I will be turning 65 soon. I've come to realize I'm running out of time to do and try everything I've accumulated over the years. I'm interested in so many different things...(cooking, baking, decorating cakes/cookies, scrapbooking, writing, woodwork, quilting, crocheting, diy's, junk to treasures, beads, painting, macrame, diamond painting, wreath making, decorating, gardening (flowers and vegetables), canning, freezing, card making, sewing, couponing (stockpiling), all crafting, the list goes on and on...I want to try everything and I've bought stuff for all the above hobbies. Reality is I'm running out of time and I need to declutter so I don't leave this burden to my hubby or kids. It's emotional as I come to the realization that my time on earth is in the last season.
I'm turning 60. I finally realized too I'm in a different season of life and don't have much time left. I'm in the process if decluttering everything I have. Today has been an emotional one. But I need my home to be simple and don't want to leave so much for my kids to sort through.
I feel the same, I have been doing Swedish Death Cleaning. Sold my handbag collection, some jewelry and purged my work clothes. I used the money to pay for medical insurance before I can go on Medicare.
While I understand your thoughts, if you are healthy, you could still enjoy another 30 years of crafts and hobbies. That said, I too have far too many interests, and my interests have changed in the last 20 years. We need to declutter, but we don't need to give it all up.
It is actually helpful to WATCH someone struggle with stuff they actually need to let go of! (Terrible grammar there...) It gives me hope that I can also LET GO of things I have. For me it's books!
I got a kindle so I don't need physical books. Still took me a long time as I love books and they're easier to flick through but once I got used to the kindle I now love it and have loads of books on it without taking any space
I have a tendency to procrastinate, especially when it comes to cleaning/dishes etc. I marked a saying on a cute little rock by my kitchen sink "just do it" which pushes me into motivation. Works for me.
Wow this one was soooo good! I love how you shared it all with us and pointed out that we dread some things because they relate to an identity from our past. Thank you! So inspiring.
I've stumbles across my best labeling tool, freezer tape (not masking tape) and a big marker. When I want to change the label, the tape comes off with the least amount of goo residue of anything else I've tried. I'm always changing my mind about what's in the bins, so being able to easily change the label works for me.
Great idea. There’s also a product called “low-tack masking tape.” Discovered it when I worked in advertising. Can seal paper envelope with it and reseal without issue. Leaves no residue either. Probably found in art supply stores.
I love freezer tape, too! I mark my leftovers and date them. I kabel lotr of things on the lídr in bridge door...can identity at a glance. Reduces fridge clutter. Also use in freezer!LOL
I use 3x5 note cards, writing on them in bold magic marker, and then tape them onto the outside of my bins using clear boxing tape. The labels are bold, hard to miss and easy to read. The boxing tape covers the note card and protects it, and the tape peels off the bin easily when I'm done with it. I've used this method for years and never had them leave tape residue behind.
One thing I’ve saved and I think I still got in a box is my Girl Scout sash from the 1970s! With only a very few badges representing accomplishments that I achieved… Including cooking and sewing, I believe. Not a lot of meaning to me, but I kept thinking it be interesting to show people… I live abroad, so as a piece of American history etc.… I even have that cord that you put on your shoulder with the gold loops around, if you know what that is. and that little bit I’ve actually repurposed, now I have it hanging in my bathroom and barrettes are clipped onto it! Very practical 😀 I think when I get to that box again, that it may be able to go! Doesn’t really have any particular meaning to anyone except me and my mom perhaps, and certainly does not identify our relationship!
"Better is better" "I'd never think that I had one" I too hear your voice! My dil-daughter n law, hears better is better too! Thank you Dana for the practical advice And for teaching our kids! My daughter majored in theater arts because of one of her drama teachers. She uses those skills in a 21st century job!
I really appreciate the consciousness of how objects can be wrapped in Identity. Awesome. Used to hang in performance circles too. I am so AVOIDING looking at that stuff!!
I had 7 tubs/boxes of coursework from my BA and MS in teaching. Now I’m homeschool mom of 6, and I don’t have time, desire, or need to look at it. I realized I was keeping it IN CASE… my husband passed away unexpectedly and I had to support our whole family by tutoring…? What?! I wouldn’t do that. I would find a different way of earning a living that I enjoy more. Making myself see why I had kept it was so critical to downsizing it.
Thank you so much for reading my comment! I live for your videos! I have been emptying cabinets, drawers, and closets and sending pictures to my family to show my progress. Its kind of like accountability. They are also excited about the idea of my doing the Swedish death cleaning. It is personally a very freeing feeling! One of your best videos was the “better” one. It encouraged me to do at least something but not having to do everything! Or perfectly! Thank you again and keep of the good work! Bless you!
Thank you for this inspirational video, and reality-check! You're the best! It's just what I needed at this time. I spent years in a job that I had a lot of training for, and still have so many boxes of books and materials from it, but I'm doing something different now. I've been holding on to the old materials "just in case" I have to return to that job; however, it's not who I am anymore. I've moved on. So, I've decided to donate or trash all of them now (and if I ever do need them again, most of that info is online anyway). Thank you for your encouragement and example!
This was super helpful! Thank you :) I’ve been storing old formal dresses and purses from different times and people in my life. Thought I might have a daughter who would play “dress up” but I have two teen boys so that ship sailed. Now we are in the processes of decluttering and it’s time to open those bins, YIKES. That’s why this video is so timely for me ; the part in your book about identity also VERY helpful. So, here I go….
We have had trunks of Renaissance garb for 20+ years and not opened them. We even moved with them from CA to MO. I just wasn't ready to get rid of the contents. Finally I was ready. I didn't want to send to a thrift store because they wouldn't know what to do with it. I posted it on FB market place. I gave it away for free. It broke my heart but it did no good taking up space. I didn't go through the trunks or tote bags. I would have backed out if I did. It's a good thing the lady came with a truck because there was well over 100# of stuff she took away.
As a family full of theater geeks, the one thing I have halfway organized is the costumes. A whole corner of the basement storage room is hung with closet rods so I can see everything we have at a glance. Yes, it needs purged. None of my kids will wear a size 5 ninja costume ever again, so time to curate the collection.
Thank you Dana for all you do. I use your questions DAILY in my home. Its far from perfect, but better today than yesterday... and I am flexing them muscles (and better - helping my kiddo NOT be in a mess later in life) to declutter and re-home and be real with myself. So that being said - I have a samovar (its a Russian tea - - pot? - - thing... Not very ornate like some in the google machine) that has been in my garage for 6 years. My mother is aging and she also has one - which means I will also get it. Do you have any suggestions on how to display something like this? I'm genuinely stumped and I don't want to donate/sell it because it is very cool and tied to my family's identity (albeit very loosely). It isn't "in the way" or shuffled around often, but I have guilt having it in my garage, not being loved by anyone. I welcome ANYONE'S suggestions that either may push me to get rid of it or a great "turn it into some visual love". Thank you again! I love seeing your videos!
I hope I'm not rude if I suggest it sounds like something more appropriate to donate to your church. They could likely use it to serve tea for events or "greeting hour", and it could be enjoyed by many! My only other suggestion would be to look up how a samovar is displayed in Russia where it comes from. Do they store it and pull it out as needed, or keep it on its own special table? Do you have room/strength to either move it as needed, or permanently store it in view? If you care to store it out of sight, does it make sense to store other cultural/family history items with it, so the entire trove might be trotted out for special events when remembering your roots is important?
@@Marialla. You know - the church thing is something to be considered. Maybe not a church (its large, and functions on old fashioned wood to heat so I'm not sure it would fare any better there)... but maybe put it "on Loan" or just out right donate to a Russian museum. As far as personal display - I didn't think about a table option... I will have to think about that too. I appreciate the thoughts - no need to apologize for being rude (which you weren't at all) when I'm asking for it :) Cheers!
Does it fit your home decor style enough that you could use it on an end table or mantel, or in the middle of your dining room table? Maybe holding flowers or candy? Sounds like a fun conversation-starter type thing if out where family can enjoy it and guests see it...
Wouldn’t it be helpful to have a list of what you had so you’d (a) know what was in each tote, (b) know you didn’t need another one and (c) be able to find it quickly?
Great video. With Halloween right around the corner, many of those donated costumes will make someone happy. My only comment is I might have tossed more than donated. Some of those things were pretty beat up.
I am so happy I found you through Cass. My house is finally coming under control. If I don’t want to do anything then your voice goes through my head “Do the dishes”, “Five minutes better”. Thank you for everything you do.
Yep, I found Dana through Dawn. And I hear, "take it there now" many times a day. I used to pile stuff up at the bottom or top of stairs and now I just take it all the way to its home.
When you said that we might have to confront that our identity has changed a huge light bulb went off. I’ve been holding on to so many things because I feel guilt and sadness over a change in my identity. This video really hit home!
@jessy7550, yes!! I change my thought and feelings often. So, I look through my things frequently, because I KNOW that I will possibly not want something now that I wanted before!!.
I recently had to move and I decided that it was time to purge my “pre-pandemic” wardrobe. Office wear, formal party dresses, clothes for going to a bar, etc. Some of it was stuff I had actually bought during the past year, but at the time I wasn’t being realistic either about my new size or my new lifestyle. The thing that caused me to declutter it despite it all fitting in my wardrobe is that I decided to prioritize the right now, literally. My former landlady was willing to take any donations to the thrift store for me so anything I decluttered, I could just leave behind. I saved so much time that I was able to take my friends who were helping me move out to dinner. It might seem silly but one evening out with them was worth more than dealing with all those clothes for another minute. 🤷🏻♀️
Your drama background makes me realize why you are such a great vlogger! I always love listening to you and watching your expressions. You brought your passion to your decluttering platform.
I love to watch you in action as it's a real representation of the emotions that we go through and how to work through it. Mine are mostly craft or DIY home projects... Identity clutter is a huge challenge. Thank you Dana!
As long as you have decluttered for yourself and helped others Dana, I appreciate the glimpse into your inner struggle and some emotions that still come with decluttering. I could tell when some of the items meant something special to you in your past and you were still able to pass them on. Enjoying watching your vids!
I really appreciate you still keeping an entire bin. I'm in the online course and so many people in the FB group have gotten into a mindset of tossing absolutely everything not related to your current life, and that's a little extreme.
I agree! If you have room for the bin, it's unnecessary especially if you think you really truly might wasn't it later and would regret having gotten rid of it
For a lot of people that really works well, though. Broadly speaking, once you quit a hobby, a job, or some kind of activity it's because you've lost interest. The likelihood of regaining interest versus starting something new isn't all that high. Might as well get rid of stuff because you'll probably need the space for all the stuff you're about to buy for the newest fascination.
@@britt5753 I wonder if that is true for most people. For a long time I thought that was true for me, but there are a lot of hobbies I have returned to over time.
@@amara560 I agree with both ways of looking at it. Lifestyle changes - retiring, moving, changing jobs, family growing up and out on their own - can free up time to go back to those hobbies you loved to do and if you know you want to dabble in it again then I say keep the materials. Why pay again if you can store it out of your way until you're ready to resume it.
This helps me so much. I collected craft items that my mother and I could work on when she became homebound. Now, unable to even do crafts, it's time to decide what I want just for my own use. Realistic thought must prevail. Difficult, sad, but necessary. Thank you.
Teacher for 33 years, recently retired identity clutter-working through it. Teaching has changed so much that there are things that now have better options available, so that is one of the things I can use to get rid of things. Also with the Internet and printers, higher quality materials are more readily available. Almost everything I got from my teacher mother has already gone into the trash for those reasons. I decided if I teach again, it will be online, so some materials can go because they don't translate well to online learning. So many boxes still to go through. Another identity is crafter (yarn and fabric): working my way through yarn, still have to get it down to one large tote (at the moment the lid does not fit on), and will start fabric once yarn is done. Oh my goodness, so hard to get through identity clutter. This video definitely helped clarify things for me.
I got enough floor cleaned off in our "clutter room" to mop the floor today, and it was such a great moment. I've been working on that room for over a month now and its been progress every time I'm in there thanks in no small part to your advice. Thank you for all you do.
Love your videos! You make me smile! 😁 I found you through Dawn. You would be so proud that after I had a long day on Wednesday that I still did the dishes! I was going to just head to bed but thought "no, if you don't do anything else...do the dishes". 😉
We brought a huge box of already expired - yes already expired- spices from my mother in laws after she passed. It has sat in our hall untouched for 9 years and we finally 😬 just got rid if it. Yikes.
Identity clutter IS A THING! Past marriage pictures. Can't face getting rid of them let along going through them and it has been 17 years. I have a problem. I used to be incredibly horsey. Very difficult getting rid of all my horse stuff: tack, clothes, trophies, blah blah blah. College papers! College text books! It list goes on and on.
You hit the doorbell on the head with this one, Dana. Only last year I finally let go of decades-old workshop materials I'd developed. Identity...and the products of a job I didn't even like. This summer I finally dealt with my own group and workshop materials which I'd loved creating and working with...now years past. Harder to do because they were uniquely mine, still relevant, and I identified closely with them and the associated memories. My creative, professional identity. Difficult as it was, I spent time going through, revisiting and remembering all of the experiences and people involved, aided by notes, letters and testimonials. A privilege, pleasure, and gratifying but all in the past now. No more "maybe I'll..." or "I could still...". I've kept a few treasured notes/letters as mementos for now, but also felt relieved of the weight of all those lingering possibilities. I know that if someone asked me if I'd do a program today, I'd either say No, thanks or Yes, and start from scratch. More likely the first. Done. Thanks so much for this wonderful example and great job. It was affirming. (I'd have kept the Raggedy Ann wig though.)
@karenf8470 I can relate to your situation as mine was the same. It was a vibrant unique life and I had full go ahead to create what I saw our community needed. After years of creating different programs, my last one of 2 yrs was evaluated by 3 states as a model for success and they wanted me to publish a book and go state to state teaching social and community services how to implement it. I wanted to but not bad enough to go through with it. I know if I was asked to start that program where I live now ( and it's really needed) I would have to have full control and a much bigger paycheck. Times have changed since then and there are a lot of mandates to do this or that and I won't be squeezed into a box. that wouldn't align with my value of loving what you do. Your post does inspire me to purge a lot of the material I've been holding onto. Once you put your heart and soul into something you always remember it.
I can relate to your situation as mine was the same. It was a vibrant unique life and I had full go ahead to create what I saw our community needed. After years of creating different programs, my last one of 2 yrs was evaluated by 3 states as a model for success and they wanted me to publish a book and go state to state teaching social and community services how to implement it. I wanted to but not bad enough to go through with it. I know if I was asked to start that program where I live now ( and it's really needed) I would have to have full control and a much bigger paycheck. Times have changed since then and there are a lot of mandates to do this or that and I won't be squeezed into a box. that wouldn't align with my value of loving what you do. Your post does inspire me to purge a lot of the material I've been holding onto. Once you put your heart and soul into something you always remember it.
@@synergy2222 I wholeheartedly agree. Noting how long ago I wrote, I can say that I haven't looked back or regretted my choices re: the work or the materials. In my case, I also felt it was time to pass the baton and only recently was able to pass along several more books toward that effort. Thanks for this!
Yes! Patti Curry, that exact thought. Would I be prepared/able to deal with this if I even needed it? Or would I rather buy a newer/nicer one (or just do without and figure something else out)? This has helped me a few times personally.
Yeah! This is now One of my more favorite videos. Thanks for the motivation. I never get tired of seeing this type of content. I’m Still spinning-circles trying to declutter in preparation of a more tidy organized home. It would make for easier cleaning and my best friend saying, “so what are you up to today?” Me - same old pat-phrase, “oh, just working around.” On the surface, very decent but underneath, omg. So depressing. I keep chugging along. But this didn’t happen overnight. So I keep telling myself, eventually it will all come together. I love hearing the trash truck coming down the road. At last minute, I’ve been tossing “stuff?” In the dumpster just as he pulls up. It’s such a good feeling. With that being said, I also have to many eminent (sp?) responsibilities. Basically, life & health that comes first. But when my spurts wake up, outta my way. 😊. Thank you. Excuse any errors 🙃 no time for proofing. I just got one of those spurts. So outta my way 😊🙃😊
Yes, depressing but so worthwhile. It helps me to take pictures of the space and store as a note on my phone. When I need motivation, I look back and realize I have moved the needle more than I realized. It’s taken me years to pare down and I have one space left-sentimental and crafts. I just gave my beloved cricket machine to a local homeschool group. Even though it was a hard decision, my children are grown and I don’t use it anymore. I asked the lady if I could use it if I had a craft in mind and she said, of course! She said she has been praying for one! And here it was collecting dust in my home.
Tupperware. I've stored Tupperware that moved interstate with me in a box 23 years ago!!! It's still in the box!! I think (much to my husband's delight!!) that it's time to purge..........
I have never commented before. As much as I enjoy/appreciate the inspiration, my ranking of you just soared when you rolled off "The Bald Soprano"! 👋 Thanks for what you do!
Thank goodness i found you, listening to you declutter helps me to just keep on going. I have ADHD and the "take it there now" approach has changed my life, even with putting things in the bin.
🤣True, but on 2nd thought, we really appreciate Dana’s authenticity, flaws and all and we don’t want scheduling conflicts interfering with our getting the information (video) in the first place.
I still have teacher stuff I need to declutter. I taught for 3 years and was the school librarian for 16 years. Definitely need to go through all that classroom stuff! Thanks for the incentive. You are inspirational. :)
I really wanted to see put the costumes together with all the attendant parts, nicely folded, in a gallon ziploc, with a tag. Or pinned all together. SO the thrift store wouldn't separate the pieces.
I loved seeing your theatrical history! You are still living it in the way you entertain us in something that could be so blah…,you make decluttering fun! Next episode I hope to see you costumed. 🥰
I never thought of asking myself, "Would I have looked for that item here?" It's like if I didn't know I had it, how could I miss it? Good job consolidating! I'm inspired.
Yay! One box!!! And no mess! Identity has changed-I remember the day I decided I was NOT “The Cross-Stitching Lady” anymore! (Evidently I’m not the Blue Jean Quilt Making Grandma either! I have bags and bags of bue jeans cut up for quilts but have never been sewn together!)
@@debbykidd9813 I always thought that I would do that! I want my grandkids and my great grandkids to know that I can sew! Even though I don’t do it anymore.
Agreed! I was interested in quilt-making once upon a time, and still have all the stuff for it even though I have no real interest in making a quilt ever again. I still save a lot of the stuff, though, because it is useful for other kinds of sewing and crafts which I legitimately might want to use it for in the future. But tbh letting go of the self-image that "I am a quilter" was hard. I'm NOT a quilter, much. I'm a lady who kinda likes and appreciates quilts.
@@debbykidd9813 TBH, there's not much from my old days of quilting that I'm not re-using in different crafts now. Mostly just books and magazines about quilting, that I no longer need. Still, even letting go of those was hard because I kept thinking I maybe would want them someday.
My three year old watched for a minute or two and said, "Mama, I think that she's taking things out that she doesn't need and then taking them to goodwill." haha. I wonder what I've been talking about nonstop lately?
A year ago my 5 year old asked me if she could keep her favorite toy, I think she was scared there wasn't going to be anything left in the house and didn't want to loose the "Elsa guitar" lol
Starbucks training manuals from my first retail job. Time to let those go. It was the people and the real life experiences that impacted me, not the spiral bound corporate mantras.
I have been binge watching your videos at work. I think this is my first comment. I have 200 rolls of duct tape. I have the space for it but I very much want to have less so I am thinking about selling it. I have Ben moving it around from place to place for 12 years. Haven’t used any off it in probably 8 years.
This reminded me of decluttering my triplets' bins and bins of dress up clothes and costumes years ago. Oh my gosh, pulling at my heartstrings. By the way I grew up loving Raggedy Ann and Holly Hobby. I still have my Raggedy Ann doll that was handmade by my mom.
I still have my Holly Hobby doll (plus Barbie and Donny and Marie...). Sometimes I get the impulse to Buy a Raggedy Ann doll since I don’t have it anymore. 😉
Identities from the past I have stored; 400 plastic horses. Well, 30 of them are actually out on display. I just don't have room to display the rest so they are in storage ( in case I ever move and have room? Though they are such a pill to dust, I'm not sure I would). I am no longer a horse crazy girl. I'm a 54 year old mamma. I guess it's time to go find those boxes.
It is SO HARD to throw/give away stuff that you have made. I recently gave away 2 whole Renaissance Faire dresses plus 3 bodices, because I won’t be able to fit them after having 2 kids (the boobs aren’t getting any smaller) I gave them to a young lady in the SCA and she was thrilled. I will probably even get to see them being used again.
I agree. We usually have ding dong doorbells but I think the buzzy ones featured in old 1940s and 1950s films so I reckon that’s where Dana got the thought in her head.
It's funny you called it a Holly Hobby hat. And another commenter called it a Laura Ingalls hat. Here in Utah, those are called Pioneer Bonnets, and they get used every year.
It was good to watch this process. The stuff would fit in the bin better if it were folded (that's my OCD talking!) It has started me thinking about some of the bins in my garage that have been with me for over a decade and I dont think Ive ever purged anything from them. I have sewing supplies and notions probabably from the 1990's that I know I'll never use. I remember that I "had something" like what Im looking for and go through boxes until I do or dont find it. Would really be happy with less stuff. Thats my project for this coming weekend!
I used my dad's ruck sack when I was in college. It was great. Made many trips out dorm windows. Lol. Load up my clothes and instead of lugging them down the stairs, I would throw them out the window.
Great video!! Thanks SO much!! I actually also have Costume tubs. My daughter and I were going through the tubs when she reached in and pulled out my mother’s high school ring (1954). I had LOST it over a year previously. Evidently, it had slipped off my finger the last time I looked through them. Just the very best reward I ever got for decluttering!! Decluttering is my FAVORITE way now to find anything that is misplaced/lost. Because when there are fewer things, it becomes more difficult for the important to you things to hide from you. Thanks again for all your great ideas!
Regarding the stripy socks, it looked like it felt hard to let them go... so I’m wondering why you didn’t make an exception and ask yourself where you’d look for those, and put one of the pairs there? (If the answer was ”in the sock drawer” or anywhere else than ”in one of those bins,” mind you). Love your decluttering method. Getting everything out always was discouraging, but the doing better without making a bigger mess method? It really worked. The house is still messy, because this takes Time, but at least I now know I can do it. Thank you!
my guess is that she is so kind and so keen on promoting people getting into Theatre that she knew in her gut she wanted whatever costume mistress type person finds the rest of the Raggedy Ann and Andy stuff at the thrift store, to find the full set.
So here is my question regarding "I didn't know I had it." Once you've gone through the boxes, and found that you have red-striped socks or something else, you now KNOW YOU HAVE IT. So why not cull out what you know you'll never use, and then keep the red-striped socks, because now you know about them? I have a hard time finding an answer to that.
She knew she had it when she first put it there, though. The question really could be restated "Would I totally forget I owned this, AGAIN?" Some items stay on our radar more than others. She would have re-bought it AGAIN rather than look for it, so it deserved to go.
@Kimberly Brown Since you didn't know you had it before seeing it (this time) it probably wasn't/ isn't worth the space or the clutter covering the things you "would totally go looking for."
She also says... you can keep anything, but not everything. I think shed be ok with people changing their minds about some stuff. But not if the dwelling is a health hazard from too much stuff. Living spaces are for living in, residences are for the residents (and their guests).
oh, that explains why i was thinking how amazingly funny and entertaining you are. talented for stage. well, duh. also, amazing coincidence couple of weeks ago i have finally decluttered and consolidated my past identity of a dancer with fire props (fire hoop, fire fans, poi, etc... and then the costumes - i have yet to declutter some of them).yes, you are right - took a big part of my basement, big part of my mental space, too. it was so hard to declutter as most of it was not easy to come by. and at the same time it was so liberating to get rid of some of it. and yes, once i got going it was easier. it really helped to apply the container concept. thank you!
I will be turning 65 soon. I've come to realize I'm running out of time to do and try everything I've accumulated over the years. I'm interested in so many different things...(cooking, baking, decorating cakes/cookies, scrapbooking, writing, woodwork, quilting, crocheting, diy's, junk to treasures, beads, painting, macrame, diamond painting, wreath making, decorating, gardening (flowers and vegetables), canning, freezing, card making, sewing, couponing (stockpiling), all crafting, the list goes on and on...I want to try everything and I've bought stuff for all the above hobbies. Reality is I'm running out of time and I need to declutter so I don't leave this burden to my hubby or kids. It's emotional as I come to the realization that my time on earth is in the last season.
That's kind of where I'm at too.
I'm turning 60. I finally realized too I'm in a different season of life and don't have much time left. I'm in the process if decluttering everything I have. Today has been an emotional one. But I need my home to be simple and don't want to leave so much for my kids to sort through.
I'm right there with you! Hugs to you!
I feel the same, I have been doing Swedish Death Cleaning. Sold my handbag collection, some jewelry and purged my work clothes. I used the money to pay for medical insurance before I can go on Medicare.
While I understand your thoughts, if you are healthy, you could still enjoy another 30 years of crafts and hobbies. That said, I too have far too many interests, and my interests have changed in the last 20 years. We need to declutter, but we don't need to give it all up.
Most times your videos put me in the mood to purge, but for some reason, this one makes me want to go thrift store shopping.🙀
LOL yeah, we gotta be there to pick up all those neat Halloween costumes she just donated!
Dies anyone else want her red flapper dress?😍
Me too! -- probably realizing people are decluttering really cool costumes we need to go find, haha
@@elizabethcallihan9971 YES! ❤️
It is actually helpful to WATCH someone struggle with stuff they actually need to let go of! (Terrible grammar there...) It gives me hope that I can also LET GO of things I have. For me it's books!
Same here! Books are a huge hang up for me, but I’m learning. (Slowly!)
I got a kindle so I don't need physical books. Still took me a long time as I love books and they're easier to flick through but once I got used to the kindle I now love it and have loads of books on it without taking any space
I have a tendency to procrastinate, especially when it comes to cleaning/dishes etc. I marked a saying on a cute little rock by my kitchen sink "just do it" which pushes me into motivation. Works for me.
Wow this one was soooo good! I love how you shared it all with us and pointed out that we dread some things because they relate to an identity from our past. Thank you! So inspiring.
would it ever occur to me that i own that - is a great question to tackle my garage with. Thanks for the encouragement!
This is the most interesting declutter ever . great job passing on so much stuff
As a costumer for my husband's school's musicals, I love this! I keep so much thinking I may need it for a costume some day. Thanks for this Dana!!!!
I found your methods to declutter encouraging and helps to keep me on track with stuff In my boxes that need to go. Thanks!
Really appreciate you and LOVE your dog!!
I've stumbles across my best labeling tool, freezer tape (not masking tape) and a big marker. When I want to change the label, the tape comes off with the least amount of goo residue of anything else I've tried. I'm always changing my mind about what's in the bins, so being able to easily change the label works for me.
Great idea. There’s also a product called “low-tack masking tape.” Discovered it when I worked in advertising. Can seal paper envelope with it and reseal without issue. Leaves no residue either. Probably found in art supply stores.
I love freezer tape, too! I mark my leftovers and date them. I kabel lotr of things on the lídr in bridge door...can identity at a glance. Reduces fridge clutter. Also use in freezer!LOL
Sorry so sloppy
I use 3x5 note cards, writing on them in bold magic marker, and then tape them onto the outside of my bins using clear boxing tape. The labels are bold, hard to miss and easy to read. The boxing tape covers the note card and protects it, and the tape peels off the bin easily when I'm done with it. I've used this method for years and never had them leave tape residue behind.
That Little House on the Prairie bonnet would be kept and used here!! I keep meaning to sew one for working outside. 😂
As a mom of 4 theatre kids, that video was so much fun to watch! I can totally relate! Thanks for sharing your wit and wisdom! 😁❤️
Aweeee the doggie !🥰 Such perfect company to declutter! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
One thing I’ve saved and I think I still got in a box is my Girl Scout sash from the 1970s! With only a very few badges representing accomplishments that I achieved… Including cooking and sewing, I believe. Not a lot of meaning to me, but I kept thinking it be interesting to show people… I live abroad, so as a piece of American history etc.… I even have that cord that you put on your shoulder with the gold loops around, if you know what that is. and that little bit I’ve actually repurposed, now I have it hanging in my bathroom and barrettes are clipped onto it! Very practical 😀 I think when I get to that box again, that it may be able to go! Doesn’t really have any particular meaning to anyone except me and my mom perhaps, and certainly does not identify our relationship!
"Better is better" "I'd never think that I had one" I too hear your voice! My dil-daughter n law, hears better is better too! Thank you Dana for the practical advice And for teaching our kids! My daughter majored in theater arts because of one of her drama teachers. She uses those skills in a 21st century job!
I really appreciate the consciousness of how objects can be wrapped in Identity. Awesome. Used to hang in performance circles too. I am so AVOIDING looking at that stuff!!
I had 7 tubs/boxes of coursework from my BA and MS in teaching. Now I’m homeschool mom of 6, and I don’t have time, desire, or need to look at it. I realized I was keeping it IN CASE… my husband passed away unexpectedly and I had to support our whole family by tutoring…? What?! I wouldn’t do that. I would find a different way of earning a living that I enjoy more. Making myself see why I had kept it was so critical to downsizing it.
teacherstreet... hugs from me.
Thank you so much for reading my comment! I live for your videos! I have been emptying cabinets, drawers, and closets and sending pictures to my family to show my progress. Its kind of like accountability. They are also excited about the idea of my doing the Swedish death cleaning. It is personally a very freeing feeling! One of your best videos was the “better” one. It encouraged me to do at least something but not having to do everything! Or perfectly! Thank you again and keep of the good work! Bless you!
Thank you for this inspirational video, and reality-check! You're the best! It's just what I needed at this time.
I spent years in a job that I had a lot of training for, and still have so many boxes of books and materials from it, but I'm doing something different now. I've been holding on to the old materials "just in case" I have to return to that job; however, it's not who I am anymore. I've moved on. So, I've decided to donate or trash all of them now (and if I ever do need them again, most of that info is online anyway). Thank you for your encouragement and example!
This was super helpful! Thank you :)
I’ve been storing old formal dresses and purses from different times and people in my life. Thought I might have a daughter who would play “dress up” but I have two teen boys so that ship sailed. Now we are in the processes of decluttering and it’s time to open those bins, YIKES. That’s why this video is so timely for me ; the part in your book about identity also VERY helpful. So, here I go….
The photo on this video title with you and the green empty tub is so flattering. You should considering using it on your next book or cover update!
Way to go Dana- decluttering great stuff perfect for Halloween 🎃
Your dog's curiosity is so fun. :)
We have had trunks of Renaissance garb for 20+ years and not opened them. We even moved with them from CA to MO. I just wasn't ready to get rid of the contents. Finally I was ready. I didn't want to send to a thrift store because they wouldn't know what to do with it. I posted it on FB market place. I gave it away for free. It broke my heart but it did no good taking up space. I didn't go through the trunks or tote bags. I would have backed out if I did. It's a good thing the lady came with a truck because there was well over 100# of stuff she took away.
“Don’t tell my landlord”🤣🤣🤣
Way to go Dana!!!!
Nice to see the roll keep going😅 I guess I enjoy hands on the job❇️💠
This was intriguing and fun! LOL Our kids do drama, so it was fun to see your collection :)
I would label the bins with a list of what is inside, and probably keep it all😅
That was mybthought especially with the raggedy ann stuff
Your German shepherd is adorable!
As a family full of theater geeks, the one thing I have halfway organized is the costumes. A whole corner of the basement storage room is hung with closet rods so I can see everything we have at a glance. Yes, it needs purged. None of my kids will wear a size 5 ninja costume ever again, so time to curate the collection.
I love this video!!
Thank you Dana for all you do. I use your questions DAILY in my home. Its far from perfect, but better today than yesterday... and I am flexing them muscles (and better - helping my kiddo NOT be in a mess later in life) to declutter and re-home and be real with myself. So that being said - I have a samovar (its a Russian tea - - pot? - - thing... Not very ornate like some in the google machine) that has been in my garage for 6 years. My mother is aging and she also has one - which means I will also get it. Do you have any suggestions on how to display something like this? I'm genuinely stumped and I don't want to donate/sell it because it is very cool and tied to my family's identity (albeit very loosely). It isn't "in the way" or shuffled around often, but I have guilt having it in my garage, not being loved by anyone. I welcome ANYONE'S suggestions that either may push me to get rid of it or a great "turn it into some visual love". Thank you again! I love seeing your videos!
I hope I'm not rude if I suggest it sounds like something more appropriate to donate to your church. They could likely use it to serve tea for events or "greeting hour", and it could be enjoyed by many!
My only other suggestion would be to look up how a samovar is displayed in Russia where it comes from. Do they store it and pull it out as needed, or keep it on its own special table? Do you have room/strength to either move it as needed, or permanently store it in view?
If you care to store it out of sight, does it make sense to store other cultural/family history items with it, so the entire trove might be trotted out for special events when remembering your roots is important?
@@Marialla. You know - the church thing is something to be considered. Maybe not a church (its large, and functions on old fashioned wood to heat so I'm not sure it would fare any better there)... but maybe put it "on Loan" or just out right donate to a Russian museum. As far as personal display - I didn't think about a table option... I will have to think about that too. I appreciate the thoughts - no need to apologize for being rude (which you weren't at all) when I'm asking for it :) Cheers!
Does it fit your home decor style enough that you could use it on an end table or mantel, or in the middle of your dining room table? Maybe holding flowers or candy? Sounds like a fun conversation-starter type thing if out where family can enjoy it and guests see it...
Peter Walsh is good value, in dealing with treasures. If they're worthy of being kept either use them or display them in an honouring way.
Rocks. I keep rocks. Gemstones and cool river rocks and shells and drift wood. Every once in awhile I will high grade them.more often would be good.
Ohh, I love your dog!
Wouldn’t it be helpful to have a list of what you had so you’d (a) know what was in each tote, (b) know you didn’t need another one and (c) be able to find it quickly?
Great video. With Halloween right around the corner, many of those donated costumes will make someone happy. My only comment is I might have tossed more than donated. Some of those things were pretty beat up.
I do wonder if you "accidentally" threw your doorknob in the donate box - along with the doorbell. Just wondering. Time 11.20
Great video
I wish time had been taken to fold and pack them properly so they weren't all getting crushed
Isnt the belt to the 60s dress in the donate box?
Yep .. I thought the same thing but I think she’d already kept it, which I didn’t understand 🤣
Yup, it’s always good to have two ears! Hahaha
I am so happy I found you through Cass. My house is finally coming under control. If I don’t want to do anything then your voice goes through my head “Do the dishes”, “Five minutes better”. Thank you for everything you do.
Dana’s voice “take it there now” is constantly in my head.
@@pwatkins2764 that has got to be the best, #1 secret to declutter for me.....found Cass through Dawn the minimal mom😊
Yep even if you do something it will be better then before is what I hear lol
Yep, I found Dana through Dawn. And I hear, "take it there now" many times a day. I used to pile stuff up at the bottom or top of stairs and now I just take it all the way to its home.
Yes! Even if I don't have energy to declutter, I tell myself, just DO THE DISHES!
When you said that we might have to confront that our identity has changed a huge light bulb went off. I’ve been holding on to so many things because I feel guilt and sadness over a change in my identity. This video really hit home!
Here, too.
@jessy7550, yes!! I change my thought and feelings often. So, I look through my things frequently, because I KNOW that I will possibly not want something now that I wanted before!!.
I recently had to move and I decided that it was time to purge my “pre-pandemic” wardrobe. Office wear, formal party dresses, clothes for going to a bar, etc. Some of it was stuff I had actually bought during the past year, but at the time I wasn’t being realistic either about my new size or my new lifestyle.
The thing that caused me to declutter it despite it all fitting in my wardrobe is that I decided to prioritize the right now, literally. My former landlady was willing to take any donations to the thrift store for me so anything I decluttered, I could just leave behind. I saved so much time that I was able to take my friends who were helping me move out to dinner. It might seem silly but one evening out with them was worth more than dealing with all those clothes for another minute. 🤷🏻♀️
Congratulations! Thanks for sharing. And what a sweet friend you are.
Your drama background makes me realize why you are such a great vlogger! I always love listening to you and watching your expressions. You brought your passion to your decluttering platform.
Yep I went ohhhh this is not surprising haha
That's such a good point
I love to watch you in action as it's a real representation of the emotions that we go through and how to work through it. Mine are mostly craft or DIY home projects... Identity clutter is a huge challenge. Thank you Dana!
As long as you have decluttered for yourself and helped others Dana, I appreciate the glimpse into your inner struggle and some emotions that still come with decluttering. I could tell when some of the items meant something special to you in your past and you were still able to pass them on. Enjoying watching your vids!
I really appreciate you still keeping an entire bin. I'm in the online course and so many people in the FB group have gotten into a mindset of tossing absolutely everything not related to your current life, and that's a little extreme.
I agree! If you have room for the bin, it's unnecessary especially if you think you really truly might wasn't it later and would regret having gotten rid of it
For a lot of people that really works well, though. Broadly speaking, once you quit a hobby, a job, or some kind of activity it's because you've lost interest. The likelihood of regaining interest versus starting something new isn't all that high. Might as well get rid of stuff because you'll probably need the space for all the stuff you're about to buy for the newest fascination.
Lol. I wanted her to keep the red flapper dress😄
@@britt5753 I wonder if that is true for most people. For a long time I thought that was true for me, but there are a lot of hobbies I have returned to over time.
@@amara560 I agree with both ways of looking at it. Lifestyle changes - retiring, moving, changing jobs, family growing up and out on their own - can free up time to go back to those hobbies you loved to do and if you know you want to dabble in it again then I say keep the materials. Why pay again if you can store it out of your way until you're ready to resume it.
Now it's "somebody else's jackpot". THAT is what keeps me on track. Thank you!
"I've got issues" lol! Dana you are too funny!
This helps me so much. I collected craft items that my mother and I could work on when she became homebound. Now, unable to even do crafts, it's time to decide what I want just for my own use. Realistic thought must prevail. Difficult, sad, but necessary. Thank you.
Teacher for 33 years, recently retired identity clutter-working through it. Teaching has changed so much that there are things that now have better options available, so that is one of the things I can use to get rid of things. Also with the Internet and printers, higher quality materials are more readily available. Almost everything I got from my teacher mother has already gone into the trash for those reasons. I decided if I teach again, it will be online, so some materials can go because they don't translate well to online learning. So many boxes still to go through. Another identity is crafter (yarn and fabric): working my way through yarn, still have to get it down to one large tote (at the moment the lid does not fit on), and will start fabric once yarn is done. Oh my goodness, so hard to get through identity clutter. This video definitely helped clarify things for me.
I got enough floor cleaned off in our "clutter room" to mop the floor today, and it was such a great moment. I've been working on that room for over a month now and its been progress every time I'm in there thanks in no small part to your advice. Thank you for all you do.
Love your videos! You make me smile! 😁 I found you through Dawn. You would be so proud that after I had a long day on Wednesday that I still did the dishes! I was going to just head to bed but thought "no, if you don't do anything else...do the dishes". 😉
Removing Identity clutter is so hard for me. Thank you for the encouragement. I need to hear it over and over again, and you are so gentle.
We brought a huge box of already expired - yes already expired- spices from my mother in laws after she passed. It has sat in our hall untouched for 9 years and we finally 😬 just got rid if it. Yikes.
Now that's progress! Good for you, and Dana you see how much good you are doing with your joviality and wisdom!
Identity clutter IS A THING! Past marriage pictures. Can't face getting rid of them let along going through them and it has been 17 years. I have a problem. I used to be incredibly horsey. Very difficult getting rid of all my horse stuff: tack, clothes, trophies, blah blah blah. College papers! College text books! It list goes on and on.
My dog wanted to see what that drum sound was too!! He popped his head up and sniffed my phone curiously
You hit the doorbell on the head with this one, Dana. Only last year I finally let go of decades-old workshop materials I'd developed. Identity...and the products of a job I didn't even like. This summer I finally dealt with my own group and workshop materials which I'd loved creating and working with...now years past. Harder to do because they were uniquely mine, still relevant, and I identified closely with them and the associated memories. My creative, professional identity. Difficult as it was, I spent time going through, revisiting and remembering all of the experiences and people involved, aided by notes, letters and testimonials. A privilege, pleasure, and gratifying but all in the past now. No more "maybe I'll..." or "I could still...". I've kept a few treasured notes/letters as mementos for now, but also felt relieved of the weight of all those lingering possibilities. I know that if someone asked me if I'd do a program today, I'd either say No, thanks or Yes, and start from scratch. More likely the first. Done. Thanks so much for this wonderful example and great job. It was affirming. (I'd have kept the Raggedy Ann wig though.)
Use a sound effect app
@karenf8470 I can relate to your situation as mine was the same. It was a vibrant unique life and I had full go ahead to create what I saw our community needed. After years of creating different programs, my last one of 2 yrs was evaluated by 3 states as a model for success and they wanted me to publish a book and go state to state teaching social and community services how to implement it. I wanted to but not bad enough to go through with it. I know if I was asked to start that program where I live now ( and it's really needed) I would have to have full control and a much bigger paycheck. Times have changed since then and there are a lot of mandates to do this or that and I won't be squeezed into a box. that wouldn't align with my value of loving what you do. Your post does inspire me to purge a lot of the material I've been holding onto. Once you put your heart and soul into something you always remember it.
I can relate to your situation as mine was the same. It was a vibrant unique life and I had full go ahead to create what I saw our community needed. After years of creating different programs, my last one of 2 yrs was evaluated by 3 states as a model for success and they wanted me to publish a book and go state to state teaching social and community services how to implement it. I wanted to but not bad enough to go through with it. I know if I was asked to start that program where I live now ( and it's really needed) I would have to have full control and a much bigger paycheck. Times have changed since then and there are a lot of mandates to do this or that and I won't be squeezed into a box. that wouldn't align with my value of loving what you do. Your post does inspire me to purge a lot of the material I've been holding onto. Once you put your heart and soul into something you always remember it.
@@synergy2222 I wholeheartedly agree. Noting how long ago I wrote, I can say that I haven't looked back or regretted my choices re: the work or the materials. In my case, I also felt it was time to pass the baton and only recently was able to pass along several more books toward that effort. Thanks for this!
The dog and the drum! 😂😂😂
Something I would have also asked is, "If I remember I have it would I be willing to wash and iron it and would the wrinkles even come out if I did?"
Yes! Patti Curry, that exact thought. Would I be prepared/able to deal with this if I even needed it? Or would I rather buy a newer/nicer one (or just do without and figure something else out)? This has helped me a few times personally.
Yeah! This is now One of my more favorite videos. Thanks for the motivation. I never get tired of seeing this type of content. I’m Still spinning-circles trying to declutter in preparation of a more tidy organized home. It would make for easier cleaning and my best friend saying, “so what are you up to today?” Me - same old pat-phrase, “oh, just working around.” On the surface, very decent but underneath, omg. So depressing. I keep chugging along. But this didn’t happen overnight. So I keep telling myself, eventually it will all come together. I love hearing the trash truck coming down the road. At last minute, I’ve been tossing “stuff?” In the dumpster just as he pulls up. It’s such a good feeling. With that being said, I also have to many eminent (sp?) responsibilities. Basically, life & health that comes first. But when my spurts wake up, outta my way. 😊. Thank you. Excuse any errors 🙃 no time for proofing. I just got one of those spurts. So outta my way 😊🙃😊
Yes, depressing but so worthwhile. It helps me to take pictures of the space and store as a note on my phone. When I need motivation, I look back and realize I have moved the needle more than I realized. It’s taken me years to pare down and I have one space left-sentimental and crafts. I just gave my beloved cricket machine to a local homeschool group. Even though it was a hard decision, my children are grown and I don’t use it anymore. I asked the lady if I could use it if I had a craft in mind and she said, of course! She said she has been praying for one! And here it was collecting dust in my home.
Tupperware. I've stored Tupperware that moved interstate with me in a box 23 years ago!!! It's still in the box!! I think (much to my husband's delight!!) that it's time to purge..........
I have never commented before. As much as I enjoy/appreciate the inspiration, my ranking of you just soared when you rolled off "The Bald Soprano"! 👋 Thanks for what you do!
For me it's horse stuff. Showed horses my entire childhood. So many great memories but I no longer need the outfits
Thank goodness i found you, listening to you declutter helps me to just keep on going. I have ADHD and the "take it there now" approach has changed my life, even with putting things in the bin.
See, I would have looked at that bonnet and said, I have a Laura Ingalls bonnet! We are the same age, but Holly Hobby wouldn't have occurred to me!
Right?!?! I was like, you're doing Laura wrong!
Laura Ingalls Wilder was my first thought as well.
Reid you should absolutely show up and film at least once to show the difference!
You might be able to negotiate a pay raise 😂
🤣True, but on 2nd thought, we really appreciate Dana’s authenticity, flaws and all and we don’t want scheduling conflicts interfering with our getting the information (video) in the first place.
I still have teacher stuff I need to declutter. I taught for 3 years and was the school librarian for 16 years. Definitely need to go through all that classroom stuff! Thanks for the incentive. You are inspirational. :)
Me, too!
Do it! I moved my stuff onto a new teaching student.
I really wanted to see put the costumes together with all the attendant parts, nicely folded, in a gallon ziploc, with a tag. Or pinned all together. SO the thrift store wouldn't separate the pieces.
I loved seeing your theatrical history! You are still living it in the way you entertain us in something that could be so blah…,you make decluttering fun!
Next episode I hope to see you costumed. 🥰
I never thought of asking myself, "Would I have looked for that item here?" It's like if I didn't know I had it, how could I miss it? Good job consolidating! I'm inspired.
Yay! One box!!! And no mess! Identity has changed-I remember the day I decided I was NOT “The Cross-Stitching Lady” anymore! (Evidently I’m not the Blue Jean Quilt Making Grandma either! I have bags and bags of bue jeans cut up for quilts but have never been sewn together!)
My mother-in-law has made about 50 jean quilts over the years.
@@debbykidd9813 I always thought that I would do that! I want my grandkids and my great grandkids to know that I can sew! Even though I don’t do it anymore.
Agreed! I was interested in quilt-making once upon a time, and still have all the stuff for it even though I have no real interest in making a quilt ever again.
I still save a lot of the stuff, though, because it is useful for other kinds of sewing and crafts which I legitimately might want to use it for in the future. But tbh letting go of the self-image that "I am a quilter" was hard. I'm NOT a quilter, much. I'm a lady who kinda likes and appreciates quilts.
@@Marialla. a local ladies or quilting club would be grateful for that donation!!
@@debbykidd9813 TBH, there's not much from my old days of quilting that I'm not re-using in different crafts now. Mostly just books and magazines about quilting, that I no longer need. Still, even letting go of those was hard because I kept thinking I maybe would want them someday.
When you picked up the dress with lilac tulle and said "what in the actual world?" Too funny! Love your videos.
My three year old watched for a minute or two and said, "Mama, I think that she's taking things out that she doesn't need and then taking them to goodwill." haha. I wonder what I've been talking about nonstop lately?
A year ago my 5 year old asked me if she could keep her favorite toy, I think she was scared there wasn't going to be anything left in the house and didn't want to loose the "Elsa guitar" lol
Starbucks training manuals from my first retail job. Time to let those go. It was the people and the real life experiences that impacted me, not the spiral bound corporate mantras.
I have been binge watching your videos at work. I think this is my first comment.
I have 200 rolls of duct tape. I have the space for it but I very much want to have less so I am thinking about selling it. I have Ben moving it around from place to place for 12 years. Haven’t used any off it in probably 8 years.
This reminded me of decluttering my triplets' bins and bins of dress up clothes and costumes years ago. Oh my gosh, pulling at my heartstrings. By the way I grew up loving Raggedy Ann and Holly Hobby. I still have my Raggedy Ann doll that was handmade by my mom.
I still have my Holly Hobby doll (plus Barbie and Donny and Marie...). Sometimes I get the impulse to Buy a Raggedy Ann doll since I don’t have it anymore. 😉
Identities from the past I have stored; 400 plastic horses. Well, 30 of them are actually out on display. I just don't have room to display the rest so they are in storage ( in case I ever move and have room? Though they are such a pill to dust, I'm not sure I would). I am no longer a horse crazy girl. I'm a 54 year old mamma. I guess it's time to go find those boxes.
It is SO HARD to throw/give away stuff that you have made. I recently gave away 2 whole Renaissance Faire dresses plus 3 bodices, because I won’t be able to fit them after having 2 kids (the boobs aren’t getting any smaller) I gave them to a young lady in the SCA and she was thrilled. I will probably even get to see them being used again.
That was good
I have so much identity clutter. I keep putting it out of my mind. I'm scared to go thru it.
I’m in the UK and I think we normally have ding dong doorbells! 😂. I don’t know anyone who has a buzzy one anyway.
What?! Why did I think they were buzzy?
@@DanaKWhite I think the buzzy doorbell is from the I Love Lucy shows.
I agree. We usually have ding dong doorbells but I think the buzzy ones featured in old 1940s and 1950s films so I reckon that’s where Dana got the thought in her head.
Thank you for walking us through the process! You are so easy to relate to.
It's funny you called it a Holly Hobby hat. And another commenter called it a Laura Ingalls hat. Here in Utah, those are called Pioneer Bonnets, and they get used every year.
Lol at your doggy voice. Especially when a big old German Shepherd walked up 😂 too cute
Would it occur to me that I had two beards, yes it would.
It was good to watch this process. The stuff would fit in the bin better if it were folded (that's my OCD talking!)
It has started me thinking about some of the bins in my garage that have been with me for over a decade and I dont think Ive ever purged anything from them. I have sewing supplies and notions probabably from the 1990's that I know I'll never use. I remember that I "had something" like what Im looking for and go through boxes until I do or dont find it. Would really be happy with less stuff. Thats my project for this coming weekend!
Love the doggo checking things out.
I used my dad's ruck sack when I was in college. It was great. Made many trips out dorm windows. Lol. Load up my clothes and instead of lugging them down the stairs, I would throw them out the window.
Great video!! Thanks SO much!! I actually also have Costume tubs. My daughter and I were going through the tubs when she reached in and pulled out my mother’s high school ring (1954). I had LOST it over a year previously. Evidently, it had slipped off my finger the last time I looked through them. Just the very best reward I ever got for decluttering!! Decluttering is my FAVORITE way now to find anything that is misplaced/lost. Because when there are fewer things, it becomes more difficult for the important to you things to hide from you. Thanks again for all your great ideas!
Hi Dana I love your videos and you are so inspiring. 💜
Y'all... it's these commentary in the credits for me. :D
Omg! I'm enjoying just to see what is coming out ou the tubs! Thank you for this!
I’m laughing so much! It’s fun watching you go through this stuff! 🤣
Regarding the stripy socks, it looked like it felt hard to let them go... so I’m wondering why you didn’t make an exception and ask yourself where you’d look for those, and put one of the pairs there? (If the answer was ”in the sock drawer” or anywhere else than ”in one of those bins,” mind you).
Love your decluttering method. Getting everything out always was discouraging, but the doing better without making a bigger mess method? It really worked. The house is still messy, because this takes Time, but at least I now know I can do it. Thank you!
my guess is that she is so kind and so keen on promoting people getting into Theatre that she knew in her gut she wanted whatever costume mistress type person finds the rest of the Raggedy Ann and Andy stuff at the thrift store, to find the full set.
So here is my question regarding "I didn't know I had it." Once you've gone through the boxes, and found that you have red-striped socks or something else, you now KNOW YOU HAVE IT. So why not cull out what you know you'll never use, and then keep the red-striped socks, because now you know about them? I have a hard time finding an answer to that.
She knew she had it when she first put it there, though. The question really could be restated "Would I totally forget I owned this, AGAIN?"
Some items stay on our radar more than others. She would have re-bought it AGAIN rather than look for it, so it deserved to go.
@Kimberly Brown Since you didn't know you had it before seeing it (this time) it probably wasn't/ isn't worth the space or the clutter covering the things you "would totally go looking for."
She also says... you can keep anything, but not everything. I think shed be ok with people changing their minds about some stuff. But not if the dwelling is a health hazard from too much stuff. Living spaces are for living in, residences are for the residents (and their guests).
oh, that explains why i was thinking how amazingly funny and entertaining you are. talented for stage. well, duh. also, amazing coincidence couple of weeks ago i have finally decluttered and consolidated my past identity of a dancer with fire props (fire hoop, fire fans, poi, etc... and then the costumes - i have yet to declutter some of them).yes, you are right - took a big part of my basement, big part of my mental space, too. it was so hard to declutter as most of it was not easy to come by. and at the same time it was so liberating to get rid of some of it. and yes, once i got going it was easier. it really helped to apply the container concept. thank you!
If you needed something for a play wouldn't you just look in your costume bins first before buying anything?