I didn't leave my house for a week - nesting and doing my best
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- I didn't leave my house for a week - nesting and doing my best
I appreciate your understanding I didn’t film anything outdoors this week - I’m feeling pretty tired and heavy as my body drastically changes haha! And those pesky hormones cause me to feel a bit out of sorts - but I’m hanging in there and using the down time to chip away at little home projects… though my energy is gone pretty quickly lol, I’m approaching it with grace and enjoying it in my own way, though it has challenging moments. Sending much love and light 🥰
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I appreciate your understanding I didn’t film anything outdoors this week - and this is a bit more like a little vlog and unstructured - I’m feeling pretty tired and heavy as my body drastically changes haha! And those pesky hormones cause me to feel a bit out of sorts - but I’m hanging in there and using the down time to chip away at little home projects… though my energy is gone pretty quickly lol, I’m approaching it with grace and enjoying it in my own way, though it has challenging moments. Sending much love and light 🥰
Thank you to all who have sent baby items, we are well prepared and feel so very blessed! We are not able to accept more at this time as we have an abundance; please know that I am so incredibly grateful to every single person who has sent something or simply had the desire to and reached out with the intention, it warms my heart and while I am not able to receive more (due to my post office being a bit overwhelmed and only having limited space in our house) I am so incredibly grateful, thank you so so much! My heart is full ❤ sadly I am not able to take enough days off during the week to write thank you letters to each person, I am always trying to catch up and please know if you have not received a thank you card it may not be possible at this time, but please know I am sending so much gratitude your way and trying my best to keep up with things. Thank you, thank you, thank you ❤
You are so soothing...and lovely
Every mother that is a subscriber understands completely ! Do what is best for you and your baby and your sweet husband. We will always be here when you're ready to share.
Peace and Love....
I can gladly go many days without leaving my house and I'm not pregnant lol .
When the baby comes you won't be able to just nap when you're tired so I find it lovely to get those last few months of self indulgence when no one expects anything of you and you can just focus on being the healthiest environment you can create for your growing baby. If you went off-line for 6 months Paola, we'd all be here waiting for your return and sending you love. Don't ever feel obligated to us. We want what's best for you. I hope you can feel all the love that's coming to you. ❤
Be easy on yourself!! You are a young mother in the making!! Just relax and breathe... this is the most incredible journey you will ever take 💛💛💛💛💛much love
Be in your own transforming being, dear Paola, this first pregnancy and it’s newness and joy will never repeat itself, in the same way, as each experience is a one of a kind in this life. You are in this extraordinary time when it can, and YES, should be, all be about you and Luke and your soon arriving little angel, without any apologies needed. Those who love you, including those in your subscriber category to this channel, are I’m sure, supporting your new journey and wanting you to take all the time you need to nurture yourself and Luke. We’re all cheering you on, with no payback expected. Skip, dance, and swirl as we sometimes do in your cottage during these sweetest days and just dwell in peace and joy and shed any worries, we will all be here in lovingkindness when you feel like creating more videos. This time is YOURS. Sending love and hugs, dear Cottage Fairy. ⭐️💜🌻🌸🎼🌼🩷🪷
Very sweetly said, 'janny' and a pleasure to read.
❤100% agreed!
I agree, so heartfelt, that comment made ME cry❤
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I marvel at how the idea of minimalism has taken hold and become a "should". I don't like useless clutter, but I will never live in a minimalist space - I find it soulless. I think as long as you clear out that which no longer has a place in your heart and keep what does, you are living well. ☺
Minimalism isn’t about having bare walls and everything white (although that’s the way it’s sometimes marketed). Most minimalists see it simply as a philosophy of only owning and participating in things that add meaning to their life. This looks different for every person.
@@SkySpiral8 I didn't say anything about bare walls and everything white. What I find soulless is the pressure to purge as many possessions as possible, and to almost apologize when they can't make themselves get rid of more.
I realize it means different things to different people, but a lot of people are awfully regimented and/or guilt-ridden about it.
@@lorrilewis2178 yes, I think many people over-focus on the decluttering part and not on what to do with their newfound time and energy-whether that be increased family time, creation, or whatever brings joy.
@@SkySpiral8 I guess people will go overboard on anything.
I am with you there. Fads come and go. I, too, don’t like clutter and love a clean, tidy space. But much like Paola, when surrounded by beautiful, creative things inside and outside in the garden, I feel joyful and am happiest. And never, ever could I live without books…💕
My husband and I are in the same financial boat so we can live on his income alone while I raise our babies (hard to do when our economy is adjusted for two income households being the norm). We dont travel except to visit family. We dont eat out. We cut the coffee stand. I sew clothes for our daughters. We invest in plain, durable clothing that can last. We only have one vehicle. It can be done and it is actually kind of peaceful to disengage from the fantasy lifestyle of extreme consumerism, constant travel, fancy dining, etc. You guys are doing great and remember you truly need very little for a baby for a while. Some diapers, swaddles, pajamas, and maybe a few other things depending on how you choose to feed your baby ❤
That’s so wonderful you made it work! Not easy to do, takes a lot of dedication! We are trying to figure out the future and are excited to get creative with how we balance it all ❤
Such sweet advice for Paola and Luke. Quite consoling and encouraging.
@@TheCottageFairydon't get it... you possibly have enormous monthly income from your youtube videos and got a house where I assume you pay no rent since it is luke's parents property I think so what is so hard to provide for a little one? Makes no sense
My husband and I are looking forward to the same change within the next year or so, in addition to buying a new house. It feels like a lot sometimes, but I know it’s gonna be okay.
@@arp5843I thought the same thing. Thanks for expressing that.
Minimalism is overrated. You only live once. Keep the things that bring joy. We have only so many years allotted to enjoy that pleasure... enjoy it.
I agree. 😀
Pregnancy is so beautiful on you- I believe children are a blessing from the Lord! Take care of yourself 💖🙏💖🙏 you have been an inspiration to me for a
Long time- I’m so happy for you
Psalm 127 :)
Decluttering is so great, I love the feeling after letting go of certain items. Paola you can definitely charge more for your clothes, like the dress, say maybe $8-10 and the same with the jacket, start higher then you can always accept a lower offer, all for a great cause 😊 you look radiant ❤
Maybe because you might be a bit of a "celebrity" in your area..? people will be interested in what you have for sale. I think a few more dollars for the dress and coat you showed us.
(I think I remember you wearing the coat? )
We had a driveway sale a number of years ago. We were selling some almost new things (bike, BBQ) so we put $20 on each. (They were each worth $260 new). ...some people were still upset everything wasn't 50 cents.. 😒
Definitely charge more for your beautiful things! I'd happily pay 20$ for a dress like that if it is in good condition.
if my house looked like yours i wouldn't be going anywhere either
I’ve learned with minimalism, that focusing on what brings VALUE to your life, is more important than over-simplifying. It’s about balance, and I believe there’s always space to have an abundance of whatever brings you joy♥️
That’s how I approach it too xx
Don't apologize for taking care of yourself. 💙
I've never commented before, but I really wanted to thank you! I'm a teen from Israel, and your vids are my calm escape from the dark realities of war. You've inspired my creativity, helping me find ways to express feelings that are beyond me. Much love!❤
Take care dear Esther 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Sending love your way 💕💕
Esther, your response to Paola, is absolutely beautiful.! My heart goes out to you, in the midst of your own suffering and loss, your humanity shines out! You are in our thoughts and prayers. Keep creating with Love-it WILL outlast war, and is testament to your spirit of survival. Sue xxx
I'm wondering... What a teen feeling about baby and children of palestinians dead and injured cause of the genocide of your government and IDF did
@@Sue-np9fp This is so beautiful, amen! You have no idea how much your words mean to me.💗
@@susanmurphy1986 Thank you, Susan!💗💗
Please never apologise for not filming outside. All your videos are absolutely lovely whether in or outside. A story or you talking about your life x
Bernard looks like a thoughtful type of bunny. Neither optimist nor pessimist, simply a grounded realist. Bernard realizes that life can be hazardous for all of us bunnies, so he is assesses his options and is always prepared.
You don't have to get rid of everything you love to be minimalist. I love Joshua Becker's definition of minimalism: "intentionally promoting the things we most value and removing everything that distracts us from it."
Please don't feel you need to apologise for not videoing outside or for any other changes to your way of doing things - the most important thing is that you get the rest you need and the time as a family to prepare for your little one's arrival. Having a window into your world is our privilege, not our right.
I was my happiest when I was pregnant with my two sons. Now I'm happiest when I am with my two grand babies...two girls ages 3 yrs and and 1 yr. You will be amazed at the new kind of love you will feel for your child. There's nothing like it! Forgive me for sounding grand-motherly but, please don't pick up heavy boxes and please try not to fall down! I saw you slip outside!.God bless. XO
I saw the same when she slipped, cuídate Paola, ahora son dos😊
How blessed your baby is to have you and Luke as parents. Both of you have such gentle, sweet souls. Pregnancy on you is so beautiful. I’ve been watching you for years and share the same empathetic and introverted ways. I feel as though you are a friend to me. Wishing you all the best ❤
I was thinking the same thing. What a fortunate baby to have such beautiful parents. Paola is a lovely soul and so gentle. She surrounds herself with beauty and shares it with us.
I couldn't agree more!
« We don’t really take trips » « I stay home a lot » « It’s difficult to price things » I related so much to you in this video! I love how humble and honest you are ☺️
You look so beautiful with your hair like that! I kept thinking of old paintings of Venetian beauties.
Paola, whenever I need to be uplifted by exposure to beauty, simplicity, honesty, and tranquility, all I have to do is take a few minutes to enjoy one of your videos. You are simply a treasure on TH-cam. Thank you so much. Remember you have millions of people sending you wishes for all the best for you and your growing family as you prepare for the arrival of that child.
You look absolutely beautiful. What a lovely heart and soul you have. You have inspired us so much. ❤
Paola, sometimes getting a glimpse inside your house is just as peaceful as seeing the wonders of nature. I remember when my kids were toddlers I would put them in a wagon and walk through the neighborhoods around us, see the decore in people's windows and then imagine what the inside was like. With you we get to go inside, look around and peek outside. Thank you for the tours!
I think an auction is an excellent suggestion. Or sell those items on your Etsy shop. Your fans would love a chance to have one of your lovely dresses. And your book collection! Yes please! Please consider it. You have such lovely things. Have a sweet day soon to be momma 💕
Great idea!
Yes, that was my reaction too - your fans would love the opportunity to purchase your loving items, secondhand... Like a cottage fairy thrift store!
Oh my goodness! Your video was such a blessing for me tonight. Sitting alone in my house with two sleepy kitties, feeling old, a little dreary, and sad. And then, Paola, you started to talk about your first yard sale. Suddenly I was lost in such happy memories of my first and only yard sale . We tried to have one about 8 months after our sweet baby boy was born. I really wasn’t sure about pricing, organization, but I figured this just could not be so hard, right? Well, it turned out to be a part of our family lore that can fit in the hysterical category or the disaster category. My mom and husband had to remove me from direct contact with our buyers, mostly because I was listening to so many sad stories and I was just giving things away because it seemed right.
Thanks for reminding me of a funny day from long ago. I wish you a week of love and joy, dear lady!
Be easy on yourself, we love you! You fill my complicated life right now with joy, Paola. I always look forward to all your videos. Give yourself grace. Sending you love and light!
Growing a baby takes huge energy- your heart almost doubles in size!
Take care of yourself and the baby as a priority- nothing else matters at his point.
Prayers for health for all of you xxx
Making room for the new is a wonderful feeling... but (and from a fellow artist), simple living doesn't have to mean minimal...having things in your home that make you happy, that are handmade or self made, are part of making a house truly your home.
All the best for your growing family...❤
Kia Ora Cottage fairy, I didn’t know you were pregnant. Congratulations to you and your husband!
I have had seven children and I know this that each and every one are a blessing. My last baby is in Highschool here in New Zealand and the rest are adults now.
If I can give you one tip of advice it would be to savour the memories. Too quickly time passes and you wonder where it has gone. Even when you are tired and the baby won’t stop crying and you crave the sleep that your body needs, remember that this will pass and will be just a distant memory.
Arohanui (big love) ❤️
OH I TOTALLY AGREE I DON'T KNOW WHERE THE TIME WENT.
HAVING A PROBLEM WITH EMPTY NEST SYNDROME.
AND HERE WE WATCH NESTING.
I AM 58. MINE ARE 33 BOY MARRIED. DOESN'T WANT CHILDREN. SAD FACE. DAUGHTER MARRIED TRYING 29
SON ENGAGED 21.
I REALLY AM SAD . I DON'T KNOW WHERE IT WENT.
HOW DOES THAT HAPPEN.
PLEASE BREATHE AND PAUSE EVEN WRITE A JOURNAL. I DIDN'T. FORGET THE DUST....AND ENJOY EVERY MOMENT
@@clarkkathleenhusband6045 I can relate. It’s because we give so much of ourselves (and more) to create a loving home for our families. We do our best with the tools & knowledge we have at the time and sometimes we can base our entire, lives around our house, home and family. It becomes our reason for being & for getting up in the morning.. then one day, they are out the door creating the life we brought them up to create for themselves and we are left thinking.. well, now what do I do. Well, NOW it’s your turn. It’s your turn to shine and to create and enjoy a life doing what YOU want to do. Is there anything you’ve always, wanted to do or somewhere you’ve always wanted to go but never had the time. Make a list. Can’t think of anything? Just in case, here are a few ideas. Keeping in mind I don’t know what’s available where you live. Perhaps, you would enjoy meeting new ppl so maybe you could join a group or a club or start one of your own, travel & become a digital nomad posting your travel experiences/videos on line, what skills do you have - maybe you could create & run an online workshop or course or a vlog, play a sport eg. bowls, learn to ride a horse, read, learn an instrument, grow your own vegetables, herb garden, flower garden, food forest, container gardening, save heirloom seeds, become self sufficient, forage, explore, have regular outings with friends or meet up at each others homes, spring clean, declutter & sell or donate stuff, work from home and get paid for it, keep a diary, renovate, paint your house, rearrange inside, get all your affairs in order, journal, write a book and self publish it, write an autobiography, make a bucket list, research your genealogy, paint, draw, do craft, make a scrapbook/album for each of your kids of their lives, renovate, learn a new skill, do an online course/workshop, create new multiple streams of income eg. make and sell stuff online, do some charity work, organise an if the SHTF list, stock up, volunteer, grow herbs, make herbal stuff to sell eg. soap, write a blog, make you tube videos, do photography eg. birdlife, wildlife, scenery animals etc, get in touch with old friends, get a pen pal. The list goes on & on. The main thing is that you enjoy your life & live it to the full, shine your light and enjoy every single moment 🙏🏼
What is a SHTF list ?
@@FeelingJoyNow Where did this question come from? SHTF list are items you need to prepare in case the world becomes total chaos :) Have fun.
Totally agree as a mum of 4, I have to keep reminding myself to soak in every moment even if it’s a hard phase of life because it goes fast x
Dearest Paola, your beautiful home has so much spirit! ✨ Your little one will come into a warm love and a genuine nurturing. Please know there is no shame in finding painful difficulty parting with items you love. They're part of the life you are building. They have memories, essence, and soul. ❤️ You and your family have so much more to look forward to in discovering and re-discovering those things together.
To those who come to own what you do sell at your upcoming yard sale, I hope they find that piece of Cottage Fairy magic from that item. ✨
Also, to your wonderful furry family members, I see they are getting ready for that new era, same as you.❤
My love to you all, and I hope everyday brings you beautiful joy. ✨
In addition to your artwork, I love the things Luke made that you've shown us. You may want to consider adding his art to your online store. He is also very talented. You look absolutely beautiful. Be well, rest and nest.
Yes Please - or a link to where his items might be available.
Yes! the jewelry is beautiful! He should consider selling some items!
There's nothing to be sorry about. This video is lovely! You got married a few months before I did, and I'm planning on getting pregnant later this year, so it has been very nice to get to watch you go through this stages of life. I wish you a happy and healthy third trimester
Same boat here! 😁🥰
Bernard looks so enchantingly happy with you petting him.
I am a Mom of 4/ Granny of 1. Nothing ever prepares you for the joys and challenges of motherhood. Absolutely nothing. It changes everything in life. You say you're less mobile now. When babe is born, it will take an hour just to get out the door. So enjoy mobility and freedom now. ☺
100% agree with your comment nothing could’ve prepared me for motherhood and the ups and downs and the beautiful and ugly moments. Motherhood, I believe is a gift from God, but nothing can prepare you for it and it still takes me an hour to get out the door with one toddler!
Your big-eyed little kitty is so sweet🥰!
and very mischievous too haha! 🥰
@@TheCottageFairy oh yes - I can see that😸❣️
I loved being pregnant ….such a wonderful journey/adventure! I went everywhere and stayed very busy….if I couldn’t sleep I was cleaning and prepping the baby’s room. Late in the pregnancy my back did get tired and I used a pregnancy girdle which helped. Much to my surprise I wound up having a c-section and they found I had a double reproductive system, with a 7 lb baby boy in each uterus! My joy was unimaginable! They have been such a blessing in my life! Motherhood has ups and downs, challenges, yes, but oh the rewards! When you see your baby your heart will be so full and you will just know instinctively how to care for them. 💖💖💖
Always relaxing watching your videos. You are a beautiful person inside out. I have a 13 year old daughter that loves you. She loves your style of living and you have truly inspired her in so many ways. She is always looking forward to your videos.
Wishing you and your cottage family all the best. ❤️
P. S. My daughter loves the way you dress. If you'd please, I would love to purchase your clothes for her before you put them out in a garage sale.😊
I so wish I could go to your yardsale! My 16yr. Old daughter Ava Grace would love your dresses and clothes ❤
All of your fur babies are just to adorable! Yes- even grumpy Bernard! 💜
After many years of doing garage sales I found that it was so much simpler to not individually price things. I put things on a table or in boxes with a dollar amount on a sign. So I'll have a $1 table, $5 table, etc. I usually have a "Free" box also. I also collect small boxes from our Food Co-op that people can use a shopping baskets. Good luck with your sale.
Pricing is excruciatingly painful. Allow buyers to fill a box or bag for a set price and you'll see things magically disappear and all your extras happily going to new homes.
I listened to this on headphones. The background piano music was just delightful. Thanks
The pregnancy exhaustion is next level. I'd try to do things in the morning then napped from noon to 2 lol
Nothing is sweeter than watching you nest! Just precious ❣️🌿🫶
You don't need to apologise for anything. Alongside great works of art, you don't see a note of apology to anyone who's might not fit. You are an artist, and your videos are joyfully creative and inspiring. This is why we all watch. 🎉
Having children is the greatest thing that we can do! I believe that there is a nugget of God inside each child and it's up to us to protect that and keep that spirit safe as well as their physical beings. Fyi: you should stay inside right now - there is a killer flu going around (I live in San Diego). Being solitary as much as possible is very healthy right now. Eating out is never a good idea. People have such blind faith in the kitchen staff. And we never really know what was used to grow the food they use or the chemicals to process it. Eating out is just an overpriced indulgence in "shouldn't've done that." I always feel it the next day. Best of luck to you and your family including Bernard and Luna and most importantly your precious child!
Oh my goodness, wish i could go to your yard sale, i bet there would be so many good books in it!❤📚
I absolutely loved this video! As a woman who turned 50 last year, I can understand the changes in my body and mind. I tried to fight it for so long, but now I realize I must accept it and do what I need to do for myself. The letting go of things is also a great idea! Some things I would never part with, but others are from a person and a time of things that I no longer am. Thank you so much, Paola!
No way, over years i have given away alot of books probably about 5 different times , and i am too old to let go what i love and not regret it. Much blessings to you and husband on your upcoming baby. I am letting other than books go much love❤❤❤
Remember that this is a natural part of life. And you think you feel heavy now, wait, it gets much worse. You will be fine, as I said this is something that is just a natural part of life. God Bless you❣️🙏🏻
Awe, bless. ❤ please enjoy this time as a family. The hardest part sometimes is to give yourself grace. The day that your little boy is born, you will also be born as a mom (and Luke a dad!). All my love and blessings for your future adventure! ❤❤❤
You’re a radiant, glowing woman. Pregnancy looks wonderful on you!
I like allowing people to make an offer, sometimes I never price anything and I say when they bring it up to me, what would you like to pay for it, or what do you think it’s worth and that what I have them pay. Most people will never over lowball it due to respect for the quality of the piece then you have a good amount to donate to your charity :)
Don’t ever apologize for not videoing more or in or out or at all. Life is changing and it will definitely be different until you settle in. You look so peaceful and beautiful. Yard sales are a lot of work but feels good for sure. I love your clothes and dresses and would have a-hard time deciding as well. Hugs❤
I still love wearing long hairpins and decorated Japanese✨chopsticks in my hair buns! So I had to tell you yours is so sweet✨your just lovely Paola✨🦋
Blessings to you and yours!✨
Stop apologizing for everything and just be you😊 you're already an amazing person 🙏✨🫂
Bernard is such a hilarious name for a grumpy bunny, very black books !
Less is not more - more is more! I have a house decorated with delicious souvenirs, and a library full of books. Yet my house has a clean energy, because my house is TIDY! So many people confuse 'clutter' with untidyness - the two are not the same thing. You can have a house rich in treasures without being cluttered at all.
Bernard has the most adorable grumpy face ❤
When I’m pregnant, I don’t want to go anywhere, and that’s normal. Now that my youngest one is 1 yr old, we go hiking all the time and are out every day. This is a unique time in your life that won’t be repeated (every pregnancy is unique and special); nothing can come before yours and your baby’s wellbeing. Spoil yourself 🥰
You are a magical human being! I hope the world has more people like you. So glad you're going to be a mother :')
I'm glad that people like you exist in the world!🙏💖☘️🌼🍁🐾🦋🐇🐕🐈🌲🌳🌿🌱💞
Clear space is a clear mind, and a Clear mind is a clear space...
Give yourself some grace. Your body is going through something totally new. You seem to be doing fine. :)
As my life played out I was never able to have a house and oh how I want one, but it will never happen So if you have a house, know you have something that I have wanted all my life and will never have. I have had to rent apartments all my life. At one time I did rent a house, but was never at home in that community and had to leave for peace of mind. I feel a great part of me has never been able to live. I have never been able to mature like a normal human being. I will die not feeling I lived at all except for all the years that have passed. And so it goes.
Oh do I know all too well, that feeling.I am in the same boat with you
I am 50 and I think I am going to accept the reality 12:40 12:40
You are going to be great you are a beautiful intuitive sensitive person with a mother's heart. God bless.
WOW! Did not know that Luke was also an artist. Beautiful jewelry...could not part with those for sure.
Your home is beyond charming. What a soothing environment to nurture a baby. All the best to you and your husband as you begin the adventure of parenting and growing your family. Great job nesting and boxing before the baby arrives. Enjoy your channel.
I remembered the desire to nest as I was expecting my first child while our home was being built. We were living in a small room with my in-laws. Besides that, having a child is the most transformational experience in life! I’ve read several parenting books and have found the conscious parenting by Dr. Shelfali to be the most realistic and enlightening one out of all. I highly recommend this book to every new parent! Best wishes to you and Luke. 💚
Paola, you and Luke are the sweetest, most kindest souls on this Earth. Your baby is truly blessed to have you as their parents. Your baby is already so very loved. I am so excited for you both! xx
It’s easy for me to stay home a week at a time - in fact, I cherish and crave those long interrupted times and find that my creativity peeks without interruptions and quiet time. Seeing your bunnies makes me wonder - could you do a video on how you raise/train your bunnies to be house pets? How is having/caring for a bunny different than having a cat? Your videos take me back to my first pregnancy where we lived in a small one room schoolhouse that we converted to our home. We had no money and had to live very simply and frugally. It was a special time for sure. The birth of my son, in those simple times in that small one room schoolhouse - enchanting.
I have been watching your videos for a handful of years now. I love to watch them to help calm my nervous system down. Just wanted to say thanks for bringing peace to my life and body 😊
My husband helped me build & install a Little Free Library on our property. It's a small way I service my community and connect with other book lovers in a way that suits this introvert. 😊
Awww! Brings back such memories! Everyone’s experience is as unique as your sweet child. Some memories are joyful, some hard…..yours will be just that……yours! It’s life changing and beautiful and overwhelming. You will have your own precious story! ❤️
Enjoying one's nest is about the best 🕊
I love the way you listen to your body. When I had our son, I felt half really excited and half absolutely terrified. Then I held him my arms and the love I already had for him from the moment I knew I was pregnant increased again. he is now in his mid thirties and my love for him has not diminished. I am a grandma and my love for my granddaughter is as strong as it was for our son. Different role and I was so happy to have found that love never dies but increases to encompass all the people in your life. Soon you will be 3 and your life will feel blessed by the new little human being you have been looking forward to seeing. 💖
The best part of growing a baby was the nesting. I loved it!!
The way you live and your home and relationship with Luke feels so SAFE. ❤❤ I watch your videos to create a safe space for myself too. Lots of love and no need to go out of the house these times, do what your body tells you to do🙏🏻🩷❤️ we really appreciate you made a video at all, now that the fatigue and breathlessness kicked in! There is no pressure at all from the community and I'm sure others would agree😊
Hi Paola! I am the person that sent you the mini fairy & vintage baking soda goldfinch cards what feels like forever ago now. I’ve followed your videos from the very beginning, and I’m so elated that you are experiencing pregnancy and taking it easy during the process. You are going to be a wonderful mother & guide to your bundle of joy through all of life’s moments. Being a boy mom has been the greatest gift in my life. Wishing you a happy & healthy third trimester! 💙🫶🏼
You present your life as easy and humble but realy it is rich in beauty, wonder and depth . It’s inspireing and uplifting.
I tried a garage sale once and never again. It was a lot of work preparing and then trying to price but, at least, folks here would always offer a lot less than asking price. A lot of work for not much money gained. You should ask more than what you hope to get. Such a wonderful reason to declutter and give ❤. Thank you for sharing 😊. I’m always a little sad when your video ends but so happy when I see your new one pop up.
Love the music, soft narration, candid sidebars, the way you choose to dress... It's all so peaceful and magical. Pregnancy suits you and your little one will be so blessed to have two artistic parents perspectives. Good luck with your yard sale, if you make it about connections to people and the items they choose, it becomes easier and relaxing. 🤗
Your lovely honesty is a breath of fresh air in our crazy world! If you did a few minutes in your life every once in awhile( vlog idea!) I am sure that it would be well received! these vlogs remind me of my younger self and the pressure one feels in anticipation of motherhood! My children are 27 and by the fall 30&32! When I am with my almost 4 year old grandson I wonder where the time has gone! Hold on to every moment to savour when your little ones have all flown the nest and are exactly where you are now!🥰
I love your version of simplicity and simple decorating.
Thank you for another video that is so thoughtful and full of awareness about self care by uncluttering. It is very soothing and stimulating at the same time, stimulating me to come out of my lethargy. God bless you and your growing family ❤
This was beautiful, so calming to watch in my break at work. Thank you
You're underpricing darling ; )
You and your bunnies are lovely!
You look so radiant and beautiful. We all wait patiently and understand. Sometimes we have to just do ourselves.
Her personal library looks so amazing! 😍😍 Her whole house looks cozy and amazing. I would also not want to leave.
Dear Paola, you look as beautiful as ever…content in the process of new life coming your way. I think re pricing of items..possibly too cheap? The pink dress to me looks around $20, the jacket, the same amount…they are in great condition. Hope this helps xx ❤❤
You are such a beautiful soul, I had to pare down my book collection and it was so hard. Looking through the, I remember the journey as I read them. Books are so magical, you can be anywhere the story takes you and never leave home. Rest and take care of yourself, when the baby comes you will thank yourself for restoring when you could. Have a blessed weeks and will wait patiently for your next video ❤❤❤
You’re so pretty🥹❤️
Congratulations on becoming a newborn mother. It's good to see you going through the process of your body's changes with grace and acceptance. As a non-certified doula, I see you approaching motherhood with an amazing attitude and your little blessing will definitely thrive within the calm environment that you are creating.
When you said you are "decluttering", I was like - But she has no clutter anywhere! And that's the truth 🙂
I hope that wherever you live there is substantial paternity leave for your husband. It is so wonderful/exhausting/bewildering and so many emotions for the first 3 months, and it is a blessing almost essential to have your husband share that time with you.
Enjoy any sleep you get now and all blessings to you and your husband. ❤❤
What an enchanting video and I love your family of furry friends. I have 3 cats, my fur babies. Your book collection is beautiful, books are so difficult to part with, and did I spy a Strawberry Thief cushion? I love the William Morris designs and once visited his former home in the Cotswolds, which is now a museum in his memory. Spring cleaning to make way for new chapters in life is an important task but sometimes difficult to part with little treasures that all have meaning and sentimentality. Ultimately though it enables freshness and new vibrancy to enter the home. I wish you and Luke every success with your yard sale and the new chapters unfolding in your lives in the months and years to come. ❤
Oh, that was the brown winter cape I fell in love with! I would’ve bought that in a heartbeat 💓 I wish you mentioned the manufacturer. Would’ve meant even more because it was yours 🥰
You are definitely an inspiration to me encouraging me to downsize some of my collections including books. Have you thought about Luke selling some of his artwork on your Etsy shop? All of your videos are a Blessing to me. 💖🤗
Eating out has gotten outrageously expensive. Most of us can only treat ourselves occasionally
It is crazy how pricey it is! We just cook at home now❤ if it’s a rare super special event we only do ‘breakfasts out’ now, because usually pancakes are only $10 or less 😂
Wow 10 dollars for pancakes, that is crazy indeed! However, with your wonderful warm nest & lovely creative cooking skills, who needs to go outside anyways 😊 warm wishes @@TheCottageFairy
Eating at a resturant/cafe has always been a luxury. You're overcharged just for cup of tea and sandwhich. It's definitely cheaper just to eat at home or bring your own lunch with you, at least in the UK, maybe different in america?
We never eat out! As a family of 6 it’s a huge bill. So occasionally for birthdays if that!
And I saw that slip as you were carrying the bunnies back to their hutch....please be careful and don't fall!
I am a person who likes to know what will happen but life isn't like that. As a Christian I must trust the unknown to the God I serve.
I have done so many garage sales and people want things for very little. I think you’ll earn a lot more if you sell on your Etsy shop. You’ll get more of a collector’s mind set. I have been decluttering using Ebay and have made a lot of money. Your TH-cam channel will draw more people to your shop as well. I love the things in your home and would love the opportunity to see if there’s anything I would want to buy. 🎊
I think this is a grand idea! (because I want that Tom Bombadil book!)