I gladly will. But I would more likely take my own self out on a date an pay for everything I want plus deserts an don't have to worry bout if a man gone pay or Dutch. But those are 2 different men. I don't want a roommate as my husband or boyfriend. Period. Roomates don't get no pushy. Split that shit down the middle an find someone else to fuck. Cuz I'm a do me. I rather pay all my bills an do me then come home to a husband roommate. I'm good. Lmao
I don’t leave the house without my purse even when broke as hell. I call shenanigans. This was premeditated to ensure she put everything on the date. Now, I haven’t been dating for a decade and wasn’t aware of this accepted trend. We switch off paying for meals.I’m sorry to the decent guys just trying to find a non moocher. Cheap “get to know you” dates are a must.
exactly, if I had a daughter I would tell her to take her purse just in case, just cause you think it benefits you to leave your wallet at home don't mean you should. I seriously had a issue when she said that because I don't think she get it. at the end of the day people don't have to do anything. her leaving her purse just to purposely not pay was a plain stupid move.
Seriously, I’m going no where without my purse. My whole identity is in it I would feel so naked🤣, either way the girl wack as fuck. It’s sad some woman still think this shit cute.
With you, although I will say sometime I don't always have my wallet with me but I do have my phone pay using it. I wonder how long the I forgot my wallet excuse will last. If I was a man, I would happily wait for you to download whatever app you needed.
Collectively us men have to come together and agree not to deal with users and bottom feeders. If she wants to eat for free, then she should go to her mothers house.
Not bringing your wallet because you don’t want to pay is sad and careless. Just don’t go on the date. Let another woman who will appreciate the person they are with and pay for her part of the date. Plus you should always bring money with you just in case of emergencies or for things in general anyway.
@@will1905 smh you are most likely correct on that. And she has kids too. I hope she’s not teaching them this behavior either. I don’t understand why some women strongly believe that the men they attract should worship them for simply existing. I hope I can find other women who are courteous and have manners to surround myself with.
He is not broke, they just whining again, you know, because thats what some of them do, they tear you down whenever they can while wearing those wigs and fake eye lashes!!
"Left my purse at home" - thats's fancy way of saying, "I'm a cheapskate". Under all that makeup and fake internet love, these women are the real bums.
Her not paying the gratuity on the 1st date tells me everything I need to know about her (or at least offering). She is trifling..... and sure, you can say I have broke guy energy because I aint rich, I have some wealth but I live on a tight budget... I find it is better to invest in the market than the dating markets...
Now your doing it right! Lol 😆 and asking is different then demanding. NO WOMEN LEAVES WITHOUT A BAG. If anything happens it's her life line. She had her ID, cash, & credit card stashed somewhere on her person. I can 99% guarantee that. Cowdenicus you keep eyeing those red flags. If you don't already, you will find a great women to stand with you.
Got any good videos I can watch about investing in some markets? I was thinking about doing so a few months ago but put it off. I know some TH-camrs are actually skillful in what they say and show so I want to learn from the very best when it comes down to investing.
I don’t understand why we’re broke when we ask them to pay sumn. Don’t they work and still ask us for shit🤦🏽♂️ Then she gon say he asked me out he should pay. Shorty you will never ask anyone out so that doesn’t really equate to a solid argument tbh
1. He wasn't wanting to go 50/50 on the bill. He wanted to go 100 on the bill and the $30 tip was probably gratuity. He was still doing her a favor. 2. You can't call someone else broke for refusing to pay for you IN ADDITION to paying for themselves while simultaneously refusing to pay for yourself.
@@seventhz777z ok...and why do we know she didn’t bring purse? Because he asked date to put out some cash. Unspoken rule is your date, your bill. If this is a thing, where guys are asking then a discussion should happen to avoid misunderstandings.
This happened to me. She didn’t offer to pay half, the tip and didn’t even at least by me a beer. And during the date she mostly complained about her ex husband and his new Spanish girl. Waste of my time.
I’m married 31 years and I ALWAYS pay the tip… I also pay for the entire meal. We don’t share bank accounts but we DEFINITELY share money. That keeps arguments out of our lives. We both work and make good money so it’s nothing to pay a tab or tip when we go out. Now….if y’all choose to order from the $50 side of the menu it’s on and poppin’. Us old school women know how that works…lol.
Trust me; these new school chicks are trifling as hell. To not pay the tip is one thing; to air out the dude is another. Then to be asking for a handout for Disney world explains it all.
@@Jajais4u ong. That's why the chick I'm talking to feels like that dime in a dozen type of woman. I'm definitely gonna slow cook work on getting her frfr cuz these other chicks out here are not LTR potential.
@Chris The Weedologist i totally understand. These young women are only out for self and what they can squander from a man. I truly feel bad for men. They get used and discarded like trash. But these women are quick to ask where the real men are. Sadly, they used them up and burned them out.
I feel like these females are projecting broke girl energy 😪. I'll never understand why you wouldn't want to take care of the tip if he paid for your meal. I thought it was understood that I pick up the tip if he asked to take me out.
Seriously. It's that simple. I personally would want the bill split for the sake of a first date, but that's just me. If he insists on paying, yeah I'll immediately offer to leave the tip. And leaving a purse or funds of your own home is irresponsible. Be horrible if he "forgot" his wallet too 😬
Guessing she chose the restaurant. Easily a $150 tab if the tip is $30. Also the guy probably figured he was being used for a free meal. Asking for the tip money was a way to determine if it was another date. He got lucky only having to pay for one meal.
When he asked her out, and she is offended by being asked to pay the tip, she should have thought about telling him in the beginning that she can not "AFFORD" to go out for dinner. Let him either walk away or offer to pay the tab, tip and all.
@@Supersquishyawesomeness and that's how you end up in situations like these. Have you ever heard of the saying "better safe than sorry"? What dude said above is actually smart. That way the guy knows he has to pay for everything if he goes out with you and avoid any awkward or embarrassing situations.
@@caos024 the guy asked her out, he should pay. You don’t invite someone to pay a bill 😂 if you can’t afford to throw a party you don’t invite people and ask them to cover the bill on the way out.
If its one thing I, myself cannot stand when it comes to women, its that most of them are afraid to speak their minds while being in the middle of the date with the guy they're out with, yet will talk the most shit behind closed doors all over social media whenever they're alone again. I've caught 4 women who did this exact shit to me and with this video, it shows I aint the only one whos dealing with this fake shit.
Again, this is why don't like social media and the internet for the most part, because it allows people to bring out and be the worst part of themselves to others, and it allows them to do it in the safety and security of their own homes, without having to look those people in the eye.
There's even some men that do that shít talking behind one's back as well. I know a couple of dudes who hate me cuz they know they can't step up to me unless they want to get sent to the ICU. So they resort to talking their mess yet want someone's help right after. 😂 Meanwhile I'm improving on the daily reaching my goals and creating more. 💪🏿💯
@@kush7138 those are men raised by single mothers. They don’t know how to be upfront like other men cause they spent their lives watching and learning from women. It’s why so many young men today can’t understand or control their emotions.
The first date should be at 2 for $40 type places. Letting her pick an expensive place is basically a simp test that you fail the second you agree to that ish
I would even go as to say if your girl aint up for simple walk in the part and talk and chill aint got to spend nothing the less money you spend the better then when you see their value spoil them because they have proven they want more then stuff
remember when dates was about getting to know the person. now it's all about who's paying for what. most of these women are going on dates so they can get a nice meal for free then ghost the guy the next day. if both people are actually interested in each other then it shouldn't matter about things like that as you're there to get to know the person and not for free meals. I believe on a date both people should expect to pay for their own meal but if the other person offers to pay then fair enough but don't expect it as money isn't what the date is about.
Me personally if I invite a woman on a date I will pay but there’s nothing wrong with a woman offering to at least pay the tips. Her complaining about him saying that on the last minute then why she didn’t say she will leave her purse until the last minute? This is why I rather not go on dinner dates they just want a free meal or talk 💩 about us if we don’t over spend.
How is it she just wants a free meal if you ask her out to dinner. She didn't ask you to take her dinner that would be a free meal. If he asks her out and he wanted her to pay the tip he should have said that from the beginning. what if she genuinely didn't have the money. She didn't ask him out. smh Go dutch and you pay your own bill.
@@SuperTruthful Free meal means, A woman that accepts to go out on a date not because she’s interested in getting to know him but just to eat at a restaurant without paying anything. Men ask a woman out to get to know her and see if it leads to a relationship and some woman will accept just to go out and eat.
@@SuperTruthful I literally just gave you the mens motive in asking a woman out on a date but your mind just took it to sex. You saying it doesn’t matter that a woman tricks a men just to eat says a lot about you.
@@SuperTruthful women now a days, just want a free ride! they scream about equality, but most women cant even get up the consideration to even OFFER to pay or go dutch! wtf you on about?! also most men, are about how much this woman wants HIM for HIM, not his bank account, he wants to see if she gonna be a match for him as a partner, not a "imma step back behind this male and let him die for me while i flirt with another dude!" then there are some men that only date for the pussy and nothing else, which demeans real men. is that clear enough for ya? i know you had trouble understanding @Wills comment when he said basically the same thing!
I aways carry $100 with me and make sure before the date we agree on the payment process from tip to meal and most of the time i'll pay for myself especially when I know there won't be a second date.
Why does the "Whoever asks someone out has to pay " rule exist like women are known to ask men out too? Men will always have to offer and ask. Women will avoid it like the plague. They would rather not speak to you again than ask you out.
Because it’s another weak mind trick by women to get men to believe women are prizes for doin absolutely nothing. A lot of modern women have the mindset of children. “Gimme gimme gimme”
They made that up and it only exists fr because men used to be the only breadwinners so they had to pay and the women went where the man wanted to go. But now these women literally wanna pick every detail about the date and it’s usually just a chance to get an upscale meal or whatever. Then bounce 🤦🏽♂️
If he invites her out he should pay for everything unless he makes it clear before the date that she covers the tip. You can't ambush your woman after a meal by expecting her to cover the tip. If she volunteers to cover the tip then maybe she'll meet his expectations, but if not take it as a loss and move on. I'm old school so it doesn't matter. Now if you go over to her house and she doesn't offer you something to drink...
😂😂😂. If she won't even give a brother something to drink that's just wrong 😂. This is just basic courtesy 😂. But I am learning everything has changed out here.
I agree with you, but she shouldn't be leaving her wallet home on purpose so she can say she doesn't have it. She's talking as if she would have been on with it if he has asked beforehand, when she clearly would not have
Maybe it was a little tacky for him to ask her to cover tip, but a woman- a person period- should never intentionally leave their wallet to go on a date. That speaks moreso to her tainted character than his. I would kinda think, joka what, but I would have my wallet on me. If the tip was a baseline of 10%, they went to a fairly swanky restaurant with the meal being around $300. To me that tells me that she was already banking on shrugging financial responsibility off on him, and that's ridiculous as hell. If he could afford about a $300 date, he had it. It was likely to just gadge her character- a gadge that she definitely failed.
This is why when you men ask a woman out, until you've vetted her properly and feel she's worthy of a hot meal, take her out for a quick drink at a small coffee shop or bar. Pay for your drink ahead of time and see how she acts. Make sure she can stay out of her phone, ensure she can and will engage you in conversation and make sure she's not using you for a free meal because she *"Deserves it"*
The standard 15 percent tip means a 200.00 meal. These two people are not compatible. It was a test and she failed. Women do not want to go on "coffee" dates. Many women do not want to tip on standard dates. Many women do not want to make any investments in to their dating world. How many examples do men need? I keep reading about a husband shortage. I read that differently, there is a shortage of women find to be considered marriage material. Pookie and RayRay are headed her way. She is a single mother unwilling to make an investment. Many women see men as walking ATMS
You should never leave your wallet alone bc you never know what emergencies may happen. Also she could have still brought her wallet and lied. This woman is dumb all the way around.
9/10 of these chicks have a gofundme or venmo or similar apps linked in their bios. How are they calling people broke, but are struggling and looking for handouts?
Back in my twenties (the '00s) I was friends with this woman who, admittedly, had all the right ASSets :) and said that, when she went to the club, she would not take a purse or wallet, just her ID. When I questioned "Why?" her response was, "I know the ppl at the door, so I'm getting in free. I am *not* buying my own drinks, so why have an extra thing to carry?" I just stared blinkingly. Mind you, we had the same government job, so I knew she was making good money. She just wanted to 'Deebo' and "spend Red's money!" And that was my first real glimpse into the life of a pretty girl playing life on "Recruit" difficulty.
Whoa whoa whoa whoa, she said it was a $30 tip. That means that the bill for their meal was at least $120 if you doing the math and going by the 20% rule. That's a good two weeks of food eating at home (or even more if you're smart about it) and way more than any TWO people should be spending at a restaurant in my opinion. He spent $120 on you, maybe more, and you have the nerve to go blast him, or anyone for that matter, online because you're petty and entitled? F*** up outta here with that nonsense. That's absolutely ridiculous. I personally would never spend that kinda money on a date for no body because I'm saving up and building my empire. I can cook the food we would be going out to eat or we are going to somewhere just as nice but cheaper. That's the kind of date and money I would spend on my girl of multiple years, the love of my life, or my wife. CRAZY!
That's what I'm thinking. How much is that bill to have to pay a $30 tip? I imagine the guy was probably more mad at her ordering expensive food or more food than she can eat.
Real funny thing is if the tip was 30$ , The meal was probably 100-200$. They seem to be forgetting that part. He took her somewhere nice not Mc Donald's... I don't understand the Whole strong and empowered Women Movement, yet they still cant pay their own way, They expect Equal treatment but Don't want equal Responsibility...
@@musicloverkeke3314 Traditional women is a grey area now days... Its not like it was 40 years ago etc.. A real Traditional woman would respect the man and help offer to pay at least on a first date etc... A real traditional Woman, Does not swipe on tender while her man is at work, She does not mess with social media either and minds her own business and takes care of her man and family... They also Don't expect him to waste money on useless nail salon crap either, Things like that.. Find a older lady a grandma like in her 80"s and ask her what a Traditional woman was like back in her days.... You will see a Titanic Difference in Todays women...
@@turboimport95 So you are saying there aren't any traditional women ? I would politely disagree with that broad statement. However, some of the reasonings I have found is that some men say that being a house wife ( traditional woman. ) Is not neccessary or because the times are different as you are now saying. I don't think it's fair to expect a feminine traditional woman when you are not what is expected as well. Some of them what traditional qualities, but with half the Responsibilities that it would take to sustain that type of relationship. These days some men avoid marriage all together. Modern women also don't seem to want marriage or children. Doesn't that seem like a more viable match for them then ? Traditional feminine women still exist. But do men want them ? Or do they want the idea without the Responsibilities that are required. Modern women might be "easier", because they don't or won't require you to do much for them because of feminism. Maybe that is what they really want. Someone with non-traditional standards. No kids, travel and adventure, luxury built together by the couple through mutual finances, no marriage required ?
@@musicloverkeke3314 I never said they were none... I was stating the fact is that a lot of them claim to be traditional women, yet they ain't. They are a few but very rare. Also a real traditional women would never cheat on a man, but now days..... I would say maybe 99% non traditional vs 1% Traditional...out of modern 20 to 30 year old women etc, I am not talking about the old generations that are like 50-60 years old. There is nothing wrong with being a stay at home house wife etc. Lot of guys would be ok with that, The issue is that they stay at home and end up cheating on there husbands, while they are out working. I know 3-4 people personally that are husbands, that have been cheated on by house wives... and My sister is a house wife her self and she cheated on her husband... Claiming to be traditional and actually being traditional is a whole other thing...
Leaving your wallet at home pretty much tells me she's broke herself. That's something I'd do when I was 15 and my dad would take me out to eat and see a film. And she has children? God bless her soul.
Constantly hearing this has turned asking a woman on a date to "provide a free meal to someone while getting nothing in return". Whats the point? Chad and Tyron aren't paying for her food all while getting free box.. just saying.
Thanks for speaking to the good women! We are out here and we hear you, support you, respect you, and are rooting for you (BM). It’s unfortunate that this is a common experience; know that we are not all bad and allow people to show you who they are and move accordingly.
See how you don't get any likes because you're not talking about women? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that's how petty these incels are, yet they have the nerve to be mad, they're being done the same way they do others.
Lolz I never go anywhere I can't afford.. my friend taught me on my birthday, she asked to go to the movies I said no. I never liked to borrow money from anyone, I didn't tell her I didn't have any, she said she is paying for mine since it was my birthday. I agreed. When we got there, she got her free ticket out and told me she will wait for me till I got my ticket. I should have just turned around and went home but I still lived with her. Another time was when I got two tickets to go see our friends she was supposed to get my ticket back but yet again she told me to get mine. Learned my lesson, trust no one to cover for you even if you always cover for them.
This reminds me of a date I was on where Behind me and my partner the woman was telling the guy off because She ordered a $70 meal and He told her BEFORE that date that He could only afford to buy her $30 worth of food because His kid..... That was a Hot mess
@@morethenyousee8351 that has nothing to do with what I was saying. You took it that direction shows what you think every man wants after taking them out.
If the tip is $30, the man spent well over a hundred bucks on a first date. That sounds pretty generous if you ask me. And you should never go on a date without your wallet. What if the guy is a creep and you want to get out of there without “owing” him anything? No purse? You’re stuck.
I would always ask if the had their wallet with ID just in case we got pulled over. I'd have them open and show me allowing me to sneak a peak to see if there was cash and a card. More than I'd like to count "forgot" their wallet in the house and had to go get it. Yet, they had everything else in their purse. whamens out here think they're slick.
I'd be creeped out by that, a person I barely know asking to see inside my purse? If you want her to pay for some of the meal, it's easier to say it up front
@@sugarwaterpurple5280 I have. And the ones I say upfront about it still met up but "conveniently" forgot their card/cash and immediately ghost. And how is it creepy to make sure someone didn't forget their id? You have to have it on you anyways. Especially in a town where the cops are bored out of their minds and constantly pulling people over. Like where I live. It only "creeps you out" because it's making it difficult for you to sponge free stuff out of a man. It takes away your plausible deniability, your excuse of "I forgot my money at home".
@@smithsmith1956 It's cute that you're trying to paint me as one of the leeches you date, but I always have enough money on me to get me out of a bad situation. In fact if I feel like I'm not going to see the guy again I always insisted on paying for my part. My point is, having worked with fraud and law enforcement, it's a red flag that some man is trying to peer into my purse. Just ask me if I have ID. Just because a person shows a wallet doesn't mean they have money to pay.
This is just sad.The tip is usually 15%-20% of the bill. So, how much did that man pay for the meal!?! This is why so many men just want to meet up for coffee or drinks. She is making us all look bad...
What's even sadder is that us men bring it upon ourselves (a little bit) because we teach each other that we are supposed to pay. I was an outcast because I have always said and felt that was unfair.
@@user-kz2yt5ow7r Bruh you have got to chill in the comment section, I get it, you're old-fashioned and that's okay but it's just as okay for others to have their own ways. Just chill😐
Although my husband and I are married and we share all our money now. It wasn't like that when we were dating and I would get excited if I could chip in or even pick up the whole bill! My husband and I have been together for over 12yrs and I still like to surprise him or get the tip. I also tend to tip bigger then he does especially when the service is really good! Plus these days waiters are out here working a lot harder especially lately! 😘 I guess if I was going to try to see it from her perspective I guess I kind of see where she's coming from when she said that he asked her out so she didn't think that meant she had to pay but if it were me I would have still brought my purse with money! Never know what the circumstance is going to be I have had men pay for me and I've also chipped in or put the tip down! It didn't bother me any and it didn't make me think of them any less.
I just think it's less stressful to pay for your own food. That way you don't end up on a video online 😂. I darn near wrestle that check so I can go ahead and pay for my own food. I rarely even go on dates for this reason. You can't win. If you pay, you're too independent. If you don't you're a leech. My nerves are too bad for this ✌️✌️😂😂😂🏃I cook or pay. I'm just trying to eat and have as much peace in my life as possible. Give me the whole check if it's going to stop the drama and we can both go home. I do not like unnecessary stress at all. But concerning the video. She sounds selfish and immature. I would nevahhh go on a date without money to pay my own way!! Never assume somebody's wallet. I don't play those games. Grown people have bills and I don't feel like someone has to spend a bunch of money on a silly date to prove his interest or intentions. I swear some females are just up for the highest bidder. It's embarrassing.
It’s simple. Men aren’t these complex creatures. Be feminine, humble, and cooperative. and CHOOSE PROPERLY. If you choose a proper man he will pay for the date that he asked you on. If you decide to pay the tip then cool. It’s case by case. Some men will say “nah I got that”. Some men will give you points for stepping up and paying the tip. Essentially just be prepared for either way. Finding good men isn’t hard.
$30 tip on a meal for a date? At 18% that is about $160. Men should ask to join you instead of asking women out on a date. The GAME is about to change!
who remembers that episode where daphne exposed that chick for claiming she was engaged but it was a picture of a hand with a ring on it from a website? 😂
What’s wrong with these “women”!? Where are you finding them!? 😂 This is sad, too many games in dating..this is the type that makes it hard for us real women to be in the dating world 😕
I would rather pay for myself the first date then let a man do it because a lot of men always expects something more in return. If we aren’t serious I don’t want him paying for *anything* of mine
Paying the tip is the least you can do as appreciation!…. I paid for a date, ever since- I paid for everything and lended money. That I still didn’t get back, he ain’t feeling me but he likes my pockets I can tell!… but all good- I don’t owe shit!… Imma walk away with a L…. But knowing he never paid me back for money he asked me to borrow for whatever 🤷🏽♀️ shows character
Leaving your wallet at home is irresponsible human behavior. No taking into account the need for money in an emergency, requiring your ID, any of that. But, the rest of the story shows us she's unreliable, untrustworthy, and irresponsible.
This is why you don’t go on Dinner dates unless it’s with your GF/BF or wife/husband. At least that way you can keep the date affordable for both parties. Drinks or coffee is the way to go for a first date so you can sift out the bad ones
Here's how miniature fixed this don't take these women out on dathese women are on dates they're not worth it if they're not giving up they're not wife material do not take them out never offer leave them alone If they can't hold a 2 hour conversation forget it forget it cause the only thing they're after is your money or money free food 💯
Unless we had an understanding prior to going out, the assumption is the invitee pays. But they tell you about assuming lol. I personally wouldn’t have a problem with it or even going 50/50. I never leave without my purse or wallet cause you never know on dates. When I go out, I order as if I’m paying for it. If the venue is expensive, I offer to split the bill and we each pay our gratuities. If the man declines and the date went well, I say next one on me. It’s $30. I pay that for myself going to the movies 🤦🏾♀️
Fellas let me tell you if you have a freeloader or a keeper. I use to take women out and acted like I was about $10 short on the bill. I would ask them to pay the $10 and I would get her back the next time. I got different reactions. 1- The woman would have an attitude and say they didn't bring any money. Then I would look into my pocket to pull out the rest of the money. ( free loader) 2- They would reach into their purse but have an attitude about it or complain. I would give her the money back as soon as we got back to the car but I wouldn't call her again for another outing again.( free loader) 3- They would say no problem pay the remainder of the bill and be pleasant. I would then get to my car and not only give her the $10 back but an extra $10. That woman there is a keeper.
She said she left her purse at home so he wouldn’t get over on her?! How he getting over and he only asked for $30 for the waiter not for him . Then she had the unmitigated gall to have a go fund me after proclaiming to be a owner of 2 businesses. I only see 1 bum in this scenario and it’s not the dude, in my opinion.
If $30 is 20% of the bill, that means it was at least a $150 check. If this check is any indication of their relationship, that means the man is willing to give 100% to the relationship, but the girl isn't willing to give 20%.
Imagine both women go on a date together and they both don't bring their wallet XD Woman 1: So I asked her out on a date and she expected me to pay the bill...BROKE ENERGY! Woman 2: So she asked me out on a date and she expected me to pay the bill...BROKE ENERGY!
Nobody not one woman I know leaves their purse at home what if she just had to jump in a cab or something else came up or down, Like an emergency? this woman would leave her purse at home? wow
If (some) men believe in men's rights in reference to men receiving the same exact treatment to know she is worth it. ( A masculine trait. If you want her to think like a man. ) Then why do they want traditional women. When high earning feminist women will gladly pay 50.50. for the date, and more, because they want to show you they don't need you or your money. Shouldn't these rules only apply to modern women then ? As well as all these tests or all the women made to be in the same boat ? Another question would be why do men say they want women to grow and make money with them professionally to create generation wealth. When they also want a woman who will raise their kids and have a great home/life balance ? Basically a traditional woman. You can't have both. I feel some of what is being said by men is contradictory to what they claim to want. Do you want a woman with high earning career who will match you financially and help pay your bills and dates ? Or do you want a traditional women with a regular job who will do the feminine necessities stay at home and raise your children ? Home making is hard work. You can't have both someone needs to raise your children. If the woman loves her career and is modern why wild she sacrifice her job to have children, or to stay at home and raise them and take care of all the tedious things that you need to not be distracted at work ? Taken care of home, kids, and a man are all a job in itself. Some men say they want a traditional woman however, still want modern women's thoughts or financial stability/buildable incomes to "support" the family. If you say you want traditional "feminine" women then you should in return be a traditional man as well. 100 percent invested in one gender role for both parties separately is much better than 50 percent of both people doing the same roles in order to "one up" or "better" each other as a whole. Both or one ( the woman ) will experience burn out at one point or another. I don't understand the logic that is being portrayed these days. I also don't see the problem with traditional relationships.
None of what you said seems to apply anecdotally to what men seem to want. Men want femininity, cooperation, and agreeability. Money isn't anywhere near the top of the list of relevant attributes required.
@@manuginobilisbaldspot424 I understand that. I am saying then why is a need for all of these tests ? 50.50 or otherwise ? Some of the men want women who are well into financial readiness so they won't " get played" . I watched a video that said that a man tested a female to see if she would pay for his hair cut. He said that why did he have to pay for her nails getting done ? That is 50.50. Reciprocation some men are expecting women to give them the same things that they give the women as well. Isn't that masculine for a woman to do so ? Is that a feminist ideology for the men to want equality from the spouse ? That is not traditional.
This is the main reason why men are not dating anymore. Most women will just use men just for a free meal. I see why it's just Netflix and chill vibes going around now
seeing this reminds me of one word, after years of failed dates. that word is toxic. do not be scared of being single, contrary to society pressures. You DO NOT need to be with someone to be happy, it comes from within, learn to love yourself first.
Btw, I doubt she has ever asked anyone out for a date, nor will she ever do it. Since it will be left to others to do the asking, by proxy the onus will always be on the other person to pay. Very convenient for her
Call it what it IS, ladies. You KNOW what it IS...'ladies'. You're ENTITLED. You think you're special because you EXIST. Uhhm... No!! They're just MOVIES.... that you saw when you were CHILDREN. You can't model your LIFE and expectations around them. You are not a PRINCESS! And WE are not princes. We do not rule kingdoms. We do not have chests of gold in tow. If that is what you're expecting, I sincerely apologise. SOMEBODY hadda tell you.
She lying about leaving her purse. My mom and sister always said they have that get vex money they jamaican. So I know no matter how trifling women always have money to leave a date.
This woman right here should be ashamed and embarrassed of herself because she talked all of her noise about him being cheap and broke, but yet she she got a gofundme though. The last time I checked gofundme pages were for people who were struggling, trying their best to get by, and people who just really needed the money too. She claims she got 2 business and she's well paid so why couldn't she easily pay for her kids trip to Disney next year then. I feel bad for the guy. I love this channel Buddy!! I am praying for and wishing you a speedy recovery too!! Stay Strong!! Stay powerful!!
$30 tip means that the meal was about $150-$300. A real woman shouldn’t purposely leave there money at home. Real women always told me that they don’t depend on any man. She could off at least bring enough money for herself just in case something like this happened
That bill had to be $200 she can't pay 15% I'll gladly pay for everything. If she throat willing and giving up that taco. Black women are making it really hard to date them.
She's clearly not the cooperative type. And I hate that who ever asks pays argument cause women rarely if ever ask anyone out. It's all disingenuous in the end. Broads like this are NO GOOD
If you're intentionally leaving your purse at home, then keep ya a$$ at home.
Facts
I gladly will. But I would more likely take my own self out on a date an pay for everything I want plus deserts an don't have to worry bout if a man gone pay or Dutch. But those are 2 different men. I don't want a roommate as my husband or boyfriend. Period. Roomates don't get no pushy. Split that shit down the middle an find someone else to fuck. Cuz I'm a do me. I rather pay all my bills an do me then come home to a husband roommate. I'm good. Lmao
100%
I don’t leave the house without my purse even when broke as hell. I call shenanigans. This was premeditated to ensure she put everything on the date. Now, I haven’t been dating for a decade and wasn’t aware of this accepted trend. We switch off paying for meals.I’m sorry to the decent guys just trying to find a non moocher. Cheap “get to know you” dates are a must.
exactly, if I had a daughter I would tell her to take her purse just in case, just cause you think it benefits you to leave your wallet at home don't mean you should. I seriously had a issue when she said that because I don't think she get it. at the end of the day people don't have to do anything. her leaving her purse just to purposely not pay was a plain stupid move.
Seriously, I’m going no where without my purse. My whole identity is in it I would feel so naked🤣, either way the girl wack as fuck. It’s sad some woman still think this shit cute.
I didn't watch the video only the subtitle but I have never took a girl on the date and expected her to pay because chances are I asked her on a date
I like how you ladies are thinking
With you, although I will say sometime I don't always have my wallet with me but I do have my phone pay using it. I wonder how long the I forgot my wallet excuse will last. If I was a man, I would happily wait for you to download whatever app you needed.
They always drop the "I own X businesses".
But just because you own a business doesn't mean you own a *successful* or *lucrative* business.
Facts!!!
Out here on OF and selling scentsy. Entrepreneur for sure right?
GET'EM!!!!
Selling on ebay, poshmark etc all separate businesses.. LOL
I own a business means the person sits at home thinking about their ideal business and maybe makes a couple dollars a month.
Collectively us men have to come together and agree not to deal with users and bottom feeders.
If she wants to eat for free, then she should go to her mothers house.
I definitely agree and will do my part. And calling out the simps all 2022
Fr bro
I am a woman and u r right.
Tell them 2 kick rocks🤔
Thats what im saying!
Mom won't tolerate this!!
By "I own two businesses" she probably means she sells both essential oils and ugly leggings
Hahahahahaha! That’s gotta be it-or she’d have money to spare for a tip!!
LOL!!😆
Weave, Eyelashes, and 304 outfits have become the new "businesses" of the 2020s.
She’s counting her Onlyfans as one of them.
He paid the bill which is likely over 100 possible 200+ and gets called broke? But she's complaining about having to pay a 30 dollar tip?
Not bringing your wallet because you don’t want to pay is sad and careless. Just don’t go on the date. Let another woman who will appreciate the person they are with and pay for her part of the date. Plus you should always bring money with you just in case of emergencies or for things in general anyway.
If there’s an emergency she will want him to pay for it too because her excuse will be that it was his idea to go on a date with her.
Bet I go to the bathroom and block you on social media... and irl
@@will1905 smh you are most likely correct on that. And she has kids too. I hope she’s not teaching them this behavior either. I don’t understand why some women strongly believe that the men they attract should worship them for simply existing.
I hope I can find other women who are courteous and have manners to surround myself with.
That's just trifling.
@@tay8263 Because like dave chapell said woman will listen to other woman in what a men wants and they don’t know what the f they talking about.
“I figured you would say that” is now one of my favorite lines ever.
anime worthy one liner XD
I want her to put it on a shirt and I want it in every color 😂
“I knew you’d say that.” - Judge Dredd
@@ghost245353 fax 😂
How is he broke if he is expected to pay around $200? She paid nothing!
And $200 for dinner for two is kinda much... $90 MAX for me. And I'll still pay. Sheeit
He is not broke, they just whining again, you know, because thats what some of them do, they tear you down whenever they can while wearing those wigs and fake eye lashes!!
"Left my purse at home" - thats's fancy way of saying, "I'm a cheapskate". Under all that makeup and fake internet love, these women are the real bums.
Her not paying the gratuity on the 1st date tells me everything I need to know about her (or at least offering). She is trifling..... and sure, you can say I have broke guy energy because I aint rich, I have some wealth but I live on a tight budget... I find it is better to invest in the market than the dating markets...
Now your doing it right! Lol 😆 and asking is different then demanding. NO WOMEN LEAVES WITHOUT A BAG. If anything happens it's her life line. She had her ID, cash, & credit card stashed somewhere on her person. I can 99% guarantee that. Cowdenicus you keep eyeing those red flags. If you don't already, you will find a great women to stand with you.
Stop treating strangers to free meals and entertainment
@@ShaunHensley Strangers? They get vetted long before I spend any money on them.
@@cowdenicus It's your money, waste it however you want bud
Got any good videos I can watch about investing in some markets? I was thinking about doing so a few months ago but put it off.
I know some TH-camrs are actually skillful in what they say and show so I want to learn from the very best when it comes down to investing.
Daphne is like the Dexter to dusty women. She out here collectin' bodies lmao.
facts. im loving it
And they all wonder why men don’t ask women out anymore.
20% of $150 is $30. So you're telling me this man spent $150 on dinner and you can't drop $30. So who's really the broke one?
It’s about class, not broke.
Facts
She the broke one
I don’t understand why we’re broke when we ask them to pay sumn. Don’t they work and still ask us for shit🤦🏽♂️
Then she gon say he asked me out he should pay. Shorty you will never ask anyone out so that doesn’t really equate to a solid argument tbh
BIG FACTS
1. He wasn't wanting to go 50/50 on the bill. He wanted to go 100 on the bill and the $30 tip was probably gratuity. He was still doing her a favor.
2. You can't call someone else broke for refusing to pay for you IN ADDITION to paying for themselves while simultaneously refusing to pay for yourself.
Yeah you fucking can. Stop it.
@@user-kz2yt5ow7r She had broke bitch energy.
@@salaciousBastard true and a different discussion. He lacked class.
@@user-kz2yt5ow7r True, *except,* it's the same discussion. She lacked both class and cash. He's just all she qualified for by her own admission.
@@seventhz777z ok...and why do we know she didn’t bring purse? Because he asked date to put out some cash. Unspoken rule is your date, your bill. If this is a thing, where guys are asking then a discussion should happen to avoid misunderstandings.
This happened to me. She didn’t offer to pay half, the tip and didn’t even at least by me a beer. And during the date she mostly complained about her ex husband and his new Spanish girl. Waste of my time.
but did you ask her out or was it a mutual thing
@@Ebizzill Worse, she asked me out lol
@@Ebizzill doesn’t matter who asked who out, the bare minimum is that you should be able to pay for yourself as a grown adult
@Cosmic & comics I did notice at the time but I finished out the date like a fool. I never talked to her again after that.
@@aphaes1 well damn, that's a problem right there
I’m married 31 years and I ALWAYS pay the tip… I also pay for the entire meal. We don’t share bank accounts but we DEFINITELY share money. That keeps arguments out of our lives. We both work and make good money so it’s nothing to pay a tab or tip when we go out. Now….if y’all choose to order from the $50 side of the menu it’s on and poppin’. Us old school women know how that works…lol.
Trust me; these new school chicks are trifling as hell. To not pay the tip is one thing; to air out the dude is another. Then to be asking for a handout for Disney world explains it all.
@@Jajais4u ong. That's why the chick I'm talking to feels like that dime in a dozen type of woman. I'm definitely gonna slow cook work on getting her frfr cuz these other chicks out here are not LTR potential.
I'm married too and pay for meals or tips sometimes but when I was dating I wasn't paying for meals😆I cooked them!
@Chris The Weedologist but you also getting... ya know. Trust me, we already know who's hittin and who's not.
@Chris The Weedologist i totally understand. These young women are only out for self and what they can squander from a man. I truly feel bad for men. They get used and discarded like trash. But these women are quick to ask where the real men are. Sadly, they used them up and burned them out.
I feel like these females are projecting broke girl energy 😪. I'll never understand why you wouldn't want to take care of the tip if he paid for your meal. I thought it was understood that I pick up the tip if he asked to take me out.
Seriously. It's that simple. I personally would want the bill split for the sake of a first date, but that's just me. If he insists on paying, yeah I'll immediately offer to leave the tip. And leaving a purse or funds of your own home is irresponsible. Be horrible if he "forgot" his wallet too 😬
Guessing she chose the restaurant. Easily a $150 tab if the tip is $30. Also the guy probably figured he was being used for a free meal. Asking for the tip money was a way to determine if it was another date. He got lucky only having to pay for one meal.
@noob eh, in the US depending on how much the bill is, the tip can be from $5 to $50 depending on the percentage you tip the waiter
Assuming she even tips 20% bro. You tryna say a woman like this tips 20 points? Sheeeeeesh
@@lukereyes6266 ain’t nobody dripping 50$ tip for any meal lmao
@@macanthonyonyirimba3096 eh, again, depends on percentage they chose
@@lukereyes6266 if you going to hella expensive restaurant that’s your fault then lmao but still 50$ tip way too much lmao
When he asked her out, and she is offended by being asked to pay the tip, she should have thought about telling him in the beginning that she can not "AFFORD" to go out for dinner. Let him either walk away or offer to pay the tab, tip and all.
If he asked her out her being able to afford it is irrelevant.
@@Supersquishyawesomeness and that's how you end up in situations like these. Have you ever heard of the saying "better safe than sorry"? What dude said above is actually smart. That way the guy knows he has to pay for everything if he goes out with you and avoid any awkward or embarrassing situations.
The fuck?? He should have said he cannot afford a restaurant went to the park. What is the deal with you broke soft z millinial dudes.🧐
@@caos024 the guy asked her out, he should pay. You don’t invite someone to pay a bill 😂 if you can’t afford to throw a party you don’t invite people and ask them to cover the bill on the way out.
@@Supersquishyawesomeness did you read my comments?... I clearly addressed this. 👀
If its one thing I, myself cannot stand when it comes to women, its that most of them are afraid to speak their minds while being in the middle of the date with the guy they're out with, yet will talk the most shit behind closed doors all over social media whenever they're alone again. I've caught 4 women who did this exact shit to me and with this video, it shows I aint the only one whos dealing with this fake shit.
Again, this is why don't like social media and the internet for the most part, because it allows people to bring out and be the worst part of themselves to others, and it allows them to do it in the safety and security of their own homes, without having to look those people in the eye.
Exactly!!! This be my main issue then get mad and get in their feeling when you get on they ass about it
There's even some men that do that shít talking behind one's back as well.
I know a couple of dudes who hate me cuz they know they can't step up to me unless they want to get sent to the ICU.
So they resort to talking their mess yet want someone's help right after. 😂
Meanwhile I'm improving on the daily reaching my goals and creating more. 💪🏿💯
@@kush7138 those are men raised by single mothers. They don’t know how to be upfront like other men cause they spent their lives watching and learning from women. It’s why so many young men today can’t understand or control their emotions.
The first date should be at 2 for $40 type places. Letting her pick an expensive place is basically a simp test that you fail the second you agree to that ish
Not sure if you said that right, did you mean 2 as in 2 people for $40?
@@benwanamaker2107 Yep
I would even go as to say if your girl aint up for simple walk in the part and talk and chill aint got to spend nothing the less money you spend the better then when you see their value spoil them because they have proven they want more then stuff
Thank you for the clarification, and I totally agree.
Facts my man. We don’t need Cheesecake Factory yet, might not even like each other like that. Let’s take it to Applebee’s 😂
She just saw him as a free meal....🙄😌😏Men!!! Please! Leave these broke women alone.😕
Facts on facts on facts!!!!!!
remember when dates was about getting to know the person. now it's all about who's paying for what. most of these women are going on dates so they can get a nice meal for free then ghost the guy the next day. if both people are actually interested in each other then it shouldn't matter about things like that as you're there to get to know the person and not for free meals. I believe on a date both people should expect to pay for their own meal but if the other person offers to pay then fair enough but don't expect it as money isn't what the date is about.
"I own 2 businesses" is the new "I only had 2 beers" 😅
Me personally if I invite a woman on a date I will pay but there’s nothing wrong with a woman offering to at least pay the tips. Her complaining about him saying that on the last minute then why she didn’t say she will leave her purse until the last minute? This is why I rather not go on dinner dates they just want a free meal or talk 💩 about us if we don’t over spend.
How is it she just wants a free meal if you ask her out to dinner. She didn't ask you to take her dinner that would be a free meal. If he asks her out and he wanted her to pay the tip he should have said that from the beginning. what if she genuinely didn't have the money. She didn't ask him out. smh Go dutch and you pay your own bill.
@@SuperTruthful Free meal means, A woman that accepts to go out on a date not because she’s interested in getting to know him but just to eat at a restaurant without paying anything. Men ask a woman out to get to know her and see if it leads to a relationship and some woman will accept just to go out and eat.
@@will1905 Doesn't matter he asked her out and you have no idea what her motives are. what are the man's motives coochie?
@@SuperTruthful I literally just gave you the mens motive in asking a woman out on a date but your mind just took it to sex. You saying it doesn’t matter that a woman tricks a men just to eat says a lot about you.
@@SuperTruthful women now a days, just want a free ride! they scream about equality, but most women cant even get up the consideration to even OFFER to pay or go dutch! wtf you on about?!
also most men, are about how much this woman wants HIM for HIM, not his bank account, he wants to see if she gonna be a match for him as a partner, not a "imma step back behind this male and let him die for me while i flirt with another dude!" then there are some men that only date for the pussy and nothing else, which demeans real men.
is that clear enough for ya? i know you had trouble understanding @Wills comment when he said basically the same thing!
I aways carry $100 with me and make sure before the date we agree on the payment process from tip to meal and most of the time i'll pay for myself especially when I know there won't be a second date.
Why does the "Whoever asks someone out has to pay " rule exist like women are known to ask men out too? Men will always have to offer and ask. Women will avoid it like the plague. They would rather not speak to you again than ask you out.
Because it’s another weak mind trick by women to get men to believe women are prizes for doin absolutely nothing. A lot of modern women have the mindset of children. “Gimme gimme gimme”
They made that up and it only exists fr because men used to be the only breadwinners so they had to pay and the women went where the man wanted to go. But now these women literally wanna pick every detail about the date and it’s usually just a chance to get an upscale meal or whatever. Then bounce 🤦🏽♂️
The vibe she gives me is that she's treating dude like a meal ticket.
Honestly, the $30 is a relatively cheap clue of the bullet he needs to dodge.
I read that…. And had the same reaction. If she’s got 2 businesses, why does she need help funding a trip to Disney? 🤔🤔🤔🧐🧐🧐🧐
If he invites her out he should pay for everything unless he makes it clear before the date that she covers the tip. You can't ambush your woman after a meal by expecting her to cover the tip. If she volunteers to cover the tip then maybe she'll meet his expectations, but if not take it as a loss and move on. I'm old school so it doesn't matter. Now if you go over to her house and she doesn't offer you something to drink...
😂😂😂. If she won't even give a brother something to drink that's just wrong 😂. This is just basic courtesy 😂. But I am learning everything has changed out here.
I agree with you, but she shouldn't be leaving her wallet home on purpose so she can say she doesn't have it. She's talking as if she would have been on with it if he has asked beforehand, when she clearly would not have
This ain't the old school no more...We ain't taking loses for these bitches who want equal rights and think they don't need a man
@@animedebo8183 exactly
Maybe it was a little tacky for him to ask her to cover tip, but a woman- a person period- should never intentionally leave their wallet to go on a date. That speaks moreso to her tainted character than his. I would kinda think, joka what, but I would have my wallet on me. If the tip was a baseline of 10%, they went to a fairly swanky restaurant with the meal being around $300. To me that tells me that she was already banking on shrugging financial responsibility off on him, and that's ridiculous as hell. If he could afford about a $300 date, he had it. It was likely to just gadge her character- a gadge that she definitely failed.
This is why when you men ask a woman out, until you've vetted her properly and feel she's worthy of a hot meal, take her out for a quick drink at a small coffee shop or bar. Pay for your drink ahead of time and see how she acts. Make sure she can stay out of her phone, ensure she can and will engage you in conversation and make sure she's not using you for a free meal because she *"Deserves it"*
That's my playbook. Weeds out the foodie bitches rather quickly.
The standard 15 percent tip means a 200.00 meal.
These two people are not compatible. It was a test and she failed.
Women do not want to go on "coffee" dates. Many women do not want to tip on standard dates.
Many women do not want to make any investments in to their dating world.
How many examples do men need?
I keep reading about a husband shortage. I read that differently, there is a shortage of women find to be considered marriage material.
Pookie and RayRay are headed her way.
She is a single mother unwilling to make an investment.
Many women see men as walking ATMS
Why do they always lie about owning businesses?🤣🤣
You should never leave your wallet alone bc you never know what emergencies may happen. Also she could have still brought her wallet and lied. This woman is dumb all the way around.
9/10 of these chicks have a gofundme or venmo or similar apps linked in their bios. How are they calling people broke, but are struggling and looking for handouts?
Back in my twenties (the '00s) I was friends with this woman who, admittedly, had all the right ASSets :) and said that, when she went to the club, she would not take a purse or wallet, just her ID. When I questioned "Why?" her response was, "I know the ppl at the door, so I'm getting in free. I am *not* buying my own drinks, so why have an extra thing to carry?" I just stared blinkingly. Mind you, we had the same government job, so I knew she was making good money. She just wanted to 'Deebo' and "spend Red's money!"
And that was my first real glimpse into the life of a pretty girl playing life on "Recruit" difficulty.
Whoa whoa whoa whoa, she said it was a $30 tip. That means that the bill for their meal was at least $120 if you doing the math and going by the 20% rule. That's a good two weeks of food eating at home (or even more if you're smart about it) and way more than any TWO people should be spending at a restaurant in my opinion. He spent $120 on you, maybe more, and you have the nerve to go blast him, or anyone for that matter, online because you're petty and entitled? F*** up outta here with that nonsense. That's absolutely ridiculous. I personally would never spend that kinda money on a date for no body because I'm saving up and building my empire. I can cook the food we would be going out to eat or we are going to somewhere just as nice but cheaper. That's the kind of date and money I would spend on my girl of multiple years, the love of my life, or my wife. CRAZY!
That's what I'm thinking. How much is that bill to have to pay a $30 tip? I imagine the guy was probably more mad at her ordering expensive food or more food than she can eat.
He'd been better off taking a hooker to McDonald's drive thru, then sex, total cost about $30
Ay yo, deadass. To me that's absolutely crazy.
On birthdays n anniversary as well.
It’s always interesting to ask how they feel about equality of the sexes before the date
Right they playing the game bruh
I’m a firm believer in everyone paying for there own meal on the first date,
Real funny thing is if the tip was 30$ , The meal was probably 100-200$. They seem to be forgetting that part. He took her somewhere nice not Mc Donald's... I don't understand the Whole strong and empowered Women Movement, yet they still cant pay their own way, They expect Equal treatment but Don't want equal Responsibility...
Is she doesn't want equal treatment is she still required to pay for the date if she is traditional ?
@@musicloverkeke3314 Traditional women is a grey area now days... Its not like it was 40 years ago etc.. A real Traditional woman would respect the man and help offer to pay at least on a first date etc... A real traditional Woman, Does not swipe on tender while her man is at work, She does not mess with social media either and minds her own business and takes care of her man and family... They also Don't expect him to waste money on useless nail salon crap either, Things like that.. Find a older lady a grandma like in her 80"s and ask her what a Traditional woman was like back in her days.... You will see a Titanic Difference in Todays women...
@@turboimport95 So you are saying there aren't any traditional women ?
I would politely disagree with that broad statement. However, some of the reasonings I have found is that some men say that being a house wife ( traditional woman. )
Is not neccessary or because the times are different as you are now saying. I don't think it's fair to expect a feminine traditional woman when you are not what is expected as well.
Some of them what traditional qualities, but with half the Responsibilities that it would take to sustain that type of relationship.
These days some men avoid marriage all together.
Modern women also don't seem to want marriage or children.
Doesn't that seem like a more viable match for them then ?
Traditional feminine women still exist.
But do men want them ?
Or do they want the idea without the Responsibilities that are required.
Modern women might be "easier", because they don't or won't require you to do much for them because of feminism. Maybe that is what they really want.
Someone with non-traditional standards.
No kids, travel and adventure, luxury built together by the couple through mutual finances, no marriage required ?
@@musicloverkeke3314 I never said they were none... I was stating the fact is that a lot of them claim to be traditional women, yet they ain't. They are a few but very rare. Also a real traditional women would never cheat on a man, but now days..... I would say maybe 99% non traditional vs 1% Traditional...out of modern 20 to 30 year old women etc, I am not talking about the old generations that are like 50-60 years old. There is nothing wrong with being a stay at home house wife etc. Lot of guys would be ok with that, The issue is that they stay at home and end up cheating on there husbands, while they are out working. I know 3-4 people personally that are husbands, that have been cheated on by house wives... and My sister is a house wife her self and she cheated on her husband... Claiming to be traditional and actually being traditional is a whole other thing...
He asked you to pay the tip not the bill how is he broke?
Facts!
Leaving your wallet at home pretty much tells me she's broke herself. That's something I'd do when I was 15 and my dad would take me out to eat and see a film. And she has children? God bless her soul.
facts!
Constantly hearing this has turned asking a woman on a date to "provide a free meal to someone while getting nothing in return". Whats the point? Chad and Tyron aren't paying for her food all while getting free box.. just saying.
Thanks for speaking to the good women! We are out here and we hear you, support you, respect you, and are rooting for you (BM). It’s unfortunate that this is a common experience; know that we are not all bad and allow people to show you who they are and move accordingly.
I have a male friend who would always "forget" his wallet when we went out to eat...we don't take him out to eat with us anymore
See how you don't get any likes because you're not talking about women? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that's how petty these incels are, yet they have the nerve to be mad, they're being done the same way they do others.
Lolz I never go anywhere I can't afford.. my friend taught me on my birthday, she asked to go to the movies I said no. I never liked to borrow money from anyone, I didn't tell her I didn't have any, she said she is paying for mine since it was my birthday. I agreed. When we got there, she got her free ticket out and told me she will wait for me till I got my ticket. I should have just turned around and went home but I still lived with her. Another time was when I got two tickets to go see our friends she was supposed to get my ticket back but yet again she told me to get mine. Learned my lesson, trust no one to cover for you even if you always cover for them.
Sorry but when a man pays I'm always like "now I can tip this waiter in a way to make their day!" (If they were good)
I agree with you 💯💯💯💯 yes
This reminds me of a date I was on where Behind me and my partner the woman was telling the guy off because She ordered a $70 meal and He told her BEFORE that date that He could only afford to buy her $30 worth of food because His kid..... That was a Hot mess
Check for two please ✌🏾
@@jermells Bro, That's what me and My partner ended up doing
This is why I have more guy friends then girlfriends. It's hard to find women you can trust. Women can be so stuck up its sad
facts!!! that shit is soooo irritating you add the fact that a lot of em are vain an flakey..it just a hassle i don’t need of want.
Yeah, especially when they won't sleep with you, right after you afforded them the honor of cat-calling them...smh so stuck up right?
@@morethenyousee8351 that has nothing to do with what I was saying. You took it that direction shows what you think every man wants after taking them out.
@@morethenyousee8351 Women enjoy cat calling tho. I mean 70% of social media is women half naked looking for the digital version of cat calling🤔🤔.
If the tip is $30, the man spent well over a hundred bucks on a first date. That sounds pretty generous if you ask me. And you should never go on a date without your wallet. What if the guy is a creep and you want to get out of there without “owing” him anything? No purse? You’re stuck.
That’s the first legit comment I’ve heard.
Glad you’re back! Praying for you ✊🏿❤️
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“ I figured you would say that “ 😏😘
They said broke energy but she can't even tip
Going on dates just to get a free meal... Despicable
I would always ask if the had their wallet with ID just in case we got pulled over. I'd have them open and show me allowing me to sneak a peak to see if there was cash and a card. More than I'd like to count "forgot" their wallet in the house and had to go get it. Yet, they had everything else in their purse. whamens out here think they're slick.
that’s cold game brodie imma burrow that! no cap that shit clever af lowkey.
I'd be creeped out by that, a person I barely know asking to see inside my purse? If you want her to pay for some of the meal, it's easier to say it up front
@@sugarwaterpurple5280 I have. And the ones I say upfront about it still met up but "conveniently" forgot their card/cash and immediately ghost. And how is it creepy to make sure someone didn't forget their id? You have to have it on you anyways. Especially in a town where the cops are bored out of their minds and constantly pulling people over. Like where I live. It only "creeps you out" because it's making it difficult for you to sponge free stuff out of a man. It takes away your plausible deniability, your excuse of "I forgot my money at home".
@@smithsmith1956 It's cute that you're trying to paint me as one of the leeches you date, but I always have enough money on me to get me out of a bad situation. In fact if I feel like I'm not going to see the guy again I always insisted on paying for my part. My point is, having worked with fraud and law enforcement, it's a red flag that some man is trying to peer into my purse. Just ask me if I have ID. Just because a person shows a wallet doesn't mean they have money to pay.
@@sugarwaterpurple5280 Congrats. You're the exception to the rule.
This is just sad.The tip is usually 15%-20% of the bill. So, how much did that man pay for the meal!?! This is why so many men just want to meet up for coffee or drinks. She is making us all look bad...
What's even sadder is that us men bring it upon ourselves (a little bit) because we teach each other that we are supposed to pay. I was an outcast because I have always said and felt that was unfair.
If you can’t pay for a date, don’t fucking ask!
@@user-kz2yt5ow7r Bruh you have got to chill in the comment section, I get it, you're old-fashioned and that's okay but it's just as okay for others to have their own ways. Just chill😐
@@raphhdtv3056 I heard a white republican make that same argument. Clearly everyone has opinions.🤷🏾♂️. Do it the young way!
And IF YOU CANNOT AFFORD THE DATE DONT ASK. Get yourself together, women will fight over you. Ask an old guy with money.😉
Although my husband and I are married and we share all our money now. It wasn't like that when we were dating and I would get excited if I could chip in or even pick up the whole bill! My husband and I have been together for over 12yrs and I still like to surprise him or get the tip. I also tend to tip bigger then he does especially when the service is really good! Plus these days waiters are out here working a lot harder especially lately! 😘 I guess if I was going to try to see it from her perspective I guess I kind of see where she's coming from when she said that he asked her out so she didn't think that meant she had to pay but if it were me I would have still brought my purse with money! Never know what the circumstance is going to be I have had men pay for me and I've also chipped in or put the tip down! It didn't bother me any and it didn't make me think of them any less.
I just think it's less stressful to pay for your own food. That way you don't end up on a video online 😂. I darn near wrestle that check so I can go ahead and pay for my own food. I rarely even go on dates for this reason. You can't win. If you pay, you're too independent. If you don't you're a leech. My nerves are too bad for this ✌️✌️😂😂😂🏃I cook or pay. I'm just trying to eat and have as much peace in my life as possible. Give me the whole check if it's going to stop the drama and we can both go home. I do not like unnecessary stress at all.
But concerning the video. She sounds selfish and immature. I would nevahhh go on a date without money to pay my own way!! Never assume somebody's wallet. I don't play those games. Grown people have bills and I don't feel like someone has to spend a bunch of money on a silly date to prove his interest or intentions. I swear some females are just up for the highest bidder. It's embarrassing.
He paid for the whole meal and gets called a broke ass.
It’s simple. Men aren’t these complex creatures. Be feminine, humble, and cooperative. and CHOOSE PROPERLY. If you choose a proper man he will pay for the date that he asked you on. If you decide to pay the tip then cool. It’s case by case. Some men will say “nah I got that”. Some men will give you points for stepping up and paying the tip. Essentially just be prepared for either way. Finding good men isn’t hard.
its crazy how full of games these women are and i love how Daphne pull up the old receipts
$30 tip on a meal for a date? At 18% that is about $160. Men should ask to join you instead of asking women out on a date. The GAME is about to change!
At this point he might as well use that money to pay someone for some bedroom fun, straight to business.
@@maxdudomite facts!
who remembers that episode where daphne exposed that chick for claiming she was engaged but it was a picture of a hand with a ring on it from a website? 😂
Which one is it? Pls link🙏
@@truthspillaz2 th-cam.com/video/MWnjmynH2cc/w-d-xo.html
What’s wrong with these “women”!? Where are you finding them!? 😂 This is sad, too many games in dating..this is the type that makes it hard for us real women to be in the dating world 😕
I would rather pay for myself the first date then let a man do it because a lot of men always expects something more in return. If we aren’t serious I don’t want him paying for *anything* of mine
Paying the tip is the least you can do as appreciation!…. I paid for a date, ever since- I paid for everything and lended money. That I still didn’t get back, he ain’t feeling me but he likes my pockets I can tell!… but all good- I don’t owe shit!… Imma walk away with a L…. But knowing he never paid me back for money he asked me to borrow for whatever 🤷🏽♀️ shows character
Nah…I’m not going anywhere without cash, phone, or atm card. Too many things can happen outside of your control…whether it’s on dates or not.
Leaving your wallet at home is irresponsible human behavior. No taking into account the need for money in an emergency, requiring your ID, any of that. But, the rest of the story shows us she's unreliable, untrustworthy, and irresponsible.
This is why you don’t go on Dinner dates unless it’s with your GF/BF or wife/husband. At least that way you can keep the date affordable for both parties. Drinks or coffee is the way to go for a first date so you can sift out the bad ones
Here's how miniature fixed this don't take these women out on dathese women are on dates they're not worth it if they're not giving up they're not wife material do not take them out never offer leave them alone If they can't hold a 2 hour conversation forget it forget it cause the only thing they're after is your money or money free food 💯
Unless we had an understanding prior to going out, the assumption is the invitee pays. But they tell you about assuming lol. I personally wouldn’t have a problem with it or even going 50/50. I never leave without my purse or wallet cause you never know on dates. When I go out, I order as if I’m paying for it. If the venue is expensive, I offer to split the bill and we each pay our gratuities. If the man declines and the date went well, I say next one on me. It’s $30. I pay that for myself going to the movies 🤦🏾♀️
That dude spent at least $150 on a meal and the girl can't at least offer to pay the tip? That is so disrespectful.
Fellas let me tell you if you have a freeloader or a keeper.
I use to take women out and acted like I was about $10 short on the bill. I would ask them to pay the $10 and I would get her back the next time.
I got different reactions.
1- The woman would have an attitude and say they didn't bring any money. Then I would look into my pocket to pull out the rest of the money. ( free loader)
2- They would reach into their purse but have an attitude about it or complain. I would give her the money back as soon as we got back to the car but I wouldn't call her again for another outing again.( free loader)
3- They would say no problem pay the remainder of the bill and be pleasant. I would then get to my car and not only give her the $10 back but an extra $10. That woman there is a keeper.
She said she left her purse at home so he wouldn’t get over on her?! How he getting over and he only asked for $30 for the waiter not for him . Then she had the unmitigated gall to have a go fund me after proclaiming to be a owner of 2 businesses. I only see 1 bum in this scenario and it’s not the dude, in my opinion.
If $30 is 20% of the bill, that means it was at least a $150 check.
If this check is any indication of their relationship, that means the man is willing to give 100% to the relationship, but the girl isn't willing to give 20%.
Imagine both women go on a date together and they both don't bring their wallet XD
Woman 1: So I asked her out on a date and she expected me to pay the bill...BROKE ENERGY!
Woman 2: So she asked me out on a date and she expected me to pay the bill...BROKE ENERGY!
😂😂😂 one would have to decide who the man in the relationship is
Nobody not one woman I know leaves their purse at home what if she just had to jump in a cab or something else came up or down, Like an emergency? this woman would leave her purse at home? wow
That is why when you go on a date, you always tell the server separate checks as soon as you sit down. She forgot her wallet? Okay you are staying.
Lol if you take me to dinner, I happily pay the tip. That doesn’t make him broke. What kind of logic.
I love how Daphne put her on blast 🙌🏿💯 this just reinforce why I don't want to go on dates...too many of these women fishing for free meals
She has 2 businesses.....i believe her. Kids can be considered a business. Except they dont make money, they cost money.
Sounds like broke woman energy instead of broke bum energy to me
Daphne Is COLD.... Hahaha.... Don't Mess Wit Daphne, Fuh Real
If (some) men believe in men's rights in reference to men receiving the same exact treatment to know she is worth it.
( A masculine trait. If you want her to think like a man. ) Then why do they want traditional women. When high earning feminist women will gladly pay 50.50. for the date, and more, because they want to show you they don't need you or your money. Shouldn't these rules only apply to modern women then ? As well as all these tests or all the women made to be in the same boat ?
Another question would be why do men say they want women to grow and make money with them professionally to create generation wealth. When they also want a woman who will raise their kids and have a great home/life balance ? Basically a traditional woman.
You can't have both.
I feel some of what is being said by men is contradictory to what they claim to want. Do you want a woman with high earning career who will match you financially and help pay your bills and dates ?
Or do you want a traditional women with a regular job who will do the feminine necessities stay at home and raise your children ?
Home making is hard work. You can't have both someone needs to raise your children. If the woman loves her career and is modern why wild she sacrifice her job to have children, or to stay at home and raise them and take care of all the tedious things that you need to not be distracted at work ?
Taken care of home, kids, and a man are all a job in itself.
Some men say they want a traditional woman however, still want modern women's thoughts or financial stability/buildable incomes to "support" the family.
If you say you want traditional "feminine" women then you should in return be a traditional man as well.
100 percent invested in one gender role for both parties separately is much better than 50 percent of both people doing the same roles in order to "one up" or "better" each other as a whole. Both or one ( the woman ) will experience burn out at one point or another.
I don't understand the logic that is being portrayed these days.
I also don't see the problem with traditional relationships.
None of what you said seems to apply anecdotally to what men seem to want. Men want femininity, cooperation, and agreeability. Money isn't anywhere near the top of the list of relevant attributes required.
@@manuginobilisbaldspot424 I understand that. I am saying then why is a need for all of these tests ? 50.50 or otherwise ?
Some of the men want women who are well into financial readiness so they won't " get played" . I watched a video that said that a man tested a female to see if she would pay for his hair cut. He said that why did he have to pay for her nails getting done ? That is 50.50. Reciprocation some men are expecting women to give them the same things that they give the women as well. Isn't that masculine for a woman to do so ?
Is that a feminist ideology for the men to want equality from the spouse ?
That is not traditional.
This is the main reason why men are not dating anymore. Most women will just use men just for a free meal. I see why it's just Netflix and chill vibes going around now
seeing this reminds me of one word, after years of failed dates. that word is toxic. do not be scared of being single, contrary to society pressures. You DO NOT need to be with someone to be happy, it comes from within, learn to love yourself first.
To all of my good women and good men out there, never feel discouraged just try to be a bit more careful.
Btw, I doubt she has ever asked anyone out for a date, nor will she ever do it. Since it will be left to others to do the asking, by proxy the onus will always be on the other person to pay. Very convenient for her
She claims to be self-made with two businesses. Goofy selling homemade bracelets and candles lol! She aint making no money 🤣🤣
I guess you can say, she couldnt even handle the tip…. 😂
Whenever Celebrid enters the chat you know it’s about to go down.
That " No. Huh? No. " When it zoomed in, killed me with that facial expression lol
I dont know any woman that I've encountered to leave home without a purse or wallet.🤦🏿♂️
Call it what it IS, ladies. You KNOW what it IS...'ladies'.
You're ENTITLED. You think you're special because you EXIST. Uhhm... No!! They're just MOVIES.... that you saw when you were CHILDREN. You can't model your LIFE and expectations around them. You are not a PRINCESS! And WE are not princes. We do not rule kingdoms. We do not have chests of gold in tow. If that is what you're expecting, I sincerely apologise. SOMEBODY hadda tell you.
5:25 💯
7:08 Love how it’s only a shocked reaction to that lol like “Oh she’s trippin” 🤣
Time to make a "If we go out... you're gettin at least the tip!" Shirt 🤣
She lying about leaving her purse. My mom and sister always said they have that get vex money they jamaican. So I know no matter how trifling women always have money to leave a date.
This woman right here should be ashamed and embarrassed of herself because she talked all of her noise about him being cheap and broke, but yet she she got a gofundme though. The last time I checked gofundme pages were for people who were struggling, trying their best to get by, and people who just really needed the money too. She claims she got 2 business and she's well paid so why couldn't she easily pay for her kids trip to Disney next year then. I feel bad for the guy. I love this channel Buddy!! I am praying for and wishing you a speedy recovery too!! Stay Strong!! Stay powerful!!
I bet Daphne never has to pay for dinner. Ps if she pays the tip she’s proving to you that she adds value.
$30 tip means that the meal was about $150-$300. A real woman shouldn’t purposely leave there money at home. Real women always told me that they don’t depend on any man. She could off at least bring enough money for herself just in case something like this happened
That bill had to be $200 she can't pay 15% I'll gladly pay for everything. If she throat willing and giving up that taco. Black women are making it really hard to date them.
Majority of the women I’ve dated offered the tip…. So I in return offer the tip
She's clearly not the cooperative type. And I hate that who ever asks pays argument cause women rarely if ever ask anyone out. It's all disingenuous in the end. Broads like this are NO GOOD