They have no existence except it be through someone else. They've really slit their own throats with new election. WM are really coming for them and they see it now but it's too late. They've never been able to defend or support themselves so ...............here it is. BW are the only race of women for the most part that have money and that money is not tied to a man.
Because we keep doing videos, we keep giving them free promotion, that will bring used to their channel, I don’t understand. Black females are smart. Why don’t we get this? Stop giving people free promotion let’s talk about our issues… let’s talk about black people issues in their community. How are we going to fix that to hell with the blue bracelet? Let them have their bracelets.
They could just smile, say hi and be nice. Treat others as humans. Its not hard. The fact that they even feel the need to have to do this says a lot about their community.
It's a virtue signal for the ones who dont actually want to do any work. (Besides arts and crafts) If they even did 1 ounce of work, they would have known how most BW feel about the blue bracelet and what it symbolizes. They want to be like "omg I'm such a good person guys LOOK AT ME"
@@getinloser666 That’s the myth and that’s what we’re supposed to believe but most whites in the US have a parent, grandparent or great grandparent with an accent from some shit-hole eastern European country that they fled from so they don’t have anything to do with slavery…but they do think to be a real American (this goes for the “people of color, too) is to think they can treat Black Americans a certain way.
Hey, didn't know MAGA would wear them, but they aren't the kind of people that typically care about others based on their voting policies. One day they will figure out we no longer want to engage with them. I'm done with MAGA. I am one of those w women that voted blue up and down the ballot because I support democracy, freedom, and I give a flip about safety and well-being of others, especially women. I can't imagine a more tone-deaf and offensive thing to do right now, then show off her blue bracelet to suggest solidarity with other women of color and B women. To other w women who voted like I did and am distraught by how the election went, I get it. You feel devastated and you want to console others. But, think about how that gesture comes across? I a man came up to me wearing a bracelet to show he voted blue, that isn't going to help me when as a woman, I have a target on my back simply because I'm a woman in patriarchy. So, apply that to your skin tone. Just don't do it. Let it go and respect BW by not shoving a blue bracelet in their face. It's disrespectful and doesn't change how bad this outcome is. B women have always been the leaders of our community and support us. Well, over half of w women failed their sisters. And so did a lot of other demographics. For now, just leave these women alone. It's the least we can do. I usually subscribe to mostly channels of B W and WOC because these women speak the truth.
Yesterday morning a white lady was handing out tshirts asking people to care about the feelings of others. I let my dog sniff the shirt and kept it moving. So done with them.
My problem with the blue bracelet movement is I could never wear a bracelet to show that I'm "one of the good blacks," so why should it be easy for you?! 😒
did you not listen to the story though? This is about a pro Kamala person showing a blue bracelet, not about a Trump supporter. The woman with the blue bracelet most likely had the standard view the left has on masks if anything.
@@tiasara5967 its not beautiful it doesn't make any sense! why wear a mask to bother a person with a blue bracelet? they would be wearing masks too still!
Why is it that every time someone brings up a topic about black people the gay and trans Community has to be brought up? The struggles have nothing to do with each other. And I'm tired of hearing about them in conjunction with us.
@@dolleyes5062 That’s not what that✋🏼lady was alluding to, now was it, she was lumping all marginalized groups together, which minimizes the efforts made by black ppl. Our community by voting the way we did at 92% were thinking of the collective rights of all Black ppl, which does not exclude those groups. We are Black first before anything else, so our experiences as a collective are inherently different, to include those of the LGBTQIA community, than other marginalized groups in this country😉
@@choochooj9738 I respectfully disagree. While many of the 92% of Black voters DID vote for us as a whole, there's a vocal minority that's anti-LGBTQ, because of their religious beliefs, a couple of whom are in the Comments section of this video. I'm Black first before anything else too, but I'm not gonna ignore every other aspect of my identity (being dark-skinned, of a certain age & poor) just because some members of my community may be uncomfortable.
Yeah. I’ll grant they are coming from a good place, to show some sort of solidarity after the majority of white women followed white men in voting Trump. It’s just not a good look, even if you didn’t vote Trump.
@@bfdidc6604It wasn’t just white men and women there were other races as well. They aren’t coming from a good place. Those blue bracelets are racist.
I needed to hear this. I’m on a mission to show actions speak louder than words now. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I’ve been called out, and I hear you.
Fellow WW -Quit asking, wigging about the bracelets. Wear them or don’t. Look inside. If you can’t deal with the discomfort you’re feeling about some beads that’s where you start. And stay there until you can see your upset about this is gone. Then listen to this woman again. She gave us a list of EASY things to do.
I honestly think I would feel threatened 🤔. I'm running towards security, or the nearest exit! They are trying to trick me into that "brown van". How easy is it just to stay away from us. They usually run from us, filled with the fake fear, that they created. Maybe I should start wearing A red and black bracelet🤔 Red for the blood I'm willing to shed to protect my black skin...🖤❤️🤷🏾♀️🤣
I do love the W ladies who get it, who really get it. Thank you for your real support. Your daily unseen actions are what is helpful, not some one-off craft project. Thank you.
Please stop, this is so embarrassing. It’s so easy with y’all. If allyship amongst White women and Black women was remotely a thing, or even possible, there would have been some sign of it by now. Some of you are genuinely waiting for Christ to come back before you get the message. They pander to you to avoid blending with the rest of their population. It’s their method of “standing out” to be perceived as “different from the rest”. That doesn’t necessarily mean the quality of their character is any better than the flock they come from.
@getinloser666 I'm sorry you feel this way. You have been truly hurt. There is nothing I can say that will heal your pain. We as sistas(I take it that you are) are not monolithic. We have lived different lives and experiences. 😃 If there are more people that feel like you, then you really should feel unbothered for people like us. Somebody has to help keep the world moving forward. Some of our ancestors had WW allies, too. This is just the beginning, however we will get through this. 🙏
PSA: Stop saying Black.... then proceed to talk about lgbtq and POC. Let "black" stand on it's on and get the shine, without bringing up marginalized communities....thank you
@@bre9328 well isn't that really the same as white supremists saying that only white matters and that whites should stop "letting others bring them down?" See you can't think you're issues should be set aside from every one else's issues. That is why we are in the place we are. Racism exists in every population and it is JUST AS DISGUSTING no matter what group it comes from. Period. There is no progression of unity of you keep distancing yourselves from the total issues. All marginalized groups face the same issues. And especially Latinos/Hispanics and Muslims. They deal with just as much racist rhetoric. Full stop.
@@sabrinatai31 I said this very thing back in the nineties. Was called all kind of hateful things and yet, which marginalized group has received the most? Gay white men.
I don't shop Target. They supported Trump so why should Black people still shop at places that don't support our lives and rights? Walmart , Amazon, LV, COACH, etc included. Put your money in places that really support black lives.
That Blue Bracelet doesn't mean she's an ally, it's more of a flex for her southern "Sisterhood" which is WW.. My bad: The green bracelets are for the southern sisterhood and the blue bracelets are to signal that she's a safe one.
Tbf you're not wrong, the blue bracelets serve the same purpose as the green ones, they're for ww to identify themselves to each other. The blue bracelets are virtue signalling and the green ones are violence signalling. Personally, I don't see much difference in either, they're both meant as a flex, just to different groups of ww who have differing values.
i will bet anyone a kajillion dollars that the woman showing off her blue bracelet to strangers for attention is regularly snubbing her black neighbors
They have never had to. Even during the push for Women’s Suffrage, it was black women doing the organizing, the rallies and the marches. Even though we knew we would not gain the right to vote when they did. We had the vision and it took 40 years for us to get that same right.
@@kristenchristopher9143Not only that but they didn’t include BW in many of their Women’s Suffrage conferences & conventions. So when women gained the right to vote, it was really WW, not BW. There’s stories of BW getting dressed up to vote & being turned away at the polls whilst WW went on bout their business. Said thanks but no thanks🤨😖
They know how, It's just 'uncomfortable' and discomfort is avoided at all costs. Believe me, there are a zillion white incompetent Coaches who never mention the word Black. We don't exist to them and they quickly shut us down in their spaces, so they know, we just don't matter. Having to look within and seeing the ugly stuff is not what anyone wants to do, BUT nothing will change until it's done, white Coaches included.
There is no way in the world they’re going to wear a BLM T-shirt. That would point them out, italicize and underline them as a person who supports black people to all their white friends and strangers. No way, that’s too much of a commitment.
It's about time we were judged by the color of our skin bc WW can be dangerous for others!!! I'd much rather be suspicious to others until they see my positive action (sorry not sure if I worded that correctly, not the sharpest tool in the shed).
And remember a lot of these "blue bracelet wearers" are front'in. They are great pretenders. Renember that trend where they started crying on a dime. Very performative.
For one thing, why is a white woman showing the black woman her blue bracelets? This is very odd and awkward. I live in the Washington DC area and this kind of interaction is very strange to me. Is this what it i really like in Southern states? WTF. Passing her TikTok along. SHE WAS AWESOME!!!
Thank you! For all the work you do for adding these videos to TH-cam because I don't watch Tik Tok. I wouldn't know about the extreme racism and disrespect that my sistas/people are experiencing in a variety of states due to this election. It's soo heartbreaking. 😢😢😢(understatement)
These are the very real questions bw need to be posing to “wyt friends” and not allowing them to just take up space and “exist” while remaining silent and playing fake allies 💅🏽 because if they were truly about “unity” how is it things still haven’t change?
I'm going to say this and it might offend someone, but it is what it is. I'm white. I've been a lifelong liberal, raised by liberal parents. I've married and have children outside of my race. I've almost exclusively dated outside my race. A great portion of my friends both irl and on social media are non-white people. I am from a small place where, like this woman, I can throw a stone and hit a racist. So I have been harassed by the cops and called racial slurs. I will always believe that our world can only truly prosper when we realize that any and all differences can be of value and need not be hated and feared. I also know that unless something really devastating happens that is unlikely. My friends know I'm a "safe space" and an ally. I don't need to remind them and I don't need anyone else to know. I, too, would have found this blue bracelet chick suspect from the jump. No one that truly understands the issues things that they need to remind others of them, especially People of Color.
Please don't use 'non-white' or 'people of colour'. This issue is affecting Black women, not POC. And 'non-white' still sets whiteness as the default and others anyone outside that default. Say 'Black women/Black people'. And learn to internalise W.A.I.T. it stands for Why Am I Talking? What purpose did this comment serve? Did you need to make it? Or was this your version of rattling a blue bracelet? Are you being genuine, or did you just want to publicise your credentials as One of the Good Ones™️? Get yourself a journal and write your thoughts and reflections in there. Because this comment of yours veered on the side of chest beating. You can comment in your journal rather than doing it here.
@mimimusick9734 I'm sorry but if you think that Black Women are the only ones being marginalized that is the problem. You think that Asians, for instance, weren't marginalized during Covid. I can tell you the were. Having a magat scream Wuhan at my 2 month old child and making his kids wait for another elevator was marginalization, whether you believe it is or not. Also, please think why I need to write my thoughts in a journal, but yours deserve a more public venue. I don't need to beat my chest and if that's what you got from my comment, I'm sorry that's a you issue. Maybe I'm not the one seeing whiteness as the default.
I'd like to clock in work and go home. No small talk no smiling no anything. In public the looks and stares for no reason is getting ridiculous. I just look and frown up and keep going. If someone speaks I act like I don't hear them. That's my peace. I'm not being friendly or helpful i hope nothing bad happens while I'm out because I'll be Ray Charles just blind to the whole situation of life outside of my home. That's how I'll be minding my own business.
Kamala brought hope to the table. Her intelligence is spot on! Her genuineness is real! I respect her for being so strong and put together during all this! It showed the world how much integrity she has! I honestly believe they cheated her out of this! So many pasty ones like me voted for Kamala. And were proud to! We saw her. We listened to her words. She inspired us! We were/are ready to turn that phucking page with her! That 🍊 one isn't in the damn oval office yet! Plz, don't give up. Racism is very much alive, but so is the will to keep fighting it! We are all drained after this crap shoot called an election, especially people of color. Not trusting us pasty ones is completely vaild! I get it. We haven't shown up enough! That part is something I can't deny. I had no idea what this blue bracelet thing was until I saw this video. I don't believe being genuine is about what you buy. It's in our hearts and the way we treat each other day by day. It's being able to just sit and listen to someone's story. It's about seeing people for their character, what makes them tick. It's about friendship and being true to those friendships. And simply being genuine to those around you! I would much rather have my money go to organizations that are run and are for the benefit of people of color. Not to some local Claire's owned by corporate America. That way, I would know my money is going to a place where it will do some kind of good. Plz don't give up on us completely. I know there is a long way to go, but we are in this together if you are still willing to allow us to stand with you!
Me I'm just minding my business 🤷🏿♀️ They need to mind their business too Sorry not Sorry we're done PERIOD 😮😮😮 An election should not have been a reason......how many years 🤔🤔🤔YT ppl bye 👋🏿👋🏿👋🏿
Such powerful insight! Thank you for the homework assignment. Sheryl Davenport, Black female, has been missing for 7 years. MIssing at age 55. Missing Person / NamUs #MP51904. Missing from Hercules CA. Last see by her boss the day before. She delivered papers in her neighborhood. I was truly shocked by how many have gone missing.... Cindy, your speaker brought such clarity in her share. Please invite her again. Sherly will not be in my thoughts and prayers as I travel in my county.
This is the perfect commentary for my point on today's trends how people though the Internet collectively jump on this to make it a thing hip, to do instead of the old days when the individual thought process carried out with in you as a, a person frist to represent the true problem and not to represent some out of the real problem but some emotional distinction in ones syki, so when you ran into a patriot that was really concerned about the problem they would be more intiment and meaningful in the out come.
Ok, I'm white, female, voted for Kamala Harris, Madam Vice President, soon to be President in 2028! (I hope she runs, anyway). I totally agree w/ the 1st lady (the 'black' lady ... the with it, one. I totally agree w/ her and know _I_ need to do better w/ this, I DO so locally, but I need to do better more than just locally (Ohio). And not just black & LGBTQ, but also Latina, and Indigenous. (tho also, a tad more difficult to make certain they aren't GOPpers). But totally agree, SOME LGBTQIA or POC folks do better, but idk why some folks need an 'atta girl' or 'atta boy' for BEING a DECENT human being! That's WTF you are SUPPOSED to do!
Yt women need to talk to each other & work shit out amongst themselves. Yt women have so much work to do within their own community. That should keep them busy enough to just leave us alone... WE DON'T TRUST Y'ALL!
Anti-racism efforts are problematic because they uphold- or allow for the existence of race, a non-sensical, regressive and highly destructive concept. That is why counter racism, as opposed to anti-racism is necessary.
Black woman stop giving people attention let them with a blue bracelet, stop doing videos on them, you’re giving them free promotion, black ladies let’s talk about issues that we are going to deal with within our community..
EXACTLY!!! responding to this nonsense makes us just as foolish as we say they are. Sisters, this is serious and we have real work to do. Stop playing around and do your assignment!
I wasn’t aware of this “blue bracelet” thing because I’m not much on social media, especially Tik Tok. But I appreciate your video and all the creators’ points. And in a weird way, thank you -woman in Target- for sparking this conversation!
😂😂 Well, I'm a off white hillbilly Democrat Confederate and I don't give a good GD about bracelets,act like somebody and you will be treated like somebody, regardless of skin color and you know I'm pretty sure brains all are about the same color but I do not know for sure 🤔
This makes me sad. I was so wrong thinking things were better. I can see why black women are fuggin angry. What that lady did at Target was creepy and selfish not to show support but to rub salve all over her ego. You don't need a blue bracelet to prove anything. People are not stupid they can see inner light. I'm a white woman, and I'M scared to death of this orange maniac! I can't even imagine what black women must feel. If women want to help women, one good idea is to look to your city or town and get into local politics and volunteer. Thanks for your insights. 🖖💗
The homophobia in the black community is so damn annoying and it needs to end. There is not a damn thing wrong with being gay, and it's time to stop stifling people. We have enough death in our community and homophobia just leads to more death. STOP IT.
A ww in social media wanted to show she’s “a safe space for Black women” her words not mine she wanted to know what can she wear to do so-her idea was wearing a blue bracelet….smh keep your blue bracelet is most of us response myself included
❤❤❤ let love that Sista because they do have work to do no way no way everybody can just vote third-party will not sit at home cause there’s no way I would’ve voted for these other two demons not we got fooled by Obama
I don't understand how people think a blue bracelet is the answer. Go vote in your local state elections. Every state has about 7 elections every year. Find yours and vote in them. Write letters to your local authority, congress, leaders, call them, email them. Attend local board meetings and speak out in them. Volunteer for local organizations that help these marginalized communities. These are the actions necessary. A blue bracelet means nothing if these things aren't getting done.
I am just so amazed, maybe not, of how they want use to treat them differently based off a blue bracelet however they have been grouping us together for centuries. GTFOH
I'm latina, and i would be proud to show you my phone. And am very disappointed in most of my family. But they will soon find out, that i was right. ✌️💙😇🙏
I feel her. Being performative is not the answer. Wearing a bracelet can be done by either friend or foe. Let your character speak for you. She was probably lonely and just needed someone to talk to that shared her same views, who knows. I don't know. However I do believe that any ally is a good ally. What I also know is wearing a bracelet is a good idea for showing support for cancer patients but not necessarily for political views for so many reasons. The next four years is going to probably be among the worst America has seen since it's establishing but show your support in the next two years by voting for good over greed, equality over inequality. Make it a habit to support others who think like you do. With the political retribution agent cheese puffs has already started implementing we need to not necessarily push people away who have some understanding of what democracy looks like and start getting to know who is who. I'm reminded of John Smith's role in history. Not saying that the same thing is going to happen as in his case but how it helps to boost morale with an ally you didn't expect.
11:18 It's also looking inward, and addressing the ways we've learned to be casually racist... And I'm not getting into the systemic element of it. There are plenty of academics of color who've deconstructed that topic beautifully.
What’s funny is that Byron Donalds was considered one of the good and smarts ones and he still did t get picked by Trump 😂😂. She’s Byron to their community 😊
Gigglesnort "They Not Like Us" can apply to soooo many things now, song of the year for sure!! And yes, virtue signallers are gross *"the causacity"- lol I love that!!😂😂
It was that last part about the missing black women that really got to me. She broke this down so well. Not being seen is a reality for us.
As a man I heard a lot that this lady said.....what was the nerve strike??
ACTION....OVER ACCESSORIE
WOW!🎉
It's also native American women and it's probably going to get worse. Women of the world be prepared to defend themselves no matter what. ❤
Trust is earned, not purchased at Michael's. Allies, do the work to make a positive difference, not to be seen.
😂right
why is it so hard for white women to leave black women alone.
They have no existence except it be through someone else. They've really slit their own throats with new election. WM are really coming for them and they see it now but it's too late. They've never been able to defend or support themselves so ...............here it is. BW are the only race of women for the most part that have money and that money is not tied to a man.
Right
This right here! That simple!!!
Because we keep doing videos, we keep giving them free promotion, that will bring used to their channel, I don’t understand. Black females are smart. Why don’t we get this? Stop giving people free promotion let’s talk about our issues… let’s talk about black people issues in their community. How are we going to fix that to hell with the blue bracelet? Let them have their bracelets.
What else would they do?
The ww is upset because she did not care about her blue bracelet..the work starts in your own community Ma'am..
Period
What can they do? They can get tf out of our faces.
Period
That part
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YES THATS WAT THEY CAN DO. SCAT!
Sorry, but why did I find Steven Evens comment hilarious ?😅😅
They could just smile, say hi and be nice. Treat others as humans. Its not hard. The fact that they even feel the need to have to do this says a lot about their community.
You’re asking a lot from a group of people descended from other people that lacked soul.
It's a virtue signal for the ones who dont actually want to do any work. (Besides arts and crafts) If they even did 1 ounce of work, they would have known how most BW feel about the blue bracelet and what it symbolizes. They want to be like "omg I'm such a good person guys LOOK AT ME"
@@getinloser666 That’s the myth and that’s what we’re supposed to believe but most whites in the US have a parent, grandparent or great grandparent with an accent from some shit-hole eastern European country that they fled from so they don’t have anything to do with slavery…but they do think to be a real American (this goes for the “people of color, too) is to think they can treat Black Americans a certain way.
With or without allyship of any race Black Women gonna be alright..🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💯💯💯💯💯💯
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{Those bracelets mean nothing to us. Maga already said they’re gonna wear it for giggles.}
And imma wear my legal carry 😅.go about my business. Smh
Hey, didn't know MAGA would wear them, but they aren't the kind of people that typically care about others based on their voting policies. One day they will figure out we no longer want to engage with them. I'm done with MAGA. I am one of those w women that voted blue up and down the ballot because I support democracy, freedom, and I give a flip about safety and well-being of others, especially women. I can't imagine a more tone-deaf and offensive thing to do right now, then show off her blue bracelet to suggest solidarity with other women of color and B women. To other w women who voted like I did and am distraught by how the election went, I get it. You feel devastated and you want to console others. But, think about how that gesture comes across? I a man came up to me wearing a bracelet to show he voted blue, that isn't going to help me when as a woman, I have a target on my back simply because I'm a woman in patriarchy. So, apply that to your skin tone. Just don't do it. Let it go and respect BW by not shoving a blue bracelet in their face. It's disrespectful and doesn't change how bad this outcome is. B women have always been the leaders of our community and support us. Well, over half of w women failed their sisters. And so did a lot of other demographics. For now, just leave these women alone. It's the least we can do. I usually subscribe to mostly channels of B W and WOC because these women speak the truth.
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Regardless of who wears it fkem all
Its giving weaponized incompetence
First Black woman in these comments I’ve seen understand this.
They should just leave African-American women alone...they need a break.
It’s giving, “Look what I made for you mommy.” 😂😂😂
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Hollering 😂😂
What's happening now and yet to come is a RECKONING!!!! Welcome to how we live everyday.💔💔
Yup it's coming for them. We already been through judgement. I don't think they could handle what black people have to go through !
Yesterday morning a white lady was handing out tshirts asking people to care about the feelings of others. I let my dog sniff the shirt and kept it moving. So done with them.
WE DONT WANT FRIENDSHIP BRACELETS, ITS TOO LATE FOR THAT SH*T🤬💙💙💙💙💙☕☠️
I know right. GTFOH it's too late for that!!!!
Exactly
She wanted head pats.
THEY CAN GET THAT PAT. 🐕🦮🐕🦺 WOOF WOOF
Right. We need to carry around doggie snacks for them
Just tell them that they're showing their bracelets to the wrong person .and that they should go and show it to your own people
That part
My problem with the blue bracelet movement is I could never wear a bracelet to show that I'm "one of the good blacks," so why should it be easy for you?! 😒
This should be the pinned post🎉
Bc we should simply believe Anything they say bc I can't think independently
I wear a mask because they hate that. 😊
did you not listen to the story though? This is about a pro Kamala person showing a blue bracelet, not about a Trump supporter. The woman with the blue bracelet most likely had the standard view the left has on masks if anything.
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Beautiful!
@@tiasara5967 its not beautiful it doesn't make any sense! why wear a mask to bother a person with a blue bracelet? they would be wearing masks too still!
Hmm, I may do this.
Ugh 🙄these dam false allies😮💨.
Since when have Black people had allies, outside of ourselves?
Why is it that every time someone brings up a topic about black people the gay and trans Community has to be brought up? The struggles have nothing to do with each other. And I'm tired of hearing about them in conjunction with us.
Exactly👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Because Black gay & trans people exist. ☮️
@@dolleyes5062 That’s not what that✋🏼lady was alluding to, now was it, she was lumping all marginalized groups together, which minimizes the efforts made by black ppl. Our community by voting the way we did at 92% were thinking of the collective rights of all Black ppl, which does not exclude those groups. We are Black first before anything else, so our experiences as a collective are inherently different, to include those of the LGBTQIA community, than other marginalized groups in this country😉
@@choochooj9738 I respectfully disagree. While many of the 92% of Black voters DID vote for us as a whole, there's a vocal minority that's anti-LGBTQ, because of their religious beliefs, a couple of whom are in the Comments section of this video.
I'm Black first before anything else too, but I'm not gonna ignore every other aspect of my identity (being dark-skinned, of a certain age & poor) just because some members of my community may be uncomfortable.
And they can fight their own fight
She spoke the 💯 truth . Those Effin blue bracelets are so performative, do they want a medal for wearing a blue bracelet now ? JFC 🙄🙄🙄 Please Stop
Yeah. I’ll grant they are coming from a good place, to show some sort of solidarity after the majority of white women followed white men in voting Trump. It’s just not a good look, even if you didn’t vote Trump.
@@bfdidc6604It wasn’t just white men and women there were other races as well. They aren’t coming from a good place. Those blue bracelets are racist.
3/4 of the way through and I still don't know what a blue bracelet means.
@@bfdidc6604They’re not coming from a good place
@@onlymebaby.9249 the blue bracelets mean she and other ⚪️ women are showing their solidarity and ally-ship for black women
I needed to hear this. I’m on a mission to show actions speak louder than words now. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I’ve been called out, and I hear you.
Too little too late, keep your bracelet, it changes nothing
CHANGES NOTHING🫡 GOOD BYE
ww: *runs to show off her blue bracelet*
Bw: ok and? was that purchase from a black owned business? 😂
Fellow WW -Quit asking, wigging about the bracelets. Wear them or don’t. Look inside. If you can’t deal with the discomfort you’re feeling about some beads that’s where you start. And stay there until you can see your upset about this is gone. Then listen to this woman again. She gave us a list of EASY things to do.
I honestly think I would feel threatened 🤔. I'm running towards security, or the nearest exit! They are trying to trick me into that "brown van". How easy is it just to stay away from us. They usually run from us, filled with the fake fear, that they created. Maybe I should start wearing A red and black bracelet🤔 Red for the blood I'm willing to shed to protect my black skin...🖤❤️🤷🏾♀️🤣
Fun fact, those were the original colors of the Haitian flag for that very reason! I say we need a come back 😂😂
I do love the W ladies who get it, who really get it. Thank you for your real support.
Your daily unseen actions are what is helpful, not some one-off craft project. Thank you.
I agree. True allies. I am for. The ones that were there before the election and beyond.
Please stop, this is so embarrassing. It’s so easy with y’all.
If allyship amongst White women and Black women was remotely a thing, or even possible, there would have been some sign of it by now.
Some of you are genuinely waiting for Christ to come back before you get the message.
They pander to you to avoid blending with the rest of their population. It’s their method of “standing out” to be perceived as “different from the rest”.
That doesn’t necessarily mean the quality of their character is any better than the flock they come from.
@getinloser666 I'm sorry you feel this way. You have been truly hurt. There is nothing I can say that will heal your pain. We as sistas(I take it that you are)
are not monolithic. We have lived different lives and experiences. 😃 If there are more people that feel like you, then you really should feel unbothered for people like us. Somebody has to help keep the world moving forward. Some of our ancestors had WW allies, too. This is just the beginning, however we will get through this. 🙏
This💯
@@sunnie19🌌💗🥂💐💯
PSA: Stop saying Black.... then proceed to talk about lgbtq and POC. Let "black" stand on it's on and get the shine, without bringing up marginalized communities....thank you
@@bre9328 well isn't that really the same as white supremists saying that only white matters and that whites should stop "letting others bring them down?" See you can't think you're issues should be set aside from every one else's issues. That is why we are in the place we are. Racism exists in every population and it is JUST AS DISGUSTING no matter what group it comes from. Period. There is no progression of unity of you keep distancing yourselves from the total issues. All marginalized groups face the same issues. And especially Latinos/Hispanics and Muslims. They deal with just as much racist rhetoric. Full stop.
Thank you!
This has to be said louder . People need to stop grouping blacks with other people. Every group should have their on time to speak.
Amen!!!
@@sabrinatai31 I said this very thing back in the nineties. Was called all kind of hateful things and yet, which marginalized group has received the most? Gay white men.
“This is the moment to start seeing others.” 💯
A Trump voter can put on a blue bracelet
They are Strange . I really hate I cant avoid some of them . Don't deserve it Lord .
😂
I don't shop Target. They supported Trump so why should Black people still shop at places that don't support our lives and rights? Walmart , Amazon, LV, COACH, etc included. Put your money in places that really support black lives.
This was very eye-opening for me. Thank you both.
That Blue Bracelet doesn't mean she's an ally, it's more of a flex for her southern "Sisterhood" which is WW.. My bad: The green bracelets are for the southern sisterhood and the blue bracelets are to signal that she's a safe one.
Tbf you're not wrong, the blue bracelets serve the same purpose as the green ones, they're for ww to identify themselves to each other. The blue bracelets are virtue signalling and the green ones are violence signalling. Personally, I don't see much difference in either, they're both meant as a flex, just to different groups of ww who have differing values.
Now they’re seeing how we feel every day & every where we go.
History! Remember Garvey..
Girl. The ONLY blue bracelet i wanna see are the colors royal blue and white from my sorority sisters and brother! D9 is ALWAYS fine!
boule
Okay Zeta👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
i will bet anyone a kajillion dollars that the woman showing off her blue bracelet to strangers for attention is regularly snubbing her black neighbors
She doesn’t have black neighbors lm guessing.
WTF is blue bracelet
Some sh** they can leave on that dresser at home!!
But it’s show they are an “ally” with black women!
Exactly! Because I don't have a clue.🤔
I believe that they truly don't know how to put in the work.
This!!! It’s a tall tell they don’t know as they’ve never been made to do it until now.
They've never had to. Someone has always done the work for them.
They have never had to. Even during the push for Women’s Suffrage, it was black women doing the organizing, the rallies and the marches. Even though we knew we would not gain the right to vote when they did. We had the vision and it took 40 years for us to get that same right.
@@kristenchristopher9143Not only that but they didn’t include BW in many of their Women’s Suffrage conferences & conventions. So when women gained the right to vote, it was really WW, not BW. There’s stories of BW getting dressed up to vote & being turned away at the polls whilst WW went on bout their business. Said thanks but no thanks🤨😖
They know how, It's just 'uncomfortable' and discomfort is avoided at all costs. Believe me, there are a zillion white incompetent Coaches who never mention the word Black. We don't exist to them and they quickly shut us down in their spaces, so they know, we just don't matter.
Having to look within and seeing the ugly stuff is not what anyone wants to do, BUT nothing will change until it's done, white Coaches included.
Lmao the demons really did fall from heaven and reincarnated as yt people 😂
There is no way in the world they’re going to wear a BLM T-shirt. That would point them out, italicize and underline them as a person who supports black people to all their white friends and strangers. No way, that’s too much of a commitment.
It's about time we were judged by the color of our skin bc WW can be dangerous for others!!! I'd much rather be suspicious to others until they see my positive action (sorry not sure if I worded that correctly, not the sharpest tool in the shed).
And remember a lot of these "blue bracelet wearers" are front'in. They are great pretenders. Renember that trend where they started crying on a dime. Very performative.
Was that first WW being genuine? It didn't seem like it, but she might just talk like that..
For one thing, why is a white woman showing the black woman her blue bracelets? This is very odd and awkward. I live in the Washington DC area and this kind of interaction is very strange to me. Is this what it i really like in Southern states? WTF. Passing her TikTok along. SHE WAS AWESOME!!!
As a white woman, my black friends KNOW how I feel by my ACTIONS. I don't need a bracelet. 😢🤬💙💙💙💙💙💙
Thanks for watching guys. Video credit to 👉🏾 blancheedeverheaux
Thank you! For all the work you do for adding these videos to TH-cam because I don't watch Tik Tok. I wouldn't know about the extreme racism and disrespect that my sistas/people are experiencing in a variety of states due to this election. It's soo heartbreaking. 😢😢😢(understatement)
These are the very real questions bw need to be posing to “wyt friends” and not allowing them to just take up space and “exist” while remaining silent and playing fake allies 💅🏽 because if they were truly about “unity” how is it things still haven’t change?
I’m so happy I have a Black Female therapist 😊
They really think they're going to get into our good graces by showing their blue bracelets? Nope!
I'm going to say this and it might offend someone, but it is what it is. I'm white. I've been a lifelong liberal, raised by liberal parents. I've married and have children outside of my race. I've almost exclusively dated outside my race. A great portion of my friends both irl and on social media are non-white people. I am from a small place where, like this woman, I can throw a stone and hit a racist. So I have been harassed by the cops and called racial slurs. I will always believe that our world can only truly prosper when we realize that any and all differences can be of value and need not be hated and feared. I also know that unless something really devastating happens that is unlikely. My friends know I'm a "safe space" and an ally. I don't need to remind them and I don't need anyone else to know. I, too, would have found this blue bracelet chick suspect from the jump. No one that truly understands the issues things that they need to remind others of them, especially People of Color.
Correction* Especially Black people poc is everyone else
Please don't use 'non-white' or 'people of colour'. This issue is affecting Black women, not POC. And 'non-white' still sets whiteness as the default and others anyone outside that default. Say 'Black women/Black people'. And learn to internalise W.A.I.T. it stands for Why Am I Talking? What purpose did this comment serve? Did you need to make it? Or was this your version of rattling a blue bracelet? Are you being genuine, or did you just want to publicise your credentials as One of the Good Ones™️?
Get yourself a journal and write your thoughts and reflections in there. Because this comment of yours veered on the side of chest beating. You can comment in your journal rather than doing it here.
@mimimusick9734 I'm sorry but if you think that Black Women are the only ones being marginalized that is the problem. You think that Asians, for instance, weren't marginalized during Covid. I can tell you the were. Having a magat scream Wuhan at my 2 month old child and making his kids wait for another elevator was marginalization, whether you believe it is or not. Also, please think why I need to write my thoughts in a journal, but yours deserve a more public venue. I don't need to beat my chest and if that's what you got from my comment, I'm sorry that's a you issue. Maybe I'm not the one seeing whiteness as the default.
@mimimusick9734 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Yes and thank you!!!!!
Why would my reply get erased. That's pretty biased. It wasn't offensive, just truth.
All these women are going overboard. Take a vacation everybody. Drop it.
Thank you. This is seriously teaching me the difference between a wole ww & a WOKE ww.
I'd like to clock in work and go home. No small talk no smiling no anything. In public the looks and stares for no reason is getting ridiculous. I just look and frown up and keep going. If someone speaks I act like I don't hear them. That's my peace. I'm not being friendly or helpful i hope nothing bad happens while I'm out because I'll be Ray Charles just blind to the whole situation of life outside of my home. That's how I'll be minding my own business.
No real Harris supporter is going to wear one!!!!!
Kamala brought hope to the table. Her intelligence is spot on! Her genuineness is real! I respect her for being so strong and put together during all this! It showed the world how much integrity she has! I honestly believe they cheated her out of this! So many pasty ones like me voted for Kamala. And were proud to! We saw her. We listened to her words. She inspired us! We were/are ready to turn that phucking page with her! That 🍊 one isn't in the damn oval office yet! Plz, don't give up. Racism is very much alive, but so is the will to keep fighting it! We are all drained after this crap shoot called an election, especially people of color. Not trusting us pasty ones is completely vaild! I get it. We haven't shown up enough! That part is something I can't deny. I had no idea what this blue bracelet thing was until I saw this video. I don't believe being genuine is about what you buy. It's in our hearts and the way we treat each other day by day. It's being able to just sit and listen to someone's story. It's about seeing people for their character, what makes them tick. It's about friendship and being true to those friendships. And simply being genuine to those around you! I would much rather have my money go to organizations that are run and are for the benefit of people of color. Not to some local Claire's owned by corporate America. That way, I would know my money is going to a place where it will do some kind of good. Plz don't give up on us completely. I know there is a long way to go, but we are in this together if you are still willing to allow us to stand with you!
I bet those WW didn’t buy those bracelets from a black owned business either 🙃. #bunchofgoofies
I love your channel❤
Me too. 😊
Awww… thank you so much❤
White women need to learn to listen. Black women told you when the blue bracelets idea came up, it was a No for us.
Me I'm just minding my business 🤷🏿♀️
They need to mind their business too
Sorry not Sorry we're done PERIOD 😮😮😮 An election should not have been a reason......how many years 🤔🤔🤔YT ppl bye 👋🏿👋🏿👋🏿
What's this lady's social media tag, so we can follow her?
She wrote in a comment that it's blancheedeverheaux
Such powerful insight! Thank you for the homework assignment. Sheryl Davenport, Black female, has been missing for 7 years. MIssing at age 55. Missing Person / NamUs #MP51904. Missing from Hercules CA. Last see by her boss the day before. She delivered papers in her neighborhood. I was truly shocked by how many have gone missing.... Cindy, your speaker brought such clarity in her share. Please invite her again. Sherly will not be in my thoughts and prayers as I travel in my county.
This is the perfect commentary for my point on today's trends how people though the Internet collectively jump on this to make it a thing hip, to do instead of the old days when the individual thought process carried out with in you as a, a person frist to represent the true problem and not to represent some out of the real problem but some emotional distinction in ones syki, so when you ran into a patriot that was really concerned about the problem they would be more intiment and meaningful in the out come.
Ok, I'm white, female, voted for Kamala Harris, Madam Vice President, soon to be President in 2028! (I hope she runs, anyway).
I totally agree w/ the 1st lady (the 'black' lady ... the with it, one. I totally agree w/ her and know _I_ need to do better w/ this, I DO so locally, but I need to do better more than just locally (Ohio). And not just black & LGBTQ, but also Latina, and Indigenous. (tho also, a tad more difficult to make certain they aren't GOPpers). But totally agree, SOME LGBTQIA or POC folks do better, but idk why some folks need an 'atta girl' or 'atta boy' for BEING a DECENT human being! That's WTF you are SUPPOSED to do!
I try to keep up. As a senior your "focus" tend to be in another direction. So glad this popped in my feed....
Esau's time is up.
You keep me grounded in my depression ❤
"The action over the accessory"
Bravo
Yt women need to talk to each other & work shit out amongst themselves. Yt women have so much work to do within their own community. That should keep them busy enough to just leave us alone... WE DON'T TRUST Y'ALL!
Yeah, that would freak me out.
Its time to let our Black brothers and sisters alone. That’s the way to show respect. ❤
Anti-racism efforts are problematic because they uphold- or allow for the existence of race, a non-sensical, regressive and highly destructive concept. That is why counter racism, as opposed to anti-racism is necessary.
NO RESPONSE…keep protecting your peace BLACK WOMEN…
Black woman stop giving people attention let them with a blue bracelet, stop doing videos on them, you’re giving them free promotion, black ladies let’s talk about issues that we are going to deal with within our community..
EXACTLY!!! responding to this nonsense makes us just as foolish as we say they are. Sisters, this is serious and we have real work to do. Stop playing around and do your assignment!
@ amen 👏👏
I wasn’t aware of this “blue bracelet” thing because I’m not much on social media, especially Tik Tok. But I appreciate your video and all the creators’ points. And in a weird way, thank you -woman in Target- for sparking this conversation!
I didn't know anything about the blus bracelet BS. I would've been firm when I told her to get away from me.
😂😂 Well, I'm a off white hillbilly Democrat Confederate and I don't give a good GD about bracelets,act like somebody and you will be treated like somebody, regardless of skin color and you know I'm pretty sure brains all are about the same color but I do not know for sure 🤔
This makes me sad. I was so wrong thinking things were better. I can see why black women are fuggin angry. What that lady did at Target was creepy and selfish not to show support but to rub salve all over her ego.
You don't need a blue bracelet to prove anything. People are not stupid they can see inner light.
I'm a white woman, and I'M scared to death of this orange maniac! I can't even imagine what black women must feel.
If women want to help women, one good idea is to look to your city or town and get into local politics and volunteer.
Thanks for your insights. 🖖💗
Please stop EQUATING BLACK WITH GAY ! WE ARENT IN THAT EITHER PLEASE
The homophobia in the black community is so damn annoying and it needs to end. There is not a damn thing wrong with being gay, and it's time to stop stifling people. We have enough death in our community and homophobia just leads to more death. STOP IT.
So gay Black women don't exist?
Black gays prove otherwise. ☮️
Thumbs up 👍 my friend. This is interesting . Watching
Damn.... i may be a tad slow...
But I've never heard of Blue bracelet...
Could any of u educate me??
It was to show people that they didn’t vote for Trump. 😂
A ww in social media wanted to show she’s “a safe space for Black women” her words not mine she wanted to know what can she wear to do so-her idea was wearing a blue bracelet….smh keep your blue bracelet is most of us response myself included
❤❤❤ let love that Sista because they do have work to do no way no way everybody can just vote third-party will not sit at home cause there’s no way I would’ve voted for these other two demons not we got fooled by Obama
I don't understand how people think a blue bracelet is the answer. Go vote in your local state elections. Every state has about 7 elections every year. Find yours and vote in them. Write letters to your local authority, congress, leaders, call them, email them. Attend local board meetings and speak out in them. Volunteer for local organizations that help these marginalized communities. These are the actions necessary. A blue bracelet means nothing if these things aren't getting done.
What does the blue bracelet mean or stand for i dont understand please explain someone
I am just so amazed, maybe not, of how they want use to treat them differently based off a blue bracelet however they have been grouping us together for centuries. GTFOH
@@lovingchange2761 That part. They want to be seen as an individual. Well so do I..
@@storieswithjedwhenitstimef6004 EXACTLY
“ Yall got crafty “ 😂😂😂😂
Wow, people can we just live our lives and go through this world as normally as possible.
If you a porch someone say hello and move on.
They will recognize you by your actions and your heart. No need to mark yourself.
I'm latina, and i would be proud to show you my phone. And am very disappointed in most of my family. But they will soon find out, that i was right. ✌️💙😇🙏
I feel her. Being performative is not the answer. Wearing a bracelet can be done by either friend or foe. Let your character speak for you. She was probably lonely and just needed someone to talk to that shared her same views, who knows. I don't know. However I do believe that any ally is a good ally. What I also know is wearing a bracelet is a good idea for showing support for cancer patients but not necessarily for political views for so many reasons. The next four years is going to probably be among the worst America has seen since it's establishing but show your support in the next two years by voting for good over greed, equality over inequality. Make it a habit to support others who think like you do. With the political retribution agent cheese puffs has already started implementing we need to not necessarily push people away who have some understanding of what democracy looks like and start getting to know who is who. I'm reminded of John Smith's role in history. Not saying that the same thing is going to happen as in his case but how it helps to boost morale with an ally you didn't expect.
...why do they want credit for something no one asked them to do? Mfg...smdh
Those blue tags represent danger.
Thank you for this. I do follow black creators. I do not wear a freaking bracelet to draw attention to both of us. Thank you for all the ideas. ❤💙
11:18 It's also looking inward, and addressing the ways we've learned to be casually racist...
And I'm not getting into the systemic element of it. There are plenty of academics of color who've deconstructed that topic beautifully.
She still standing there 😂
😂😂😂
What’s funny is that Byron Donalds was considered one of the good and smarts ones and he still did t get picked by Trump 😂😂. She’s Byron to their community 😊
Gigglesnort "They Not Like Us" can apply to soooo many things now, song of the year for sure!! And yes, virtue signallers are gross *"the causacity"- lol I love that!!😂😂
It’s the people in the comment section asking what to do. When she stated a few things to do.
Id have told her... and look at me, ALL FRESH OUT OF COOKIES...
Wow. No words.