I have heard real life stories when elder daughter did not get married to give good life to her younger siblings but when the siblings had their own families the elder daughter is considered as a burden and has nowhere to go. Malti Joshi had written a nice story about this based on a true incident...
Mere saath ye sab kuchh kiyaa h aap jo bol rhi h vo sab kuchh mere saath huaa h bade hone ka m sare frj nibhaaya h par mujhe bade hone ka Hak nhi kiyaa mi faynenclee sapot bhi kar chuki hoo Maa baap ko bhaai ko mama ko bhi aaj mujhe koi kuchh nhi samghtaa h Har jgh mene sabko sapot kiyaa h aa m bhut presaan hoo
I was crying while listening Seriously..7 saal ki bachhi mini maa ho jaati hai.. sach me use uski maa kabhi dikhi hi nahi..kquki woh badi thi 12 saal ki badi beti ghar me kaam karne ke liye badi hoti hai But 18 saal ki chhoti beti hameshaa pyaari si ,cute si, princess hoti hai, ekdum pari ki tarah 😢 Thank u so much for telling my story. Really i never felt appreciated. U r right, i shud feel proud for myself
Meri umr to 45 ho gyi hoo sabke liye kiyaa h apne liye kuchh kar nhi kiyaa h aaj m akeli hoo koi nhi h meraa aaj mujhe pataa chal chuka h mere Maa baap ne mujhe khi ka nhi chhodaa h vo mi hoo jo aap bol rhi h
Also sometimes when the elder daughter is earning good family parents don't want to get her married so that they don't lose the money...Parents are not God. They can be selfish as well
Aaj mi mujhe sab galat samaghte h kyoki mi vo ladaki hoo jo aap bol rhi h m thak chuki hoo Maa baap mama bhaai sabne miilkar mujhe buraa banana diya h aaj bataane ki bhi himmt nhi h aaj m akeli hoo mere saath sabne milkar krurtaa ki merely saath
Me mere ghr ki Badi beti hu...phir bhi mere ma papa bolte the ki ye nhi Hoti to Kitna acccha hota, bolte the ki selfose ki goli delete h ya Kahi aashram me chod aate h....😅😂😂😂😂😢
Ghar ke badi beti ki maa nahi hoti par usko apni immature mummy ki maa bana diya jaata hai …. Ab jaake maine apni yeh thopi gayi responsibility chodi hai …ab mujhe buri beti banna hai …
Ghr me nokar ki tarah kaam krvaya gya 8 saal ki age se aur fir kama k inka ghr b chalaya 12 saal.. aaj na ma baap izzat krte h na chota bhai.. bs use krke fenk diya
Mi bad detee hoo mi parivaar ke liye sab kuchh kiyaa h mere Maa baap ne mujhe paraaya kar diyaa mene Maa ki tarah bhaai ko paalaa h ab kuchh kiyaa par aap jo bhi bol rhi h vo sab kuchh kiyaa h mene mere halal kharab ho gye aaj aur sab ko setl kiyaa mene aaj mera koi nhi h vo ladaki m hoo sister aaj mro rhi hoo khaali ho gyee hoo
Mam, pr mere inlaws k ghr me kch alag hi ho rha badi beti ko lekr, no doubt apne sahi kaha ki badi beti ek ma ki tarah zimmedariya uthati hai, pr wo bhool jati hai wo line ki isse aage wo ma ki tarah act nai kr skti akhir wo b is ghr beti hi hai in the end. Isi wajah se meri sister in law jo ki sabse badi beti hai ghr ki unhone ne mere or mere husband ki shaadi na ho paye uske liye bohot koshishe ki, or ajtak mere in laws k sath half of the year rehti hai or hum dono k against baate krti hai unse, isme inlaws b unka hi sath dete hai kyuki wo badi hai ,or muje or mere husband ko bohot taane or bura bhala sunate hai
Or isi wajah se mere husband khud apne hi ghr nai ja pate kyuki waha pehle se unke or mere against cheeze plan ki gyi hoti hai , isme me pls aap kch video banaye ki kaise ek nand ( koi b age ki kyu na ho ) apne bhai bhabi ko khush nai dekhna chahti
What about those girls who are married now, have kids, in laws AND their parents have sent their only son to foreign country to live his life to the fullest with his family and without taking any consent from that daughter they are dependent on her to take care of them as well. Though they have given maximum property to their beloved son leaving almost nothing for that care giving daughter. Isn't that un fair. This girl has responsibility of their child, husband, inlaws and parents, but she cant complain about anything, she has to act like Badi didi all the time
Papa Daru pike aye to roti he chid thi hai , sab ko pareshan karti hai, or jab damad ji peee ke aye to beti ko hi galat bataya ,😢😢😢😢😢ase. Mere sat kyu hota hai
Badi beti thi is liye maa khabi support nahi karti thi , pati bhi izzat nahi karta ,bahut pareshan ho 😢😢😢😢, pati daru pita hai ye bat maa ko batane par, maa ne kaha tumare karan hi pite hai ,us samaye me bahut tot gaye ,meri kya galti thi jo maa ne ase boli,😢😢😢😢😢😢
Fact hai
Thankyou so much for making this video...Aisa laga kisi ne to samjha mujhe
Always there for you. 👍
I have heard real life stories when elder daughter did not get married to give good life to her younger siblings but when the siblings had their own families the elder daughter is considered as a burden and has nowhere to go. Malti Joshi had written a nice story about this based on a true incident...
Yes, that's absolutely true. 🌺
Correct mam , it's true.
Sahi kaha 😢 me bhi Apne Ghar ki Badi beti hu or murkh beti bhi😢😢😢😢
I can understand your feelings. 🌺
Me too
Me bhi gar badi behen hu bhen same problem 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Thank q mam ye video mere liye bahut bahut precious h..thank you so much ❤❤
Always there for you.🌺
@@PinkZindagi please explain the "Post-Marital Depression" for boys & girls
@@PinkZindagi please explain the side effects of "permisive & ignoretive parenting style" in adulthood
@@PinkZindagi please explain the side effects & cause of "fearful & anxious attechment style" in adulthood
Also make a video on when saas favours younger son and bahu over elder son and bahu and creates conflicts... the dirty family politics
Sure! 👍
Mere sathme Jo mayka me hua wo hi ,sasural me bhi wo hi ho rha h...or jyda kharab condition ho rhi h ...
Thanks for making this ...yes i have facedost ofybissuea alone
Welcome 🌺
Aapne hi mujhe samjha❤so thankful
Always there for you. 👍
very nice, informative video👌👌
Thanks a lot🤗
Mere saath ye sab kuchh kiyaa h aap jo bol rhi h vo sab kuchh mere saath huaa h bade hone ka m sare frj nibhaaya h par mujhe bade hone ka Hak nhi kiyaa mi faynenclee sapot bhi kar chuki hoo Maa baap ko bhaai ko mama ko bhi aaj mujhe koi kuchh nhi samghtaa h Har jgh mene sabko sapot kiyaa h aa m bhut presaan hoo
Please take care of yourself. 👍
मेरी कहानी😢😢😢पूरी। आज तक सहती हूँ। 😮अब बहुत बोलती हूँ मुखर होकर। जीवन यहाँ ले आया। 😮😮 दर्द आंसू पीड़ा हंसे या रोएं खुद पर समझ नही आता। ॐ श्री।
Thanku maam
My pleasure 🤗
I was crying while listening
Seriously..7 saal ki bachhi mini maa ho jaati hai.. sach me use uski maa kabhi dikhi hi nahi..kquki woh badi thi
12 saal ki badi beti ghar me kaam karne ke liye badi hoti hai
But 18 saal ki chhoti beti hameshaa pyaari si ,cute si, princess hoti hai, ekdum pari ki tarah
😢
Thank u so much for telling my story.
Really i never felt appreciated.
U r right, i shud feel proud for myself
I can feel your pain.. You are so special and so strong.. Keep it up. 👍
Athank u madam aaka video dekh ke mind relax feel kar Raha hai,
My pleasure 👍
Yah mere liye satya hai
Take care of yourself. 🌺
Yes thanks mam❤
Most welcome 😊
😢yes mam
Meri mummy bhi ek no ki kaamchor h ghr ka pura kaam mere se hi krwti h
I know yeh real problems hain.
Meri umr to 45 ho gyi hoo sabke liye kiyaa h apne liye kuchh kar nhi kiyaa h aaj m akeli hoo koi nhi h meraa aaj mujhe pataa chal chuka h mere Maa baap ne mujhe khi ka nhi chhodaa h vo mi hoo jo aap bol rhi h
Also sometimes when the elder daughter is earning good family parents don't want to get her married so that they don't lose the money...Parents are not God. They can be selfish as well
I have seen many such cases. 👍
Maine wahi kiya joh mere gharwalo ne kaha
Aaj mi mujhe sab galat samaghte h kyoki mi vo ladaki hoo jo aap bol rhi h m thak chuki hoo Maa baap mama bhaai sabne miilkar mujhe buraa banana diya h aaj bataane ki bhi himmt nhi h aaj m akeli hoo mere saath sabne milkar krurtaa ki merely saath
I can feel your pain. ❤
Very nice video ma'am please unwanted child per video banaiye ❤❤❤
Okay, that's a nice topic. 👍
@@PinkZindagi me hu unwanted child 😢bhut झेला है मैने बचपन मे और फिर शादी भी गलत घर में kr di upper se mere husband ko mere khilaaf kr diya😢
Me mere ghr ki Badi beti hu...phir bhi mere ma papa bolte the ki ye nhi Hoti to Kitna acccha hota, bolte the ki selfose ki goli delete h ya Kahi aashram me chod aate h....😅😂😂😂😂😢
Ghar ke badi beti ki maa nahi hoti par usko apni immature mummy ki maa bana diya jaata hai …. Ab jaake maine apni yeh thopi gayi responsibility chodi hai …ab mujhe buri beti banna hai …
M hu vo ghr ki bdi beti
Ghr me nokar ki tarah kaam krvaya gya 8 saal ki age se aur fir kama k inka ghr b chalaya 12 saal.. aaj na ma baap izzat krte h na chota bhai.. bs use krke fenk diya
I can feel your pain.
Mi bad detee hoo mi parivaar ke liye sab kuchh kiyaa h mere Maa baap ne mujhe paraaya kar diyaa mene Maa ki tarah bhaai ko paalaa h ab kuchh kiyaa par aap jo bhi bol rhi h vo sab kuchh kiyaa h mene mere halal kharab ho gye aaj aur sab ko setl kiyaa mene aaj mera koi nhi h vo ladaki m hoo sister aaj mro rhi hoo khaali ho gyee hoo
Mam, pr mere inlaws k ghr me kch alag hi ho rha badi beti ko lekr, no doubt apne sahi kaha ki badi beti ek ma ki tarah zimmedariya uthati hai, pr wo bhool jati hai wo line ki isse aage wo ma ki tarah act nai kr skti akhir wo b is ghr beti hi hai in the end. Isi wajah se meri sister in law jo ki sabse badi beti hai ghr ki unhone ne mere or mere husband ki shaadi na ho paye uske liye bohot koshishe ki, or ajtak mere in laws k sath half of the year rehti hai or hum dono k against baate krti hai unse, isme inlaws b unka hi sath dete hai kyuki wo badi hai ,or muje or mere husband ko bohot taane or bura bhala sunate hai
Or isi wajah se mere husband khud apne hi ghr nai ja pate kyuki waha pehle se unke or mere against cheeze plan ki gyi hoti hai , isme me pls aap kch video banaye ki kaise ek nand ( koi b age ki kyu na ho ) apne bhai bhabi ko khush nai dekhna chahti
No contact k upr b video bnao please
I feel lost
I feel lonely
I can feel your pain. ❤
What about those girls who are married now, have kids, in laws AND their parents have sent their only son to foreign country to live his life to the fullest with his family and without taking any consent from that daughter they are dependent on her to take care of them as well. Though they have given maximum property to their beloved son leaving almost nothing for that care giving daughter. Isn't that un fair. This girl has responsibility of their child, husband, inlaws and parents, but she cant complain about anything, she has to act like Badi didi all the time
Very realistic topic... Will try to bring this in upcoming video. 👍
Ghar ki badi Bahu per video bnaae
😊
Sure! 👍
Mam my parents abuse me. And physical abused what ido
Bahar nikliye...pd likh k apne pairo pe khade hoeeye...aur unae dur bahar rhiye kahi...
I DID IT SAME
Papa Daru pike aye to roti he chid thi hai , sab ko pareshan karti hai, or jab damad ji peee ke aye to beti ko hi galat bataya ,😢😢😢😢😢ase. Mere sat kyu hota hai
Badi beti thi is liye maa khabi support nahi karti thi , pati bhi izzat nahi karta ,bahut pareshan ho 😢😢😢😢, pati daru pita hai ye bat maa ko batane par, maa ne kaha tumare karan hi pite hai ,us samaye me bahut tot gaye ,meri kya galti thi jo maa ne ase boli,😢😢😢😢😢😢
Tum shi ho
I can feel your pain.
No one care for me
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