5 Ways to Be More Interesting Immediately (Matthew Hussey)
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Well hello there from isolation.
Guess what? I made a new video for you. And I’m really proud of it. And I think you’re going to love it.
It’s about how to be a more interesting and engaging person in any interaction with someone through 5 quick principles you can instantly apply.
And since most of us are having long-distance conversations with everyone right now, the ability to talk effectively has become utterly essential.
These techniques will show you how to take your talking to another level.
And I know they work because I live by them.
They are relevant whether you’re in the same room with someone, sending voice notes to a new guy, or connecting with a love interest over the phone as we all social distance. (They also apply to business, so you get two for one in today’s video.)
Can’t wait to see what you think.
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1:11 1) Voice your thoughts on a subject because it comes from YOUR perspective
2:21 2) Don't let your ego get in the way of being real
3:58 3) Share your passions, people will appreciate it
5:26 4) Your weaknesses are an asset: connect through vulnerability
6:41 5) Show interest/curiosity in things you don't know about
Perfect summary
What an absolutely brilliant video. My interpretation of the big 5 💕
1. It's not about the message, but the messenger
2. Be vulnerable instead of being amazing
3. Own your inner geek
4. Share your weaknesses to connect with others
5. Be curious about what you don't know
Read more and be kind x
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IEVA Kambarovaite thank you! I do see the full video but I love to screenshot the resume :) God bless you
Great, thank you!! ❤️🌷🌸💖🌼😊
Thanks
Thank you!
Thanks for sharing this.
Now I’ll have the sound “aha! A person!” everytime someone says something interesting lol
Hello dear
Am new here.can I get to know you more in details
Giada P i read this comment right as he was saying this for the first time and im laughing so hard right now
@TheCcephus08 what would that be
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Moral of the story: Don’t be an extra in your own life.
I’m loving this writer advice translating over to life advice. Another book you might enjoy along the lines of this video is “Redshirts” by John Scalzi. It’s about a Star Trek-esque style world where the lead characters are the “redshirts” on their star ship, and they’re trying to survive. It’s brilliant fun.
1:11 1. Never be afraid to write about a place that you think has been had every last word written about it.
It's not your place until you write about it.
2:22 2. There is nothing more interesting than the truth. 3:20 What I'm always looking for as an editor is the sentence that says something like, "I'll never forget the day when.."
4:00 3. Go with your interest.
No area of life is stupid to someone who takes it seriously.
No subject is too specialized or too quirky if you make an honest connection with it when you write about it.
5:27 4. Your weakness is your strengths.
6:42 5. Approach situations where you feed out of your depth with sincere curiosity.
Ur the best
@@supersarona1 thankyou
Thank you for this, really helpful summary
@@theelegantstylist personally, writing things down will help me remember and grasp the concepts much easier, or seeing it as a summary helps as well. It made me focus more rather than just watching and nodding to the screen numbingly...
So I thought it will help others too and glad you all liked it.
thank You
As a writer and a person trying to improve themselves I needed this.
"There is nothing more interesting than the truth" I completely agree that people try to find witty things to say but the truth itself is interesting. When you are brave and own your authenticity and vulnerability you are magnetic and people will be naturally drawn to you. When you are trying too hard, people can sense it!
Everytime I watch your video, I see world more clear and positive. Thanks to God for your existence.
I think this video should have been titled "How to have a greater impact and be present in your life" ❤️❤️❤️ Thanks Mathew! I definitely have to read that book!
My hair is a mess: no chance to see my hairdresser due to lockdown. Now you come along with perfect hair. I couldn't focus on writing, sorry 😁😁😁
Thanks Mathew !! So good ! After your Ice adventure, which I believe totally prepared you for this Covid -19 catastrophe, you have just been on a whole new level!!! You should be so proud of how far you have come .... Thank you for helping me navigate through newly single life... and teaching me to make a proper cup of tea .... Lots of love from Sydney, Australia 🇦🇺 xx
There is nothing more interesting than someone who isn't afraid to say what they think, but articulate in a way that's constructive instead of criticism:)
Thanks Matthew for always being an inspiration for me and my channel :)
Why do you look so incredibly young in this video? At first I thought it was an older video. 😊
It is the hair... It looks so good
Haven't checked this channel for a while. It's amazing how the topics and have expanded for new and elevated levels. Bravo and respect!!!
I miss your Captain America Infinity War haircut, but I'm digging your Captain America End Game haircut
Yasmin Miranda Lets make him Captain UK/ Captain London 🤷🏻♀️
Totally !!!
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did you notice the drastic change in his hairline? i think he got either a laser procedure done or a hairline reduction
@@justStardust940 how can that be what you notice? Lol ... I look at him and I see something else... Its the way he moves so passionately when he talks and how he raises his eyebrows when he's making a point.. Or even when he is laughing and he throws his whole body into it .. Hahaha i don't have time to see his hairline and when I do its not even a issue... Because I'm too busy picking up on a human not just a coach or speaker! I'd love to be able to have one conversation with This man...not for help.. Not for advice.. Just to find out what's in his mind and his driving forces, I think he would be super funny and really deep to talk to.... One of thoes people you could chat for hours with and find what felt like a hour was actually five haha I also think he's a man who could look at you a certain way and just read You or reduce you into fits of laughter with a silly face ... 😂 so how you get to see a hairline.. Goodness knows ! 🤣
Your emotional intelligence is beyond compare..Matthew Hussey..
I really appreciate him so much. I want To do what Hes doing. I want to learn whatever I can help those in need. If I could learn under him I would take the opportunity within a heartbeat! Absolutely incredible.
I decided to write a book during a long narcissistic marriage because I wanted to be remembered for something. There are so many books on machine quilting so I wanted to put my own spin on it. I wrote about how to create quilting designs and came up with my own unique process and ended up doing three books at once, two being hundreds of designs. I didn’t think I could write and didn’t have a plan until 3/4 way through the first book. I had so much fun and learnt a lot about myself particularly trusting my instincts. My husband couldn’t name my books, what they’re about or how many I wrote but it became about giving me confidence in myself and not trying to prove to him that I wasn’t useless (his daily phrase to me).
What a lovely thing to say that weaknesses are in fact our strengths - I agree - i fall in love with people (platonically) who feel able to be vulnerable with me - it’s a proud honour - and my husbands passion within conversations is super sexy. Thank you Matthew for putting across a video during this difficult time. Sending u all the healthy wishes I can from cornwall England xxxx
Matthew, I don't know how I ran into one of your clips on my feed but I'm glad I did. I know most of your stuff is geared towards the ladies, but certainly this is all relevant to everyone. In my own journey of searching for connection and stronger relationships, it's so refreshing to hear the same kinds of ideas I've had as opposed to "pick up artist" tactics or "you do you and f--- everybody else" mindsets. I look forward to learning more.
I actually really loved this video. You sounded so genuine. I am surprised when I hear people talking and speaking about these subjects, I feel that people have lost the power of opening about what they observe and about having a sincere curiosity.❤ You made my day! Wishing you a Happy Easter if you celebrate! Take care!
Thank you, love the principles you shared! You look so handsome Matthew! Truly enjoy seeing so many sides of you through 1GreatHour, your Podcasts and videos. ❤😀
Wonderfully interesting Matthew! Lots of fascinating things in these videos that I hadn't considered before! Wonderful content; definitely lifted my mood this morning. :) Thanks a ton!
Forgot to mention, Congratulations on reaching 2million subscribers!! 🥳👏🙌💃
I am finding as I open myself to heal and grow, I randomly, but also intentionally, find people like you who are able to simplify what I want to express about myself. I discovered you recently from a Lewis Howes interview. Both you and Lewis have become amazing resources for me to be curious and develop my communication skills so I can connect to people while also being vulnerable. I am about to turn 50 ... yes...50! This particular video just clarified my desire to share my story in a blog. No one has ever heard it before and I want to share. Thank you!
I love this content! In the end it’s all about vulnerability and authenticity, isn’t it? I’m coming to see this as the main key to success in every area of life and most of all for really enjoying it. This seems to also be one of my topics to work on this year and you’ve definitely been a great inspiration on this, so thank you!
And by the way: WHAT did you do to your hair? It looks incredibly handsome!
Have a great day!
This describes a zest for life, and a passion for living and gaining experiences that’s makes people refreshing and interesting. Love the fresh perspective
I think I needed to hear that. Been stuck in a writer's block again for my thesis...thank you Matthew for sharing this book and your thoughts on it.
I loved this video because it confirmed that what I have been missing for so long is finding another person interesting, I mean really interesting. So many are "the same" and seemingly terrified of being themselves or open up and then it's really hard to get to know someone. It's like my soul is starving for some real connection.
This is your Best Video so far and i appreciate it,specially in this corona pandemic that we are all in (im from iran) the content beautifully teaches self awareness in conversations and how to let go of self censorship and also Let in the new information whenever and where ever you are and unlike your other videos its not just useful for romantic relationships which is awesome.
I’m always impressed with Matthew’s energy, it’s consistent and positive. I realize as a human being he has down periods too. I’d love to know his process of dealing with a low period and rebounding to his attractive personality
Each person has a very unique way of seeing things and experience what life has to offer❤️
This is really the most genuine and natural way of being more interesting. A stark contrast against all the other videos which only give you tips and tricks which can make you superficially interesting. This video in my opinion, or how I see it. Is NOT about how to be more interesting to other people but rather how to have a more interesting life for yourself. This video is less about how to "show" and more of how to behave and self reflect and enjoy new experiences and conversations. Bravo!!
Yes, exactly this! Very well said!
Your hair looks so good in that video.
Matt your authentic approach in your coaching is appreciated. Thank you.
I appreciate that you try to improve your own knowledge so you are able to help us and that you share what you learn with us! So thank a lot not only for this video but also for all the times you have helped me or someone else through your videos 😊
@Matthew Hussey your showing more & sharing more of yourself because you’ve grown & matured as a person, man & coach! That’s when you grab my interest as a relationship coach because now your real & not just like every other person around who thinks they have all the relationship answers. It’s when we grow that our true authentic self shows & that is the real answer. Let go of expectations you have of others & you place on yourself & live & breath the joys in life. Trust in you & the rest will follow because it’s when we know & trust in who you are as a person that there is no fear, games or pretence & that’s when the fear of impressions & expectations others place on you mean nothing & it’s enough just to be you. True happiness comes when you know, like & care about YOU. Nothings more intoxicating 🙃
Love your input Matthew. I’m taking psychology class which is very intriguing and I agree with the sincerity part. You’ll always be more likeable if you’re honest and genuine within yourself.
I loved all of it, as usual I feel it resonates with me. Just want to give you guys some recognition, I love the enphasis in the website. Great idea guys. It's the little things, right? Thanks Matt and team. Hope you all stay healthy and safe! 💖😷
I love your courage and vulnerability Matthew. Thank you for sharing your light and knowledge with us. Much love xx
Kelley Thorrington,You are absolutely gorgeous 💓💓❤🌹🌹🌹and I will be glad to know you
You inspire me Matthew. Thank you for great content that directly influences a plethora of ideas and "aha's" of my own.
This guy would be my wish if I had one for a dinner guest, he's interesting, engaging, funny and very easy on the eye.
4:46 so glad that you used wine as an example, it’s encouraging to hear that we can transfer our passion to people over a topic that we like :)
I've watched a few of your videos over the years and I've always connected with them. It had been a couple years since I viewed any of your content when I heard you on GGE. It is absolutely one of my favourite episodes! I reconnected to your guidance and even ordered your book. I am currently reading it in quarantine. Even though I can't meet men in person at the moment, I am utilizing apps and am soaking in all of the knowledge. Thank you for all that you do xo Alex
This is wonderful. Matthew Hussey, you are lovely. Watching all your videos during lockdown. Can't wait to get out there when this over and see how it all works.
This was exactly the advice I've been needing lately. Thank you for sharing!
Tips 1 and 3 speaks volumes for me. It's difficult for me to deal with this, but I see this is the best way to communicate. This video is gold, thank you so much for this. Also, you are shinning in this video: you look so refreshed and fine. We all can see something good it happening to you! =)
Thank you for being yourself and lovingly sharing the knowledge and advice that can help more people. Seeing and listening to it makes me want to do the same, learn, practice and share all kinds of things that can help us to be better human beings.
Stunning. I needed this today. ❤😀
I love your videos. You have such depth and a genuine passion and empathy for humanity and building a connection between people. You deviate so far away from trying to tell us how "to be the perfect girl" to attract "the perfect guy" and guide us towards living a content, fulfilling and authentic life, to appreciate all relationships and what we can learn from them, whether a lover, family or friend. It's so refreshing to see this rather than the "find a man to be happy" or the "you must find your own happiness before finding a man". Life is about the whole journey with all the people in it, you need connections to grow but also the confidence to trust in yourself. I am amazed by your empathy and how genuine you are, I've noticed from your recent videos how you've adapted to the current situation. You seemed to be truly struggling in one of the first videos after lockdown and then watching you over the past couple of weeks I can see how you've progressed and adjusted to the situation but you were always concerned with others and how they can cope through this. I love your advice and look forward to the new videos. Thank you for keeping spirits up and for caring.
It’s hard to focus on what you’re saying Matt, cause you look so interesting in this video! You always are but in this vid you’re on 🔥 😍
In line with#3 (talk about your interests) you've advised us before with a quote that's like.... "Keep your hobbies.... It stops you from behind boring"! I think about this all the time and make sure I make time for my passions and it always gives me something to talk about in an interesting way. Thanks Matthew!
Your hair looks nice like this, gives you a more relaxed look 😊
I would not expect such a concise perspective in a 10 min video... Well done!
A man who allows himself to show authentic vulnerability (and not in a fake way to gain attention) is sexy indeed. It's such a human trait. Matthew's message was right on the mark.
I love that in the last year or actually in the span of time I have been watching your videos, you are thriving. And I, as an audience, can see that you are trying to be a better person. That is constant sincerity if you ask me. Good job
I've appreciated your videos in the past, and even found the lessons useful in other relationship beyond romantic ones, but I LOVE the new angle you seem to be presenting lately. It seems to be less focused on baiting a guy with what may or may not be genuine qualities we possess, and more about intra(inter?)personal communication as a whole, and I personally think it's more applicable and helpful, for the whole person. And, ironically, a whole person attracts whole persons...and isn't that the goal? Lol. Thank you for your vulnerability, and insight and willingness to share these things. Much love. I wish you all the best. 😊
Dang. Every single point hit. This video could not have had better timing. Thank you so much ❤️
Been watching your videos from 2014 until the present day and boy have you grown. ^^ I really appreciate your depth and sincerity. Take care. :)
This is an amazing book! I teach this book every term to my classes!
Thank you! This is so helpful and insightful!
Great video!! Thank you!
Love the green trees in the background. So pretty and refreshing!
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Thanks you I needed this video because sometimes I think oh maybe no one is interested in what I have to say etc (iv just restarted making TH-cam videos after a 6 year hiatus) and a lot has changed and all this algorithm business was starting to make me question myself. This was a timely reminder 👏
As Alan Watts has said: "Interesting people are those who are interested"!!!
Quarantine giving ppl rest is why he looks so refreshed ppl.
I'm a Writer and this is Something so good for what I was looking for...
Yes, I promise that I'll try these 6 techniques myself 😊
Immensely valuable. Thank you, Matthew.
Matt ur videos are so interesting.. U have the art of keeping ur viewers engaged and engrossed by always coming up with variations in topics which is not only confined to dating and romance but a way to lead a healthy life.. Thanks a ton...
Love from India🥰
Done. Downloaded already. Thank you Matthew.
You hair looks so good this way!!!! Thank you so much for your videos!
The transference thing makes sense, I do find myself getting interested in things my friends and others are passionate about.
New and absolutely gorgeous hair style
fantastic video & advice! thanks so much
Oh my god, Matthew this new haircut fits you so so so finely. I love it, you look incredible!!
Be authentic and share your true self , your essence 💕
I ABSOLUTELY loved the guide Steve wrote.. blow away still.. thanks for sharing 💙💙💙💙
Point number 4 is very necessary- i think too!
Thank you for your reminder!
happy Easter to you all and greetings frim Austria🐰🐣🌷
Absolutely! Being genuine is key.
Thank you for another great vid. LOVE your hair like that!
Listening to you makes me more excited about my life!
You gave ways how to be more expressive and authentic and as a result the right person will resonat with you.
I agree that this is your best haircut yet!! I'm a barber/stylist so I can't help but to pay attention to it. Either way you always carry yourself very well Matthew.
This information is so beneficial. Thank you.
What a great video..it refreshens my mind to always look for indiviual value..it sucks when you take that step and voice your own thoughts and it gets ignored or not valued...Iol
Love your new hair look. You look well-rested on the video. Thanks for those pointers! 😊
Thanks for this video. I really enjoyed it.
your video makes me much more confident in myself now. thanks for sharing your knowledge
I really admire your content and especially your advices. Well done!
Love the green in the background! Feels easy on the eyes! Fanks!!!!
I believe that people should always be honest and open. I also believe that people should share their story no matter if it is similar to others. I share my story and experiences that I have had being a person who has a learning disability both in real life and through my TH-cam channel. No one can tell or share my story like I can honestly. My story is just as important as other people's stories.
As always, great advice for everyone in a relationship
Wow Matt, it's about authenticity. Thanks for the First5 advice. Take care 🙏
First and foremost, I see you as a wonderful person! Stay safe and healthy
One of your best videos I think, so deep!!
Thank you for what you do and teach
I think sharing my weaknesses helped me heal. Thank you, Mathew Hussey, for pointing this out. I came out of a 12 year long, financially, emotionally, verbally, abusive relationship. I was too scared to be alone that I settled with a guy that kept hurting me, despite a number of traumatic experiences I had with him. That fear of being alone was one of my weaknesses and it made me very miserable in the past. Now that I am out of that nightmare, I healed by sharing my weaknesses to my loved ones.. so that hopefully they learn from my experience and they become more mindful of those kinds of persons who try to manipulate our weaknesses and try to break us.
That is true. I wrote a book about narcissistic abuse. There are plenty out there, but I made it personal... even have the sentence "I will never forget the day..." in it and I have never read Zinsser's book. LOL Thanks for this video. This is wonderful. I have added his book to my wish list.
That's an amazing book. I own it and it's treasured. Thank you for reminding me to reread it!
1- say your say cuz it's your own
2- say your truth cuz it's your reality
3- say what you find interesting cuz that what shaped you
4- feel and accept that you're vulnerable cuz that makes you human
5- feel the unknown, go and explore cuz that what makes life joyful
Finally you did something good to your hair! Thanks so much!