The tea set thief hates her - his sister hates her and his family is toxic. He gaslit her the entire time she searched for it. So glad she’s got her brothers and leaving his ass. She’s impressive!
"no one cares about mental health when it comes to men" cue him not giving a fuck about his wife's health and cheating on her, and then everyone around him supporting him when he decided to make changes.
And him pretending he doesn't know how to Google therapists in his area. 🙄 he had to rely heavily on his brother, which sounds like it drove his SIL crazy
@@LadyintheLake9 they are very codependent. They act so helpless when it comes to adulting. I remember someone gave me an 8 ball stress ball. My childish ex managed to burst the ball on the floor. He acted like he couldn’t find any cleaning products. After getting him something to clean with he wanted me to clean it up because he didn’t know what to do. I told him there are instructions on the bottle, read them.
Not just dense, delusional! The dude was never his best friend! “My best friend has like 10 best friends, but he said I was his bestest friend.” But they don’t talk or text for months or years?
He said ,,we were so happy until she left me" ...meanwhile he was cheating on her...Cheaters are like that, so entitled. Notice how HE cheated and then said that HE was betrayed and now making a victim of himself. Also notice how he treats his new wife. He disrespects women and completely lacks empathy. Glad that the ex wife found someone better...
He very much was like "everything is perfect, i have a loving relationship, amazing kids and tons of friends". But the moment he started writing we discovered that he has no contact with his best friend for 3 years, that he cheated and got cheated on, that many friends hated him and he had a rocky relationship with his parents. If anything it sounds like op was in a state of delusion and denial. And this is the case with many men, they convince themselves of an alternative reality and go on with life for years like that, until someone else breaks the fantasy. Like the best friend marrying the ex, or the fight with the current wife. Then its all "out of nowhere" and "suddenly they changed"
@@mariapaz6379whatever it is I think ppl were fake pretend friend with him also cause u know when you're family well off u think u can do whatever without consequences and ppl trying to be close to u cause they want to be in proximity of ur status
I mean the ex wife and the ex friend both sounded like great people who really deserve each other, my main takeaway from this story was that I was happy for them
Wait..so he cheated on his wife with a woman with three kids already? He reversed the vasectomy and had one anyway? I thought men didn't want a woman with a bunch of kids!? This whole situation is messy and he need to just quit. Ugh Edit to add: The baby isn't his!? FAFO!!!!!!! 😂😂😂
@@laceyl5682 clear signs of past trauma and he took advantage of that. I think he looks down on her too. She just needed someone to provide for them. Without him, she’ll have to go home.
I hope his new wife isn’t the type of mother to let every bf or fling around her kids…cause that’s only gonna lead to them having the same issues as her. 🙁
He referred to her children from past relationships, so she had 2 or more baby daddies before he married her. Add another baby daddy on for the last child. Wow, talk about blowing up your life.
The tea set one: he knew she was going to pass it on to HER child, did he not want to have children with her because that’s what it seemed like. Also why couldn’t he buy his niece a tea set instead of doing all this mess. SMH.
Cause the tea set didn't mean nothing to him and his loving anything else but him affects his ego so he gave it away thinking she would now give that love to him but she was ready to sign them papers them papers 🎶😂
To be honest, I think he did it because he knew that it had value. It was a sentimental value to his wife, but real bone China is worth a lot! He gave it to his sister and her child for two reasons. The biggest one was the envy and dislike he felt for his wife because if he loved her in even the smallest way, the thought of stealing from her would have never crossed his mind. The second reason again envy and resentment that his wife and her family had traditions and family keepsakes that meant something to her, and his family possibly didn't. So not only was he stealing her tea set; he was stealing her joy, her family traditions, and something important to her and trying to take it for himself and his family. He was stealing her generational wealth as well as monetary wealth. He knew this,or else he would have just gotten the cheap one for his niece and kept it pushing...
He also could have wanted to hurt her, in the same vein as other men killing their wives/girlfriends plants. It is jealousy but also something more sinister.
Then he said " I was going to ask you anyway. " I guess he thought if he asked she would say OK. 😢 This is why men want submissive wives . A submissive wife would've said " OK, that's fine , she can keep it . " 😊
People in the comments missed the fact that the best friend was talking ish about his new wife. Of course he was. He was upset because his friend cheated on his now wife. In other words, he actually loves her and even though he couldn't be with her when she was married, he still cared about her enough not to want to see her hurt by her cheating husband.
I WISH somebody WOULD tell ANY member of this household that we're TOO OLD for cool toys! We would ALL laugh out loud, including the CATS! 🤣😻 Bless that sweet lady for honoring her Nana's love!
I have a big burly man named "Tinesha" show up with my DD, at 8:30 at night. I always tell them to leave in on the mat but he insisted on using my RING. I told him he could leave it and go. He threw up his hands and walked down the sidewalk, then stood there a minute. I could see him through my side window and waited until he was gone. Then I called DD and reported him. I'm not sure how they are going to verify who it really is but I won't be ordering from them again.
She needs to stay away from the thief of a husband. It's time for a divorce! That's dangerous behavior displayed by the husband and his family, tea set or not!
First story was so wild. He CONVENIENTLY left out that he cheated on his first wife the whole first part of the story and I knew it even without the update. Great illustration of them not having empathy and that it’s something that needs to be built up and worked on in order to maintain it just like a muscle. The fact that he was blindsided and hurt was all that mattered. Him destroying their marriage didn’t figure in at all- she just decided to leave out of the blue. 🙄
I leave a box outside on my front porch and put a note in the app to leave it on the box. I know that wouldn't work for some people, but it works for me.
I'm always nervous for my friends if they marry into a shady family. They assume their husbands will take up for them, but they rarely do. The tea set story was really cruel.
Life experience and reading other stories from women has me convinced that sooooo man men never evolve out of a toddler level mindset. They want their cake (toys) and eat it too. They want a harem (toys) to use and abuse without anyone else touching them, yet neglecting and abandoning each woman (toy) until he throws a tantrum seeing someone else wanting them. Rage level anger (tantrum) when things don't go their way. Only focusing on their own wants and needs and oblivious to those others (like a toddler). I am so damn tired 😔
This is going to sound strange but I fully believe the reason why they don’t mention things like cheating is because despite it being an important detail they don’t see it as important to the story they’re telling. Like he didn’t bring it up until he was asked in the comments which means that to him, his cheating wasn’t a crucial detail to the story he told.
This. Absolutely. To hurt someone else is meaningless to them - factor in women aren’t really regarded as fully human by most men. I came to this conclusion 20 years ago and nothing I’ve experienced & observed in my life or on social media has disabused me of this concept. FAFO.
Ohhhhh, poor baby. He cheated and then got cheated on.... It never ceases to amaze me how people refuse to believe that starting a relationship on a fake foundation is nothing but a recipe for disaster.
I knew he had cheated the moment he mentioned his new wife's age and how long he had been divorced from his ex. Also, his new wife had her first baby before she was 18 and had 3 kids when they met when she was 21! I feel sorry for her. I think it is sweet karmic justice that the new baby was not his. His ex is obviously better off with his best friend than with him.
Current wife was likely already in early stages of pregnancy and “convinced” him to have a bio kid with her so she could cover her tracks. It’s so weird.
Was on the dude's side for feeling betrayed by best friend and ex wife til the truth started coming out 😂 Should've started the story with "I cheated on my ex wife and married my affair partner"
She let me get this straight. He left his ex wife for his current wife who was 26 with 3 kids now 4 by DIFFERENT fathers 😂 Oh he sure knows how to pick em huh
I almost felt sorry for that guy. Of course, the ex didn't answer calls or emails. Of course, the best friend got tired of his ass too. He wanted to keep tabs on his ex-wife to make sure she stayed upset.
That tea set story has me livid. The audacity, betrayal, emotional abuse and tastlessness of it all. I'm glad she had brothers to pull up in both cities.
The first story is a great example of men NEEDING the help we keep telling to get and it's not for us. It's so they don't continue with patterns of self destructive behavior to run away from past traumas but hey i guess having your bestie marry the ex you cheated on is better 🤷🏽♀️ For the second story I would have gone ballistic if something my nana gave me went missing because some man deemed it appropriate to give away my things. And we as women need to stop going back and forth with disingenuous men on the internet and let me talk to themselves. The last story is partially why i dont use door dash anymore. Their customer service is trash and their delivery people are notorious for being unhinged and petty. Men using female profiles to do deliveries is a problem on uber eats too but I've started to report the accounts because it seems to happens more at night which makes me uncomfortable. I also have my deliveries set to "leave at door" to avoid any interactions.
I think if you are a single woman, you really must have "leave at door" for deliveries. Those apps hire such random people to do deliveries. Yes, they do background checks but even background checks don't catch everything and sometimes the most abusive people know how to get around them.
1st story, I knew the OP cheated and married his AP as soon as I saw the age difference. She started having kids when she was a minor. He admitted that he got with her because he felt like she "needed' him. It's funny how delusional he is; he sees himself as a victim & saw his ex moving on as a "betrayal." It's telling that his sister-in-law doesn't like him, & he doesn't get along with his parents. Now he knows how it feels to be cheated on. I doubt his 2nd marriage will last. He's going to end up alone with a lot of regrets. 2nd story, the husband and SIL are horrible people. 3rd story, These men are probably felons who are using their girlfriends or some female relative's identities to find work.
Wow that is the most "growth" I've ever seen from one of these men who f-ed around and found out. That is exactly the follow up that I pray for when I read those posts.
Did anyone else find it gross how he was 32 when he got with his 21yo mistress (who he probably met when she was even younger)? But sure, his ex-wife and friend were the evil ones 😅 I mean, at least he's going to therapy and reflecting on his actions, I've met many men who leave a trail of chaos and misery behind them and they don't even realize it (or care about it, tbh).
What a terrible husband. My husband has a tea seat he got from his grandmother that he used for tea parties with his 2 girls when they were younger and it would never cross my mind to do anything with it no even if we had a girl of our own, what he does with it would be his decision to.
21:49 She absolutely did the RIGHT THING. It wasn't the fact it was a tea set or a heirloom. He doesn't respect her or care. He could have at least asked or just bought that little girl her own. How did they all think it was okay to STEAL IT? She must have missed some SERIOUS RED FLAGS?
my dad bought me xmas presents, wrapped them up, gave them to me, then before I could unbox them they went 'missing' and he TOLD ME I couldn't take them out of the box because they'd be valuable 'one day' I was like but they are MINE not YOURS still have no idea where they are
It maddens me how men can hit the nail on the head and still miss the point entirely all the damn time. "It's not just about a tea set, can't be" yeah no duh Sherlock, OP literally explained this in detail in her post, and and then spelled it out again in her reply. And he still had the nerve to act like she was wrong for wanting to leave "over a tea set" while he was right to deduce the obvious conclusion that her wanting to leave was not simply "over a tea set" like which is it? Maybe they should be asking their brother's wives for a therapist's number too
My dad who died when I was 18 had a WWII photo album. One day I was looking for it and it was gone. I was upset. I asked my then husband and he said he loaned it to his friend. I said he should have asked me first. He said will it was our “Steve” and wouldn’t I let him borrow it? If our friend asked me I would have said yes. But I was never asked. This was an item that is valuable to me. He has also used many things that I had bought to make my life easier and he’s ruined it. Like a bike trailer I bought so I could put the kids on it and start biking. He decided to use it then left it and my bike out in the rain. So sad that he could never respect me or my things.
I feel sorry for him. He is taking an active approach towards his healing. He should absolutely leave his current wife. She has 3 kids before him, cheated on him and had another baby that is not his. He will not be able to heal while he’s constantly inflicting himself with pain. Perhaps he believes he deserves it, but it’s time for him to accept the hurt he caused his ex, the pain his current wife is causing, close the door on both and walk into a new, happy life. Karma is paid. No need to stay in that space. It’s time for him to complete his healing and enter into a new relationship a restored man.
Story 1: Find out season got these men steering small vessels through a storm on the infamously unruly North Sea. Good luck, sailors. Story 2: The BALLS on this man. The unmitigated gall to steal her tea set and then help her look for it. A tea set with a lifetime of memories. My GOD. If it was a 4 carat ring no one would misunderstand. ThAt HaS VaLuE. Go str8 to hades sir, do not pass go and do not collect 200 dollars but DO sign this dissolution of marriage on your way there. DF!
The covert narcissist "reidealizing" the ex wife. He deserves everything he gets. The new wife, his affair partner, deserves everything she gets. A match made in hell that they are both creating.
It’s wild how abusive people and those who defend them all have a pattern of pretending that whatever an abusive person has done isn’t as bad as the people who refuse to put up with them. Yet how often have we also seen men tell women to blame themselves when bad relationships get worse because the woman didn’t leave? So women who don’t forgive and leave are “overreacting” and being “emotional”, but women who stay must blame themselves for the abusive actions of others. Cute. Idk how many women are gonna need to file for divorce for abusers, cheaters, and narcissists to accept the reality that actions have consequences and nobody owes them a second chance...but honestly, who cares? It’s not their victims’ job to “fix” them or change their mind.
Wow that guy's *complete* lack of awareness. Just bumbling through his life and blaming everyone else while sitting in the rubble of the life he exploded. It's a trope for a reason. There's this silly image i get in my head so often, like when men say 'choose better' or 'what was she wearing?' or 'what did she do to make him unalive / stalk / grape her?'.... here is the image in my head: a life sized pinball machine, and men are these random steel balls rolling around smashing into things. Everything is 'in their way'. And everything/everyone they smash into must just accept that this is their nature - and either get out of the way, anticipate their moves, or accept fault for being smashed into. It's as if this bumbling mayhem is their divine right.
There's something that bothers me that I don't see many people acknowledge in my everyday life. Problems that revolve around a specific tangible thing/place/tradition/action (the tea set, in this case) that arise in a relationship, will end up tainting that once loved thing with a horrible memory that cannot be erased. The negativity hangs around the thing now, and what can you do? Sure, you can attempt to build new positive memories, but it will never be the same as it was before the problem! He didn't just steal the tea set from her, he forever associated with his vile actions!
Nothing against anyone who orders doordash or any of those service companies that come to your home. Because I know there's different situations for different people. But I don't order from them. I go out in public so i can do my shopping around other people and there's cameras. I do not want some random strangers coming up to my door. I've never been a fan of it. 32:27
Even when the first guy is doing things for other people it's because it's "good for him" instead of just doing what he should be doing in the first place..... Wild asf. What a self absorbed loser. My chest felt tight during the second story... I was so worried that the psycho would get mad and break a piece of the set or something. Makes me so mad, dude. Good on her for getting tf out of there. The embarrassing way he switched up and that guy in the comments with his poor grammar and room temperature IQ. There absolutely needs to be more regulation and safety measures for companies like doordash... Even if it's just a matter of a clean driving record, that's reason enough. Scary asf.
Notice how in the first story, dude says "MY EX-WIFE" and "MY WIFE". Like, DUDE, to me, "ex-partner" doesn't exist. You have a wife now, the woman your friend married is just a person you have known.
STORY 1: This guy is a trip. He's bragging about how much this guy is his best friend, and how "at least 10 other people think he's their best friend, but he's said that I am his best friend always", but this guy married his ex-wife. He divorced his ex, but doesn't understand why she wants nothing more to do with him and doesn't respond to his numerous attempts to reach her. He is clueless and whiny. Hysterical.
Spooner1932 is completely glossing over exactly what OP said: it’s about the abuse, gaslighting, manipulation, etc. He either doesn’t know how to read or didn’t read the post. It’s not over a tea set!
I wonder where dashers are posing as women. I have never had this issue. I hope people are reporting every incident. Not just to the company but to police if necessary
The tea set guy us being deliberately obtuse. It's bot about the item itself. It's about the fact that her husband gave away a sentimental item of hers, then tried to cover it up. Even after seeing how it hurt her. This man violated his wife's trust, and you can't have love without trust.
First story: That man is most likely a narc. They are often pretty clueless about other people's feelings, and doing actions that are inconsiderate of others. What type of person (man or woman) says they can go several months without even having a phone call from their so-called best friend? Narcs are really that obtuse because they are so extremely self-absorbed. ETA: He mentions how felt like he was 'saving' his current wife. Narc men are concerned with HOW they appear to others, not how they ACTUALLY are. He needed a mirror to look at himself, not pointing fingers at other people. ETA 2: I hope he gets better. Therapy had to happen for him to get better. I wish him all the best. 🕊
I don’t think that’s narc behavior. My bestie is like that, but I know she is in a stressful situation and works full-time. I think about her all of the time, but have to understand she has other things to worry about; that‘s life.
The second story, lemme dumb it for the men. Imagine your wife steals your Play Station in which you have achieve many levels with people you have good memories with just because her brother's son wants a PS as well so they conspired to steal it from you and pretend you lost it. Now watch the men say those are grounds for divorce 😂
I didn't know door dash allowed using different names. On apps life Lyft and Uber you are required to use your government name as the driver and rider. As a rider i wish i could use a nickname but i understand it's for both parties' safety because being in someone's car requires trust and accountability.
BUT THROW THEIR VIDEO GAMES OUT......lie about it, and pretend and see if WE WOMEN DONT END UP IN THE MORGUE. Am I right or am I wrong??? Glad women ARE LEAVING -- and nope we are not scared of loneliness. Women handle that just fine thank you. The audacity smh
Well good for the first guy. I am now going through what his ex wife went through. Soon as he said the ex was not talking to him or even sending a thank you message back I knew he cheated on her with the second. Now he wants to be this awesome dude with second and have the nerve to expect loyalty and honesty…tuh. The nerve. 😂😂😂😂 the second wife has him raising 4kids that are not his is hilarious. You reap what you sow and I do not feel bad for him. The second wife is his karma and downfall
I'm only halfway through and I'm like who tf is this dude 🙄 he is playing dumb then suddenly "oh I cheated" like this was all HIS fault 😂😂😂 ridiculous! Glad the wife and ex bestie got together. Karma 😂😂❤ I also have to add it's not lost on me he got with a 26 year old and acting aloof lmao bro, ya did it on purpose
First, it’s what he deserves and he should stay married, he knew how she was and she he. Two, divorce divorce divorce……that’s diabolical. I agree, definitely don’t drop the charges. Men telling women to stay through abuse (mental, physical, emotional, financially) and cheating, 🙄 and that’s why we rather be in the woods with a 🐻….third one, report them, that’s dangerous. They’ll lose their position but if they have to have their boyfriends use their name it means those men aren’t 💩 and wouldn’t pass the basic background check, but you’re letting them use your name?
26:36 when people tell women to TALK to thesr none bears about what they do, what they mean is engage in verbal manupulation to stop being angry. I also refuse to do this. I completely agree with her. First dude FAFO. He had his own wife who would have probably gave him his own kids. But he cheated with a woman who had kids? He is absolutely unhinged to think his best friend should have passed up a top tier woman because he wanted to play step daddy. So happy he is in therapy.
And didn't date the friend until 2 years later. He was hoping she'd have to get cats and die alone for getting rid of him when he cheated. He's pissed she moved on with someone better and doesn't regret divorcing him.
He didn't steal a tea set... He was stealing happiness from her...a partner that will go to great lengths to steal joy from you hates you ... End of story
Didn't care about what they meant to her! Even though she's shared that story with him! He KNEW they were given with love by her Nana!!! And then told her SHE "was too old to play with toys" when he was caught? No! He doesn't love her! That's just not how you treat someone you supposedly love!
On the rare occasion I order Doordash I have instructions to leave my order at my front door. The delivery person never sees me. I also tip $15 so they can buy their own food instead of messing with mine.
Funny how any positive attention went to on the op husband saw it as a "competition" that type of man will break you down and EVEN blame you for "changing"
Im confused. Why cant males find a therpist for themselves why do they have to ask their brothers wife to write numbers down... like no... do people do that for women? Nope. Why do it for them. They say no one cares about males depression. Seems like they dont care about themselves. Wlmen take the initiative... why cant they
Yeah it annoyed me that it got pushed into his SIL that hates his guts. I hate how he keeps forcing his problems on her. “We didn’t know where to start”. Umm google?? Your insurance provider? He’s so capable and privileged…but can’t find a therapist. The learned helplessness is ridiculous
@@laceyl5682 but can do something as elaborate as hiding an affair 🤔. I never go along with them when they pretend they don’t know what to do. Figure it out like women, and self-sufficient men, do. My dad wouldn’t get me therapy but I desperately needed it then. I was 20, uninsured, and figured it out on my own. Not saying that cause I struggled others should too, but if a freaking 20yo can figure it out, a 37yo man can too.
“We were happy until she just *left me for no reason*…” 🤨 “When we divorced I never heard from her again even when I reached out, I didn’t realize she HATED me” 🤨 “I cheated on my wife with a teenager…” - Yup, there it is…
Some women leave good men cuz they're bored/he's boring. A lot of women prefer the drama that comes with a bad boy. Some women only have a bad boy phase, but some women never phase out of it. So, YES women DO leave good men all the time.
My boyfriend was a disc jockey for the college radio station; I was listening to his show when he said that I had won an album. When he stopped by my room afterwards, I asked where my album was. He finally admitted that he wanted the record so he used my name so he could take it. What did I do? I forgave him. I let him keep the record, and I didn't turn him in. I ended up marrying him. And what did I learn? If he'll lie about little things he'll lie about big things. If he does dirt to others, he'll do dirt to you...eventually. He just hasn't gotten around to you yet.
Tea set: can we please start acknowledging when men take the most sweetest, innocent joy that means the world from us and then abuse us for missing it.... thief of joy and happiness.... so sick. Could have had a blissful life and shared that bliss with everyone... but nope... gotta be a D about it.
Tea set dude is like the guy who destroyed his wife's plants. She had something that she valued greatly, and he was jealous. Then he tried to gaslight her over it. Glad she left.
My kids father has a collection of small dye cast toy cars he received from his grandpa, they mean a LOT to him. They are on display and NOT for playing with! Imagine if I just gave them to my sisters son, lied about it, helped him look for them like I didn't know where they were and then told him he was "too old to be playing with toys" when he found out what I had done? Seriously this is just ridiculously messed up! You don't give away family heirlooms, and lie about it, then gaslight when you're caught! no matter how "immature" you think they are!
Dude could have just bought the niece her own tea set, But no his wife loved her tea set and he couldn't have that so he gave it away. She made the right call.
He thought he could get away with it idk why but i feel like he has done theses things to everyone around him and op only notice when it was her tea set being targeted..... I hope she divorces him and RUNS
So he still loves his ex-wife while he is married to his current wife lol he seems to like drama and gets mad when the ppl he hurted don't include him in there life anymore so he keeps trying to reach out to over step boundaries to see if he can get in anyway he can glad he is in therapy tho
@@princesssyde8675ohhhhh nooooo the grammar police squad lol u know this is TH-cam n not school or work right unless ur a blogger getting paid to write u should just go ahead and put complaints in yt cause I know as long as u understand it shouldn't be that deep just saying no offense lol
He basically married his SB. Of course she still messed around with other people. It also sounds like she experience CSA which is sad. But peep that he doesn’t want to get her help too
I feel so gutted by the tea set story. The nerve of someone to think it’s ok to push and pull someone emotionally like that and be trusted with anything. That relationship died even if she had stayed.
1. He got everything he deserves period. 2. She was correct to file for divorce. He’s a liar and has lied about many things he didn’t disclose. He had nothing to lose and lost her. Rightfully so. More women need to follow suit! 3. Ladies need to complain to their local DA and Attorney General about the Door dash drivers. Eventually a class action lawsuit will result hopefully before anyone is harmed! Also report these foul males to Door Dash. Eventually federal prosecutors will get involved.
The tea set story, when u read additional comments from OP it turns out that other sentimental things she doesn’t use as often were found missing when she was packing to leave. Husband has likely been doing this for a while now.
Countless stories of men destroying their partner’s prized possession, it’s plants, clothes, expensive concert tickets… even animals (not a possession), either way the story is the same: they feel entitled to what’s yours and don’t like seeing you happy
Last story, pushing home more of the reasons on why we as women are much safer in the wilds with real bears than in the middle of civilization with non-bears.
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The tea set thief hates her - his sister hates her and his family is toxic. He gaslit her the entire time she searched for it. So glad she’s got her brothers and leaving his ass. She’s impressive!
l agree💯
"no one cares about mental health when it comes to men" cue him not giving a fuck about his wife's health and cheating on her, and then everyone around him supporting him when he decided to make changes.
These men selfish as ever. 😔
And him pretending he doesn't know how to Google therapists in his area. 🙄 he had to rely heavily on his brother, which sounds like it drove his SIL crazy
@@LadyintheLake9 they are very codependent. They act so helpless when it comes to adulting. I remember someone gave me an 8 ball stress ball. My childish ex managed to burst the ball on the floor. He acted like he couldn’t find any cleaning products. After getting him something to clean with he wanted me to clean it up because he didn’t know what to do. I told him there are instructions on the bottle, read them.
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He's a cover narc.
Story 1: OP is so dense. He didn't even notice that his best friend ghost him 😂
At least therapy set him a little bit straight 😒
Not just dense, delusional! The dude was never his best friend! “My best friend has like 10 best friends, but he said I was his bestest friend.” But they don’t talk or text for months or years?
Best wishes for the ex-wife and the bestfriend 😂
Yup that they got rid of the parasite lol
Right ?!
Cheers to them!❤️🍾🥂😊
He said ,,we were so happy until she left me" ...meanwhile he was cheating on her...Cheaters are like that, so entitled. Notice how HE cheated and then said that HE was betrayed and now making a victim of himself. Also notice how he treats his new wife. He disrespects women and completely lacks empathy. Glad that the ex wife found someone better...
He very much was like "everything is perfect, i have a loving relationship, amazing kids and tons of friends". But the moment he started writing we discovered that he has no contact with his best friend for 3 years, that he cheated and got cheated on, that many friends hated him and he had a rocky relationship with his parents. If anything it sounds like op was in a state of delusion and denial.
And this is the case with many men, they convince themselves of an alternative reality and go on with life for years like that, until someone else breaks the fantasy. Like the best friend marrying the ex, or the fight with the current wife. Then its all "out of nowhere" and "suddenly they changed"
I think cause he is well off he thinks he can do n treat ppl however he wants and is very entitled like he never been in reality before lol
@@mariapaz6379whatever it is I think ppl were fake pretend friend with him also cause u know when you're family well off u think u can do whatever without consequences and ppl trying to be close to u cause they want to be in proximity of ur status
I mean the ex wife and the ex friend both sounded like great people who really deserve each other, my main takeaway from this story was that I was happy for them
EVERYONE in his life betrayed him. He sees himself as innocent in all this.
What's funny is - he looked for empathy in his current wife (his affair partner). Why would that woman care about his ex...
exactly. she couldn't get rid of the 1st wife fast enough to raise those 3 kids from other men.
The first guy is a whole victimizing victim...sheesh.
He's a victim of the circumstances he created for himself lol
I don't trust a word out his mouth or his supposed plight.
@just1desi lmao me either 😂 I'd love to hear the ex wives version
Tea parties are not "kids play". Like damn, read a history book dude, no wonder his wife left
Wait..so he cheated on his wife with a woman with three kids already? He reversed the vasectomy and had one anyway? I thought men didn't want a woman with a bunch of kids!? This whole situation is messy and he need to just quit. Ugh
Edit to add: The baby isn't his!? FAFO!!!!!!! 😂😂😂
And that lady was only 21 when they hooked up and already had the 3
@@laceyl5682 clear signs of past trauma and he took advantage of that. I think he looks down on her too. She just needed someone to provide for them. Without him, she’ll have to go home.
I hope his new wife isn’t the type of mother to let every bf or fling around her kids…cause that’s only gonna lead to them having the same issues as her. 🙁
Thats because they're lying...if the woman is attractive enough they'll date a woman with kids
He referred to her children from past relationships, so she had 2 or more baby daddies before he married her. Add another baby daddy on for the last child. Wow, talk about blowing up your life.
The tea set one: he knew she was going to pass it on to HER child, did he not want to have children with her because that’s what it seemed like. Also why couldn’t he buy his niece a tea set instead of doing all this mess. SMH.
Cause the tea set didn't mean nothing to him and his loving anything else but him affects his ego so he gave it away thinking she would now give that love to him but she was ready to sign them papers them papers 🎶😂
To be honest, I think he did it because he knew that it had value. It was a sentimental value to his wife, but real bone China is worth a lot! He gave it to his sister and her child for two reasons. The biggest one was the envy and dislike he felt for his wife because if he loved her in even the smallest way, the thought of stealing from her would have never crossed his mind. The second reason again envy and resentment that his wife and her family had traditions and family keepsakes that meant something to her, and his family possibly didn't. So not only was he stealing her tea set; he was stealing her joy, her family traditions, and something important to her and trying to take it for himself and his family. He was stealing her generational wealth as well as monetary wealth. He knew this,or else he would have just gotten the cheap one for his niece and kept it pushing...
True he didn't want to have kid with her
He also could have wanted to hurt her, in the same vein as other men killing their wives/girlfriends plants. It is jealousy but also something more sinister.
Then he said " I was going to ask you anyway. " I guess he thought if he asked she would say OK. 😢 This is why men want submissive wives . A submissive wife would've said " OK, that's fine , she can keep it . " 😊
First story, he basically cheated on her and got hurt when she moved on???
Right! I believe the best friend was sick of him and What he was doing anyway😹😹😹😹
People in the comments missed the fact that the best friend was talking ish about his new wife. Of course he was. He was upset because his friend cheated on his now wife. In other words, he actually loves her and even though he couldn't be with her when she was married, he still cared about her enough not to want to see her hurt by her cheating husband.
I WISH somebody WOULD tell ANY member of this household that we're TOO OLD for cool toys!
We would ALL laugh out loud, including the CATS!
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Bless that sweet lady for honoring her Nana's love!
I have a big burly man named "Tinesha" show up with my DD, at 8:30 at night. I always tell them to leave in on the mat but he insisted on using my RING. I told him he could leave it and go. He threw up his hands and walked down the sidewalk, then stood there a minute. I could see him through my side window and waited until he was gone. Then I called DD and reported him. I'm not sure how they are going to verify who it really is but I won't be ordering from them again.
Probably "Tinesha's" boyfriend.
so glad you are okay! That could have ended badly. Smart on your part
Wow
She needs to stay away from the thief of a husband. It's time for a divorce! That's dangerous behavior displayed by the husband and his family, tea set or not!
Its funny when these men are angry they only destroy or throw away the womans items?
They are mean and wicked 🤡🤛🏾👹🤛🏾
First story was so wild. He CONVENIENTLY left out that he cheated on his first wife the whole first part of the story and I knew it even without the update. Great illustration of them not having empathy and that it’s something that needs to be built up and worked on in order to maintain it just like a muscle. The fact that he was blindsided and hurt was all that mattered. Him destroying their marriage didn’t figure in at all- she just decided to leave out of the blue. 🙄
First OP was more upset about his ex moving on, then his current wife cheating on him
What is OP
@@meenalena06p46original poster
@@meenalena06p46it’s short for original poster. You don’t go on reddit much do you?😅
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OP means Original Poster
OP = original poster
For the delivery services, I put a note to knock and leave. I don't open my door until they leave.
I leave a box outside on my front porch and put a note in the app to leave it on the box. I know that wouldn't work for some people, but it works for me.
I'm always nervous for my friends if they marry into a shady family. They assume their husbands will take up for them, but they rarely do. The tea set story was really cruel.
I literally would not even have accepted the tea set and cussed him out if I was the sister.
Tea set guy is as bad as plants in the pond guy!
I agree
Life experience and reading other stories from women has me convinced that sooooo man men never evolve out of a toddler level mindset. They want their cake (toys) and eat it too. They want a harem (toys) to use and abuse without anyone else touching them, yet neglecting and abandoning each woman (toy) until he throws a tantrum seeing someone else wanting them. Rage level anger (tantrum) when things don't go their way. Only focusing on their own wants and needs and oblivious to those others (like a toddler). I am so damn tired 😔
sadistic and destructive, more psychopathic, parasitic lifestyle is the diagnostic term
This is going to sound strange but I fully believe the reason why they don’t mention things like cheating is because despite it being an important detail they don’t see it as important to the story they’re telling.
Like he didn’t bring it up until he was asked in the comments which means that to him, his cheating wasn’t a crucial detail to the story he told.
This. Absolutely. To hurt someone else is meaningless to them - factor in women aren’t really regarded as fully human by most men. I came to this conclusion 20 years ago and nothing I’ve experienced & observed in my life or on social media has disabused me of this concept. FAFO.
Me me me me me. I was happy until I knew my ex wife was, then I realized I loved her more than my current wife🙄🙄🙄
Majority of men don't like or love women, they like what you can do for them and still dump you for something better.
the other kid is now playing with my abandoned toy energy
Right!😒😑
The Doordarshan one should be illegal
I think you can get banned. You just have to report it
People need to keep reporting and leaving reviews about it, so doordash will find a solution
I agree💯
I'm so glad the last woman got her tea set back!
Ohhhhh,
poor baby.
He cheated and then got
cheated on....
It never ceases to amaze me how people refuse to believe that starting a relationship on a fake foundation is nothing but a recipe for disaster.
It's called: "TWP". Thinking With Peen.
but he has a MAGIC D
This is why I have them leave it outside I have cameras so I don't open the door until they drive away
Your can't trust ANYONE 💯
This first man sounds exhaursting... 😮
Lmaooooo the current wife...mother of 3...now 4 cheated and the baby isnt her husbands. Tht was the break he needed to rebuild.
I use a male name on accounts, and also I don’t open the door until I’m sure the delivery person has left 😒
I knew he had cheated the moment he mentioned his new wife's age and how long he had been divorced from his ex. Also, his new wife had her first baby before she was 18 and had 3 kids when they met when she was 21! I feel sorry for her. I think it is sweet karmic justice that the new baby was not his. His ex is obviously better off with his best friend than with him.
Current wife was likely already in early stages of pregnancy and “convinced” him to have a bio kid with her so she could cover her tracks. It’s so weird.
Was on the dude's side for feeling betrayed by best friend and ex wife til the truth started coming out 😂
Should've started the story with "I cheated on my ex wife and married my affair partner"
So the woman he cheated with cheated on him and had a baby classic
She let me get this straight. He left his ex wife for his current wife who was 26 with 3 kids now 4 by DIFFERENT fathers 😂 Oh he sure knows how to pick em huh
I almost felt sorry for that guy. Of course, the ex didn't answer calls or emails. Of course, the best friend got tired of his ass too. He wanted to keep tabs on his ex-wife to make sure she stayed upset.
It sounded like even his parents were tired of his sh!t.
I know the type, they only called me when they wanted something, so I stopped checking their messages. You feel like a BUTLER.
That tea set story has me livid. The audacity, betrayal, emotional abuse and tastlessness of it all. I'm glad she had brothers to pull up in both cities.
Second story: glad she got away from that family
Patriarchy damages everyone, men, too.
The first story is a great example of men NEEDING the help we keep telling to get and it's not for us. It's so they don't continue with patterns of self destructive behavior to run away from past traumas but hey i guess having your bestie marry the ex you cheated on is better 🤷🏽♀️
For the second story I would have gone ballistic if something my nana gave me went missing because some man deemed it appropriate to give away my things. And we as women need to stop going back and forth with disingenuous men on the internet and let me talk to themselves.
The last story is partially why i dont use door dash anymore. Their customer service is trash and their delivery people are notorious for being unhinged and petty. Men using female profiles to do deliveries is a problem on uber eats too but I've started to report the accounts because it seems to happens more at night which makes me uncomfortable. I also have my deliveries set to "leave at door" to avoid any interactions.
I think if you are a single woman, you really must have "leave at door" for deliveries. Those apps hire such random people to do deliveries. Yes, they do background checks but even background checks don't catch everything and sometimes the most abusive people know how to get around them.
Ahahaha, the mojodojo casahouse killed me😂In all seriousness, how dare he expect closure from someone he cheated on...
These stories are so good for helping us stay on our guard. Thank you!
1st story, I knew the OP cheated and married his AP as soon as I saw the age difference. She started having kids when she was a minor. He admitted that he got with her because he felt like she "needed' him. It's funny how delusional he is; he sees himself as a victim & saw his ex moving on as a "betrayal." It's telling that his sister-in-law doesn't like him, & he doesn't get along with his parents. Now he knows how it feels to be cheated on. I doubt his 2nd marriage will last. He's going to end up alone with a lot of regrets. 2nd story, the husband and SIL are horrible people. 3rd story, These men are probably felons who are using their girlfriends or some female relative's identities to find work.
Wow that is the most "growth" I've ever seen from one of these men who f-ed around and found out. That is exactly the follow up that I pray for when I read those posts.
Did anyone else find it gross how he was 32 when he got with his 21yo mistress (who he probably met when she was even younger)? But sure, his ex-wife and friend were the evil ones 😅 I mean, at least he's going to therapy and reflecting on his actions, I've met many men who leave a trail of chaos and misery behind them and they don't even realize it (or care about it, tbh).
Yeah those age differences make my stomach turn. I’ve never seen a situation where the older man wasn’t toxic.
Yes, I noticed that!
they know, but play dumb aka "the kids will be fine"
Voiceover Man Trailer Voice: *The kids were not fine.*
The tea pot is trust
He could plot further in the future against you literally making loose your life. It is the principle of it all
What a terrible husband. My husband has a tea seat he got from his grandmother that he used for tea parties with his 2 girls when they were younger and it would never cross my mind to do anything with it no even if we had a girl of our own, what he does with it would be his decision to.
21:49 She absolutely did the RIGHT THING. It wasn't the fact it was a tea set or a heirloom. He doesn't respect her or care. He could have at least asked or just bought that little girl her own. How did they all think it was okay to STEAL IT? She must have missed some SERIOUS RED FLAGS?
my dad bought me xmas presents, wrapped them up, gave them to me, then before I could unbox them they went 'missing' and he TOLD ME I couldn't take them out of the box because they'd be valuable 'one day' I was like but they are MINE not YOURS still have no idea where they are
It maddens me how men can hit the nail on the head and still miss the point entirely all the damn time. "It's not just about a tea set, can't be" yeah no duh Sherlock, OP literally explained this in detail in her post, and and then spelled it out again in her reply. And he still had the nerve to act like she was wrong for wanting to leave "over a tea set" while he was right to deduce the obvious conclusion that her wanting to leave was not simply "over a tea set" like which is it? Maybe they should be asking their brother's wives for a therapist's number too
My dad who died when I was 18 had a WWII photo album. One day I was looking for it and it was gone. I was upset. I asked my then husband and he said he loaned it to his friend. I said he should have asked me first. He said will it was our “Steve” and wouldn’t I let him borrow it? If our friend asked me I would have said yes. But I was never asked. This was an item that is valuable to me. He has also used many things that I had bought to make my life easier and he’s ruined it. Like a bike trailer I bought so I could put the kids on it and start biking. He decided to use it then left it and my bike out in the rain. So sad that he could never respect me or my things.
I feel sorry for him. He is taking an active approach towards his healing. He should absolutely leave his current wife. She has 3 kids before him, cheated on him and had another baby that is not his. He will not be able to heal while he’s constantly inflicting himself with pain. Perhaps he believes he deserves it, but it’s time for him to accept the hurt he caused his ex, the pain his current wife is causing, close the door on both and walk into a new, happy life. Karma is paid. No need to stay in that space. It’s time for him to complete his healing and enter into a new relationship a restored man.
Story 1: Find out season got these men steering small vessels through a storm on the infamously unruly North Sea. Good luck, sailors.
Story 2: The BALLS on this man. The unmitigated gall to steal her tea set and then help her look for it. A tea set with a lifetime of memories. My GOD. If it was a 4 carat ring no one would misunderstand. ThAt HaS VaLuE. Go str8 to hades sir, do not pass go and do not collect 200 dollars but DO sign this dissolution of marriage on your way there. DF!
Story #1 total cluster! They all messy Chile
The covert narcissist "reidealizing" the ex wife. He deserves everything he gets. The new wife, his affair partner, deserves everything she gets. A match made in hell that they are both creating.
It’s wild how abusive people and those who defend them all have a pattern of pretending that whatever an abusive person has done isn’t as bad as the people who refuse to put up with them. Yet how often have we also seen men tell women to blame themselves when bad relationships get worse because the woman didn’t leave? So women who don’t forgive and leave are “overreacting” and being “emotional”, but women who stay must blame themselves for the abusive actions of others. Cute.
Idk how many women are gonna need to file for divorce for abusers, cheaters, and narcissists to accept the reality that actions have consequences and nobody owes them a second chance...but honestly, who cares? It’s not their victims’ job to “fix” them or change their mind.
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minimisation so they aren't next!
they don't even deserve a first chance
Fellas: just because you don’t appreciate your lady and treat her right doesn’t mean some other man won’t! 💅🏻
Wow that guy's *complete* lack of awareness. Just bumbling through his life and blaming everyone else while sitting in the rubble of the life he exploded. It's a trope for a reason.
There's this silly image i get in my head so often, like when men say 'choose better' or 'what was she wearing?' or 'what did she do to make him unalive / stalk / grape her?'.... here is the image in my head: a life sized pinball machine, and men are these random steel balls rolling around smashing into things. Everything is 'in their way'. And everything/everyone they smash into must just accept that this is their nature - and either get out of the way, anticipate their moves, or accept fault for being smashed into. It's as if this bumbling mayhem is their divine right.
My way or the high way entitlement
"I lost my temper" like we stole it, men argue with me when I'm like NO YOUR feelings are YOUR responsibility
There's something that bothers me that I don't see many people acknowledge in my everyday life. Problems that revolve around a specific tangible thing/place/tradition/action (the tea set, in this case) that arise in a relationship, will end up tainting that once loved thing with a horrible memory that cannot be erased. The negativity hangs around the thing now, and what can you do? Sure, you can attempt to build new positive memories, but it will never be the same as it was before the problem! He didn't just steal the tea set from her, he forever associated with his vile actions!
Nothing against anyone who orders doordash or any of those service companies that come to your home. Because I know there's different situations for different people. But I don't order from them. I go out in public so i can do my shopping around other people and there's cameras. I do not want some random strangers coming up to my door. I've never been a fan of it. 32:27
4:40 ohhh wow this one is is a great comeuppance.
Even when the first guy is doing things for other people it's because it's "good for him" instead of just doing what he should be doing in the first place..... Wild asf. What a self absorbed loser.
My chest felt tight during the second story... I was so worried that the psycho would get mad and break a piece of the set or something. Makes me so mad, dude. Good on her for getting tf out of there. The embarrassing way he switched up and that guy in the comments with his poor grammar and room temperature IQ.
There absolutely needs to be more regulation and safety measures for companies like doordash... Even if it's just a matter of a clean driving record, that's reason enough. Scary asf.
Notice how in the first story, dude says "MY EX-WIFE" and "MY WIFE". Like, DUDE, to me, "ex-partner" doesn't exist. You have a wife now, the woman your friend married is just a person you have known.
This was like a movie!!
STORY 1: This guy is a trip. He's bragging about how much this guy is his best friend, and how "at least 10 other people think he's their best friend, but he's said that I am his best friend always", but this guy married his ex-wife. He divorced his ex, but doesn't understand why she wants nothing more to do with him and doesn't respond to his numerous attempts to reach her. He is clueless and whiny. Hysterical.
Spooner1932 is completely glossing over exactly what OP said: it’s about the abuse, gaslighting, manipulation, etc. He either doesn’t know how to read or didn’t read the post. It’s not over a tea set!
I wonder where dashers are posing as women. I have never had this issue. I hope people are reporting every incident. Not just to the company but to police if necessary
The tea set guy us being deliberately obtuse. It's bot about the item itself. It's about the fact that her husband gave away a sentimental item of hers, then tried to cover it up. Even after seeing how it hurt her. This man violated his wife's trust, and you can't have love without trust.
First story: That man is most likely a narc. They are often pretty clueless about other people's feelings, and doing actions that are inconsiderate of others. What type of person (man or woman) says they can go several months without even having a phone call from their so-called best friend? Narcs are really that obtuse because they are so extremely self-absorbed.
ETA: He mentions how felt like he was 'saving' his current wife. Narc men are concerned with HOW they appear to others, not how they ACTUALLY are. He needed a mirror to look at himself, not pointing fingers at other people.
ETA 2: I hope he gets better. Therapy had to happen for him to get better. I wish him all the best. 🕊
damsel in distress, she played the playa
I don’t think that’s narc behavior. My bestie is like that, but I know she is in a stressful situation and works full-time. I think about her all of the time, but have to understand she has other things to worry about; that‘s life.
God these make me so spitefully happy
The second story, lemme dumb it for the men. Imagine your wife steals your Play Station in which you have achieve many levels with people you have good memories with just because her brother's son wants a PS as well so they conspired to steal it from you and pretend you lost it. Now watch the men say those are grounds for divorce 😂
I didn't know door dash allowed using different names. On apps life Lyft and Uber you are required to use your government name as the driver and rider. As a rider i wish i could use a nickname but i understand it's for both parties' safety because being in someone's car requires trust and accountability.
BUT THROW THEIR VIDEO GAMES OUT......lie about it, and pretend and see if WE WOMEN DONT END UP IN THE MORGUE.
Am I right or am I wrong??? Glad women ARE LEAVING -- and nope we are not scared of loneliness. Women handle that just fine thank you. The audacity smh
Well good for the first guy. I am now going through what his ex wife went through. Soon as he said the ex was not talking to him or even sending a thank you message back I knew he cheated on her with the second. Now he wants to be this awesome dude with second and have the nerve to expect loyalty and honesty…tuh. The nerve. 😂😂😂😂 the second wife has him raising 4kids that are not his is hilarious. You reap what you sow and I do not feel bad for him. The second wife is his karma and downfall
I'm only halfway through and I'm like who tf is this dude 🙄 he is playing dumb then suddenly "oh I cheated" like this was all HIS fault 😂😂😂 ridiculous! Glad the wife and ex bestie got together. Karma 😂😂❤
I also have to add it's not lost on me he got with a 26 year old and acting aloof lmao bro, ya did it on purpose
Story 1, guy is a man-child. He's acting like a literal 13 year old.
First, it’s what he deserves and he should stay married, he knew how she was and she he. Two, divorce divorce divorce……that’s diabolical. I agree, definitely don’t drop the charges. Men telling women to stay through abuse (mental, physical, emotional, financially) and cheating, 🙄 and that’s why we rather be in the woods with a 🐻….third one, report them, that’s dangerous. They’ll lose their position but if they have to have their boyfriends use their name it means those men aren’t 💩 and wouldn’t pass the basic background check, but you’re letting them use your name?
Sounds like first wife went no contact.
His current wife is likely rebound/new supply.
I could be wrong, of course.
26:36 when people tell women to TALK to thesr none bears about what they do, what they mean is engage in verbal manupulation to stop being angry. I also refuse to do this. I completely agree with her. First dude FAFO. He had his own wife who would have probably gave him his own kids. But he cheated with a woman who had kids? He is absolutely unhinged to think his best friend should have passed up a top tier woman because he wanted to play step daddy. So happy he is in therapy.
First guy’s wife divorced him in 2019 because he met a 21 year old . Funny he left that part out.
And didn't date the friend until 2 years later. He was hoping she'd have to get cats and die alone for getting rid of him when he cheated. He's pissed she moved on with someone better and doesn't regret divorcing him.
@@mmason9836yep
They always do
@@mmason9836yep that's exactly what it is. They hate when women leave them and aren't sufferring and are happy.
😂exactly... like we don't know how to do math.
What an ass.
He didn't steal a tea set... He was stealing happiness from her...a partner that will go to great lengths to steal joy from you hates you ... End of story
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Didn't care about what they meant to her!
Even though she's shared that story with him!
He KNEW they were given with love by her Nana!!!
And then told her SHE "was too old to play with toys" when he was caught?
No!
He doesn't love her!
That's just not how you treat someone you supposedly love!
That tea set story was crazy. So many levels of betrayal.
On the rare occasion I order Doordash I have instructions to leave my order at my front door. The delivery person never sees me. I also tip $15 so they can buy their own food instead of messing with mine.
Funny how any positive attention went to on the op husband saw it as a "competition" that type of man will break you down and EVEN blame you for "changing"
First guy is really jealous because his "hit the wall" first wife married a lawyer and according to them...women that old can't get "high value men" 😂
Im confused. Why cant males find a therpist for themselves why do they have to ask their brothers wife to write numbers down... like no... do people do that for women? Nope. Why do it for them. They say no one cares about males depression. Seems like they dont care about themselves. Wlmen take the initiative... why cant they
Exactly, grown man need directions and can not find a therapist. Everyone has to to everything for him.
RIGHT! My thoughts exactly. Like you have a phone. Use Google. They feel so disimpowered to do even the smallest things for themselves. Wild.
Yeah it annoyed me that it got pushed into his SIL that hates his guts. I hate how he keeps forcing his problems on her.
“We didn’t know where to start”. Umm google?? Your insurance provider? He’s so capable and privileged…but can’t find a therapist. The learned helplessness is ridiculous
@@laceyl5682 but can do something as elaborate as hiding an affair 🤔. I never go along with them when they pretend they don’t know what to do. Figure it out like women, and self-sufficient men, do.
My dad wouldn’t get me therapy but I desperately needed it then. I was 20, uninsured, and figured it out on my own. Not saying that cause I struggled others should too, but if a freaking 20yo can figure it out, a 37yo man can too.
I’ve helped 4 grown men find a therapist. All walks of life and it sucks but I’m definitely happy they’re finally seeking help.
I knew the first guy was a liar and a cheater before we got to the update. Nobody just leaves a good man. He's a POS.
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Same for me
Yeah, he lost me when he said the "new" wife's age and kids too 😂😂😂 like the math ain't mathing 🧐
“We were happy until she just *left me for no reason*…” 🤨
“When we divorced I never heard from her again even when I reached out, I didn’t realize she HATED me” 🤨
“I cheated on my wife with a teenager…” - Yup, there it is…
Some women leave good men cuz they're bored/he's boring. A lot of women prefer the drama that comes with a bad boy. Some women only have a bad boy phase, but some women never phase out of it. So, YES women DO leave good men all the time.
@@silververnallbells191men settle for average women just to cheat on them with “baddies” or younger women. That happens more often than what you claim
My boyfriend was a disc jockey for the college radio station; I was listening to his show when he said that I had won an album.
When he stopped by my room afterwards, I asked where my album was. He finally admitted that he wanted the record so he used my name so he could take it.
What did I do? I forgave him. I let him keep the record, and I didn't turn him in.
I ended up marrying him. And what did I learn? If he'll lie about little things he'll lie about big things. If he does dirt to others, he'll do dirt to you...eventually.
He just hasn't gotten around to you yet.
So he cheats on his ex wife, then current wife cheats on him and has a baby. What in the world?
Nanno working hard with the karma
Karma in full effect came to pay him back
Girl from no where reference omg 🫶🏾
@@shaypope4732 with interest
Damn it you just reminded me of it and now we need a season 3😭😭😭😭
Karma is a beautiful woman that delivers justice.
Tea set: can we please start acknowledging when men take the most sweetest, innocent joy that means the world from us and then abuse us for missing it.... thief of joy and happiness.... so sick. Could have had a blissful life and shared that bliss with everyone... but nope... gotta be a D about it.
Tea set dude is like the guy who destroyed his wife's plants. She had something that she valued greatly, and he was jealous. Then he tried to gaslight her over it. Glad she left.
I agree💯
My kids father has a collection of small dye cast toy cars he received from his grandpa, they mean a LOT to him.
They are on display and NOT for playing with!
Imagine if I just gave them to my sisters son, lied about it, helped him look for them like I didn't know where they were and then told him he was "too old to be playing with toys" when he found out what I had done?
Seriously this is just ridiculously messed up!
You don't give away family heirlooms, and lie about it, then gaslight when you're caught!
no matter how "immature" you think they are!
I was thinking "This man collects vintage action figures" as the post was being read!
Dude could have just bought the niece her own tea set, But no his wife loved her tea set and he couldn't have that so he gave it away. She made the right call.
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Yes! He could have given the niece the Walmart tea set and left his wife's tea set alone. Jerk!😡
Yup he did it cause it wouldn't affect him one bit lol at least that's what he thought lol it caused him a whole divorce lmao
He thought he could get away with it idk why but i feel like he has done theses things to everyone around him and op only notice when it was her tea set being targeted..... I hope she divorces him and RUNS
He’s resented her and that tea set for a minute.
Why do I think he's only missing his ex wife because she's moved on irregardless of whether it was with his friend😒
I do too
“We were so happy until she left me… “
bro you are cheating on her and she didn’t stay and now you feel betrayed??????
loyalty for THEE not me
Right! these males live in delusion😒😑
So he still loves his ex-wife while he is married to his current wife lol he seems to like drama and gets mad when the ppl he hurted don't include him in there life anymore so he keeps trying to reach out to over step boundaries to see if he can get in anyway he can glad he is in therapy tho
That first story! I hollered the whole way through it. He is hiding that he is the one who Fafo! Then he fo some more!!!
Chile, what is this grammar?
@@princesssyde8675ohhhhh nooooo the grammar police squad lol u know this is TH-cam n not school or work right unless ur a blogger getting paid to write u should just go ahead and put complaints in yt cause I know as long as u understand it shouldn't be that deep just saying no offense lol
Gurl same! I was in my car screaming!
@@princesssyde8675 using "chile" as slang and then insulting other slang bc you don't understand it is type crazy😂😂😂
Baby the husband with the young wife with the ex wife that married his bestie I’m here for it 😂
He basically married his SB. Of course she still messed around with other people. It also sounds like she experience CSA which is sad. But peep that he doesn’t want to get her help too
I love seeing a good ol Uno reverse story 🤓🍿☕🥰
I feel so gutted by the tea set story. The nerve of someone to think it’s ok to push and pull someone emotionally like that and be trusted with anything. That relationship died even if she had stayed.
1. He got everything he deserves period.
2. She was correct to file for divorce. He’s a liar and has lied about many things he didn’t disclose. He had nothing to lose and lost her. Rightfully so. More women need to follow suit!
3. Ladies need to complain to their local DA and Attorney General about the Door dash drivers. Eventually a class action lawsuit will result hopefully before anyone is harmed! Also report these foul males to Door Dash. Eventually federal prosecutors will get involved.
The tea set story, when u read additional comments from OP it turns out that other sentimental things she doesn’t use as often were found missing when she was packing to leave. Husband has likely been doing this for a while now.
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Countless stories of men destroying their partner’s prized possession, it’s plants, clothes, expensive concert tickets… even animals (not a possession), either way the story is the same: they feel entitled to what’s yours and don’t like seeing you happy
It is &buse
Worse dont like seeing you happy from something other than him
Last story, pushing home more of the reasons on why we as women are much safer in the wilds with real bears than in the middle of civilization with non-bears.