Honestly, I've been faced with that (ex. While we were currently dating...), and if it WERE (only) a "rotisserie", it wouldn't have fucked me up for as long as it did, but it wasn't. I didn't date again for a decade
She was honest. Props to her for that. She would prob be a fun date but ya Burr is right, that relapse can be something to deal with your life will never forget
It depends. Put it this way - Here are two choices: 1) 28 year-old Betty had 2 boyfriends before becoming a pornstar at 20, had 200+ on-screen partners while in the business, and was pretty successful before retiring at 25. She's had 2 partners since then. Choice 2) Lisa is also 28, never did porn, but has slept with 20 or 30 guys. Personally, I would prefer to date Betty. She seems much more discriminating in her personal life. She seems mature enough to understand the difference between porn and real-life, and restricted the wild stuff to the business where everyone is tested for STDs every 2 weeks - It's generally riskier to sleep with 10 pornstars than one random person you picked up at a party. I would also think that that Lisa is more likely to get bored and cheat than Betty. But hey, that's just me.
The guy should’ve weighed the decision a little more if he’s over here getting after advice. Although leaving for him was probably for the best, because that kind of afterwards relationship takes a lot of trust, maturity and on her part - therapy. Because like Bill said, comedians and people in sex industry, have major issues. Even if it’s just something as common as a chemical imbalance. It needs to be addressed for a functional lifestyle, especially with a long-term partner.
@@acswain6720 And frankly I have little trouble with that. I have far more respect for a prostitute than for someone who lives most of their lives on government programs. As much as you might look down your nose at them, at least they are working for a living.
@@acfiv1421 Are we talking about economy or personal choice about a life partner? Where do government subsidies figure in your thinking about marriage proposal to a girlfriend?
My take on relationships is that you aim to find a well-adjusted, reliable person that somehow also excites and stimulates you, but in the end you get with someone as fucked up as you and you help each other as best you can to face the world. Under this view of mine, that girl is a keeper.
@@stricknice5260 He spelt it that way so his comment wasn't bounced by the algorithm. It's a common dodge, and I'll never get out of my head that you never knew but felt the need to try and shame this guy for it.
@@PhantomFilmAustralia I wasn't shaming anything but his spelling. Also, that algorithm excuse is nonsense. Do one single search on youtube for "porn discussion" (just as one example) and you'll get a ton of hits. No one on TH-cam cares if you say porn. The word porn is everywhere here. There are TED talks about porn. It wasn't meant to dodge any algorithm, it was a misspelling. And again, it will never get out of my head.
Bill. I was in the Army. Years ago, i went to a convenience store on post. I was cashing out and a soldier who stopped at the porn mag stand suddenly lost his mind. (Ready?) Grabbed one and was yelling with his buddy. "This is my baby sister on the cover!!" He went outside and was cussing up a storm. As an officer and doctor, i came outside and they snapped to attention. I put them at ease as he was in tears. Sure enough his little sister was doing porn. It affected him badly as did their family relationship.
Just based on the details of this guy's letter, I'm like 99% sure I know this chick. The last 1% would be cleared up if I knew what branch of the military she was in.
Everyone has a past. We've all done things we're not proud of. If you can't live with someone else's past, then don't be with them. But also don't judge someone who can't live with your shit, either... :)
If you have to think that hard about her past and have to make emotional effort to overlook it, she is not worth it. That psychic energy is better spent working on your grind and upgrading yourself. Everything has an opportunity cost.
Probably the right decision for both of them. Imo/ime relationships are about handling each other's baggage without either of you being crushed. If you like someone but just can't handle their stuff no matter how you try, move on to someone else's crap you _can_ manage.
@@dc3174 no, he’s saying someone got it for less than a cup of coffee, hence her listing the absolute lack of any effort to give her whole self to most likely strangers.
You also have the right to choose to accept or reject someone in your life. These videos have a tendency to resurface and bite your future hard in the ass.
Most everyone will never settle with the best sex they ever had. My best was so toxic we were either fighting or fucking. If the best sex is your criteria for settling down you're in it for the wrong reasons.
If she really wants to be with you honestly and faithfully and you really like her a lot then the past is the past. People do a lot of things in their life that they wish they hadn't or could take back. Obviously she's not still doing it, so giver her a chance.
This happened to me and I can tell you if you're not expecting it it's a huge shock. Sure, everyone has a past but something like that is a pretty big deal.
I wouldn’t be shy about sharing that information early on and girls should. If a guy acts like a total 😾 about it, then you know that child is not for you. If you tell a guy and he equally shares his dirt and likes you regardless, you got yourself a guy worth giving a shot.
@@TheTwinkiefoot I guess because I view deceptive tendencies as being far more malignant and potentially destructive to a serious relationship than if someone had a past where they capitalized from being promiscuous. If anything, the latter will, on this or that front works out in my favor. As long as there aren't any cooties being smuggled from what boils down to short sided or risky behavior what really matters is whether or not you can trust that person. That determines above nearly anything else if that potential mate is worthy of whole hearted investment. But that's just me. I don't see porn as inherently evil. Sure, in some instances it may become vice and can cause relationships to deteriorate. I can detract from ones ability to have genuine human interaction and can never provide the emotional benefits of going out and living life in the real world. Too much of human interaction has been supplanted by the internet so if ones sexuality, which is and should be engaged in away from the dangers of the hapless bystander stumbling across such activities, there is a serious risk of somebody tunnelling into that make believe world so deep that they might someday die having no knowledge of how happy they could have been if they had turned off the damn computer and put their heart on the line for someone. Lies on the other hand are an extremely high risk behavior. Even when used as a way of protecting others from some threat there is still a risk that the person being lied to becomes aware of that fact and responds by severing their connections with the less than honest party. Now on the other hand alot of people consider porn, and sleeping around in general as sinful and that one's eternity is placed in a state of peril if they might be so weak. I think such dogmatic categorization is a bit of a cop out. It's not so simple and I've already over explained what I might have answered with one sentence but I will say this; there is no such thing as "no strings attached" sexual interaction. To some degree your life and the life of those whom you engage with are going to be in twain and the fact is it's better sometimes to know that you could have that person than to have the aftermath to deal with because you did have that person. People make fools of themselves and take enormous risks trying to score and are likely unaware of how much credit amongst their peers they lose. Don't hurt others, don't make yourself look like an idiot, but go out and enjoy being human. I think that's what matters when our life here is done.
If your instincts are alarmed it indicates an opportunity to dodge a bullet. If you have to ask it means it's a problem for both your present and future self. Don't ignore your intuition just to delay the inevitable regret that follows. Let your rational self override your emotion.
Totally depends upon the girl, the person she was. I don’t give a FUCK what she did in the past or what was done to her…. That’s life. It’s how she handled it and how she handles herself that matters.
@@alsimmons1870 ehhh I've been in a few relationships with some industry girls because I live in porn valley. Love is love. And relationships are work.
Ditto Bill Burr! Great honest common sense answer! Hey, wanna run for president? There should be a test for common sense before politicians are permitted to run!
Many people that listened to this story are under the impression that the girl was honest but honesty demands being transparent she didn't want to share pron name or videos, & didn't give a good explanation as to why, like being embarrassed or any other statement. If she chose to withhold that information, that only provokes having more wuestions,, like who knows how long she really worked in the that industry. Bottom line is this guy left her because he couldn't trust her, not because she had made pron movies.
Moral compatibility.....if you wanna have kids one day you want to know your partner and you have the same ideas when it comes to deciding right from wrong
There were several comments that it is a "red flag" if a woman joined the military. WHY? I don't understand this since I do know several women who had joined the military so the U.S. Govt would pay for their medical, nursing, law or engineering degrees. All upstanding ladies. Ditto for male friends and co-workers who did the same.
Many of the women in my family were military and only half of them are low-key crazy. I suspect I turned out such a stable genius because one of the low-key crazy ones is my mother.
It’s a hyper sexualized environment where even semi attractive women are hounded relentlessly, it’s much worse than a college campus in that regard. The implication is that if she’s been in the military then she’s had many sexual partners. I hope that clears it up.
My father in law was in the marines for like 20 years and told my husband "don't *ever* date a woman in the military. There's a 99% chance she's getting a loooooooot of dick."
Plus he already had his foot in the door, he must be one of those males afraid of commitment. Of course I'm speaking from the position of someone who's had a lot of male support and understanding thrown my way. He himself must be a little unstable. If you want to just party and have a good time do that, forget trying to even get into a "relationship"/ girlfriend+ boyfriend muck!!
I'd date her but wouldn't consider her for a long term committed relationship. Dated a few strippers. Fun but some serious drama. A lot of trauma is involved when women go that route.
Gentlemen. If this happens to you with someone who dipped into porn, into stripping, into the sex trade... these are the questions you need to ask immediately. If you don't ask immediately theybwill assume the conversation was over and that you were fine with it, and that alone will feel like she's throwing something in your face. 1) Are you still in touch with people from your previous industry? 2) How long ago was this? 3*) Go get tested if you've banged, this will nswer a question you don't want to ask in this circumstance. If you haven't banged, ask if she's clean and good before you do bang OUTSIDE of this conversation. Say my mama taught me to ask. It will look good this way. Means you yourself are clean. And yes, ask what led her that way so you can assess future situations if they do come up. Past that remember, this is actually none of your business if she didn't catch anything permanent. So don't get territorial out of nowhere. Assess the answers to be honest if she is for you and if you are for her.
She was hiding the “Ho-Fax”……😂😂😂😂
Ya funny
"The rotisserie question" now that's a hilarious way to put it. 😆
"WHAT'S IN THE BOX!?"
Honestly, I've been faced with that (ex. While we were currently dating...), and if it WERE (only) a "rotisserie", it wouldn't have fucked me up for as long as it did, but it wasn't. I didn't date again for a decade
Split roasted.
@@uprebel5150 Spit*
The actual metal skewer of a rotisserie is called a spit
@@occamsrazor1285 Calm down keyboard warrior it is a porn term.
"whats in the Boooooxxx!?!" Bill Burr is the funniest dude out here right now
Such a brilliant metaphor
She was honest. Props to her for that. She would prob be a fun date but ya Burr is right, that relapse can be something to deal with your life will never forget
It depends. Put it this way - Here are two choices: 1) 28 year-old Betty had 2 boyfriends before becoming a pornstar at 20, had 200+ on-screen partners while in the business, and was pretty successful before retiring at 25. She's had 2 partners since then. Choice 2) Lisa is also 28, never did porn, but has slept with 20 or 30 guys. Personally, I would prefer to date Betty. She seems much more discriminating in her personal life. She seems mature enough to understand the difference between porn and real-life, and restricted the wild stuff to the business where everyone is tested for STDs every 2 weeks - It's generally riskier to sleep with 10 pornstars than one random person you picked up at a party. I would also think that that Lisa is more likely to get bored and cheat than Betty. But hey, that's just me.
@@acfiv1421 They may call it art and themselves adult entertainment artists, but doing sex for money is doing sex for money.
The guy should’ve weighed the decision a little more if he’s over here getting after advice. Although leaving for him was probably for the best, because that kind of afterwards relationship takes a lot of trust, maturity and on her part - therapy. Because like Bill said, comedians and people in sex industry, have major issues. Even if it’s just something as common as a chemical imbalance. It needs to be addressed for a functional lifestyle, especially with a long-term partner.
@@acswain6720 And frankly I have little trouble with that. I have far more respect for a prostitute than for someone who lives most of their lives on government programs. As much as you might look down your nose at them, at least they are working for a living.
@@acfiv1421 Are we talking about economy or personal choice about a life partner? Where do government subsidies figure in your thinking about marriage proposal to a girlfriend?
"I didn't ask my girlfriends...."
"There ya go keep your options open."
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣☠
Bill telling it like it is.
"the rotisserie question" "what's in the booox" LMFAO
She's the chic you show up to the football game with and all your buddies pull you aside with "hope you used a rubber dude"😅😅😅
Well you must be young.
@@djinn201 you must be old? Don’t worry friend we’ll be in your wrinkles shoes when you’re dead so you can rest easy knowing that lol
A younger me would have not done well with that information. "I just wanted to feel something". Ya I'm sure you did feel something 🤣
Felt MULTIPLE things I'm assuming!
1:23 Mills: “what’s in the box!!!!”
Hahaha!
He killed me!
I busted out* laughing on the gay friend’s advice. AMAZING
My take on relationships is that you aim to find a well-adjusted, reliable person that somehow also excites and stimulates you, but in the end you get with someone as fucked up as you and you help each other as best you can to face the world.
Under this view of mine, that girl is a keeper.
exactly
👏👏👏
Excellent! Def a keeper!!!!!!!
The fact that she was a pron star will never get out of that guy's head. It's good that he ended it.
The fact that you can’t spell porn will never get out of my head as well.
@@stricknice5260 He spelt it that way so his comment wasn't bounced by the algorithm. It's a common dodge, and I'll never get out of my head that you never knew but felt the need to try and shame this guy for it.
@@PhantomFilmAustralia I wasn't shaming anything but his spelling. Also, that algorithm excuse is nonsense. Do one single search on youtube for "porn discussion" (just as one example) and you'll get a ton of hits. No one on TH-cam cares if you say porn. The word porn is everywhere here. There are TED talks about porn. It wasn't meant to dodge any algorithm, it was a misspelling. And again, it will never get out of my head.
@@stricknice5260 Sure.
you lads happy now?
Bill, you hit every point honestlyvand with intelligence and empathy. Excellent Sir!
Bill. I was in the Army. Years ago, i went to a convenience store on post. I was cashing out and a soldier who stopped at the porn mag stand suddenly lost his mind. (Ready?) Grabbed one and was yelling with his buddy. "This is my baby sister on the cover!!" He went outside and was cussing up a storm. As an officer and doctor, i came outside and they snapped to attention. I put them at ease as he was in tears. Sure enough his little sister was doing porn. It affected him badly as did their family relationship.
That mentally scared him for sure I feel very sorry for the guy.
Jesus Christ.
Sounds very bad!!! God help him!!
Did you get her #?🤣😎
That's fucking awesome!
THE ROTISSERIE QUESTION 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 HOLY SHIT I almost choked on my protein shake
I’ll bet she probably choked on some protein shakes too.
This is an easy one! I'd do what Bill was probably thinking but neglected to divulge his thoughts. 🤣😂😅
nasty degen
He’s not about to divulge he’s a dick, lol. Just married.
The law offices of Fucter and Lefter are here to help! No money down, and free estimates!
I use that one, but I say that "After taking her for a drive, I dropped her off on the corner of Fucter and Lefter."
Just based on the details of this guy's letter, I'm like 99% sure I know this chick. The last 1% would be cleared up if I knew what branch of the military she was in.
Air Force
Name?
There's probably a few hundred of these chicks running around
Whom
You can't just leave us like this.
Honest NOW is better than baggage before. Good luck to that guy finding undented cans.
Everyone has a past. We've all done things we're not proud of. If you can't live with someone else's past, then don't be with them. But also don't judge someone who can't live with your shit, either... :)
She being honest
Who cares so long ad she is loyal and honest, fun to be with and makes you happy
If you have to think that hard about her past and have to make emotional effort to overlook it, she is not worth it. That psychic energy is better spent working on your grind and upgrading yourself. Everything has an opportunity cost.
Hahaha Rotisserie 😅 I gotta stop watching these while trying to drink my coffee! ☕ 💦
Probably the right decision for both of them.
Imo/ime relationships are about handling each other's baggage without either of you being crushed.
If you like someone but just can't handle their stuff no matter how you try, move on to someone else's crap you _can_ manage.
Expect the democrats to pass legislation making it a hate crime to leave a woman over her past.
@@grapeape888 He's a crook. Cope harder
If you don’t like it and it feels wrong, you don’t need someone else to validate your decision. Always stick with your instincts.
Imagine her trying to get you to buy her an expensive cup of coffee after you find out two random dude’s hit for free and bounced…😂😂😂😂
Hell the guys got paid to do it
@@ChadKirk And so did she. Literally makes her a prostitute.
@@ChadKirk lmaoooo dats true
You view coffee as a currency for sex? What a winner 🙄
@@dc3174 no, he’s saying someone got it for less than a cup of coffee, hence her listing the absolute lack of any effort to give her whole self to most likely strangers.
"plowing ahead" lol 😂
The rotisserie question Hahahahahahahahahahahaababababa
I’m glad I never did anything dumb when was 20, didn’t learn to be judgmental either.
You also have the right to choose to accept or reject someone in your life. These videos have a tendency to resurface and bite your future hard in the ass.
let see it how this goes, when every guy in a bar knows her from pron video or even worse..
@@PhantomFilmAustralia For real. For people saying "accept me for who I am" they sure are deaf when it comes to accepting people for their beliefs.
If a woman is willing to do it on film, she won't say no to much else.
A RED SHOE DIARIES AND SE7EN reference in ONE CLIP?!?!
If I was 18-25ish, I probably wouldn't have cared. After I hit 25/26 years old, hard pass.
“WHAT’S IN THE BAWWX?”😆😂🤣
Icing on the cake is hearing a random little story about Patrice!.... wonder why he never got any heat for that name
He did. Massive. It was one of his bits in the Mr. P. special.
@@miket8497 where can i find this special ?
Two reasons. The alternative was worse, and have you seen the size of him?
I definitely spit-roasted my gf years ago with a good friend of mine. We made an Eiffel tower and laughed. So much fun!
I love these thumbnails
Yea, but.....you know he'll be thinking.....every time they had sex, she's like..."I've had better."
There's no winning in this game.
Spit roasted by telephone poles.
Most everyone will never settle with the best sex they ever had. My best was so toxic we were either fighting or fucking. If the best sex is your criteria for settling down you're in it for the wrong reasons.
Breaking up with that women was the best decision he made.
Action have consequences
Don’t do the deed if you can handle the judgement
"Whaaats in the baaaaax?" 😂
If she really wants to be with you honestly and faithfully and you really like her a lot then the past is the past. People do a lot of things in their life that they wish they hadn't or could take back. Obviously she's not still doing it, so giver her a chance.
Normal modest people don't go into hobby prostitution ...
This happened to me and I can tell you if you're not expecting it it's a huge shock. Sure, everyone has a past but something like that is a pretty big deal.
When you bring her home to the folks and dads eyes 👀.....
😂
I wouldn’t be shy about sharing that information early on and girls should. If a guy acts like a total 😾 about it, then you know that child is not for you. If you tell a guy and he equally shares his dirt and likes you regardless, you got yourself a guy worth giving a shot.
Run Forrest run!
That wouldn't bother me in the least bit to find out someone I was dating had been in porn. As long as she was honest with me the past is in the past.
I like your standards brother
It wouldn't bother me either.
Why wouldn't it?
@@TheTwinkiefoot I guess because I view deceptive tendencies as being far more malignant and potentially destructive to a serious relationship than if someone had a past where they capitalized from being promiscuous. If anything, the latter will, on this or that front works out in my favor. As long as there aren't any cooties being smuggled from what boils down to short sided or risky behavior what really matters is whether or not you can trust that person. That determines above nearly anything else if that potential mate is worthy of whole hearted investment. But that's just me. I don't see porn as inherently evil. Sure, in some instances it may become vice and can cause relationships to deteriorate. I can detract from ones ability to have genuine human interaction and can never provide the emotional benefits of going out and living life in the real world. Too much of human interaction has been supplanted by the internet so if ones sexuality, which is and should be engaged in away from the dangers of the hapless bystander stumbling across such activities, there is a serious risk of somebody tunnelling into that make believe world so deep that they might someday die having no knowledge of how happy they could have been if they had turned off the damn computer and put their heart on the line for someone. Lies on the other hand are an extremely high risk behavior. Even when used as a way of protecting others from some threat there is still a risk that the person being lied to becomes aware of that fact and responds by severing their connections with the less than honest party. Now on the other hand alot of people consider porn, and sleeping around in general as sinful and that one's eternity is placed in a state of peril if they might be so weak. I think such dogmatic categorization is a bit of a cop out. It's not so simple and I've already over explained what I might have answered with one sentence but I will say this; there is no such thing as "no strings attached" sexual interaction. To some degree your life and the life of those whom you engage with are going to be in twain and the fact is it's better sometimes to know that you could have that person than to have the aftermath to deal with because you did have that person. People make fools of themselves and take enormous risks trying to score and are likely unaware of how much credit amongst their peers they lose. Don't hurt others, don't make yourself look like an idiot, but go out and enjoy being human. I think that's what matters when our life here is done.
If your instincts are alarmed it indicates an opportunity to dodge a bullet.
If you have to ask it means it's a problem for both your present and future self.
Don't ignore your intuition just to delay the inevitable regret that follows.
Let your rational self override your emotion.
Bill "you don't wanna know what I would have done"
You can take the girl out of the porn but you can’t take the porn out of the girl…
The military involvement is the real red flag.
my friend said in the navy, she saw all kindas 3sums, and gangbangs...
The seven year itch is when all the real problems come out
Along with the herpes she’ll claim you must’ve got from a public toilet seat
Sasha is so beautiful!
I agree, she's one of the best.
RIP Patrice RIP Biggie
Totally depends upon the girl, the person she was. I don’t give a FUCK what she did in the past or what was done to her…. That’s life. It’s how she handled it and how she handles herself that matters.
sure.
Not a big deal imo, but hey, everyone has different things they're cool with. Gotta make the choices that are right for you.
Would have been a resounding, “No,” from me.
@@alsimmons1870 ehhh I've been in a few relationships with some industry girls because I live in porn valley. Love is love. And relationships are work.
Didn't know she was gonna be that open .. oh Jesus
Surprised she admitted to it.
She's basically Megan Fox
Ditto Bill Burr! Great honest common sense answer! Hey, wanna run for president? There should be a test for common sense before politicians are permitted to run!
Lol if I were bill I'd just reply with "links or it didn't happen"
Eventually somebody would have recognized her. That would have been awkward.
I'm not down with being in a serious relationship with some broad that did pron. No thanks.
@@doodlebob3758 honestly I’d casually date, but serious relationship most likely not.
Many people that listened to this story are under the impression that the girl was honest but honesty demands being transparent she didn't want to share pron name or videos, & didn't give a good explanation as to why, like being embarrassed or any other statement. If she chose to withhold that information, that only provokes having more wuestions,, like who knows how long she really worked in the that industry. Bottom line is this guy left her because he couldn't trust her, not because she had made pron movies.
Moral compatibility.....if you wanna have kids one day you want to know your partner and you have the same ideas when it comes to deciding right from wrong
There were several comments that it is a "red flag" if a woman joined the military. WHY? I don't understand this since I do know several women who had joined the military so the U.S. Govt would pay for their medical, nursing, law or engineering degrees. All upstanding ladies. Ditto for male friends and co-workers who did the same.
Many of the women in my family were military and only half of them are low-key crazy. I suspect I turned out such a stable genius because one of the low-key crazy ones is my mother.
It’s a hyper sexualized environment where even semi attractive women are hounded relentlessly, it’s much worse than a college campus in that regard. The implication is that if she’s been in the military then she’s had many sexual partners. I hope that clears it up.
@@grapeape888 Got it. Thx.
My father in law was in the marines for like 20 years and told my husband "don't *ever* date a woman in the military. There's a 99% chance she's getting a loooooooot of dick."
Could've picked a better photo of Sasha grey 😂
Mia Khalifa would have fit the description better.
TBH she looks beautiful in that one!
TBH she looks beautiful in that one!
3 months is no loss. Not even being real yet.
Her video? Dude. 8 months in porn, that’s like 200 scenes.
What’s in the box?!?!?
Brad Pitt voice
Not wife material, and guys saying they would have kept her don't want a wife.
Imagine having kids with her. Yep, game over.
I have zero room to judge....so...
Girlfriend?
I've been dancing with myself for about a decade
More power to you
The thumnail hahahahahah
I love you bill fucking right on man 🤘👍🇦🇺
At least she told the truth.
Does anyone ever ask about things that aren't relationships?
There is a Service out there that will get a face pic of your girlfriend and enter it into a database for a match. It cost $30 and worth it.
Name of website ?
Bill Burr's TH-cam Channel
th-cam.com/users/BillBurrOfficial
The next question should have been: “Can I watch them?”.
Dont take Will Smith's work away
That would be a no from me dawg. Wouldn’t even hit it. Don’t need to settle for that shit
Rotisserie... lul
Your lost man!😂😂
*You're
@@PhantomFilmAustralia you understand he meant loss instead of loss too? That’s more flagrant than correcting your-you’re
At least she had the experience to tell you if you were a shit shag. Every cloud has a silver lining.
Women want a man with a future....Men don’t want a woman with a past.😎😎😎
She should call me 🥳
WHATS IN THE BOX xD
sasha is so cute
oh jesus
Replace the word pornstar with prostitute and ask how you feel. It's the same damn thing except with a camera.
Billy gotta tiny weenie! I ❤ y'all
What’s the girlfriends name, asking for a friend lol
Plus he already had his foot in the door, he must be one of those males afraid of commitment. Of course I'm speaking from the position of someone who's had a lot of male support and understanding thrown my way. He himself must be a little unstable. If you want to just party and have a good time do that, forget trying to even get into a "relationship"/ girlfriend+ boyfriend muck!!
lol you’re going to shame him for not wanting a ho? Ok then…
I'd date her but wouldn't consider her for a long term committed relationship. Dated a few strippers. Fun but some serious drama. A lot of trauma is involved when women go that route.
Yes and you don't want her raising your kids
The trauma is likely the reason they chose that route
Gentlemen. If this happens to you with someone who dipped into porn, into stripping, into the sex trade... these are the questions you need to ask immediately. If you don't ask immediately theybwill assume the conversation was over and that you were fine with it, and that alone will feel like she's throwing something in your face.
1) Are you still in touch with people from your previous industry?
2) How long ago was this?
3*) Go get tested if you've banged, this will nswer a question you don't want to ask in this circumstance. If you haven't banged, ask if she's clean and good before you do bang OUTSIDE of this conversation. Say my mama taught me to ask. It will look good this way. Means you yourself are clean.
And yes, ask what led her that way so you can assess future situations if they do come up.
Past that remember, this is actually none of your business if she didn't catch anything permanent. So don't get territorial out of nowhere.
Assess the answers to be honest if she is for you and if you are for her.
this is awful advice
I'm dying
Next relationship
WTF? I’d be thinking 💭 “OMG, this chick could really hook me up!”
That's my dream girl😍
Is this an oldie. Have heard this before for sure
Not sure what I would do😅