They keep laughing and cracking jokes but the sadness in their eyes says it all. Those who never experienced any of this will never understand. Thank you both! You're the Champions!
I hope you chose to stay, whenever you think your at your worst there might be a positive only a few days away, you have to keep fighting. We are built to adapt and survive and fight keep going🙌
When u think about it tho, u are very important to ppl and them losing u might be the reason they might suffer depression after. No matter how hard life gets u must understand life is a dance…it has highs and lows, pure joy and unbearable pain but guess what? Ppl are there also experiencing your same highs and lows….u are never alone because your experiences can be relatable it’s just a matter on mindset…..I know this is weird but naruto is such a good ex of this 😂 he’s just tryna be accepting but is seen as a monster but he never let things interfere with his life. Even when he was all alone…..the only reason, and I know it’s a kid show so obv he ain’t gonna have suicidal thoughts, was his mindset….
@@jodofly1158 He's playing a character. He says himself there are two people; The Gypsy King and Tyson Fury. He's being the Gypsy king in public. I genuinely believe he's a decent bloke when there is nothing to sell.
@@jodofly1158 you are clearly stupid. You can't call him a prick for 'talking shit about other boxers' as it's a strategy that almost every boxer uses. It's also what sells fights. Tyson is a hands down lovely bloke, he talks some shit (like wilder does and like mayweather does) for entertainment and to get under his opponents skin and after the fight, he's the most respectful man you could ever meet. That comes from hard work. He's training in the gym for his fights each and every day which shows the he respects his opponent enough to make sure he's at his best. On another note, they are discussing mental health. Has nothing to do with boxers calling each other names. And surely I'm not the only person that could see that you wouldn't do shit, it's people like you that couldnt take a single punch. Your a little pussy mate go back to wherever you came from
Love this series. its so interesting seeing the perspectives from each person and they are so respectful to one another. Old soldier meets new soldier was probably my favorite. he couldnt even swim and he was in the Royal Navy, "where are you going to swim too?". Great work, look forward to more episodes. Old Teacher meets young teacher would be interesting too. So much has changed in education.
Old nurse meets young nurse would be good too. My mum was a nurse in the time of matrons running wards and now the NHS is a mess. Both would have seen injuries and death first hand too so would be interesting to get the perspective of how the job (and coping with it) is changing
As a Hull City and a boxing fan, it is good to see 2 legends talking about the mental health stigma, especially as 2 tough men in their respected sports.
@@jsheriff396 cheeky but shit response, the large majority of people don't hold being famous on a pedastool so your snide comment acting like his comment is irrelevant because he isn't famous is just dumb. You claimed a man is a legend and then when you were pulled up on it you back peddled to say he was just a local legend. If there was something wrong with shapz comment why did you clarify that he wasn't just a legend in general
I hear you guys at the beginning, I was at the top of my game, got to the NBA D-League. Tore my ACL, MCL, and Meniscus and lost my dream career. Came home had 2 surgeries got blood clots, gained 120 pounds because I ate too much. Way too much, but eating made life easier, I didn't want to step on a Basketball court, I didn't want to do anything. I never turned to drugs just food. I am now turning my life back around.
Get help my man, it’s allways easier fighting with others, don’t try to stand alone. There allways be someone who’s willing to help you even if you don’t see it now.
My life have gone from decent to all out worthlessness, the only time I'm not feeling down is when I'm asleep. There doesn't seem to be any active moves I can do, it feels like being a mindless chess piece being moved across the board by forces outside my control. You are not alone, I can't guarantee that I can be of any help, but feel free to hit me up if ya need to vent your feelings. Sometimes we just need someone to listen and to care about us.
@@ulriktnnesen5987 The same thing has happened to me, in my view. I know that feeling Ulrik, you described it beautifully. And none of this is to say it's not real or true. I know how real it is. When I was there I was often convinced there was no way out of it, and I desperately searched for anything to tell me that it's possible things will be great. And all I could see was that 'it might get a little bit better', like back to grey, rather than black. And grey was not enough. Grey was terrifying. I want white, not grey, and it feels like white is unobtainable. But I'm in grey now. And it's so much better than black. And white is seeming more obtainable. Context changes things. I really hope the best for you.
This is a great series. Things like these help to counteract the "perfect life" that we see in tv, movies, sports, etc. But when we actually see how many people who have everything some people dream about, and still struggle with depression, anxiety, addictions, etc., it helps to counteract the stereotypical view that famous people have it all together, which helps those who struggle with these things and encourages them to get help.
As a life long sufferer of depression, I related with everything that was said. The feeling of being incapable of doing anything right, the manic, desperate hyper focus on an activity to distract myself from the ever-present gravitational pull toward the dark, the thought that the world and my loved ones will be so much better off with me dead. When I looked into my family history, there were many people who displayed all the common symptoms of depression. It’s not because I’m weaker than the older generation. People have suffered from mental illnesses throughout history, it’s just that they didn’t know what they were. Unlike the older generations, now that we have a medical understanding of them, we can form treatment plans. I believe Tyson Fury is right; we probably will never be able to cure mental illnesses, but there are effective ways to manage them. It means a lot to me for these good men to be talking openly about mental illness. I want to thank them both.
When dean asked tyson when he was beating klitschko that he must have been in a good place but he wasn't...that hit me hard because just because you're successful and "doing well" doesn't at all mean you're not struggling to even just make it day to day nonetheless just breathe. I really appreciate this video.
@@mr.angryman3599 There's always someone worse off, so it's stupid as fuck. Would you tell a child soldier in Africa to suck it up, because there's people worse off? No, I don't think so.
@@sevankumruyan7838 Most of the time it's used by people to invalidate people's negative feelings/depression etc. Hence, it's stupid. What facts are you talking about? The only "fact" is, that there's always someone worse off, which makes the whole argument pretty empty.
@@158-i6z Just read an interesting thing about that. Apparently, in male soldiers, suicide rates are only 1.5 times as high as in average males. But female soldiers have 30 times the suicide rate of average females, bringing them closer to the male numbers. I'm not qualified to interpret that but I'd say that certainly shows how much pressure we put on ourselves in daily life and that we maybe should try to take it easier, every now and then.
I was there when deano scored that goal at wembley. And at that time i was over the moon. He was a hero and still is to the club but when he came out about his mental health made him more of a hero for actually talking about a subject that was looked down upon especially in men and in sport at the time.
Massive respect to you guys. I suffered a couple of years ago myself with depression and tried to take my own life too. My father passed away in 2017 and he was like a vest friend to me. I stopped myself in the end because I have kids myself. I was never proud of trying to do it but I also felt that if I ended it then I wouldn't be the problem anymore. I seeked help and spoke to a professional and managed to clear myself from the dark thoughts I'd felt. Thanks you for highlighting depression in men as it is a huge dismissed problem in this world. Being told to man up never helps a depressed person.
This was amazing. As someone who also suffers from mental health and in that state of mind such as depression, suicidal, anxiety, not wanting to be alive, feeling of worthlessness etc. Its powerful and amazing to see what you achieve when you overcome such dark times. These 2 guys are role models and inspirational af. I have also seen my 2 best friends commit suicide and that drives me crazy but also drives me to succeed for them and for myself too and live on. Dont give up it gets better 🖤
Truly love this series you're doing LADbible, its incredibly interesting and even more insightful. There's not been one that i haven't been captivated with. Fantastic work guys and girls.
Never heard of Tyson Fury but I appreciate people coming out about their mental issues. As someone who struggled with anxiety all their life it was weight off my shoulders to know a man like him also have the same issues. Cheers, from North America!
Cried watching this, I’d echo a lot of what was said - you fight for so long to tell yourself you don’t need help, that you’re just having a bad day, that everything will be alright etc. and it all comes to a head, it’s hard. Try and speak to people, be honest with yourself first and foremost. Seek professional help, it’s nothing to be ashamed of, some will help you and others won’t so fight to be open if one avenue hasn’t helped you - it doesn’t mean nothing will. Exercise definitely helps, I was training for the London Marathon when I first sought help, I was so low and thinking about doing a lot of things I wish I’d never thought to do, but the training did keep my mind clear at times, as did talking to IAPT which is a great service in the UK. Don’t give up on yourself, you can pull through. So painful to hear Windass talk about being in the places he’s been too; he played for my club Sheffield United for a short time and he’s a good man, loved by everyone at the club when he was there simply because of that reason. I’m glad you got through the worst times and sorry you’ve been to the places you’ve been mentally - I’ll also never forget what happened with Gary Speed, a legend and another great man. Loved again by everyone at Sheffield United and gone too soon in the worst way. I’ll never forget finishing playing football with friends to be told what had happened, it was only a couple of weeks after my partner at the time lost her brother to suicide and I can honestly say that both events really changed my outlook on life and I hope that interviews like this make people consider talking about what’s going on in their heads because it’s a lonely place having those thoughts on your own.
He's the Ali of the modern era. Just something so special about the man that it's hard to pin point. Absolute hero of mine personally, helped me through a lot, and I've never met the fella
He's not the Ali of the modern era. Even comparing modern boxing to boxing 15 years ago is an insult to the sport. The boxers who deserve a career are pushed aside to make space loud obnoxious pricks who'll say anything to sell a poor quality fight. No respect for a man whos in a position to help the sport but doesnt
@@jodofly1158 hasn't helped the sport? He defeated against all odds one of the greatest to ever wear gloves in Germany on point's, and he beat him before he ever got into the ring. He's a master of psychological warfare, he's as agile as any heavyweight on the planet, and his punch combination's for such a giant are a thing of beauty. Nobody is denied a great career in boxing, just as no one is promised a good one, it's the hardest sport in the world and you have to make your own, if it's by knocking people out consistently, if it's trash talking, or if it's a gimmick the public can relate to, then you've got a chance to make a successful career in boxing, regardless of weight class. Fury lost ten stone, fought the most dangerous puncher since Tyson, and in many minds did enough to secure another world title win away from home. No other fighter who has ballooned like him has been able to get back to world level, never been done before. Not only did he balloon up to nearly 29 stone, he was suicidal, and in poor shape mentally. If that's not a champion I think your standards might be to high, or you don't have a fucking clue what you are talking about.
Jodofly115 I really think you’re being sour for no good reason. Nobody has the obligation to help the sport, fighters risk their lives every time they step into the ring. With that being said Tyson Fury came back after a long lay-off and in his 3rd fight back he fought the WBC champion of the world. Which is what the sport needed, the best fighting the best. Say what you want but that’s a man who’s helping the sport when he doesn’t need to.
It's heart breaking to know how badly people really suffer with mental health issues weather your famous or not it's really important for people to come out and talk about there personal feelings and I believe that these 2 have not only suffered but they've overcome the worst that life throw at them it's important to prevent more people from taking there own life's because of mental health problems This is one of the best interviews I've ever seen I wish nothing but pure happiness to Tyson and Dean and to many others who have overcome mental health problems
Honestly could not believe that I could relate to this topic, like I always knew I had depression but a part of me always doubted that idea into thinking I'm sad but honestly 6:40 it answered the same questions I asked myself if I had depression or not, legit the hardest thing about being depressed is speaking out because everyone expects you to just have a good day and then that's you sorted, your depression is gone, no, it's not it lingers it never leaves you, till this day I always make myself busy, but at a certain day when I'm not busy it all comes flooding in and honestly it feels good to know someone like Tyson and Dean could understand this, and hopefully everyone else can understand too.
Have you gotten actual treatment for it? Yunno depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain and keeping yourself busy isn't going to fix that , you need meds or electro therapy or something to fix the different chemical levels in your brain that control mood , no amount of talking or fun or keeping yourself busy will ever fix that, God knows what damage it's doing to your brain, could be a chance that if you leave it to long your are stuck like that regardless of treatment
Man this video has really hit home with me.I suffered from ptsd for a very long time,even as young child growing up there were early signs back then in the late 70’s,but I took no notice of how I was feeling.Even now whilst I’m typing this,man I feel emotional just by watching this.In 2011 I had a life changing experience which majorly triggered my ptsd and it went into overdrive,that was it my life was over and it very nearly ended to at one point,but I got the help and support to get me through it.
Omg im so glad I found this channel. Its so educaional and insightful also im a big Tyson fan so this was Proper A Its a very humbling experience to be watching all these amazing people sharing their personal story ☺️☺️
I think these guys were very brave. Tyson suffers from bipolar disorder, my brother struggles with that, it's hard to watch him deal with it, and being as he's a man, he never talks about it. His favourite expression is 'I'm fine thanks'. I went to counselling for depression when I lost the use of my legs and ended up living in constant pain, but I sought help because I could feel my life slipping further and further out of control and see it was hurting those who love me. It helped me turn things around when i started counselling. Best decision I ever made! It took a while to recover, it certainly wasn't an instant cure. But after letting it all out and talking it all through with the counsellor, we worked together to get me back in control of my mind and my heart. I did it for my husband originally, because I could see he was extremely worried about me...but it wasn't easy. Having said that, i am still unable to use my legs and in constant pain, BUT I am handling it better. God bless counsellors is what I say..they are marvelous people! If you are suffering depression ASK FOR HELP. DON'T SUFFER IN SILENCE. GET SOME HELP. IT MAY JUST GIVE YOU BACK YOUR LIFE! GOD BLESS YOU.
@@warwickclark2143 you are welcome. Do you need help...are you struggling with depression? If its ok to ask...sorry, i get a bit forthright sometimes but I meant no disrespect
I admire how these men are so open about the difficult times that depression has brought to them and how they have overcome they’ve come out about their struggles. These are the kind of men who will influence and change the world for the better thank you for sharing your stories
One of the better videos i've seen on this topic. Having written on mental ill-health in sport at both BSc and MSc level, i'm glad athletes and people are finally given a platform to talk about this.
Really enjoyed this!! Going through ptsd and depression myself and love how open they are about these things it’s great I’ve started running again because of Tyson and I’m feeling so much better every which way,cheers lads 👍👍
Unbelievable about what Dean was saying about his father and having an argument with him just before he passed away. This is exactly what happened to me 10 years ago, also from a heart attack. It’s taken me a long time to get over that, and now I’m able to look back at the good days I spent with my Dad. Thoughts are with you Dean... you’re dad would be incredibly proud of what you achieved. I’ll forgive you for that goal against us at Wembley now😉
My dads turning 60 in a few days. I'm dreading it all, mainly because I realize now he's an old man and I cant imagine life without him. Because I've never lived without him. It's the only thing I truly fear in life as it'd be not just my father passing but my best friend.
@@1gadena Yeah it's really scary. And the years went by so fast. I'm also scared it'll hold me back in life as I know he's the kind of guy who wants people to move on as it's just a natural cycle.
Plague Doc my advice lads is really just embrace and make the most of the time you have with you’re folks, do think to much about the future, so you’re best to embrace the now.
@@phoenixfitness700 Thanks man. Yeah I've never been the type to show emotions to my old man nor has he. But it's gotten better after some health scares. Really just gotta live in the moment.
The problem with mental health issues is that it is not logical. That is why people who have no experience of it can't understand why someone who is top of their game and has everything can be so depressed. You feel trapped inside your own head having thoughts you cannot control and the thought of dying sounds like a relief, at least that is how I have felt. I ended up abusing painkillers for over 5 years to cope with the anxiety and depression. Its been about 4 months since I opened up to my family and have been clean since. If you are still reading this and are struggling, please open up to someone as if they are close to you they can tell something is wrong. You just need to let them know how much and you will already feel a little lighter. Best of luck to everyone xx
Babywilko The terrifying thing about it is that it becomes logical in the end - at least to the person experiencing it. Depressed people rarely look sad, act sad or even notice themselves that they are depressed. People that end up killing themselves don’t have mental breakdowns or cry every day, they just become silently conditioned by their own mind to believe that there is only one possible outcome. I think as men we don’t like to feel doted on - I would be fine sharing how I feel and being emotional but I would despise being asked constantly how I feel and would feel like a hospital patient. It’s one of the major aspects of toxic masculinity - toxic is not an adjective but used to describe a certain type of masculinity. There are different ways of dealing with it from person to person of course - some people may only need one hour of philosophical thought to clear their head. Others might require therapy throughout their whole life. However in terms of a general movement, we need to advocate for a better idea of what masculinity is and what we should expect of men. The reality is that this won’t happen overnight and suicide will continue to kill far more men than women but we have to start somewhere.
@@TomCL-vb6xc As a woman I agree completely. My dad is quite old school and from a generation of men who were brought up to believe that showing emotion such as crying was a sign of weakness. My dad didn't cry at his mum or dad's funerals but you could see he was trying to stop himself. He told me that at his grandmothers funeral he saw his dad standing by her grave and all he wanted to do was walk up to him and hug him. Problem with that and the way his dad was, he felt like he couldn't. He spoke to his dad years later about it and his dad said that a hug was just what he needed in that moment. Thing is if you tell a young boy not to cry and that he has to show strength for others by not doing so, it will come out in another way... anger. That was the one emotion they were allowed to show so that is how a lot of men used to express themselves. That is not healthy for them or the people around them and I'm glad its changing. I think women of the time were also brought up to view men who showed their emotions to be weak or wimps. Its even a shock to people in the audience how Tyson just admits he cries at movies. We have come a long way from those days but that reaction shows we still have a way to go.
Babywilko Absolutely agree. Improving our expectations of men requires an effort from all genders and it gives me hope that the younger generation seems to think the same way. Although we face our own set of issues being brought up in this day and age, I genuinely feel that we have a more considerate generation of people in the world.
I have Asperger's syndrome and ADHD and psd and depression and anxiety social disorders and dyspraxia dyslexia and heart murmur and paranoia but it never stop me have a life or to do want ever I want in life it made me stronger in way then I was in care home and youth hostel or B&B or St my health would get worse but I never give up on life I look at my ills as gifts not a pain and it part of me the olny thing I think is as a as a human race we need stop judging people accept who we you are and every one I am olny 23 and going strong
This is one of best clips that I watched in long time, on spot those 2 Gents are, no words...But every time I look it again I think "2 great athletes are struggling, what are my chances then for recovery and maintain?" The struggle is real and hardcore. Thank you for raiseing awareness and debunking that depressive and anxious disorder sufferers are pu.s..yes! Gratefull for what you doing!
Hey Matt, one of my closest friend is bipolar. Knew him since highschool. Now, after two tragic years, he's getting back on his feet. Properly medicated, found a job. Alcohol intake still a bit of an issue. I've always admired him though. He is a tough mate. So are you. Always listen to your doctor, and don 't be scared to open up to your friends. That's what friends are for. Sending you my best wishes for 2020 from Italy. Much love
@@muttananba5071 cheers man!!! I really hope your mate lives a long and happy life. The hardest part of any sort of depression is finding the right ladder to climb. I'm probably not at his level however I am trying to do things with my life to keep me happy. All the best from UK
Ah shit, hearing that they feel that mental illnes cannot be cured but managed hitted me hard. Even though I kind of knew it, or felt it, It was hard for me to hear. I think I don't suffer from deppresion, but for years, decades actually, I've been feeling a bit of sadness in the back of my head that I'm able to managed by myself, with a right mindset and lots of hobbies. But sometimes it emerges, and I tend to isolate myself a bit. It never ends, but I keep standing up.
I thought I was the only one with this. I just push it at the back of my mind. However, in periods when I'm "idle" (i.e. on break from uni) I can't help but get hit by a truck. After struggling with it, talked about it with parents, but it doesn't help. It ends up hurting me more so I just never say anything anymore (not seriously at least). After it first appeared, it's never gone away. I've just been too busy when I can but even then it just comes back when I'm home, relaxing, just thinking.
@@georgaseebalack6003 In my case, what triggers it is stuff related to professional/work related, I took bad work related decisions in my past that I feel impact in my progress to this day, so I feel I lost years of my life, and it makes me feel real sad not being satisfied with my professional and financial growth. So, what I do is to take action on things I can control, and try not to worry or think too much on thing that don't depends on me to change. I'm getting "there" but man, I'm not getting any younger, so that's related to what makes feel bad about myself. Just working towards my goals. Cannot image what makes you feel that way whenever you're not with a busy mind. But I hope in some way, what I share have you some idea on what can you do to feel better. It's not a good thing to feel that way whenever we are doing "nothing". I think sometimes it is healthy to just do nothing, talk with ourselves, figure ourselves out, and a little bit of tough love for ourselves in order to take action to feeling better.
Thank you, thank you, training helps now, I'm bipolar and boy in struggling but hearing you guys reminds me that it 'will' pass, routine, honesty, and being around people who want the best for you, and educating yourself on your particular mental health issue. Good luck, and watever you do make sure it makes you happy. The deeper the abyss the brighter the light, or in my good old 'Irish' mother tongue - 'it's going through the shit that makes you appreciate the good times , x p.s We 'are all true warriors ' , x
Fury would be the best coach ever if he ever did coach, he would motivate you, being around such an amazing person would help you alot! I respect fury he's a top man
Dean windass totally hear you about that argument with your dad same happened with me and my best friend never argued but did just before he passed and it drained me so much for years i still not got over it now
I love how they say money doesn't make you happy. Everyone always thinks if I just had X more dollars then I'd be happy. Seeing people that have millions of dollars say money can't make you happy really helps remind you there's more to life then money.
The thing that's hard to help depression and other mental illnesses is every single mind is different it works different takes shit in different and doctors think talking to the same person that's had a previous person in about something else. It's not the same for everybody and the drugs dont work the same for every single person. NEVER GIVE UP
This channel is possibly the best therapy I've encountered. I've had so much death in my life, its fucked me up bad. To see other men actually talk about real shit and still come out the other end is long overdue in this Stiff Upper Lip world.
“What was your lowest point?”
“Fookin now”
Big mood
You though the gypsy was being a savage but this mad man comes and hit us with that lmao
This was the best bit. Hilarious is a word that would not do justice to the man.
now
Rewatched that bit bare times😂😂😂top banter from windass
They keep laughing and cracking jokes but the sadness in their eyes says it all. Those who never experienced any of this will never understand. Thank you both! You're the Champions!
When you're deep enough in depression you spend >90% of your energy just trying to appear normal
@@brianking1921 Word! Humor has been/will continue 2be a mad defence mechanism for me .
im sorry to laugh but that transition from, “favorite sex position” to “Depression.” was hilarious
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@@brianking1921 it absolutely does
That was what Robin Williams did
Normally when you transition from your favourite sex position to depression it's cos you've shot early
“Young athlete” the lineal heavyweight champion of the world.
He’s only 31 though, pretty young
Compared to 50 = young
@Luke Dunford Just because he's older than 8 doesn't make him old
@Luke Dunford for a boxer thats prime age
lkcgaming123 🤨
"If I'm not here anymore, I can't upset anybody." I teared up from how many times I felt this way
I hope you chose to stay, whenever you think your at your worst there might be a positive only a few days away, you have to keep fighting. We are built to adapt and survive and fight keep going🙌
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When u think about it tho, u are very important to ppl and them losing u might be the reason they might suffer depression after. No matter how hard life gets u must understand life is a dance…it has highs and lows, pure joy and unbearable pain but guess what? Ppl are there also experiencing your same highs and lows….u are never alone because your experiences can be relatable it’s just a matter on mindset…..I know this is weird but naruto is such a good ex of this 😂 he’s just tryna be accepting but is seen as a monster but he never let things interfere with his life. Even when he was all alone…..the only reason, and I know it’s a kid show so obv he ain’t gonna have suicidal thoughts, was his mindset….
I even said that to my ex gf. She said it's my fault if I am where I am, amongst other things...
Keep on fighting, give yourselves positive things
Good men....Good men. This is a great video for anyone struggling
Bit hypocritical, Tyson is a prick to other boxers , constantly talking shit about people's performance and what they do outside of the ring
Jodofly115 you don’t get it pussy
@@jodofly1158 it's called selling a fight
@@jodofly1158 He's playing a character. He says himself there are two people; The Gypsy King and Tyson Fury. He's being the Gypsy king in public. I genuinely believe he's a decent bloke when there is nothing to sell.
@@jodofly1158 you are clearly stupid. You can't call him a prick for 'talking shit about other boxers' as it's a strategy that almost every boxer uses. It's also what sells fights. Tyson is a hands down lovely bloke, he talks some shit (like wilder does and like mayweather does) for entertainment and to get under his opponents skin and after the fight, he's the most respectful man you could ever meet. That comes from hard work. He's training in the gym for his fights each and every day which shows the he respects his opponent enough to make sure he's at his best.
On another note, they are discussing mental health. Has nothing to do with boxers calling each other names. And surely I'm not the only person that could see that you wouldn't do shit, it's people like you that couldnt take a single punch. Your a little pussy mate go back to wherever you came from
Love this series. its so interesting seeing the perspectives from each person and they are so respectful to one another. Old soldier meets new soldier was probably my favorite. he couldnt even swim and he was in the Royal Navy, "where are you going to swim too?". Great work, look forward to more episodes. Old Teacher meets young teacher would be interesting too. So much has changed in education.
Yeah that was a classic response. Completely agree.
Old nurse meets young nurse would be good too. My mum was a nurse in the time of matrons running wards and now the NHS is a mess. Both would have seen injuries and death first hand too so would be interesting to get the perspective of how the job (and coping with it) is changing
Timber By Marc Dean Windass is a pussyhole
Education has changed. Good point. They're letting the inmates run the asylum now.
Actually
When Tyson shakes Dean's hand, he looks like a father shaking the hand of his child...
As a Hull City and a boxing fan, it is good to see 2 legends talking about the mental health stigma, especially as 2 tough men in their respected sports.
@shapz rackz he's a local legend. who are you again?
@@jsheriff396 cheeky but shit response, the large majority of people don't hold being famous on a pedastool so your snide comment acting like his comment is irrelevant because he isn't famous is just dumb. You claimed a man is a legend and then when you were pulled up on it you back peddled to say he was just a local legend. If there was something wrong with shapz comment why did you clarify that he wasn't just a legend in general
@@jodofly1158 read my comment again
@@jsheriff396 I have .... What am I supposed to see?
@@jodofly1158 I'd didn't write the original comment
You should do an old model and young model.
dianna good shout
Signs you must be ugly
@Signs there is a load of pressure in the modelling community, I think it would be interesting to watch.
Or natural model and plastic model
dianna This is as close as you’ll ever get to that lol
"If I spent my life looking backwards, I would never move forward"- T Fury
Think about that.
It's all about balance.
You have to look backwards to learn sometimes
'If I spend my life looking backwards, I can't move forwards'. Powerful quote
I hear you guys at the beginning, I was at the top of my game, got to the NBA D-League. Tore my ACL, MCL, and Meniscus and lost my dream career. Came home had 2 surgeries got blood clots, gained 120 pounds because I ate too much. Way too much, but eating made life easier, I didn't want to step on a Basketball court, I didn't want to do anything. I never turned to drugs just food. I am now turning my life back around.
Keep the chin up pal, win the battles win the war.
How has your journey been so far?
When Tyson said feeling worthless and every day is a grey day I sobbed it's exactly how I feel every day
The first step is identifying your problems, now you need to find out why you feel like this.
Get help my man, it’s allways easier fighting with others, don’t try to stand alone. There allways be someone who’s willing to help you even if you don’t see it now.
My life have gone from decent to all out worthlessness, the only time I'm not feeling down is when I'm asleep.
There doesn't seem to be any active moves I can do, it feels like being a mindless chess piece being moved across the board by forces outside my control.
You are not alone, I can't guarantee that I can be of any help, but feel free to hit me up if ya need to vent your feelings.
Sometimes we just need someone to listen and to care about us.
@@ulriktnnesen5987 The same thing has happened to me, in my view. I know that feeling Ulrik, you described it beautifully. And none of this is to say it's not real or true. I know how real it is.
When I was there I was often convinced there was no way out of it, and I desperately searched for anything to tell me that it's possible things will be great. And all I could see was that 'it might get a little bit better', like back to grey, rather than black. And grey was not enough. Grey was terrifying. I want white, not grey, and it feels like white is unobtainable.
But I'm in grey now. And it's so much better than black. And white is seeming more obtainable. Context changes things. I really hope the best for you.
You can do it mate, get help and face the problem so you can make it better. ❤️
Hats off gents. Remember it is okay not to be okay x
always
I don’t understand.
@@nyftt4350 it means you shouldn't be ashamed of not being okay and you should be able to freely talk about it and get help.
@The Archangel God bless. You should be so proud for opening up man x
It's hard to say you're not okay but it is absoluty okay to say it
This is a great series. Things like these help to counteract the "perfect life" that we see in tv, movies, sports, etc. But when we actually see how many people who have everything some people dream about, and still struggle with depression, anxiety, addictions, etc., it helps to counteract the stereotypical view that famous people have it all together, which helps those who struggle with these things and encourages them to get help.
Well said mate
how do you know about this 💀ik exactly what your talking about
15 years i have suffered and its hard but thank you guys big dave from hull
big up hull lads
Hope you’re okay big Dave
This was amazing
Big up supporting Bolton
As a life long sufferer of depression, I related with everything that was said. The feeling of being incapable of doing anything right, the manic, desperate hyper focus on an activity to distract myself from the ever-present gravitational pull toward the dark, the thought that the world and my loved ones will be so much better off with me dead.
When I looked into my family history, there were many people who displayed all the common symptoms of depression. It’s not because I’m weaker than the older generation. People have suffered from mental illnesses throughout history, it’s just that they didn’t know what they were. Unlike the older generations, now that we have a medical understanding of them, we can form treatment plans. I believe Tyson Fury is right; we probably will never be able to cure mental illnesses, but there are effective ways to manage them.
It means a lot to me for these good men to be talking openly about mental illness. I want to thank them both.
I hope that quiet voice in the back of your mind is still heard on your bad days my friend. You've made it this far; keep going.
@Phill Mcrackin' Thank you so much for the kind words of encouragement and hope. That made me smile. :)
@@EddVCR turn to Jesus he had it worse even Tyson Fury said Jesus had it worse
I'm in the same boat. Tyson is right, training hard and pushing yourself is a great medicine for depression for some reason. Stay strong brother
@@koruptkop8569 ....I don't recall anywhere in the Bible Jesus saying, 'Guys, I feel really rough today'.
When dean asked tyson when he was beating klitschko that he must have been in a good place but he wasn't...that hit me hard because just because you're successful and "doing well" doesn't at all mean you're not struggling to even just make it day to day nonetheless just breathe. I really appreciate this video.
Quality video 🙏🏻❤️💭
Keep up the good videos!
Great interview. Its It's always great to see "tough guys" have enough courage to drop the act and get real and honest.
Top blokes both of them, also Wilder's a complete dosser 👍
masterwindu1234
What if Wilder reads your comment and gets depressed?
Damn straight brother. Fury was robbed
Thierry Henry he won’t Wilder is strong mentally even more than most of these guys
Clearly didn't see him smash Ortiz to bits
@@akaskinz1856 the 80 year old? The one that struggled with Allen? K!
There's always someone worse off. That's the stupidest argument people make all the time.
I always say, yeah but there's undoubtedly also someone who is better off, does that mean that you aren't allowed to feel good?
y'all dumb as hell when someone says that there's also someone worse off it means to be grateful for what you have and get your shit together
@@mr.angryman3599 There's always someone worse off, so it's stupid as fuck. Would you tell a child soldier in Africa to suck it up, because there's people worse off? No, I don't think so.
It’s not a stupid argument. Most of the time it’s people with depression struggling to come to grips with those facts.
@@sevankumruyan7838 Most of the time it's used by people to invalidate people's negative feelings/depression etc. Hence, it's stupid. What facts are you talking about? The only "fact" is, that there's always someone worse off, which makes the whole argument pretty empty.
Notice how they’re both men, quite a sad observation. Remember lads it’s okay to not be okay. It’s okay to talk
@@158-i6z This. And we aren't supposed to get upset or be overwhelmed, adding that much more pessure
@@158-i6z Just read an interesting thing about that. Apparently, in male soldiers, suicide rates are only 1.5 times as high as in average males. But female soldiers have 30 times the suicide rate of average females, bringing them closer to the male numbers. I'm not qualified to interpret that but I'd say that certainly shows how much pressure we put on ourselves in daily life and that we maybe should try to take it easier, every now and then.
Love Tyson Fury what a lad
I was there when deano scored that goal at wembley. And at that time i was over the moon. He was a hero and still is to the club but when he came out about his mental health made him more of a hero for actually talking about a subject that was looked down upon especially in men and in sport at the time.
Massive respect to you guys. I suffered a couple of years ago myself with depression and tried to take my own life too. My father passed away in 2017 and he was like a vest friend to me. I stopped myself in the end because I have kids myself. I was never proud of trying to do it but I also felt that if I ended it then I wouldn't be the problem anymore. I seeked help and spoke to a professional and managed to clear myself from the dark thoughts I'd felt. Thanks you for highlighting depression in men as it is a huge dismissed problem in this world. Being told to man up never helps a depressed person.
This is so good for people with depression
I love these blokes. A HILARIOUS duo, I loved it when Tyson just started ripping up the cards 😂
This was amazing. As someone who also suffers from mental health and in that state of mind such as depression, suicidal, anxiety, not wanting to be alive, feeling of worthlessness etc. Its powerful and amazing to see what you achieve when you overcome such dark times. These 2 guys are role models and inspirational af. I have also seen my 2 best friends commit suicide and that drives me crazy but also drives me to succeed for them and for myself too and live on. Dont give up it gets better 🖤
Tyson Fury I salute you.. you've helped more people then you'll ever know
Massive respect to Dean and Tyson for raising awareness about this. Absolutely love em.
Can't wait for this one.
"Live for today because your not guaranteed tomorrow"
Cheers very much
You're*
@@vytautasthegreat4452 should be micah bell*end*
@@JJ-bo4ir just correcting you brother😊
@@vytautasthegreat4452 Its the phone, got a mind of its own 👊
Dean windass is a legend I hope he knows he will be in the hearts of ever hull city supporter for ever.
Dean Windass' volley remains one of the best goals of all times. Incredible moment.
To everyone suffering, I understand you and I wish you love and peace
Being depressed is like wanting to go home when your’re already there
Truly love this series you're doing LADbible, its incredibly interesting and even more insightful. There's not been one that i haven't been captivated with. Fantastic work guys and girls.
Good bless for the people that are suffering.
Never heard of Tyson Fury but I appreciate people coming out about their mental issues. As someone who struggled with anxiety all their life it was weight off my shoulders to know a man like him also have the same issues. Cheers, from North America!
A touch of pure class❤
Watching this the second it's come out
11 years ago Christ! ...I was there to watch Dean Windass score that goal and take us into the premier league, always made hull proud.
It's nice to know I'm not alone in my struggle to beat depression and anxiety. Thanks for this.
Cried watching this, I’d echo a lot of what was said - you fight for so long to tell yourself you don’t need help, that you’re just having a bad day, that everything will be alright etc. and it all comes to a head, it’s hard. Try and speak to people, be honest with yourself first and foremost. Seek professional help, it’s nothing to be ashamed of, some will help you and others won’t so fight to be open if one avenue hasn’t helped you - it doesn’t mean nothing will. Exercise definitely helps, I was training for the London Marathon when I first sought help, I was so low and thinking about doing a lot of things I wish I’d never thought to do, but the training did keep my mind clear at times, as did talking to IAPT which is a great service in the UK. Don’t give up on yourself, you can pull through.
So painful to hear Windass talk about being in the places he’s been too; he played for my club Sheffield United for a short time and he’s a good man, loved by everyone at the club when he was there simply because of that reason. I’m glad you got through the worst times and sorry you’ve been to the places you’ve been mentally - I’ll also never forget what happened with Gary Speed, a legend and another great man. Loved again by everyone at Sheffield United and gone too soon in the worst way. I’ll never forget finishing playing football with friends to be told what had happened, it was only a couple of weeks after my partner at the time lost her brother to suicide and I can honestly say that both events really changed my outlook on life and I hope that interviews like this make people consider talking about what’s going on in their heads because it’s a lonely place having those thoughts on your own.
I think my favorite interview- two affable, famous guys talking about a topic many are so familiar with. Really great episode.
He's the Ali of the modern era. Just something so special about the man that it's hard to pin point. Absolute hero of mine personally, helped me through a lot, and I've never met the fella
i feel the same
He's not the Ali of the modern era. Even comparing modern boxing to boxing 15 years ago is an insult to the sport. The boxers who deserve a career are pushed aside to make space loud obnoxious pricks who'll say anything to sell a poor quality fight. No respect for a man whos in a position to help the sport but doesnt
@@jodofly1158 hasn't helped the sport? He defeated against all odds one of the greatest to ever wear gloves in Germany on point's, and he beat him before he ever got into the ring. He's a master of psychological warfare, he's as agile as any heavyweight on the planet, and his punch combination's for such a giant are a thing of beauty. Nobody is denied a great career in boxing, just as no one is promised a good one, it's the hardest sport in the world and you have to make your own, if it's by knocking people out consistently, if it's trash talking, or if it's a gimmick the public can relate to, then you've got a chance to make a successful career in boxing, regardless of weight class. Fury lost ten stone, fought the most dangerous puncher since Tyson, and in many minds did enough to secure another world title win away from home. No other fighter who has ballooned like him has been able to get back to world level, never been done before. Not only did he balloon up to nearly 29 stone, he was suicidal, and in poor shape mentally. If that's not a champion I think your standards might be to high, or you don't have a fucking clue what you are talking about.
Jodofly115 I really think you’re being sour for no good reason. Nobody has the obligation to help the sport, fighters risk their lives every time they step into the ring.
With that being said Tyson Fury came back after a long lay-off and in his 3rd fight back he fought the WBC champion of the world. Which is what the sport needed, the best fighting the best.
Say what you want but that’s a man who’s helping the sport when he doesn’t need to.
It's heart breaking to know how badly people really suffer with mental health issues weather your famous or not it's really important for people to come out and talk about there personal feelings and I believe that these 2 have not only suffered but they've overcome the worst that life throw at them it's important to prevent more people from taking there own life's because of mental health problems
This is one of the best interviews I've ever seen
I wish nothing but pure happiness to Tyson and Dean and to many others who have overcome mental health problems
Quality episode. They keep getting better and better. Well played lads
This is a powerful interview, makes you stop and think, hats off LADbible, hats off Dean Windass and hats off Tyson Fury
Honestly could not believe that I could relate to this topic, like I always knew I had depression but a part of me always doubted that idea into thinking I'm sad but honestly 6:40 it answered the same questions I asked myself if I had depression or not, legit the hardest thing about being depressed is speaking out because everyone expects you to just have a good day and then that's you sorted, your depression is gone, no, it's not it lingers it never leaves you, till this day I always make myself busy, but at a certain day when I'm not busy it all comes flooding in and honestly it feels good to know someone like Tyson and Dean could understand this, and hopefully everyone else can understand too.
Have you gotten actual treatment for it? Yunno depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain and keeping yourself busy isn't going to fix that , you need meds or electro therapy or something to fix the different chemical levels in your brain that control mood , no amount of talking or fun or keeping yourself busy will ever fix that, God knows what damage it's doing to your brain, could be a chance that if you leave it to long your are stuck like that regardless of treatment
One of the best interviews on TH-cam
Great series, great series. This one especially poignant. Please keep them coming ....!
Man this video has really hit home with me.I suffered from ptsd for a very long time,even as young child growing up there were early signs back then in the late 70’s,but I took no notice of how I was feeling.Even now whilst I’m typing this,man I feel emotional just by watching this.In 2011 I had a life changing experience which majorly triggered my ptsd and it went into overdrive,that was it my life was over and it very nearly ended to at one point,but I got the help and support to get me through it.
I needed this thank you 🙏
Omg im so glad I found this channel. Its so educaional and insightful also im a big Tyson fan so this was Proper A
Its a very humbling experience to be watching all these amazing people sharing their personal story ☺️☺️
This was beautiful. I’m so happy to have watched this
A lot of this sat true with me. I’ve depression and anxiety and the biggest fear is talking about it. Amazing powerful video
I think these guys were very brave. Tyson suffers from bipolar disorder, my brother struggles with that, it's hard to watch him deal with it, and being as he's a man, he never talks about it. His favourite expression is 'I'm fine thanks'.
I went to counselling for depression when I lost the use of my legs and ended up living in constant pain, but I sought help because I could feel my life slipping further and further out of control and see it was hurting those who love me. It helped me turn things around when i started counselling. Best decision I ever made! It took a while to recover, it certainly wasn't an instant cure. But after letting it all out and talking it all through with the counsellor, we worked together to get me back in control of my mind and my heart. I did it for my husband originally, because I could see he was extremely worried about me...but it wasn't easy. Having said that, i am still unable to use my legs and in constant pain, BUT I am handling it better. God bless counsellors is what I say..they are marvelous people!
If you are suffering depression ASK FOR HELP.
DON'T SUFFER IN SILENCE.
GET SOME HELP.
IT MAY JUST GIVE YOU BACK YOUR LIFE! GOD BLESS YOU.
Carly Charlesworth thanks for your comment . I was glad to read it
@@warwickclark2143 you are welcome. Do you need help...are you struggling with depression? If its ok to ask...sorry, i get a bit forthright sometimes but I meant no disrespect
You're a warrior Carly
@@Adam-de1gp Thank you. That was kind of you to say that. 😊
I admire how these men are so open about the difficult times that depression has brought to them and how they have overcome they’ve come out about their struggles. These are the kind of men who will influence and change the world for the better thank you for sharing your stories
Thank you, seriously.
brilliant that you have posted this. blokes need to realise that just talking about a problem can make it easier to get through.
9:27
Dean: " When was your lowest point? Fucking now"
I still can't stop laughing, holy fuck
I hope “the gap” and “agree to disagree” carry on for a long time. Brilliant content @LADbible
I was there that day.. when he scored that goal at Wembley. I was a Bristol City fan and the guy ruined my whole year.. but what a goal. Fair play.
One of the better videos i've seen on this topic. Having written on mental ill-health in sport at both BSc and MSc level, i'm glad athletes and people are finally given a platform to talk about this.
Thanks lads for doing this, I'm currently going through the same. Hopefully when my boy is my age there won't be stigma around male mental health.
Really enjoyed this!! Going through ptsd and depression myself and love how open they are about these things it’s great I’ve started running again because of Tyson and I’m feeling so much better every which way,cheers lads 👍👍
No matter how bad you feel.. remember there will be a day when you'll laugh again. .laugh with joy from your inside out.. life
Thank you for making this LADbible. You are indeed helping a lot.
Knowing that Windass is 50 makes me feel bloody old. I remember him playing, as if it was yesterday.
Brave men to talk about this so openly and on camera. Strong men to be this vulnerable. Great to see it!
That was really good, made my day.
As I've been suffering from depression all my live too, it means a lot to me that Tyson talks about this.
love these videos
I feel that the fact mental health is being more expressed by people days and people are actually fighting against it is amazing
My favourite Windass moment was him warming up Infront of Rory delaps throw in. Favourite fury one is calling wilder a spaghetti hoop legged dosser!
This might be the best one of all these (already exceptionally) great selections of videos. Sincerely, this video brought me joy.
Unbelievable about what Dean was saying about his father and having an argument with him just before he passed away. This is exactly what happened to me 10 years ago, also from a heart attack. It’s taken me a long time to get over that, and now I’m able to look back at the good days I spent with my Dad. Thoughts are with you Dean... you’re dad would be incredibly proud of what you achieved. I’ll forgive you for that goal against us at Wembley now😉
My dads turning 60 in a few days. I'm dreading it all, mainly because I realize now he's an old man and I cant imagine life without him. Because I've never lived without him. It's the only thing I truly fear in life as it'd be not just my father passing but my best friend.
Me too mate I can't imagine life without my dad my best mate either
@@1gadena Yeah it's really scary. And the years went by so fast. I'm also scared it'll hold me back in life as I know he's the kind of guy who wants people to move on as it's just a natural cycle.
Plague Doc my advice lads is really just embrace and make the most of the time you have with you’re folks, do think to much about the future, so you’re best to embrace the now.
@@phoenixfitness700 Thanks man. Yeah I've never been the type to show emotions to my old man nor has he. But it's gotten better after some health scares. Really just gotta live in the moment.
Brilliant video guys the emotional between the 2 is brilliant you can tell Tyson is helping Dean and it's making Tyson happy to see it.
The problem with mental health issues is that it is not logical. That is why people who have no experience of it can't understand why someone who is top of their game and has everything can be so depressed.
You feel trapped inside your own head having thoughts you cannot control and the thought of dying sounds like a relief, at least that is how I have felt. I ended up abusing painkillers for over 5 years to cope with the anxiety and depression. Its been about 4 months since I opened up to my family and have been clean since.
If you are still reading this and are struggling, please open up to someone as if they are close to you they can tell something is wrong. You just need to let them know how much and you will already feel a little lighter. Best of luck to everyone xx
Babywilko The terrifying thing about it is that it becomes logical in the end - at least to the person experiencing it. Depressed people rarely look sad, act sad or even notice themselves that they are depressed. People that end up killing themselves don’t have mental breakdowns or cry every day, they just become silently conditioned by their own mind to believe that there is only one possible outcome. I think as men we don’t like to feel doted on - I would be fine sharing how I feel and being emotional but I would despise being asked constantly how I feel and would feel like a hospital patient. It’s one of the major aspects of toxic masculinity - toxic is not an adjective but used to describe a certain type of masculinity. There are different ways of dealing with it from person to person of course - some people may only need one hour of philosophical thought to clear their head. Others might require therapy throughout their whole life. However in terms of a general movement, we need to advocate for a better idea of what masculinity is and what we should expect of men. The reality is that this won’t happen overnight and suicide will continue to kill far more men than women but we have to start somewhere.
@@TomCL-vb6xc As a woman I agree completely. My dad is quite old school and from a generation of men who were brought up to believe that showing emotion such as crying was a sign of weakness. My dad didn't cry at his mum or dad's funerals but you could see he was trying to stop himself. He told me that at his grandmothers funeral he saw his dad standing by her grave and all he wanted to do was walk up to him and hug him. Problem with that and the way his dad was, he felt like he couldn't. He spoke to his dad years later about it and his dad said that a hug was just what he needed in that moment.
Thing is if you tell a young boy not to cry and that he has to show strength for others by not doing so, it will come out in another way... anger. That was the one emotion they were allowed to show so that is how a lot of men used to express themselves. That is not healthy for them or the people around them and I'm glad its changing.
I think women of the time were also brought up to view men who showed their emotions to be weak or wimps. Its even a shock to people in the audience how Tyson just admits he cries at movies. We have come a long way from those days but that reaction shows we still have a way to go.
Babywilko Absolutely agree. Improving our expectations of men requires an effort from all genders and it gives me hope that the younger generation seems to think the same way. Although we face our own set of issues being brought up in this day and age, I genuinely feel that we have a more considerate generation of people in the world.
Keep up the good work...your videos are an inspiration
I have Asperger's syndrome and ADHD and psd and depression and anxiety social disorders and dyspraxia dyslexia and heart murmur and paranoia but it never stop me have a life or to do want ever I want in life it made me stronger in way then I was in care home and youth hostel or B&B or St my health would get worse but I never give up on life I look at my ills as gifts not a pain and it part of me the olny thing I think is as a as a human race we need stop judging people accept who we you are and every one I am olny 23 and going strong
@L Not funny
Use a comma once in a while.
@@danielpickering1403 Imagine actually caring about grammar on the internet, loser
@@kegangardner2277 it's gotta be- "loser!" :P
Same here with autism and ADHD, I always feel like people live in a different world to me, like I live outside the box.
Love Tyson Fury, no ego, no bravado just a decent guy who has opened up
this is interesting bc it really does seem to b 2 types some ppl r born with it and others have a traumatic event
This is one of best clips that I watched in long time, on spot those 2 Gents are, no words...But every time I look it again I think "2 great athletes are struggling, what are my chances then for recovery and maintain?" The struggle is real and hardcore. Thank you for raiseing awareness and debunking that depressive and anxious disorder sufferers are pu.s..yes! Gratefull for what you doing!
As a bipolar sufferer myself I felt like I was in the room with them
Shut up
@John Kavanagh Not a great thing to say on a mental health awarness video, regardless of what someone says
Hey Matt, one of my closest friend is bipolar. Knew him since highschool. Now, after two tragic years, he's getting back on his feet. Properly medicated, found a job. Alcohol intake still a bit of an issue. I've always admired him though. He is a tough mate. So are you. Always listen to your doctor, and don 't be scared to open up to your friends. That's what friends are for. Sending you my best wishes for 2020 from Italy. Much love
@@muttananba5071 cheers man!!! I really hope your mate lives a long and happy life. The hardest part of any sort of depression is finding the right ladder to climb. I'm probably not at his level however I am trying to do things with my life to keep me happy. All the best from UK
5:28 'There's a lot of people out there more worse than you' was the sentence that hurt me the most
Ah shit, hearing that they feel that mental illnes cannot be cured but managed hitted me hard. Even though I kind of knew it, or felt it, It was hard for me to hear.
I think I don't suffer from deppresion, but for years, decades actually, I've been feeling a bit of sadness in the back of my head that I'm able to managed by myself, with a right mindset and lots of hobbies. But sometimes it emerges, and I tend to isolate myself a bit. It never ends, but I keep standing up.
I thought I was the only one with this. I just push it at the back of my mind. However, in periods when I'm "idle" (i.e. on break from uni) I can't help but get hit by a truck. After struggling with it, talked about it with parents, but it doesn't help. It ends up hurting me more so I just never say anything anymore (not seriously at least). After it first appeared, it's never gone away. I've just been too busy when I can but even then it just comes back when I'm home, relaxing, just thinking.
I don't want to diminish what you guys are feeling, but I do think there's a difference between a feeling of sadness and mental illness.
@@georgaseebalack6003 In my case, what triggers it is stuff related to professional/work related, I took bad work related decisions in my past that I feel impact in my progress to this day, so I feel I lost years of my life, and it makes me feel real sad not being satisfied with my professional and financial growth. So, what I do is to take action on things I can control, and try not to worry or think too much on thing that don't depends on me to change. I'm getting "there" but man, I'm not getting any younger, so that's related to what makes feel bad about myself. Just working towards my goals.
Cannot image what makes you feel that way whenever you're not with a busy mind. But I hope in some way, what I share have you some idea on what can you do to feel better. It's not a good thing to feel that way whenever we are doing "nothing". I think sometimes it is healthy to just do nothing, talk with ourselves, figure ourselves out, and a little bit of tough love for ourselves in order to take action to feeling better.
Thank you, thank you, training helps now, I'm bipolar and boy in struggling but hearing you guys reminds me that it 'will' pass, routine, honesty, and being around people who want the best for you, and educating yourself on your particular mental health issue. Good luck, and watever you do make sure it makes you happy. The deeper the abyss the brighter the light, or in my good old 'Irish' mother tongue - 'it's going through the shit that makes you appreciate the good times , x p.s
We 'are all true warriors ' , x
Fury would be the best coach ever if he ever did coach, he would motivate you, being around such an amazing person would help you alot! I respect fury he's a top man
Dean windass totally hear you about that argument with your dad same happened with me and my best friend never argued but did just before he passed and it drained me so much for years i still not got over it now
I love how they say money doesn't make you happy. Everyone always thinks if I just had X more dollars then I'd be happy. Seeing people that have millions of dollars say money can't make you happy really helps remind you there's more to life then money.
A beautiful conversation around such a pertinent topic. From two legends. Truly amazing.
When Dean was asked his favourite sexual position, at first I thought at that he meant his favourite position was his missus being in the room.
In love with this series! Every ep is so good, big up everyone
The thing that's hard to help depression and other mental illnesses is every single mind is different it works different takes shit in different and doctors think talking to the same person that's had a previous person in about something else. It's not the same for everybody and the drugs dont work the same for every single person. NEVER GIVE UP
This channel is possibly the best therapy I've encountered. I've had so much death in my life, its fucked me up bad. To see other men actually talk about real shit and still come out the other end is long overdue in this Stiff Upper Lip world.