Is it lust or is it love? | Terri Orbuch | TEDxOaklandUniversity

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  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    If someone truly wants you, they will show it through actions, how effective their communication is, their vibe, body language and how they treat you. If you have to constantly ask yourself if someone is into you or not, they act hot and cold towards you, then most likely, they're not!
    💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

  • @philclark1184
    @philclark1184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    To complex for something simple. Lust is self-centered and love is focused on what is good for the other person.

    • @OnjelieMarie
      @OnjelieMarie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Too*

    • @chan625
      @chan625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would say lust is mostly self centered and love is about looking out for someone, making some sacrifices but if you really think about it, everything is self centered the way human mind perceives and processes. There may be different external triggers but all emotions and states of mind are born within you

  • @barrycrump6189
    @barrycrump6189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The Ancient Greeks had this all worked out over 2,500 years ago.

  • @sarthakmishra2825
    @sarthakmishra2825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love is not enough

  • @aistemirauskiene6165
    @aistemirauskiene6165 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    No and no. I don't believe it's hard to separate lust from love. Attraction from love - more difficult. And all these 4 points still doesn't actually mean that you found a suitable partner, which is what we should be looking for. We can be in love "with the potential" we can have codependent relationship and none of these are true love and compatible relationships.

  • @chan625
    @chan625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Maybe it's more about different phases where we feel the pull towards another person for different reasons.. mostly based on age but also on what was going on in someone's life at that stage. So I agree somewhat but wouldn't say either you're in this mode or that. Ultimately these are chemicals in your brain so like sleep and wakefulness harmones, they are going up and down doing a sort of dance with each other and never in ON/OFF routine

  • @durexuncensored
    @durexuncensored 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    is there true love on earth? love is a kind of balance of interests

    • @eliz222003
      @eliz222003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      “God is love.” 1 John 4:8

  • @m.r.m.5193
    @m.r.m.5193 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So bad for me... It was like the "he" in my life, was trying tot isolate me...
    Very good speech.

  • @theenglishacademy9721
    @theenglishacademy9721 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love sublimes the soul

  • @bukurie6861
    @bukurie6861 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!Respect...🌺💏😍

  • @chebencollins766
    @chebencollins766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Terri Orbuch...I'm inlove with this lady but she's difficult to communicate with..i try being fun bring up stories for chats but she doesn't response like one who wants to talk....what do i do in this situation please

    • @omnivertash
      @omnivertash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I know this question is sent directly to Terri but if you don't mind...
      Have you tried to communicate "your feelings" and not some random chit-chat?
      If you are direct, you might get to know if she's into you or not.
      If she's not, take your bow and walk, never looking back.

  • @DrPatrickKingsep
    @DrPatrickKingsep 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    interesting video topic - thanks for posting this for others to learn from

  • @alexthedog
    @alexthedog 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hate would be Twitter 4 sure.

  • @davidgilday9119
    @davidgilday9119 ปีที่แล้ว

    In spanish?

  • @HakuCell
    @HakuCell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    u call 10 minutes a short?? short on the internet is like less than 1 minute

    • @blondies2755
      @blondies2755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This is TH-cam; not tiktok. Appreciation is a beautiful thing. 🙏

    • @OnjelieMarie
      @OnjelieMarie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not for a Ted talk

  • @sabinesasha4638
    @sabinesasha4638 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The love doesn't exist !!!

  • @adolphdooley3632
    @adolphdooley3632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Anything based in materialism is Lust? And anything not based in materialism is a Free radical, and Freedom is a fruit of Love. All free radicals of Love changes everything that’s not Love, into what Love is. “I AM A FREE RADICAL, I CANNOT DO WHAT LOVE IS NOT”.

  • @fidahusayn8691
    @fidahusayn8691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Most of the guys do lust instead of love

  • @HateBear-real
    @HateBear-real ปีที่แล้ว

    Nah, not into that L-word con artistry. Loyalty and Honor are better than feels language.

  • @flaviaferrarirossi6044
    @flaviaferrarirossi6044 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️

  • @ericmarin6454
    @ericmarin6454 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love lust 🤔

  • @ethicseo
    @ethicseo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Jesus can change your life ❤️✝️

    • @HateBear-real
      @HateBear-real ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, by making you annoying as all Hel.

  • @Deyyyyyyy
    @Deyyyyyyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    .

    • @senpascal
      @senpascal 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This lady doesn't seem to understand anything about men and lust... some of the points in the relationship are great but the rekindling of lust doesn't make much sense

  • @gmlgml780
    @gmlgml780 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah.
    Maybe one day I will listen to this,
    but only their first "clue" is such an
    utter bs,
    that now I just write my own version.
    First,
    in practice, in the most of the cases,
    l*st is a multi actors game.
    It's frequent, it's usual, it's easy,
    but love is quite the opposite.
    It's scarce and heavy as f*k.
    It'd be very easy to distinguish.
    But there's the second. :)
    All of the previous is quite
    unimportant and me*ningl*ss.
    'Cause in the very few good cases
    both of them are a gift.
    Don't distinguish them.
    Just enjoy them.
    'Cause in all the rest of the cases
    both are just a complete
    reason for us,
    to destr*y this dsgstng universe
    what made us to be
    its sl*ves.

  • @jonathanmachjacksontrad5704
    @jonathanmachjacksontrad5704 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ,

  • @jellewils3974
    @jellewils3974 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Common sense 101, go research something else please

  • @Psalm-ju4sy
    @Psalm-ju4sy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    1 Corinthians 15:3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:
    Romans 3:23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God.
    Romans 5:8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
    Romans 10:9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
    2 Corinthians 6:2 (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)

  • @nu7345
    @nu7345 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @Fredrickwayde
    @Fredrickwayde 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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