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@@Anonymous______________ Are you able to elaborate? Maybe you could back your very emphatic viewpoint up with something other than just your opinion based on your own observation and judgement of a very short and rather casual interview with a person that clearly does seem to be unwell? Is there any other information I could look at, studies, papers, articles? Perhaps some of your peers have relevant material from their research also. I'd like to try and understand more about your experience and expertise in mental health and human behavior. I look forward to learning more 😊 Thank you for your engaging comments
@@Anonymous______________ With a painful condition people have the right to decide whether to make it more or less painful. And for integration to happen in DID there has to be a lot of pain. Some people are just not ready for that. And that's totally ok. Professionals realize that.
@@pinkatara6491 @Pinka Tara* Hey can you please post more of these? If you can put one on every TH-cam video that would be fantastic. It's so much better with irrelevant and inappropriate spam. Please let me know as soon as you've done it and we can discuss the next plan to desperately prey on the desperately trying to prey on.... Should be very rewarding. People will thank you and you will probably become extremely famous and wealthy. Thanks in advance 😀
@@ethngry8609 ok well I guess it must be a crock of shit then and that's just how it is ... Go with your gut feeling, saves the hassle of trying to use evidence to decide if someone is mentally unwell or if they're just cashing in on the easy and fruitful lifestyle by pretending to be suffering from a really complex and difficult to understand mental disorder.... Yeah I think you might be gifted with an intuitive diagnostic ability. Would you accept payment to do a session and try to channel the reason behind my sore shoulder? Or do you reckon it's just from sleeping in a wierd position? Thanks in advance?
Hey! This is me! I was just reminded of this video and wanted to come check out the comments! First of thankyou so so much for all your kind words, they all mean so much ❤ Second, weve seen alot of comments saying that people have checked our channel, and our current financial/living situation and assumed this meant that LadBible did not pay us. This isnt true. We did this shoot a long time ago now and were paid for it straight afterwards. We werent even expecting any pay and would have happily done it for free so it was a welcome surprise! I wanted to clear this up on behalf of ladbible! They were so lovely to us and was so honored to work with them again! 🥰 Bo & Co. 💖 (Ps. Im not wiping my nose, im wiping my top lip 😅 its hot under those lights! SULA 🙈😅😂)
Thank you for openness. It is wonderful that people of all types, viewpoints, histories, experiences, etc., are telling their life stories on TH-cam. So glad you're making content.
I just went to look at Bo's youtube and the first video that I happened to click on is the poor girl saying she can't afford electricity or food and that she was worried doing this lad bible interview was gonna cost her more than she could afford, and more than it would make her. Why the hell in 2021/2022 are you not paying people for their time Lad Bible?
That's awful!! Whilst the interview itself may be voluntary, most charities will at least cover their volunteer's costs - & Lad Bible is a business! They're actively making money out of this, so the least they can do is ensure that the person making them that money - the focal point of the video - is not out of pocket for helping them... Sheesh!
@@georgina-a exactly, you've hit the nail on the head. It's fine that it's voluntary- people could just not do it, but if they do their costs should at least be covered. This channel wouldn't be able to continue to exist without the interviewees, they're the lifeblood of the channel.
It got worse unfortunately, I stumbled upon her latest video and she apparently got fired by a convention(?) where she volunteered at because her employers alleged her of bringing in and using "drugs" illegally at work. They were in fact her legally prescribed medications according to that video. She's sobbing and visibly unstable in it so I looked around and found this video, which explained things further for me about her situation. I really hope she receives assistance and get proper compensation by her employers, ntm she wasn't paid by them as well :(
@@Anonymous______________ You know what actual malignant narcissism looks like? Claiming to be such an expert with no real qualifications, experience or otherwise to criticise someone’s diagnosis, yet completely dismissing them and furthermore implying the condition doesn’t exist despite all the literature and years of research. You do harm with your lack of empathy and intellect
@@jaihalai7674 couldn't agree with you more. I was waiting for him to spew forth his qualification or at least his years of experience. When none came I realised what a dangerous little person this is voicing their uneducated views. He seems to have picked up clinical points about this person from a 16 minute video, that their psychiatrist has missed! And their summary about it being a parenting issue is just so naively purile that I feel a little sorry for them ....... almost.
This is a brave young woman. I'm so glad she is getting mental health care. Bo, please be patient with yourself. Therapy is difficult. You have to go back to move forward. It was definitely worth it for me.
@@pinkatara6491 @Pinka Tara* Hey can you please post more of these? If you can put one on every TH-cam video that would be fantastic. It's so much better with irrelevant and inappropriate spam. Please let me know as soon as you've done it and we can discuss the next plan to desperately prey on the desperately trying to prey on.... Should be very rewarding. People will thank you and you will probably become extremely famous and wealthy. Thanks in advance 😀 Also, can you please get this sorted today? It's really important
@@draingang2732 Yes that is correct, thank you for participating in my strange little game, you are now ranked third place !! To claim your prize please sign all your possessions over to me so I can go ahead and ship your winnings out on the morning courier.
I recently got diagnosed with DID… I feel so much less confused and less lonely after watching this. Thank you Bo… wish I could talk with you directly bc I’ve yet to find someone else who experiences this so similarly. We will get through. I’m a professional artist so I escape in my art and use my alters in my art and business like a chameleon but everyone with DID is very different due to precursors and situations… I have ptsd and bipolar and DID came on fully after the traumas. It’s not split or multiple personality disorder bc that means you have many personalities while DID means you have one identify but due to trauma and triggers you fragment your personality to protect that vulnerable piece of you.
@@pinkatara6491 @Pinka Tara* Hey can you please post more of these? If you can put one on every TH-cam video that would be fantastic. It's so much better with irrelevant and inappropriate spam. Please let me know as soon as you've done it and we can discuss the next plan to desperately prey on the desperately trying to prey on.... Should be very rewarding. People will thank you and you will probably become extremely famous and wealthy. Thanks in advance 😀
Get yourself a Bible. That's where you get your peace and understanding. Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and be saved. He can save you from the demon's inside you!
My sister has DID, I've done so much reading on what it is, the experience, her life, being apart of her life, what can trigger her. I've always been so dedicated to it as an adult because we didn't know when we were kids, everyone would just say "your sister just loses it sometimes or even call her crazy (and that's just our parents) and looking back I can see it all. I can see the ages where it began developing. I was a mean younger brother and I probably didn't help. As an adult, I just want to understand and I know I can be someone that she trusts. She's alienated from the family because they think she just has ruthless modd swings. I'm all she has outside of her really good friends (fucking love those girls for that) and our younger sister who is over a decade younger than even myself and doesn't know all of this yet. I've never seen her break into her protector, the problem solver, or in reality the douche who creates problems because the identity is dangerous, hateful and seemingly aims to knock anyone and everyone down to build themselves up. Sometimes I cant get a hold of her for days, then ill drive over (I intentionally live within twn minutes) and when i walk in she's there but who im talking to is a total strnger. Its made a great actor out of me because i just interact as if everything in that moment is ok and ill usually stay with her until i can tell its relaxed. I dont see it as a burden, I have her and she has me. Regardless of my own life, i will always have time for all of hers.... is what i tell her and its true. This video was the first time I've seen someone with DID open up in a way even my sister hasn't, I've become a big fan of minutes with over the last few months and this piece, this piece, is one of the many reasons why. It's all very real and has a deep meaning for those who can empathize or relate.
As a person with DID myself I can only say, your sister is really lucky to have such a nice and caring brother. Thank you for doing that, for educating yourself, for believing her, and for being there for her. That really made my day and went straight into my heart. Stay like that and support your sister and love her/them, please Have a nice day
@PikaWolfy My apologies! I never noticed your reply :) She's my big sister, always will be. I don't really know what else to say, but your comment made me smile. Thank you. ❤️
@shades of uv honestly, I'm choosing not to answer those as directly as you've asked them. Just know that we come from a loving and non-abusive home. As mentioned, they just aren't the most understanding of mental health and still haven't caught up with the many modern definitions and diagnosis for what has always been a part of people's lives.
@@TrustMelDontCare Oh ok! Thanks for sharing. I'm sorry if I asked too directly, I didn't mean to bring up your business. I have schizophrenia so I understand the struggle with mental health. I will pray for you all. Tell them they have me in their corner!!
you mean those who are Overt( 5% of DID ) are dramatic, because it's someone different than mostly neuro typical? This is the Reason Treatment of DID is To not Tell anyone about it, because you guys Judge the F*ck out of Us
The hardest thing, for me, as a DID child was being beaten for doing something wrong and screaming, "IT WASN'T ME, I DIDN'T DO IT!" It would be decades before I learned how right and wrong I was. Nearly 70 now and I live alone with my others. Last night I scalded myself and First Born was rushed forward in a PTSD nightmare. The amazing thing is our arm was awful red with horrid burning pain. First Born began crying for Mimi who came through the veil, soothed the child and just like snapping a finger the pain and discoloration vanished. I look forward to the end of our time on Earth...
The first part totally got me. identical experience... and all the selfquestioning decades later 😔 ...But the one who knows what had happened to that monster's vase back in 1990, has meanwhile explained that it really hadn't been one of us, but the wind blowing the window open and that window breaking it. I still don't know if with some events, the other alters would lie... I don't know if there's evil inside of this shattered structure of ours.
"it's definitely scary that i know i have trauma that I can't remember" oh, definitely!! I do have trauma as well and it frightens me that I don't remember most of it and also much of what happened in between. I am not a system but knowing that my brain did this to protect me just makes me wonder how bad it must've been for my younger self. I don't wanna remember it right now tho, because even tho I'm curious I know that I'm not ready to deal that yet, and every time I unlock something is a scary moment (because I fear the time is approaching and I'm not ready just yet).
@@medismalkovic1054 show me your psych degree and your detailed and researched paper proving that then. I already know you lack both. Anyways my alters and I will continue to exist regardless of your ignorance
Thank you for what you said about this being seen as a trendy, fun disorder. As you well know, it is anything but. People who turn this into a game do a great disservice to people who really do suffer from this disorder. Thank you for helping people see this for what it truly is. I wish you all the healing that you deserve. You are so very courageous.
Yes it’s not just about having other ‘parts’ - there are the things that run alongside DID like the anxiety, ptsd, eating disorders, self harm , depression, etc and the pervasive terror always in the background - but it does get better …
What a beautiful soul this articulate girl has. What’s hard to swallow is we all know she’s been through a terrible time at some point in her childhood. 🥺
I'm really glad to hear someone honestly talk about their alters when they do bad things that scare the shit out of you. All the former youtube DID celebs just had such cute cookie cutter perfect little helpers that I thought why did mine end up trying to hurt me or others -- which I know now why because of one having a very protective nature and thinks everything and everyone is a threat and to release anger as Bo said. My alter lashing out started in 6th grade and intensified until we got some help and I was out day after day in 11th grade, since I'm more responsible and don't really have emotions. It was years of it's just teen years. It's just hormones. I had a friend who would make up things my alter would say to get others to bully me. It was like friends could see it and they would gravitate to me to watch me crumble. So glad Bo had good friends. This was a great interview, and was glad Bo shared it with us.
Be nice, Deanna, and cool if you'd start a TH-cam channel. Your videos don't have to start perfect. Lot of people can benefit if you'd share your life story and explain what happened.
I actually knew a gal who had this. I remember that she did a lot of work to get to know her alters. She kept a journal to keep track of what each alter experienced, and even gave each of them a Christmas gift and then filmed their reactions.
@@7521ericif you don’t have it you have no idea how internal communication works. DID presents differently in different systems. Communication between parts is both possible and imperative.
@@7521eric It’s in the DSM-5 which is the main reference and diagnostic manual for all mental health clinicians. But I’m sure you know better than them.
@@wanderingbelle7 than read Dr Charles Raison in Psychology Today. He said its definitely a disorder, but there are not literally separate biological people living in the same body/brain.
I’ve been following Bobo&Co for a good while now. I’m glad you’re able to get your voices out there to a wider range of people. You’re doing great work. Keep on going.
As someone with did im so grateful it's finally being talked about, for many it's very scary to open up about because of all the preconceptions and lack of knowledge many people have x
Ok some of the comments are absolutely disgusting. DID is a serious, real disorder that stems from repeated, childhood trauma. Alters are not demons or alter egos, imaginar frients etc. they are very real part of our brains that did not fully integrate because of the trauma. Alters can have no memory of trauma or they can have severe memories of trauma that the brain does not want the host to remember in order to survive. People with DID suffer with amnesia, ptsd, various levels of dissociation (from switches to derealisation and depersonalisation). Other and less talked about dissociative dissorders include OSDD1b (similar to DID but less amnesia) OSDD1a (similar to DID, with amnesia but alters that are very similar), depersonalisation derealisation dissorder. Most people with DID are very covert, too. It is very different from what is portrayed in eg. Split. edit. I've edited the word 'severe' due to the discussion in the comments below.
@@pinkatara6491 Hey can you please post more of these? If you can put one on every TH-cam video that would be fantastic. It's so much better with irrelevant and inappropriate spam. Please let me know as soon as you've done it and we can discuss the next plan to desperately prey on the desperately trying to prey on.... Should be very rewarding. People will thank you and you will probably become extremely famous and wealthy. Thanks in advance 😀
Thank you!! It's worth noting, though, that "severe" childhood trauma does not cause DID. Severity of trauma is impossible to measure, and any trauma can cause disordered plurality in the form of DID.
@@jellifygirl yes it does. If its severe enough.and repeated enough. It literally disrupts how the brain developes. And i hope youre not suggesting that something like CSA is subjective. Cos i guarantee NO ONE thinks its on a par with some stuff
Brave woman, can't imagine what it's like to go through this, and what happened in her younger years very sad, but she is brilliant, very intelligent, and a fantastic soul. Peace and Love ❤️🙏❤️ Wishing you the best for the future, and a beautiful life x
Traumatised girls are often robbed of their maternal instinct. They might not want to have kids at all, feel absolutely no desire to or feel unable to bond with the child because of their relationship with their primary caregiver as an infant.
I appreciate this woman for having a real, diagnosed medical illness and being strong enough to talk about it. But Tik Tok and kids trying to emulate something serious like this has really tainted the image of people with DID.
For anyone wondering, among the experts and doctors DID is widely believed to not be a real disorder. Just like aspergers is no longer a real diagnosis. The issue was autism the whole time in aspergers case. Which is what the evidence suggests is happening with DID.
For anyone wondering, what Marshallah said isn't true. DID is widely believed to be a real disorder among doctors...hence why it's in the diagnostic manual. And it has nothing to do with autism.
@@YusuphYT Its no longer the 1970s luv, catch up. Nearly every single professional in medicine and psychology agrees it is both very real AND not at all as rare as people think.
@@YusuphYT Stop spreading misinformation, while there might still be the odd psychiatrist who thinks DID is actually schizophrenia or some other disorder, it's far from being the majority nowadays. It might be hard to find a professional that's actually knowledgeable enough to diagnose and help people who suffer from it, but it IS widely recognized as a real and accurate diagnosis.
I relate to your story. Especially the "hot tap" bit. It was so scary to not understand why it was happening. To see this, as a system that is becoming more and more functional as a team feels like a full circle moment for me. I didn't know this was a thing that someone else would ever relate to....also, I never knew that others had similar alters to me until I met other systems. Thank you for sharing. ❤
Nice to see more representation, remember that DID can present very differently depending on the individual. A lot of the things she said resonated with me but her perception on it was a lot different to mine.
Wow to this story. What a brave person. I can’t wrap my head round how difficult this must be. You will get out the other side of this as you made the great step talking and sharing your story & journey so far 💕
I'm so proud of Bobo ❤️ we're here to see you get better and have a good life ahead of you :) Also I think people need to realized whether you believe DID is real or not you have to understand that people's mental health is important. Especially now a days where people think it's "cute" to pretend they have these disorders. When I watch this I watch someone who rather not have this and have been through so much.
@@Anonymous______________ Plenty of people I've worked with say they can control their hallucinations to a certain degree. Whether it's DID or personality disorder or if in fact DID is a personality disorder, something's not right clearly.
@@redactedanticretin she is professionally diagnosed. She literally told how she knows about some of her alters and shit that has happened- people around her telling her, filming it. Also alters can leave notes to each other and they will have different handwriting. She’s not faking her amnesia. God your comment is so full of ignorance and stigma. The way you’re talking about Borderline girls all being toxic. Borderline manifests in many ways. Not all of them are toxic, and it’s a disorder that comes directly from childhood trauma- just like DID. Maybe instead of being so skeptical and opening your mouth about shit you don’t understand, you should try listening, REALLY listening and learning. This girl is one of the kindest sweetest people I’ve ever had the privilege to meet- so keep your disrespectful shit to yourself
I totally can understand this. Everyone deals with trauma in a different way. Some people would never understand. I think this young lady is so brave to share her story. I relate it to having an out of body experience.
All my heart, and respect for Bo on talking about her DID. I've always been curious on how it was exactly, and what caused it. I know an online friend who goes through that, and at times, with a trigger or something, they'll say one of them is coming or something like that. Definitely has had some trauma that caused her to have a few alters. Glad to see Bo talking about it, and for people to see this is serious, not a game or something "cute". It would feel horrifying.
Oh goodness, I was no nervous for this system during some of these questions. I hope they are able to keep themselves safe during this time. I appreciate the conversation and I’m worried this was taken advantage of them.
I'm sure they are and where. System's usually have protectors who can come to the front and are very firm and will refuse to answer a question, let anyone else answer and may even get up and leave if they feel the system is in danger of being triggered or is just plain being disrespected.
For what I, as the one writing this, recall I am very firm in knowing I don't want to know what the others do. They hold locked boxes that possess months to years of memories I've no access to; the locks are there for a reason. I'm content being able to share and I see another did too. Sometimes I fuss over trying to remember writing or doing something but when I realize it wasn't me it feels okay, like a needed deep sigh.
@Yolanda,____💋 The fact you are posting about young girls repeatedly in the comments of a video about a mental health condition brought on by childhood trauma, like CSA, is just gross. Stop.
@@kemal3599 Yes, it may appear pointless and thats understandable, however I find it to be significantly "Non Pointless" and this gives the action a purpose. Furthermore I find it fulfillls the desired outcome very effectively despite the range being extremely narrow. Perhaps even just to me, bottom line is, IT WORKED 😉
Thank you for being honest about a really horrible condition. Do the work with therapy and I am confident you will get better. Being honest about getting rid of them really shows that you still need coping skills. Stay strong!!
I'm a member of a plural system and finding out diagnosis was the best thing to ever happen. Instead of hiding our truths, we are now all together and out and proud and happy. We work together and decide on life choices, and while certainly there's some hard parts not a day goes by we don't want to be a system. We love eachother, we are full people with lives and goals and aspirations. Being a system is not a death sentence, and it's not nearly as scary as most media will allow you to believe. I look forward to more plural advocacy and awareness where us and other systems can be our true selves in daily life. -Shad of the Draco System
No it’s not. She’s a con artist and you’re gullible. She likely has histrionic or Borderline personality disorder but DID is more romantic and makes everyone call you brave and beautiful so she just pretends to have that.
If anyone is watching this getting discouraged because you’re seeing things like “this isn’t real” or “you’re looking for attention”, remember that up until the 1950’s doctors would advertise “healthy” cigarettes, people with mental illness were often called “changelings” or they saw “fairies”, and doctors used to recommend vibrators to women to treat "hysteria". Medical science is always changing and the science involving our minds is woefully under studied. The only one who can understand your trauma is yourself and your therapist. Don’t let others on the internet who don’t know you from the person they sit next to at a bus station tell you your feelings are wrong.
Reminds me of the old movie, 'Sybil'. Being an adolescent or young adult are difficult times in anyone's life, but surely an impossible time for anyone with repressed traumatic experiences. Keep right on to the end of the road.
I don't have DID but I can relate a lot to the trauma side of things. My memories of it are vague as well, but it's enough to know that there's _something_ there. Being diagnosed with PTSD in my 40's hit hard. On one hand I finally understood so much more about myself, on the other- _oh shit, it's actually real_ And accepting that I have trauma was the breakthrough to also accepting I'm actually trans. Edit: turns out I am actually plural after all. That's been a wild ride.
My DID system shares a lot of memories in terms of remembering events while someone else was out, but we are completely disconnected from each others emotions and thoughts. Like as a 7yo one of us would try to hurt my mom, and when I would come back to the top I would remember doing it but have absolutely no fucking clue why or what we had been thinking. It was so horrific and I felt so much guilt for the things I’d done when I had absolutely no recollection of the feelings or motivations that caused me to do bad things. Same with very positive emotions. My mom has been extremely supportive of me as I’ve been diagnosed (at 18 years old), and the other day our five year old part was talking to her and was apparently ECSTATIC about something. I remember the conversation, but I have no memory of that elation, all I can feel about the conversation is exhaustion. Some parts of my life are blackout amnesia but for the most part we are often co conscious. I usually describe it as feeling like being under water in a pool with goggles on. When I’m completely on the bottom I can barely “see the light” so to speak, but when I’m close to the surface I can make out what’s going on relatively clearly but still be underneath. Idk if that makes any sense but that’s how it feels🤷🏻♀️ DID is wild and presents so differently in different systems.
I've got a DID diagnosis, it varies from person to person, however this is very helpful for me. Its frustrating trying to explain this disorder. Its so hard to describe and get people to at least understand what I mean a little. I feel less insane watching this, it helps me grasp my own mental health
So I was diagnosed with this back in the 90s. I question it constantly. My question is why do people so easily accept the diagnosis? I know I have experienced episodes of amnesia/dissociation because people have told me things but it's not constantly to me. Maybe I keep thinking it has to be like Sybil. To me it's like different parts of me coming into my awareness and I go somewhere else. It's happened in therapy sessions where I had no clue what I was talking about. I've been talking to a therapist and literally be interrupted by someone "inside" and I stop talking to listen. I don't know. There's more to be learned about dissociation
Maybe you just have a attention seeking disorder and you seek attention from people and what better way than to have one of the rarest personality disorders 😉
The entire system has to take responsibility for violent acts such as yelling, verbal abuse, smashing things. As unfortunate as DID is, there is still a responsibility on that person to not be abusive or violent, and one can never use DID as an excuse to do harmful toxic things to themselves or others
Thank you for sharing your story.Thank you for your honesty and explaining what D.D.D. is so people can understand and for others who are newly diagnosed.
Comments are really disappointing. Just read structural dissociation. If anything, the majority of you are privileged to have been able to be cared for by adults who won't hurt or abuse you.
This is so far removed from my own experience of existence that I struggle to believe it's real. Not to say that it isn't, I am clearly operating on my own biases, but I have a hard time trying to empathize with things like this because they are so alien to me.
& that's completely understandable as long as you are respectful, some struggle to relate to something that is so far out of the realm of their own existence
Just avoid DID TikTok videos, lots of misinformation and blatant role playing going on there, they basically mock a very severe condition because it’s “trendy”
@@Amy-ms6wj neither do i. But religion is faith based. DID is fact based and not believing in it is ignorant. Its a professionally diagnosed condition No is professionally diagnosed. To say its beyond belief is ignore. It can also be damaging to those suffering. It can stop people from getting the help they need. Many people will attempt suicide. That is not something you want you encourage
This also happens when sociopaths abuse someone. They will emesh with their victim especially on a spiritual level, the victim will sense a loss of personal identity and it will seem as though there are other people living inside the victim's mind & soul. HCP will label this DID or schizophrenia when in fact it's actually the victim's soul that has been fragmented and other entities have attached to it. A sociopath will soul bond with their target in order to ensnare the individual, also known as trauma bonding. It can seem like you're having a conversation with someone in your mind as though they're physically present with you but they're not.. its on a mental, emotional, psychic & spiritual level that cannot be logically explained. Its tough to understand at times what the heck actually happened to you especially if you're more of a scientific and rationally minded person.
because once your not in the stressful environment anymore the amnesia barriers go down a bit so the alters can talk to each other about their interest and how they feel 🦋
There's the ability to talk to them, whether in co-fronting (two or more controlling the body at the same time) or in their own headspace, some systems develop what you might call a "house" in their brain and that's kind of where they stay, talking to each other like they're all roomies. I've met someone with DID and I've done my research on it, it is also possible that they're "sharing eyes" sort of, like they can see what's going on but never actually fronting.
she has a youtube channel where plenty of alters make their own videos regarding their experiences, she also has people in her close life informing her
Man, I hope she learns how to co-con with her alters, or just to talk to them. Getting to know them helps a lot. They're there because they tryna protect you, even Persecutors (who seems to wanna hurt you, they just don'tknow how to do it in a healthier way). Hope she'll be okay.
I speak from experience of living with DID; The more you compartmentalize your self into these alternates, the less likely you are to have a stable healthy mental state. You need to accept and realize that there is no such thing as alters, your psyche is only trying to protect itself from what you can’t face out in the open.
One thing i don"t get it..if she is not aware of this personalities, how can she describe them so well? Even gave them names and characteristics and everything?
A therapist would have met the other personalities and informed her about them. With therapy they can often get the personalities in to communicate and work together as a team.
Damn this sent me down a rabbit hole of your videos. super interesting seeing all of your alters make videos. kudos to you though you are brave and no one even i can understand the struggles that come with DID. keep being yourself and you are an amazing person. rock on my dude and keep being yourself much love
I have DID too. It’s exhausting and misunderstood. People assume that everyone has a murderous alter, when that is beyond rare. I have 4 alters and managing them along with myself is tough, but therapy helps. I hope this lady is doing well
Anastasia: That means that a subpersonality is a Personality just like you which was active in the past incarnations of your Soul. Rigden: Yes. In other words, it is a former Personality from a past life with all the baggage of sensory and emotional dominants (positive or negative ones) which it accumulated during its lifetime; that is, with the result of its choice during life. The Personality, as a rule, does not have a direct connection with subpersonalities; therefore, the person does not remember his previous lives and, accordingly, the experience and the knowledge gained by these subpersonalities. However, in rare cases when certain circumstances overlap, the Personality may experience a vague feeling of déjà vu or short-term spontaneous manifestations of the activity of the latest subpersonality (the one which precedes the current incarnation). This is particularly typical for people in early childhood. There are cases, which have been recorded in papers on psychiatry, when children, in whom no deviations have been observed and who have healthy parents, manifest short-term unnatural behaviour akin to borderline personality disorder. I will give one of such examples. A four-year-old girl started having one and the same dream: against the background of light, a boy was calling her to approach him, but he wouldn’t let her go into the light. She started complaining to her parents about this dream which was depressing her, and in the evenings she started behaving in an unpredictable, aggressive way which had previously been unusual for her. She would also become unusually strong. The four-year-old girl would angrily turn over tables, chairs, a heavy bedside-table; she would not recognise her mother, would throw a fit, and say in an accusatory way: “You’re not my mother”, “You will die anyway”, and so on. That is, the girl’s words and behaviour were unnatural for her but they were quite natural for a subpersonality that had gone through reincarnation and was then in the state of “hell”, experiencing suffering and animal pain. The next day, the child would become normal again and behave as usual. This is a typical example of a short-term manifestation of negativism of the previous subpersonality. The best thing that can be done in this case is to actively develop the child’s intellect, expand his or her horizons of knowing the world, and wait until the primary surge takes place and a new Personality forms. The primary surge happens, as a rule, by the time a person is 5-7 years old. The fact is that in early childhood, prior to the primary surge, such a short-term activation of the previous Personality (subpersonality) may indeed take place. The latter, while a new Personality is forming, is trying to get to the consciousness and seize power over the person. However, other cases of manifestation of a subpersonality are much more frequent. This is when children aged 3-5 (during the period when a new Personality has not yet been formed) begin to talk from the position of an adult, experienced person. In rare cases, there may be detailed descriptions of their previous adult lives which are in fact impossible to know at such an age. More often though, a child speaks unexpectedly wisely about something, expressing unchildlike thoughts, and sometimes this mystically frightens adults. Parents should not be afraid of such manifestations; instead, they should simply understand their nature. Once a child’s personality is formed, such manifestations will pass. So, every subpersonality preserves the individuality of its past consciousness in the form of the desires and aspirations which dominated it during its active life. The Personality, as I have already said, has no direct connection with subpersonalities; that is, a person does not consciously remember his or her previous lives. However, such a connection between the Personality and subpersonalities is preserved at the subconscious level. The latter may indirectly influence the Personality and “push” it to certain actions, inclining it towards making certain decisions. This happens on an unconscious level. On top of that, subpersonalities, figuratively speaking, are like “misty light filters”, which considerably hinder the direct connection between the Soul and the new Personality; so, to speak, between the source of the Light and the one who needs it. Anastasia: “Misty light filters”? That’s a very interesting comparison. Rigden: Perhaps, I will talk about this in more detail. But it is necessary to understand that all these processes take place at the level of energies; therefore, I will use figurative comparisons for ease of perception. So, subpersonalities are located around the Soul and one can imagine them as… “intelligent” nebulas. On one hand, they are located close to the Soul and experience the influence of this powerful antimaterial structure; so, to speak, the nearness of “the breath of Eternity”, “the presence of a particle from the world of God”. On the other hand, subpersonalities experience a strong influence and pressure of dense material structures of the Animal nature. That is, subpersonalities are squeezed between the two powerful forces of the spiritual and the material worlds. They constantly feel this enormous pressure from both sides. Therefore, each subpersonality becomes a kind of a “light filter” along the journey of the present Personality to connect with the Soul. The level of “dimming” of such a “light filter subpersonality” depends on the dominant life choices and preferences as well as the sensory and emotional priorities that were accumulated in its past life. For example, if in his past life, a person was good and kind and did much for his spiritual development but not enough to finally escape from the material world, then this subpersonality will be more at peace and will have fewer vibrations. It means that the energy and impulses from the Soul will pass better through such a “light filter”. However, if a person has wasted his past life on the priorities of material values, then such a “light filter subpersonality” will be denser in its structure due to higher vibrations; in other words, the transmission capacity of, say, “the light” coming out of the Soul will be much worse. This can associatively be compared to a glass soiled with soot, through which true light gets distorted or penetrates less. In other words, the more the Animal side dominated a person during his life and the more material values prevailed, the harder time he will have afterwards since he will be the bearer of a greater level of distortion. If there are many such subpersonalities with dense “light filters”, then it is very difficult for the now living Personality to fight his or her Animal nature, it is difficult to turn from the path of material dominants and feel the Soul. Anastasia: This means that such a person is kind of more bogged down in matter, and it is more difficult for him or her to change the life vector towards the spiritual development? Rigden: Yes. However, it is never too late for anyone, even for such a person, to reverse the situation, since the Personality has life force and the right of choice… Otherwise, the same fate that his subpersonalities are currently experiencing, awaits him. By the way, it is precisely the experience of subpersonalities that indirectly results in manifestations of the fear of death in a person at a subconscious level. What subpersonalities feel in a new Personality is, in fact, a real “hell” for them, speaking in language of religion. After the death of the physical body, the Personality, which becomes a subpersonality, gains its own experience and understanding of what the material world really is, what the Soul is, and what the importance of the latter is for the human being. But in the structure of a new body, the subpersonality is already in a desperate position of a chained mind that understands everything, feels a strong sensory and emotional pain, but cannot do anything including sharing its experience with the new Personality. It is equivalent to the situation when you are locked in a body but this body does not serve your mind, does not obey you, and does not do
We are DID system as well and each alter has a place in the system. We have 14 alters in our system and are going through therapy. Each of our alters have different names, genders and food flavors We are working towards functional multiplicity right now with out therapist.
I was diagnosed with this last month. No one knows, well my parents do but I may have well told them I have a verruca for all the fucks they gave lol. Mines not as overt as Bo's but then it's not really meant to be. I'm terrified about people finding out cause it has bad stigma or so I seem to think.
I'm sorry to read that you've had such a poor reaction from your parents. DID is ordinarily caused by repeated trauma during your childhood. For that reason, it might be hard for your parents to accept that you suffered "on their watch", when they feel they should have been protecting you. Or (& I apologise for addressing the elephant in the room), if they were responsible for that trauma, then they might be, somewhat selfishly, afraid of what consequences they may face if your DID is taken seriously (and, if you have no memory of the trauma, what memories may surface during treatment, & what that will mean for them). Due to those reasons, and your experience telling them, I don't think they could provide you with the support that you need, and I strongly suggest that you look for that support elsewhere. Trusted friends and loved ones are a good place to start, and it's also worth speaking to your mental health professional about the support services available in your area. If you're in the UK, then survivorsnetwork.org.uk is a good place to start. Wishing you good health and all the very best for the road ahead 💕
I have dated many people with DID, and amazing relationships even though the alters can be a situation but this interview does explain a lot more about DID which I was never told. Very intriguing.
@Pinka Tara* Hey can you please post more of these? If you can put one on every TH-cam video that would be fantastic. It's so much better with irrelevant and inappropriate spam. Please let me know as soon as you've done it and we can discuss the next plan to desperately prey on the desperately trying to prey on.... Should be very rewarding. People will thank you and you will probably become extremely famous and wealthy. Thanks in advance 😀
Its odd that you have even met 'many' people with DID let alone had the chance to date more than one. No offense but this sounds suspect. Are you fibbing or seeking people with DID out? If its the second one its sounds very abusive. JMO
@@mr.mrs.d.7015 I wouldn't worry about it, honestly. It's not THAT uncommon of a disorder; you wouldn't call fibbing if someone said they'd dated many redheads, or many trans people, for example. It doesn't seem too likely this person is going and sniffing out pwDID to target or something. /nm
The words displayed in the thumbnail for this video, "I have people living in my head." That is not what dissociative identity disorder is. All those people are the same one person, burdened with various augmentation pending on associated trauma.
Yes and no? First of all: There doesn't have to be a "main personality". Who fronts the most can change over time, we're only in our early twenties and it happened 4 times. And it's hard to trace back "one original" at times, sometimes there isn't even an original. That means that saying "one personality in different augmentations", even if you see "the host" as the "main personality" is a little bit misleading of a statement as there isn't exactly one alter who has control over what the others are thinking or doing. They all have autonomy. They all have their thoughts, values opinions and even preferences and intrests, that can be entirely opposite from not only "the host" but also the rest of the alters. There is no one personality, that's the whole point. It's all encapsulated different modes of the brain that can be somewhat active at the same time (co-consciousness or co-fronting).
Which is to say, yes it is the same one person on the outside, the same one brain, but if they were all the same person, then we could all just "stop acting like this", then it would hardly be any different from someone who due to their BPD is acting entirely differently to their rational mind and then has dissociative amnesia in denial. But alters also affect other parts of the daily life, they are not just trauma reactions. What you are going to be meeting when meeting an alter is the one-brain equivalent of a whole other albeit maybe not entirely developed person. I hope that makes sense.
It appears you have misinterpreted my comment. Never once did I use the term 'main personality' or 'personality' even. As someone living comorbidly with this for nearly two decades, my perspective is my own.
Thanks to Bo for taking part, you can follow and find out more below:
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@@Anonymous______________ Are you able to elaborate?
Maybe you could back your very emphatic viewpoint up with something other than just your opinion based on your own observation and judgement of a very short and rather casual interview with a person that clearly does seem to be unwell?
Is there any other information I could look at, studies, papers, articles?
Perhaps some of your peers have relevant material from their research also.
I'd like to try and understand more about your experience and expertise in mental health and human behavior.
I look forward to learning more 😊
Thank you for your engaging comments
@@DisslinWheezel I mean there’s not much to elaborate on it just sounds like she’s talking a crock of shit
@@Anonymous______________ With a painful condition people have the right to decide whether to make it more or less painful. And for integration to happen in DID there has to be a lot of pain.
Some people are just not ready for that. And that's totally ok. Professionals realize that.
@@pinkatara6491 @Pinka Tara*
Hey can you please post more of these? If you can put one on every TH-cam video that would be fantastic.
It's so much better with irrelevant and inappropriate spam.
Please let me know as soon as you've done it and we can discuss the next plan to desperately prey on the desperately trying to prey on.... Should be very rewarding.
People will thank you and you will probably become extremely famous and wealthy.
Thanks in advance 😀
@@ethngry8609 ok well I guess it must be a crock of shit then and that's just how it is ...
Go with your gut feeling, saves the hassle of trying to use evidence to decide if someone is mentally unwell or if they're just cashing in on the easy and fruitful lifestyle by pretending to be suffering from a really complex and difficult to understand mental disorder....
Yeah I think you might be gifted with an intuitive diagnostic ability.
Would you accept payment to do a session and try to channel the reason behind my sore shoulder? Or do you reckon it's just from sleeping in a wierd position?
Thanks in advance?
Hey! This is me!
I was just reminded of this video and wanted to come check out the comments!
First of thankyou so so much for all your kind words, they all mean so much ❤
Second, weve seen alot of comments saying that people have checked our channel, and our current financial/living situation and assumed this meant that LadBible did not pay us. This isnt true. We did this shoot a long time ago now and were paid for it straight afterwards. We werent even expecting any pay and would have happily done it for free so it was a welcome surprise! I wanted to clear this up on behalf of ladbible! They were so lovely to us and was so honored to work with them again! 🥰
Bo & Co. 💖
(Ps. Im not wiping my nose, im wiping my top lip 😅 its hot under those lights! SULA 🙈😅😂)
thank u 4 sharing ur experience ♡
Thank you for openness. It is wonderful that people of all types, viewpoints, histories, experiences, etc., are telling their life stories on TH-cam. So glad you're making content.
Sula? Do you speak Hebrew??
@@noddygirl no, its a movie reference 🙈
I think your amazing, lovely to see someone of my age who’s so grounded and down to earth about their feelings and thoughts… wish you all the best❤️
I just went to look at Bo's youtube and the first video that I happened to click on is the poor girl saying she can't afford electricity or food and that she was worried doing this lad bible interview was gonna cost her more than she could afford, and more than it would make her. Why the hell in 2021/2022 are you not paying people for their time Lad Bible?
Because it's voluntary!
That's awful!! Whilst the interview itself may be voluntary, most charities will at least cover their volunteer's costs - & Lad Bible is a business! They're actively making money out of this, so the least they can do is ensure that the person making them that money - the focal point of the video - is not out of pocket for helping them... Sheesh!
@@georgina-a exactly, you've hit the nail on the head. It's fine that it's voluntary- people could just not do it, but if they do their costs should at least be covered. This channel wouldn't be able to continue to exist without the interviewees, they're the lifeblood of the channel.
It got worse unfortunately, I stumbled upon her latest video and she apparently got fired by a convention(?) where she volunteered at because her employers alleged her of bringing in and using "drugs" illegally at work. They were in fact her legally prescribed medications according to that video. She's sobbing and visibly unstable in it so I looked around and found this video, which explained things further for me about her situation. I really hope she receives assistance and get proper compensation by her employers, ntm she wasn't paid by them as well :(
Can you send the link please
Of Bo's yt
I read that DID is the brain 🧠 trying to protect its self from trauma. I send healing her way. It must be very scary. Wishing her all the best!!
@@Anonymous______________ You know what actual malignant narcissism looks like? Claiming to be such an expert with no real qualifications, experience or otherwise to criticise someone’s diagnosis, yet completely dismissing them and furthermore implying the condition doesn’t exist despite all the literature and years of research. You do harm with your lack of empathy and intellect
@Yolanda,____💋 stop it
@@jaihalai7674 couldn't agree with you more. I was waiting for him to spew forth his qualification or at least his years of experience. When none came I realised what a dangerous little person this is voicing their uneducated views. He seems to have picked up clinical points about this person from a 16 minute video, that their psychiatrist has missed! And their summary about it being a parenting issue is just so naively purile that I feel a little sorry for them ....... almost.
@@jaihalai7674 where did his comment go? It seemed to disappeared. Does that mean he erased it? It vanished 5 minutes after I posted mine.
@@roygeorge5364 TH-cam is weird with comments sometimes either that or Ladbible might’ve hidden or straight up deleted his comment
This is a brave young woman. I'm so glad she is getting mental health care. Bo, please be patient with yourself. Therapy is difficult. You have to go back to move forward. It was definitely worth it for me.
@@pinkatara6491 @Pinka Tara*
Hey can you please post more of these? If you can put one on every TH-cam video that would be fantastic.
It's so much better with irrelevant and inappropriate spam.
Please let me know as soon as you've done it and we can discuss the next plan to desperately prey on the desperately trying to prey on.... Should be very rewarding.
People will thank you and you will probably become extremely famous and wealthy.
Thanks in advance 😀
Also, can you please get this sorted today? It's really important
@@DisslinWheezel it’s a bot
@@draingang2732 Yes that is correct, thank you for participating in my strange little game, you are now ranked third place !! To claim your prize please sign all your possessions over to me so I can go ahead and ship your winnings out on the morning courier.
@@DisslinWheezel why does nobody get the joke
@@Tarks_Coady_EFC good question
I recently got diagnosed with DID… I feel so much less confused and less lonely after watching this. Thank you Bo… wish I could talk with you directly bc I’ve yet to find someone else who experiences this so similarly. We will get through. I’m a professional artist so I escape in my art and use my alters in my art and business like a chameleon but everyone with DID is very different due to precursors and situations… I have ptsd and bipolar and DID came on fully after the traumas. It’s not split or multiple personality disorder bc that means you have many personalities while DID means you have one identify but due to trauma and triggers you fragment your personality to protect that vulnerable piece of you.
@@pinkatara6491 @Pinka Tara*
Hey can you please post more of these? If you can put one on every TH-cam video that would be fantastic.
It's so much better with irrelevant and inappropriate spam.
Please let me know as soon as you've done it and we can discuss the next plan to desperately prey on the desperately trying to prey on.... Should be very rewarding.
People will thank you and you will probably become extremely famous and wealthy.
Thanks in advance 😀
@@DisslinWheezel bro its a bot lol
Hey, I know she has a TH-cam account with tons of videos, might be helpful? :)
There’s an entire DID community on TH-cam, of which Bo is a member. We all make videos of our experiences to help others like us feel less alone.
Get yourself a Bible. That's where you get your peace and understanding. Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and be saved. He can save you from the demon's inside you!
My sister has DID, I've done so much reading on what it is, the experience, her life, being apart of her life, what can trigger her. I've always been so dedicated to it as an adult because we didn't know when we were kids, everyone would just say "your sister just loses it sometimes or even call her crazy (and that's just our parents) and looking back I can see it all. I can see the ages where it began developing. I was a mean younger brother and I probably didn't help. As an adult, I just want to understand and I know I can be someone that she trusts. She's alienated from the family because they think she just has ruthless modd swings. I'm all she has outside of her really good friends (fucking love those girls for that) and our younger sister who is over a decade younger than even myself and doesn't know all of this yet. I've never seen her break into her protector, the problem solver, or in reality the douche who creates problems because the identity is dangerous, hateful and seemingly aims to knock anyone and everyone down to build themselves up. Sometimes I cant get a hold of her for days, then ill drive over (I intentionally live within twn minutes) and when i walk in she's there but who im talking to is a total strnger. Its made a great actor out of me because i just interact as if everything in that moment is ok and ill usually stay with her until i can tell its relaxed. I dont see it as a burden, I have her and she has me. Regardless of my own life, i will always have time for all of hers.... is what i tell her and its true. This video was the first time I've seen someone with DID open up in a way even my sister hasn't, I've become a big fan of minutes with over the last few months and this piece, this piece, is one of the many reasons why. It's all very real and has a deep meaning for those who can empathize or relate.
As a person with DID myself I can only say, your sister is really lucky to have such a nice and caring brother. Thank you for doing that, for educating yourself, for believing her, and for being there for her. That really made my day and went straight into my heart. Stay like that and support your sister and love her/them, please
Have a nice day
Were your parents abusive or did she go through some sort of trauma? Was it not related to you (if it happened) since you didnt develop it?
@PikaWolfy My apologies! I never noticed your reply :)
She's my big sister, always will be. I don't really know what else to say, but your comment made me smile. Thank you. ❤️
@shades of uv honestly, I'm choosing not to answer those as directly as you've asked them. Just know that we come from a loving and non-abusive home. As mentioned, they just aren't the most understanding of mental health and still haven't caught up with the many modern definitions and diagnosis for what has always been a part of people's lives.
@@TrustMelDontCare Oh ok! Thanks for sharing. I'm sorry if I asked too directly, I didn't mean to bring up your business. I have schizophrenia so I understand the struggle with mental health. I will pray for you all. Tell them they have me in their corner!!
I really like this interview. It's not overly dramatic. It feels genuine. Thank you.
you mean those who are Overt( 5% of DID ) are dramatic, because it's someone different than mostly neuro typical?
This is the Reason Treatment of DID is To not Tell anyone about it, because you guys Judge the F*ck out of Us
The hardest thing, for me, as a DID child was being beaten for doing something wrong and screaming,
"IT WASN'T ME, I DIDN'T DO IT!"
It would be decades before I learned how right and wrong I was.
Nearly 70 now and I live alone with my others.
Last night I scalded myself and First Born was rushed forward in a PTSD nightmare. The amazing thing is our arm was awful red with horrid burning pain. First Born began crying for Mimi who came through the veil, soothed the child and just like snapping a finger the pain and discoloration vanished.
I look forward to the end of our time on Earth...
That is heartbreaking, and I'm sorry you had to endure it. I hope you and you arm are okay.
Have you had any good experience with therapy? Maybe you might be able to find someone that can help you cope with everything
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The first part totally got me. identical experience... and all the selfquestioning decades later 😔
...But the one who knows what had happened to that monster's vase back in 1990, has meanwhile explained that it really hadn't been one of us, but the wind blowing the window open and that window breaking it.
I still don't know if with some events, the other alters would lie... I don't know if there's evil inside of this shattered structure of ours.
I admire Bo so much, she's a brave and clever young woman. Amazing interview!
"it's definitely scary that i know i have trauma that I can't remember" oh, definitely!! I do have trauma as well and it frightens me that I don't remember most of it and also much of what happened in between. I am not a system but knowing that my brain did this to protect me just makes me wonder how bad it must've been for my younger self. I don't wanna remember it right now tho, because even tho I'm curious I know that I'm not ready to deal that yet, and every time I unlock something is a scary moment (because I fear the time is approaching and I'm not ready just yet).
My sister has DID. When she was diagnosed she was in her 30s. I've done massive research so I can try to understand what she deals with.
👏👏Really the best thing to do for family
Sus that only a few countries recognise it hmmm.....
Alters dont exist
@@medismalkovic1054 show me your psych degree and your detailed and researched paper proving that then. I already know you lack both. Anyways my alters and I will continue to exist regardless of your ignorance
@@medismalkovic1054 🤡
@@glixrio show me your non existent diagnosis bro
Thank you for what you said about this being seen as a trendy, fun disorder. As you well know, it is anything but. People who turn this into a game do a great disservice to people who really do suffer from this disorder. Thank you for helping people see this for what it truly is. I wish you all the healing that you deserve. You are so very courageous.
Yes it’s not just about having other ‘parts’ - there are the things that run alongside DID like the anxiety, ptsd, eating disorders, self harm , depression, etc and the pervasive terror always in the background - but it does get better …
What a beautiful soul this articulate girl has.
What’s hard to swallow is we all know she’s been through a terrible time at some point in her childhood. 🥺
I'm really glad to hear someone honestly talk about their alters when they do bad things that scare the shit out of you. All the former youtube DID celebs just had such cute cookie cutter perfect little helpers that I thought why did mine end up trying to hurt me or others -- which I know now why because of one having a very protective nature and thinks everything and everyone is a threat and to release anger as Bo said. My alter lashing out started in 6th grade and intensified until we got some help and I was out day after day in 11th grade, since I'm more responsible and don't really have emotions. It was years of it's just teen years. It's just hormones. I had a friend who would make up things my alter would say to get others to bully me. It was like friends could see it and they would gravitate to me to watch me crumble. So glad Bo had good friends. This was a great interview, and was glad Bo shared it with us.
Be nice, Deanna, and cool if you'd start a TH-cam channel. Your videos don't have to start perfect. Lot of people can benefit if you'd share your life story and explain what happened.
I actually knew a gal who had this. I remember that she did a lot of work to get to know her alters. She kept a journal to keep track of what each alter experienced, and even gave each of them a Christmas gift and then filmed their reactions.
Wow this is very smart..
@@7521ericif you don’t have it you have no idea how internal communication works. DID presents differently in different systems. Communication between parts is both possible and imperative.
@@7521eric It’s in the DSM-5 which is the main reference and diagnostic manual for all mental health clinicians. But I’m sure you know better than them.
@@7521eric I watch his content and he has multiple videos that say very different things than “it’s fake.”
@@wanderingbelle7 than read Dr Charles Raison in Psychology Today. He said its definitely a disorder, but there are not literally separate biological people living in the same body/brain.
She did a fantastic job at describing what it's like. I appreciate this.
I wasn't interested enough to watch this story, but I am SO glad that I did. What a fascinating and lovely person.
I’ve been following Bobo&Co for a good while now. I’m glad you’re able to get your voices out there to a wider range of people. You’re doing great work. Keep on going.
As someone with did im so grateful it's finally being talked about, for many it's very scary to open up about because of all the preconceptions and lack of knowledge many people have x
Ok some of the comments are absolutely disgusting. DID is a serious, real disorder that stems from repeated, childhood trauma. Alters are not demons or alter egos, imaginar frients etc. they are very real part of our brains that did not fully integrate because of the trauma. Alters can have no memory of trauma or they can have severe memories of trauma that the brain does not want the host to remember in order to survive. People with DID suffer with amnesia, ptsd, various levels of dissociation (from switches to derealisation and depersonalisation). Other and less talked about dissociative dissorders include OSDD1b (similar to DID but less amnesia) OSDD1a (similar to DID, with amnesia but alters that are very similar), depersonalisation derealisation dissorder. Most people with DID are very covert, too. It is very different from what is portrayed in eg. Split.
edit. I've edited the word 'severe' due to the discussion in the comments below.
Explained very well.
@@pinkatara6491
Hey can you please post more of these? If you can put one on every TH-cam video that would be fantastic.
It's so much better with irrelevant and inappropriate spam.
Please let me know as soon as you've done it and we can discuss the next plan to desperately prey on the desperately trying to prey on.... Should be very rewarding.
People will thank you and you will probably become extremely famous and wealthy.
Thanks in advance 😀
Thank you!! It's worth noting, though, that "severe" childhood trauma does not cause DID. Severity of trauma is impossible to measure, and any trauma can cause disordered plurality in the form of DID.
@@jellifygirl True and thank you for noting this. Trauma is very subjective.
@@jellifygirl yes it does. If its severe enough.and repeated enough. It literally disrupts how the brain developes. And i hope youre not suggesting that something like CSA is subjective. Cos i guarantee NO ONE thinks its on a par with some stuff
Brave woman, can't imagine what it's like to go through this, and what happened in her younger years very sad, but she is brilliant, very intelligent, and a fantastic soul.
Peace and Love ❤️🙏❤️
Wishing you the best for the future, and a beautiful life x
Her name is Bobo&Co here on TH-cam if you want to keep up with her.
You can literally see it through her eyes. She's beautiful, and I pray she finally peace and can live a prosperous life.
Beautiful, sad, and incredibly expressive eyes. You could see her story even during silence.
This is the best explanation of DID I've heard so far.
Bo is such an incredible person - massive good luck to her in whatever she does
Poor kid ! Poor kid ! I am so moved by her story. Damaged people have enormous strenghths and coping mechanisms. She will make a geat mum .
Traumatised girls are often robbed of their maternal instinct. They might not want to have kids at all, feel absolutely no desire to or feel unable to bond with the child because of their relationship with their primary caregiver as an infant.
I appreciate this woman for having a real, diagnosed medical illness and being strong enough to talk about it. But Tik Tok and kids trying to emulate something serious like this has really tainted the image of people with DID.
For anyone wondering, among the experts and doctors DID is widely believed to not be a real disorder. Just like aspergers is no longer a real diagnosis. The issue was autism the whole time in aspergers case. Which is what the evidence suggests is happening with DID.
For anyone wondering, what Marshallah said isn't true. DID is widely believed to be a real disorder among doctors...hence why it's in the diagnostic manual. And it has nothing to do with autism.
@@YusuphYT like bruh
@@YusuphYT Its no longer the 1970s luv, catch up. Nearly every single professional in medicine and psychology agrees it is both very real AND not at all as rare as people think.
@@YusuphYT Stop spreading misinformation, while there might still be the odd psychiatrist who thinks DID is actually schizophrenia or some other disorder, it's far from being the majority nowadays. It might be hard to find a professional that's actually knowledgeable enough to diagnose and help people who suffer from it, but it IS widely recognized as a real and accurate diagnosis.
I relate to your story. Especially the "hot tap" bit. It was so scary to not understand why it was happening. To see this, as a system that is becoming more and more functional as a team feels like a full circle moment for me.
I didn't know this was a thing that someone else would ever relate to....also, I never knew that others had similar alters to me until I met other systems.
Thank you for sharing. ❤
Nice to see more representation, remember that DID can present very differently depending on the individual. A lot of the things she said resonated with me but her perception on it was a lot different to mine.
Wow to this story. What a brave person. I can’t wrap my head round how difficult this must be. You will get out the other side of this as you made the great step talking and sharing your story & journey so far 💕
Be strong, Bo. You are amazing and deserve best in life!
I love her tone, i could listen to her speak for hours
I'm so proud of Bobo ❤️ we're here to see you get better and have a good life ahead of you :)
Also I think people need to realized whether you believe DID is real or not you have to understand that people's mental health is important. Especially now a days where people think it's "cute" to pretend they have these disorders. When I watch this I watch someone who rather not have this and have been through so much.
People judge what they don’t understand. You don’t experience the world the same way others do.
You’re very brave and inspiring, thank you for being very open about this.
Must be really scary to live with this… hopefully she’s on the right medication and is in good health
@@Anonymous______________ No need to get jealous. You sound so lovely and compassionate.
Have a hug from me.
@@Anonymous______________ Plenty of people I've worked with say they can control their hallucinations to a certain degree.
Whether it's DID or personality disorder or if in fact DID is a personality disorder, something's not right clearly.
@@redactedanticretin she is professionally diagnosed.
She literally told how she knows about some of her alters and shit that has happened- people around her telling her, filming it. Also alters can leave notes to each other and they will have different handwriting.
She’s not faking her amnesia.
God your comment is so full of ignorance and stigma.
The way you’re talking about Borderline girls all being toxic. Borderline manifests in many ways. Not all of them are toxic, and it’s a disorder that comes directly from childhood trauma- just like DID.
Maybe instead of being so skeptical and opening your mouth about shit you don’t understand, you should try listening, REALLY listening and learning.
This girl is one of the kindest sweetest people I’ve ever had the privilege to meet- so keep your disrespectful shit to yourself
@@deadchannel986 👍👏👏👏👏
@@pinkatara6491 thanks, but it's upside down, can you please repost? I need to see more spam, it's what I live for
I totally can understand this. Everyone deals with trauma in a different way. Some people would never understand. I think this young lady is so brave to share her story. I relate it to having an out of body experience.
All my heart, and respect for Bo on talking about her DID. I've always been curious on how it was exactly, and what caused it. I know an online friend who goes through that, and at times, with a trigger or something, they'll say one of them is coming or something like that. Definitely has had some trauma that caused her to have a few alters. Glad to see Bo talking about it, and for people to see this is serious, not a game or something "cute". It would feel horrifying.
Oh goodness, I was no nervous for this system during some of these questions. I hope they are able to keep themselves safe during this time. I appreciate the conversation and I’m worried this was taken advantage of them.
Yeah and they cut her off at weird moments without letting her fully explain
I'm sure they are and where. System's usually have protectors who can come to the front and are very firm and will refuse to answer a question, let anyone else answer and may even get up and leave if they feel the system is in danger of being triggered or is just plain being disrespected.
Thank you for this video! Living with DID is scary and exhausting
DID is such an interesting aspect of mental health. Really enjoyed watching this.
For what I, as the one writing this, recall I am very firm in knowing I don't want to know what the others do. They hold locked boxes that possess months to years of memories I've no access to; the locks are there for a reason.
I'm content being able to share and I see another did too. Sometimes I fuss over trying to remember writing or doing something but when I realize it wasn't me it feels okay, like a needed deep sigh.
More power to this beautiful person 💙
@Yolanda,____💋 The fact you are posting about young girls repeatedly in the comments of a video about a mental health condition brought on by childhood trauma, like CSA, is just gross. Stop.
@@purplegem23 it’s not a real person lol, they’re bots. So replying to a comment posted by a bot is pointless.
@@kemal3599 Yes, it may appear pointless and thats understandable, however I find it to be significantly "Non Pointless" and this gives the action a purpose.
Furthermore I find it fulfillls the desired outcome very effectively despite the range being extremely narrow. Perhaps even just to me, bottom line is, IT WORKED 😉
Thank you for being honest about a really horrible condition. Do the work with therapy and I am confident you will get better. Being honest about getting rid of them really shows that you still need coping skills. Stay strong!!
I'm a member of a plural system and finding out diagnosis was the best thing to ever happen. Instead of hiding our truths, we are now all together and out and proud and happy. We work together and decide on life choices, and while certainly there's some hard parts not a day goes by we don't want to be a system. We love eachother, we are full people with lives and goals and aspirations.
Being a system is not a death sentence, and it's not nearly as scary as most media will allow you to believe. I look forward to more plural advocacy and awareness where us and other systems can be our true selves in daily life.
-Shad of the Draco System
Some of these comments are very disheartening. DID is a very real thing brought on by immense trauma.
No it’s not. She’s a con artist and you’re gullible. She likely has histrionic or Borderline personality disorder but DID is more romantic and makes everyone call you brave and beautiful so she just pretends to have that.
@@JoeMama-yd1ve And where's your proof?
@@JoeMama-yd1ve what's wrong with you
@@JoeMama-yd1ve Go home ur drunk
It's malingering.
I feel like she did a good job explaining it
Expressive lady. Thank you for educating me
If anyone is watching this getting discouraged because you’re seeing things like “this isn’t real” or “you’re looking for attention”, remember that up until the 1950’s doctors would advertise “healthy” cigarettes, people with mental illness were often called “changelings” or they saw “fairies”, and doctors used to recommend vibrators to women to treat "hysteria".
Medical science is always changing and the science involving our minds is woefully under studied. The only one who can understand your trauma is yourself and your therapist. Don’t let others on the internet who don’t know you from the person they sit next to at a bus station tell you your feelings are wrong.
Reminds me of the old movie, 'Sybil'. Being an adolescent or young adult are difficult times in anyone's life, but surely an impossible time for anyone with repressed traumatic experiences. Keep right on to the end of the road.
I wish her all the best for the future🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Much credit has to go to Bo for doing this. I hope she stays healthy.
I don't have DID but I can relate a lot to the trauma side of things. My memories of it are vague as well, but it's enough to know that there's _something_ there.
Being diagnosed with PTSD in my 40's hit hard. On one hand I finally understood so much more about myself, on the other- _oh shit, it's actually real_
And accepting that I have trauma was the breakthrough to also accepting I'm actually trans.
Edit: turns out I am actually plural after all. That's been a wild ride.
Power to you! Hope you're doing better
My DID system shares a lot of memories in terms of remembering events while someone else was out, but we are completely disconnected from each others emotions and thoughts. Like as a 7yo one of us would try to hurt my mom, and when I would come back to the top I would remember doing it but have absolutely no fucking clue why or what we had been thinking. It was so horrific and I felt so much guilt for the things I’d done when I had absolutely no recollection of the feelings or motivations that caused me to do bad things. Same with very positive emotions. My mom has been extremely supportive of me as I’ve been diagnosed (at 18 years old), and the other day our five year old part was talking to her and was apparently ECSTATIC about something. I remember the conversation, but I have no memory of that elation, all I can feel about the conversation is exhaustion. Some parts of my life are blackout amnesia but for the most part we are often co conscious. I usually describe it as feeling like being under water in a pool with goggles on. When I’m completely on the bottom I can barely “see the light” so to speak, but when I’m close to the surface I can make out what’s going on relatively clearly but still be underneath. Idk if that makes any sense but that’s how it feels🤷🏻♀️
DID is wild and presents so differently in different systems.
I've got a DID diagnosis, it varies from person to person, however this is very helpful for me. Its frustrating trying to explain this disorder. Its so hard to describe and get people to at least understand what I mean a little. I feel less insane watching this, it helps me grasp my own mental health
So I was diagnosed with this back in the 90s. I question it constantly. My question is why do people so easily accept the diagnosis? I know I have experienced episodes of amnesia/dissociation because people have told me things but it's not constantly to me. Maybe I keep thinking it has to be like Sybil. To me it's like different parts of me coming into my awareness and I go somewhere else. It's happened in therapy sessions where I had no clue what I was talking about. I've been talking to a therapist and literally be interrupted by someone "inside" and I stop talking to listen. I don't know. There's more to be learned about dissociation
Maybe you just have a attention seeking disorder and you seek attention from people and what better way than to have one of the rarest personality disorders 😉
The entire system has to take responsibility for violent acts such as yelling, verbal abuse, smashing things. As unfortunate as DID is, there is still a responsibility on that person to not be abusive or violent, and one can never use DID as an excuse to do harmful toxic things to themselves or others
I love when people have multiple personalities. You get a group of friends all in one person.
Thank you for sharing your story.Thank you for your honesty and explaining what D.D.D. is so people can understand and for others who are newly diagnosed.
I have so much love for you, bo, layla and the others. I follow your stories since years and i send you warmth and a hug! 🦦🧸❤️
Comments are really disappointing. Just read structural dissociation. If anything, the majority of you are privileged to have been able to be cared for by adults who won't hurt or abuse you.
Sending love bobo ❤ always a supporter. Love TLWF 🐺
This is so far removed from my own experience of existence that I struggle to believe it's real. Not to say that it isn't, I am clearly operating on my own biases, but I have a hard time trying to empathize with things like this because they are so alien to me.
& that's completely understandable as long as you are respectful, some struggle to relate to something that is so far out of the realm of their own existence
@@missbetty4738 Well put, Betty, thanks!
Just avoid DID TikTok videos, lots of misinformation and blatant role playing going on there, they basically mock a very severe condition because it’s “trendy”
A decent man is alien to me. Does that mean they dont exist? Are you an expert? You come across as just another ignorant person
@@Amy-ms6wj neither do i. But religion is faith based. DID is fact based and not believing in it is ignorant. Its a professionally diagnosed condition
No is professionally diagnosed. To say its beyond belief is ignore. It can also be damaging to those suffering. It can stop people from getting the help they need. Many people will attempt suicide. That is not something you want you encourage
What a brave and lovely person
You are not alone! I’m 46 with DID. It’s horrible ❤
This also happens when sociopaths abuse someone. They will emesh with their victim especially on a spiritual level, the victim will sense a loss of personal identity and it will seem as though there are other people living inside the victim's mind & soul. HCP will label this DID or schizophrenia when in fact it's actually the victim's soul that has been fragmented and other entities have attached to it. A sociopath will soul bond with their target in order to ensnare the individual, also known as trauma bonding. It can seem like you're having a conversation with someone in your mind as though they're physically present with you but they're not.. its on a mental, emotional, psychic & spiritual level that cannot be logically explained. Its tough to understand at times what the heck actually happened to you especially if you're more of a scientific and rationally minded person.
I love Bo. She has always been so sweet and honest.
If she doesn't remember anything from her alters, how can she possibly describe their thoughts, emotions, and desires?
because once your not in the stressful environment anymore the amnesia barriers go down a bit so the alters can talk to each other about their interest and how they feel
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There's the ability to talk to them, whether in co-fronting (two or more controlling the body at the same time) or in their own headspace, some systems develop what you might call a "house" in their brain and that's kind of where they stay, talking to each other like they're all roomies. I've met someone with DID and I've done my research on it, it is also possible that they're "sharing eyes" sort of, like they can see what's going on but never actually fronting.
she has a youtube channel where plenty of alters make their own videos regarding their experiences, she also has people in her close life informing her
Wishing you all the best for the future and respect for sitting in the chair, hopefully helping others.🙏🏻
@@pinkatara6491 👅👅👅👅
wow this girl is incredible ... so gorgeous, articulate and brave
Man, I hope she learns how to co-con with her alters, or just to talk to them. Getting to know them helps a lot. They're there because they tryna protect you, even Persecutors (who seems to wanna hurt you, they just don'tknow how to do it in a healthier way). Hope she'll be okay.
I wish her, and her alters the very best! 🖤
Thank you so much for sharing. I wish you nothing but a bright a prosperous future. I'm sure you will be a brilliant Mum. ❤
I speak from experience of living with DID; The more you compartmentalize your self into these alternates, the less likely you are to have a stable healthy mental state. You need to accept and realize that there is no such thing as alters, your psyche is only trying to protect itself from what you can’t face out in the open.
Thank you for sharing!
Good job, Bo! 💜
This is USUALLY caused by childhood TRAUMA that the child is completely incapable of dealing with. The ALTERS handle the pain and suffering.
One thing i don"t get it..if she is not aware of this personalities, how can she describe them so well? Even gave them names and characteristics and everything?
It's just a story they tell to make themselves seem interesting.
Systems usually have journals to communicatre or can do it via thoughts
It's just a person making up a story, about being multiple people. It's not real.
A therapist would have met the other personalities and informed her about them. With therapy they can often get the personalities in to communicate and work together as a team.
@@LocustaVampa dude check the dsm 5. Its a real thing
Damn this sent me down a rabbit hole of your videos. super interesting seeing all of your alters make videos. kudos to you though you are brave and no one even i can understand the struggles that come with DID. keep being yourself and you are an amazing person. rock on my dude and keep being yourself much love
I have DID too.
It’s exhausting and misunderstood.
People assume that everyone has a murderous alter, when that is beyond rare. I have 4 alters and managing them along with myself is tough, but therapy helps.
I hope this lady is doing well
Thank you for sharing your story.
Psychiatry and psychology are amazing. The mind is such a mystery!
Yes Except for those who are not fit to practice
Anastasia: That means that a subpersonality is a Personality just like you which was active in the past incarnations of your Soul.
Rigden: Yes. In other words, it is a former Personality from a past life with all the baggage of sensory and emotional dominants (positive or negative ones) which it accumulated during its lifetime; that is, with the result of its choice during life.
The Personality, as a rule, does not have a direct connection with subpersonalities; therefore, the person does not remember his previous lives and, accordingly, the experience and the knowledge gained by these subpersonalities. However, in rare cases when certain circumstances overlap, the Personality may experience a vague feeling of déjà vu or short-term spontaneous manifestations of the activity of the latest subpersonality (the one which precedes the current incarnation). This is particularly typical for people in early childhood.
There are cases, which have been recorded in papers on psychiatry, when children, in whom no deviations have been observed and who have healthy parents, manifest short-term unnatural behaviour akin to borderline personality disorder. I will give one of such examples. A four-year-old girl started having one and the same dream: against the background of light, a boy was calling her to approach him, but he wouldn’t let her go into the light. She started complaining to her parents about this dream which was depressing her, and in the evenings she started behaving in an unpredictable, aggressive way which had previously been unusual for her. She would also become unusually strong. The four-year-old girl would angrily turn over tables, chairs, a heavy bedside-table; she would not recognise her mother, would throw a fit, and say in an accusatory way: “You’re not my mother”, “You will die anyway”, and so on. That is, the girl’s words and behaviour were unnatural for her but they were quite natural for a subpersonality that had gone through reincarnation and was then in the state of “hell”, experiencing suffering and animal pain. The next day, the child would become normal again and behave as usual. This is a typical example of a short-term manifestation of negativism of the previous subpersonality. The best thing that can be done in this case is to actively develop the child’s intellect, expand his or her horizons of knowing the world, and wait until the primary surge takes place and a new Personality forms.
The primary surge happens, as a rule, by the time a person is 5-7 years old. The fact is that in early childhood, prior to the primary surge, such a short-term activation of the previous Personality (subpersonality) may indeed take place. The latter, while a new Personality is forming, is trying to get to the consciousness and seize power over the person.
However, other cases of manifestation of a subpersonality are much more frequent. This is when children aged 3-5 (during the period when a new Personality has not yet been formed) begin to talk from the position of an adult, experienced person. In rare cases, there may be detailed descriptions of their previous adult lives which are in fact impossible to know at such an age. More often though, a child speaks unexpectedly wisely about something, expressing unchildlike thoughts, and sometimes this mystically frightens adults. Parents should not be afraid of such manifestations; instead, they should simply understand their nature. Once a child’s personality is formed, such manifestations will pass.
So, every subpersonality preserves the individuality of its past consciousness in the form of the desires and aspirations which dominated it during its active life. The Personality, as I have already said, has no direct connection with subpersonalities; that is, a person does not consciously remember his or her previous lives. However, such a connection between the Personality and subpersonalities is preserved at the subconscious level. The latter may indirectly influence the Personality and “push” it to certain actions, inclining it towards
making certain decisions. This happens on an unconscious level. On top of that, subpersonalities, figuratively speaking, are like “misty light filters”, which considerably hinder the direct connection between the Soul and the new Personality; so, to speak, between the source of the Light and the one who needs it.
Anastasia: “Misty light filters”? That’s a very interesting comparison.
Rigden: Perhaps, I will talk about this in more detail. But it is necessary to understand that all these processes take place at the level of energies; therefore, I will use figurative comparisons for ease of perception. So, subpersonalities are located around the Soul and one can imagine them as… “intelligent” nebulas. On one hand, they are located close to the Soul and experience the influence of this powerful antimaterial structure; so, to speak, the nearness of “the breath of Eternity”, “the presence of a particle from the world of God”. On the other hand, subpersonalities experience a strong influence and pressure of dense material structures of the Animal nature. That is, subpersonalities are squeezed between the two powerful forces of the spiritual and the material worlds. They constantly feel this enormous pressure from both sides. Therefore, each subpersonality becomes a kind of a “light filter” along the journey of the present Personality to connect with the Soul. The level of “dimming” of such a “light filter subpersonality” depends on the dominant life choices and preferences as well as the sensory and emotional priorities that were accumulated in its past life.
For example, if in his past life, a person was good and kind and did much for his spiritual development but not enough to finally escape from the material world, then this subpersonality will be more at peace and will have fewer vibrations. It means that the energy and impulses from the Soul will pass better through such a “light filter”. However, if a person has wasted his past life on the priorities of material values, then such a “light filter subpersonality” will be denser in its structure due to higher vibrations; in other words, the transmission capacity of, say, “the light” coming out of the Soul will be much worse. This can associatively be compared to a glass soiled with soot, through which true light gets distorted or penetrates less. In other words, the more the Animal side dominated a person during his life and the more material values prevailed, the harder time he will have afterwards since he will be the bearer of a greater level of distortion. If there are many such subpersonalities with dense “light filters”, then it is very difficult for the now living Personality to fight his or her Animal nature, it is difficult to turn from the path of material dominants and feel the Soul.
Anastasia: This means that such a person is kind of more bogged down in matter, and it is more difficult for him or her to change the life vector towards the spiritual development?
Rigden: Yes. However, it is never too late for anyone, even for such a person, to reverse the situation, since the Personality has life force and the right of choice… Otherwise, the same fate that his subpersonalities are currently experiencing, awaits him. By the way, it is precisely the experience of subpersonalities that indirectly results in manifestations of the fear of death in a person at a subconscious level. What subpersonalities feel in a new Personality is, in fact, a real “hell” for them, speaking in language of religion. After the death of the physical body, the Personality, which becomes a subpersonality, gains its own experience and understanding of what the material world really is, what the Soul is, and what the importance of the latter is for the human being. But in the structure of a new body, the subpersonality is already in a desperate position of a chained mind that understands everything, feels a strong sensory and emotional pain, but cannot do anything including sharing its experience with the new Personality. It is equivalent to the situation when you are locked in a body but this body does not serve your mind, does not obey you, and does not do
We are DID system as well and each alter has a place in the system. We have 14 alters in our system and are going through therapy. Each of our alters have different names, genders and food flavors We are working towards functional multiplicity right now with out therapist.
It's nice you're in therapy! I hope your experience gets better.
@@pengibon we do too my friend
thanks for sharing!
I was diagnosed with this last month. No one knows, well my parents do but I may have well told them I have a verruca for all the fucks they gave lol. Mines not as overt as Bo's but then it's not really meant to be. I'm terrified about people finding out cause it has bad stigma or so I seem to think.
I'm sorry to read that you've had such a poor reaction from your parents. DID is ordinarily caused by repeated trauma during your childhood. For that reason, it might be hard for your parents to accept that you suffered "on their watch", when they feel they should have been protecting you. Or (& I apologise for addressing the elephant in the room), if they were responsible for that trauma, then they might be, somewhat selfishly, afraid of what consequences they may face if your DID is taken seriously (and, if you have no memory of the trauma, what memories may surface during treatment, & what that will mean for them).
Due to those reasons, and your experience telling them, I don't think they could provide you with the support that you need, and I strongly suggest that you look for that support elsewhere. Trusted friends and loved ones are a good place to start, and it's also worth speaking to your mental health professional about the support services available in your area. If you're in the UK, then survivorsnetwork.org.uk is a good place to start.
Wishing you good health and all the very best for the road ahead 💕
@@georgina-a thank u so much. 💓
Bobo and co! Wonderful work. Thank you!
So many questions snd so very interesting. Thank you for sharing!!! I wonder.. do the alters age?
Some do, some stay the age they were created, some ',age slide'
they can, not all do though
-A
"Toast, likes to play video games, likes to swear" oh man that reminded of another Toast
Why are people in the comments posting sexual stuff???? Wtf is wrong with you?
She's beautiful and how fascinating ❤
The problem is that any strong emotion like sadness and anger will trigger to switch alters
She is so truthful. Pray she’s well.
A day before the Marvel's Moon knight trailer .That show also deals with DID protagonist
Thank you 🙏🏼
I have dated many people with DID, and amazing relationships even though the alters can be a situation but this interview does explain a lot more about DID which I was never told. Very intriguing.
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Hey can you please post more of these? If you can put one on every TH-cam video that would be fantastic.
It's so much better with irrelevant and inappropriate spam.
Please let me know as soon as you've done it and we can discuss the next plan to desperately prey on the desperately trying to prey on.... Should be very rewarding.
People will thank you and you will probably become extremely famous and wealthy.
Thanks in advance 😀
Its odd that you have even met 'many' people with DID let alone had the chance to date more than one. No offense but this sounds suspect. Are you fibbing or seeking people with DID out? If its the second one its sounds very abusive. JMO
@@mr.mrs.d.7015 I wouldn't worry about it, honestly. It's not THAT uncommon of a disorder; you wouldn't call fibbing if someone said they'd dated many redheads, or many trans people, for example. It doesn't seem too likely this person is going and sniffing out pwDID to target or something. /nm
How do you encounter many people with DID? 🙁
@@3NSII The same way you've encountered many people with DID. It's not like shiny pokemon or something y'all 😭
The words displayed in the thumbnail for this video, "I have people living in my head." That is not what dissociative identity disorder is. All those people are the same one person, burdened with various augmentation pending on associated trauma.
Yes and no?
First of all: There doesn't have to be a "main personality". Who fronts the most can change over time, we're only in our early twenties and it happened 4 times.
And it's hard to trace back "one original" at times, sometimes there isn't even an original.
That means that saying "one personality in different augmentations", even if you see "the host" as the "main personality" is a little bit misleading of a statement as there isn't exactly one alter who has control over what the others are thinking or doing. They all have autonomy. They all have their thoughts, values opinions and even preferences and intrests, that can be entirely opposite from not only "the host" but also the rest of the alters.
There is no one personality, that's the whole point. It's all encapsulated different modes of the brain that can be somewhat active at the same time (co-consciousness or co-fronting).
Which is to say, yes it is the same one person on the outside, the same one brain, but if they were all the same person, then we could all just "stop acting like this", then it would hardly be any different from someone who due to their BPD is acting entirely differently to their rational mind and then has dissociative amnesia in denial.
But alters also affect other parts of the daily life, they are not just trauma reactions. What you are going to be meeting when meeting an alter is the one-brain equivalent of a whole other albeit maybe not entirely developed person.
I hope that makes sense.
It appears you have misinterpreted my comment. Never once did I use the term 'main personality' or 'personality' even. As someone living comorbidly with this for nearly two decades, my perspective is my own.
Fascinating. Thank you, Bo and Co, for sharing your worlds.
Can ladbible do something about the trolls????
I'm watching this 4 months after your comment and there are still nasty and disgusting comments.
You’re a brave quite remarkable soul.