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Story 1 : the UK in a nutshell.
Story 2 : The OP deserves respect for standing up for his wife. Who the hell pulls pranks on wedding days ? How disrespectful towards your relatives to you have to be... to not feel at least guilty over this ?
Yeah but in UK if your 16 you can drink a cidar with a parent present or legal guardian
@@bakerrr925 I figure that that is the nuances that the OP was referring to but as an ex-bartender who happens to be working in the vaping industry right now, the legal age limit can be enforced by law but some pubs/bars have their own rules and as a bartender, you HAVE to follow those rules otherwise the place can be fined up a VERY high price. That bartender just did her job correctly and stood her ground like she needed to.
The wedding story. I feel that the women are more of the bully type of women and that whenever one gets "accepted" by them. That they do it just to be safe from them.
Those women are jerks
Mean Girls wedding version I see.
What exactly are they testing for anyway? To see if the girlfriend is an adequate doormat? What are they weeding out with these "tests"? It's just a dumb, transparent excuse to bully people for no reason. I've dealt with enough shitty families-of-partners that I have zero problem telling a partner, "Sorry, I'm not going to your family's event, they make me uncomfortable." Certainly would not marry someone with a shitty family that they're still close to, because I know those people will make my life a living hell. I've actually broken up with two people for this exact reason, and it was the right choice.
Wedding story: The OP was not a jerk. If I were his fiancee I would love him forever for this. No way in hell would I put of with this immature Mean Girl behaviour.
This. The husband SHOULD stand up for the wife more than anything else. The fact that he did against such a toxic set of women in the family bodes well for their future. I wish that couple the best.
I got a question what's bad about wearing white dresses is it because the bride will wear the white dress I don't really understand it maybe it's in that country so pls tell me
@@thegamingworld8871 White wedding dresses were popularized by Queen Victoria who set the standard for them. It happened at a time when most brides just wore their best dresses of whatever color so it ended up symbolizing a level of wealth great enough that they would have a special dress specifically for that occasion. It makes the bride stand out. It's also super luxurious because of its vulnerability to getting stained.
For another woman to wear white at a wedding is to try to steal the spotlight from the bride, which is very rude.
Exactly what I'm talking about. People think that just because someone's no longer a kid, automatically they're mature. Bull. I met this lady a long time ago who at one point was a friend (and we are no longer in contact), who was in her forties, had two grown children and was also a grandmother. She was just like that. She was just an overgrown middle school mean girl who never mentally matured past the adolescent bully mindset. She had no respect for boundaries, zero comprehension of the word no being a complete sentence and no accountability. Therefore she had no expectations whatsoever of there being reprisal than consequences for her actions. That's just the tip of the iceberg. Always had to be the center of attention, in the spotlight and in charge of whatever was going on even if she had no clue what she was doing. Which was the case most of the time. Even the most minor of differences of opinion or disagreements over something trivial or inane, would turn into a war. She always had to have her way. If you didn't stop what you were doing and make her priority number one, she would flip out. Anyone who doesn't bow down or kowtow to her insane demands she regarded as if they were being purposely mean to her in. Lastly, and this was the worst one, she was so stubborn that she convinced herself anything she had never heard of, meant it didn't exist. Conversely, if she had discovered something, despite it being well known to others, she acted like she was doing everyone some great service by letting them hear her flap her gums full of tobacco stained teeth. Literally, this woman would do anything for attention including lie about having cancer or that she was being abused by her now ex-husband. If giving her grief for Never keeping a job constitutes abuse, then yes he was abusive. But he never touched her. That was my long way of saying I agree with OP.
1st story: Yes,you can get in legal trouble and if the owner of the bar learns of it you can be fired and/or lose your liquor license
Isnt it a big big fine too
but didn't she mention that she WAS the manager?? even then, legal trouble is still a thing either way.
Hard disagree being that this is set in the UK the letter of the law is more than likley to fall on to the Parent rather than the Pub there are also alot of Caveats to the legal drinking age in the UK with kids as young as 5 can actually consume alchohol legally in some situations ... moreover they confiscated the drink when it was revealed the parent purchased the drink for the kid ... its a pretty standard thing where parents take thier kids to pubs in the UK and they have a soft drink while the adults get a pint .... so yeah the bar would 100% not be liable for the actions of the parent unless they willinging allowed the kid to drink on the premises without the purchase of a meal which they dident.
A big fine lose your license to serve liquor and you can even get shit down
@@mayrasalgado4462 i know that shut down is a spelling mistake, but i prefer the term s*** down
As someone who worked in a restaurant in the uk that served alcohol, im with the OP in the 1st story. In the uk if you serve alcohol or any other age restricted products to a minor you can be put in jail or fined a lot of money and it ruins you for the rest of your life. Good job to the OP for not serving alcohol to that kid
The unit should be excluded. Tell your family that any children of your marriage will not meet any of those vile women. Yes, including your mother. Tell her to her face that she will never meet her grandkids. Grandpa is allowed though. :)
That last joke for the first story is hilarious. Props to the manager and the colleague. Proper comedians right there👌
“Sir we are an apple store, we don’t serve alcohol here”
Ok shorty
At least I'm tall. BI-
That was soo random
I can kinda see the point of the op with the paintings. As an amateur artist I know for a fact that what one person finds pleasing doesn’t always apply to another. The post apocalyptic painting might disturb the op as well as other painting with a similar theme. Plus, I can understand the storage thing too. Even if you have enough space to hold everything, it kinda sounds like the family is kinda using them as free storage. Plus paintings of that nature need special care. It also sounds like some of them might be HUGE.
As for the lightbulb one, nothing was the op’s fault.
A grown man willingly decided to put a glass lightbulb in his mouth.
That’s one of those things that should be an obvious no to do, like you know not to put your hand on a hot stove or not to put your finger in a meat grinder.
Story 1: Minors are not allowed to drink for a reason. I think it's only normal to take action in such a situation.
Story 2: The mother and crew in this story are absolutely horrible. The concept of wanting to 'test' people who might become a part of the family is bad enough, explicitly pulling such an attention-seeking prank on someone's WEDDING is worse than words can describe.
Story 3: I think it's perfectly reasonable to not want your co-workers to show off their underwear lmao
Story 4: OP is probably overthinking this comment, it was probably just a joke. Besides, she just really loves her dog, nothing wrong with that.
Story 5: That cousin is an effing donkey. If Imagine if I told him he would get in trouble for driving while drunk, and he would test it because of my comment. Same concept? Yes. Are his actions my/OPs fault? Absolutely not.
Story 1: it actually depends on your country and state,some countries have a different age to be considered adult, so minors can drink depending on their countries’ law (I’m saying minors because in my country a minor is someone who isn’t 18 yet
The dress code lady: part of working for a company is sometimes doing things that you don't agree with. Like not showing your bra. Constantly doing what your boss said not to do, regardless of what it is (within reason), is insubordination and risks compromising the authority among other subordinates. She's not the jerk for putting her foot down and making sure the rules she set forth are followed.
How can you let women wear tank tops but then get offended by a bra strap?
@@melmcmann1465 the co-worker was suggested to bras without straps. Furthermore there are other female workers more than likely that don't show their bra straps. Why should this single one be the assumption?
I totally agree but what bothers me is that she yelled at the employee. She admitted in her post that she “raised her voice” at her. Yes I agree with making her leave and change, hell I would even agree with writing her up. But there’s no reason to yell at someone over a bra strap
That last story(Light bulb one): NTA and wow. OP should look them dead in the eye and tell them "No, in fact there is another fact just like this one, and the fact that he tried it instead of looking it up shows a lack of control on his part". Like I learned the fact that "human fingers are as strong as carrots, so you could easily bite off your own fingers if not for internal safety instincts", but that didn't mean I tried to bite off my own fingers. Dude was literally told "Don't do this" and he did it, maybe next time he'll think twice about what he's doing.
First story: you have the right if not the duty to refuse service to people whom you think may be underage without an ID you really cant mess with that stuff
Second story: to me this is clearly harassment and/or abuse at some times from what your saying, you handled this perfectly, you warned them and you followed through. Your a good man👍
Story 1: Sounds like a story I'd hear in Wisconsin, but would have expect the bar tender to go along with it.
Story 2: If I had a toxic group of family saying they were only testing the new women, I'd say, "Then I guess I don't belong in my own family for not putting up with it." Then cut ties with them.
Story 3: A dress code is a dress code. Don't want to follow it, don't work there.
Every time I hear about these insufferable Karens going off and even breaking the law with an entitled attitude, I just like to imagine Stone Cold Steve Austin appearing out of nowhere and kicking these banshees in the stomach and giving them a stunner, mid-rant 🤣🤣🤣
On story 3 I think it's more of a you are at work and you should be dressed at work rather than so much the distraction point. It has to do with professionalism in the workplace, and I'm pretty sure the woman had told her many times before even when she was hired the dress code requirements. When you work somewhere that has a dress code even one as loose as this one cuz I'm amazed that he allow tank tops cuz most places won't it's best not to push too far because they can quickly turn the dress code around and make it more restricting on your wardrobe.
In my country bra straps are not considered as visible underwear. They are just straps after all, nothing indecent (in my country at least) about seing it. And honestly I see nothing appealing about bra straps. It's even the contrary : they so not sexy we wear strapless bra only when we don't want to spoil an outfit 😅.
I think OP is making a big deal about it and her only reason is that she has to sit behind this Co-Worker.
it's like a classmate moving seats cus the classmate in front of them is bald and they can't work or pay attention in class cus that classmate being bald is distracting even tho they are to blame for being distracted by it
Exactly 😭 why is op made so uncomfortable by seeing something that she wears too and almost every woman does? It’s not like it’s inappropriate either, literally just look away
Those paintings and that furniture are connections to his heritage. Personally, if I was him (especially if he's the one who pays for everything), I wouldn't be asking "permission." I'd just be arranging for transportation of said items.
The bra story. This woman is absolutely unreasonable and nitpicking over something that is stupid! She should not be harassing her about it and sending her home. As a woman, I don't consider bra straps as being "visible underwear". It's just a bra and it shouldn't matter if the straps are visible especially if it's occasionally. Even if someone is wearing a regular short sleeve shirt, occasionally a bra strap can slip down. Bras are expensive and it's not uncommon for people to have a hard time finding on that fits perfectly. None of my bras fit perfectly and I just have to make due with what I can find and afford.
One time I was wearing a tank top with thicker straps and occasionally my bra strap would show when it slipped down. Someone commented on it and kept trying to fix it to tuck it back up. I told them to stop and said "At least I'm wearing a bra!". They backed off when said that.
It’s literally not hard to cover her shoulders up lol I’m a woman and I hate my bra strap showing and I cover my shoulders up
For the wedding that is absolutely disrespectful to wear a white dress to a wedding if you're not the bride. You're not supposed to even if it's a prank. Not to mention it was planned and they were warned about the consequences.
The whole wedding situation it's definitely mixed movies like:
Mean Girls, Sorority, and Ready or not.
Last story: i need to start leaving stuff in my counter, if people can't control themselves. Maybe some cleaning supplies, i would like someone to clean my house for me or maybe some of my bills, they would naturally pay them all or maybe grocery list, it would be nice if someone would go and buy my stuff for me.
Wedding story: Not the jerk. I support his choice to protect the dignity/ feelings of his wife. No one should bully anyone. Full stop. Especially at their own once -in -a -lifetime -wedding.❤
Story 5: I think the OP is having in count her husband's opinion, He says he likes the paintings, but the OP doesn't allow his husband to have the paintings because "she doesn't like the paintings", and also is being very fussy with the paintings because when she was offered the sunflower painting she said, that the sunflowers were gorgeous but she didn't like the leaves, so if the painting isn't perfect she dislikes it, so In my opinion, yes you are the jerk.
its not really the ops fault because she can have her own opinion and they already have like 3 of the paintings in the house and the ops husband should not have asked the op right infront of everyone because the husbands family could get mad because she said she didnt like the painting
Story 1 : the OP is not the Jerk, cause doesn't matter if they believe that the kid is of age. It is required by LAW to check an ID before serving ANY kind of alcohol.
P.S. If you were in the USA and served alcohol to someone that is underage, and didn't check their ID first. You (depends on the situation) can be thrown in federal prison.
"You pour a *lovely* pint!" 😂😂 That's when you know you got a best friend
Last story: dude is a whole 3 years older than OP acting like a lemming🥴.
OP: let's leave my ladder here.
CUZ: let me climb it... *splat 'oh no~'
I am a manager at a restaurant in Sarasota, Florida. In Florida, if someone is caught serving an underage customer, the bartender that served them gets a $10,000 fine and the establishment they work at can have their liquor license revoked which would end up in most places having to close because their bar would be closed. I hate to say it but there’s no tip in the world worth getting a $10,000 fine, having the restaurant lose their liquor license, and of course losing my job over it and not being able to get hired at another restaurant!
As far as the toxic female family members go, I tend to cut off or distance myself from toxic family members. I had to endure being around them growing up because I didn't really have a choice but since I've been an adult, I don't put up with any of that nonsense because I'm free to make my own choices regarding my life and who I allow to be a part of it.
I refuse to allow other people to make my life miserable or mistreat other people that I love or care about out of some warped sense of duty or loyalty to people who either show me none in return or refuse to respect my boundaries. Abuse takes many different forms and while some may be legal, it should never be tolerated.
A better analogy would be that a person took drugs when it was mentioned that drugs can be very addictive and that person tried to test the theory
Hmmph
Story 1: HAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA OP legit said don’t say that to the colleague and then said not to say that he pours bad pints and dint care about the Karen HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
It’s stories like the first one which make me a little bit anxious to work in places where I’m gonna be serving customers of course there’s going to be a lot of people who are actually sane and won’t cause any problems but I’m afraid I’m gonna get a bunch of Karen’s who just won’t leave me alone and nothing I can do can please them
Bra story: this is typically the view of older women in my experience where it is not appropriate to have bra straps showing. I suppose it could be seen as unprofessional as it IS underwear without a doubt.
If I had this experience I would ask to the the dress code set out by the company I was working for if I was getting sent home.
Third story: every job has a dress code. That that codes pretty lenient. Least you don't have to wear a uniform.
When I did my smart serve in Canada the maximum penalty for serving irresponsibly, if I remember correctly because this was like 8 years ago, is a $50,000 fine and jail time.
It's a bit smaller fine here in the UK, but still punitive. £5000 for the first time, up to £20,000 for repeat violations, and 3 violations in 3 months shuts the bar or pub down.
@@Dave-bu6bc that is still a heck of a lot. Here it is double damage, the bar/store is held responsible as well as the server personally. So there is a pretty large incentive as the server to be cautious.
With the first story. When mommy and me is taken to a whole new level.
Secondly with the first story. I have a working theory that the mother and son aren't really "mother and son." As in this could just be some random lady with some random kid. That the kid got her to get him alcohol.
It's possible, but I've seen parents do exactly that shit with kids that were definitely theirs.
The bra strap one: what is so distracting about a bra strap? It's a strap, not all that different than the strap on a tank top or cami.
For the light bulb one the OP isn't a jerk at all. It's the cousin who chose to do something stupid. He could have easily came across that fact elsewhere. By the aunt's logic who would be to blame then?
I'm a bartender and serving a minor can end up a very stiff fine for the bartender and the bar itself. The owner of the bar could get closed down and the bartender could be blacklisted.
With the paintings you could just wrap and store them if you don't want them displayed. That way the husband can keep his family heirlooms.
I’m just saying for the wedding I would have never accepted any kinda behavior like that even when one person shows up in white they look bad so all of them that’s just messed up
First story: I’m not sure how it is in the UK, but in Australia, you can get big fines depending on the state, the fines are given to the server, the manager, the licensee and the business and potentially can lose their license and face jail time
"If you do this, even as a prank, you will be kicked out." You don't get to complain when you do it anyway and get kicked out.
I think I might be able to explain things a little deeper with story 6. It might be possible the 22 year-old cousin might be autistic or special needs. I'll admit that I'm both of these and used to make mistakes like this before but eventually grew out of those habits. And I will also come to the 22 year-old's defense by saying that once you hear something that you have never heard before, it is tempting to try it out. So I kinda see both sides being in the wrong here. The 22 year-old for making the mistake, and the OP for encouraging him to do it. That might not have been the intention, but was still the outcome nonetheless.
Story two: I think this is hazing. The fact that they say they’re doing it “for the men”, and want the OP to bring his wife for the apology, this just SCREAMS internal misogyny, thinking that no woman is good for their “boys”. It’s immature, classless, petty, and, to be frank, borderline emotional harassment. They’re trying to shame this bride, hazing her, and the OP isn’t letting that happen, and suddenly he’s the ass for this? Nope, never. Good for OP for sticking up for the bride. If your spouse won’t protect you from their in-laws, who will?
Ok but I want that post apocalyptic ostrich painting
I feel like the lightbulb story, in terms of guilt, would be equivalent to saying "Most people can't put their legs behind their head" and then the person trying it and getting stuck. You didn't tell them to do it, it's just one of those stupid facts that people want to try out themselves.
Why would he even try it, then blame you for it, then get his mom to yell at you? Absolutely ridiculous.
If anything, that should've become a fun anecdote, "I heard cousin say that a lightbulb will fit in your mouth, but it won't come out. I didn't believe them. I tried it and had to go to the hospital to get it out. It didn't hurt, I'm fine now." cue laughter, and so on.
Story 3. In my opinion the OP is the jerk in this scenario. I feel like depending on the location, women deal with enough issues having men comment on the style of clothing, let alone having another woman join in. As I say in cases where teachers or other students have a problem with what a girl wears to school. If someone else has a problem with what you are wearing, it says more about them than it does you typically. In this scenario it wasn’t like the employee was wearing something inappropriate. The OP just found something they didn’t like him, and made a big deal out of it. The OP needs to figure out why bra straps showing bothers them, and then find a way to deal with it. If The OP had actually been wearing something wrong, then I would have been on the side of the OP. However sending someone home. Because you don’t like the way they dress, is going a step too far. It would be like an employee sending someone home because they chose to wear the colour red or and the employer doesn’t like the colour red. As someone who has been called out for wearing an “Inappropriate“ shirt to school. Spaghetti straps weren’t allowed, and sleeves had to be 2 to 3 fingers wide. I took on my mom‘s philosophy of, until they start providing your clothes, they have no say on what you wear. If bra straps showing is so problematic for OP, then they need to implement a work uniform rather than calling individuals out.
For The Bra Strap Story, If Nobody Else Is Distracted Then Thats A You Problem. If The Whole Office Is Distracted And Work Is Being Slowed Then You Do Something About It. But If It's Just You, Then Just Try And Not Look. It's Not Like You're Right Behind Her Like It's A Classroom Unless It Is.
One, it's a work place with a dress code, and underwear shouldn't be showing.
Two, it was stated that she does set right behind her in the office.
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Story 3: the gal set up a system of rules that her employees agreed to follow. It doesn't matter if that system of rules doesn't make sense or does make sense, breaking it is still breaking the rule system, therefore not a jerk
Story 6: The analogy the aunt gave was false, The following is a proper analogy: it is akin to leaving drugs on the counter and saying profusely that they will cause harm and then the person taking them anyway. Not only did she mention it to her cousin, she also warned him that there would be a problem. He was the one who opened the door to that problem himself, and he faced the consequences.
Okay for once I’m actually curious about the background app/game
Also god damn that first lady…
Also the narrator’s “angry old lady voice” *shivers* like nails on chalkboard lol
Where I live, in a licensed establishment that serves food, I actually believe it's legal for a server to provide alcohol to an adult, and for that adult to then provide it to the accompanying minor.
There are likely limits on this (ie, can't order more drinks than their are adults), but that's the general rule as I understand it.
Yeah the legal drinking age in the United States is 21 but we also have exceptions and in some states if your parent is with you you can drink inside of a bar if you’re under 21
I'm a very violent person as a lot of people in my family know so if any of the women in my family tried what the women in the second story tried to do they wouldn't of gotten off so easy
I wonder whether she's nitpicking about the bra straps because she feels threatened by no longer being the only woman in the office.
or maybe it's cus she wanted guys to notice her only lol
That sounds a bit sexist. you guys might like showing your underwear at work. But most places consider it unprofessional.
@@benjaminhurley6460 I personally don't but I also have a breakdown if someone else does.
@@rainbowunicorn709 I should have been more clear. I was mostly upset with the sexist comment about how the op just wanted to be noticed. Or that the op didn't want other women in the office.
@@benjaminhurley6460 oh yes cus a woman calling another woman out for acting like that is sexist -_-
story 1:That tugged my heart a bit
XD first story: Marge pops in my head, obviously FINALLY COMPLETELY LOST her mind due to her CRAZY LIFE with Homer! 🤣🤣🤣
For the bra strap one, it's kind of difficult. General I'd say that someone being distracted by a bra strap is the problem of the person being distracted, but in this case it's also a woman. I think technically it could still be considered discriminatory even if it's another woman creating the rule, since a man is very unlikely to be affected.
Panties/boxers/etc not being visible is fine, but this seems excessive. Preliminary OP is a jerk, but I'd love to hear a woman's take on this as I really think their opinion would carry more weight than mine.
tbh and this is my input but OP is the only one complaining about it and no one else has said anything.
now granted the rest are male but that leads into another point I want t bring up is there hasn't been any indication that the guys are being distracted.
now given all that and again this is just my thought but it kinda sounds like OP is making a mountain out of a molehill.
The thing about bras is that you have get the PERFECT bra to not have it sliding off your shoulders. Which for some women, means getting one exactly tailored to you which can be expensive. Ultimately, I think this is being made a bigger issue than it really needs to be because breasts are not sexual, people *make* them sexual by tying them to the act of sex because that part of the body is touched quite a bit (it's theorized that people who were breast fed are more likely to be touchy feely with breasts because part of their deep subconscious remembers being 'fond' of that part of the body). But if you think of it like that, no one could show any part of themselves because most of our body is touched during the act.
So underwear is meant to cover the 'intimate' parts of your body and is being extended to the bras which, again, breasts are not sexual.
So I think the poster is an AH because they are choosing to be distracted instead of minding their own business and kind of attacked someone for something they might not be able to control. Just because you have nice clothes, doesn't mean you're well off. I've seen plenty of people that dress nicely living paycheck to paycheck out of some cheap apartment or trailer.
That's just my take, I think it was very unprofessional to attack someone for something as stupid as revealed bra straps.
@@agentmaryland1239 right my point is that unless OP is planning on staring at the back of her Co-Worker all day like a creeper then she needs to butt out and leave it alone
and I'm willing to bet that she's the only one that has a problem with how this Co-worker dresses
If the rule is that no underwear can be visible it could be seen as discriminatory if bra straps are okay, boxers showing due to badly fitting pants or shorts however are not. So basically if you want to forbid visible underwear, depending on country, you have to forbid all of it. Also, demanding that all underwear has to be covered, even in case of a bra would also be reasonable so people don't try to loophole themselves into sitting in the office topless with just a bikini top.
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That's why I added bot about boxers and panties. Those are similar. A bra strap, IMO, doesn't fall into the same category.
Edit: oops, that was in another comment. So let me clarify right now that if it was panty straps, I'd be with OP as that has a correlation, but to me bra straps are another category. Enforcing "no bra straps" only affects other women employees and could be seen as discriminatory.
I live in the UK, no, you do not lose your license as you don't have one unlike the USA where you do, you can lose your job as a barmaid/barman/barperson for selling alcoholic drinks to minors. Not only that, but the person actually buying the drink whether it's a family member or a friend, would essentially not only get kicked out alongside the minor, but also barred from that particular bar/pub/club and would end up getting arrested by the police.
In the UK most parents encourage their kids to drink from a young age (probably because it's too strong for them and puts them off a bit because kids don't listen to their parents) but usually you just give them a sip of yours if they want it
Me, an intellectual: Put the lightbulb in screw end first, then send a video of myself putting it in screw end and taking it out, then saying, "Yes you can"
It really depends on the field of work they are in. Bras and classified as underwear, and having any underwear showing is very unprofessional. The co-workee has been warned many times, and even been suggested on what to wear to keep the straps from showing. I don't say op was a jerk.
How many people watching are going to try to put a light bulb in their mouth, now? Not me for sure….I have a small mouth, but someone is going to try it….lol 😂
Who tf gives their young child dangerous stuffs
Not sure how it works in the UK, but as a former gas station attendant, if I sold alcohol to a minor, the minimum is a fine and a firing. The establishment could lose its liquor license as well.
£5000 fine first time, up to £20,000 for repeat offences, and 3 offences in 3 months gets the bar closed down.
The light bulb one lmao... I did this like 20 years ago. Its true you can get it in but not out... I just broke the light bulb with my teeth. Lol (I have eaten a few light bulbs)
Also when it comes to weeding out who's worthy of joining the family, that's up to the people dating, Not the Council of Dimwitted Ladies
Story 2: The groom's a jerk. People can wear whatever they want to such a formal occasion. If they all want to wear white dresses to match the bride then they can do that and don't deserve to get kicked out. Also, did he even consider his fiance's feelings? He ruined not only his wedding but hers.
Sometimes parents try to get their kids to “grow up and fit in” when they’re actually behaving right. My mom still tries to make me (22f) start drinking coffee because it’s “weird” that I don’t and people will not hang out with me if I don’t drink coffee with them. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
The painting story: YTA it’s a ancestral painting that her husband likes and she should just accept it and plus who bought the house ? Who pays the bills huh if they pay the bills and stuff it’s her house but if the husband does then it’s his house
Precisely. I feel like this gets lost on a lot of people nowadays.
not only that but she's worried that the Husband's family will think she's being too nitpicking.
ok so your worry about that part but you didn't worry about it when your MIL was talking about a painting of Sunflowers or when they were trying to give you your Husband grandfather's table.
and let's not forget his grandma did the paintings before she pass and she's acting this way without thinking "hmm My Husband might want these cus they're a connection to his Grandfather and grandmother."
but no her thought is "these look ugly, wth would i want these in my hose"
@@YuriKaroki19 and plus who’s paying the house we don’t know whoever it is they have a right to put stuff in THIER house I disagree with the narrater
The bar could lose their liquor license. They get a huge fine. You lose your job AND you get a huge fine too.
For the final one that isn't putting a drug on the counter that's just saying that doing drugs makes you high
The light bulb story reminds me of the WWE "Don't Try This at Home"
Story #1. She probably wanted to get her son drunk! That way, when something happens to him, she could sue the pub. Get the liquor license taken away. All that! Personally, I would have called the cops on her! Or at the very least, called up CPS, or whatever they call it over there.
If you serve alcohol to a minor in the U.S. it’s prison time and loosing you license.
Story 1: how can you get in trouble on that situation? Like you had no idea about said persons intentions and you thought you are giving the ADULT alcohol. It's even harder to realise if they order a soft drink such as coke
Story 1: Karen was the a-hole here. Refusing to show a valid I.D for her kid, (which he obviously wouldn’t have) and then saying since he’s there with his mother he’s allowed to be at a bar and be drinking, that is not cool. Karen or EM here is definitely the a-hole.
Story 2: are kidding me? The girl would have soo much stress after 3 pranks soo much as to break up easily that’s why a person of your family won’t get a girl before going away. would you a girl have your boyfriends family prank you and test you I WOULD NOT PUT UP WITH THAT
Not a bartender but I've worked in a convenience store, and yes, there can be VERY VERY heavy fines and potentially losing one's job for serving someone who is underage, so if the bartender suspects that the drink is going to someone underage, she ABSOLUTELY has the right to demand an ID for proof. Not only the right, but the responsibility. Completely not the asshole.
For the bartender i am not sure if its true in the uk but here in the US we have the authority to legally deny achool sale
Its similar to selling a minor cigarettes you can either lose your job, get fined, or both
Bruh 22 year old man Stuck a lightbulb in his mouth 😆
Wedding story: I would have filled bottles with red dye and dumped them on anyone in a white dress.
Story 2 - How I'd handle it is hire an officer to attend that day. So they can be arrested on the spot for trespassing if they refuse to leave on being turned away for wearing white
Actual legal consequences would probably get them to stop that crap
I'm not a bartender but I sold alcohol at a grocery store and the same rules apply if you get caught selling to a minor, you have to pay a fine for serving a minor and or possible jail time and the store or business could lose their liquor license depending on the circumstances some places have a strike system. You would also lose your job. So yeah serving a minor alcohol is not something that you should do.
did she put a bulb in her mouth to try it out? presumably no, cause she may have common sense... the 22y old guy shouldn't blame her but himself... he doesn't seem to be smart
"Don't do this stupid thing because bad thing happens." If you decide to test it... what the hell is wrong with you?
After the last one I spent my night thinking about doing it....
Im very surprised the lightbulb didn't break.
Honestly I wouldn't want to date a girl that would find all that toxic bs the family members do fine, it's completely inappropriate behavior and I am glad the dude put down the hammer on their silly surprised pikachu faces.
The 1st story reminds sme of my dads mom when my dad was only 5 and actually got away with it
Story 5, the furniture, no one else wants them so nta
In Singapore, i can be fined $200 if i served alcohol to a minor knowingly. Pub owner gets 3 demerit points. The establishment starts with 12 points each year. If it hits 0, Ronald (my boss) can have his Sale of Alcohol License suspended. So i need to be careful. Wendy (our waitress) is not affected since her job is only to bus tables.
I would have made an announcement on Facebook that would have been less
"No, you bitches were kicked out of my wedding because you ALL showed up wearing white!"
I can guarantee you 99% of the internet would have been so stunned and pissed off at all the women in the family that nobody would have noticed you called them all bitches lol
Yes the bar-pub can get closed down I’ve watched a few episodes of bar rescue
story 1: yeah when you doubt someone has the right age, even if they say they do ... and maybe they're right, maybe they just look young... they need to show you their id....
No it was not too harsh at all if you work in a professional environment and you need to be professional no questions asked no excuses be professional first and underwear are not meant for a professional work environment. PERIOD!
7:00 i find it funny how long it took iron man to defeat what looks like the riddler?
When you said you can put the bulb in the mouth but not take it out it's more of a warning not to do that in the first place so it's his fault that he did such a stupid thing in the first place it's not like he told you to do it
16:15
Each Christmas giveaway the worst of the paintings as Christmas presents to your inlaw family
When you talk to them you can say...well...you spoke so highly of it I just had to give it to you for (birthday, Christmas) pick any holiday!😊
Problem solved! Course you might want to give them all to the In-laws at once that way they can't prepare not to accept them.
5:04 I know a few bartenders and from the info I know you can get in a lot of trouble serving booze to minors
"A lot of trouble" is honestly an understatement. It can entirely ruin a bartenders life.
@@RabblesTheBinx that,is very true.