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  • @delailak2244
    @delailak2244 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    I totally agree with her. The same happened to me when I was a kid. My parents never appreciate anything that I did. I was a very pretty kid with great values in life. All my relatives, friends, and even random people tell my parents how lucky they should be to have such a good child as their daughter. But, my parents never agreed or praised me anywhere....I slowly started losing confidence, and got into an inferiority complex. Later in life....after I got married, when my husband's family started appreciating me ,praising me for the values I have and told everyone that they are lucky to have me for their son, my complexity slowly started disappearing from me. Now as a mother, I see that my kids are very well appreciated, praised and never belittled!!!

    • @Pinkoven12
      @Pinkoven12 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      U r blessed to have a best in laws family.... No doubt u r the best mother.... My kudos to you.

    • @NandyArun
      @NandyArun หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great in laws ❤ u r so lucky

  • @Savi3Ram
    @Savi3Ram 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This is a great learning today for me not to blame the kids in front of others.. I have not done to my sons… but even if I think of doing it, I’ll remember this video & shut my mouth ☺️.. kids are really very tender. They’ll break easily & once they’re broken, bring back the trust will be a big issue..
    thanks to my parents..they always say good things about us..

  • @seleno_phile221
    @seleno_phile221 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I'm 27 now. Till today I'm facing the same situation at my home. Enoda story kekura polave thonuthu. Itha enga amma kooda share pannalama nu kooda yosikuran. Aana athukum avanga enna blame than panna poranga. Ivlo naal kadanthutan iny mudiyatha. Palakity.

    • @biotechnified3727
      @biotechnified3727 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same situation, that too I have single mother

  • @saminathan3307
    @saminathan3307 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I am married,l have one son ,my mom do same problem,l don't like it,so many warning ,they don't change character, fighting so many times

  • @priyapugal1395
    @priyapugal1395 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Same to me mam my mother always appreciate my sister but she will not even appreciates me ..Always find fault...

  • @dhivya_animal_lover
    @dhivya_animal_lover 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Being a 33 year old female I have faced same situations in family. Wish all parents dont blame their kids to 3rd person. It will not only create trust issues. 3rd persons who listen this will take advantage of this kid and do nasty things.

  • @divyapriya4054
    @divyapriya4054 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Enaku marriage aagi 5 years aagudhu 2 kids irukkanga ippovum enga amma enna ellar kittayum kora solluvanga. Naa laam thatti vittu poiruvan. Adhuku love marriage nu nenaikadhinga arranged marriage dhaan

  • @chamuchamu583
    @chamuchamu583 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Am 48 I have a daughter and children of 25 and 20. But I have faced several issues like this. Till now my mom behaves in a same way , where my respect is getting spoilt wth my children. But somehow or the other I over come every struggle

  • @gowthamkarthikeyan3359
    @gowthamkarthikeyan3359 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It's because of parents. Parents need to change their behaviors towards children. 😊
    I too don't like bathing using soap. So i use gram flour. 😊
    Moisture ah irukum only using water without soap in winter season.

  • @TheBABYinme
    @TheBABYinme 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I faced the same problem when I was a kid. It reduces the kids confidence, they have low self esteem.

  • @etceterafans2345
    @etceterafans2345 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great mam, I continuously watching your Counseling videos. Learn so many thing from you, it may help for my future. I'm married , after marriage so many fights between us, I'm always ready to take one step forward to solve that issue and apologize first and normalize the situation, it happens so many times, at final when I think what happen between us, me only trying to solve and bring back to normal, he always stubborn and wait till I apologize...
    So many times I feel why and what a life I'm living & feeling stressed also...
    Have you been face any cases like husband and wife issues, if you have plz share mam
    Definitely I'll learn something from that and improve my relationship between us

  • @ellamnanmaikeh
    @ellamnanmaikeh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Same story happening i am not a kid anymore can't get out of it I am 28 still the parents doing same blabbering about me to everyone they meet not just relatives..
    Can I have contact number of her

  • @karthiyainygovalin7141
    @karthiyainygovalin7141 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sometimes we tell nicely so many times also the children are not listening to us instead arguing with us asking why not doin things my way.for example applyinv makeup without taking bath .isnt that better to just have a bath.....

  • @mahalakshmipandiarajan7083
    @mahalakshmipandiarajan7083 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Heart fullness meditation try பன்னுங்க

  • @babubabu112
    @babubabu112 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you mam

  • @a.r4625
    @a.r4625 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Same things happening to me😢 i can feel her

  • @lakshmimalini3215
    @lakshmimalini3215 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Respected 🙏 mam previous years some children loneliness long time they are going wrong way got trouble that worried parents nowadays mam due cell phone mam

  • @KEERTHANAGUNASEKARAN-m9o
    @KEERTHANAGUNASEKARAN-m9o 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Super mam

  • @hihello2336
    @hihello2336 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Parents kannu patra koodathunum, children better ah irukanumnum ippadi pandraanga. But atleast appo appo vaavathu paaratanum.

  • @MageshwariMageshwari-o1d
    @MageshwariMageshwari-o1d 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mam enga ponnukitaium problem irukku Madam thangachi thambi kitta pasama irukkamtintra adikira romba kovapatra madam cell me please mam

  • @jukala968
    @jukala968 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    நான் 😢😢😢அந்த அம்மா மாதிரி தப்பு பண்ணிட்டேன் ..எப்படி சரி பண்றதுன்னு தெரியாம இருந்தேன்...😊😊😊😊உங்களை மீட் பண்ணனும் plse

    • @bernadettemel2053
      @bernadettemel2053 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Unga pennai anaithu mannippu kellunga periyavargal mannippu ketpathu thavarillai. Anbukku adimai agathavargal yarum illai. Thirumba thirumba sollunga ungal anbai ungal pennin nalla gunagalai appreciate pannunga.

    • @a.r4625
      @a.r4625 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Adhu thappunu ungaluku purinjirukae adhukae great nga neenga

  • @saranlikes3994
    @saranlikes3994 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Enga veetlaiyum apdithan ana epdipatta nalla ponnunu theriyum therinjum enmela illatha thappa ivakitta thappu irukkunnu avanga thappa maratchu poi solluvannga😢 apdi irunthum avangamela ulla pasathukkaga Naa poruthukkittu irukken enakku marriage agiduchu innamume avanga marala😢😢😢

  • @merlinsheeba5244
    @merlinsheeba5244 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    எனக்கு ஒரு பெண் குழந்தை உள்ளது நான் யார்கிட்டயும் விட்டு கொடுக்க மாட்டேன்

  • @Nightiesonline123
    @Nightiesonline123 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Same happen to me .

  • @mrs.lathasanjeevkumar8884
    @mrs.lathasanjeevkumar8884 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😔🙏🏾

  • @sathyasri2949
    @sathyasri2949 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    En ponnu 11th padikura avlum engala pidikala na saganum veliya poganumnu daily solra

    • @kodukapuli5144
      @kodukapuli5144 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Madem pls udane counsilor ah patunga...

    • @soundofbeatz7317
      @soundofbeatz7317 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Neenga Ipdi Mble Use Pandratha Stop panitu poi Ponna Gavaninga

    • @blackberry3910
      @blackberry3910 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@soundofbeatz7317😂😂😂😂

    • @blackberry3910
      @blackberry3910 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      எல்லாம் ஒரே பையித்தியமா இருக்கு.😂😂😂

  • @Kanimozhi-w2w
    @Kanimozhi-w2w 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😭😭 yanakku 27 age akuthu yagga ammaum eppaditha erukkaga na avaggala Amma nu kud kuththey ella 😓

  • @தனிமைத்தமிழச்சி
    @தனிமைத்தமிழச்சி 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    இப்படிலாம் பாத்தா என் தாய் குலம் என்ன பத்தி பேசுறது முழுக்க மத்தவங்க கிட்ட.....இதே போல் தான் தினமும்😢😢😢😢😢😂😂😅😅😅😅

  • @anuragavimuthu9414
    @anuragavimuthu9414 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My sister in law ku 37 age avanga innum kid mathere than irukanga avanga en husband kuda pesurathu ila en mamanar mamiyar yar kudaum pesurathu ila. enaku marriage aaki 2 years aachu innum na vangala pathathu kuda ila. avangaluku innum marriage aagala enga yaralaum avangala contact pannave mudila phone kuda attend pannala ena panrathune therela

  • @c.indrani
    @c.indrani 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Enakku oru doubt irukku problem enkittaya illa en paiyan kittayanu theriyala. Parents sonnathu ketu olunga iruntha ethuku mathavanga kitta avanga kuttham solla poranga.

    • @vasanthignanavel2619
      @vasanthignanavel2619 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Because everyone needs appreciation. Children goes where it gets. Also everyone has different characters with flaws also not everyone is 100% perfect.

    • @priyadharsini7582
      @priyadharsini7582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      1st of all namba children's pathi epdi mathavunga kita solanum ithu oru family matter unga son or daughter kita ethathu misunderstandingna nega ungalukulla thn solve panikanum

    • @Optimist2093
      @Optimist2093 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Parents solurada ellam kolandainga keka matanga. Adukaga ada veliya poi solanuma. Ide madiri amma appa panura thappa veliya poi sona accept panuveengala? Teenage pillaingala purinjuka kuda mudiyada alavuku 40plus la irukura parents ku maturity ila

    • @niravlogzz9622
      @niravlogzz9622 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Optimist2093 😂😂💯💯😂😂unmai by an teenager ! Entha unmai en mummy kita sonna athukum thittu vilum💔🤧🤣

    • @niravlogzz9622
      @niravlogzz9622 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Unga son solrathu Keklana neenga tha soli advice pannum💯 atha vittu oru 3rd person kitta poi en Kora sollanu??!

  • @Darshini-pp5yi
    @Darshini-pp5yi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    See hacking a normal person mocking teasing bulling is wrong so truth im normal person who doesnt know anyone will come out it will i will never do those becoz im not like that i told u ,i dont want look good r i dont want u guys to like me well dont be mean u have family right wat i did to u hack ? Stalk? Mock? Bully ?NO then y treat a normal person this way truth will be founded

  • @soundaryamcollections8267
    @soundaryamcollections8267 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nammalum thitta koodathu karanam appavum nammai veruppanga . Thappu pannina thiruntha advice sakkirathaiya pannanum nam pesum ovvoru varthaiyaium avanga kavanam kettu namakke yethavathu oru time la namakke solluvanga 😢

  • @tamilpavitamilpavi5571
    @tamilpavitamilpavi5571 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Apadiye en life ahh pakura mathiri iruku😔

  • @srichanel8151
    @srichanel8151 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    நம்பர் சொல்லுங்க டாக்டர்

  • @srichanel8151
    @srichanel8151 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    எனக்கும் நம்பர் வேணும்

    • @DIWA2023
      @DIWA2023 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yar number ma...

    • @blackberry3910
      @blackberry3910 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      +911000000000

  • @ushaprabakannan337
    @ushaprabakannan337 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    An magal naan oru varthai pacena aval pathel varthai panuva

  • @SRIDEVIR-v3t
    @SRIDEVIR-v3t 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sir mam kitta pesanum contact number iruntha solluga

  • @Elakkiya-b2f
    @Elakkiya-b2f 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Anaku manasu Vito pesanu Pola iruku enga iruka yaru keta pesunala pathu pathu pesa venditha iruku anaku u freeya pesurathuku yaru illatha mathiri feel akuthu ye feelings ku yarume important kudokatha mathiri iruku anaku unmaiyave pathiyam pudikira mathiri iruku 😭

    • @niravlogzz9622
      @niravlogzz9622 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same hereee🥺ennaiku mrng erunthae ore upset😭 my mom thititanga 😭😭na aluthutu erunthen from mrng relax 🤧panlanu yt vantha this video popped up🤧💔

    • @niravlogzz9622
      @niravlogzz9622 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same manasu vitu free ah pesavae mudila ethu pesnalu thapa eduthukuranga athavachu ennoru sandavanthuruthu😖😖💔💔

    • @niravlogzz9622
      @niravlogzz9622 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      U share ur feeling dear😂😂😂 I'm here🫂❤

    • @priyadharsini7582
      @priyadharsini7582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Frndz or trusted person yarathu orutharathu irupangala avungalta share panikonga depress agathinga ungalukullaye vatchikotu

    • @niravlogzz9622
      @niravlogzz9622 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@priyadharsini7582 apd yarumae ella pa😂🚣‍♀️💔

  • @MurugalakshmiP-mc1eu
    @MurugalakshmiP-mc1eu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    நான் அந்த சின்ன பொன்னு மாதிரி தான்... ரெம்ப கஷ்டப்பட்டேன்.....

  • @simlasimra
    @simlasimra 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    can i contact her i am from srilanka

  • @chamuchamu583
    @chamuchamu583 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Am 48 I have a daughter and children of 25 and 20. But I have faced several issues like this. Till now my mom behaves in a same way , where my respect is getting spoilt wth my children. But somehow or the other I over come every struggle