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My red flag is going out for dinner and she pays more attention to her phone than her date.
I had a date just like that once. I felt like i was out on a date with a teenage girl, but she was in her 30's. Scary stuff man.
I can give you a list of creepy things filipinas do if you need one.
1. No shame over constantly begging from strangers
2. Being a hypocrite about religion. sSo many single moms despite being strict Catholics when it's to their advantage
@@mateor7302 💯 If Jesus can't save them, why should captain save a hoe. Gals with one mistake. It happens. Many... please.
Most filipinas are simple and calm but tend to enjoy drama and social media and sugar in equal amounts.
Yes staring is creepy. I'm 6'4" when I was there everytime I looked around someone was staring.
Yeah, that's the problem. They say were creepy for staring, but when were over there, all eyes are on us constantly. Makes me very uncomfortable.
@randyd1922 that is different. That is because you are in their country and you are a foreigner and they are curious. And if you listened to her she explained what she meant. Like if you are on a date and trying to get to know that person, don't overly stare during the communication. I'm not sure why all the comments on here trying to pick apart her observations. If you follow her at all and her husband, you know she is being genuine and trying to help. She is not trying to call out anyone or embarrass anyone.
Try being 6’9” here little guy. Tallest in the PH. People will stare worldwide. You’re average.
exactly ......how does she think us foreigners feel when EVERYONE stares at us all day?
Avoid filipinas with too much drama on a daily basis.
avoid Filipinas who are "uncomfortable"
your starting tp sound like a western woman , not a good thing
Women make rules for Simps and break rules for Chads. Never ask a fish how to catch other fish.. Ask a fisherman.. Or, better yet, a commercial fishing vessel such as myself.
Sounds like you've been listening to "Legion of Men" hahaha So do I
"Just clean your room!"
"Just take more showers and get more haircuts!"
"Just be confident bro!"
"You should really get therapy, you seem depressed"
"Just hold frame!"
"Love yourself!"
"You should use some Lynx deodorant and women will flock to you!"
"If you wear Pradas, I promise you're gonna get girls in no time!"
"Stand up straight with your shoulders back!"
"I tell you guys, anything is possible. Don't ever give up. Keep grinding, keep hustling, shoot for your dreams. You can do anything you want. I promise you." - Jeremy Meeks[1]
My best advise to all of you is just be you and you will meet someone like you and be more compatible.
Be confident in who you are.
Hi Leah, i find it funny how you Filipina's want us to act and yet you guys have the same flaws as us lol. For your examples like starring i've heard countless guys say on first visit they are starred at all the time lol. As for stalking on social media and being controlling, again Filipina's are masters of this and bombarding with messages of where are you and who you with. If i receive a naughty picture i know the girl is no good and intends to scam so works both ways. Anyway, interesting vlog Leah, hope all is well with family.
That would be my next video😄
Thanks Mrmadborg!🙏🙂
You sound so westernized. The word choice, the tone and everything...
foreign women becoming westernized is bad
Now the women in Philippines are using the term Cringe...
Things have started to change.... Wow.... Thailand is now higher on the List...
Filipinas are also starting to use the words "delusional" and "creepy" as well. Westernization/feminism is spreading like wildfire. Result will be more Chads/foreigners pumping and dumping instead of marrying Filipinas. Also resulting in more single mothers than ever before because Filipinas are trying to sound and act like the American/Western women we don't want and don't marry.
It’s like in the west. If you aren’t 6+ feet tall and rich and look like a model you are automatically labeled “creepy”.
@@RealJayNice Incels are told by normies that looks don't matter, while at the same time being asked for pictues to see how ugly they are, and assuming they don't take enough showers, get enough haircuts or having a poor sense of fashion.
They tell incels to be themselves but to pick up hobbies they don't like.
They tell incels that pick up artists are full of shit, while also claiming that incels don't have enough 'game' to date rape drunk women at bars 'pick up women'.
They tell incels that they are too nice, but also that they are assholes.
They tell incels that sexual intimacy is unimportant, while buying and creating movies and songs about how sexual intimacy is one of the most important things in the world, and getting upset if they have a few week-long dry spells.
They tell incels that they 'just need to get laid,' and also that they 'don't need sex.'
They tell incels that sexual intimacy isn't a commodity in a game with a reward, but think of male virgins as "losers" and frequently refer to intimacy as something incels don't "deserve".
They will insist that sexual freedom is a sorting mechanism for male feminists, or good personalities like OJ Simpson and Jeremy Meeks, and that your local grocery store bagger deserves to be an incel because of his political opinions or "entitlement". This is also known as the appeal to nature fallacy.
@@RealJayNice Originating from the biological needs of femoids, it concludes that manlets (men who rank in the bottom half in terms of height) are heavily disadvantaged in dating unless they have a Chad face or high status. This is because women are sexual gatekeepers and their near universal natural preference for tall men means that dating down in height is nearly impossible for women in a society that encourages natural female sexuality. Some conclude that for the depraved female species, the manlet cutoff might as well be under 6 foot even, thanks to hypergamy.
Great points Leah. It’s good to share some “dont’s” for the foreigners.
I never will forget my wife telling me that before we met online, she had chatted other guys and more than once a guy texted her to cam chat and when they did, when the camera opened, all she saw was them playing with their otin, not even a face 😳🤣. We laugh now but she still gets upset and says “BWESET those men!” 🤣🤣
Amping ka dyan
Jake
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What's wrong with having your hands in your pocket? My hands in my pocket creep you out then maybe your not for me
@KerorGregor
Hello. You didn't understand because she was trying to be polite. What she was saying was some weirdos (and this does happen) put their hands in their pockets to play with their dick in public. Yes; I know to normal people this sounds like an urban myth, but if you have any friends or relatives who are street cops in any larger city ask them about arrests that they know of involving public indecency. Their stories will simultaneously make you laugh and horrify you.
I think if you have them in your pockets all the time.
It's creepy dude. I used to stand like that naturally and was told my a lot of gals it was weird. I can't explain why. Neither could they. So try and break the habit. Walk around holding a pen so you have to keep the hand out. Hope this helps. Women perceive things differently than we do. Hope this helps.👍
@@goatman3828 who gives a fk about what a woman think’s? You sound like a lil bitchhhhhhhhhhh. Fk out a here with that crap. You clowns live your lifes to please women not me. I live my Lofe on my own terms lil man
Yes, it's creepy. Comes across also as a lack of confidence. Women don't like insecure men in general. The person may not be but on first impression that is what it is perceived as. She is trying to help here not call everyone out who has these tendencies. Take the advice or don't!
The key to a proper stare is to have drool dripping from your chin. No woman can resist the drooling stare.. Especially if you can stare directly for 10 minutes or more! The more drool the better and bounce your eyebrows up and down periodically.
or even better ..... drool dripping from your shorts.
hahahahah! TY for that laugh
Good advice Leah! Always enjoy your channel! You and your family be safe there.
The point of staring is to make eye contact. Take it from a dating expert. Show interest!
In the U.S., some people believe as you hold a conversation and look at a person's eyes, if you look up and to the right, breaking eye contact means that you are lying. I do not believe this. It sounds like pseudoscience to me, but some people in the U.S. keep eye contact during the entire conversation without looking around.
Some say if you look around when someone is talking to you, it's because you are not interested, the same with crossing your arms. Looking up and right is supposed to mean honesty because they are accessing the portion of the brain that contains memories of actual events. Up and left indicates lying because they are accessing the creative side of the brain to make up a story.
Good video. Good info. I never understood why a guy (stranger) would think any respectful woman would want to see a picture of his banana..............
Exactly
monkeys love bananas
It's natural human nature to stare at things that are different or attractive to you, it's also natural to look at a person's mouth when they are talking. Maybe you should try walking in Gary's shoes to try to understand what it's like for Gary walking down the street. Try walking across the street from him and pay attention to everyone around him and see how much others are staring at him. Don't you think it's uncomfortable for the foreigners to be stared at as well? Telling others not to do something you yourself are doing is hypocritical.
I agree being clingy/touchy/needy is bad for a GUY. Women want to feel safe and a "touchy" guy removes that safe feeling. For the woman, being touchy is a subtle sign she's interested in you. I think you should be addressing women more with accepting "No". I think you're wrong about "Women don't want to be chased," they definitely do as so many Filipina's have said in interviews, because it makes them feel more special, important, and gives them more attention. Women want to be pursued and play "hard to get", she may say "No" even though she's interested because she expects him to put in more effort and chase her. If they want a man to stay, then get comfortable with not being pursued. Those long/sweet messages wreak of desperation, which is a turn off for women, a man displaying his feelings makes women see weakness, and again women want to feel safe, remain stoic and keep those feelings bottled up. Some women say "No" when they mean "Yes", some want touchy/clingy (Especially jealous Filipina's) and some don't, some want those sweet messages, some don't, some say they want a man to express his feelings, others don't. The only advice a guy needs is deal with each woman on an individual basis to find out what type she is and give her what makes her happy.
There's one thing you are over looking Leah, many men (Only talking American, since I am) have been dealing with unfaithful and disloyal women and it has made them guarded, jaded, and untrusting. My ex-wife cheated while I was deployed to Afghanistan and handed me divorce papers when I returned, since then I have put up a wall around my heart and haven't allowed another woman to get close enough to tear down that wall. They're not being CONTROLLING (That's just a western woman buzz word to not accept boundaries), those men have LEARNED from past mistakes and they are trying to protect themselves from being hurt by another cheating woman. TRUST IS EARNED, and those messages are him trying to see if he should place trust in her or not. Without trust, you have nothing. If she's not willing to EARN his trust, he's not going to commit to her.
Thank you Leah for your time and opinions, I hope you and your family have a wonderful day.
My filipina told me in ldr that she liked long letters. I guess in the end we're all different and like different things maybe... God bless your family 🌟 🙏
In summary…
Don’t do anything creepy in the Philippines/to Filipinas that would be labeled as creepy anywhere
Lesson over
Thank you I'm trying to trick Filipinas into thinking I am normal
Thanks for another interesting and informative vlog
Hi Leah. It's funny when I meet women that can't understand that many men are attracted to all parts of a woman's body. Your feet are part of you. You get pedicures to make them look nice and pretty so you shouldn't be too surprised that men enjoy them. Guys...NEVER ask for pics of women's body parts until you actually know the woman. Some guys are just creepy.
Great advice 👏
Good topic, haven't heard it discussed before. Great advice too.
Glad it was helpful!Thank you
Thanks for the video Leah! Great job as always sharing your view. Greatly appreciated. Of course you are going to get the round of negative comments from the keyboard warriors. Always remember, you have more supporters than detractors. Keep up the great work!
Sorry, Leah. As an American I am so used to the government sticking their hands into my pocket that it would feel strange for no hand trying to grab my wallet from it. That is why my hand occasionally enters my pocket. To make sure that the wallet is still there.
😂😂😂
8:53 Texting and trying to keep track of where the other person has been all the time is much much more a woman thing than a man thing, though.
Maybe that’s why it seems creepy when a man does it? Because I agree, it does seem creepy.
You either have chemistry or not. Don't bother forcing it
Unless you open your wallet.
I'm an american with blonde hair and blue eyes....I get stared at everywhere constantly by male and female filipinos.... uncomfortably.
STARE. Not a glare. Not a glance. A STARE. And people dont understand the difference. Staring is just UNCOMFIRTABLE as it is.
Try having red hair and blue eyes……..
My love always prioritize me thank god. We have good communication
Hahahahah...very entertaining video Leah. Hope you and your family are well.
Thank you so much Fidel, we're good. how are you doing? Hope all is well with you too.
I love how she says the word creepy ❤
Everyone is a fool for something.
Many things in Filipino culture are strange to us too.
So just be cool
It's over checklist
Are you incel?
Are you a 1-4/10 on the decile?
Do you earn less than $60,000 per year?
Do you have no extraordinary traits, or abilities such as extremely high IQ/creativity or exceptional strength?
If you answered yes to all of those questions then you may find yourself LDARing. If no was answered to any of those questions then ascension is an option and you may be giving up too soon.
you say that about the staring, but my pinay GF starred at me for like 45 minutes almost, the first time we met, lol. Before even saying hi.
Creepy guys, don’t know they’re being creepy. They don’t have the emotional intelligence.
Some guys like pretty feet, some a pretty face, some only settle for a pretty soul.
it's usually in the province where the locals will stare at me; i'm no longer bothered by it.
I did that at Meijer my previous job, in this military complex controlled the woman to tell me off. And I know it was them
Talking is the most important thing
Yeah I find it really weird and strange I follow a lot of Filipinas on TH-cam often times men would ask to see their feet on their livestream I don’t understand it either
Filipinas are the actual kings of social media stalking, i had to set my friend list and certain details to private.
I think men like to watch women to decide if he wants to know her. So the staring thing coming up on a creepy list could surprise some fellows who also might be the same ones walking around with the hands in their pockets.
Very funny episode hahaha
It's funny with the eye contact thing because if you hold eye contact then you are creepy. However ... if you keep looking away she will get jealous and think you are looking at other Filipinas! Lose lose fellas! Welcome to dating Filipinas LOL!
Thanks for the "Creepy" education. 😅
I have my hands in my pockets almost all the time. 😂 It isn't creepy in the west. It's just a relaxed thing to do. Anyone who thinks it is creepy or pervy is revealing more about their own mind than they are reading the guy's. 🤣
its way way too hot in the philippines to put hands in pockets believe me.
@@jimw7916 I live in the American Midwest. In the summer, it gets hot and humid here, too. As soon as you walk out of the house you're soaked with sweat. My hands still go in my pockets. 😂
@@rlh125 hahahahaha you have NO IDEA what "hot and humid" is
@@jimw7916 That's why, if I move to the Philippines, it will be to someplace like Valencia, Baguio, or Malaybalay. So I can put my hands in my pockets. 😂
@@rlh125 I hope your name is not "Jack Gough"
#1 rule. Everyone just be themselves. Then we all know what we’re getting ourselves into from the 1st date. People always revert back to old habits after the “best behavior” phase is over. Better to know these things sooner, and not waste time. The fact is, Filipinas aren’t going to be changing guy’s behaviors especially older guys. We are set in our ways. If you don’t click, just move along.
I have lived in the Philippines since 1981. I'm no expert, womanizer, or drunkard. I have had several girlfriends but never married because I always felt like a Filipina was taking advantage of me. I run several successful businesses, but it takes up a lot of my free time. I am 67 years old but look around 50. I take care of myself unlike so many fat expats. I have found the best Filipinas are in church. Yes, some may laugh and say things like I don't believe in God. I'm not judging...just my advice. Walk around in the slum areas of the Big cities and you will be amazed at what you find.😊😊😊😊
what country are you originally from is it the USA?
and I suppose the Filipinas all told you that you only look 50? hahaha
Comedy gold.
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5:10 Always ask TWICE ;)
But be POLITE.
A lot of women will automaticly say No, out of defensive mechanism.
So relax, have sime calm conversations, see if vibe/flow naturally....
THEN ask.
So 1 denial is not always the final.
You are allowed to give a 2nd impression.... before asking again :)
But never garass a lady.
Be polite, and show that you are a good guy :)
5:48
ALL Women wants to be "chased".
This video was ok, until this part;)
Neber ever seen a girl who do not want to be sort of "chased".
In the philippines there is even tradition of "wooing" the girl.
All girls wants to feel special, to feel the guy is chasing her.
BUT it is a very muddy/fine line between gentleman ronantic vs creepy stalkerish.
So learn some SOCIAL skills first, so can evaluate when its appropriate etc.
Wonen like being chased... if its from quality guy. And he does not give her creeper eeek vibes.
6:04 if a lady made such a HUGE impression on you... then nothing wrong with trying to find her facebook, IG, etc.
Its not that creepy... as its EASY to find sort of.
So go for it... IF she REALLY made such a HUGELY positive impression on you :)
But be very carefull on how contacting her.
Be sincere, and let her know that you liked her energy and want to get to know her more.
Do not make it feel more creepy than necesary. Do not elaborate on how much you digged around to find her... because THAT may very well trigger creepy eek feeling in her.
Just let her know that she gave you such a positive vibe, that you HAD to try to contact her again to see if can get to know eachother better.
Be honest with your intention.
Do not overwhelm her.
Do not declare your love for her etc;)
Just be honest, and that you felt she was special, and you would be very happy if she would want to go for a date/or meet up so can get to know eachother further.
Also be open to her bringing a chaperon if she wish. That will relax a girl, because then she will not feel pressured or fear of being pressured.
Try not to be like Mr. Burns from the Simpsons.
Do I sense that you're picking up a bit of Gary's accent? Those trailing R's are getting real soft...
My Filipina was in aww with me…..we will be celebrating our 1 yr together
well you have a couple of years left ........ unless the money runs out. hahaha
@@jimw7916 kinda hard to run out when your business in America is doing good
Thought provoking stuff.......some points perhaps, could have been explained better. I'm sure most of those seeking a Ph wife etc, will know what is and isn't appropriate. Everyone is different...
When we step off the plane.....lol
Wow... your subject on this video ...tells me that filipina are so picky on what they don't like and what they want . Explain to me why some filipinas always say that they are shy . But yet the get on facebook or instragram or other social idea and dance very provocative and sexy and skimpy dresses or shorts or panties but then they expect respect ? First they have to respect themselves to get respect .can you please answer that. Thank you
WHY are women so "uncomfortable" all the time? .......... sounds "creepy" to me.
You Weird 🇺🇸 I’m 6’5 They Were All Staring At Me.
Little man. I’m 6’9” living here. The tallest in the PH. People state worldwide. You’re a little guy.
I was at a graduation ceremony in Danao and was stared at the whole time. Then again, I was the only white man there in the auditorium lol
You white devil you!!!
So basically we must act like we DON'T like her? Dont look, dont touch, dont look at her eyes, don't try to talk to her everyday/stalking. Ok I got it.
Would you stare & touch a person that is totally stranger to you?
@@philippinefamilylifewithle2673 hmm. Define touch! I would shake her hand and flirt with looking. Staring and looking , are they different? I have several girls here in the Philippines who stare and smile, it doesn't bother me. So define stare, and touch.
@@silveraddict875 shake hands is obviously not count.
@@philippinefamilylifewithle2673 ok, so I could shake your hand?
@@philippinefamilylifewithle2673I'm not trying to bother you, but I'm 6'1" blond hair blue eyes, 29 yo, in great shape played football in college, I'm not a strange or creepy guy. I'm interested in a 21 yo fili here , I said hi and shook her hand , but she so shy, she always walks near me, but so does many of them. I'm in great shape , I surf here. But I only have 2 weeks left here. I was asking you because I dont want her to think I'm weird
It seems like you have a lot of friends that make videos talking about the big banana and also wearing disrespectful booty shorts .
What happens when the rolls reverse in the coffee shop or mall and fillapino woman are staring at foreigners acting shy to approach them.
If your married it seems you wouldn't be good to give so many negative examples of foreigners.
You forgot to mention that foreigners should only pay for their own meals and entertainment with the fillapino until shes comfortable with him.
I think thats a fair deal.
Also fillapino woman are very clinky,I just dont see where this video is going.
Why dont you discuss the things a foreigner puts up with just to date a fillapino.
Its too many smart and beautiful women in the world to think a foreigner must date only a fillapino.
Also please speak about the baggage that comes along with trying to date a fillapino.
I prefer white girls here in America anyways, Since they are at the top of the food chain traveling to the Filipino could be fun but getting them to the USA and stuff could be more complicated I wouldn't mind traveling but if there is baggage with dating a Filipino women maybe finding a white girl in America would be better.
that's so true foreigners should only pay for their own meals and entertainment. never pay for Women on a date.
Leah, some people have foot fetish. Like shape and smell of feet can make them turned on etc for example when they see bare feet of pretty girl, or nice feet in socks etc
the way you wrote that seems creepy
@@Ayutarda haha that’s good, I bet some Filipino men also have foot fetish hehe 😎
how about moldy feet?
@@Maarten8867 not good
Leah,
That guy your sister was chatting with that requested a photo of her foot probably had a fetish for feet. It’s not bad, but, it does seem like a creepy request to make to someone you barely know. 😂
Exactly, they only talk for one or two weeks never meet in person. She hesitate to send it because she doesn't like her feett too. Lol
@@philippinefamilylifewithle2673 Right, what other weird requests he would have come up with after that? Trust your instinct.
@@rolandmueller7218 it's actually my cousin not my sister. I don't know the whole story but they already broke up.
@@philippinefamilylifewithle2673 oops! I’m sorry I twisted your story around thinking it was your sister instead of your cousin. Magandang araw!
Hmmm...so overall: Just treat her like you would (and should) any other person you meet...with common courtesy and respect. No new revelations or any earth-shattering.
American women go through the same things. Over here, women are getting more masculine and men are getting more feminine. 75% of us are overweight to obese. So i think you'll see these qualities a lot more often in American men.
That beautiful young Filipina you have now will look like her mom later down the road, picture that.
You talk about clingy! Filipinas are clingy not foreigners so much! LOL! I do not like to be touched by people I don’t know! Any guy who sends you banana pics should be reported and banned or blocked immediately. Never send your pics of private parts either, or any other strange requests. So, I agree with part of the video but find other parts very different from my experiences in PH!
She is referring to foreigners that just met a Filipina and don't know each other yet, foreigners tend to think it's ok to be touchy, I agree with you that when they start dating the Filipina is the clingy one!
A clingy man is 10× worse. He definitely ain't out making money if he that clingy.
I would agree. Even though I love touching, hugging etc., I don't do that to people in general unless I am relatively sure it'll be welcome. Filipinas were way more touchy than I am. "Interested" women, I mean - not the cashier at the barber!
I think she's saying to not be too clingy and touchy if you literally just met. Being clingy and touchy once your in a committed relationship is a very different story
The only touching I do with someone I just met is shake their hand.
I don’t have a foot thing going on but some men do. So if your LDR person wants a picture of your feet why not send it, especially if you don’t consider it a sexualized part of your body.
Sounds like a lot of beta male behaviours.
Tell me I'm wrong.
You're wrong. Don't know about what, but you just said to tell you.
@@ejtaylor73 fair enough. You are playing with a working brain.
@@ejtaylor73 gamer?
@@keithjetski3060 🤣 Couldn't resist. I don't play many games since they've all gone to online multiplayer. The few I do play, I don't have to play with other people. The negativity and toxicity of other people take away the peace, relaxation, and enjoyment of it.
@@ejtaylor73 I understand. I only liked pubg on silent mode and hide in small buildings as my tactic.
It is sad that millions of guys need this video. The cultural ignorance is off the charts.
Why do Filipinas that have these LDRs sleep with the man as soon as they get off the plane that day. They truly don’t know that person, I don’t care if they been talking online for 2 years. Before you see a person face to face y’all are not in a relationship.
Do you find men that send women that they never met money weird?
Are we talking about Filipinas in general, or maybe just your likes and dislikes?
boring
Haha plenty of old pensioners butt hurt
Bet you’re single