Be a cook in the kitchen lady in the streets you can't show your teeth to every guy u meet its alright to be a little sweet be a mama with the kids and u know what in the sheets No Pain No Gain. I Love That Part ^.^
Ok That isn’t the message of the song though. It has nothing to do with self-worth. This song is about putting effort into a relationship and understanding that working through the “pain” can lead to a deeper and more secure bond. Pain here can mean ANY unpleasant times. If you break up as soon as things get rough, you don’t want a relationship- you just want pleasure.
@@deshaunx776 Read the lyrics of the song why she got to earn her man and while the man just got to have a pulse, do you realize how toxic 😒 that relationship is.She was basically the one doing all the work in the relationship.Wow black men love to fight so hard for toxic and dysfunctional relationship especially when you start pointing out the dysfunction.
@@deshaunx776No excuse. We all know what Betty means. She’s basically saying that women have to go through heartbreak to gain happiness in the end. No thank you.
my mama real life taught a life lesson with this song and i was around 3 or 4 and i can still remember explaining " be a cook in the kitchen a lady in the street you cnt show yo feet to every guy you meet its alright to be a lil sweet but be a mama with the kids and yk what in the sheets" and it stuck with me god rest her soul
Im 31 and my mother would play this kind of music during my childhood. It's grown on me and in many cases I'd prefer this music over a lot of the garbage being produced and sold today.
MrCogicson1 mine to lol bet Lisa Lisa was in the tape player but this right here is one those classic records and as a grown women now I truly understand every word in this song
first time hearing this song ever in my 34years of life.lol, I came across a video on Facebook of a little girl singing it and that's when I frst hear it ystrdy. so now I came to search it on TH-cam. I watched the lil girl sing this a few times I loved it . hhe. now I'm loving this song..
Don't think ive heard this song before I'm 40+ but its so true❤ happy love day🎉 for those of us who's marriages has been restored it truly is sweeter than before when God fixes he goes beyond what we prayed for. 14.02.24❤
i LOVE this song my auntie us to play this song every day and she still do and now i am addicted to this song i love this and am only 14 years old!!!!! i love betty wright & my auntie
I grew up listening to this song and it took me many years to understand what she is saying. Simply put: "You live and you learn" and unfortunately alot of learning will come with heartbreak and pain: Whether it be a man who broke your heart, a death in the family, or getting fired from a job. The fact is that there is "duality" in everything: Good and Bad, Pain and Pleasure, Happiness and Saddness, Positive and Negative. Positive and negative energy is in everyone and everything down to the Protons and Electrons in an atom. I spent most of my life trying to avoid pain and negativity, and it just drove me crazy (anxiety and depression). The best thing to do is to learn to accept both...to "live and learn", " to have the serenity to accept things you cant change", to survive the ups and down cuz you cant go up if you are not first down..."no pain no gain"❤
@@ap8009 You have to forgive or you will be angry for the rest of your life. Imagine you don't forgive everyone that offends you? Also revenge digs grave for two...
This used to be me and my nana jam but then we lost the cd so I lost memory of this song then I found it finally after all these years thank you you unlocked a memory in my brain
My angel I really enjoyed this song. The lyrics are so true. I am inspired by the message in those lyrics. I am here for you. I will wait for you because you are so worth it. I love you baby! We are Forever!
I was about 4 or 5 when I was listening to this when my mama had this record and here I am now just turned 33 on the 5th of last month and I am still listening to it that goes to show how awesome this song really is. wow
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Be a cook in the kitchen lady in the streets you can't show your teeth to every guy u meet its alright to be a little sweet be a mama with the kids and u know what in the sheets No Pain No Gain. I Love That Part ^.^
If You 13 And Older And Listen Too Dis Song Thumbs up
travarius mitchell im 21✊🏾
I’m 12 my aunt got me into this
I'm 14 and I'm loving it
Im actually 11
Im actually 12
I'm only 15 and love this with my granny
same but I'm 14😊
same but I'm 10
Nautica Atkins same but I'm 1
Nautica Atkins I'm 29 i love that old school music
Im 12 sis
This song is all about struggle love.No woman needs to experience pain for her to be worthy of a man's love.
Ok That isn’t the message of the song though. It has nothing to do with self-worth. This song is about putting effort into a relationship and understanding that working through the “pain” can lead to a deeper and more secure bond. Pain here can mean ANY unpleasant times. If you break up as soon as things get rough, you don’t want a relationship- you just want pleasure.
@@deshaunx776 bro the world is actively breaking up the bond between man and woman and some people can't see the castle for the walls
I’m screammmiiinnng
@@deshaunx776 Read the lyrics of the song why she got to earn her man and while the man just got to have a pulse, do you realize how toxic 😒 that relationship is.She was basically the one doing all the work in the relationship.Wow black men love to fight so hard for toxic and dysfunctional relationship especially when you start pointing out the dysfunction.
@@deshaunx776No excuse. We all know what Betty means. She’s basically saying that women have to go through heartbreak to gain happiness in the end. No thank you.
my mama real life taught a life lesson with this song and i was around 3 or 4 and i can still remember explaining " be a cook in the kitchen a lady in the street you cnt show yo feet to every guy you meet its alright to be a lil sweet but be a mama with the kids and yk what in the sheets" and it stuck with me god rest her soul
Those people with thumbs down, yall are crazy..this is REAL MUSIC
"My Days Left Here May Not Be Long I Wouldn't Waste My Time Telling You Nothing Wrong"
RIP 🙏
Im 31 and my mother would play this kind of music during my childhood. It's grown on me and in many cases I'd prefer this music over a lot of the garbage being produced and sold today.
right this is my grandma music
Emanuel Tapia-Garcia
MrCogicson1 mine to lol bet Lisa Lisa was in the tape player but this right here is one those classic records and as a grown women now I truly understand every word in this song
MrCogicson1 go
Same here!
Just buried my Mother Saturday and it's so hard! But listening to some of her favorite Blues songs is very therapeutic.
Who still here 2019
Ooga booga
We here
Me
2020
I can't even listen to this without crying because my great great grandma passed away and she loved this song
I love this song 🔐💖💯💯I'm 17 and I'm in love with this song to the fullest thanks to u 😘😘😗💖💖💯2020
Who's still listening to this song
SAme I’m 17 as well I have such an old soul
I tend to act old
Guess we all have old souls
23 💪🏽
This was playing at my grandma’s funeral yesterday Rest In Peace my angel 👼 ❤️
2020 this lady the truth
I was earning my man why I was learning my man ..... I understand this song so much better now that I’m older❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰
14 years with an old soul just drifting away from the world 🤟🏾💙
12 year old same
Oldie but Goodie ... Miss music like this. ❤️😍
RIP BETTY WRIGHT!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR MUSIC!
REMEMBER,
NO PAIN...(NO PAIN)
NO PAIN...(NO PAIN)
NO GAIN.....NO GAIN!!
Music with meaning, gone are the days.
You're not looking hard enough
love this some am just 19
Yes
Glad you all love this song as much as I do! ENJOY
Now THISSS is REAL music.
The many messages in this song. Thankful i grew up with, sad for this generation...most of'em have no clue.
facts
That high note wooowww... before mariah
I am so happy this song made you guys smile or brought back fond memories!🥰
Thank u
Great granny played this all my life now I’m 27 playing it back to back
Betty wright wasn't afraid to tell it how it is! Or how it should be! There's always a message to these songs. Wow!
Yes but the message is toxic. We have to leave cheating men alone the first time around.
first time hearing this song ever in my 34years of life.lol, I came across a video on Facebook of a little girl singing it and that's when I frst hear it ystrdy. so now I came to search it on TH-cam. I watched the lil girl sing this a few times I loved it . hhe. now I'm loving this song..
Yup and this song is for the man upstairs! No man deserves this good song!
This song is such a classic she’s giving you all the keys!!! I heard songs like this growing up and just now understanding
RIP 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾Ms. Betty Wright your legacy will live on forever
My mom played this all the timeeee I'm in loveeeee❤❤❤🎉
Don't think ive heard this song before I'm 40+ but its so true❤ happy love day🎉 for those of us who's marriages has been restored it truly is sweeter than before when God fixes he goes beyond what we prayed for. 14.02.24❤
Rip to a real Legend 🤞🏾 my hurt is so hurt
i LOVE this song my auntie us to play this song every day and she still do and now i am addicted to this song i love this
and am only 14 years old!!!!!
i love betty wright & my auntie
17 and love me some oldies 💙
Jordan Williams me to but I'm 29 I love this type of music
Jordan Williams same
ALWAYZZ ON OUR MINDZZ ,IM ALL GROWN UP NOW,AN THANK YOU FOR THE HEADZZ UP AUNTZZ, MOTHERLOVE ,SALUTE
A great song. The message still works the same. Betty Wright has got it going on.
Who's still listening 2019
this is a great message for a lot of people
Musa Mohammed my words exactly
I’m a young girl that understands I don’t deserve pain, to get happiness. I make no apologies for that.
I grew up listening to this song and it took me many years to understand what she is saying. Simply put: "You live and you learn" and unfortunately alot of learning will come with heartbreak and pain: Whether it be a man who broke your heart, a death in the family, or getting fired from a job. The fact is that there is "duality" in everything: Good and Bad, Pain and Pleasure, Happiness and Saddness, Positive and Negative. Positive and negative energy is in everyone and everything down to the Protons and Electrons in an atom. I spent most of my life trying to avoid pain and negativity, and it just drove me crazy (anxiety and depression). The best thing to do is to learn to accept both...to "live and learn", " to have the serenity to accept things you cant change", to survive the ups and down cuz you cant go up if you are not first down..."no pain no gain"❤
Finally understand why my mom loved this song.
I’m 19 , it’s 2018 & I STILL LOVE TF OUT OF THIS SONG ❤️🤞🏽
Love This. My favorite song at all times. No pain no gain. Praying for you for healing. IN Jesus name. queen of soul Betty Wright.2020
R.I.P. SWEET BETTY.THANKS FOR THIS POST AND THE WORDS TO IT.
my granny got me on this N she went into surgery today happy new years granny I love u so much
Still one of my all time classic favorites
This is a TRUE CLASSIC!!! WOW...the memories & lessons!!!❤❤❤❤
RIP Betty Wright your music will last forever in my life.
I'm only 18 && I love Betty Wright.. My parents played her so much growing up
I love your to
Right
Only 16 and play this song 1000 times a day
Classic this is my grandma talking to me back in the day 🔥🔥
I am in aw of this song. The message hits home
If you learn this secret how to forgive a longer and a better life you'll live so forgive guys forgive
🤗🤗
@@ap8009 You have to forgive or you will be angry for the rest of your life. Imagine you don't forgive everyone that offends you? Also revenge digs grave for two...
I'm 20 and was listening to this song since I was young cause my grandmother loved this song.... Still listening in 2017 !!!!
Are we not going to talk about that epic whistle?😱😱😱😱😱🤯🤯🤯🤯
My grandmom got me listening to this. Love it! ❤
No pain, no pain, no gain! Gone head Betty! 😘💯
my mama use to jam to this..she sent it to me to uplift me thanks ma
Still and always will one of my favorites ❤❤🔥🔥
2021 and this song is legendary 🔥 🔥 Thank you Miss Betty🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
This used to be me and my nana jam but then we lost the cd so I lost memory of this song then I found it finally after all these years thank you you unlocked a memory in my brain
❤ me some Betty wright
Brittney 37 yes me too I love grown folks music
R.I.P Great Grandma Germany Davis 😍😍😍😍 her FAVORITE SONG.... Thank you for the time we had....
Many years later, and this is STILL a bop ❤️
Heard this song over a month ago now I’m addicted it makes me feel some type of hope in all The struggles I’m going thru
My angel I really enjoyed this song. The lyrics are so true. I am inspired by the message in those lyrics. I am here for you. I will wait for you because you are so worth it. I love you baby! We are Forever!
im only 12 and no this song word for word
ikr
That makes my heart smile to know you enjoy this kind of Music young sista because my daughter don't know nothing but Cardi 😏😂😂 be blessed
Now your 16
@@SC-555 lol
My Mom used to Blast this wether super late or super early, when it was time to clean this was getting played!
Tay-Tay Blake Word!
.I'm 27 an know this singly grandma & grandpa raised me on these type of songs rip grandma & grandpa miss y'all
R.I.P. TO MY LIL NETTA HAWKINS THIS WAS ONE HER FAVORITE OLD SCHOOL SONG SHE WAS BORN IN 1996 WITH A OLD SOUL😩😔😔I MISS YOU NETTA, WE MISS YOUUUUU ❤
RWG Now your pain is over receive your healing and sing in the Heavens.
R.I.P. Betty Wright Well done.
My dad told me about this song when I was younger....Oh how I should of listened.
I love this song it's one of them old throwback sings that still be jamming in2019 go betty wright do ya thang girl
Luv this song. Betty did her thing.
this is a song I'll always hold dear to my heart! She got soul!
18 and LOVE this kind of music and love me so Betty Wright ❤️❤️ NO PAIN NO GAIN ❤️❤️❤️
Why should you have to go through pain to gain happiness. No thank you! I’d rather stay single!
Betty Wright !
Double right , She writes !!!
bless
i love your music so much it is so beautiful i put this song on everyday❤❤😻
I was about 4 or 5 when I was listening to this when my mama had this record and here I am now just turned 33 on the 5th of last month and I am still listening to it that goes to show how awesome this song really is. wow
Song still speaks the truth in 2020.Can I get a witness?
Facts
Miss this old school songs. They don’t make them like this no more. I guess I’m feeling old😜
Im 34...every sat mu mama would. Wake us up to clean up the 🏠 house to these classics.......feb 14..2020 friday
Still one of my favorites in 2020
Can't show your teeth to every guy that u meet I'm 23 glad I found this out early in life
EXACTLY
It’s the lyrics for me! 💯
RIP this. Is. Dad favorite. Song
I'm 11 and me and my Nana love this song
I don't need pain in life. Amen speak from the truth
This is a great song. brings back alot of memories.
Listen almost everyday....no pain no gain♥
I'm not even born yet and I LOVE this song!
I love this song. You are so young and like this old school song. Happy New Year!
God, I just realize how deep this lyrics are...
My momma listen to this music growing up I love it I'm 21 and prefer it over the new music 🤷
i love listening to the oldies honestly prefer oldies than the music of today and im 17
I understand I'm 15
frfr youngin
Boosie put me on💯💯🔥🔥
Boosie Badazz posted a ig video playing this track . Lead me straight to a beautiful path Mrs Wright
How can you not love this song?
Very nice... Thanks!!