"How I Left My Abusive Marriage"

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  • @lanahungrygen
    @lanahungrygen  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

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    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You need repent you can't remarry 1 Corinthians 7:10-16
      King James Version
      10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
      11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
      12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.
      13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
      14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.
      15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.
      16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?
      1 Corinthians 7:39-40
      King James Version
      39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
      40 But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God.

  • @Chocolate-x4z
    @Chocolate-x4z 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Dear sister please pray for me, I been so heart broken 💔. I been in very emotionally abusive relationship. I feel like my heart is so broken and I m so wounded, for sure time doesn’t heal at all. My x divorced me a decade ago and I started to date a man that loves me dearly, but my past wounds resurfaced and I cry. Please pray for me, it’s been so difficult and painful… I try to move on.. please help me.. pray for me

    • @sshadia80
      @sshadia80 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      MAY THE ALMIGHTY GOD RESORE you and heal you 🙏

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 Corinthians 7:10-16
      King James Version
      10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
      11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
      12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.
      13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
      14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.
      15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.
      16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?
      1 Corinthians 7:39-40
      King James Version
      39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
      40 But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God.

  • @JoorJoanna
    @JoorJoanna 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Emotional and psychological abuse is so much worse than physical. What proof do you have that you are living with a man that hates you? I was begging my husband to hit me. He would never leave marks, but he destroyed me. I left before the marriage could kill me.
    Thank God, we had no children (I would have loved and treasured them, if I had been so blessed).

  • @ninamarise237
    @ninamarise237 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    God bless her and her children for escaping this horrible nightmare. 😞🙏🙏🙏
    This is also a great example of why we should never put pastors and church leaders on a Pedestal! They are Human. The ONLY one we should Glorify is God.

    • @fridanjiru
      @fridanjiru 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Teaching marriage is easy.It's the doing that's hard

  • @audra2211
    @audra2211 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you sweet one for sharing this story. Your former husband sounds like a person with NPD. Would love a video on the unclean spirit of NPDs. Many of us suffered in marriages for many years, confused, unhappy, lonely. I am recently divorced after a 30-year-marriage of this abuse.

  • @audra2211
    @audra2211 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for speaking about the Biblical truth of divorce. When the covenant is broken, we do not have to remain accepting the abuse and servitude. This is not the Lord's will.

  • @FlavorFindsChannel
    @FlavorFindsChannel 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yes I know the story. I know her and all I can say is that she is a strong woman

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who is Frida?💟💟🕸️🕸️

    • @aimableshingiro4059
      @aimableshingiro4059 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Frida Gashumba. Buy her book!

  • @achayilwoman
    @achayilwoman 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    “Everytime that we get into situation that is very unknown for us, God brings a new grace for that.” - Frida
    Hallelujah! 🔥

  • @OliviaShuche
    @OliviaShuche 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank God for saving your life and setting you free my sister. Lana, thanks for letting God use you to share this story. She's been through too much. But one thing is for sure, God has turned your suffering into victory and you're saving lives now. All glory to Him alone ❤

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Indeed...period!🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @MaggyKN
    @MaggyKN 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are a very strong woman, Fridah! God bless you! I would love hear your story even more! ❤

  • @windspan20
    @windspan20 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God Bless you abundantly sister. You are a voice for so many women,

  • @audra2211
    @audra2211 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would say if you are being abused in any way, psychological abuse, emotional abuse, Narcissistic abuse, sexual abuse is as dangerous and the urgency to leave is as important.

  • @yelena9335
    @yelena9335 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This testimony is so good, thank you for sharing. Abuse is very hard to deal with.

  • @candicebarnard1039
    @candicebarnard1039 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The sound is very bad. I'm sorry about that because you really have very good information to share with us. I hope it will be fixed or a reintiview will do 😊 God bless you Lana. I love you and Vlad very much. You are a great example to the church. Lots of love from SA

  • @elained7006
    @elained7006 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi! First time viewing Lana
    Blessings

  • @silvershepherd2124
    @silvershepherd2124 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I read the videotitle and thought that Lana had quit the marriage with Vlad. I'm glad the topic is not about her and Vlad😅

  • @belovedsoniathewriter
    @belovedsoniathewriter 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Powerful testimony of forgiveness ❤‍🔥

  • @bijouxmugisha3519
    @bijouxmugisha3519 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for sharing 🙏

  • @achayilwoman
    @achayilwoman 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Blessings! God bless you all women! 💛🌟

  • @elquenotienesubs1934
    @elquenotienesubs1934 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Marriage doesn’t save you for choosing the wrong person for the wrong reasons
    Unless your insecurities are bigger than your rational thinking

  • @Maphakathiinside1703
    @Maphakathiinside1703 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank u for ur story

  • @melaniemartin730
    @melaniemartin730 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Unfortunately, not everyone else was that lucky enough to survive something like she did...period!👽💔👽💔👽💔😢

  • @oxygen2620
    @oxygen2620 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May God bless her♥️

  • @lbfaith
    @lbfaith 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Idk if im being manipulated like his changes are a tactic to get me to stay in the marriage. He says I lack sexual jntamcy. And I do bc I don’t feel connected or seen. I feel used to cater. However I feel he’s been neglecting me. I feel second class to his hobby. We’re on verge of divorce. But since he knows I’m serious and not crying in these convos anymore. He said he’s gonna participate now. He says he doesn’t know what to talk to me about anymore but we’ve been married so long and have talked about everything now. So I need friends. He admitted he was wrong when he said I didn’t need them and prevented making them. He’s capable of accountability but only happens when he feels like I’m leaving. Now he’s doing all these changes but I feel he’s doing them disgruntled and taking what I said in his own interpretation like a said for him to stop yelling and cussing at us. So he’s like sorry the downstairs is still a mess. I’m not allowed to yell in my house now so the kids didn’t respond to me telling them 10x. But I’m not allowed to yell. Or buying his own dinner instead of eating what I made when I said I wish he’d get his plate instead of walking awayfrom it and making me bring it to him. I don’t think he truly wants to change. I feel a resistance and if I try to work on this for the 7th time he’s gonna revert back to being catered to and me being put on the back burner. But be my fault if we get divorce cuz he did all these changes yet I haven’t gave more sex. He’s starting to act nicer. He actually got off the game this morning to give me a kiss and say good morning. Been saying thank you lately.
    I really don’t trust this ‘change’ honestly.

  • @marytommasulo5752
    @marytommasulo5752 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He would say to me" I mean mary cmon..how would you be if u had to be in a room with my wife"..??...where's the maturity?..huh mary?..I responded with..now that's funnh..who's the one smoking pot all day playing fricken video games with 5 dogs in a house?...where's the maturity there?

    • @marytommasulo5752
      @marytommasulo5752 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And all thus talk about having their back...where the he'll are they having my back....what about taking my hand and saying..cmon mary..let's get you out of that house????

  • @gris417
    @gris417 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What religion was her family? That part wasn’t clear. Thank you

    • @mollybeth8140
      @mollybeth8140 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She said her family was Catholic.

  • @b.j7314
    @b.j7314 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You never stay in a marriage when there is abuse!

    • @melmisquitta9960
      @melmisquitta9960 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But the bible is not clear on this so it's really hard to navigate actually

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can leave if you're getting beat but you cannot remarry read 1st Corinthians 7

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@melmisquitta99601 Corinthians 7:10-16
      King James Version
      10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
      11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
      12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.
      13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
      14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.
      15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.
      16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?
      1 Corinthians 7:39-40
      King James Version
      39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
      40 But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God.

  • @sopheangath1773
    @sopheangath1773 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am living with my second marriage, still struggling back and forth asking crazy questions, am I right? Am I destroying the marriage?

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your living open adultery. Says Jesus

  • @achayilwoman
    @achayilwoman 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🌟💛

  • @potomuhto
    @potomuhto 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I tried to catch her answer: what her family religion she’s came from?

    • @JoorJoanna
      @JoorJoanna 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Muslim

    • @mollybeth8140
      @mollybeth8140 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She said Catholic, not Muslim.

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  • @angeldeocareza5330
    @angeldeocareza5330 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @soccerlife5041
    @soccerlife5041 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So you can leave marriage and remarry? If then why marry