7 Reasons Why SILENCE Is The Best Revenge For Narcissists
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100% truth. I'm grateful that the way to destroy narcissists is to simply ignore them, it doesn't get much easier than that.
The message the narc MUST hear loud and clear: "YOU are DEAD to ME."
Yes!,, my ex is even Dead er to me lol😊
They had zero problem abandoning me and abusing to their liking for 9years that I allowed! Now I’ve been silent for 10 years
Your not alone, I went , allowed my own grief for a while thinking she would change, it got worse, I learned my lesson, she is Dead to me from here on out, if I see her, I won't see her😊 I wish you the best!
Once you see their true nature, you RUN!!!!!!
You are right silence is best, ignore the self-righteous, self-serving monsters.
Silence is golden
Speak with a silver tongue
Silence is golden and it shows you are a wise person when you do that and the narcissists seek for attention and when we don’t give them any attention they get madder it’s our revenge towards them 💯💯
Silence to a narcissist is like taking the batteries out of the everready Bunny 🐰 Great video and Great content 👍
You can literally see it too. They ACTUALLY power down
yessss good way to put it
Silence is my favorite thing in the world once you give people your silence it will make them go crazy ladies and gentlemen give them your silence and watch how Berserk they will go
Facts 💯
I'd also argue the best way to get a narc is to act friendly to them but then not show any anger/be indifferent to their mind games. Sometimes they get off on you hating them and then they will try to win over your friends/girlfriend/family in front of you just to make you mad. Why would you care what they do. They give 99% but your reaction is that final 1% to complete their goal of getting power over you, usually in the form of emotional control. It may seem like they have all the control but in reality, the fact that you have the final say gives you ALL the control. They think they have a slam dunk, you act indifferent, they are left confused disappointed and frustrated.
Truth. 👍👌
They get off on anything, and no one is hating them at all we just don’t want them around our prescience, space and etc. It’s useless to even consider or entertain them, because as soon as your energy is friendly around them then you will receive bad transferred energy by proxy. Run run run oh and by the way they can like that we’re “hating” in them, WE DONT CARE WHAT THEY THINK PERIODT! If I’m hater then I’m a hater, if I’m jealous then I’m jealous because to a narcissist they already made up I’m their bird brains that we are hatin, jealous, competitive, and every evil emotional feeling they have in their head whether your being friendly or not. Just move forward in life, don’t learn the hard way like me, and also who cares if they see your success or not just DONT CARE! ❤ Blessings
There's one thing I know about narcissism. It's not a subject you can talk about unless you have been a victim of a narcissist. Depending on the level of the narcissism will depend on the level of the pain your in as the victim. Being connected to a narcissist normally comes with betrayal , the betrayal is always next level, it can come in the form of a betrayal of trust or betrayal of infidelity. Either one whatever the betrayal it is of the worst kind. It's something that takes a long time to get over it creates self-doubt within yourself and destroys your self confidence. However if you want to look on the good side being with a narcissist has its great side. When it's great it's absolutely fantastic, in a relationship a narcissist will make you feel like the king or queen. Well that's when they're mask is on of course. Once All is Said and done and you can look back on it. You will be able to see the red flags that you missed, because you didn't want to leave the narcissist that made you feel so good. You will Finally realise that it takes two to tango and that the narcissist did not force you to stay in the relationship it was completely your choice to bend over backwards for the narcissist. Over time you'll look back and you'll be so glad your no longer with the narcissist and have a new life and for the first time, you know, that you will never, ever allow anyone to ever treat you like that ever ever again. And you'll know when you're over it, because you won't think about it anymore, you won't talk about it. If anything you'll just feel very sorry for that narcissist and hope that one day that they will find peace within themselves, hopefully they will find Jesus and be saved before they end up in the pit.❤ By the Jesus loves you he is coming soon Get Rapture Ready❤
Laughing at them and making fun of them also sends them off the deep end.
Actually no it doesn't, that may come back to haunt you if you do that if they record you or they tell everyone in your life that you're the crazy one
And also leads them to rage out and go wild!,☺️😂🧓🦁🙏👍
Be the best version of yourself that you can be and focus on and pursue your dreams peacefully and respectfully.
You are so helpful! You are appreciated ❤
Totally agree, stand up be firm and go no contact! These are sick, damaged individuals. Don't let them control you, move on , go no contact, block, block, and more block. This is how you win over the narcissist, keep busy, go on a trip, set new goal....don't let these narcissist take occupancy in your life!!
Give them the silent treatment and drive then crazy
Move in silence peace is priceless
Shows them they can no longer try to control you. Manipulate you etc one day they’ll realize who and what they lost.
Loving the white board investment. 👌. ✌️ bro
Believe in yourselves and each other and never give up on your dreams and aspirations and remember to be kind and uplifting to each other and open minded and genuine and respectful and humble. 💯❤️
Another fantastic piece you've brought to us, Joel. I legitimately had one of the narcissists refer to as "scary" at a job a couple years back. And notice how passive aggressive they act too. "We really like you but people think you're scary." Oh, I'm sorry, is it because I don't put up with people's BS and their stupidity? That's okay. I'd rather be considered a force to be reckoned with than a cowardly wimp who exists solely to please others; an ass-kisser, if you will. Will NEVER be that way! But I always try to treat those who align with my values and respect with the upmost kindness. Thank once again for your words of wisdom, Joel!
When you block them but still leave you voicemails daily 🙄…zero boundaries
I feel so much better since going no contact, got my energy back, been working on self improvement mentally and physically. I honestly think I'd never answer a hoover now since I learned who I was dealing with 🤢 now I find them repulsive and bottom of the barrel trash lol
Narcissistic demon spirit love control and power and manipulation
You are absolutely right, love controlling others. That DEMON CANT CONTROL ME.
My mama did me in bro im currently homeless now because i couldn’t live with her anymore but i know God will bless me
KEYWORDS: Dignity, Values, and Boundaries.. 🙌
THE RETURN OF THE WHITEBOARD
yes!
Heres is the best way to destroy the narcissist
1. Wear a rosary around your neck and keep the bible open at psalms 91
2. Overcome evil with good pray for them, cause they will change and leave you alone.
3. If you don’t have the holy ghost or believe in him. Read the next step very carefully
4. If you CONFESS with your (mouth) that “Jesus is lord” and believe in your (heart) that god Raised him from the dead you will be saved.
5.he heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds.
6.Christ in the mouth of a friend and stranger, Christ in all the hearts that love me.
7. Step 6 can be used out in public and inside your home while praying in your bedroom.
Jesus is a metaphor for the enlightened man. So all your points make zero sense since you take jesus as a literal human being that existed 2000 years ago.
Wow! Praise the lord, Amen,, God sent me to your post, I thank him for it, I pray that all is well with you, in the name of Jesus
Wise observations - For a young guy you have a grasp of allot. There is a book called STFU thats shut the f up - it basically said the same thing as you have said - all great advice - just to add - sometimes it aint easy! but it has to be done. Thanks for you videos.
We are so fucked as a society. We do it to the narcissists and the narcissists do it to us. In the end we all lose.
That why I tell bro & sis to leave there community if you're trying to find a partner people you grew up with dont have you're best intrest in mind but if these narcs are constantly attack you're life u gotta move
@@kisigma1011 it's not just your community...its the culture of today. treating everyone as if they are a narc...no emotion, no details and only be surface level.
@@zippyz4170 you're right about that no doubt once I sense that sign of no communication I know exactly what's going on.
Why would you want a narcissist in your life anyway?
Awesome post, Joel, thanks for pushing through the technical difficulties.
It’s all gonna come back on them and their innocent children 😢
He got fed up and made a white board presentation 🤣
Thanks for doing the video a second time to get it right. I do appreciate you taking the time to do it right. Shows how you do things right , but it also shows you care. Thank you.
I respect you brother. May you be abundantly blessed always. I'm coming up after some narcs nearly took me down for the count. My comeback is going to be immaculate.
Awesome video Terry 👏🏾. I started practicing silence against the narcissism way more this year and have gotten best results. Only argue and fight back with them if your extremely cornered if not don’t respond or acknowledge them
Thank you for taking your time and energy to speak with us terryjoeljunior. We really appreciate you.
Thanks for re recording the video for us terryjoeljunior. Your a real one and a legend.
To me it's not about revenge
But more about being safe and protected, i know how it is to be a narcissist because i was also surrounded by them from at a young age, i grew up with some and I thought this kind of behavior is normal but it isn't i also behaved like this to a friend who was much older than me because i wanted to know what the best response's against these kind's of individuals are,i know it was wrong to use him to experiment on but to me it was always about survival and necessary at that time but i still feel regret doing these kind's of thing's to him, i also just couldn't tell him because everyone around me was also lying so I didn't know what route to take, so i just picked the roughest one,i have to agree that silence is the best wall out there to protect yourself if they can't bully you, because in school they could just toss you around even when you're silent, teacher's could also work against you and create these kind's of toxic environments to create a living hell. What I've seen is that you really need to be careful who you let into you're home ,they can come unexpected,uncontrollable and demand attention,time and sometimes even resources from you and if you don't give it to them , the whole world would be on fire, they will follow you around annoy you like a little child against his mother etc, . It was very hard for me to get rid of one and all the negativity around it, i digged myself a grave everywhere i was going because it didn't wanted to end, i was also on drug's and was highly delusional. It was one of the craziest time's in my life.
I've seen these kind's of behavior's mostly in woman, the bad thing about it is that boy's from single household mother's are falling victim to this and are becoming the monster's they're fighting up against.
Mostly it aint there faults because they just don't know any better, but it's simpler to just ignore anyone whoever you can and let no-one into you're household of house where all you're resources are hanging around because they can take advantage of you when you make yourself this vulnerable, also some social media's because the more information narcissist's gather the more it could be used against you, keep those big and silent wall's up and high to protect yourselves from the devouring animals surrounding you.
The " Silent Treatment" Is One Of A Narcissist's Favorite Weapon.
The first one was mind boggling..😮
I have a covert narc couple living next door. The man is bad enough, but his wife is worse! I can't stand having that woman anywhere near me. She treats me like I'm below her. And I have been very, very generous to her. But, lately.....SILENCE from me. Before they moved in, another female covert narc lived downstairs from me. Another headache. But the one that is here now...oh my God.
For real 👏silent is the best weapon for narc clowns. Once it happens you are the one in control of them! Put the 🧵😂 💯💯
I LOVE this video. If you have your stuff together and you are ON POINT, there is NO REASON to be dealing with ANYONE'S FOOLISHNESS.
"YOU HAVE TO KNOW" , I like the way you think....❤
You are the best TH-camr who talks about narcissists everything you say about them is 💯 true!
Silence works 🎉😂❤
Majority of modern women have those characteristics…
I needed to See and Hear this Video Working with Women in Construction will bring you down. You Are so Right on all Levels of Subject.
Get strong, get silent, get a life.
We can see it coming!
Another TJJ gem ❤
Great content
When ur silent u fill ur cup and not keep it full not squander it on narcissist
Blessing to you an all looking an sounding good 😊👍
Another TJj gem..thank you sir...no narc November ❤
2nd take.. I’m pissed for you. Damn!
I just am sad that so many people are suffering like I am😢 God bless you guys❤
Great video..theyre everywhere.
Every time I miss my ex, or think of him, Spirit reminds me of all the things they done to me and says to me: do I need to remind you of all the things they done to you?! Then I say to Spirit: I know.
Thats schizophrenia you mental fq
This video made me smile. This is probably my favorite one you've created, and I love your content. Keep telling it like it is. Love the info ❤board too!
That shirt is smooth bro
I like your shirt! You look great. Greetings from STATEN ISLAND NY.
Wait-- that silk shirt tho 👍😆
I want people to remember it's never too late to learn about narcissistic people. We will in the age of the internet. Internet narcissism is at an all time high. Treat them how they treated you when they first found out or didn't find out about narcissistic online personalities. These people will come to your home and be nosey. I had to learn this in my late 20s the hard way on how narcissistic people operate. Forgive yourself for acting out and move on.rumination from your past is toxic always try to focus on the present. What can you do about your situation in the present day. A lot of these toxic people won't come with you to your life after a certain age. This goes for work place narcissist, family narcissist, friends, ex's.
Companionship and genuine relationships with mutual benefits to both parties.
Silence is even better than success! In my opinion. Everything, I mean everything you said is correct 💯💯
This is the type of bloke you want in the trench beside you and this is how you should behave for the man beside you... and there are no atheists in foxholes Amen . And Stonewall I agree
Sure you are my saving grace
Joel, you are amazing for making these videos for us. Thanks a lot. This video is so valuable and educational. I love it.
Terry Joel Junior
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It's TRUE!
Liking the whiteboard
Imagine all those narci woman in this town, I don't know them..They don't know me and stalking me, and follow me in all social media and One of them is my husband's niece..creepy...
She tried to speak my languaje to get my attention and She was the first person in town to started this nigthmare.
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Good Job with this video!👊💯 You're a good teacher, the white board makes it superb bro👏👏👏👏
Absolutely love your content.
Your so playing catch up but glad your learning cause I survived a religious narcissist and I see why your having issues child cause I’m a warrior and it pissing em off I’m
Not 450lbs ! Im toned at 149lbs and I’m 5’11 I piss em off I’m a real Barbie with no plastic surgery I’m natural and I smoke pot to help me deal with the stupidity on this planet! I didn’t make god pick me he chose me cause of my strengths and weakness cause I’m gods eyes I’m wise as a serpent but innocent as a dove and being crown got me crazy attacks spiritual but I ain’t losing the more they attack me the more I level up so keep learning if you need help you got a sister
Ur friggen hilarious dude 😅 the jump scares are priceless. And you’re getting witty as can be 😂💪🏻✝️
And where can I get those lil silky shirts. Trend setter! Haha
100% accurate!! Your so wise!! I Love the way you made the sign of the cross!! God will bless you for helping us!!❤️🙏🏻✝️😊
This is 100% on point i had to go no control with alot of narcissist in my life and don't regret it one but only one I can't get rid of who is a narcissist is my kids father i need to co parent with him bc were through courts and its ordered bc he got his way with them but i wish i can just block him and be done ✔but i barely speak to him unless its about our children that's it all narcissist want sympathy or play the victim card but make you look like the bad person in the end thier sick mentally so giving the silent treatment is good! Another great informative video&thanks!
Your channel is 🔥I've been binge watching your videos. Super entertaining bro keep it up
So true 👍🏾💯
Thx for sharing brotherman
This was great, u might got to bring the dry erase board out more often
Nice!
Thank you sir 🫡
Thats exactlly what I choose to do go no contact and silent😊
Sorry for your mic glad u did this video ❤️
I hope that everyone has a great and memorable day today.
It's the psychopaths that believe their own "game" and they play it better but the results are the same
Just walk away, mate, but never come back. I always come back... 😂
Keep ,going
Damn, nice shirt dude
Never ignore small signs of coming betrayal
Glad you did the second take. This was excellent. So good. You really put things into prospective. Thank you so much. Yellow looks nice on you
💯 can’t argue with ignant
That good is so fly. Excellent information.
In codependent situations saying I hate you it's your fault -leads to more attachment. Same with love. The Bible says there are different kinds of love. Mabie this is what Jesus meant when saying If an enemy stricketh you on the cheek, turn and offer the other. That is forgive be silent and move on. And release the urge for revenge. This is when people are baiting and pushing you.
This video and your shirt 🔥🔥🔥
Well done for your presentation and clear explanation.
Got it !!! Thanks for this ???
yep. i did this. cut them off