I mean, out kind of its about him. She learned how bad is to be married to a trash man. Got a decent man now, but she isn't taking that risk again. And good for her. Trish marked, grew, veges herself and leveled up HUGE. Crazy how that hacienda when you divorce the trash dude who's been holding you back the whole time. And him? He's just mad she left him in the dust where he belongs. But its not her fault he's a dusty. Now he could do something about it. Focus on himself, better himself. But we all know he won't, he'll just stay mad and be bitter. Whatever. So happy for trish though. I hope she's proud of herself, and honestly? I hope she's enjoying seeing what a mess he is
@@bottomofastairwell- I doubt it. She doesn't waste her time even looking back. She's too busy climbing mountains with her fella who is a well known writer who can take the kids to writing workshops in London. Why would she even think about her ex?
I cheated on my ex wife and now she's saying she doesn't want to marry again. She's attacking me. Lol. You put her off marriage because you were a lazy, selfish , lying cheater. She got rid of the dead weight and now she's thriving.
This is the most ridiculous statement in the whole post. The ex wife has a whole new life with what seems to be a much more evolved and supportive partner. The thought that her decision to not marry again is the ex husband’s inference that he still has some influence or control over her. And even though this thought at surface level seems to irritate him the truth is it’s a self deception that brings him comfort as he wants to believe her world still revolves around him. Sickening
He said her career took off almost immediately after the break up... BUT not soon enough for him to get ALIMONY 😮😂😂😂 So not only was he cheating for Years but he thought he deserved more from the divorce? These men and the audacity will never cease to amaze me 🤦🏾♀️🤣
Love it.❤ I actually do wonder about her backstory in this scenario. What was her financial situation prior to hooking up with the OP? I would guess living with family or friends.
I didn't see where the husband admits to actually MISSING his ex-wife, the only actions of his own that he seems to regret is divorcing too quickly to reap the benefits of the great job she got after he left.
I bet once she started sleeping with other people Trish realized hubby sucked in bed and he brought NOTHING to the table. Once she cut the dead weight loose she quickly replaced his financial "contributions" on her own and had one less person creating work and demanding her energy and attention. So glad she was strategic and waited until the divorce was final to up her career. Also my first thought was that hubby was the root cause of Annie's health issues.
OP: My tired, nagging, overworked, boring, frigid wife is no longer a tired, nagging, overworked, boring frigid woman now that we’re divorced. He still hasn’t figured out HE’s the problem. I bet when the kids visit, he dumps them on Annie, and she resents it. I live for these stories.
Also, she HAD to elevate -- she was now the primary provider for her children. But that's usually how it goes -- why don't men realize that the only thing that changed was their presence? YOU were the problem.
The thing is most men want Trish 2.0 all the time but will not attempt to be Trish 2.0’s new man. They expect Trish 2.0 from us when they are acting like Mr. No Teef-Sugar-Diabetic in all areas of the relationship. They don’t want to go on trips, help out around the home, support you or just plain old being approachable. He needs to mind his business, stop worrying about what Trish is doing and let her live her life. Go fix your teef Sir! lol that woman is thriving and I love it. Miserable men does not make happy women. Go be with your new woman you couldn’t wait to marry and yall be financially struggling while boot-knocking together since that was the only thing that was important to you! Team Trish!!
Trish is a perfect example that successful people only focus on controlling themselves. She accepted he cheated and realized it was time to find a new man. Instead of getting angry, she first secured a new man before leaving the marriage. Smart move! Go Trish!
That’s all you got to do. Disinvest your energy and repurpose it to work for you. You get to be self centered after years of being made to be a caretaker.
She didn’t need to “secure” a new man, sounds like she was secure in herself! Having a guy can be nice, but it doesn’t sound like she needed him to flourish in any way
He's just mad that she turned all of her energy toward herself and became a success. He probably really believes that if they had stayed married, she would have (and should have) poured all that into him and he would have been the successful one.
@@UnexpectedSpanishInquisition Wdym? She was already taking care of the house and the children, all by herself surely, and you want her to have stayed that way…?
@@EmyN Where did I say she should’ve stayed with a dusty bum? I never said anything of the sort. He’s correct that she would’ve continued to pour into him if they had stayed together. He’s 👉🏻incorrect👈🏻 about that energy and effort making him into the successful one. He’ll never be successful, regardless of who tries to build him up, because he’s a dusty bum and leopards don’t change their spots.
The fact that he snaggle tooth with sugar diabetes and his mistress turned current wife is now too tired and sick to give him Nookie is music to my ears 😂 especially knowing at this point ain’t no woman gone want a snaggle tooth diabetic on dialysis, he will be sexless, alone, and envious until the end of his days and I’m LOVIN IT!! 🤣🤣🤣
He made sex a number one priority, which is an immature perspective. And, she benefited from that by kicking him to the curb and living her best life. He should be mad at himself for erring on the side of selfishness.
1. This is an example of how men are lazy and outsource labor. He poo poos counseling; however, the advice on how to reframe his situation would be what a therapist would work on with him. He wanted a quick answer but he had the chance to do the work (access to medication and mental health care.) Which put him in a better position than most. 2. I know this is not what the ex wife or writer is asking for; however, if for some reason, they reconciled, I would bet rent money that instead of enjoying her new situation and using it to further improve their life, I bet he would sabotage her. Then he would blame her for their life becoming crap again.
You're so right. It would be a classic case of "her her back, ruin her life, and then hate it all and blame her coz he STILL won't see that he's the problem" Thankfully, it seems like this woman realized she could do SO MUCH better, and she's more loving her best life without him. Good for her
He was holding her back all along. He was always the dead weight in the marriage. I love this for her. She got rid of the anchor that was dragging her under and is thriving. I wonder if the daughter showed him that picture on purpose? 😂
that's probably true about the daughter. She probably witnessed the pan the dad caused her mom. I'm guessing he probably wasn't a present father if he wasn't a present husband.
It's very telling he didn't care while married if they saw other ppl. It was the fact that she was thriving with a new partner, how happy she was, and she didn’t fall apart. He wanted the divorce to be her demise, and it was Return to Sender from Trish! Good for her!
It seems like whoever this man marries - he makes them depressed. He made Trish unhappy and now he’s making Annie unhappy. With this bloke the grass is always greener.
The amount of times a man is cooking, cleaning, parenting, and giving non-sexual touch and there is a dead bedroom are negligible. She was a married single mom of course she didn't want to do the boom with him. He's probably in bad physical shape too with all those health issues. She did everything including keeping him health(ier) and now he's mad to see her thrive. Had he been working on himself and his family maybe he could have had sex with his wife. But, it's good he's a clown. She is much better without him
I'm making triple what I made the first few years as a "married single mother" and the family breadwinner. Yes, my former husband came home from work when our daughter was an INFANT and told me he was done working because it was so frustrating. He chose to be a house husband but I came home to a mess every day and I cleaned it. That was seventeen years ago. And I am the one who blew up the marriage... Don't regret that either.
Yeah sounds odd that his first relationship soured to the point that his wife was relieved that he was cheating. And now the wonderful woman he left his ex wife for is now falling apart and sounds like their marriage is on the rocks too. Hes the problem.
Well Annie was the other woman who never realized the hotness of this AH was from his wife. She was ambitious and now she has to live with the fruit of her labour.
That poor women told her kids she doesnt want to get married again - which is just a statement of how she thinks - and the dude is whining about her turning the kids against him. I despise men like this.
Oh, she’s happy and nice to him because her ex did her a favor cheating on her. His cheating gave her an out. She can’t thank him enough. 🎉he’s probably a drinker which caused the diabetes and poor help. The new girlfriend probably drinks too.
Well we're movin on up, To the east side. To a deluxe apartment in the sky Movin on up To the east side. We finally got our piece of the pie! Fish don't fry in the kitchen; Beans don't burn on the grill. Took a whole lotta tryin' Just to get up that hill. Now we're up in the big leagues Gettin' our turn at bat. *_As long as I live without you baby, there ain't nothin wrong with that!!!_* 😂❤ that’s the tune that sprung into my mind!! Us ladies are moving on up without these bears!!
Um, if they had financial problems before, and now he still has financial problems, but she doesnt, wouldnt that mean that he's the problem? He clearly spends too much money. Also, if she is so happy with her bf, but not with him, wouldn't that mean the bedroom issues and nagging are his fault?
I noted he said Annie kept bothering him about marrying her, like he had no say in the matter, and it wasn't his decision. He's an NPC in his own story.
I'm sorry but I bust out laughing when he lost that tooth 🤣 😂 All that hate made it fall out. Now he snaggle tooth and mad, sitting around worried bout what Trish doing 🤣🤣🤣
Instead of running to the next woman for s3x he should’ve have healed himself and attempted to heal his marriage. Now he’s failing and flailing and doesn’t have nobody to blame but himself.
My mum succeeded after she left my dad, he didn't. Time to stop looking at your ex wife look within yourself and go to therapy and work on yourself and with your own marriage
The first gentleman brought all of that on himself. He had a happy home. He had a good wife who was taking care of their children, and he left for what he thought would be greener pastures. Does he miss her or does he miss what he thinks she could have provided with her extra high paying income. Sometimes people don't love us, rather they love the things that we do for them.
And this is why vetting is so important. My vet test is when I’m sick or down to see how a man reacts and if he’s going to take care of me or out home duties. If no to both of these things. He isn’t the man for me cuz it means he sees me as a maid.
“Ex-wife _didn’t work that hard_ because she was busy with raising kids and keeping my house running,” and nagging me and now I’m a bitter Bob cuz I’m now unable to capitalize on the fruits of allllllllll her labor, fruits that were only possible once she moved on from my sorry CHEATING ssa and found an actually supportive PARTNER. 😂😂😂😂 The jokes literally write themselves. *edit, added cheating. Sorry, cheating aşş. Cuz let’s be 💯 here 😏
It doesn't make me smile. It's makes me laugh out loud 😂 And he's still blaming the ex wife for not having the life he wants, without doing any effort 🙄
This guy sounds like a loser who lucked out severely and got someone out of his league, and then blew it. Also, and i speak from experience here- nagging is the language of the unheard. Maybe he should have just taken her feelings into account instead of just cheating in an attempt to escape his problems.
Ashy and Annie are a couple now. He needs to stop watching Trish, and mind the business that's weighing him down. He was stressing his ex wife out and doesn't even want to admit it. Well wishes to Trish 🥂
Some partners are just energy vampires. Trish probably had the life sucked out of her living with that man. Why try to do better for yourself if it also benefits someone who doesn't appreciate you? Glad she got out and took off like a rocket. Go Trish go!
The problem these guys have is “where ever you go, there you are.” He’s the same awful human in his current relationship, and wondering why is life still sucks. He blamed his ex for all his life problems while in that relationship. Now STILL blaming her for his life problems (he couldn’t get alimony 😂, he’s not happy, etc..). People need to concentrate on themselves before getting in relationships, because if you’re not happy alone you can’t expect someone else to make you happy.
Why is their resentment over xes more valid than them disappointing their entire family? I see why she didn’t want him touching her. He didn’t seem to linger on the cheating, so I doubt that was the first time he turned to that “solution”. I don’t believe him about therapy, there are so many options these days. Crackheads can figure it out when they want to get clean He ran both wives into the ground. Selfish, incapable of actually loving someone
"The more I know men the beter I like my cat/dog!" So typical man messed up a good thing & Trish glowed up! Now older with Annie life has caught up, doesn't care for himself. Annie is older too & can't pick up the slack. The kids are older & require a different type of parenting. Hubby is realising his own mortality while Trish is living her best life, being loved up on & positive role model for his kids. I tell you I'm here for every lick of it! 💋 If Trish would've stayed she wouldn't have the life she has now. Hubby isn't sorry for destroying his marriage. He's just mad (seething his own words) because she not as miserable as he is. Growth vs. Stagnation, diabetes will wreck havoc on a body so there's no nookie, inflamed gums & tooth loss, a spare tire, no energy to flex to other men. Men will circle back to see if you're still available or accessible to them. At the same time Burb was posting this, Sancho was texting me with; "how you doing"? After not hearing from him for over a year! Brah bump all that drag men just make me laugh! 😹
I want the plot twist to be that he is too lazy and too dumb to have remembered to update the beneficiary listed on his life insurance after the divorce.
So his ex-wife was in poor health, tired, and irritable while she was married to him, but now she’s doing great. His new wife was vibrant and full of life, but became unhealthy, tired, and irritable after they got married. I wonder what the common denominator could be? 🤔
I'm so happy Trisha glowed up and attracted a much better, hands on partner which contributed to her getting more money. I love this for her!! I don't feel bad for Trisha's ex dust mite. He fu@ked around and found out. 😮😮😅😅
Exercise is free and would help him with the diabetes and brain chemistry. Therapy- no Self-reflection- no Start a side hustle to increase income- no Whine- yes Definitely think he’s going end up alone. 🤷🏻♀️
I don't get how they act like xes is the be all, end all, and they'd literally die if they don't get some. Xes is important, but it's not as dire a situation as they make it.
@@joylastname3035 And how the hell do these guys not understand that if their partner resents them they won't feel like sleeping with them!!?? Why would I be in the mood with my partner if I'm pissed at him and think he's not being a worthy mate?
It's the visible tooth falling out for me 😂😂😂😂. And he can't afford to get it fixed 😂😂😂😂. There are not enough laughing emojis for this. 😂😂😂 to infinity.
That's just him finding out! He cheated for YEARS!!! And wasn't even the least bit sorry for it at all! I really feel sorry for his new wife! She's just got an even worse version of him, but I don't feel too bad for her because she was sleeping with a married man and knew he was crap when she got with him.
Trust me... she was nagging about the lack of money and lack of help with the children. Add the cheating to the equation.., out goes the woman. He is like most of these delusional men. He is anguishing and pissed off that she's doing well and glowing up after all he did to try to drag her down. He thought he was gone get with Annie and live happily every after. What he is experiencing is called Karma. Ain't she a B?! He has to lay in the bed he created, sit back and watch his ex wife thrive.., and that's what he gets. Sad human being. smh.
The health-part sounded so much like karma! Like, all the pain and stress he caused her came back to to him twice as hard. He thought she was the problem and now is resisting to see that the problem was and is still himself.
I really enjoyed the response given to this Male who is in a downward spiral and in a stagnant state of projection. It was well written, and laced with solid foundational guidance.
He only is regretting her MONEY. He is pissed that she outearning him and wishes he didnt divorce. All the other crap is meaningless. This man is a child . Im proud of his ex wife for proving what we all say. Leave a cheater and thrive. They zap your self esteem otherwise.
I agree with the response to the first story - when you were reading the story about Trish, I felt like it was written by a wife who broke up with her husband and made up a story in her head about what she perceived is happening with her ex-husband. It doesn't sound realistic.
99.99% of the time when they say their SO is "nagging" they really mean they're not pulling their weight in the home/childcare. They don't realize they're telling on themselves when they complain about that. 🙃
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So his issue is that he had HOPED she would be miserable and make him feel better as a result? He wanted to break her down and demand that she STAY miserable so his squalid little affair can feel better? This sounds suspiciously like my ex husband.
"She's told the kids she'll never marry again, which feels like an attack on me" Oh get all the way over yourself, dude!
I mean, out kind of its about him. She learned how bad is to be married to a trash man. Got a decent man now, but she isn't taking that risk again. And good for her.
Trish marked, grew, veges herself and leveled up HUGE. Crazy how that hacienda when you divorce the trash dude who's been holding you back the whole time.
And him? He's just mad she left him in the dust where he belongs. But its not her fault he's a dusty.
Now he could do something about it. Focus on himself, better himself. But we all know he won't, he'll just stay mad and be bitter.
Whatever. So happy for trish though. I hope she's proud of herself, and honestly? I hope she's enjoying seeing what a mess he is
It is about him, and he's shirking the guilt.
Must be that "accountability" those redpill men are always going on about
@@bottomofastairwell- I doubt it. She doesn't waste her time even looking back. She's too busy climbing mountains with her fella who is a well known writer who can take the kids to writing workshops in London. Why would she even think about her ex?
@@rtphotos4691 fair, she's living her best life. ain't no time to think about losers when you're too busy enjoying your life
Marriage and divorce specialist, Dr. John Gottman, says that a "nagging" spouse is an unheard spouse.
Yeah. And when your wife bec silent, she’s out the door.
It's a direct reaction to abusive stonewalling.
Happy wife, happy life.
Yep 🙌🏾 and a quiet wife is planning her exit 🎉
@daintykeisha9787Yes, the "Walkaway/Wantaway" Wife.
A bear might delete you, even consume you, but would never see you as an endless resource to be exploited solely for its benefit
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I cheated on my ex wife and now she's saying she doesn't want to marry again. She's attacking me. Lol. You put her off marriage because you were a lazy, selfish , lying cheater. She got rid of the dead weight and now she's thriving.
This is the most ridiculous statement in the whole post. The ex wife has a whole new life with what seems to be a much more evolved and supportive partner. The thought that her decision to not marry again is the ex husband’s inference that he still has some influence or control over her. And even though this thought at surface level seems to irritate him the truth is it’s a self deception that brings him comfort as he wants to believe her world still revolves around him. Sickening
Nagging= asking your husband to actually parent the kids he helped make and help take care of the house he lives in.
Yes, once the kids are born she's doing 24 hour work days but "she's nagging"😒
I'd just stop and wait for him to "nag". Two can play.
Even telling them to take care of their OWN health and hygiene would be called "nagging''.
That part😂
Right!
He said her career took off almost immediately after the break up... BUT not soon enough for him to get ALIMONY 😮😂😂😂 So not only was he cheating for Years but he thought he deserved more from the divorce? These men and the audacity will never cease to amaze me 🤦🏾♀️🤣
They’re the real gold diggers. They think women are like that bc they’re like that. They do it with no shame.
Annie, are you okay? (2x) Are you okay, Annie? You've been hit by - you been struck by - a jealous hemotional.
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Love it.❤ I actually do wonder about her backstory in this scenario. What was her financial situation prior to hooking up with the OP? I would guess living with family or friends.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmfao
The fact men really thinks its ok to cheat when their partners BIRTH their children. Like, sir. The woman is healing and needs help.
I didn't see where the husband admits to actually MISSING his ex-wife, the only actions of his own that he seems to regret is divorcing too quickly to reap the benefits of the great job she got after he left.
She probably only got the great job because she wasn't busy minding him.
I admire her timing.
He wouldnt have been able to ask for alimony anyway since they were seeing other people before the marriage ended.
@seabreeze4559 it was impeccable 👌🏿 ❤
I noticed this aswell!
I bet once she started sleeping with other people Trish realized hubby sucked in bed and he brought NOTHING to the table. Once she cut the dead weight loose she quickly replaced his financial "contributions" on her own and had one less person creating work and demanding her energy and attention. So glad she was strategic and waited until the divorce was final to up her career. Also my first thought was that hubby was the root cause of Annie's health issues.
@@Peaches-268exactly! He had the nerve to mention the fact he ain’t getting alimony 😂😂😂 like bruh what??? Oh you a dusty dusty!!! Lol
Yep
Teeth falling out, diabetes, depression, debilitating envy.. why am I laughing so hard? 😂
😂😂😂😂 life is grand aint it??!! 🥂
I have a evil grin on my face throughout the entire video 😈😂
I hope he doesn't decide to get violent.
such a nightmare! lmaooo
Cause it's funny 😂😂😂, good for him
OP: My tired, nagging, overworked, boring, frigid wife is no longer a tired, nagging, overworked, boring frigid woman now that we’re divorced. He still hasn’t figured out HE’s the problem. I bet when the kids visit, he dumps them on Annie, and she resents it. I live for these stories.
Also, she HAD to elevate -- she was now the primary provider for her children. But that's usually how it goes -- why don't men realize that the only thing that changed was their presence? YOU were the problem.
The thing is most men want Trish 2.0 all the time but will not attempt to be Trish 2.0’s new man. They expect Trish 2.0 from us when they are acting like Mr. No Teef-Sugar-Diabetic in all areas of the relationship. They don’t want to go on trips, help out around the home, support you or just plain old being approachable. He needs to mind his business, stop worrying about what Trish is doing and let her live her life. Go fix your teef Sir! lol that woman is thriving and I love it. Miserable men does not make happy women. Go be with your new woman you couldn’t wait to marry and yall be financially struggling while boot-knocking together since that was the only thing that was important to you! Team Trish!!
This☝🏽☝🏾.
Trish is a perfect example that successful people only focus on controlling themselves. She accepted he cheated and realized it was time to find a new man. Instead of getting angry, she first secured a new man before leaving the marriage. Smart move! Go Trish!
adapt or die is the motto
That’s all you got to do. Disinvest your energy and repurpose it to work for you.
You get to be self centered after years of being made to be a caretaker.
She didn’t need to “secure” a new man, sounds like she was secure in herself! Having a guy can be nice, but it doesn’t sound like she needed him to flourish in any way
Right! I love Trish. She is my shero.
Secure another man? For what?
ironically if the ex wife was doing worse than him in his current situation he wouldn't be writing this.
sounds like trish made the right choice
He's just mad that she turned all of her energy toward herself and became a success. He probably really believes that if they had stayed married, she would have (and should have) poured all that into him and he would have been the successful one.
yes vampiric, isn't it?
Yeah, probably, tell us what you are really mad about dude 😂
Re: your last sentence… He’s partially correct. The first part of it is correct, just not the second part.
@@UnexpectedSpanishInquisition Wdym? She was already taking care of the house and the children, all by herself surely, and you want her to have stayed that way…?
@@EmyN Where did I say she should’ve stayed with a dusty bum? I never said anything of the sort.
He’s correct that she would’ve continued to pour into him if they had stayed together. He’s 👉🏻incorrect👈🏻 about that energy and effort making him into the successful one.
He’ll never be successful, regardless of who tries to build him up, because he’s a dusty bum and leopards don’t change their spots.
Maybe instead of taking antidepressants, he should lay off the haterade! 😂
I'm totally stealing that one ..🤣✌️
The fact that he snaggle tooth with sugar diabetes and his mistress turned current wife is now too tired and sick to give him Nookie is music to my ears 😂 especially knowing at this point ain’t no woman gone want a snaggle tooth diabetic on dialysis, he will be sexless, alone, and envious until the end of his days and I’m LOVIN IT!! 🤣🤣🤣
He made sex a number one priority, which is an immature perspective. And, she benefited from that by kicking him to the curb and living her best life. He should be mad at himself for erring on the side of selfishness.
men always think swinging is a plan B option, few actually wanna be married to ONE woman
He also probably has ED with all the health, sugar, weight issues. Success is the best revenge lol!!!😁😂
And now Annie is probably too sick to give him nookie. Karma 😂
That is if Annie can stand his diabetes ridden, tooth missing, once exciting affair partner who now is the downtrodden and broke husband 😂
He's been eating too many sweets for him to have lost a tooth. Probably comfort eating from all that depression over Trish living her best life😂
1. This is an example of how men are lazy and outsource labor. He poo poos counseling; however, the advice on how to reframe his situation would be what a therapist would work on with him. He wanted a quick answer but he had the chance to do the work (access to medication and mental health care.) Which put him in a better position than most.
2. I know this is not what the ex wife or writer is asking for; however, if for some reason, they reconciled, I would bet rent money that instead of enjoying her new situation and using it to further improve their life, I bet he would sabotage her. Then he would blame her for their life becoming crap again.
All of this. This man is a straight up demon.
You're so right.
It would be a classic case of "her her back, ruin her life, and then hate it all and blame her coz he STILL won't see that he's the problem"
Thankfully, it seems like this woman realized she could do SO MUCH better, and she's more loving her best life without him. Good for her
He was holding her back all along. He was always the dead weight in the marriage. I love this for her. She got rid of the anchor that was dragging her under and is thriving. I wonder if the daughter showed him that picture on purpose? 😂
that's probably true about the daughter. She probably witnessed the pan the dad caused her mom. I'm guessing he probably wasn't a present father if he wasn't a present husband.
He is dead weight for Annie too, one day hopefully she will see it and leave him alone.
It's very telling he didn't care while married if they saw other ppl. It was the fact that she was thriving with a new partner, how happy she was, and she didn’t fall apart. He wanted the divorce to be her demise, and it was Return to Sender from Trish! Good for her!
“Wasn’t working that hard…” sounds like this man has never cooked himself a meal or washed his own underwear in his life 😂
"The loss of an tooth hit harder than the diabetic diagnosis." Come on, y'all
Lets put something on the grill for the ex-wife leveling up. 👩🏿🍳
It seems like whoever this man marries - he makes them depressed. He made Trish unhappy and now he’s making Annie unhappy. With this bloke the grass is always greener.
The amount of times a man is cooking, cleaning, parenting, and giving non-sexual touch and there is a dead bedroom are negligible. She was a married single mom of course she didn't want to do the boom with him. He's probably in bad physical shape too with all those health issues. She did everything including keeping him health(ier) and now he's mad to see her thrive. Had he been working on himself and his family maybe he could have had sex with his wife. But, it's good he's a clown. She is much better without him
She’s happier, richer, and living a better life without him and he can’t stand it 😂😂😂😂
I'm making triple what I made the first few years as a "married single mother" and the family breadwinner.
Yes, my former husband came home from work when our daughter was an INFANT and told me he was done working because it was so frustrating.
He chose to be a house husband but I came home to a mess every day and I cleaned it.
That was seventeen years ago.
And I am the one who blew up the marriage... Don't regret that either.
Thanks for sharing!
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Jesus Christ!
He probably stress annie the hell out of
Lol right? He's probably the reason that Annie is becoming tired and irritable
That part!!
Annie can enjoy the prize she so desperately wanted.
Yeah sounds odd that his first relationship soured to the point that his wife was relieved that he was cheating. And now the wonderful woman he left his ex wife for is now falling apart and sounds like their marriage is on the rocks too. Hes the problem.
Well Annie was the other woman who never realized the hotness of this AH was from his wife. She was ambitious and now she has to live with the fruit of her labour.
That poor women told her kids she doesnt want to get married again - which is just a statement of how she thinks - and the dude is whining about her turning the kids against him. I despise men like this.
😂😂😂
Boy is mad that the ex wife completely upgraded and leveled up her life. Homeboy was holding her back 😂😂😂
Oh, she’s happy and nice to him because her ex did her a favor cheating on her. His cheating gave her an out. She can’t thank him enough. 🎉he’s probably a drinker which caused the diabetes and poor help. The new girlfriend probably drinks too.
They're so predictable we need a song, like a theme tune.
Sedentary lifestyle = Diabetes
or the over eat or they smoke or a combination of all three
Well we're movin on up,
To the east side.
To a deluxe apartment in the sky
Movin on up
To the east side.
We finally got our piece of the pie!
Fish don't fry in the kitchen;
Beans don't burn on the grill.
Took a whole lotta tryin'
Just to get up that hill.
Now we're up in the big leagues
Gettin' our turn at bat.
*_As long as I live without you baby, there ain't nothin wrong with that!!!_*
😂❤ that’s the tune that sprung into my mind!! Us ladies are moving on up without these bears!!
Um, if they had financial problems before, and now he still has financial problems, but she doesnt, wouldnt that mean that he's the problem? He clearly spends too much money. Also, if she is so happy with her bf, but not with him, wouldn't that mean the bedroom issues and nagging are his fault?
I noted he said Annie kept bothering him about marrying her, like he had no say in the matter, and it wasn't his decision. He's an NPC in his own story.
I'm sorry but I bust out laughing when he lost that tooth 🤣 😂 All that hate made it fall out. Now he snaggle tooth and mad, sitting around worried bout what Trish doing 🤣🤣🤣
😂😭 thats his Karma
"Her career took off soon after the divorce, but not soon enough for me to receive alimony" Happy FaFo Season!
Instead of running to the next woman for s3x he should’ve have healed himself and attempted to heal his marriage. Now he’s failing and flailing and doesn’t have nobody to blame but himself.
My mum succeeded after she left my dad, he didn't. Time to stop looking at your ex wife look within yourself and go to therapy and work on yourself and with your own marriage
I'm wheezing at the visual of him sulking around with a missing tooth while his ex thrives 😂
The first gentleman brought all of that on himself. He had a happy home. He had a good wife who was taking care of their children, and he left for what he thought would be greener pastures. Does he miss her or does he miss what he thinks she could have provided with her extra high paying income. Sometimes people don't love us, rather they love the things that we do for them.
And this is why vetting is so important. My vet test is when I’m sick or down to see how a man reacts and if he’s going to take care of me or out home duties. If no to both of these things. He isn’t the man for me cuz it means he sees me as a maid.
The way I paused this video, went downstairs, grabbed my popcorn, came back upstairs, un-paused the video, and ate it while watching.....🍿😆
😂😂😂😂😂 movie of the year
“Ex-wife _didn’t work that hard_ because she was busy with raising kids and keeping my house running,” and nagging me and now I’m a bitter Bob cuz I’m now unable to capitalize on the fruits of allllllllll her labor, fruits that were only possible once she moved on from my sorry CHEATING ssa and found an actually supportive PARTNER. 😂😂😂😂 The jokes literally write themselves.
*edit, added cheating. Sorry, cheating aşş. Cuz let’s be 💯 here 😏
It doesn't make me smile.
It's makes me laugh out loud 😂
And he's still blaming the ex wife for not having the life he wants, without doing any effort 🙄
This guy sounds like a loser who lucked out severely and got someone out of his league, and then blew it. Also, and i speak from experience here- nagging is the language of the unheard. Maybe he should have just taken her feelings into account instead of just cheating in an attempt to escape his problems.
Ashy and Annie are a couple now. He needs to stop watching Trish, and mind the business that's weighing him down.
He was stressing his ex wife out and doesn't even want to admit it.
Well wishes to Trish 🥂
Ashy😂😂😂
"Ashy and Annie"😂😂😂😂. Sounds like a Netflix comedy.
He's stressing Annie out too. She'll be out the door when she wises up.
So many times men hold women back! This is a prime example
Some partners are just energy vampires. Trish probably had the life sucked out of her living with that man. Why try to do better for yourself if it also benefits someone who doesn't appreciate you? Glad she got out and took off like a rocket. Go Trish go!
I'll reframe it, sir: sucks to suck.
The problem these guys have is “where ever you go, there you are.” He’s the same awful human in his current relationship, and wondering why is life still sucks. He blamed his ex for all his life problems while in that relationship. Now STILL blaming her for his life problems (he couldn’t get alimony 😂, he’s not happy, etc..). People need to concentrate on themselves before getting in relationships, because if you’re not happy alone you can’t expect someone else to make you happy.
If the woman has to do all of the work of parenting and keeping up the house where is the energy for sex supposed to come from?
Why is their resentment over xes more valid than them disappointing their entire family?
I see why she didn’t want him touching her. He didn’t seem to linger on the cheating, so I doubt that was the first time he turned to that “solution”. I don’t believe him about therapy, there are so many options these days. Crackheads can figure it out when they want to get clean
He ran both wives into the ground. Selfish, incapable of actually loving someone
As red pill 🤡 say, “it’s biological”. Ok, but when it comes to stuff like work or the game, they magically know how to turn their biology off.
"The more I know men the beter I like my cat/dog!" So typical man messed up a good thing & Trish glowed up! Now older with Annie life has caught up, doesn't care for himself. Annie is older too & can't pick up the slack. The kids are older & require a different type of parenting. Hubby is realising his own mortality while Trish is living her best life, being loved up on & positive role model for his kids. I tell you I'm here for every lick of it! 💋
If Trish would've stayed she wouldn't have the life she has now. Hubby isn't sorry for destroying his marriage. He's just mad (seething his own words) because she not as miserable as he is. Growth vs. Stagnation, diabetes will wreck havoc on a body so there's no nookie, inflamed gums & tooth loss, a spare tire, no energy to flex to other men.
Men will circle back to see if you're still available or accessible to them. At the same time Burb was posting this, Sancho was texting me with; "how you doing"? After not hearing from him for over a year! Brah bump all that drag men just make me laugh! 😹
I want the plot twist to be that he is too lazy and too dumb to have remembered to update the beneficiary listed on his life insurance after the divorce.
the way i just gasped 🤣
Oh Well, He reaped what he sowed.🤷 And its all on him not on her.
So his ex-wife was in poor health, tired, and irritable while she was married to him, but now she’s doing great. His new wife was vibrant and full of life, but became unhealthy, tired, and irritable after they got married.
I wonder what the common denominator could be? 🤔
It has never occured to him that he was the problem. 🤯
Sounds like Trish got out of this marriage just in time. 😂😂
I'm so happy Trisha glowed up and attracted a much better, hands on partner which contributed to her getting more money. I love this for her!! I don't feel bad for Trisha's ex dust mite. He fu@ked around and found out. 😮😮😅😅
Imma name my first born daughter Trish because of this story lmao
He wanted her to suffer for his mistakes and she ended up thriving. He needs to deal with his KARMA because that is entirely in him and his spouse.
Oh I don't think she didn't want $ex but she most definitely fed up with him😂
Exercise is free and would help him with the diabetes and brain chemistry.
Therapy- no
Self-reflection- no
Start a side hustle to increase income- no
Whine- yes
Definitely think he’s going end up alone. 🤷🏻♀️
So... was the extra nookie worth it?
Exactly. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
It never is, in a couple years his peen won't work anyway
I don't get how they act like xes is the be all, end all, and they'd literally die if they don't get some. Xes is important, but it's not as dire a situation as they make it.
@@joylastname3035 And how the hell do these guys not understand that if their partner resents them they won't feel like sleeping with them!!?? Why would I be in the mood with my partner if I'm pissed at him and think he's not being a worthy mate?
why can't these guys buy a Fleshlight? SERIOUSLY?
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Yessss Trish get your whole Life, I’m super proud of her. Sending Trish Love and Light
It's the visible tooth falling out for me 😂😂😂😂. And he can't afford to get it fixed 😂😂😂😂. There are not enough laughing emojis for this. 😂😂😂 to infinity.
That's just him finding out!
He cheated for YEARS!!!
And wasn't even the least bit sorry for it at all!
I really feel sorry for his new wife!
She's just got an even worse version of him, but I don't feel too bad for her because she was sleeping with a married man and knew he was crap when she got with him.
Trust me... she was nagging about the lack of money and lack of help with the children. Add the cheating to the equation.., out goes the woman. He is like most of these delusional men. He is anguishing and pissed off that she's doing well and glowing up after all he did to try to drag her down. He thought he was gone get with Annie and live happily every after. What he is experiencing is called Karma. Ain't she a B?! He has to lay in the bed he created, sit back and watch his ex wife thrive.., and that's what he gets. Sad human being. smh.
He got the sugar diabetes, not the salt one. lol
I love this song. Play it again 🎶🎼
Yeah anti depressants aren't magic. We have to actual do work along with take medication to get healthy.
The health-part sounded so much like karma! Like, all the pain and stress he caused her came back to to him twice as hard. He thought she was the problem and now is resisting to see that the problem was and is still himself.
Omg I laughed out loud when you said "sugar diabetes" 😂😅
I see "diabetes" and automatically add "sugah"
Now I'm going to, too!
Patagonia? 😂 She is pata-GONE-yeah!
Maybe he should start collecting cans and bottles to afford o new tooth, or start a go fund me
At the end when she said two thriving ex wives would be too much, totally savage!
She can thrive because she is no longer with him.
I really enjoyed the response given to this Male who is in a downward spiral and in a stagnant state of projection. It was well written, and laced with solid foundational guidance.
The fact that he wanted to ask for alimony is insane
Welp, looks like he is left holding his own nuts while Trish is living a better life. Anyway, Happy Friday!
Nagging= "she repeatedly told me what she needed and wanted despite me ignoring her every time."
He was blocking her blessings... good riddance 😂🤣✌🏾
Too bad, so sad.
He only is regretting her MONEY. He is pissed that she outearning him and wishes he didnt divorce. All the other crap is meaningless. This man is a child . Im proud of his ex wife for proving what we all say. Leave a cheater and thrive. They zap your self esteem otherwise.
This is the BEST shit I've heard all week.
Thank you for this. God i needed that dopamine today.
And hell yeah Trish. You go girl!
All I can think of is 🗣️🎶🎶Annie are you ok, Annie are you ok, Are you ok Annie!? Annie are you ok!? 🎼🎵
That was a classic! What a tool.
My favorite part is how happy the kids are, and how happy the kids are that their mom is happy (the daughter showing pictures of mom hiking).
I agree with the response to the first story - when you were reading the story about Trish, I felt like it was written by a wife who broke up with her husband and made up a story in her head about what she perceived is happening with her ex-husband. It doesn't sound realistic.
Trish, show us your ways! 😩
Dude needs a name change to Sirocco, because he is a dust storm!
Videos like this are like a window to an alternate timeline for myself if I'd stayed married to eventually divorce later.
After cheating he got the life he deserved end of discussion. He shouldn't sugar coat it. 💯🤷🏼♀️ He is miserable and that's good for him.
Not the loss of a tooth😂😭
Some men feel entitled to you and everything you have when you're not even with them anymore
99.99% of the time when they say their SO is "nagging" they really mean they're not pulling their weight in the home/childcare. They don't realize they're telling on themselves when they complain about that. 🙃
I have learned so much from you, Burb! Thank you for the voice you provide to our community. You have really helped me grow. I love to share your content with other women, esp my younger sister. It’s so important for women to talk! I’m 22 and about to graduate, most grateful for what you’ve taught me
I live for his ex-wife living a wonderful and fun lifestyle with a famous writer while he is poor, miserable and toothless. 💀💀💀💀
I bet that nagging was for him to take care of himself so he wouldn't end up a diabetic and with his teeth rotting out his head 😂😂😂
I read this last night and I was hoping you'd see it and talk about it.. I'm glad you did!
So his issue is that he had HOPED she would be miserable and make him feel better as a result? He wanted to break her down and demand that she STAY miserable so his squalid little affair can feel better? This sounds suspiciously like my ex husband.