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When and if I do something, anything for a woman it's because I want to, not because I feel like I have to. If a woman ever makes the mistake of thinking anything other than that then she will have to get away from me immediately, and there ain't no coming back from that. 💯
One thing I hate the most is when women like that expecting expensive items and telling the man that’s saving for a house what to do with his money. He dodged a bullet 📍
It's not even just that. Some of these women are jaded and trying to skip the tutorial and main quest. They want a first or second anniversary dinner on the first date, and married/well established gifts asap. Naw, now you don't get the gold chariot, Excaliber, and mythril boob armor at the start. Gotta level up first, get a few Septums first.
The second woman really tried to sweet talk the dude she actually dissed months ago and felt that would make him pay her $600 Kudos for the dude for taking a sarcastic approach to her scheme Like that's beyond evil She definitely did that many times and got away with it
Because women don’t understand that they brainwashed to be slaves aka “ good” consumers . And reason cars like lambarginni , Ferrari cost millions because there are idiots willing to pay .. But why they willingly pay… because to attract women. Women realise that they manipulated by the satanic system and influence men to be bad or whatever.
I spent $600 on my girl for Christmas. She’s held it down for the two years we’ve been together and while I was broke. Giving me money, taking care of us, getting a job to help. Etc. I finally got a job and wanted to spoil her a lil. Cause I didn’t get her anything for Christmas last year. I got her a promise ring, a pair of those UGG slippers, and the rest of her gifts all came from Amazon. She earned all that through her love and loyalty to me and I’m extremely grateful of that. This girl is selfish and blocking her own blessings smh
The greediness and the audacity of these women demanding things for Christmas. I never knew about Daphne. I learned of her from your channels. Thank you for all YOU DO. 🎄
its an immature mindset that i would expect from an emotionally immature person. this girl sounds very juvenile. asking for Christmas presents like how old is she 12.
But why do I feel like that one woman only allowed her ex to keep the kids a few more days because she's got plans or something or she wants something else? I hope and pray that she really is being mature and realizing kids need their father, but I've seen too many women use their kids as pawns so I'm skeptical.
Theres no way i can treat my hubby like this...... im happy with whatever he gets me cause its from him and shows me that he cares and plus i rather help my man reach his goals like a house than spending money on dumb shit! Lol
I’m the same! I get mad if my husband spends too much on me lol! Anyway we just celebrated our 19 wedding anniversary so we must be doing something right 🤷🏻♀️🤣
Ya sound like my fiancé. She be tight if I “overspend” on her but here is the thing ladies of we didn’t love ya and feel ya earned and deserved it…..we wouldn’t do it lol best believe the more ya tell us not to, it makes us want to more
Been married 19 years. Our first couple years, we didn’t do gifts. We got our finances better. This year, I asked to replace my broken lg stylus 6. He took me to the AT&T stores and got me an iPhone. I said I’d wait for a 14, we could order one. He says, “you’re getting one today. It’s the 15.” I was beyond thankful. And I made sure to get him a few things I saw him wanting, too. This first girl is a whole walking 🚩 red flag!!
The first text receipt is no different than the woman in the video telling the man she doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore, the man respecting her stance, and the woman getting mad at him for not fighting for her and the relationship.
That’s crazy! I would never give my man a list for any holiday nor my birthday because having a healthy successful relationship means more to me than any materialistic thing could ever. She doesn’t love her man.
I was thrilled with getting kitchenware and perfume from my hubby. I also prefer flower seeds, or flower starts for my gardening as opposed to expensive roses.
My ex was kinda like this, she moaned and complained at me for not doing anything around her place when I was there... Even though I asked her, "You want me to wash up" her answer was always no, I also asked her when she was doing house cleaning "Would you like some help" her response was no, I have my own way and routine of doing it... Women if a guy asks you something and you say no? We're going to take that answer seriously, none of this bs
I tell my hubby all the time. He's my gift every year because i am grateful for him and all he does. I rather have him than any expensive gift. Im not too crazy about all that stuff anyway
I absolutely love Daphne & have had the pleasure of getting to know her by appearing on her podcast a few times. I wish so much that she got more recognition because she is an incredible woman & it's so awesome how you share her stories the way you do! Lots of love & Merry Christmas to you and yours AOK! XOXOXO!!!❤😊
I was scammed and lost over $1,000; and I’m a bright intelligent person; and the dude played me like fiddle. Still makes my blood boil, that he’s out there scamming others. It was “buying” a dog online and having the pet delivered to my doorstep. Well, it was all a scam; please do your research and don’t be a victim like I was.
That's sad, my lady said this is what she wants to give me when I asked her noting that I don't care for surprises. To wake me up to Some head To make sure she doesn't do anything to make my mind linger from happiness and that she brings me back when I zone out in deep thought. And to go out and have fun with Mama and my sisters at Mom's house and let me be the homebody that I am. Some have it so tuff im truly blessed 🙏🏽
My list this year had 4 books, 2 shirts, a sweatshirt, record player and if they wanted to do something special then spend the money on a donation to St. Jude’s, Shriners, wounded warrior project, or folds of honor.
I told my husband when we started dating to not ever get me any presents for bday or Xmas. I have enough stuff and I didn’t want him using his hard earned cash on something I ultimately don’t need. His love and our sons are the only gifts I need
I hope this dude has an OG in his family that tells him this is HER showing you exactly who and what she is; now is the time to get the hell out of dodge!!! (first guy)
Ain’t no way bro!!! Maaannn I feel for the dudes out there! These women are so damned transactional it’s soooo toxic!!! Then when you say no, they call you a bum, broke, gay or a pedo!! It’s too much! Dude supposed to buy her gifts and stay in his condo in lieu of a house??!!! The c note had me rolling 😂😂. Bros please stop simpin! Glad y’all hung tough!!
I am married & I don’t ask my husband for trivial things! This woman sounds like a toddler like my 6 year old asking for a toy. She telling her bf he doesn’t need a house! How the hell do you support his goals!
"The Sun doesn't give its light to the Moon assuming the Moon is going to owe it one" People, both men and women, if you do something for someone for the expressed focused of obtaining something in return later on, especially for monetary gain, don't do it. Just stay alone and by yourself. That's manipulation plain and simple.
With the exception of 2 women, every woman I've every dealt with has done ish like this. I've started ignoring women and just stacking. I dont phucks with dudes that are always chasing after chicks either. They act too passive aggressive as well, and are always in some type of drama.
In answer to your question, I have never dealt with a woman like the first story. I saw the warning signs from hundreds, if not thousands, of different Reddit stories(thank you, Mr. Redder and Rslash) and from my grandmother’s entitled and narcissistic actions throughout my life that I keep my distance and am happy with my boyfriend/partner/lover.
I read a story of a young man saving money to pay off his grandparents home. So he didn't spend money on going out, buying gifts for girlfriends. He paid off their home. Grandparents were more important to him than those girls. That, is a real man. Why waste money on a fleeting moment.
I hope other hating mothers who are keeping their children from their fathers see this and start doing the same! Shout out to that MOTHER for doing the right thing for her children 👏 🙌 🙏 ❤️ 😊
Starting to question the validity of these text conversations!! With that being said. When are we gonna start hold dudes accountable for repeatedly entertaining these type of women!! Do we not know the definition of insanity!!!!
We do! We call them simps and suckers. We’re here to help show young men see the game. We’re not here to hold people accountable. Accountability is something a person does o their on.
The 1st red flag was the list. An then her self entitled attitude on his money. Guys, be careful out here. Edite: Bros are not simps. Many young men need to learn to walk away and say NO.
I just cant relate to these women. I would never havs the nerve to even ask for a fraction of the things i watch on here. I swear i always end up paying for everything. Give them money. Almost never get anything in return, but i already expect that. These women should be so grateful for some of these men and the things they do for them or try to do for them. Shii if u buy me a value meal from any fast food place, i'd feel special. It makes me happy to give to someone i care about. To the point im starting to struggle myself now and im a single mom that gets no government assistance, no child support, no anything. My family is who supports, not me, but my kids. They step up where their father should.
I've been married to my husband for 16 years, and that one year I seafood dinner as my gift because i wanted to try out a restaurant. And that is what i got. Never asked for three racks for a gift, do you know we can do with that kind of money? And it won't be spent on something trivial like a bag
Just off the first conversation alone further proves why men tend to dump their girlfriends around the holidays, to avoid the bullshit that woman put that man through.
I’m patiently waiting on your video about Simone biles and her husband. I know u got to be working on it. I see nothing wrong with what her husband said. She’s very blessed to have him.
My x used to try and get me my needs as presents when we l were together. For xmas she got me socks and said "i saw u had been needing new socks for a while now." I had to ask her ",you know when u need new socks and its july? Do i make u wait until september to get socks? No we just go buy you socks right when u need them. So why would u do me differently? " why does it have to be a holiday for u to think its ok to spend money on me or hell even me spend money on myself
The audacity 😒 KINGS don't simp for anyone know your worth and find you loving partner who actually wants to build a happy life and not just keep up with foolish social media trends!😮
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When and if I do something, anything for a woman it's because I want to, not because I feel like I have to. If a woman ever makes the mistake of thinking anything other than that then she will have to get away from me immediately, and there ain't no coming back from that. 💯
Christmas 🎄🎁 list lady . 😮😮😮😮 I'm so happy to get a book mark as a gift , I guess I'm old school or humble.....
One thing I hate the most is when women like that expecting expensive items and telling the man that’s saving for a house what to do with his money. He dodged a bullet 📍
It's not even just that. Some of these women are jaded and trying to skip the tutorial and main quest. They want a first or second anniversary dinner on the first date, and married/well established gifts asap. Naw, now you don't get the gold chariot, Excaliber, and mythril boob armor at the start. Gotta level up first, get a few Septums first.
I'm amazed she didn't try to marry him and then steal the house.
The second woman really tried to sweet talk the dude she actually dissed months ago and felt that would make him pay her $600
Kudos for the dude for taking a sarcastic approach to her scheme
Like that's beyond evil
She definitely did that many times and got away with it
Because women don’t understand that they brainwashed to be slaves aka “ good” consumers . And reason cars like lambarginni , Ferrari cost millions because there are idiots willing to pay .. But why they willingly pay… because to attract women. Women realise that they manipulated by the satanic system and influence men to be bad or whatever.
I spent $600 on my girl for Christmas. She’s held it down for the two years we’ve been together and while I was broke. Giving me money, taking care of us, getting a job to help. Etc. I finally got a job and wanted to spoil her a lil. Cause I didn’t get her anything for Christmas last year. I got her a promise ring, a pair of those UGG slippers, and the rest of her gifts all came from Amazon. She earned all that through her love and loyalty to me and I’m extremely grateful of that.
This girl is selfish and blocking her own blessings smh
See... shits earned. Women can be as bad as children for christmas, while we're just hoping for that xmas bonus.
You said it there at the end, condo girl is getting in his (and her own) way of doing better.
The greediness and the audacity of these women demanding things for Christmas. I never knew about Daphne. I learned of her from your channels. Thank you for all YOU DO. 🎄
its an immature mindset that i would expect from an emotionally immature person. this girl sounds very juvenile. asking for Christmas presents like how old is she 12.
How she thinks “hey let me set him back on a house so I can get this Chanel bag” was a reasonable compromise is crazy 😭😭
dollars to doughnuts the condo "was fine" only because of that.
But why do I feel like that one woman only allowed her ex to keep the kids a few more days because she's got plans or something or she wants something else? I hope and pray that she really is being mature and realizing kids need their father, but I've seen too many women use their kids as pawns so I'm skeptical.
that was something that crossed my mind as well but it was kinda verified on instagram that she was being mature about the situation
Yeah there’s always something in the background 😂
I thought the same thing, especially when he said why you never this nice!
Theres no way i can treat my hubby like this...... im happy with whatever he gets me cause its from him and shows me that he cares and plus i rather help my man reach his goals like a house than spending money on dumb shit! Lol
Same but he still don’t listen
I’m the same! I get mad if my husband spends too much on me lol! Anyway we just celebrated our 19 wedding anniversary so we must be doing something right 🤷🏻♀️🤣
They’re not married that’s why she’s treating him this way.
Ya sound like my fiancé. She be tight if I “overspend” on her but here is the thing ladies of we didn’t love ya and feel ya earned and deserved it…..we wouldn’t do it lol best believe the more ya tell us not to, it makes us want to more
My woman the same way
I’m grateful for you connecting your subscribers with Daphne. She’s a wonderful, amazing person.
Been married 19 years. Our first couple years, we didn’t do gifts. We got our finances better. This year, I asked to replace my broken lg stylus 6. He took me to the AT&T stores and got me an iPhone. I said I’d wait for a 14, we could order one. He says, “you’re getting one today. It’s the 15.” I was beyond thankful. And I made sure to get him a few things I saw him wanting, too. This first girl is a whole walking 🚩 red flag!!
The first text receipt is no different than the woman in the video telling the man she doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore, the man respecting her stance, and the woman getting mad at him for not fighting for her and the relationship.
That’s crazy! I would never give my man a list for any holiday nor my birthday because having a healthy successful relationship means more to me than any materialistic thing could ever. She doesn’t love her man.
I was thrilled with getting kitchenware and perfume from my hubby. I also prefer flower seeds, or flower starts for my gardening as opposed to expensive roses.
I love the way you be reading the comments with different voices and inflections!! Like an audiobook narrator!!! 🎯🎯
i do that because thats how i like to hear audio books lol
My ex was kinda like this, she moaned and complained at me for not doing anything around her place when I was there... Even though I asked her, "You want me to wash up" her answer was always no, I also asked her when she was doing house cleaning "Would you like some help" her response was no, I have my own way and routine of doing it... Women if a guy asks you something and you say no? We're going to take that answer seriously, none of this bs
Man I Love the work y'all do and the time put in, thank y'all for helping innocent people in need, God bless you and the queen God is Love
I tell my hubby all the time. He's my gift every year because i am grateful for him and all he does. I rather have him than any expensive gift. Im not too crazy about all that stuff anyway
"If you don't be careful woman, he going to upgrade you as well."
Cold and accurate 4:32
I absolutely love Daphne & have had the pleasure of getting to know her by appearing on her podcast a few times. I wish so much that she got more recognition because she is an incredible woman & it's so awesome how you share her stories the way you do! Lots of love & Merry Christmas to you and yours AOK! XOXOXO!!!❤😊
I was scammed and lost over $1,000; and I’m a bright intelligent person; and the dude played me like fiddle. Still makes my blood boil, that he’s out there scamming others.
It was “buying” a dog online and having the pet delivered to my doorstep.
Well, it was all a scam; please do your research and don’t be a victim like I was.
If she's willing to take from for your future, then you need to leave her in your past.
That's sad, my lady said this is what she wants to give me when I asked her noting that I don't care for surprises.
To wake me up to Some head
To make sure she doesn't do anything to make my mind linger from happiness and that she brings me back when I zone out in deep thought.
And to go out and have fun with Mama and my sisters at Mom's house and let me be the homebody that I am.
Some have it so tuff im truly blessed 🙏🏽
That "Ok" response will trigger a woman. Been through this before
I love the captioning on the bottom of the screen.
The "C" note text response 🤣🤣🤣
😳 3k.... She want him to spend 3k for Xmas.... TF?!?!? I'm sitting here just wanting Armored Core 6 off steam.
8:46 I Was Shocked About This One When I Saw It On IG
5:58- how she know hes not tryna buy a house and get her "the ring"? She stupid! She could have had a good man for a lifetime.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
My list this year had 4 books, 2 shirts, a sweatshirt, record player and if they wanted to do something special then spend the money on a donation to St. Jude’s, Shriners, wounded warrior project, or folds of honor.
It slowly became mental gymnastics! 😫
"You don't have to get me nothing off the Christmas list 😊
I told my husband when we started dating to not ever get me any presents for bday or Xmas. I have enough stuff and I didn’t want him using his hard earned cash on something I ultimately don’t need. His love and our sons are the only gifts I need
Daphne is an amazing person. Everyone should look up to her and try their best to help others when they can as she does.
I hope this dude has an OG in his family that tells him this is HER showing you exactly who and what she is; now is the time to get the hell out of dodge!!! (first guy)
These videos need to be longer they're too good.
Imagine putting up with someone who only uses emojis to punctuate sentences for 11 WHOLE A$$ MONTHS 😂💀
The C Note picture was baller.
The fact that her punctuations are in red says a lot 😂
She purposely forgot to add all the red flags lol
I always get a kick out of this content! @AOK Keep it coming bruh!
The emoji punctuating are red flags in itself
Hubby got me an air fryer for Christmas. I'm so excited to open my gift ❤
This is why I don't give gifts. Folks are too materialistic.
Love the content, man. Keep up the great work! Have a blessed day. 🙏
Ain’t no way bro!!! Maaannn I feel for the dudes out there! These women are so damned transactional it’s soooo toxic!!! Then when you say no, they call you a bum, broke, gay or a pedo!! It’s too much! Dude supposed to buy her gifts and stay in his condo in lieu of a house??!!! The c note had me rolling 😂😂. Bros please stop simpin! Glad y’all hung tough!!
And they say you got a small package lmao
These are the same ladies that will call a man broke when they cant even buy their own wants
Love watching your videos. Thank you, and keep up the great work!
The chick who gave her ex the kids for a few days is up to something don't let that fool you she's probably trying to get away herself
Asking for $1000s of merch for xmas is just disturbing
He will leave her, he will get the house and she will get thirsty for others while his wife he marries will be happy
I am married & I don’t ask my husband for trivial things! This woman sounds like a toddler like my 6 year old asking for a toy. She telling her bf he doesn’t need a house! How the hell do you support his goals!
"The Sun doesn't give its light to the Moon assuming the Moon is going to owe it one"
People, both men and women, if you do something for someone for the expressed focused of obtaining something in return later on, especially for monetary gain, don't do it. Just stay alone and by yourself. That's manipulation plain and simple.
3 women I’ve met had a similar mindset.
Aft r the first, I learned from my mistakes
They hate that shit! Never their fault. Always someone or something else.
With the exception of 2 women, every woman I've every dealt with has done ish like this. I've started ignoring women and just stacking. I dont phucks with dudes that are always chasing after chicks either. They act too passive aggressive as well, and are always in some type of drama.
In answer to your question, I have never dealt with a woman like the first story. I saw the warning signs from hundreds, if not thousands, of different Reddit stories(thank you, Mr. Redder and Rslash) and from my grandmother’s entitled and narcissistic actions throughout my life that I keep my distance and am happy with my boyfriend/partner/lover.
Love me some Daphne...❤❤❤😂😂😂 She is my spirit animal
I love the music note as a response. Its not just any C it's a low C. So he don't have any money to give her.
The fact that he's even having this conversation. I would have been saying well I hope you have a nice life without me.
I read a story of a young man saving money to pay off his grandparents home. So he didn't spend money on going out, buying gifts for girlfriends.
He paid off their home.
Grandparents were more important to him than those girls.
That, is a real man.
Why waste money on a fleeting moment.
I hope other hating mothers who are keeping their children from their fathers see this and start doing the same! Shout out to that MOTHER for doing the right thing for her children 👏 🙌 🙏 ❤️ 😊
Shalom✌️and Agape 💕
The audacity🤣🤣🤣🤣
I have been gifted ,homemade items to Walmart gifts . And i Love every one!!! 😮😮😮
I know sometimes it's the thought that counts but some people don't put no thought in no gifts.
I would have been planning out how to break it off after she said, "You can get me one thing off the list"😮😮
Starting to question the validity of these text conversations!! With that being said. When are we gonna start hold dudes accountable for repeatedly entertaining these type of women!! Do we not know the definition of insanity!!!!
We do! We call them simps and suckers. We’re here to help show young men see the game. We’re not here to hold people accountable. Accountability is something a person does o their on.
She must realize. MONEY DOESN’T GROW ON TREES!!!
I didn't catch the "once a year".
Your good.
The 1st red flag was the list. An then her self entitled attitude on his money. Guys, be careful out here.
Edite: Bros are not simps. Many young men need to learn to walk away and say NO.
I just cant relate to these women. I would never havs the nerve to even ask for a fraction of the things i watch on here. I swear i always end up paying for everything. Give them money. Almost never get anything in return, but i already expect that. These women should be so grateful for some of these men and the things they do for them or try to do for them. Shii if u buy me a value meal from any fast food place, i'd feel special. It makes me happy to give to someone i care about. To the point im starting to struggle myself now and im a single mom that gets no government assistance, no child support, no anything. My family is who supports, not me, but my kids. They step up where their father should.
I’d rather have a house. Let’s do what’s best for both of us.
i do believe she helps people and yes it does cost money but most often its 10 bucks to any number of websites to get someones number and address
Daphne turning into the internet Goldberg with the "Who's Next?" line
Emotional intelligent men...I love it!
Not all heros wear capes. Shout out to the Queen of accountability
it always end up with a nervous breakdown now we're lucky it's on the web
I've been married to my husband for 16 years, and that one year I seafood dinner as my gift because i wanted to try out a restaurant. And that is what i got. Never asked for three racks for a gift, do you know we can do with that kind of money? And it won't be spent on something trivial like a bag
The expensive list and the audacity of this BWitch.
I peep the dirty bird shirt. Respect! Rise Up!!
They have been together 11 months? Sounds like the last guy dumped her last Christmas.😂😂
Just off the first conversation alone further proves why men tend to dump their girlfriends around the holidays, to avoid the bullshit that woman put that man through.
Christmas list? Is this is gf or his daughter? The entitlement is crazy
Don't feed the birds- AYE Q
DAPHNE IS A LEGEND!!! 🎉❤🎉❤
That's was funny with the c note lol 😂
Favorite series
I wouldn't be mad if Daphne exclusively held women accountable. Society already makes sure men are held accountable.
Twenty bucks says that she didn't start cleaning his place until November 😂.
I’m patiently waiting on your video about Simone biles and her husband. I know u got to be working on it. I see nothing wrong with what her husband said. She’s very blessed to have him.
You should just name this show" accountability"
I like it!!
That music note😂😂😂
Let's be real one gift 🎁 is better than none
My x used to try and get me my needs as presents when we l were together. For xmas she got me socks and said "i saw u had been needing new socks for a while now." I had to ask her ",you know when u need new socks and its july? Do i make u wait until september to get socks? No we just go buy you socks right when u need them. So why would u do me differently? " why does it have to be a holiday for u to think its ok to spend money on me or hell even me spend money on myself
The bum called the person she begging for money from, a bum..😅
Daphne is the modern day Equalizer
She gets to listen too C Note 🎼ø.
The audacity 😒 KINGS don't simp for anyone know your worth and find you loving partner who actually wants to build a happy life and not just keep up with foolish social media trends!😮
Men have been like this with me too. Not for long!
AND WE BACK...😂😂😂
AWESOME CO PARENTING ❤❤❤❤
She checked his simp temperature. The thirsty fever is gone.