Yep find a nixton somewhere we'll there a special place people like you find christ and open your heart and stop spreading lies about some stuff you never tried in the first place marjanna help listen to you I do it and I'm feeling less unhappy and more with god so shut up if you say anything you don't know nothing of
Amen so much truth Pastor. I'm in a relationship for 14yrs and in the recent 2 yrs idk why I started obsessing over my partner. I was far away from the Lord. One day I was in despair giving him a speech of everything he was doing wrong. what I want from him, how I want him to show me his love etc....right after that speech sitting across from my partner, God spoke to me. He said that's what I want from you. All of a sudden it became clear I wasn't "toxic" but I was obsessive. It was driving me crazy. But if I gave God the same energy his love would transcend the love that I was searching for. If I look for him and search for him the way I did for my partner he would fill the void. It wasn't my partners love I was yearning for but for the love of my heavenly father. That day I surrendered my life to the Lord and gave him control because I was done trying to control and do everything on my own. God has really from one moment to the other done a 360 in my life and I'm forever grateful for his mercy and his grace.
This message really gives hope to me, so thank you! I am in a similar and yet different situation, as the person I have been obsessed with for too long is a distant friend in another country.
@@marcusappelberg369 I'm glad Glory to God. Just to be clear he has changed me not the situation. I know the Lord has a plan for me and my situation and I will be still and know that he has me. He has changed the desires of my heart, lightened my load, given me rest, and filled me w. his love, peace, and joy. I pray you can find the same in the Lord. 🙏💚
@@marcusappelberg369For this is the will of my Father that everyone who beholds the Son and believes in him has eternal life and I will raise him up on the last day John 6:40
I’m healing surviving and thriving by the grace of GOD! Lord I’m trying to balance everything on my own, but Lord I feel like I’m failing miserably as a single mother. Both sons are special needs I’m so overwhelmed trying to support them on my own. I’m struggling to make ends meet, to pay bills, and to put food on the table for my children. Jesus guide me and give me strength. Help me be a better mother.
As I listened to this video I know I have been on both sides of this. I realized that after the abuse and neglect as a child then rejection by men I loved created this hole inside me. This obsession is a hole inside that was never filled by those who were supposed to fill it. It is driven by lust and then a longing so desperate it is never satisfied. No matter what the person says or does it is never enough. It is because only God can fill that void and satisfy that longing. No man can they will always fail us. Even if they try they will still fail because it is not them we need but God.
I bind to hell every obsession one has over another while binding to hell every lack of freedom from obsessing over another and binding one to love only in a rigtheous way in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone obsessing over another while lacking to only love another righteously, praise God for showing us the right way to love, in accordance with this word and 2 samuel 13:1-2, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!
Pastor Vlad, i have never had such a clear message stating differences between love and lust. Thank you for being so sensitive to the Holy Spirit. This is gold!!!
Thank you so much for sharing this and taking the time to do this !!!!! This is an answer to prayer I will be using this to teach my 3 teenage boys ♥️♥️♥️
A part of me feels these feelings towards a friend who lives in another country, and I really dont want to feel this way towards her. It is just like you said. I consider it demonic. Limerence is the psychological term for it, coined by Tennov in 1979. That she still wants to be my casual friend, and sees me as a great person, after all the times I have made her feel uncomfortable with my strong feelings for her. I am a Christian, but I must admit that I have been weak in my faith lately. I have turned her into an Idol, instead of focusing on Christ. I just want this to end so I can see her as a good but casual friend in another country, focus on Jesus and my life here. Please pray for me and for her.
Thank you so much for sharing this message. It made me realize something about myself. God lead me to your message. Thank you so much, Pastor! God bless you.
@@KingdomcomeJesusFor this is the will of my Father that everyone who beholds the Son and believes in him has eternal life and I will raise him up on the last day John 6:40
Pastor Vlad I just want to thank you for all the wisdom and knowledge you have taught me. Your messages are and have always been life changing. Thanks for always keeping it real. May God continue to bless you and your family.🙏
Oh!! Number 1 is so me. I thought i was loving the right way. I’ve been the obsessive one all along! I call him 100 times a day and text him ALOT! Please I need help!
The last 3 guys I dated wanted me to move far away from my support system to be with them. I did that once, I married a narcissistic serial cheater. Now I look for these signs of a person wanting power and control especially through isolation.
Thank you for all these words :) I wanted to watch the ‘signs you have a demon’ video but I got scared because the cover is really creepy so I watched this instead. I appreciate this advice!
No need to get scared…sometimes the break through is to know it’s going to be okay and watching the video! I have felt that fear but a year later I am free and so glad I watched the video!!
i learned that this kind of relationship can also happen with GOD, such as i was at the point of starting to command GOD what to do or not, which is not alright, thankyou for the video
Can I get prayer for achalasia ? I’m a single mom and I have to take care of my child I’ve lost 100 pounds already and I need Gods help there isn’t a cure
This sounds like enemy spirit that has attached itself to me the last several years. Holy Spirit I trust you will show me clearly the remedy and / or the minister who knows the answer.
Hello pastor. I do really need your advice. I am in a state of confusion. Initially when we start our relation, she was too obsessed and possessive, she wouldn't even want me to be with my relatives, friends and church members and this has been for almost 5years. But now she got a job and don't have time for me like she use to be which lead me to be very curious I can't get her out of my mind always thinking about where she might be it what she might be doing. Now it's like the role have reversed I am becoming too obsessed. Pleas help, will be anxiously waiting for your reply. Thank you.
Seek God,fast and pray ok it,God will fix her and heal you,do not make her your God ❤God is God, wife is wife, keep praying keep fasting read the bible ❤
Amen Brother Vlad! great video! wish i could have heard this message 20 years ago lol. thank you for all you do and God bless everyone who sees this ❤🙏
@@luther.tube1For this is the will of my Father that everyone who beholds the Son and believes in him has eternal life and I will raise him up on the last day John 6:40
If only someone anyone would of educated me when i entered my first relationship with a man. I was 17 knew nothing about domestic violence i was gang raped and gang bashed at 14 so perhaps i was thinking i deserve it, or that it was normal 😢. I hid it like a dirty lil secret, i was a prisoner not allowed to have friends see family broke my phone, would rape and beat me then tell me jow much he loved me. I became a shell of a person i was numb and it caused many ptsd for a long time. Im so glad i was called by the living God by my name in 2019 he made it clear that he is coming back soon and to come back to him now before its too late. I think its important to teach women and yes even men about domestic violence and posseive love. 😢 through suffering the lord Jesus Christ has brought me out of the dark cavernous place, where my dreams were haunted, fear became my only friend 😢. Im PTSD free now and have forgiven those whom had gang raped, gang bashed, and treated with contempt i literally felt like a pile of rubbish and its such a blessing to finally have the love id been searching for for a long time. I have a story to tell a testimony of what Godhas done for me
Can you pray for me for descernment and that God will provide a way out from relationships. We are married but I don't feel like its real love... I don't feel myself free. Also i feel like lying to myself and others and i can't seem to find a way out from
This is the definition of narcisistic Love, can you help on ways, strategics on how to fight spiritually on this stronghold. So many advice from physcologist, but what about Spiritual leaders like you Pastor are saying about this.?.
Translate into Russian all your videos about marriage, divorce and all other things you post about nascissist personality, please 🙏 I have a lot of people I would love to share this powerful messages.
Obsessive Love is A selfish Act. Its caring more about yourself and how you feel then the other you claim to Love. Jesus taught Selflessness. Selfless Love. Not Selfish Love. Love Isnt about You. Enough said.
Pastors i am also obsessed with my lover. I want redeem from this condition . Please pastor would you teach me how to deliver from this situation. 😢I really get lost cause of this obsessive love to my lover.
yo estoy pasando esto con mi Esposo haces todo eso y ahora me doy cuenta que no Machamos el yo he vivido como si soy la sclava de el y mis hijo el dice que yo soy su providad de el .y ahora me dice que yo soy agreciba y la Mala Para too en mi casa no puedo tender Amistad. Mucha gracias for hacer use video
Yesterday I had said how I have bills to pay and 4k debt. Then I had bought a new iPhone and got into a 2 year contract. The phone is worth 1200$ but I can't use it cuz u hacked it. Then today I talked to the owner of the daycare. She said oh we don't need extra staff because the girl who was gna go on vacation is staying. So she let me go today was my last day. I bet you planned to talk to her to let me go..I was actually going to quit and give my 2 weeks notice today. But I needed to find a job first. You are a destroyer ayy and your not a Christian. You really want to now take my finances from me.
@@KingdomcomeJesusFor this is the will of my Father that everyone who beholds the Son and believes in him has eternal life and I will raise him up on the last day John 6:40
@@savedbygrace463For this is the will of my Father that everyone who beholds the Son and believes in him has eternal life and I will raise him up on the last day John 6:40
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Yep find a nixton somewhere we'll there a special place people like you find christ and open your heart and stop spreading lies about some stuff you never tried in the first place marjanna help listen to you I do it and I'm feeling less unhappy and more with god so shut up if you say anything you don't know nothing of
Amen so much truth Pastor. I'm in a relationship for 14yrs and in the recent 2 yrs idk why I started obsessing over my partner. I was far away from the Lord. One day I was in despair giving him a speech of everything he was doing wrong. what I want from him, how I want him to show me his love etc....right after that speech sitting across from my partner, God spoke to me. He said that's what I want from you. All of a sudden it became clear I wasn't "toxic" but I was obsessive. It was driving me crazy. But if I gave God the same energy his love would transcend the love that I was searching for. If I look for him and search for him the way I did for my partner he would fill the void. It wasn't my partners love I was yearning for but for the love of my heavenly father. That day I surrendered my life to the Lord and gave him control because I was done trying to control and do everything on my own. God has really from one moment to the other done a 360 in my life and I'm forever grateful for his mercy and his grace.
This message really gives hope to me, so thank you! I am in a similar and yet different situation, as the person I have been obsessed with for too long is a distant friend in another country.
@@marcusappelberg369 I'm glad Glory to God. Just to be clear he has changed me not the situation. I know the Lord has a plan for me and my situation and I will be still and know that he has me. He has changed the desires of my heart, lightened my load, given me rest, and filled me w. his love, peace, and joy. I pray you can find the same in the Lord. 🙏💚
@@marcusappelberg369For this is the will of my Father that everyone who beholds the Son and believes in him has eternal life and I will raise him up on the last day John 6:40
Praise God! Thank you for sharing this beautiful encounter.
God bless you and thankyou for sharing . God spoke to me through your testimony .
I’m healing surviving and thriving by the grace of GOD! Lord I’m trying to balance everything on my own, but Lord I feel like I’m failing miserably as a single mother. Both sons are special needs I’m so overwhelmed trying to support them on my own. I’m struggling to make ends meet, to pay bills, and to put food on the table for my children. Jesus guide me and give me strength. Help me be a better mother.
As I listened to this video I know I have been on both sides of this. I realized that after the abuse and neglect as a child then rejection by men I loved created this hole inside me. This obsession is a hole inside that was never filled by those who were supposed to fill it. It is driven by lust and then a longing so desperate it is never satisfied. No matter what the person says or does it is never enough. It is because only God can fill that void and satisfy that longing. No man can they will always fail us. Even if they try they will still fail because it is not them we need but God.
Thank you Pastor so many people don't know these principles and become involved with the wrong people.
Amen! This is precious teaching! Thank you Pastor Vlad. God bless you and your family
Thank you Pastor Vlad I will share this with my daughter.
I bind to hell every obsession one has over another while binding to hell every lack of freedom from obsessing over another and binding one to love only in a rigtheous way in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone obsessing over another while lacking to only love another righteously, praise God for showing us the right way to love, in accordance with this word and 2 samuel 13:1-2, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!
Pastor Vlad, i have never had such a clear message stating differences between love and lust. Thank you for being so sensitive to the Holy Spirit.
This is gold!!!
watch the video of fr joseph edattu on love and love, it touched my heart..
Please pray for everyone’s healing forgiveness and salvation and peaceful healing victories
Pastor Vlad that is how I know you are my true pastor. God is always using you in every season of my life it's crazy.
These are the values that need to be perpetuated. The world today is consumed with mindless self indulgence.
thanks Pastor Vlad
I learned
Lust forces sex
Love initiates marriage
Wow! This is so good! Ty for sharing pastor. God bless you. I'm going to remember this for my daughters. ❤
Thank you so much for sharing this and taking the time to do this !!!!! This is an answer to prayer I will be using this to teach my 3 teenage boys ♥️♥️♥️
Vlad this is everyday you are making specific videos for me
A part of me feels these feelings towards a friend who lives in another country, and I really dont want to feel this way towards her. It is just like you said. I consider it demonic. Limerence is the psychological term for it, coined by Tennov in 1979. That she still wants to be my casual friend, and sees me as a great person, after all the times I have made her feel uncomfortable with my strong feelings for her.
I am a Christian, but I must admit that I have been weak in my faith lately. I have turned her into an Idol, instead of focusing on Christ. I just want this to end so I can see her as a good but casual friend in another country, focus on Jesus and my life here. Please pray for me and for her.
Thank you so much for sharing this message. It made me realize something about myself. God lead me to your message. Thank you so much, Pastor! God bless you.
Yes. It helped me see God helped me see this a few weeks ago. It's great when the devil knows you know!!! 🩸🩸🩸🩸🌹👑
@@KingdomcomeJesusFor this is the will of my Father that everyone who beholds the Son and believes in him has eternal life and I will raise him up on the last day John 6:40
Pastor Vlad I just want to thank you for all the wisdom and knowledge you have taught me. Your messages are and have always been life changing. Thanks for always keeping it real. May God continue to bless you and your family.🙏
I am so blessed by this video. Thankyou brother
Thank you for this teaching pastor 🙏🙏
Oh!! Number 1 is so me. I thought i was loving the right way. I’ve been the obsessive one all along! I call him 100 times a day and text him ALOT! Please I need help!
K I needed this video so badly. I feel that you were following God's lead in making this video. Thanks for posting this. Praise God
This is my first time to hear this that I have always wanted to hear thannk you very much
I needed to hear this. Thank you Jesus
Thank you. Pity that these things are not taught in schools. Alot of children could have been saved from unhappy marriages.
The last 3 guys I dated wanted me to move far away from my support system to be with them. I did that once, I married a narcissistic serial cheater. Now I look for these signs of a person wanting power and control especially through isolation.
Thank you for all these words :) I wanted to watch the ‘signs you have a demon’ video but I got scared because the cover is really creepy so I watched this instead. I appreciate this advice!
No need to get scared…sometimes the break through is to know it’s going to be okay and watching the video! I have felt that fear but a year later I am free and so glad I watched the video!!
As a single I appreciate your advice. 😊
Dang! Where was this 2 years ago before the counterfeit came along?!
i learned that this kind of relationship can also happen with GOD, such as i was at the point of starting to command GOD what to do or not, which is not alright, thankyou for the video
RUN!!! Amen.
Thank you for this video Vlad 🙏🏾💯 Thank God I came across this, things make a lot more sense now. Thank you God for this! ❤️✝️
Awesome video!
Thank you, ❤ Pastor Vlad. This is the best teaching i have ever heard about the differences between love and lust. This must be shared.
Amen
Thank you pastor from Nagaland Indian...
Wow, I wonder what made Pastor Vlad share on this topic. These are major checkpoints!
I was in one of those relationships. Please pray for me
Wish I knew this before🤦♀️🤦♀️never mind I can share this with someone🙏
Amen I love this presentation it's good advice and wisdom for the soul, thanks so much pastor God bless 🙏 in Jesus name ♥️✝️✡️🕎
Thank you so much for this. ❤
Thankyou pastor for your clear teaching
Thank you this is wonderful ❤
Thank you so much for this message 🙏🏼
I learned my lesson...
Thank you, Pastor Vlad! Beautiful ⏳️ teaching ❤️! 1:55
Amen
great teaching, Pastor Vlad!
Thank you Pastor Vlad i needed this.
Blessed teaching
Can I get prayer for achalasia ? I’m a single mom and I have to take care of my child
I’ve lost 100 pounds already and I need Gods help there isn’t a cure
Thank you for message lust leads to the bed love leads you to the alter
Great Video! Helped Me Lots!
God was speaking here
Thank you pastor ❤
This is very good!!! Be!!! Blessed!!!🕊🤍
This is my marriage to some points.
Shared with family
Vlad, thank you for doing God's work.
He sent me you.
You sent me hope.
Thank you hallelujah!
God is jealous for us. Could you explain this aspect of Godly love as well and how it's different from the jealousy that is mentioned in this video.
Yes I'd like to have a understanding of this concept as well.
This sounds like enemy spirit that has attached itself to me the last several years. Holy Spirit I trust you will show me clearly the remedy and / or the minister who knows the answer.
I left lustful relationship not going back running to God
Very good!
Hello pastor. I do really need your advice. I am in a state of confusion.
Initially when we start our relation, she was too obsessed and possessive, she wouldn't even want me to be with my relatives, friends and church members and this has been for almost 5years.
But now she got a job and don't have time for me like she use to be which lead me to be very curious I can't get her out of my mind always thinking about where she might be it what she might be doing.
Now it's like the role have reversed I am becoming too obsessed.
Pleas help, will be anxiously waiting for your reply. Thank you.
Seek God,fast and pray ok it,God will fix her and heal you,do not make her your God ❤God is God, wife is wife, keep praying keep fasting read the bible ❤
Amen Brother Vlad! great video! wish i could have heard this message 20 years ago lol. thank you for all you do and God bless everyone who sees this ❤🙏
Amen
Very good 👍
I think I'm going through the same signs in my relationship.
Move away, right away. Safe ur self.😮
Repent and seek deliverance because I also almost fell in that rabbit hole of "love" just friend zone em😂 it worked for m👌🏾
@@luther.tube1For this is the will of my Father that everyone who beholds the Son and believes in him has eternal life and I will raise him up on the last day John 6:40
@@lucilayvonnepadilla6727Jesus said to him I’m way, the truth and the life no man come to the Father but by Me John 14:6
If only someone anyone would of educated me when i entered my first relationship with a man. I was 17 knew nothing about domestic violence i was gang raped and gang bashed at 14 so perhaps i was thinking i deserve it, or that it was normal 😢. I hid it like a dirty lil secret, i was a prisoner not allowed to have friends see family broke my phone, would rape and beat me then tell me jow much he loved me. I became a shell of a person i was numb and it caused many ptsd for a long time. Im so glad i was called by the living God by my name in 2019 he made it clear that he is coming back soon and to come back to him now before its too late. I think its important to teach women and yes even men about domestic violence and posseive love. 😢 through suffering the lord Jesus Christ has brought me out of the dark cavernous place, where my dreams were haunted, fear became my only friend
😢.
Im PTSD free now and have forgiven those whom had gang raped, gang bashed, and treated with contempt i literally felt like a pile of rubbish and its such a blessing to finally have the love id been searching for for a long time. I have a story to tell a testimony of what Godhas done for me
Can you pray for me for descernment and that God will provide a way out from relationships. We are married but I don't feel like its real love... I don't feel myself free. Also i feel like lying to myself and others and i can't seem to find a way out from
This is the definition of narcisistic Love, can you help on ways, strategics on how to fight spiritually on this stronghold. So many advice from physcologist, but what about Spiritual leaders like you Pastor are saying about this.?.
Amen ,My husband always swearing at me
He always watch phoni graphics. Thank you lord help me....Pray for me.
It's really idolatry of a person, which is another way of saying codependency
I am with Jesus
Translate into Russian all your videos about marriage, divorce and all other things you post about nascissist personality, please 🙏
I have a lot of people I would love to share this powerful messages.
Obsessive Love is A selfish Act.
Its caring more about yourself and how you feel then the other you claim to Love.
Jesus taught Selflessness. Selfless Love. Not Selfish Love.
Love Isnt about You.
Enough said.
LoL, I can tell you some stories on that shit
Hallelujah
How to say you’re preaching without preaching:
I want the demons out my life ❤and wanna know how to speak in tougnes
Pastors i am also obsessed with my lover. I want redeem from this condition . Please pastor would you teach me how to deliver from this situation. 😢I really get lost cause of this obsessive love to my lover.
What do you call it when you have both love and lust for a person at the same time?
Anen!
9:52❤❤
yo estoy pasando esto con mi Esposo haces todo eso y ahora me doy cuenta que no Machamos el yo he vivido como si soy la sclava de el y mis hijo el dice que yo soy su providad de el .y ahora me dice que yo soy agreciba y la Mala Para too en mi casa no puedo tender Amistad. Mucha gracias for hacer use video
WOW!!!
🔥 🔥 🔥
Yesterday I had said how I have bills to pay and 4k debt. Then I had bought a new iPhone and got into a 2 year contract. The phone is worth 1200$ but I can't use it cuz u hacked it. Then today I talked to the owner of the daycare. She said oh we don't need extra staff because the girl who was gna go on vacation is staying. So she let me go today was my last day. I bet you planned to talk to her to let me go..I was actually going to quit and give my 2 weeks notice today. But I needed to find a job first. You are a destroyer ayy and your not a Christian. You really want to now take my finances from me.
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
So what do I do when I feel like I’m the one that is possessive and controlling
God forgive me I did these
Sorry. They don't need "deliverance". They need to repent and submit to God.
Come to celebration church Clovis ❤❤❤
Amen
Can u plz do a video on gambling
Limerence is dangerous look it yo
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🥺🙋🏻♂️
What’s your take on bf/gf relationships? I heard is a form of fornication. Especially since bf/gf isn’t even a thing in the Bible.
Interesting..... 🛞🎡🎡🎡🎡
@@KingdomcomeJesusFor this is the will of my Father that everyone who beholds the Son and believes in him has eternal life and I will raise him up on the last day John 6:40
I need u sir
No Hun, you do not need Vlad, you need Jesus!
@@savedbygrace463For this is the will of my Father that everyone who beholds the Son and believes in him has eternal life and I will raise him up on the last day John 6:40
sorry not buying any of that