eyes to all that He has opened my eyes to, and I trust all that God does and is doing. I am open to friendships-they just have to be part of God's will for my life, loving and non-toxic people. In God's perfect timing, all will come together . . . and it already is. Trust God to do the same for you, He will always do what is best for you. 🙌🏼🤍 May God bless you! 🙏🏼
@@Gracefully_Charrese very well said! We definitely need to be good friends on both ends! I pray one day I find that! 🙏🏾 great video btw!
@Sliimm Goodii I give all glory to God. 🙌🏼🙂 Yes, it is the same prayer I pray as well because we all fall short sometimes. Pray patiently, and in God's perfect timing, He will provide, according to His perfect will. 🙏🏼 I humbly thank you so much, I give God the glory. ❤️🙂
Sad 👎🏿 and it's crazy that I have to get this message here and not on a men's channel.. these talks are seen as weak amongst men
@israel lewis I am glad God directed you here, brother. Sadly, some men are taught that expressing emotion and talking about such things mean that you are showing weakness. However, that is not true: men are humans too, and men have feelings too; you all have the right to express emotion and to heal just like any other human being. Keep being human, no matter what anyone says. I know men who express these topics, and I have never seen them as weak. Some men who can confidently talk about these things and be open about how they feel, especially in order to help others, they are LEADERS. 🏆 Find men who have positive outlooks, they are certainly out there, brother! 🙂 May God bless you, brother. 🙏🏼
I've had a particular friend for years and I know she is jealous of me and my sister. She will always jump on our ideas and make it look like she came up with it first.
Wow, I am sorry! I have been there. We have to be careful who we share things with because not everyone is rooting for us or happy for us. Jealous/envious people certainly steal ideas and even parts of your personality. There are some awesome, kindhearted, truly supportive, loving people out there, though! 😊 We learn from our experiences and become wiser, and that is a blessing. 🙌🏼 I am so glad you recognized the toxicity in that friendship. Cherish your peace. 😊 May God bless you and your sister! 🙏🏼❤️
That is not a friend.
Omw same type of friend
Jealousy can be very dangerous!! You have to watch that person that is Jealous of you maybe its your job, husband or your life style..because they would try to take that from you by any means necessary..you have to try to avoid these people.
That is absolutely the truth. Thank you for sharing, Betty! 🙂 May God bless you! 🙏🏽❤️
People need to grow up and act like adults
My older sister, is like this, always been jealous , I am the baby, but for some reason all these years, I think its been a deep seeded hate or jealousy towards me. I finally, I decided to block her, I just will not be subject this anymore, it does hurt, she is my older sibling.
This is a certain family member of mine, I will not say who. It is almost a daily competition/ battle. Getting a compliment from this person is like finding a needle in a haystack. When I do receive compliments from others, this particular person gives me the side eye. I keep my business to myself.
Hi, Ms. Rivera! 😊 You keep being your wonderful, beautiful self! ❤️ This person feels threatened by you. It certainly is jealousy/envy. It is best to love people like that from a distance. Of course, always forgive and be kind, but this does not mean that you have to accept their toxicity of any kind in your life or personal space. God wants more for you. Not everyone can come with you to your future, and that is okay. Enjoy your blessings and next levels in life. ❤️ May God bless you, sister! 🙏🏼❤️
Their complement is also likely a dart or a stake to the hear too...
i feel jealous also. but i dont let jealous control over my life
Smh this reminds me of shanquella robinson & kenneka jenkins. They definitely had jealous people around them. You seem very nice, educated, & look a little like meagan good lol. Thank you 😇🤗
I believe so as well. 😔 I humbly thank you so much for your kind words. May God bless you! 🙏🏼❤
Everything you said is so true.and that's the reason why I don't have no female's friends. Because they use to talk behind my back and everything thing else. When I was the one that showed so much love ❤ to them.and family members as well .but I love all of me.this is the way God make me.and ima enjoy my life without them 🙌 amen
I am so sorry you experienced those things, Suzanne. 😞 I can totally relate. Our experiences can make us wiser and stronger, and they can give us testimonies to share with others. 😊 I am glad you recognized the toxicity and are now free from it. Please enjoy your peace. Allow God to fill your life in His perfect timing and according to His perfect will. There are still some nice women out there. We are wiser now and can recognize red flags in people who are not for us and our lives. That is a blessing! 😊 Also, I agree! Moving onward without the toxicity is what is BEST. Some people CANNOT come with you to where God is taking you, including some family members (trust me, I know). You carry on in peace and happiness! 😀 May God bless you abundantly, Suzanne! 🙏🏼❤️
All points covered are 100% accurate. The only response to this kind of conduct, if you are on the receiving end, is to detach yourself immediately from the company of the individual(s) acting that way. It’s extremely toxic behavior & quite honestly, never gets better. Save yourself from the heartache & pain sooner rather than later. It’s not worth your peace of mind or physical health-or both! Love yourself enough to do so without guilt. Of course, it won’t be easy because they’re a so-called friend or family member as there’s a connection and an investment on your part. Remember, keep in mind, It’s their issue and until they acknowledge such, they will continue behaving that way they’ll be no changing them & you’ll be the object of their continual abuse. All you can do is keep them in prayer & keep it moving.
Sorry for what you’ve experienced in the past, Sister. You did an excellent job detailing the content of this subject. You’ve transformed your pain & hurt as a platform to help others. And in that, is victory! God bless
Glory to God. 😊 Thank you so very much for absolutely all of your kind words! ❤️
As for your wonderful response to their behavior: Beautiful said! ❤️ I share the same sentiments regarding those kinds of people, especially narcissists. Thank you so much for sharing, as I know many people will be blessed by these words! Awesome comment!
May God bless you abundantly, Sandra! 🙏🏼❤️
Thank you for acknowledging my response, Woman of God. May God continue to shine upon you. ✝️ Blessings & peace, my dear sister Cherrese ❤
@sandradukes3819 Thank you so very much for your kindness! 😊 May God bless you abundantly, in every area of your life! 🙏🏼❤️
I guess Everyone’s jealous (or envious) of me (except) my daughter who adores me 🥰 Seems to have been that way all my life 😕🤷🏾♀️ That’s why God isolated from nearly everyone who ever knew me. I’m starting to get it now… 🤔 Strangers seem to treat me better tho 😉
Sometimes, God will isolate you to protect you, to grow you, and to prepare you. He did this for me. While it got lonely at times, I would not change a thing, as I am so very happy and appreciative for His process. I needed it and am now prepared for what He has in store for my life. He also used that time to reveal toxic people and my enemies to me. While those truths hurt, His truths truly set me free. I am very thankful for it all. God has wonderful plans for you, Kari. Let Him refine you. It is all for a reason.
If you are surrounded by enemies in your own family and do not understand why, you could be the Joseph of your family. It is totally up to you, no pressure, but I delivered a message about this on the ministry channel if you would like to listen. I will share the link here if you would like to watch. May this message be a blessing to you, glory to God:
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Please stay encouraged. Remember, God truly does have wonderful plans for you! May God bless you in every way, beautiful! 🙏🏼❤️
@@Gracefully_Charrese Wow this is beautiful!! This absolutely confirms what I’ve been sensing in the spirit, that I have the Joseph anointing! I’ll definitely be watching the video. Thanks so much for sharing & for the encouraging message! 🥰🙌🏾🔥🙏🏾🎯👍🏾💯
@Kari Glory to our precious Heavenly Father! 😊 May you be blessed through God's message, and may you continue to smile beautifully! May God bless you beyond what you could even imagine! 🙏🏼❤️
Listen! You’ve spoken nothing but truth. I’ve had to cut off my biological half sisters because of their lack of support, constant tearing me down, and always wanting to rain on my parade.
My husband and I bought my mother a home and my biological siblings didn’t applaud me or her at all, but on social media we got over 20k likes and friends.
You don’t choose who your related to but you definitely choose your friends and who you call family.
dont let anyone snatch your joy♥️
Wow! This was on point!
My own mother has done some of the things she spoke of here.
My birthday every b-day my mom won’t say happy birthday and if some else reminds her she said a birthday is another Day. However when it’s her b-day everyone must acknowledge her day. I can go on and on about different situations in my life with her.
I was scrolling one day a from out about narcissistic people , my mom check every box. Also have experience with friends as well.
My mother was that person! Jealous and self righteous! Never say sorry when she’s done wrong till her dying day! Complaining about things I should have given her! When I bought / gifted her jewelry from fine jewelry departments and she complained it wasn’t $$$$ much compared to my own jewelry I bought for myself etc. Gucci purses, new luggage or dresses! Free trips for her to vacation to Hawaii, San Francisco!!! I can never do enough or good enough to her as a daughter no matter what I do! It hurts a lot thinking about her and how I was treated … even today!
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Omg!! The same with me, we are never good enough.
First let me say this to you so sorry that your mom could treat you foul! I've been through that all of my life just appreciate who you are and pray for your mother! You only get one mother! Even though she's not a great caring mom! I pray that you'll have positive people around to show you that your mom has issues that she should deal with that was never about you
Imagine when it's your own mom who has done all these things to you
I will pray for you, Veronica. This is amongst the most hurtful, and you are certainly not alone. 🫂 Please stay encouraged, as NO ONE can stop God's plans and blessings for your life! Keep going. You have got your new beginnings to enjoy! May God bless you, beautiful. 🙏🏼❤
@Gracefully_Charrese thank you so much may God bless you and keep you safe🩷
I've been given the evil stare from several people and I didn't understand stand. Or the will give a grunt when someone compliments me. Or they would say I want to be like you with a smirk.... very jealous people
Hi, Patricia! I hope all is well! 🙂 Anyone who gives you the evil stare, please try to stay away from them; no matter who they are, keep your distance and do not be personal with them. People who give you evil looks have evil in their hearts toward you, and evil actions could follow. Of course, do not live in fear. Just be wise about people like them-to protect yourself, your personal space and life, and your peace. ❤️ I am glad you are aware of jealous/envious actions and words. This way, you know who to be careful about. Enjoy your peace, sister! A toxic-free life is always best, including for your health! 😀 May God bless you! 🙏🏼❤️
I finally understood what that glare means… it’s like a grin mean mug I got that from a co worker n her mom confirmed it her mom is my supervisor I thought we was cool however she seen me and gave me this look didn’t seem eager to see me yet her mom was like Ma xyz looks good then her mom mentions she in the gym and then a few yrs back I seen her at a party her n anotr girl was being messy with a compliment it took me a while to get it together howeber I’m learning people can be very cruel ll
You really know yourself and it shows❤ so glad I’m not a jealous person I’ve always been happy for people because l prefer beauty and feeling happy feelings and see it ❤
I needed this 3 years ago.🥺
I've figured this out on my own the hard way & it HURTS to understand that people want to harm you just because you exist in your space.
I've healed through understanding their motives on how I was treated and why elders try to set me up / try to corrupt me to make my life more difficult than it need to be. I have STRONG boundaries, Im not afraid to say no or be the "enemy", so they didn't get their way. 🤣
Thank you for this All In One video. It's always good to hear someone validate the "It's not a big deal" situations.
Firstly, I am so sorry for all you have experienced. I can relate. The truth does hurt sometimes, but it absolutely sets us free! I am happy for you that you have understanding and healing, I truly am. Stay encouraged. Narcissistic abuse is very real, but so are healing, new found happiness, and new beginnings! Look forward and keep going! God has plans for your life. You have powerful testimonies! People need YOUR story, it gives hope. Thank you for sharing, Mina. May God bless you! 🙏🏽❤️
Great video...sad that this is so common in families or friend groups
I humbly thank you, glory to God. 🙏🏼 Yes, it is sad. It is awesome, though, that situations like those can be flipped into learning experiences, strength, and testimonies; they don't have to be in vain. 🙌🏼🙂 We can come out wiser! 😀 Thank you so much for watching, Prof Mj! May God bless you! 🙏🏼
@@Gracefully_Charrese Perfectly said...I am learning that being, kind, polite and pretty are great qualities. I let too many people get close to me who were envious or jealous. Thankful to God for strengthen my relationship with Him - now I use discernment and pray more. Be blessed!
@Prof Mj That is awesome! Absolutely! We must use spiritual discernment and allow the Holy Spirit to lead us in all things-including regarding our relationships, of all kinds. 🙌🏼🙂 Let us remain humbly confident, aware of our company, and close to our Heavenly Father. 🙏🏼 Thank you so much, may God bless you! 🙏🏼😊
This is why I only have like 3 genuine friends 😭 I’ve been through so much. I’m sorry you had to experience this and thank you for taking the time to make this video ❤️
Hi, sis'! I totally understand. I always say: "I would rather have no friends, or one or a couple good friends, than to have any toxic friends." I currently do not have much of a social life. However, I have more peace. I am taking my time getting to know a couple of women to see if we can genuinely become good friends. I believe God will fill my life in His perfect time, and He will do the same for you. 🙂 As long as you are happy and have healthy friendships, that is awesome! I am truly happy for you! 😊❤️ I thank you so very much for your kind words, beautiful! I am sorry you have been through a lot as well. Here is some beauty: our experiences grow us and prepare us for our blessings! 🕊🙌🏼😊 May God bless you with all the best, sister! 🙏🏼❤️
@@Gracefully_Charrese thank you so much for the insight love, I truly needed this and agree with everything you said. Continue being the beautiful person you are ❤️ I hope you have a blessed day as well, thank you 🥰
@Nami You are so very welcome, sweet soul! Glory to God! 😊 I truly thank you for your kindness! I will pray for you, sister! 😊 You continue to be the beautiful person YOU are, beautiful! May God bless you abundantly! 🙏🏼❤️
Girl this is so much and you are blessing to have 3 friends Wow
Wow. I'm struck by this young lady!
Such a quiet, confident, intelligent Beauty!
New subbie!
Aww 🥺, I humbly thank you sooo very much! Such blessings your words are! Truly, I thank you again, and may God bless you tremendously! 🙏🏼🤍
So true, I had a friend that was jealous of me, she was copying my talents, stealing my boyfriends, slept with ex's. Weird behaviour. Have to feel sorry for them lol. Cut all ties feel so much better. Good video x😀
You can feel their negative energy too. Wow you broke it down so good that a lot of memories came to me. I'm putting your video in my playlist.
You hit the nail on the head with this conversation. I was recently considering reconnecting with a friend who I stopped talking to because I felt she was a jealous friend but in a way was second guessing my intuition and many of the signs you mentioned brought her and several others I have disconnected from to mind. This video pop up on my for you from God I know! I will heed and keep moving forward with my life ♥️
Wow! Thank you so much for sharing! I just love how God works! He is always right on time! 🙌🏼🕊🤍😀 He works in wonderful ways, and His Holy Spirit is guiding you to protect you. Please enjoy your peace and a toxic-free life. ❤️ May God bless you, Dezzy! 🙏🏼❤️
It's so sad, unfair and very unfortunate that you had to go through all those things because you are a very Gorgeous woman with great gifts and talents. People who harm others out of jealousy need to learn to love themselves and use that energy for something positive. I had some experiences to with jealous people.....So glad I found your channel...just subscribed on April 5, 2023.
Hi! 😀 Firstly, I humbly thank you so very much for your kind and empathetic words. 💛 I agree; it is very much so an insecurity thing that they are taking out on others. Loving one's self and self-confidence are so very important and makes for a more peaceful and happy life. 😊 Thank you so much again! Including for your support! 😊 May God bless you! 🙏🏼💛
I appreciate you being so caring.. honest and out spoken on this topic as it is real. If you ignore these toxic people they can really sabotage.. and hurt you. And don't forget the jealous ex boyfriend's or ex husband's. My ex boyfriend helped me with a major lawsuit against my former employer. Then we split in the mist of the lawsuit. He became jealous that I got involved with a new person and I was doing better and was happy..so he contacted the agency I'd filed the lawsuit with..lied! and sabotaged my lawsuit which resulted in agency rescinded their decision and dropping my lawsuit. It cost me big!! time dollars that I deserved. So beware of envious toxic so called friend's or family it can really cost you pain and misery. 🧐
You are very kind..God Bless You 🥰
I have experienced all these problems in my life, toxic family and friends but God protected me from their troubles. God turned my worries to worship 🙌. Thanks for the educative messages. God bless you 🙏
Hallelujah! 😀 God is so awesome! I love how our Heavenly Father works! 🤍
You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good. He brought me to this position so I could save the lives of many people.
-Genesis 50:20
Thank YOU for your kindness and for sharing your awesome testimony! It is my pleasure to share, to God be the glory. 😊 Thank you again, and may God bless you as well, sister! 🙏🏽❤️
I would be friends with you. It’s nice to see people are out there that know how things should work within a friendship.🥰😍
You’re a beautiful soul. May you be blessed with an amazing family and friends.
Awwww 🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️, Martha!!! Thank you sooo much for your beautiful comment! That touched my heart. ❤️ Again, thank you, humbly. May God bless you in every area of your life, beautiful! 🙏🏼❤️
Because no matter how you are doing, coming to God is always the best thing we can do❤
I’ve had this all my life and it started with my mother!! It’s very sad and hurts my heart. I’m the most humble and caring person. I cheer for everyone. I can’t trust anyone anymore and prefer to be alone. As nearly all of my friendships have ended due to their jealous. It really hurts
You are so beautiful and talented! You will make it so far with your gifts , I wish you well . Thank you for this video it’s an eye opener that we should all pay attention to !
Awww, glory to God! I am happy to share, and I humbly thank you sooo very much for such kind, beautiful words, beautiful! 😊🥺❤️ May God bless you greatly! 🙏🏼🤍❤️
Thank you for sharing this. I've been dealing with these signs since I was little, and I didn't know these were signs of jealousy and envy.
This is so helpful❤
It is my pleasure, glory to God. ❤️😊 I have as well, Alexis. I can relate. Please remember that their actions and thoughts about you have NOTHING to do with you. Continue to be your awesome, beautiful self. Leave them in God's hands and carry on in a happy, healthy, toxic-free life! May God bless you abundantly, beautiful! 🙏🏼❤️
@Gracefully_Charrese Thank you so much. I really appreciate you and the wisdom you're sharing here. I'm so sorry that you have had this experience too, but you have turned it into something beautiful. Thank you for sharing this with us all, and I pray that God richly blesses you, that he adds to your beauty and grace, and that you overcome in every area of your life. Blessings sister❤️❤️
It’s a lonely world for us! I’m glad I have God because I’ve been going through this my whole life. I don’t have friends due to this and it’s the best decision I ever made. I believe in being good to everyone no attachments.
Experience this first hand from "friends" and immediate family members. I am a go getter and just blessed that I have accomplished many things in my career and doing well financially. They try to tear you down, ask for money/use you, once you tell them no, you're a bad person lol It's not a good feeling but you grow up and get wiser. To anyone who's currently experiencing this, it's not lonely on the top, it's peaceful 🙏🏼❤️
I’m actually planning a video on this exact topic and it’s so crazy how we all have experienced the same red flags!!!! It’s good to warm others because keeping a friend like this is DANGEROUS!
My mom and 3 sisters are toxic. Envy and jealousy is dangerous.
I was truly blessed by your wise words of encouragement. It's almost scary how you spoke about how to recognize jealousy. Thank God for opening my eyes to those who don't have my best interest at heart. I don't dislike them, I have distanced myself from them. Those who are family, I pray for them. Be blessed.
I humbly thank you so much for your kind words, to God be the glory. ❤ I am happy for you, I truly am. Keep persevering forward! God has got awesome plans for you! The truth sets us free! 😊 May God bless you in wonderful ways! 🙏🏼❤
Most of what you have described, I have experienced. As soon as I identify toxic behavior I keep far from those persons and be very careful if I share the same space with them
Yes! That is awesome! I have learned to do the very same. 🙂 Enjoy your peace! May God bless you, Sharon! 🙏🏼❤️
Thank you for sharing... it has helped me tremendously 😊
Since child hood I’ve said ‘I don’t like people’
They seem mean they lie bare faced lies, they are two faced, demanding, manipulating and aw so fake.
I just can’t be asked anymore.
There are still some truly kindhearted people in this world. Please do not give up. ❤️ There is always someone out there who will appreciate you. May God bless you. 🙏🏽❤️
Omg, this has happened to me! Everything you are saying is so true!
I hope everything is much better for you now and that you are enjoying your peace. 😊 May God bless you! 🙏🏼❤️
I know someone is extremely envious and jealous of me l don't understand why don't they get jealous somewhere else
Watching this made me sad & afraid, but this is the reality we're living. Mam charrese justified my feelings & experiences,you made me remember so many people while I'm watching you, felt like I have someone on my side. I noticed mam charrese's eyes are rimmed with tears & is about to cry in some parts while sharing her past experiences for additional life advice. I feel her, I can tell she's badly hurt & I'm already in tears 😢
Unbelievable! You just described sooooo many things I experience often. I could not understand why so many people treat me like crap! I love people. I don’t possess jealousy. Im happy for others if they get ahead in life! I don’t have mean feelings towards anyone. The nicer you are , the more respectful you are , the more intelligent you are the worse people treat you! When you speak truth or don’t tell others what they want to hear they will openly mistreat you. Ive spend so much of my life lonely and sad because people always hating on me. I’m a gifted singer. I’ve been singing my entire life. Some folks don’t want you to be happy or get ahead. They treat you bad for NO REASON! It’s not your fault it’s there’s. Pray without ceasing. Prayer works! God is in control. He will give you courage strength and uplift you. Shine bright like a diamond...what you allow shall continue!
I enjoyed your video. I have experienced most of not all of these for many years. I was a doormat and was treated horribly, but God helped me to change. I admire your ability to explain all of these situations so well. You are also pretty, so, it’s fine if they’re jealous!
I humbly thank you for your kind words and for watching! 😊 Thank you for sharing your testimony and for being open. I am sorry for all that you have gone through, beautiful. I am happy that God helped you and also how you are allowing Him to use you to be a blessing to others by sharing your experiences. 🙌🏼❤️ That is awesome! I hope all is well with you and your life! I humbly thank you so much again! 😊 May God bless you abundantly! 🙏🏼❤️
You seem like such a sweet, positive, loving person, and very genuine. I love the testimony how God grew your hair back longer than before
🥺 I humbly thank you so very much for every single word. I appreciate it all! ❤ God makes us victorious! What the devil meant for evil, God will make for our good! 🙌🏽 May God bless you and bless you and bless you! 🙏🏼❤️
A Lot of people like to take you down! Don't let them! Avoid them for your own good! Pray for them! Even the church will try to take you down because of jealousy and envy! I experienced that for 30 years as a pastor's wife! I had to truly realize this sin of jealousy and envy and rise above it! To walk in love you have to take no account of the evil done to you! Like Jesus did in his life on earth! He is the truth and the way! Blessings everyone!🙏💐🌹 Happy Thanksgiving! 🦃
I’ve experienced various types of jealousy and envy all through my life from my childhood to the present. I’m talking it all started with my own father of whom has been deceased for over 2 decades now. Then it was my oldest sister. (His other daughter) and that was all over inheritance that was stolen from my late Grandmother and late Grandfather. I have experienced the basic friend girl jealousy/envy and then even step-mom, ex boyfriends along with their parents etc…….I LITERALLY HATE IT and I should be used to it by now but unfortunately it STILL HURTS……😢😢😢😢 and some of the issues I had NO CLUE about until here recently. I mean they hid it WELL!!!
The reason why I know that I’ve experienced jealousy through ex boyfriend mothers etc is because I’m ALWAYS being discussed but within a negative manner no matter as to what decisions I make!!! My hair is discussed, the way I dress, carry myself even certain skills and talents that I have but I feel that overall it’s my “strength” that ALL of them are the MOST envious of. SMDH and it’s so disgusting, sad and ridiculous!!! I’m so sick of it but I continue to hold my head high regardless and that’s my advice to everyone on here……..no matter what, even though it hurts, keep pushing and striving for your goals and let your SUCCESS KILL THEM EVEN MORE!!! 💯🌟🌟💯
You are a very gentle person,. I will remember you in my prayers
I too have these kind of people but they are gone now forever
I humbly thank you very much for your kind heart. I hope you are doing well, Kennedy. May God bless you! 🙏🏽❤️
This is soo confirmation from the most high 🙏🏾thank you sister ❤️💯
God is so awesome! 🙌🏼😊 You're very welcome, to God be the glory! 😊🕊 May God bless you, sister! 🙏🏼❤️😀
Oh my lord you are an amazing woman ❤ I’m so happy you are here this video helped me so much and was so informative regarding emotional abuse thank you 🙏 you will help many women
I truly appreciate all your kindness, I really do. 🥺❤️ That touched my heart. I am so glad you found something in this video helpful. To God be the glory! 🙏🏼😊 Keep going, beautiful! You have a kind heart and share such lovely words. We need more of that in this world. May God bless you in every way! 🙏🏼❤️
I have been going through this most of my adult life. ALL OF IT!! 😞😔 I’m just so tired of it. Someone once asked me how it feels to be beautiful. My thing is, doesn’t beauty come from the inside. In fact I don’t even think I’m pretty at all, and I’m fine with it. I compliment women all the time. I dress down so I won’t draw too much attention to myself. I’m 57 and it’s still the same. I actually stopped wearing nail polish and my favorite blue mascara. Every year, I visit Hollywood, CA for my birthday and wedding anniversary. When one of my coworkers asked me where I had gone for my birthday and when I told her it was Hollywood, she asked me how much the hotel room was and when I told her she says well that sounds expensive. Fast forward 4 months later she made a trip to Hollywood and was LOUDLY bragging about it. I can’t do this anymore. I’m done with people.. Thank you for listening and blessings to you ❤️❤️❤️
Please don’t stop wearing nail polish and dressing the way you enjoy dressing. Also please don’t t tell people where you’ve been or going. People are pocket watching. It doesn’t matter how humble you are. The jealousy doesn’t wane. If people if someone ask me how I used my PTO. I say “ We took a family road trip” If they ask “where?” I ask them why does it matter where? We had a relaxing time! I keep all activities to myself. I’m 55. I think I’m average looking but obviously people see something different. This evil behavior and jealousy is a sign of the end times! 🙏🏽
@@hplifestylelessonsandfun9131 Woww, you are a Bombshell as you don’t look a day past 40, but I definitely learned my lesson. I do things on the low-low. I’m like dang, some people just don’t haVE a liFe.
Thanks and blessings 🙏🏽 for all you do
@@pecantan9146 Aww! Thank you so much! You’re pretty as well. How do I know this? You wouldn’t be listening to this if you weren’t! 😍This is a unique group we’ve been placed in. Be safe out there! God be with us! 🙏🏽
I'm so sorry tou have had to experience envious friends and family. Thank you for making this video. You described the jealous and envious tactics to a Tee!! So glad that you prayed and that God revealed those who had hatred in their hears!
Thank you so much for your caring heart and kind words. ❤️ It is a pleasure to share, to God be the glory. I am so thankful for our Heavenly Father, He surely does reveal to us what we do not or cannot see. The truth sets us free! 😊 I hope all is well with you! ❤ May God bless you! 🙏🏼❤️
I settled a lawsuit against my narc psychiatrist. They are in the perfect position to harm. I am glad you mentioned healthcare persons. Great video. Thank you.
Next psychiatrist also warranted suit.
She is a beautiful woman, with a beautiful voice, figure, persona, spirit and disposition😍And yes i am a woman as well😁 Very enlightening message! 🙏🏾 Thank you!♥️♥️
I love your speaking voice and Posture❤
U r so beautiful and ur Ora is wonderful…I had and have gone through … all of it …. Ppl like us r not common it was hard to except they were reallly cruel and petty to each other but mostly me … I would love for u to do a show or event with me here in Daytona Beach…. U have said so many things ppl don’t understand unless they experienced it ur awesome
Thank you for this. I noticed my friends are always there for me when I am down, compare to when I am happy.
Thank you for keeping it real!❤ they will try to ruin your life, steal from you, roll their eyes at you, talking about you! Set you up! They turn on you!
Everything is spot on, thank you xx
You are so very welcome, glory to God. 🙂 I am very happy to share! 😊 I hope all is well! May God bless you! 🙏🏼❤️
Agreed glad u made this video.😊
Hi, Princess Adella! I hope all is well! 😊 I humbly thank you very much! I am so glad to share, glory to God! 🙂 Thank you for watching, and for your constant kindness! May God bless you greatly, sister! 😀🙏🏽❤️
And you are fantastic, and look gorgeous. Please make a video someday about your skin care routine and how you stay trim and fit. I am a black woman who totally loves being slim and fit. Keep shining, dear. You are smart and beautiful.
I humbly thank you so much for your kind words! I am looking forward to making videos like the ones you mentioned. 😊 Things have been so up and down! 🥴 Lol! Thank you again for your kind words! Posting more soon! May God bless you! 🙏🏼❤😀
Lots of helpful advice. Thank you. Continued blessings to you.
It is my pleasure, glory to God. 😊 Thank you so very much! May God bless you in every way! 🙏🏽❤️
Love you too Sis! What a Kingdom Ambassador. Keep going and Thank you for creating this video.❤
Awww, I humbly thank you sooo very much for such beautiful words! 😊 I give all glory to God! Your words are a blessing to me. Love you, sis'! ❤️😊 May God bless you in such wonderful ways! 🙏🏼❤️
I searched this topic and found thousands of people talking about this issue. I guess I'm not really that paranoid. 😊
You are definitely not paranoid, sister. You have so many people out here who can relate with you and who support you. 😊 I hope for all the best for you! I hope all is well with you. *Sisterly hugs!* May God bless you, beautiful! 🙏🏽❤️
I remember the first time my partner brought up someone(s) being either envious or jealous of me, I sorta brush it off, not obvious, but I smiled, and listened to him, and then thought nothing of it
When he first brought up, about two family members being envious and jealous of me, I blew up at him (hindsight is 20/20)
I was so so mad, and told him that there have never, EVER been anything about me, that would make another envious or jealous, and I would admit, the concept of envy and jealousy were a farce in my head (somehow still is) I mean, I am the same as you, you may be beautiful, successful, rich, but at the end of the day, you remain as human as me, with flaws and all, so why be jealous, why envy you or your life or your lifestyle....
It took, to someone nearly killing me, for me to understand that yes, envy and jealousy ARE real things, and others feel them... (fun fact.. I was 31 at the time) so naive does not even begin to explain this/that, which is me, I'm 4o now, and it takes a toll on me, when I meet new people, because, after I have been my usual friendly self, I go internally.... wondering, if that was the right thing to do, how should I proceed, would that person think I am being too much, would that person envy me, or something.....
It's a mess truthfully
I am still weary of saying people are envious or jealous... what I see, most of the time, is that (most of the time) people does not like you if you feel that being or doing good is okay.. they would prefer someone doing bad, because I think it makes them feel either comfortable, or relatable or maybe, they feel secure that they are not as bad as this person
I am not a good person, don't get me wrong, but it is not hard to NOT do something bad, NOT say something bad, not act in a bad way, those are choices, things you can control, and things that should come naturally
Thanks for sharing your so sweet.
You are very welcome! Thank YOU for your kindness! 😊 May God bless you, Patrice! 🙏🏼❤️
I have 4 sisters and 4 brothers. My mother’s moto to us is. Never envy anyone for what they have, because you never know what they did to get it.
I thank God for protecting me from fake friends. Discernment is strong in me and I do not allow anyone with envy/ jealousy in their heart in my inner circle. They are objectively in the peripheral and never really know what's happening with me it for me until I'm ready to share with the world.
I’ve gone through all these things and it is hard for me to get through it. I’m suffering in silence.
You are so graceful I love it ❤️
Aww, I humbly thank yoooou! 😊 You are so kind! May God bless you, beautiful! 🙏🏼❤️
I think you’re great and beautiful. Keep up the good work sis❤️
Awww 🥺😊❤️, I humbly thank you so very much, sis'! That is so kind of you! May God bless you in every way, gorgeous! 🙏🏼❤️
You look like and remind me of Gia Casey.
You both have that quiet confidence and self esteem with a lot of true humility.
And the way you speak and articulate your words is similar too! You guys could be sisters 😅☺️
This video came at the right time for me
I'm sorry that you had to go through that. You are a beautiful woman inside and out. And I also see that you are a strong woman as well Thank you for sharing God bless 😊🙏🙏
Awww, I humbly thank you sooo much! That is so kind of you! It is my pleasure to share, to God be the glory! 😊 Thank you so much again, and may God bless you greatly! 🙏🏼❤
Thank you Charrese, for encouraging me and everyone that watched this wonderful video. I've learned so much in less than an hour from you. Came across your YT channel and loved your guidance in jealousy and toxic people. Also thank you for sharing your personal experience with everyone. I hope you continue filming more of these videos and other topics. I've had all my life toxic people surround me that have hurt me emotionally to point of developing cancer and other illnesses. Now l'm 60 yrs old and l've decided to cut off some friends & family members that thoughout my life have been controlling & manipulative. Certainly l must say that throughout my life l've haven't been that lucky with anyone in general, except my husband and my dogs that have been loving and loyal to me. Anyway, even though l have a lot to say about me, l'm just going to end by saying to please continue with these wonderful topics on your TH-cam channel because you certainly have a beautiful soul and you are a beautiful and positive lady. Yes, you and every human being has a purpose in life, so please 🙏 continue encouraging the public because now days with so much hatred and pain in this world our lives need you and more people like you that are humble and sincere to lift our spirit. May God guide you and bless you always in this path of your life. Believe me, is people like you that leave behind a tremendous legacy to continue living a positive life no matter what happens. Thank you very much.
This was great! Thank you for this video. It spoke to a LOT of what I'm dealing with right now.
1:18:48 Love you back, Sis. 🤗💜
I had a coworker who wanted me to come to her whenever I had a Halloween project. Anyway we had a party at work & pictures were taken by a company. I did up a photo book, and I will say I did a good job. ( First time doing anything like that) She saw the book, & did not say a word. I felt that negative energy hardcore. I didn't tell her what I was going to do because I knew she was going to try and take over and try take credit for it. She has done it before. We're not cool anymore. But I am happy I don't deal with her.
Often times ,,, it's what they don't say that speaks volumes. There's a very wise and true statement from God in Bible when he says, " DO NOT CAST YOUR PEARLS BEFORE SWINE"!!. In other words,,,, never tell your plans or Blessings to your Enemies, even the one's you think are your friends. They will attempt to sabotage anything good in your life.
Thanks for sharing this much needed information 🙌🏽🙏🏽may God continue to keep you and protect you
I am happy to share! You are so very welcome, glory to God! 🙂 I truly thank you for your very kind words! May God continue to keep you and protect you as well! 🙏🏼❤️
It’s sad people don’t know how to be inspired by someone one of Gods other creatures maybe they don’t know that 😢
Bless and thank you. Alot resistant with me. See this in my daily life but try to protect myself by seeking TMH and keeping much to myself. Its a lonely journey when you realise the journey is real. Your a lovely person keep up the good work sis.
Amen, we should always seek Jesus and be led by His Holy Spirit. 😊 This helps me as well, sister. ❤️ This is so very important in life. It can get lonely, but in God's filtering season(s) is where we can grow and prepare for the next levels God is taking us to. Please be encouraged, as God has wonderful plans for you, and He will fill your life at the perfect time, and according to His perfect will for your life. 😊❤️
I humbly thank you so much for such kind words. You are lovely as well, sis'! 😊 I appreciate your kindness. May God bless every area of your life, in such awesome, amazing ways! 🙏🏽❤️
Such a in depth video. Sorry you've been through such horrible situations but look how you are shining now! Isn't God great 😊
Thank you so much for your caring heart. 😊 Humbly, God has certainly got my back. God is so good, an awesome and loving Father! 😊🤍 I appreciate your kindness! May God bless you tremendously, beautiful! 🙏🏽❤️
I experience number 21 often. It sucks being 'pretty' sometimes lol
Great video!❤
Those Eyes will tell the Story. This is what I get when i Show up around Inlaws. Its a couple of them that get really Disturb when I show Up. Thanks for your Video. It confirmed what Ive been Dealing with
This is the best list I’ve seen. It was so complete if that makes sense. 😊
I LOVE YOU GIRL NOW I KNOW WHY SOME WOMEN ARE MEAN ME MY SISTER SO JEALOUS OF ME
Sisterly love to you!!! ❤ May God bless you! 🙏🏼❤😊
Copious amount of truth told here .. well said, thank you Charrese
I have similar experiences in "some friends" and siblings... I'm just greatful to God for my good number of sincere friends... They are my true kins.
Yes Stay Positive Woman 💕 Jealous people need to realize we all run our own race & time(death)waits for no one.
I am so sorry for all the abuse you have had to endure in your life, sister. I can relate so well to this. I have had friends and family members do all these things to me, including assault and physically attack me, as well as sabotage me. I’ve also seen relatives and ‘friends’ of friends do this to friends of mine also. Remember the story of Joseph and what his jealous, hateful brothers did to him. They may try to hurt you, but God will make sure He uses it for good. I can sense you are a kind soul and honestly, you really do have great hair and an amazing figure. Keep doing you, and thanks for taking the time to make this video. It’s a good reminder to me to stay away from certain people and also reminds me to be extra supportive to my friends who are genuine. It really does come from a place of insecurity, and, I really do believe, the Devil. I’ve seen the black eyes, the seething anger/rage/jealousy. I’ve seen the creepy looks, that are even captured in photos! It’s really unsettling and, of course, hurtful, when it’s people in your own family you have done nothing but support and love. They’ll even try to turn everyone against you. Just keep being the light at the top of the hill, you can forgive and stay away from them and just follow the plans God has for you, because they are great. He knows all and vengeance is for the Lord. He will exalt you before your enemies.