@@architecture.w - Stop singling out black women. Last time I checked white women intruded the black community with their thoughts, beliefs and etc. they’ve done the same with the men.
Well I'd disagree... I bought my home cash @27, married @19, had 4 kids with my wife, finished school and had been working my career job since the age of 22. I'd say being married with 4 kids, with my wife since sophomore year of high school working a career and NOT having a mortgage... I was mature for a 27 year old.
@@moekrinkle5771 no u missed the point. U were mature at around 19. Just by buying the house at 27 doesn't indicate thats when u arrived at being mature.
If I had a dollar for every time one of these woman said they were getting into real estate. I could quit work, and watch Kevin as a job. They say it enough to cover my bills. LOL
Ladies. Please. Listen to me. I PROMISE you. I GUARANTEE YOU that there isn’t a single man you will ever “intimidate” by being a basic adult doing basic adult things. This woman really just said an insurance worker probably making 4 times her salary with benefits is “intimidated”’of her cutting hair… This delusion needs to stop. Annoyed, unimpressed, tired are not synonyms with intimidated.
Its the nature of the job not the income from the job. Her having daily access to only men with a more intimate job like that IS THE PROBLEM and for good reason. Do you think the amount of access and flirtation and DM's (only for business though cough cough) and personal conversations ect ect influenced her behavior towards her LTR? We both know the answer. Ill bet she thought she could do better than her little petty "insurance man" and she proved it with the conversation she had with Kevin.
@@ajpope2010 that is a trend I’m seeing with women. They knowing ly go to job sites while being in relationships vetting their man’s replacement and then pull out the “insecure” Card when a discerning man calls them on it. Trying to frame it as men trying to marginalize them. Another form of gaslighting.
In her case, it had more to do with her being around dudes all day is what she thinks he was intimidated by. She might be delusional but she’s attractive so you know those dudes are coming at her. So he was probably more insecure than intimidated.
@Capriol_Knight don't forget solipsistic, narcissistic, egomaniacal, EGOTISTICAL,hypergamous,insecure, EASILY intimidated, unsure, not confident, materialistic, and the black ones are ALL these multipled by 5...and I'm saying THIS as a Trey Songz/Tyson Beckford/Zayn level good-looking dude.💯🧔🏾♂️
"I'm a hair stylist, and want an expensive wedding, partnership, real estate, and an empire, but I want it on my terms, my timeline, and want everyone else to pay for it!"
I told my wife before we were married - I don’t borrow money, and I won’t finance a wedding. I don’t feed and provide a bar for people I’ve never met. We got married in a small church on a Friday. Had a cheap cocktail finger food (no sit down tables, no DJ, no dancing and no alcohol). We spent half our cash budget on the dress, and the rest on every else… less than $1500 total. No horse drawn carriage, no hired car, no exotic catering. Married for 20 years
Hahaha, a d just the "f" who is having this other than rich people? $20k ring?GTFOH $100k wedding?GTFOH that's 1/2 the price of a house in a lot of places. If they break up BEFORE the wedding, will she give the ring back, or will it become a court case? Man ....
Was that ever a thing, clearly i am hanging out with the Wrong people and need to spend more time at the golf club and Badminton court and at my Villa in Tuscany. 20 grand on a ring? OOOOFFF that would HURT!
@@elijahmelendez9864 Technically it’s “left behind.” East Asian societies are highly competitive. There are more people and fewer resources to go around. People are highly encouraged to marry young, work cooperatively with their spouse, spouse’s parents and their own parents. This “I’m a strong independent career woman that don’t need no man” bullshit doesn’t fly over there. People that do that, or can’t work with others get literally left behind. I’m sure you’ve seen the move Parasite?
@@thekingofthisworld2154 yea i just googled it , the term in chinese seems to have two different meanings, like i just read, which makes sense to me, " A 28 year old male who is alone , the chinese seemed to call "Diamond men" or gold something like that .i'd think we'd all have more respect for women around that age ,who said there not ever getting married because of scientific aims ,or ex cit-era , "No it doesn't interest me, instead of being nebulous about it , thats hard though as it is.
She's not ugly. She should be looking for a decent man with a JOB, an nine to five, who will treat her good. Nothing more. Her expectations are so much higher than her value it's laughable. Nothing wrong with average women getting together with average dudes. It worked for centuries, then with social media, women have delusions of grandeur to the point they will not settle for average.
She's from my home state. She's a pretty girl who's like all the other girls there. They think they deserve a guy making 150k while their only contribution is being there lol. If she said she wanted a man who makes 65k, works out, and loves her, she could be married tomorrow. However she's a barber who thinks they deserve a banker
@@Black_Elmer_Fudd To be fair, it's not just the pretty girls with those expectations. But yes, she's probably rejected at least five decent men in her life who would have been just fine for her. Problem is, they are just fine, not perfect.
The main problem is social media. If you ask these girls to name some of the popular women they look up to or follow and you will see the problem. It's girls who preach they don't have to do a thing and they have a bunch of rich guys spending it like it don't mean nothing on them, while they do as they please . Why would these women even consider an average guy or a guy on their level when in their head they feel they will hit the jackpot eventually and life will be daisies .
@@kbgibson I like to use the analogy of a great athlete thinks he'll make it in the pros, when in reality less than one percent of college level athletes will even get a sniff at the next level. You have to have a backup plan. These gals don't think they will ever have to settle, well, well not until they are stone cold out of options, and by then it's too late for most of them. By their forties, they are like average men. Invisible to the opposite sex.
@@inamsaj Not defending her but becoming a relator isn't expensive at all. I think here in FL you take like 6 weeks in classes and pay maybe 1k and get with an agency and you're good to go.
I feel sad for her...she seems a good person ... but bad informed...Life is not that easy...as a barber she probably is earning about 20k a year....she definitely need to wise up and get a man!!! Please girl...you have to lower your standard... for the man in terms of income.
Notice she had to think about whether or not she had sex with someone else. But wait...she spoke about HER not cheating, rather than saying her guy didn’t cheat. She has guilt. I think she didn’t have sex, but WAS ‘cheating’, but she’s changed the definition of cheating.
She cheated and knew she'd get destroyed for it. And one of his next questions was literally "did you cheat?" He let her live because he knew there was more dirt at the surface.
I like that he is so direct and while delivering some brutal truths never loses the sense of being respectful, teaching and not about himself or his ego. He has some precious communication skills for sure.
Man has the patient of a saint, it seems he really put in a lot energy to genuinely help. Although I think his ultimate motive was to open the eyes of men. I don’t think I could take that much stress that he put himself under. Rip
I had 60 people at my wedding , it was $3000-$4000 total, and it was beautiful, I was 22 and a virgin and still happily married! I know so many women who had grandiose weddings and divorced 2-3 years later, fancy weddings are overrated !
I know it's hard to believe anything in the internet cause people make it up but I am happy for you. Happy for your choices and give credit where credits due. Your simplicity is a choice that pales comparisons in modern world where the lines are blurred. You deserve the happiness thats coming for you.
Yes my sis wedding was $3000 and she got divorced so it’s definitely better than $20,000. If I ever get married I just want a cruise wedding with my immediate family. At least I can say I went on vacation 😆.
It is overrated! My brother in law refuses to marry his fiancee, because she wants (and in her words, DESERVES) at least a $25k wedding. He had 2 kids with her, and she's still waiting for that wedding, 5 years later! She doesn't even work!
She/Her: "Isn't that traditional [having a wedding]?" Kevin: "You're not a traditional woman. Are you a virgin?"" She/Her: "No" Kevin: "...You women want traditional outcomes; weddings, white dresses and you're schizophrenic, non-virgins with trust issues" Solid point. What good is the facade of tradition without the structural foundation of tradition? Buying a flashy luxury car at full price with the engine missing defeats the purpose of getting a car.
That's the point. All social favor and facade without any heavy lifting of a real relationship. Female version of free lunch. They gotta look the best of female models. Without making ends meet.
She is attractive and must be getting lots of offers for 'casual' relationships by some of her hair clients. I guess she is getting pumped and dumped. She doesn't want to commit because she keeps hoping a better man comes along and saves her.
i knew men who were cleaned out, some to the tune of 7 figures, but they kept going after women until they were so broken down and low market value they couldn't even hook up with 'cat ladies''. I've known men who stayed married until a few days after retirement and the wife cleaned them out and took most of the savings and pension. I also know men who are hanging on because they know the wife will clean them out in a divorce. The only reason marriage and even hook-ups are still going on is because young men aren't being taught the truth and so many men are too damn thirsty, and politicians, & bureaucrats owe their careers to the female vote.
I'm starting to see this side in my wife's sister, who is 10 years younger than my wife. She often comes over and stays the night with us to go out with her friends. She sees the result of our work. She sees what we have accomplished in 10 years together. But she doesn't see when we both were right out of college and were barely making ends meet. She doesn't see when we both lived on my wife's salary because I was building up my business and working my ass off. She sees the results. The nice apartment and the nice car. No one wants to grow with each other anymore. Everyone wants easy money. I keep telling her to find a guy that has potential, that works hard, that is loyal and loving. Find someone that has goals. Not someone who has reached his goals. A man that has reached his goals and is still single is a man who won't be taking any BS. He won't accept any sassy, strong, independent woman. He will move on.
They don’t want potential thats the problem they want the results now and bring little to the table its fast food dating fast food marriage speed dating tinder hookups no one wants the real thing, im blaming feminism on this problem
Most people only see the results. Not the struggle. My wife and I slept on my dads living room for a year. Scrapped up for an apartment. Slept on the floor with no furniture. Now we own a car free and clear. No debt. Live at a home with two kids and she is a stay home wife/mom.
@@Imhere12345 They all think there are so many options so many fish in the sea but they can’t explain why they are single lmao. More options aren’t always a good thing. Give me one option worth a diamond over a million options each worth a grain of sand.
@@AleksandarIvanov69 Yes, have to agree with you! But she did NOT get a dose of reality, it quite obviously went right over her head. You could see her thinking about it, but EVERY response she had was an objection, they were all in “defense of” whatever her belief was. Maybe afterwards she could watch this and catch what he was saying, grab a hold of the reality has lays out, but she sure didn’t ‘get it’ live. I haven’t seen one person who did with him. Maybe there are some videos out there that you get to see that “a-haa” moment, where the light just pops into their eyes and they GET IT, but so far I haven’t seen it. Just the arguing, defending, or not believing what he’s telling them. So sad to see. Looks like there are going to be a lot of single homeless and ANGRY women in 40+ years from now.
@@ricktaylor14001 I agree, I think she was dodging reality to the very end. How is the statement " I have a lot to offer," consistent with "I have been through a lot." Don't those two statements contradict each other? Whether you are a male or a female looking for a spouse, who wants someone with a long complex, emotional history, not attractive at all.
Most American women have never visited and compared themselves to women in other countries. As an American immigrant,, I'll tell you they do not compare. American women have grown rather accustomed to a system and media environment that supports their abject mental laziness when it comes to men. I wish them well in their search for the one.
Can I just say.....you nailed it......I swear I didn't have the balls to write this, not all but unfortunately most,coming from a different country I never seen this" there are no good men out here" mentality. Men are winning so much I am looking forward to my wedding soon but iya a damn shame.
@@CA-zr1kz the weight is the biggest difference. I travel to Europe and the Middle East a lot. When you spend time in another country and then land back at the airport in America, it's so amazing to see the difference and realize how much bigger American women are compared to other women. American women are huge LOL
My husband and I were married by a notary who was a friend of my father's. The whole thing cost from beginning to end 300 dollars and I wouldn't change a thing if I had it to do all over again. We just wanted to be together and that was all that mattered. 38 years and 2 30+year old sons later, I still wouldn't change a thing😊. He is my partner in life as well as my best friend. We have had good financial years, and we have lived in poverty. But, we always worked together and got through it all. I'm a very happy woman!
@@somebody700 im 32, met my wife when we were both 15. Either of us have never been with someone else, we are all we have known. We have 2 boys. I make 52k a year as a plumber. She is a stay at home mom. If you buy into what society is selling then thats your own fault. The only opinion a man concerns himself with is his own. I still have some of the clothes i had in high-school, still wear them. I dont know how you people let what others think influence you. Men are just as bad as modern woman. Boys and girls pretending to be adults.
It’s not good that he died ofc, but most people don’t get put on to great people until it’s too late. I myself just now getting into him. RIP makes people more popular. More than ever this info is gonna get out. A change the world really needs.
Like KS said, 'a society will only rise as high as the moral position of its women.' Ego in the modern woman today is in large part destroying the nuclear family.
I got a lot of respect for her being grilled, embarrassed and being told the truth but taking it very well. Most people would’ve been offended and angry. Respect ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
The fact that she starts every single answer with “uuummm” and then a long pause, I don’t know how he stayed so patient with her! Every single sentence! Uuuuuummmmmm!
My dad said the same thing after my nephew and his wife got a divorce after an expensive wedding and 8 months of marriage. "Women want weddings, not marriage." So true. 🙃
I would just do a small wedding with my congregation…you don’t have to have an expensive wedding…just like we do on the feast days…everybody bring a dish…simple…everybody comes…bam…no serious money spent…I get to celebrate my union with the people I care about…I think women deserve a chance to redeem themselves…we grew up without fathers…didn’t have value for ourselves….how can a man expect a high value woman if they not high value…some of the stuff he saying is kinda not making sense…he’s saying she shouldn’t desire to build an empire with him…instead she just supposed to work full-time…He’s not making sense…and taking care of kids and a man IS a full-time job….
@@Zeebo216 I don't believe he is saying it, the woman are. High value to them is a man who makes close to 1/2 a million dollars when they aren't even close to that money themselves nor in the physical department. The women need to be more down to earth and seek men on their level which most is the time average. I would want an average man myself, a real worker and not some pansy who flaunts his money around. 😄🌸
@@Zeebo216 ok, what women need to stop doing is comparing their value to how a man's value is ok, so what women need to do is know their own value, but to what they have done or not done, most men are looking for what is called a old traditional woman, which she will cook, clean and take care of her husband in the bedroom, in todays time and since i was a very young boy, i have not seen any woman or been with any woman that would even do one of those things ok and also i told people along time ago, women was pricing them self's out of the dating market ok and here we go, all men are now seeing women have priced them self out of the dating market ok, also keep in mind women have what is called a sexual market ok, that means as women age that sexual market will drop ok, as women have more and more sex with different men, her sexual market will drop even farther ok hehe
I told a girl that I wanted to open up my own architectural firm, she laughed and said “that’s it?” At the time I was already a designer well underway in an apprenticeship and making $80k. She was a Los Angeles 8 and an admin making 25k. I ghosted her after that date.
This dude is straight up addicting! 🤣 As a dude it's easy to think it's all your fault because our society says so constantly. Even as a severely average guy he gives me hope.
@@NoreLyne , I'm heterosexual and will always try to find the right woman for me. My mom has been in the hospital since Jan 2nd and I just buried my Aunt last Friday. All Covid-19 related. This is a challenging period. Otherwise, life is beautiful. Something we all should cherish!
When women say a relationship ended mutually it’s either because he ended it after she cheated or she ended it and regrets it. She wants to “shop around” so to speak and experience more men. Her priority is HER enrichment and wants to party.
Most women are ego driven. If she says it was mutual 90% if the time the guy ended it because if she would’ve she would’ve just said it. They just wanna save their face
It's because those females fear that their job means nothing to them so they project their insecurities on men. Fact is, their job really means nothing for us. Which intimidates them to a degree that they can't phantom what men want, because of their hearing impairment, they don't know what we want even tho we tell them exactly what we want. Which is why i avoid girls like this, they think everybody is as immature as they are.
Most women ain't making no money to begin with and the ones who are they spending 95% of it and paycheck to paycheck. I be meeting chicks making 100k still broke lol.
@@derektheproducer They either have to build their own which they don't and won'tas they don't even build nests. 2nd she would have to find a man who has one and be willing to put her in his empire which most men won't due to the experiences they saw from the previous generation
When a chick hesitate to tell who broke up , she most definitely did something to brake off the relationship. Their favorite trigger word is “ Mutual Agreement “ , Intimidation , and insecure . Anything to absolve any accountability. If women were Superman Accountability would be their kryptonite .
I'd actually disagree. Women tend to be quick and proud to say "I broke it off!!" when they initiated the breakup. I believe that HE actually broke it off and she's using that "mutual" BS to save face and not have to say that it was actually HIM that broke it off. Keep in mind that many of these modern women do NOT like rejection and do NOT like to be painted in a bad light.
exactly it’s obvious she was dumped and is actually low quality because if she is high quality and dumped him 1 she wouldn’t be in that video in that context getting grilled and 2 if she dumped him she would be arrogant and say it and 3 by dodging the question its clear she got dumped
She broke it off. Doesn't want to say so, because it makes her look bad. The pause is because she is trying to figure out a lie that makes her look good. But she struggles because she is not used to being called out in real time.
It took me 40 years and two relationships to realise what Kevin is talking about. He's absolutely 100% right. Women need to start learning their own truth instead of listening to their friends and society.
They need to learn the ultimate and onlly truth, not theirs which is not objective . That truth is they have no discipline to their mouth , body or mind. Until that happens , their life is worthless..
Their friends are their competition where they live and they don’t realize it. Your friends sabotage your relationship then go for your man haha 100 % of the time
@@FazeParticles How has Feminism helped either sex. Simply ask 100 women what Feminism is and you'll get 100 different (usually factually incorrect) responses. Thankfully the majority or women no longer identify as feminists.
She's intimidated. Kevin was an intimidating person because you didn't know if you were going to get blessed out or not. She does need a bit more time to grow. Women ARE getting married a little later than what they were 60 years ago. I see A LOT of women getting hitched in their early thirties.
I’ll never forget the time a chick had in her bio all these things a man needed to have (house, car, job, etc) just for me to get on a date with her and find out she didn’t even have a job her damn self. I asked for the check so damn fast to end that date man…..DELUSION
but i thought you men said, it doesn't matter if she has a job or money. It's about what the man has, did i get that right? so if she doesn't have a job she's right up your alley for your complete dominance.
A good friend of mine got married at the local City Hall with his wife. I asked him why he did not want to have a wedding ceremony. He told me he's been to two of his older sister's weddings. He witnessed genuine happiness in their expressions just a few times during the entire day. The rest of the time? They were absolutely miserable. So he and his wife opted to skip all of that nonsense, have a simple dinner banquet, and took the money intended for their ceremony for a down payment on their house. Smart.
Very grown...cuz I never understood weddings,,,so the married couple pays for other people to have a party to celebrate your communion ..nahhhhh it kinda sounds irresponsible once u really look at it
@Damian Married 5 years, dated only for about 5 months. We're living a simple, humble life. The house we're building is almost done. I'd say 4 months from now.
Thank God these videos still remain. His mind and words live on. I'm just now starting to follow his content. At the age of 43, very athletic, never married, a relatively high earner with no kids, I'm able to date women in their 20s, 30s and 40s and even 50s. What I've experienced and learned over my years he's confirmed. I'm personally grateful.
I think it is wonderful that women want this man with high value and a fat wallet, but feel offended when that man says that he wants a young woman who has not had a questionable past and package.
It's like telling a young beautiful woman to be fine with an older broke guy. That the experience and maturity he gained from the last 15 years of constant bad decisions won't happen again, and now he'll be an asset and a good provider. It's ridiculous.
someone came out and said men want young thin virgins with little to no debt and no tattoos and so many supposed "tradditional" women were like HOW DARE YOU! JUST BC A WOMAN HAS TATTOOS DEBT is obeses AND OTHER MENS KIDS DOESNT MEAN SHES A BAD PERSON. Women sincerly do NOT see men as people. Just tools
If I had a dollar for every 20-35yo woman I've heard say their last relationship ended because they need to work on themselves but aren't actually doing anything I'd be living in a home with staff.
Lol we all know what "work on myself" means when they say that - carousel 🎠. The proof? Give them a year and observe what has usually changed - nothing.
Why can't people 'work on themselves ' when they are IN a relationship? I hear this all the time, but it seems to be the 'go-to' line for all sorts of antics.
@@tomMXBN I'm not working on anything, I know my value and what I bring to the table. I got the "I need to step back and work on myself". But going on two weeks I see no steps and laziness. Just this video in particular resonated with my situation.
It’s amazing. Modern women literally have zero seconds of self-reflection in their whole life. We don’t hate women but are annoyed at the disparity. As a man, we wake up everyday reflecting on why we aren’t good enough to get what we want and then work to improve ourselves. Women literally don’t have a thought in their head other than, “I’m here. Isn’t that enough? That’s what Disney told me, so where is my prince?”
It's also the same in the job market. In the same job a women with the qualifications but no experience will get the same job as a man who would need the same qualifications- but five years experience- just to be considered for an interview.
Just got out of a relationship with a woman just like this. I had to sacrifice and give up everything, and she still wanted more. All the while, she didn’t want to do anything I asked. Just being there should have been enough for me… It really wasted so much time that I really didn’t have to start with. Now, got to start over at 40, and a new career. Hope you fellas learn about what they do earlier than I did. Godspeed
that’s because they are modern feminists that explains it all wether they officially claim to be feminist or have those indoctrinations is of little distinction
This girl is a living example of the tragic consequences of feminism. It ruined womanhood. Respect to her for hanging in there and taking it though. That's a good quality that a lot of women he talks to don't share.
She's emotionally and intellectually still at 17 years of age. She has no plan, no hurry to figure what she wants or when. She is just drifting along and by the time that biological clock is loud enough, she'll be too old.
@@doubleboe7NYC it's scary to plan for the future as a woman. Like for us dudes, we can slowly get our act together. Women, they wanted to do similar. Bruh, you have different organs. You're not exactly equal... All my college school mates are hitting this age and stuck in careers they don't like with no man and a desire for kids. Women thought going to work was a real prize. We men work because we have to... Why women act like it's better than sex and drugs is beyond me. If dudes could stay home play cod take care of kids and send a woman to work we would... And some hobosexuals do.
So after a woman would spend the night, I got pretty good at cooking breakfast the next morning. Sort of became a tradition (of mine). The vast majority of women I dated would say things like 'I could get used to this'. The woman that stood out to me was the woman that told me my breakfast was great, but on our next date, she came over with a bag of groceries and she insisted that she was going to make ME breakfast at my house in the morning. She also had a few items that weren't needed for breakfast but she just wanted in the fridge for future meals. She actually acted excited to come in to my life and to help support what I had through cooking and doing laundry, etc. All with an excited attitude. Some women figure out that instead of expecting to get waited on hand and foot that they can show their value to the relationship and honestly it starts right away. We were engaged in just under a year. EDIT: Btw, thanks for all the likes and comments. My reason for sharing the comment wasn't to brag it was just to let those who haven't encountered it yet know what it feels like to interact with a woman that knows what she brings to the table. Most approach the relationship with a 'whats in it for me' attitude, others know how to be in a relationship and how to demonstrate how they add value to your life. It's a night and day difference.
We need to bring back shame with a fury. We need to have an even hand as a society and move with a measure of good faith. Both men and women are capable of evil things but we do a terrible job of doing this fairly. It's not reasonable to ask good men to participate in this madness with this dynamic.
Red flags (her words and translation): "I want to work on things mentally and emotionally before I get married" - she's mentally ill and emotionally unstable. "I've been through a lot"- a lot of men have laid pipe down through her. A lot. "The purpose of marriage is companionship and security"- she wants your money, but she's only willing to give you mostly platonic friendship in return; "I want to build an empire with the man I'm with"- she wants you to build an empire for her that she doesn't have to build herself, but then wants you to be her servant while she fulfills the role of queen; "I think I have a lot to offer" - she does not have very much to offer and she knows it; There may be more, but those were the most obvious to me.
Yep. And if she met a man equal to her she would say gross. Yet they can't see their own hypocrisy. She has so many expectations of what her man should be, yet what does she have to offer other than decent looks that will fade with time? $200k/year and a stay-at-home lifestyle for "respect" isn't going to cut it for most men in the top 5% income bracket. Most would use her and throw her to the curb.
Still watching, but, "it was mutual." - Either she walked away from a partner or he left her. Round about answer means she's either ashamed it ended or she is dodging the fact that it might be her fault.
"We were fighting a lot" - he was telling me how i hurt/embarrassed/disrespected him but i didnt care because i dont actually care about him, only what he can do for me.
Nope he passed from health issues after telling women about thier bodies. In a hotel room with a women he just met. Why would he have failed marriages and still be dealing with self entitled women but give everyone else relationship advise😂 This man would tell everyone what to do and not to do on camera and do the same off camera😂
I'm 21 male with 2 kids and a stay at home wife. We were both virgins before we met eachother and that wasn't for religious reasons it was just how it happened. My wife says she enjoys staying at home and cleaning for the family. I work as a forklift driver and make a normal living with a 3 bedroom house. It's still possible to live that traditional life and I would never ever waste my time with modern women. Real women do still exist dont give up!
See how hesitant she was when Kevin asked if she wanted to be married… … but how quick she answered “YES” when he asked if she wanted a wedding. Stay safe fellas
I was struggling to understand her demeanor and couldn't exactly understand what it is. I think you have nailed it quite well. She indeed is condescending and that was showing through her sarcastic tone and voice...
I have a real question though. I hear a lot of men where I live in Canada complaining about feminism and a lack of traditional women. But these same men say they refuse to date a girl who doesn't earn as much money as them or isn't independent. Aren't those more feminist traits? I have very traditional Eastern European friends and the men feel ashamed if they don't earn more or can't provide. The women also depend on men to be the strong ones. Aren't men in the West just as delusional as the women?
@@marybell2002 The Men are also the problem as they demand things they shouldn't such as being employed or having a career. My issue is that if a woman is going to sleep with different men then she gave up the leverage to expect a man to be in the top 10%, as she isn't a maiden anymore. Unless a woman is raped or becomes a widow very young, she throws away her most valuable currency willfully by carelessly loving men that aren't going to marry her. Men can't expect a woman to be submissive if she is going to be a career woman, if she makes her money, she can also call the shots 50/50. Both sexes are being unreasonable. I am beginning to accept that my future wife might not be a virgin, will probably have tattoos and will miss having sex with some player she met before me, as she can compare me with other men, and might be tempted to cheat on me because of that.
@@marybell2002 No Women are more deluded due to social media. Many men are virgins and men get rejected consistently. They get in where they fit in. Then women initiate over 75% of divorces.
@@blademanx I'm not sure how old you are but facebook came out my first year of university. I noticed as soon as that happened social skills plummeted. Then there was an overabundance of free pornography, video games and dating apps. Men became weak and submissive because of technology and it left room for feminism and women to take over. Many men blame feminism for making them weak but the truth is men became weak first which is why feminism was able to become mainstream and unfortunately younger men are stuck with the mistakes the older ones made. I agree with you that social media and technology has been terrible for society.
I would say this is a problem with the millennial generation and those that followed, which are right behind them. This also applies to the males. And therefore, the parents of these children, who are adults today, were failed by their fathers and mothers. By time the millennial generation was birthed, the fathers were already AWOL: absent without leave. So these issues are multifaceted. And there is plenty of blame to go around. By the way the root of all human problems is SIN.
Most men don’t want virgins ... remember y’all said you don’t want to invest without test driving. KS is so ridiculous. Men are sooo confused it’s ridiculous.
She mentions her $80k inheritance at the END but never mentioned it when Kevin asked how she was going to pay for the wedding. THAT RIGHT THERE shows you the entitled thinking she has. Her goal isn't companionship at 30, it's to be wifed and knocked up and retire at 30.
Guys don't care how much money a woman has, because she's not going to share it with you anyway. Her money is her money.... and your money is her money.
@@daytona765 you can't but she has alot more than the average person. She conveniently left that part of her financial situation out until the end lol probably by accident.
So true. The short term gives them the illusion of crazy options. It turns them into the cartoon squirrel scrambling all over not being able to focus. Not understanding that the short term miles turns them off from the guys who actually want a wife.
Women were told they mature faster, and now, it's pretty obvious they don't mature past 17 now. Many women dont grow up. Ask them about retirement, savings, exact future plans, and they are clueless.
@@Tential1 Once they realize they can use their bodies, they stop. That’s 14-15. People have been scared to mention it, but since I’ve been saying it I see more people understanding and admitting that they get down at that age.
Kevin is a savage and I love it! Getting people uncomfortable is healthy. I'm a Realtor for the last 8 years and if this lady wants to be a Realtor, she'll need to adapt the motto that growth comes from getting out of our comfort zone. Statistically, there are many women Realtors and statistically women have an easier time meeting new customers in real estate (lots of guys who will use women's real estate licenses as an opener to talk to them for a date). However, real estate is a full time job and is very demanding. You'll work when your clients want to work AND you'll work a regular 8 to 5 day. If you come from a standard job, you will have to learn to self-manage and control your daily activities. The industry average is 2 years or less for new Realtors before they drop out and go back to a standard job. To make 2.4M, you'd have to sell 80M of real estate at 3% commission, so 200 homes at $400,000 each. The average Realtor sells about 2-5 homes a year. That's gross commissions, so pre-tax, pre-expenses, and pre-broker splits, by the way.
Some realtors (a couple) I've worked with sold a lot more homes a year than that, but maaaan, they did it by playing the looooong game. They played it long, and they played it deep. They were always developing business, and looking to turn current business into future business. They were also always quick to adjust to circumstance. At times when very few realtors could sell homes due to market and supply issues, they were among the few. They did this so long that most of their customers were repeat customers, yet they kept generating new business every way they could. In the end they semi-retired, selling some houses here and there "for fun", mostly because they liked helping people do what they wanted to do. But even in semi-retirement, this "for fun" work was probably what most successful realtors were selling at the height of their careers.
As a woman listening to this I can respect what he is saying. Crazy part is a lot of us women are operating in delusional fairytale white picket fence thinking about relationships and marriage. Nothing he said in this video was false. We as people don’t like hard truth. We want sugarcoated bs lies. All he’s saying is be realistic with your expectations. Nothing offensive about that at all
not even avg, she's lost points for basically getting past her prime...at 28 that's way too old and shows there has been a failure by the parents (but her mom is not in the picture as she said so who knows how that impacted the situation)
Look this shit up The average barber here in Seattle charges $40 for a fucking fade and face two heads in an hours $80 ….. just at 160 hours a month for 12 months NO WEEKENDS in a year that’s 150,000 FACTS OVER FEELINGS. stay✊🏾💪🏾
and she was definitely cappin about getting an 80k inheritance, she said she wants a 100-200k empire she'd never say that if she already had 80k in the bank.
Spot on mate Beautifully spoken. I've been through alot she says. Yeah she's been ran through by 50 Chads, Tyrones and Ray rays, then want some beta sucker to wife her up so she can get her beta bucks and Divorce him 5 years later
This woman looked genuinely shook when he started asking her the real questions. She was trying to hide it behind dismissive laughs, but you can tell she's never once thought about the timeline or the logistics of her future aspirations. A lot of these modern ladies think they're Cinderella living a humble life and that they'll just be a princess one day. She is almost 30 and talks like she's 15. It's clear this woman has never had to grow up or go through any financial hardship since she hasn't seriously thought about her future.
This is commonplace. If it wasn’t for KS and Jordan Peterson a lot of us would still be in the dark. I’m a 33 yr old black man, I make about 40k/year. I just recently started goin back to school to become a nurse. I already have my AA so all the basic classes are done. I never really wanted to be a nurse but I like working with people and I enjoy learning about the human body. What I’ve learned through our friends KS and JP is that it doesn’t matter what “I always wanted to do.” I want a family and my own home. That means going back to school and starting a career. Now! Thank you 🙏🏿
I knew men who were cleaned out, some to the tune of 7 figures, but they kept going after women until they were so broken down and low market value they couldn't even hook up with cat ladies. I've known men who stayed married until a few days after retirement and the wife cleaned them out and took most of the savings and pension. I also know men who are hanging on because they know the wife will clean them out in a divorce. The only reason marriage and even hookups are still going on is because young men aren't being taught the truth and so many men are too damn thirsty, and politicians and bureaucrats owe their careers to the female vote.
not to mention, smart men know scientifically it take 2-3 year to know a person and the more financially sensible they are the least likely to give the ring (if modern women want a daddy then be up front, rather than talk about fairy things like love and trust, learn cost benefit and realize the era of beta males are going away with gen y and z). plus which smart person is gonna spend 50k in one night to save face lol......men learn female psychology and stuff settling and giving precedence to women due to codependency issues, men don't have the wall and biologically at an advantage
I'm sure she didn't. You cannot start out this ignorant and end up emotionally healthy and aware at the end of the conversation. These women seem hopelessly dumb.
There is no way i could have a conversation with this womanfor more than 3 minutes. It's dam hard just to watch this. Kevin keeps it going for 30 minutes.
This is the unfortunate truth, a woman can never be traditional if she is not a virgin, no matter how feminine she is the fact that she's already giving herself to random men she is not married to is a modern lifestyle. Great stream 👍
Hellosunshine k not traditional, shes traditional minded, but not traditional in essence. There was a reason that was the tradition. To make it so your first husband and first body was hopefully your last. Go back 100 years and it was normal for a wife to say the only man shss ever slept with was her husband
@@duckfoutube1761 they said it, but it wasn't always true. Weather he was the first or he was the last. That old saying "the milkman always rings twice"...
It never ceases to amaze me just how casually some women classify 98% of our nations men as undesirable, based solely on income, then complain about not being able to find a "good" man.
That’s cuz that 98% will steal cheat on you and abuse you. might as well go for top earners and get some pay off if I’m gonna be treated like dirt right?
@@faye1417 98% of the men you picked "stole from you, cheated on you, and abused you" and your decision making skills = going for "top earners" that will "pay you" to continue to be "treated like dirt" because (checks notes) "Might as well"? Fascinating.
Indeed. Coupled with this total inability or refusal to grasp the fact that most of the women, no matter how they look or are shaped, no matter how many children they have from previous partners, no matter how damaged, are aiming for the top 5%, even the top 1% of men... And it's completely unfathomable to them that all but the choice women, will be unsuccessful. Again, evidenced by the need to have a man 6ft and over... Literally 15% in the US... But they want a man who is BOTH 6ft+ AND a top 5% earner...Yet most are average. _Women deal in possibility... Men deal in probability_
A small study was conducted in the US, where they asked both men and women the same question: *Would you accept a 7/10 partner?* _i.e. the person had 7 out of 10 desirable traits_ Most Women: "No - they felt like they were settling" Most men: "They would accept even a 6/10, if they had the right qualities"
I'm glad someone is finally telling the whole story. This definitely isn't just a black thing. This is a modern woman thing. All carrot no stick. All pleasure no pain.
Nothing to do with race, everything to do with countless hours of programming. From Disney princess movies to romcoms and other unmarried, miserable women telling them that this works.
When you start seeing the demographics of the KS show changing you know he’s slowly but surely transitioning into the mainstream..I hope he never changes his tone for no one or "DEAL" and still makes it to the mainstream as his message deserves to be spread across the world.. And,the crazy thing about it is Kevin doesn’t even want all that he’s just trying to keep black folks together but I think he’s going to end up keeping us all together which is bigger than he could’ve ever imagined..God bless you KS!
It’s crazy because if Kevin was lying to these women like Steve Harvey he would be on good morning America and radio shows. It’s like he said all of these day time shows are made to keep women sleep and separated from men.
How optimistically naïve. This man and all his efforts, as good natured and good hearted as they may be, are not enough to keep this titanic from sinking
@@Bariture I agree with King. We’ll never reverse course. Women have equal rights and have proven our great grandfathers right, that they cannot handle the responsibility. That was the beginning of the end. We’re in the 4th quarter now.
No brother KS is not reversing anything. He knows that. This is his way of income. The titanic has already hit the iceberg. There is going to be no reversal for relationships in the Western world. With technology to cheat and people's ego and selfishness it is already over.
@@retiredmindset9589 Hey We can only speak in absolutes from our personal experiences and with that being said I have no complaints about my current rotation of options. I’m just tired of hearing the excuses out here Because honestly if you’re a hard-working select man you don’t have time to make excuses you’re just exercise options And of course as we all know if you don’t have a lot of options well thus the complaints.. I’ve never seen a successful man who’s actually working to become the very best version of himself Still complaining about NOT getting whatever he wants out of a woman because the only issue he has is settling down with the right most loyal one if he so chooses…😉
"Modern women want weddings, they don't want to be married" Nailed It!!!
The baby shower is the new wedding !!!!
@@Ktrcho-j7m This hits different. Like they want to get gifts?
It’s possible to marry yourself actually 😅
@@introvertdude99 women should just marry themselves then
@@kalabana3957 they do and it’s sad and a bit mental
"This isn't a black thing; it's a modern thing."
EXACTLY. Thank you!
The black thing is the lack of friendly and respectful, characters, attitudes, and behaviors.
Yeah but the culture spread to other races
@@architecture.w - Stop singling out black women. Last time I checked white women intruded the black community with their thoughts, beliefs and etc. they’ve done the same with the men.
@Niamaiyah Charleson Stereotyping a whole race of women is ignorant.
@Architecture Whisperer Stereotyping a WHOLE race of women is rude and delusional, as well as ignorant.
Nobody tells a 27yr old that they are mature for their age. That's something you tell young people.
Middle schoolers will 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yeah it something you tell a teenager...by 27 your supposed to be mature.
🤣
Well I'd disagree... I bought my home cash @27, married @19, had 4 kids with my wife, finished school and had been working my career job since the age of 22. I'd say being married with 4 kids, with my wife since sophomore year of high school working a career and NOT having a mortgage... I was mature for a 27 year old.
@@moekrinkle5771 no u missed the point. U were mature at around 19. Just by buying the house at 27 doesn't indicate thats when u arrived at being mature.
The three “A’s” that all modern women want:
1. The authority of a man
2. The advantages of a woman
3. The accountability of a child
Wow I don't see how this comment doesn't have a million likes, this was a one in a million comment
Screenshot
Dang. That's deep.
@@playah71frl me too
Damn.
This how much of a feminist society we live in Telling average woman they are average is a insult. A average man knows he’s average
✊✊✊✊
Grand delusion in all its glory
Word I'm slightly above average lol. Shit I worked hard to get here an maintain it this shit
We live in a male patriarchy, always have and always will.
@@rickd438 I can name 5 rights that a woman has, but a man doesn't. Wanna Playa Game?
If I had a dollar for every time one of these woman said they were getting into real estate. I could quit work, and watch Kevin as a job. They say it enough to cover my bills. LOL
Both our bills
@13:55
Ur mortgage
That’ll be enough to move into a mansion
I get 10K a month from real estate. It’s a pretty good career
Ladies. Please. Listen to me. I PROMISE you. I GUARANTEE YOU that there isn’t a single man you will ever “intimidate” by being a basic adult doing basic adult things. This woman really just said an insurance worker probably making 4 times her salary with benefits is “intimidated”’of her cutting hair… This delusion needs to stop. Annoyed, unimpressed, tired are not synonyms with intimidated.
👍👍
Its the nature of the job not the income from the job. Her having daily access to only men with a more intimate job like that IS THE PROBLEM and for good reason. Do you think the amount of access and flirtation and DM's (only for business though cough cough) and personal conversations ect ect influenced her behavior towards her LTR? We both know the answer. Ill bet she thought she could do better than her little petty "insurance man" and she proved it with the conversation she had with Kevin.
@@ajpope2010 that is a trend I’m seeing with women. They knowing ly go to job sites while being in relationships vetting their man’s replacement and then pull out the “insecure”
Card when a discerning man calls them on it. Trying to frame it as men trying to marginalize them. Another form of gaslighting.
Well said
In her case, it had more to do with her being around dudes all day is what she thinks he was intimidated by. She might be delusional but she’s attractive so you know those dudes are coming at her. So he was probably more insecure than intimidated.
"You women want traditional outcomes... weddings, white dresses... and you're schizophrenic psychotic non-virgins with trust issues."
12:53
The brother is spitting truth
I sang the 'woooooah my gaawd' meme when I heard that
@Capriol_Knight don't forget solipsistic, narcissistic, egomaniacal, EGOTISTICAL,hypergamous,insecure, EASILY intimidated, unsure, not confident, materialistic, and the black ones are ALL these multipled by 5...and I'm saying THIS as a Trey Songz/Tyson Beckford/Zayn level good-looking dude.💯🧔🏾♂️
Boom!! 💥 They want a traditional wedding, i.e all the fancy stuff that someone else is paying for but traditional marriage? No they don't!
Truth bomb.
If you want to walk in circles ask a woman a question that requires a truthful answer🤯🤯🤯
🤣 Now ain't that the gospel truth?!
@@thenaughtyamericanexpat Dam right👌🏾
I've never know a male to tell the truth works both ways.
@@SuperTruthful woman can’t handle the truth thats why we do it, man adapt.
@@SuperTruthful goes to show what kind of people you surround yourself with
"I'm a hair stylist, and want an expensive wedding, partnership, real estate, and an empire, but I want it on my terms, my timeline, and want everyone else to pay for it!"
She has nothing to offer and does not deserve a big wedding! Still her girlfriends will say: You go Girl!!!!
You can’t make this sh!t up lol
Summed up perfectly
Hahahahaha so ridiculous huh?
Its funny but not so funny that woman think this way delusion. Men need to set them off right all men its our fault
I wanted to be a psychologist but then decided I wanted to be a barber.. Thats really something only a woman can say and not be a laughing stock
Exactly! If men say this, we'd be called all kinds of idiots.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I mean she is still working on the same area...
She comes across as lazy and unmotivated!
You can’t do anything with a bachelor’s in psychology, other than more school. The cutting hair thing probably just fell in her lap.
The days of $20,000 engagement rings and $100,000 dollar weddings needs to end… Now.
I told my wife before we were married - I don’t borrow money, and I won’t finance a wedding. I don’t feed and provide a bar for people I’ve never met.
We got married in a small church on a Friday. Had a cheap cocktail finger food (no sit down tables, no DJ, no dancing and no alcohol).
We spent half our cash budget on the dress, and the rest on every else… less than $1500 total.
No horse drawn carriage, no hired car, no exotic catering. Married for 20 years
Hahaha, a d just the "f" who is having this other than rich people? $20k ring?GTFOH
$100k wedding?GTFOH that's 1/2 the price of a house in a lot of places. If they break up BEFORE the wedding, will she give the ring back, or will it become a court case? Man
....
@@JDAfrica loser, i just went to the courthouse, did the paper work for 60$. no wedding. married for 32 years now.
😂🤣😂🤣 who buys 20k engagement rings? Hollywood fools..
I was only able to afford 7k for my ex..🤣🤣🤣
Was that ever a thing, clearly i am hanging out with the Wrong people and need to spend more time at the golf club and Badminton court and at my Villa in Tuscany.
20 grand on a ring? OOOOFFF that would HURT!
“You’re 28! You’re at an age where the Chinese will call you leftover.” … My Chinese wife hit the floor laughing. So true indeed.
Shes a Jaded pearl
what does that mean? leftover.?
My Japanese wife did the same. The Japanese call them leftovers as well or "Christmas Cakes" apparently.
@@elijahmelendez9864 Technically it’s “left behind.” East Asian societies are highly competitive. There are more people and fewer resources to go around. People are highly encouraged to marry young, work cooperatively with their spouse, spouse’s parents and their own parents. This “I’m a strong independent career woman that don’t need no man” bullshit doesn’t fly over there. People that do that, or can’t work with others get literally left behind. I’m sure you’ve seen the move Parasite?
@@thekingofthisworld2154 yea i just googled it , the term in chinese seems to have two different meanings, like i just read, which makes sense to me, " A 28 year old male who is alone , the chinese seemed to call "Diamond men" or gold something like that .i'd think we'd all have more respect for women around that age ,who said there not ever getting married because of scientific aims ,or ex cit-era , "No it doesn't interest me, instead of being nebulous about it , thats hard though as it is.
When a woman responds to serious questions with answers like “Probably” “Maybe” and “Not sure”…RUN FELLAS 😂
😭😭💯
One word responses..flee!!
😁
Right on point.
It means they don't really know what they want!
“A lot of people tell me I’m mature for my age”
My sister in Christ you’re 28
😂
sent lmao
😭😭😭😭😂😂
Lmao
thats something you say of a 14 year old
She's not ugly. She should be looking for a decent man with a JOB, an nine to five, who will treat her good. Nothing more.
Her expectations are so much higher than her value it's laughable.
Nothing wrong with average women getting together with average dudes. It worked for centuries, then with social media, women have delusions of grandeur to the point they will not settle for average.
She's from my home state. She's a pretty girl who's like all the other girls there. They think they deserve a guy making 150k while their only contribution is being there lol. If she said she wanted a man who makes 65k, works out, and loves her, she could be married tomorrow. However she's a barber who thinks they deserve a banker
@@Black_Elmer_Fudd
To be fair, it's not just the pretty girls with those expectations. But yes, she's probably rejected at least five decent men in her life who would have been just fine for her.
Problem is, they are just fine, not perfect.
The main problem is social media. If you ask these girls to name some of the popular women they look up to or follow and you will see the problem. It's girls who preach they don't have to do a thing and they have a bunch of rich guys spending it like it don't mean nothing on them, while they do as they please . Why would these women even consider an average guy or a guy on their level when in their head they feel they will hit the jackpot eventually and life will be daisies .
@@kbgibson I like to use the analogy of a great athlete thinks he'll make it in the pros, when in reality less than one percent of college level athletes will even get a sniff at the next level. You have to have a backup plan. These gals don't think they will ever have to settle, well, well not until they are stone cold out of options, and by then it's too late for most of them.
By their forties, they are like average men. Invisible to the opposite sex.
@@thomasmichaels6850 pretty accurate
I'll give credit where it's due. She at least wasn't combative and nasty. For hearing a ton of things she didn't like she handled herself well.
And she did have the money to get into real estate lmfao
@@inamsaj She may have money for a used camper van. That's about it.
@@inamsaj Not defending her but becoming a relator isn't expensive at all. I think here in FL you take like 6 weeks in classes and pay maybe 1k and get with an agency and you're good to go.
I feel sad for her...she seems a good person ... but bad informed...Life is not that easy...as a barber she probably is earning about 20k a year....she definitely need to wise up and get a man!!! Please girl...you have to lower your standard... for the man in terms of income.
That's because they don't take any of it to heart, she may be quiet but that doesn't mean she agreed with anything Kevin said
"It was mutual" - said every woman when they got dumped
Or when they break up with a suitable partner thinking they can do better.
@@ericneal8582 this !! 👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿
Notice she had to think about whether or not she had sex with someone else. But wait...she spoke about HER not cheating, rather than saying her guy didn’t cheat. She has guilt. I think she didn’t have sex, but WAS ‘cheating’, but she’s changed the definition of cheating.
She cheated and knew she'd get destroyed for it. And one of his next questions was literally "did you cheat?" He let her live because he knew there was more dirt at the surface.
Facts! They always trying to save to face
I like that he is so direct and while delivering some brutal truths never loses the sense of being respectful, teaching and not about himself or his ego. He has some precious communication skills for sure.
Yeah, his speaking style is very impressive. It’s like Patrice O’Neal, but genteel.
Man has the patient of a saint, it seems he really put in a lot energy to genuinely help. Although I think his ultimate motive was to open the eyes of men. I don’t think I could take that much stress that he put himself under. Rip
Very rare with communication to have all of those skills
Sadly he is no more.
It's like he said, it's not an ethnicity problem - It's a problem with the modern women's mindset.
I had 60 people at my wedding , it was $3000-$4000 total, and it was beautiful, I was 22 and a virgin and still happily married! I know so many women who had grandiose weddings and divorced 2-3 years later, fancy weddings are overrated !
26 people at my wedding. At first we werent going to do one..... But happy we did.... I unexpectedly had a great afternoon/evening lol
I know it's hard to believe anything in the internet cause people make it up but I am happy for you. Happy for your choices and give credit where credits due.
Your simplicity is a choice that pales comparisons in modern world where the lines are blurred. You deserve the happiness thats coming for you.
Yes my sis wedding was $3000 and she got divorced so it’s definitely better than $20,000. If I ever get married I just want a cruise wedding with my immediate family. At least I can say I went on vacation 😆.
Very similar story here, except I was 20. That's the way to go!
It is overrated! My brother in law refuses to marry his fiancee, because she wants (and in her words, DESERVES) at least a $25k wedding.
He had 2 kids with her, and she's still waiting for that wedding, 5 years later! She doesn't even work!
Her: I'm mature for my age...
Her: I'm not mentally ready for marriage....
Stop the cap.
Man them eggs 🥚 are drying up fast 😭😭😭😭
@@jeremiahdavis3398 no your sperm is just not attractive to all kinds of eggs .
@@NoreLyne And you're not funny.. Damn
Confused and delusional
@@IaintTrynaGoOutLikeBIGnPAC we women are naturally mood swingers , it’s hormonal .. I can have psychotic moods swings until demons come out of me
She/Her: "Isn't that traditional [having a wedding]?"
Kevin: "You're not a traditional woman. Are you a virgin?""
She/Her: "No"
Kevin: "...You women want traditional outcomes; weddings, white dresses and you're schizophrenic, non-virgins with trust issues"
Solid point. What good is the facade of tradition without the structural foundation of tradition? Buying a flashy luxury car at full price with the engine missing defeats the purpose of getting a car.
plenty of nfl players making 500k buy 500k cars to maintain the image of making millions. its ludicrous. she will NEVER be happy.
That's the point. All social favor and facade without any heavy lifting of a real relationship.
Female version of free lunch. They gotta look the best of female models. Without making ends meet.
0
She is attractive and must be getting lots of offers for 'casual' relationships by some of her hair clients. I guess she is getting pumped and dumped. She doesn't want to commit because she keeps hoping a better man comes along and saves her.
i knew men who were cleaned out, some to the tune of 7 figures,
but they kept going after women until they were so broken down and
low market value they couldn't even hook up with 'cat ladies''.
I've known men who stayed married until a few days after retirement and the
wife cleaned them out and took most of the savings and pension.
I also know men who are hanging on because they know the wife will clean them
out in a divorce.
The only reason marriage and even hook-ups are still going on is because
young men aren't being taught the truth and so many men are too damn thirsty,
and
politicians, &
bureaucrats owe their careers to the female vote.
Just found out about this man. He's a modern national treasure for men like me who don't understand women very much.
make sure to watch every video. Each one has a gem in it.
He passed away, unfortunately! Where were you when his videos were blowing up?!
@@Khaled91how did he die?
same, wish i found out sooner. my goal now is to watch every single video, and write down the nuggets of wisdom that pertains. Good luck sir.
As a woman....watch him. He isn't lying! Don't let these women use you up out here cause they will!!
I'm starting to see this side in my wife's sister, who is 10 years younger than my wife. She often comes over and stays the night with us to go out with her friends. She sees the result of our work. She sees what we have accomplished in 10 years together.
But she doesn't see when we both were right out of college and were barely making ends meet. She doesn't see when we both lived on my wife's salary because I was building up my business and working my ass off. She sees the results. The nice apartment and the nice car.
No one wants to grow with each other anymore. Everyone wants easy money. I keep telling her to find a guy that has potential, that works hard, that is loyal and loving. Find someone that has goals. Not someone who has reached his goals. A man that has reached his goals and is still single is a man who won't be taking any BS. He won't accept any sassy, strong, independent woman. He will move on.
🔥
They don’t want potential thats the problem they want the results now and bring little to the table its fast food dating fast food marriage speed dating tinder hookups no one wants the real thing, im blaming feminism on this problem
Most people only see the results. Not the struggle. My wife and I slept on my dads living room for a year. Scrapped up for an apartment. Slept on the floor with no furniture. Now we own a car free and clear. No debt. Live at a home with two kids and she is a stay home wife/mom.
@@Imhere12345 They all think there are so many options so many fish in the sea but they can’t explain why they are single lmao. More options aren’t always a good thing. Give me one option worth a diamond over a million options each worth a grain of sand.
It takes a fool to learn ,,,
That Love Don’t Love Nobody
This was a deep conversation, She received a healthy dose of reality.
She had it gently poured on her and she dodged it masterfully.
@@AleksandarIvanov69 Yes, have to agree with you! But she did NOT get a dose of reality, it quite obviously went right over her head. You could see her thinking about it, but EVERY response she had was an objection, they were all in “defense of” whatever her belief was. Maybe afterwards she could watch this and catch what he was saying, grab a hold of the reality has lays out, but she sure didn’t ‘get it’ live. I haven’t seen one person who did with him. Maybe there are some videos out there that you get to see that “a-haa” moment, where the light just pops into their eyes and they GET IT, but so far I haven’t seen it. Just the arguing, defending, or not believing what he’s telling them. So sad to see. Looks like there are going to be a lot of single homeless and ANGRY women in 40+ years from now.
@@ricktaylor14001 I agree, I think she was dodging reality to the very end. How is the statement " I have a lot to offer," consistent with "I have been through a lot." Don't those two statements contradict each other? Whether you are a male or a female looking for a spouse, who wants someone with a long complex, emotional history, not attractive at all.
“Build an empire, lady you cut hair.” 😂😂😂 omg I was dead
Would you pump it up or dump it up?
Most American women have never visited and compared themselves to women in other countries. As an American immigrant,, I'll tell you they do not compare. American women have grown rather accustomed to a system and media environment that supports their abject mental laziness when it comes to men. I wish them well in their search for the one.
What’s the biggest differences?
Can I just say.....you nailed it......I swear I didn't have the balls to write this, not all but unfortunately most,coming from a different country I never seen this" there are no good men out here" mentality. Men are winning so much I am looking forward to my wedding soon but iya a damn shame.
@@wpp1586 They sure did... wrote what i was thinking.
I wish them loneliness and misery..
@@CA-zr1kz the weight is the biggest difference. I travel to Europe and the Middle East a lot. When you spend time in another country and then land back at the airport in America, it's so amazing to see the difference and realize how much bigger American women are compared to other women. American women are huge LOL
My husband and I were married by a notary who was a friend of my father's. The whole thing cost from beginning to end 300 dollars and I wouldn't change a thing if I had it to do all over again. We just wanted to be together and that was all that mattered. 38 years and 2 30+year old sons later, I still wouldn't change a thing😊. He is my partner in life as well as my best friend. We have had good financial years, and we have lived in poverty. But, we always worked together and got through it all. I'm a very happy woman!
The good ole days!@@somebody700
@Spartacus basically, they grew up in a different REALITY... currently reality is one similar to twilight zone.💯🧔🏾♂️
Yeah right buddy 😂 if you guys had stacks I doubt you would just spend $300 dollars to re live that experience.
@@somebody700 im 32, met my wife when we were both 15. Either of us have never been with someone else, we are all we have known. We have 2 boys. I make 52k a year as a plumber. She is a stay at home mom. If you buy into what society is selling then thats your own fault. The only opinion a man concerns himself with is his own. I still have some of the clothes i had in high-school, still wear them. I dont know how you people let what others think influence you. Men are just as bad as modern woman. Boys and girls pretending to be adults.
@@somebody700 i did reply to the wrong person, apologies.
He will be missed. Man, he opened eyes to so many people . It's sad he is gone. He work is ART. It will get value overtimes
it definelty will
It’s not good that he died ofc, but most people don’t get put on to great people until it’s too late. I myself just now getting into him.
RIP makes people more popular. More than ever this info is gonna get out. A change the world really needs.
I know he was smart
Crazy he died then all this comes to head. I even heard TD Jakes and others talking about “modern women”. KS, big brother, you will be missed sir. 💙
Amen Johnny Erinn Amen!!
Like KS said, 'a society will only rise as high as the moral position of its women.' Ego in the modern woman today is in large part destroying the nuclear family.
@Hubert Harrison you're right.
Ego, but their mattress is on the floor.
100
"The true worth of a race must be measured by the character of its woman." was said by Mary McLeod Bethune.
@@odiumgeneris729 Well looks like both white and black people are in the gutter. Asians are not far behind nowadays either
I got a lot of respect for her being grilled, embarrassed and being told the truth but taking it very well. Most people would’ve been offended and angry. Respect ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
I do agree
She must be getting paid for it
@@monsieurbennett No she’s just not a black woman so there was no need for confrontation by a fellow black man
Sure .. but she only gets my respect if I could what she does walking away from this conversation
She may have truly wanted incite.
The fact that she starts every single answer with “uuummm” and then a long pause, I don’t know how he stayed so patient with her! Every single sentence! Uuuuuummmmmm!
Uuuuuuummm I don't know what you're talking about, I haven't uhhhhh noticed it once.
It's his patients that makes him the GODFATHER...
Acting.
The lip smacking before every sentence screams teenage attitude too.
This man's teaching should be used for ALL YOUNG WOMEN..
MUCH RESPECT MR.SAMUELS
That's it.!
I don’t think rational arguments work.
@@jimhendericks they really don’t because they’ll just reject the truth if it doesn’t suit their ego
“people in the middle have always gotten together for survival” 🤯 I felt that. Thank you Kevin!
👍👍
How dare you imply she’s average! She’s building an empire.
Truth hurts a lot of ppl. with that statement 👍🏼
@@wyganter empire for what leftover women
@@wyganter hilarious
My dad said the same thing after my nephew and his wife got a divorce after an expensive wedding and 8 months of marriage. "Women want weddings, not marriage." So true. 🙃
ooooooffffff
I would just do a small wedding with my congregation…you don’t have to have an expensive wedding…just like we do on the feast days…everybody bring a dish…simple…everybody comes…bam…no serious money spent…I get to celebrate my union with the people I care about…I think women deserve a chance to redeem themselves…we grew up without fathers…didn’t have value for ourselves….how can a man expect a high value woman if they not high value…some of the stuff he saying is kinda not making sense…he’s saying she shouldn’t desire to build an empire with him…instead she just supposed to work full-time…He’s not making sense…and taking care of kids and a man IS a full-time job….
@@Zeebo216 I don't believe he is saying it, the woman are. High value to them is a man who makes close to 1/2 a million dollars when they aren't even close to that money themselves nor in the physical department. The women need to be more down to earth and seek men on their level which most is the time average. I would want an average man myself, a real worker and not some pansy who flaunts his money around. 😄🌸
@@Zeebo216 ok, what women need to stop doing is comparing their value to how a man's value is ok, so what women need to do is know their own value, but to what they have done or not done, most men are looking for what is called a old traditional woman, which she will cook, clean and take care of her husband in the bedroom, in todays time and since i was a very young boy, i have not seen any woman or been with any woman that would even do one of those things ok and also i told people along time ago, women was pricing them self's out of the dating market ok and here we go, all men are now seeing women have priced them self out of the dating market ok, also keep in mind women have what is called a sexual market ok, that means as women age that sexual market will drop ok, as women have more and more sex with different men, her sexual market will drop even farther ok hehe
@@Zeebo216 also keep in mind how a man's value is said to be, is not the same way a women's value is consider ok hehe
I told a girl that I wanted to open up my own architectural firm, she laughed and said “that’s it?” At the time I was already a designer well underway in an apprenticeship and making $80k. She was a Los Angeles 8 and an admin making 25k. I ghosted her after that date.
Good
Have you started your own practice yet?
You dodged a bullet. She will be a 6 making 25k once she hits 33
@@Daddydeathv2 not even a 6. You're too generous. She'll be a 3 and half bro.
Good!
This dude is straight up addicting! 🤣 As a dude it's easy to think it's all your fault because our society says so constantly. Even as a severely average guy he gives me hope.
Kevin surgically disects the dreams of individuals showing them how unrealistic most are! Peace and love!
Kevin is genius. We need more people like him.
@@NoreLyne , to each is its own!!! Keep your faith! The right man is out there for you!! Use your wisdom to select the best one for You!
@@NoreLyne , OK Lina as long as you're happy, I'm happy for you! Peace and love!
@@NoreLyne , I'm heterosexual and will always try to find the right woman for me. My mom has been in the hospital since Jan 2nd and I just buried my Aunt last Friday. All Covid-19 related. This is a challenging period. Otherwise, life is beautiful. Something we all should cherish!
It will not help them. They will hear but not listen.
A mutual breakup is when both people say at exactly the same time..."I'm breaking up with you". Never happens.
Yes it does. In movies 😀
@Vic Birth then you would have eventually broken up with her or probably never married her
Good point
It happens, my last ex wanted children and I did not. So we agreed at the same time it's better to break up
That’s because he left her and she didn’t want to answer that question
These women demand alot but offer little.
The modern western woman.
"These women demand alot but offer little." These women demand alot but offer nothing.
There, I fixed that for ya.
When women say a relationship ended mutually it’s either because he ended it after she cheated or she ended it and regrets it. She wants to “shop around” so to speak and experience more men. Her priority is HER enrichment and wants to party.
She definitely ended it because she was getting flirty with her “clients” and he wasn’t having it. “He was intimidated of my career” 😂☠️
@@tentoesdown6247 yep. Definitely.
Most women are ego driven. If she says it was mutual 90% if the time the guy ended it because if she would’ve she would’ve just said it. They just wanna save their face
She’s playing the victim… this women is left over trash… who has no idea in hell like a majority of the women now
@@kma997 I look at this woman and I see your point about ego
A lot of recursive reasoning. Try building an empire with this one
Why do they keep saying men are "intimidated" by their job? Ain't nobody scared of that shit.
They blow smoke up eachothers butts for good feels..
It's because those females fear that their job means nothing to them so they project their insecurities on men. Fact is, their job really means nothing for us. Which intimidates them to a degree that they can't phantom what men want, because of their hearing impairment, they don't know what we want even tho we tell them exactly what we want. Which is why i avoid girls like this, they think everybody is as immature as they are.
Where’s the love button?
Only thing we don’t like is when you think you’re better than us because of the job.
Most women ain't making no money to begin with and the ones who are they spending 95% of it and paycheck to paycheck. I be meeting chicks making 100k still broke lol.
That's what he means, you respect strength, actions matching words✊
Lady: I want an empire
Kevin: Lady you cut hair
Me: priceless lmaoooo
Anything that sounds good and feeds the ego
When he called her average that stung her
Every woman wants an “Empire” without the work & responsibility. They just want the benefits of an empire.
@@derektheproducer They either have to build their own which they don't and won'tas they don't even build nests. 2nd she would have to find a man who has one and be willing to put her in his empire which most men won't due to the experiences they saw from the previous generation
🤣🤣🤣🤦🏿♂️
When a chick hesitate to tell who broke up , she most definitely did something to brake off the relationship. Their favorite trigger word is “ Mutual Agreement “ , Intimidation , and insecure . Anything to absolve any accountability. If women were Superman Accountability would be their kryptonite .
Just say supergirl leave superman out of this
I'd actually disagree. Women tend to be quick and proud to say "I broke it off!!" when they initiated the breakup.
I believe that HE actually broke it off and she's using that "mutual" BS to save face and not have to say that it was actually HIM that broke it off. Keep in mind that many of these modern women do NOT like rejection and do NOT like to be painted in a bad light.
@N Y Anyone that makes them accountable for their actions/words get labelled as an "abusive relationship".
"It was toxic." 🙄
"He messed up, I broke it off,"........."Now I'm working on myself" LMAO "Can't make this shyt up!"
I want a life update on this girl. This was a life changing conversation for her hopefully. Props to her for doing this very publicly.
Agreed
Not gonna lie she’s cute 😍
@@Rahimshabazzbut has the mindset of a teenager
@@kebokev7519 all I said was she’s cute that don’t mean I want to date her obviously
Her boyfriend ended it. If she broke it off, she would’ve just said “I did”. But she feels embarrassed and is trying to save dignity
exactly it’s obvious she was dumped and is actually low quality because if she is high quality and dumped him 1 she wouldn’t be in that video in that context getting grilled and 2 if she dumped him she would be arrogant and say it and 3 by dodging the question its clear she got dumped
I had a different take.....My impression was she broke it off and didn’t want to say it because she believed that was the answer KS was looking for.
I don't blame him to be honest. I would never go anywhere near a woman if her job involved grooming other men.
either the boyfriend or her or both had substance abuse issues and she did not want to damage her brand or his...
She broke it off. Doesn't want to say so, because it makes her look bad. The pause is because she is trying to figure out a lie that makes her look good. But she struggles because she is not used to being called out in real time.
It took me 40 years and two relationships to realise what Kevin is talking about. He's absolutely 100% right. Women need to start learning their own truth instead of listening to their friends and society.
Damn, 40 years I learned this at a young age, a teen, just watching people they all tell you who they are
@@TheTaekwon3 lucky! Some never learn it!
They need to learn the ultimate and onlly truth, not theirs which is not objective . That truth is they have no discipline to their mouth , body or mind. Until that happens , their life is worthless..
@@jracerichards 🙌
Their friends are their competition where they live and they don’t realize it. Your friends sabotage your relationship then go for your man haha 100 % of the time
"This ain't a Black Woman thing, this is a Modern Woman thing."
FINALLY! 👏
+Steve Taylor AMEN!!!!!!!...
if that's true then does that mean feminism has been a failure for men? i'd say yes but what do you say?
@@FazeParticles How has Feminism helped either sex. Simply ask 100 women what Feminism is and you'll get 100 different (usually factually incorrect) responses.
Thankfully the majority or women no longer identify as feminists.
White people are literally all through the comments celebrating being included in dysfunction.. Lmao! IT'S A WHITE Thing tuuuu!.. lol
You went from this life way too soon brother, you have left us with plenty of honesty and wisdom, RIP ❤️🙏
She's mature for her age. She answers questions like a 7 year old.
bruh i died
I just heard that and saw your comment as she tilted her head lol
Are u on drugs is is not mature.😂
Sadly these kind of women are becoming the norm
She's intimidated. Kevin was an intimidating person because you didn't know if you were going to get blessed out or not. She does need a bit more time to grow. Women ARE getting married a little later than what they were 60 years ago. I see A LOT of women getting hitched in their early thirties.
I’ll never forget the time a chick had in her bio all these things a man needed to have (house, car, job, etc) just for me to get on a date with her and find out she didn’t even have a job her damn self. I asked for the check so damn fast to end that date man…..DELUSION
Naw bro you take the heat on that because even after reading that batsh*t crazy bio you still hit her up. Take this L
@@HumptyMcFly 🤣🤣🤣🤣 brother wanted to pump & dump.
Bro why the hell would you want to trifle with that in the first place 🤣
but i thought you men said, it doesn't matter if she has a job or money. It's about what the man has, did i get that right? so if she doesn't have a job she's right up your alley for your complete dominance.
@@HumptyMcFly …he cut his losses. No L We all have to learn. Cheap lesson learned.
A good friend of mine got married at the local City Hall with his wife. I asked him why he did not want to have a wedding ceremony. He told me he's been to two of his older sister's weddings. He witnessed genuine happiness in their expressions just a few times during the entire day. The rest of the time? They were absolutely miserable. So he and his wife opted to skip all of that nonsense, have a simple dinner banquet, and took the money intended for their ceremony for a down payment on their house. Smart.
Wife & I did the same thing!!! Wedding money went toward closing cost!
You have a good wife who does not get influenced by the non sense social media.
Very grown...cuz I never understood weddings,,,so the married couple pays for other people to have a party to celebrate your communion ..nahhhhh it kinda sounds irresponsible once u really look at it
@Damian Married 5 years, dated only for about 5 months. We're living a simple, humble life. The house we're building is almost done. I'd say 4 months from now.
@Damian same, went to city hall been married for 22yrs and he asked to marry me after 2 months
Thank God these videos still remain. His mind and words live on. I'm just now starting to follow his content. At the age of 43, very athletic, never married, a relatively high earner with no kids, I'm able to date women in their 20s, 30s and 40s and even 50s. What I've experienced and learned over my years he's confirmed. I'm personally grateful.
I think it is wonderful that women want this man with high value and a fat wallet, but feel offended when that man says that he wants a young woman who has not had a questionable past and package.
They drank the feminist Kool aid and now they gotta pay for it.
That 304 is gonna be found putrefying for months surrounded by cats eating her PhD 🐱 🐈☝️💀🐱🐈
It's like telling a young beautiful woman to be fine with an older broke guy. That the experience and maturity he gained from the last 15 years of constant bad decisions won't happen again, and now he'll be an asset and a good provider. It's ridiculous.
@@GGWP-nx3kn - "I've got a PhD!"
someone came out and said men want young thin virgins with little to no debt and no tattoos and so many supposed "tradditional" women were like HOW DARE YOU! JUST BC A WOMAN HAS TATTOOS DEBT is obeses AND OTHER MENS KIDS DOESNT MEAN SHES A BAD PERSON. Women sincerly do NOT see men as people. Just tools
If I had a dollar for every 20-35yo woman I've heard say their last relationship ended because they need to work on themselves but aren't actually doing anything I'd be living in a home with staff.
Lol we all know what "work on myself" means when they say that - carousel 🎠.
The proof? Give them a year and observe what has usually changed - nothing.
Why can't people 'work on themselves ' when they are IN a relationship? I hear this all the time, but it seems to be the 'go-to' line for all sorts of antics.
@@flagal519 well funny you say that. I'm dealing with this now.
@@CorlosMazda what are you working on? Keep it vague if you prefer.
@@tomMXBN I'm not working on anything, I know my value and what I bring to the table. I got the "I need to step back and work on myself". But going on two weeks I see no steps and laziness. Just this video in particular resonated with my situation.
It’s amazing. Modern women literally have zero seconds of self-reflection in their whole life. We don’t hate women but are annoyed at the disparity. As a man, we wake up everyday reflecting on why we aren’t good enough to get what we want and then work to improve ourselves. Women literally don’t have a thought in their head other than, “I’m here. Isn’t that enough? That’s what Disney told me, so where is my prince?”
This deserves more likes tbh perfectly said
💯👍
It's also the same in the job market.
In the same job a women with the qualifications but no experience will get the same job as a man who would need the same qualifications- but five years experience- just to be considered for an interview.
Just got out of a relationship with a woman just like this. I had to sacrifice and give up everything, and she still wanted more. All the while, she didn’t want to do anything I asked. Just being there should have been enough for me… It really wasted so much time that I really didn’t have to start with. Now, got to start over at 40, and a new career. Hope you fellas learn about what they do earlier than I did. Godspeed
that’s because they are modern feminists that explains it all wether they officially claim to be feminist or have those indoctrinations is of little distinction
Pretty sure the stress and shock dealing with these "brilliant" women dealt a huge amount of damage to Mr Samuels' health.
All them damn Red Bulls he was always drinking
I often think that too. The stress dealing with these children who think they're grown women.
@@da9_dex He did drink too much of that red bull crap.
no. this is dumb to say.
@@SpaceMuffin According to a troll named space muffins 🤣🤦🏽♂️🧌🧌🧌
A coworker spent $40,000 on her daughter's wedding and after the honeymoon the newly we'd couple had to move in with her.
Damn
Wtf Why? 😂
Wtf! 40k??!! That’s a down payment for house plus all the furniture for it!
this generation caught up in images
Lol
Everytime he asks a woman what state she lives in, I say "denial".
It literally always works.
Best comment I've seen in a while!
🤣🤣🤣
I say the same thing haha!
🤣🤣🤣
🤣
Why is that? Oh because you think every woman lives in denial. lol
This girl is a living example of the tragic consequences of feminism. It ruined womanhood. Respect to her for hanging in there and taking it though. That's a good quality that a lot of women he talks to don't share.
Yeah, she doesn’t seem to be out of her head, like many others who come on this show
Feminism is truly a cancer
Can’t lie she’s cute 😍
Cause she aint black,. This one is educated
@@mrjackbagginz stop that shit
FACTS!!!
She's emotionally and intellectually still at 17 years of age. She has no plan, no hurry to figure what she wants or when. She is just drifting along and by the time that biological clock is loud enough, she'll be too old.
Yep. Most halfway descent looking broads are this way.
@@doubleboe7NYC it's scary to plan for the future as a woman. Like for us dudes, we can slowly get our act together. Women, they wanted to do similar. Bruh, you have different organs. You're not exactly equal... All my college school mates are hitting this age and stuck in careers they don't like with no man and a desire for kids. Women thought going to work was a real prize. We men work because we have to... Why women act like it's better than sex and drugs is beyond me. If dudes could stay home play cod take care of kids and send a woman to work we would... And some hobosexuals do.
Realistically there is no will be about it, she already is. She has zero prospects at 28, the men she wants can EASILY get a 22 year old.
Most women have the emotional maturity of a 17 year old regardless of how old they get.
Man she’s a barber at 28 that’s all you need too know
So after a woman would spend the night, I got pretty good at cooking breakfast the next morning. Sort of became a tradition (of mine). The vast majority of women I dated would say things like 'I could get used to this'.
The woman that stood out to me was the woman that told me my breakfast was great, but on our next date, she came over with a bag of groceries and she insisted that she was going to make ME breakfast at my house in the morning. She also had a few items that weren't needed for breakfast but she just wanted in the fridge for future meals. She actually acted excited to come in to my life and to help support what I had through cooking and doing laundry, etc. All with an excited attitude.
Some women figure out that instead of expecting to get waited on hand and foot that they can show their value to the relationship and honestly it starts right away. We were engaged in just under a year.
EDIT: Btw, thanks for all the likes and comments. My reason for sharing the comment wasn't to brag it was just to let those who haven't encountered it yet know what it feels like to interact with a woman that knows what she brings to the table. Most approach the relationship with a 'whats in it for me' attitude, others know how to be in a relationship and how to demonstrate how they add value to your life. It's a night and day difference.
Good one. A woman's value has always been how she looks after the home and her family.
Hope things are still going well for you.
Nice 👌
Brilliant ..:you eventually got a good one ..Wise man !…good testimony …look after yourselves !
You see...that's a very smart woman...she saw an opportunity to be a wife.
Honestly massive respect to her for not losing her shit. She handled the embarrassment rather well.
She really handled it well
Lmao
i agree compared to most. she took it on the chin, i respect it.
I think she just thought it wasn't completely true... a lot of it appeared to go over head. There was almost always a "What about this" type response.
she looks high.
When a modern woman says she’s working on her mental health, only means she’s not done riding the cokk carousel. I’m j/s.
Also that she’s mental as f*** and she doesn’t plan on working on it
She wants to build an EMPIRE while being a fulltime HOUSEWIFE.
MAKE IT MAKE SENSE
She wants hubby to build the empire while she sits back and reaps the rewards
@@eugenedantzler4485 AKA Dr.Dre's wife.
wanting to build an empire = masculine energy
@@spartak9425 Who's side are you on????????????...
@@moisepicard4968 what are your issues with my statement?
“I’m told I’m very mature for my age” followed by “I still need to work on myself emotionally and mentally by listening to podcasts” 🤨
We need to bring back shame with a fury. We need to have an even hand as a society and move with a measure of good faith. Both men and women are capable of evil things but we do a terrible job of doing this fairly. It's not reasonable to ask good men to participate in this madness with this dynamic.
Good call. She says this while she's approaching 30 no less.
hahahaha
Whatup mami
@@jollygoodgordon5580 ben je Nederlands ?
Red flags (her words and translation):
"I want to work on things mentally and emotionally before I get married" - she's mentally ill and emotionally unstable.
"I've been through a lot"- a lot of men have laid pipe down through her. A lot.
"The purpose of marriage is companionship and security"- she wants your money, but she's only willing to give you mostly platonic friendship in return;
"I want to build an empire with the man I'm with"- she wants you to build an empire for her that she doesn't have to build herself, but then wants you to be her servant while she fulfills the role of queen;
"I think I have a lot to offer" - she does not have very much to offer and she knows it;
There may be more, but those were the most obvious to me.
Spot On!!!!
Yep. And if she met a man equal to her she would say gross. Yet they can't see their own hypocrisy. She has so many expectations of what her man should be, yet what does she have to offer other than decent looks that will fade with time? $200k/year and a stay-at-home lifestyle for "respect" isn't going to cut it for most men in the top 5% income bracket. Most would use her and throw her to the curb.
@@michaeldalton8374 Good point.
Still watching, but, "it was mutual." - Either she walked away from a partner or he left her. Round about answer means she's either ashamed it ended or she is dodging the fact that it might be her fault.
"We were fighting a lot" - he was telling me how i hurt/embarrassed/disrespected him but i didnt care because i dont actually care about him, only what he can do for me.
He probably passed out after dealing with all the self-entitled modern women who think themselves to be the prize in a relationship. RIP, Kevin.
Nope he passed from health issues after telling women about thier bodies. In a hotel room with a women he just met. Why would he have failed marriages and still be dealing with self entitled women but give everyone else relationship advise😂 This man would tell everyone what to do and not to do on camera and do the same off camera😂
@@kjt1872 Being married is not a guarantee of wisdom, some people choose to preserve a toxic relationship
Plus the redbulls which is bad for hypertension ....
@@patrickbunduki3477 Yes, I don't drink energy drinks anymore, they are bad in general
I'm 21 male with 2 kids and a stay at home wife. We were both virgins before we met eachother and that wasn't for religious reasons it was just how it happened. My wife says she enjoys staying at home and cleaning for the family. I work as a forklift driver and make a normal living with a 3 bedroom house. It's still possible to live that traditional life and I would never ever waste my time with modern women. Real women do still exist dont give up!
✊🏿💪🏿
Imagine a 21 year old thinking he know anything. You’re going to end up divorced.
@@whydoncha you let fear of being not enough control your life.
@@whydoncha stop talking down on what he got
Awesome!! Congratulations
See how hesitant she was when Kevin asked if she wanted to be married…
… but how quick she answered “YES” when he asked if she wanted a wedding.
Stay safe fellas
Shit is fun & games like playing with Barbies for alot of them it’s crazy brah
Yup!
Confirms Kevin’s statement that she wants to get married “For Her Ego”
This girl is so uninteresting.... and she's trying unsuccessfully to hide her arrogance.... it's right on the surface.
Most women are uninteresting nowadays
I was struggling to understand her demeanor and couldn't exactly understand what it is. I think you have nailed it quite well. She indeed is condescending and that was showing through her sarcastic tone and voice...
As basic as white toast
Got that vibe too. She came to get the 15 seconds. See if the pretty privileged gets her anywhere and it didn’t
Uninteresting... That's manese for she's for recreational purposes only. 😂🤣
We lost this man way too soon. A true gem. Lost him right when he was needed most.
"LADIES, WHO YOU ARE IS NORMALLY THE ANSWER TO ALL OF YOUR PROBLEMS."
-COREY HOLCOMB
FACTS NO JUTSU!
🙌🤲🙏🔥💨
It’s really that simple
Bingo
Modern woman-child: “I want to build an empire”
KS: “lady, you cut hair for a living.”
That’s called a checkmate, ladies.
I cried when he said that! It was on time no hesitation!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Women aren't traditional but they want a traditional lifestyle. Thank you Kevin.
I have a real question though. I hear a lot of men where I live in Canada complaining about feminism and a lack of traditional women. But these same men say they refuse to date a girl who doesn't earn as much money as them or isn't independent. Aren't those more feminist traits? I have very traditional Eastern European friends and the men feel ashamed if they don't earn more or can't provide. The women also depend on men to be the strong ones. Aren't men in the West just as delusional as the women?
@@marybell2002 The Men are also the problem as they demand things they shouldn't such as being employed or having a career. My issue is that if a woman is going to sleep with different men then she gave up the leverage to expect a man to be in the top 10%, as she isn't a maiden anymore. Unless a woman is raped or becomes a widow very young, she throws away her most valuable currency willfully by carelessly loving men that aren't going to marry her. Men can't expect a woman to be submissive if she is going to be a career woman, if she makes her money, she can also call the shots 50/50. Both sexes are being unreasonable. I am beginning to accept that my future wife might not be a virgin, will probably have tattoos and will miss having sex with some player she met before me, as she can compare me with other men, and might be tempted to cheat on me because of that.
@@marybell2002 No Women are more deluded due to social media. Many men are virgins and men get rejected consistently. They get in where they fit in. Then women initiate over 75% of divorces.
@@blademanx I'm not sure how old you are but facebook came out my first year of university. I noticed as soon as that happened social skills plummeted. Then there was an overabundance of free pornography, video games and dating apps. Men became weak and submissive because of technology and it left room for feminism and women to take over. Many men blame feminism for making them weak but the truth is men became weak first which is why feminism was able to become mainstream and unfortunately younger men are stuck with the mistakes the older ones made. I agree with you that social media and technology has been terrible for society.
@@nyrick999 What is with women and tattoos nowadays. I've heard that a lot more women than men have tattoos now.
“ The wall is real”😂
I’m a woman almost 60 years old. Women need to watch this channel. Most are delusional and have no grip of reality.
Hi! Could you please expand on your experience and views as a woman of that age? I'm genuinely interested.
I would say this is a problem with the millennial generation and those that followed, which are right behind them. This also applies to the males.
And therefore, the parents of these children, who are adults today, were failed by their fathers and mothers.
By time the millennial generation was birthed, the fathers were already AWOL: absent without leave. So these issues are multifaceted. And there is plenty of blame to go around.
By the way the root of all human problems is SIN.
"You are not a traditional women, are you virgin?" That's a killer question for modern women.
Gotcha moment!
Most men don't even want a virgin.
@@khennimahmud4006 speak for yourself bozo
@@Check-Chuk. I prefer yo mammy.
Most men don’t want virgins ... remember y’all said you don’t want to invest without test driving. KS is so ridiculous. Men are sooo confused it’s ridiculous.
I made it to 11 minutes and I just couldn’t do it anymore. Just the audacity and delusionality of the modern woman these days is unbelievable.
You are trooper..I made it to 9 mins
I rarely can make it that long with any of the women he talks to.
@@ianparr5899 smoking a blunt helps
She mentions her $80k inheritance at the END but never mentioned it when Kevin asked how she was going to pay for the wedding. THAT RIGHT THERE shows you the entitled thinking she has. Her goal isn't companionship at 30, it's to be wifed and knocked up and retire at 30.
To get a kid and alimony by 30… Dudes a lining up like crazy😮
I was thinking the same thing.
Guys don't care how much money a woman has, because she's not going to share it with you anyway.
Her money is her money.... and your money is her money.
You can't retire with 80k in mew jersey
@@daytona765 you can't but she has alot more than the average person. She conveniently left that part of her financial situation out until the end lol probably by accident.
Remember, this is the mindset of a fully grown 28 year old woman! We're doomed fellas 🤦🏾♂️
Zoom to Thailand!!!!!!
"Secure that sheet, Hudson." ~ Aliens 🤣
Nah....they are doomed.....We will thrive like we always have.
Passport anyone?
I'm just waiting the sex fembots! 🤣
The problem is ego, pride and too many guys wanting them corrupts their ego. And they are frustratingly immature. Dating life for them on easy mode.
Wanting them, but only for short term
So true. The short term gives them the illusion of crazy options. It turns them into the cartoon squirrel scrambling all over not being able to focus. Not understanding that the short term miles turns them off from the guys who actually want a wife.
Women were told they mature faster, and now, it's pretty obvious they don't mature past 17 now. Many women dont grow up. Ask them about retirement, savings, exact future plans, and they are clueless.
@@Tential1 they say that's what men are for ahahahahaha...these tricks have been using these simps since the dawn of time
@@Tential1 Once they realize they can use their bodies, they stop. That’s 14-15. People have been scared to mention it, but since I’ve been saying it I see more people understanding and admitting that they get down at that age.
Kevin is a savage and I love it! Getting people uncomfortable is healthy. I'm a Realtor for the last 8 years and if this lady wants to be a Realtor, she'll need to adapt the motto that growth comes from getting out of our comfort zone. Statistically, there are many women Realtors and statistically women have an easier time meeting new customers in real estate (lots of guys who will use women's real estate licenses as an opener to talk to them for a date). However, real estate is a full time job and is very demanding. You'll work when your clients want to work AND you'll work a regular 8 to 5 day. If you come from a standard job, you will have to learn to self-manage and control your daily activities. The industry average is 2 years or less for new Realtors before they drop out and go back to a standard job. To make 2.4M, you'd have to sell 80M of real estate at 3% commission, so 200 homes at $400,000 each. The average Realtor sells about 2-5 homes a year. That's gross commissions, so pre-tax, pre-expenses, and pre-broker splits, by the way.
Some realtors (a couple) I've worked with sold a lot more homes a year than that, but maaaan, they did it by playing the looooong game. They played it long, and they played it deep. They were always developing business, and looking to turn current business into future business. They were also always quick to adjust to circumstance. At times when very few realtors could sell homes due to market and supply issues, they were among the few. They did this so long that most of their customers were repeat customers, yet they kept generating new business every way they could.
In the end they semi-retired, selling some houses here and there "for fun", mostly because they liked helping people do what they wanted to do. But even in semi-retirement, this "for fun" work was probably what most successful realtors were selling at the height of their careers.
As a woman listening to this I can respect what he is saying. Crazy part is a lot of us women are operating in delusional fairytale white picket fence thinking about relationships and marriage. Nothing he said in this video was false. We as people don’t like hard truth. We want sugarcoated bs lies. All he’s saying is be realistic with your expectations. Nothing offensive about that at all
Well I hope just for that comment you find your fairytale!
Facts !!!The crazy thing is that hes the best thing that happened for girls but if only they would listen to him .
You are not saying anything about this woman that can't even say what she wants. UT seems like she is just guessing what to say to Kevin.
Men live in the logical world. Women live in fantasy land
The whole world is living a delusional fairytale!!!
I love how he said "your a barber" like 10 times throughout the video, like a simple reminder, your average like everyone girl
But she expects you to be a young millionaire to get her lol, can't make this up...
Blame tick tock Disney and youtube
not even avg, she's lost points for basically getting past her prime...at 28 that's way too old and shows there has been a failure by the parents (but her mom is not in the picture as she said so who knows how that impacted the situation)
Look this shit up The average barber here in Seattle charges $40 for a fucking fade and face two heads in an hours $80 ….. just at 160 hours a month for 12 months NO WEEKENDS in a year that’s 150,000 FACTS OVER FEELINGS. stay✊🏾💪🏾
@@prestonthomas5757 and whats their cost of doing business. By the time they pay all the bills. Its maybe 100k
love how women always say a man was "INTIMIDATED" by them
TRANSLATION:He wasn't tolerating this/that and confronted me and addressed it
absolutely
@@thepursuitofknowledge5245 intimidated is right next-door to "he cant handle"
@@JDMHaze He probably was uncomfortable with guys chatting with her on insta about 'getting haircuts'
@@thepursuitofknowledge5245 perhaps But there are things you can add to your bio and ways you can respond that are very short, simple and direct.
Intimidated by her cutting hair. K.
3 mins in and you can see she's not even being honest with herself. She's fighting reality and doesn't want to admit it
She said Date for a year, be engaged for two years. What????
She will Laugh Now and Cry Later.
@@MeiaLuaDeCompasso bih! You better be! You're damn near 30! 🤣🤣🤣
FACTS NO JUTSU!
🙌🙏🤲🔥💨
and she was definitely cappin about getting an 80k inheritance, she said she wants a 100-200k empire she'd never say that if she already had 80k in the bank.
KS: what’s a marriage for?
Modern women: it’s so I can have a wedding that makes all my princess fantasies come true!
Spot on mate Beautifully spoken. I've been through alot she says. Yeah she's been ran through by 50 Chads, Tyrones and Ray rays, then want some beta sucker to wife her up so she can get her beta bucks and Divorce him 5 years later
Yes but as brutally honest as this man is he is telling the truth that most women will not have that princess fantasy come true.
It's a fantasy as you said and most of peoples fantasies don't come true.
Facts the moment the honeymoon phase of the relationship or marriage fade they fall completely apart.
@@D4RKH1M0THY honeymoon is just a moment. Women get into relationships for moments never long term
This woman looked genuinely shook when he started asking her the real questions. She was trying to hide it behind dismissive laughs, but you can tell she's never once thought about the timeline or the logistics of her future aspirations. A lot of these modern ladies think they're Cinderella living a humble life and that they'll just be a princess one day. She is almost 30 and talks like she's 15. It's clear this woman has never had to grow up or go through any financial hardship since she hasn't seriously thought about her future.
This is commonplace. If it wasn’t for KS and Jordan Peterson a lot of us would still be in the dark.
I’m a 33 yr old black man, I make about 40k/year. I just recently started goin back to school to become a nurse. I already have my AA so all the basic classes are done.
I never really wanted to be a nurse but I like working with people and I enjoy learning about the human body.
What I’ve learned through our friends KS and JP is that it doesn’t matter what “I always wanted to do.”
I want a family and my own home. That means going back to school and starting a career. Now!
Thank you 🙏🏿
I knew men who were cleaned out, some to the tune of 7 figures, but they kept going after women until they were so broken down and low market value they couldn't even hook up with cat ladies. I've known men who stayed married until a few days after retirement and the wife cleaned them out and took most of the savings and pension.
I also know men who are hanging on because they know the wife will clean them out in a divorce. The only reason marriage and even hookups are still going on is because young men aren't being taught the truth and so many men are too damn thirsty, and politicians and bureaucrats owe their careers to the female vote.
True True
not to mention, smart men know scientifically it take 2-3 year to know a person and the more financially sensible they are the least likely to give the ring (if modern women want a daddy then be up front, rather than talk about fairy things like love and trust, learn cost benefit and realize the era of beta males are going away with gen y and z). plus which smart person is gonna spend 50k in one night to save face lol......men learn female psychology and stuff settling and giving precedence to women due to codependency issues, men don't have the wall and biologically at an advantage
She is listening too many self-help scammers, sellers of delusion.
What a legend of a man.
I really hope this woman took to hart his excellent advices, made the right choices and is happy with a husband by her side.
I'm sure she didn't. You cannot start out this ignorant and end up emotionally healthy and aware at the end of the conversation. These women seem hopelessly dumb.
She for the streets
New flash: they do not listen. It doesn’t matter what anyone tells them or how nice and receptive they may seem
There is no way i could have a conversation with this womanfor more than 3 minutes. It's dam hard just to watch this. Kevin keeps it going for 30 minutes.
Punch me in my face. I want to go to sleep. Lol
Dude, you got me in tears when you said, you wouldn't talk to her for 3 minutes.
A -freak'n -men. I dated one JUST like her. Down to Psychiatrist turned salon worker. Oy vey !!!
Because Kevin doesn’t allow their negative attitude bring him down to their level.
All the “umm”s… are annoying
This is the unfortunate truth, a woman can never be traditional if she is not a virgin, no matter how feminine she is the fact that she's already giving herself to random men she is not married to is a modern lifestyle. Great stream 👍
What if she is a virgin but sleeps with you before y’all get married?
@@hellosunshinek6883 Not traditional, traditional women waited until marriage. Have a great day.
@@noinfoherebro Amen Amen Amen
Hellosunshine k not traditional, shes traditional minded, but not traditional in essence.
There was a reason that was the tradition. To make it so your first husband and first body was hopefully your last. Go back 100 years and it was normal for a wife to say the only man shss ever slept with was her husband
@@duckfoutube1761 they said it, but it wasn't always true. Weather he was the first or he was the last. That old saying "the milkman always rings twice"...
“Alot of people say im mature” maybe people in jr high 😂😂😂
You are a hero. Even though you're gone, your videos continue to help a lot of people. Rest in peace Kevin.
It never ceases to amaze me just how casually some women classify 98% of our nations men as undesirable, based solely on income, then complain about not being able to find a "good" man.
That’s cuz that 98% will steal cheat on you and abuse you. might as well go for top earners and get some pay off if I’m gonna be treated like dirt right?
@@faye1417 98% of the men you picked "stole from you, cheated on you, and abused you" and your decision making skills = going for "top earners" that will "pay you" to continue to be "treated like dirt" because (checks notes) "Might as well"? Fascinating.
Indeed.
Coupled with this total inability or refusal to grasp the fact that most of the women, no matter how they look or are shaped, no matter how many children they have from previous partners, no matter how damaged, are aiming for the top 5%, even the top 1% of men... And it's completely unfathomable to them that all but the choice women, will be unsuccessful.
Again, evidenced by the need to have a man 6ft and over... Literally 15% in the US... But they want a man who is BOTH 6ft+ AND a top 5% earner...Yet most are average.
_Women deal in possibility... Men deal in probability_
A small study was conducted in the US, where they asked both men and women the same question:
*Would you accept a 7/10 partner?* _i.e. the person had 7 out of 10 desirable traits_
Most Women: "No - they felt like they were settling"
Most men: "They would accept even a 6/10, if they had the right qualities"
@@CM-tc4ny I mean I’d rather at least get a pay off while getting treated like shit lol
I'm glad someone is finally telling the whole story. This definitely isn't just a black thing. This is a modern woman thing. All carrot no stick. All pleasure no pain.
Oh, there's pain. It just comes later.
@@vickd3702 yes so true
Nothing to do with race, everything to do with countless hours of programming. From Disney princess movies to romcoms and other unmarried, miserable women telling them that this works.
It 100% is a modern feminist woman thing. It’s cancer.
It never ceases to amaze me how flippantly these women throw around six-figure incomes despite never having made anything close to that themselves.
We need this man more than ever
When you start seeing the demographics of the KS show changing you know he’s slowly but surely transitioning into the mainstream..I hope he never changes his tone for no one or "DEAL" and still makes it to the mainstream as his message deserves to be spread across the world..
And,the crazy thing about it is Kevin doesn’t even want all that he’s just trying to keep black folks together but I think he’s going to end up keeping us all together which is bigger than he could’ve ever imagined..God bless you KS!
It’s crazy because if Kevin was lying to these women like Steve Harvey he would be on good morning America and radio shows. It’s like he said all of these day time shows are made to keep women sleep and separated from men.
How optimistically naïve. This man and all his efforts, as good natured and good hearted as they may be, are not enough to keep this titanic from sinking
@@Bariture I agree with King. We’ll never reverse course. Women have equal rights and have proven our great grandfathers right, that they cannot handle the responsibility. That was the beginning of the end. We’re in the 4th quarter now.
No brother KS is not reversing anything. He knows that. This is his way of income. The titanic has already hit the iceberg. There is going to be no reversal for relationships in the Western world. With technology to cheat and people's ego and selfishness it is already over.
@@retiredmindset9589 Hey We can only speak in absolutes from our personal experiences and with that being said I have no complaints about my current rotation of options. I’m just tired of hearing the excuses out here Because honestly if you’re a hard-working select man you don’t have time to make excuses you’re just exercise options And of course as we all know if you don’t have a lot of options well thus the complaints..
I’ve never seen a successful man who’s actually working to become the very best version of himself Still complaining about NOT getting whatever he wants out of a woman because the only issue he has is settling down with the right most loyal one if he so chooses…😉
It’s crazy how they come into this w/ no plan and blame men when it fails
It's the blame game when it all their fault....delusional thinking!!
✊✊✊
@@gw6496 we’re rational thinkers
@@backstabingpike 💯💯
Facts 🎯🎯🎯