Death was not what I expected at all, I was an atheist, now agnostic due to several recent experiences... I was with my mum and dad as they died, both deaths were the most intensely intimate, deeply spiritual, the most human experience I've ever had by orders of magnitude. There was a certain beauty weaved in amongst the sensation of loss, pain and a lot of other emotions, I feel a little guilty and affirmed to admit I saw that beauty because of how society told me I should deal with death. We lay with my mum holding her hands, upon her final breath she smiled and I sensed peace.
This description about dying is so accurate, I evidenced the same when my mum was dying last year. Its a peaceful process, but we wondered if she could still hear, so we said thank you to her for all her teachings and told her that we will be in reunion in heaven later, even after her last breath. The same phenomenon was also observed on a 12 year girl with severe disabilities whom I helped for many years. A very sad but peaceful process. I've learned a lot about dying through witnessing their death. Hope when that happen on me, I have no fear to slip into it. Thanks for presenting this video, very comforting.
But isn't life about making memories? Without memories, what are we? And, without the ability to make memories, what could possibly be the meaning of those final experiences for the dying person? Hmm. I could have possibly just answered my own question... I need to check out Buddhism and the practice of "living in the now", yeah? Sometimes the idea of that practice seems impossible to conquer.
well, we don't know if after dying our consciousness survives, and if it does then we will have memories of our death, we can only speculate about this topic, unfortunately. Living in the moment is about mindfulness, it is like any type of mental/physical exercise, requires time, think of the act of typing a message here on TH-cam, you were just typing without actually paying attention to every single letter you type or where the letter was positioned in the keyboard, weren't you? so the mind is not naturally inclined to be mindful, but our consciousness can do this if we focus.
@@youthecat honestly life can be anything if you want it I have been suicidal but I can't kill myself because I can't die like a b**** so I rather get in a fight with like a tiger or something I also don't want to die old either like a b**** I just don't know 😂
@@djangosouthwest6043 : Who's gonna care *how* you went? More to the point, how will YOU care how you went? When one is truly at their wits end, there's nothing worse than figuring out how to remain alive for the next 5 minutes... and the *next* 5 minutes, etc. The pain would be so great that HOW you go wouldn't even register on the give a shit meter.
The topic of death is something that has haunted my entire life so far, I'm 32 years old right now, sometimes I get angry at the fact, I'm going to have to experience family members dying and I get infuriated at the fact I am have no choice but to experience death myself sometimes I just wish I wasn't born in the first place
Same here, I'm turning 24 in 2 days and see no point of living, life doesn't get excluded from stress and anxiety, it has been always tough and exhaustive for me, I have lost faith ages ago and I want all this agony to end same as I didn't want to be born and exsisting from the getgo
Sick to the back teeth of the medical profession presuming to take control of the dying process. The traditional arrogant "We know best" attitude. It's like the macho medicine culture is one of I the Doctor will not be beaten by this or that disease (forgetting about the actual dying human being) when the natural dying process would have been so much quicker if left to it's own pace with the inclusion of appropriate pain and other symptomatic relief.
@@mohammedbazzi7592 I am 27 years old and from the age of 15 I started having these feelings. From the age 18 - 21, I lived amazingly and then these feelings returned. I realised the stress, the fear, the phases... it's all a part of it, man. Existence is not supposed to be easy and stress free. I have looked within my soul and truly found the idea that an existence without any obstacles, without any trials and tribulations is... pointless. Life is just a series of problems we need to solve. Some we can, some we can't. Some of us go the extra mile and give up their life trying to solve a problem. It is up to us to find meaning in our lives. To quote a scene from The Amazing Spider-Man 2: "What makes life valuable is that it doesn't last forever. What makes it precious is that it ends." Get out there, find something to fight for, something to live for! No matter how selfish or selfless it is, never stop searching for that spark. We have not been brought here to stay in bed, under our covers. We have work to do. 🫡❤️
When I thought I was going to die I just felt I was going to pass out, like a faint. That was it. I had very blood pressure and a very low heart rate. I kept myself calm as I couldn’t see the point of getting upset as I wouldn’t help me or the resuscitation staff at the emergency department. This lady, in my humble opinion, has a point worth saying..
My lovely Dad passed away on 12 October it was totally horrific. He was in hospital for 5 weeks of torture, they were trying to keep him alive when really he should have died earlier. Instead he suffered more pain, needles put in his arms, blood transfusions, scans on his chest. Pure torture to my poor Dad who was terrified and in absolute agony. He knew he wasnt going to make it and he was fully aware of everything to the end.
I am so sorry for not only your loss, but the torture that you and your father went through. In my opinion hospital's do whatever is necessary to keep patients alive for money. If you look at the specific cost breakdown of a person's hospital stay that included death, the majority of the bill is from the final 24 or do hours before the person dies. Hospitals are a business, and businesses need to make money to stay open.
I’m sorry for your loss and for your bad experience. That said I have to respond to a comment by jimtemple here. I work in a hospital. In the ICU specifically. I am around these scenarios all day every day. When a patient is admitted to the hospital, we have to get information from them or their power of attorney that designates how far they want us to go to keep the patient alive. We must abide by this. We cannot keep a patient alive that is known to be dying against their will. It’s not only unethical but illegal. Hospitals are run by their workers. The people that work in hospitals are good people who just want to help and do good. It’s not fair to say we would subject people to torture to make more money.
I love this video about dying.......I think most people live their lives in total fear of death ...that in fact our whole society is built around the fear of death.......The fear of death and dying inhibits people from being free to really live......our society is built on the notion of working your whole life to attain security ....when in-fact there is no real security because we all die ...wether we work that 9-5 job or not.
@Iynda Diamond: we want security when we live. Death is just a natural process. And by 2045 Death won't be there for any humans because of technological advancement, one can remove the gene of Death.
Having just witnessed the death of my beloved spouse, I can say, it is not peaceful and gentle. I was told it would be like going to sleep. It was not, it was hprrific and very traumatizing. To see someone in so much fear and pain, and suddenly struggling for each and every breath and not being able to do anything is something I will never forget. So no, dying is not pleasant, not like going to sleep.
It's so sad that some people don't have the peaceful deaths as described here. My younger brother was recently fortunate enough to have a peaceful death where he slowly drifted off into oblivion, almost exactly as described here, but I'm cognizant of the fact that there are some who aren't as fortunate, and my heart goes out to them and their loved ones, as it does to your spouse and to you, and I don't pretend to know how you must have felt, or what you went through.
I'm here because I am dying alone. I just wanted to read or hear something gentle and supportive about the experience. I fast forwarded past the family witness stuff. I just hope and pray that I can die alone, peacefully in my home, in my bed or maybe on the couch. I fear dying at work or while walking down the street. Sometimes I feel so weak and in pain. I wear a DNR bracelet whenever I go out. I don't have to wear it at home. If someone finds me at home, it will definitely be days later after I have already passed. That's my reality. PEACE to all.
My mom passed away last year, she had terminal cancer and was in a hospital for 1.5 months. The day she passed away I was at work first and then went home to have some sleep before going to her and staying with her at night as usual, but at 4pm we got a call from her sitter that she was taken to the emergency. When we arrived, no one allowed us to enter. Later we found out that she took her last breath right after the call we got from the sitter. Not being present for my most favorite person at her last moments is the guilt and regret chocking me everyday. Learning to live further without her is terrible. I knew she was in pain but she wanted to live. Thus, I think death is both fearful and peaceful. Peace comes by lifting pain but fear of leaving loved ones forever is totally scary. That said, now I am not afraid of death cause we might meet each other again or both immerse into oblivion.
Death is something that happened to every body no matter how noble or evil they were no matter how powerful or meek they were all will end the same way as I would ... So no don't fear something that each and every one of us would experience ...
Great explanation, clearly death is one of the few guarantees we are born with but yet one of the least talked about inevitable events we will all come to experience. I have family that when brought up will say "I don't want to talk about it" or "Why would you bring that up" and even cry when attempting to discuss the topic of final wishes etc... I'm afraid its getting worse in younger generations and the sheer rejection of the inevitability that time is limited is almost problematic and arrogant. I have found that it seems more accepted in latin cultures but none the less great video.
This is a generalization but latin cultures tend to more commonly have multi-generational households where young children are closer to the process of a grandparent dying. In non-Latin cultures, in wealthy countries, there is higher tendency to ship older folk off to retirement homes or other facilities where the process of dying is remote and abstract.
I knew a man who was dying, and he knew it, too. About 20 people walked past him, to say something to him. Each person passed him; said something to him, and kept talking to the others as they were walked away. I waited a bit, and then went to him. I cared about him, and loved him; others thought he was “different”. I stayed at the end of the line. A lot of the folks were chattering to him. The group was saying loudly a lot of things after, and I waited. When I walked to him, I just said, “I love you.” His smile opened up, and said the same thing to me-“I love you, too.” Not about as woman and man, but as two human beings who care about each other.
You described a peaceful death in a comfortable situation. But I have lost several people in violent situations, such as my mother in a car accident when I was nine, or my cousin whom I loved from suicide at eithteen, or my best friend in a motorcycle accident months later. There is a lot of profound suffering when the sudden death of a very close person happens, and when it occurs in bunches, as it happened to me (I omitted a few in between), it leaves a mark.
Yes, however it remains painful for the living - not those who have passed on. In that way, isn't it just life that is the painful part? Not living but feeling?
This video is so calm and beautiful for my grandpa he had throat cancer so as he was coming closer to his day of passing my bad dying he literally just choked to death it was hard to watch I couldn't watch him 😔
There is a fear of dying in any culture and any country in the world. The word we use such as "Demise", "6 feet under", ..... relates to the fact that we don't want to face death because of fear. People rarely discuss about death and dying because of their fear of death. Human being from the time they born till their last breathe unconsciously look at their own graves.
My mums passing was so, so much worse than I was expecting. We need to educate people about how distressing it can be. All four of us siblings experienced trauma. In a hospice, maybe staff are around to help and inform. In normal hospital, it was terrifying. We are all having flashbacks. Mum was utterly terrified and afraid until the last 3 minutes when she was so starved of oxygen, she fell into unconsciousness and breathed her last 6 breaths. It lasted about 6 minutes. She was the most beautiful Christian lady. I thought she would go peacefully.
It depends on how you die, I had an nde, and that was an amazing experience. As you feel your soul separating from your body, you feel lighter and lighter
Hey cooking thanks for sharing, I want to ask though, would you say that experience felt more real than you being alive right now?@@cooking_innovations
@crystalwater505 Hi, and I hope all is well. The experience was very real. This is how I would describe it. One of the reasons I say this is because when my spirit rose up, I felt the separation between body and spirit. It's like being in a body full of worry, then the feeling of all physical emotions coming from my shoulder and going into pure bliss.
for years my solution to the fear of dying has been both depression, and deservedness. when you are depressed you care little about losing life. when you think of yourself as unworthy to be the only one to escape death while everyone else still has to deal with it. but youve helped me see a better way to view death so that i dont have to rely on either coping mechanism. i would like to just sleep that would be nice. my life so fragile that a gentle process could tear it apart for me and remove my pain and fear.
Maybe as a generalisation "we" as a nation have stopped talking about dying and instead use euphemisms such as passed away but in many Afro-Caribbean communities we're not afraid to talk about death. We just tell it as it is and accept that death is a part of life. Edit: "as a nation", I mean the UK
Great wisdom, here. That's right, death is a natural and gentle process, as this lady says. I've always thought that, as frightening the idea of dying can be, there's actually another thought that is even scarier : the idea of never dying. THAT would be hell.
I'm sorry but what I hear from the loved ones of people with the same illness as my dad, with metastatic cancer to the brain and elsewhere, what they say the experiences of their loved ones death was not like this at all. They said lots of crying out in pain, for example, for 10 days I just read from someone. I'm fkin terrified for when the time comes.
thank you for this video. though we may have different experience on the death of our loved ones..the conversation itself can be a good start to our healing or perhaps preparation for the next death, be it ourself or our loved ones
Thank you for this. I'm someone who often ponders at the inevitability of the end of the universe. It scares me a lot, the idea of nothing. What you've described was so peaceful and calming. To the point where I'm now looking forward to my death. Not to experience nothing, but to remember the rich life i lived surrounded by the people who love me. Particularly when you mentioned that during sleep, you go unconscious for a little while. Just like birth, you grow until you wake up. As you age, you just sleep a little more and more each day, until you fall asleep.
Sometimes i think death is actually mercy, none of us live forever and i think at some point it would be better to be dead than continue life. Why live longer only to live in pain and agony for that period. I have struggled with fear of death almost all my life and what to expect... i still struggle with it. I can also see the point of others on here who have mentioned "what is the point to even be born if death is the end result anyway?". I cant speak for others but i believe that life is a test, its a test of who you are and what will you do with what you are given however long you are alive. Its not about what day you are born or what day you die, its what you do with the time in between. I believe in the end we are all judged by that. I am not a great person, i am nothing special, i am as ordinary as they come. i have made mistakes and knew i was making them while i did. God have mercy on me, To me i know matter cannot be created nor destroyed simply change forms, so i believe something goes on beyond death that is uniquely us, why do we all have different fingerprints no matter who we are? its individual it sets us apart from others. Even though we are all human, we all have different interests and ideas. and we come in a variety of colors and shapes and sizes. I dont know if i will get backlash for saying this or not but i dont care, my mother was a devout Christain her whole life, she died in peace. i struggle with it, and i am not perfect i didnt live like my mother did unfortunately, But in my life i have seen too many things to make me think otherwise i know Jesus Christ is real. I am not preaching here cause i am not perfect i have flaws but maybe if you really want peace with death and thats why you are here like me, maybe you should ask God to show himself to you in a way that you will know for sure. Life insurance is good it takes care of the ones we leave behind, the money never hurts, and we want our loved ones to be taken care of which is wise. Get some life insurance if you can just remember the best life insurance policy for Death is belief in God, and that is free. I will not sway from what i know to be true.... even if i am not perfect,, God is real, i am not perfect but he is, whatever brought you here I simply ask you to ask him yourself. You just might find a greater peace than you ever imagined you would.
I learned douvh in my home care work. I saw some in a regressive state, one women awok e briefly to say 'i .going to talk to God, and Jesus too' I think a lot of people who are willing do that, she needed forgiveness. Once when trying to make dying man more comfortable he yelled out 'Don't do that's when his wife and I tried to move him. I think I will be in that system reviewing my life and asking for forgiveness and thanking God for my life, I have no fear Reading neat death experiences has comforted me.
There are different types of death. You describe a gentle decline and eased passing through. The body dies but the spirit lives on of course in all cases imho. I have seen family members after their body died. There are those very painful and horrendous deaths. I have read a few comments below and some brave souls have lost near and dear ones in an awful way.. IN those cases in it not and easy death and horrendous for all involved. So very sad. But once over they are in a much better place. God bless them.
In death, we give life to so many other things. So long as we're not burned up or buried in a lead box. I hope that, when I do go, they let me feed the worms and the mushrooms 🍄 become one with the universe. Finally be useful. 🙏
They only thing that everyone must do in life is die. It is the only thing that unites us as humans. I can honestly say I am prepared to die. I’ve accepted death along time ago. I was in a crash not so long ago I hit a tree at about 90kmh and I remember seeing the tree and realising I wasn’t going to gain control back. I always wondered how I might die and in that moment I got my answer. Obviously I survived but having faced near certain death I can honestly say I was at peace with it.
There's something wrong with me. I've been suffering from depression that led me onto a path of fear and hopelessness. I've become very spiritual. I keep asking myself what happens after death and although I've come across a lot of programes that say dying is peaceful and knowledge about people ndes experiences, it still gets me scared because I know my parents will die and then me in the future. My fear is watching everyone die before me. My grandma before her death witness it. I don't know who to turn to and what I can do about this depression. Please help.
A lot of people have the same story when they have a close friends to death or they die for a couple of minutes it’s always the same your brain awake for a couple minutes every time someone has a close thing with something magical happens every time I think about before I was born before I think of anything what was there and every time I think about I feel like there’s nothing there. No one ever know what
This was a nice fairy-tale about dying. Many people have children who die before them. Trust me when i say dying can be worse than you think. The death of a child can destroy you. Anyone who has had a child that ended up dying can tell you that dying can be worse than you think.
@@GeorgWilde Dying usually affects more people than just the person who dies. And its usually a bad thing. Obviously the person who is dead doesnt know anything about it though. Died myself once. Had a cardiac arrest and dropped dead on the floor. Knew nothing about it up until the point the paramedic shocked me back to life.
@@crystalwater505 I don't think so. That part of my life is a blur and always will be. I think even when you lose the will to live and you no longer care about life, deep down you are still afraid. I was on edge of sanity for a good while there and didnt care whether i lived or died. My behaviour was literally crazy, reckless and totally irresponsible. Deep down i was full of fear, as well as anxiety and loathing. When you start to really understand that nothing and nobody in life lasts very long and the people around you are going to die (many of them before you) it does fill you with anxiety and fear. It wasn't me who pulled myself through that dark horrible period in my life. Im not a strong person and im way too sensitive for my own good. I was lucky enough to meet someone in life who cared about me enough to help me survive and start caring again. I can only speak for me. Other people may feel differently. Its animal instinct to fear pain/death - your own death and the death of others. Its quite interesting to see how animals react to seeing other animals of the same species that have died. They kind of aren't really sure how to react to it and you see them slowly move away from the body after smelling at it. The instinctual fear of death and being hurt is a survival mechanism. Counterintuitive to suggest that humans and other animals shouldn't fear death. If we really didnt fear it most of who are here now wouldn't be.
Interestingly in Islam, we are encouraged to ponder our death daily. Not being able to do any more good deeds to prepare ourselves for Judgement Day is a reminder to do as many as we can while we still have the use of our health before the process you excellently described begins.
Right. No one knows how it feels except the person that is dying just like no one knows for sure what happens after death. Even near death experiences can be explained as the brain can take hours to shut down even if there is no heartbeat, hence why when a person is resuscitated, they may have dreamlike stories to tell. No one who has actually died has come back to tell about it. This is exactly why something as toxic as religion exists, people make up stories because they fear the unknown and can’t just accept the fact that we don’t know and will not know until it happens.
You don’t know even death has a prize tag! Everything has a price tag there is nothing else in this world but price tag. There is nothing here NOTHING! Nothing just fear so much fear
Okay I'm sorry to burst your bubble but most times it cannot be comfortable it can be painful say if you were katana'd or Bazooka'd or spring Bonnie'd or something like that then it could do harm to your body so I'm sorry to say this but Diane cannot be a gentle fate
I agree! It seems that nearly every TH-cam video must have some kind of intrusive sound - someone tinkling on a piano for example. Always utterly irrelevant, always totally unnecessary. Drives me nuts!
Dying is every bit as bad as anyone thinks, you stop existing for all of eternity. Complete oblivion, yeah you don't suffer but you don't feel anything either. It's not the dying that terrifies me, it's the knowledge now that i will never exist again anywhere in any way. I see why people believe in religion to abate that. I can't lie to myself and believe it though. The Universe exists for nearly uncountable years, stars can survive for billions if not trillions of years and all we get is a measly 78 years on average. Our existence is pathetically short as it is let alone only one time with no other chances.
I never existed for billions of years and it has never been an inconvenience. in fact I could've not existed at all. I was just extremely lucky that I'm here.
Your consciousness of your current self ends. However some matter of your physical existence remains in a coffin or an urn just like some matter and energy remanifested as you when you were conceived. You can think of yourself as a temporary incarnation of matter that exists before and after you. As Carl Sagan said The cosmos is within us. We are made of star-stuff. We are a way for the universe to know itself.
Calling death a 'process' is hardly better than saying someone has 'passed away'. "Consoling one another"? This can't take place so long as outright ignorance is the basis of our treatment of 'death'. Families gather uncomfortably around death beds, not knowing what to say because they do not, apparently, know about death, or life, and have never troubled to find out. There is a popular equation between being alive and being physically functional, hearts beating and legs walking, minds knowing etc. We do not 'die' at death. As I insist on this, I recognize that you may elect to insist that we do, that life 'ends' there. Neither I nor my life ends as my body ceases functioning. How I know this is nearly irrelevant, because there are various ways people can discover this. I had an experience once that showed this to me. All this popular tolerance of the idea that 'we die' and that t is an end is appalling for me to hear. Each of us will see as we pass over what I am talking about. For now, I can only wish you well and recommend looking into the endless array of near death experiences and accounts on youtube. Additionally STE's (spiritually transformative experiences) also indicate life after death. If you think life after death is too good to be true, consider that your present life IS life after death, life that succeeds prior living experiences. If only reality was so easy that all you have to do is die to be accomplished, but dead. There's so much more to it than that.
By referring to it as a process, Mannix was not suggesting that we should refer to it that way as an alternative to 'passing away' or whatever. She was making the point that, like birth, death does not happen out of the blue without warning but typically follows a more or less predictable pattern (I guess as a palliative care specialist she has seen this on quite a few occasions). Understanding this process and what to expect may well be helpful to all concerned (I would personally expect that it is). As to whether or not 'death' is simply a gateway to some kind of after-life cannot be resolved here but you are entitled to believe whatever you like. However, your assertion that consolation is impossible without accepting your claims about an afterlife is objectively wrong. People find consolation in various ways after the death of a loved one and what they believe about the finality of death does not necessarily have any bearing on this.
Literally every single point you made is wrong. People DO have a problem with death, it's in our DNA to be afraid of it. Life isn't good either (at least for 90% of people), it's full of needless pain and suffering. There are also people who are suicidal (both actively and passively) who don't try to avoid death and desperately want it to come sooner.
What matters most is that you repent, confess your sins to God and make Jesus your Lord and Savior, forgive everyone from your heart and follow Him to be saved from hell and enter Heaven.
ngl I just don't want to die because I want to be here Sith my family and have kids when I'm older and if I die before I achieve that IL never be happy
In islam, We believe that death is "A passage to the other world" Now if you were a righteous worshiper of God, You'd be living a peaceful life in your grave until the day of judgment. Now if you were a disbeliever of Allah, you'd be have a part of hell in your own grave. I had been thinking of suicide for more than 7 years.
What if you were told you had to live forever that would be alot more scarier i peobley would have done killed my self if i knew i had to stay here forever
Everyone says they belive in god but yet everyone is scared of dying something don't add up about these Christians,why would you be scared nothing about death is as scary as his world n life we have here nothing can be that bad !if you think God is real why would you be scared of dying what is so good about this world u wanna stay I haven't found it yet,I can't wait to see what's next I hate it here
I do not want to die so I'll just have to find a magic lamp that first I wish that my next wish comes true and second I wish that I had unlimited wishes and third I would not die
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This is exactly what happened today with my mum and I'm so happy I was holding her hand X I feel blessed x
Death was not what I expected at all, I was an atheist, now agnostic due to several recent experiences... I was with my mum and dad as they died, both deaths were the most intensely intimate, deeply spiritual, the most human experience I've ever had by orders of magnitude. There was a certain beauty weaved in amongst the sensation of loss, pain and a lot of other emotions, I feel a little guilty and affirmed to admit I saw that beauty because of how society told me I should deal with death. We lay with my mum holding her hands, upon her final breath she smiled and I sensed peace.
The grace of god.
Wow this is really beautiful to read
They died peacefully and surrounded by love
I only want out from my deadly relationship that lies n steals n used me when he was homeless n now he stole my drugs car n dogs
This description about dying is so accurate, I evidenced the same when my mum was dying last year. Its a peaceful process, but we wondered if she could still hear, so we said thank you to her for all her teachings and told her that we will be in reunion in heaven later, even after her last breath. The same phenomenon was also observed on a 12 year girl with severe disabilities whom I helped for many years. A very sad but peaceful process. I've learned a lot about dying through witnessing their death. Hope when that happen on me, I have no fear to slip into it. Thanks for presenting this video, very comforting.
Death is the blessed calm which life interupts with it's woeful tasks.
We should all see death as our last adventure, an immersion into something we have an idea but we clearly don't know, just like when we go on a trip.
But isn't life about making memories? Without memories, what are we? And, without the ability to make memories, what could possibly be the meaning of those final experiences for the dying person?
Hmm. I could have possibly just answered my own question... I need to check out Buddhism and the practice of "living in the now", yeah? Sometimes the idea of that practice seems impossible to conquer.
well, we don't know if after dying our consciousness survives, and if it does then we will have memories of our death, we can only speculate about this topic, unfortunately. Living in the moment is about mindfulness, it is like any type of mental/physical exercise, requires time, think of the act of typing a message here on TH-cam, you were just typing without actually paying attention to every single letter you type or where the letter was positioned in the keyboard, weren't you? so the mind is not naturally inclined to be mindful, but our consciousness can do this if we focus.
@@youthecat honestly life can be anything if you want it I have been suicidal but I can't kill myself because I can't die like a b**** so I rather get in a fight with like a tiger or something I also don't want to die old either like a b**** I just don't know 😂
Valhalla 😎
@@djangosouthwest6043 : Who's gonna care *how* you went? More to the point, how will YOU care how you went? When one is truly at their wits end, there's nothing worse than figuring out how to remain alive for the next 5 minutes... and the *next* 5 minutes, etc. The pain would be so great that HOW you go wouldn't even register on the give a shit meter.
The topic of death is something that has haunted my entire life so far, I'm 32 years old right now, sometimes I get angry at the fact, I'm going to have to experience family members dying and I get infuriated at the fact I am have no choice but to experience death myself sometimes I just wish I wasn't born in the first place
Same here, I'm turning 24 in 2 days and see no point of living, life doesn't get excluded from stress and anxiety, it has been always tough and exhaustive for me, I have lost faith ages ago and I want all this agony to end same as I didn't want to be born and exsisting from the getgo
@@mohammedbazzi7592 I understand dear, have you heard of David Benatar? UG Krishnamurti is excellent.
Sick to the back teeth of the medical profession presuming to take control of the dying process. The traditional arrogant "We know best" attitude. It's like the macho medicine culture is one of I the Doctor will not be beaten by this or that disease (forgetting about the actual dying human being) when the natural dying process would have been so much quicker if left to it's own pace with the inclusion of appropriate pain and other symptomatic relief.
Yes I think the same.if I was not born ,I would have not suffer these all dying and painful emotions
@@mohammedbazzi7592 I am 27 years old and from the age of 15 I started having these feelings. From the age 18 - 21, I lived amazingly and then these feelings returned. I realised the stress, the fear, the phases... it's all a part of it, man. Existence is not supposed to be easy and stress free. I have looked within my soul and truly found the idea that an existence without any obstacles, without any trials and tribulations is... pointless. Life is just a series of problems we need to solve. Some we can, some we can't. Some of us go the extra mile and give up their life trying to solve a problem. It is up to us to find meaning in our lives. To quote a scene from The Amazing Spider-Man 2: "What makes life valuable is that it doesn't last forever. What makes it precious is that it ends." Get out there, find something to fight for, something to live for! No matter how selfish or selfless it is, never stop searching for that spark. We have not been brought here to stay in bed, under our covers. We have work to do. 🫡❤️
When I thought I was going to die I just felt I was going to pass out, like a faint. That was it. I had very blood pressure and a very low heart rate. I kept myself calm as I couldn’t see the point of getting upset as I wouldn’t help me or the resuscitation staff at the emergency department. This lady, in my humble opinion, has a point worth saying..
My lovely Dad passed away on 12 October it was totally horrific. He was in hospital for 5 weeks of torture, they were trying to keep him alive when really he should have died earlier. Instead he suffered more pain, needles put in his arms, blood transfusions, scans on his chest. Pure torture to my poor Dad who was terrified and in absolute agony. He knew he wasnt going to make it and he was fully aware of everything to the end.
That’s so sad, sorry to hear that. He isn’t suffering anymore and is at peace which can put your mind to rest.
I am so sorry for not only your loss, but the torture that you and your father went through. In my opinion hospital's do whatever is necessary to keep patients alive for money. If you look at the specific cost breakdown of a person's hospital stay that included death, the majority of the bill is from the final 24 or do hours before the person dies. Hospitals are a business, and businesses need to make money to stay open.
I'm so sorry
Oh I'm so sorry. May God strengthen you.
I’m sorry for your loss and for your bad experience. That said I have to respond to a comment by jimtemple here. I work in a hospital. In the ICU specifically. I am around these scenarios all day every day. When a patient is admitted to the hospital, we have to get information from them or their power of attorney that designates how far they want us to go to keep the patient alive. We must abide by this. We cannot keep a patient alive that is known to be dying against their will. It’s not only unethical but illegal. Hospitals are run by their workers. The people that work in hospitals are good people who just want to help and do good. It’s not fair to say we would subject people to torture to make more money.
I love this video about dying.......I think most people live their lives in total fear of death ...that in fact our whole society is built around the fear of death.......The fear of death and dying inhibits people from being free to really live......our society is built on the notion of working your whole life to attain security ....when in-fact there is no real security because we all die ...wether we work that 9-5 job or not.
Biggest motivation...
@Iynda Diamond: we want security when we live. Death is just a natural process. And by 2045 Death won't be there for any humans because of technological advancement, one can remove the gene of Death.
@@virajharimkar7783 What do you mean?
Having just witnessed the death of my beloved spouse, I can say, it is not peaceful and gentle. I was told it would be like going to sleep. It was not, it was hprrific and very traumatizing. To see someone in so much fear and pain, and suddenly struggling for each and every breath and not being able to do anything is something I will never forget. So no, dying is not pleasant, not like going to sleep.
It is different for everybody.
My condolences to you. Sorry to hear this. I wish I saw my dad take his last breath because I don't know whether it was painful or not.
It's so sad that some people don't have the peaceful deaths as described here. My younger brother was recently fortunate enough to have a peaceful death where he slowly drifted off into oblivion, almost exactly as described here, but I'm cognizant of the fact that there are some who aren't as fortunate, and my heart goes out to them and their loved ones, as it does to your spouse and to you, and I don't pretend to know how you must have felt, or what you went through.
I’m sorry you went through that. Same with my mother in law
Sorry to hear but How did they die.?
I'm here because I am dying alone. I just wanted to read or hear something gentle and supportive about the experience. I fast forwarded past the family witness stuff. I just hope and pray that I can die alone, peacefully in my home, in my bed or maybe on the couch. I fear dying at work or while walking down the street. Sometimes I feel so weak and in pain. I wear a DNR bracelet whenever I go out. I don't have to wear it at home. If someone finds me at home, it will definitely be days later after I have already passed. That's my reality. PEACE to all.
Sorry that you're going through that all alone.
I'm sorry. Do you have palliative care support ?
inshallah you are okay and feel at peace. is there anyone that can be with you?
My mom passed away last year, she had terminal cancer and was in a hospital for 1.5 months. The day she passed away I was at work first and then went home to have some sleep before going to her and staying with her at night as usual, but at 4pm we got a call from her sitter that she was taken to the emergency. When we arrived, no one allowed us to enter. Later we found out that she took her last breath right after the call we got from the sitter. Not being present for my most favorite person at her last moments is the guilt and regret chocking me everyday. Learning to live further without her is terrible. I knew she was in pain but she wanted to live. Thus, I think death is both fearful and peaceful. Peace comes by lifting pain but fear of leaving loved ones forever is totally scary. That said, now I am not afraid of death cause we might meet each other again or both immerse into oblivion.
Death is something that happened to every body no matter how noble or evil they were no matter how powerful or meek they were all will end the same way as I would ... So no don't fear something that each and every one of us would experience ...
Thanks for having a high threshold of tolerance for my demise. That’s an easy thing to glibly toss off.
Beautiful person and wonderful words. Thank you so much for this video.
Great explanation, clearly death is one of the few guarantees we are born with but yet one of the least talked about inevitable events we will all come to experience. I have family that when brought up will say "I don't want to talk about it" or "Why would you bring that up" and even cry when attempting to discuss the topic of final wishes etc... I'm afraid its getting worse in younger generations and the sheer rejection of the inevitability that time is limited is almost problematic and arrogant. I have found that it seems more accepted in latin cultures but none the less great video.
This is a generalization but latin cultures tend to more commonly have multi-generational households where young children are closer to the process of a grandparent dying. In non-Latin cultures, in wealthy countries, there is higher tendency to ship older folk off to retirement homes or other facilities where the process of dying is remote and abstract.
It's different when u got an accident and death just happened to be there so quick we don't notice about our dying moment
I knew a man who was dying, and he knew it, too. About 20 people walked past him, to say something to him. Each person passed him; said something to him, and kept talking to the others as they were walked away.
I waited a bit, and then went to him.
I cared about him, and loved him; others thought he was “different”.
I stayed at the end of the line. A lot of the folks were chattering to him.
The group was saying loudly a lot of things after, and I waited.
When I walked to him, I just said, “I love you.” His smile opened up, and said the same thing to me-“I love you, too.”
Not about as woman and man, but as two human beings who care about each other.
That has to be one of the most relevant comments here. Thank you
For some it can be something to look forward to
Thank you for this video! So important to be talking about death and dying.
Very, very nicely done. Thank you!
You described a peaceful death in a comfortable situation. But I have lost several people in violent situations, such as my mother in a car accident when I was nine, or my cousin whom I loved from suicide at eithteen, or my best friend in a motorcycle accident months later. There is a lot of profound suffering when the sudden death of a very close person happens, and when it occurs in bunches, as it happened to me (I omitted a few in between), it leaves a mark.
So very sorry for all your losses
Yes, however it remains painful for the living - not those who have passed on. In that way, isn't it just life that is the painful part? Not living but feeling?
Brilliant video and excellent explanation which I think will help a lot of people. Thank you for sharing
This video was so comforting ....words of wisdom .....
that's what I feel / felt , too
This video is so calm and beautiful for my grandpa he had throat cancer so as he was coming closer to his day of passing my bad dying he literally just choked to death it was hard to watch I couldn't watch him 😔
The real "envy" shouldn't be the riches of this world but the envy of those resting in a peaceful afterlife.
There is a fear of dying in any culture and any country in the world. The word we use such as "Demise", "6 feet under", ..... relates to the fact that we don't want to face death because of fear. People rarely discuss about death and dying because of their fear of death. Human being from the time they born till their last breathe unconsciously look at their own graves.
My mums passing was so, so much worse than I was expecting. We need to educate people about how distressing it can be. All four of us siblings experienced trauma. In a hospice, maybe staff are around to help and inform. In normal hospital, it was terrifying. We are all having flashbacks. Mum was utterly terrified and afraid until the last 3 minutes when she was so starved of oxygen, she fell into unconsciousness and breathed her last 6 breaths. It lasted about 6 minutes. She was the most beautiful Christian lady. I thought she would go peacefully.
💗 thinking of you and your mum 💞
It depends on how you die, I had an nde, and that was an amazing experience. As you feel your soul separating from your body, you feel lighter and lighter
Do you believe it really is the soul separating from the body, or do you think it has a perfectly material, physiological explanation?
@Michael Edwards I don't believe it, I felt it, and experienced it.
@@cooking_innovations did you felt it or experienced it as if it was happening with you ( sometimes dreams also feel real)
Hey cooking thanks for sharing, I want to ask though, would you say that experience felt more real than you being alive right now?@@cooking_innovations
@crystalwater505 Hi, and I hope all is well. The experience was very real. This is how I would describe it. One of the reasons I say this is because when my spirit rose up, I felt the separation between body and spirit. It's like being in a body full of worry, then the feeling of all physical emotions coming from my shoulder and going into pure bliss.
for years my solution to the fear of dying has been both depression, and deservedness.
when you are depressed you care little about losing life.
when you think of yourself as unworthy to be the only one to escape death while everyone else still has to deal with it.
but youve helped me see a better way to view death so that i dont have to rely on either coping mechanism.
i would like to just sleep that would be nice. my life so fragile that a gentle process could tear it apart for me and remove my pain and fear.
My condition now, actually think that death will be my peaceful adventure, no more worries, struggles and the pains
well done......and so true. thank you.
Beautiful explanation. Thank you wise being :)
Maybe as a generalisation "we" as a nation have stopped talking about dying and instead use euphemisms such as passed away but in many Afro-Caribbean communities we're not afraid to talk about death. We just tell it as it is and accept that death is a part of life.
Edit: "as a nation", I mean the UK
Great wisdom, here. That's right, death is a natural and gentle process, as this lady says. I've always thought that, as frightening the idea of dying can be, there's actually another thought that is even scarier : the idea of never dying. THAT would be hell.
Thanks 😊 very useful speech about an important topic 👌
Thanks. That’s actually really helpful.
So kind of you thank you
I believe that you are only at the moment of death absolutely you are free..
Thanks for making this
I'm sorry but what I hear from the loved ones of people with the same illness as my dad, with metastatic cancer to the brain and elsewhere, what they say the experiences of their loved ones death was not like this at all. They said lots of crying out in pain, for example, for 10 days I just read from someone. I'm fkin terrified for when the time comes.
We all are mate, we all are.
thank you for this video. though we may have different experience on the death of our loved ones..the conversation itself can be a good start to our healing or perhaps preparation for the next death, be it ourself or our loved ones
Thanks 🌞 Kathrine, Words of Encouragement and Wisdom. Sharing your Thoughts, IMHO 🤔 Thank You.
Thank you for this. I'm someone who often ponders at the inevitability of the end of the universe. It scares me a lot, the idea of nothing. What you've described was so peaceful and calming. To the point where I'm now looking forward to my death. Not to experience nothing, but to remember the rich life i lived surrounded by the people who love me.
Particularly when you mentioned that during sleep, you go unconscious for a little while. Just like birth, you grow until you wake up. As you age, you just sleep a little more and more each day, until you fall asleep.
Sometimes i think death is actually mercy, none of us live forever and i think at some point it would be better to be dead than continue life. Why live longer only to live in pain and agony for that period. I have struggled with fear of death almost all my life and what to expect... i still struggle with it. I can also see the point of others on here who have mentioned "what is the point to even be born if death is the end result anyway?". I cant speak for others but i believe that life is a test, its a test of who you are and what will you do with what you are given however long you are alive. Its not about what day you are born or what day you die, its what you do with the time in between. I believe in the end we are all judged by that. I am not a great person, i am nothing special, i am as ordinary as they come. i have made mistakes and knew i was making them while i did. God have mercy on me, To me i know matter cannot be created nor destroyed simply change forms, so i believe something goes on beyond death that is uniquely us, why do we all have different fingerprints no matter who we are? its individual it sets us apart from others. Even though we are all human, we all have different interests and ideas. and we come in a variety of colors and shapes and sizes. I dont know if i will get backlash for saying this or not but i dont care, my mother was a devout Christain her whole life, she died in peace. i struggle with it, and i am not perfect i didnt live like my mother did unfortunately, But in my life i have seen too many things to make me think otherwise i know Jesus Christ is real. I am not preaching here cause i am not perfect i have flaws but maybe if you really want peace with death and thats why you are here like me, maybe you should ask God to show himself to you in a way that you will know for sure. Life insurance is good it takes care of the ones we leave behind, the money never hurts, and we want our loved ones to be taken care of which is wise. Get some life insurance if you can just remember the best life insurance policy for Death is belief in God, and that is free. I will not sway from what i know to be true.... even if i am not perfect,, God is real, i am not perfect but he is, whatever brought you here I simply ask you to ask him yourself. You just might find a greater peace than you ever imagined you would.
I learned douvh in my home care work. I saw some in a regressive state, one women awok
e briefly to say 'i .going to talk to God, and Jesus too' I think a lot of people who are willing do that, she needed forgiveness. Once when trying to make dying man
more comfortable he yelled out 'Don't do that's when his wife and I tried to move him. I think I will be in that system reviewing my life and asking for forgiveness and thanking God for my life, I have no fear
Reading neat death experiences has comforted me.
I'd like to hear the opinion of someone who's done it before please
Thank you ❤️❤️🇿🇦. You are the best 🇿🇦❤️❤️
Wonderful video 🙏🏽🙂
There are different types of death. You describe a gentle decline and eased passing through. The body dies but the spirit lives on of course in all cases imho. I have seen family members after their body died. There are those very painful and horrendous deaths. I have read a few comments below and some brave souls have lost near and dear ones in an awful way.. IN those cases in it not and easy death and horrendous for all involved. So very sad. But once over they are in a much better place. God bless them.
Thank you nicely done.
In death, we give life to so many other things. So long as we're not burned up or buried in a lead box. I hope that, when I do go, they let me feed the worms and the mushrooms 🍄 become one with the universe. Finally be useful. 🙏
They only thing that everyone must do in life is die. It is the only thing that unites us as humans. I can honestly say I am prepared to die. I’ve accepted death along time ago. I was in a crash not so long ago I hit a tree at about 90kmh and I remember seeing the tree and realising I wasn’t going to gain control back. I always wondered how I might die and in that moment I got my answer. Obviously I survived but having faced near certain death I can honestly say I was at peace with it.
What a wonderful description of a natural death.
My dog died today💔
RIP your lovely dog 🙏
Who are those people who dont feel to die and are happy in life ,enjoying their life how does it feel
There's something wrong with me. I've been suffering from depression that led me onto a path of fear and hopelessness. I've become very spiritual. I keep asking myself what happens after death and although I've come across a lot of programes that say dying is peaceful and knowledge about people ndes experiences, it still gets me scared because I know my parents will die and then me in the future. My fear is watching everyone die before me. My grandma before her death witness it. I don't know who to turn to and what I can do about this depression. Please help.
A lot of people have the same story when they have a close friends to death or they die for a couple of minutes it’s always the same your brain awake for a couple minutes every time someone has a close thing with something magical happens every time I think about before I was born before I think of anything what was there and every time I think about I feel like there’s nothing there. No one ever know what
This was a nice fairy-tale about dying. Many people have children who die before them. Trust me when i say dying can be worse than you think. The death of a child can destroy you. Anyone who has had a child that ended up dying can tell you that dying can be worse than you think.
"The death of a child can destroy you." - But that's about the feelings of the people who are still living, not about the dead child.
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Dying usually affects more people than just the person who dies. And its usually a bad thing. Obviously the person who is dead doesnt know anything about it though. Died myself once. Had a cardiac arrest and dropped dead on the floor.
Knew nothing about it up until the point the paramedic shocked me back to life.
Hey Tony, when that happened to you, did it take away the fear of death?@@Tony-1971
@@crystalwater505
I don't think so. That part of my life is a blur and always will be. I think even when you lose the will to live and you no longer care about life, deep down you are still afraid. I was on edge of sanity for a good while there and didnt care whether i lived or died. My behaviour was literally crazy, reckless and totally irresponsible. Deep down i was full of fear, as well as anxiety and loathing.
When you start to really understand that nothing and nobody in life lasts very long and the people around you are going to die (many of them before you) it does fill you with anxiety and fear. It wasn't me who pulled myself through that dark horrible period in my life. Im not a strong person and im way too sensitive for my own good. I was lucky enough to meet someone in life who cared about me enough to help me survive and start caring again.
I can only speak for me. Other people may feel differently.
Its animal instinct to fear pain/death - your own death and the death of others. Its quite interesting to see how animals react to seeing other animals of the same species that have died. They kind of aren't really sure how to react to it and you see them slowly move away from the body after smelling at it. The instinctual fear of death and being hurt is a survival mechanism.
Counterintuitive to suggest that humans and other animals shouldn't fear death. If we really didnt fear it most of who are here now wouldn't be.
What about those of us who have no family?
Beautiful ❤video
Interestingly in Islam, we are encouraged to ponder our death daily. Not being able to do any more good deeds to prepare ourselves for Judgement Day is a reminder to do as many as we can while we still have the use of our health before the process you excellently described begins.
My mum passed away l was there and my family she had after care l miss her she with the Lord now
Now how in the hell would anyone know how it is to die,my god people will fall for anything
Right. No one knows how it feels except the person that is dying just like no one knows for sure what happens after death. Even near death experiences can be explained as the brain can take hours to shut down even if there is no heartbeat, hence why when a person is resuscitated, they may have dreamlike stories to tell. No one who has actually died has come back to tell about it. This is exactly why something as toxic as religion exists, people make up stories because they fear the unknown and can’t just accept the fact that we don’t know and will not know until it happens.
Then to top it all he got covid and couldn't breathe it was horrific watching him he was unable to talk and the only thing he shouted was pain.
♥️♥️❤️♥️🥰 beautiful to listen to this - and read experiences below
Thank you ♥️
I saw this happen as my father died, I held his hand as he drew his final breath.
Old chemists never die, they just reach equilibrium.
I don't agree. The only thing we can do is to help, be there, to make it possible to dye at home. Nobody seem to want to dye the day they do.
Die not dye. XD. (not making fun of you).
True but we all will day some day anyday but we all fear death
This video is nothing but the truth
Yes I agree I like videos like this
I’m dying and I can’t wait
Some people that built bad karma during life have awful deaths.
This reminds me of the coffin song.
Very interesting
Dying is painful - period.
Stop sugarcoating
Damn, new definition. Dying- being unconscious all the time.
Good let’s seed up the process. I’m ready to go. 🎉
I cant wait to die and pass on and be at peace it makes me feel so good when I know I will die one day
That’s not the death i experienced. The times I’ve seen death it was a bit traumatizing
How was it?
Dying is better than living in the society we live in
we live in a society
Yes you are correct@ Butch Swim Productions.
You don’t know even death has a prize tag! Everything has a price tag there is nothing else in this world but price tag.
There is nothing here NOTHING! Nothing just fear so much fear
Okay I'm sorry to burst your bubble but most times it cannot be comfortable it can be painful say if you were katana'd or Bazooka'd or spring Bonnie'd or something like that then it could do harm to your body so I'm sorry to say this but Diane cannot be a gentle fate
background music is really really misplaced
I agree! It seems that nearly every TH-cam video must have some kind of intrusive sound - someone tinkling on a piano for example. Always utterly irrelevant, always totally unnecessary. Drives me nuts!
Dying is every bit as bad as anyone thinks, you stop existing for all of eternity. Complete oblivion, yeah you don't suffer but you don't feel anything either. It's not the dying that terrifies me, it's the knowledge now that i will never exist again anywhere in any way. I see why people believe in religion to abate that. I can't lie to myself and believe it though. The Universe exists for nearly uncountable years, stars can survive for billions if not trillions of years and all we get is a measly 78 years on average. Our existence is pathetically short as it is let alone only one time with no other chances.
I feel exactly the same..
Yes
I never existed for billions of years and it has never been an inconvenience. in fact I could've not existed at all. I was just extremely lucky that I'm here.
Your consciousness of your current self ends. However some matter of your physical existence remains in a coffin or an urn just like some matter and energy remanifested as you when you were conceived. You can think of yourself as a temporary incarnation of matter that exists before and after you. As Carl Sagan said The cosmos is within us. We are made of star-stuff. We are a way for the universe to know itself.
exactly how I feel
Calling death a 'process' is hardly better than saying someone has 'passed away'. "Consoling one another"? This can't take place so long as outright ignorance is the basis of our treatment of 'death'. Families gather uncomfortably around death beds, not knowing what to say because they do not, apparently, know about death, or life, and have never troubled to find out. There is a popular equation between being alive and being physically functional, hearts beating and legs walking, minds knowing etc. We do not 'die' at death. As I insist on this, I recognize that you may elect to insist that we do, that life 'ends' there. Neither I nor my life ends as my body ceases functioning. How I know this is nearly irrelevant, because there are various ways people can discover this. I had an experience once that showed this to me. All this popular tolerance of the idea that 'we die' and that t is an end is appalling for me to hear. Each of us will see as we pass over what I am talking about. For now, I can only wish you well and recommend looking into the endless array of near death experiences and accounts on youtube. Additionally STE's (spiritually transformative experiences) also indicate life after death. If you think life after death is too good to be true, consider that your present life IS life after death, life that succeeds prior living experiences. If only reality was so easy that all you have to do is die to be accomplished, but dead. There's so much more to it than that.
By referring to it as a process, Mannix was not suggesting that we should refer to it that way as an alternative to 'passing away' or whatever. She was making the point that, like birth, death does not happen out of the blue without warning but typically follows a more or less predictable pattern (I guess as a palliative care specialist she has seen this on quite a few occasions). Understanding this process and what to expect may well be helpful to all concerned (I would personally expect that it is). As to whether or not 'death' is simply a gateway to some kind of after-life cannot be resolved here but you are entitled to believe whatever you like. However, your assertion that consolation is impossible without accepting your claims about an afterlife is objectively wrong. People find consolation in various ways after the death of a loved one and what they believe about the finality of death does not necessarily have any bearing on this.
I dont know man. No one has ever told me from their experience... It certinly isnt as bad after. Not good ieither just nothing
People don't have a problem with death. Life is good, and it'd be nice to avoid death as long as possible. There is nothing more to say than that.
Literally every single point you made is wrong. People DO have a problem with death, it's in our DNA to be afraid of it. Life isn't good either (at least for 90% of people), it's full of needless pain and suffering. There are also people who are suicidal (both actively and passively) who don't try to avoid death and desperately want it to come sooner.
@@archangel4597I agree
@@archangel4597 see how ppl are dumb and they want to believe that their own experiences are universal, lol
So cool... Kind of Assurance that Death itself is COOL 💕💕
What matters most is that you repent, confess your sins to God and make Jesus your Lord and Savior, forgive everyone from your heart and follow Him to be saved from hell and enter Heaven.
Well, how would you know huh?
I’m still scared to die tho I hope I go to heaven I believe there’s a heaven
Real
I try to share God's love with them.
ngl I just don't want to die because I want to be here Sith my family and have kids when I'm older and if I die before I achieve that IL never be happy
In islam, We believe that death is "A passage to the other world" Now if you were a righteous worshiper of God, You'd be living a peaceful life in your grave until the day of judgment. Now if you were a disbeliever of Allah, you'd be have a part of hell in your own grave. I had been thinking of suicide for more than 7 years.
And this is why we turn to the faith
What if you were told you had to live forever that would be alot more scarier i peobley would have done killed my self if i knew i had to stay here forever
Totally agree. And doing my little bit to pass it on with my latest book Sacred Death by Catherine Shovlin. Let's decolonize death!
You also forgot something you can get your final wish
Everyone says they belive in god but yet everyone is scared of dying something don't add up about these Christians,why would you be scared nothing about death is as scary as his world n life we have here nothing can be that bad !if you think God is real why would you be scared of dying what is so good about this world u wanna stay I haven't found it yet,I can't wait to see what's next I hate it here
Dying isnt the end
I do not want to die so I'll just have to find a magic lamp that first I wish that my next wish comes true and second I wish that I had unlimited wishes and third I would not die