Hello I am sorry to here about your daughter it does get easier my brother died with in six months he went to a top hospital here in the UK time ran out he had a rare disorder called pml its very rare just remember all the loverly memories that can not be taken away from you and your husband try talking to her every morning and night and talk to her picture you keep cloce to your heartx
Death is the scarriest and saddest thing to talk about but we should always be ready for that. Meanwhile we must enjoy our life coz there are many things that we should be happy and thankful about.
I'm so sorry to hear that I'm 14 and in not ready when I have to go through times like you are right now it's scary and I dont want to be lonely dying is scary I'm scared if I could die anytime and what makes it sad is knowing that you will make your love one's sad but it must happen and its very very depressing,stressful, and sad I hope you get feeling better but it's truly a scare that can never be removed
warfare 1212 Sadness & Being scared is a part of it. But if you accept Jesus Christ, as our Lord and Savior, you will then accept that there is life beyond this world which is better, happier. Keep the faith & enjoy life on earth at the fullest!
When she said “ready to be presented to the family” and how beautiful the Urn looked, I broke out crying, I can’t imagine how someone must feel, to have once a human being they loved, in person, now inside a little jar. It’s so, no words. God bless all
My mom just passed on the 30th, also her birthday and wedding anniversary. Her wish was to be cremated, and my dad honored her wish. I wasn't in agreement because I believe our body deserves to rest underground. But that's what my dad did, and it's done. I miss my mom so much, and I believe that it was just a body that was cremated, because her soul is alive in heaven. Rest in peace mom.
a body isn't "resting" anymore as a body than it is as ash, the person is dead, it's an inanimate object at that point, there is no function, it's just keeping the body wastes more land, money and space than ashes.
@@sandraocallaghan3339 I can't even begin to imagine your pain. But you are being sent lots of love and well wishes from a stranger in Corpus Christi, Tx.
sweet. Very popular these days. Why can't we bury our dead in the backyard and plant a tree over them ? would make more sense. A shallow grave makes decomposition go faster....
my papa passed away recently, he was cremated a couple weeks ago, its so difficult to think that the body of the papa i loved for 15 years no longer exists and is just now one with the earth, love you so much papa, fly high🥰😇
My father passed on 10/10/22 God Rest his soul he said he was tired😔My sister is pregnant and wants to whiteness his cremation.i am my sister's keeper this video is helping me Get Ready.Because My Father Is Going To Be with My Heavenly Father The Right way😇😇
@@georgealderson4424 it would be torture and constant anxiety for some. For some it will be total bliss and they would appreciate the time they have and make the most of it. For some, they would kill themselves just so they can feel they have some control. Ignorance is bliss as they say. It's best we are ignorant until it is to late.
@@georgealderson4424 We always should. Life can go by fast and end suddenly. It is beautiful yet full of suffering. Death is also a beautiful thing, that should be appreciated. Becasue living forever would be absolutely terrible. You cant truly appreciate something that lasts forever.
I watched a cremation video on TH-cam where the people were brought in o the crematory in large cardboard boxes. The people themselves were in thick plastic bags and put in the furnace in the bags. There were at least 2 comments asking what did they do with caskets, but in this video the caskets were burned with the person inside of them. I guess it depends on the crematory.
Whenever someone in my family dies, we get the relatives together for a couple days around the funeral. During that time we go to church, have dinners out at nice restaurants, and go on lots of walks in the woods. It's a nice way to honor our loved one and pay homage to the winds of time.
One thing I want to clear up for anyone who has been wondering, you DO NOT have to have a casket encasing the body in order for it to be cremated. It just needs to be encased in something. I've known for larger scale crematories that cremate between 40-50 corpses per day to just use duct tape and plastic sheeting or trash bags then place the corpse into a cardboard box before being chunked into the cremator to make the process cheaper and faster before the sifting process etc Which is why I recommend anyone interested in being cremated to talk to morticians that work at smaller or family owned crematories or funeral homes where cremation is done that way there's more respect given to the deceased and you're less likely to be given the wrong ashes as larger facilities place the remains in identical boxes.
@@omarshinwari7823 nah you shut up. The coffin and the ashes are always mixed, in one component dumbass. Let her have her fathers memories in loving peace and kindness.
Freshman in my high school just committed suicide a few days ago and today she was cremated it’s just so weird to think this happened to her that she was just burned into ashes yet it feels like she was just here a few seconds ago. She will be missed #rip
We have special made coffins for cremation here in Europe. 🙂 And using cardboard box is illegal.. So. And the coffins dont cost more than the actual funeral.
I agree with you nobody cares if you died well maybe if you have something to leave them but flowers and all that crap is a waste of money I done told my family I don't want anything fancy just burn me that's it my soul has already left so there's nothing there
I knew of a person that insisted on being cremated in his 24,000.00 casket. I think that was sickening as he could have donated that money to charity and been cremated in a 500.00 cardboard cremation casket designed for the purpose.
My dad was cremated today and Im beyond lost for words. He had a regular funeral service as well so im glad i got to see him and get his ashes. I never understood the cremation process but now i know. Thank you🙏
@@abbymarie6022 hi Abby, I’m so sorry to hear you lost your dad 💔 I was scared to go to my dads funeral too. My sister was really scared she wouldn’t even go in the funeral without me so I gathered the courage to go in there just for her. Just know that everything will be okay in the end and I hope when you get your dads ashes, your dad is watching over you and you will have loved ones surrounded by you. It’s really heartbreaking knowing that they’re not here with us anymore but I know that they’re up there watching over us. You are very strong 💪 hope your heart heals soon 🤍
My cousin is about to be cremated, he died a hero trying to save a friend in dangerous currents, he was only 20 years old and didn’t even get to experience his full life, he just had a baby that turned one month old 3 days after he passed. He was the very first grand child and nephew, he was very special to my uncles and mom because they were finally an uncle or auntie, he had a little brother which is 12 and a little sister that was 10 years old. Life is tough. RIP Gabriel
@@mistylover7398 kinda disrespectful to say, i wouldn’t say he killed himself, his intention was to save a friend, he risked his life to try to save his friend, just a friend, very kind hearted person
My mom was cremated yesterday. I kind of wish I’d been there. Learning about the process helps my brain accept that it’s not her anymore, it’s just her body. She’s at home with the Lord 😊❤
My friends mother was buried in a willow casket made by a family friend. She arrived in the back of a van and the casket was brought to the burial site followed by a brass band. She was buried in a field and a tree was planted at the head of the grave. After, all her belongings were gathered and everybody took somethonf away with them. Everybody wore colourful clothes. It was the most amazing funeral I've ever been to. No priest, no tears, no bank busting expenses. That's how I'm going out.
A container is usually required for cremation, even if it's just a cardboard box. If you don't want to purchase a casket, you can often rent one from the funeral home, the cardboard box will be placed into it for the viewing, then removed & cremated w/the body.
James, Stacey, and Kristi Crutchfield Jr I think the cremation services offered by funeral homes are a flat rate, that includes the burning of the coffin. They would have to dispose of them somehow, not like they are going to get used twice. they are probably considered biohazard/medical waste considering what they are used for, & that kind of stuff isn't cheap to get rid of either.
My mother was cremated. I was there when she unexpectedly passed. I watched this not too long after she passed. Just to k ow what she went through. I just about couldn't get through this video. It just blows my mind she is gone. Love u forever momma. Thank you for posting this video though, for explaining to me what my mother went through for her wishes. I have to admit though when it showed the casket igniting I just about lost it completely. But it is good to know what happens.
Last year 2019 my mom who had cancer she chose to be cremated. She got what was planned. Passed away this March 2020 and I really really miss her. My family and I might plan a trip where my mom loved to enjoy we will spread her ashes. Love you a lot mom!!
So sad I wasn't able to see my Dad for the last time since he was living in a different country. We watched his live funeral services and it just finished. He's being cremated at the moment. RIP Dad 🙏 To everyone who still has both parents, never ever waste any moment with them. Show them and make them feel how much you love and care for them. And to everyone who've lost their loved ones this year, my heart goes to you. Praying for everyone's safety wherever you are in this world. 🙏
mike wright it’s not being a cheap shake if you’re dead 🤔 and who cares about getting a casket (not to mention JUST to burn it at the end) the only way to get one is if you don’t want to be cremated.
When the Vehicle (Body) that has housed your Spirit dies, that Spirit - or Soul- leaves the physical body. Only the shell is left. ❣️ There is *nothing* to fear in regard to death, or the manner in which mortal remains are catered to. The Essence that was *YOU* has already departed. My own preference would probably have been cremation but I feel that my husband would want our bodies to be interred together. That is why the burial plot for the two of us has been selected and paid for. Less hassle for our children to deal with when the time comes. 🌸 I have no idea why this video cropped up in ‘recommended’ haha, but if my thoughts help anyone then that makes me happy. Either way - burial or cremation - we simply have no further use for the *suit of flesh* which has had its day, so to speak. Onwards, and hopefully *Upwards* ....... 🤩 Best wishes everyone!
Ann Winifred Parkes. don't really say I'm a Christian because I fail every freakn day my name says bitches you know but I do believe there was God manifested in a " vehicle" and is the way the truth and the life died for sins and was raised again is was and forever will be the only way.. my boyfriend was murdered and your post helped me after almost two years my shoulders dropped alittle idk what my post means it why I'm even writing it but I just wanted to let you know it was meant for me at this very moment 💔😭
@@sosoprettybitches You don't fail. You're just not perfect like every other human. God allows for venial (or is it menial? I should know that. I grew up going to CCD, I'm Catholic. ) sins. It's those big sins that are the ones that are bad. Sorry for your loss. May your boyfriend RIP. 🙏💔
Very well put! This month my husband died in my arms 22 years ago. My Mother died, it will be 3 years in September. And my older brother died last year 3 days after his 59th birthday. I'm not afraid to die even though I do prefer life. But I believe that we are not bodies with souls, we are souls with bodies.🙏
All the organic material (flesh and casket) will burn and vaporize. What remains is mostly bone, and most of that breaks into small chunks. Any remaining chunks are ground into a sand-like power. A down-side to cremation is that any dental fillings will vaporize as well... adding toxins to the atmosphere. Oh, and the funeral home will remove dental gold from the deceased. No point in wasting it.
The cremation process requires there to be some sort of receptacle in which the deceased can be placed. This is because it is being loaded into a chamber that is already up a very high temperature, which is needed in order for the process to work. It is similar to the way people tend to make sure the oil in a pan is hot before putting anything they wish to cook into it. It is highly likely anyone reaching into such a chamber would receive second degree burns. It would naturally seem a better idea to use cardboard but paper tends to turn more into soot than ash. It is also natural for people to form all sorts of ideas and theories as to what happens during this process as it is usually done away from the public. Viewing the casket can be arranged but because of extreme temperatures I think most crematoriums would disallow the public to be in the vicinity of what is going at the risk of someone getting severely burned (its is such things that large law suits are made of).
Lower chamber is raised to 1750 degrees...body is placed in a cardboard box at minimum, and put into upper chamber...which is room temperature or a little more,but not much...door is lowered,heat is then sent to upper chamber to start cremation process...
I had a good friend that passed away three days before Christmas he lost his battle against pancreatic cancer I never knew he was sick cause he was always happy and patient but when I heard he was in the hospital I thought it was something minor but his wife said it was more serious than that when I got the news that he passed I was stunned it was like a punch in the gut I know a lot of people but very few I called friends and he was one of the few that’s why I attended his memorial service he had it at a crematory chapel and he was cremated that was the second good friend I lost three years before another friend died in her sleep have a massive heart attack I went to her funeral and I cried like a baby at her viewing she was cremated at the same place those two friends are like brothers and sisters to me and they are deeply missed that’s like two layers of my heart gone
Big man 0909 Me neither. But it comes for us all one day. So let's try & make as much peace with that fact as we can. If you want to, you could check out 'THE ORDER OF THE GOOD DEATH', might add a little 'death positivity' to your day, take care :-)
And you don't have to completely at least, repent and believe what Jesus did on the cross for you! Having died for your sins and you will be forgiven and brought into eternal life! There is much more after this life, be reconciled to God! You need Christ!
I lost my mom last may,we had cremated her body at Goodhope cremation ground ,also my dad was cremated 14yrs back it is very heartbreaking to go there again. I can't get over this feeling.
Why would anyone burn an entire (expensive) casket? Most sources I've viewed show the deceased being placed into a 'cremation container' (basically a cardboard coffin). Most mortuaries, however will rent a coffin if a viewing is desired.
Than why do they mention removing casket hardware? The video shows a casket being placed into the crematorium and the voiceover describes what might happen if the casket finish ignites first.
Trust me......the only time they cremate with an actual casket is when there is a family member present to view the deceased going into the retort!!! If there is nobody present to witness, the casket is swapped-out for a cardboard casket, and the original casket is re-sold!! I know this first-hand....it's quite sad. Buyer beware.....if the deceased or family member has opted to purchase a casket, try your best to have someone (perhaps an acquaintance) be present during the beginning of the cremation process.
My father passed away recently in my arms. He was battling pancreatic cancer for 8 months. He was cremated as well but I’m too heartbroken and sad that I can’t push the button to proceed the cremation. I let them do it. It was so heartbreaking to witness death firsthand and then having to watch your own father laying in the casket getting prepared to burn. He was with us for 40 years!
I'm crying I miss my dear friend Robert walker he was cremated his wishes were for his sister to scatter his ashes onto railroad tracks since he loved trains may he rest in peace you will be always in my heart Bob
American Truck simulator driver when I die I want to be cremated and then they put my ashes in a doll that looks like me so my family can still be with me...
Im 14 and lost my dad a month ago and he always wanted to be cremated to we decided exactly that. Just wanted to see how they actually do it. I miss him soo much!!:(
Sorry to hear that. I lost my Mother last month (f*ck Covid!) and miss her so much too. Things will get better though. Keep strong and live your best life. Thats what he would want. Take care.
I’m so sorry for your loss 😪 . I’m currently going through the same thing my father passed away on Monday and was literally cremated this morning . I am so heartbroken 🥺🥺🥺😞😭 and my curiosity made me just look this up and now I am even more hurt . But is his wishes and we honored them . Now I can have a special necklace to keep with me with a piece of him .
why is there a casket at all if it's all going to be burned? The reason: because the mortician wants a much of your money as possible by ripping you off.
Ha, I've heard plenty of stories like this one. There are many articles online discussing how the people at the funeral homes will try to up sell the expensive coffins, services, and grave sites, praying on people's naivety during this difficult time. Do your research before dying.
Raymond Callies People fall for upsales out of guilt. This is why preplanning and discussion is necessary. You may as well just throw the money in if you buy an expensive casket. Not to mention urns etc.
We have special made coffins for cremation here in Europe. 🙂 And using cardboard box is illegal.. So. And the coffins dont cost more than the actual funeral. Its a plain white coffin with decoration on.
Idk why I watched dis cuz it made me remeber my only older brother, Vincent who died last year (2020) on a Sunday on Steptember 6th. and they cremated him. I miss him so much. RIP Vincent, you'r one with the wolfs now.
Look into a Green Burial. Usually you are washed and wrapped in a biodegradable body wrap it does have different colors. Once in the wrap they dig a 2-4 foot deep hole. The you are placed in the ground and buried. Usually you can have a tree buried over you so your nutrients can help it live.
I lost my grandpa in Russia on Monday night. And he chose that he wants to be cremated. I miss him so much! That I watched this video to know what to expect during his process. :(
From most of the cremation videos that I have watched, the bodies are placed in a cardboard box and taped up. Then into the crematory. There is no need for an expensive casket to be purchased or embalming if the deceased is going to be cremated. Some people go through the embalming and the funeral only to have the body cremated later. This is a waste of a lot of money. But if this is the way that the family wants to go, spend all that life insurance money.
I like the cremation I seen where they just put the body directly in the fire with no box then, you just get get the ashes of the body and what they were wearing in the urn.
It varies depending on local laws. A lot of places require the body to be in an individual container, sometimes for health reasons, sometimes to ensure identification, sometimes for moral or superstitious reasons. Cardboard caskets make the most sense in cremation. It takes a lot of fuel and a lot of time for cremation when the body is in a heavy wooden coffin, though counter-intuitively it is easier to manufacture coffins from chipboard/fibreboard/mdf than cardboard - so the funeral director told me - without being morbid I found the whole process fascinating and me and the funeral director had a long talk about how it all works.
Most funeral homes have caskets you can rent for the viewing. You just slide in the cardboard box into the rental. Then you are only paying for, & burning, a cardboard box.
Both my parents were cremated. I guess I knew how this worked but I've always felt great guilt about consigning them to a fiery end. As for me, I'm opting for a green burial. Wrapped in a cotton sheet and buried on my property up north. Perfectly legal in MN. Just need to have the site surveyed and recorded with the county. No embalming so it has to be done within 36 hrs unless you contract with a funeral home for cold storage.
maggots eating body in burial ground is more barbaric. Sometimes stry animals includig dogs dug out the corpse from the ground and feast on it. If you want to enjoy the horrfic spectre then you should visit some islamic country or countryside in your own country. 😮😅😊😢
Impossible, the body has had lots of work done to it, it has been drained of all fluid, the cardiovascular system has been filled with formaldehyde, the eyes, nose, mouth, urethra and anus have been sewed shut, you’re not waking up
I just stumbled upon this video and then realized that the bed i’m lying in is about 200m from this exact crematorium. This may be the strangest coincidence of my life.
It astounds me that a person with talent and a wonderful , unique voice , personality etc , someone who previously could sit down and talk to you can now end up like this.
Susan Koech Well, cremation of dead bodies _is_ the safest and most hygienic method when preventing the spread of dangerous diseases is a major concern. Typhus is one such example of this, Ebola is also.
i lost my cousin on the 10th march this year, we were also best friends, i stayed at his house every weekend ever since i was 2 years old, sadly a seizure took his life away from him the day before i was going to see him, he was only 18. it's my 18th on Saturday and we planned to do so much together the last time i saw him, its upsetting that i can't do it anymore and that I've lost my cousin so young, he got cremated and put in beside his mum that he lost when he was only 18 months old, i'm glad he's not suffering anymore and back in the arms of his mum but i'll forever be sad that he's gone :(
God knows I'm trying not break down I witnessed a cremation front row and center for the very first time in person last Saturday morning as we laid my father to rest to this day that's all I dream about. Not only was I the one who closed my father's casket but me and his wife placed our fingers on the button and pressed it to start the cremation. REST IN HEAVEN DADDY WE LOVE YOU FUCK CANCER !!!
koots I am so sorry fo your loss. I know how it feels to lost a grandma. My grandma passed and I wasn’t around when she died. May her soul Rest In Peace. I hope you will find comfort from this poem as I know I do. Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep. I am in a thousand winds that blow, I am the softly falling snow. I am the gentle showers of rain, I am the fields of ripening grain. I am in the morning hush, I am in the graceful rush Of beautiful birds in circling flight, I am the starshine of the night. I am in the flowers that bloom, I am in a quiet room. I am in the birds that sing, I am in each lovely thing. Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there. I do not die.
My beautiful loving husband passed away on 10/23/20 I MISS HIM SO SO MUCH. We were married for 46 wonderful years. Although I could have gotten a cardboard box I was told for 125.00 that would make me feel guilty. So I chose the padding under the body for 425.00 and did not care that it was burned. For those few moments of being cremated I still wanted him to have the best even if it's burned. He treated me like a queen and so caring. I just had to go that route it was worth it for my hubby miss him so much and forever!
أَيَحۡسَبُ ٱلۡإِنسَٰنُ أَلَّن نَّجۡمَعَ عِظَامَهُۥ Does man think We shall not put his bones back together? بَلَىٰ قَٰدِرِينَ عَلَىٰٓ أَن نُّسَوِّيَ بَنَانَهُۥ In fact, We can reshape his very fingertips. -Sura Al-Qiyamah, Ayah 3&4
I am going to be cremated, besides what does God our Father says Absent from the Body Present with the Lord, so I will be in Heaven Paradise in my New Body, I will not know what is going in in this world down here Amen"!
I, too, have chosen to be cremated. This has become a family 'tradition' if you will, my sister and brother in law choosing direct cremation with no elaborate settings a cardboard box being sufficient as a container. Elaborate graves will all be well forgotten about in 100 years so cremation makes fiscal sense.
I understand my wife was Cremated to. But I just couldn't stand to see her body burn in flames. Before she was cremated I kiss her and some how that her body was still a little bit warm. You know that the heart can be warm Longer than the body .because when you Loves someone the heart takes longer to die. I had love my wife and I'm should she loves me. I just miss her so much.
My sons father was murdered May 16th 2017. He was cremated and my son has a littler ern with his dads ashes in it. I love that my son has a piece of his dad left and not in the ground in California when we moved to AZ
There is no equivalent of Islam in honoring the dead, shrouding him and burying him, and this is from the grace of God upon us. Praise be to God for the blessing of Islam and Muslims.
I grew up in the funeral industry and I have some insights to share: 1. This is why it is so important to talk about your own death and your wishes. Families have a hard time grieving and nobody plans to bury a family member or friend, but if your family doesn’t know what you want, then they end up buying expensive caskets and holding elaborate services when All you wanted was a simple cremation and no viewing. 2. The funeral industry is (mostly) honest and they aren’t looking to rip you off. But they are for-profit companies that look to make budgets, and they will respect whatever wish you have, especially when you want to buy a 20k casket that will be burned in the cremation process. Talking about your after life goals and preferences prevent your family from overdoing the process and keeping them safe. 3. Death is still very taboo in the US, but it shouldn’t be. Funeral directors have a very difficult job. They are salesmen, medical personnel, grief counselors, stylists, and officiants in one job that doesn’t pay a massive sum. But a good funeral director will be honest and transparent with you. The more you know about what you should expect, the more you will realize how transparent they are with you.
So my grandpa passed away on Monday 10/28/2019 at 10:16 a.m and he’s a military, I found out he was gonna be burnt to ashes based on the military rule. I’m gonna be heart broken on November 15th to see him be in a container as ashes, it’s already heart broken without him😭❤️
TH-cam recommended this video to me... about 3 days ago I was talking to my parents about how they would like to be cremated when they die. Freaking big brother man... 🤦🏻♂️ 👁 👁 👂 👂 Government is watching and hearing everything.
My dad passed away a year ago this month. His last request was to not be laid out for a funeral or viewing. He wanted a simple cremation and to be scattered at a later date. When he was cremated, he was shipped unembalmed in a cardboard box labeled for human remains. Once they loaded him into the cremulator and got ready to start, we pushed the button to start his cremation...and that was it (we picked his ashes up days later at the funeral home) though it wasn’t a traditional funeral it is what he wanted after all.
Huge profits for casket. Cremation itself is rather inexpensive so they don't make much on that part. kind of like a restaurant makes its money off drinks and not the food.
You can use a cardboard box actually. Funeral homes usually have special rental caskets that have cardboard liners and a door at the bottom that allows the liner with the body to be slid out. Then that box is what's cremated. Cremating a multi thousand dollar casket is a terrible financial move but the funeral business absolutely will prey on people who don't know better. That's why it's best to research this stuff well before dying.
casey brinegar Why the hell would anybody cremate their loved one in cardboard pieces? Wouldn’t you want somebody in casket instead of CHEAP CARDBOARD that just shows how much you don’t give a shit about them? Also, how do you put a body in cardboard box?
we used cardboard, why spend money u don't have,,,,,,there is no shame, With the drapes u never know , But to have a showing u need to rent one, which is as much as buying,,,,,,,,,,,,u also must go thru the entire process embalming etc, BUT the funeral home some will allow up to 15 people to stay 30 minutes with the body in the cardboard and then to the oven, Its beautiful, They come in the world as natural as they go out, Ask the director when making arrangements also check fees not needed like mileage to pickup refrigeration etc, U can cremate for 800 vs the costs they throw on u, We cut the bill by 2/3 in extras, Or donate to University costs nothing you get them back in 5 months and pay nothing a memorial stone is also put in the walk of life for them, That's what we are doing,
Hiding from realities of life does not make them go away... LOL... I am sitting here getting quite an amusement from all the people being uncomfortable due to the subject of death.
My wife said she’s going to have my ashes put in an hour glass, so that I can keep working when I’m dead
good one. lol
Wat if she dies first
Veronicah Mbithe stuffed and mounted!
That's hilarious and she should totally do it
AllAmericanWiseass Getting worried now, she keeps asking me, does a hard boiled egg take 4 or 5 minutes.
Lost my daughter on May 10th, 2019, she was 29. I had her cremated. I will never get used to her not being here.
Hello I am sorry to here about your daughter it does get easier my brother died with in six months he went to a top hospital here in the UK time ran out he had a rare disorder called pml its very rare just remember all the loverly memories that can not be taken away from you and your husband try talking to her every morning and night and talk to her picture you keep cloce to your heartx
Sorry to hear that my condolence goes out to u
So sad Tracey, condolences to you and your family. X
Tracey Smith so sorry for your lost .
🙏🙏🙏 God rest her soul
Death is the scarriest and saddest thing to talk about but we should always be ready for that. Meanwhile we must enjoy our life coz there are many things that we should be happy and thankful about.
Know Jesus as your savior and you will have no worries!
@@jimwuerl7380
Jesus isn't real, dear child...
Life is really short but we should know why we are here we are here to worship god
Alhamdulillah Iam a Muslim
We don’t do that
My father passed away, and I witnessed his cremation a week ago. So sad.. I miss him so much.. I'm only 20 years old..
I'm so sorry to hear that I'm 14 and in not ready when I have to go through times like you are right now it's scary and I dont want to be lonely dying is scary I'm scared if I could die anytime and what makes it sad is knowing that you will make your love one's sad but it must happen and its very very depressing,stressful, and sad I hope you get feeling better but it's truly a scare that can never be removed
@@warlordartist4966 thabatsu
My condolences.
warfare 1212 Sadness & Being scared is a part of it. But if you accept Jesus Christ, as our Lord and Savior, you will then accept that there is life beyond this world which is better, happier. Keep the faith & enjoy life on earth at the fullest!
@5olace: I'm very sorry for your loss. May your father rest in peace with the Lord and all the Angels and Saints.
When she said “ready to be presented to the family” and how beautiful the Urn looked, I broke out crying, I can’t imagine how someone must feel, to have once a human being they loved, in person, now inside a little jar. It’s so, no words. God bless all
I just had my husband cremated. He was only 36. It is sooooo sad 😢
@@danapitts9794 Condolences for you, ma'am.
The urn looks ugly.
It's a terrible feeling. Lost my dad 3 months ago. It's extremely painful.
@@KS-ec9ib sending love to you xx
My mom just passed on the 30th, also her birthday and wedding anniversary. Her wish was to be cremated, and my dad honored her wish. I wasn't in agreement because I believe our body deserves to rest underground. But that's what my dad did, and it's done. I miss my mom so much, and I believe that it was just a body that was cremated, because her soul is alive in heaven. Rest in peace mom.
a body isn't "resting" anymore as a body than it is as ash, the person is dead, it's an inanimate object at that point, there is no function, it's just keeping the body wastes more land, money and space than ashes.
@@ChristopherGray00 and the body looks Fucking disgusting after a whle, especially when brutally murdered
I feel your pain you aren’t alone just recently lost my mom she was cremated too
@@GatoradeFan23 ikr it looks like concreate or something
Proof 2:53
I needed to watch this, as my daughter was cremated I needed to know/understand the process. RIP Michelle
Rest in peace ❤
My condolences, Ms. O'Callaghan. May she sleep peacefully.
cannondaleman1 thank you for your kindness
@@sandraocallaghan3339 I can't even begin to imagine your pain. But you are being sent lots of love and well wishes from a stranger in Corpus Christi, Tx.
cannondaleman1 🙏
My dad passed away recently and I know he's with God now he has always loved the Lord.
The ashes can be used as fertilizer to plant a new tree. There's my legacy im gonna live for another 200 years as a pine tree :)
j12torts then imagine being cut down
Do you really want to be called Woody j12torts ?
What happens if you're made turned into coffee table and some fat smelly bastard puts his feet up on you?
sweet. Very popular these days. Why can't we bury our dead in the backyard and plant a tree over them ? would make more sense. A shallow grave makes decomposition go faster....
Think how many dogs will piss on you in that time.
my papa passed away recently, he was cremated a couple weeks ago, its so difficult to think that the body of the papa i loved for 15 years no longer exists and is just now one with the earth, love you so much papa, fly high🥰😇
My father passed on 10/10/22 God Rest his soul he said he was tired😔My sister is pregnant and wants to whiteness his cremation.i am my sister's keeper this video is helping me Get Ready.Because My Father Is Going To Be with My Heavenly Father The Right way😇😇
It’s crazy to think that someone can just be taken away from you instantly😫
Sad but true. However what if you knew it was going to happen?
Yep, but it happens, as sad as it is.
@@georgealderson4424 it would be torture and constant anxiety for some. For some it will be total bliss and they would appreciate the time they have and make the most of it. For some, they would kill themselves just so they can feel they have some control. Ignorance is bliss as they say. It's best we are ignorant until it is to late.
@@OleanderASMR I suppose we should always make the best use of our time, whatever and how many options we may have
@@georgealderson4424 We always should. Life can go by fast and end suddenly. It is beautiful yet full of suffering.
Death is also a beautiful thing, that should be appreciated. Becasue living forever would be absolutely terrible.
You cant truly appreciate something that lasts forever.
Didn't know they burned up the casket. I thought the body was just wrapped in a sheet.
I watched a cremation video on TH-cam where the people were brought in o the crematory in large cardboard boxes. The people themselves were in thick plastic bags and put in the furnace in the bags. There were at least 2 comments asking what did they do with caskets, but in this video the caskets were burned with the person inside of them. I guess it depends on the crematory.
Me to! And caskets can easily go over $1000. Little did I know that part of the ashes are of the casket. At that point, I rather be shark food!
Just toss my body in the flames instead of paying thousands of dollars for a casket only to burn it
Yeah wer I live it takes usd 6 to cremate...casket is useless.
My casket will be cardboard.
Whenever someone in my family dies, we get the relatives together for a couple days around the funeral. During that time we go to church, have dinners out at nice restaurants, and go on lots of walks in the woods. It's a nice way to honor our loved one and pay homage to the winds of time.
One thing I want to clear up for anyone who has been wondering, you DO NOT have to have a casket encasing the body in order for it to be cremated. It just needs to be encased in something. I've known for larger scale crematories that cremate between 40-50 corpses per day to just use duct tape and plastic sheeting or trash bags then place the corpse into a cardboard box before being chunked into the cremator to make the process cheaper and faster before the sifting process etc Which is why I recommend anyone interested in being cremated to talk to morticians that work at smaller or family owned crematories or funeral homes where cremation is done that way there's more respect given to the deceased and you're less likely to be given the wrong ashes as larger facilities place the remains in identical boxes.
Do u have to be embalmed to get crea mations
@@tamraraitt5757No, especially in the case of direct cremations.
How on earth the family can tolerate to see one of their members left on fire to turn into ash!!
My dad was cremated, I have his ashes in a pendant that I wear all the time.....he is always with me 🥰
I am pleased
that that is working alright for you
how would u know id the ashes arent from coffin & not him?
Shut up, idiot. Let her have nice memories of her father, instead of trying to kick someone when they're down.
@@skystudios2474 stfu dumbass
@@omarshinwari7823 nah you shut up. The coffin and the ashes are always mixed, in one component dumbass. Let her have her fathers memories in loving peace and kindness.
Freshman in my high school just committed suicide a few days ago and today she was cremated it’s just so weird to think this happened to her that she was just burned into ashes yet it feels like she was just here a few seconds ago. She will be missed #rip
Nice tribute
So very Sad. . .
reach out if you need help, hope you’re doing ok, sorry for your loss
How did she ended her life and why what was the reason behind it ??????
@@Zoubirking-1970..
wait a minute! they buy a $3000 dollar casket ... and then burn it up? no thanks ... a cardboard box will do ...
It worked just fine for my dad. He didn't complain one bit.
We have special made coffins for cremation here in Europe. 🙂 And using cardboard box is illegal.. So. And the coffins dont cost more than the actual funeral.
I agree with you nobody cares if you died well maybe if you have something to leave them but flowers and all that crap is a waste of money I done told my family I don't want anything fancy just burn me that's it my soul has already left so there's nothing there
Jamie Nichols i
I knew of a person that insisted on being cremated in his 24,000.00 casket. I think that was sickening as he could have donated that money to charity and been cremated in a 500.00 cardboard cremation casket designed for the purpose.
My dad was cremated today and Im beyond lost for words. He had a regular funeral service as well so im glad i got to see him and get his ashes. I never understood the cremation process but now i know. Thank you🙏
I just got my dads ashes today. I am in the same boat as you. Hope both of our hearts heal really soon
@@aiyanaeagle1448 i get my dad ashes satirday after his funeral i’m kind of scared
@@abbymarie6022 hi Abby, I’m so sorry to hear you lost your dad 💔 I was scared to go to my dads funeral too. My sister was really scared she wouldn’t even go in the funeral without me so I gathered the courage to go in there just for her. Just know that everything will be okay in the end and I hope when you get your dads ashes, your dad is watching over you and you will have loved ones surrounded by you. It’s really heartbreaking knowing that they’re not here with us anymore but I know that they’re up there watching over us. You are very strong 💪 hope your heart heals soon 🤍
My cousin is about to be cremated, he died a hero trying to save a friend in dangerous currents, he was only 20 years old and didn’t even get to experience his full life, he just had a baby that turned one month old 3 days after he passed. He was the very first grand child and nephew, he was very special to my uncles and mom because they were finally an uncle or auntie, he had a little brother which is 12 and a little sister that was 10 years old. Life is tough. RIP Gabriel
Tragic in the true sense of the word. How is the family now?
Save a friend from what?? 🙁
@@mistylover7398 his friend fell into a river that was very dangerous and fast so my cousin jumped in to save him but sadly both didn’t make it
@@tame7222 he killed himself 4 nothing just to die with? 😮🙁
@@mistylover7398 kinda disrespectful to say, i wouldn’t say he killed himself, his intention was to save a friend, he risked his life to try to save his friend, just a friend, very kind hearted person
My mom was cremated yesterday. I kind of wish I’d been there. Learning about the process helps my brain accept that it’s not her anymore, it’s just her body. She’s at home with the Lord 😊❤
My friends mother was buried in a willow casket made by a family friend. She arrived in the back of a van and the casket was brought to the burial site followed by a brass band. She was buried in a field and a tree was planted at the head of the grave. After, all her belongings were gathered and everybody took somethonf away with them. Everybody wore colourful clothes. It was the most amazing funeral I've ever been to. No priest, no tears, no bank busting expenses. That's how I'm going out.
I don't like that the coffin and the body are burned together......I only want the ashes of my loved one in the urn.
I'm sure you could request -- see a funeral director you can trust and if it's for you -- put that in your will.
Madonna Borromeo Don't purchase a coffin.
Madonna Borromeo my father was cremated and the whole casket melts and the flesh so all the “ashes” are is crushed up bones
A container is usually required for cremation, even if it's just a cardboard box. If you don't want to purchase a casket, you can often rent one from the funeral home, the cardboard box will be placed into it for the viewing, then removed & cremated w/the body.
James, Stacey, and Kristi Crutchfield Jr I think the cremation services offered by funeral homes are a flat rate, that includes the burning of the coffin. They would have to dispose of them somehow, not like they are going to get used twice. they are probably considered biohazard/medical waste considering what they are used for, & that kind of stuff isn't cheap to get rid of either.
Why am I watching this?
only you can answer that. I wanted to know what happened to my loved one...It's surly wasn't for entertainment.
Josephine Cabal To spare your family making decisions and not knowing what you want. You won't get out of this life alive.
Im watching this because of the Bernie movie
Morbid curiosity.
I'm watching this because of gave helmy
My mother was cremated. I was there when she unexpectedly passed. I watched this not too long after she passed. Just to k ow what she went through. I just about couldn't get through this video. It just blows my mind she is gone. Love u forever momma.
Thank you for posting this video though, for explaining to me what my mother went through for her wishes.
I have to admit though when it showed the casket igniting I just about lost it completely. But it is good to know what happens.
2:14 Kim Kardashian gonna be 40% ashes and 60% implants 💀
😂
Fuck! Hahaha
Her implants will put out the flames....
Melania Trump has so much plastic, she would just melt into a blob.
I’m in stitches! 😂😂😂😂
Last year 2019 my mom who had cancer she chose to be cremated. She got what was planned. Passed away this March 2020 and I really really miss her. My family and I might plan a trip where my mom loved to enjoy we will spread her ashes. Love you a lot mom!!
So sad I wasn't able to see my Dad for the last time since he was living in a different country. We watched his live funeral services and it just finished. He's being cremated at the moment. RIP Dad 🙏
To everyone who still has both parents, never ever waste any moment with them. Show them and make them feel how much you love and care for them.
And to everyone who've lost their loved ones this year, my heart goes to you.
Praying for everyone's safety wherever you are in this world. 🙏
Sending you a great big hug, lost my mom on Jan 9th and life will never be the same.
After reading your text I shared tears.. I feel for your main.. let talk on Instagram @ Kamarazy_de_moosini
Same thing happened with my Grandma, we’re not able to visit, and when she passed they to her straight to the crematory. May he rest in Peace.
@@feliciad6367 sending you love ❤️
This video makes it look so respectable I really appreciate this as my mom was cremated ❤️.
The thought of cremation just seems so violent to me. I don't know.
I can sympathise with your thoughts but either way Burial/ Cremation, does it matter to the deceased ?
@@johnlast4430 well, we really don't know for sure, now do we? Lol
beats being eaten by bugs I think
The dead body feels everything 2x than they feel it when they were alive.
@@hidayahjamel9179 how do you know? Did a dead guy walk out the cremation chamber and you that?
I'm watching this because of Bob collymore's death. Safaricom CEO. May his soul rest😭😭😭
Me too
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Who's bob
Do not use a casket for me, what a waste! Use cardboard...
Usually to save money a temporary casket is used and it’s cardboard.I honestly don’t know why it showed a casket
@mike wright omg cheap skate 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👌
mike wright it’s not being a cheap shake if you’re dead 🤔 and who cares about getting a casket (not to mention JUST to burn it at the end) the only way to get one is if you don’t want to be cremated.
mike wright it just doesn’t make sense to buy a $3000 casket just to burn it.
I thought they just lsid you on a slab of cement did not know that a casket ,know wonder it cost so much now
I find this all quite interesting.I'll be getting my dad's ashes this coming up December.May he rest in peace.
The thought of cremation used to horrify me but after watching a few tutorials it appears to be a dignified process. Enlightened.
Not for Me
They do a really good job in the U.K. :)
Ok lolz did a very good job!
When the Vehicle (Body) that has housed your Spirit dies, that Spirit - or Soul- leaves the physical body. Only the shell is left. ❣️
There is *nothing* to fear in regard to death, or the manner in which mortal remains are catered to. The Essence that was *YOU* has already departed.
My own preference would probably have been cremation but I feel that my husband would want our bodies to be interred together. That is why the burial plot for the two of us has been selected and paid for. Less hassle for our children to deal with when the time comes. 🌸
I have no idea why this video cropped up in ‘recommended’ haha, but if my thoughts help anyone then that makes me happy.
Either way - burial or cremation - we simply have no further use for the *suit of flesh* which has had its day, so to speak. Onwards, and hopefully *Upwards* ....... 🤩
Best wishes everyone!
all true and cute. Upwards....dimensions do not matter when in the spirit. You can go anywhere.........
Ann Winifred Parkes. don't really say I'm a Christian because I fail every freakn day my name says bitches you know but I do believe there was God manifested in a " vehicle" and is the way the truth and the life died for sins and was raised again is was and forever will be the only way.. my boyfriend was murdered and your post helped me after almost two years my shoulders dropped alittle idk what my post means it why I'm even writing it but I just wanted to let you know it was meant for me at this very moment 💔😭
Gee. Thanks for sharing. I don't want to die though.
@@sosoprettybitches You don't fail. You're just not perfect like every other human. God allows for venial (or is it menial? I should know that. I grew up going to CCD, I'm Catholic. ) sins. It's those big sins that are the ones that are bad.
Sorry for your loss. May your boyfriend RIP. 🙏💔
Very well put! This month my husband died in my arms 22 years ago. My Mother died, it will be 3 years in September. And my older brother died last year 3 days after his 59th birthday. I'm not afraid to die even though I do prefer life. But I believe that we are not bodies with souls, we are souls with bodies.🙏
So basically it's not just the person's ashes it's the caskets ashes too?
All the organic material (flesh and casket) will burn and vaporize. What remains is mostly bone, and most of that breaks into small chunks. Any remaining chunks are ground into a sand-like power. A down-side to cremation is that any dental fillings will vaporize as well... adding toxins to the atmosphere. Oh, and the funeral home will remove dental gold from the deceased. No point in wasting it.
no. all organics disappear at this temp. only bones remain.
So you do get your money back on the caskets
The cremation process requires there to be some sort of receptacle in which the deceased can be placed. This is because it is being loaded into a chamber that is already up a very high temperature, which is needed in order for the process to work. It is similar to the way people tend to make sure the oil in a pan is hot before putting anything they wish to cook into it. It is highly likely anyone reaching into such a chamber would receive second degree burns. It would naturally seem a better idea to use cardboard but paper tends to turn more into soot than ash. It is also natural for people to form all sorts of ideas and theories as to what happens during this process as it is usually done away from the public. Viewing the casket can be arranged but because of extreme temperatures I think most crematoriums would disallow the public to be in the vicinity of what is going at the risk of someone getting severely burned (its is such things that large law suits are made of).
Lower chamber is raised to 1750 degrees...body is placed in a cardboard box at minimum, and put into upper chamber...which is room temperature or a little more,but not much...door is lowered,heat is then sent to upper chamber to start cremation process...
I had a good friend that passed away three days before Christmas he lost his battle against pancreatic cancer I never knew he was sick cause he was always happy and patient but when I heard he was in the hospital I thought it was something minor but his wife said it was more serious than that when I got the news that he passed I was stunned it was like a punch in the gut I know a lot of people but very few I called friends and he was one of the few that’s why I attended his memorial service he had it at a crematory chapel and he was cremated that was the second good friend I lost three years before another friend died in her sleep have a massive heart attack I went to her funeral and I cried like a baby at her viewing she was cremated at the same place those two friends are like brothers and sisters to me and they are deeply missed that’s like two layers of my heart gone
did she said pre heat.. like an oven? I'm crying..
that's a disgusting comment
baby doll do they do the cremation with the casket??
They do. My father was cremated, we had to buy a 'cremation container', which is basically a cardboard box. I think it cost about $50.
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xx hershey answers my question
I would rather be cremated like Darth Vader was. Big bonfire.
Suitup lol
Suitup same
Suitup I wanna be poured into a bucket of KFC chicken
Fuck.... spoiler alert!
I hate cremation! How dare they desecrate people's coupes like that!
I dont wanna die
Big man 0909 Me neither. But it comes for us all one day. So let's try & make as much peace with that fact as we can. If you want to, you could check out 'THE ORDER OF THE GOOD DEATH', might add a little 'death positivity' to your day, take care :-)
And you don't have to completely at least, repent and believe what Jesus did on the cross for you! Having died for your sins and you will be forgiven and brought into eternal life! There is much more after this life, be reconciled to God! You need Christ!
fuck u bitch! christ or muhammad are the last things i ever want in my life, so why don't you stop telling people who needs who and why
happy man she’s trying to save him
Leave religion doesn't bring salvation. It puts shackles on one's neck
I lost my mom last may,we had cremated her body at Goodhope cremation ground ,also my dad was cremated 14yrs back it is very heartbreaking to go there again. I can't get over this feeling.
Watching this after finding out Cameron Boyce was cremated 😭
Me too may he rest in peace we all love him
I thought I was the only one 🥺 miss him so much
Same... 😭💔🕊
yenah villaver same 🤧😭 I can’t believe his body went through this 😭😢
IKR why would they do that he should be resting in a casket..RIP CAMERON BOYCE ❤️
Watching this after leaving my 16-year-old nephew’s funeral... He’s being cremated today 😭✝️💔
Aw this is late but I’m sorry ♥️ praying for you and your family
I am so sorry.
Why would anyone burn an entire (expensive) casket? Most sources I've viewed show the deceased being placed into a 'cremation container' (basically a cardboard coffin). Most mortuaries, however will rent a coffin if a viewing is desired.
Michael Witkowski they switch the casket out before burning
Than why do they mention removing casket hardware? The video shows a casket being placed into the crematorium and the voiceover describes what might happen if the casket finish ignites first.
Michael Witkowski they remove metal off of the casket they switched out
Priscilla Vincent The body should be in a container but it's not logical you must purchase a casket. It can be as simple as a cardboard box.
Trust me......the only time they cremate with an actual casket is when there is a family member present to view the deceased going into the retort!!! If there is nobody present to witness, the casket is swapped-out for a cardboard casket, and the original casket is re-sold!! I know this first-hand....it's quite sad. Buyer beware.....if the deceased or family member has opted to purchase a casket, try your best to have someone (perhaps an acquaintance) be present during the beginning of the cremation process.
My father passed away recently in my arms. He was battling pancreatic cancer for 8 months. He was cremated as well but I’m too heartbroken and sad that I can’t push the button to proceed the cremation. I let them do it. It was so heartbreaking to witness death firsthand and then having to watch your own father laying in the casket getting prepared to burn. He was with us for 40 years!
Sorry for your loss man
🙏🏽💯Please remain as strong as possible 💪🏽
I would like to be basted in butter and oregano so the funeral home smells good during the process.
Omg that funny 😄
Gordon Ramsey approves 🖒
Oh yummy. Thank you for making me more hungry....
Be careful not to end like this: th-cam.com/video/ZR5xfvP7mZ8/w-d-xo.html
Sniff sniff: yo bob! Whatcha cooking over there?
Am here because of Bob,I have seen exactly like it's you until ashes,,,may the Lord Grant you Paradise, you were a history breaker
My dad just passed away few days ago and I went to his cremation today. I'm so devastated. I miss him already
Thanks for sharing this videos and GOD bless u and keepsafe always I'm new friend here thanks
I'm crying I miss my dear friend Robert walker he was cremated his wishes were for his sister to scatter his ashes onto railroad tracks since he loved trains may he rest in peace you will be always in my heart Bob
I want my ashes to be put in a "Build a Bear." Then my family can take me places with them.😁
American Truck simulator driver when I die I want to be cremated and then they put my ashes in a doll that looks like me so my family can still be with me...
Im 14 and lost my dad a month ago and he always wanted to be cremated to we decided exactly that. Just wanted to see how they actually do it. I miss him soo much!!:(
Sorry to hear that. I lost my Mother last month (f*ck Covid!) and miss her so much too. Things will get better though. Keep strong and live your best life. Thats what he would want. Take care.
@@bcfcbennjy99 I'm sorry for you loss too. Thank you so much for those encouraging words🥺. I wish you the same!❤
I’m so sorry for your loss 😪 . I’m currently going through the same thing my father passed away on Monday and was literally cremated this morning . I am so heartbroken 🥺🥺🥺😞😭 and my curiosity made me just look this up and now I am even more hurt . But is his wishes and we honored them . Now I can have a special necklace to keep with me with a piece of him .
@@nicole8233 stay strong because you’re not alone ❤️❤️❤️ we’re in this together
@@nicole8233 stay strong because you’re not alone ❤️❤️❤️ we’re in this together
why is there a casket at all if it's all going to be burned? The reason: because the mortician wants a much of your money as possible by ripping you off.
Ha, I've heard plenty of stories like this one. There are many articles online discussing how the people at the funeral homes will try to up sell the expensive coffins, services, and grave sites, praying on people's naivety during this difficult time. Do your research before dying.
Raymond Callies People fall for upsales out of guilt. This is why preplanning and discussion is necessary. You may as well just throw the money in if you buy an expensive casket. Not to mention urns etc.
Ian Sutton mortician
We have special made coffins for cremation here in Europe. 🙂 And using cardboard box is illegal.. So. And the coffins dont cost more than the actual funeral. Its a plain white coffin with decoration on.
Morticians do this because the body goes wherever the casket goes. Like when we bury people, we keep them in the casket. It's traditional.
Idk why I watched dis cuz it made me remeber my only older brother, Vincent who died last year (2020) on a Sunday on Steptember 6th. and they cremated him. I miss him so much. RIP Vincent, you'r one with the wolfs now.
Na I just want to be put in the ground without a casket so I can decompose naturally and help the land out.
GummeBear ..Me too. Where I live it is not allowed...Cremation for me.
Look into a Green Burial. Usually you are washed and wrapped in a biodegradable body wrap it does have different colors. Once in the wrap they dig a 2-4 foot deep hole. The you are placed in the ground and buried. Usually you can have a tree buried over you so your nutrients can help it live.
They have places like that. You lease the plot for a certain amount of years then they throw someone else in the plot
Lmao. I’m scared to be put into the ground
Rift SilentOrb same
Who is here out of curiosity to know exactly what happened to Bob Collymore yesterday
Me here
Am just wondering,plus the coffin too?
Akiyaooo..tuko wengi
@@akinyiokeyo4618 me too I thought it was good if they do away with the coffin
Kenyans are everywhere 😯
Who is here after Bob collymors death 2019...Safaricom CEO
I came here to see what happened to his body
me too
I had to know how this process is done.
It is a humbling way to remind us that FROM DUST YOU CAME: So shall One return.
me
Me...
I lost my grandpa in Russia on Monday night. And he chose that he wants to be cremated. I miss him so much! That I watched this video to know what to expect during his process. :(
From most of the cremation videos that I have watched, the bodies are placed in a cardboard box and taped up. Then into the crematory. There is no need for an expensive casket to be purchased or embalming if the deceased is going to be cremated. Some people go through the embalming and the funeral only to have the body cremated later. This is a waste of a lot of money. But if this is the way that the family wants to go, spend all that life insurance money.
I like the cremation I seen where they just put the body directly in the fire with no box then, you just get get the ashes of the body and what they were wearing in the urn.
Kathy Owens
It varies depending on local laws. A lot of places require the body to be in an individual container, sometimes for health reasons, sometimes to ensure identification, sometimes for moral or superstitious reasons. Cardboard caskets make the most sense in cremation. It takes a lot of fuel and a lot of time for cremation when the body is in a heavy wooden coffin, though counter-intuitively it is easier to manufacture coffins from chipboard/fibreboard/mdf than cardboard - so the funeral director told me - without being morbid I found the whole process fascinating and me and the funeral director had a long talk about how it all works.
Kathy Owens bolso
Most funeral homes have caskets you can rent for the viewing. You just slide in the cardboard box into the rental. Then you are only paying for, & burning, a cardboard box.
Both my parents were cremated. I guess I knew how this worked but I've always felt great guilt about consigning them to a fiery end. As for me, I'm opting for a green burial. Wrapped in a cotton sheet and buried on my property up north. Perfectly legal in MN. Just need to have the site surveyed and recorded with the county. No embalming so it has to be done within 36 hrs unless you contract with a funeral home for cold storage.
maggots eating body in burial ground is more barbaric. Sometimes stry animals includig dogs dug out the corpse from the ground and feast on it. If you want to enjoy the horrfic spectre then you should visit some islamic country or countryside in your own country. 😮😅😊😢
Why am I watching this 😭
probably cuz your curious HELLO!!!
Bernie movie
Sherrie Lynn. Coz you are psycho
Sherrie Lynn me tooo
Life is short in this world.
I smoke a lot of pot? Will people get high from the fumes when I am cremated?
gratefuljr
Stupid 🤣🤣🤣
That’s not how it works.... But you could have someone grow a cannabis plant from your ashes 😂
I love your genuine sense of humor!!!! Thank you for making me laugh!!!!
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Just have some Pink Floyd playing at your funeral when they are around, they will leave feeling groovy
Bro imagine waking up during this
Better for body to start decomposing just to be doubly sure. Yikes!
Impossible, the body has had lots of work done to it, it has been drained of all fluid, the cardiovascular system has been filled with formaldehyde, the eyes, nose, mouth, urethra and anus have been sewed shut, you’re not waking up
Supreme Leader Admiral Alexander Kolchak r/woooosh the joke just flew your head
Kacperstrong what joke? Saying something stupid isn’t a joke
I've told my husband to have them make sure I'm dead but, I'm not being cremated.
“The preheated chamber” sounds like you’re cooking a pizza
Or a ummmmm…. Cake too???
ikr?? it really does. "optimum combustion" doesn't sound much better.
This creamation video was done in well taste & in class. All the other creamation videos I've watched was Barbaric.
I just stumbled upon this video and then realized that the bed i’m lying in is about 200m from this exact crematorium. This may be the strangest coincidence of my life.
Lost my grandfather on 25th Feb, 2020. He was 90. I had his cremated. Now i'm 18 years old.
My mum recently passed away and I needed to know the process, thanks
Sorry for your loss, I hope you're doing as well as can be expected. X
“Optimum combustion” is not a comfortable phrase to hear in the case of a passed loved one
Yeah I'm not sure I want to see any numbers on my family members or even complete strangers go up.in flames.
Sounds pretty nazi
It astounds me that a person with talent and a wonderful , unique voice , personality etc , someone who previously could sit down and talk to you can now end up like this.
Lol thats how life works
Can't believe they recommended this during this Coronavirus pandemic times.
LMAO!!! 😷🤭🤣
I'm seriously applying as a crematorium operator BECAUSE of the coronavirus.
Nazis prooved you can dispose of millions of corpses burning them like thirdworlders burn their garbage.
Susan Koech
Well, cremation of dead bodies _is_ the safest and most hygienic method when preventing the spread of dangerous diseases is a major concern. Typhus is one such example of this, Ebola is also.
@@bxundxm how do firstworlders burn theirs?
Cremated is so final like nothing left of that person I'd rather be buried
And rot away slowly and take up space for ever till they decide to put a building up
@@Joiedevivredesilives yup my decision
@@Joiedevivredesilives I want to be buried so my body can help create conditions for living things to grow, from plants to animals
@@georgealderson4424 you will be putting noxious gasses into the environment
@@Joiedevivredesilives Really? What about crematoria effluence?
God bless all the innocent souls 🖤🙏🏼
i lost my cousin on the 10th march this year, we were also best friends, i stayed at his house every weekend ever since i was 2 years old, sadly a seizure took his life away from him the day before i was going to see him, he was only 18. it's my 18th on Saturday and we planned to do so much together the last time i saw him, its upsetting that i can't do it anymore and that I've lost my cousin so young, he got cremated and put in beside his mum that he lost when he was only 18 months old, i'm glad he's not suffering anymore and back in the arms of his mum but i'll forever be sad that he's gone :(
God knows I'm trying not break down I witnessed a cremation front row and center for the very first time in person last Saturday morning as we laid my father to rest to this day that's all I dream about. Not only was I the one who closed my father's casket but me and his wife placed our fingers on the button and pressed it to start the cremation. REST IN HEAVEN DADDY WE LOVE YOU FUCK CANCER !!!
God bless
teuila siitia sorry for your loss. God bless you.
teuila siitia Isabel funeral in
I lost my dad oct 28th. I know how it hurts. Time will make things easier.
God bless you
Ooooops i was here bcz of Bob Collymore...
Rest in peace boss
isabella evans
my grandmother's just passed last night. I need some words of encouragement, if any of you would spare some. I miss her so much.
koots I am so sorry fo your loss. I know how it feels to lost a grandma. My grandma passed and I wasn’t around when she died. May her soul Rest In Peace. I hope you will find comfort from this poem as I know I do. Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am in a thousand winds that blow,
I am the softly falling snow.
I am the gentle showers of rain,
I am the fields of ripening grain.
I am in the morning hush,
I am in the graceful rush
Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
I am the starshine of the night.
I am in the flowers that bloom,
I am in a quiet room.
I am in the birds that sing,
I am in each lovely thing.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there. I do not die.
I'm sorry for your loss😭! You will see her again. 😇
My beautiful loving husband passed away on 10/23/20 I MISS HIM SO SO MUCH. We were married for 46 wonderful years. Although I could have gotten a cardboard box I was told for 125.00 that would make me feel guilty. So I chose the padding under the body for 425.00 and did not care that it was burned. For those few moments of being cremated I still wanted him to have the best even if it's burned. He treated me like a queen and so caring. I just had to go that route it was worth it for my hubby miss him so much and forever!
أَيَحۡسَبُ ٱلۡإِنسَٰنُ أَلَّن نَّجۡمَعَ عِظَامَهُۥ
Does man think We shall not put his bones back together?
بَلَىٰ قَٰدِرِينَ عَلَىٰٓ أَن نُّسَوِّيَ بَنَانَهُۥ
In fact, We can reshape his very fingertips.
-Sura Al-Qiyamah, Ayah 3&4
I am going to be cremated, besides what does God our Father says Absent from the Body Present with the Lord, so I will be in Heaven Paradise in my New Body, I will not know what is going in in this world down here Amen"!
I, too, have chosen to be cremated. This has become a family 'tradition' if you will, my sister and brother in law choosing direct cremation with no elaborate settings
a cardboard box being sufficient as a container. Elaborate graves will all be well forgotten about in 100 years so cremation makes fiscal sense.
I understand my wife was Cremated to. But I just couldn't stand to see her body burn in flames. Before she was cremated I kiss her and some how that her body was still a little bit warm. You know that the heart can be warm Longer than the body .because when you Loves someone the heart takes longer to die. I had love my wife and I'm should she loves me. I just miss her so much.
Sorry for your loss. You are strong. God bless you .
Prayers for you good sir. My condolences.
Sorry about that.It hurts to lose a loved one..Be strong...sending you hugs
Sorry
Take heart and be strong and may her soul rest in peace
My sons father was murdered May 16th 2017. He was cremated and my son has a littler ern with his dads ashes in it. I love that my son has a piece of his dad left and not in the ground in California when we moved to AZ
Such a pretty room. Could use some furniture in nice seating groups, maybe a small bar for refreshments... I dunno, just a thought.
I wonder how many of us have cried while watching this.
My second grandad passed away on the 28th of July 2020 and his cremation was today 12 of August 2020 🥺♥️
There is no equivalent of Islam in honoring the dead, shrouding him and burying him, and this is from the grace of God upon us. Praise be to God for the blessing of Islam and Muslims.
“ The casket is gently pushed”
*throws the casket into the oven*
I was just wondering how bodies were cremated. We have my grandma's ashes and I tend to stare at it sometimes
I grew up in the funeral industry and I have some insights to share:
1. This is why it is so important to talk about your own death and your wishes. Families have a hard time grieving and nobody plans to bury a family member or friend, but if your family doesn’t know what you want, then they end up buying expensive caskets and holding elaborate services when All you wanted was a simple cremation and no viewing.
2. The funeral industry is (mostly) honest and they aren’t looking to rip you off. But they are for-profit companies that look to make budgets, and they will respect whatever wish you have, especially when you want to buy a 20k casket that will be burned in the cremation process. Talking about your after life goals and preferences prevent your family from overdoing the process and keeping them safe.
3. Death is still very taboo in the US, but it shouldn’t be. Funeral directors have a very difficult job. They are salesmen, medical personnel, grief counselors, stylists, and officiants in one job that doesn’t pay a massive sum. But a good funeral director will be honest and transparent with you. The more you know about what you should expect, the more you will realize how transparent they are with you.
I've already made plans and the paper work is done for my cremation.
So my grandpa passed away on Monday 10/28/2019 at 10:16 a.m and he’s a military, I found out he was gonna be burnt to ashes based on the military rule. I’m gonna be heart broken on November 15th to see him be in a container as ashes, it’s already heart broken without him😭❤️
Watching stuff like this makes me hope i die before my parents so i dont have to witness my favorite people passing
But then your parents will witness _their_ favorite person passing
Trust me that would be a lot more painful for them. Parents want there kids to outlive them. Atleast good parents should.
Really selfish honestly
@@juststuff9796 look death is a confusing thing takes some mulling over
From a parent point of view I don't want to be here when my kids die
I swear this sounds like an advertisement for a 5 star hotel...
Being someone who does work at one I can confirm it does
Because my Uncle Jim died recently and is going to be cremated in the next couple of days, I watched this video to learn how cremation works.
I just thought only the remains will cremated not included the casket... so sad
Mortician jobs and hairdressing are the only jobs I can really see myself getting into. This kinda stuff fascinates me
Someone has to do it, it may as well be someone who is suited for it.
TH-cam recommended this video to me... about 3 days ago I was talking to my parents about how they would like to be cremated when they die. Freaking big brother man... 🤦🏻♂️ 👁 👁 👂 👂 Government is watching and hearing everything.
My dad passed away a year ago this month. His last request was to not be laid out for a funeral or viewing. He wanted a simple cremation and to be scattered at a later date. When he was cremated, he was shipped unembalmed in a cardboard box labeled for human remains. Once they loaded him into the cremulator and got ready to start, we pushed the button to start his cremation...and that was it (we picked his ashes up days later at the funeral home) though it wasn’t a traditional funeral it is what he wanted after all.
notice how they use a casket and not cardboard? hmmm its always tied to money isnt it?
Huge profits for casket. Cremation itself is rather inexpensive so they don't make much on that part. kind of like a restaurant makes its money off drinks and not the food.
You can use a cardboard box actually. Funeral homes usually have special rental caskets that have cardboard liners and a door at the bottom that allows the liner with the body to be slid out. Then that box is what's cremated.
Cremating a multi thousand dollar casket is a terrible financial move but the funeral business absolutely will prey on people who don't know better. That's why it's best to research this stuff well before dying.
casey brinegar Why the hell would anybody cremate their loved one in cardboard pieces? Wouldn’t you want somebody in casket instead of CHEAP CARDBOARD that just shows how much you don’t give a shit about them? Also, how do you put a body in cardboard box?
we used cardboard, why spend money u don't have,,,,,,there is no shame, With the drapes u never know , But to have a showing u need to rent one, which is as much as buying,,,,,,,,,,,,u also must go thru the entire process embalming etc, BUT the funeral home some will allow up to 15 people to stay 30 minutes with the body in the cardboard and then to the oven, Its beautiful, They come in the world as natural as they go out, Ask the director when making arrangements also check fees not needed like mileage to pickup refrigeration etc, U can cremate for 800 vs the costs they throw on u, We cut the bill by 2/3 in extras, Or donate to University costs nothing you get them back in 5 months and pay nothing a memorial stone is also put in the walk of life for them, That's what we are doing,
Ksee no everything is free... stupid response. When you do your job don’t you want money?
Thank you, this was dignified and explained nicely
WHY IS THIS ON MY RECOMMENDATION
You might want to work in this field you never know
Hiding from realities of life does not make them go away... LOL... I am sitting here getting quite an amusement from all the people being uncomfortable due to the subject of death.
My Father was cremated yesterday and this has given me some comfort.