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I'm an over weight person. And I agree in the first story that coworker calling the person 'toothpick' and 'skinny' is a bully.
She deserve it and crying to get away with it is just weak.
It doesn't matter what weight you are, body shaming is body shaming no matter what.
I approve of the thumbnail story tbh. She deserved. If she can't handle insults she shouldn't throw them. Body shaming is body shaming no matter what
I got scared when I misread this comment and you were saying you didn't approve because she didn't deserve it
@@_sophie.love_ how did you misread it
@@kimnamjooniemoni2221 I'm dumb ngl
Real
I'm also skinny and I'm so tired of overweight people (especially from my family) telling me I need to eat more because I'm a toothpick and no men will like me lmao
Well, it's my genetics, my father was the same (tall and very skinny, no matter how much he ate he always stayed skinny, he only grew a little belly fat, just like me) and I'm healthy. It's not like I'm the unhealthily skinny one. It's them who should lose a little weight because their huge body will cause them heart and joint problems lol
And also, I have a boyfriend who always tells me how pretty I am and how nice body I have and honestly he's the only man whose opinion matters to me.
@@tundii61 This this this! It's so tiring!
Can confirm: being called skinny, told that you need to eat more, and other such comments- NOT a compliment. Coming from someone who heard my fair share of "get this kid a sandwich" jokes.
Calling someone skinny could be a compliment especially if they're trying to lose weight like me. But telling them that they have to gain weight is not a compliment. Here's the difference "You look skinny today have you lost weight" vs "You are too skinny put on some weight" you see?
especially (in my experience) when you have a fast metabolism and it's difficult to gain weight
@@Nameless82284 Hm. No, as a person Who has always been increadibly skinny, neither of those are positive. Yes, i want to loose weight, but getting told i’ve lost weight, or asked that, Can put me into a spiral of keep doing what i was doing, because i want to be skinnier. If i loose any weight i logically know i Will be increadibly unhealthy, but due to society i am never skinny enough.
As a person Who has always been insecure about my weight. Don’t EVER comment on someones weight, wether you Think it’s positive or not.
@@vintereventyr_ Well, I need to lose weight. To motivate myself I always tell myself insults. Every time I lose some weight I would tell myself that I got fatter so I could continue to lose weight.
@@Nameless82284 that’s.. horrible. Dude you gotta encourage yourself not insult yourself - that’s a horrible way to go about losing weight!!
Story #2: Some people don't even enjoy their own cooking, even if it tastes fantastic. However, it's more of just showing appreciation by just taking the gf out! Let her have a break from cooking, she doesn't get paid for being a "personal chef" on anniversaries.
This pissed me off so much for my birthday my mom got me a hello fresh box and expected me to cook dinner for them and I the next day and he's like
"Why don't you cook for us on *YOUR BIRTHDAY* " not only that I don't think he misses her like your airing out your relationship tension on the internet and is like "she found it and broke up with me😭" he misses her cooking he doesn't miss her if he literally compared her to a paid service that leaves once your food's done being prepared/served
At first I was so confused with the story. I thought she was mad about the idea of learning how to make sushi? But this man really called her his personal chef ???
@@lunarialoonatic She was mad about learning to make sushi (it could have been any dish) because it was for her own anniversary. She probably wanted to relax on that important day and go on a date like normal people do.
She deservs so much better
Missed opportunity for her to teach him how to cook like her. So that way he didn’t have to miss her cooking
Story #1: She deserved it. I’m very skinny too and I actually can’t gain weight because of a condition. You need to consider all the people you could be hurting by saying things like that. Either way, body shaming is body shaming.
Story #2: She’s your girlfriend, not your personal chef. Take her out and treat her, don’t make her make all your meals.
Story #3: They asked a personal question, the person can choose not to answer or deflect if they don’t want to. The stories sound too made up to be real too, so I didn’t really think anyone would believe it.
Story #4: Not his fault they broke up. He just gave her some advice on budgeting and made plans with her. She was the one who did it.
As a fat chick I 100% stand with OP in the first story! She was asked to stop multiple times to stop, she didn't. And OP stood up for themselves.
If you've asked someone to stop calling you names about your body, and they continue, it is not a compliment. Capiche "Chunky"?
As someone who cooks, i can confirm that you do feel dulled and tired after cooking and can't enjoy the food as much after cooking it yourself.
Perhaps promise her you'd take her out and buy her dinner twice a week, whatever she wants to eat. And try to listen and consider what she says more
As someone who cooks me and my dad are flavor chasers and enjoy food quite a bit regardless.
I think the problem comes in being expected to do it nearly every day, because this sentiment I’ve noticed is shared only in people who cook nearly every day.
@@teritt yea I can understand that too... Also the fun in eating out is getting to enjoy the experience and try the flavours that someone else put effort into so we can get new ideas too
@@sarahg5705 Yeah exactly, cooking every day is just bound to drain you either way. And sometimes restaurants provide things you’ve never cooked and you can be like “ooh I can make a version of this”
It’s ✨inspiration✨
@@teritt yea definitely, even if someone really enjoys it, cooking is really tiring, especially if you're putting a lot of effort into making it really tasty..
And yes, eating out is def good inspiration for cooks too
The woman bullying the slim woman is projecting. She wants to be slim and bullies the other girl because she IS slim. So as it’s coming from a place of insecurity for her, when she get the same treatment back, it hits her even harder. What if the other girl had anorexia or something? No excuse to bully other. The girl deffo peaked in high school
Many people still don't know that it's considered bodyshaming for skinny people as well.
While I don’t agree with shaming skinny people I do feel people need to understand this
The skinny ‘insults’ usually comes from a place of concern while fatphobic insults comes from a place of disgust and r more often than not violent in nature
Yes bodyshaming shldnt be a thing but I wld say fat shaming will forever be more violent and vile than “skinny shaming” will ever be
Besides being skinny has been a beauty standard in society for decades
@@aquaticaries7725 it depends on your culture. Where I'm from being skinny is associated with poverty and being sickly.
@@aquaticaries7725 No its not. You can also say that the fat 'insults' also come from a place of concern but we are not justifying body shaming here. Whether you are skinny or fat, you don't deserve to be body shamed and one is not more violent or vile than the other, you can't compare them like that.
Another example of this mentality is saying that women should be grateful if they are catcalled because its supposed to be a compliment, no its disgusting and should not be encouraged.
@@aquaticaries7725 Fatshaming can also be said to be done "out of concern". Because the world had decided chub = unhealthy. It can also be for why they get bullied, unhealthy and weak looking. Same for what youve decided skinny is- and yes skinny people will get bullied because being skinny looks weak and helpless. Both will end up with broken bones if they're not pretty & social enough to be popular. Making comments about how much someone eats is just the same as shaming someone for "needing to eat more". You do the same thing this way, shaming someone for how they eat and calling them unhealthy for living how they do.
These behaviors on either edge of the sword cause the victims to become uncomfortable in their own bodies, eating disorders in both directions, skinny people becoming obese or anorexic, fat people becoming obese or going anorexic. It's all the same.
Skinny people get pinched and grabbed around by their legs and arms to "make a point" at how skinny they are, jabbed & grabbed in their stomachs and sides to make that point, insulted almost daily and being made aware that people are staring at their bodies flaws constantly instead of paying attention to them, or they get overly sexualized by creepy older people even if they're a kid, etc. Seems familiar? Yeah because its the same thing that people will do to fat people!!
There is no greener grass to this, shaming people for being skinny is just doing the opposite of shaming someone for been fat, with just the same amount of severity. "Hey toothpick" or "hey pig" , you're degraded into something less than human.
Thousands of skinny people, children even, have died or just lived terribly painful, miserable lives just trying their best to be "skinny enough" for the beauty standard. So don't even act like the skinny standard means anything positive. Being too fat is unhealthy, being too skinny is unhealthy, that is that. No one is suffering on one side more than the other on this terrible coin.
@@aquaticaries7725 I don't think the girl in the first story meant it from a place of concern. You need to stop lying your ass off.
That last story. The fiance was not truthful with his salary. What else don't you know about your fiance? Maybe take more time to really get to know each other?
First story, the co-worker needs to be retaught what "Treat others the way you want to be treated"
Why don’t people get that it’s still body shaming if you’re picking on an under weight person
Even if you're not underweight, that shit's rude AF
Yeah it still shaming
1:26 you’re absolutely correct Ellen, as an extremely skinny person myself (98 lbs.) i really wish to do the same activities other people get to do. Nobody takes me seriously because of my weight and size and everyone calls me “bone” or “skinny jeans”. Every time I want to help out with some heavy objects or get my hands semi-dirty to help someone out, literally everyone around me chuckles and says something like “no because I don’t want you to break your little arms and legs”. I hold it back all the time and it gets super frustrating. I even had one of my fourth grade teachers come up to me and say “I should take you to the tire shop so they could fill you up with air, you’re just too skinny you’re in danger of flying away!” And normally I would shake it off or tell my parents about it. What hurt the most is that my dad agreed with her and added on to what she was saying, he even accused me of being anorexic! I remember lashing out at everyone who tried to agree or add on.. I exploded at everyone and said that it’s not as much of a wonderful compliment if people use it as a form of back-handed compliments. Being called too skinny has the same effect on people as being called fat. They are both forms of ridicule and a lot of people fail to acknowledge that..
I'm sorry you went through that :( I hope you're doing better!
That teacher is horrible. And so is your dad.
Villain arc do it
Work on weight training. Doesn't have to be "lift 100 lbs by week three" - but small weights, many repetitions; don't over do it. Muscle weighs more than fat; you'll keep your original shape but better, and you'll feel better about yourself too (and actually weigh more without gaining ounces in the wrong places). And if people could see "skinny" Chinese people carrying huge loads that so called "normal" people can barely lift, they'd be silent. People have different builds; work on improving your musculature. Weight training also improves blood circulation, and increases bone density - and you don't have to leave the house. Fill an empty 3 gal milk container with river sand and use that as a weight. Do push ups against a wall. Do "lift ups" from a stable seat using your arms. Even standing up and sitting down without using your arms and hands increases strength and muscles in the legs. If you can get up from the floor, without using your hands, you'll have increased your core body strength.
Story 1: OP’s response needs to be “It’s my mouth and I can say what I want.” Can’t take it then don’t dish it out and then cry like you’re the victim.
I remember that second story! That silly man didn't seem to really understand why his girlfriend was upset with him! just pay a small amount of attention, buy her flowers, bring her baked goods, just do something nice for her you fool!
You're right... people use word ''skinny' to bully you... I totally dont understand why people are so mean about anyone's appearance... I stan that OP's reaction.
For the third story, I guess I understand why she would be annoyed with the question. But as a disabled person I personally would rather people ask than assume and stare. However, everybody is different. I do think it’s a little ridiculous that every coworker was arguing about it 😂 It definitely isn’t that deep. I would laugh about it if I were the coworkers ngl
you're ableist?
@@mohsinAli-hq1nd Maybe they meant able bodied person?
@@hiyougoodmorning7407 yea I think it was a typo
@@mohsinAli-hq1nd I’m sorry I meant to say as someone disabled 😭
@I am me • 25y ago Uhm it really was a typo-
People call me anorexic, though I’m not, at all. I always get upset whenever I’m called it and the people around me say I should feel good about myself for the “compliment.”
For the first one, I relate to the poor girl. I am a naturally chubby person and my sister is extremely skinny whilst our mom is overweight. My mom is not happy with her weight and is constantly trying new diets to attempt to lose weight. I am happy with my weight because I exercise, eat healthy (as well as junk food every once in a while) and am generally happy with how I look. My sister hates how skinny she is and has tried to gain weight for years. She once made a comment to me about how I should start just eating salads only so I can become skinnier to which I replied that if that is what she thinks is the best way to lose weight then for her to gain weight, she should only eat junk food cuz that seems to be her logic. She burst into tears and our mom called me a jerk and told me to apologize to her. Neither her or or mom are happy with their weight, I am very happy with my weight and who I am. I am a thick, lovable & cuddly transmasc non-binary and everyone tells me I give the best cuddles whilst they are constantly fighting to change. She is not an AH for doing back to co-worker what her co-worker was doing to her. She is just jealous because you’re are confident in your weight and who you are while she isn’t
As long as you love yourself everything is fine 💕
But people who don't, shouldn't push their insecurities on someone who is happy
@@snowwilliams5871 definitely!
Agreed. Glad you’re happy with who you are ❤
How is calling out a flaw in someone's logic an insult?
The "private chef" story clearly shows he knew he was wrong, since he padded the story with compliments about his gf's skills to hide the fact her skills have nothing to do with his own input into the relationship. He even made it all about how he benefits without ever once considering her feelings or desires and pointed out she'd hinted at wanting to go out. I'm sure even Gordon Ramsey eats out at restaurants for his anniversary, it's silly the OP tried to use that as a crutch for why he couldn't act like her boyfriend
The last story he isn’t wrong. He just was explaining life finances and budgeting also 16 is only like a dollar more then minimum I’m some places (I don’t know where the story takes place off corse)… also dating 4 months at 19 that was going to end up in divorce.. you need to get to know someone before marriage
My answer to the first story: Call her "thicc." That's a compliment according to the internet.
I would’ve immediately dropped my bf if he ever called me “his private chef”. Props on the gf, she deserves better
As someone who is underweight, i can confirm that being called "skinny" can make someone feel just as insecure. Sometimes being skinny isn't a choice and trying to gain weight can be hard just because of fast metabolisms and having to eat when you're not hungry to get extra calories.
Im in a wheelchair due to cancer. I don't mind being asked. It's a normal question. And good to have humor about it.
Yeah I would rather people ask but I don’t think the girl was a jerk per se? It’s not deep so if I were the coworkers I would laugh about it honestly
For that first story, don't dish it out if you can't take it! She needed to learn that what she was doing wasn't ok. That being said, as someone who is also 5'9, 115lbs is seriously under weight. I would be concerned about her health and nutrition but she's an adult and I'm sure she can take care of herself.
For story 2, what a jackass! She's your girlfriend, not the help!
The story with the missing fingers... 😂😂😂
Chunky can be used as a compliment, the intent matters so much more than the word.
on the 2nd story i understand why the girlfriend upset
it seems like he's taking advantage of her cooking abilities for the sake of saving money and he's not doing ANY of the cooking for her and he's not making as much effort to make her happy as she is for him i feel bad for her because of it but i do understand where he's coming from too considering that it's cheaper to cook at home than it is to go to a restaurant and he is trying to save money i don't understand why he wouldn't go to a restaurant or surprise her with his doing the home cooked meal for an anniversary
anniversaries happens once a year it doesn't hurt to go out for that and birthdays
The first story is the epitome of “don’t start something and there won’t be something.” Don’t give that energy if you can’t take it back.
The first story - I’ve been fat shamed and skinny shamed . What hurt more was when my own family told me I was too skinny when I lost weight. I worked hard for it. Now, I’m trying to get back to how I was . Why? Cause I felt good about myself . Words hurt.
Getting married within four months of knowing the guy-
Wtheck is this Cinderella?
At least still better than Anna, marry the guy you met last night 😂
Well my parents dated for 3 weeks online and the first day they met my dad proposed. Around 18 years later they are still together
I met a guy a year ago. He was cool and funny and sweet until he ghosted me. I then found out he was cheating on his fiancé with me (wife now). I'm sad for his wife (if i could tell her i would), but at the same time, glad I am not her.
Life is like that, for some people leap of faith works. But for some don't
@@snowwilliams5871 well they actually didn’t get married quick. Kristoff didn’t even propose until the second movie. You do have a valid point though. Disney movies tend to have the “marry quick” philosophy. Especially the older ones.
The person who lost their fingers story,
Ask stupid questions, get stupid answers
For the second story I would say maybe eat at home but take your turn cooking even if it's just soup or something. Then take her out dancing or to the movies or whatever you come up with. Romance her a little
You know, as a mother of 2 kids, when people call you skinny and give advise about how to gain weight, what to eat all the time... it's literally bullying... i m fed up hearing everyone's advises...😕
wow that second guy... wth
story 1: bullying is bullying regardless of size or colour. Document everything and go to HR and file a report.
We need more true crimes stories from u kyutie!!
People believe that because being slim is a common beauty standard, that slim people don’t have problems too. Like guys.. Come on, guess what? They’re people too!🙄
I was called skinny Minnie as a child. 6 days and night a week healthy meals, never eat greasy meals. One night a week is either pizza night, or red rooster or kfc or fish & chips. Mum make sure we are healthy and well-fed. As a teen, same healthy meals but she let us go moderate on food such as soft drinks, chocolate and fast food. But if we are sick then we learn our lesson not to grog on fast food every day. Hence I’m so slim. I lost puppy fat in my face and my fat melted off (I’m not overweight nor obese, just average size for short person) I lost weight from exercise routine and sleep routine. Then I had a job, I was too lean and no weight gain for years. I didn’t laze around, I keep up my cleanliness, food intake (I love chocolate but learn not to overeat too much or I’ll be sick) and exercise as much as I could because I was that bored. But my family on my Dad’s side keep commenting on how skinny I look and ask when I’m going to put on weight every time I visited. Mum and Dad never comment on my weight ever but Mum get concerned sometimes, she ask if I eat anything and I said yes. She sometimes feed me a big plate to see if I actually eat it all. To her surprise, I clean the plate off with no problem. I’ve learn I have high metabolism. It was a ongoing criticism about my body. Now I’m in my 30’s, I gained weight since 2020. It was alcohol that make me gain weight quicker. If I quit alcohol I’m worried anyone would tell me I have eating disorders. I don’t. I miss fitting into my old clothes 😢
Don’t listen to anyone who say you’re too skinny. It’s your body. Don’t give up on whatever you’re doing or you’ll regret that you couldn’t lose weight in your 30’s or 40’s. Fact is as you get to certain age, it’s harder to lose weight or gain muscle. If you keep up your everyday life, you’ll be in good health. Oh, don’t overdo yourself with sugary drinks, or make you feel sluggish and can’t be bother doing anything around the house or exercise. Don’t listen to negative people!!!
I have been called skinny so many times and I hate it. One of my friends has had to suffer the same. Her best friend often tells her to eat more and gain some weight. She was telling me this and then said, "She doesn't have to hear any comments about her weight because there's so many elephants in the school like her".
i know someone who lost their pinky. everytime they tell a different story on how they lost it. i feel like they need to create a biography titled "how i lost my pinky" then start each chapter with one of the tall tells. was definitely a fun guy.
The skinny stuff it's not just about body shaming. People have names, you should use them, it's disrespectful to rename people, specially at a workplace.
I almost cried on the first one. I myself have struggled with the same my entire life. I’m not even 100 pounds and people think it is complimenting to say I’m so thin. It’s just as bad for us really skinny men and women who genetically can’t gain weight no matter what we try to do. I get the “oh you’ve got it easy, you can eat anything you want” and the “you’re not even a woman if you’re that small.” That hurts ya know? We have put a good amount of stop so far towards fat shaming, yet no one considers skinny shamming to be a thing.
First story: Look for another job.
And a compliment is in the intention. Nothing is a compliment if you keep using it as a bat after they tell you to stop.
The guy with 2 fingers is absolutely not the bad guy there. I had an injury that left me in a wheelchair for months, and got so fed up with people asking that I just started telling people a dumb story that I fought bears doing something heroic. Absolutely worth the reactions
I snatched my iPad when I got the notification faster than a bullet train.
nah not the girl being upset that she was called chunky, like gurl, what about op's feelings? you never cared about what she feels when you called her skinny and toothpick but you have the audacity to be upset about it.
For that first story,
The definition of body shaming is, “the action or practice of mocking or stigmatizing someone by making critical comments about the shape, size, or appearance of their body.” Calling someone skinny, or calling them names like twig or toothpick is a form of body shaming. It is just as bad as calling someone fat, or calling them chunky or overweight or something that insults the way their body looks. OP had all the right in commenting back, it’s called self defense against comments with another comment that is equally as upsetting. I hate being called skinny and small because I feel I’m not big enough, just like how my friend doesn’t like being called big or huge because she believes she needs to be smaller. It can hurt just as much and can have the same effect either way.
I would do the same, and frankly I encourage others to as well if asking politely and trying to stop the situation calmly and collectively isn’t working. Theirs no shame in snapping back, especially when something had been going on for long periods of time for no reason, defend yourself and those around you if asking nicely isn’t enough.
It is hurt as being called fat as it is being called skinny, people need to get that in their brain... being called SKINNY isnt a complement, it is still bodyshaming and an insult like forcing someone to eat even though your body cant get fatter (like me, even tho I ate a lot lot, I am still skinny)
In that first story, OP told her repeatedly to stop and she didn't so when OP fires back, she gets upset. That's not how it works. If you don't want people commenting on your weight, don't comment on theirs. Simple as that. If OP hadn't told her to stop or if immediately after the first time the co-worker called her slim/toothpick, she fired back with chunky I would say she was in the wrong because maybe the co-worker didn't realize that it bugged OP so much. But because she told her to stop repeatedly, OP is 100% right to fire back and maybe now the co-worker will learn not to call her slim/toothpick and hopefully won't be commenting on anyone else's weight either. I am overweight and I can't even imagine calling someone slim or toothpick, just like I can't even imagine calling someone chunky or fat. People should not be defined by their weight because everyone is so much more than that. And just like some heavier people have issues with the way their body looks, some skinnier people also have issues with the way their body looks. You never know someone's story and what you can trigger in someone by pointing out their weight regardless of whether it's skinny or fat. I have been told countless times since I was 15 (I am now almost 30) that I would look better if I just exercised and ate less and that I looked better before I gained weight. What a lot of people don't know is that I have tried it all. I've exercised. I've dieted. I've eaten less. Nothing has worked. I just kind of have to embrace it and every time I think that I am okay and have accepted it, someone will say something to me and I'll end up feeling horrible after it. On the flip side of that I have friends that would eat almost any and everything (even unhealthy junk food) in hopes that they would be able to gain weight and it just didn't work. No matter what they ate, they couldn't gain weight and they too would feel bad when people pointed it out even if it was a comment like "I really wish I was like you. I wish I could eat everything and not gain weight." It seems like a compliment, but it really bugged them. Point is, people's bodies are different and that's okay. But when people point it out, that person could end up in a downward spiral and it can cause irreparable damage. It doesn't matter whether they're skinny, healthy weight, overweight or obese. Feeling like your body just doesn't look good enough is something that is not limited to overweight and obese people. Just remember that everyone is more than just their weight.
Early once againnnn these videos are great for my ADHD they’re so easy to sit through and pay attention to tbh
Last story, $10,000 in tips?!?! On what planet?!?!
being called skinny is only a compliment if the person is saying it as a compliment. the over-weight coworker is not saying it as one and cannot cry if OP replies maliciously 😒
I heard the first story on the Two Hot Takes podcast on the episode of work. It was so funny the commentary on their episode. Ellen is so right, rhe nerve to bully someone and u get that back and wanna act the victim. What? Smh
I used to be very skinny in small town south Africa where being thin was not seen as attractive being called slim is nOt a compliment
I'm really tiny and I have trouble gaining weight, and it's a really sensitive subject for me. I had a friend that started calling me 'soapy stick' because in her words 'I had a bubbly personality and I was really skinny, so it made sense and it was funny' it hurt my feelings but I didn't say anything because she made it seem like a complement and I didn't want to seem ungrateful. I thought we were friends but she stopped talking to me out of nowhere and I've realized that she was just my best friends friend that would only hangout with me coz we were hanging out with my best friend. I still think about it years later but at least her nickname for me didn't stick because no one else calls me that. Still hurts though. 😔
its not a compliment if the person you are talking to has already told you REPEATEDLY that they don't like it.
1. NTA, body shaming is body shaming whether it's done to a fat or skinny person. Also, she (not OP) was literally harassing her probably to make herself feel better because she has a low self esteem. If you can't handle your own medicine don't force it down others' throats.
2. YTA, it's a date night, it's not supposed to be just about your happiness! It's suppose to be fun for BOTH of you! She's not a fucking servant, she's your GIRLFRIEND! She should find someone who's gonna pay attention and make an effort.
3. NTA, that was funny!
4. NTA, it was her decision not OPs.
The first girl should be like "And you need to stop eating" lol
I knew 2 people who both were very slender. They weren't related and didn't even know each other. Both of them were as sick of body jokes as I was. I am overweight, it's a lifelong disability. The woman had been my childhood bestie, she passed away in her late 40's. The man moved to another state. Thanks to these 2 friends I learned that being super thin is as bad as being the opposite.
I don't think that the woman who called her slim and and toothpick isn't bullying.
It basically is!
But I can agree that being called fat is TOTALLY different!
Of course, being called anorexic and a skeleton and a stick is really bad too!
She needs to go to HR because it’s against regulations for a company employee to discriminate against an employee based on their weight. She needs to get a lawyer and take the company to court plus the management is also at fault for allowing this to escalate and not doing employee training etc
She saw the post 🤣💔
I feel like if you believe something like that you are stupid. It’s very obvious that “I cut them off with a plastic knife” is a joke. Seems like a difficult place to work honestly, disarming tension with humour is one of the best coping mechanisms it doesn’t shame anyone but also distracts from the uncomfortable situation
2nd Story : It's actually true... whenever you make an exotic dish or something, till the time it is cooked and served, u don't feel like eating it anymore... this happens with me also.... i just feel so full of all the taste and smell of it.
1:27
Me. This is me. Right here. I really want to gain weight. I’m 18 and only 84-85 pounds. I seriously hate it and don’t think it’s good for my health that I’m that skinny. But gaining weight IS NOT easy, at least for me. To be fair though, I don’t know much about gaining weight. I’m just trying to eat more
Have you discussed this with your doctor(s)? Have any doctors thoroughly examined your thyroid? Sometimes thyroid problems-or other gland malfunctions-can mess up someone’s metabolism. If your glands and hormones are fine, replacing water with soda and juice might help. My doctor says that drinking those causes people to gain weight. Our bodies don’t seem to recognize that drinks can have calories. So you can increase your caloric intake without decreasing your appetite. That said, it’s probably better to consult with an endocrinologist, nutritionist, or other doctor before making that change.
No 1, skinny should have a talk to the manager and say what the Chunky said is a form of bullying and want this dealt with as I have asked her several times to stop.
See that managers response, if he refuses to take it up with Chunky take note. Even threaten to quit your job or maybe talk to a EAP person.( like a union) as this is a serious issue. If hasn't been sorted in a week go further above the manager. It is not on to let people do this. Then if you end up getting fired you have proof and can get him for unfair dismissal.
The second story, is why i always feel bad for women dating men. The guys will always find a way to make them feel lesser.
Pretty sexist statement there.
"Chunky" is acting like a high school mean girl. Why is she bringing up anyone's weight at all, much less at the workplace?
Thin shaming is just as insulting and unacceptable as fat shaming.
My wife and i eat out 3-4 times every week and get leftovers from almost every place we eat. I decided that I'd rather do this than have her cook since she doesn't especially like to cook. It costs more but it's worth it.
How is being called a "toothpick" and repeatedly made derogatory comments about your low weight a compliment? I was unlucky enough to have booth name calling since when I was around 12 to 16 I was extra chunky then went to borderline anorexic for a year since I was 44lb underweight (my weight should have been 143lbs at that time for me to function normally) and in both cases I was extremely body shamed which today at 22 is s causing me a severe body dysmorphia which either causes me to over eat "coz I'm too thin again" or starve myself for days "coz I look chunky again". :') Shit ain't fun and if they aren't in danger because of the fat level on their body just don't fucking speak up and keep it to yourself coz a small comment can cause a huge mental dent in someone especially if they hear it on repeat.
I was 19 when I got married 50 years ago. Most of my friends were married before me. Todays generation is not mature enough to marry at 19.
@Jacqueline Hart Not everyone is fortunate to find someone before 19 years old and marry them. Some of us didn’t grow up in places where we grew up knowing our neighbors or friends for most of our lives. It seems unrealistic that everyone will find their life partner at an early age or before 19 years old. It might be due to some level of maturity but also financial reasons, personal goals/dreams, personal issues/struggles and so much more. I’m glad certain things in life worked out for you at a young age, yet assuming others reasons isn’t fair because life is different than it was 50 years ago. Especially the financial system. Not trying to start a fight just giving a different perspective 👍May you have a great day ☀️
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I typed a reply and it disappeared before I finished. I hope this one doesn't. I agree with you but I would like to say that it isn't always a good idea to get married so young. I worked in a Law Firm for approx. 30 years and saw Divorce on a daily basis. I believe that young people should work on their career or education before getting married. It is always good to have that security under your belt when you get married.
@@jacquelinehart5334 Completely Agree 👍
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Ok that girl that broke up with her fiancé because she found out she wouldn’t be spoiled rich anymore….Girl how do you think most people in society live? 😂
i would like to say, the guy that didn't appreciate his girlfriend, should've tried to help. it's implied that she's doing all the work. I think things would've been way way better if he tried to help her. Like how romantic would it be if you and your SO made a meal together(especially for special occasions)
she is right and I bet they won't call her skinny anymore .
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For the first story people just don't understand the being called slim in a mean way is just as hurtful as being fat
OML I HAVENT SEEN YOU IN YEARS LIKE 5 YEARS
As for the first story--what is sauce for the gander is also sauce for the goose. You get what you give; if 'chunky' doesn't like what 'slim' is saying, maybe she should watch her OWN mouth.
I'm under weight do to my medical condition. So far no one has said anything since I can't work, and don't get out much. I need to gain weight to increases my chance of being cleared for a life changing surgery, but it's so hard. My diet is so restrictive. Normally healthy foods like avocado, or whole wheat bread is bad for me. Skinny isn't always healthy.
The GF kind of "fed into" the problem (unintentionally). She should have co-opted his help in food prep in the kitchen, so he'd have a better idea of how long everything took. He's clueless. "Anniversary dinner? Sure. You'll be doing all the food prep then; and the clean up after". I bet he'd change his tune about eating out.
As a bigger girl, Op is not in the wrong. (In the first story) Don't dish out what you can't take🤦🏾♀️
"private chef" gf needs to break up with dude expeditiously, ngl
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bye wtf is the two fingers story🤣 bruh. somebody believed the plastic knife?? the floss??😭
Dude in the 3rd story is simply insecure, just doesn't wanna admit it lol
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The first girl is not in the wrong
i'm on the OP's side in the first story. don't dish out what you can't take.
I am 19 my fiance are also we are planning to marry soon, I’m almost 8 months pregnant with a planned baby girl we are so happy and prepared even with one income of 14/hour ❤ we aren’t struggling one bit and life is great right now we have 500 saved for baby even though we have everything we need already
For the second story--maybe HE should learn to cook, then. See how HE likes slaving over a hot stove instead of getting to enjoy his meal.
The second one I was on the guys side till the end I can understand your girlfriend can figure out how to cook something and make taste better so you ended making cook and didn’t realize it upset and that I can understand but the moment you found out it upset her and you still wanted her to cook is the moment you became wrong
Dude clearly you dont know how much time and energy and effort it takes to cook and having to do that every day is so exhausting ESPECIALLY when its elaborate meals like he wants. And then on top of that instead of going out to do something nice for their anniversary he yet again wanted her to cook for him?? How can that be in the realm of ok?
@@princessofhell4639 ok on the guys side is the wrong choice of words more I could see where he was coming from and can see myself doing something similar (although probably not on our anniversary but similar) so I don't think he was totally in the wrong of course not completely right either but not completely wrong until of course he found out it upset her and kept pushing then he is 100% in the wrong no question.
Personally I wouldn’t ask why anyone didn’t have certain fingers or what happened. It’s very obviously a question you keep in your head
love this video but just realized she's only wearing one false lash lol
Her subscribers is stuck on 3Million for YEARS lol. Literally nothing changed since the day I found this channel lol. Nice to be back here
For the 3rd story, i personally think that the person was wrong bc ppl aren’t going to know that it’s rude, i mean i wouldn’t at least, id just assume u were born like that. But if it was really that upsetting it’s THEIR CHOICE to say or not say what happened. You dont have to say it bro, i feel like making up lies was a silly thing to do to ppl that you just met because now they’re gonna think ur just a liar. But i would’ve laughed and there isn’t any reason to argue about it.
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