I just can't express in words, how much this video resonates with my current situation. This is exactly my story, I have been a victim of maladaptive daydreaming for more than 3 years and 10 months. One more video on this topic. May Allah forgive your sins and raise your standards.❤
@@SatoriLeclair my sister your photo is included a mistake right down (علي ولي الله ) والعياذ ب الله it's a big kufr in surah masad you know that my sister ALLAH bless you I hope you understand me with my All respect 🤎
I went though the same thing and start by fixing 3 things in my life. Get good sleep, workout and healthy diet. Be consistent !! Doing these 3 things alone help me improve my mental health, clarity and it brings me closer to Allah.
Thank you for this video . . I hope it helps me do my work better Iam a NEET aspirant too loved your video a lot too accurate about my situation right now I have my NEET exam in May Pray for me so that I can stay focused on my goal and achieve a good rank so that I can get into government medical College Insh'allah I will be a doctor
I am from India... And I am also a Neet aspirant. This video is so useful for me because i am also suffering from such same situation..... .. Thanks for this good useful video... jazakallah
bro,THANK YOU SO MUCH for this video. I have been praying to Allah to give me a solution and finally i have found one. May Allah keep you blessed and happy. JazakAllah Akhi
Subhanallaah,, jazaakkallahu khairan brother.. For me this vedio is like 🔥.. This vedio felt like a personal help for the viewers.. Oh my god, Brother u have included every thoughts and chaos a youngster or an aspirant go through.. Continue making this kind of valuable vedios... This is just mind blowing
I have ADHD and Maladaptive Daydreaming Disorder. I don't know if it has developed as a coping mechanism coz of my life situations or what but I have had it for very long. As far as I remember, more than 18 years and I am a Neet Mds aspirant who is just fooling around everyday doing nothing. 😢 Thanks for the video but real help I know will only come from Allah. La Hawla Wala Quwwata Illa Billahil Aliyyil Azeem.
I also have the same problem.Your video is very accurate depiction. I also trying to create a TH-cam channel like you to use my energy for something more meaningfull and help other's like and also myself.
You won't believe me if I say this is exactly what's happening to me right now. I have lost the opportunity in medical admission. Now trying for other universities. Daydreaming is so dangerous 😞
Assalamu Alaikum, I’m struggling with OCD related to my prayers and daily acts of worship. I often doubt things like the number of rakahs, whether my sajdas are correct, if I’m saying ‘Allahu Akbar’ properly, and whether I’m pure enough to pray or if I need to perform ghusl. I also find myself questioning the cleanliness of my clothes and whether I need to repeat my wudu. If anyone here has recovered from similar challenges, I would really appreciate your advice and guidance on how you overcame these doubts. May Allah reward you.
Assalamu alaikum, I was experiencing this but Alhamdulillah I'm super fine now. Recite 4 Kuls and blow all over your body. Ayatul kursi. Do Wudu according to sunnah and if a doubt comes, don't act upon that doubt it's Shaytan whispering in your ears, making it difficult for you to worship Allah. I had extrem doubts of purity like my clothes are pure or not, my recitation is correct or not, I was suffering really bad. It's tiring because that doubts have no end because it's from Shaytan. Don't follow it. Pray to Allah. See someone do Wudu according to sunnah, follow them. Do as they do. This can help you.
@@RidahShaikh-kv7up JazakAllah Khair thank you so much for replying so the key is to ignore all the doubts and recite the 4 quls and Ayat alkursi? inshallah I’ll try to do as you said yk it’s really tiring and takes a lot of time from me (as a student who have exams) even when im not doing the worship i think about it and it brings me anxiety may Allah cure as all. Im afraid that i will not recover since i got that waswas from such a young age.
@@cactus6583 Don't be afraid. Shaytan is causing you to be afraid of anxiety. Fear only Allah. Then see how these tactics of Shaytan will have no impact on you inshallah. If you've followed all the steps of Wudu and Ghusl correctly and purity as much as you can then pray without any doubt or OCD. If it comes then pray to Allah that Oh Allah I'm trying my best as I can please forgive my shortcomings as you're the Most Merciful, Al Wadud (the Most Loving.)❤️
I have staring problem or uncontrollable staring problem but it is not because of ocd . I feel like time is running. Please make a video on it . I am not able to go out .
Great analysis, thank you! Just a quick off-topic question: My OKX wallet holds some USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). How should I go about transferring them to Binance?
So how do i stop falling prey to maladaptive daydreaming..its becoming difficult for me to stop...worst case i sometimes endend up daydreaming during my prayers...please tell me how to stop..i have watched numerous self improvement vedios but i am not improving at all
Seek help from Allah. Only he can help you.... Make dua frequently... I have ADHD , Autism and maladaptive daydreaming from childhood... Now I'm 30 years old... When i connect with Allah subhanahu ta'ala try to do good deeds and leave Sin... It decreases my daydreaming.... And also try to make a daily routine and follow it... It will help you... May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala cure our illnesses.. ameen
السلامُ علیکم I am facing the same issues so much it is too addictive and i becomes unproductive i have exams after 2 days and i can't focus on anything
How to stop cussing? It's really hard for me. I've to quit multiple times and I know it's sinful, but I just can't stop. I can do a day or two but the third day? It just slips, then I slip some more until I'm back to swearing 24/7. I say so many slurs and cuss words on this group chat with all my friends and I really just can't stop. Is there any way to be able to stop? I'll be awaiting your answer!
Swear by Allah that if you cursed again you will have to do something. For example: Praying 4 nawafil or praying 17 rak'as of Isha prayer in the mosque. That way you create a negative feedback system. Or giving a certain amount in charity. It's called an oath. You get to set the punishment of breaking the oath.
If your focus is all over the place it never always ADHD. Maybe it's Vitamin d deficiency. Maybe it's because of Stress. And you have to know the source of Stress. Is it created by past memories or vitamin d deficiency. Inflammation and gut problems also cause negative emotions and cognitive decline. So there are multiple variables.
am done with this allah do nothing i lost everything and i achieved nothing in life back then i memorized the quran i did everything allah wanted but day by day i was in depression and tension also my father died still allah did nothing its all fake he just love rich people i just wanted a simple life but am done am hopeless am not even beautiful not even rich not good in studies not in games am just a middle class boy living a hopeless worthless most ugliest life other boy in my university are rich beautiful better than me and the awnser is simple that god only love rich people
لا تقل ذلك الامر صعب لكن الامر لايتعلق بسهولة او صعوبة الحياة بل بردة فعلك يعني انت لست مسؤول عن امتحاناتك سهلة ام صعبة لكنك مسؤوول عن ادائك يعني نحن نعلم ان الحياة ليست مثالية لاحد كل منا يمتلك اشياء هي امنيات لاشخاص اخرين وهناك نعم لاشخاص اخرين هي امنيات لنا لا يوجد شخص لديه كل شيء من كل شيء لنا جميعا نسبة معينة من كل شيء ابحث عن مميزاتك وكن ممتنا لها واسأل الله ان يوسع في رزقك واعمل من اجل ذلك وفي النهاية الامر لايتلق بمدى الاموال التي تكسبها بل بقدر رضاك عن حياتك انا شخصيا ان كان أن اصبح غنية يكلفني سنوات من عمري ووقتي والجهد الكثير وربما الانعزال عن العالم او التضحية باللحظات الجميلة فلست مستعدة لذلك يعني اذا كنت تحب ان تكون غنيا وهو أولوياتك فاسأل الله ان يوفقك وابذل جهدك في ذلك لكن ان لم تكن تسعى لذلك فلست مضطرا المال مهم لكنه ليس كل شيء الامر نسبي حسب أولوية كل شخص وتذكر ان هذه الدنيا هي محطات وامتحانات لاتدوم السعادة كما لايدوم الحزن هناك اشخاص اختاروا ان يستخرجوا السعادة من الالم وهناك اشخاص يستخرجون الالم من السعادة بأمكانك الاختيار وتذكر ان لا تقارن حياتك باحد لانك فقط الوحيد الذي يمتلك القدرة على تقييم حياتك يعني مثلا لو نظرت لمن احسن منك في اي مجال فسترى انك اقل لكن لو رايت من انت افضل منهم فترى انك أفضل وقس ذلك على كل شيء لكن بصدق هل ستكون راضيا اذا احبك الناس والتفوا حولك وعاملوك بلطف واحبوك لانك فقط غني او وسيم ؟يعني فقط من اجل المظاهر؟هل ستكون فخورا بذلك ؟انا شخصيا في بعض المرات اتعمد ان لا يكون مظهري جيدا حتى لايكون هو الاساس الذي يعاملني الناس عليه احب ان يعاملني الناس بلطف جيدا او بسوء على اساس افكاري توجهاتي معاملتي علما اني لايهمني رأيهم سواء بالسلب او بالايجاب طالما اني واثقة من اختياري و لا أؤذي احدا ومع ذلك لن أكون مسرورة اذا احبني الناس من اجل مظهري اذا فقط بالنسبة لي افضل شيء تفعله هو ان تركز على نفسك وتتعرف عليها تفكر في ذاتك وميولاتك ميزاتك التي منحها الله لك ماذا يعني وجودك في الحياة ماهي الرسالة التي تريد ايصالها للعالم ماهي قيمك مبادئك عندما تكون لديك صورة واضحة عن نفسك بالنسبة للعالم سيتضح بعدها كل شيء ستتضح اهدافك ماهو الشخص الذي تريد ان تكون عليه ماهو الشخص الذي لا تريد أن تكون عليه طور نفسك دائما وتعلم استخراج العسل من السم وفي كل شيء صعب ابحث عن ماهو جميل وتذكر ان كل شخص يعاني بطريقة مختلفة لست وحدك فقط على الاقل ركز على ماتملك وكيف يمكنك استغلاله ليوصلك الى ماتحتاج وماتريد هذه هي الدروس التي تعلمتها سنة 2024 واردت مشاركتها معك وفقك الله واعانك على اجتياز امتحاناتك في الحياة واعانك على الوصول وتحقيق اهدافك في الدنيا والآخرة و العيش بالطريقة التي تريدها والمناسبة لك واحذر ان تتخذ عقلية الضحية فهي مصيدة صعب ان تخرج منها وفي نفس الوقت لاتقسو على نفسك ولا تجلد نفسك فقط كن مع الله يكن معك انا سأبدأ 2025 بعقلية استخراج الدواء من السم ورحلة اكتشاف ذاتي بالتوفيق لك
فقط تذكر ان عبادة الله غاية لا وسيلة وان الابتلاء لجميع الناس حتى الانبياء عانو الفقر والمرض والكره وهم اكثر واصدق العابدين اضافة لان فقط كتوضيح ليست الغاية الاولى من القران هي حفظه بل فهمه وتدبره اولا لانه اخر رسالة من الله لنا عن طريق رسولنا الحبيب محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم يجب ان نفهم ونحاول مانستطيع لتطبيق ذلك والالتزام به اما الحفظ ليس الهدف الاول وثانيا الجزاء يكون في الآخرة وليس شرطا في الدنيا الذي لديه حياة لا يتعب فيها اطلاقا( مع انه لايوجد) ذلك لايعني ان الله يحبه بالضرورة قد يكون اختبار لان الكثير عندما يعيشون في رخاء دائم يتمادون ويتغطرسون ويتكبرون والعكس هناك من يبتليهم بالسوء ليزدادو درجات من الحسنات والصبر وهناك اغنياء صالحون استغلو اموالهم في فعل الخير وهناك من استعملوها في الشر وهناك فقراء صبرو وعملوا على تحسين وضعهم وشكروا الله رغم كل شيء وكانو صالحين وهناك من أصبحوا سارقين ومجرمين يعني الامر يتعلق بكيف تتعامل مع وضعك ايا كان وان تسعى لتبقى صالحا في زمن طغا الفساد على كل شيء خاصة الاخلاق والمعاملة اصبحوكل شيء مبني على المظاهر والمصلحة بالتوفيق والسلام لروحك الطيبة🕊🕊
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you are progressing day by day may allah bless you
How to manage School , islam, soccer . bro this will help alot
Balance ⚖️ Deen and dunya I mean study Islamic knowledge and study for eg nurse study
Heey, yes something for girls,…
Heey, yes something for girls please,…
I just can't express in words, how much this video resonates with my current situation. This is exactly my story, I have been a victim of maladaptive daydreaming for more than 3 years and 10 months.
One more video on this topic.
May Allah forgive your sins and raise your standards.❤
Well, That's very kind of you brother.
@@InnerIman-e7uI wonder how do you even come up with these stories, plus thanks very much this video helped me so much
Your support keeps me motivated.
@@SatoriLeclair my sister your photo is included a mistake right down (علي ولي الله ) والعياذ ب الله it's a big kufr in surah masad you know that my sister ALLAH bless you I hope you understand me with my All respect 🤎
I was also facing the same problem dear how did you overcome??
I even lost a whole year in my university because of daydreaming, but now, this year, I'm starting to be focused more, may Allah helps all of us ♡.
I went though the same thing and start by fixing 3 things in my life.
Get good sleep, workout and healthy diet. Be consistent !!
Doing these 3 things alone help me improve my mental health, clarity and it brings me closer to Allah.
Glory to Allah❤
This video js a Gem
Everyone needs someone like Fahad
Wowwwww 🥺
Glory be to Allah
This is what I needed.
Jazakallahu khairan.
Keep helping others by your videos ❤❤❤
thanks
Jazakallahu Khairan this video was very very very helpful!!! May Allah (SWT) bless you and grant you ease and happiness (Ameen)
Jezakallah hairrrr a lotttt.... the biggest problem i am facing these days.... May allah bless you
Exactly this video is for me
Allah has given the idea of this video into ur mind for me I think
Shukriya allah tala
I am from India
And i am also preparing for NEET.this video is really helpful for me.
I am also preparing for neet 2025
May Allah Azzwajal grant us all the right and pure intentions in doing whatever we want to do
اللهم امين
Ameen ❤❤
outstandin
Thank you for this video . . I hope it helps me do my work better
Iam a NEET aspirant too loved your video a lot too accurate about my situation right now
I have my NEET exam in May
Pray for me so that I can stay focused on my goal and achieve a good rank so that I can get into government medical College
Insh'allah I will be a doctor
Brooo,
I just got my problems solution. Thanks man
May Allah bless you with more beneficial contents like this one
It is one of the most realistic and relatable video I ever watched, thanks for the video brother 🍀🍀
This video felt so personal and relatable thank you for the uploading this 🩷
may Allah bless you brother
Jazakallah!
I am from India...
And I am also a Neet aspirant. This video is so useful for me because i am also suffering from such same situation..... .. Thanks for this good useful video... jazakallah
Your getting more famous❤❤ Congrats I’m so happy for you and you will soon reach 100k subscribers and I will support you till you get there😊
Daydreaming is a talent ❤ I start using this blessing writing books and create cartoons ❤
bro,THANK YOU SO MUCH for this video. I have been praying to Allah to give me a solution and finally i have found one. May Allah keep you blessed and happy. JazakAllah Akhi
Subhanallaah,, jazaakkallahu khairan brother.. For me this vedio is like 🔥.. This vedio felt like a personal help for the viewers.. Oh my god, Brother u have included every thoughts and chaos a youngster or an aspirant go through.. Continue making this kind of valuable vedios... This is just mind blowing
I have ADHD and Maladaptive Daydreaming Disorder. I don't know if it has developed as a coping mechanism coz of my life situations or what but I have had it for very long. As far as I remember, more than 18 years and I am a Neet Mds aspirant who is just fooling around everyday doing nothing. 😢 Thanks for the video but real help I know will only come from Allah. La Hawla Wala Quwwata Illa Billahil Aliyyil Azeem.
24/7 daydreaming 😢
I am going through same situation may Allah guide us all
Ameen 😢❤
@Drum-d8b ab ap kia krty hn
@MawazBhatti-k2p me bhi ek neet assistant hu ..
@Drum-d8b Meri to daydreaming ki wja sy learn krne ki ability bht hi km ho gi
JazakAllah hu khair brother✨
jazakallah my brother i am preparing for ca exam and i am so much in deprerssed and distraction this video help me alot plz keep making💙💫
I love your Videos! Please keep doing Videos like that ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks jazakillah... This video I giess its a sign from Allah for me thanks
I also have the same problem.Your video is very accurate depiction. I also trying to create a TH-cam channel like you to use my energy for something more meaningfull and help other's like and also myself.
Shukria❤
Great 👍
I'm also facing these is issue from long time
And I'm also neet aspirant,the story exactly matching with mine situation 😢
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS PLEASE KEEP DOING VIDEOS ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you very much my big brother from India❤
Masha'allah. interesting video
Cant relate more...
this is exactly my situation
ISTIKHARA is the solution.....
Thank you mate.... I will try it..
All the best
This Video deserves more views
I love this channel
شكرًا
My Brother😊
Haven't seen you in a while? ♥️. How are ya?
@@InnerIman-e7u spend some bad days, right now alhamdullilah brother, what about you? i am very happy- you remeber me😚😍
Subhanallah this is my exact situation and my name is Bilal
Jazakallah Kaier bro
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Salaam!
Love from India 🫶
You won't believe me if I say this is exactly what's happening to me right now. I have lost the opportunity in medical admission. Now trying for other universities.
Daydreaming is so dangerous 😞
Thanks
Welcome
im also a NEET aspirant n this iS soo relatable🥺🩶
Assalamu Alaikum, I’m struggling with OCD related to my prayers and daily acts of worship. I often doubt things like the number of rakahs, whether my sajdas are correct, if I’m saying ‘Allahu Akbar’ properly, and whether I’m pure enough to pray or if I need to perform ghusl. I also find myself questioning the cleanliness of my clothes and whether I need to repeat my wudu. If anyone here has recovered from similar challenges, I would really appreciate your advice and guidance on how you overcame these doubts. May Allah reward you.
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Assalamu alaikum, I was experiencing this but Alhamdulillah I'm super fine now. Recite 4 Kuls and blow all over your body. Ayatul kursi. Do Wudu according to sunnah and if a doubt comes, don't act upon that doubt it's Shaytan whispering in your ears, making it difficult for you to worship Allah. I had extrem doubts of purity like my clothes are pure or not, my recitation is correct or not, I was suffering really bad. It's tiring because that doubts have no end because it's from Shaytan. Don't follow it. Pray to Allah. See someone do Wudu according to sunnah, follow them. Do as they do. This can help you.
@@RidahShaikh-kv7up JazakAllah Khair thank you so much for replying so the key is to ignore all the doubts and recite the 4 quls and Ayat alkursi?
inshallah I’ll try to do as you said yk it’s really tiring and takes a lot of time from me (as a student who have exams) even when im not doing the worship i think about it and it brings me anxiety may Allah cure as all.
Im afraid that i will not recover since i got that waswas from such a young age.
@@cactus6583 Don't be afraid. Shaytan is causing you to be afraid of anxiety. Fear only Allah. Then see how these tactics of Shaytan will have no impact on you inshallah. If you've followed all the steps of Wudu and Ghusl correctly and purity as much as you can then pray without any doubt or OCD. If it comes then pray to Allah that Oh Allah I'm trying my best as I can please forgive my shortcomings as you're the Most Merciful, Al Wadud (the Most Loving.)❤️
@@RidahShaikh-kv7up JazakAllah Khair thank u so much.
A hhhh...... ❤❤❤ thank you❤
welcome!
Wish you get more subscribers.❤
Could u provide any Islamic video for teen girls
What subject would be my topic? Tell me.😊
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♥️
❤thank you
Thank you for this wonderful video. Brother what country do you live
US Brother.
Sorry I don't
understand@@InnerIman-e7u
5:50 ❤ true
nice
Drop more videos please
Tryin
Awesome.which AI tools do you use plz mention...
I have staring problem or uncontrollable staring problem but it is not because of ocd . I feel like time is running. Please make a video on it . I am not able to go out .
I have same problem I am also neet aspirant
can someone guide me those important vitamins and minerals?
Asalam alaikum
Walaikum Assalam
What is akhira
Great analysis, thank you! Just a quick off-topic question: My OKX wallet holds some USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). How should I go about transferring them to Binance?
can you make a video one procrastination and being lazy to seek knowledge.
brother stalks me😐
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Where are you from brother ❤❤
So how do i stop falling prey to maladaptive daydreaming..its becoming difficult for me to stop...worst case i sometimes endend up daydreaming during my prayers...please tell me how to stop..i have watched numerous self improvement vedios but i am not improving at all
Seek help from Allah. Only he can help you.... Make dua frequently... I have ADHD , Autism and maladaptive daydreaming from childhood... Now I'm 30 years old... When i connect with Allah subhanahu ta'ala try to do good deeds and leave Sin... It decreases my daydreaming.... And also try to make a daily routine and follow it... It will help you... May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala cure our illnesses.. ameen
Bro stalks me.
السلامُ علیکم
I am facing the same issues so much it is too addictive and i becomes unproductive i have exams after 2 days and i can't focus on anything
bro are u from india ?
How to stop cussing? It's really hard for me. I've to quit multiple times and I know it's sinful, but I just can't stop. I can do a day or two but the third day? It just slips, then I slip some more until I'm back to swearing 24/7. I say so many slurs and cuss words on this group chat with all my friends and I really just can't stop. Is there any way to be able to stop? I'll be awaiting your answer!
Swear by Allah that if you cursed again you will have to do something. For example: Praying 4 nawafil or praying 17 rak'as of Isha prayer in the mosque. That way you create a negative feedback system. Or giving a certain amount in charity. It's called an oath. You get to set the punishment of breaking the oath.
@@InnerIman-e7u I actually didn't think you'd see my comment and answer. thanks so much! ill do what you told me to
Hello.I know you are not a scholar but should I take anti ADHD medicine
If your focus is all over the place it never always ADHD. Maybe it's Vitamin d deficiency. Maybe it's because of Stress. And you have to know the source of Stress. Is it created by past memories or vitamin d deficiency. Inflammation and gut problems also cause negative emotions and cognitive decline. So there are multiple variables.
Form which country are you ?
Moved to US brother.
Dont use **real** humans image with there awrah revealed. and also there is a debat on looking at animated image with a humans awrah reaveled.😊😊😊😊
Isnt animations and drwaings haram
That badly was needed!
I need fahad in my life
Don't wait for Fahad. Become Fahad. ♥️
@@InnerIman-e7u i am running to find what love to do or what makes me happy still I don't find it...
It’s called maladaptive daydreaming
Oh yeah.
I don't think anyone's dream in today's world is a Doctor anymore 😂
Yeah, very rare.
Come to India you will seemAround 23 lakh people give this exam
@@washimalilaskar4110 yes , i'm neet aspirant
am done with this allah do nothing i lost everything and i achieved nothing in life back then i memorized the quran i did everything allah wanted but day by day i was in depression and tension
also my father died still allah did nothing its all fake he just love rich people i just wanted a simple life but am done am hopeless am not even beautiful not even rich not good in studies not in games am just a middle class boy living a hopeless worthless most ugliest life other boy in my university are rich beautiful better than me and the awnser is simple that god only love rich people
لا تقل ذلك الامر صعب لكن الامر لايتعلق بسهولة او صعوبة الحياة بل بردة فعلك يعني انت لست مسؤول عن امتحاناتك سهلة ام صعبة لكنك مسؤوول عن ادائك يعني نحن نعلم ان الحياة ليست مثالية لاحد كل منا يمتلك اشياء هي امنيات لاشخاص اخرين وهناك نعم لاشخاص اخرين هي امنيات لنا لا يوجد شخص لديه كل شيء من كل شيء لنا جميعا نسبة معينة من كل شيء ابحث عن مميزاتك وكن ممتنا لها واسأل الله ان يوسع في رزقك واعمل من اجل ذلك وفي النهاية الامر لايتلق بمدى الاموال التي تكسبها بل بقدر رضاك عن حياتك انا شخصيا ان كان أن اصبح غنية يكلفني سنوات من عمري ووقتي والجهد الكثير وربما الانعزال عن العالم او التضحية باللحظات الجميلة فلست مستعدة لذلك يعني اذا كنت تحب ان تكون غنيا وهو أولوياتك فاسأل الله ان يوفقك وابذل جهدك في ذلك لكن ان لم تكن تسعى لذلك فلست مضطرا المال مهم لكنه ليس كل شيء الامر نسبي حسب أولوية كل شخص وتذكر ان هذه الدنيا هي محطات وامتحانات لاتدوم السعادة كما لايدوم الحزن هناك اشخاص اختاروا ان يستخرجوا السعادة من الالم وهناك اشخاص يستخرجون الالم من السعادة بأمكانك الاختيار وتذكر ان لا تقارن حياتك باحد لانك فقط الوحيد الذي يمتلك القدرة على تقييم حياتك يعني مثلا لو نظرت لمن احسن منك في اي مجال فسترى انك اقل لكن لو رايت من انت افضل منهم فترى انك أفضل وقس ذلك على كل شيء
لكن بصدق هل ستكون راضيا اذا احبك الناس والتفوا حولك وعاملوك بلطف واحبوك لانك فقط غني او وسيم ؟يعني فقط من اجل المظاهر؟هل ستكون فخورا بذلك ؟انا شخصيا في بعض المرات اتعمد ان لا يكون مظهري جيدا حتى لايكون هو الاساس الذي يعاملني الناس عليه احب ان يعاملني الناس بلطف جيدا او بسوء على اساس افكاري توجهاتي معاملتي علما اني لايهمني رأيهم سواء بالسلب او بالايجاب طالما اني واثقة من اختياري و لا أؤذي احدا ومع ذلك لن أكون مسرورة اذا احبني الناس من اجل مظهري
اذا فقط بالنسبة لي افضل شيء تفعله هو ان تركز على نفسك وتتعرف عليها تفكر في ذاتك وميولاتك ميزاتك التي منحها الله لك ماذا يعني وجودك في الحياة ماهي الرسالة التي تريد ايصالها للعالم ماهي قيمك مبادئك عندما تكون لديك صورة واضحة عن نفسك بالنسبة للعالم سيتضح بعدها كل شيء ستتضح اهدافك ماهو الشخص الذي تريد ان تكون عليه ماهو الشخص الذي لا تريد أن تكون عليه طور نفسك دائما وتعلم استخراج العسل من السم وفي كل شيء صعب ابحث عن ماهو جميل وتذكر ان كل شخص يعاني بطريقة مختلفة لست وحدك فقط على الاقل ركز على ماتملك وكيف يمكنك استغلاله ليوصلك الى ماتحتاج وماتريد
هذه هي الدروس التي تعلمتها سنة 2024 واردت مشاركتها معك
وفقك الله واعانك على اجتياز امتحاناتك في الحياة واعانك على الوصول وتحقيق اهدافك في الدنيا والآخرة و العيش بالطريقة التي تريدها والمناسبة لك واحذر ان تتخذ عقلية الضحية فهي مصيدة صعب ان تخرج منها وفي نفس الوقت لاتقسو على نفسك ولا تجلد نفسك فقط كن مع الله يكن معك انا سأبدأ 2025 بعقلية استخراج الدواء من السم ورحلة اكتشاف ذاتي
بالتوفيق لك
فقط تذكر ان عبادة الله غاية لا وسيلة وان الابتلاء لجميع الناس حتى الانبياء عانو الفقر والمرض والكره وهم اكثر واصدق العابدين
اضافة لان فقط كتوضيح ليست الغاية الاولى من القران هي حفظه بل فهمه وتدبره اولا لانه اخر رسالة من الله لنا عن طريق رسولنا الحبيب محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم يجب ان نفهم ونحاول مانستطيع لتطبيق ذلك والالتزام به اما الحفظ ليس الهدف الاول وثانيا الجزاء يكون في الآخرة وليس شرطا في الدنيا الذي لديه حياة لا يتعب فيها اطلاقا( مع انه لايوجد) ذلك لايعني ان الله يحبه بالضرورة قد يكون اختبار لان الكثير عندما يعيشون في رخاء دائم يتمادون ويتغطرسون ويتكبرون والعكس هناك من يبتليهم بالسوء ليزدادو درجات من الحسنات والصبر وهناك اغنياء صالحون استغلو اموالهم في فعل الخير وهناك من استعملوها في الشر وهناك فقراء صبرو وعملوا على تحسين وضعهم وشكروا الله رغم كل شيء وكانو صالحين وهناك من أصبحوا سارقين ومجرمين يعني الامر يتعلق بكيف تتعامل مع وضعك ايا كان وان تسعى لتبقى صالحا في زمن طغا الفساد على كل شيء خاصة الاخلاق والمعاملة اصبحوكل شيء مبني على المظاهر والمصلحة
بالتوفيق والسلام لروحك الطيبة🕊🕊
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