Full Episode- Greathouse Vs. Love:

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  • Daniel says he loves Keneedra and would like to marry her, but her poor money skills are giving him pause. Keneedra says they’ve been together for 10 years and she’s not waiting around another 10 years to walk down the aisle. Along with poor money skills, Daniel argues she is controlling, ungrateful and pressuring him to commit. Keneedra is sick and tired of Daniel being frugal and using finances as an excuse to avoid commitment.
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  • @briwatson9035
    @briwatson9035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    I will NEVER understand how people have kids together but someone says marriage is "too big of a commitment".

    • @dowardwashington9958
      @dowardwashington9958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      EXACTLY!!!! I am a advocate for marriage, 👰🏾🤵🏿‍♂️ because what happens if God forbid someone passes your girlfriend, baby momma, or fiance' can't even sign medical paperwork in some states.....plus at anytime one person can simply walk away and leave the other homeless without any type of recourse.

    • @peacheslove3499
      @peacheslove3499 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Those ppl are just trifling.
      And want to be free to wild themselves out smh.

    • @questionresearch8721
      @questionresearch8721 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly. I don't get it. I was going to say the same thing.

  • @JoBunny87
    @JoBunny87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +792

    ...... Do people not know children are more permanent than a ring??

    • @angelacooper8973
      @angelacooper8973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kids can die or grow old and move on. A ring is forever

    • @JoBunny87
      @JoBunny87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@angelacooper8973 You sound stupid

    • @Fanouvvi
      @Fanouvvi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Hello Hart the marriage bed is more honorable than fornication.
      Children doesn’t seal the deal in a relationship.
      You are thinking as a heathen.

    • @JoBunny87
      @JoBunny87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Fanouvvi Your parents are heathens for thinking having you was a good idea

    • @kambrown285
      @kambrown285 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hello Hart...you cant be that dumb. I guess you're ok with having a zillion bastard kids running around. Break the cycle

  • @st.michaelanthony3195
    @st.michaelanthony3195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +850

    He gave her 4 kids but is not sure about marrying her😂😂😂😂.

    • @mgesibabere4743
      @mgesibabere4743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      And say he loves her yet. 😅😅😅

    • @sherrodmacs3472
      @sherrodmacs3472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      That is alot of kids and no ring in site. She has to take responsibility for that.

    • @sherrodmacs3472
      @sherrodmacs3472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @Pooh Asia He is he has the cake and he is eating it too. It works our perfect for him. He don't want no ring...She do

    • @wtfCrelol
      @wtfCrelol 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Gay and insecure

    • @t.c.5456
      @t.c.5456 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Smh 😩🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @brishaberries0101
    @brishaberries0101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +804

    This is why I don't believe in highschool sweethearts. People need room and space to grow and mature.

    • @itsalangleylife1639
      @itsalangleylife1639 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      brishaberries0101 I agree. I trying to tell my daughter that. She’s 18 and will be graduating this year. She has a boyfriend. I told her enjoy her life when she goes to college. Travel, enjoy her friends, live by herself... I had to learn the hard way. I met my husband my freshman year in college and have been together every since. I didn’t get to learn who I was outside of a relationship and being a mom. Now I think we both feel stuck bc we are different people and have grown apart.

    • @StromLxrd6
      @StromLxrd6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@itsalangleylife1639 hope you both heal for the betterment of your marriage and union. don't know if you're black but if so we need more families, strong and successful marriages in our communities. that love that can stand the test of time and temptation...rooting for you and yours even tho i don't know you.

    • @peterlewis2881
      @peterlewis2881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Females that cling to their high school sweethearts have a tendency to deny themselves the opportunity to be open-minded about many things.
      Males almost always give themselves the leeway of possibly experiencing someone new.
      In every high school that I have known of, had too many pretty girls with too many personalities for me to ever think of settling for any one.
      The variety on a college campus only made the situation worse.

    • @juantubey
      @juantubey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      brishaberries0101 Good point, Ms Berries. However, some people are lucky and they just get it right. While some other people’s personalities don’t really need room and space to grow and mature albeit not very common. But generally I totally agree to that need to explore and experience before settling down.

    • @melodyholt500
      @melodyholt500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@peterlewis2881 most of the time thsee women end up cheating 9 out of time. Aint no one want to deal with one person for life.

  • @poshpearls23
    @poshpearls23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +618

    I'm a single woman with no children and am in the middle of building my career and fully independent.....and even I don't have $700 shoes. Wow.....chasing the social media lifestyle sure is ridiculous. Thank God idgaf about any of that mess. I go STRAIGHT to the discount racks at Ross and TJMaxx, buy my little items, and stroll out happy as a lark and with a wallet still full of money. Chile, bye. 😂

    • @Ms2010collegegurl
      @Ms2010collegegurl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Gurl me too - single & independent. No kids and i wouldn't dare pay that for some shoes!! They both are ignorant fools.

    • @poshpearls23
      @poshpearls23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Ms2010collegegurl 100% agree

    • @asiablackgrl6482
      @asiablackgrl6482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Exactly. Social media is not real life.

    • @michaelfinch2649
      @michaelfinch2649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I'm single guy for 40 years no kidS no wife no ex no child support

    • @PS1652
      @PS1652 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      These girls are looking for a HARD WORKING man, HIGH MAINTANCE is a big turn-off for them.

  • @loveandlight_
    @loveandlight_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +450

    Judge Toler said "you look really good walking past school" 💀😂😂😂😂

  • @omgmazin
    @omgmazin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +501

    You have 700.00$ for one pair of shoes but when ask about your 4 kids college fund you couldn't answer😔?

    • @827honey1
      @827honey1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Priorities. Smh.

    • @slickb6328
      @slickb6328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      College is for workers not bosses!

    • @omgmazin
      @omgmazin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@slickb6328 proper something,but once the judge ask that question she had no answer.But if you going to college for an advance degree then that's 6 figures.

    • @bluu_ice6554
      @bluu_ice6554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@slickb6328 yea she's clearly a boss buying weak kicks for almost a band. U sound dumb as she do.

    • @steverl22
      @steverl22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Slick B we can tell your ass ain’t near stepped a FOOT IN COLLEGE! You ain’t a boss at all

  • @simply_thegreatone3663
    @simply_thegreatone3663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    They did this all backwards!!! 4 kids later and 10 years smh!!! That’s like putting the cart in front of the horse🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sherrodmacs3472
      @sherrodmacs3472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She put the cart in front of the horse. That is alot of stress on a womans body.

    • @back2thebasicsx
      @back2thebasicsx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes Sir

    • @sherrodmacs3472
      @sherrodmacs3472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Ice Insecuirty, immaturity, nor from a stable family background, no confidence and baby wanting to have maybe biological clock.

    • @ashaf.6143
      @ashaf.6143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mannnn that's like saying eff the horse and pulling the cart yourself

    • @shrgh1876
      @shrgh1876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @TikTok Dances its common sense not hating...its the kids who'll be hating them if they don't get it together

  • @StromLxrd6
    @StromLxrd6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    Bro probably afraid to get married but he already 4 kids deep in it..either way you screwed😁

    • @sherrodmacs3472
      @sherrodmacs3472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      He seeing all these other women out there and the temptation is strong. He love his family. Somebody ought to tell him stick with your family. These girls out here aint worth messing up a good family.

    • @terriekurney6548
      @terriekurney6548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Take that $ put yourself on child support and move on. The courts really stand by great father's.

    • @sherrodmacs3472
      @sherrodmacs3472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@terriekurney6548 Move on from what? A provider. A man she love. A great father. So far not cheating. Those 4 kids need stability. So there is no move on.

    • @terriekurney6548
      @terriekurney6548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She....she....she

    • @FLYDIEHARD
      @FLYDIEHARD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Neither are good partners for other ppl bc they have 4 kids no person financially stable with less than 4 kids or 4 kids and stable with a with a successful business(es) wants to be bothered with them individually. So they are stuck with each other... might as well stay together and get married. To save humanity from them lol. I’m super serious tho.
      He has 4 kids (all by the same woman which is good) but he isn’t marriage material for another woman nobody wants to marry him and pay child support for him.
      Her... well she has 4 kids by the same man which is good. But she is not marriage material bc no other man will take her serious due to the children taken care of or not.
      They both cost too much for another person... and both live beyond they’re means... so they should just marry each other bc they’re not suitable for other partners period!!! Statically speaking....

  • @crystalkimble7018
    @crystalkimble7018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    Social media is the demise of a whole lotta relationships!!

    • @taylorhallakachuchimonet
      @taylorhallakachuchimonet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      One's lack of self control and ability to separate themselves from social media is the demise

    • @javashiascott2908
      @javashiascott2908 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Crystal Kimble, AMEN

    • @CleverAOYM
      @CleverAOYM 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      People are their own demise. If social media can mess our relationship anything can.

    • @FalaqX
      @FalaqX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Social media is satan

    • @jadakizz78tulie33
      @jadakizz78tulie33 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No the actions of ppl on social media is their demise.

  • @crystalkimble7018
    @crystalkimble7018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +513

    I see str8 through her..she wanna be a champagne chic with malt liquor bank accounts!! She buys and buys stuff to feed her insecurities..

    • @steverl22
      @steverl22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      She’s try to keep up with the Jones.....it’ll never work out for her

    • @emilyhayes6609
      @emilyhayes6609 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly

    • @peds4real273
      @peds4real273 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Comments like this is why I love my TH-cam Comment Family! 😂😂😂

    • @The.Greathousefam
      @The.Greathousefam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Her insecurities?? She’s beautiful and real life beautiful at that and she don’t really buy all that shit at once this is for entertainment purposes

    • @Ash2beauty
      @Ash2beauty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      COUTURE GREATHOUSE u must either HER or a relative. You’re doing a lot of defending under these comments,

  • @lulubs123
    @lulubs123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +490

    He seems like he’s bored of the relationship. 11 years in ? Still not married ? Wow. I’ll be damned if I waited that long for a ring !! Girl move on !!

    • @twanation2162
      @twanation2162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Lulu B's all while having FOUR kids in the process!! I mean, what’s the point of demanding the ring, you stick to him for life regardless now

    • @sharonjackson268
      @sharonjackson268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@twanation2162
      Ikr... it's a wrap😂🤣😂

    • @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647
      @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I be trying to tell females, it don't take a decade for man to know he wants to marry you😩

    • @kkccreativity3862
      @kkccreativity3862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Marriage to you isn’t the same for everyone else... a ring or government paper work doesn’t define my relationship

    • @ferrarils4074
      @ferrarils4074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lulu B you ain’t going no where 😂😂😂

  • @skarletbrown8912
    @skarletbrown8912 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    "you look really good walking past college, you just can't get in." 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tooprada606
    @tooprada606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +609

    This is the problem with some black people or young people: living beyond their means to impress people who don’t care. IMAGINE IF YOU PUT THAT $700 IN STOCK!!! Think people

    • @kaysmith5414
      @kaysmith5414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Too Prada ok! And the people they’re trying to impress probably think it’s fake anyways 🥴

    • @omgmazin
      @omgmazin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Not some,the vast majority.

    • @bluu_ice6554
      @bluu_ice6554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      It's mainly black people. I was recently on the bus with a young black kid say he paid 300 for a Gucci belt. But he was on the bus🤔

    • @kobesan42
      @kobesan42 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Too Prada i mean you could put it in stock and lose it. Just save it

    • @omgmazin
      @omgmazin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@kobesan42 but for her to not even put that towards her kids future ,now that's definitely not correct

  • @philipadjapong6095
    @philipadjapong6095 4 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    11 years, 4 kids, and no marriage! Come on bro, you can do better than that..

    • @angelinaparker7188
      @angelinaparker7188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's it that's all. They been together so long people thought they were married.

    • @PS1652
      @PS1652 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I give him credit for not marrying her just because everybody tells him to.
      She's the dumb one for first having kids and thinking that then comes marriage.

    • @sherrodmacs3472
      @sherrodmacs3472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@PS1652 She was going for baby mama status now she see the finish line and she limping in trying to get that ring and wedding.

    • @mgesibabere4743
      @mgesibabere4743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Am happy its come from the men!!!

    • @shrgh1876
      @shrgh1876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@PS1652 he had those kids too if he didn't want to marry her shouldn't have given her 4 kids.. irresponsible moron

  • @KB-wp1ro
    @KB-wp1ro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    $700 on shoes and paying rent 🤔🤔🤔.

    • @javashiascott2908
      @javashiascott2908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      K B, I Was Thinking The Same Thing!!!

    • @asabifatosin1150
      @asabifatosin1150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      THAT’ s what I heard....

    • @amilllion1
      @amilllion1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      K B exactly

    • @MsBdoll87
      @MsBdoll87 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s what got me! They probably weren’t ever taught

    • @misslc7864
      @misslc7864 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Taxes dollars are paying the rent

  • @crystalkimble7018
    @crystalkimble7018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    These reality TV show chics and rap music got these everyday ppl thinking they can live like the JONES'S!! Chile NO U CAN'T!!

    • @sya286
      @sya286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Crystal Kimble Hilarious thing is most those reality TV chics cant afford it either. They rent and lease everythin lol

    • @asiayoung133
      @asiayoung133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Crystal Kimble majority of those rappers rent those outfits.

    • @chrissoulful7086
      @chrissoulful7086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True

    • @smh2557
      @smh2557 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      People were spending like this way before reality TV and rap music

    • @LaidbackNarration3000
      @LaidbackNarration3000 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yessssss

  • @Lilyrose23
    @Lilyrose23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Most people who grew up in a low income environment never learned the value of saving because they learned to spend money when they have it and it’s okay if the next month they’re broke. No one buys $700 shoes for their quality, they buy the name so people can think they have money and belong with celebrities and the 1%. I feel bad when I see young kids walking all wearing brand names while they won’t afford college and some can’t even afford going. We need to collectively reduce the value we put on designer clothes that often hate minorities and make their clothes in poor countries for $5 dollars and resell it $500.

    • @zoeelauren4649
      @zoeelauren4649 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯💯💯

    • @cam4short
      @cam4short 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bingo! ☝🏼

    • @PS1652
      @PS1652 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel bad for the parents that work their behind just so they could buy these BRATS expensive shoes.I always feel that they 'll buy it for them because they are afraid of their kids and cannot discipline them.

    • @asabifatosin1150
      @asabifatosin1150 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lily Rose Tell it!

    • @geo745don
      @geo745don 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My friend was telling my kids why I'm not buying Air Jordan and expensive sneakers for them and myself, yet he has no car and lives with his mother basement

  • @melissawhittaker8033
    @melissawhittaker8033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Girl stop making excuses. You out here spending all this money and no savings, living in a rent house. Just shut up and listen to the judge. Annoying

    • @darkvader8295
      @darkvader8295 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed

    • @smh2557
      @smh2557 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you read the ending comments, that's what she's doing

    • @mobutter2879
      @mobutter2879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Melissa Whittaker Exactly!

    • @mobutter2879
      @mobutter2879 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      SMH ...

    • @misslc7864
      @misslc7864 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly. Probably on section 8 and snap. Silly!

  • @evilscorpio1981
    @evilscorpio1981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    She's trying so hard to justify her spending...smdh. she know damn well she won't put money towards those kids education.

    • @jnicolebell9937
      @jnicolebell9937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly 💯💯

    • @heavenlywells3818
      @heavenlywells3818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Preach

    • @beautifulmind1834
      @beautifulmind1834 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I Wish People Would Stop Trying Too Keep Up W The Jones’s. Keep Up W Your Children’s Futures And At least For Rainy Day 🤷‍♀️🙄. Smh 🤦‍♀️

    • @jaesimpson425
      @jaesimpson425 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She doesn’t even have a saving account. She need at least a three month emergency fund.

    • @afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154
      @afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I asked if he has a college fund, and, he said something ignorant. He deleted his comment.

  • @omgmazin
    @omgmazin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    10 years and 4 children without being married we have to look at what is it that they prioritize first.

    • @KJOURNEY
      @KJOURNEY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      mogul mayz say that

    • @coriesmith2633
      @coriesmith2633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Exactly. Marriages can be dissolved but children cannot

    • @asiablackgrl6482
      @asiablackgrl6482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      $700 sneakers and cigarettes

    • @omgmazin
      @omgmazin 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @KiddRogers 💯🎯👌🏾🙌🏾💪🏾👏🏾

    • @smh2557
      @smh2557 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Babies 🍼🍼🍼🍼

  • @misstinahamilton5714
    @misstinahamilton5714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    You can't marry her but got her pregnant at least 4 times. Ok......obviously he does not want to marry her. I agree with some of his complaints but he stays with her and keeps having babies- makes no sense to me

    • @jnicolebell9937
      @jnicolebell9937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree with you 💯💯

    • @whyme7862
      @whyme7862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🗣🗣🗣

    • @zoeelauren4649
      @zoeelauren4649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      But they really aren't complaints... he knew that already. Her spending is as cry for help.

    • @neisci
      @neisci 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I'll have to disagree with that, the woman is the one who holds control of how many children she's willing to bring into this world. They should have had the discussion of how many children. And having so many children so young, she's trying to cover some void by having so many children. How about school learning another language she sure has plenty of time if she goes shopping so much.

    • @sherrodmacs3472
      @sherrodmacs3472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She got herself to blame for that. She want to be a baby mamma. Dude hung around 11 years and 4 kids later. Now she chasing the finish line the wedding ring and marriage...Somebody better tell her get the engagement ring first. Women have to control their fertility...Birth control

  • @tiffanybeckom7348
    @tiffanybeckom7348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    "Ugly", is an understatement, I could've made that damn dress myself and you could've just paid me in frappes.

    • @samoea19
      @samoea19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      💀 sis said frappes

    • @laurennicole641
      @laurennicole641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🤣🤣

    • @The.Greathousefam
      @The.Greathousefam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She said it was ugly

    • @82laina
      @82laina 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Laawrd😂😂😂

    • @sherrodmacs3472
      @sherrodmacs3472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@The.Greathousefam He said it was ugly. She said it did not look like the ad. On the right person it might work.

  • @steverl22
    @steverl22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    She should have had some STANDARDS!!! before having those kids.....value yourself ladies, no kids before a strong marriage 🧐

    • @KJOURNEY
      @KJOURNEY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      steverl22 I learned my lesson all it took was one time
      But this is true my dad said don’t date down bc a man wont
      And I did the opposite oh I was so infatuated learn tho

    • @KrysBrown89
      @KrysBrown89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Exactly!!! When I say this people want to look at me like I’m crazy. I’m not having one let alone four kids with a man who can’t commit to me first.

    • @jshanae08
      @jshanae08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes!!! I made sure I waited. Been together 4 yrs married for 4 months 😁♥️

    • @jshanae08
      @jshanae08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No kids YET😉

    • @afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154
      @afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Him, too...🤔

  • @CarissaHAdams
    @CarissaHAdams 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Women stop having kids with a man and then beg him to put a ring on it .... 10 years and 4 children but y'all are still children yourself. Still have so much growing to do.

  • @briannagrant7986
    @briannagrant7986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    This whole “like” ....Every sentence there needs to be a like in it.

    • @sherrodmacs3472
      @sherrodmacs3472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is another form of semi illiteracy.

    • @FinDom1
      @FinDom1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's super judgmental. She's not on TV everyday sometimes people default to saying like when they're nervous.

  • @laurennicole641
    @laurennicole641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    Got all this money and got on a Wilona wig! No ma’am!

  • @asiablackgrl6482
    @asiablackgrl6482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    He’s Overwhelmed with 4 kids yet keeps climbing on her 🤦🏿‍♀️ I like them but they need to grow up... like yesterday!

  • @jackiejill9040
    @jackiejill9040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    You can't marry her, but have 4 kids and be with her four 10 years?

    • @StromLxrd6
      @StromLxrd6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      *for

    • @empressleah2615
      @empressleah2615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Jackie Jill right he want to use her , has kids with her all that other stuff but can’t marry her , she needs to move on

    • @thelmathomas3437
      @thelmathomas3437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      No he can't he will never move up in life with a woman like her she tries to keep up with the Jones, RUN BROTHER

    • @blackyodaprime
      @blackyodaprime 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She controls whether or not there will be children. 100% of the time.

    • @Life_Is_Hilarious
      @Life_Is_Hilarious 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right

  • @cynthiasallee5108
    @cynthiasallee5108 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Not even once the judge said be quiet 👏👏👏

  • @Rainsnowreadysetblow
    @Rainsnowreadysetblow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    I can't stand these women who want to have a bag of kids THEN want to demand a ring. If after that first child, you didn't put your foot down and shoot, just keep going without the ring. Smh.

    • @missblazes
      @missblazes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Favsunsky 😂 😂 😂 true that

    • @The.Greathousefam
      @The.Greathousefam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Are you married with children?

    • @BWillz
      @BWillz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right

    • @cocobenji6123
      @cocobenji6123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@The.Greathousefam thats a life goal for you huh?? lol you missed the whole point.

    • @tylercovington6938
      @tylercovington6938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      But what about the man? He loves her, put 4 kids in her & have been together 10yrs. Why not marry her? Let’s not just put the blame on her

  • @apolloniaapollonia2744
    @apolloniaapollonia2744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I'm not even judging, I too did it backwards with children first then marriage, but we been together 28 years and it's all good.

    • @mrs.camilliajones3560
      @mrs.camilliajones3560 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mrs. Jones me too Mrs.jones! Almost 14 years together

    • @chrisjones6006
      @chrisjones6006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I just want to say hello cousin.....me and wife were together 8, came to an understanding about growth and eliminating the push and pull and now we are at 21.......funny how life happens

    • @StromLxrd6
      @StromLxrd6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yall blessed

    • @melrain4728
      @melrain4728 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm confused with all the Jones🙃

    • @Galworld761
      @Galworld761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I don’t think “the order” matters, I think what matters is the commitment and stability. Your kids won’t care as long as you are together and happy.

  • @lucilleboxter8907
    @lucilleboxter8907 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This episode was so refreshing ..not ghetto not rachet Even though they have their flaws they listened to Judge Lynn's advise and didnt speak over her . I'm rooting for them 🙋‍♀️

    • @johnadams4938
      @johnadams4938 ปีที่แล้ว

      We are all flawed, and broken in one way or another, we just have to choose the one whose imperfections we are willing to deal with

  • @thtpeacechic
    @thtpeacechic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    FO KIDS?!? Next! You already tied for life.

    • @joshuajones1851
      @joshuajones1851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are beautiful...just wanted you to know

  • @willywillo5555
    @willywillo5555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I believe they are two lovely human being just needed a little direction which they got from judge Lynn. They will be ok.

  • @greenqueen2673
    @greenqueen2673 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    They could have been married a long time ago if he had made her spending the issue and maybe set a savings goal for them to meet before marriage. I personally think it's dangerous to have a spouse who doesn't know how to save and prioritize finances. Folks go bankrupt over these types of situations. And they have four kids and no emergency savings but $700.00 sneakers. SMH.

    • @smh2557
      @smh2557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Her spending was his lame excuse not to get married

  • @TimeisUp22
    @TimeisUp22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    He don’t want her romantically but still genuinely care for her. After 10 years he got bored and they became roommates. 😕 It’s time to let it go...

  • @rebsjoy6892
    @rebsjoy6892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love the judge full of wisdom, she used common sense, she's blessed, God keep giving her knowledge and wisdom like King Solomon's in the Bible, from Namibia Africa.

    • @smh2557
      @smh2557 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her comment about weaves was raw ignorance and unprofessional

  • @mzruffin786
    @mzruffin786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    10 years is too long to figure out what you want to do. That's a waste of both of ya'll time.

    • @PS1652
      @PS1652 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ten years! I would have wanted a divorce by now.

    • @cam4short
      @cam4short 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen!

    • @sherrodmacs3472
      @sherrodmacs3472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      4 kids under one household is not a waste of time.

    • @mzruffin786
      @mzruffin786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sherrodmacs3472 I didn't say anything about the kids. I'm talking about marriage or trying to figure out if you want to be with somebody. If you got to wait 10 years then there is some insecurities somewhere. Because you ain't going to learn everything about a person. I been married to my husband for 9 years and I'm still learning new stuff about him and vice versa. If you love that person you love the kids too.

    • @tthomas2348
      @tthomas2348 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Vivian Ruffin well they were teenagers when they started dating. She was 14 and he was 17 so that’s a factor. At least 4 years, and then there’s the normal time that people tend not to have money fresh out of high school so that’s maybe another 3-4 years, which is most of their relationship. They might’ve had a kid as teenagers.

  • @24blunt
    @24blunt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    people need 2 stop listening 2 these entertainers about these over priced material items.

  • @whyme7862
    @whyme7862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    To yall out there saying marriage is just a piece of paper or is only for the government y'all are crazy. Marriage is also for the insurance company, retirement benefits, widow benefits, legal benefits, etc.

  • @LONDONESQUE.
    @LONDONESQUE. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    That dress though😂..and ”looking good walking past college” that was a good one😌

  • @twilliams842
    @twilliams842 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Why are y’all acting married. I wouldn’t let her have any control over my money. Wouldn’t even move in until married.

    • @autobotdiva9268
      @autobotdiva9268 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i dont know that kind of ACTING MARRIED. They need to move on

    • @tthomas2348
      @tthomas2348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well they have 4 kids so it’s too late for that

  • @purepsyc
    @purepsyc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She is insecure and makes herself feel better through material things. Sad wish she could see her worth. She is beautiful.

  • @opef.2851
    @opef.2851 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    What happened to “it is so ordered” 😭😂😂 the case isn’t complete without it

    • @garageglamorous4049
      @garageglamorous4049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bunmi Fashina lol i love that part too! But I believe that's only said when money was being requested by one or both of the parties :)

    • @syndib1177
      @syndib1177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You just said it which mean it’s complete!

    • @afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154
      @afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She could have been tired of their mess. And, just went......😉

  • @yvonneb8736
    @yvonneb8736 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    He now wakes up 10yrs and 4 children later. She needs to separate wants from needs

    • @sherrodmacs3472
      @sherrodmacs3472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No more kids.

    • @shrgh1876
      @shrgh1876 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sherrodmacs3472 exactly

  • @kaylafurlow6217
    @kaylafurlow6217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    I’m sorry but how many time he gone say “like “

    • @kkccreativity3862
      @kkccreativity3862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I was nervous lmaoooo

    • @darrellwilliams9850
      @darrellwilliams9850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      His vocabulary is limited

    • @kkccreativity3862
      @kkccreativity3862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yours would be too when them cameras start rolling boyyyy that shit was nerve reckoning

    • @kristinjohnson8984
      @kristinjohnson8984 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i didn't realize it until i read this comment now i can't stop focusing on it😭

    • @zoeelauren4649
      @zoeelauren4649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know did he go to school?

  • @browngoddess5340
    @browngoddess5340 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Did it backwards. 11 yrs 4 kids and 0 ring. He already have a wife without the paperwork.

    • @chriswash12
      @chriswash12 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brown Goddess that’s the best way to do it

    • @nahoga
      @nahoga 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      He don't have a wife; he has a live-in BM who's begging him for marriage/commitment

    • @TimeisUp22
      @TimeisUp22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They are roommates.

    • @browngoddess5340
      @browngoddess5340 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TimeisUp22 exactly

    • @grandfatherclock9937
      @grandfatherclock9937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Mr. Cooney
      I THINK SHE SAID SHE WANT MARRIAGE!
      GOD WANT COUPLES TO GET MARRIED INSTEAD OF FORNICATING AKA SINGLES INDULGING IN SEXUAL SIN.
      1 CORINTHIANS 7:1-2 KJV...

  • @JuanitaMichelle
    @JuanitaMichelle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I THINK he might love her as a result of their long history and experiences together, but he’s not in love with her anymore. Hence why there’s no urgency to make any further commitment than what they already have.

    • @smh2557
      @smh2557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why buy the 🐴 when the 🥛 is free

    • @nichellenunya
      @nichellenunya 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think that he could be if she shows maturity as it relates to her finances

  • @queenb2713
    @queenb2713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    She's a girlfriend for life...

  • @shiheart16
    @shiheart16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When you got 4 kids YOU can’t afford $700 anything. Unless of course you bring in a million dollars a year or more.

  • @BrianaDenea
    @BrianaDenea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    If he says “like” one more time😒

  • @Drewski217
    @Drewski217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    They're both really immature - no surprise considering they're high school sweethearts and just started having kids - but I think they're good together and with work will be much happier at 20 years together than they were at 10

    • @shes_setapart
      @shes_setapart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They can work it out if they're serious. Seems like they've unconsciously stunted each others growth over the 10 years. Definitely had kids too soon. Space in the relationship in the first few years would've served them well. Best of luck to them!

    • @thelmathomas3437
      @thelmathomas3437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He is not immature at all hes the one holding them down but she definitely is

    • @nevermore464
      @nevermore464 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shes_setapart I agree 100% with you!

  • @heavenlywells3818
    @heavenlywells3818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    No savings, don't own a home, 4 kids that those$700 shoes will not put them through college...they look pathetic

  • @maryannemoll
    @maryannemoll 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Episodes like this make me miss Judge Lyn. Look at her super extra arm movements before she issued her final ruling. She’s so cool, and so comfortable with herself, and so secure in her authority that she can be informal with her plaintiffs and defendants on the show, just to get them more comfortable and get them to reveal more truth. But she is also sharp as a whip. I love her so.

  • @TheNaphisa03
    @TheNaphisa03 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    2 years MAX is the limit any woman should be with a man without a RING!!!! Not for 11 years.

    • @VintageAfro91
      @VintageAfro91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Naphisa Modmonss amen amen amen! 11 years and 4 babies???? No way!

    • @dionnahill1792
      @dionnahill1792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's not a priority for everyone. I can get all the benefits of a wife and not be married sven if my spouse dies. Shit is just a piece of paper

    • @shawntellwelch25
      @shawntellwelch25 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Naphisa Modmonss they started dating in high school so to me some of those years don’t don’t count. As far as looking at marriage they have to mature a little more first.

    • @ashablack2291
      @ashablack2291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Why would you want to obligate yourself to someone you have only known two years? That's too soon for me but to each her own.

    • @NonanoN-er6de
      @NonanoN-er6de 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ashablack2291 how much do you need to know?? If you're both attracted to each other, you're both faithful, have similar goals (kids, etc) you're not abusing each other and you're happy with him. He provides/protects and proclaims (steve harvey) what's there to wait? Works of Satan. Plus, a woman knows from the get go if the man is right for her

  • @hawihawi9260
    @hawihawi9260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    4 kids and u r here before ur vows!?
    Gtfoh!

  • @Sean-uv2di
    @Sean-uv2di 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Damn im out here trynna finesse an apartment for what she’s spending on shoes 🤔 i need to get myself a sugar daddy like sht

  • @beatriceloss6333
    @beatriceloss6333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I like how judge Lynn wants all the kids to go to college she so sweet think ahead. 😂😂

    • @smh2557
      @smh2557 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeap that's cool, but a lot of millionaires who didn't

  • @sexymama1966
    @sexymama1966 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That's my rent!.. ain't no way.. not doin'it, not doin' it! .. thank u Judge 4 the message about cigarettes!

  • @asserm.8047
    @asserm.8047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i like how he kept nodding in understanding whenever the judge gave him parenting tips/suggestions. even if they dont work as a couple in the long run it gives me faith that the children will be well taken care of

  • @termallwilliams8510
    @termallwilliams8510 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    If they do the total opposite of what they are doing, they are perfect together. They have kids, be blessed

  • @Zen_Nurse
    @Zen_Nurse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Designer shoes and weave, but y’all paying rent with zero savings 😏 TF wrong with y’all

  • @welcome2vonasworld821
    @welcome2vonasworld821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Ugh ... I'm lost babies home n no ring.. what happened.. well you give him wifey duties on a girlfriend price . Never become a wife without a Ring n ten years to long to be playing house. But I'm glad they stayed together that long. I hope get married so y'all can set an example of how to be a married couple and build and foundation.

    • @sexypeach1891
      @sexypeach1891 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Von world I would be demanding a ring at 5 years

  • @olajvwon
    @olajvwon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I get how he shuts people out. I do the same. I do it so I don't take things out on others and sometimes its peace of mind. You have to handle stuff within yourself sometimes. No need to always involve others.SIDENOTE: I would love to meet Judge Lynn husband. Seems like a wise wise man.

  • @joshandabradford3144
    @joshandabradford3144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Cute couple. 4kids same mom and dad,been together since highschool. I love it❤Never stop communicating and showing one another love.

  • @patriciagary4857
    @patriciagary4857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lord who ever laughed 😂 like that when judge said do u have 700 dollar sneaker money.?
    U don’t sound convincing 🤣🤣🤣

    • @CS-pl1re
      @CS-pl1re 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

  • @asabifatosin1150
    @asabifatosin1150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hmmm. 4 children but no proposal. You know there’s always a pre-nup...It’s embarrassing to have 3, 4 children and to have never been married. Respect her better.

    • @smh2557
      @smh2557 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you really think they need a prenuptial with nothing in their savings account? 😄🤔

  • @ClassE-Therapy
    @ClassE-Therapy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    27??? Wow, really?? I thought mid 30's!
    Now, to the issue at hand, she's unwise with money!

    • @baelrmalravi2349
      @baelrmalravi2349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Trasi Reads it All!
      there people should control their desire. if this couple they solve their financial problem in home they did have to come to the divorce court. some person has lust of buy new stuff
      they blame on marriage .
      My marriage is over

  • @peepfan1436
    @peepfan1436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Get fake exact replicas of Balenciaga’s from DHGate for like $70 lol

    • @Lolo_NwanyiOma
      @Lolo_NwanyiOma 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Righttttttttt 🙌🏾

    • @Lolo_NwanyiOma
      @Lolo_NwanyiOma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Righttttttttt 🙌🏾😂. As if people on the streets or on social media will stop you to ask if it's fake or real

    • @akstylez_ak5037
      @akstylez_ak5037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TRUMP 2020 TRUMP 2024 TRUMP 2028 lmboooooooo. I like that website. I’m going to order from that

    • @taneishiacrawford1464
      @taneishiacrawford1464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fuck that too

    • @brenaicooper4754
      @brenaicooper4754 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol thanks!

  • @crystalkimble7018
    @crystalkimble7018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I hope that wasn't the 150.00 dollar dress bcuz it was definitely UGLY..

  • @justfe3585
    @justfe3585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have watch many many court shows... heard the wisdom or (what passes as wisdom these days) from different people. Yet I have to say Judge Toler stands out from the rest. She uses and applies knowledge and speaks growth to many people. I can't say if these couples actually takes to heart what she says but I do. Being married to someone who lacks quality isn't easy, but Thank God for Jesus, you don't have to sink or fight or be bitter or be disrespectful. God's grace truly is sufficient. Even from here Judge, I hear you.

  • @millicentkapitako2409
    @millicentkapitako2409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I like this couple and Judge Lynn Toler was in her element with the great advice and words of wisdom. 💝

  • @dianampofu4370
    @dianampofu4370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    They make a great couple good to hear they have sorted out their issues now he can propose to her and they can start planning their wedding cause they followed what the judge said to them. Good for them.

    • @smh2557
      @smh2557 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He didn't mention nothing about marriage in the update

  • @philly13900
    @philly13900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    But u can breed her 4 times but cnt marry a woman that spend all ur money

    • @greenqueen2673
      @greenqueen2673 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She has at least 50% control over that.

    • @stayup3392
      @stayup3392 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Man please

    • @chrisjones6006
      @chrisjones6006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, really dude....see this right here is why there is confusion, lack of understanding...brother you missed the whole point trying to get sympathy likes..

    • @Diiverse
      @Diiverse 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@greenqueen2673 Your Waste

    • @Jovi_Wan_Shinobi
      @Jovi_Wan_Shinobi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just because you put a baby in a broad doesn’t mean you should marry her. You gotta remember that these people have been together since they were 17 and so there is most likely a trauma bond between them. Neither one of them are good for ANYBODY but they are all they know. Babies are bound to pop up even though they aren’t relationship ready.

  • @gailwhite8361
    @gailwhite8361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Who lays up has four kids with a dude and no ring then you have to beg him to marry you!! That's the problem with us as a people it's sad and such a disappointment.

  • @zoelife7272
    @zoelife7272 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When there's an oops baby, you move past it.
    When you get to 4, you've basically accepted the mediocrity as your portion, and have closed the door on him honouring you in marriage.
    He has no reason to, outside some flimsy epiphany, or some tragedy.

  • @angelinaparker7188
    @angelinaparker7188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is just a clear example that time can get away from you when you're stuck. They going to be together for ever; they are a beautiful couple just life happened for them and time don't wait for no-one.

  • @whyme7862
    @whyme7862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He won't marry her yet continues to have kids with her??? What's his endgame? Stay around and continue to cohabitate and still pay for her or leave and get hit with a crazy amount of child support.

  • @HoneyBeeLuv22
    @HoneyBeeLuv22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Did I miss something? The update never stated he actually planned on marrying her after all of that 🤔🤔

    • @smh2557
      @smh2557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You didn't miss anything

  • @gw5847
    @gw5847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The weave the outfit oh my!!! and to lay up and have four children for a man that does not think enough of you to put a ring on it SMH.

  • @alvedaallen1581
    @alvedaallen1581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    $700 sneakers, weaves, nails, unneeded gadgets... NO SAVINGS, all prerequisites to homelessness! Just HIGH-LEVEL IGNORANCE!!! Wake - EVOLVE!!!

  • @827honey1
    @827honey1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am glad that it seems after the show they got themselves on the right track.

    • @smh2557
      @smh2557 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's still not trying to be married

  • @naturallyflawed5472
    @naturallyflawed5472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was expecting a wedding date or something when they did the update??? He’s not going to marry her because he knows she isn’t going anywhere and she isn’t going anywhere because she has four kids by him and feel like no one else is going to want her. This is just an opinion js 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @smh2557
      @smh2557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah at this point he's just waving a 🥕 in her face and watching her chase it.

  • @matildab98
    @matildab98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Judge Lynn hit the nail on the head. Her worth is in Facebook 👍🏾❤.

  • @MZUNUSUAL
    @MZUNUSUAL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    10 years four kids and begging a man for marriage! If he don’t marry you after 5 years he don’t ever want to marry you

  • @Monique0108
    @Monique0108 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Damn.... their name is GreatHouse Love!!! That's a cool ass name

  • @tmlife5338
    @tmlife5338 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No disrespect to the judge but I don't think she understands today's social media and the impact certain behaviors can have on a relationship.

  • @blazingteal8430
    @blazingteal8430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awww i just want to hug her! I hope they give marriage counseling a shot and continue to prosper as a couple. Theyre a good match!

  • @Theblackbulma
    @Theblackbulma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Everyone is being so tough on them in the comments and I don’t understand why. They seem like a great couple

    • @brittanyr1456
      @brittanyr1456 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought the same..

    • @jazmine2412
      @jazmine2412 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Envy

    • @jazzdaagreatestt3645
      @jazzdaagreatestt3645 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The girl is ridiculous she’s awful at spending money that’s a big one! Nobody’s envy and they aren’t married having 4 children my mom teaches me to marry someone then make a child !

    • @jazmine2412
      @jazmine2412 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jazzdaa Greatestt they are married

    • @Theblackbulma
      @Theblackbulma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jazzdaa Greatestt they are married and I don’t think she’s awful at spending money but she does over spend. That doesn’t make them a terrible couple.

  • @kerdishasmith4895
    @kerdishasmith4895 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I believe he loves her and will do anything for her and his family but he seems worried about her spending

    • @grandfatherclock9937
      @grandfatherclock9937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      HE DO NOT LOVE HER... IF HE TRULY DID HE WOULD MARRY HER!

    • @BibleTellTale
      @BibleTellTale 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@grandfatherclock9937 u already said it! Anything means marrying her, so she can feel that sense of security for real.

    • @zoeelauren4649
      @zoeelauren4649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Her spending is ONLY a cry for help.

    • @PS1652
      @PS1652 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@grandfatherclock9937 Marriage is over-rated! Is like sitting in a HOT TUB once
      you get use to it is not so hot

    • @grandfatherclock9937
      @grandfatherclock9937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PS1652
      ENJOY THE LAKE OF FIRE... FORNICATORS WILL NOT INHERIT THE KINGDOM OF GOD...
      1 CORINTHIANS 6:9-11 KJV...

  • @terriekurney6548
    @terriekurney6548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Most men say it's nothing until the tables turn...🙄

  • @IceWhiteice22
    @IceWhiteice22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why we hustle backwards in this society? It’s not like there is not a lot of single mother examples out here. I have to admit the older women are no better.

  • @watterspricewattersprice9700
    @watterspricewattersprice9700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    too many people see marriage as some of "prize". like once you've raised their children, swung from the rafters, brought home the money, put up with their shenanigans, and never raised your voice, then **maybe*** he'll ask you to marry him.

  • @Pinkgirlyyyy
    @Pinkgirlyyyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Why you didnt like her post on facebook?" WHATTT😂🤣

    • @lavishgirl
      @lavishgirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is killing me!!

  • @jarethiafalkner5747
    @jarethiafalkner5747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    That dress was ugly

  • @jenellaelias
    @jenellaelias 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If he says “you know” one more time!

    • @sherrodmacs3472
      @sherrodmacs3472 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      how about "like" will that make you feel better.

  • @bahpullo9861
    @bahpullo9861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really this Judge especially her advice it changed so many things in my life, if the world have people like her ,then this world would be a better place to live in.

  • @youme6968
    @youme6968 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Judge is so beautiful!

    • @smh2557
      @smh2557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Black is beautiful

  • @MiilyGarcia0119
    @MiilyGarcia0119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They love each other but they’ve gotta get it together financially- it’s never too late to start saving and budgeting. If they don’t do it for themselves they need to think about their children. I pray for their union 💕