Why Do women hide behind makeup hair and nails

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  • @parishers6351
    @parishers6351 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    I am a natural woman. I don’t wear weaves, lashes, or nails. On the other hand, I keep my natural hair well groomed, clean face, moisturized lips and my nails gel painted. I could never understand men who claim they love their natural women but always following the opposite on their socials.

    • @theeemnm
      @theeemnm ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Right apart of me is starting to think maybe it’s not true or because of the money that associated with the weaves, lashes, etc. Some TH-camrs say men just don’t want to be responsible for the potential upkeep. Idk which to believe now.

    • @heavenblessed06
      @heavenblessed06 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@theeemnm I think this is the case.

    • @DeeDaKaang1
      @DeeDaKaang1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Men want a happy mixture, while we don't want a woman who looks like she hasn't bathed or shaved her legs & pits in years we also don't want women with BBL'S, multi-colored weaves & a face that only the circus could love 🤡

    • @TheQron03
      @TheQron03 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sis, the pickings are slim there’s not a whole lot of natural queen out there.

    • @EliteMoments916
      @EliteMoments916 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s just good to look at , eye candy

  • @reemcfall
    @reemcfall ปีที่แล้ว +22

    When a woman knows who she is, is comfortable in her own skin and has a seasoned mentality, she WILL NOT try to blend in!!

    • @christopherengland654
      @christopherengland654 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with you but social media has such a stronghold on some women that they're easily influenced but what other women are wearing. I myself don't know what's real or fake anymore 😅 I saw a woman with shorter hair than me transform into a whole different person with hair past her shoulders 😂😂 and she had EDGES..... I looked at the screen like "....wtf!!!!...."

  • @LRamey
    @LRamey ปีที่แล้ว +16

    LOL it’s called face time not ceiling time 😂😂LOL
    He’s killing me😝😝😝

  • @theleoperspective7884
    @theleoperspective7884 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I'm a dude that's so tired of the weave, makeup, and lashes...I'm super happy that my wife doesn't wear all that...Most females do all that stuff for other females not guys...We don't care about all that...We want to real you...Dude 100% correct, our queens are the dopest but just don't realize it...Women aren't listening to what men like...Guys accept all this makeup, weave, lashes, and other fake stuff because it's the norm and with so many doing it, it leaves a smaller percentage of options...We are asked to accept you as you are but many of these women haven't accepted who they are...I love me a black woman...We need y'all more than y'all know...Men aren't saying, I'm independent I don't need a woman...Never will you hear that!!

    • @parishers6351
      @parishers6351 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am a natural woman. I don’t wear weaves, lashes, or nails. On the other hand, I keep my natural hair well groomed, clean face, moisturized lips and my nails gel painted. I could never understand men who claim they love their natural women but always following the opposite on their socials.

    • @lhbnlb
      @lhbnlb ปีที่แล้ว +6

      But you know what their argument will be… Women will say well. All of these guys are liking those type of women pictures on social media apps to which I would say be you not her not to mention that the attention that 95% of the men are giving those pictures when they like them it’s purely sexual attention and not relationship attention. This is the greatest thing that women need to learn in terms of interpersonal relationships

    • @theleoperspective7884
      @theleoperspective7884 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lhbnlb you are 100% correct...These females out here all starting to look the same...but if you notice it is mainly in our community...I heard a female say they wear this stuff to make them feel good about themselves...feeling good about yourself comes from within...if you need to be artificial to feel good about yourself, no man can help with happiness...

    • @lhbnlb
      @lhbnlb ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@theleoperspective7884 that whole argument about I wear my make up for myself is straight garbage… The next time a woman says that ask her if she gets her face made up when she’s just going to be sitting around the house or if she sleeps in her make up, it is not for themselves at the very least it’s for men, and at the most like you mention is for other women the main question is their in competition with each other, but none of them believe that they actually need a man… I told my little brother to hoe it up cause these chicks is a mess

    • @marvinpercival4717
      @marvinpercival4717 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I dont care what a woman wear r do as long as i dont have to bare the expense of it or have to live with her.i dont concern myself with strangers.

  • @jayrags-soulfiesta4076
    @jayrags-soulfiesta4076 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm telling you, and you don't have to believe me, but that brotha in the beginning was about to set the internet on fire if he would have been allowed to continue with the hair/makeup stuff. This is the 1st time I have ever seen women paying attention to what a man was describing about what men like appearance wise.

  • @jermaineglover4043
    @jermaineglover4043 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    He was talking straight facts 💯

    • @terryGrindz_69
      @terryGrindz_69 ปีที่แล้ว

      They care bout facts. Only how something makes them feel. It’s crazy

  • @knowledgetree7134
    @knowledgetree7134 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Women of all races wear weaves, wigs, and lashes! Guys girls like to play with dolls, and women like to play with makeup and hair naturally… this is what we do. The conversation should be pick a girl you actually like, not just for sex and actually get know her, ask to see her real face before you even sleep with per. There’s no need to use make up and hair as a way to talk down on black women! I can tell you now when I was wearing my fro, it was actually more non blk men trying to get with me not black men! When I wear my hair straight blk men will not stay outta my face natural or not! 😂

    • @UnpredictableAri
      @UnpredictableAri ปีที่แล้ว +1

      VERY true

    • @TheBwash29
      @TheBwash29 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ok all lives matter

    • @rashadnobles
      @rashadnobles ปีที่แล้ว

      Not with that metal face Jewerly and weaves. Now I see fake naturals. Ya'll don't care about what we like. Just want to impress other women.

  • @ghutchin33
    @ghutchin33 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Being the loudest and strongest voice at the table doesn’t make you right …. No ! Playing with dolls and doll houses did not represent fantasy... it was to socialize women into the projected Gender Roles. All of the things he said he wanted from a woman... the things that he got from his mother ... we learn from play.... during our play we learn to approximate cooking, cleaning, taking care of and nurturing the babies and maintaining our home. We also learn stewardship from playing with our cash registers and grocery shopping. That's not fantasy... that preparing us for life as a woman. His point about men looking for motherly qualities in their women is also the battle cry of women … we also look for fatherly qualities in our men. The man that grew up with a single mother could have also had a sister who was also expected to nurture her brother when mother went to work. Women want a partnership in their husbands... they don't want sons and little brothers.

    • @EC-yl7xk
      @EC-yl7xk ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You read my mind. I'm tired of men who want to be mothered. When is it our turn to be taken care of, we also need support and nurturing.

    • @Spaceysgurl
      @Spaceysgurl ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely. I'm not looking for a son.

    • @dangelohogans762
      @dangelohogans762 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Girl you said it all. I am on my husband's tablet and couldn't get this to share to my FB because I didn't log him out. The two black males seemed salty to me. They seem to want a caterer in their "mate". Heck, we want to be catered to as well. Why do they think we women started doing things by ourselves? We were tired of being umm..set aside, ignored(I can't think of the word right now). So we learned how to change our own tires, oil, paint, cut the grass(which I have being doing since a child), because some men felt that they could half behind us and stay with us just because they were men, please. And the guy in the hat was full of generalized statements about women. We didn't all grow up with the same study guide.

    • @kevinsammy-my4yu
      @kevinsammy-my4yu ปีที่แล้ว

      All I got from the two of you is working to building a foundation together as family.

  • @nellynel6141
    @nellynel6141 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    How do you have a discussion when appropriate answers are questioned for the sake of it, then counter argue with anecdotal exceptions to the rule.

  • @paigemonet844
    @paigemonet844 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I do not wear wigs lashes and nails for NO MAN! It is an aesthetic for me. I love to dress up and look pretty for myself. I love the clicking of nails and look at how pretty they are. I love the shape of my eyes with lashes and weaves I love to switch it up variety is what makes being a woman fun. Men think everything is about them. We get it you will screw everything

  • @tavenslayler6668
    @tavenslayler6668 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Natural natural natural beauty

  • @saphire2214
    @saphire2214 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    First mention plastered on the back-wall: No Sexism
    Panel proceeds to make sexist remarks. This conversation is so sad, I have to laugh to keep from crying.
    This feeling of inadequacy that these men on the panel are expressing is steeped in misogyny. It’s not their fault though. If you feel the same way they do, please read the book: “The Will to Change” by Bell Hooks and save yourselves.

    • @MailmanMoe
      @MailmanMoe ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Do you even know the definition of misogyny?

    • @yunggrampa727
      @yunggrampa727 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bell hooks for real

    • @kurokaizen1889
      @kurokaizen1889 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmfao Bell Hooks is crazy. Any woman that reads and follows that is an immediate red flag.

    • @spoileralertrecap
      @spoileralertrecap ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@MailmanMoe she a agent

    • @MM.Pink.Balloon
      @MM.Pink.Balloon ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes Gawd you took ALL the words out all my ancestors mouth ..

  • @lisawilliams1927
    @lisawilliams1927 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They say that but they always get with the ones wearing all that…….

  • @brittanyr1456
    @brittanyr1456 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So he tried to clown her about what her hair probably looks like under her wig and that’s supposed to promote women wanting to be more natural!? That’s part of the problem. Men say one thing and don’t stand on it. And then they try to take what one man likes and make it a universal thing and that doesn’t work. Some men like only natural, some like only made up with hair and nails etc ABS then some men don’t care because if she’s happy then I’m happy.

    • @fabbeyonddadancer
      @fabbeyonddadancer ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Men in general prefer natural feminine beautiful women . Regardless women are suppose to embrace their natural beauty regardless of jokes people make .

    • @UnpredictableAri
      @UnpredictableAri ปีที่แล้ว +1

      BINGO. Very smart comment. He making fun of her but trying to get women to be natural. Just dumb

    • @fabbeyonddadancer
      @fabbeyonddadancer ปีที่แล้ว

      @@UnpredictableAri it’s a silly argument it’s like saying making fun of or making jokes of people for reading books is a valid reasons not to read books .

    • @TheKweenTip
      @TheKweenTip ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have been looking for this comment. All of his arguments throughout the entire video were flawed and they didn’t give her a chance to speak. She’s absolutely beautiful and it’s her personal choice to wear her hair and makeup the way she wants to. To sit there and clown her about her hair was very immature of him and sometimes is a reason women don’t like the way they look. He was a complete clown to me this entire episode.

    • @fabbeyonddadancer
      @fabbeyonddadancer ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheKweenTip he’s a comedy what’s wrong with you all . All comedy when having conversations in these setting make jokes and are comical . Everyone at the table knows he’s being comical . When she took his hat off and said oh put that back on she was clowning him but in a comical way .. do you see women pointing that out ,?? He’s literally saying women look more authentic and attractive natural. How was his arguments flawed

  • @DeseraeAllday
    @DeseraeAllday ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Women and men across time and cultures have worn wigs and makeup so why the sudden complaint or dislike is beyond me. Also why are black men always on public platforms complaining! It could be my algorithm but I haven’t seen men of other races complaining about women’s makeup, lashes, extensions etc.

    • @theleoperspective7884
      @theleoperspective7884 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @DeseraeAllday You aren't seeing them complain because many of their women aren't out here with makeup making them look completely different, or these crazy looking weaves, lashes, etc...Most other races don't wear all that stuff...That's why you don't hear them complaining...but I can tell you that a few guys and women have asked me why black women wear all this stuff, crazy colors, etc etc...All these females are starting to look the same...

    • @CWTGD
      @CWTGD ปีที่แล้ว

      @@theleoperspective7884 They're starting to look like drag queens

    • @radcliffemurphy5273
      @radcliffemurphy5273 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Listen! Because all that fake stuff don't look good

    • @tippy06
      @tippy06 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@theleoperspective7884 you really believe this? Why do you all act like bw are the only ones who do this? A simple search on this platform will show you non bm with heavy make up, weaves, nails, and eyelashes

    • @Mbalings
      @Mbalings ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We're definitely overdoing it. The lashes are ridiculous. The glue on the scalp is insane. The loooooong nails? We're definitely oberdoing it.

  • @reemcfall
    @reemcfall ปีที่แล้ว +9

    There’s nothing worse than a panel where everyone wants to over talk everyone else. Please hear each other out, so those of us watching can hear everyone’s perspective! Loud talking and over talking does not get a point across any better.

    • @MM.Pink.Balloon
      @MM.Pink.Balloon ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Especially when they r LOUD + WRONG

    • @chrysanthe1297
      @chrysanthe1297 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly. Not even speaking into the mics. I’m gone.

    • @reemcfall
      @reemcfall ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chrysanthe1297 that was annoying as well!

    • @reemcfall
      @reemcfall ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MM.Pink.Balloon ugh!!!!

  • @angeloseimensah
    @angeloseimensah ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Deep what Majahhype said…Blk women are the dopest women on this earth 🌍 yes say it again for the people in the back. Doing things to fit in when we are the real leaders yesssss

    • @lhbnlb
      @lhbnlb ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

  • @dl9786
    @dl9786 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh nah! This dude went ham on the girl with the set it off shades 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @chrysanthe1297
      @chrysanthe1297 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea. She went straight quiet. They kept dismissing her points.

  • @Livvy925
    @Livvy925 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We women have brought makeup that was traditionally used for tv, fashion,.stage performances into our everyday wear. Some women have phenomenal skills. If that is what a man prefers I think it is okay....realistic expectations.

  • @Anthonydemone
    @Anthonydemone ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🔴 Does anyone share content like this with women or men in your lives that just don't get it at all. Like old ass aunts that are stuck in their ways, maybe even mom or daughter that was raised by a grandmother that's stuck on that Oldschool thinking. Just hoping they'll for once hear something that may click and then you can have somewhat of a better relationship with them? Maybe it's just me❗️Great conversation, love the channel.👌🏾💯

  • @gam1108
    @gam1108 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Make up does amazing things for females but when that make up comes off they do not look the same

    • @MrTsukudu
      @MrTsukudu ปีที่แล้ว

      They look like tribesmen when the makeup comes off 😂

  • @JohnDavis-hm5vx
    @JohnDavis-hm5vx ปีที่แล้ว

    Facts

  • @SophiaWhite-wj4th
    @SophiaWhite-wj4th ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow he so on point

  • @CubanBlkLady
    @CubanBlkLady ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Makeup is to enhance your beauty there’s nothing holding about me back, but the real question is why do menseem to always ask that question for y’all hide behind them hats and breads smh can’t stand him a whole Narcissis

    • @EC-yl7xk
      @EC-yl7xk ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Many men hide balding with hats or wigs, they dye their grays, wear baggy clothes to hide the pot belly. All men have to do is ask a woman on a date where makeup isn't required and request she go natural. If she wears makeup then she is insecure and you can have a discussion. I suggest the beach or just shower together and watch her remove her makeup in front of you. Men have the right to see the natural you. I haven't wore makeup in years and guys still flirt with me, my skin isn't perfect either.

  • @kimwilliams4951
    @kimwilliams4951 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wooooooooooooo YES!

  • @blairwalker12
    @blairwalker12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So what it sounds like the message is women create life and men sustain it.

  • @aqua76239
    @aqua76239 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    i wear makeup not "hide" but just because I like to look more glamorous and its kind of like an art form for me. But then I don't look like a completely different person WITH makeup vs without. I think i understand why some men feel mislead if woman looks completely different. But then again, most women don't wear makeup for men but for themselves

    • @nellynel6141
      @nellynel6141 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You had me til your last disingenuous sentence. If MOST women wore makeup for themselves they’d be putting it on while staying home and sleeping at night with it…c’mon now.

    • @aqua76239
      @aqua76239 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@nellynel6141 you clearly didn’t understand. When women goes out and she wants to feel good about herself she puts on makeup . It’s fo that reason not so some random person approves .

    • @JP-lw3bt
      @JP-lw3bt ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@nellynel6141 you are right

    • @EC-yl7xk
      @EC-yl7xk ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Finally I hear a woman talk about makeup the way I feel about it. Makeup has always been an art form for me and a way to express myself to the world, but I love my face without anything on. I recommend to women to let a man see you without makeup by the third date. That way nobody wastes each other's time. For example go to the beach together with a bare face. Your guy should have pictures of you without makeup and some with.

    • @tavenslayler6668
      @tavenslayler6668 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Women wear makeup 💄 lashes weave for
      Approval competition between other women, and to impress men
      Simple

  • @moniquejanel
    @moniquejanel ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So many men ridicule and talk about our natural hair, u have no idea what we hear from men on a day to day bases

    • @kahlilasson2407
      @kahlilasson2407 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bullshit majority of men do not bash women natural hair.. More than half black women wear wigs everyday at that

  • @latonyamarlow2517
    @latonyamarlow2517 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Men don't want a real woman one way or the other.

  • @streetsiswatching9660
    @streetsiswatching9660 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "I don't like that blemish" 😂😂

  • @marquisamurphy-glover5452
    @marquisamurphy-glover5452 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men is the Society. Women build it.
    Men was honored way before Women.
    Women got rights in 1900's. So we gain strength from them and became independent women. The sad part is we are moving away from Men and Women theories so much the society is messed up.

  • @blissfulfeline4336
    @blissfulfeline4336 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a man’s world, but it wouldn’t mean nothing, nothing, not one little thing, without a woman or a girl. He’s lost in the wilderness. He’s lost in bitterness. He’s lost lost. - James Brown. My husband and I are blessed to have each other. 19 years in marriage and going strong. We love each other just the way we are. That’s all I got to say. 😊

  • @yani-6022
    @yani-6022 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me On Fantasy Island with Caribbean Trends.

  • @ituchsiaanderson9094
    @ituchsiaanderson9094 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's all about balance for me

  • @cynthiasessions7329
    @cynthiasessions7329 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with him!!!😮❤ Black women are the bomb, we are the leaders, but we need to believe and walk in it!!!

  • @Sherraysmiles
    @Sherraysmiles ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Men just be lying.. Put 10 women with makeup and weave in their hair and 10 women with natural hair and no makeup. All 8 of the woman with makeup and weave get chosen. And only 3 of the natural women will get chosen. I don't believe it.

    • @SH-dq2cy
      @SH-dq2cy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right

    • @radcliffemurphy5273
      @radcliffemurphy5273 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nope

    • @tippy06
      @tippy06 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @TheMr360waves
      @TheMr360waves ปีที่แล้ว

      The 8 woman who gets chosen is only to get smashed. The other 3 will get a HIGHER chance of getting married.

    • @jerrellsmith6867
      @jerrellsmith6867 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tauscha yeah Pookie and rayray types of dudes you’ll women love will choose you’ll weave wearing self 🤣🤣🤣us real men choose natural beauty all day everyday that’s a fact I digress 💯

  • @ajax3039
    @ajax3039 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The larger question still is WHY do women feel the need to get BBLs, wear weaves, fake nails, and wear make-up! Largely, is it to be more visually attractive and possess the superficial attributes that men see as most appealing.

  • @latishaturner9466
    @latishaturner9466 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree as a woman why all the makeup etc..

  • @trollthumpermicnastywitit2001
    @trollthumpermicnastywitit2001 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We don’t do the same work, even when we have the same job

  • @bamamccall9846
    @bamamccall9846 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Could be a great show if they allowed each other to speak.

    • @8AtTheTable
      @8AtTheTable  ปีที่แล้ว

      We're working to improve- sometimes these conversations get tense

    • @reemcfall
      @reemcfall ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wheeew exactly! It’s annoying and makes me want to tune them out!!

  • @alpo723
    @alpo723 ปีที่แล้ว

    ...these conversations..shows the woman's MINDSET

  • @trustlife21
    @trustlife21 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For her to be married and you don’t feel like you will live or die without a man is crazy

  • @alib.3566
    @alib.3566 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im disappointed that the panal did not continue the topic, thats why i clicked on the video, to really hear some real perspectives. I want Both the wemon to speak up more.

    • @8AtTheTable
      @8AtTheTable  ปีที่แล้ว

      This is the continuation from the full episode which is close to 2hrs - definitely check it out

  • @msdarling6227
    @msdarling6227 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't wear make up maybe eyeshadow but that's it I do wear my natural hair but I also will throw a wig on and sometime I wear nails and sometimes I won't. I feel beautiful either way I honest think I look better with my natural hair but I like switching things up so I wear weave when I feel like ...men wearing name brand clothes or having a certain car buying a certain liquor to be placed in a certain bracket is equivalent to what men try to make out of women wearing weave and make up we are all different we don't all do it for the same reasons .

  • @MsCouve
    @MsCouve ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If men don’t like that, don’t date women that do that. Only men complain about what women do. Can ya men stop dying your beard to look fuller, pushing back your hairline when you have locs/braids (it looks like your confused), stop wearing hats to camouflage your funny looking head, stop boosting yourself up to make it seem as if you have more than you do.This be the same dudes messing with the women that have had obvious work done. When Black men have these conversations they are asking Black women to look “normal, but don’t date the normal/ average black woman smh

  • @Spiiiiiice
    @Spiiiiiice ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes that real u does crest stalkers frfr.😂😂😂they doh want u but don’t want nobody to have. On a serious note. Realshit 💯Moral story. Be authentic, be u, know yuh lane and stay in it. Drink water and mind yuh bizness.

  • @MsTootie
    @MsTootie ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why are these men having discussions about black women wearing weave & makeup…. if that’s not what you like them don’t date those type of women or get you a man…..simple! First time listening to this podcast and probably last time bc why is it ok for black men to sit up here and speak down on black women…i think they should have got some more experienced women that can handle this type of dialect bc there’s no way they sat there quiet when this man was speaking on black women

    • @philaneenfun
      @philaneenfun ปีที่แล้ว

      I just said the same thing every podcast is about bashing a black woman lets get to the real deal we're growing snd some of our men are not growing with us like we need them to.

  • @Kenny-Alpha
    @Kenny-Alpha 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lol I'm glad that Maja Hype is now in this red pill space. I didn't even know he was up on stuff like this.

  • @m.a.r.c.i.a.
    @m.a.r.c.i.a. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What we have here is a group of people who have to be the “smartest person” in the room. Disagreeing for no reason other than to have the best ah ha moment. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @eboneerichardson9956
    @eboneerichardson9956 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    For all these men who say the prefer natural hair and no makeup, please give some examples of women who they find attractive?

  • @bklynfinest7
    @bklynfinest7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Big Facts! They want real but are afraid to be natural. God made you beautiful. Make up is to enhance not to cover up

  • @amark8786
    @amark8786 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Now if you didn’t want Amanda there you should not have invited her to the adult table lol

  • @SH-dq2cy
    @SH-dq2cy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All that talking to say men want their mama. Smh. Not all women were raised with fanatsy.. lol. Some women are raised to survive because some men would rather play the field than settle down until he meets his mother equal. So sad.

  • @trollthumpermicnastywitit2001
    @trollthumpermicnastywitit2001 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro started trippin when he said they’re good with money

  • @lovelyp8765
    @lovelyp8765 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Women wants to present themselves in the natural. Mostly black men parade the makeup queens in our face and men agree on how beautiful they are.

  • @MrBlkbwoy
    @MrBlkbwoy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Real talk I argue with my wife all the time about that shit. She looks great without all that stuff. A little lipstick or lip glass is good enuff for me. Just take care of urself and we good. Natural is good more times.

  • @erintt9840
    @erintt9840 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When will we learn, we don’t have to act no way just be yourself trust me someoneeee will like it🎶.

  • @jackielewis5214
    @jackielewis5214 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had to let my old man run his hand through my head because he did not believe I had real long hair as a black woman so I make sure he put his hands through my hair and pull it and rub the scalp of my head because most black women wear weave and he just did not believe it was my hair❤❤❤❤

    • @UnpredictableAri
      @UnpredictableAri ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you want a cookie?

    • @jackielewis5214
      @jackielewis5214 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@UnpredictableAri you must got weave in your hair you jealous

    • @UnpredictableAri
      @UnpredictableAri ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jackielewis5214 you must need attention. You came to tell us your hair is natural. Congratulations

  • @ALRossi82
    @ALRossi82 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Team natural

  • @louisbennett7709
    @louisbennett7709 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've told ALL my women I like my women raw, no makeup, and that's how they come or we're not talking.

  • @YOUR-WORD-IS-YOUR-BOND
    @YOUR-WORD-IS-YOUR-BOND ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay, the dude is Caribbean and said he's an indian... So are melanated Americans are indigenous indians... We went to the Caribbean, and that is how we ended up there...

  • @wandasmith4755
    @wandasmith4755 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I only do certain things when there is not a man present otherwise I fall back …#miss&lovemyFather😢

  • @lisalee1675
    @lisalee1675 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh yes sir

  • @KINGREKO1
    @KINGREKO1 ปีที่แล้ว

    @8:05 that answer is a total cop out. she is saying men and women are equals and she refuses to say that men are the leaders and women are the followers and you would die without a man because men built the infostructure and technology and all the comforts that women enjoy and love.

  • @jwhitkins6434
    @jwhitkins6434 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Those fake things are for costume parties, where you are not yourself and just pretending. They're wearing all of this fake stuff for attention and to be noticed. I don't wear any of that fake stuff. I take care of myself and greatful for what I was born with. My beauty glows from self love.

  • @alisetait3132
    @alisetait3132 ปีที่แล้ว

    I completely agree with the men I don’t wear none of the fake anything except braids

  • @MNRedd115
    @MNRedd115 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shawty in the green triggered. Swap her out with somebody else 😂

  • @babystagg5847
    @babystagg5847 ปีที่แล้ว

    @ 32:15 } BOI, We' #RAISED OURSELVES As #GenX.... WhatChu EVEN 🗣️'N B.O.U.T. !?. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @TyDaGeek
    @TyDaGeek ปีที่แล้ว

    7:45 What place does men hold in society to you? Response: I think they are EQUALLY as important as women. Then denied using equality as a talking point when the other lady mentioned it? 8:10 "I didnt say anything about being equality" Why lawd?

  • @onehonei2
    @onehonei2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The only number he’s going to get is the number to the Precinct!! 😂 #911

  • @GodessIsabelRaina
    @GodessIsabelRaina ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men hide behind baseball caps, earrings, Jordan's and expensive clothes🙄
    Mind yo business men

  • @carlamarie72able
    @carlamarie72able ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My question why are only black men worried about what black women wear, no other race of men do that, how about take a lesson from them, if what she’s wearing (weave, makeup and nails) is not your cup of tea move to the next one that is

  • @mikelynk4659
    @mikelynk4659 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why is shorty up hear with these glasses?

  • @HookQween
    @HookQween ปีที่แล้ว

    🤦🏽‍♀️ is all I can say!! Get Some educated people(without saying a gender m/f) who have some idea of who they are if they don’t completely know next time!! However as a discerning Adult Woman I have learned to understand how to recognize where someone is in their journey and the way they think, especially when I disagree… WE NEED MEN!!

  • @johnv3662
    @johnv3662 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They due that because they are insecure and attention seeking from men even when they are in a situation

  • @ladym3014
    @ladym3014 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    On the makeup, i personally wear makeup to enhance my beauty. Makeup is to enhance and i wear it cause i want to and it make me feel good! I dont wear it for no man! And 2ndly things have changed cause men wanna b dead beats, worthless or want to be women! So women are forced to step up and lead! I do believe a man is created to lead! But how this world set up if we wait on some of these men....and the key word "some" women would suffer so gata step up and do what u gata do

  • @dirtiestbird2
    @dirtiestbird2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I literally went with my wife and drove 30 miles to change her daughter's tire yesterday.

  • @ogi197
    @ogi197 ปีที่แล้ว

    Round 2.. yall FRASS..

  • @r.walker7986
    @r.walker7986 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why are guys that look like that even worried, they should be happy the basics they qualify for are taking the time to do themselves up for them to enjoy... Lets be real, men have no problem with makeup and hair, they have an issue with a woman being able to use those products to make herself more attractive and then qualify/get the attention of a better looking, higher status mate then them.. Then they have to go even lower in the looks department...

  • @CWTGD
    @CWTGD ปีที่แล้ว

    @1:48 at least it's his real hair

  • @TheStreetMechanik
    @TheStreetMechanik ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm sorry but if a woman asks me out somewhere, the thought is she's paying. There is no way I can see myself paying for someone who I didn't take the initial lead on. If I'm home spending $0 and she asked me to go out, why would I spend any money when I never planned on spending money, so I can't roll with Major Hype on his I'd still pay regardless talk. IMO that doesn't make any logical sense 🤷🏾‍♂️.

  • @romie7054
    @romie7054 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She aint had the electric car all her life. Answer the question.

    • @etcamp1913
      @etcamp1913 ปีที่แล้ว

      Had it long enough. But if you want to know, when I fly home, i do drive my gas car, and typically its already gassed up. However, I do pump my own gas, unless I’m with my brother, husband, father, etc. But again, I clearly stated that I believe in gender roles when it comes to actual performance, whether I can do it myself or not. I was single before I was married, so there’s no reason why I shouldn’t know how to do things on my own. What adult wants to be with a useless adult?

    • @romie7054
      @romie7054 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@etcamp1913 Respect and agree with you Erin. 💯

  • @alisetait3132
    @alisetait3132 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh no sir I only be myself I’m not acting younger or older I’m doing me

  • @clariteatv88
    @clariteatv88 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Conversation that lacks knowledge of God is always watered down and becomes competitive .
    U can tell who's just there to talk and who's there to have adult conversation. Im stronger than most of the men i know and they hate it but thats what happens when a woman refuses to sit around playing victim. They arent satisfied EITHER WAY so it doesnt matter honestly

  • @waltdiesel
    @waltdiesel ปีที่แล้ว

    Natural is best!! Makeup, synthetic hair and other items used to enhance beauty will expose women to harmful chemicals. Why do you need to enhance yourself? We need to learn how to love ourselves in the natural state.

    • @gogoldiego
      @gogoldiego ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because it's a natural feminine expression. Just like God colors the world the flowers, the waters, the skies, and more. It's art, self care, and self love. I do believe it should be a balance to feel good without it also.

    • @delorismartin3537
      @delorismartin3537 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why do most people use the terms "love yourself" and "natural state" as if they are exclusive to each other only. I can love myself by making sure I'm put together outwardly and that maybe a wig on Wednesday and lashes or my short Bob on Friday with a no makeup makeup p look...or a scarf on Saturday with a fresh face while I head to them gym.....men need to stop trying to dictate, bully, persuade or negotiate what women feel that loving yourself means. Women who don't wear "weaves and makeup" need to stop saying it as a shame tatic...like what you like if it does not harm anyone, grooming yourself in any form is personal.

  • @KINGREKO1
    @KINGREKO1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    erin and this other woman are masters of deflection. you can know how to hang sheet rock but yet the question is WILL YOU DO IT? I'M SURE YOU WON'T JUST LIKE YOU WON'T CHANGE YOUR OWN TIRE!

  • @traceyrichard6223
    @traceyrichard6223 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ladies stop explaining to these simps why you do anything. Just block and report

  • @pleaseNthanx
    @pleaseNthanx ปีที่แล้ว

    There would be no peace in the home, with these women.

  • @jwhitkins6434
    @jwhitkins6434 ปีที่แล้ว

    She's trying to change the conversation towards the men. So why is she hiding behind sunshades, wig, fake lashes and a painted face? Take it off right now and show their natural features, if they're confident.

  • @KINGREKO1
    @KINGREKO1 ปีที่แล้ว

    @24:04 Hype i have to disagree because women hold the majority of the debt for spending so it's very rare to find a woman that saves money unless it's her money whiles she simultaneously spends your money!

  • @urhyhnis
    @urhyhnis ปีที่แล้ว

    33:08 The generations thing is so warped because Gen X spans from 1965-1980. Making millennials the children of X (65-74) and Gen Z the children of the later Gen Xers or Xilennials or Geriatric Millennials (75-80). Additionally, my exes parents are also Gen X and he is a millennial. The same with my husband.
    As an 80 baby, two of my kids are Gen Z (19-24) and 1 from Gen Alpha (8). However, I'm considered Gen X.

  • @LadyTrini44
    @LadyTrini44 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would like to see the significant other of the men on that panel. Not just one but the line up of the women they've been with. Why make fun of the fact that she's wearing a weave or has braids underneath it?

  • @demlottfam
    @demlottfam ปีที่แล้ว

    2:30 dun talk
    The queen cant wear the duchesses crown!!!!
    #Knowyrself

  • @KINGREKO1
    @KINGREKO1 ปีที่แล้ว

    @4:10 this is news to you because she doesn't care about wat men really want or possibly asked to show the interest.

  • @calilove611
    @calilove611 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is this girl with the shades on slow or high cause sis is all over the place🤣💀

  • @KINGREKO1
    @KINGREKO1 ปีที่แล้ว

    @2:12 NEVER TRY TO GET ON A COMEDIAN. THESE PEOPLE ARE CRAZY TO TRY AND GET AT HYPE, nobody is intimidated of you mam.

  • @vincewill11
    @vincewill11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They're not asking the right questions to the ladies. You have to ask male questions in female format.

  • @coachduece
    @coachduece ปีที่แล้ว

    I look at all that fake stuff as a sign of insecurity... men love women in their natural form more than all that extra shit

  • @madmann1000
    @madmann1000 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ya'll should pick up some history books and looks into the evolution of human behavior.
    Historically women were hunters, gathers and warriors as well.

  • @alpo723
    @alpo723 ปีที่แล้ว

    ...it's LAZY-NESS