Talking about AGE GAP with my husband & baking banana bread VLOG | Vita Sidorkina

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  • Hi Loves!
    ! Welcome to another video. In this video, we’ll be cooking my favorite banana bread recipe while also discussing a topic I haven’t addressed before: the age gap between my husband and me. We recently celebrated his 50th and my 30th birthday, and there have been many comments about our 20-year age difference. Although I haven’t focused much on it, I feel it’s important to talk about it and share my perspective. Watch this video, enjoy, and please share your thoughts with me.
    Lmk your thoughts down bellow in a comment section

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  • @Ana_Lev
    @Ana_Lev 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    You are so graceful and beautiful. I can see how a 20-year age-gap marriage would work for you and your husband.
    Not to be judgemental, but it helps that Valerio already had a house and a real job because finances are a hot topic early in marriage.

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It may work now but not when she's 40 and he's 60 and aging out

    • @juliecaron7569
      @juliecaron7569 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@wyleecoyotee4252 A bit sour, dear coyotee? Why wouldn't it work? We have that exact age gap and we are more loving and appreciative of each other than ever. Some people are just meant to be together forever.

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @juliecaron7569
      Sour about what? I'm stating fact.
      He'll become old fast, not be able to perform meanwhile she's still young. She'll become his caregiver. Not a great life to have for a young woman.
      Guess she can always get a young lover and the old man won't be aware of it.

    • @ladymeringue9870
      @ladymeringue9870 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@wyleecoyotee4252 I dated a 75 year old man who had looked after himself and was still handsome. No performance problems either. Age is very much a mindset.

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ladymeringue9870
      Older men are repulsive. But good for you I guess.

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Welcome Welcome Back Vita and you don't even know that how much I missed your vlogs you are my inspiration and I wish you have a blessed weekend♥️♥️😭🥹♥️

  • @sophiew8239
    @sophiew8239 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I love that you both mutually respect each other and learn from each other regardless of age 🎉❤ a beautiful couple inside and out

  • @RebeccasCorner1
    @RebeccasCorner1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love these kind of videos! Just talking in your kitchen. So cozy & relaxing to watch.

  • @Адина-к6е
    @Адина-к6е 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    can you write down the exact amount of each ingredients you add to the bowl please?

  • @larissahostetter2335
    @larissahostetter2335 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For sure age is nothing but a number. Sometimes when you are with someone who is way older it doesn't seem like it. It really is who you vibe with!

  • @camigalvezcastillo
    @camigalvezcastillo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was in shock when I knew (by your Instagram post) that he was 50!!! I though that it was like a joke cake 🤣🤣 he look SOO YOUNG
    i completely agree with you … I feel like we all mature differently, and in different times… the experiences, the way we were raise…
    My husband and I have a 8 year gap, and I have never feeel like there is one…
    Pd. Love your videos, I love that you are so real with you opinions, your life style

  • @AlexLS123
    @AlexLS123 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My parents have a 17 year age gap. My dad was also very very energetic and was young at heart. They were set up by a mutual friend & my mom says my dad looked super young when she first met him & had no idea his real age. They were together for almost 30 years and he passed away in 2018 but in terms of couples with age gaps I’m so used to hearing about big age gaps because of my parents & don’t find them weird or abnormal at all. Sometimes they really do work the best

  • @anastasiiakonstantinova
    @anastasiiakonstantinova 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great recipe!!! Thank you Vita! Loving your easy and delicious cooking❤

  • @RR-cm4gb
    @RR-cm4gb 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Love this video! Can you share the recipe for the banana bread? ❤

  • @DegiM-l1n
    @DegiM-l1n 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are beautiful, smart young lady 😊. Very happy that you make vlogs and share with us 🙌🏻

  • @Joanna-jf3lr
    @Joanna-jf3lr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Vita, big fan over here! I am curious if you have any cultural differences with Valerio?

    • @nataliegrigoryan
      @nataliegrigoryan 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Of course they might since she’s Russian and he’s Italian

  • @leraabercrombie2765
    @leraabercrombie2765 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I looooove and deeply admire your authenticity Vita!!!!

  • @lolitalolipops4154
    @lolitalolipops4154 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bella my parents had 29 years differnece . My dad was 67 when he had me .Whatever makes you happy ,Damn that bread looks delicious I'm gonna try it

  • @marybabameto1195
    @marybabameto1195 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Welcome back Vita, we missed you! I don't think I would be happy in an age-gap relationship, but I love your relationship (what you show of it) and I love the point that you emphasize: both partners must respect each other regardless of age, and there can't be a power dynamic that means its not an equal partnership. I think that is the most important part of any relationship
    Also, very clear you had "good instincts" from a young age when you were suspicious to bring a guy with you who had no plan when moving to NY. Many people would get caught in that trap and it would hold you back/ derail your success.

  • @TheMiteMedic
    @TheMiteMedic 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Completely relate! In 20 year age gap relationship as well ❤

  • @LalaMelii
    @LalaMelii 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    If you put those bananas on the air fryer or oven for 15min, bananas will ripped and be perfect for baking

  • @appsr8519
    @appsr8519 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i think when a relationship works it really doesnot matter age difference!!!! yummy banana bread!!!

  • @Elle-xz3fk
    @Elle-xz3fk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    LOVE this Vita - It's sooooooo relatable!!! Thank you for being so open with it, i think the same way as you :)

  • @emilydemirose
    @emilydemirose 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love your videos so much I binge watch them nearly everyday 😂😊 Where did you get your white top from?

  • @ADG247
    @ADG247 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a good conversation and thank you for opening up. I think it might be harder when you are in your early forties with grown up kids and still lots of vitality. Hope it works out for you. And a little bit of pressure on Valerio to stay fit 😅

  • @JohnHausser
    @JohnHausser 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    50 is the new 40 😊

    • @missopinionated0000
      @missopinionated0000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ew NO

    • @parisz
      @parisz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Nono can people stop referring 50 as "young" when in reality it's mid-age.

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Actually it isn't

    • @yamiletsoler3464
      @yamiletsoler3464 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​​@@missopinionated0000😂😂😂
      Your profile name along with your comment hahaha 😂

    • @missopinionated0000
      @missopinionated0000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yamiletsoler3464 right.? lol :-)

  • @DancerMIMI
    @DancerMIMI 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I could not understand what the vibe was. Now, I have figured out: "It is the vibe of money". Even her manners, are not those who struggle, but those the above. The way she works with her hands, it is just a wonder.

  • @rjwilhelm10
    @rjwilhelm10 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You and your husband are very cute! I love my husband just as much!!!❤

  • @BerlinGirl-en5xk
    @BerlinGirl-en5xk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Vita I love your videos, felt like we were just sitting together in your kitchen and talking about life and men:) And Allegra is just the cutest and prettiest little girl, 70/100 made me laugh a lot!

  • @NN-zg1oq
    @NN-zg1oq 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You have such a wonderful family! Who cares about the age difference???!!!

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She might later on when she's still young and vibrant and he's aged out and she becomes his caregiver.

    • @royall358
      @royall358 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its ew lol

  • @anatolia613
    @anatolia613 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sounds like both of you respect each other and love each other which is all that really matters

  • @ClaudiaCaprioli-n3r
    @ClaudiaCaprioli-n3r 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Can you share the recipe?

  • @GlamTravelLife
    @GlamTravelLife 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Vita, I have been watching you for some time now and love your videos. My fiancé and I are 29 years apart (I’m 33, he is 62) . Thank goodness both of our families are supportive like yours. We get looks from strangers, well actually it depends on the city. When we are in Miami, not so much as I see quite a few other age gap couples too. But here in Boca (we are an hour away) a lot of stares. When we travel abroad, mostly nobody cares lol as long as we are polite. I thought it was funny because my fiancé is super active too and some people his age complain that they cannot do as much because they are “old”. Then I tell them about my fiancé and they get quiet. 😂 This man has even more energy than me, it’s amazing. I hope I’m like that at 62. I think getting “old” is what you make of it. I love watching you and your beautiful family. Much love 💗

    • @missopinionated0000
      @missopinionated0000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      its disgusting

    • @DG_____
      @DG_____ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      29 years apart? I can't imagine finding a man of 62 attractive....

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You will be his frustrated nurse maid.

    • @missopinionated0000
      @missopinionated0000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@DG_____ EXACTLY ! right ?

    • @missopinionated0000
      @missopinionated0000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@wyleecoyotee4252 exactly bah !

  • @anunaa475
    @anunaa475 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Beautiful family ❤
    Could you please tell me your white tank from? Thank you 😊
    P.S. Love your recipes ❤

  • @ClaudiaCaprioli-n3r
    @ClaudiaCaprioli-n3r 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this video

  • @callalys
    @callalys 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please do an everyday easy natural work makeup tutorial 😊

  • @MissYesBell
    @MissYesBell 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The best relationships I have been with men much older than me, but the most chaotic have been when they are close to my age. 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

    • @91Grete
      @91Grete 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same. Men just stay boys for a loooooong time.

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can't even stand to look at older men.

  • @laurenmareegagen5544
    @laurenmareegagen5544 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Vita ❤, can I please ask what the recipe measurements are for each ingredient?

  • @евгенияиванова-д5ц
    @евгенияиванова-д5ц 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m first 🎉

  • @oduwo
    @oduwo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl those were some veryyyy underripe bananas 😂 but honestly, whatever it takes for some freshly made banana bread!

  • @trishmcgrath7124
    @trishmcgrath7124 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Vita❤

  • @sarkafarstad2581
    @sarkafarstad2581 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @wyleecoyotee4252
    @wyleecoyotee4252 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Young women shouldn't waste their youth on older men.
    It may seem fine now, but when he ages out and has aging issues 😜 you will feel differently. You will also become his caregiver while you are still young and vibrant.
    These young women don't ever think ahead.

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DA10839
      Possibly.
      So she's just waiting for him to die?

    • @DA10839
      @DA10839 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just search him on Getty Images he has been dating Fashion Models since the 90s

  • @carrives
    @carrives 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What about thoughts of later in life, outliving him?

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She hasn't thought that far ahead.
      Or...she will inherit his wealth and have many younger lovers

  • @sarahviktoria8494
    @sarahviktoria8494 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It sounds like your husband is teaching you a lot.

  • @anastasiavikultseva2681
    @anastasiavikultseva2681 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kellowest
    @kellowest 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love your videos! will you teach your children Russian?

  • @ClaudiaCaprioli-n3r
    @ClaudiaCaprioli-n3r 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very good

  • @Amelie-yk8om
    @Amelie-yk8om 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    how many grams are 1 1/2 cups flour?

  • @Marbar811
    @Marbar811 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Could you please share the measurement for honey and coconut oil?

  • @annado3885
    @annado3885 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you use almond flour for this recipe

  • @lealening
    @lealening 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So you married your father´s age guy, because he has more... money?

  • @antoniavalentinacentioni5864
    @antoniavalentinacentioni5864 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🤎💐

  • @myn1670
    @myn1670 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Share recipes

  • @RB-qu3bz
    @RB-qu3bz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    But the body of 50 years old its not like the 20-25 years old so i find it gross

  • @royall358
    @royall358 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    U mean money lmaoo

  • @royall358
    @royall358 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So classic lol a model dating an old man :))))ew

  • @missopinionated0000
    @missopinionated0000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i was married with 20 y older man for 13 years from when i was 18 y young ( and yes he was 38 )... never again !... its just so off ! Luckily i don't have kids with him. with no one :-)
    20 y age gap is just waaaayyy too big ( my experience ) also for the kids later.. like having almost 60 y old dad when the kid is just 12-16 years old.? (dont know her kids age, iam guessing here ) its off !!! ew NO.

  • @allinterests287
    @allinterests287 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love that you talked about the age gap. I like people who are older than me because they are different and can teach me more things too

  • @ellaf1024
    @ellaf1024 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @stefanieb.8473
    @stefanieb.8473 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤍🤍🤍

  • @Адина-к6е
    @Адина-к6е 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤