The Cost of True Love: A Conversation between Cynthia Bourgeault and Ilia Delio

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  • @Trissa.33
    @Trissa.33 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you so much for this deeply intelligent conversation. I appreciated the delving into the possibilities of experience driven by human love (especially when there is also a commitment to walking the path of Christ and celibacy). My understanding of human love is that it can bring much suffering; the human heart and the human condition can be very messy! In my experience of the mystical, Divine Love itself is not an energy of suffering but of purity. In the direct experience of non-duality, Divine Love is unspeakable and indescribable other than through tears streaming at the utter beauty. This conversation helped me piece together a gap in my understanding I've had for many years; my own insights throughout it popping through like jigsaw pieces. Yes, Thank you Cynthia and Ilia.

  • @steeltowngirl4626
    @steeltowngirl4626 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Cynthia and Ilia. You are both prophets in my book. Hugs.

  • @B4-1light
    @B4-1light 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you so much for sharing this!

  • @nohatarek6153
    @nohatarek6153 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This video is SO BEAUTIFUL ♥ I'm an agnostic-spiritualist-Muslim, so I had to put all the words of Christ & trinity & whatever aside... but the content is so pure that it transcends all organized religions. It is hard for me yet to find the path of celibacy, although I know that I need it, because romantic involvement with men has always brought me so much suffering. Sometimes, when I'm in the state of ecstatic hypomania/mania, my consciousness heightens & I'm able to perceive/feel/know the cosmos/god, embrace It & be embraced by It in indescribably ecstatic love, that I don't seek out the love of other humans (men). But most of the type in my usual state of anxiety with life affairs, responsibilities, & the daily boring routine of life, I cannot have this heightened level of consciousness, & I'm only on the lower state of suffering egoistically in seeking the love of men.

  • @ralphstarling6707
    @ralphstarling6707 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful!

  • @katkat2340
    @katkat2340 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    If they didn’t understand his respect for who he was , they could not truly understand his work.

  • @SandyS.787
    @SandyS.787 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "I love you" and unpacking this phrase seems to be the basis of this conversation. I am very drawn to the unpacking, but I see that the definition of "love" is the root. The broad range of meanings for "love" might be an entire video unto itself, of course, without reference to Teilhard. I would appreciate, however, careful use of the words "celibacy" and "abstinence." They are too often used interchangeably, even by these erudite women. "Chastity" might also come in. Please post more of these conversations.

  • @phoenixkennedy5927
    @phoenixkennedy5927 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pns p. 189 “bliss awaits those who can possibly make it through the tragedy of what has happened to Christ in the Church.”
    Ws p. 64 “As I now see it Christianity has perpetuated a shortsighted view of Christ and, consequently, a shortsighted view of the rest of us. Christ’s passage was the revelation of the passage of every human being, and any misreading of him is a misreading of the whole of humanity. Investigating Christ’s human experiences in terms of consciousness or self opens up a whole new dimension of his Truth and revelation, and not only his, but our own and that of the whole of creation.”
    Rc p. 282 “The mind can find no definitive satisfaction or fulfillment with mere concepts and hearsay. What man is seeking is the living experiential reality of the Truth, his own immediate experience of this truth. Until he does, he will go right on questioning and being dissatisfied. Even if man knew the truth, he could never be fulfilled by merely ‘believing’ it. He is only fulfilled by experientially living it - knowing it firsthand.”
    Ws p. 107 “To say that Christ’s self or consciousness was eternal gives an entirely different picture and meaning to Christ than if we say his self or consciousness was not eternal…I think the West will come upon its own set of problems when it faces the impermanence of Christ’s self or consciousness, but, at the same time, this will reveal an entirely new dimension of Christ’s revelation - of this I am certain.”
    Ws p. 156 “But who can understand death and resurrection coming after a life of union and oneness with God? Who can understand the true nature of this death and what the resurrection reveals of Christ’s divine nature? Because of this mystery I regard Christianity as the most difficult and mystical of all religions; Christ is the most unbelievable and unknown Truth there is - and the most difficult of all Truths.”
    Rc p. 78 “Sometimes the impression is given that Christianity has a monopoly on forgiveness, salvation, savior, eternal life, God’s Spirit, grace, and so on, when, in fact, Christianity took all this straight from Judaism! The revelation of ‘Christ’ had nothing to do with any of this and changed none of it.”
    Rc p. 83 “Basically, there is no such thing as ‘Christian mysticism’ because Christianity - transformation into Christ - is the essence of mysticism.”
    Rc p. 140 “To think the anthropomorphic biblical interpretation of God ‘generating’ or ‘begetting’ an Uncreated ‘Son’ could have justified a transition in the Church’s whole understanding of the Trinity and Christ, can only be put down as the most flagrant wrong turn in the entire history of Christianity.”
    Rc p. 144 “There has to be God (Logos) before there is any incarnation of the Logos - before there is any Christ and before there is the created man Jesus. No question, the Creed must be totally restated, Christians today are not the semi-polytheists of yesterday.”
    Rc p. 157 “To my knowledge, however, the Greeks never agreed hypostasis meant persona - and indeed it does not. In time, however, in the West at least, hypostasis and person were used as synonymous terms. So due to this error, there occurred another switch from the original hypostasis to person - a monumental wrong turn as regards a true understanding of the Trinity and Christ.”
    Rc p. 170 “Like the fathers, Christians would be horrified to think they were polytheists or believed in three gods. But this is why the Trinity is kept at a distance, declared a ‘mystery’ incapable of the human mind to grasp. This is also why the Trinity means relatively nothing to the average Christian and plays no part in his spiritual life.”
    Rc p. 201 “Sometimes we wonder how Western civilization ever became so self-oriented compared to other civilizations that were more oriented to the benefit of everyone over their individual selves. Well, who invented the individual and particular ‘person’ or self, and who gave it ontological priority over everyman’s common human nature? Christianity!”
    Rc p. 242 “What few people realize, however, is that the official Church or Christian language is totally premised on this use of idioms instead of on the truth of Christ.”
    Rc p. 248 “No question, the C of P is the most deceiving ruse in all of Christian history a ruse responsible for totally wrong views of Christ, the Trinity and the man Jesus.”
    Rc p. 249 “Yet the more divine one makes the Logos’ human nature, the more Christ fades from the picture and the more Christianity deteriorates to a Jesus-cult.”
    Rc p. 257 “But who knows what people think they are praying to or worshiping? We can probably say for certain they are not praying to the dual natures of Christ!”
    Rc p. 279 “Eliminate the term ‘person’, and how is Christ to be envisioned as a single being? Without theology’s absolute dependence on person as an individual being, its Christologies would go down like a row of dominoes.”
    Rc p. 291 “this is exactly what the Incarnation is telling us: not only is mankind not that bad, but rather, it is of greatest worth to God.”
    Rc p. 300 “Even the best of theologians are reluctant to admit any radical existential change in human nature - much less an ontological change. Instead, they assure us everyone will go on just the same - only better, of course.”
    Rc p. 318 “The day Christianity lost this understanding of deification as the way man is saved, is the day it lost Christ.”
    Rc p. 323 “That down the road, Christianity was turned into the narrow, naïve and childish view we have today - i.e., only the man Jesus is Christ, only Jesus could ever be eternally one with God - is the inevitable loss of the whole revelation of the Incarnation, and, consequently, of Christ and Christianity…Christianity’s exclusive, boxed-in view of Jesus and Christ, not only aborts man’s spiritual journey, but will be its own undoing - why? Simply because it is not the Truth of ‘Christ’.”
    Rc p. 335 “To say Christian theology is ‘complicated’ is the understatement of all time. It is an unadulterated mess. It so defies common logic as to require man to forfeit his intellectual integrity in order to ‘believe’.”
    Rc p. 465 “What is unfortunate, however, is those who write the history of the early development of Christian thought and doctrine, consistently rely on the present-day Aristotelian rendition of it. It could be said this is a deliberate attempt to eliminate any possible ‘Platonic’ understanding of Christ as a universal in order to make Christ solely one particular man - Jesus, of course.”
    Rc p. 486 “Loss of self is the very foundation of Christianity.”
    Ecc p. 82 “The primary purpose of my writing, however, was less the subject of no-self than to put into the field of Mystical Theology a whole stage of the spiritual journey presently missing.”

  • @herewegokids7
    @herewegokids7 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay whatcha got for me Cindy...

  • @denisjackson4809
    @denisjackson4809 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can't understand why these two 'visionaries' did not seem to realise we can't hear the questioners !

  • @crossthered
    @crossthered 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    sounds like neither one of them loved for real... ask Jesus & Mary Magdalene, they certainly knew something about love and attraction into their mysterious intimacy. material NEVER contradicts spiritual. never.

  • @lizburke4303
    @lizburke4303 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ALthough I love Cynthia Bourgeault and have read many of her books; this talk just doesn't resonate. Love must include suffering? Check that beLIEf at the door, ladies. It's simply not so.

    • @elizabethecarlisle1045
      @elizabethecarlisle1045 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The individual who's never experienced the abject suffering, misery and sorrow of losing a loved one, having them ripped from you, all there is to say, really, is that it's coming.

    • @slporter722
      @slporter722 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      liz burke life is suffering...there must be suffering to evolve our being. Therefore love will experience suffering but love endures all.

    • @herewegokids7
      @herewegokids7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You cant love without suffering.

    • @amanitamuscaria7500
      @amanitamuscaria7500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You never lost someone you love? Wow. You will.

    • @anxiousbeachbums
      @anxiousbeachbums 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Seems to me that human love will always suffer as, at some point, we'll undoubtedly need to surrender a part of us that we really don't want to let go. Divine love is not selfish and only "gives" so it never knows surrender/suffering. Some may say the Father suffered when he gave up Christ as a sacrifice but I'd say this gift was out of the Father's purest love in consideration only of you and I and not Himself (so personal suffering was nonexistent).