Why you SHOULD NOT tell him HOW YOU FEEL

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 พ.ย. 2023
  • It’s easy to get carried away when you meet a man that you like a LOT.
    You want to spend all of your time with him, can’t stop thinking about him, you wonder where he is and why he isn’t texting you.
    But it’s important to remember that men don’t approach dating and relationships in the same way that women do - they need space in order to decide how they feel about you.
    This is why it’s best not to put him on a pedestal or let him know that he is the only man that you’re dating or interested in.
    If he feels that you are scarce he will be more likely to see and treat you like the high-value woman that you are.
    Give a man the opportunity to reveal his feelings and once he does, then you can decide if it’s mutual.
    Have you ever prematurely let a man know how you feel? Raise your hand. I have definitely been in that boat!
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ความคิดเห็น • 9

  • @UnconventionalReasoning
    @UnconventionalReasoning 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The more this is made into a game, the more likely everyone will lose. Certainly both people should avoid the extremes, gushing over the other person. But beyond that, there is too much of "What do men want?" and "What do women want?" instead of "What does the person I'm seeing want?" The only way to find out is to communicate, rather than hide.

    • @thewealthywonderwoman
      @thewealthywonderwoman  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      There are always going to be unique differences because no two people are the same. But understanding men and women as a whole is what separated amazing relationships from failed ones

    • @UnconventionalReasoning
      @UnconventionalReasoning 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@thewealthywonderwoman Yes, some general sense is useful. But if everyone is being told, "Wait until the other person lets you know how they feel", everyone stays silent and drifts apart. The suggestions given in the video, like "If you confess your feelings, really, really soon," are too binary. There are levels to feelings, and if only one side is sharing each level first, the imbalance will wreck the potential relationship. While I agree that "leading" shows masculine energy, "sharing feelings first" is different, and is more feminine energy.

  • @J-WOT
    @J-WOT 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What... are you talking about?
    Men would prefer a glowing sign that says that you actually like him and that you're not wasting his time.

  • @soursweet7044
    @soursweet7044 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It probably depends on the guy. Not everybody is the same. Some guys might appreciate this while some might think you're not interested in them. I don't think every man is stereotypical these days. Social media really takes a toll on our generation's mindset. I've been on a self care journey and I try listen to other women's advice because I've been on a social media break lol been kinda out of touch with reality. I met a extremely nice guy at work and I was kinda shocked. I struggle a lot with my insecurities and a lot of guys ignore me but he talks to me and makes me feel like a person so I started my self care journey because of him and I like to drop subtle hints that I really like him like watching his stuff or help him pick up something whereas I will literally stand there if another associate needs help (sorry lol) I'm interested in what he has to say. I give him my undivided attention. I'm not confident enough to just tell him that I like him but I like to show him and I think he appreciates it. We're doing really well. He's also nice to me in more ways too.

  • @Hello2u3582mypincode
    @Hello2u3582mypincode 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You actually have a higher emotional intelligence, which creeps a lot of men (and women) out I notice
    in the comments under several videos....
    In essence you're just a more patient better selector🙂