I recently broke up with my girlfriend because our long-distance relationship was too much for both of us. We both love John Mayer and given the circumstances this song makes me feel super nostalgic. It makes me think of the good time we had listening to his music together, as well as the fact that we haven't talked in a while, and it seems now that instead of being friends, we're now more of nothing. Needless to say, this song makes me feel so unbelievably melancholy.
Feel ya man. It's funny how months later it changes to a different feeling as time goes by. I'm sure you can probably attest to that (it says its it's been 4 months since you posted that so I can only assume).Crazy to think as my relationship was very tricky, she was my best friend since I was 15 years old and we were in a relationship together for almost 10 years. Things were good but I wasn't complete.. I felt like I needed to go my own way after a few things happened that made me question the longevity/sincerity and trust of tomorrow. Point is (I'm getting there, I promise) this song sums it up beautifully. At the end of the day, we go through all the motions of those 4 words and 3 very different things/feelings etc.
Just gotta call her up man, if your sitting at night and your letting that black berry buzz on your chest waiting for that test , your just wasting your night -
This album is different. The sound itself is worth a million dollars man. Take a listen all the way from room for squares to battle studies. Every album is different and good in it's own light. This album is organic whether you like it or not. I'd accept it if a lot of people might say that this album is 'unpolished'. But, have you ever heard this record over a good pair of speakers? It's amazing I tell you.
i don't think i've ever seen john singing without a guitar strapped on him. and it was quite a LOL moment at the end of this vid to see him sing sans guitar. ahhhhhhhhh but i love the man dearly
Its feel like I’m there, and when the ‘directed by’ comes in, i just realize that the experience crowd has, soon will be memory, how beautifully sad that is.
Right on, anyone who has studied ANYTHING related to music for more than a year knows JM has undeniable talent. Hate the guy all you want, either 1. you have no credentials to criticize or 2. you're just deaf. End of story.
What a timeless message; friends lovers or nothing. And in case that wasn’t clear enough; anything other than yes is no, anything other than stay is go, anything less than I love you is lying. Thank you for your studies, John.
lol, this gig was brilliant. thanks to sqlife for uploading it. Sad that he played a free 2 hr gig, using songs from every stage of his carrer and ppl are still complaining, but what are you gonna do? it was wicked
i saw him play the night before this at a myspace secret show at the music hall of williamsburg (about 300-500 people capacity) and he was on FIRE and played for about 2 1/2 hours, giving it his all. i think he was probably a little fatigued vocally from that show, understandably. Anyway, he still sounds about 20x better than most live pop vocalists. and as always, his playing is unbelievable.
I once heard a guitar teacher say that if you hit a bum note live, repeat it a few times. Sooner or later the audience will start believing it's meant to be there and it'll sound right. Although, he might have just hit a bum note. Then hit it again.
If you listen closely to his singing on albums, John Mayer quite often sings certain notes a little sharp or a little flat (on purpose I'm sure) and to me it adds dimension to the song...basically, he pulls it of. I don't think anything different is going on here and he sounds great!
I love John Mayer. That's all I need to say. Love, Ya'll. Love the moment. Love the world. Love yourself. Most importantly, I love myself. Peace dudes.
Friends, Lovers or Nothing Now that we are over As the loving kind We'll be dreaming ways To keep the good alive Only when we want is not A compromise I'll be pouring tears Into your drying eyes Friends, lovers, or nothing There can only be one Friends, lovers, or nothing There'll never be an in between So give it up You whisper "Come on over" 'Cause your two drinks in But in the morning I will say Good-bye again Think we'll never fall into The jealous game The streets will flood With blood of those who felt the same Friends, lovers, or nothing There can only be one Friends, lovers, or nothing There'll never be an in between So give it up Friends, lovers, or nothing We can really only ever be one Friends, lovers, or nothing We'll never be the in between So give it up We'll never the in between So give it up Anything other than a yes is no Anything other than stayin' is go Anything less than I love you, is lying Anything other than a yes is no Anything other than stayin' is go Anything less than I love you, is lying Anything other than a yes is no Anything other than stayin' is go Anything less than I love you, is lying Anything other than a yes is no Anything other than stayin' is go Anything less than I love you, is lying Anything other than a yes is no Anything other than stayin' is go Anything less than I love you, is lying Anything other than a yes is no Anything other than stayin' is go Anything less than I love you, is lying Anything other than a yes is no Anything other than stayin' is go Anything less than I love you, is lying
because he was in his prime. After that he realised what he's done to everyone and began to decay. Til the day you saw Born and Raised. I'd say REborn and Reinvented.
@HaruUnite Its a Gibson SG. lol. Look for the nods ( 1961 vintage Gibson Les Paul has 2, while Gibson SG has 4) and JM has 4... ALSO, SG also has 2 humbuckers which is what JM is using. The 1961 vintage Gibson Les Paul only has one single single pickup. Look closer hehe
@JohnMayerFan98 It is actually a 1961 Les Paul. Look closely at the truss rod cover on the headstock. In 1961 Gibson stopped making the original Les Pauls in favor of the new model. However, 1963 they re-introduced the "New Les Paul" as the "S.G." (Solid Guitar)
If you don't like it, don't have a go at other people who do... there are plenty musicians (myself included) that enjoy John Mayer's music, if you don't that's your own opinion and it'd be best if you kept it to yourself when people are trying to enjoy watching this video...
@AloJou @Haraunite It's arguably both- In 1961 the Les Paul was redesigned- that's what this guitar is. Les Paul didn't like the new shape, so asked for his name to be dropped, so it was renamed "SG", but the first few were sold as Les Pauls, even tho they're what we now see as the SG shape. Mayer's guitar is one of those '61 models
@bibbler227 nono in 1961 the gibson Les paul SG was produced without les paul's consent, and hje hated the design and asked for his name to be removed from the guitar the same year, although the truss rod covers still had the Les Paul name until 63' and that marked the end of Les Paul's involvement with the company. so it's still an SG, but its a Les Paul SG.
@nthsieh928: I seriously beg to differ with your opinion on the album. I'd admit that it's difficult to write an entire album based on the theme of love itself and YES, some of the lyrics are very repetitive. But hey, that's the ABCs of pop music songwriting and it works without fail. Maybe you're disappointed that John didn't do a Continuum Part II. Perhaps I was too when I initially heard the album but then again, this album grows on you. ..........
I think a few days after the performance he admitted he had been pretty sick that day 😅 you can heart it pretty clearly in that days' free falling performance 🤔
![John Mayer - Live on Letterman[11/19/09] - 9. Friends Lovers or Nothing](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/z6aC6wYloRQ/mqdefault.jpg)
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I recently broke up with my girlfriend because our long-distance relationship was too much for both of us. We both love John Mayer and given the circumstances this song makes me feel super nostalgic. It makes me think of the good time we had listening to his music together, as well as the fact that we haven't talked in a while, and it seems now that instead of being friends, we're now more of nothing. Needless to say, this song makes me feel so unbelievably melancholy.
Feel ya man. It's funny how months later it changes to a different feeling as time goes by. I'm sure you can probably attest to that (it says its it's been 4 months since you posted that so I can only assume).Crazy to think as my relationship was very tricky, she was my best friend since I was 15 years old and we were in a relationship together for almost 10 years. Things were good but I wasn't complete.. I felt like I needed to go my own way after a few things happened that made me question the longevity/sincerity and trust of tomorrow. Point is (I'm getting there, I promise) this song sums it up beautifully. At the end of the day, we go through all the motions of those 4 words and 3 very different things/feelings etc.
@@loduke3905 how're you doing now
Just gotta call her up man, if your sitting at night and your letting that black berry buzz on your chest waiting for that test , your just wasting your night -
@@willsevy7836 What are u even talking about ? 😅
First i heard this song, i was broke up with my ex, it was 9 years ago. and i feel melancholy too everytime listening this song.
This album is different. The sound itself is worth a million dollars man. Take a listen all the way from room for squares to battle studies. Every album is different and good in it's own light. This album is organic whether you like it or not. I'd accept it if a lot of people might say that this album is 'unpolished'. But, have you ever heard this record over a good pair of speakers? It's amazing I tell you.
John Mayer is one of the greatest guitar players I put him right up there with Jimi Hendrix
how about SRV?
Hendrix was from a different universe . Mayer is a great songwriter yes
People won’t ever give John the credit he deserves… the man is a genius 🖤
It's 2021 and this man is still my celebrity crush... he's just aging like fine wine
Yes 👍🏽
He is fucking amazing He changes my days from bad to really good
I wish he'd put this on rotation in his current setlist.
The lyrics are so pure and so true.
I think this is the first time I have ever seen John Mayer play an SG.
i don't think i've ever seen john singing without a guitar strapped on him. and it was quite a LOL moment at the end of this vid to see him sing sans guitar.
ahhhhhhhhh but i love the man dearly
this is live man
it doesnt has to be perfect, he can try something if he wants to
if you disagree, just listen to the cd
Its feel like I’m there, and when the ‘directed by’ comes in, i just realize that the experience crowd has, soon will be memory, how beautifully sad that is.
Right on, anyone who has studied ANYTHING related to music for more than a year knows JM has undeniable talent. Hate the guy all you want, either 1. you have no credentials to criticize or 2. you're just deaf. End of story.
Perfect, He's my favourite singer.
Mine, too. Everyone always praises his guitar skills but his vocal tone is one of my favourites ever, aside from Michael buble and a few others
John Mayer has really figured this love game out. It’s so true. We can take this to the bank. Thanks John. I love it. Love him
Man i love this live version of this song.
damn everybody know he´s a player but ugh he is sooo HOT.
What a timeless message; friends lovers or nothing. And in case that wasn’t clear enough; anything other than yes is no, anything other than stay is go, anything less than I love you is lying.
Thank you for your studies, John.
lol, this gig was brilliant. thanks to sqlife for uploading it. Sad that he played a free 2 hr gig, using songs from every stage of his carrer and ppl are still complaining, but what are you gonna do? it was wicked
Lmao love this performance! Not quite sure the ending worked out how they expected but I still love see him trying stuff out
i saw him play the night before this at a myspace secret show at the music hall of williamsburg (about 300-500 people capacity) and he was on FIRE and played for about 2 1/2 hours, giving it his all. i think he was probably a little fatigued vocally from that show, understandably. Anyway, he still sounds about 20x better than most live pop vocalists. and as always, his playing is unbelievable.
Favorite one in the Battle Studies!!
I love his falsetto!!!!
1 of my fav song... 2019.. love from Indonesia..
I once heard a guitar teacher say that if you hit a bum note live, repeat it a few times. Sooner or later the audience will start believing it's meant to be there and it'll sound right.
Although, he might have just hit a bum note. Then hit it again.
If you listen closely to his singing on albums, John Mayer quite often sings certain notes a little sharp or a little flat (on purpose I'm sure) and to me it adds dimension to the song...basically, he pulls it of.
I don't think anything different is going on here and he sounds great!
I don’t think he does it on purpose, I just think he’s not a very good singer in general. But ur right it definitely still sounds really good lol
I love John Mayer. That's all I need to say. Love, Ya'll. Love the moment. Love the world. Love yourself. Most importantly, I love myself. Peace dudes.
This is just perfection
He sounds almost exactly the same as the recording! True artistry :D
I watched this on TV, favorite artist!
there will never be an in between, so give it up !!!
Friends, Lovers or Nothing
Now that we are over
As the loving kind
We'll be dreaming ways
To keep the good alive
Only when we want is not
A compromise
I'll be pouring tears
Into your drying eyes
Friends, lovers, or nothing
There can only be one
Friends, lovers, or nothing
There'll never be an in between
So give it up
You whisper "Come on over"
'Cause your two drinks in
But in the morning I will say
Good-bye again
Think we'll never fall into
The jealous game
The streets will flood
With blood of those who felt the same
Friends, lovers, or nothing
There can only be one
Friends, lovers, or nothing
There'll never be an in between
So give it up
Friends, lovers, or nothing
We can really only ever be one
Friends, lovers, or nothing
We'll never be the in between
So give it up
We'll never the in between
So give it up
Anything other than a yes is no
Anything other than stayin' is go
Anything less than I love you, is lying
Anything other than a yes is no
Anything other than stayin' is go
Anything less than I love you, is lying
Anything other than a yes is no
Anything other than stayin' is go
Anything less than I love you, is lying
Anything other than a yes is no
Anything other than stayin' is go
Anything less than I love you, is lying
Anything other than a yes is no
Anything other than stayin' is go
Anything less than I love you, is lying
Anything other than a yes is no
Anything other than stayin' is go
Anything less than I love you, is lying
Anything other than a yes is no
Anything other than stayin' is go
Anything less than I love you, is lying
John mayer is literally a guitar god. Lol.
i was here, and it was amazing.
sad to see JJ Johnson not playing anymore. loved his groove. not to say steve jordan is not gd. he's great
Simplemente increíble! 🔥
John Mayer is my favorite musician, I think his best song is "Vultures" I think appearances with BB King is the best.
He gave it all forsure. Wow
Vultures was good as always. but Slow Dancing is the climax of continuum. hope he plays it in future setlists.
because he was in his prime. After that he realised what he's done to everyone and began to decay. Til the day you saw Born and Raised. I'd say REborn and Reinvented.
How can u not like this guy…
Oh my god!!!
could it get any better ?!
thanx for uploading it, sucks we couldnt see it in europe. But this isnt so bad :)
i was expecting assassins... anyway, thats amazing, and thank you for upload it!!
@HaruUnite Its a Gibson SG. lol. Look for the nods ( 1961 vintage Gibson Les Paul has 2, while Gibson SG has 4) and JM has 4... ALSO, SG also has 2 humbuckers which is what JM is using. The 1961 vintage Gibson Les Paul only has one single single pickup. Look closer hehe
@JohnMayerFan98 It is actually a 1961 Les Paul. Look closely at the truss rod cover on the headstock. In 1961 Gibson stopped making the original Les Pauls in favor of the new model. However, 1963 they re-introduced the "New Les Paul" as the "S.G." (Solid Guitar)
This long outro reminds me of "Hey Jude".
2:37 - best moment of the entire concert. :)
because he missed the right note there? :P
thats Gibson SG looks and sounds incredible!
Sensational. 🔥
If you don't like it, don't have a go at other people who do... there are plenty musicians (myself included) that enjoy John Mayer's music, if you don't that's your own opinion and it'd be best if you kept it to yourself when people are trying to enjoy watching this video...
he's awsome!
the outro lyrics sound weird when John's not singing them. still they are great in the end with john's AWESOME ad libbing!
@AloJou @Haraunite It's arguably both- In 1961 the Les Paul was redesigned- that's what this guitar is. Les Paul didn't like the new shape, so asked for his name to be dropped, so it was renamed "SG", but the first few were sold as Les Pauls, even tho they're what we now see as the SG shape.
Mayer's guitar is one of those '61 models
2:08 Is that guy in the Blue botton down on the left Johns Brother Carl?
Genius! John is the one!
This.
What's up with the ending? Did John do some drinking before the show?
PERFECTION.
@bibbler227 nono
in 1961 the gibson Les paul SG was produced without les paul's consent, and hje hated the design and asked for his name to be removed from the guitar the same year, although the truss rod covers still had the Les Paul name until 63' and that marked the end of Les Paul's involvement with the company.
so it's still an SG, but its a Les Paul SG.
This song is really relatable
@nthsieh928:
I seriously beg to differ with your opinion on the album. I'd admit that it's difficult to write an entire album based on the theme of love itself and YES, some of the lyrics are very repetitive. But hey, that's the ABCs of pop music songwriting and it works without fail.
Maybe you're disappointed that John didn't do a Continuum Part II. Perhaps I was too when I initially heard the album but then again, this album grows on you.
..........
he had his brothers, steven and liv tyler, and kris allen at this concert, sweet!!
You think we'll never fall into, a jealous game!?!? The streets are flood with blood of those... Who felt the same!
I think we can all agree that his voice is a little ropey at this gig, but his playing was, as ever, top notch
This guy has one of my favourite vocal tones ever.
the voice is able to make god cry
I wish i was there ! You can see his two brothers at 2:07, the one with the grey shirt and his other brother with the black one.
Damn what a catch
Mantab john mayer
@trysmudford Its a Gibson Les Paul (: 60's or 70's edition
@pedrobaumbach LOL,i thought charlie sheen was really there XD hahaha.true to ur statement though,he does look a lil like charlie sheen.
can this get any more perfect ??
3:09 nice moves John! Hahahahaha! Love this man
This channel is mayertube😂👍👍👍👍
Son niveau est affolant !
RAYOS... donde quedo la mitica stratocaster?¿?¿?¿?¿?
mayer es el maestro pero le hiso falta su hermosa stratocaster
my love
John was definately stoned at this performance.
He doesn't do drugs
Builderphill but he most definitely smoke weed
Who says I cant get stoned
ohmyafy Drunk for sure
@@builderphill1361 8 yeara ago he for sure did
How do I get this whole show? I was there and it was SO special!
Thanks alot! Great concert. But IMO he should have played Slow Dancing In A Burning Room and Heart Of Life instead of Vultures and Belief
te amoooooooooooooooooooooooo
the sound is bad because it was a live feed of the show and fuse apparently failed...
2:10 That’s John’s brother Carl in the crowd with the grey shirt
he's right!
@tomasterrizzano That's not a SG. It's either a 61, 62, or 63 Les Paul.
I gave one up!!! A beautiful woman! Pheewww. wasn't easy
2019 😍😍😍
@HaruUnite Google Image search "John Mayer Gibson Les Paul", then search "John Mayer Gibson SG". You'll see.
hahaha he went fucking nuts during that.
mayer doe a joe cocker impression atb the end
@HaruUnite no, its definately an SG
What is wrong with him, damn hilarious!
I think here he was already struggling with his vocal chords 😢 but now he is Back 😅😅😅💖
I think a few days after the performance he admitted he had been pretty sick that day 😅 you can heart it pretty clearly in that days' free falling performance 🤔
This song is combi of Let it be-The Beatles and The Weight
He’s such a weirdo but I love him so much😭
Yea def Slow Dancing, but Vultures sounded amazing!
@Joeasis i think so too. especially the last part. sounds like "hey jude".
@ 2:05 about, you can see carl and ben mayer in the crowd... hillarious
@pedrobaumbach WHERE LOL XD?
@trysmudford haha.nooo,its a 1961 vintage Gibson Les Paul (: go type this gutiar model and see for yourself(:
who are they?
a little dramatic ending by JM, wouldnt you say? They shouldve stopped recording at 6:50. He goes a little coo-koo afer that but the man can play!