Brittany RESPONDS To Destiny And It Gets Personal, Reveals What Creators Say About Him...
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Brittany is the result of turning all your copes into a personal philosophy.
are you telling me you don’t create a ranking system for people where you arbitrarily place yourself at the top? How do you justify everything you do? I’m a level 4 btw
@@gleebybooer don’t know if I’d place myself at the top. I aspire to be there, but I think I have work to do. The moment you achieve ‘perfection’ is the moment you’ve drifted off into insanity, imo.
@@gleebybooer na bro, you put your self one below the top, to show how humble you really are. But nobody is actually in the top level, cuz nobody is better than me!
@@gleebybooer I definitely dont and I definitely recognize that there are better smarter human beings than i am, this mentality is what allows me to listen to others and absorb what they say and analyze against what i already know
Facts
People like this are the worst. She acts cheerful and upbeat the whole time, but her words are pure venom. I've had friends like this in the past and they are completely unreadable, they will act the same if they love you or hate you; it's absolutely psychotic. It's only when they're away that they start shit talking and gossiping behind your back about how they really feel, but they will never own up to the negative intent behind what they said.
Exactly, also that type of mentality coupled with a mental disorder is a potential nuclear bomb
sooo true.
I always liked Brittany and even in this didn't judge her really at first but wow there was a way that she mugged at the camera while talking contemptuously about him in this video that honestly frightened me in how it reminded me of the worst coworkers I've ever been forced to meet.
FUCKING TRUE
At around 48 min mark what video was he talking about
It's ironic that Brittany criticises Destiny for believing that he has everything figured out when she's the one that made the system for organizing people into categories that she happens to be at the top of. And her explanation about Sneakos open mindedness is the most basic 3head conclusion, essentially: he is of student age and sometimes listens to me. No analysis of his actions or the thoughts he puts out into the world.
It shows just how retarded and spiteful she is. Her description of Sneako as being open-minded is the exact thing that people who aren't open-minded do to keep rambling about their point. Every conspiracist does this when they have no answers and just want to preach their lunacy.
"So, do you think it's possible that JFK actually did die long ago and isn't coming back alive to align with Trump"
Sneako/conspiracist - "Yeah, i see what you're saying, but this is why he actually is alive and coming to make america great again and everything you said was wrong"
Brittany - "Gosh, Sneako is so open-minded he actually said "yeah, i see what you're saying."
Janice Soprano. I know destiny fans haven’t seen anything besides Gun-dam High School 4 but this woman is Janice Soprano
I think that's what all this boils down to. Her belief that she is the exceedingly rare level 5 makes her fit to determine the introspection level of every person around her.
I also think she stopped talking openly about the level system because it's obvious quackery to anyone who isn't a part of her cult of thought. The more she explains to people who aren't part of the bubble, the more obvious it is to everyone how wrong she is.
@@Hi7here for being a level 5 she can't introspect shit from this whole drama. Or she is lying.
@@Logicalization yesss
Imagine living your life like it's an R.P.G. "Sorry you can't join my "Friends" party. All of the slots are full!"
Or an F.P.S or an R.T.S maybe even a R.A.C.I.N.G-G.A.M.E
Dismiss your weakest warrior I’ll meet you at the camp
We kinda already do that. It's just less formal.
That's a perfectly normal behaviour. You can only manage so many close friends.
I dunno how serious this comment is, but to be fair, I totally get what she means. I only have the bandwidth to care deeply about maybe a handful of people outside of my immediate circle. Meaning, being emotionally involved in their lives and letting them be in mine. People outside that inner circle are more like... people I'd probably go out of my way for, but could see myself drifting away from and not get distressed about it. I feel like it's like that for a lot of people, no?
Not to say the rest of what she's saying makes sense; She contradicted herself like a dozen and a half times throughout the video.
God she became so spiteful so quickly. She's not what she thinks she is
I think she is doing this to prove to her fiance that she is focused on him and that there is no one else that is important in her life. Her fiance may have gotten wind of how destiny is "close" to all his female orbiters.
@@TheKomentor I didn't even think about that possibility and I think you are right.
@@TheKomentor Definitely a possibility. She was continuously downplaying her and Destiny's friendship in this, just "another content creator"
@@TheKomentor Although, this doesnt really explain why she simps so hard for sneako? What would be the point of that?
@@kylerBD He is trending on social media, so he is content. But again she made sure their relationship isn't misunderstood by saying he is her son.
Women who don’t want to be infantilized… sure do love infantilizing Sneako
This 100%
She can change him! She's compassionate which means shes a genius. Therapy and data are magic that heals all, only women can understand this because of their high EQ
It triggered me a bit to be honest
As if my moral or immoral actions weren’t to be taken seriously because I am literally a child
This made me crazy when people did it to Lav, too. We trust 24-year-olds with our lives (they're old enough to be practicing medicine), with our safety (they're also eligible to join the military, police force, and fire department), with our future (they're old enough to be parents, and to not even be considered "young" mothers or fathers), and with our freedom (they're old enough to be practicing attorneys). There are _certainly_ immature 24-year-olds, but immaturity is not a hallmark characteristic of being twenty-four.
@BeEasylan Which is weird considering she's criticizing Destiny for being condescending towards younger people.
Btw, I really don't have a dog in this fight, I'm just an onlooker.
_”don’t murder”_
*”I’M NOT LISTENING TO YOU! YOU HAVEN’T WALKED THE WALK!!!”*
Assuming they havent murdered they have walked the "dont murder" walk thus earning the right to share that experience and recommend you take the same route. Or recommend you dont take it, on the basis of the very same experience.
Someone who hasnt murdered doesn't get to recommend murder, as they have no experience, as doing "the opposite of" something does not constitute experience in the thing.
Not a unreasonable take at all. She just got it twisted.
Afaik destiny hasn't murdered ever so he appears to be walking the walk.
BASED
The irony is that “I’ve been in therapy for years, I understand my BPD very well” is the greatest possible guise for BPD I can think of.
I find the most disappointing part to be how Brittany still doesn't seem to get it at all; it doesn't matter if they're both just acquaintances. If you decide to just shit talk another person like that in public for absolutely no reason, you're either being disrespectful and should at least apologize for your being short shortsighted...or you're just a bad person that Destiny made the right call to just cut out immediately.
Nah nah nah mate, Britney is just in the "blatantly talking shit about other people but doesn't want to be held accountable" bubble, since you're not in that bubble too, you can't speak to her experience and thus can't critique her 💅💅
Tbh, I still don't really know what he was angry about.
I would just reach out to apologize but I'm honestly surprised she did this all so public tbh. Its so random but it happens people are stupid just apologize. But I wouldn't expect her too because they aren't that close. I think they will be back together eventually this wasn't that big of deal tbh
@@Kuroganemk2 She made public statements on her stream misrepresenting a bunch of his takes on consent and rape, then went on to say that Destiny should not be giving any relationship advice and all his relationship advice is wrong even though he gives very very general takes. Meanwhile Brittany recommends a ton of stupid things in relationships and says you can never make general statements because they don't exist.
Lol okay dude, as if destiny doesn't insult and call everyone retarded every 2 seconds
It actually sounds like her definition of open-minded is whether they agree with her or not
It 100% is
ye it is, D explained this a week or so ago. To her, being able to take "advice" is actually someone completely incorporating her opinions into their life without debating it at all.
@@jeremias-serus thats how cults operate lol, your individuality is secondary or even tertiary to the priorities of the leader
This is been the standard operating procedure with the far left for a while now, I don't really see how people haven't noticed this
@@bingbong6127 except the left is almost by definition more open minded than the other end of the political spectrum
It's so weird to me that not being open to her advice or criticism is "Closed minded" yet she can write off the opinions of anyone who criticizes her because "We're in different bubbles lol."
By her own definition, she is one of the most closed minded people.
Some might call her… bubble girl
Brittany "no conversation, no discussion, period"
Also Brittany "Destiny should be more open minded like me & Sneako"
She’s comes off to me as very hypocritical and personally can’t stand her. It ironic she brings up “bubbles” all the time because she’s living in one.
Remember guys, Destiny is the most socially apt person alive: keeping a harem of schizo patients for friends is definitely socially aware behavior!
Hahahah to his point he is more socially aware than them 😂
Bro doing that is a lot of work. How many schizos have YOU got in your harem?
@@bugtesties The bar is not high though, and if you're socially aware but incapable of applying that to your self awareness, legit who cares
some people dont reveal their true colors immediately, only later when they feel comfortable enough to start taking advantage of your trust. look what happened with mrgirl, at first it seemed genuine and their conversations were funny but then it went full brutus and caesar.
He’s also the most empathetic person alive, the rest of us autists best respect that fact moving forward
Destiny, not agreeing with this woman broke her to the extent that she is going through his history just to find things that he is wrong it too😂. Again shes crazy
So we're just retconning reality now? the DDG cope is real and all the gas is being lit. This all started because he said she can talk about a subject. Which is a position he has stated numerous times about anything that involves him. and then threw a bitch fit because she had an opinion that didn't stroke his fragile pretentious and inflated ego.
@@zephirol4638 she had an opinion that was critical of his being, that’s fairly reasonable to get upset about. do u have any interpersonal relationships at all ?
She can team up with Max for the next article
@@zephirol4638 found the mr.girl fan
@@DavidJones-ot8qu And he said she was able to have such an opinion. Had she had a positive position on his being do you think we would see him throwing the same tantrums?
Yes it is reasonable.... If you didn't just give the clear to be able to do so. Which again he did and it is on video. That is the problem in your logic.
Why are you gish galloping to irrelevant nonsense? Deflecting from the actual topic and the facts there of isn't going to win you any ground except with the clowns who are also die hard Destiny fans.
She is so hurt from what has happened and she now she is running a "He was totally more into me than i was into him and this is all the reasons he is bad!" narrative. Literally what teenage girls do when they feel invalidated and rejected.
Yeah. It is unfortunate some people end up stuck in the "teenager brain"
Basically most chronically mentally ill individuals are incapable of much beyond that due to the extent their conditions affect their brains
I would argue mental illness runs rampant in the streamer world.
I work for someone exactly like this. Many upper management has left due to his vindictiveness and total lack of leadership. He immediately began talking badly about them, saying he was going to fire them anyway. I see so many similarities between him and Brittany.
@@roehanostornsyn3367 Homie this is 99.9% of people, including Destiny. It is very very very rare to find someone who emotionally matures past around the age of 14-16
@@DavidJones-ot8qu and that's just depressing. It really makes things very understandable how all of our history is war and societies failing, because we as humans are fucking retarded, selfish and over-emotional
"if you dont agree with me, you live in a different reality than me and thats fine"
Brittany, as a neurodivergent sociopathic narcissist, your reality is NOT something I want to live in. How is anyone supposed to take your "triggers" seriously when you routinely berate people for "being so triggered" in a derogatory and insulting way when they say things you disagree with?
I'm constantly confused as to whether or not you think triggers are a very real thing that people should learn more about and respect, or just a meme insult that you throw around at anyone at the first sight of behavior that doesn't align with your savior complex
dont forget, she is a lvl 5 which is the highest form of self-awareness a human could possibly have.
OK chill, ever since max came along anyone that destiny has beef with is a neurodivergent, narcissistic sociopath with a savior complex. Jesus
While I agree with the sentiment, you posted cringe my dude. "Neurodivergent, sociopathic, narcissist"... Are you psychologist or just vomiting up buzzwords.
She just sounds like an A.I. to me whenever she's speaking about psychology terms and applying them to herself and other people.
@@lampad4549 Who else besides Max? Genuine question, but from my point of view your comment seems a little hyperbolic as well.
There's so much Cope she does to represent herself as higher than she is. Any self critique has some sort of excuse to justify the level of actual self reflection she should take.
"I just called him a horrible father but I just dont know why he burnt the bridge, I just don't know why." Dude I've never been able to stand her. She's an actual whackjob. Destiny made a whole video explaining why he burnt the bridge which she watched but still doesn't understand? She literally is incapable of standing in someone else's shoes, she continues to s*** talk him while acting shocked
When a patient tries to act like the doctor/psychologist That's brittany in a nutshell
The “bubbles” are just used conveniently by her to defect any criticism of her beliefs. From how good she is at doing it I would imagine she’s been practicing this for a long time. I can’t believe Destiny broke her mind so bad that she decided to go this hard against him
The gaslighting and cope from DDG is truly in full force. Pretty sure it was Destiny who was Rheeing because he told her she can talk about something and then threw a massive bitch fit because her opinion on the topic wasn't something he liked. Apparently you can only talk about anything if anything includes coddling poor little destiny and his incredibly inflated and fragile ego.
The argument is as stupid as telling someone "Hey you need to get out there and vote" And then getting triggered when they vote for the opposing party. Maybe don't tell people to or say they can do something if you don't like the potential outcome.
I'm not surprised at all. Been telling people this from day 1.
@@zephirol4638 i hope youre trolling.
@@zephirol4638 these types of comments struggle to read as anything but “i like brittany’s system because it allows me to feel introspective/superior to others without actually being that, so don’t burst that bubble for me.” no one was even defending destiny here. take a walk
Ya no shit, everyone with a functioning brain thought Brittney was cringe from the beginning but Destiny ignored/banned those ideas because he was on the "anti-misogyny" arc. The reality is Destiny is a terrible judge of character and though he likes to call back to the days he was a poor working man that was long ago. He is absolutely terminally online now.
Anyone that gets married to an online person they've hardly met after 3 months, lunatic.
When did destiny marry milena
@@dddaaa6965 Oh right, because the blue haired lesbian is *sane.*
@@the_inquisitive_inquisitor it was years later, good job u got baited
@@dddaaa6965 what? I was just calling him a girl
@@the_inquisitive_inquisitor I made up the timeframe anyways
Let this be a lesson to everyone, no one agrees on what a "friend", "close friend" or "best friend" is. It's not about the label, it's about being happy with where your relationship is with someone, or working to make it what you want it to be. I've known guys that love having "friends" that just hang out after work and drink and talk about sports and shit and have probably never had a hard conversation or shared secrets ever, and I've known girls that call each BFFs despite having done heinous shit to each other in the past that's "water under the bridge".
As long as you're not using other people's metrics to tell you what you should do for someone or feel for someone to make them worthy of a label, you're good.
This. It confuses me & I think some other women that men will call someone a “friend” that they just have beers after work. To me I wouldn’t consider someone a friend if we couldn’t count on each other for help
Difference between a homie and a friend
Consider someone a friend when I feel comfortable shit talking each other.
@@scarletsletter4466 As a man, this is my ideal friend... th-cam.com/video/WGhcc3qFWh4/w-d-xo.html
@@scarletsletter4466 Yeah my SO has friends who he doesn't even know their govt name. How the hell?
The queen/goddess/matriarch of introspection suddenly can't understand the consequences of comparing people who consider you a friend.
Brittany: “There’s a big misunderstanding”
Destiny: “yes, she’s misunderstanding me on these topics”
Destiny is fighting like 5 separate battles simultaneously while negotiating with 3 separate platforms and still streaming 10 hours a day. Dudes brain is active rn
And all while having a woman’s name.
@Gandheez Nuts she thinks she could and so she did.
He's only half paying attention to everything
So, Mr Girl, Lav, Chud, Brittany ... who's the 5th?
@@jodiegordon5559 Tate fans/RP Community
Bro, how could steve not see this coming? Am i the only one that can sense these narcissistic manipulators from a mile away?
I didn't see it coming, i just really thought she was a bit peculiar, what did you see in her that screamed red flags?
He's too busy GAMING
Who is next? Lets see if you can actually see it
@@ambarlostinthewoods3080 the bubbles and the levels 1-5 are crimson red flags
@@ambarlostinthewoods3080 Instantly classifying people into "ranks" where she is number one on top is blatant narcissism.
I've noticed people who make empathy a significant part of their identity often seen to have difficulty around accepting people's actual feelings.
They see enough "empaths can read mind" motivational platitude memes and they actually believe it
Yeah its making others feeling abt themselves.
I’ll never understand the “Destiny can’t take criticism” statement
He listens to reasonable criticisms and responds
Ppl act like taking criticism means you just have to let someone talk about you and not defend yourself
Right! Similar to aggressors saying "you don't understand" or "You're not listening". A lot of times, I understand what you're saying but I disagree. Fragile ego types can't stand that ime
seems to depend on his mood swings. one moment he will hear someone out, the next permaban them for a little power trip dopamine fix.
Except at times when he rages and always says he is right lol. Dude this is all fake drama
I hear you, but I don’t think he should’ve blocked her. Tbh I’m still confused why he responded so strongly about what she said
How did all this start in the first place
Brittany has always been insane. The way she talks about her relationships, the cult she has built around herself, her pseudoscientific approach to her "work", her self description as "empathetic" and all that shit, her marriage after a few months of knowing the individual. These people are not trustworthy and I understand Destiny's appreciation for the oddballs but he has to start making better judgment calls about who he involves himself with at a closer level.
I honestly never saw her this way. But I also never watched her content so ig I was just in the dark
@@therandom58 She pretty much preys on sad, lonely men in search of something meaningful through a veil of extremely worrying rhetoric and sexual content like a carrot on a stick. She's no better than your JBPs and Andrew Tates, to be honest i'd argue she's worse.
@@therandom58 she's been sussy since d 1
@@therandom58 If you treat your friendships as complicated as she does, you have mental issues, life isnt that complicated, people dont put as much thought into every action as these socially autistic keyboard warriors seem to think.
@@therandom58she has a level system based on introspection that she made up herself, where, as far as I remember, level ones are basically worthless as humans, most people are level twos, there are a few three and fours and she and a small amount of other people are fives. Kinda yikesy if you ask me
I didn't think this VOD would be worth watching initially, but I'm glad I gave it a chance. Steven is sharing a lot of great insight into people's boundaries here.
"Guys, there is such a misunderstanding of what I'm doing on the internet" 🙄
I will never understand Brittany's self importance.
How many viewers does she get? I can’t imagine many people watch this shit 🤦🏻♂️
Yep that was cringe. She really tried to act like she was all that. Destiny being apparently obsesded with her lmao
So funny when Destiny interacts with all these weirdo content creators then is shocked when they flip on him
Good Faith Arc turned to “Et tu, Brute?” story real quick.
This chick is SCREAMINGGGG “I got BPD” ❤
@@fdsafdsafreds5420good faith? 😂😂😂 more like “blind hope” ❤
@@Macheako based.
On the surface she seemed normalish with quirks. How the bridge burned is the surprising part not that it happened
I swear there is actually nothing worse than when im disagreeing with someone and they start atributing hurt mad or some other bs to me
This is the face of a person who was traumatized at a young age and completely stopped growing as a result. It's ironic that she acts like she is the authority on open-mindedness when she's clearly made up a conclusion and is working backwards from there.
How can considering somebody to be a "close friend" be "inappropriate"? It might be inaccurate, that's different, but I don't understand how simply being friendly and thinking highly enough of somebody to trust them and enjoy their company can ever be "inappropriate". Brittany is either misusing the term "inappropriate" or she is misusing the phrase "close friend". In fact, now I think about it, she uses the term "inappropriate" an awful lot when "inaccurate" is really what she means.
Using a term in a way that is not accurate is an inappropriate way to use the term. Unfortunately I think Brittany is right here -- Destiny does have a warped reality of what a close friend is. I am not sure if it is due to being terminally online or what. You can tell here because one of Destiny's first responses is that he assumes maybe she thinks he is inappropriately obsessed with her, that's not the same thing.
Destiny surrounds himself with people he typically doesn't agree with so much that I can see how he could calculate an friendship incorrectly with someone that he mostly agrees with/likes.
Speaking from experience myself as well unfortunately, this is something that happens when two people are misconstruing differences between them about the friendship or relationship.
If one person is mismatched on the depth between two people, that can be inappropriate because you're not on the same level or emotional level & like you say that's also just inaccurate too. I've had this problem before & misunderstood how complex the relationship was between me & someone else before
"Buddy, could you not syyt on me for social media clout?"
"Nah, we're not that close so I'm gonna keep farming all of your public drama."
That's not even a kinda-friend, that's an enemy, no matter how she justifies it to herself. Calling him "innappropriate" is just her way of deflecting.
I think Brittany might just be a bad person.
Of course a cultist would say this
Humans gonna human habibi, bubbles and whatnot
When she used the humans gonna human for the OG Nazis, I was good off that lil bro
after scouring her youtube comments in her response vid and seeing her responses in there, we can safely remove the word "might".
She’s garbage 🗑️ ❤
I always said that even though Mrgirl was nuts, he was always right about Brittany being insane
I felt so schizo for agreeing with him that ranking people's worth as humans based on her own opinion of them because he was the only one calling it out. I'm glad to see now that I wasn't as schizo as I thought.
"He actually thought we were close friends and we weren't so that's why I shit talked his relationship behind his back and on a public platform"
23:30 essentially reads out like
Destiny: *blocks Brittany for being a brat*
Brittany: "Why are you so obsessed with me?"
Destiny summed it up best when this girl and lav were talking and every other word was “oh yea I totally suffer from this, and I have this flaw, and I’m a this and a that” all they do is make excuses for their shitiness and do nothing about it lol
it’s hilarious because she actually says shit like “oh yeah i apologized to them and said “sorry i did that, im fucked up and that’s just a thing i do 😋” i wish i could speak to her therapist because i don’t understand how anyone would ever perceive that as acceptable to say to someone during an apology
@@SkeleTonHammer and it will still be your fault that it went badly, never theirs
Destiny should claim PTSD & Debilitating Autism & Immune Disorders & Eating Disorders & Sex Disorders & .....
being a Sexual Abuse Victim & .....
And victim of the violent racist attacks on his Hispanic Heritage.....
*
Destiny could be the biggest victim on the internet.
@@nathanwinhusen6017 If you are allowing these people to run amuck in your life, it is both parties' faults. Get rid of your self hatred and these people will never be in your life again
@@DavidJones-ot8qu I was just agreeing with the original post i wasn't saying anyone's running amuck in my life
It always annoys me when people say "for ME it's like..." and then they go on to say something that's pretty much universal to everyone. For ME a close friend is someone who's in my inner circle someone who is not in the inner circle is in the OUTER circle. That's how it is for me, just me.
Ya that part was especially dumb. Like she talks all this stuff about bubbles and people having different perspectives and things that work for them, which honestly in the right context can make sense. But then she uses it in this backhanded way. And then also uses "the bubbles" to excuse Sneako of things but then turns around and judges Destiny because "he's an adult stuck in his ways so I'm forced to take him seriously." And apparently Melina has the right to "salvage" her marriage? Like what happened to bubbles there? Not that cheating should be excusable, but that situation has nothing to do with her for her to cast this much judgement, its between him and Melina.
Bill Burr always says "FOR MEEEE" in the most soy way possible on his podcast. Now whenever someone says it, I hear it in that voice.
She seems like a control maniac, even that crap about being efficient is top priority for her, she has to manage every aspect of her life and that of others, she thinks of herself as the main character
“for me, close friendship is over a long time”
>marries someone after knowing them just four months
Dude this is so sad. She is sitting there saying she understands people (empathy blah blah blah) calls Melina a victim, just to continually drag their personal shit out. It doesn't matter if it's publicly known, everytime these people mention it, debate it, discuss it, to pretend it doesn't hurt them or even sting a bit is asinine. Especially Ms. Ma PTSD herself not understanding that she is probably triggering them.
Well duh, triggers are only valid when she's upset.
At this point, every time she says bubble, my eye twitches.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Britney and her bubbles and everything feels like moral relativism taken to the nth degree where everyone is relative to themselves and no one else so you can't judge them, that's just how they are... It's unnervingly hands off...
As soon as someone talks about multiple realities and isn't talking about the multiverse theory, you know you are dealing with someone who is detached from reality
like shes dodging accountability?
I love how she says "its more impactful to listen to someone who has the lived experience of smoking and the bad stuff that can happen as a result" meaning she would listen to a smoker who tells you not to smoke because he's "walked the walk" but you shouldn't listen to destiny when it comes to relationships because he has toxic relationships and has cheated on his partner. lmao wouldn't the same logic apply and if anything destiny's statements are more impactful because he has experienced and caused toxicity in his relationships so he could know how and what people should do to not make those same mistakes. simonsmoment
Trruuueeee. Not sure how Destiny didn't pick up on this. Probably cause that logic just doesn't make sense in the first place. She goes from "walk the walk" to someone who has authority in that field. Yet someone who has "walked the walk" can give bad advice, and someone with authority in the field can lie to you. So essentially what she means is someone you trust to give you good advice, which is what any normal human being would say. Except she's trying to destroy Destiny's creditability so "I just don't agree with his advice" isn't enough.
She also says that "stats can lie" as a justification for needing someone who's "walked the walk" and then later says she'd totally take advice from an expert who has no personal experience.
I think she’s looking at it from a different view that actually makes more sense than people give her credit for. It’s hard to take relationship advice from someone like Destiny when his relationships aren’t that healthy. The example Brittany gave is reasonable, I wouldn’t consider advice from a fat person who is telling me how to get fit because they haven’t taken their own advice.
@@ciararara4759 That's still stupid. Why does it matter if they haven't taken their own advice?
Usually the reason someone is fat is simply because they don't have the willpower to actually do something about it, that doesn't mean they don't know what to do.
Plus, what causes his relationships to be dysfunctional is (from memory) his tendency to avoid conflict, and getting sucked into work/video games, leaving little time for the people in his life.
I don't remember him ever talking about that stuff, except to say that it is bad and something he's trying to work on.
His relationship advice is usually stuff he does actually use.
This arc has made me see how she contradicts herself constantly & it easy for her to brush it off when challenged cause she can just say " but in their bubble" or "in my bubble" & take no accountability for anything she says.
Being able to take criticism and being humble about how much he actually knows is one of the main reasons I stuck around watching Destiny originally. It was refreshing cuz it mirrored my own journey of gathering knowledge.
The more I research about a subject the more I realize how little I actually know, it’s a humbling but awesome experience at the same time. Because I know that little bit of knowledge is solid. I can explain it through and through in my own words, it’s backed up by science and experts, and I just have to keep building on that.
@Destiny that level of honesty when gathering knowledge is one of your best qualities, never lose that homie
Based.
Brittany always said TH-cam ppl in the past would just cut contact with her and she never knew why. I guess we're seeing why now.
“They gotta learn boundaries” - her own people says as Brittany habitually crosses boundaries.
And I guess she still ain’t 😂❤ (seeing why)
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Cuz they don't "walk the walk" wtf that means
Brittany: I only take advice from people that have the lived experience.
Stephen Hawking: *starts talking about the universe*
Brittany: Have you even been to space? How can you walk the walk when you can't even walk, hehehe.
Next stream Brittany: I don't understand how he just didn't get we live in different bubbles. He's just a level 1 because he can't climb the steps to make it to level 5 like me.
She literally clarifies this I the next 5 minutes but you’re already frothing you can’t even sit through more minutes
Right from the start, that “levels” delusion was a huge red flag.
@@waynewayne8419 My criticism is that she made the absurd claim that a position or argument must be viewed through the lens of the person staking it out in lieu of engaging with the position or argument in a vacuum. She didn't say that she simply let's the aspects of that person color the position or argument, but that she is unwilling to even engage. She never walked it back, nor did she ever clarify it in a way that makes it palatable.
Original statement that inspired my post:
@1:04:34 "In my bubble if you do not walk the walk you cannot talk the talk -- that is the rule. I do not want fitness advice from a morbidly obese person on how to have a six-pack. I do not want dating advice from a person who's who's a serial cheater."
She brought it up again:
@1:19:02 "I do not value people that do not walk the walk. That's all there is to it."
and 30 seconds later:
"I might consider a smoker with lung cancer, uh, telling me not to smoke, because they walk the walk. I wouldn't... Like, there are things that are facts, like okay, apparently in society people just want the right information, but I want people who have the lived experience."
A few minutes later:
@1:23:25 "So again, if you can't walk the walk I don't think you should talk the talk, but I don't mean literally." ("I don't mean literally" here was caveating that she isn't pro-censorship)
and 20 seconds later:
"I pride myself in walking the walk"
"Without walk the walk you shouldn't talk the talk" concept directly challenged:
@1:25:12 Superchat - "Don't you think people that can't walk the walk can actually give good advice? They literally can tell you the negative effects that come with the lifestyle."
Brittany - "I've never seen Stephen in the year I've been watching him, or year plus. I've never actually seen him say I'm a shitty partner, I'm a bad this, you shouldn't do it like me. Literally. Literally, uh..." Destiny paused to claim that she must not actually watch him. She continues "Literally look at me. I'm a bad person."
Her answer to the superchat continues further, but it's just more throwing Destiny under the bus and never really engaging with the question as the donator posed it. She sees Destiny giving relationship advice as an easy pill to swallow with her no walky no talky position, so she keeps it centered there.
Another superchat challenges the idea and calls the dismissal strange
@1:31:52 She scapegoats with bubbles instead of engaging with the callout, uses bubbles as a shield to protect her selfishly weaponized naivety instead of actually engaging with ideas that might burst her sheltered and precious bubble.
Goes on with a complete non-defense of the position 30 seconds later:
"I would not take advice from anyone even if it was accurate if they weren't walking the walk, because I don't need to. I have actual, like, papers I can read. I have actual research I can read. I don't have to watch a TH-camr who doesn't walk the walk. I can find a a TH-camr who's either giving me the objective research or uses..." (? Destiny talked over her. I think "uses" is the accurate word spoken) "...their life as an example of how things are, uh, able to happen. Right? How things can be a success."
This is the final time that this unfathomably narrow-minded way of dismissing claims made by others is directly talked about by her in this video. She did not clarify it 5 minutes after any of these times she brought it up. But yes, I was frothing at the opportunity to make that joke at her expense.
I just realized her entire business is a copy of the the cave allegory
Funny thing is she has very little lived experience with the shit she talks about. She is such a hypocrite
You know, I started this video out thinking that it was unfair of people to be attributing any of this to BPD. But at halfway through, I feel comfortable saying that her reaction quite likely _is_ the result of her BPD, but because she's not traditionally "splitting," she's either not realizing what she _is_ doing, or she's ignoring it. This is a good example of the paradoxical things people with BPD will do in order to tamp down on feelings of abandonment. Brittany is embracing both cognitive dissonance and absurd definitions/lines of logic in order to construct a world in which Steven didn't suddenly cut off contact with (abandon) her by blocking her, because they were never really that close in the first place.
Always when she says " ...and that's ok" what she means is "it's not ok but I want to look friendly and open minded"
destiny is cannot see red flags. this girl was insane from day one.
i don’t blame him tho, much easier to see red flags from the outside than when you’re actually part of the relationship
Well said.
What are the red flags, in your opinion?
@@user-nt3he2bk6b Her level system and style of communicating. People that self-proclaim as being highly empathetic and self aware, especially those with mental health issues, are almost always going to be bad news (yes, there are exceptions, but you need to be able to parse through those). She legit has always communicated in a way that sounds like "I understand you think I am morally wrong, and yeah I haven't fact checked anything, but we are in different bubbles so let it go." which is also not typically a sign of a positive friend
Actually Brittney, it isn't inappropriate to consider someone that you chat to on a regular basis and spend time with in person a friend. Maybe not a close friend, but a friend nonetheless. It's brittney that's the weird one who brags about how everyone tells her things but she tells them extremely little about herself. That seems exploitative and unintentionally manipulative.
Unintentionally manipulative or just maninpulative on purpose. It is more the latter.
Britney: Destiny is not on a journey like sneako, this is Destiny’s final form. 54:25
Also Britney minutes later: Destiny has told me many times that he is on a journey. 58:25
Also Also Britney: Why are people mad?
This is the kind of self absorbed shit people are talking about with Britney.
Destiny is like a dude who keeps a bunch of animals like tigers and bears unchained in his backyard, then is surprised when they try to tear his arm off
If only he screened a little bit better to see if those tigers and bears had mental problems before bringing them into his ….. orbit 😂
tbf no one expected this bridge to burn
@@Anonymous_Andy_ At thus point he should just take DGG's judge of ppl more seriously. They saw it with Lav, MrGirl, Brittany & who else.
Brittany FARMING Destiny by answering only the super chat questions. Based
40:30 People can be so oblivious to this but this can seriously fuck people up. Growing up being constantly compared to better peers by my parents, that shit fucked me up for a LOOONG time.
Brittany is definetly not the person who she thinks she is. This arc has really eroded the nice girl bubble act
Brittany portrays this innocent niceness while maliciously berating destiny. She will say some degrading shit about destiny’s morals, details about his marriage, his child, and how he “doesn’t deserve to be taken seriously” and then throw her hands up like she doesn’t judge others.
I don't think Brittany ever thought of herself as a "nice girl"
We should consider ourselves privileged we have Brittany here to tell us all how we should live. 🙄
This amount of sarcasm is so rich coming from a level 1… hehe 🤭
@@plaguepug2091 Hello fellow 1. According to Brittany the majority of the world, us 1s, should all end ourselves, it's better for society. Only true 5s like Brittany and Sneako deserve to lead society.
Try not to die challenge: take a sip every time you hear “bubble”, “cheating”, or “walk the walk”
If someone only wants to take advice from people with 'lived' experiences you're going to end up with a very skewed and broken perspective of solutions. For someone that seems to think so highly of their world view (or 'bubble' as Brittany so aptly describes it) it's very worrying that she can't see how flawed that approach is.
I wonder how often she's willing to dish out advice that she hasn't had lived experience with, I'd hazard to guess it's probably a lot more frequent than she'd like to admit.
It would also be interesting to hear if she'd suggest others to follow her current relationship path of moving overseas to marry someone that she apparently has been dating for under a year.
You're missing the second part of that, its okay if your "qualified". If you have the "lived" experience or are "qualified" its valid. Which obviously she considers herself qualified, so she can say whatever and its valid. This is also how she squares away the dissonence on her opinion with what Destiny said and the psycologist said. Even though they said essentially the same thing its okay for her to acknowledge what the therapist said as valid and still disagree with Desinys "Unqualified" opions and not be wrong.
I think she is overlooking the idea that people can be “Internet friends” and “content creator friends”. No you’re not “close” but you can be good online friends that doesn’t require you are close private or personal friends.
When Brittany say’s
“This is why women hate liberal men”.
Me: (trying not to video game myself) I love women I promise
Making me want to kill myself, in a video game
Don't blame all women for Brittany and all the Brittany clones who think like her. Lots of us can't stand her or her type.
@@horrorqueen3577 Well, I’m sure some of them are actual misogynists but a lot of the jokes are just laughing at the inappropriateness of sexism. I.. think anyway? I could be wrong, but whenever I tell sexist (whether misogynist or misandrist) jokes that is my mentality.
@@horrorqueen3577 agreed lol, ‘‘twas a joke on my end
@@devilsadvocate8010 most gentlemanly TH-cam interaction:
*interrupts caller 15 times*. "I just feel like there's a lot of miscommunication happening even in this conversation"
lmaooo fr it’s almost like there’s a miscommunication is happening in damn near every conversation she has with someone and she’s the common denominator 😱🤣
Sneako is impressionable, not open minded.
Yepp but her IQ isn't enough to figuren that out I guess.
Destiny treats his online/on stream interactions as personal and real. Brittany treats it as just business.
Lol
Idk maybe online relationships are different this felt like the most fixable bridge burning I’ve ever seen like one honest talk between both parties would’ve probably resolved this
Online relationships also differ from content creators, since regular friends don't do public statements about eachother.
I think this was true all the way up until the kid shit
I somewhat agree. I honestly thought Steven went a little too hard into the rape conversation, regardless of who was right or wrong he shouldn't had been as aggressive as he was around that topic knowing she's a rape victim. I also didn't think what she had said in retaliation was all that bad either. Like of course what she said was dumb, but she didn't get that personal at that point and Steven was already done with her at that point. Feels like a bunch of dumb fighting and refusing to try and understand one another. Or I guess in Steven's case he does understand she's just retaliating now but still refuses to try to make her realize that, which I don't entirely blame him.
I had a feeling there was something off about Brittany
I love how she loved the “weight loss advice from a fat person” superchat like it was the greatest take ever, when she already said it earlier and the super chat was just repeating it lol
Chat: Brittany you're wrong.
Brittany: "Lol, well I'm not really wrong bc my bubble see it differently. It's just a misunderstanding between bubbles"
I find it odd that Brittany doesn’t view Destiny, or his wife, as close friends but shares criticism about their relationship as if she is close to them.
This all feels like her judgements on him and the energy she has while dealing with him, is all based on her preconceptions about people who cheat. With as many times as she brought it up during this VOD, it feels like that's the trigger point that is truly driving her. I'm not even sure if she realizes that.
I'm sure she doesn't. Seems like the people who make going to therapy their whole personality are the least aware of their actions and how they affect others
@@nathanwinhusen6017
Missing the forest for the trees.
To a lot of people cheating is one of the worse things you can do. And to not take accountability and blame the people you hurt and then cheat on them again is pretty shitty. I would be pretty triggered too.
@@violetk8025 destiny didn't cheat on her and apparently she knew about this whole thing a long time ago and she wasn't talking like this about destiny until very recently. I think we all know she just took the grape conversation personally so now she's going on an anti destiny crusade
I don't get how someone who is so allowing of promiscuity, sex work, open relationships, free sex, BDSM, etc consider cheating to be the sacred line that cannot be crossed. Isn't constantly indulging in all those behaviours the very thing that leads to cheating? How can she promote all that and then disown someone when they end up cheating?
Just looked up superimposition because I wasn’t sure either. It’s when you play one chord or harmony over another preexisting one. In that excerpt it sounds like they are building different chords, going up by thirds (m3’s up the 2nd time maybe?) then resolving that one tritone down at the end. This is suggesting some different type of tonality (poly tonality, bitonality, free, or possibly atonal). Sounds like it would be difficult to read it in a key lol. What is the excerpt from? Sounds cool!
Brittany: “I’m pro sex work period. I don’t care how it affects society.” Very open minded….
What I hate abt many " woke" lefties. There is no nuance. Its why we cannot even discuss especially trans issues rationally.
There are certain values we hold as important personal liberties despite them not necessarily having the best effect for society as a whole. The ability to drink alcohol or eat food that isn't healthy are some examples.
@@joewesterland5697 ofc, as a legal right they absolutely are important, but you might advocate against them, like, i dont want fast food to be made illegal, but i would recomend eating little of it. When she says ''im pro sexwork period, i dont care about the effects it has on society'' shes shutting down an important conversation. Lets be honest, we shouldnt make OF ilegal, but OF is cancer for our society, you cant just evade that question
@@aguspuig6615 Well I dont think she is shutting down the discussion. She talks to people about topics like this all the time. It was just a quick side comment to let us know her rough feelings on the subject without going into any depth.
I think it's fair to critique her being somewhat flippant with language like when she said she's anti trans after accidentally stumbling upon taftaj's porn lol, but I think it's also not a massive problem because makes content mostly for her inner audience.
@@aguspuig6615 why is it cancer for our society?
I get the impression that they both evaluated the "closeness" of their friendship accurately and similarly, it's just that the word "close" is personally relative.
she weaponizes Steven's ability to be vulnerable and show his life online to say he does not "walk the walk" but she is totally fine with people taking advice from her when who the f*** knows what she got going on. 99% of her colleagues on the Internet do not prove they "walk the walk" and still give advice and she would prefer any of them over the only creator brave enough to show humility and still try to give the best advice regardless of how he has a hard time following it. plus she would never be able to find a "wrong" advice destiny has given. such weak arguments its jokes
Initially I was on the “maybe Steven is overreacting a little” side, but I’ve completely switched on that now. There’s just so much malice and gaslighting now.
I think that she's caught herself in a statement that was too strong for what she intended or was maybe a little wrong, but then tripled and quadrupled down on her statement. I think that is blatantly apparent when she says 'Sneako is more open minded then Steven' then says she 'can't judge his TH-cam actions because it's a character' then says that she will judge people like Andrew Tate for solely his content. She wants to land on something to upkeep her image to herself but it's difficult without self reflection.
I think Brittany is offended that Destiny cheated on his wife, and she took that offense on to herself. And especially if she was cheated on in the past she knows how that feels. I think, maybe, she has hurt/pain still from her being cheated on and on top of that is very empathetic to Melina and is mad at Destiny for hurting, in her opinion, a good person. I believe it's a combination of those two things and she is taking that anger, hurt, and past trauma on Destiny.
A lot of the things Brittany said about Sneako she can apply to Destiny, it just seems to me she is making excuses for herself not to.
is this the nail in the coffin for him surrounding himself with "interesting" people who all have personality disorders of some sort?
Dawg, that whole thing is cope.
Most of the streaming/online world despises Destiny at this point. He surrounds himself with whoever he can.
A lot of people don’t want to have anything to do with the guy.
@@John-mf1sz That's really not true
@@ayrtlamrin2264 Oh it most definitely is, at least to an extent. It may have been a bit hyperbolic but trust me when I say a whole lot of people/communities/streamers/creators do not like Destiny. He’s gone out of his way to alienate people throughout the years.
He’s not exactly the most likable dude.
The video start made my screen look like it wAS BROKEN
3 minutes in and that clip of her talking explaining the organizational parameters of her friendships was enough. Scary.
Wow such strong criticisms of destiny.
Which she seems to have only after they had a severe disagreement that she was personally attached to.
Brittany drinking game: take a shot every time she says "bubble" 😜
Took a shot every time she said bubble. I have lost both my kidneys
It took me so long to realize that you could keep health bars showing on they are billions. Such a game changer for preventing solo zombies from sneaking in and screwing you in the early game.
true, how tf does he do it
@@aguspuig6615 I don't remember what the setting is in the menu off the top of my head but it's in there. Not a mod or anything.
To be told that someone didn't consider you a friend when you thought you both were is harsh. To use that as a cope to justify shit-talking someone is just cruel.
I've said it before: Destiny thinks these people are his friends and they view him as a business partner at best and a content mine at worst.
I think when Destiny's friends trash him publicly in an unappropriate manner, like Brittany did, it may come from a place of admiration. They want to hold him to such a high standard where he never gets mad., no matter what you do. I think people like to have a punching bag in their lives, and Destiny can seem to be the perfect punching bag, because not only does he barely complain, he also doesn't seem to feel anything, so you don't even have to feel bad for hurting him.
Nail on head
True just because he comes across as more invulnerable than most ppl they think he can put up with way more sh*t then they would expect others to. He needs better boundaries & should show more vulnerability.
What you're describing is daddy issues and Destiny would be 100% in the right for stonewalling her out of his life.
26:49 Watching Destiny struggle to explain 'Respect' made me realise a lot of online content is missing that nowadays
“My PTSD was out of wack that day” lol. As someone who went through PTSD, don’t even think of using that shyte as an excuse for ANY behavior (other than perhaps feeling fearful, but that’s not rly a behavior)
Brittany is right
She saying she doesn't take Sneako seriously is the same thing as Destiny saying young people are dumb.....
Had similar experiences with some women, they just perceive a totally different version of what you thought was a clear discussion and refuse to budge.
I love how the better part of two years isn’t long enough to know somebody, but after an eight hour date she’s able to see the potential of marriage
This is pretty much Brittany taking her anger about cheaters out on Destiny and masking it as her opinion and she's just doing her own bubble!
I knew he was upset when he started speaking in tongue.
Traveling with someone has been a pretty solid litmus test for friendship in my experience.
'Children mimic their parents' is about as broadly true as 'children rebel against their parents' is...
Brittany is the ubermensh of crystal girls. To her, destiny's relationship where they get into arguments and miscommunicate is dysfunctional, but her relationship where she's only known a guy for a month or so and is ready to move to Europe for him is beautiful and something everyone should try. She's gonna get so many girls human trafficked Andrew Tate style by saying that insane shit is good.
"She's gonna get so many girls human trafficked Andrew Tate style by saying that insane shit is good" That's a really good point.
Let's just assume Destiny's advice is bad, the worse that will happen is you get into an relationship where you argue all the time.
If anyone tries Brittany's advice of knowing a guy for 3 months long distance and becoming engaged, and then being willing to move to Europe, they legit risk being trafficked.
This is what Erodite and Melena were trying to tell you. That people think you don't care about anything as long as it's public. You should communicate your boundaries better
Agreed. Don’t say nothing bothers you then get upset when a person says something that you don’t like or is off limits. You gave them free range to say whatever they want when you told them nothing bothers you.
Everyone echoing Max’s opinions of Brittany all of a sudden.🧐
Raggedy Ann turned out to be an attention-seeking narcissist.
You guys noticing a trend with online entertainers?
the whole rant at 33:00 is insane, destiny is just describing how 99% of people interact with each other and because he spends all his time making friends with asylum patients he thinks he's unique for interacting with people this way
If you think 99% of people interact that way you are living in the past. Autists like Brittany do not understand this, and there are more and more autists like her everyday.