Financial control/dependence is my biggest barrier in breaking free from 12y of coercion, an invisible assault that has decimated my soul. Money is a huge obstacle for mothers with no childcare. No childcare, no work, no work, no money, no money, no freedom.
I was once a person who was a soldier then nurse I'm in my 30s my last relationship was in the army my now husband holds that against me and I cant work cos I live far from family and friends a nd can't work because iv no support by family or friends but he holds it against me for not working yet I'd say I'd do a bank job yet he doesn't won't me to work what bothers me most is his words and having no money AND HAVING TO ASK FOR SANITARY THINGS HE BLAMES THE bills he has that's my fault yet I paid what I could back from what my mother left me
My ex would hit me if we had an argument she would kick punch and scratch me while in my face calling me a pussy beginning me to hit her witch I never did she would tell me how lucky I was to be with her we had a joint bank account and wouldn't let me use it it's not just women that go true it
Especially in the workplace where fellow workers are encouraged to dob in their colleagues for every little thing. Ultimately, you end up walking on eggshells the entire working week. Your self confidences heads downwards until you believe you can't do the same job you've been successfully doing for decades.
@@BinoDistI was told by a new narcissistic line manager a woman, that I was not doing my job properly, I had been doing it for 14 years! It was an horrendous time, I finally got out then two years later I met two narcissistic friends I got away from them too and now I will not let anyone new get close to me.
My ex would break things, and rage if I spoke to her about her behavior. She isolated me, and punished me for speaking out about her hitting me. I couldn't communicate with her on anything without her twisting everything on me. I eventually just started walking away, and that would infuriate her even more. It seemed like she always started arguments just to kick me out of the house. Then she'd tell me how I don't deserve this, or how I don't deserve that. She would talk to me in a condescending tone, and would say I was emotionally abusing her if I told her how I felt. She also started blaming me for her problems at work. She said she felt the relationship was a one-way street, and how I made her feel like a stranger in her own home. She made me feel undeserving of being her lover, and she would never introduce me as her girlfriend. I didn't matter when her friends or strangers came around. I could go on and on. I've been single over ten years now. I learned to tolerate that toxic behavior from my emotionally abusive mother. Been years and years of therapy and healing. Just wow...this was very powerful.
Thanks for the information. During my divorce, my soon-to-be ex recruited his friends and family to help him harass me. After the divorce, his family received the same treatment. They divorced him as well. It wasn't personal, although it felt that way at the time. He was abusive and controlling to everyone that would allow it. I was targeted because I was there, in the line of fire. I realized that it was unhealthy and removed him from my life via divorce. I'm not a punching bag or an emotional dumpster. It's great that information about coercive control is reaching more people. Thanks again.
Just when I think I've heard everything, something like this comes along and you're left wondering - what is wrong with these people? The abusers I mean, not the victims. How on earth does anyone have the right (or think they do) to control when a person sleeps, when they shower, eat. I've heard of people being prevented from attending a loved ones funeral for heaven's sake. My husband and I have our normal niggles and ups and down, but he is a good man and I can't imagine him hurting me physically or psychologically. My heart goes out to the women (and men) in these awful situations. They deserve a relationship that is loving and nurturing, not this soul destroying abuse.
Thank you UK ladies for this video 💗💖! Very informative and educational along with helpful. I'm a feminist and I believe women can change the world for the better. I'm a victim of coercive control myself and can relate to y'all.
He gave up his job, we had two children, I went back to work as a teacher … he didn’t pay the bills, added to our mortgage without my knowledge by getting me to sign paperwork “for the accountant “ as I was leaving for work … he was devious. I finally got out after 3 years of counselling when I finally felt strong enough to ask for a divorce.
Back in the early 90’s. I left my coercive control relationship. It didn’t have a name then. He is also a narcissist. I agree that it has damaged me forever. I am in a great relationship now. I am glad this side of abuse is coming out & being recognised.
I grew up in that kind of environment. My mother left after 7 years with my brothers. I was left with a father that kept on abusing me instead. I left home at 15 and never looked back. It’s safe to say I don’t trust men. At all! If I ever notice the signs of mental or physical abuse I don’t look back twice.
If you have a phone, google ‘domestic abuse helpline’. If you don’t have safe access to the internet, wait until you have some time alone, then ask a woman in the nearest shop if you can use her phone to call a helpline for advice. I’d drop my day if another woman came up to me like that and asked for help. If you have no shops nearby, ask a passerby or neighbour you know who won’t say anything that could get back to your husband and put you in further danger. These helplines can offer plans for getting out - or somewhere to go, plus loving support while you get your life back.
I have a genetic disorder that causes severe pain and exhaustion. The housing availability around here is also nil or too expensive. I can’t leave. Staying is slowly killing me. When my kids move out, I will leave and go wherever I can to a place I can afford. The split will get dirty but at least we won’t have to fight over custody. I only have about 5 years to go. I’ve been waiting 17 years now so I can see an end. I will never look for a relationship again. I want to spend the last couple decades of my life in absolute peace. He will be a lonely old man. Our children won’t care about spending time with him. They see it all. He doesn’t physically abuse me (anymore) as he is so scared of losing his job and his reputation amongst his co-workers. I have had him arrested twice for choking me. That was over 10 years ago and he hasn’t touched me since. But it’s horribly phycological and mental abuse. It is literally like waking on egg shells. He comes home, I go i to the bedroom to read, etc. The only way not to anger him is to not be anywhere around him. I feel for every woman going through this. Stay strong 💪 ❤
Why isn't anybody talking about the psychological abuse meeted out to Lady Di from Charles...this scenario was played out for all the world to see...any consequences for Charles...NOPE
I'll stay single. The Abuser's Playbook gets rewritten all the time; with each new tactic abusers learn. It was exhausting to live in a world where my safety and mental health depended on somebody's mood. That fine line between being chastised or being beaten is real and it is up to the perp which way they are going to go at any moment. I didn't deserve to live that way and neither does anybody else.
There is always one like you with that idiotic statement. Yes it does happen to men, go make a video about it and put it up on yt. This is a video about women who make up 99% of victims its not a competition
@@JaneA544 Why is standing up for male victims, who are often overlooked, make up the majority of victims and not taken seriously as victims, "idiotic"? Does the very idea of treating men equally to women hurt your feelings? What a vile human being you are.
The stereotypes depicted in these videos is always focused on men who abuse. When the perpetrators are: in a position of economical/ influential power - a relative - female then the coercive abuse can seem invisible and doubly difficult to evidence as it is invariably perpetrated under the guise of feigned care and concern.
I actually think I’d rather not be alive than to be in a controlling relationship. However, I understand the complexity and the challenges of escaping from these terrible types of relationships. Respect to everyone who feels strong enough to share their stories.
Oh yes very much so glad he threw away the one he got I NEVER gave him another one now living with my dog, good friends and a community it does heal over time
No time for the woman who bought her known to be abusive partner a small vulnerable animal as a present. You put something even more defenceless than you in an environment to be harmed when it had not need to be.
So this is a weird story. for about 10 years I have been writing a book about a guy who is abusive to his wife and of course his wife. Jeromiah and Daisy. Although I knew a lot about abuse already because I'd heard alot of stories and seen it in films, TV programs and videos and the like growing up, I gained a specific interest (sub consciously, so not consciously for research for the book) in domestic abuse and started watching lots of videos and reading stories and even buying books about it (people's real life stories of their own experiences) and videos like this one and short films about it. It was partly out of interest and partly for further research for my book and to explore and discover the nature of the characters even better as well as create more content for the book (because I see that there's not much detail in most fiction books about the psychology of the abuser and more details about the stuff that he does) I just had to stop... as I delved into it deeper and deeper I started comparing alot of the details to my own life and situation with someone I currently live with. It still didn't gel with me that this is actually happening to me. I figured because there was not alot of verbal or physical abuse I figured this is not my own situation and not happening to me. I have realised that my mum has been doing this to me for many years and have only just realised this now, at 31. Here's a brief summary of what she's done and what has happened: she has isolated me from other family (I always thought they just left and abandon us, i still don't know what is true anymore). they've disappeared and I don't know why. I find I have no friends now even tho I try to make new friends. I always thought it was my fault. I find myself isolated and don't understand why. I remember when I did make friends mum would try to turn me against them. There always seemed to be something wrong with them, she'd always say she had a bad feeling about them. my mum never really encouraged me to be independent growing up. I was always joined at the hip with her even by 16 when most kids are going places on their own. I didn't start going out on my own until I was 18. I've only just started going out by taxis and buses at 29 after mum broke her hip and covid happened because now I had to go do all the grocery shopping. I've never been able to go to college because she convinced me to become her carer when I was 20 because she started experiencing pain and couldn't cope. Because we had nobody else I had no help so had to do all the cooking, cleaning and other chores all by myself. I became depressed a few times because of it. No social life, no dating life, didn't get to do anything fun. Everything was now about my mum and not me, and she even said that. She said it's all about her now. She didn't even care about how I felt about it and if I was happy and ok with it all or if I needed help. I did complain a few times saying it's too much for me to do it all and I needed help but she insisted that i could do it all myself because she said she could. If I had any struggles with anything she's say i was just lazy and need to just get on with it because she did when she was able bodied and did everything herself. Plus she'd say she didn't want anybody else in the house, no strangers looking after her. after her heart attack she did become very aggressive and would have ago at me and yell at me for every little thing I did wrong or didn't do as she expected me to do and remember every little thing. She had to have everything done a specific way and expected me to remember, because she has OCD. She started getting all up in my face yelling at me and sometimes grabbing my shoulders/arms and shaking me and chasing after me even tho she was supposedly fragile recovering from a heart attack plus her other disabilities. there's so much more but it'd take me forever to explain every single little thing that she's done, said and what's happened. I feel like I've been robbed of my youth and even with all this I am still in denial
i hope you find the strength to leave, although I understand that its very painful when you first become aware of this. Would highly recommend jennette mccurdys book 'im glad my mum died'. You don't owe her anything, you come from her but you are definitely not hers and you deserve to live your life as you wish, as authentically as possible.
@@coyharlingen Hey I've heard of that. saw that title on audible! not sure if i can listen to it or whether i have to buy it first. I will check it out. I'll still be sad when mum dies. she has her really great moments and lately she's been a lot nicer to me than she was a couple years ago
I can’t even imagine how difficult that is and she obviously lost touch with who you are as a person. I’m so sorry you lost so much. You still have some time to regain your youth, even at 44 I’m finding some good things about myself and life. Life is in stages and phases, just keep remembering that.
I hope you are in a better place now. My whole family of origin treats me as the scapegoat, starting from childhood. It's difficult getting your head around it. xo
Tells me to shut the mouth jumped up starting hitting me in head put pillow over face I scratched his face to get him off he did it in front his Freinds who are weaker scared of him so they could not help
I went to see a neighbour my Freund and told him what we said he threw into a rage threw phone at my head pulled my hair said I'm not allowed to have a Freind no more and said will tell her not to talk to me said he will ring her husband to say not to talk to me he breaks up my phone's uses my money blows it all does all the shopping jumps up over me and yes pillow if I cry or scream he pushes hand over my mouth
Please get help to get away from him and NEVER go back. Don’t try to talk to him about it. He’ll just manipulate you and make it impossible for you to leave. Make a plan secretly, then run for it. You matter and are of value. You deserve to be happy and safe. There is help out there and it’s for YOU; please grab it with both hands. There are so many women you’ll meet in recovery who will empathise and support you 100%. Xx
kate your a hero a survivor a warrior woman God bless u they dont love u men like that ur a convenience we think they love us they blow hot an cold their strange men glad u left God has our backs thats for sure hes the only man i depend upon amen
And a lot of these “single mom’s.” They turn themselves into prison wardens quite commonly, while pretending to be in need of help themselves for sympathy. Then they instigate social death to their daughters especially.
Financial control/dependence is my biggest barrier in breaking free from 12y of coercion, an invisible assault that has decimated my soul. Money is a huge obstacle for mothers with no childcare. No childcare, no work, no work, no money, no money, no freedom.
So true!!!!
How are you
I was once a person who was a soldier then nurse I'm in my 30s my last relationship was in the army my now husband holds that against me and I cant work cos I live far from family and friends a nd can't work because iv no support by family or friends but he holds it against me for not working yet I'd say I'd do a bank job yet he doesn't won't me to work what bothers me most is his words and having no money AND HAVING TO ASK FOR SANITARY THINGS
HE BLAMES THE bills he has that's my fault yet I paid what I could back from what my mother left me
@@bmc5075. Are you still in that situation?
Very true, walking on eggshells, blowing hot and cold, and it is not just in domestic situations it is in the workplace too
Also friendships.
My ex would hit me if we had an argument she would kick punch and scratch me while in my face calling me a pussy beginning me to hit her witch I never did she would tell me how lucky I was to be with her we had a joint bank account and wouldn't let me use it it's not just women that go true it
Especially in the workplace where fellow workers are encouraged to dob in their colleagues for every little thing. Ultimately, you end up walking on eggshells the entire working week. Your self confidences heads downwards until you believe you can't do the same job you've been successfully doing for decades.
@@BinoDistI was told by a new narcissistic line manager a woman, that I was not doing my job properly, I had been doing it for 14 years! It was an horrendous time, I finally got out then two years later I met two narcissistic friends I got away from them too and now I will not let anyone new get close to me.
My ex would break things, and rage if I spoke to her about her behavior. She isolated me, and punished me for speaking out about her hitting me. I couldn't communicate with her on anything without her twisting everything on me. I eventually just started walking away, and that would infuriate her even more. It seemed like she always started arguments just to kick me out of the house. Then she'd tell me how I don't deserve this, or how I don't deserve that. She would talk to me in a condescending tone, and would say I was emotionally abusing her if I told her how I felt. She also started blaming me for her problems at work. She said she felt the relationship was a one-way street, and how I made her feel like a stranger in her own home. She made me feel undeserving of being her lover, and she would never introduce me as her girlfriend. I didn't matter when her friends or strangers came around. I could go on and on.
I've been single over ten years now. I learned to tolerate that toxic behavior from my emotionally abusive mother. Been years and years of therapy and healing. Just wow...this was very powerful.
Well done for escaping this situation
Thanks for the information.
During my divorce, my soon-to-be ex recruited his friends and family to help him harass me.
After the divorce, his family received the same treatment. They divorced him as well.
It wasn't personal, although it felt that way at the time. He was abusive and controlling to everyone that would allow it. I was targeted because I was there, in the line of fire. I realized that it was unhealthy and removed him from my life via divorce. I'm not a punching bag or an emotional dumpster.
It's great that information about coercive control is reaching more people. Thanks again.
Would like to see the Statistics for successful arrest +/- prosecution of coercive control when there is no violence.
really important message and the production of this was fantastic
Just when I think I've heard everything, something like this comes along and you're left wondering - what is wrong with these people? The abusers I mean, not the victims. How on earth does anyone have the right (or think they do) to control when a person sleeps, when they shower, eat. I've heard of people being prevented from attending a loved ones funeral for heaven's sake. My husband and I have our normal niggles and ups and down, but he is a good man and I can't imagine him hurting me physically or psychologically. My heart goes out to the women (and men) in these awful situations. They deserve a relationship that is loving and nurturing, not this soul destroying abuse.
THIS happens in families as well. I had this from my Mother and Sister.😢😢
Yep my step mum and dad did this to me they're both narracist why I left home at 15
Friendships as well this can happen in
I came out of a friendship like that
YOU LEAVE BUT YOU NEVER FORGET
I am thankful for the lessons but Holy moly....I do wish I could forgive and forget earnestly !
Thank you UK ladies for this video 💗💖! Very informative and educational along with helpful. I'm a feminist and I believe women can change the world for the better. I'm a victim of coercive control myself and can relate to y'all.
He gave up his job, we had two children, I went back to work as a teacher … he didn’t pay the bills, added to our mortgage without my knowledge by getting me to sign paperwork “for the accountant “ as I was leaving for work … he was devious. I finally got out after 3 years of counselling when I finally felt strong enough to ask for a divorce.
Back in the early 90’s. I left my coercive control relationship. It didn’t have a name then. He is also a narcissist. I agree that it has damaged me forever. I am in a great relationship now. I am glad this side of abuse is coming out & being recognised.
I grew up in that kind of environment. My mother left after 7 years with my brothers. I was left with a father that kept on abusing me instead. I left home at 15 and never looked back. It’s safe to say I don’t trust men. At all! If I ever notice the signs of mental or physical abuse I don’t look back twice.
it creates more fear than physical violence .
I need help but I don't know what to do
Are you ok
Contact police or your local Women's Aid organisation. There are people out there waiting to help
If you have a phone, google ‘domestic abuse helpline’. If you don’t have safe access to the internet, wait until you have some time alone, then ask a woman in the nearest shop if you can use her phone to call a helpline for advice. I’d drop my day if another woman came up to me like that and asked for help. If you have no shops nearby, ask a passerby or neighbour you know who won’t say anything that could get back to your husband and put you in further danger.
These helplines can offer plans for getting out - or somewhere to go, plus loving support while you get your life back.
Samaritans
@@JulietCrowson
NO that is for suicidal people it is very obviously not a Domestic Abuse org
Wasn't till I left that the fog lifted you never just get over it
He smashed up phones and also controls what to cook eat
We broke up over 6 years ago and it's still happening
I have a genetic disorder that causes severe pain and exhaustion. The housing availability around here is also nil or too expensive. I can’t leave. Staying is slowly killing me. When my kids move out, I will leave and go wherever I can to a place I can afford. The split will get dirty but at least we won’t have to fight over custody. I only have about 5 years to go. I’ve been waiting 17 years now so I can see an end. I will never look for a relationship again. I want to spend the last couple decades of my life in absolute peace. He will be a lonely old man. Our children won’t care about spending time with him. They see it all. He doesn’t physically abuse me (anymore) as he is so scared of losing his job and his reputation amongst his co-workers. I have had him arrested twice for choking me. That was over 10 years ago and he hasn’t touched me since. But it’s horribly phycological and mental abuse. It is literally like waking on egg shells. He comes home, I go i to the bedroom to read, etc. The only way not to anger him is to not be anywhere around him. I feel for every woman going through this. Stay strong 💪 ❤
amazing work
What about false accusations of controlling behaviour
Why isn't anybody talking about the psychological abuse meeted out to Lady Di from Charles...this scenario was played out for all the world to see...any consequences for Charles...NOPE
I'll stay single. The Abuser's Playbook gets rewritten all the time; with each new tactic abusers learn. It was exhausting to live in a world where my safety and mental health depended on somebody's mood. That fine line between being chastised or being beaten is real and it is up to the perp which way they are going to go at any moment.
I didn't deserve to live that way and neither does anybody else.
He always makes excuses. I’m so tired.
Men are victims too.
There is always one like you with that idiotic statement. Yes it does happen to men, go make a video about it and put it up on yt. This is a video about women who make up 99% of victims its not a competition
@@JaneA544 you sound quite controlling and rude.
Who said they weren't?
@@JaneA544 Why is standing up for male victims, who are often overlooked, make up the majority of victims and not taken seriously as victims, "idiotic"? Does the very idea of treating men equally to women hurt your feelings? What a vile human being you are.
@@BadcatV This documentary that didn't discuss male victims did.
My ex husband = PTSD.
Sending everything good your way. I understand.
The stereotypes depicted in these videos is always focused on men who abuse. When the perpetrators are:
in a position of economical/ influential power
- a relative
- female
then the coercive abuse can seem invisible and doubly difficult to evidence as it is invariably perpetrated under the guise of feigned care and concern.
What if u own the house. Have a mortgage on it. Cant leave. And the fecker wouldn't leave so you are essentially captive. Trapped.
Trauma bonding 😢
I actually think I’d rather not be alive than to be in a controlling relationship. However, I understand the complexity and the challenges of escaping from these terrible types of relationships. Respect to everyone who feels strong enough to share their stories.
Don't give them a frontdoorkey!
Oh yes very much so glad he threw away the one he got I NEVER gave him another one now living with my dog, good friends and a community it does heal over time
No time for the woman who bought her known to be abusive partner a small vulnerable animal as a present. You put something even more defenceless than you in an environment to be harmed when it had not need to be.
I was shocked too that she did that. Poor little bird :(
So this is a weird story. for about 10 years I have been writing a book about a guy who is abusive to his wife and of course his wife. Jeromiah and Daisy. Although I knew a lot about abuse already because I'd heard alot of stories and seen it in films, TV programs and videos and the like growing up, I gained a specific interest (sub consciously, so not consciously for research for the book) in domestic abuse and started watching lots of videos and reading stories and even buying books about it (people's real life stories of their own experiences) and videos like this one and short films about it. It was partly out of interest and partly for further research for my book and to explore and discover the nature of the characters even better as well as create more content for the book (because I see that there's not much detail in most fiction books about the psychology of the abuser and more details about the stuff that he does)
I just had to stop... as I delved into it deeper and deeper I started comparing alot of the details to my own life and situation with someone I currently live with. It still didn't gel with me that this is actually happening to me. I figured because there was not alot of verbal or physical abuse I figured this is not my own situation and not happening to me.
I have realised that my mum has been doing this to me for many years and have only just realised this now, at 31.
Here's a brief summary of what she's done and what has happened: she has isolated me from other family (I always thought they just left and abandon us, i still don't know what is true anymore). they've disappeared and I don't know why. I find I have no friends now even tho I try to make new friends. I always thought it was my fault. I find myself isolated and don't understand why. I remember when I did make friends mum would try to turn me against them. There always seemed to be something wrong with them, she'd always say she had a bad feeling about them.
my mum never really encouraged me to be independent growing up. I was always joined at the hip with her even by 16 when most kids are going places on their own. I didn't start going out on my own until I was 18.
I've only just started going out by taxis and buses at 29 after mum broke her hip and covid happened because now I had to go do all the grocery shopping.
I've never been able to go to college because she convinced me to become her carer when I was 20 because she started experiencing pain and couldn't cope. Because we had nobody else I had no help so had to do all the cooking, cleaning and other chores all by myself. I became depressed a few times because of it. No social life, no dating life, didn't get to do anything fun. Everything was now about my mum and not me, and she even said that. She said it's all about her now. She didn't even care about how I felt about it and if I was happy and ok with it all or if I needed help. I did complain a few times saying it's too much for me to do it all and I needed help but she insisted that i could do it all myself because she said she could. If I had any struggles with anything she's say i was just lazy and need to just get on with it because she did when she was able bodied and did everything herself. Plus she'd say she didn't want anybody else in the house, no strangers looking after her.
after her heart attack she did become very aggressive and would have ago at me and yell at me for every little thing I did wrong or didn't do as she expected me to do and remember every little thing. She had to have everything done a specific way and expected me to remember, because she has OCD.
She started getting all up in my face yelling at me and sometimes grabbing my shoulders/arms and shaking me and chasing after me even tho she was supposedly fragile recovering from a heart attack plus her other disabilities.
there's so much more but it'd take me forever to explain every single little thing that she's done, said and what's happened. I feel like I've been robbed of my youth and even with all this I am still in denial
i hope you find the strength to leave, although I understand that its very painful when you first become aware of this. Would highly recommend jennette mccurdys book 'im glad my mum died'. You don't owe her anything, you come from her but you are definitely not hers and you deserve to live your life as you wish, as authentically as possible.
@@coyharlingen Hey I've heard of that. saw that title on audible! not sure if i can listen to it or whether i have to buy it first. I will check it out. I'll still be sad when mum dies. she has her really great moments and lately she's been a lot nicer to me than she was a couple years ago
@@coyharlingen i found it and downloaded it. I'm listening to it now
I can’t even imagine how difficult that is and she obviously lost touch with who you are as a person. I’m so sorry you lost so much. You still have some time to regain your youth, even at 44 I’m finding some good things about myself and life. Life is in stages and phases, just keep remembering that.
I hope you are in a better place now. My whole family of origin treats me as the scapegoat, starting from childhood. It's difficult getting your head around it. xo
Befuddles their victim with shock, trauma etc
I hear you. Xxx i know.
I Do Not Have A Penny For Food,Let Alone Escape.
What situation are you in Paul? You can talk to someone to get help. Talk to us here.
Tells me to shut the mouth jumped up starting hitting me in head put pillow over face I scratched his face to get him off he did it in front his Freinds who are weaker scared of him so they could not help
14:45 awwww
every day with peace gratitude
Just bullies they are how dare they abuse females.😮
I went to see a neighbour my Freund and told him what we said he threw into a rage threw phone at my head pulled my hair said I'm not allowed to have a Freind no more and said will tell her not to talk to me said he will ring her husband to say not to talk to me he breaks up my phone's uses my money blows it all does all the shopping jumps up over me and yes pillow if I cry or scream he pushes hand over my mouth
Plss ask n grt help ASAP
Please get help to get away from him and NEVER go back. Don’t try to talk to him about it. He’ll just manipulate you and make it impossible for you to leave. Make a plan secretly, then run for it. You matter and are of value. You deserve to be happy and safe. There is help out there and it’s for YOU; please grab it with both hands. There are so many women you’ll meet in recovery who will empathise and support you 100%. Xx
No it can't happen to anyone and does not happen to everyone
What do you mean?
Psychological abuse
kate your a hero a survivor a warrior woman God bless u they dont love u men like that ur a convenience we think they love us they blow hot an cold their strange men glad u left God has our backs thats for sure hes the only man i depend upon amen
🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🙏🕊
If these laws were really prosecuted properly, 99% of women in long-term relationships would be in prison, right now.
Why?
And a lot of these “single mom’s.” They turn themselves into prison wardens quite commonly, while pretending to be in need of help themselves for sympathy. Then they instigate social death to their daughters especially.
Say something _I've given up on you_and now u don't exist_i can not see you any more_bye bye
The POS who killed the bird should be in jail, and they should throw away the key. Its vile, disgusting animal cruelty. Hope he rots in hell.