On the top of it , you can only do this with NO CONTACT ! Total cut off is needed. Narcissists are trained to sniff your efforts to get back to your self worth and they have non dodge- able tools to break you down again !!
Please make a video on how to handle in- laws who are both narsissist. Many girls suffer in the hands of such in- laws, while you husband cannot take a stand for you..
Some experts maybe said person who live with narcissist have bpd, dependent, etc. But the truth is everything I did, narcissist will destroy it. Everything.
One thing a narc truly believes is that the victim can't do anything without them. Building one's own life with no place in it for the narc is the way to destroy the narc's ego.
This is still so true I used to love drawing and plying instruments and doing martial arts... After narx abuse, personal sports injuries that prevent me from performing to my own prior injury standards has been crippling. These things no longer associate with joy, release or enjoyment. They actually feel more like an obligation... I stopped for years. Danish understands these phenomenon so well. Bless him. 🙏 I try to draw sometimes, the doodles are quite decent and i should be proud, but as i draw, it feels empty, like im just going through the motions. Its strange to not feel anything while doing an activity i used to get inspired by. Its gone. Its been gone for years. Narcs hollow us out. Make it hard to feel anything about anything because the suppression training is absolutely diabolical... Someday, these demons will all be rotting in hells festering toilet bowl where they all belong... praise God
LEAVING THEM😈😈😈COMPLETELY IS THE BEST OPTION💯✅️NEVER NEVER FEAR THESE DEMONS....HAVE A COURAGEOUS AND FEARLESS HEART ❤️ VERY TRUE MESSAGE👍👌👏 GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER DANISH 🙏
Hit me in my heart - you have a way of speaking and phrasing that I love. Thank you for explaining gently how to discern what is healthy self-love and what is unhealthy self-love.
Love your videos, Danish. I'm living with super malignant narc mother. She explodes and has told me "You must do what I wish." among hundreds of other criticisms and character assaults. I have an RV so I get up early and spend my day in that and return with my husband. She is toned down when my logical husband is around. Speaking my truth to her doesn't work because she is so great at attacking and twisting me. She also physically assaults by throwing things. She is dying from bladder cancer, but she is fighting that and everything else. She is a tyrant.
Yes to try and pic up the pieces and discover yourself is extremely difficult when the narcissist husband ran away with one of his harem line and you are left with the LOT that’s the children, the home, no money whatsoever as he took the lot so it was very difficult. In situations like these God stepped in and gave me male strength to carry on. 20 years later I’m still working feeling strong 💪 and fully independent since the day he left! I felt beautiful as soon as he left, he made me feel so ugly. He will face God one day and be sent to hell for throwing away his family. God saw it all 🙏🙏🙏
I told my covert narc ex we're doing fine without him after he discarded he came back to try and hoover me back but didn't work because I was cold, distant and kicked him out for good. He's a rubbish father to our son and neglects our son. He cares more about his image than to spending quality time with our son. He sees our son as a burden because our son was diagnosed with an illness from birth never has his father spent time with him or even taught his son how to take medication. When I need his help, he is nowhere to be found. So when he discarded me, that was the lowest he gave me as a disrespect and thought he broke me but instead I built myself and became stronger and learnt more about narcissist and the more I learn the more I can spot them and I even have 7 sense in public that everyone is a narcissist because as an empath my brain change how I see certain people
I started doing calligraphy/letter art again, after years of giving up.... ✍️ my mother did her best to sabotage my art, then tell family "she's not doing anything with her talent." Well, I am now!! And she can't take any credit for it. 💪
@@PatriciaS-t1x Ladies? Many men subscribers appreciate and are inspired by Danish as well-- even his kitty, Ben! Are u a narc survivor or his micro-manager?
You are very correct, you cant expect to have a need , a want, or anything! I could not even get a ride to the Hospital! My ex boyfriend definitely put me down. He gave me a beating I wont forget, and I left a year after the incident. I hate the way I have become now. I am a empath and he definitely destroyed me.
Thank you for another insightful, and very helpful video. Your compassion and focus on explaining the process of healing keeps me moving forward. I’m almost 2 yrs out of the relationship. He continues to violate my boundaries, but I remain grey rock and don’t react. I’ve learned this from your videos.
I learned a lot from Darnish. Pastor Kevin la Ewing has great information as for as the spiritual matters of this ❤❤❤ I pray everyone stays focused...God can definitely deliver you once you know about the true enemy we can proceed to Get our lives back 😢
All good, Bashir, though tricky thing about speaking up with a narc and even their henchmen… the backlash can be horrendous!! I’ve experienced it many times over. Often with curses (another subject altogether). I would suggest asserting one’s voice/needs/desires with *others*, not these super toxic even truly evil people.
Very helpful Moving forward brings joy back into your life Remember who you are and do what works for you THANKS for another great video ❤️💙😊 Keep healing and moving forward 🙏 🙏❤️ Bless you
Thank you. He left me for a whore and is building a new house with her. He left me here in a poorly maintained house and took all the money. I can't function in all the pain, legal paperwork, yard work, etc. My car needs brakes and leaks water inside. It's hetting cold out and I don't even know how to turn on the gas. I don't understand electronics and need that - especially for legal doccumentation. He did everything and made sure I was dependent upon him. When I replaced the mixer valve in the washer so he woildn't have to after work, he was upset because if I could fix things, I wouldn't need him. If I worked with him to learn about car repairs, he'd be insulting and get impatient and angry, so I stopped trying in order to prevent extra pain. Now after twenty-one years, I have to manage all of it alone, plus get everything done for his divorce. I have to do all this work to help him live his play life. Thank you for helping me today!
So sorry, you will make it through. Nasty narcs want to strip you down to nothing!!demonic. I had to take my ex narc to court 2xs for stalking for restraining order. So much trauma, but I made it though, you can do it too❤
Try to find practical help elsewhere. I was married to a narc for 20 yrs & he was a jack of all trades - could fix anything. I had to learn to do a lot of things by myself & actually managed a lot more than I ever imagined. Have faith in yourself. You are stronger than you know.
God bless you at this difficult time, and yes, u can get thru it when ur not being hit all at once! Prioritize what u need first, secong and so on. Search out social, community services in ur area for help in support groups for narc abuse suvivors and legal aid. Go to ur local university and ask if there are groups on campus that do community service, where tech savvy students can help u individually with online paperwork, downloading important documents, e-signing, and so on. High schools that sponsor national honor societies can help u2 but u may not feel comfortable with the age group. However, they will volunteer to tutor ur children. Finally, u need a lawyer who understand narc abuse to take ur case as part of their comm service. You must be relentless in excavating local support to help urself and ur family. U will also meet others in like circumstances and u'll begin to feel stronger. All the best to you and take care! ❤
I’m so sorry for your situation, glad he’s moved on to another victim. Can you seek help from any community around you? Yes I understand you’ve isolated yourself because of his manipulations but you need practical help. Are there any churches around you? Churches usually have members or contacts for repairs, counseling, and support groups who might be able to help you. Also, look for victim services from your local government child and family services. They can often point you to where to start looking. God bless you and protect you. 🙏✝️💕
Very helpful thank you because I was not aware of how badly a narcissist can damage someone mentally I’m now aware of a lot of things I wasn’t before I watched this
Excellent content you have. Thank you for being my online expert. Your videos really help put things in perspective. I am coparenting 😂with a narcissist and your videos help put things in perspective for my adolescent son as well. So he can understand what he's dealing with.
This changed alot for me last year..I decided to chose myself and yes I do what makes me happy.. He would get so mad.. He is extremely controlling... 🤦🏻♀️🙆🏻♀️ But always when we are alone.. He is this nice guy and angel in public to other people all the time.. But I get none of that. 🤷🏻♀️ I have reclaimed my power.
Perfect Danish. Thanks. I noticed that of all the traits a narc has eg. how you do this how you do that etc etc., ONE particular trait of all these is the Grandiose of all their traits. Eg. My narc mum's was "CONTROL" . Anything anyone does ,it's gota be done her way. She intervened. No. 5. Know your "worth". Emotional and physical. You are worth much more than those scums. Be Independent. Do your things yourself.
Thank you this is so so helpful, iam still with him, but iam so much stronger than before, I just got to wait around wiggle like a worm to see where the ground is softest so I can worm my way away from him😄🙌hard work keeping myself together but I'm getting there, this advise will help me strengthen me my boundaries and initially my freedom from him, I have my up and down days, but doing well considering before he really used to get to me that I curl up, not anymore, I'm firmer with him, I am rediscovering my hobbies slowly and doing things more on my own not going out ect, but things I changed at my home to have more away time from him, I also feel that bond had broken even more where I don't feel like I have to give him my life, this was great thank you🙏🙏🙌
I remember him asking me what I was thinking about 😮 i would watch stand up comedy on tv and he would walk in and be mad and jealous Saying that the comedian wasn't funny. I know..ISSUES
great content and all 5 absolutely necessary. So, whats your opinion?, becaus it’s often left out. in this case Danish mentions what is improtant to do when you leave the relationshiop, like speakig truth, But what does ‘when you leave the relationship’ mean? does he means when still in the presence and with the narc, or when you are about to leave or when you are secure out and on the other side? handled many, yet this part often still confuses me on what is best. depends ofcourse a bit yet curious about anyone’s thoughts
AFFRIMATION:: I prioritize myself and my needs. I prioritize myself and my needs. I prioritize myself and my needs. I prioritize myself and my needs. I prioritize myself and my needs and destroy the narcissit's ego. I prioritize myself and my needs and destroy the narcissist's ego. I prioritize myself and my needs and destroy the narcissist's ego.
I don't depend on the narcissist. He doesn't know how much in my accounts. He asked me many times, but my answer is, did I ever ask how much you have? He could not reply back. I will never disclose him the amount.
It's very difficult. Noone know, including my siblings, my best friends, and my boyfriends, I didnt think they know. She destroy whatever my efforts, sabotaging me, and then threat me with their material (want me to leaving her home etc). I feel so terrible. Alone, lonely, bad, always fail but noone know/understand or by my side. Although I am creative, have grit and resilience, and doing everything I still fail and I feel how long this journey. I am exhausting. Draining. Even the same survivor or some mental health experts or my close relationship there were not in my side. I work part time to provide myself but I met narcissist again, the mother and the son. The mother is narcissist and the child is conduct disorder i guess. I am so sad, tired, empty, lonely and bad.
How do I leave? How do I survive we have a life many would dream of and the only problem is how he treats me I feel like I can toughen up and be strong and take it in exchange for the outside life my children and I have I need help to become financially independent so I don’t need him it’s not easy but if God is with me then I can do it
Don't let the material world be more enticing than your own happiness. Having children involved DOES complicate the matter, but it also raises the question of does his attitude affect them negatively? (Keep in mind that how he treats you could be subconsciously affect them) Back to my first point; financial stability is nice, yes, but not guaranteed even day to day, especially given current times. Personally, I prioritize spiritual and mental peace of mind over material or fiscal things. There have been times I've actually considered becoming homeless to avoid narcissism. If you truly trust God, He WILL make a way.😊 On to point two; Even if it's not visible on the surface, your children may(many do) develop their perception of how relationships are supposed to be based off of yours. Boys will frequently assume its ok to treat people like that, while girls will settle for it later. Also, it could be a point of worry for them. Being concerned for a parent's well-being should not be part of a child's life(at least in this regard, in my opinion) and could lead to other issues too. I don't know your specific case or situation, but my personal advice is talk to your kids if they're old enough and see what they think; if they've noticed anything "immature" or "inappropriate" or even if they don't say certain things around him. Pray on it and see if God leans you towards leaving or staying.❤ It took me 9.5 years to escape my hell and no children were involved. Sending healing vibes your way friend! 💞🙏
I remind my elderly narc mother that when both of ur children begin their journey as elders too, they become known as Granny. P.s. ADD ONE SIMPLE YEAR TO THEIR AGE AS IT SO SO NEAR A CENTURY (100) & COME BACK TO GIVE THIS COMMENT THUMBS 👍 UP!
I had a narcisist with me. Narcists are poison. Sharks. Vampires. I was stopped all the time playing music. More then 1 ½ year. I trew him hot. Next week we start an new opera.
They are harassing us since decades. Narcissists destroyed our youth, our golden time. If they ever get punished, it would just be for few months or maybe days that too in their old age.
SO true, they SUPPRESS anything or anyone you care about! Learning to live without a narcissist was the biggest challenge I GOT OVER.
It wanes but you must stay no contact, they're not up to anything interesting anyway!😊
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On the top of it , you can only do this with NO CONTACT ! Total cut off is needed. Narcissists are trained to sniff your efforts to get back to your self worth and they have non dodge- able tools to break you down again !!
This refers to inner demons as well! Thank you Danish! ❤
Please make a video on how to handle in- laws who are both narsissist. Many girls suffer in the hands of such in- laws, while you husband cannot take a stand for you..
True
This is what I'm having to deal with currently. It sucks
Never try to handle any situation good or bad with them. We've not equipped enough to handle these people
Agreed they r impossible
The narcs hubby deatroyed all the achievements of my children and mine.
Some experts maybe said person who live with narcissist have bpd, dependent, etc. But the truth is everything I did, narcissist will destroy it.
Everything.
Wow, Danish!!!! 100% true. Still recovering after escaping 30 years ago. You are REALLY helping me 😂!!!!
One thing a narc truly believes is that the victim can't do anything without them. Building one's own life with no place in it for the narc is the way to destroy the narc's ego.
This is still so true
I used to love drawing and plying instruments and doing martial arts...
After narx abuse, personal sports injuries that prevent me from performing to my own prior injury standards has been crippling.
These things no longer associate with joy, release or enjoyment. They actually feel more like an obligation...
I stopped for years.
Danish understands these phenomenon so well. Bless him. 🙏
I try to draw sometimes, the doodles are quite decent and i should be proud, but as i draw, it feels empty, like im just going through the motions.
Its strange to not feel anything while doing an activity i used to get inspired by.
Its gone. Its been gone for years.
Narcs hollow us out.
Make it hard to feel anything about anything because the suppression training is absolutely diabolical...
Someday, these demons will all be rotting in hells festering toilet bowl where they all belong... praise God
LEAVING THEM😈😈😈COMPLETELY IS THE BEST OPTION💯✅️NEVER NEVER FEAR THESE DEMONS....HAVE A COURAGEOUS AND FEARLESS HEART ❤️
VERY TRUE MESSAGE👍👌👏
GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER DANISH 🙏
I am giving myself love and kindness. Two things everyone needs.
Set yourself free from the narcissist’s hold over you and that is winning!!! Thank you Danish. You have nailed it. God bless you ❤
I left him 4 months ago and i actually finally just picked my hobbies back up !
Hit me in my heart - you have a way of speaking and phrasing that I love. Thank you for explaining gently how to discern what is healthy self-love and what is unhealthy self-love.
Empaths against narcissists, let’s win this battle my friends!
God created emphats to counter punch the narcissists. Emphats will not allow the narcissist to go on forever with their crooked minds.
Love your videos, Danish. I'm living with super malignant narc mother. She explodes and has told me "You must do what I wish." among hundreds of other criticisms and character assaults. I have an RV so I get up early and spend my day in that and return with my husband. She is toned down when my logical husband is around. Speaking my truth to her doesn't work because she is so great at attacking and twisting me. She also physically assaults by throwing things. She is dying from bladder cancer, but she is fighting that and everything else. She is a tyrant.
This has got to be one of the most powerful concise accurately put tools to hold oneself up against narcissists.
OMG The more I listen to u The more I’m amazed 😮u have so much knowledge about this crazy mindset of narcissistic ppl💯
Yes to try and pic up the pieces and discover yourself is extremely difficult when the narcissist husband ran away with one of his harem line and you are left with the LOT that’s the children, the home, no money whatsoever as he took the lot so it was very difficult. In situations like these God stepped in and gave me male strength to carry on. 20 years later I’m still working feeling strong 💪 and fully independent since the day he left! I felt beautiful as soon as he left, he made me feel so ugly. He will face God one day and be sent to hell for throwing away his family. God saw it all 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you. So much. I have rediscovered SCUBA.
I told my covert narc ex we're doing fine without him after he discarded he came back to try and hoover me back but didn't work because I was cold, distant and kicked him out for good. He's a rubbish father to our son and neglects our son. He cares more about his image than to spending quality time with our son. He sees our son as a burden because our son was diagnosed with an illness from birth never has his father spent time with him or even taught his son how to take medication. When I need his help, he is nowhere to be found. So when he discarded me, that was the lowest he gave me as a disrespect and thought he broke me but instead I built myself and became stronger and learnt more about narcissist and the more I learn the more I can spot them and I even have 7 sense in public that everyone is a narcissist because as an empath my brain change how I see certain people
I started doing calligraphy/letter art again, after years of giving up.... ✍️ my mother did her best to sabotage my art, then tell family "she's not doing anything with her talent." Well, I am now!! And she can't take any credit for it. 💪
Inspiring truth bombs! 🎉 powerfully expressed! Ur my hero, Danish! ❤
He’s my hero too!
Ladies, let’s not fight over Danish.
We all love him. What’s not to love. Danish is going to go far. I know this.❤
@@PatriciaS-t1x Ladies? Many men subscribers appreciate and are inspired by Danish as well-- even his kitty, Ben! Are u a narc survivor or his micro-manager?
Reclaiming myself! And it feels amazing 🤩. Thank you Danish ❤
Thank you for brilliant advice Danish. Spot on! God bless you❤
You are very correct, you cant expect to have a need , a want, or anything! I could not even get a ride to the Hospital!
My ex boyfriend definitely put me down. He gave me a beating I wont forget, and I left a year after the incident.
I hate the way I have become now. I am a empath and he definitely destroyed me.
Thank you for another insightful, and very helpful video. Your compassion and focus on explaining the process of healing keeps me moving forward. I’m almost 2 yrs out of the relationship. He continues to violate my boundaries, but I remain grey rock and don’t react. I’ve learned this from your videos.
I learned a lot from Darnish. Pastor Kevin la Ewing has great information as for as the spiritual matters of this ❤❤❤
I pray everyone stays focused...God can definitely deliver you once you know about the true enemy we can proceed to
Get our lives back 😢
All good, Bashir, though tricky thing about speaking up with a narc and even their henchmen… the backlash can be horrendous!! I’ve experienced it many times over. Often with curses (another subject altogether).
I would suggest asserting one’s voice/needs/desires with *others*, not these super toxic even truly evil people.
I've saved this video as my golden nugget of recovery advice! Thank you!
This is a good one to save. He really knows how these people are.
Thanks for this Love Offering, My Brother! Namaste! 🌌⚖️🌚🧠🙌
Very helpful Moving forward brings joy back into your life Remember who you are and do what works for you THANKS for another great video ❤️💙😊 Keep healing and moving forward 🙏 🙏❤️ Bless you
AFFIRMATION: I follow my passion and destroy the narcissist's ego.
Thank you.
He left me for a whore and is building a new house with her. He left me here in a poorly maintained house and took all the money.
I can't function in all the pain, legal paperwork, yard work, etc. My car needs brakes and leaks water inside.
It's hetting cold out and I don't even know how to turn on the gas. I don't understand electronics and need that - especially for legal doccumentation.
He did everything and made sure I was dependent upon him. When I replaced the mixer valve in the washer so he woildn't have to after work, he was upset because if I could fix things, I wouldn't need him.
If I worked with him to learn about car repairs, he'd be insulting and get impatient and angry, so I stopped trying in order to prevent extra pain.
Now after twenty-one years, I have to manage all of it alone, plus get everything done for his divorce. I have to do all this work to help him live his play life.
Thank you for helping me today!
So sorry, you will make it through. Nasty narcs want to strip you down to nothing!!demonic. I had to take my ex narc to court 2xs for stalking for restraining order. So much trauma, but I made it though, you can do it too❤
Try to find practical help elsewhere. I was married to a narc for 20 yrs & he was a jack of all trades - could fix anything. I had to learn to do a lot of things by myself & actually managed a lot more than I ever imagined. Have faith in yourself. You are stronger than you know.
God bless you at this difficult time, and yes, u can get thru it when ur not being hit all at once! Prioritize what u need first, secong and so on. Search out social, community services in ur area for help in support groups for narc abuse suvivors and legal aid. Go to ur local university and ask if there are groups on campus that do community service, where tech savvy students can help u individually with online paperwork, downloading important documents, e-signing, and so on. High schools that sponsor national honor societies can help u2 but u may not feel comfortable with the age group. However, they will volunteer to tutor ur children. Finally, u need a lawyer who understand narc abuse to take ur case as part of their comm service. You must be relentless in excavating local support to help urself and ur family. U will also meet others in like circumstances and u'll begin to feel stronger. All the best to you and take care! ❤
Yes, they make you dependent on them, it’s really strange how they automatically know to do that. It’s part of their need to control.
I’m so sorry for your situation, glad he’s moved on to another victim. Can you seek help from any community around you? Yes I understand you’ve isolated yourself because of his manipulations but you need practical help. Are there any churches around you? Churches usually have members or contacts for repairs, counseling, and support groups who might be able to help you. Also, look for victim services from your local government child and family services. They can often point you to where to start looking. God bless you and protect you. 🙏✝️💕
You are just a Godfather for us
Very helpful thank you because I was not aware of how badly a narcissist can damage someone mentally I’m now aware of a lot of things I wasn’t before I watched this
Your videos are very useful. Could you please give some tips about dealing with stalkers and copy cats ?
Excellent content you have. Thank you for being my online expert. Your videos really help put things in perspective. I am coparenting 😂with a narcissist and your videos help put things in perspective for my adolescent son as well. So he can understand what he's dealing with.
This changed alot for me last year..I decided to chose myself and yes I do what makes me happy.. He would get so mad.. He is extremely controlling... 🤦🏻♀️🙆🏻♀️ But always when we are alone.. He is this nice guy and angel in public to other people all the time.. But I get none of that. 🤷🏻♀️ I have reclaimed my power.
Thank you so much for such wonderful videos. I have recently come across such incidences and people whom i can't leave.
Thanks!!! I needed this…
Thanks!
This is a fantastic video for me at this time
Perfect Danish. Thanks. I noticed that of all the traits a narc has eg. how you do this how you do that etc etc., ONE particular trait of all these is the Grandiose of all their traits.
Eg. My narc mum's was "CONTROL" . Anything anyone does ,it's gota be done her way. She intervened.
No. 5. Know your "worth". Emotional and physical. You are worth much more than those scums.
Be Independent. Do your things yourself.
Thanks Danish for shining the light and exposing the truth about narcs. This is a very powerful and important video.
The genius on this subject matter.
Very good are this advices on the way to Heal, I know from my own experience! Thank you so much Danish! ❤️🙏🌈
You are not joking! He had me thinking that my way of walking was all wrong smh
100% he killed my passion for everything
Mine too, and I had so much of it before him
Thank you for inspiring Danish.
Thanks 🙏
God bless you 🙏
Thank you, Danish!
Make Mistakes and make a lot of them! lol That's awesome advise and totally within my capabilities!
thanks ❤you are doing great work
Hi sir
Tq. So much for being here and educating us❤
Thank you this is so so helpful, iam still with him, but iam so much stronger than before, I just got to wait around wiggle like a worm to see where the ground is softest so I can worm my way away from him😄🙌hard work keeping myself together but I'm getting there, this advise will help me strengthen me my boundaries and initially my freedom from him, I have my up and down days, but doing well considering before he really used to get to me that I curl up, not anymore, I'm firmer with him, I am rediscovering my hobbies slowly and doing things more on my own not going out ect, but things I changed at my home to have more away time from him, I also feel that bond had broken even more where I don't feel like I have to give him my life, this was great thank you🙏🙏🙌
How to develop mental toughness? I'm the victim of extremely narc mom since birth...I hate her
Thank you Danish
Thank you so much 💐
fantastic post! Thanks❤
This was spot on!!!! Thank you so much 🙏🏿
I remember him asking me what I was thinking about 😮 i would watch stand up comedy on tv and he would walk in and be mad and jealous
Saying that the comedian wasn't funny. I know..ISSUES
Thank you sir....
Can't explain in words how much helpful it is....
May you get all my positive vibes....❤❤❤
Thanks .....
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Thank you🙏 so much sir
God bless you💐💐💐
You’re Right
AFFIRMATION: I prioritize myself and my needs.
This is off topic, but I absolutely love your jacket!!!
Ur absolutely 💯 amazing
💯🙏💫.
Thank you Danish💎❤️.
great content and all 5 absolutely necessary. So, whats your opinion?, becaus it’s often left out. in this case Danish mentions what is improtant to do when you leave the relationshiop, like speakig truth,
But what does ‘when you leave the relationship’ mean?
does he means when still in the presence and with the narc, or when you are about to leave or when you are secure out and on the other side? handled many, yet this part often still confuses me on what is best. depends ofcourse a bit yet curious about anyone’s thoughts
💎💎💎💎💎Danish💎💎💎💎💎 Coach YOU'RE A TRUE DIAMOND!! All i can say!
AFFRIMATION:: I prioritize myself and my needs. I prioritize myself and my needs. I prioritize myself and my needs. I prioritize myself and my needs. I prioritize myself and my needs and destroy the narcissit's ego. I prioritize myself and my needs and destroy the narcissist's ego. I prioritize myself and my needs and destroy the narcissist's ego.
Wonderful video. Needed it most.
so absolutely correct, true... 🇬🇧
I don't depend on the narcissist. He doesn't know how much in my accounts. He asked me many times, but my answer is, did I ever ask how much you have? He could not reply back. I will never disclose him the amount.
Thanku thanku thanku sir
It's very difficult.
Noone know, including my siblings, my best friends, and my boyfriends, I didnt think they know.
She destroy whatever my efforts, sabotaging me, and then threat me with their material (want me to leaving her home etc).
I feel so terrible. Alone, lonely, bad, always fail but noone know/understand or by my side.
Although I am creative, have grit and resilience, and doing everything I still fail and I feel how long this journey. I am exhausting. Draining. Even the same survivor or some mental health experts or my close relationship there were not in my side.
I work part time to provide myself but I met narcissist again, the mother and the son. The mother is narcissist and the child is conduct disorder i guess.
I am so sad, tired, empty, lonely and bad.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this.
Thank you for your attention.
Very well analyzed video
Nice information.still learning to handle them from ur videos. Thankyou 👍
How do I leave? How do I survive we have a life many would dream of and the only problem is how he treats me I feel like I can toughen up and be strong and take it in exchange for the outside life my children and I have I need help to become financially independent so I don’t need him it’s not easy but if God is with me then I can do it
Don't let the material world be more enticing than your own happiness. Having children involved DOES complicate the matter, but it also raises the question of does his attitude affect them negatively? (Keep in mind that how he treats you could be subconsciously affect them)
Back to my first point; financial stability is nice, yes, but not guaranteed even day to day, especially given current times. Personally, I prioritize spiritual and mental peace of mind over material or fiscal things. There have been times I've actually considered becoming homeless to avoid narcissism. If you truly trust God, He WILL make a way.😊
On to point two; Even if it's not visible on the surface, your children may(many do) develop their perception of how relationships are supposed to be based off of yours. Boys will frequently assume its ok to treat people like that, while girls will settle for it later. Also, it could be a point of worry for them. Being concerned for a parent's well-being should not be part of a child's life(at least in this regard, in my opinion) and could lead to other issues too.
I don't know your specific case or situation, but my personal advice is talk to your kids if they're old enough and see what they think; if they've noticed anything "immature" or "inappropriate" or even if they don't say certain things around him.
Pray on it and see if God leans you towards leaving or staying.❤ It took me 9.5 years to escape my hell and no children were involved. Sending healing vibes your way friend! 💞🙏
Can’t get rid of a neighbor. Causes chaos over and over again. Very evil. Very jealous.
Oh my god thank you you are my saviour
Absolutely right 💐🙏👏👍👌
I remind my elderly narc mother that when both of ur children begin their journey as elders too, they become known as Granny. P.s. ADD ONE SIMPLE YEAR TO THEIR AGE AS IT SO SO NEAR A CENTURY (100) & COME BACK TO GIVE THIS COMMENT THUMBS 👍 UP!
I always subtract 20 years from their age, since they think they will never die, no harm done.😆
I wish I could have watched this video atleast 6 months back. I am bed ridden jobless...I am just counting my few last breath.
Do we have any offline community group as well where we all ?
Make sense ❤
I had a narcisist with me.
Narcists are poison. Sharks. Vampires. I was stopped all the time playing music. More then 1 ½ year.
I trew him hot.
Next week we start an new opera.
Loved it
super!!!
we get locked with them only when we have kids. If we dont have kids we always have choice to leave them.
So true..
Yes
I Want to contact u directly
God punish them I set my self free
What would we get if they get punished? They already destroyed us. Their pain can never be to that level that they gave us.
They are harassing us since decades. Narcissists destroyed our youth, our golden time. If they ever get punished, it would just be for few months or maybe days that too in their old age.
Dear, one question, if the true narc watch this , what will be their reaction.
LIVING WITH A NARCISSIST IS WITCHCRAFT💯
How to destroy narcissists' narcissism ?
Aminin mo mat hindi wala kang control sa akin.
Already destroyed ka na. Lalo na kung a aksiyun pa
, lalo ka nang nadurog.