You dont get it Destiny, sure you could do the things you want to do but you could do anything you want so why are you doing what you want to do instead of doing what you want to do?
yeah but you can't assume that destiny means destiny, because we don't use dictionaries, we maybe need to assume because of the capital "D"... that it's just a girls name...
yeah she did it also when Destiny was using the book exemple and he asked her, do you read books. She went on and on : "i read 1000s of books, blabla, i read 1 book a day, look at me I am the best, " such a huge ego holy cow
@@MenchieExtrakt It's different. Your results so physically when you exercise. Your results express themselves differently when you've been studious, sure, but most of that impression comes from raw IQ, which Brittany has none of.
For reals though, who would Mr. Girl be? Mouton is obviously Samwise. We've got Dandalf. Vaush can be Wyrmtongue. If he ever has a redemption arc he can be Theoden, king of Rohan. Hasan can be Denethor, steward of Gondor, the clout king. Chud and Mr Girl could be Gimli and Legolas! Who we got for Merry and Pippin? I want to go all the way with this shit. Destiny is both Bilbo and Frodo. Bilbo is Nebraska Steve.
As someone who probobly is in the .01% in THC use, it absolutely effects sleep. Ppl know if you don't snoke for a night as a smoker you will have the most wild vivid lucid dreams ever. Remembering every second of the over the top experience.. It diminishes after a while, but the first days you may as well be physically dropped off in your dream.
From what i recall from a sleep scientist's talk, weed will make you go to sleep very easily, however, the quality of sleep is very much subpar and you will end up feeling like you didnt get that much sleep, it bypasses some of the phases of REM. Its at least part of the reason for her poor sleep
@@pauliePwalnuts Yep, when I quit I had intense dreams for months. It's almost like I had a backlog of work for my REM system to handle and sort out. I always felt at peace when I woke up, like my brain solved an old lingering problem.
"I can quit I was off it for a week in a completely different context" 🤦♀🤦♀🤦♀ I thought she was supposed to be on a whole different level of introspection than the rest of us lmfao
this conversation didn’t seem that shallow to me, I think it’s important to be able to understand people outside of common paradigms and stereotypes. Does she have the aesthetic of a dumb white hippie with no genuine deep thoughts? Kinda, but I think if you dig into what she says it’s pretty clear she’s smart and thoughtful. Idk why else destiny would talk to her
@@poadude I agree that she's smart and thoughtful, but it feels like she's surprisingly close minded when confronted with certain perspectives. I understand that this is probably some sort of mental self preservation because these are most likely waters that she knows she doesn't thrive in/had to fight to get out of, but that in itself kinda undermines her entire purpose. As in just because it doesn't work for her, doesn't mean it isn't right for someone else.
There is something bothering her about Destiny's recent "enlightenment"/growth. I think she's just irritated with his opinions🤣And it's funny cuz i think what Destiny's saying is actually beautiful and what she's saying is hateful. This girl keeps contradicting herself, talking about "do it for YOURSELF not the world" but has the audacity to call Destiny's ambitions egocentric and problematic. The hypocrisy is strong in this one lmao
I predicted this a while ago, but destiny will lose a lot of "friends" once he finally comes out as a born-again Christian. Many of his "friends" are demonic and hate that he is heading in a godly direction. They are trying their best to stop him, but they can't stop it because this is God ordained. His "Destiny" if you may 😉
You right. I find him opening himself up as encouraging. Instead of hating on other people he’s putting in work and it’ll pay it forward. She’s wild for not seeing what’s he’s doing. It’s so wild that she’s projecting. He seems to enjoy the challenge of all he has going on and I respect what he’s doing. For many men they wanna leave a legacy. For him to engage in this way is wholesome. You gotta engage the bullshit if you really want see change. He can’t settle for the cope anymore. She just seems to be selfish like many women are today because they are push into self gratification and fulfillment. They need an incentive to contribute to the world. She comes off too indulgent and closed off
What if she’s correct? What if Destiny’s “enlightenment” is fear-based? After all, it’s not easy to defend children transitioning and violent ideological riots (which is where Destiny will find himself, on MSM, a few years down the road)….. So what is Destiny’s motivation? Survival? “Enlightenment”? Hmmmmm……
Brittany talking about not being dependent on drugs is hilarious. She gave the most copium answer to her relationship with drugs. „Yeea take breaks so its better the next time“
@@khirylowry9007 The point is, that a tolerance break doesn't break a dependence on the drug. Your still wanting to use it, need to use and your break is mapped and orientated around going back to use it. Infact your break is about improving it's effects so it can satisfy your dependence in a stronger way. Breaking dependence on it would be quitting with no wanting or expectation of going back to it even if you eventually do. If you use something and have to actively fight yourself to stop using it permanently you are dependent. Temporary breaks may be demonstratio of short term will power but you are still dependent. A bit like someone who goes to rehab, enjoys the benefits of rehab, enjoys the break but is mapping out in their head when and how they are going to get their next hit once out.
@fez! but like addictions/dependencies you don't know if you are dependent or not until you try to quit permanently and find out whether you have to fight yourself to stop. That's the sneaky thing about addiction/dependencies they make you think you are choosing to use until you have no choice but to use. And then you realise that your decisions are just a manifestation of your addiction. Your not really in control, the addiction is.
@@thecolumbopause4961 Nah, tolerance breaks are just part of a healthy engagement with weed. When you build up tolerance is when you start to go more and more extreme with your usage, as you're chasing that feeling that's getting harder and harder to attain. Brittany sounds like she may be dependant, but tolerance breaks themselves aren't indicative of dependency. I take tolerance breaks, and they can last anywhere from like a month to a year. I think you'd find it hard to argue that you're dependant on something you can go a year without touching. Weed is just fun, I wouldn't want to never have it again the same way I wouldn't want to never go on a hike again, but you wouldn't say a person is dependant on hiking. I get why people are going hard in the opposite direction here, way too many people went on about how weed is totally non addictive for way too long. And as a result, far too many people have a dependancy on it. But you just need to treat it like a mind altering substance, and it's effect on you is an altered state. People only get dependant on it when that altered state becomes their baseline state. Like wake and bakers. Or people who smoke every day. Just set rules, mine are; I won't smoke anything before 6pm. I won't smoke on work nights or if I have work to do on a day off. I won't smoke if I have somewhere to be. I will never smoke atleast 10 hours before I have to drive somewhere. I'll stop if I ever feel like I need to smoke it. I'll stop if it starts making me feel negative. (Can happen if you're not in the best place mentally) Currently haven't smoked since a festival in July, not as a result of a desired tolerance break but just because I haven't been in situations where I've wanted to. But I suppose it's kinda made itself into a tolerance break at this point. I think if you treat weed like you'd teat alcohol, as in it's social drug for social situations rather than like a cigarette. Something you smoke habitually to relieve tension. Then you're going to have a healthy relationship with it. Too many people think of it as a nothing substance that you can just smoke on a schedule. That's where all the dependency is coming from.
Brittney is too caught up in Destiny's language of "owe" and "obligation" as far as humanity or the world. I think Destiny means obligation in more like a parent/child sense... like he feels a compulsion to improve the world in the way he would want to make the best life he can for Nathan. It's not a duty or a debt owed, it's something you genuinely desire intrinsically.
This just feels like it boils down to Brittany's entire safety net she's built for herself is being able to fall back to, "Haha, just do you boo. Everyone's on their journey and we're all just humans lol." and it's probably super uncomfortable to have someone she thought she relates to saying that just "doing you" is actually pretty unfulfilling and empty. It's really nice to have built an entire philosophy that is based around your worth as a person being about how introspective you are, not how much good you do or how empathetic you are because at the end of the day you just get to tell yourself that you know you're happy because you understand yourself to know how you feel and that's what matters. That's why she's quick to say that this is actually about legacy or reputation, because she wants to dismiss the idea because you're seeking validation from external forces instead of from yourself.
It's a valuation without weighting or use, without consequence, without standard or responsibility to obtain. Values without weighting or standard are, by definition, valueless - arbitrary. Arbitrary values aren't necessary or impel you to act. Accordingly, an arbitrary value cannot measure progress because progress in this rubric would also be arbitrary, and "arbitrary progress" is contradictory. Iows: if this program is anything, it's a consoling illusion of self-control.
Didn't she essentially nail it at 14:00 to the point where Destiny didn't want to continue it on stream? I don't agree with her admonishment of legacy and reputation nor the people who pretend it's not about that yet will unironically say that Tywin Lannister is their favorite GoT character. But, it does seem like she was on the right track depicting where Destiny's head is.
Yeah her saying “just do you” is also her stepping away. As a viewer of hers, the levels system is not about worth. There is the thing with level 1 being useless, which I think the main takeaway from the levels system is how we are in our own groups and interests and experiences, but our ability to see the same in others can be limited. She contributes that to being human though. And it’s all good to be empathetic etc., but Brittany has said multiple times that she is recovering from the savior complex or thinking she can save others because she feels so deeply for them. Or something like that/along those lines. Yes the levels thing isn’t measuring how good a person is because that really depends on your own lives experiences and others. The truth is we can’t save other people, but at least we can see them for who they are.
She comes across to me as someone who is genuinely intelligent, but also very insecure. Sometimes she will say something that does strike me as insightful, but it’s like she’s afraid to express herself for fear of rejection, so she just wraps everything super tightly in her rigid worldview as a way to protect herself. I’m probably reading way too far into it, but that’s how it comes across to me
@@justifano7046 she isn't muslim. @sunkillsmoon she isn't dumb. I find her overall annoying but "not even close to intelligent" is more like serfs territory.
@53:03 For Britany's assertion that this arc, change, evolution or whatever you want to call it.. sounds "performative or desperate".. it sounds to me that its more reflective of an internal fear SHE has that she's going to have to one day (and sooner than later) confront a feeling or thought within her that she cant feel fulfilled or self actualized without devoting oneself to some higher calling to humanity or however you want to say it. I really feel she's the desperate one and that she's losing Destiny as a comfy example of not needing to travel that path. Also girl name btw.
How can you tell Destiny is acting in good-faith? I ask, because Destiny is a Subjectivist. For example, when discussing the most effective position to take regarding Sneako and Andrew Tate, Destiny opts for a position that he perceives to produce the most favorable outcome. Rather than simply speak The Truth. So, how can you know Destiny is EVER speaking Truth, and not simply assuming the most favorable position?
@@Americansikkunt Good point. I don’t think he’s being intentionally disingenuous. Everyone has certain biases, and sometimes that does influence what someone says.
brittany comes across as so jaded and backhanded in this conversation. constantly bringing the conversation back to herself after every point destiny makes. very fake. making very condescending comments.
Yeah Destiny is transitioning, he’s always had a girls name now he’s transitioning into four trans male-to-female groyper. Chicken and waffles and with Nick Fuentes, rock climbing with Sneako and next up parasailing with Andrew Tate and spin class with Alex Jones.
At about 9 minutes Destiny talks about pursuing things that make you feel fulfilled. And all Brittany has to say in response is " Why? " Bruh. Remember she's supposed to be a "5". This woman is exhausting.
The end result of being in your mid 30s on edibles every day watching vloggers and making videos about them its the same disconnect basement dwelling redpill incel guys get
She's misunderstanding what Destiny means by "impacting the world" "owe it to the world" It's not necessarily the grand scale of every corner of the Earth. Her impacting her local community is impacting the "world"
I think its because when Brittany was having mental episodes, she’d constantly think how she must save the world; how all the failures of human beings made the world an awful place; and every human has to follow her solution to create world peace. So now whenever people say they want to help the world, she wonders if they have that manic worldview. And she jumped from one extreme to another.
Yes exactly. You do what you can, with the tools that you have, to the extent you can use them. However insignificant a good or kind or valuable or meaningful act is, you're still improving the world and affecting it. Then, hopefully, if enough people followed this philosophy, these small improvements to local communities affect the whole social/cultural/philosophical ecosystem.
@@sparrowkayuni5267 that's not her view though. She seems to think that she has no obligation to impact the world, just that she should strive to improve her own life. Having said that it's hard to tell her actual position, her responses seem to flip flop between not understanding wanting to impact the world positively at all, and only being interested in positively effecting the communities she chooses to surround herself with.
Destiny talks to a narcissist and she can't understand how he wants to contribute to the world in new and more intentional ways. I feel like it was extremely easy to understand what destiny was saying.
Wrong, he was making the statement that people OUGHT to develop and pursue their talents. And Brittany is asking why. If it was extremely easy to understand what destiny was saying then please realize you aren't as smart as you think you are, he wasn't talking about himself only. There is a big argument to have as to whether people have a duty to develop their talents, this is a Kantian belief and obviously many philosophers don't agree with him so to sit here and say she is a narcissist for having questions is foolish.
@@Pharomid There's no argument to have. Destiny feels as though he and other people should be compelled to utilize their talents more. Destiny doesn't disdain those who dont, he just supports more people doing it. Asking why repeatedly is literally what a child does. In no way was she asking in depth or substantive questions.
Ya at first I thought she was doing a bit, because it's such an understandable state of mind that destiny is in right now, but she just couldn't grasp it. Then I was like "oh ya this tracks with who she is nvm"
@@humpyloaddart regardless of the annoying nature of the woman the fact that you are saying asking why makes somebody dumb really shows you don't know basically anything about philosophy.
@@humpyloaddart destiny has recently had a change of heart on this very topic. Destiny hasn't talked publicly as to why he's had this change of heart. Destiny is a public speaker/commentator, and Britney is in a way a part of his community. It makes total sense to ask about the underlying "why," since the "why" is the only reason Destiny changed his views. Clearly it was something monumental enough to cause an entire change in destiny's worldview, lifestyle, and career. It's both an interesting question, and potentially an important one, as it could lead others who don't already have that view to change their perspective.
Listening to destiny talk about spiritual topics is hilarious to me because trough his own research he stumbles into all of Jordan Petersons non-political takes.
It's blatantly obvious that the reality is that Destiny is red-pilled now and he wants to leave social media before he gets canceled lol. He even said that he would have gone down the Muslim path if he grew up with it. Religious right but he doesn't want to come across as too "cringe" so he's going to abolish the actual RELIGIOUS part of it and only preach the tenants of it since it's the easiest way to align yourself with that group without doing the actual work. Brittany is clearly wanting to say "do not become a red pilled grifter like the rest of them" and that's why he cuts off the conversation because he has some alternative motive behind it.
It’s not that serious, this dude is a streamer. Shes heated cuz hes doing things she don’t agree with. Ergo the fresh and fit being the first thing she brought up.
Her vagueness is like signs and psychics use. “In one month you will make a decision that will change things than how they are now” like bitch wtf are you talking about? What kind of severity are we talking? Life threatening? Routine? Or he just changed his breakfast habits. Like that’s so vague and unproductive
You dont get it Destiny, sure you could do the things you want to do but you could do anything you want so why are you doin what you want to do instead of doin what you want to do? Why? I mean, like, why why?
Does he really want to do it though? It’s ambiguous. His desires entertained with what he feels he should do. There’s a subtle difference that only he would know. Meanwhile, he completely closed off when she asked him what his true motivations were for doing it were. Strange.
Yo this was actually really amazing destiny. Seriously. Never been a fan but the second you talked about moral obligation to humanity I realized that you are seriously doing some in depth thought and realizing certain things that are very honorable. Much appreciated hearing this from you
@@allahbless2278 bro Ive hated him for fucking ever. He just sounds more based lately. And it looks like he's losing his mind to be quiet honest. It just seems he's finding more clarity in the manosphere world
I definitely really relate to Destiny's way of explaining fulfillment as something that can be separate from happiness. It's not always separate, but you can have happiness without fulfillment, which is just an empty feeling (I personally believe a lot of depression in people comes from this).
I don’t think I agree. How can you feel happy at a moment when you do not feel fulfilled? I understand that moments of happiness can be sprinkled in an otherwise suboptimal life, but if you equalize the timescales of the happiness and the non-fulfillment, how could that happen? Could somebody wake up every morning for 5 years feeling very happy 24/7, while also feeling a lack of fulfillment the whole time
@@RockPile_ There is no such thing as being happy 24/7. That's just total nonsense. I'm fulfilled in life. Unlike most of destiny's audience of i have a loving wife, 2 children which i adore, dog and even my job is pretty good. I could not for the life of me think of something i find myself in want of. I don't long for anything, i am well truly fulfilled and content with my life. But am i always happy? no some years i'm plagued by melancholy (and i do mean melancholy not depression) which lasts weeks or even months for no reason. I occasionally take annoyance at little things i should not care about and as much as i hate to admit it in rare cases i get truly pissed off and stew on things for days. But these feelings pass and soon enough i'm back to my plain old self enjoying life and shit posting on the internet instead of doing my job.
@@RockPile_ This is because you've fallen prey to the idea that being fulfilled will leave you with a constant feeling of happiness. It isn't so, hopefully you realise this before you've achieved everything you've set out to achieve in life. Many people great people have ascended the zenith of life achieving more than most can in one life. They did this believing that they will never again be plagued by such negative emotions and it has had devastating results: crippling depression, addiction issue and other self destructive behaviours have destroyed amazing people who thought nirvana was just around the corner.
@@louiscypher4186 here’s the issue: I perfectly understand everything you’re saying, but I regard it as childish and simplistic wordplay. Meanwhile you don’t understand what I’m saying, because you can’t view it outside of the childish perspective you’re using. Yes, happiness waxes and wanes. When you’re feeling melancholy, it’s waning. When you’re content, it’s in the middle. When you’re happy, it’s waxing. Feeling content is towards the middle of the spectrum, with happiness and melancholy being on opposite sides I feel like you’re working off of aphorisms and old fashioned sayings instead of just using the words how they actually exist
Not sure why he keeps having convos with Brittany. She talks without saying anything, and when she does say something it's completely warped by her weird perspective of the world.
Ima just say Destiny seems to have found what is true “awakening” and she is just giving me a shallow energy. She’s uncomfortable he’s changing because deep down she can see it and it’ll push her to do the same
But why is Destiny changing? Did he genuinely have an “a-ha” moment? Or does he just know he cannot defend transitioning children? And drag queen story time? And violent ideological riots?
Hooolly shit. I stopped eating my sandwich when he said the best way to organize facts was with religion and when he said Dr Peterson's name, I was floored
"I can't talk about it on stream" is FUCKING WEIRD for destiny. He LIVES on stream. Some serious shit is going down and I dont know what it is.... but I bet y'all can figure it out. Also, oh honey... quitting smoking is easy, I do it ALL THE TIME. I quit smoking almost 20 times a day. ... but that doesn't mean im not addicted. Pot is an addiction, you aren't going on a break because you don't want to do it. You're going on a break to reset your tolerance and make the high better. You are literally chasing a high hun....trust me, I know a thing or two about chasing highs.
Yeah it’s a big projection. It’s just like when the friend group of alcoholics has one guy who wants to get clean. “I want to discourage you from doing anything good for yourself if it’s difficult. It will stress me out to see you improving in a way that I’m too lazy to emulate. Stay down here with us please.”
I actually really enjoyed this conversation because I feel all the time like there is something I should be doing and contributing, I just don’t know what talent tree to pick and dump points into. I don’t even know really what all is in my talent tree.
So fun to think about! And I’ve found when I honed in on my tree and figured out what tools i’m working with, I felt an increase of confidence overall.
@@Macheako Yes, weed and a couple of imagined invisible diseases so people feel sorry for you and accept you smoking the weed all the time no matter your age. Then some kind of spiritual grift where you can be high constantly while scamming other high people with no purpose in life and you're set for life. The older you get the wiser the high purposeless people you scam will find you.
It always a joy to see someone try better themselves and want to enjoy life in a meaningful way. I applaud him. One of the greatest ways to change the world is by changing yourself and leading more by example than any argument or rhetoric that you can produce.
@@apocalypse4151 I must be out-of-the-(Destiny-sphere)-loop…. Because the guest makes it sound as if Destiny stood up in the middle of town square, and made some very controversial declaration…. From a “outsider’s” perspective, it seems Destiny’s conversations with “problematic” people has warranted this semi-collective interrogation of his intentions/goals/motivations. It’s like he’s leaving a cult, and they’re all going, “Whoa! Whoa! Whoa! Heyyyy, Destiny, what’s on your mind?”. But I agree, it’s great to see a person make the conscious decision to better themselves (“be less hedonistic”, as Steven said.
@@Americansikkunt did we ever find out what hes doing and also in what way is he leaving the cult and what cult to clarify just started watching destiny like a month ago but he's become my favourite TH-camr/ streamer
@@thegaminglizard1265 I don’t think he’s doing anything other than thinking freely, and speaking his mind (and maybe some behavioral changes to his dating habits? Idk)…. But apparently that’s enough for lefty-types to try and intervene, by making bizarre suggestions like, “keeping in contact as you talk to people; to make sure your beliefs aren’t influenced”, or whatever… It’s like they really think Destiny is at-risk of falling down “the right wing pipeline” (which is frightening, because cult prevent their members from certain interactions/behaviors that crack their programming)
I think the real goal is to create a world where things people have passion for and are good are the things that we as a society push people towards the most. I cant imagine considering it a moral imperative but i do think there is a nobility to it. Its just setting that world up. The world would be a richer place if people pursued their natutal talents and their passions
The only problem with that is that nobody really wants to do all the hard/shit jobs like construction, garbage disposal, plumbing, pipefitting, electrical, linemen, etc etc. The whole follow your passions thing only works if you have a subset of people who do all the hard/shit work that keeps society chugging along. While some people can get enjoyment from these things, it doesn't change that it is oftentimes the amount of money that can be made in these fields that attracts people to put up with the hard labor/shittiness, otherwise why would you sacrifice your health and potentially die on the job if you're not being compensated well for it?
@@sackofpeas2470 ok thanks for adding nothing. It doesnt mean everyone acheieves it its just thats the direction we should push society. Luckily a lot of things are still gate kept behind education and effort. But right now education is focused on making tests to make drone workers
The goal should be allowing everyone to have the freedom and time to pursue those natural talents and passions while using a reasonable and fair amount of everyones time to maintain and improve the world we live in so everyone can have the freedom and time to pursue natural talents and passions without falling back to having to deal with things we have already solved ages ago. Some people can offer society more than others and this should be reflected through wages but we currently cant or refuse to agree on what is offering society more and what is weighing it down.
I don't believe the world should be like this because more people will be unhappy than happy. I think we should look and try to find ways to make people enjoy bad/hard jobs more and find more fulfilment from them. Genuinely praise people more for doing minimum wage "meh" type jobs. People pursuing their talent and passion are usually praised, they don't need it imo. I rather raise the minimum than propel the top.
Pursuit of pleasure/hedonistic driven discourse is interesting for a while but it just loses me for reasons I can't verbalize. The constant cycling between is it interesting or boring as a primary decision metric seems off.
BPD, PTSD, Lupus... notice a trend in any of these? These are all extremely slippery and difficult to diagnose and present themselves in countless ways. I'm skeptical. Man, I really like Brittany, but I'm starting to see this other side of her.
That bigger picture mentality that destiny has expounded on is facts! Not to be religious but if God gave u those attributes, u better maximize those attributes and contribute them to the world. A lot of the world is on some bullshit ideology, if destiny is one of the ones who can effectively spot and redirect the bullshit... then fuck it. I'm all for it.
What upsets you so much in those 25 minutes? I agree that Brittany can be annoying but her line of questioning was solid here at least for the time frame you described.
@@PuddingXXL Just looking at her, the tone of her voice, her speaking mannerisms, that mop she wears on top of her head… shall I continue? I have lots more. 😂
And how does listening to MrGirl make you feel? Or some of the random dumb fucks who call in? If they annoy you too, then based, we do have some common ground.
I think she can fathom it, she had the same cheesy sentiment all of her twenties. She just decided it wasn’t for her, same as Destiny seems to have decided that it is for him. Different strokes.
Amazed at how much the comments seem to dislike Brittany. She seems to have an interesting and consistent perspective, and seems to be relatively intelligent. I don't get it.
lmao she said "the doctor says weed helps with my sleep and i get better sleep on weed!" literally anyone who knows shit knows any drugs will greatly disturb your proper sleep cycles even if you "fall asleep faster" and "stay up all night without it"
@@bobbiemcgee4477 my source is every time ive ever gone to bed high as fuck I wake up still semi high and my body is groggy and it was that way for years and then when I stopped it went away. I mean it’s almost on the level of common sense, if you want to know why that happens literally just look it up it’s the second video on TH-cam when you search it. Also when I said any drug I meant any recreational drug
Yup. Weed may make you slump out but it’s disrupting REM sleep. You will dream less and recover less. Spoken by someone who smokes too much weed. Any time I’ve managed to quit for a while, my dreams come back with an absolute vengeance.
But do you know Jesus? There is a big difference between religion and the person of Jesus. He's not about rules. He is quite human and relational. Happy Discovery Destiny.
okay, I have to say, I fucking love this arch. Critically engaging with spirituality. I'm unreasonably happy about destiny finally engaging with this. Fuck 49:00 end me
Yeah as far as happiness vs fulfilment: fulfilment is the feeling of being needed, of knowing you are worthy and capable, of being seen or understood, of being able to discipline yourself and overcome OR it can also consist of just the understanding about life having meaning at all rather than not. To me, fulfilment is a circle. It completes itself. You either have it or you don't generally. Whereas happiness to me is more like a straight line or a road, somewhere you are constantly moving but tend to never really "arrive" at. Fulfilment can exist in the absence of happiness because it's almost like a spiritual mathematics of understanding your place in reality, knowledge of oneself, and the gratefulness and appreciation for the things and people you experience or connect with. Happiness is more about hedonism or how pleasurable things are, so, there is some overlap for sure, but I find it useful to try and understand them distinctly.
Why are there so much comments on here so aggressively shitting on Brittany? I don't think anything that she said is much different to what Destiny believed like two or three years ago?
It’s nice to see Steven work through his own ideology mirrored through his career. The sense of responsibility and obligation to those around us is, while seemingly a detriment to ‘our personal freedoms’ actually provides an environment that is more prosperous and free for all. It seems like the two sides of the political coin are constantly trying to maximize either for the individual or for the society, without acknowledging we are both individuals and members of a society simultaneously.
only a couple minutes in, but I got to say I love the way destiny is thinking here, the masses can never think only critically and empirically, its up to those who are better at it to provide a religion type narrative which helps the average human to put his life in to perspective and find meaning in it, there is plenty of things wrong with the religions we inherited from our ancestors, but outside of the specifics, their narrative devices are incompatible with modern scientific understanding of the world, while the modern empirical perspective doesn't provide a narrative at all, there is an enormous need to craft a new narrative which could be compatible with ways in which we see the world today.
Jung is absolutely the best thing to read if you have this mindset. It's always such a massive annoyance that the people who tend to really get into Jung take away a Christian narrative from it. Because he was so critical of the failings of Christianity as a foundation, especially in the red book. You can look at what works in a grand narrative and use it to build a stronger one that's more applicable to the society we currently live in, rather than trying to retroactively pin modern society into the old frameworks. You can see creatives have been trying to build this narrative for decades, with the reinvention of the pantheons through super hero literature. With the constant retreading of sacrifice motifs in literature and film. Everything Everywhere All At Once was like a modern, secular exploration of Buddhism mixed with Jungian thought. It's probably the strongest attempt at a modern grand narrative I've seen, especially in how easily digestible it's core tenets were. I guess the problem with all these attempts is that very few people will take the moral messages they try to impart as seriously as they were probably intended to be because there's the understanding that they're just fiction. But religion argues that it is literal. I'm not sure how we bridge that gap as a secular society. If we want messages to be taken seriously, do we have to lie and say they are literal? Doesn't that just set up a dogma that will inevitably not evolve with the world, and we eventually end up with the same problems? Ancient, static narratives that are unwelcoming of change and end up stifling the creativity of the next generation. But if we don't anchor them somehow, how do you get society to listen to them?
I think a large issue in your viewpoint is that one is capable of believing they think critically and chiefly consult empirics in the building of their worldview without actually doing so. Destiny seems like an example of this fault, but maybe I don’t know enough about him to say.
"THE COOL THING TO DO IS ATTACK YOU..." Destiny Reflects On His Ban w/ Devin Nash ►th-cam.com/video/mAlcC_EPHf0/w-d-xo.html
That disingenuous attention hungry validation addict is Apex cringe...
You dont get it Destiny, sure you could do the things you want to do but you could do anything you want so why are you doing what you want to do instead of doing what you want to do?
@@OrdoAbChao-kg5rf Im a little bit out of the loop. Can you explain who the addict is here?
All I heard is that Destiny is transitioning.
This explains why he has the girl's name.
updoot
@@Hydranox dang, i opened the comment section just to make this kind of joke
good job king
Amazin'!!!
@@lordmctheobaltdon't let th fact that Destiny is a girl's name or th fact that JLP is gay distract you from the fact that Jesse is a girl's name
Wtf bruh. Literally everything that's needed to be said regarding this joke that needed to happen.. has already happened😭
"You have a moral imperative to explore those gifts that you have to advance humanity" aka your destiny?
ayy
yeah but you can't assume that destiny means destiny, because we don't use dictionaries, we maybe need to assume because of the capital "D"... that it's just a girls name...
*credits roll*
Sounds like a bible verse
Lmaooo imagine
Destiny - try and do positive things that help the world
Brittany - but how does that help me
solipsism
@@のむ-san Or egocentricity.
yeah she did it also when Destiny was using the book exemple and he asked her, do you read books.
She went on and on : "i read 1000s of books, blabla, i read 1 book a day, look at me I am the best, "
such a huge ego holy cow
@@Loutripe i mean, if someone has been working out for years, and I ask them if they workout, I’ll expect a similar reaction
@@MenchieExtrakt It's different. Your results so physically when you exercise. Your results express themselves differently when you've been studious, sure, but most of that impression comes from raw IQ, which Brittany has none of.
"You've changed Steven Baggins, and not for the better." -Dandolf
A wizard never misspeaks. He speaks precisely as he intends to.
One does not simply walk into a gas chamber.
Better writing than "The Rings of Power"
Tom Bomba-Mr. Girl... Am I doing it right?
For reals though, who would Mr. Girl be? Mouton is obviously Samwise. We've got Dandalf. Vaush can be Wyrmtongue. If he ever has a redemption arc he can be Theoden, king of Rohan.
Hasan can be Denethor, steward of Gondor, the clout king.
Chud and Mr Girl could be Gimli and Legolas!
Who we got for Merry and Pippin? I want to go all the way with this shit.
Destiny is both Bilbo and Frodo. Bilbo is Nebraska Steve.
Lmao talks about how she gets poor sleep as of its some inherent characteristic and then talks about taking edibles every night
It's almost like nerfing your REM sleep every night has consequences.
As someone who probobly is in the .01% in THC use, it absolutely effects sleep. Ppl know if you don't snoke for a night as a smoker you will have the most wild vivid lucid dreams ever. Remembering every second of the over the top experience.. It diminishes after a while, but the first days you may as well be physically dropped off in your dream.
From what i recall from a sleep scientist's talk, weed will make you go to sleep very easily, however, the quality of sleep is very much subpar and you will end up feeling like you didnt get that much sleep, it bypasses some of the phases of REM. Its at least part of the reason for her poor sleep
@@pauliePwalnuts Yep, when I quit I had intense dreams for months. It's almost like I had a backlog of work for my REM system to handle and sort out. I always felt at peace when I woke up, like my brain solved an old lingering problem.
Well to be fair she said she has bad sleep if she doesn't take it and that's why shy takes it..
"I can quit I was off it for a week in a completely different context" 🤦♀🤦♀🤦♀
I thought she was supposed to be on a whole different level of introspection than the rest of us lmfao
Almost like its a bunch of hokie pokie bull bull lol
iT iS a DiFfErEnT cOnTeXt InCeL
@@joshsaunders6392 is that a meme I don't understand or? :V
Brittany Simon have a non shallow thought challenge (IMPOSSIBLE)
real and true
dirty mr girl enjoyer pov
this conversation didn’t seem that shallow to me, I think it’s important to be able to understand people outside of common paradigms and stereotypes. Does she have the aesthetic of a dumb white hippie with no genuine deep thoughts? Kinda, but I think if you dig into what she says it’s pretty clear she’s smart and thoughtful. Idk why else destiny would talk to her
@@poadude the word "bubble" is triggering af when she is "trying" to be more intelligent.
@@poadude I agree that she's smart and thoughtful, but it feels like she's surprisingly close minded when confronted with certain perspectives. I understand that this is probably some sort of mental self preservation because these are most likely waters that she knows she doesn't thrive in/had to fight to get out of, but that in itself kinda undermines her entire purpose. As in just because it doesn't work for her, doesn't mean it isn't right for someone else.
There is something bothering her about Destiny's recent "enlightenment"/growth. I think she's just irritated with his opinions🤣And it's funny cuz i think what Destiny's saying is actually beautiful and what she's saying is hateful. This girl keeps contradicting herself, talking about "do it for YOURSELF not the world" but has the audacity to call Destiny's ambitions egocentric and problematic. The hypocrisy is strong in this one lmao
I predicted this a while ago, but destiny will lose a lot of "friends" once he finally comes out as a born-again Christian. Many of his "friends" are demonic and hate that he is heading in a godly direction. They are trying their best to stop him, but they can't stop it because this is God ordained. His "Destiny" if you may 😉
🤣 yeah amen to that. It's like he's doing amazing and she calls him desperate and performative?? get out of here
You right. I find him opening himself up as encouraging. Instead of hating on other people he’s putting in work and it’ll pay it forward. She’s wild for not seeing what’s he’s doing. It’s so wild that she’s projecting. He seems to enjoy the challenge of all he has going on and I respect what he’s doing. For many men they wanna leave a legacy. For him to engage in this way is wholesome. You gotta engage the bullshit if you really want see change. He can’t settle for the cope anymore. She just seems to be selfish like many women are today because they are push into self gratification and fulfillment. They need an incentive to contribute to the world. She comes off too indulgent and closed off
What if she’s correct?
What if Destiny’s “enlightenment” is fear-based?
After all, it’s not easy to defend children transitioning and violent ideological riots (which is where Destiny will find himself, on MSM, a few years down the road)…..
So what is Destiny’s motivation? Survival? “Enlightenment”? Hmmmmm……
Brittany talking about not being dependent on drugs is hilarious. She gave the most copium answer to her relationship with drugs. „Yeea take breaks so its better the next time“
Bro you never never heard of a tolerance break?
@@khirylowry9007 The point is, that a tolerance break doesn't break a dependence on the drug. Your still wanting to use it, need to use and your break is mapped and orientated around going back to use it. Infact your break is about improving it's effects so it can satisfy your dependence in a stronger way. Breaking dependence on it would be quitting with no wanting or expectation of going back to it even if you eventually do. If you use something and have to actively fight yourself to stop using it permanently you are dependent. Temporary breaks may be demonstratio of short term will power but you are still dependent. A bit like someone who goes to rehab, enjoys the benefits of rehab, enjoys the break but is mapping out in their head when and how they are going to get their next hit once out.
@fez! but like addictions/dependencies you don't know if you are dependent or not until you try to quit permanently and find out whether you have to fight yourself to stop. That's the sneaky thing about addiction/dependencies they make you think you are choosing to use until you have no choice but to use. And then you realise that your decisions are just a manifestation of your addiction. Your not really in control, the addiction is.
@@thecolumbopause4961 Nah, tolerance breaks are just part of a healthy engagement with weed. When you build up tolerance is when you start to go more and more extreme with your usage, as you're chasing that feeling that's getting harder and harder to attain.
Brittany sounds like she may be dependant, but tolerance breaks themselves aren't indicative of dependency. I take tolerance breaks, and they can last anywhere from like a month to a year. I think you'd find it hard to argue that you're dependant on something you can go a year without touching. Weed is just fun, I wouldn't want to never have it again the same way I wouldn't want to never go on a hike again, but you wouldn't say a person is dependant on hiking.
I get why people are going hard in the opposite direction here, way too many people went on about how weed is totally non addictive for way too long. And as a result, far too many people have a dependancy on it. But you just need to treat it like a mind altering substance, and it's effect on you is an altered state. People only get dependant on it when that altered state becomes their baseline state. Like wake and bakers. Or people who smoke every day.
Just set rules, mine are;
I won't smoke anything before 6pm.
I won't smoke on work nights or if I have work to do on a day off.
I won't smoke if I have somewhere to be.
I will never smoke atleast 10 hours before I have to drive somewhere.
I'll stop if I ever feel like I need to smoke it.
I'll stop if it starts making me feel negative. (Can happen if you're not in the best place mentally)
Currently haven't smoked since a festival in July, not as a result of a desired tolerance break but just because I haven't been in situations where I've wanted to. But I suppose it's kinda made itself into a tolerance break at this point.
I think if you treat weed like you'd teat alcohol, as in it's social drug for social situations rather than like a cigarette. Something you smoke habitually to relieve tension. Then you're going to have a healthy relationship with it. Too many people think of it as a nothing substance that you can just smoke on a schedule. That's where all the dependency is coming from.
It’s the Sarah Lynn grindset
i feel like this girl thinks she is more "enlightened" than she actually is (a little too much talking for me)
Dang, LNoD is now getting full on edited vids. Like flashback teasers and everything
Wait this isn’t an official channel ?
@@dakkarocka it is but it used to just get raw segments, not like main channel worthy material
ngl i prefer this over the raw cuts, got me watching destiny alot more
Brittney is too caught up in Destiny's language of "owe" and "obligation" as far as humanity or the world. I think Destiny means obligation in more like a parent/child sense... like he feels a compulsion to improve the world in the way he would want to make the best life he can for Nathan. It's not a duty or a debt owed, it's something you genuinely desire intrinsically.
Yes, he explained that to her in the conversation I think
Although her energy seems contained, you can tell this woman is the embodiment of chaos.
I feel like she would choose the world going to shit so she can try and save more individuals
@@scrubstc6943 It's a female trait.
This is one of the reasons I like her.
@@huliohuliohamijo Not all women are like Brittany, I promise.
@@internetenjoyer1002 I am aware.
This just feels like it boils down to Brittany's entire safety net she's built for herself is being able to fall back to, "Haha, just do you boo. Everyone's on their journey and we're all just humans lol." and it's probably super uncomfortable to have someone she thought she relates to saying that just "doing you" is actually pretty unfulfilling and empty.
It's really nice to have built an entire philosophy that is based around your worth as a person being about how introspective you are, not how much good you do or how empathetic you are because at the end of the day you just get to tell yourself that you know you're happy because you understand yourself to know how you feel and that's what matters. That's why she's quick to say that this is actually about legacy or reputation, because she wants to dismiss the idea because you're seeking validation from external forces instead of from yourself.
Or she just doesn’t agree lol
It's a valuation without weighting or use, without consequence, without standard or responsibility to obtain. Values without weighting or standard are, by definition, valueless - arbitrary. Arbitrary values aren't necessary or impel you to act. Accordingly, an arbitrary value cannot measure progress because progress in this rubric would also be arbitrary, and "arbitrary progress" is contradictory. Iows: if this program is anything, it's a consoling illusion of self-control.
Didn't she essentially nail it at 14:00 to the point where Destiny didn't want to continue it on stream? I don't agree with her admonishment of legacy and reputation nor the people who pretend it's not about that yet will unironically say that Tywin Lannister is their favorite GoT character. But, it does seem like she was on the right track depicting where Destiny's head is.
@@limitedhangoutlive They were talking about Sneako at that part of the video when Destiny said we will talk about that offstream
Yeah her saying “just do you” is also her stepping away. As a viewer of hers, the levels system is not about worth. There is the thing with level 1 being useless, which I think the main takeaway from the levels system is how we are in our own groups and interests and experiences, but our ability to see the same in others can be limited. She contributes that to being human though.
And it’s all good to be empathetic etc., but Brittany has said multiple times that she is recovering from the savior complex or thinking she can save others because she feels so deeply for them. Or something like that/along those lines. Yes the levels thing isn’t measuring how good a person is because that really depends on your own lives experiences and others. The truth is we can’t save other people, but at least we can see them for who they are.
It’s actually terrifying how narrow her window of perception is in this conversation.
This is like Dunning Kruger Meets unqualified therapist.
She comes across to me as someone who is genuinely intelligent, but also very insecure. Sometimes she will say something that does strike me as insightful, but it’s like she’s afraid to express herself for fear of rejection, so she just wraps everything super tightly in her rigid worldview as a way to protect herself. I’m probably reading way too far into it, but that’s how it comes across to me
@@andrewcox5873 no....she isn't even close to intelligent ...
@@andrewcox5873 she's a liberal through traditional Muslim lenses
@@andrewcox5873 She doesn't have a single sign of intelligence, she just says liberal therapy buzzwords
@@justifano7046 she isn't muslim. @sunkillsmoon she isn't dumb. I find her overall annoying but "not even close to intelligent" is more like serfs territory.
@53:03 For Britany's assertion that this arc, change, evolution or whatever you want to call it.. sounds "performative or desperate".. it sounds to me that its more reflective of an internal fear SHE has that she's going to have to one day (and sooner than later) confront a feeling or thought within her that she cant feel fulfilled or self actualized without devoting oneself to some higher calling to humanity or however you want to say it. I really feel she's the desperate one and that she's losing Destiny as a comfy example of not needing to travel that path. Also girl name btw.
How can you tell Destiny is acting in good-faith?
I ask, because Destiny is a Subjectivist.
For example, when discussing the most effective position to take regarding Sneako and Andrew Tate,
Destiny opts for a position that he perceives to produce the most favorable outcome. Rather than simply speak The Truth.
So, how can you know Destiny is EVER speaking Truth,
and not simply assuming the most favorable position?
@@Americansikkunt Good point. I don’t think he’s being intentionally disingenuous. Everyone has certain biases, and sometimes that does influence what someone says.
@@Americansikkunt How can you do that with anyone?
Tbh I don't understand the favourable position point, can you elaborate on it please?
brittany comes across as so jaded and backhanded in this conversation. constantly bringing the conversation back to herself after every point destiny makes. very fake. making very condescending comments.
Huge fragile ego in that little mind of hers
“🤡Why would anyone want to liiiike, make the world betteerrr?” 🤢
"What's the worst advice anybody ever gave you?"
"Don't change"
Yeah Destiny is transitioning, he’s always had a girls name now he’s transitioning into four trans male-to-female groyper. Chicken and waffles and with Nick Fuentes, rock climbing with Sneako and next up parasailing with Andrew Tate and spin class with Alex Jones.
You cracked the code
Her dad “Is it because I raised you as a boy?”
Her “you raised me as a boy? I thought you raised me as an equal”
Her dad. “Yea, that’s what I said”
Her dad"Is it because I raised you as a boy?"
Her "you raised me as a boy? I thought you raised me as an equal"
Me "Are boys not equal?"
@@colinstewart3531 I think the implication would be that women aren't equal not that men aren't ahaha
@@harryseaton7444 he isn’t smart tho
@@conradkorbol what?
I love women so much the veins in my head are growing.
relax bro
Makes sense since Destiny is a girl's name
@@mounirbounana2292 it's a joke soy boy
Which head?
Are you growing antlers?
Destiny is on the Uncle Ben arc.
With great power comes great responsibility.
Based
“What happen Uncle Ben?”
“GREEN M&M PUSSY”
At about 9 minutes Destiny talks about pursuing things that make you feel fulfilled. And all Brittany has to say in response is " Why? " Bruh. Remember she's supposed to be a "5". This woman is exhausting.
And she thought the “why” was deep, too.
I do like her tho, and I bet her head game is like heaven
She is just not as intelligent or as clever as she thinks. It's annoying
She still lives with her parents. She’s a child
@@H03tRiLL she’s not at all clever. She’s the dumb drunk girl at every party who thinks she’s super deep
The end result of being in your mid 30s on edibles every day watching vloggers and making videos about them
its the same disconnect basement dwelling redpill incel guys get
"Oh you're moving a way from the hedonism"
(While playing a game during a discussion)
"Yes. That."
😂💯
She's misunderstanding what Destiny means by "impacting the world" "owe it to the world"
It's not necessarily the grand scale of every corner of the Earth. Her impacting her local community is impacting the "world"
I think its because when Brittany was having mental episodes, she’d constantly think how she must save the world; how all the failures of human beings made the world an awful place; and every human has to follow her solution to create world peace.
So now whenever people say they want to help the world, she wonders if they have that manic worldview. And she jumped from one extreme to another.
Her view of impacting the world is equally valid though, not all impact has to be at a grand scale
@@MenchieExtrakt Okay, that adds a little context for me because I don't know anything about her or her mindset.
Yes exactly. You do what you can, with the tools that you have, to the extent you can use them. However insignificant a good or kind or valuable or meaningful act is, you're still improving the world and affecting it. Then, hopefully, if enough people followed this philosophy, these small improvements to local communities affect the whole social/cultural/philosophical ecosystem.
@@sparrowkayuni5267 that's not her view though. She seems to think that she has no obligation to impact the world, just that she should strive to improve her own life. Having said that it's hard to tell her actual position, her responses seem to flip flop between not understanding wanting to impact the world positively at all, and only being interested in positively effecting the communities she chooses to surround herself with.
R.I.P. Hedonism ❤️🔥
Hedonism is for lame atheists
Based
Ah, the infamous "can stop any time" pothead. lmao
COPIUM
@@narutolikestoes9028 it's cool, she has a prescription for medical copium. :P
@@JesterAzazel fresh Ugandan COPIUM 👌
I had a cousin asking to borrow money! I said don’t smoke for 3 days and you don’t have to pay me back. Wouldn’t do it but claimed he’s not addicted
Destiny talks to a narcissist and she can't understand how he wants to contribute to the world in new and more intentional ways.
I feel like it was extremely easy to understand what destiny was saying.
Wrong, he was making the statement that people OUGHT to develop and pursue their talents. And Brittany is asking why. If it was extremely easy to understand what destiny was saying then please realize you aren't as smart as you think you are, he wasn't talking about himself only. There is a big argument to have as to whether people have a duty to develop their talents, this is a Kantian belief and obviously many philosophers don't agree with him so to sit here and say she is a narcissist for having questions is foolish.
@@Pharomid There's no argument to have. Destiny feels as though he and other people should be compelled to utilize their talents more. Destiny doesn't disdain those who dont, he just supports more people doing it.
Asking why repeatedly is literally what a child does. In no way was she asking in depth or substantive questions.
Ya at first I thought she was doing a bit, because it's such an understandable state of mind that destiny is in right now, but she just couldn't grasp it. Then I was like "oh ya this tracks with who she is nvm"
@@humpyloaddart regardless of the annoying nature of the woman the fact that you are saying asking why makes somebody dumb really shows you don't know basically anything about philosophy.
@@humpyloaddart destiny has recently had a change of heart on this very topic. Destiny hasn't talked publicly as to why he's had this change of heart. Destiny is a public speaker/commentator, and Britney is in a way a part of his community. It makes total sense to ask about the underlying "why," since the "why" is the only reason Destiny changed his views. Clearly it was something monumental enough to cause an entire change in destiny's worldview, lifestyle, and career. It's both an interesting question, and potentially an important one, as it could lead others who don't already have that view to change their perspective.
lefty tries to not take the underserved moral high ground challenge (impossible)
Brittany is left handed??
Destiny is transitioning. See he does believe in trans rights
Yeah but it's a true transition, it's not too cute
That's why they call her true scum
Hope he transitions into a blue haired girl
Fitting given Destiny is a girl's name
Damn that was mad unfunny. You should be ashamed of yourself for writing such a cringe comment.
Listening to destiny talk about spiritual topics is hilarious to me because trough his own research he stumbles into all of Jordan Petersons non-political takes.
Oh shit the accuracy
Kinda surprised it took him this long to figure out he needs to pursue a purpose in life
he's a father now. that should be his purpose. but like all parents now he's just gonna let the internet raise his kid.
People like Destiny thought the pursuit of happiness was the purpose though, that’s what he’s talking about.
@@env0x Lmfao
And of course he had to start reading religious stuff to remind him of this.
@@bigdick1267 He didn't read the Bible to come to this conclusion lmao.
Brittany trying to say something insightful and failing is the most annoying thing. Just stop.
She would do good if she never spoke in public. What a waste of words.
It's blatantly obvious that the reality is that Destiny is red-pilled now and he wants to leave social media before he gets canceled lol. He even said that he would have gone down the Muslim path if he grew up with it. Religious right but he doesn't want to come across as too "cringe" so he's going to abolish the actual RELIGIOUS part of it and only preach the tenants of it since it's the easiest way to align yourself with that group without doing the actual work. Brittany is clearly wanting to say "do not become a red pilled grifter like the rest of them" and that's why he cuts off the conversation because he has some alternative motive behind it.
Haven't seen the video but I'm guessing she wants to rub her alleged superiority all over Destiny's face.
It’s not that serious, this dude is a streamer. Shes heated cuz hes doing things she don’t agree with. Ergo the fresh and fit being the first thing she brought up.
Oh no!!!
Heated? She never even raised her voice
I didn't use to hate her this much
Her vagueness is like signs and psychics use. “In one month you will make a decision that will change things than how they are now” like bitch wtf are you talking about? What kind of severity are we talking? Life threatening? Routine? Or he just changed his breakfast habits. Like that’s so vague and unproductive
You dont get it Destiny, sure you could do the things you want to do but you could do anything you want so why are you doin what you want to do instead of doin what you want to do? Why? I mean, like, why why?
Lol I can't believe this person has an audience listening to her
I can hear her saying this actually lol.
@@tonjolley6422I mean, I literally quoted her 🤷♂️😂
Does he really want to do it though? It’s ambiguous. His desires entertained with what he feels he should do. There’s a subtle difference that only he would know.
Meanwhile, he completely closed off when she asked him what his true motivations were for doing it were. Strange.
Yo this was actually really amazing destiny. Seriously. Never been a fan but the second you talked about moral obligation to humanity I realized that you are seriously doing some in depth thought and realizing certain things that are very honorable. Much appreciated hearing this from you
hi steven
Drone
Lmao this sounds like a Destiny simp bot
@@allahbless2278 bro Ive hated him for fucking ever. He just sounds more based lately. And it looks like he's losing his mind to be quiet honest. It just seems he's finding more clarity in the manosphere world
@@joshsaunders6392 you guys really think I'm a bot huh?
Shes 37???🦭💀
She sounds 12
Yes, a very mentally and emotionally stunted 37.
She's the good in doses type. I'll just say that much.😶🌫️
No, she's not good at all in any doses
what happen at 13:50. what were they talking about?
He wants to reach his pinnacle of Saiyan Potential in his life and help others to reach theirs.
Based
I definitely really relate to Destiny's way of explaining fulfillment as something that can be separate from happiness. It's not always separate, but you can have happiness without fulfillment, which is just an empty feeling (I personally believe a lot of depression in people comes from this).
I don’t think I agree. How can you feel happy at a moment when you do not feel fulfilled? I understand that moments of happiness can be sprinkled in an otherwise suboptimal life, but if you equalize the timescales of the happiness and the non-fulfillment, how could that happen?
Could somebody wake up every morning for 5 years feeling very happy 24/7, while also feeling a lack of fulfillment the whole time
@@RockPile_ There is no such thing as being happy 24/7. That's just total nonsense.
I'm fulfilled in life.
Unlike most of destiny's audience of i have a loving wife, 2 children which i adore, dog and even my job is pretty good. I could not for the life of me think of something i find myself in want of. I don't long for anything, i am well truly fulfilled and content with my life.
But am i always happy? no some years i'm plagued by melancholy (and i do mean melancholy not depression) which lasts weeks or even months for no reason. I occasionally take annoyance at little things i should not care about and as much as i hate to admit it in rare cases i get truly pissed off and stew on things for days.
But these feelings pass and soon enough i'm back to my plain old self enjoying life and shit posting on the internet instead of doing my job.
@@louiscypher4186 I disagree that you’re feeling fulfilled while feeling melancholic.
@@RockPile_ This is because you've fallen prey to the idea that being fulfilled will leave you with a constant feeling of happiness.
It isn't so, hopefully you realise this before you've achieved everything you've set out to achieve in life.
Many people great people have ascended the zenith of life achieving more than most can in one life. They did this believing that they will never again be plagued by such negative emotions and it has had devastating results: crippling depression, addiction issue and other self destructive behaviours have destroyed amazing people who thought nirvana was just around the corner.
@@louiscypher4186 here’s the issue: I perfectly understand everything you’re saying, but I regard it as childish and simplistic wordplay. Meanwhile you don’t understand what I’m saying, because you can’t view it outside of the childish perspective you’re using.
Yes, happiness waxes and wanes. When you’re feeling melancholy, it’s waning. When you’re content, it’s in the middle. When you’re happy, it’s waxing.
Feeling content is towards the middle of the spectrum, with happiness and melancholy being on opposite sides
I feel like you’re working off of aphorisms and old fashioned sayings instead of just using the words how they actually exist
Not sure why he keeps having convos with Brittany. She talks without saying anything, and when she does say something it's completely warped by her weird perspective of the world.
destiny flipped his worldview, surprise, Jordan Peterson has the same advise, to not aim for happiness, but aim for fulfillment.
Lets hope Destiny wont follow JPs path. RA memes are great, but theres only so much I can take
@@FullMetalRedfield i like peterson
@@FullMetalRedfield people can’t take it but Peterson had some deep, important and valid points.
@@cryptocaesar8972 I agree. Like "harvester under attack!"
In b4 destiny becomes alt right lol
I'd be Okay if we just never talked to Brittany again. Nothing against her I guess. Besides the content black hole.
if astrology was a person
Destiny going through his Jordan Peterson arc a few years late.
💀 stop why is this so accurate
I mean he had to enter puberty sometime.
Ima just say Destiny seems to have found what is true “awakening” and she is just giving me a shallow energy. She’s uncomfortable he’s changing because deep down she can see it and it’ll push her to do the same
But why is Destiny changing?
Did he genuinely have an “a-ha” moment?
Or does he just know he cannot defend transitioning children?
And drag queen story time?
And violent ideological riots?
@@Americansikkunt Soon Destiny will accept these things are wrong inshAllah
Hooolly shit.
I stopped eating my sandwich when he said the best way to organize facts was with religion and when he said Dr Peterson's name, I was floored
Destiny has always been so refreshing to listen to. Makes all these so called "influencers" look so silly sometimes.
"I can't talk about it on stream" is FUCKING WEIRD for destiny. He LIVES on stream. Some serious shit is going down and I dont know what it is.... but I bet y'all can figure it out.
Also, oh honey... quitting smoking is easy, I do it ALL THE TIME. I quit smoking almost 20 times a day. ... but that doesn't mean im not addicted. Pot is an addiction, you aren't going on a break because you don't want to do it. You're going on a break to reset your tolerance and make the high better. You are literally chasing a high hun....trust me, I know a thing or two about chasing highs.
6:13 "How bored you would be with that" It sounds like passive aggressive discouragement
Literally all she does
Misogynist.
@@G13ULTRA ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@G13ULTRA bruh
Yeah it’s a big projection. It’s just like when the friend group of alcoholics has one guy who wants to get clean. “I want to discourage you from doing anything good for yourself if it’s difficult. It will stress me out to see you improving in a way that I’m too lazy to emulate. Stay down here with us please.”
petition to burn the bridge with britanny on it pls
An ancient prophecy fortold of a chosen one "destined" to bring balance to the force by destroying the grift.
Based
What do you guys think Brittany was getting at when Steven cut her off?
Chaos, chaos, chaos, anarchy, something, something, Absurdity.
Idk!! But she always manages to ask the good questions that cause Steven to close off. She’s good.
I actually really enjoyed this conversation because I feel all the time like there is something I should be doing and contributing, I just don’t know what talent tree to pick and dump points into. I don’t even know really what all is in my talent tree.
Really fun to think about right?
So fun to think about! And I’ve found when I honed in on my tree and figured out what tools i’m working with, I felt an increase of confidence overall.
so you need a purpose in life? NO SHIT... bruh...
Nah, just weed 😂😂😂
@@Macheako Yes, weed and a couple of imagined invisible diseases so people feel sorry for you and accept you smoking the weed all the time no matter your age. Then some kind of spiritual grift where you can be high constantly while scamming other high people with no purpose in life and you're set for life. The older you get the wiser the high purposeless people you scam will find you.
It always a joy to see someone try better themselves and want to enjoy life in a meaningful way. I applaud him. One of the greatest ways to change the world is by changing yourself and leading more by example than any argument or rhetoric that you can produce.
How did Destiny “change himself”?
Am I missing something?
@@Americansikkunt Idk really. Nice to see someone try. I guess its his not taking such a hardline stance on religion etc. Id have to rewatch the vid.
@@apocalypse4151 I must be out-of-the-(Destiny-sphere)-loop….
Because the guest makes it sound as if Destiny stood up in the middle of town square, and made some very controversial declaration….
From a “outsider’s” perspective, it seems Destiny’s conversations with “problematic” people has warranted this semi-collective interrogation of his intentions/goals/motivations. It’s like he’s leaving a cult, and they’re all going, “Whoa! Whoa! Whoa! Heyyyy, Destiny, what’s on your mind?”.
But I agree, it’s great to see a person make the conscious decision to better themselves (“be less hedonistic”, as Steven said.
@@Americansikkunt did we ever find out what hes doing and also in what way is he leaving the cult and what cult to clarify just started watching destiny like a month ago but he's become my favourite TH-camr/ streamer
@@thegaminglizard1265 I don’t think he’s doing anything other than thinking freely,
and speaking his mind
(and maybe some behavioral changes to his dating habits? Idk)….
But apparently that’s enough for lefty-types to try and intervene,
by making bizarre suggestions like, “keeping in contact as you talk to people; to make sure your beliefs aren’t influenced”, or whatever…
It’s like they really think Destiny is at-risk of falling down “the right wing pipeline”
(which is frightening, because cult prevent their members from certain interactions/behaviors that crack their programming)
Oh man amother terminally online Walking dunning kruger effect listening to her is pretty hard ngl
Brittany seem icky right now. I’m not the biggest fan, but it doesn’t feel like she’s challenging him but bullying and shitting on his growth.
Crabs in a bucket.
How anyone manages to unironically like Brittany is beyond me.
She's an absolutely bizzare woman and she scares me.
Your parents were as creative in naming you, as you are, in constructing meaningful criticism.
@@U311.61 good one
@@ChristUponus y’all scare too easily 💀
She carries society tf
It’s really unbearable listening to these two chicks
I think the real goal is to create a world where things people have passion for and are good are the things that we as a society push people towards the most. I cant imagine considering it a moral imperative but i do think there is a nobility to it. Its just setting that world up. The world would be a richer place if people pursued their natutal talents and their passions
The only problem with that is that nobody really wants to do all the hard/shit jobs like construction, garbage disposal, plumbing, pipefitting, electrical, linemen, etc etc. The whole follow your passions thing only works if you have a subset of people who do all the hard/shit work that keeps society chugging along. While some people can get enjoyment from these things, it doesn't change that it is oftentimes the amount of money that can be made in these fields that attracts people to put up with the hard labor/shittiness, otherwise why would you sacrifice your health and potentially die on the job if you're not being compensated well for it?
@@sackofpeas2470 ok thanks for adding nothing. It doesnt mean everyone acheieves it its just thats the direction we should push society. Luckily a lot of things are still gate kept behind education and effort. But right now education is focused on making tests to make drone workers
The goal should be allowing everyone to have the freedom and time to pursue those natural talents and passions while using a reasonable and fair amount of everyones time to maintain and improve the world we live in so everyone can have the freedom and time to pursue natural talents and passions without falling back to having to deal with things we have already solved ages ago.
Some people can offer society more than others and this should be reflected through wages but we currently cant or refuse to agree on what is offering society more and what is weighing it down.
@@chpgmr1372 listen that post took charitability. Something the other dude lacked
I don't believe the world should be like this because more people will be unhappy than happy.
I think we should look and try to find ways to make people enjoy bad/hard jobs more and find more fulfilment from them.
Genuinely praise people more for doing minimum wage "meh" type jobs.
People pursuing their talent and passion are usually praised, they don't need it imo.
I rather raise the minimum than propel the top.
Pursuit of pleasure/hedonistic driven discourse is interesting for a while but it just loses me for reasons I can't verbalize. The constant cycling between is it interesting or boring as a primary decision metric seems off.
Weird Al looks super young here
it seems like Brittany is passive-aggressively trying to discourage his new outlook
BPD, PTSD, Lupus...
notice a trend in any of these? These are all extremely slippery and difficult to diagnose and present themselves in countless ways. I'm skeptical. Man, I really like Brittany, but I'm starting to see this other side of her.
My bullshit sensor is going off constantly when I hear her talk.
Yeah the psycho.
it's gonna turn out to be mostly related to thyroid problems aye?
PTSD, lol! Amazin'! From what exactly, lol!?
Destiny, you will come over and become a traditional Catholic. Jesus and the Dear Mother await you.
Yes, he needs to leave the left hand path well alone. He's been on that path for way too long. So many wasted years. It's time to come to Jesus.
That bigger picture mentality that destiny has expounded on is facts! Not to be religious but if God gave u those attributes, u better maximize those attributes and contribute them to the world.
A lot of the world is on some bullshit ideology, if destiny is one of the ones who can effectively spot and redirect the bullshit... then fuck it. I'm all for it.
I’m curious to see what he does!!
This Brittany character is so shallow it beggars belief
Proud of myself… I was able to endure this „woman“ for 25 minutes… reached my boiling point there.
What upsets you so much in those 25 minutes? I agree that Brittany can be annoying but her line of questioning was solid here at least for the time frame you described.
she became charlie brown's teacher the last time I listened to her for five minutes.
Pass.
@@PuddingXXL Just looking at her, the tone of her voice, her speaking mannerisms, that mop she wears on top of her head… shall I continue? I have lots more. 😂
And how does listening to MrGirl make you feel? Or some of the random dumb fucks who call in? If they annoy you too, then based, we do have some common ground.
You're better man than me! My brain just automatically blocks out the kind of empty egotistical nonsense she spews after about a minute or two.
Every video of brittany should just be called "me".
Holy that Devin video music
Brittany probably shouldn’t play poker… painfully transparent in certain instances.
i like that brittney cant fathom doing something for the greater good, or doing something because you "owe" the world to do it lol.
Solipsism
Well yea that chick is the biggest narcissist ever.
See her thoughts on vaccines for more on this
I think she can fathom it, she had the same cheesy sentiment all of her twenties. She just decided it wasn’t for her, same as Destiny seems to have decided that it is for him. Different strokes.
It's never lupus
True I asked House
My atheist phase was incredibly small or non existent I went from Mormon to atheist or agnostic to spiritualist
amazin'
Amazed at how much the comments seem to dislike Brittany. She seems to have an interesting and consistent perspective, and seems to be relatively intelligent. I don't get it.
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lmao she said "the doctor says weed helps with my sleep and i get better sleep on weed!" literally anyone who knows shit knows any drugs will greatly disturb your proper sleep cycles even if you "fall asleep faster" and "stay up all night without it"
LITERALLY THIS.
Do you have a source for this? I’m curious as to why.
@@bobbiemcgee4477 my source is every time ive ever gone to bed high as fuck I wake up still semi high and my body is groggy and it was that way for years and then when I stopped it went away. I mean it’s almost on the level of common sense, if you want to know why that happens literally just look it up it’s the second video on TH-cam when you search it. Also when I said any drug I meant any recreational drug
Yup. Weed may make you slump out but it’s disrupting REM sleep. You will dream less and recover less. Spoken by someone who smokes too much weed. Any time I’ve managed to quit for a while, my dreams come back with an absolute vengeance.
@@bobbiemcgee4477 THC disrupts REM sleep. I don’t have an exact study to point you to but it’s pretty commonly known now.
So Destiny has found Secular Humanism, which is already a thing.
destiny is a genius
No.
Op is a rider!!
Yep!
What exactly qualifies one to be a genius?
in the land of the blind the one eyed man is king...
But do you know Jesus? There is a big difference between religion and the person of Jesus. He's not about rules. He is quite human and relational. Happy Discovery Destiny.
Destiny needs to find Jesus and embrace him.
@@Fedorevsky Jesus will find Destiny.
@@elizabethbillingsley5534 Yes, Jesus is there for him.
okay, I have to say, I fucking love this arch. Critically engaging with spirituality. I'm unreasonably happy about destiny finally engaging with this. Fuck
49:00 end me
she is just someone who assumes and talks smh
Yeah as far as happiness vs fulfilment: fulfilment is the feeling of being needed, of knowing you are worthy and capable, of being seen or understood, of being able to discipline yourself and overcome OR it can also consist of just the understanding about life having meaning at all rather than not. To me, fulfilment is a circle. It completes itself. You either have it or you don't generally. Whereas happiness to me is more like a straight line or a road, somewhere you are constantly moving but tend to never really "arrive" at. Fulfilment can exist in the absence of happiness because it's almost like a spiritual mathematics of understanding your place in reality, knowledge of oneself, and the gratefulness and appreciation for the things and people you experience or connect with. Happiness is more about hedonism or how pleasurable things are, so, there is some overlap for sure, but I find it useful to try and understand them distinctly.
Why does she speak like a high school psychologist for troubled teens?
Emotionally stunted at age 12. She's stuck there.
34:00 - 35:00 basically what every conversation with Brittany sounds like
Why are there so much comments on here so aggressively shitting on Brittany? I don't think anything that she said is much different to what Destiny believed like two or three years ago?
True. And he was just as juvenile and egocentric then as she is now.
It’s nice to see Steven work through his own ideology mirrored through his career. The sense of responsibility and obligation to those around us is, while seemingly a detriment to ‘our personal freedoms’ actually provides an environment that is more prosperous and free for all.
It seems like the two sides of the political coin are constantly trying to maximize either for the individual or for the society, without acknowledging we are both individuals and members of a society simultaneously.
Therefore, in order to protect The Individual,
either from other Individuals or The Collective,
we must recognize Individual Rights.
East and west. Yin and yang ☯️
I am way too dumb to understand what you said, but it sounds legit epic.
thaz' amazin'
I think the word for the concept Destiny is talking about is dharma.
only a couple minutes in, but I got to say I love the way destiny is thinking here, the masses can never think only critically and empirically, its up to those who are better at it to provide a religion type narrative which helps the average human to put his life in to perspective and find meaning in it, there is plenty of things wrong with the religions we inherited from our ancestors, but outside of the specifics, their narrative devices are incompatible with modern scientific understanding of the world, while the modern empirical perspective doesn't provide a narrative at all, there is an enormous need to craft a new narrative which could be compatible with ways in which we see the world today.
Jung is absolutely the best thing to read if you have this mindset. It's always such a massive annoyance that the people who tend to really get into Jung take away a Christian narrative from it. Because he was so critical of the failings of Christianity as a foundation, especially in the red book. You can look at what works in a grand narrative and use it to build a stronger one that's more applicable to the society we currently live in, rather than trying to retroactively pin modern society into the old frameworks.
You can see creatives have been trying to build this narrative for decades, with the reinvention of the pantheons through super hero literature. With the constant retreading of sacrifice motifs in literature and film. Everything Everywhere All At Once was like a modern, secular exploration of Buddhism mixed with Jungian thought. It's probably the strongest attempt at a modern grand narrative I've seen, especially in how easily digestible it's core tenets were.
I guess the problem with all these attempts is that very few people will take the moral messages they try to impart as seriously as they were probably intended to be because there's the understanding that they're just fiction. But religion argues that it is literal.
I'm not sure how we bridge that gap as a secular society. If we want messages to be taken seriously, do we have to lie and say they are literal? Doesn't that just set up a dogma that will inevitably not evolve with the world, and we eventually end up with the same problems? Ancient, static narratives that are unwelcoming of change and end up stifling the creativity of the next generation. But if we don't anchor them somehow, how do you get society to listen to them?
@Mike Byrne Smerty Pents
I think a large issue in your viewpoint is that one is capable of believing they think critically and chiefly consult empirics in the building of their worldview without actually doing so. Destiny seems like an example of this fault, but maybe I don’t know enough about him to say.
@@Cernunnnos i like you
@@ogulcandursun1665 😀
He’s just morphing into his completed Sam Harris form. That’s all.
Based
Based and Aurelius Pilled
if i had to guess, destiny got diagnosed with a terminal disease - man's not giving info lol
Nah, probably just syphilis
destiny is someone id be okay with ruling the world and playing games on the side.
Destiny will be the first woman president, I’m calling it now