GIRL CHAT VAULT: How To Give Advice to Love Ones who Won’t Take It

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  • @kirkxavier777
    @kirkxavier777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Great point that Jeannie made. I’ve struggled with drug use and my family pushed me to get help but I still ended up in the same positions until I decided MYSELF that I wanted a different life. Sometimes you have to fall hard in order to look at things in an objective perspective.

    • @licks3962
      @licks3962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I Pray for your recovery and just Now god loves you and every1 else who is struggling w drug abuse.you will see the light at the end of the tunel.keep trying you get there your love ones don't love you less.they Just care for you that's why they keep praying for you!!🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @chelsea5595
      @chelsea5595 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s awesome. I have a family member dealing with addiction. I can’t just act like it’s fine, so my only options are to keep trying to get them to get help and have them get angry at me and feel like I am pushing them, or just ignore them and have them mad at me for that. Do you have an opinion on which is better?

  • @Zumzizeroo17
    @Zumzizeroo17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I agree with Adrienne. Unless it’s a choice that I feel I need to intervene because someone’s safety is in jeopardy, I’ll let them see the decisions they are making are not good ones.

  • @longlivekingjames806
    @longlivekingjames806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    So sad tam is leaving the show but SISTER SISTER WILL BE ON NETFLIX SEPTEMBER 1ST 😊

    • @SSBMA1994
      @SSBMA1994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I want the real to be on netflix so Ican watch full episodes

    • @indigobeauty1
      @indigobeauty1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg!! Im so happy!

    • @lovebuglenise904
      @lovebuglenise904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Heyyyy I didn’t know

    • @malumbesyatwinda8094
      @malumbesyatwinda8094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m so made at UK Netflix 😭😭😭. We won’t be getting any of the great old school shows

    • @Kimbrly_xo
      @Kimbrly_xo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Malumbe Syatwinda ikr😢

  • @itsjacquelynambeau
    @itsjacquelynambeau 3 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    They are all looking so good on here!

    • @richardvargus7443
      @richardvargus7443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I admire the goodyear blimp as well

    • @SoshiStars
      @SoshiStars 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah this was the season where they were styled the best

  • @mor9820
    @mor9820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    that was sooo cute when adrienne whispered and then loni told Jeannie and they were giggling

  • @veronicalopez6187
    @veronicalopez6187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I agree with Loni ! Even if it’s going to hurt my feelings or if I’m wrong TELL ME. If you love me help me grow.

    • @mube8885
      @mube8885 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kamissadiarra5074
    @kamissadiarra5074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I'm gonna miss tamera :(

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    It feels so good to not have Instagram, Twitter, etc. TH-cam is all I use.

    • @MaleahsDiary
      @MaleahsDiary 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here

    • @wonderwoman1199
      @wonderwoman1199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup true

    • @nyahjohnson7126
      @nyahjohnson7126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same but I was TH-cam so much now that it takes up the same time as all the other applications I had.

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nyahjohnson7126 I understand what you mean.

  • @crem2121
    @crem2121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I live for the girl chats! So much more relaxed and they seem more relatable and it really feels like girlfriends all chatting in the room together lol

  • @jennifercamille16
    @jennifercamille16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Aww, loved this conversation! I'm gonna miss Tam on here SO much!

  • @thisiskayleemarie9042
    @thisiskayleemarie9042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Can we get a video on the topic of toxic parents even when their children are adults.

  • @ColieJr
    @ColieJr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I found out an ex was cheating via going in the bathroom texting.

  • @jennamartin5913
    @jennamartin5913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I agree with Adrienne.... if I don’t actually ask, don’t give me advice. Go talk to the wall if you must talk.

  • @angellll357
    @angellll357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Tamera talking about how her kids won't leave her alone when she goes to the bathroom 😂😂❤️. Ugh I'm gonna miss her sm 😣😭

    • @richardvargus7443
      @richardvargus7443 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea like she ever spends time with her kids anyway. Those strong independent women raising weak fatherless children. Go society!

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Richard Vargus You just wrote endless bitter comments on the channel. Find something better to do.

    • @angellll357
      @angellll357 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@richardvargus7443 how would you know she barely spends time with her kids. She actually even mentions that she does spend every moment she can with them so take your hate elsewhere

    • @Justbu45
      @Justbu45 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She better enjoy it. They grow up quickly.

  • @bakangmlangeni
    @bakangmlangeni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Jeanie looks beautiful and Tamera looks like a bridesmaid 😍

  • @tamerilee
    @tamerilee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Obsessed with this cinnamon lewk from Jeannie!!! That lip and hair combo 🤤

  • @gabrielaferraz7401
    @gabrielaferraz7401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love your words Jeannie. I wish you would tell us the books you’re reading! That was so true

  • @ericamlca
    @ericamlca 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lonis Winnie the Pooh laughs are so funny 😭

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    It's only best to give advice to loved ones when *THEY ASK YOU FOR ADVICE* think about it this way. You wouldn't take advice from someone when you never asked. Especially in the areas of dating and relationships and life in general. Especially if you think the ones giving you advice ain't doing better than you...True or correct?

  • @rorosung1026
    @rorosung1026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Giving advice or solutions doesn't do much for a person until they feel like they're willing to change, and sometimes you don't have to try to fix it but just a good listener

  • @abcdefghijimin3248
    @abcdefghijimin3248 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i agree ! i will help of course but there’s a certain point where if you’re not willing to make improvements then i’m letting you decide when you DO want to make a decision

  • @Saffire1990
    @Saffire1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fast forward to Tam being absolutely snatched now. What an inspiration 👏👏👏

  • @xlilchowchowx
    @xlilchowchowx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    lol adrienne at 8:45 YESSSS

  • @ManiB_4
    @ManiB_4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You guys are so amazing and hilarious

  • @elisabetholiveira1772
    @elisabetholiveira1772 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you Lonnie Love y'all looks and expressions on your face are priceless you always have me in stitches

  • @Whereisnicolenow
    @Whereisnicolenow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    going to miss tamera so much 😭

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hated it so much when people would insist on posting photos with me that I didn’t like. If someone doesn’t like a photo, don’t post it. It’s that simple.

  • @ScatheMinx
    @ScatheMinx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I want to be their bestfriend :( Thank you for this. Your wisdom, humor, intelligence and confidence is empowering. I'm happy to be a subscriber. You're all beautiful and sexy as well. Stay safe.

  • @Jazzle06
    @Jazzle06 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My grandma lives with us but during the day she goes to a senior independence center, they pick them up, do activities, help them make and take them to their doctors appointment. It’s the best thing evvvvver.

  • @greciamedero2808
    @greciamedero2808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Agree with Adrienne 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @kelseystramel5349
    @kelseystramel5349 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm actually refurnishing and painting my bathroom for this. Thats my escape room.

  • @MJ-vb7un
    @MJ-vb7un 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Adrienne wants to come off as if she’s always minding her business but actually these girls chats have shown she’s the most judgmental and nosy. She spent this entire segment judging everything..

    • @ramonaflowers7613
      @ramonaflowers7613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I agree that A seems more nosey than a lot of the other girls but i never got the impression that she seems imposing or controlling like I used to get from Tamar

    • @MJ-vb7un
      @MJ-vb7un 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ramona Real no me too.. but whatever type of ‘girl’ she says she is.. when she talks she’s actually the opposite.

    • @BigbossBonita
      @BigbossBonita 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Now that's is keeping it real.

  • @jessc99
    @jessc99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    2:53 This is life lesson!

  • @rositacortez-guzman6608
    @rositacortez-guzman6608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg when they made those faces 😂

  • @rosebudd7170
    @rosebudd7170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mother lives in adult community; community bus transport shopping, doctors apartments. Each buildings has informal dinning area, kitchen, gym, movie threater and Ballard. Form friends have the same interests; bingo, board games. Family can have small parties. Loni, smart move for your mom. They meet new people.

  • @Brooklyn_baddiex3
    @Brooklyn_baddiex3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I just mind my business honestly

  • @jessicanarcisse673
    @jessicanarcisse673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Opposite with my husband, I give him his space in the bathroom but baby when I’m in there he wanna come in brush his teeth, talk, brush his hair, change his clothes my gosh

  • @Shannonlynn_98
    @Shannonlynn_98 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praying!!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

  • @michelleblosser6701
    @michelleblosser6701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I try to hide in the bathroom alot but yeah my kids bust in there anyway.🤣 Now i call my bathroom breaks a potty party bc both of my kids, both cats and my dog come in there so its always a party!!

  • @ZuluGirlInNewYork
    @ZuluGirlInNewYork 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Adrienne is so gorgeous here❤

  • @millielouise2010
    @millielouise2010 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m like this with my sister she always picks the wrong guys and the one she is with fires off first thing in the morning and comes home late at night I’ve tried to tell her he isnt good for her but it just causes us to argue

  • @ranitagad7071
    @ranitagad7071 ปีที่แล้ว

    If I were ever in that situation I'd wait for them to ask me for my advice about the situation and then politely tell them to ask someone else because their situation is none of my business.

  • @pal8542
    @pal8542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Only seven hours a year? In this quarantine, I knock that off in 2 days.

  • @titibams
    @titibams 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mum, mum, mum, ma, ma, ma.. Tamera😂😂

  • @bobbiholmes2274
    @bobbiholmes2274 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I won’t get involved with someone even a family member if I know they are involved with drugs. I can be invested with that. I don’t want the stress, it sounds harsh but unless you have someone in your life that’s struggling with drugs you will never know the stress of worrying about them

  • @moimeself1088
    @moimeself1088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My family is religious. I disagree with their life choices. All of them don't speak to each other, but they speak to me, the athiest! I 😅

  • @hannahwootton6491
    @hannahwootton6491 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Unless someone has that rock bottom where they know and want and are tired of going round in circles a lot of times you can't do alot

  • @anciboi
    @anciboi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'll smooth out a forehead...lol....that took me out!!!

  • @krisstinalewis6347
    @krisstinalewis6347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i love Adrienne lml

  • @faridahnakayemba1496
    @faridahnakayemba1496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I go with Adrienne coz u give advice and still do the same things gal

  • @LadiiLike5
    @LadiiLike5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    7 hours a year??!?!?!?
    More like 7 hours a week. Its a constant hour in the bathroom DAILY for my man lol

  • @kartert.jefferson6759
    @kartert.jefferson6759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m with with Adrianne all the way.

  • @SSBMA1994
    @SSBMA1994 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do it at work sometimes...🤫🤫

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Adrienne sounds like a shady friend sometimes. I know she’s nonconfrontational, but your job as a friend to keep it real.

  • @licks3962
    @licks3962 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    L.O.L i ALSO DO THAT 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂i go to the bathroom.when i want to be ALONE NO WAY I THOUGH I WAS THE ONLY 1 GREAT TO NOW I AM NOT ALONE ON THIS!!!! I was beginning to think i was Weird..

  • @MsAmir-xw1us
    @MsAmir-xw1us 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    9:13 i felt that

  • @quailbanks4483
    @quailbanks4483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hilarious😂 but is this the episode today?

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No, this is an old video. The new season starts next month.

  • @moadekunle2458
    @moadekunle2458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Second comment 🤸‍♀️

  • @lisaharris1469
    @lisaharris1469 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't that's the best advice

  • @xxgizelrixx5480
    @xxgizelrixx5480 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    loni be blowing me sometimes she can be such a hypocrite cuz she be the first one tryna get the tea n be nosy but as soon as the girls do it she gets all defensive n secretive like girl if u going do that then don’t be asking them personal questions either

  • @bantandiaye5020
    @bantandiaye5020 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like dhis girle

  • @kd-xp6eg
    @kd-xp6eg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Adrienne baby uon gotta speak on everything

  • @amandaandersen7870
    @amandaandersen7870 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do way more then my husband. Spend time in the my bathroom.

  • @Mike-ri3ub
    @Mike-ri3ub 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    @11:10 she asked Tamera, not the audience

  • @setarehmotazedi2804
    @setarehmotazedi2804 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think Jeannie and Adrienne were talking about tamar... :0

    • @jazziesworld103
      @jazziesworld103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They haven’t hung up with her in years

  • @BigSoul29
    @BigSoul29 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How about don't ? Don't give advice unless someone asks unless their life or the life of someone else is at risk. Other people's lives are nor our buisness. Less judgement more listening please.

  • @natalieraeann
    @natalieraeann 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Only 7 hours??????

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can’t believe Jeannie had never heard of diastasis recti.

  • @heroncabo3756
    @heroncabo3756 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good 😷🙏🙏🕊️🙏 abençoado por Deus 🙏🕊️🙏 e paz amor saúde amar o próximo ok 🇺🇸 respeito educação e beruti...Deus abençoe todos com muito amor...ok

  • @ariahblack6043
    @ariahblack6043 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First comment!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! First view

  • @CocoAde
    @CocoAde 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loni and James aren't together anymore? Sorry if I'm late I can't keep up with all the relationships lol

    • @j.graham8201
      @j.graham8201 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is an old girl chat, don't worry

    • @CocoAde
      @CocoAde 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@j.graham8201 phew

  • @amandaandersen7870
    @amandaandersen7870 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    But he got his man cave.

  • @Thewifelife40
    @Thewifelife40 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Men have man caves so they go there..the bathroom is the hiding place for men with no man cave..my husband doesn't hide but I do. I escape my responsibilities by hiding in the bathroom.

  • @doneecemcneil7826
    @doneecemcneil7826 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gm edagdwg Miss. A . is soooooo extra out of love I would tell you not to make you feel bad because I really care some people do it because they enjoy hurting your feelings sad not a friend pay attention Linda j peace

  • @Victoria-gv3qh
    @Victoria-gv3qh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loni is the shadiest person smh. I don't know how they can handle her

    • @laragirly3522
      @laragirly3522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wtf?? Shes not shady. There All friends. U just don't like her. Loni is very good for this show. Stop hating. Tf?!

    • @Victoria-gv3qh
      @Victoria-gv3qh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@laragirly3522 she is a frenemy. always making fun of the others, rolling her eyes, attitude, she has negative vibes allll the time period.

    • @laragirly3522
      @laragirly3522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Victoria-gv3qh No tf she doesn't. She's good friends with All of them. She's not a frenemy. Loni is a great co host along with those women. U are taking it so wrong. Shes good friends with All the co host. Ur looking too deep into it honey. Its really not like that. No she Doesn't has negative vibes all the time, thats just how u take it but she doesn't. Bye hunny.

    • @Victoria-gv3qh
      @Victoria-gv3qh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@laragirly3522 you have your opinion, i have mine. Every episode I've seen she's making fun of one of the girls or being a HATER for no reason or giving attitude or rolling her eyes if other people's opinions are different than hers - especially to Tamera. It gets OLD real fast.

  • @55556666ish
    @55556666ish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just a guess but mutual friend... Malika Haqq?

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What makes you think they were talking about her?

    • @55556666ish
      @55556666ish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gaila.9852 she is a socialite and may be concerned with her image, they are also both friends with her

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      poodle fan Gotcha!

    • @MsMak03
      @MsMak03 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You were right sis, she said it was her in another episode

  • @jeromebaxter2987
    @jeromebaxter2987 ปีที่แล้ว

    8:36