How to Come Out of An Abusive Relationship | How to Leave Your Partner | Nidhi Chaudhary

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  • How to come out of an abusive relationship
    How to leave your partner
    BF/Gf को कैसे छोड़ें
    I already made a video on signs of abusive relationship after that I thought to give few tips that how you could leave your abusive partner and why it is important to leave a toxic relationship immediately. Hope this video will help
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  • @bhavyapopat5871
    @bhavyapopat5871 5 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    It's been 6 months now that I left such relationship.. And now I'm 10000 times productive than ever before! Thanks to this video

  • @sudhanshugoel7618
    @sudhanshugoel7618 5 ปีที่แล้ว +421

    Love is not necessary in a relationship, the thing which matters is respect

  • @snigdhakumari482
    @snigdhakumari482 6 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    Di I feel like crying and want to hug you like a elder sister you have motivated me..... I am suffering from this.....😕

    • @thenidhichaudhary
      @thenidhichaudhary  6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Don’t worry , have faith in yourself.. you’ll come out of it

    • @snigdhakumari482
      @snigdhakumari482 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yah dii Thank you...😘

    • @garimas4635
      @garimas4635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same here

    • @SujitKumar-zr5yw
      @SujitKumar-zr5yw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thenidhichaudhary what is your profession. I would like to ask you a personal question

    • @advarunrana5433
      @advarunrana5433 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I m also suffering with same

  • @sangeetameena9498
    @sangeetameena9498 5 ปีที่แล้ว +374

    True.... Me ek abusive marriage me hu . Pr mujhe sab kuch tolerate karna pad Raha h only for my parents. Practically bolu to ..ek to shadi or Pyar bhut soch samjh ke karna chaiye . Emotional fool ho ke pyar wyar me nhy padna chaiye . Specially ladkiyo ko khena chaoungi .... Plz phele apna career banou . Pyar or shadi kuch nhy hota .. sab bakwas h .

    • @anny-lw5hb
      @anny-lw5hb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      true

    • @seherkhan6867
      @seherkhan6867 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      M b face kr rhi hu or
      Ab divorce k liye b soch liya h ese relationship m rhna bhut bura hota h

    • @divyasharma21129
      @divyasharma21129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mam.. I am facing a problem.. Like u.. If u don't mind.. Can u share ur no.

    • @sangeetameena9498
      @sangeetameena9498 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@deeparanchi ... So nice of u . Me trust KR ke wese hi bhut suffer KR Rahi hu . Ab kisi pe trust nhy Raha . Mere husband depression patient hai . Kal Holi pe us NE mujhe bhut Mara . Mujhe samjh nhy a Raha me Kaya karu . He is very smart .... Ghar pe maar pit karta h . Duniya me bechara banta h .

    • @sangeetameena9498
      @sangeetameena9498 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Uske parents bhi usi ka sath dete h .

  • @shristikumari7913
    @shristikumari7913 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I had been in a 6 yrs long relationship and last year I broke up the toxic n abusive relationship . And in this video each n every point n statement is absolutely justified . I literally faced everything in those 6 yrs . It's been a year now and I am very happy n relaxed . I am loving my family more and gratitude for everything great in my life . ...

    • @srishtisharma6652
      @srishtisharma6652 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sis what you did to come out from that toxic relationship?

    • @shristikumari7913
      @shristikumari7913 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@srishtisharma6652 taking small steps like changing my no. , Nd stopped talking to him completely , it just takes 21 days to make it your habit , blocking frm everywhere , nd making this decision official. Get your parents support too

    • @srishtisharma6652
      @srishtisharma6652 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Unfortunately i am also in an abusive relationship..He doesn't care about my opinions ..whenever i try to say something regarding about what i felt hurt..he use to say that i am trying to fight with him or I am making nonsense argument...and use to teach me the lesson of this word relation..He just wants that i should'nt stop talking to him whatever the matter is..Whenever i say to him that i don't like this behaviour ..he used to say that Can't i say something to you....and in my turn if i say something to him..in aggression he used to say..your's and my realtion is over and then again he do follow me...calls and sms....n all...He totally made my life hell..so depressed😔..there are lots of others things which he don't understand..and whenever i try to leave him .he use to say that I am fake n all..use to say shame on u n all

    • @rajis9103
      @rajis9103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@srishtisharma6652 i am also in that relation he uses abused words not about me my family members also very abused words i cried a lot when that recolect

    • @Shashwat78
      @Shashwat78 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rajis9103 seriously same with me my brain was not with me at that time. I Just can't understand how how how I just went with her took wrong decisions choices everything. You know what happens in that flow our brain doesn't work it's only that person.

  • @swetayadav28_13
    @swetayadav28_13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I came out of such a toxic relationship, it was hard bt I'm happy..😇

    • @jeet9402
      @jeet9402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      congratulations yar…and it’s possible…boht girls kh rhi hai we can’t leave him kyuki boht pyar krti hai…please tum en sbko guide kro ki kese kra tumne ye sb

    • @anshuljain3276
      @anshuljain3276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Is someone is let down in a relationship, is it toxic ??

    • @ruchihazarika17
      @ruchihazarika17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How?

    • @swetayadav28_13
      @swetayadav28_13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ruchihazarika17 it was hard bt whenever I thought of my self respect it was as if getting detoriated, and mentally was giving me immense pain.., no one wants to survive in lies and disrespect thts wht made me think fr myself this tym and move on happily..🙌🏻🤍

    • @ruchihazarika17
      @ruchihazarika17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@swetayadav28_13 thank you ❤

  • @editingcity8693
    @editingcity8693 5 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    56 dislike wale
    Ultra abusive relationship ma hai...😂😂🤣

  • @thedeshbhaktpoetry
    @thedeshbhaktpoetry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    I left my bf after eight years of relationship because he always tortured me mentally

    • @palakpalak8005
      @palakpalak8005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      yr mera v 8 saal ka rltn hai lekin maine abhi shodna hai bcz woh mujhe bhot torture krta hai yt 😭😭😭😭

    • @Avantika3521
      @Avantika3521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@palakpalak8005 chod dijye chahe wo apko glt hi smjhe
      Aap sahi ho apni jgh,aap khud ko jaante h ,apki life hai

    • @Avantika3521
      @Avantika3521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Goood
      Sahi kiya chahe jitne saal ho gy ho ,agr relationship torture me bdl jaaye tw wo ghutan ban jaati hai

    • @karaasha9180
      @karaasha9180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@pankajpandey2408 chahe sarak par khichkar public ke samne sex karnese b agar insan galat ho to chorna hoga sex se bhi jada physical n mental torture jada painfull hota hein meine 6 years sex relation rakne ke baad bhi chor diya,boxing or laat se jada sex pain nahi hota hein

    • @pankajpandey2408
      @pankajpandey2408 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karaasha9180 apka husband tha ya boyfriend

  • @quantumplays5543
    @quantumplays5543 5 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    1:00 pm
    I did break up
    1:05
    I started playing pubg
    2:00 there was no sadness in my mind and i started leading a life like a 5 years old kid...
    And started hardwork..
    And i am very happy now with my mummy papa.........and even i have forgot her number🤗🤗🤗

  • @Suchandanath97
    @Suchandanath97 6 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Exacttlyy. I already left him 2yrs ago.. and now m happy. I m glad that m out of such abbusive relationship. 👋❣

    • @deepikashivhare2100
      @deepikashivhare2100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Suchanda Nath I too want to come out of all this but it's really not so easy

    • @surendramahariya4977
      @surendramahariya4977 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Super.....

    • @surendramahariya4977
      @surendramahariya4977 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@deepikashivhare2100 it's very easy buddy...first of all remove his contact, photos n remove from all fb & Twitter & Instagram etc...n concentrate on work...make herself busy... don't think about him... otherwise u will suffer.. never he will..do it only for five days... definitely u'll get rid of this situation...

    • @raushanikumari6066
      @raushanikumari6066 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@surendramahariya4977 hi.. What if he threatens to kill himself if i leave him😭

    • @surendramahariya4977
      @surendramahariya4977 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@raushanikumari6066 if u will leave him ...I promise to u that definitely he won't die....just doing show off....life is very precious.. try to understand buddy....

  • @chukisworld5951
    @chukisworld5951 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "Pyaar oxygen nahi hai".. that was too good and worth the comment. 🤣👍👌

  • @kasturimukherjee253
    @kasturimukherjee253 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    today i seriously needed this video.. i hv not started watching it..but the title gave me some hope.. thanksss for discussing such a topic.

    • @kasturimukherjee253
      @kasturimukherjee253 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      mera prblm kuch aur hai.. maine 4 yr tolerate ki ..humare parents v involve hue kyunki hum logo ka engagement bhi huwa par woh change nahi hua upar se uska gali dena bar gaya .. mere maa baba bhai sab ko uthake gali deta tha toh hum usko bola j maine uske sath nahi rahna chahti hu..par 8 month ho chuke hai woh mujhe till date msg karte rahta hai gali deta hai dhamki deta hai hardam hammer karta hai ..maine usko sab jagah block kiya hai.. par fb main roj new accnt open karke msg karta hai.. darata hai.. mere fmly member ko hurt karega bolta hai.. mujhe badnam karega..
      mujhe usse mukti chahiye ..koi gham nahi hai mujhe.. par kaise mukti payun....

  • @vijetasingh9746
    @vijetasingh9746 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Who ever is here everyone is stuck in an abusive relationship. We all here came for the solution to end these kind of relationship

  • @devyadav6403
    @devyadav6403 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    same situation as I have faced, it was very typical to move on . finally get out that relationship...... thanks mam 😊

  • @farhanabegum5441
    @farhanabegum5441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Love marriage turns into toxic,abusing ,domestic 💔

  • @SandeepKumar-cn5cy
    @SandeepKumar-cn5cy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Idhar ladki mil nhi rhi or jinko mili h vo abuse kr rhe h. 😣😣

    • @blahblah-wr1pj
      @blahblah-wr1pj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bhai bhai

    • @aarvivats5878
      @aarvivats5878 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      m toh sb kuch sunti thi fir bhi time nhi deta tha aaj mne rista hi khtm krdiya kya thik kiya mne .MERI thodi c bhi fikr NHI krta tha 2din hogy the pH krrhe hue pH nhi uthata agr uthaya gusse m bolte h mne khtm krdiya kya thik kiya

    • @SandeepKumar-cn5cy
      @SandeepKumar-cn5cy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@blahblah-wr1pj are bhai bhai bhai
      😂😂😂😂

    • @aarvivats5878
      @aarvivats5878 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hnji

    • @jyotiranjanpradhan1991
      @jyotiranjanpradhan1991 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sahi he bhai

  • @monikachandel4557
    @monikachandel4557 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Rightly said an abusive relationship is not a relationship at all✌

  • @sadiasultanatripto8013
    @sadiasultanatripto8013 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Hi nidhi
    I guess my relationship is also abusive I can't tolerate my partner talking or chatting with girls.so I decided to leave him because neither he gaved me peace nor I have given him peace. Thanks for the video.

  • @divyankbharadwaj8209
    @divyankbharadwaj8209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I began to start crying after listening this. Very heart touching message by you mam. Mam jaise har ladki apne partner main apne father ki parchai dekhti hai, as same main bhi apne partner main apni mother ki parchai dekhta hoon.

  • @aakashshr2
    @aakashshr2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Writing their bad behaviour is awesome advice Nidhi ....I hv so many students discussing their abusive relationship ...I will suggest them to follow you ✌👌

    • @thenidhichaudhary
      @thenidhichaudhary  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank u

    • @vishvendrachandra2846
      @vishvendrachandra2846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thenidhichaudhary hello nidhi I am boy but I am facing lots of toxicity in my life 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @sheikhumeema1171
    @sheikhumeema1171 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    M also in wrong relationship.first of all he is much aggressive, baseless attitude of anything.. he never wanted me to stay in peace.. because of him I lost my respect in my family

  • @RubySharma-dw8zf
    @RubySharma-dw8zf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ma'am
    Thank you so much for helping me to get out of ill relationship.I feel like I love him still ,I can't live happily without him but this video motivated me a lot .Don't know what would happen further.😔

  • @neerajshrivastava4916
    @neerajshrivastava4916 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    इतने अच्छे से समझाया आपने, हर पेरेंट को और टीनएजर को ये वीडियो देखना चाहिए ।

  • @anusingh2744
    @anusingh2744 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are right nidhi... Pahle mere ko lgta tha mai uske bina Kaise rahungi but usko chorne ke bad life jine ka maza hi kuch aur h...
    Aur mai baki sb se bhi yhi kahungi ki agar apko lgta h ki apka partner shi h apke liye wo apki khushiyo ka khyal rakhta h to shi h but agar wo apki khushiyo ki parwah na kre to plzz yese relationship se bahar aa jao.....
    And frnd jisko v ye video pasand aaye wo plzzz thumb up kre....

  • @abhishek5785
    @abhishek5785 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I badly need to talk with you on this abusive relationship...i am going through a very tough phase of my life

  • @kq6264
    @kq6264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    sending love to everyone who has gone/is going through this hell...i wish you all realise that u deserve so much better than an abusive relationship 💖

  • @shashichaurasia1646
    @shashichaurasia1646 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is reason why I don't have any gf meko gali nhi sunana ,, mere jaise log seedha Sadi krte hai !! Bahut accha video hai unn logo ke liye Jo pyar ka Rona rote hai aur apne family ko preshan krte hai !

  • @user-of6ne5ki9d
    @user-of6ne5ki9d 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Exactly respect is more important in a relationship......

  • @kashish7834
    @kashish7834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Di u re exactly r8 i tottaly relate bcz I loved truly n i suffered for5yrs but i cant leave him bcz sometimes i went to him and most of the Time he came nd apologize... In my case abbusive means he is not dominating but yeah he just took this relation forguarnted and just came when he want but now I truly make my mind that i have to finish this toxic thing bcz I lost all for these year.... Thnks mam lv uh alot

    • @jeet9402
      @jeet9402 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      breakup kia ya nhi ?

  • @ankitsharma9852
    @ankitsharma9852 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    That's right. My bestfriend is always stressed because of her relationship. I've always told her that if you're not happy with this, end it here right now. True love doesn't hurt. She told me that she can't live without him. But that's not how life works. Life isn't about love only

    • @bwilliams4266
      @bwilliams4266 5 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @itzvishu7746
      @itzvishu7746 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same as my story

    • @HjJkj-hr2mx
      @HjJkj-hr2mx 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mera bf ne mujhe bahot mara. Pair se.mara hamara 8 sal ka relation tha wo bahot toxic mujhe bola sudhr jaunga aisa bola milne kie liye bulya to bhot mara mein ro rayi thi to bhi wo mujhe mar raha tha.mein gussr mein boli chala etna mar khane se koi bhi ladki yahi bol skti hain .paisa bhi mere se hi liya usane wo coffee ka fir lath mari mujhe bhot royi bad mein usne mujhe msg kiye to maine usko block kiya .usko boli ja mere zindagi se nhi rehana there sath .hamara 8 sal ka relation tha maine usko 3 month bad msg kiya to wo married ladki ke sath chalu hogya .dekho kitna mc tha haramkollr

  • @tejaswiedara5008
    @tejaswiedara5008 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    u r 💯% correct at 2:14 .... parents r often in Misconception that to heal something ,to guide someone, they have to b Rough ....they usually forget that its not 1980s or 1990's .... its 2018 !!!!!!! Kids Psychology has changed a Lot !!!!! a lot

  • @user-sj5nl9vx8t
    @user-sj5nl9vx8t ปีที่แล้ว +1

    right now i am facing the same issue i am in a relationship with a person around 6 years and he cheated on me with his brother wife but at the time i was in blind love and not in condition to accept that he cheated on me after our college we move to different city and started live in relationship and guess what happen he hit me for the first time its been 2 years he is not stop to beat me every week it happen, still i was fool at the time same condition one day he will back and realize what did he do after watching with video i realize that he will never change i was just expecting that everything will fine one day but anyways i will try my best to come out of this abusive relationship i know i know everyone suggest me leave him love your parents they will always there for you but trust me it didn't when you are in blind relationship . Thanks for sharing the video and giving the best example what actual love is ...

  • @aimeennaaz8112
    @aimeennaaz8112 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Absolutely right ma'am
    But my partner is ma sha Allah bht zyada acche h..
    Abusing to dur h aaj tak usne mujhpe chillaya tak nhi h

  • @sahilali4550
    @sahilali4550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Meri age 16 hai orr me aashiq bazi nhi kartaaa .......buss apne dream nawabo walee haii unse pyar karta huu💪💪💪💪

  • @ChandaniKumari-us5hh
    @ChandaniKumari-us5hh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank u thank u thank u soo much... for motivating in such a beautiful way... though i m not in a bad rrlationship but also.. i want to move out... and u motivated.. so from today only ... i will start this

  • @tanyaverma27a
    @tanyaverma27a 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    mera bf bht sweet caring or understanding h..
    i m very lucky..☺☺☺☺

    • @sre1995
      @sre1995 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here.. 😊😊😊

    • @yourstruly945
      @yourstruly945 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

    • @ashizainab3100
      @ashizainab3100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope it will remain forever

    • @Sharmaas6
      @Sharmaas6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@ashizainab3100 ghanta 😂😂Kuch din ya Kuch sal me sab ki asli shakl dikh jati h 😂🤣😂🤣😂pyar backchod log krte h 😎😎

    • @yourstruly945
      @yourstruly945 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Sharmaas6 plz dont say so..real love exists..and i found it..i can say for sure..he waited for me 7 long yrs..nd we r in realtion since last 3 yrs

  • @Farhakhan91
    @Farhakhan91 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Aise log bht bada khatra hote hain Ye sbse badi bevkufi Hai Aise relationship me Rhna
    Very nyc video👌👌

  • @souravpandey1547
    @souravpandey1547 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Didi good job...
    ajj kal ke boys n girls apna study and destination ko bhul ke bf gf bana rahe ho..
    I hope they are learn some lesson from this video.
    👏👏👏

  • @prernachauhan4359
    @prernachauhan4359 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    isse jyada achhe tareeke se koi bhi nhi smjha paega ...very well done dear....u r right cycle humesha chalti rahegi...kuch din shi chl b jaye pr jyda nahi chl skta ..so its better to leave ..
    bht hi calm tareeke se smjhaya h aapne i hope ki jo b abusive relation m h .in sab baaton ko sune soche smjhe or fir koi decision le..👌👌👌👏👏👏👍👍👍👍

  • @neetflix3602
    @neetflix3602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ultimate and genuine advice Nidhi maa’m.......this is truth and people need to accept it and they will be happy after this....it may take some time but they will definitely will be relaxed after coming out of this

  • @parisafaizi8674
    @parisafaizi8674 6 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Kya ap abusive relationship se guzar chuke ho???

    • @nazimhassan2951
      @nazimhassan2951 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      han me

    • @itsmeranja4939
      @itsmeranja4939 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      .me also

    • @soniasharma7298
      @soniasharma7298 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Experience he tabhi to bata paa Rahi he di

    • @namratas5971
      @namratas5971 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But most of the boy use to fight with his gf then how to understand

    • @library3855
      @library3855 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haan behen😓
      Struggling

  • @bhavanipanatu7156
    @bhavanipanatu7156 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was also got cheated and abused..my engagement was broken and went into depression ..but now I'm out of it thank you god

  • @amishaswarnkar2421
    @amishaswarnkar2421 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Didi I just found ur channel. I just got out of an abusive relationship. Just a week ago. And I want to talk to u so much. You sound so mature. So supportive. I wish you were here like a big sister. I would talk to u all day. Such an important and precious video. 💓

  • @DREAM-zd7jp
    @DREAM-zd7jp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is what actually happens to me... The cycle....I just want to get rid of it...it's making me depressed, I stay alone due to my study..my family is not with me...but Im gonna do my best

  • @sarmimondal9352
    @sarmimondal9352 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    apki motivate korne ki tarika bht achha hai di...I'm from Bengal 😍😍😍
    Grt work di😊
    thanks

  • @diptiray2029
    @diptiray2029 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wow Truly Appreciate ur motivation U r really an inspiration to many youngsters, liked & shared wth all my frnds..... Too good content love u nidhi😘😘

  • @radhika34578
    @radhika34578 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sahi bolte ho di....ashiq premi he asli love....ma dad dushmn....aisa hi ho raha hai....mere ghr pr bh huaaa......heheehe.....sb aise hi krte hai ☺️☺️☺️☺️aaaap hr baaat ko kitne simple esy tereke se smja dete ho.......thnkyuu di

  • @EricaVanHelsing
    @EricaVanHelsing 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ahhh reading the comments. I feel the same. The same threat to disclose everything to family. The last person i trusted and gave everything ,my body, my finances, my education,my career, my reputation and he isn't leaving me too after ruining all this. Idk when my prayers are going to be answered but one thing is for sure that I'll work out if it. May maa durga bless me with power to respond to this abuser. 🙏

  • @tiyasha1736
    @tiyasha1736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    now I am 18 years old and a 12th boards candidate and he is 24 a engineer .
    2 years ago I enter in this toxic relationship with him when I literally don't have that mind he always fights with me but also never leave me ... He always mentally torture me😖 whenever I became so frustrated he always apologies to me and again start this same drama 😭😭 ohh God save me 😭😭

    • @jeet9402
      @jeet9402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      so sad yar😐😐😐…but aapke pas abhi time hai us se door hone ka…beacause abhi boht time nhi hua relation ko…u can left him…vrna in future boht problem hogi… relationship means…”happiness “ agr nhi ho to yr aaj hi chhod do….wo emotional blackmail krke fsaye rkhega and girls boht sensitive hoti hai easily believe kr leti hai…so please 😊Be strong and left him…..

    • @tiyasha1736
      @tiyasha1736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jeet9402 no wo hamesa mujhe mentally torture karte he mera study bhi nhi hota he ...but usko jub bhi lagega me chorne wala huin tab roe roe k firse pakad lega or mafi mangega or jub me Mann jayungi firse puradin ladai karega or uska problem bhi he mera study se 😞

    • @jeet9402
      @jeet9402 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tiyasha1736 then breakup krke directly block kro yar….usko chance mt do rone ka….na us se milo ….vrna dikkat krega aage bhi

    • @tiyasha1736
      @tiyasha1736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jeet9402 not possible yrr I can't escape from it😫

    • @jeet9402
      @jeet9402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tiyasha1736 then you will lost yourself….your self respect…everything possible yar….just try it….i know relationship like addiction uske bad boht mushkil hota hai…but not impossible yar…i’ll help u

  • @richatiwari3710
    @richatiwari3710 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ohh god that straight forwardness.....you go girl👍

  • @malaarora9882
    @malaarora9882 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tysm.... Di... Or ye pyar ka bhut utarne me mere mummy ppa ka bht badha hath h or sath he apke videos ka v..... So tysm again di😊 lots of love from me❤️

    • @jeet9402
      @jeet9402 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bahut acha kia. Congratulations

    • @bwilliams4266
      @bwilliams4266 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      No one deserves to be in an abusive relationship and if you are already in one the best thing to do is to find the fastest way out which is what I did, thank God I found a reliable hacker on time one that knew his job well and was professional from start to finish he practically saved my life! If you need any hack help you should contact mike! works fast and he is 100% reliable Whatsapp +15182175945 instagram @mikeswilfred and his email is hackerelite0077@gmail.com

  • @imtiyaz_SpiritualAwaken
    @imtiyaz_SpiritualAwaken 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ma'am I have watched many videos of motivational speakers but Your way of describe is unique and heart touching.

  • @Musclemagic06
    @Musclemagic06 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Mam Ap bhut Acha kam kar raha ho ❤❤ keep going

  • @sanafatima4066
    @sanafatima4066 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Abusive relathinship sucks its like a curse. And sometimes we cant come out of it for several years. And it hurts like anything else i wish no one should get aabusive partner ever.😥

  • @abhivyas2010
    @abhivyas2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sometimes you can't imagine ...what a person can do with you ..... Even you are honest ...

  • @mrmrssangwan2752
    @mrmrssangwan2752 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mere. Mtlb ki bat nhi hai fir b sunne me mja aaya.... effective motivation

  • @chitrasharma5414
    @chitrasharma5414 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Family bhi abusive..bf bhi abusive...bf ke sath to break up kar liya...ghar se kaha jaye..chup rahna seekh liya hai..kisi se baat nahi karti

  • @pramodingle7492
    @pramodingle7492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The Buddha said that
    Your happiness depend not upon external things but upon your own mind.

  • @gaurishukla9213
    @gaurishukla9213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks.. very very VERY true. I myself just got out .. now when i see this.. i find it so true

  • @imtiyazsofi2823
    @imtiyazsofi2823 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are right dear parents are our first love now days nobody wants love with soul only loves wants physical relationships

  • @ramotrafitness9914
    @ramotrafitness9914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kash yeh video 3 saal pehle dekh leta toh 3 saal na waste hote 💔

  • @cleanxcarwash5678
    @cleanxcarwash5678 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    10 year me 1000+ breakup ker chuka but na who dur hoti hai or na hi main (love is not a word ok or not sex ok love is feeling & i lucky ki mujhe kisi se itna pyar kerta hun

  • @khyatichauhan30
    @khyatichauhan30 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But it's not as easy as said. If that was so easy no one would ever tolerate torture. I can't find a way out . The leaving thing is very difficult not because of love but because of hate which is dangerous

    • @jeet9402
      @jeet9402 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aapka point thik hai yar......But ydi aise torture hota rhega to fir usko chhodna to pdega na....otherwise kb tk tolerate kr skte ho????aur ydi relationship me khush nhi ho....toxic hota ja rha hai to then leave it.....love means ye nhi hai ki koi kese bhi use kre.....never compromise with your self respect.....start loving yourself yr....vrna ek time pe sb chhod k chle jate hai.....Be Strong like a brave girl,🙂🙂

  • @mubinshaikh8264
    @mubinshaikh8264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank u so much mam for opening my eyes.he took advantage of me looted my money.i wl stop it now its hopeles.thx mam for guiding us right.u r my guru.m parveen.

  • @mitalibharadwaj1274
    @mitalibharadwaj1274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i’m watching this on loop ... thnx fr this

  • @Shivanii.Siingh
    @Shivanii.Siingh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hats off to you grl💕u mke me realise everything in jst this 11 minutes👌💯tnku so mch🌼

  • @priyamshii2138
    @priyamshii2138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    didi you say " ap ko dekh ke apke parents bhi dukhi ho rahe hei"3:25 thats make me damn emotional and give me sense,wohi sabse jyada truth ye.😌

  • @shahzadhussain9524
    @shahzadhussain9524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mashallah Apne to Zindagi badal daali love you sister❤😘

  • @dancingsoul2112
    @dancingsoul2112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I was in abusive relationship I just broke up yesterday my bf always try to puts me down mere sb friends ne mujhe chod diya mere bf k vjha se uska mere dimag pe itna control hai ki main abhi bhi khud ko hi glat smaj rhi hu plzz mujhe rply kro or btao ki main kaise is break up se bahr ayu meine 3 saal sb tolerate kiya hai but I can't talk about it to my parent's because I am from very small village so my parents can't understand maine phle bhi bhout bar try kiya breakup krne ka but vo khud ko physically hurt krta hai main kaise khud ko roku uske sath bat krne se roku vo labhi apni glti nhi manta or mujhe hi glat proof krya hai mere frnds bhi baat nhi krte mujhe because of him plzzzz rply kro iska mujhe btao kya kru

    • @rashmijoshi6300
      @rashmijoshi6300 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hy mai bhi isi xhiz se guzar rhi hu.. i will help you and you can help me.

    • @rashmijoshi6300
      @rashmijoshi6300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Apne sahi kiya sis... jo hme gali deta hai wo hmse love nhi krta... bas usko lgtan ki ham use choar kar nae jaynge islye hme kuch bhi bolta

    • @rashmijoshi6300
      @rashmijoshi6300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @The bong girl mer bf bhi mujhe gali deta hai ..mai thods kuch boli to mujhse bahot fight krta gali deta ignore krta... mai roti bahot.. pr mai abhhi bhi breakup nhi kar parhi. I am very depressed

    • @rashmijoshi6300
      @rashmijoshi6300 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @The bong girl yeh log aise hi hote unki baat nhi mani to bura bolten hain abuse krten..

    • @rashmijoshi6300
      @rashmijoshi6300 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @The bong girl han yeh ldka bhi mere religion ka nhi mai hindu hu or wo muslim or kbhi bhi wo mer religion ko bura bol deta... mujhe bhe hurt krt bahot roj.. but jabbe mai jane ko bolte rone lagta ias wais boltan or mai pighal jati

  • @AISHA_UNBOXING
    @AISHA_UNBOXING 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So true man I'm suffering from abusing relationship 😭😭😭😭😭 can't handle anymore

  • @dreamer_canbe_achiever
    @dreamer_canbe_achiever 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    4 mahine pehle ye video dekhi thi...tabhi mann bana liya tha aisi relation se bahar nikalne ka...par har baar nakaam rhi...bilkul sahi kaha...baar baar mana lete hain abusive partners...bas ek baat yaad rakhni chahiye " try tru but dnt cry"....uss hell se nikalke sukoon mil rha h....u r doing great work

  • @NikitaSharma-gz6fs
    @NikitaSharma-gz6fs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    di every word u said is completely correct....i totally agree with you.....no luv is greater than the love of our parents

  • @sayalipatil2868
    @sayalipatil2868 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thnkq so much dii❤️😭🙏🏻

  • @prernachaudhary1257
    @prernachaudhary1257 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    mummy Papa say jyada to koi pyr he nhi kr skta

    • @huna5923
      @huna5923 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kr Sakta hai yaar , kr Sakta hai

  • @Vikashkumar-py6gp
    @Vikashkumar-py6gp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nidhi tumne bilkul sahi baat batai. I was feeling very sad being single in my teenage. But as I grew I realised that there are many things in life , far better than those fake relationships. Now when I see those school or collage couples I find them very immeture 😅. Specially young couples .

  • @pramodsinghkuldeep6623
    @pramodsinghkuldeep6623 ปีที่แล้ว

    हजारों वीडियो देखने के बाद आपके केवल एक ही वीडियो ने मेरा कॉन्फिडेंस बढ़ा दिया है, now i can leave her for forever,dil me थोड़ी खुशी मिली । थैंक यू so much 🙏

  • @swetahunny1903
    @swetahunny1903 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Very nice di😘😘😘...... And dii jb aap weight gain exercise p video bnaiyega na to thighs and butts k liye v bnaiyega mtlb ki bahut patle ho Gye h unko Shi shape me lane k liye 🤗🤗🤗

  • @Woof_meow19
    @Woof_meow19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You're totally killing it , You have beautifully delivered your words and knowledge about this particular topic which is very much necessary for this youth thanks a lot need some more videos like this 👍

  • @blushbeautybar
    @blushbeautybar 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Apki video downlod kr leti hu bcz jab bhi mujhe mere husabnd ka khyaal aata hai...to me aapki video dekh leti hu...or aapki video mujhe bht bht smjhaati hai...bht help krti hai...aage badhne me

  • @sabikunratry9409
    @sabikunratry9409 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why didn't I find this video two years ago? Then I would have no more confusion. Then I could get out of such a toxic relationship. And my studies would have been much better.

  • @coccoc2400
    @coccoc2400 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Jisne ye vdo ko dislike kiya wo zaroor abuser hoga ya hogi

  • @rashmipandey7085
    @rashmipandey7085 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    v true...starting me tough lgta h pr kuch month bad aaap bht zada hi khush hojaoge...

  • @SKVACHAN
    @SKVACHAN 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Parents are greater than all everyone, so every girl child have to obey their parents
    And need to apply their thoughts on their life..

  • @heytherestaythere368
    @heytherestaythere368 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Di thank you so much 😭
    You have explained every little bit of an abusive relationship so well. Koi itna ache se nai bataya kabhi. Please bring more Nidhitalks sessions. These are amazing! I'm so in love with you ❤

  • @ARCHANASINGH-yc1sv
    @ARCHANASINGH-yc1sv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nidhi Didi agar shdi me ye problem Ho to kya kre........😢😥

    • @soumilighosh452
      @soumilighosh452 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      6hod dijiye...... Zindegi sacrifice karne ka kya matlab?? Apna zindegi se badkar ku6 ni

  • @MrAsad331
    @MrAsad331 ปีที่แล้ว

    Real social teacher, God bless you Mam

  • @mahiji7598
    @mahiji7598 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Apne sari baat point to point boli
    Thanks for this

  • @payalsworld1031
    @payalsworld1031 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hi...nidhiji....i saw ur video...nice topic.....abhi aap specifically girlfriend boyfriend vali relationship ke baare mai hai...but after merriage abusive relationship ho to what we can do......coz lots of social pressure..lots of responsibility....n lots of things...affect..aapne bola ki insaan ki aadat pad jati hai vo love nahi hota...vo baat 100 % sach hai...but after merriage it is very difficult...dear...

    • @thenidhichaudhary
      @thenidhichaudhary  6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agar partner nhi sudhar rha Bohut chances k baad b toh divorce. Society ki mtt soncho wo kuch humara acha nhi kar skti

    • @poonamkala5081
      @poonamkala5081 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Payal ji you are right meri bi yahi story h bahar say sab teak lagta h per ander say may hi janti hu parents boltey h saadi kay etney time baad bi adjest nahi ho pa rahey baachey badey ho gaye to mai to pati ko ignore karti hu or kud ko fit rakti hu kud ko hi time deti hu ab sab teak h or pati kay samneyyey gaana gaati hu tum saat ho ya na ho kya fark h bayrang thi zindgi bayrang h😀😀😂

    • @pankajpandey2408
      @pankajpandey2408 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@poonamkala5081 😅😅😅😅

  • @namratas5971
    @namratas5971 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I think abusive relationship is just a heal 😰😰😭😵😱

  • @rajnibhaskar1088
    @rajnibhaskar1088 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aap bahut hi achhi advise dete ho...Aur honest bolte ho... Thanks 😊aap jeise samjhte ho mujhe to bahut hi achha lgta h 😘😊😊😊

  • @soul_of_shanaaz
    @soul_of_shanaaz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Me aapki video Dekh rhi thi Nd MERI mammy sun rhi thi Nd mammy ne mujhse phone liya Nd khudh like kiya

  • @anushkameshram1914
    @anushkameshram1914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Mujhe is insaan ko chhodna hai, woh mere liye thik nhi hai..."
    But why still I miss him hardly...?

  • @laughtertherapy1607
    @laughtertherapy1607 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Respect 😎😎😎

  • @suryapratimray4399
    @suryapratimray4399 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been in a toxic relationship for 3 years now. Whenever I tried to leave she always threatened with self harm. Haven't been in contact with her for few days now. I just hope she doesn't come back haunting me..... this is my mental state right now.

  • @nidhirawat86
    @nidhirawat86 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bhut achi baate btaai apne.jo bi en bato ko abi nhi smj rhe h.wo Syd JB kudke sath esa kbi hoga TB hi smjhenge like me.bhut cheze life me bhut der se smj aati h or TB tk aapki Life ke kafi saal nikl jate h es pyr me..or bad me sirf tklef hi milti h.

  • @alfiyasheikh3153
    @alfiyasheikh3153 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Mere to meri fmly support nhi krti or na hi boyfriend sab k saath hote hue bhi I'm lonely 😪😌😭

    • @thenidhichaudhary
      @thenidhichaudhary  6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Toh khud ko support karo apna acha krne k liye. Aap me bohut himmat hai usey use karo

    • @alfiyasheikh3153
      @alfiyasheikh3153 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nidhi Chaudhary Ty di.. mene use chod diya bas Aj se hi me khud k liye life me Aage badugi 😊

    • @zissukhan7874
      @zissukhan7874 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be the best

    • @poonamkala5081
      @poonamkala5081 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Laat maro salley ko sirf apney saat raho jab seek jayogey bada acha lagega kud say hiummed rako dosero say nahi best of luck for your new life and brither futher

  • @dihaandmasti6270
    @dihaandmasti6270 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Tell me one think , agr yeh abusing husband wife k bich ho then wht to do , Mae apna h example dete hu agr mera husband ek abuse krte h then m 2 abuse krte hu isliye hum toh majak m bi abuse krte h then according to u it's rong mere liye toh fun h 😄
    .

  • @bhavanipanatu7156
    @bhavanipanatu7156 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you ma'am👏👏👏👏I don't want love anyone ..no more I can't take it

  • @shahbazkhan6009
    @shahbazkhan6009 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mam me abi tak do bar relation m rha hu lekin mujhe dono hi bar bahut bahut pareshan hua hu kisi me mn nhi lgta tha bus yhi chalta tha dimah h.. Pr mene apni family k liye mene relation over kiya..
    Ap bahut acha kam kr rhe ho plzz gys kisi ko bi apni life m family se jyada importance na de😃

  • @nigamanshul
    @nigamanshul 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Women do love abusive relationship! I have seen them trust worthy to those guys only