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  • @kallikat719
    @kallikat719 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2506

    but what if I wished you did watch the entire thing and recount it because I’d rather hear the Swell recap than actually watch the show?

    • @syd5380
      @syd5380 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      I second this

    • @gaerekxenos
      @gaerekxenos 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Then it would start getting into questionable territory as that starts becoming a potential copyright violation as a 'replacement' for the show. Yes, it could still fall under "fair use," but it's in dodgy territory. And given Amanda's stance with media...? I don't think she really appreciates doing that type of thing where she's infringing on other people's works by too much when people can instead choose to support the works
      Give enough information for talking points for critique, but not enough to mostly or completely replace the content - that's more or less how reviews are supposed to work in order to not violate copyright anyway, iirc

    • @Cheesyenchilady
      @Cheesyenchilady 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @ville__still?

    • @benletmepetthatdog4243
      @benletmepetthatdog4243 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      and also not pay for another streaming service oops

    • @carmen2190
      @carmen2190 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      And! Here on México, we dont hace peacok 😅

  • @tthewizard7667
    @tthewizard7667 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +599

    This show must have BAD marketing because this is the first i’m hearing about it. They need to pay you for this video fr.

    • @rennijo
      @rennijo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      It might just be that not enough crazy sh*t happenned. I usually only hear about these kinds of shows if there's huge fights or stuff that comes out about the cast post-show.

    • @RelatableGirl
      @RelatableGirl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@rennijo idk, I'm about five episodes in and a LOT of ridiculous drama and mess has happened lol

    • @rennijo
      @rennijo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@RelatableGirl Like Love is Blind levels, though? It's gotta be a lot to drag me back to Peacock. There's nothing on that service I wanna see.

  • @ViolaVines
    @ViolaVines 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1822

    “ btw can my boyfriend come?” As a fellow bisexual woman who used to use dating apps that phrase gave me flashbacks 😂

    • @lithium2000
      @lithium2000 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ​@ville__ you're not a good troll. stop trying

    • @lithium2000
      @lithium2000 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @ville__ im shaking in my boots :)

    • @momain5483
      @momain5483 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      Reminder to not feed the troll, just report them ;)

    • @lithium2000
      @lithium2000 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @momain5483 Yee. Just having some fun myself kdjdjd

    • @ToplessTopics
      @ToplessTopics 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      yeah, I gave up on dating apps pretty much entirely because of this (:

  • @Unfortunately_Mickey
    @Unfortunately_Mickey 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2545

    Being a girl who likes girls on tinder feels like being cast for this show

    • @bailagringacovers
      @bailagringacovers 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Lmaooo so true

    • @Roblox-jb2vf
      @Roblox-jb2vf 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ville__chill chaos bringer of humiliation and mockery your annoying youtube comments are not gonna make ppl subscribe Colleen isn't even topical anymore

    • @nobodycaresaja
      @nobodycaresaja 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @ville__proof???

    • @nala3055
      @nala3055 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      @@nobodycaresaja it's a bot, it's freaking everywhere

    • @NeoDJDAN
      @NeoDJDAN 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There should be a term for "girl who likes girls"

  • @infamousNfamous
    @infamousNfamous 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +839

    As a lesbian i very much appreciate when bi women call out that "use the woman's pics on the profile then only mention the boyfriend in convo" tactic. Thanks for that.

    • @alyssabrown-carleton6173
      @alyssabrown-carleton6173 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      I feel bad for my gay friend because even on the gay dating apps, she still got those people

  • @whatever9097
    @whatever9097 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +937

    This video has ‘bestie rambling about this new tv show they just watched’ vibes in the best way possible

    • @Chelseabee55
      @Chelseabee55 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      The same vibe as me giving my boyfriend a full breakdown of who the f did I marry while driving to the grocery store, doing the shopping, driving home, and putting everything away

    • @sugasweet435
      @sugasweet435 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, I freaking love it

    • @AmaraJordanMusic
      @AmaraJordanMusic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It reminded me of how I’d tell my mom about my newest tv show or book series, and she’d at least act like she was just eating it up. 😂 We didn’t gossip about people in our lives ever, so it filled a void.
      We had great times. 🤣

    • @ellemarr7234
      @ellemarr7234 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@AmaraJordanMusic That sounds lovely ☺️ my mom is the same. I’m an only child with ADHD and enough curiosity for ten kids. Bless her 😂

    • @90111hhhhhhhqib
      @90111hhhhhhhqib 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! She should do more of these!

  • @neverstoppedme
    @neverstoppedme 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +422

    As a poly person, this show is FASCINATING to me. Closed triads are probably one of the hardest poly dynamics to make work, and for some reason they're the most common for beginners, so I hope this show teaches healthy communication and maybe convinces some people who watch it not to go unicorn hunting.

    • @elizabethnoneofyourbuisnes2806
      @elizabethnoneofyourbuisnes2806 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      Yeah, I was in a closed triad and it had good and bad experiences. It was new to two of us, and the other person did their best to minimize any issues. The biggest issue with a close triad for me was when a break-up happens. I was broken up with because one of the already established couple didn't want to do it anymore, so the other one broke up with me for both of them. It make it clear that they were a team and I was just a side thing that didn't matter as much. I do still have some positive views on polyamory and I would not be against dating more than one person in the future if I was on my own or my partner wanted to try too, just not as a closed triad clearly. It definitely needs to be in a 'we all have separate connections with each other' type of way. I read about unicorn hunting after the break-up in a way to heal and I realized that was a big part in how it was not healthy with the established couple I dated.

    • @squishmcmuffin
      @squishmcmuffin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      yeah it seems like since there is a sex therapist on the show and they're doing the test of "can you stomach your partner being intimate with someone else that DOESN'T involve you" and thats something that I had to learn the hard way about and then do more work essentially because I love being in a polyam relationship. in the end I learned the most common thing is dryads and/or hinge aka V. So I am very hopeful that this show is more educational than sensational because the title alone was a redflag for me XD wish that throuple wasn't the focus.

    • @neverstoppedme
      @neverstoppedme 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      For anyone reading this who wants to try poly dating, and I mean relationships, not just being open for casual encounters, I highly highly encourage what is called "kitchen table poly". It involves forming relationships (platonic friendships, romantic relationships, or even just casual acquaintanceships) with the other people your partners date. When everyone knows everyone, communication and trust come more naturally, and it lessens that "without me" feeling. The overwhelming majority of happy poly people I've ever known, including myself, approach relationships this way.

    • @marlyd
      @marlyd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​​@@neverstoppedmelol I'd advise starting with parallel dating and not adding meeting everyone until you're over the first hurdles of knowing your partner is dating others but to each their own.

    • @neverstoppedme
      @neverstoppedme 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @marlyd Understandable, but I've found that for people newer to poly, jealousy/insecurity and communication are the biggest hurdles, and being able to know your metamour can help with those. But hey, ethical non-monogamy is a big world and different things suit different people.

  • @wendyheatherwood
    @wendyheatherwood 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +222

    Is it bad that I want there to be a second season of this show where none of the couples get a third, but all of the potential thirds just end up forming their own thruples off camera? Just throw the whole concept into chaos.

    • @stancharlinow9873
      @stancharlinow9873 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      I want either that, a third getting together with one member of a couple and breaking up with the other member, or two couples ditching their third and getting into a quad. Like let's get messy!

  • @mayowhishes
    @mayowhishes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1940

    The idea of someone being a "Third" instead of "One of the Three" is driving me CRAZY grah i guess we all have different interests but i long to see polycules being equals

    • @jennifer__e
      @jennifer__e 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +396

      100% cuz the way they treat that third like an Other or more often like a sex toy is so off putting 😭 and then the unicorn hunters wonder why unicorns are hard to find

    • @msjkramey
      @msjkramey 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +174

      I think there's a place for it in some power exchange relationships, but even then, no one wants to feel like an accessory ALL THE TIME

    • @twitchy_bird
      @twitchy_bird 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

      Agree with first reply massively, I could be a unicorn but I hide, because of this weird dynamic lol.

    • @htm5814
      @htm5814 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

      I notice it’s older couples often going after younger women as well.

    • @elizabuga4337
      @elizabuga4337 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

      I’m in a V relationship with myself as the hinge and it’s hard work to make everyone feel seen and loved! I’d feel awful if either of my partners ever felt so… secondary.

  • @lefton4ya
    @lefton4ya 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2633

    They should have called it “Unicorn Hunting” as unicorn is a name given to single people willing to join couples as a thruple, as they are rare.

    • @Ozzymandius1
      @Ozzymandius1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

      I had a friend who found a unicorn for her and her WIFE. They are divorced now. I'm also not her friend anymore because she was so messy that she was pulling by extension.

    • @msjkramey
      @msjkramey 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

      ​@Ozzymandius1 why was wife capitalized?

    • @kneau
      @kneau 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      It's my experience that "unicorn" can be used separate from any thruple scenario, arrangement or proposition. At least I -- well, maybe I need to reflect on this further.

    • @rebelks88
      @rebelks88 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      @@msjkrameyemphasis on it being all women maybe?

    • @Purplesquigglystripe
      @Purplesquigglystripe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

      Specifically, the couple has such unreasonable requirements and expectations for the unicorn, that this hypothetical third person does not exist.

  • @johnhutchinson7343
    @johnhutchinson7343 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +577

    I've been seeing ads for "Couple to Throuple", and I said to myself "I don't want to watch it. I just want someone to tell me about it." And today you posted this video! Awesome.

    • @blurrble5
      @blurrble5 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same lol

    • @XaurianQueen
      @XaurianQueen 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      We just need to pray KennieJD watches it lol she's my go to for weird shows but she mostly sticks to what Netflix has I think

    • @shannonceleste5557
      @shannonceleste5557 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @XaurianQueen a weird thing to comment on a video actively already covering the thing 😑

    • @ThatCrazyBookWyrm
      @ThatCrazyBookWyrm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      ​​@@shannonceleste5557I mean my perfect week is when Amanda (Swell), Kennie, and Amanda (the Jedi) all cover the same thing, the more the merrier!
      Bonus if SadBoyz talk about it at the end of the week 😊

    • @cavernsofdarkness
      @cavernsofdarkness 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@shannonceleste5557 It's because Amanda said she wasn't going to cover the rest of it and this was likely going to be the only video she would make on it. So, for those of us that want to see coverage of the rest, we would have to find it somewhere else.

  • @ChiefBlueScreen
    @ChiefBlueScreen 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +134

    That gong is *HUGE*! He's also hitting the gong with a felt-covered mallet. I think I can explain why everyone says it's loud, but it sounds quiet on the recording.
    The size of a cymbal influences the frequencies that can come out of it. As you get larger, the higher frequencies start to go away, and the lower frequencies come out more. This is compounded by the fact that his mallet is covered in felt, which further dampens the brighter tones. Additionally, the larger a cymbal is, the longer it's able to ring. When an atonal sound rings for longer, it sounds louder than something instantaneous. Those factors combined, that gong is essentially a giant rave subwoofer. If you give that thing a good hit, it will ring for ages with a booming tone. I've only played gongs half that size and it's still otherworldly to stand next to a ringing gong and hear all the tones that come out of it.
    I can only assume that the producers of the show wanted the biggest gong they could find without considering the challenges of mic'ing the instrument, or how loud it would actually be. Idk I've never seen the show, but I either assume that they just took the audio they captured and tried their best to make it audible, or they added a stock gong sound effect because they realized people couldn't hear it on their phones.

  • @jellyfish5611
    @jellyfish5611 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +600

    i truly forgot that peacock is a streaming service so seeing this in my notifs made me think there was a show focusing on peacocks the animals becoming mates

    • @dbagette
      @dbagette 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Oh, these birds really flock together. Why not?

    • @SummerAlleriaWindrunner
      @SummerAlleriaWindrunner 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Did the video title used to have 'Peacock' in it?

    • @danielx555
      @danielx555 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It's like how swans are monogamous but I'm sure there probably are swan couples that are open to becoming a throuple

  • @Ray_Vun
    @Ray_Vun 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +278

    the gay couple sounds like the stereotype of the gay couple that opens a relationship. one wanted to open it, the other didn't but went along because they worried if they didn't it's either result in cheating or a break up, but they very much hate the whole thing and don't like seeing their partner with someone else. and while they might be fine with things like threesomes, anything else touches a nerve. because what i've seen with basically every gay throuple is the original couple ends up splitting up and one of them stays with the 3rd. that's like the biggest "joke" in the gay community about throuples. so it doesn't surprise me at all the gay couple being like that, with one being so put off by the whole thing he's literally pouting and sulking

    • @RelatableGirl
      @RelatableGirl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      That's exactly what happens!!

    • @marlyd
      @marlyd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      That's pretty common in hetero couples too from what I've seen.

    • @UniDocs_Mahapushpa_Cyavana
      @UniDocs_Mahapushpa_Cyavana 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There's that and the stereotype of a relationship where they are basically just best friends who sleep together, so their instinct to want to get their bro laid is stronger than their jealously.

  • @cokes42
    @cokes42 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +407

    The lighting is pretty dope actually. A relaxing type vibe

  • @SamFokker
    @SamFokker 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +206

    Other interviews have said that a lot of them didn't actually know what they were signing up for aside from being "open minded." Johnathan mentioned it in a Spotify podcast I believe

  • @Resonance1919
    @Resonance1919 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +419

    I was someone who believed with 100% total conviction that I was happy in my relationship with my partner and we both agreed we wanted to open it up.
    Which is how I learned I wasn't actually happy in my relationship I just really didn't know what I needed lmao

    • @SquirellsRJustUmamiMagpies
      @SquirellsRJustUmamiMagpies 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@ville__ proof of whatever you are trying to insinuate or stop trolling it's obnoxious af

    • @ames-inthe-grass
      @ames-inthe-grass 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      @@SquirellsRJustUmamiMagpiesi think it’s a bot

    • @meifennellysieu7510
      @meifennellysieu7510 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      @@SquirellsRJustUmamiMagpies All this individual's presence indicates is that a channel has enough popularity to rage-bait on. Don't engage.

    • @UniDocs_Mahapushpa_Cyavana
      @UniDocs_Mahapushpa_Cyavana 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So... it was good, because you learned you needed to be out of a relationship you did not want?

  • @insomniacg
    @insomniacg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    Anyone who isn't familiar with poly and doesn't understand the dynamics of the relationships they're pursuing should probably google the phrase "So, somebody called you a Unicorn Hunter?"
    As a poly person I wanted to watch this because I do love seeing unicorn hunters suffer but unfortunately my experience makes it way too easy to see all the red flags that the "third" (god that language is dehumanising) is going to be treated like a disposable accessory

  • @kcsb91
    @kcsb91 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +257

    Hadn't heard of this show but now I am interested to see if they portray things in a healthy way or in a unicorn hunter kind of way. Its really rare to see healthy poly stuff portrayed in any media that isn't directly created by someone in the community. But it sounds like they did the best you could expect from a reality TV show.

    • @kcsb91
      @kcsb91 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @ville__ Cool story bro why are you yelling that at me?

  • @princessbablaschmabladingd7451
    @princessbablaschmabladingd7451 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    I actually watched this entire show and found the whole thing riveting. Some of the couples/throuple get SUPER dysfunctional - it was fascinating. Denyse, Wilder, and Cory had the best relationship in my opinion - to the point that they were comfortable enough to leave the show and (according to the finale) are still dating in real life. It was really cool to watch their dynamic grow!

  • @Dantalliumsolarium
    @Dantalliumsolarium 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +285

    Okay first impressions but wilder helping Corie talk to pretty woman is the Cutest Thing

    • @SamFokker
      @SamFokker 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Loved watching her confidence grow as the show went on :,)

  • @RybatGrimes
    @RybatGrimes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    The way they constantly “other” the “third” just seems so weird to me. Like I get it’s a dating show and they CAN swap, but the separate picture, and the language they use like calling them the “third” is just odd. It’s not a couple against the single, it should be all 3 of them together as equals.

    • @marlyd
      @marlyd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Even within the poly community this seems a huge pitfall so no surprise a dating show falls into that dynamic too. Also not a fan at all.

  • @Ghostteethz
    @Ghostteethz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I wish there was a show like this but everyone is single and they try to form a polycule instead of unicorn hunting couples trying to find a third 😬

  • @botboifm
    @botboifm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    I watched the show as the episodes were uploaded and ohhh man, it kept me at the edge of my seat. Definitely worth watching to the end, they even give a "one year later" update for all the couples and the singles that ended up with them beyond the show!

  • @yoogrldude
    @yoogrldude 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    I would love to see more about this show from you tbh, I really have been craving bi rep on dating shows and I loooove seeing a fellow bi girl break down a show with bi contestants

  • @Tink00
    @Tink00 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    My monogamous friends made me (a poly person in a throuple) watch this show with them, and I went on rants like every 3 minutes about how objectifying and cruel this show is lol

    • @invaderliz
      @invaderliz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Doing the lord’s work.

  • @miadaly7265
    @miadaly7265 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    the interest in being in throuples recently is so interesting to me. I was in a throuple for a bit and it's a lot of work and, like a lot of people's throuples, it imploded. but I've also known people where it makes so much sense they're all together!! just really interesting.

    • @twobabka
      @twobabka 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      my take is they need to develop naturally an these couples, who were originally pairs and one of them wanted a third, will not usually end up happy. but if everyone going IN wants that then it can work

    • @Docypher
      @Docypher 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      There’s such an imbalance in threes I feel. Unless it develops as all three together, one person is sure to feel left out.

  • @TulipsToKiss
    @TulipsToKiss 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    begging for a part 2 bc I don't have the mental bandwidth to watch this whole thing but desperately want to hear about what goes on 👀

    • @sleepy.timaeus.arts.
      @sleepy.timaeus.arts. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      same 😭i need someone to break down the show pls

  • @msjkramey
    @msjkramey 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    When I was 18 or 19, I went on a date with a couple, with my FWB as backup in case it turned weird. I had just gotten out of a 4.5 year relationship so I went a little wild lol. But it didn't go anywhere. The vibes were just off. I didn't know the term "unicorn hunting" at the time, but I definitely felt that exact same sentiment

  • @rhiannajd4412
    @rhiannajd4412 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    This whole show gives me, “Hey, we saw you from across the bar and like your vibe.”

  • @i0315
    @i0315 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    Honestly loved the vibes of the lighting.

    • @ILoveLamp_1995
      @ILoveLamp_1995 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What even is this comment?

  • @Godzillagirl12
    @Godzillagirl12 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    24:50 I love how you just reference this niche gay meme without showing it and the perpetually online (me 🙋🏿‍♀️) immediately know what picture youre talking about 😭😭

    • @moeezS
      @moeezS 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I've seen that as the big dom mommy meme, didn't even know the original source!

  • @Brownie991
    @Brownie991 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I appreciate that you watched this without judging the idea of throuples. I like that the show is focused on the communication and emotional aspect because that is so important if you ever want to add a third in an ethical and equal way.

    • @nenmaster5218
      @nenmaster5218 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ethic is a f-ing lie though. Dont even try to reply to this, im just speakig the turth you choose to overlook
      It should be judged, you just dont realize why its the least mature possible,
      to the point where its called 'Perverse and Pathetic' by even far-left Progressives like me, who pride themselves into Inclusivenss and Openness and have marched with every Ralley. Sorry you got decived so hard; and i hope not only that you lose yourr trust in this ""failure-version of Monogamy"" that sells itself by pretending councaiton is making it great, even thjough that doesnt work with incet, hm, what a mystery

  • @IdkFoxii
    @IdkFoxii 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I’m Rae’s hair stylist from the ultimatum szn 1 so proud of hers. I was doing her hair a year or two before she got casted.

  • @Reverse_Cat_Cowgirl
    @Reverse_Cat_Cowgirl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Something about the throuple who snuggled the first night warmed my heart lol ♡

  • @fizzplease6742
    @fizzplease6742 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    ngl the lighting on this video makes you look great I think. Or maybe it's the sweater! Either way, it ended up nice. Now onto learning about this show...

  • @dictionarygoat9156
    @dictionarygoat9156 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I watched this whole show and it just becomes the Rehman, Ashmal and Johnathon drama show by the end, they get SO much screentime and they're all so clearly bad for each other

  • @rae_naissance
    @rae_naissance 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    My partner and I low-key started this show expecting to hate-watch it but something about it was actually really intriguing? I liked the sexologist - the workshops were actually not bad relationship therapy that I think all relationships could benefit from. The drama was great. I’ve been looking for meta-content about this show so I was so happy to watch this and get more opinions about it! No one is talking about it and I don’t understand why!

  • @carolinaazevedo2088
    @carolinaazevedo2088 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    Being in an open relationship that is my most successful and long lasting relationship I've ever had ( the others were monogamous and closed) I am so interested in this show now. i wish I heard of it before.

    • @mynotificationsareoff.400
      @mynotificationsareoff.400 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Same. Our relationship was closed the first few years and i was always riddled with jealousy. Then we had a bunch of very long talks and turns out my biggest issue was secrets being kept from me like i was a parental figure, not a partner. Now we just do whatever and as long as I’m informed, I’m happy.

  • @belovedwinter
    @belovedwinter 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    This is my favourite reality show experience - watching someone else be excited about it and tell us all about it, lol
    Hella hope you do another episode on this!!

  • @SocarellaDeToussaint
    @SocarellaDeToussaint 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    Could you review the Love Island of Doctor Moreau? One of my fav moments is a woman revealing she is actually part spider and using her venom to liquefy the internal organs of her love interest while Fab Fit Fun sponsors the scene.

    • @msjkramey
      @msjkramey 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      What in the world? Where can I find that?

    • @greenspark101
      @greenspark101 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Wth 😂 we’re def going to need some more recommendations from your playlist that’s great

    • @ciaociara
      @ciaociara 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      oh thank you for the recommendation

    • @CerealXperimentsLain
      @CerealXperimentsLain 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Googled it and didn't find it. More info pls?

    • @CerealXperimentsLain
      @CerealXperimentsLain 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @ville__ don’t you ever get tired of this ? Ive seen you in multiple comment sections spewing nonsense. Get a liiiifeeee

  • @starboardia
    @starboardia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I do not watch any dating shows but if I was ever going to, this is the one I would watch I think

  • @patriciaw636
    @patriciaw636 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Gotta be honest Raymond is relatable, when I'm distressed and triggered like that from insecurity or other things, I shut DOWN. I tell myself to speak but theres just so much spiraling in my brain that none of it can escape

  • @elitettelbach4247
    @elitettelbach4247 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I heard about this show a few weeks ago and was intrigued by the concept, but then completely forgot about it already whoops. I'm glad you're enjoying it though! I might wait until the whole season is out and then go back and binge.

  • @shanliekpop
    @shanliekpop 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    As someone more on the a-sexual side, this show also fascinates me. The mental gymnastics of juggling more than 1 partner seems even more chaotic and anxiety filed than navigating 1 lol.
    Like the idea of possibly ruining the relationship or starting conflict because me and partner A have consented to kissing but I didn't get consent from partner B to not include them, so that makes them feel left out is so extra.
    I kinda get how ppl who just don't want commitment can float around with multiple partner's separate. But trying to manage 2 or more people equally as ONE unit would feel like I'm babying or mothering one of them and always asking "are you ok with this?" "How r u feeling about me & x?"

  • @boomoperator90
    @boomoperator90 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I think something unlocked in Swell when she watched this 😂

  • @amandaredd3057
    @amandaredd3057 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I was just reminded of the Golden Girls eepisode where Rose's old bf visits and she asks the girls "Is it possible to love two men at the same time?" Then Blanche responds "Set the scene. Have we been drinking?" 😂❤

  • @MrBaskins2010
    @MrBaskins2010 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    this natural light makes the videos look much better

  • @alineo4615
    @alineo4615 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    My brother is in this show but you didn’t get to his episode so wild to see you talking about it

  • @neivilde.1242
    @neivilde.1242 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    finally someone talking about this! i loved that show. i loved this show. my faves had to be corey wilder and denyse, they just had the best communication. i can't really talk about stuff i liked though cuz it's all spoilers lmao, but yeah, super fun.
    i thought tho that it was a bit limiting, because most couples were a straight guy and a bi girl, so all the singles they could choose were girls, so the guy singles there just didn't have much opportunities. like i kept feeling bad for the singles because apart from the few that get picked by the couples, most of them never have screen time or even talk, it's like after the first stay or swap, they barely have a chance. i liked all the couples though, they were all great, but if the show gets more seasons, hopefully they will go more diverse with the couples, like who they are attracted to.

    • @jennifer__e
      @jennifer__e 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      i wish there was even one wlw couple (or bisexual couple) cuz yh there was an imbalance (to be expected) to the point of the male singles being virtually nonexistent

    • @neivilde.1242
      @neivilde.1242 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@jennifer__e exactly, like later we get a nb couple who are into both, but they aren't there long enough to explore that much and go with ppl we've been seeing already

  • @minikawildflower
    @minikawildflower 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I love the lighting this feels like a TV expose

  • @WolfoftheDM
    @WolfoftheDM 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    THANK YOU SO MUCH I was dying for you to cover shows like this again!

  • @spiderside3892
    @spiderside3892 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    saw the title and thought this was a show about peacocks dating. very disappointed

    • @msjkramey
      @msjkramey 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Ha, that didn't even occur to me, but I'd watch a little nature documentary of that

  • @TheEighthAct
    @TheEighthAct 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was so interesting. I’d love a part 2.

  • @spokeinlilac
    @spokeinlilac 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Aw, I would love for you to update us if possible. If not I totally get it! But I can't afford multiple streaming services anyway so they wouldn't lose a watcher haha

  • @lizamar356
    @lizamar356 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    As netfilx reality show girl, I fully think this is the same resort they filmed prefect match. Like I might be wrong but they look strikingly similar.

    • @lavenderhobbits
      @lavenderhobbits 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i was thinking the same thing!!!

  • @aderz8284
    @aderz8284 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I dont want to watch the show but I would love for Amanda to do a part 2 and review the rest of it

    • @justjoannak
      @justjoannak 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ugh, same

  • @kaylakoala5054
    @kaylakoala5054 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I watched this a few weeks back and ive been so desperate to hear someone talk about this and discuss this with people. I'm so over Love is Blind. This is the kind of concept and kind of mess that I enjoy. I want this to get a second season and hopefully improve because there were some discussions about "transparency" that i felt was lacking. Granted it could be how production edited the show but i felt there was never clear conversations with any of the thirds about desires to speak to other people. There was so little check in with thirds in that regard. I would like the show to feature more of that open honest communications that polyamory should be about. Thats why Cory Wilder and Denyse's segments were so good because they're so communicative.

  • @jvever4904
    @jvever4904 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This show looks interesting, but only because Swell talks about it in such a fun way.

  • @OneImmortalStudios
    @OneImmortalStudios 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I am never going to watch this kind of show, but watching you talk about it is so entertaining

  • @dandy10195
    @dandy10195 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    this show seems really cruel to the "thirds", those people are just an accessory for the couple,

  • @dusky6484
    @dusky6484 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    poly is an interesting relationship dynamic and it can work really well, it's just important that people get into these relationships for the right reasons (same w/ monogamy).
    this would be a fascinating show to watch

  • @Matty002
    @Matty002 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    im a poly person and got 15 min into the first episode and couldnt watch more. i also went through every line of the intro's and none of the couples are even close to being able to handle another person in the relationship. i only heard about the show from other poly people and nobody seems to care for it, unsurprisingly

  • @thelightson
    @thelightson 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    This show hasn’t been recommended, per se, but anytime I finish an ep of like summer house or something, peacock is determined to autoplay ep 1 of this show

  • @megan1026
    @megan1026 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    i enjoyed this show as something difft but i do think the power dynamic was unfair to the singles, coming in to an established couple. i'm not poly but from what i know there are so many different ways to go about it aside from a throuple, and many of the contestants seemed to want threesomes or just date one person in the couple

  • @k-rynngurl
    @k-rynngurl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I would watch more videos on this show!

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Im sick of misguided progressives pretending polyamory is valid and respectable and not so f-ing problematic its rare af. Like many in even this commentsection do

  • @mbuffalo111
    @mbuffalo111 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I really like this concept because ive always loved being a third in things. While it didnt end up working out because of communication issues i definitely enjoyed my years in a closed thruple lol not so much in my few months with an open thruple where one person just assumed if i was joning it was just going to be open season. Boundaries are important and communication especially so with three people relationships!

  • @elizabethnoneofyourbuisnes2806
    @elizabethnoneofyourbuisnes2806 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I think having them interact in a way where two people are getting close and they other person sees makes sense in a way. If you do poly (especially in a closed triad) where you know the other partner or are around them you might see them kiss/be close with the other person. Some people realize it makes them feel jealous and they have to figure out if that is something they can work through our not. It's okay to be poly or mono as long as whatever you are doing makes you happy and everyone is consenting.

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "It's okay to be poly or mono as long as whatever you are doing makes you happy and everyone is consenting"
      Yes, thats a lie. A really blatant, obvious lie. They have to make it sound grounded and have you avoid thinking if any of this makes sense. But beause polyamory/monogamy are not 'matters of tastee', this all falls apart,
      even before anyone mentions: HEY, SINCE WHEN IS CONSENT MAGICCC? I thought that doesnt work like that
      and INCEST sets a PRECEDENCE where Consent in fact DOESNT HELP.
      So isnt the claim "Everyone can do whatever the s-it they want as long
      as everyone is cosenting" absolutely arsenine and fundamntally isunderstands to a sickening degree what consent even issss?
      Why is Incest bad and polyamory good anyway,
      even if we ignore how f-ing similar the things are AND how painfully similar the idmwits like elizbaethnoneofoyurbuisness
      and her non-arguments and errors are??
      Hope you liked this 'getting sense talked into you' - bought to you by
      Progressive like me; by a guy who prides hiself in his inclusivness and prorgessivisness an all that, is baaaaad?

    • @nenmaster5218
      @nenmaster5218 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you drunk on inclusivnessness juice? Your comment is absolutely ridiculous. It takes reality not into account at all and you seem utterly influenced by the internet. Is all you know about how consent works, an understanding easily debunnked by loturzel, all you got? My god, welcome to the internet by bo burnham is a song literally about you, isnt it? Kids who learne how to be inclusivenss and uturistic for the internet. Babble nonsense so easy to refute. AA Leftist makig leftists gag

  • @BasilGab
    @BasilGab 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I watched this show a few weeks ago. I really love the premise, I'd love to see you do the rest of the series as well. The rest of the season goes crazy

  • @elenakalliste
    @elenakalliste 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I literally watched this show because I saw your video title and I was intrigued…please review the rest of it 🙏

  • @jennav2759
    @jennav2759 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    how did you know what I’ve been binge watching the past few days? Amazing timing 😂

  • @pigeontime751
    @pigeontime751 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’d be open to a show like that. I’m asexual (and questioning aromantic) and I want to be in a relationship, but I’ve never been in a relationship before. I think that would kinda be an easier way to ease into dating as long as the relationship is healthy

  • @neilan___222
    @neilan___222 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I actually really like the little mic in the corner, looks cool

  • @muttshouse
    @muttshouse 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I totally would love to watch this show, but I'm not paying for another streaming service. Thanks for all the recap and tea.

  • @SaoirseWaddingHayes
    @SaoirseWaddingHayes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You've successfully influenced me. I'm gonna watch it.

  • @marveludus
    @marveludus 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    just based on the premise this is like the only dating show i would actually join myself, which is… really fun? i might watch this one, did not expect that

  • @myocoree
    @myocoree 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i liked this show at first but had to stop watching because i actually don’t think any of these couples were looking for a third but someone for a threesome, also it’s so annoying they were limited to one other person when that was clearly there for the drama

  • @chrissyo.5522
    @chrissyo.5522 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I watched/binged this whole train wreck while cat sitting. Just wow hahsh. Can't wait to hear your take 😂

  • @sushimew
    @sushimew 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    PLEASEEEEE do more videos on this series.
    its so interesting but i think i'd get so mad watching LOL

  • @marigoldkraken5218
    @marigoldkraken5218 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ooooh please do the rest as well!

  • @FIRING_BLIND
    @FIRING_BLIND 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Not even sure I can watch this rn. I got broken up with by both my partners the day after our half anniversaey last month. It was AWFUL. Theyd been together for ten years, so I knew if either of them wanted this to end, theyd be staying together. But....only one of them really caused the breakup, and its made grieving both relationships very different and very difficult

    • @schoo9256
      @schoo9256 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am so sorry this happened to you. It sounds like you got unicorn hunted 😢

  • @LunaWitcherArt
    @LunaWitcherArt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Girl I missed your reality show reviews, these videos are so fun!

  • @Fauxglove
    @Fauxglove 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    8:24 maybe im crazy but this staircase/room setup reminded me so much of the Perfect Match set

  • @sansequanimity5998
    @sansequanimity5998 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I normally don't watch stuff like this, but you've got me intrigued 😅 I think I might actually watch it.

  • @Sicara91
    @Sicara91 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I know a lot of people who opened up their relationship in order to try and fix things (I was one of them too) and no it doesn't go well. At most it is a stepping stone to breaking up on good terms, which is what happened with a friend of mine.

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope you never do polyamory or open-relationships again. They are rare for a reason

  • @mammajamma4397
    @mammajamma4397 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Polyamory is so interesting to me, mostly because I can't stand humans enough to pick even one to be around and the idea of having to deal with multiples to be in a relationship with gives me hives.

  • @purpleheart3431
    @purpleheart3431 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is such an interesting show! I’ve seen polycules go incredibly wrong because of bad communication (and also the couple being unhappy in their relationship and hoping a third fixes it). I’m relieved that most of these couples and thirds have good communication!

    • @slevinchannel7589
      @slevinchannel7589 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As a civilized person, polyamory outrigth disgusts me. You meanwhile are a student of the school-of-thought of 'Inclusivness should be random, blind and random' so you ignore reality and say 'Polyamory needs more Representation'. No, it doesnt. Its not a Minortygroup or such. If anything, it's closest to relationship-abnormalitys like Incest. Lots of simliarties to that, actually
      Inclusion-gone-Wrong

    • @IAARPOTI
      @IAARPOTI 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@slevinchannel7589 So you are poly phobic

    • @slevinchannel7589
      @slevinchannel7589 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@IAARPOTI Haha, no, just a normal person. Interesting that you think in boxes like this.
      See, im litrally as progressive and openmidned as one can e, which already by-itself hints on the 'one singular thing i am not inclusive towards' having something maaaybe wrong with it,
      but even if we ignore the very obvious meaning behind me supporting whoeleartedly every single Minoritygroup in all of Existence but for sommmee reason not Polyamory and think its a primitive thing humanity ought to overcome,
      theres still more here, obviously.
      More elefants in the room worth spelling out, more sillyness of your comment to dissect, but none of it is for us here to actually go through. Someone who reads my comment and makes up the word Polyphobic,
      has a very biased mind and why would i interact with that?
      Let the silly person figure out why life-long Progressives who are not prude at all or closeminded at all will say things like my exit-line now:
      If Polyamory is Valid, Incest has to be re-visited/re-evaluated IMMEDIETLY.
      That line speaks for itself, but as i block you i feel like i should give you the tiniest bit of explanation as you apparently dont grasp this yourself and talk almoooost; haha; as if polyamorists were some sorta Minortygroup.
      Polyamory and Incest, They are so similar even if we ignore the maturity-level of the average supporter of them, it must mean something. They are quite simliar anyway and are Relationship-Abnormlities. People who defend this perversion also ltieraaally have to pretend Consent fixed all which funny enough literally lopps-right-back to me saying 'Ok, what about In-cest?. That s-it was never ever fully fixed just by adding Consent, duhhhh' and that sends most Polyamory-Apologists wailing

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fyi, thats one hella insult to actual minoritys and their very real pain and struggle if you have polyrmoaists or furries cosplay as minorities deserving of love and support. Im transgender and insulted by this. Furrys also pretend they are a sexuality and Born_this_way if you didnt know and it's just a sign of the stupidifcation of society. Stop being part of the problem, Dont do this toxic inclusivness you apparently fancy and go watch the worldfamous song called welcome to the internet, bo burnham
      @IAARPOTI

  • @creedoflies
    @creedoflies 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for making this video, my wife and I ended up watching the whole thing together. Theres a part at the end where they do a "where are they now" text blob in case anyone is wondering. The show is a rollercoaster at the end.

    • @nenmaster5218
      @nenmaster5218 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tldr: Communication doenst fix incest roances but the knowledgesource ridiuculed in burnhams worldfamous song about the innternet says polyamory does so lets all do poly
      @@creedoflies

    • @slevinchannel7589
      @slevinchannel7589 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I probably should stay out and just tell people like you the basics,
      like that inclusivness and respect is super important BUT can turn sour or dark or twisted; so dont be 'openminded and inclusive' concerning Incest or Polyamory!
      Well, i call it Basics but we live in such chaotic times that none i said is agreed on by All. Harem-Anime are the dream of many, Polyamory-Acceptance is growing and i shit you not, the following is an actual Quote:
      What's wrong with Ince$t? If they all really, really love each other, what could possibly be wrong with it?

    • @francob3155
      @francob3155 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Youre not inclusive. Sorry. I know you wanna be and thats admirable but your doing it wrong. So wrong you literaly invite comparisons to incest and alike. The cutified version you believe in is blatant marketing. You fell for a net of lies and thus struggle seeing polyamory for what it is and why countless progressives who are proud to be non-judgemental and very openheart dont support it one bit! I dont need an answer to these words here, i need you to get rid of your blindness, think about why polyamory is super rare, as tht is obviously not for no reason, and stop believe all the internet sells to you. You already got called out by fellow progressive guys and choose to doubledown insead of wondering why you are called out for among other things yelling "Observable reality be damned!!" so dont reply to this if you just wanna triple-down
      @creedoflies

  • @mayowhishes
    @mayowhishes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    there are 2k people watching this video with me :)
    30 minute video came out 20 minutes ago that means all views are active !! Hi guys i love you all wow

  • @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju
    @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I don’t understand open relationships or whatever lmfao but surely it’s great entertainment lolol

  • @laurenparker2906
    @laurenparker2906 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I watched the whole show and was pleasantly surprised. Please watch the rest of the show and do a video on it! I need to know your thoughts on the new couple that comes in halfway through and proceeds to mess everything up.

  • @c.jhamblin5759
    @c.jhamblin5759 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    PLEASE do the rest of the series im dying for a followup

  • @ToplessTopics
    @ToplessTopics 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    honestly, healthiest demonstration of a swinger couple I've ever seen in media...the mcmurrays, in Letterkenny. As for in real life...in concept I support polyamory, and my husband and I like to say we're poly ourselves, but yeah pretty much every group I've seen try out polyamory usually ended up in cruel chaos. But most couples I know PERIOD end in cruel chaos, so.... (: The worst of it is when they pretend like it's gonna be a thrupple, but then it just ends up being the guy who will sleep with the new person (at least with straight couples, that I've seen) while the woman will never physically want to be with the new person after the initial time, if at all...and yes I speak from experience XD I'm glad you called out the unicorn bait-and-switch at the beginning...that's the main reason I've given up on ever using a dating site, the only women on there who claim to be okay around children (as I already have some and really don't have the free time to hang out child-free) always inevitably end up being part of a straight couple, EVERY SINGLE TIME, and I'm not interested in dating men (:

  • @annakurth8369
    @annakurth8369 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    one of my initial reactions to this show (just finished it this morning, have been chipping away at it for a couple weeks now) was that it seemed so dehumanizing and objectifying for the singles. at every stay or swap ceremony there were faces that seemed entirely new to me, there were definitely a handful who i don't think we were ever given the names of. obviously it makes sense that the ones that join couples get more screen time, but it really felt like a lot of the singles were just extras being herded in and out for the sake of the cameras. without giving away too many spoilers, as the show moves on, the same singles keep being invited back to the resort by different couples, which again reinforces that isolation of the other singles. I feel like i know nothing about most of them where i got to understand the couples themselves really well. especially for the ones that joined couples later on (jess comes to mind), I really felt like i couldn't tell you a single thing about her other than her role in the relationship with her couple. overall, up until maybe the last 2 episodes where they had to start thinking about "the real world," it felt like the singles/thirds were there to help the couples work on their own growth, and not like all 3 were on equal footing

  • @katinagreyhat
    @katinagreyhat 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    as a mostly monogamist person in an open nonmonogamy relationship it strange to me referring to someone as a third in the first place instead of like one of three or a person part of a throuple

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey pervert, can you take a wild guess why being ccalled pervert by a far-left
      Progressive like me; by a guy who prides hiself in his inclusivness and prorgessivisness an all that, is baaaaad?

  • @RoseoftheWood
    @RoseoftheWood 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I need the full breakdown of this show from you!!!

  • @LePinkCanary
    @LePinkCanary 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm super interested in this show, but honestly your necklace stole this video. I *love* it.

  • @sarahndipity_7
    @sarahndipity_7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Everyday we get closer to the reality show from the Stepford Wives remake

  • @kabirhanspal5363
    @kabirhanspal5363 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of the "Singles" commented on an H3 Podcast episode last week and might be calling in to get details about the behind the scenes (the host/crew picked it up and asked to get in touch)

  • @-Desire
    @-Desire 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everyone is so pretty like Brittne, Sean, and Sanu literally shine! As well as so many people in that show, it's crazy!